Bachelor Happy Hour - Tyler Norris: His Engagement Story, Wedding, and Having Children | Golden Hour

Episode Date: June 18, 2026

Today on “Golden Hour,” we’re joined by newlywed Tyler Norris! Tyler is here to tell us all about his recent wedding, the story behind his engagement, and more. We get all the behind...-the-scenes details on how Tyler proposed; if you were curious what a walking green flag looks like, you’re going to want to hear this. We’re also covering the Bachelor Nation wedding guests, when Tyler wants to have children, and so much more. Plus, we get Tyler’s take on some of your write-ins! As always, you’re getting premium dating advice, so make sure to take notes. Tune in now and be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:03:23 I am fantastic. Thank you so much for having me. Congrats on the wedding. Thank you. It was, uh, it's definitely expensive, but it's worth it at the end of the day. How big a wedding did you have? Uh, we had a total of 170 people. Uh, good.
Starting point is 00:03:41 And where was the honeymoon? Uh, the honeymoon was in Italy. Ah, what part? I just got back. We started in Sorrento and then did the Amalfi Coast. And then from there, we went to Rome, went to Florence. So just around that area. You have to pick a favorite.
Starting point is 00:03:59 I am a history buff. So I love Rome and I love Florence as well. My wife, on the other hand, she loves being on the beach. So when we were in Sorrento, Capri, you know, she was having a time of her life. Yes. I just took my 13-year-old granddaughter for her first time. We did exactly. Oh, that's amazing.
Starting point is 00:04:20 Yeah. And I went a few years ago, Tyler, and I took my kids with me, my daughter and her husband did the same trip you did for their honeymoon. So I guess all honeymooners are doing that. Everyone's going. And it was so funny when I was out there. I mean, I haven't been on the show in three years now. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:04:38 When I was out there, we were at a restaurant, and there's a group of girls that came up, like 15 of them. I know. And they're like, are you, Tyler? They're like, you're on your honeymoon. And I said, yes, I am and got a photo with them. And then the table next to me, there was a guy there. And he goes, I just want to let you know, like, I loved you on the show.
Starting point is 00:04:55 And I was like, no way you watch. And he goes, I'm one of those guys. I'm going to leave. And then one last person behind us, she turns around. She goes, can I get a photo with you too? And I was like, yeah, of course. And I turned to my wife. And I was like, babe, I still got it.
Starting point is 00:05:08 Yeah. So speaking of Alyssa, how did you meet her? So she saw me on an episode. and she had DMed me after Bachelor in Paradise. And I answered the DM and we went on a hiking date. And from there, just, you know. Okay, wait, so many questions. Where were you living at the time?
Starting point is 00:05:33 Where was she living at the time? And what did she say? Because you're a handsome devil. I'm guessing you got a lot of DMs. What piqued your interest about her? So she had just DM me. It was really funny because, I mean, you get so many messages after the show.
Starting point is 00:05:50 And for me, I always said, like on other podcasts, too, I don't want to meet somebody, you know, through Instagram or any social media. I would rather go out and meet somebody. But, you know, I was single and I remember I talked to my mom about it. And she goes, why don't you just answer some of these DMs, see what happens. And she was like one of, and I'm being completely honest here, one of the only people that I had DM back. And all she said to me was your smile,
Starting point is 00:06:15 with hard eyes. So I responded. I didn't have the best pickup line. I just said the same thing back to her. I was just like, no, your smile. And yeah, I was living in California. And she was living in California. She lives in Oceanside.
Starting point is 00:06:32 So, yeah, she was only about like 45 minutes away from it. And I was like, why don't we go like on a date? And I was like maybe a hiking date, something like that. And that's what we did. Was she on reality TV? She was on the voice. So, yeah, she's got way more talent than me. That's for sure.
Starting point is 00:06:53 But, yeah, she was on the voice, beautiful voice. I mean, I fell in love with her, not just because of who she is, but that voice, as soon as she sings, I just blinded. So when did you know, did she sing in your ear? When did you know, Tyler, that she was the one? It was getting serious and you probably wanted to marry this girl. I mean, I would say she came to Jersey, because I'm from the East Coast. So, my.
Starting point is 00:07:19 So Susan. Yeah. The East Coast people, I mean, I'd like to think we're the best. But she decided to come to Wilde, New Jersey, to meet my whole family. And, you know, that's where she said she fell in love with me and I fell in love with her. And she was just incredible. She got along with everybody. You know, she could take the jokes, give it back to people.
Starting point is 00:07:43 You know how East Coast people are. Yes, we do. Yeah. I want to know how long into it because we just recently did a podcast about when should you meet the family. So how long into this relationship did she come to Wildwood to meet your family? We were together for, I want to say, two and a half months. Yeah. Okay.
Starting point is 00:08:04 Yeah. And I had met her family. And her family wasn't sure about me in the beginning because they knew I was from reality TV. So they're just like, I don't know about this guy. And then they met me and, you know, everything was great. So I told her, I said, hey, why don't you come meet my family in New Jersey? So she made the trip out with me. And yeah, it was about like two and a half, three months in. And then we found, I would say that's when I knew I loved her. And then about, I want to say about like 10 months in, because we went back and forth so much about, are you going to stay in California?
Starting point is 00:08:41 do you want to move back to Jersey because those conversations are so important obviously like what's your future look like i love this yes it's like real conversation that you have and i sat there and said to myself well you know originally i came out to california just to see how it is and everything and you know i didn't anticipate to meet somebody from california and i didn't think to myself my life would be out here but when you meet the right person all of a sudden everything just aligns for you. You just say to yourself, you know what? If I'm going to be out here, I'm going to be out here with you.
Starting point is 00:09:15 You know, wherever I am with you, I'll be happy. I love this. I have a quick question. Did you prep your family before she met before she got there? What did you say? How was that conversation before she came? Well, I talked to them about this girl I met in California. And, of course, in the beginning, they were like, oh, my gosh,
Starting point is 00:09:35 Tyler's going to be out in California forever if he ends up with this girl. And so they were just like, you know what? You know, as long as he's happy. And I told them everything about her. You know, they were ready to go. And, you know, we came back to Jersey. And it just felt like the perfect fit. Like she got along with everybody so well.
Starting point is 00:09:55 She was brought up a lot like myself. So it was just natural. So how much after that event did you guys get engaged? And how long were you engaged before you got married? So we got engaged, I would say, a year. year and three months into the relationship. And then right after we got engaged, came back home, I did the whole engagement in Jersey, which caught her off guard.
Starting point is 00:10:20 It was the whole, it took a lot to set up what I did. What did you do? Tell us. What did you do? So I had, I had a friend of mine, Holly from back home in Jersey, and she wanted to do a photo shoot with us. And she had met us prior. and the last time we were in Jersey she had asked us and it didn't work out
Starting point is 00:10:41 so I reached out to her I said hey you know next time I come back to Jersey I'm thinking about doing an engagement you know this would be perfect I'll tell her you still want to do the photo shoot so she was like yeah of course so she reached out and I said hey babe next time we go back to Jersey you know is it okay if we do this photo shoot
Starting point is 00:10:59 you know Holly really wants to do it she said yeah of course no problem and then my thought was how do I get us back to Jersey like to make sure like really important. So I told her that it was my parents' anniversary party that we were going through. So she's dressed and ready, prepared. Yeah. This is good.
Starting point is 00:11:17 Tyler, you are good. Good job. So I said to her, I was like, okay, I said, we're going to do the photo shoot the same day as the anniversary party. We'll have time. We'll be dressed up. And she was like, all right, that sounds reasonable. Like, let's do that.
Starting point is 00:11:32 So had everything set up, it's the day of. and I thought she was catching on to me. She turns around to me and she's doing her nails and she shows me her ring finger out of all the fingers and she goes, the nail polish like rubbed off, do you think I should fix this?
Starting point is 00:11:49 And she shows me that finger and I'm like, I said, up to you, whatever you think. And she was just like, she's like, you know what? I think I'm going to fix it. So I'm like taking the nail polish off for her and I'm like shaking while I'm doing it. Wait, wait, I'm sorry. Excuse me.
Starting point is 00:12:04 I don't want to interrupt. you're taking the polish off for her. Of course. Where is your father? I want to meet him. Oh my gosh. Yeah. I mean,
Starting point is 00:12:16 whatever she says, I got to, you know, I got to do it. Oh my God. This is so, so then what happened? When did you do it?
Starting point is 00:12:23 Like after the photo shoot, during the photo shoot? During the photo shoot, I did it. And her reaction was right afterwards. Obviously, she was crying and super happy. And then right afterwards,
Starting point is 00:12:34 she goes, wait, is it still, are we actually going to your parents' engagement party? And I was sticking with, you know, the whole thing. I was like, yeah, yeah, it still is. And she like hits me and she goes, Tyler. Like, we're getting engaged on their anniversary party. That's so selfish. And I'm like, I'm like, well, I'm like, they'll be fine with it.
Starting point is 00:12:54 They'll be super happy. It's a surprise to them too. Oh, wait, it really was their anniversary. No, no, no, no. I was playing into it. So we, we, we, we, we, we, came to the party and everyone gave a surprise and it was a full engagement party. So the engagement party was for you guys, not your parents anniversary?
Starting point is 00:13:14 Yeah. Okay, that makes me just want to cry. That was a great thing to tell her so that she was in her best. Susan, Susan, put this together for us. Just remember, you know, we can make this happen for us. Okay, wait. I want to know more about the wedding now, though. Right.
Starting point is 00:13:28 Yeah, we want to know about the wedding. Well, the best part is right before I jump into the wedding for the engagement party, too, I had to, her family has Life 360. So we flew them out to Jersey to surprise her as well. I'm sorry, what is Life 360? It's basically you know where all your family members are. You have their location all the time. So I had to get them to turn off.
Starting point is 00:13:53 Turn it off. So they didn't, she didn't catch on to why is my family in New Jersey right now. So. That was a lot of planning. It was a lot. I just want to congratulate you. And you're awesome. Okay, wait, before you talk about the wedding, I just want to, because I like to do things out of order, I just want to jump ahead.
Starting point is 00:14:12 You got married in April. So just you've only been married, what, six weeks, maybe two months? What, I want to know what is the biggest surprise about being married? Then I want to hear about the wedding because I just died to know. What is the biggest thing you've learned since being married? Well, I would say it's not like a surprise. you're kind of like ready for it. But your entire life, even when you're just in a relationship, when you're not married,
Starting point is 00:14:42 you make a lot of decisions based off yourself. When you get married, every single decision you make for the rest of your life now, you're not just thinking about yourself, you're thinking about your partner. So every decision I make every day is not just for me anymore. It's for both of us. Or sometimes for her. Susan, we're going to call. clone this guy. We are cloning you, Tyler. We're going to add a few gray hairs. We're going to have a few more
Starting point is 00:15:09 years on your life. We're going to get some gray hair going. You are the best. Okay, back to the interview with her next. Okay. I love this. So, all right, tell us about the wedding. Did you, did you get the first look on the gown or were you, did you, were you surprised? We set it up to where I I didn't see her all day. So we also did our vows in front of everybody. And I will say this. I think the best part about that was, in our scenario, she has so many people that I didn't even get a chance to meet yet.
Starting point is 00:15:44 And the same with her. So a lot of people don't know our story. They don't know our love story or anything like that. They're just there. You know, they're part of this wedding. So I felt like being able to do our vows, talk about our story, and then also talk about the promises we're making to each other.
Starting point is 00:15:58 you know, everyone got to see that, which I thought was so amazing. I thought it was so important. So, yeah. So I, as a wedding officiant, you wrote your own vows. Yes. I think that's beautiful when they do that. I got to say, Susan, tell me if you agree, Tyler, I'm about to expand your head here. Okay.
Starting point is 00:16:20 I've met, well, I don't know how old you are. How old are you? I'm 29 turning 30. 20. That's what I thought. Happy almost into a new decade. Thank you. But people who get married at your age, Susan, you could answer this too.
Starting point is 00:16:33 There's, you meet people that are getting married or just got married. And some of them you think, oh, boy, this one may not make it or I hope it does. But I see some of the red flags early. I'm sure you have to. I'm here to tell you, Tyler, yours, what your marriage to Alyssa is going to last a lifetime. I can feel it. So thank you very much. I appreciate that.
Starting point is 00:16:55 I think, I mean, a big part of it is to, I'm so. lucky with the family that I grew up with, you know, the way my parents have been their entire marriage heard the same way. It kind of, you know, it set us up for, you know, what we knew we wanted in a relationship. So you have a good example. Yeah. Summer is on at base 31. The drill hall, RBC stage is packed with big shows, live music and electric summer nights featuring acts like Father John Misty. The beaches. and Wild Rivers. From Can't Miss concerts to food, drinks, art, history, and places to gather across the B-31
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Starting point is 00:20:54 What part of Jersey are you from? I'm from like Cape May area, so as far south as you can get. Yeah. That's where we go. Yeah. I just want to say, Tyler, you do know that happy wife, happy life, right? Absolutely. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:21:10 Tell me about the party at the wedding. Did you have a lot of Bachelor Nation people there? Were they? We did. We had a good amount. I had, so I had Avan, who was in my wedding with me. I had Mario who was in my wedding with me. They were both on my season with Rachel and Gabby.
Starting point is 00:21:27 I also had Logan and Eric as well, who were both on that season. And then I had Aaron Clancy with me. Wow. You know, it's interesting to hear that because some people don't believe that you, and we're part of this. story as well, that we make lifelong friends from being part of the Bachelor of franchise. You're witnessing here a guy that got married who has all these friends from Bachelor, and you obviously stay in touch with all these guys if they were in your wedding.
Starting point is 00:22:00 Absolutely. I mean, for me, I lived with Avon for two years. So he was my roommate, and we became best friends through that. And then Mario, too. Mario lives in Chicago. But so much of our background, we just aligned and we had this crazy, opportunity together going on the same show. So when you have the same interest as somebody and you go through the same experience as somebody, it's so easy to become lifelong friends. So we talk
Starting point is 00:22:24 just about every day. So I have a question for you. Do you think like being on the Bachelorette and Paradise as well, do you think that helped you prepare for the real relationship? Like did it influence you? Absolutely. Absolutely. No, absolutely. I mean, I did the bachelor's, then I went on Bachelor in Paradise twice, and you learn a lot about yourself. I was very, I mean, I started the show when I was 25. So I was very naive. You know, I had thoughts in my head of, you know, what a relationship is supposed to be, you know, what love is, this and that. And you're so young and you grow from it and you learn from it.
Starting point is 00:23:09 You know, it might not, you might not ultimately have that amazing experience at the end where you find. find your forever. But you just learn so much about yourself and, you know, what a relationship really is. And, and yeah, it's, I think it helps everybody at the end of the day. When you really, really take a deep look. Yeah. Perfect answer. I said the same thing.
Starting point is 00:23:30 I got to know myself inside and out after being on, you know? Absolutely. Yeah. I think it's, it's amazing what you learn from it. If you really want to learn from it. Other people, you know, if, if you don't take a look and. You know, you don't want to open up your mind to, you know, what you experienced and what you learned. And that's okay.
Starting point is 00:23:51 But I think that's the biggest benefit of the show. So, you know, obviously you and Alyssa are very happy. You've got all these great friends from Bachelor. You've lived the reality TV life. Now you're starting into real married life. I don't like to rush things at all, Tyler. But when are the kids coming? What do you see?
Starting point is 00:24:11 How, you know, do you guys want children? and how do you see your life five years from now, 10 years from now? Because it goes quickly. Yeah, it goes very quickly. I mean, we want kids as soon as possible. So that's the old, yes, as soon as possible. So that's the ultimate goal. You know, I want four kids.
Starting point is 00:24:31 She wants three. So we'll see what happens there. I have three. I wish I'd had four. There we go. That's the answer I needed. That's what I'm going to tell her as soon as I'm done here. Have her call me.
Starting point is 00:24:41 Have her call me, Tyler. I'll explain it to her. That sounds good to me. They're sometimes two come at the same time. Yeah, exactly. Well, that would be a lot. She's a small human being. I don't know if she's capable of doing that.
Starting point is 00:24:56 So kids right away, do you plan to stay living in California? Because let me just say, once you have children, when I had my children, I'm from Boston area. My husband was from New York. and our kids were born and grew up in Texas and two of the three still live here. But I'll tell you, it was tough being away from family. Where is your family now, when I say family, parents, siblings, and where are hers?
Starting point is 00:25:24 And do you think about that? Yeah, of course I do. I mean, I have my two brothers and both of my parents back in New Jersey. She has her sister, her brother, and her mom out here in California. So for me, I mean, I know that the first child, at least for the first two, you know, we're going to be out here. We have a grandmother set up. He's going to help us out as much as possible. But I did tell her, even before we got married, before we got engaged, you know, my biggest thing was moving back to Jersey for at least a few years.
Starting point is 00:25:59 Just because, you know, I have one brother who has two kids. My other brother's been married. He plans on having kids soon. so I would want my kids at a young age growing up around them. But we're going to end up in California for, you know, forever. But in the early stages, I would like to go back to Jersey for a few years. And also in California, I will say, I mean, it's beautiful weather year round. So you can't go wrong with being here.
Starting point is 00:26:25 And also a trip back to Jersey, I've done it so many times that a six-hour flight is really not that bad. I get it. But what kind of work do you do? Did you find work easily in California? You're set up. You're good. Yes, I got lucky. I found a job.
Starting point is 00:26:41 I'm a project manager. So, you know, a lot of my work, it's hybrid. So you get the work from home. And then also, you know, I'm going, I do reconstruction work. So. Wait, on faces or buildings? On buildings. But I leave the customers.
Starting point is 00:26:58 I leave the customers with happy faces at the end. So a little bit of, so does Alyssa work and does she plan to be a stay-at-home mom or working mom. She is a nurse. So she's working three days a week, 12 hour shifts. I know that when I think when you, yeah, when you have a baby, you go down to two days a week. I think her goal is, and what I want to do, you know, I was brought up with my dad, works and my mom got to stay at home for the most part.
Starting point is 00:27:28 And I think that played such a huge value into me and both my brothers, you know, having our parents around all the time. So if there's any way, like I'm going to work my butt off, try to put us in a scenario to where if she wants to work one day a week, that's awesome. But I know that she would want to be around the kids as much as possible. Boy, one, two, three, four. Here they come.
Starting point is 00:27:51 Every week, Tyler, we answer questions from listeners. We give them our expert, golden advice. And we want you to join in and help answer some questions from a few newlyweds. Are you good with that? I'm ready for it. Okay, Susan, why do you take the first one? Ready. This is no name anonymous XX.
Starting point is 00:28:12 I'm getting married in two months, and out of nowhere, I started noticing little things about my fiance that didn't used to bother me, like how messy he is, how he procrastinates everything, and how I end up taking the lead on most plans. None of these felt like a big deal before,
Starting point is 00:28:32 but now I'm like, is this what my life is going to look like forever? How do I know if this is just pre-wedding anxiety or something I should actually be concerned about? What do you think, Piler? Definitely. I mean, if it's something that bothers you and it's just starting to bother you now, you have to be able to communicate. You know, communication is key in a relationship.
Starting point is 00:29:00 So absolutely, you have that conversation. and you tell them exactly how you're feeling. It needs to, if you don't nip it in the butt right away, you know, it's something that's just going to fester and cause issues down the line. So I couldn't agree with you more. And it's not a pre-wedding jitter. No, it's not. They are very, very real.
Starting point is 00:29:21 Taking the lead is not one of the worst ones. But the destination, that becomes an issue. Wait, here's what I have, but wait, guys, here's my question. I agree with you both. But here's what I don't get. She's getting married or he, whoever this person is, is getting married in two months. I would think that he or she had figured out that he procrastinates that he leaves stuff on the floor. Like you're getting married in two months.
Starting point is 00:29:53 So I'm going to go, I'm going to disagree with you guys, and I'm going to tell you it's pre-married jitters. Because if they're getting married, you know, I'm going to go out on a limb here. I'm guessing they've been in the same bedroom before and the socks had been on the floor before. I'm guessing the plan making didn't start yesterday. I think these are things that either, if it's not pre-marriage jitters, then she's rethinking the marriage. It's nothing in between. It's rethinking I'm going to have to pick up after his sloppy butt for the rest of. of my life that that's going to become an issue.
Starting point is 00:30:31 I think the follow-up question, too, is how long have they been living together? That's what I'm saying. Yeah. Yeah. You know, when you're at the honeymoon stage and you're in love and you're planning your wedding, okay, she comes home and just cleans up around them, but she actually thought, wow, this is I disagree. I'm always going to have to pick up after it.
Starting point is 00:30:51 Not two months before the wedding. It's either jitters or she's like, what the hell have I gotten myself into or he, whoever this person is. But you know what? Whoever you are, figure it out and let us know if you walk down the aisle. Okay. Our second question is from Dana, who's from L.A., so Tyler, maybe you know her. Are you in L.A.? Tyler, where are you?
Starting point is 00:31:16 I'm in Carl's Bad. So I'm like Northern San Diego. Yeah. It's beautiful there. Perfect. Yeah, it's beautiful. Susan, we're moving out there. Okay.
Starting point is 00:31:24 So Dana says, my wedding is in a few weeks. boy, it's wedding time, June. My wedding is in a few weeks, says Dana, and I feel like I'm having two completely different emotional experiences at the same time. One minute, I'm so excited to marry my person, and the next I'm feeling anxious and questioning everything. I don't want to say that out loud because I'm scared of what it means. Is it normal to have doubts this close to the wedding?
Starting point is 00:31:50 And how do you tell the difference between nerves and something deeper? Well, there you go. Just a segue from the last question, Tyler. What do you think? I mean, it's hard to relate on that one. I was just, yeah, you're nervous, but I was nervous about the day. Like, how I was going to go. I just wanted everything to go perfect.
Starting point is 00:32:14 So that was the only nerves I had. Like, I already made a commitment to myself when I got engaged that, hey, I'm going to be with this person for the rest of my life. So wait, you weren't nervous on the day or you were? I was only nervous about things. going right. That was pretty much it. Making sure that she was happy and everything went great for her. You know, the whole setup was perfect.
Starting point is 00:32:35 Everyone that was at the wedding enjoyed their time. So that was the only thing I was nervous about. I wasn't questioning like my person. You know what I mean? Yeah. How she realizes he is. Listen, I got, she's got, I'm going to have her on speed dial, Susan. She's going to be calling me later today.
Starting point is 00:32:55 We're going to talk about. numbers of children. What a miracle guy she's got. We're going to have the whole conversation. I'm the lucky one. He puts her first. Did you hear? I was where the only thing I was worried about is she happy. And then they don't make them like that anymore. I know. It's tragic. But you know what? I'm just glad they're happy and how lucky. How lucky are they? Okay. So what do you think about this question? I think she's just experiencing, experience. Oh my gosh, I'm about to make this commitment for the rest of my life and she's just nervous. I don't think this is that bad.
Starting point is 00:33:33 Yeah, I think people have pre-wedding jitters. I remember my husband and I got into a big fight like two weeks before my wedding because he was chewing vegetables and it was in the side of his mouth. And I said, why are you storing vegetables in the side of your mouth? And he looked at me and he said, really? If this is, if this bothers you, maybe we should call the wedding off right now and I started laughing. And I realized, it was just nerves. Like I was just storing vegetables into sunny around.
Starting point is 00:34:01 It's true. Yeah, that's all it was. What did you say? He just didn't chew that one yet. He just didn't know. I mean, it was like, you know, like a chipmunk. But I don't know. I think it's very normal to be nervous.
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Starting point is 00:38:13 Right in? We do. And we want to know what the outcome was from everything, right? Okay. This week, we're going to play a game where we give Tyler a prompt and he has to finish the sentence. First thing that comes to your mind, okay? Okay. The first one is the biggest lie men tell before marriage is...
Starting point is 00:38:41 A clock's ticking, Tyler. The biggest lie men tell before marriage. He doesn't lie. That's why you can't. I'm trying to think of a good one. All right. We'll let him escape by if you can't think of one. All right, here's the next one.
Starting point is 00:38:57 I know one that I'm not nervous. Maybe they say, that's a good one. Yeah, that's a good one. Or how about you're my first? Yeah, that's another good one. All right. You know you're in a healthy relationship when you can, fill in the blank.
Starting point is 00:39:14 Talk to each other without screaming. having actual conversation, respecting one another, yeah. Nothing tests a relationship more than doing things you don't want to do for the other person. Susan, I'm going to cry. Okay, this one, you better have a good answer for this one. The most humbling part of wedding planning was realizing how much you have to do. Even with a wedding coordinator, there's just so much to do. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:39:51 True, true. Bachelor nation prepared me for marriage by teaching me how to, how to be confident in yourself and love yourself before you love somebody else. That's a great answer, Tyler. Yay, Bachelor Nation. Okay. The moment I realized I was ready to be a husband was when I started. When I started realizing, um,
Starting point is 00:40:22 I guess when I started realizing life is not meant just for myself, it's meant to be shared with somebody else. We're definitely cloning him. We are definitely cloning him. I would thank his parents for raising such a beautiful young man. Okay, Alyssa deserves a medal for putting up with my... I would say, oh, he's going to say socks on the floor. Definitely socks on the floor.
Starting point is 00:40:51 whenever I work out just I usually throw my laundry in the washer and then the dryer and then I leave it there for way too long when it's in the dryer. That's the way you do. I mean, you're a lot. Oh, come on, Susan. That would drive you nuts. All right. The most married couple argument we've had was about. Oh, that's a good one.
Starting point is 00:41:20 Well, we just got a new puppy on top of the other dog that we have. So I just, um. Were you saying we should have waited? Well, yeah, that. Wait, this is the guy that wants four kids and he's freaking out over two dogs. Okay. Yeah. I swore I never do in a relationship, but now do it all the time is.
Starting point is 00:41:49 Oh, geez. These are tough ones. Are people usually like this right away? No, I've never had these. Kathy, what would you answer to it? The one thing I swear I never do a relationship, but now do all the time is, I don't know,
Starting point is 00:42:05 because I've never sworn to not do something in a relationship. It's all fair game. I don't know. You get your butt? I would say for me, look up new recipes to make. Because I wasn't, like I had my normal recipes as like, things I would cook.
Starting point is 00:42:22 But now it's like, you know, you got to switch it up. And all of a sudden, I'm putting in the time going to the grocery store, looking up new things to try. Tyler, that you get another star for that. Or an alternative answer could have been calling for food meal delivery. Yes. Yes. All right.
Starting point is 00:42:41 A relationship instantly gets more serious once you start. I mean, when you say you love each other, it gets serious. Okay, we're old. You know what I would have said to that once you start sleeping together. Yeah. That's a good one. Nowadays, it's a little different. I will say that. I know. It's 2026, Cal. I know. I said, I'm old. I knew Alyssa was the one when she... When she came to New Jersey and just got along with my family. It was, yeah, family's everything. So, yeah.
Starting point is 00:43:26 Okay, the most husband thing I do now is. Put my wife above everything else and make sure she's taken care of. Oh, my God, you're like the perfect man. The blueprints are there for everybody. It's very simple. If you take it and you say to yourself, you know what, I'm willing to give my whole self to somebody else and you put them above yourself, everything just aligns. So. Do you realize, honey, do you realize that you are one of very few people?
Starting point is 00:43:59 You are. Men do not think like you do, talk like you do. I know, I, he, my, Kyle does. I think there's some out there. You have a perfect life because you're being very smart. Happy as anything and you're going to have a great life. Well, thank you so much. The hardest part about being in a.
Starting point is 00:44:23 public relationship is? I would just say people wanting to know more of your business. I'm not big on social media, neither she. Like, I'll throw posts out there every now and then. But when you have followers that really follow you, they want to see every aspect. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:44:43 Which is a lot, you know? I'd like to keep, you know, some things, a lot of things private between me and my wife. You know, I don't want everybody to see it. So good. I like that. In Italy, people recognize me. My granddaughter was laughing.
Starting point is 00:44:58 And that's a feel good, though. Yeah, but that's not sharing all your personal stuff. Like you're saying, Tyler, that's different. I think that's different. All right. We're getting to the end here. If Alyssa had to describe me in one married man's sentence, it would be. I would say a man, she always wanted a man that would treat her.
Starting point is 00:45:22 like a princess and would worship the ground she walks upon. And she also said she'd like Susan and Kathy to be in her life. Yes, exactly. We could be got mama to the children. Okay. The last one, the secret to surviving wedding planning is. For my guys out there, I'll be honest with you. Even though you got a lot going on, you got to realize there is so much that goes
Starting point is 00:45:52 into it. All the stuff that lists, I mean, I was the one who really wanted like a big wedding, just because I have so many people on the East Coast. And she wanted to do something smaller. So she agreed to do a bigger wedding, but she did a lot for the wedding. And then when you find out how much she's doing and you say to yourself, well, I could probably do a little bit more. Yeah. Just know there's a lot that goes into it. So if you can help out. What are you saying the secret is helping out? As much as possible. Before we wrap, one more question.
Starting point is 00:46:28 What is the best advice you have for men and women out there dating, trying to find their person? Because you clearly found yours. I would say there's two things to it. Number one would be because social media is huge nowadays. So many people look at the relationship that's, on social media and they think to themselves like, oh, this is the relationship I want. This is what it's supposed to be like. No, every relationship is different.
Starting point is 00:46:59 You can't look at somebody else and say that's the perfect marriage or that's the perfect relationship. You figure it out on your own, you know, what works for you guys. So don't live in this fantasy land thinking to yourself, you know, what you're seeing, all the good things that you see, that that's what a relationship is. There's hard times all, like all the time. and what was that? Is Alyssa there by chance?
Starting point is 00:47:24 She just walked in. She's on the phone. She just bought a car, so I think she's talking to the guy. A car, a puppy. Okay, well, with that, I love those answers. We have to wrap here. Thank you, Tyler, so much for joining us on Bachelor Golden Hour. Where can our listeners find you if they want to follow you if they haven't already?
Starting point is 00:47:46 Because now you're going to have to put out more stuff on social media. Yeah, now you put me on the spot. You can look me up on Instagram, Tyler Jane Nars 9. My TikTok is the same thing. Not that I TikTok that much. But, you know, on top of being a project manager, I'm also, I do training on the side. And then I'm also trying to get into working with women's softball and baseball for one-on-one coaching on the weekends. Oh, wow.
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