Bachelor Happy Hour - What to Do When You’re Meeting the Family | Golden Hour

Episode Date: June 19, 2026

Today on “Golden Hour,” we’re back to unpack some Bachelor Nation news and to give you some major advice. First, we dive into our Bachelor Nation updates, including a very important moment in Katie Thurston’s cancer journey. Then, we’re talking about meeting the family while you’re dating. That major milestone looks very different in your golden years, and we’re here to help you answer some major questions. When can you introduce your partner to your kids? What happens if your kids don’t approve? Tune in to find out! Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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I'm excellent. I'm done the mulching. Oh, boy. I need a chiropractor. So you've come back from Italy and jumped right back into yard work. Perfect. I'm actually going to put a video out. Kathy, I suggest that everybody save their pennies and hire a damn landscaper.

It's much easier. Well, so that's your drama. My drama for today is I drove, I was on the phone. actually with Leslie from our season. And I hung up because, you know, you can't talk when you're putting gas in the car. And I put the phone. You're not allowed. It's illegal to have your, to talk on the phone when you're pumping gas.

Take a, yes, it can ignite a fire. You're welcome. I'm not in an interview. I need to know for this. I've never. I have no idea. I just know it is illegal to talk on the phone. Maybe it's just in Texas.

I don't know. But it can cause explosions, fires, whatever. So, you know, safety first. I turned my phone off, put it on the side of the car, pump my gas, promptly drove away. Oops, the phone somewhere. And so I went to the gym. I worked out and, um, you didn't realize it? Well, I realized it 10 minutes down the road, but I had my appointment with the trainer. So I kept going. And then when I got back to Costco, I'd already, you know, I'd already had my brain like, I'm, I'm this going to be okay. I, you know, God, God teaches us all lessons. It's going to be okay. I'll go to Apple.

I'll get a new phone. You know, it's expensive, but this is a lesson learned. So anyway, I went back and some nice gentleman, thank you, whoever you are, turned in my phone. And I never was so happy because I realized my whole, I did a post on it. My whole life is in that phone. It was like, how am I going to get, Susan?

I don't even know your phone number, Susan. It's in my phone. I don't know anybody. And it happened in Italy and I found a phone. And I too turned it in. Oh, my gosh. I mean, it. I don't think, although I will say, as I said in my post, I didn't have my phone.

Like, my trainer is like a little over an hour. So an hour and a half, two hours without my phone, I was like, oh, this feels good. You all know, Kathy, she'll be going crazy. No, I actually liked it, Susan. Is it a nice feeling not that habit? It is. All right, we've got to get into our Bachelor Nation News. We had a really big week.

And the first one I want to start off with is Katie Thurston. First of all, she reveals that her liver isn't okay and that she'll need a, another biopsy in her latest update on her cancer journey. She has posted updates for all of us. Bachelor's Nation supports her. I've never met Katie, but I totally support her and pray for her. And, you know, I just think she's been such a warrior and trying to really kick cancer's ass. And I hope that this new biopsy is just something else. I hope it's not any further development of cancer. She shared on her Instagram story that the liver isn't okay.

And she'll get MRI and probably another biopsy. But let's hope that it's not. Absolutely hope. But she's so beautiful. I mean, she put pictures of herself in the hospital. Yeah. She's still blowing. and just the Lord be with her.

And she gets... And you are right, Susan. She is beautiful. And it just, you know, cancer doesn't care what age you are, how beautiful you are, how rich or poor you are. It just, it just hits, you know, when it wants to. She's been through so much already. She's had a double mastectomy. So, Katie, if you're listening, we as part of Bachelor Nation, are wishing you well and hope that this next biopsy goes well and that you continue on your forward progress.

That's our prayer. If it does it, sweetheart, you're strong and you're going to beat this one too. All right. What else is in the news for us, Susan? What else you got? Maria, our little Maria, she's all of a sudden, like she disappeared after the, after Bachelor when she was on. And now I can't stop seeing her.

And Rachel Kirkconnell. Yeah. They share about their tropical getaway along with Shane Parton and Mike Torito. Wait, did you see those pictures? I want to be in that swimming pool looking out at that. But here's the thing. I literally looked at the pictures. They, you know, they're drinking tropical drinks. They've got the beautiful sunset. They're swimming in the pool. They're playing cards. They're playing cards like us. Like, we all do games. That's the thing to do when you're away, right? Yeah, I love it. And so, I got to be honest, Susan, when I was reading this, I thought,

if Susan and I were there, we'd be drinking the umbrella drinks, we'd be in the pool, we would be playing cards. The one thing, what else would be doing, Susan? Shopping. Shopping. How about the mic, that picture of him. What a pretty man he is. Yeah.

Too young for you, Susan. Okay. And our next, we've got to move on because if I'm not at the, if I'm not in the pool, I'm done with it. Oh, that's not fair. Okay. Kat Izzo, who I was on Paradise with. She shares before and after cosmetic procedure picks and opens up about common Botox

misconceptions. First of all, I want to say she is a, I think an RN or a nurse practitioner or all of the above. So it's very cost effective when you can inject yourself, okay? But I love, she's talking about the, and you know, you and I've had some work done. she's talking about the injection she did like on her jaw line it's an inverted lift and gives you that heart-shaped face and I'm like I would love to do that. I just injecting yourself though because it's painful no no no and did you hear what she said

she said that she's heavier now than she was then in the before and after pictures but that her face looks better now you know the pictures the two pictures side by side the one she has a full face of makeup and the other one she doesn't So what's the before and after? The one that where her face, I think, is fuller and sort of a heart shape is the after. But Kat is it. We'll be calling you to say, what are you kidding me? That you didn't know which one's which.

But here's the thing. I know, but that's where I was going. I mean, Kat is a lovely person. She helped me with makeup. She's just lovely. But here's the thing. They always do the ads for Botox, for everything, everything, skin care. with these young 20, maybe 30-year-olds, they don't have any wrinkles anyway.

So, you know, come on. It's all about prevention for them. Yeah, prevention. Because they're infecting at that age, then they won't get through those heavy creases like mine. You had to hear the people of my Instagram. I had sunscreen and you know I wear it now. That damage has been done for a long, long time. When I was 18, we used baby oil and iodine.

Okay, you post about your travels with my granddaughter. I was posed away. And it was not even most of the people that was about Positano and where I was and Sorrento. The rest of them were like, look at the lines above her lip. Look at her chest. It's on the screen. I'm like, you know what? And I didn't, the comment.

People were commenting for me. I mean, we all know the people, you know, little PSA, we all know that people hide behind their computers and they say mean things where if they were standing in front of you, do you think any of those people would say, Susan, what the hell is wrong with your face? What are all those deep... They wouldn't. I responded to one of them. I said, thank you for let me know as if I wasn't aware.

What am I supposed to do? Hide? Well, I think it's sad that people... But you know what? You and I are going to keep getting our little pinches and pokes and hope that we look as good as Kat Izzo. That's what I say. I tell you what. Yes. Okay. Now this week, we're going to talk about meeting the family, Kat.

Oh, Susan. I know. Like, we may be on opposite ends of the fence with this one. I'm not sure. You and I disagree? No. It could be. We just might differently. Like, do you think meeting the family is a big deal? Or are we overhyping it? I think it's a big deal. So, okay. So the last time I met a family, of a guy I was real, well, that's not true. I mean, I met a daughter of a guy I dated for a while, but as an adult, when you're an adult single, it's very different, right? When you're, you're divorced, I'm a widow, our kids are grown. But I will tell you, you know, you and I, we've met adult children of people we've dated, but when is it too soon? Let's not talk about us, because I think for Goldens, it's very different. Our kids have launched,

they have their own families, their own children. And I think our kids just want us to be happy and our partner, right? I just don't think it's a big deal. And how soon into the relationship do you think it's cool? I'm saying it depends on age. So I think if you were younger. If I were younger or for younger people today, I think, and when you say the family, again, do you mean the parents of the person you're dating or do you mean?

even younger. Children. Do you mean they're children? Because I... Goldens talk about our kids then. Yeah, well, for us, I don't think it matters. I think when it's convenient, when it works out, you know, you're all going to a dinner at a restaurant, you're all meeting up at a music venue, whatever.

It's more about convenience than it is about, oh, God, is it too soon? Well, meet your kids? Well, it could be too soon. Like, you don't want your kids to meet somebody. that you're not even 100% sure of. I think it's a few months in. Well, to me, that's early, Susan. That's early.

I don't think anybody has, no, two months in is early. I'm saying for our age, yeah, two months in, great. But the difference is at our age, I don't think you have to know that it's your forever person. My kids met a guy that I dated for three months, and, you know, they could sense he was more of a friend, that's what I'm saying, it's different at our age. I'm not bringing them to my children to ask for permission for this guy to get on one knee. It's not always about romance. However, the younger people, I do want to address that for one second because I think that my parents were divorced and my mother introduced every Tom, Dick, and Harry to us. And we were young,

and it was scary and it was uncomfortable. And I really, I still feel icky about it now. I think that people who have young children, your kids need stability. And so I think introducing too soon is a problem. Do you agree with that or not? No, definitely, definitely. So this is a podcast about video games. Kind of.

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Well, I've got to be honest. I mean, did you get along with your in-laws? Yes? Yes. Yeah, I did not. My in-laws did not like me. You know, people make jokes. My son-in-law makes jokes about me all the time.

You know, I know he loves me, but I annoy him. And I think that's just sort of the thing. You know, we annoy our in-laws. But I will say to you, when in my marriage, my husband preferred my mother and father, my stepmom, who I consider my mother, and my father, he preferred to spend time with my family. He didn't really identify with his family. So for us, it was really screwy because they didn't like me.

And my husband didn't want to spend time with him. But what I'm asking you is if he didn't feel comfortable around your family, how would that affect you? Well, when you say my family, do you mean my parents? See, this, it's. Dicey at our age because at my age, if I'm dating, say it's your kids then. Okay. If it's my children and I really like this guy, you know me, Susan, and I think you're the same. I'm going to look at my children and say, guys, I love you.

I lost your dad. You guys have launched your own lives. This is my time to find my happiness. And this guy, I believe is my happiness. And I'm going to proceed. And I hope you will celebrate it with me. That's what I would say. What about you?

I'd probably beat around the bush. I don't want to come to terms with it. No, Susan. No, I just, I mean, I think holidays, you know, all of those things are tricky. I wanted to bring a date. I think I, you remember this, I wanted to bring a date to my daughter's wedding. My daughter said, absolutely not. It was actually a guy.

I'm still very, you've actually met him. Ned, you've met him. Oh, yes. He and I dated for a short time, but we're very good friends. I wanted to bring him to the wedding to have some no, she said absolutely not. It was hard for me to be there alone. I think that gets dicey. If your children don't want your partner or the guy you're dating, see if it's your partner,

they have to accept, I think. Do you agree or no? Yes, yes. How about like when you're talking about our significant other meeting our family, do you prep them and say, listen, you're going to have. to take Chris with a grain of salt. He's a little rough around the edges and Brittany will be da-da-da-da-d-d-nice, but do you say anything to him or let him form his own opinion? Whatever I should do, I can tell you what I have done, which is do the latter. Let me tell you

give me a little heads-up about my kids. I think I would do that too. Yeah, I do. I don't know. You know, choosing sides. Like if here's the thing that I have really, still wrestled with. If when, when do you get involved, like, do you get involved in your partner's kids' lives? Like, do you give advice? Because that's a hard one for me. You know, all depends on the age, number one, number two, how far along in the relationship. If you're there a year plus and you're close to maybe the teenager and they talk to you, then yes. No, but I mean if it's a problem. Like I dated a guy who had a real issue with one of his children and he wanted to talk to me all about it and go on and it happened to be, believe it or not, an issue that I professionally had

worked in at one point in my life. So I kind of knew what was gone. And it was frustrating because he didn't want you to hear. He wasn't asking for advice. He just wasn't going to spend. And that's I'm saying, but you know the right thing to do because it was your profession, but Well, I will say to you, can, do you think, let me, let me put another way then, do you think that was tension? So there can be tension between an adult child and you and your partner. There can be tension between your own children and you about the partner. When is too much, too much?

How much, how much, how much, how much oxygen are you going to give the tension? or are you just going to say, screw it? No, I would probably talk to my kids and say, why do you make them feel uncomfortable or vice versa? Yeah, I'd have to say. But what if your kids say they don't, Mom, we don't like him? We don't think he's for you. See, that's, what do you say to that?

I'm sorry, guys, but I do like them. Yeah. I mean, they can't tell us at this point, but do you, would you prep the family? I definitely would prep my family. Okay. Be on your best behavior. Yeah, yeah. Introduce you guys tonight.

Yeah, no, see, I wouldn't say that to my kids. But I will tell you, it would be very important. Would you tell them that they were going to be, you know? Oh, yeah, but I wouldn't prep them. I will tell you this, Susan, for me, I, the guy I find, it is very important to me that he integrated into my family and I into his. So I want him to lack my children and have holidays with me and my children. And additionally, I want to spend holidays and dinners and trips and vacations with his family. I think it might be asking a lot to build the two families together.

I think my kids have their own families now, so I think that might be asking a lot. But to me, when people say to me what's important to you in dating about the guy you want to find, I always say that he has to integrate into my life and I have to integrate into his. And now that we have adult children and they have families, it's not so critical that they have this, they have to have respect and hopefully a good laugh with each other and able to do that, especially like I wouldn't bring somebody for the first time on Christmas dinner, you're going to meet the guy on day. Like I would never.

No, I wouldn't do that. Wait, and to be clear, just go back, the guy that I wanted to bring to Caitlin's wedding, she had met. It was just, she just, it was just too hard because, you know, her dad and everything. So I just, no, I would never surprise. He was just company for dinner. That's all you were thinking. Yeah, I just, you know, at weddings, everyone's, you know, sitting at, I told you, it's like when I went to Jared Fried's comedy thing. And I had two tickets and my date next to me was the empty chair.

I mean, it's really hard. I'm going tomorrow night. I can't. Give my love. I don't know. I think that I think meeting the family though, just to round this out, I think it really does depend on the age of the person you're talking about because I've seen, I have friends who have been introduced in this case men to their children too early and when it didn't work out, the kid was really upset. I really like so I think people really should give thought to when is the appropriate time. I mean, you and I can't legislate for anyone else.

But I think in short, you've got to be pretty clear that he's the one. What if your family really likes him and you're not really sure? My kids aren't going to meet a guy I'm not really sure about. That's what I'm telling you. I'm going to be, unless I say to my kids, this is a friend. And there's nothing romantic, but, you know, I'm going to invite him to the soccer game. Oh, great, no problem. I'm not introduced my kids are going to know the situation before I introduce

before I introduce anyone to them and you're correct it's way different for people that haven't even had kids yet or have younger children you know that's they're going to raise the kids when you you know what I mean it's so much harder it's just you know kids divorce and then bringing someone new it's just adds another layer to the family issue that you got to think about and work out before you. Just don't jump in and do it and say, I'll think about it later. Especially young children. Yeah.

When is it right when you're so short? It has to be like six months. This is right back to what we started in the beginning. Every time you're going to go out with this gentleman, say, if you're younger and you have smaller kids, whether your husband passed or you're divorced. And the kids want to know where you're going. Are you going to lie for six months? months. You know what I'm saying? That has to be a tough decision. Well, no, I'm not going to, if I were in that

situation, I would say mommy's going out to dinner with a friend or someone she met or whatever I would say. What I wouldn't do is introduce that person to my children because once you put a face and a personality and your children, young children, meet that person, they start to form a relationship. and I hated it. Why you wait? Why you wait a happy year? That's what I'm saying. With young children, you wait.

And it's not a half a year. You're going to love this one, Susan. Then we're going to move on. Because I've had, you know, I got to find the guide to meet my family. But I don't think young children should meet a partner, you know, whether it's male or female, until you know he or she is the one. Yeah. Case closed.

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Here's our slang word of the week. The gals Google it. Kathy and I are back with Grandma Googles. It's where we break down slang words that people are using in dating and pop culture. Okay. Can I just say, no, you love this one. Not only do I love it, I know what it means. I didn't even have to look it up.

Like some of these, I'm like, where the hell did they find this? But this one I love because it's like onomatopoeia. It sounds like what it is. ick. The ick is a sudden turnoff that kills attraction instantly. I have felt the ick myself many times. Okay, Susan, I'll tell you some of mine. If you tell me some of yours, what are icks that you get with men? My number one ick, they're rude to the waiter or waitress. Server, yeah. I can't. I can't believe that that is right at the top of my list too. I'll tell you, another one, of my ex. I can't believe it. That's one of my top ones. I had that one written down. Another one I have,

though, is if a guy on a first date is like invading my personal space, like is not respectful. It really gives me the ick. Like, is this guy going to try to, you know, jump me at the end of the night? Like, it really does, the whole date's an ick for me. Another one is if you are on a first date and they talk constantly about their ex. That's a big. Yeah. So here's the thing, though, with social media, with everything being online, I sometimes wonder if I hear it a lot.

I mean, that's why I knew what the word meant. I hear it a lot. Oh, that gives me the ick. And it's not always things about guys. I mean, it's like, oh, her dress gives me the ick. Like, oh, come on. So are we using it too much? Are we too critical?

What do you think? Do you think he can recover from an ink? Well, first answer my question, then I'll answer yours. Are we too critical? No. If somebody's being, what I had said about being rude to the server, that's not being too critical. No, but it's an ick over every little thing. That's what I'm saying.

People. But it's not an ick. An ink is something substantial, right? Something stands out and is big. I mean, to you and me it is, but I, that's what I'm telling you. I've heard younger people say, literally, the other day, I was, I was, heard some kids. I was at the mall. And this other woman walked by and they looked and they went, oh, look at the way she walks.

That gives me the ick. Literally, they said that. And I was like, I wanted to go up and go, what is wrong with you? So was she walking. Did you notice? I looked at it. I was like, she's walking. I don't know.

I don't know, but it was the way she was dressed. I didn't know the people. So I didn't know. And, you know, I was at the domain, which is the very high-end shopping center in Austin. So I'm sure it was maybe it was something she had on. I don't know. But I just thought, when I saw this on this week, I thought, to me, it's a really interesting topic because I think people have used it like. It could have said.

Your mouth just gave me the ick. What you just said, isn't it? Susan, you know, I know better than to say anything to people I don't know. You know, it's Texas. We have guns here. All right. Do I think you can recover from a neck? Yes, I think you can recover from a neck. Yes. I can. Thirst trap. Hmm. Thirst trap. A post meant to attract attention or validation. All right. Be honest. Have you ever posted one?

I will be honest with you. I think that when I read this and I think Thirst Trap, I think, of it having to do with body being fit not not like if I talk about suicide I'm trying to get people to listen to it but that's not a thirst trap to me a thirst trap has to do with you know pumping iron showing your workouts skimpy bathing suits something that is designed usually sexually to attract attention so no I have never posted one because I can't wear bikini unfortunately and The next thing is it wasn't more for a guy or just attention in general. Like, why would you post a sexy picture? Have you looked at Instagram and TikTok lately?

Listen, I don't know who it is. You got me in my garden clothes would sweat all over the place. Yeah, but that's not a thirst trap. Wait, would you ever, would you Susan ever post? I think I know the answer. would you ever post something that showed, you know, your butt or your boobs or something that was, we would, you and I would call explicit. Would you ever do that? No, absolutely not.

So that's that because, you know, why? You don't want that negative sexual attention. But I think. I respect myself. I mean, I post crazy things. I don't always look the best or when I'm really pretty and made up and you get a great picture. yeah, I'm going to post it. You feel good about yourself, but that is not going to do with getting attention.

It's a trap. Like I said, thirst traps to me mostly have to do with people who post pictures of themselves in provocative positions in a bikini or something very sheer that you can. It's to me, oh, God, I'm going to take so much heat for this. Wait a minute. It's soft porn. It's soft porn. That's what it is.

I know. You don't get carried away, soft porn. It's soft porn. If you're posting pictures where you can see through to your body parts, yeah, it's soft porn. Like negligee or. Yeah, where you can see through. You know what, Susan? I think when I come, we're going to get you to post a thirst trap.

We'll see what kind of attention you get because I would never do it. No. A thirst trap for us is playing golf. We hit a good swing. You better record it. If I hit it good, you better record it. I will. But remember, unless I'm.

wrong. You know, Bachelor Nation out there, correct me if I'm wrong. I don't think thirst traps are hitting a drive 250 yards. I mean, that will get you attention, but that's just like, wow, great shot. A thirst trap would be if you got up to the

number one hole and you had no underwear on or you were topless and then you hit a 300-degree a 300-yard drive. Now you got a thirst trap going. That's what is it. There is such a thing as too thirsty.

That's what I. I have to know when to draw the line. Well, I can tell you, my line is a lot higher up on the page than many people. But you know what? You and I grew up in a different time, Susan. You and I grew up in a different time. Most definitely. All right.

Well, this has been enlightening. I'm going to go see if I can give myself the ick and find a thirst trap. But thank you to everybody for joining us for Bachelor of Golden Hour. And make sure to rate, review, and subscribe wherever you listen to podcast. And you can follow Golden Hour on social media at Bachelor Happy Hour and at Bachelor Nation. And just one thing before we go, Susan, those of you writing into us, why don't you send in your biggest sticks and your best thirst trap? Don't send the picture. Just tell us what it was.

Not their best thirst trap, what they've seen, right? Yeah, all right. Make it. All right. Well, until we get in to have a great week, everybody. There was no anything inside those eyes. They turned black. It scared the hell out of me.

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