Bachelor Happy Hour - Your Internet Moms to the Rescue with Nancy! | Golden Hour

Episode Date: October 9, 2024

Today on “Golden Hour,” we have Nancy joining us! The iconic trio is back together to help answer some of your questions. First, we get into our question of the day: When do you talk about finances with a new partner? Then, we dive into your questions. How do you navigate being the single friend while everyone is starting families? What should you do when your future son-in-law potentially crosses the line with you? Tune in now to hear all this and more, and be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This is an I-Heart podcast. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, luckily, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend's been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone.

Hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That seems inappropriate. Maybe find out how it ends by listening to the OK Storytime podcast and the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, my name is Enya Umanzor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh, my God, perfect.

And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you. Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. What would you do if one bad decision forced you to choose between a maximum security prison or the most brutal boot camp designed to be hell on earth?

Unfortunately for Mark Lombardo, this was the choice he faced. He said, you are a number, a New York State number, and we own you. Listen to shock incarceration on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour. Thanks for joining us. We're so excited to be back. How are you doing today, Susan?

I'm doing awesome. I think it's really hot here. And I know Kathy is here in my home. And it is the best day ever. no humidity and this girl is cold cold it's 75 degrees here i came from i came from over 100 degrees and now it's 75 outside dry as toast i'm cold susan has the air conditioning set down to like antarctica in here it's ridiculous but listen if you haven't done it yet now's the time to hit that follow button on bachelor happy hour so you can find our podcast

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I mean, we've been having a ball, and I hope you're enjoying it. So keep those coming at bachelornation.com slash golden hour. we have some great questions today that we can't wait to get to with our bestie nancy guess who's here nancy come on how are you doing nancy thank you so much for being here thank you i'm happy to be here so let's catch up babe what's going on besides you being at my home well i just got to susan's last night it's a quick two and a half hour drive it's beautiful here but as kathy said she's freezing I was a little cold, so I put on my jacket. And Susan is sweating, but that's just a detail.

I hope they're going to find out more about me this weekend, so I'm sure you'll all be hearing about that next week when you do another podcast because everything's, nothing's off limits. Soon hence, let me ask you something. As we reviewed Jones gentlemen, was there anybody that stuck out to you? Well, several. Oh, well, here we go. We're going to roll with that.

Several and do you want to know the names? I don't know. Wait, here's the problem. Wait, here's the problem for all three of us. We don't know if Joan chose anyone. We don't know if she's with someone. We don't know. We just know she can only choose one.

What if we all picked the one that she chose? We're screwed. Well, then we will be screwed. We'll have to go with number two then. Sorry. Right. Yes, you know what? Who's the first guy that stuck out in your head? Like, boom, as soon as I asked the question.

Very first. Jonathan. Okay. Okay. He's a little younger than me. He's from Iowa. Jonathan. Greg, I think, from Longboat Key, and Jordan.

Those were the three who stuck out. But honestly, I do think until you meet someone, you don't really know. and we all know we've met people and dated people. Don't mean to hold those. Thank you. That, you know, maybe they aren't exactly what you thought you were looking for. And then you meet them and you're like, oh, my gosh. And then all of a sudden, of course, they become more handsome and more or less.

Or less. But you've got to wait and meet people. All right. Nancy, we want you to join us. Okay. We're going to get your opinion. We have questions coming in that we're all going to answer. and to the best of whatever you feel,

the way they ask that question, what comes to mind is what you're going to share. Okay. Cool. Sounds good. Okay, ready? Money is a hot topic when it comes to relationships. Financial problems contribute to 20 to 40% of all divorces.

So when do you think it's the right time to talk about money, debt, spending habits, savings, etc., in a new relationship? is this a first date topic three dates in a year in and how do you know i would say three dates in and how do you know you have i mean you have to know you have to bring it up and you have to sort of plant a seed i don't think you have the entire talk talk but i think you plant the seed and then you can sort of it evolves i feel like i want to make sure that i'm in like with this person and I want to invest some time in them before I make that conversation. Here's the difference at our age.

We already have our savings, our investments, are not. And to combine, do we even combine, that's really where I'm after. Do you combine resources in our age? Half of them sign pre-nops. I mean, what's yours is yours? What's his should be yours, too. Would you sign a pre-nup? Absolutely.

Absolutely. I don't think there's anything more. I would say one. You know, there was a time when I was much younger that I was appalled by the sound of a pre-up. But now I totally get it. Yeah, but don't you think, yeah, don't you think, though, that it's, if you are young and you both are starting out and you're amassing your wealth, you're putting your money in, you know, you're $5 a week out of your paycheck into the savings account. But when you get to be our age, then you have, yeah, I think it's totally, but would I bring it up? Absolutely.

So the question we want to know, is it the first date? Absolutely not, correct? Absolutely not. Three dates and probably not. A year. I said three because what if, what if somebody says, well, you know, I really, like, what if there's a red flag dropped? Good to know. Yeah, true, true.

So. Third date, we might not even kiss yet. I mean, a year in. You got to talk about money first. Yeah, but wait, a year in? A year in? No, not a year in. Too long.

Like I said, you have to see what you want to invest. If you're feeling something and, you know, he's feeling something, and that's something you're talking about. Here's my thing. Good sex. I mean, what? It's always on her mind. You know what I'm thinking? What?

The way you find out about finances, you don't even have to bring that up. If the guy invites you out and he takes you to a happy hour and says, can we split a drink and an appetizer, you probably are going to have to. serious financial problem or sorry or the bill comes and he sits there and he doesn't offer to pay another red flag wait i got a i got a winner i was on a date wait and it was a happy hour date leach had a glass of wine he had a second and i went to order a second he goes no no no no happy hour's over i thought yeah you're over too well okay i go no no no no no problem i got it I'll buy my own drink. Did you hear Nancy?

How sad is that, really? How sad? Here's the thing. If a guy says to me on a first date, a second date or a third date, it's happy hour, so why don't we split an appetizer? I'm going to say, you know what? I have a bus to catch and it's leaving in five minutes, so I'm out of here. And now with that being said.

Let's get a week. We have some great. So, Nancy, the way we do this. We're done with, we are done. and we're done with guys. We're done with guys who don't want to... Who don't want to pay. There you go.

My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Well, wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, My boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot.

He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Holdup, isn't that against school policy? That sounds totally inappropriate. Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor, and they're the same age. It's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing between them.

I mean, do you believe him? Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both to meet. So, do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his professor or not? To hear the explosive finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. I never envisioned being with a woman. I'll just be honest. I'm Jamel Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcasts, Politics. On this week's episode, I'm joined by basketball legend, Candice Parker,

who stops by to discuss her candid new book, The Can Do Mindset, in which she shares why she waited two years into marriage to come out. Like, when I close my eyes at night, every night, I was like, I need to find my prince charming. Like, it was never a princess. Like, that never entered into my mind. But, you know, as I learned, sometimes life gives you things wrapped in a package that you didn't expect it. And that was just, you know, and honestly, it took me a long time to be okay with myself.

Make sure to listen to this week's episode of Spolitics on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Humanzor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble.

Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you. Open your free Iheart radio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. Okay, so we do some fan questions and we're going to read them and we're going to ask all this, discuss it and give our advice. Are you in? I'm in.

You ready, Nancy? Let's go. All right. This one's from Casey, 32 years old from Los Angeles. Hi, Kathy and Susan. I'm struggling a bit right now and thought I'd turn to my. internet moms for advice. Oh, Kat, we're internet moms. We love you, Casey. All of my friends are in serious relationships and are moving on to new chapters of life. I've never had a serious partner,

despite putting myself out there in groups, going on dates, etc. I know. It just hasn't happened for me yet. I am trying not to lose hope, but it gets harder every day. to watch everyone else move on and feel like I'm falling behind. None of my friends really want to go out with me anymore because they are all wiped up, which makes it harder for me to meet new people. Wait, is that like being lawyered up? Go ahead. Harder for me to meet new people going places alone.

This experience is making me look back at my life choices, thinking about where I maybe went wrong, and why I maybe haven't met my person yet. Do you have any words of wisdom or advice for me? I'm feeling pretty lost and don't want to lose hope that I'll have my life partner family someday. Love you both so much. Thank you for all the joy you bring. Oh, Casey.

You're 32. 32. Don't give up. Right. But you know what? I look at it she's only 32 I know I'm sure she would want to find

her person earlier but I also think she's living more life and she might be I think it works out she probably will be more ready when she does meet the right person I think Casey might be a guy

all right he he or she but I think it might be a guy because he's saying his friends are all wiped up well that could be But you know what I mean? Yeah. I feel like I feel like 32 isn't so old

to not have a significant relationship. I don't know. You know why we can say that? Because we've lived and we're older. If you are 32 and you've never had a serious relationship and you haven't, all your friends are married and quote unquote wifed up, Casey,

I hear you, it's got to be really tough. And my advice. to you would be shake up what you're doing because you know if you keep doing what you've been doing you're going to keep getting what you've been getting so you know try something new try a new activity that's a group activity um you know pick up a sport i mean we always say the same thing but like pickleball's a big thing go take a course a lesson in pickleball right do something new or challenge or golf sorry golf meetups have you heard about those where people play golf you know you don't have to be a professional but you'd get out and play i think from our generation 32 was old not to have a

relationship but today the kids are doing they're don't even leaving home yet at 32 when you think about it so mine not too mine were gone but a lot of your friends are saying are waved up or they're married or they're in a relationship so change up like you girls just said but change up the friendships too go out with some new people people through people through people and and i think you're right one of the main things that i didn't listen to when i was given advice when i was searching for somebody is stop looking so hard forget about it be in love with you and then he's young or she whoever case you are you're young but you but he he or she is also at an age where they want to have a family absolutely i still want i still want somebody in my life

So we get it. The other thing I want to address, Casey, is you say, I'm going to give you some words of wisdom. You didn't go wrong. You say you want to know maybe where you went wrong and why you haven't met your person yet. You didn't go wrong. You've been living your life. You have your friends. It may not be the experiences and the life you want right now, but you learn something from every experience you have.

You didn't go wrong, Casey, when you just need to give it more time, you know? Yep. and try not to focus on finding that person. Let that, it will always be in your mind, but just go about life and enjoy what you're doing. And it'll happen. All right. The other thing I want to say is, Casey,

if you are a guy, Nancy has a gorgeous daughter that you might want to meet. And if you are a girl, I have a very handsome Nicholas. And I have two cats if that will help you in any way. But thank you so much for writing in. And we love being your moms. You could call us. person we hope you find your person and so and really good luck to you and thank you for listening to our podcast we love that okay our next question is from dorothy she's 59 from myrtle beach south

carolina cool love the beach hello girls i love love love your podcast i love that she have three loves in there it's so fun to listen to ladies around my age gab i don't know of any other podcast like yours so yay yay yay well we'll yay with you i have a question for you too about my future son-in-law my daughter and her soon-to-be husband are getting married this fall as we get excited for the big day my daughter told me he had a request for me on the wedding day that i find a bit odd he asked that i cover the tattoos on my arms with makeup for the wedding as my dress is short-sleeved the wedding isn't in a church or anything he said he would just prefer for the photos if no No one had visible tattoos.

My daughter said she doesn't care, but just wanted to relay his wishes. My tattoos are a part of me and have been for decades. I'm a cool mom, LOLL. Yes, you are. I have some flowers on my arm, hearts for each of my kids, and a fish to honor my dad. I feel a bit offended that he would want me to cover these up and feel like it's an off-putting start to our mother-in-law, son-in-law relationship. What would you do in this situation?

I cover them up because it's their wedding and it's not about me or do I leave them because they are a part of who I am and he doesn't get to control how my body looks. So curious for your thoughts. Thank you both and love you to pieces. Who wants to go first? Dorothy, something comes to mind to me. Could you meet in the middle? I know tattoos, I know you could put body makeup on, but maybe instead of body makeup, could you wear like a sheer, something sheer with sleeves so they wouldn't be as obvious and kind of down so they're downplayed a little bit but then that shows that you tried you know that you're going to try to be understated about it and not just not do what he asks I mean I know that this is a tough one yeah but I think

showing showing that you've made an effort and showing that you understand how he feels and you want to obviously start on a good foot for the rest of of their lives, I think I would compromise. Me personally, you're not going to like this, Dorothy. We're going to have three different viewpoints here. I want to start that new relationship, your new son-in-law, a cover of the tattoo for a minute. It's not going to kill anybody. He doesn't like them.

He doesn't want his photographs to have them. You are who you are, and you're proud, and you should be. I'm sure you love, and there's a reason behind every single piece of. ink that's on your arm and I respect that. But I just don't want you to start off on a bad foot with your son-in-law. And it's their day. It is. It's their day. So believe it or not, I think we are going to have three different viewpoints here. I'm sort of actually between the two of you. I think that it, she's, Dorothy, you're absolutely right. It is a part of who you are. and that's like that's like susan asking you to dye your hair or something to change who you are

and i and i don't like that i personally don't like that i think what i would do dorothy is asked to meet with your son-in-law and explain what the tattoos mean to you because they obviously are sentimental and and they they are a part of you wait kathy do you think that would change his mind well that's where i was going okay it may or may not change his mind but i would explain it to him and say, this is a part of me. I would ask him why he wants me to cover up. And then I would see if there's a compromise, I'm not sure I would cover up. I'm not sure I would.

I might wear something sheer for some of the pictures for him. But I really do think that's tantamount to saying, you know, dye your hair. It's not like dot your hair. That's changing who you are. She has tattoos. And that's what I'm saying. And he doesn't want to see them. Well, you know, I don't want to see.

Didn't he say for the pictures? Yes. It's for the pictures. Just for the pictures. But no, if you're going to cover them up, they're covered for the wedding. That's right. If they're covered up, they're covered up. So I get it.

It is their day. But I think, as Susan and I always say, the big C word communication, I would talk to him first. Or cover them up for the pictures and then go wash your arms, really, and show them for the reception. That's crazy. Either she honors his wishes or she. she doesn't you don't think she could talk to him and say that's making a big thing and i also bet

that he may already know what they mean sure we don't he's just not at that too god dorothy it's a tough one you know good luck i mean i have the best son-in-law in the world and i truly hope that you and you're soon to be son-in-law develop a great relationship and it's not worth burning it over this right exactly and dorothy i get it i don't like that he even said that either but try to make nice just to keep peace that's what we do that's what parents do how many times have you bit your tongue over something only when i chewed a piece of food at the wrong direction trust me i don't bite my tongue to have good luck dorothy send me a picture of what you wore i got yeah we want to know send us a picture we want to see it you'll be beautiful however you are

and we wish you all the best all righty My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Oh, wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now, he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone.

Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That sounds totally inappropriate. Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor and the they're the same age. And it's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing between them. I mean, do you believe him?

Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both to meet. So, do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his professor or not? To hear the explosive finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I'm Jamil Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcasts Politics. And on the latest episode of Politics, House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries joins me for a candid conversation about the state of the Democratic Party. What do Republicans say to you privately that they won't say publicly? Many of them are in fear of their political lives. And that's been part of the challenge. But we continue to say to them, you were elected to defend your

constituents, to stand up for your constituents. And there's life after Congress. And you should be willing to actually want to be able to look back on your time in the House of Representatives knowing that you can keep your head held high because you did the right thing. Donald Trump is gone in three and a half years. But their legacy or their failure to stand up to the extremism and the unprecedented assault on America as we know it will be with them forever. Make sure to listen to Spolitics on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Humanzor.

And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you.

Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. Oh goodness. I'm so excited about this because we do not have to play moral quandary. We're not playing it, Nancy. I'm glad. It was a relief. I was a, uh, and a relief. Yeah, you all know, I love that game so much, right? But you know what? For those of you who love it like I do, it'll be back next time. Whatever, I might be sick.

I thought of another idea, though, for us to try out today. What do you think, girls? I found a series of questions for Bestie check-in, and I thought it would be fun for all of us to check in about our friendships. Okay, I love that idea, for sure. With who? With each other. Okay, I feel like people focus so much on romantic relationships, not I, of course, and the health of those dynamics, but I really like the idea of checking in about our friends. friendship. Maybe it can inspire others to do the same with their besties. And I will say people

write in a lot, don't they, Susan, about how much they love our friendship and when we post things. So what you can see? We're all here together. It's the best part. We'll be filming all weekend. And I was thinking last night when we were sitting outside that a year and a half ago, we didn't know each other. Or a year ago, we didn't know each other. And it's crazy. Now we're all so close it's as if we've known each other for 50 years exactly i mean this is great all right go ahead susan where we're going here okay yep so write down the questions and feel free to go through them with your bFF sometime all right here's the first question what was your first impression of me and how did it change since we became besties what do you say nancy what was your first impression of me

No, it's of Susan. Of me. It's my question. Oh, it's moral quandary, turn around. It's not moral quandary. It's Susan. I knew I liked you from the minute I saw you. You know why?

You were approachable. You were approachable and you had a big smile on your face and I thought, I like that girl. I'm going to cry. I know. No, I'm serious. You're approachable. Like not everybody was, you know, immediately. And Susan was approachable.

Can I interrupt for one minute? The story of my life, why I didn't get a ton of dates because men say, I wasn't approachable. How wrong could they be? I would intimidate. I'm like, are you kidding me? I love you. All right, Kathy, her first impression of me. Don't.

Just look at her eyes. I already know. We'd be like bonded immediately. I literally, there was just something magnetic about your charismatic personality that just drew me right in. and it still does. I love these guys. Okay. All right.

Now I'm going to ask one because... I'm scared. Oh, it's not you, Nancy. It's moral quandary for Susan. Oh, shit. All right. Let me... All right.

What is something Nancy and Susan that you love about our friendship and something you think we could work on? Susan, there's nothing to work on. Nancy, what do you think? Something... What do you love about? I know.

I know. I love. love that I know I could count on Kathy for absolutely anything. And I know that I thought this was about you. It is. It's about her. I know. You see, see what goes on here. We all got to be in the line line. It's too much talking. That's, that's my second part of my. That's what we could work on. That's the answer. Let Nancy speak. What does Nancy want to say? Something. Anyway, no, but this is so fun in our videos seriously people write in to both of us not just me why don't you let nancy speak let her talk i try i can't keep up so then i'm quiet i'm just like okay keep talking

you're just telling people that she's not quiet trust me not all the time so i did i answer the question no i didn't and i love you i love that you said that you could count on me for anything No. But if you were sick, if you had a problem, Kathy's so smart also. And I know that if when I was buying my daughter a car, I'm like, Kathy, should I finance? And she taught me all this stuff. Anyway, she, you can count on her. And I believe you are one of the most loyal people I've ever met. Oh, no, I'm going to cry. I told me. This is terrible. But we do need to work on talking over each other. That's all of us. You asking me the question? No. Why not? You scared? She scared to ask you the question.

Oh, I want to know what you love about our friendship. I just love us. I really do. We are a threesome. We're a dynamic. We love each other. No matter what faults we have, we can get upset with each other. Faults?

I don't have any faults. They have no faults. The point is this, even if we said something hurtful, we forgive one another we didn't mean to be hurtful that's a true friendship yeah yes and what we could work on yeah zip it don't over talk or or try to control okay this this interview is over yeah moving right along aren't you glad it came all right i have a fun one all right you guys both answer what is your favorite memory of us so far go ahead what do you what do you what what comes It comes first.

The most favorite thing that we've done. Well, you and me? Or all of us. Or all of us. I'm asking. Well, for you and me, the most favorite thing you and I have done was... The podcast? Well, of course the podcast.

But walking the red carpet, that was unbelievable. That was just... And wait, the other thing, the other one is us doing Gary and Teresa's writing. You officiating it and me, I'm seeing it with... with Charity and Jesse Palmer. Life changing. But if I ask you a favorite memory of the three of us, like where would it have been?

In the bedroom at the mansion. I was going to say the same thing. There were seven of us to start, and then we had four of us left. We all lined our twin beds together, and it was like summer camp, it's true. And we laughed for three weeks. Don't you think that's where we bond it?

Absolutely. Without a doubt. My favorite memory, even though I'm asking the question, is the laughter like a two-pack people. You know, when you laugh so hard, you think you're getting a two-pack in your belly. No, you laugh so hard you pee. St. Martin, not anymore, I had a fix. When we were in St. Martin, do you remember how we were driving and the rainstorm and we miss and flight? Like, they're the moments that I'll never forget.

Yeah. For those of you who didn't hear it, we discussed it at one point. Susan's driving. I'm in the front seat, passenger seat, the shotgun, and Nancy's in the back. What were you saying to us, Nancy? You idiots, what are we doing? Were you idiots? Where are we? It was dark, right? It was when we were lost. And you know, what did we do? Street signs. What we did, Susan. I just, all we were doing was laughing. We were never canceled and flight terror kings were coming. I'm like, This is serious, and they're just cracking it up. You can't make it home. Nancy, this is called Life Adventure. Another funny one was, I went a little shopping, and these two,

when we went on the Dutch side of St. Martin, and these two found a jewelry store, which our friendship bracelets came from. But wait, by the time I found them, they had a lot of champagne. That was another good memory. Drink and buy. I walk into the store and they're like, here's yours.

You got a friendship brace that's only costed a thousand dollars, Susan. We got diamonds. And of course, we all got them. And we all have them. And of course, we're friends now with the owner of the jewelry store who wants us to come back this year. Well, we are going back. We booked our trip and we're getting another bracelet. Yeah.

I can't wait. All right. Kathy, you got one more. Where am I? Let's see. Okay, I've got another fun one. what are it's all about me

girls I didn't write them I'm just reading them what are the top three things you like about me and don't worry I'll answer for you too what are the top three things

you like about me Nancy about you it's just it's just you I know I'm not right you too no Nancy Nancy Nancy Nancy

Nancy Nancy you like about her. Yeah, I know. Okay, that was a waste of five minutes. Let the girl talk. I like Kathy. Well, like I said, her loyalty, her humor, and her intelligence. Oh, Nancy. Okay, you know what I love about you? I love that you wear your faith on your sleeve, on your heart, and you are not embarrassed for anyone to know your faith in God and Jesus. And I love that. Amen. I love your hair. I love that too. I love that you, when we've been at your house, you make us feel so warm.

You're just a good friend. You'll always listen. Nancy is probably one of the best listeners in all seriousness that I've ever met. I try. What about you? Was that nice? You should have seen the look she just gave me. What are the most three things that you love about me?

That you make me laugh, that you're a true friend. And your eyes. Oh, my eyes. Yeah, you have great eyes. Oh, thank you. Thank you. Okay. I love your energy, Susan.

You have incredible positive energy. You also go out of your way. I mean, guys, you cannot believe what just this weekend is a perfect example. Like, if you come to my house, I'm going to show you where the toaster is and, like, hope that you go out to Starbucks and get your own coffee. Susan has all kinds of food. It's nuts. She is a hostess. Just be in Italian, I think.

You like me being Italian. Yeah, I like you being Italian. And I also like that you are a take charge person. If something needs to get done, you know how to do it. And you take care of me. And I like that you're such a good cleaner. You clean everything. It's like she's behind you, picking up your cup, wiping the ribbing.

And I do better today. I was trying not to do it before you were finished. I really was focused. I'm still sitting at the table because I sat down late to eat. She was late. No, I was late. And so I sat down. They were all had started.

That's another. thing we can talk about later, but you never start to eat before, not everybody sits at the table. Anyway. It wasn't a main meal, Lance. I know, I'm kidding. We had a podcast to do. I know. You didn't say grace either. I sat late, and so

I'm still eating. Well, everybody knew that, but all of a sudden, half the food's gone off the table, and I'm like, I'm eating my bagels. Nancy's sitting crowd. Susan's at the kitchen sink, scrubbing, getting ready, and I'm like,

I'm almost done. He's sitting in the corner going, guys, I'm still eating. Don't mind me. I'm still eating. Did you get enough food then? Because take some more before I take it away. Okay.

So I just want to say one thing, in all honesty and our friendship, and I hope everyone hears us and knows it, the friendships that we made on the Golden Bachelor are lifelong friendships, We love each other. We take care of each other. And this is not a put-on. So be grateful for your friends and take care of your friendships because...

And I just wish everybody out there to... Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Take care. You just never know how you're going to make great friends. And here we are. And all you want out there that are interesting and calling your game, but did you see the nice things they said about me? I'm just saying, I don't think for all the balls you can't.

Yeah, I have big eyes. I have eye. you pay for the first appetizer and we're not splitting drinks right all right we should do this again we definitely every few months we should do this are you right now i would love it thank you i would love that well i guess that process though next one world one oh we're gonna play i know i have a moral compass ladies and john around when nancy wants to play that game i'll step out and have a nice thing she'll be in a happy hour having an appetizer

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