Bad Dates with Jameela Jamil - Biology Is Sickening (w/ Atsuko Okatsuka, Nicky Urban, and Blair Socci)

Episode Date: January 1, 2024

On this episode of Bad Dates, Jameela welcomes comedians Atsuko Okatsuka, Nicky Urban, and Blair Socci to discuss their most iconic dating fiascos. Atsuko’s Taco Tuesday becomes a condo melee, Nicky serves bodily breakdowns two ways, and Blair just can’t shake Techno Ron Weasley. If you’ve had a bad date you’d like to tell us about, our number is 984-265-3283, and our email is [e-mail], we can’t wait to hear all about it.Atsuko Okatsuka: Atsukocomedy.com, @atsukocomedy on social mediaNicky Urban: nicky-urban.com, @thenickyurban on social mediaBlair Socci: New special Live From The Big Dog, @blairsocci on social mediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Someone stole my dinner the other day and he was, I saw him on the camera and what was crazy is that he already had someone else's dinner that he'd already stolen from another house in his other hand. What a genius! Now one wasn't enough! I know, but again he's a girl boss. You can't deny the drive that he'd be anti-santa. Yeah. Yeah. That dates. Arts go nicky and bleh. Hello and welcome to bad dates. How are you?

Hello. Oh, pretty great. I'm excited. I love asking everyone that question at the same time and then it's just same time. And then we just kick off on a clusterfuck. I'm very happy to have you all here. You're all very funny and wonderful. And thank you for sharing your deep dark tales with us today at Bad Dates. We greatly appreciate it. Before we get into everyone's stories, I want to kind of get a sense of your philosophies around dating, how you feel about it.

So I guess I will start with Nikki. Nikki, how do you feel about dating? Are you into it? I'm into it. I'm dating now. I'm not single. I'm in a mostly monogamous relationship, mostly me. Oh, yes.

Very progressive. Wow, you're evolved at all. Yeah. Oh, I guess, yeah, sure. Well, you know, I'm queer. My boyfriend, I'm dating a man, a straight cis man. And he's definitely got that thing. We're like, oh, yeah, if it's a girl, and I'm watching, you know, let that very typical.

So I say, I'm most big of him. It is, you know, it's very... What's so evolved? Yes, very evolved that he would be fine. They should be fine. A porn category around that. But basically, dating is great, but I'm happy to be in a mostly monogamous relationship, though. I'm done.

Okay. Okay. And I'm happy to be in a mostly monogamous relationship though. I'm done. OK. What, why are you happy to be in the most monogamous relationship? Did you have a shitty time or was it just exhausting? And do you feel like you were good at dating? Oh. OK, I was good at having sex with people, but not dating.

So yes. And were you a fun day, adventurous date? I'd say, I'd say pretty adventurous. Mm-hmm. I asked these things because I was none of those things. Yes. I'm what about you, Blair? How did you feel about dating?

How do I feel about it? Well, at the beginning of this year, I decided to put myself, like give myself a 30-date challenge for the year. Whoa. Oh, damn busy. Just because I'm a stand-up comedian, I'm on the road all the time.

And, you know, when I'm working, I'm usually out every night. And so if I have a night off, I feel like staying home. And I'm naturally a homebody. And for work, I put myself out there constantly. So I don't really want to go dating. I want to get married and have kids, but I just like don't want to put in the effort to do it.

So I started going on dates and you know what? They were almost no, just like very nice men. You know, how are you meeting them? Oh, just hinge. Yeah. All the freaks in my DMs just have like private profiles. And so I don't know, it's the best way.

And then, you know, I really do need to work on this, like anytime someone makes eye contact with me, like after a show, I just like look away, but I really need to just like, sack up, you know? But generally, enjoy, didn't enjoy? Like it. I think I'm screening them well because it's all just been really nice people.

Um, yeah, I've enjoyed it. I mean, I'm not enough to be in a relationship with one another. But in terms of whether it was heinous or not, it was nice. And what about you, Attsco? Were you someone who's enjoyed the dating world? Because you seem extremely married. Extremely important. Oh, Chris. enjoyed the dating world because you seem extremely married. Extremely married. No one's knocking on my door. I don't give a sexual vibe to no.

No, but you have an edge to you. I can still sense the ghost of your dating past. Do you someone who enjoyed dating? Because you're such a mischievous energy. I did like it. Yeah, it was, it's fun. But I treated it like, have you seen the meme of Kirby, like the alien character that's a video game? And his whole thing is like,

he opens his mouth and everything goes in. He just like sucks, ah, just sucks everything in. Is that a blowjob brag? What's happening? Yeah. No, it's very like, sucks, aw, just sucks everything in. Is that a blowjob brag? What's happening? Yeah. No, it's very like, it's very like how you would treat a buffet.

And that's kind of how I did dating. Right. Just very binge and very all or nothing. And so it was good that for me, like getting married was like good because. I don't understand the analogy. Yeah, I don't understand. Bad beats.

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Let's go. Will you start us off with Tako T. Eastay, please? What happened? This was right before my husband. I had just broken it off with the sky I was seeing. It wasn't working out. But in an attempt to be friends still, I invited him to a friend of mine's play like we're all just gonna be friends We're gonna go to this play watch theater For a full stuff Friends, I thought you like at theater 100% because I thought no one really gets horny at like a Keith Herring, you know, play. Speak for yourself.

And I'm sure. Of course, I was wrong because then, you know, after we watched the play, we all hung out and had drinks. And so I was like, oh, shit, we've been drinking too much. I think he still has feelings for me. We need to stop this. So I was like, let's go eat tacos. We'll calm down and But when you when we ate the tacos, um, it was like You know when you drink a lot and you eat tacos to or like you eat food to all the blood rushes down towards like your groins

Where's that? As in your vagina groin, but on your stomach, what do you mean? What's happening? Oh, you're like a hip flexor. You're all a while. You're not, Blair's like hip flexor. I'm not. Is this like a mobile thing?

No. Like you're eating tacos and you're clitoris guessing gorge. Yes. That's what I, yes. I'm not a scientist, but we just all felt it down there for some reason. And then we were like, okay, this is not good. Let's just go to my friend's house in sober up. But then, you know, like I think just the horniness overtook us.

And so we kept drinking. My friend uses the restroom. And when he goes in, my ex suddenly like faces the restroom door gets completely butt naked. I've never seen anyone get naked so fast and just faces the door. And my friend comes out, sees my ex completely naked and he's like, you know what, screw it. I'm going to get naked too. And they both, and then they both just went for each other. Just making out, just turning around to the ground. Did you know that they were attracted to each other

before this moment? No. This is incredible. This is incredible. Just so fast. And I'm still there. You know, I thought we were supposed to calm down, but they took it up a hundred. So they were going down on each other, rolling around on the ground.

I've never seen so much of my friend. I remember standing there thinking, God, this is the moment in the three-some, everyone talks about where I'm now just a watcher Because I was I was so closed still I remember I even had like a hat on That's very close that's how fast it happens. Yes, where I was like I was in boots like heel boots Hot on and So they were going for a while. So I was like, well, maybe I should try to join,

be part of the train. And so I remember slowly trying to get up in there. Because what are you supposed to do? I want to be a part of it. I'm still horny. But they like forgot about me. They were just going, going. and so I had heels on and so I was kind of like trying to make my presence. No, and again, just click, click, click, click, click,

and then I would kind of like feel out when might be a good moment. Now my ex is someone I have had sex with multiple times, a lot of times and so I was like, I'll start touching him. And there was this one part where one time where he was on all fourths and his butt was towards me. So I was like, OK, I'll kind of tantalize there. So I started tantalizing the balls. And then I went for the belt hold tube. But I was like, I remember thinking

I look like an old woman looking for the doorbell. And then, and then I finally went for the ball hold and they both jumped up like, uh, surprised, surprised that and like kind of like startled that I was still there, which was kind of a bummer. Oh, and then the whole thing ended anyway when I was back in the living room on my own. And then my friend went down on my X again, but he ended up, I just hear a, and he had thrown up the tacos on him. And so everyone was like, okay, let's all just clean up. Let's stop this.

Yeah, so that's how that night ended in the relationship, too. Man, that is wild. Do you feel like you've learned anything from that day? Yeah, I did. I think don't force like a friendship if you don't know if the other person is over it. You know, cause maybe you are. Maybe you are. I was thinking more like I start with the massive shoulders rather than go straight for

the asshole, but yes, totally. You are right. That is the lesson. I mean, no pun intended, but what a bummer. We'll be right back. Bad dates. Hey, y'all. It's your girl, Kiki, your favorite quadruple threat actor, singer, dancer, and my new role, podcaster. My podcaster, baby, this is Kiki Palmer, it's blowing up y'all, because every episode I bring on an icon. Like when John Stamos and I talked about internet trolls heading on Disney adults, or when Jordan

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That there was a period of time where I just got divorced and was just sleeping with as many people as I could. Just like having the time to eat, to eat, right, fuck, yeah. Yes, eat, pray, fuck. Words to live by. So there's this one guy who I mostly knew from online,

from like Facebook groups, like comedy groups. And he's a big movie nerd. And so him and I would talk, we would joke a little bit about movie stuff and we'd be flirting online. And finally one day I was like, you know what? I can't wait anymore. I gotta hang out with this guy and see if this can lead to something.

And so I invited him over to watch movies and drink whiskey. And this was like, the idea was like, this is gonna be a date. We're gonna watch movies and drink whiskey. And this was like, the idea was like, this is going to be a date. You know, we're going to watch movies, drink whiskey, maybe make out a little bit. And so right before he comes over, I eat some dinner. I realized I hadn't eaten all day, so I had some spaghetti right before he came over. So he shows up, right? And he pulls out from his bag a bottle of fireball whiskey. So he was going to bring the whiskey. He brings fireball whiskey. If you're not familiar, it's cinnamon

flavored whiskey. So and I love fireball. Do you guys like fireball at all? Mr. Worldwide. Yes. I did. People. Yes. And are you and people like it. I know longer like it as she'll find out. So he pulls out this fireball whiskey and at the time I really loved it. So I'm we're drinking it right? We're having and we're talking about movies. We haven't put anything on yet. We haven't decided on something. And we're talking and I get drunk real fast. And the movie doesn't even come on, because I come onto him so fast. I just won't be with it.

Oh, we didn't even pick a movie. Because we didn't even get to that point. We're talking about movies, discuss a movie. Yes, and I just went in for the kill. Like I just went in and started making out with him. And he was like, whoa, whoa, whoa, hold on. Which just made me more like more aggressive. I was like, but you came over here with Whiskey

to talk about movies like you clearly came over here to fuck and am I allowed to say that? Yes. Okay, good. I just said, say fuck. Oh, yes, that's great. I was like, clearly came over here for a reason. So I just like went in for it.

So I was like, I'm done wasting time. We don't have to actually watch a movie. But he really actually wanted to watch a movie. So he was like a little hesitant about it. But I kind of convinced him with my aggression that we don't need to watch the movie. So we're making out and close quickly come off, right? And we're like, we're getting into it. You know, he's on top of me.

I'm like, oh, nails down the back, having a great time. I'm on top of him, and then I just throw up all over him. Oh, just no. All over him. Oh, no. All over him, all over the wall, the bed, myself, my hair. Oh, no. My hair is wild. I'm like going, wow, yeah.

This is the sexist, isn't it? Yes, this is the sexist. I project my own vomited cinnamon flavored spaghetti everywhere. And it was like acid, intamado, and cinnamon. Do you think that's why he was hesitant? Because he could send you a very drunk. Because you know it's hard for you to know how drunk you are, but it sounds like you were pretty fucking smashed.

And so he probably doesn't want to come over to your house and take advantage. Right. I think that was an element of it for sure. But he does like, he's nice. He gets me into the shower and cleans me up and sort of rolls up my blankets up into a ball. And then I got out of the shower and I put on my dirty bath, my stained bath robe. And then I'm like, just like shivering and cold. My hair is all stringy and wet. I sit on the couch and he like comes over. He's like, are you okay? I'm like,

yeah. And I don't know. I'm broke. And I'm like, we can keep going. If you know. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's gonna ask. Really? Yeah, it was like, well, you're all cleaned up, you're all probably cleared out now. So we had, yeah. And that was a pretty bad date. I mean, I think for both of us, because he has literal scars from the evening. Like, we have not really talked since,

we like talked about, because of your back scratching, or him with such like four was it the shards of spaghetti that cut him yeah you throw up in his mouth I know luckily we missed we missed that yeah that was yeah lucky that's a positive yeah yeah you basically told me like he didn't want to talk to me again after that. That's fair. I have a problem. Dang. I can't believe that he wanted to have sex after all of that and then told you I don't want to see you again.

This is very confusing, man. Oh, yeah. Yeah. He felt, I think he felt really bad about it because I think he knew like, maybe that wasn't a good look for either of us and that's a very, which was, I think, true. I don't judge you in this scenario at all, but I really think that someone who can watch someone projectile vomit all over them and then hose them down and then get horny.. Oh yeah, it's quite intense. I don't want to kink show, many one, but that's very, very, that's quite intense. You also have a story of another kind of bodily breakdown moment.

Oh yes. Do you know what I'm referring to? I sure do. Because there's a theme which I really enjoy about you thinking. Bodily like functions and oozing things is sort of my whole MO so. Can you tell us what happened? Yes, there was another time, another where I would say I'm kind of the bad date in the scenario here where I got black out drunk with a date on a date and we ended up back at his place and just had like crazy poltergeist sex in his room.

He had roommates, right? He lived in a house with roommates. We just had this crazy poltergeist sex where like the bed like spun around. Like it didn't have a head forward. So like the bed like spun around. Like it didn't have a head forward. So just like spun around. So at some point I wake up in the middle of the night, right, and I'm still pretty drunk. And I don't know where I am because the bed has spun around. And I don't know where I am in relation to the door.

I'm over. Of course. Wow, that's so cinematic. Yes. Yes, yes. In its dark and I have to pee and I can't find the door and I'm like, oh no, I have to pee. So I found like there was a hamper and I was like, well, there's some clothes in it and I was like, well, they're obviously clothes in this hamper, dirty. So I just like pee in this hamper.

And then the guy wakes up and he's like, I'm what are you doing? You're picking up. So I was like, oh, God. Okay, so I ended up back and I get back in bed and then later on in the middle of the night, again, I had to get up and pee because I had a small bladder. So I go to the actual bathroom this time, right? Why don't you be in the hopper again?

Ah, you picked up the first time. Well, because, you know, because he was like, he freaked out the first time. Yeah, he got the first time. He and my hamper shame on you, PN. My hamper shame on me. Yeah, I understand. So I did though, end up in the bathroom. And I went to the bathroom and I came back.

I came back to his room, got into bed, and I hear, what are you doing? And real estate I was in his roommates bed with naked with his roommate and his roommates girlfriend. Oh, this is like an escape room. This is an escape room where they have you're the room. And they're trying to figure it out. They're trying to figure you out. I just like, revisit the beginning where I was like, do you think you were a fun day and you're like,

yeah! I think, pretty fun. You're the wildest day I've ever heard of. Yeah. No, what? You really lived. You fricking... You lived, you fucking did that dating life, mate.

We'll be right back. Bad dates. And we're back. OK, so Blair, please tell me what the fuck techno Ron Weasley means. Oh, Ron Weasley, big fan. Oh, wrongly sweet, big fan. So this was all preface this saying this was many years ago. I was like 23 years old and I had told my best friend at the time that I was like into redheads because like 50% of redheads I'm like very attracted to. And so for whatever reason she thought that just meant

any redhead she knew. And she goes, okay, so we're going out that night. And then so the next day she goes, okay, we're gonna have a double date tomorrow like noon. And we're gonna go see Allison Wonderland 3D. So the night before We have the wildest night. I Back in my prime. I was doing like beer bongs all the time. I was like such a frat guy I had I could like I mean now I drink, but I'm the little sister of older brothers.

And so like I just developed the skill and I just was like a walking party trick. Anyways, I ended up throwing up everywhere then going back into the party, continuing drinking. So the next day I wake up and I have no idea like what happened, whatever my friends like, okay, so we got our double date. We're going on a double date with this guy that she liked and his friend, the red head friend.

This man shows up in a white BMW. It was like a John Hughes movie with a, with a white like chunky cable knit sweater tied around his shoulders. Just looking like, you know, that like high school bully like bad guy look. Um, date right, Pist. Yeah, date right. He's got, he had a real date. And I'm just, I'm literally, I'm in full sweats. I'm like, this is the best I can do.

I can't believe I can barely put one foot in front of the other. I have no makeup on. I look, my skin looks like gray and blue, you know? And no. So we get in this car. This guy is blasting techno. Like he had some sort of augmented obnoxious where you're like, oh, you have a, you have a demented soul that you have this sort of music system in your car.

You know, you're not well. Like you something went wrong that you have this in your car. And he's driving like, it's goddamn six flags. You know what I mean? Which I mean when men drive crazy with a woman in the car, it's so upset. I mean, anyone in the car, I'm like, what's wrong with you? Also, we're the fucking hangover.

I mean, all that. Oh, hangover, I am gripping the sides. I am gripping the sides. Like, I'm on a roller coaster just going like this and I'm looking at my friend being like, and it's like, you know, it's 10 minutes in. And I'm like, and we can't speak to these men. I've never met because the music's so loud.

And I'm just like, I am in hell. What is this other species that I have been bred to be attracted to? Like, you know what I mean? I'm like, this is biology is sickening. I don't agree. I'd like, I'd like passage to another place. Anyways, we arrive at the movie theater

and it's like packed and so it's assigned seats and there's only two sets of assigned seats left on the theater. And he goes, oh yeah, Blair, you sit with me. And so like, I'm with this guy. I don't even know. I am sweating so intensely that I'm almost vomiting from the smell of my own disgusting sweat.

Like, you see your face. I'm sorry to the audience for this episode. There's a graphically vomiting, but no, please continue. Yes, and so it's a 3D movie, and it was like at peak 3D moment in history, where it was just like the 3D was two intense, you know what I'm saying? And then this guy just tries to kiss me

without even knowing him or speaking to him. And my thing with red head is like, I was really into Ron Weasley at the time. And I've later come to know that that had to do with some of his personality characteristics. You know, he was a family man. He loved his friends. He was respectful.

He was caring, you know, but hindsight's 2020. So I'm sorry. Can we address the polite, like, serve that had just happened, which is that you've basically told us that you were both gray and blue and like, showering sweat, like just like a shower of sweat coming from your body. You're stinking to the point where it's making you feel nauseous and someone still tries to kiss you on a date.

Don't think that we missed that humble break because we did it. I'm good for you. I'm sure. Good for you, Queen. I would love to think that it had something to do with me. He was just so tone deaf in a way that of anyone I've never met. And so finally I go, I'm going to have to go switch. And I switch with the guy. So now the two guys are sitting together and I'm gonna have to go switch and I switch with the guys.

So now the two guys are sitting together and I'm sitting with my best friend. I fall asleep on her lap for the rest of the movie. The movie ends. I don't even, I barely remember this. We get up to go into the lobby. We, the first, second that the two guys are coming towards us, I projectile vomit.

Like I am throwing up all in the trash can in the lobby. And there's like a sort of a crowd. There's like a crowd standing there like gathering watching me just heave out of my body and I'm like looking around like fucking shmigol. And this guy again, I do not know what was wrong with him. Oh, he's like, oh, yeah, I was like great hanging out like barely. He's like, I'll be your nurse like barely even acknowledging the train wreck that is occurring and has a minute one.

And he's like, hey, can I get your number? And he asks in front of everyone. And I was like, is he joking? Like he has to be joking. This man's mind is like broken. So I give him my number because he's asking me in front of everyone and I feel guilt, you know? Yeah.

Right. Yeah, which is toxic, you know, to be like, in her moment of vulnerability, she will give a number. What else is she gonna do? She's on well. Wait, wait, there are two lenses of this, which is only now starting to occur to me. There's just one we have been very hard on this man who shouldn't have tried to kiss you without even fucking basically knowing your name. But also, it sounds like maybe there's a possibility

that he just really, really, really liked you. Cause this is insane. After watching you project our vomit, after all of that, he's still trying it. Or he's very desperate. Or that is also his kink. And we found some people who were very into vomiting women in this episode. If you like someone,

you don't put them through Ridler's Revenge. 100. Beautiful. 100 movie stars. That's why you described. That's why Ridler's Revenge. 100. Beautiful. 100 movie stars. That's why you described. That's why Riddler's Revenge, six flags is literally techno. Your other is a red head.

Riddler's also red. It was not like a gentle sexy techno. This was a violent techno. This was like, oh yeah. This is a lunatic. This passes a lunatic. I take it back. Yeah.

It was what he said I'll be your nest. It was when he said I'll be your nurse. It was when he said I'll be your nurse. I was like, is he nice? Maybe. Yeah, for some tits and ass. Is it, was there a lot of like based on the music? Because it was a really like vibrating music. He was he trying to get you horny?

Was that what? No, it was like guantanamo-be-shit. Like this man, he can have like a good soul, you know? And so then I, we make it out alive. Like, I mean, I told him I was, I had to have been honest like the second I got in his weird white BMW, where I was like, look, I'm very sorry about this.

I'm extremely hungover, whatever. So we, the date ends after I just, after I vomit everywhere publicly in front of this man, given my number, go home, finally get the relief of going to sleep. I wake up to like 40 text messages and like miss calls from my brother. And my brother was like, did you give a guy named Teddy my number. Ha ha ha ha ha ha. And I did not do this on purpose.

You would think I did, but my brother's number is one digit off from mine. They, I'm like, my brother's growing up. They loved like pranking me. They loved pranking the guys I was with. They would like throw guys in the trash can at high school that were walking with me like that type of vibe. So goes on and on back and forth with this guy

and this guy was like, does she usually do this to guys? Does she usually give you her number? And like my brother was like, man, there's a lot of other fish in the sea. It's seeming like it didn't work out. She threw up on you and like they have this conversation. It ends with the guy being like, thanks bro. If you're ever up in a lead, love to hang out with you.

And I'm like, what? You guys have been through the fucking wars with your stomach lining. Good Lord. Bad dates. And before you go, can I just kindly read you a story from one of our listeners? Please. This is Holly. So she says, I had just started dating this really, and she says really in cap-slok, really cute guy. And I thought I was already enough with him. Prior to the day I was nervous,

and I started eating something that gave me horrible harbour and to the point that I think I'm gonna bath. So I called a friend and asked her what to do, and she said to drink a bunch of milk to coat my stomach and cure my harbour. So I go to the store and I buy some milk, and I drink about half a gallon of milk, and my date arrived soon after.

About 10 minutes after he arrived, I remembered that I'm lactose intolerant. So the silent farting starts almost immediately and I keep going to the bathroom to avoid farting in front of my date. After about 15 minutes, the explosive diarrhea starts and there's no amount of coughing or fake sneezing in the bathroom that covers up the sound. And of course, the smell is wafting into the room where he's patiently waiting for me and there's just no hiding what's happening. My date eventually says he's not feeling well and that he needs to go home and I start crying him and telling him that I know that I stink and that I'm sorry.

I told him what happened and apologized for my lactose intolerant. And my date stared me right in the eye and said, if you're lactose intolerant, why did you drink milk? And then he went home. That was 28 years ago. And that date's name is Sean and Sean and I just celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary. Oh my gosh. Wow.

I love it. Okay, Sean. When the misery ends in marriage, that makes me really happy. You know, or like the trauma makes them bond instead of never see each other ever again. But she said he left initially, right? He left.

Yeah. Yeah. And you know what? I think that's actually good for her dignity. You know what? I mean, you know what? I'll just stick that out for her dignity. You know what? I mean, you know, I think you stick that out, like give a woman some time alone with her ourselves sometimes, you know what I mean? Yeah, I also like to take that.

I like that he called her out too, like he was very honest. Why would you do this? I really appreciate that story, Holly, and congratulations on 25 years of marriage. Jesus Christ. You're all a dream. This is a completely repulsive episode. I love every second of it. You're all unhinged, unwell. Yeah, but so much fun. Thank you so much and lots of love. Before you go, will you tell everyone where they can find you and if there's anything of yours that we should watch, starting with Artsko? Oh my gosh, with all these terrifying men out there, this is where you can find me.

I always think about that as comedians. Yes, please give your address. No, but at any given time, you know where we're performing and what time. So I'm always like, don't give that idea, let's go. I know you're right, but like, do they listen to this podcast? Maybe they do. Who knows?

They're always trying to do research. I'm just at atscoacomedy.com or atscoacomedy on my socials. Amazing. A Nikki? You can nikidasharban.com or the Nikki Urban on socials. Thank you, and blah.

I have a special, my first debut special coming out on Veepe. Yeah. Oh, December 1st. So, yeah, my socials are at BlairSocky, BLA, IRSOCCI, and the link in how you can access my special is in the bio of all my social media. So I would love if you guys checked it out December 1st and after. Everyone go do that. Alright, lots of love guys, stay safe out there.

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