Barbell Shrugged - Feed Me Fuel Me — Intuitive Clairvoyance w/ Julie Farha  — 83

Episode Date: April 19, 2018

Julie Farha is one of the Nation’s most sought out intuition experts. She understands the importance of intuition and teaches people and companies how to apply it to everyday life and decision-making. She also has over 10 years of global experience as a recognized intuitive expert, speaker, corporate trainer and author. Julie has coached hundreds of people, including professionals, executives and leaders. She has delivered business and corporate workshops across multiple industries as well as personal group events and transformative programs. Julie noticed her heightened awareness as a young girl. In this episode, she explains the gift of intuitive clairvoyance and how it affects all of us. She covers the specific areas of the body in which intuition speaks to us, as well as the forms it can be recognized in, and much more. Enjoy! – Jeff and Mycal ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Please support our partners! Thrive Market is a proud supporter of us here at Barbell Shrugged.  We very much appreciate all they do with us and we’d love for you to support them in return!  Thrive Market has a special offer for you. You get $60 of FREE Organic Groceries + Free Shipping and a 30 day trial, click the link below: https://thrivemarket.com/feedme How it works:  Users will get $20 off their first 3 orders of $49 or more + free shipping.  No code is necessary because the discount will be applied at checkout. Many of you will be going to the store this week anyway, so why not give Thrive Market a try! ► Subscribe to Shrugged Collective's Channel Here http://bit.ly/BarbellShruggedSubscribe 📲 🎧 Listen to the audio version on the Apple Podcast App or Stitcher for Android Here- http://bit.ly/BarbellShruggedApple http://bit.ly/BarbellShruggedStitcher Shrugged Collective is a network of fitness, health and performance shows that help people achieve their physical and mental health goals.  Usually in the gym, but outside as well. In 2012 they posted their first Barbell Shrugged podcast and have been putting out weekly free videos and podcasts ever since. Along the way we've created successful online coaching programs including The Shrugged Strength Challenge, The Muscle Gain Challenge, FLIGHT, Barbell Shredded, and Barbell Bikini. We're also dedicated to helping affiliate gym owners grow their businesses and better serve their members by providing owners tools and resources like the Barbell Business Podcast. Find Shrugged Collective and their flagship show Barbell Shrugged here: SUBSCRIBE ON ITUNES ► http://bit.ly/ShruggedCollectiveiTunes WEBSITE ► https://www.ShruggedCollective.com INSTAGRAM ► https://instagram.com/shruggedcollective FACEBOOK ► https://facebook.com/barbellshruggedp... TWITTER ► http://twitter.com/barbellshrugged

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This is episode number 83 of the Feed Me, Fuel Me podcast with our special guest, owner of Clear Insight, Julie Farha. Welcome to the Feed Me, Fuel Me podcast. My name is Jeff Thornton, alongside my co-host, Michael Anders. Each week, we bring you an inspiring person or message related to our three pillars of success. Manifestation, business, fitness, and nutrition. Our intent is to enrich, educate, and empower our audience to take action, control, and accountability for their decisions. Thank you for allowing us to join you on your journey. Now let's get started.

Hey, what's good crew? Welcome to episode 83 of the Feed Me, Fuel Me podcast. There's Jeff coming at you from Scottsdale, Arizona with Julie Farha. She is an intuitive clairvoyant. And for those of you who don't know what it is, I made sure to clarify with her before we got on the air. The way I explain that is she can't tell you your future per se, but she can point out the forks in the road that can potentially be coming your way. I know Julie from my time at the village right after I got out of the Marine Corps.

She took my spin class once or twice. And we just so happened to reconnect up in Telluride when I was up there with my family. And a little known fact about Julie and I's relationship, way back when she caught me in the coffee shop. I think I was nose deep in a textbook as I was working on my master's. And she kind of just conversationally gave me a reading. And here we are five years later. We connect up in Telluride.

And, you know, I've been wanting to call you so many times over the last five years to tell you that everything that we talked about in the coffee shop that day has happened or is happening at this point in my life. And it's insane. But for everybody, we'll dive into a little bit of that here a little bit later. But for everybody who doesn't know who you are, where you're from, and how you became who you are, can you kind of give us the cliff notes of your journey up to this point? Sure, sure. Happy to do that. Happy to be here. Thank you. Happy to have you. I am originally from Wichita, Kansas, actually, and from a Middle Eastern family, went to Catholic schools, your typical Midwestern upbringing. And I remember when I was around eight years old, I was telling Ders this story that my mother had said to me one day, Aunt Marlene is coming in town.

And that's usually an exciting bit of news because we loved this aunt and her family. They were a lot of fun. And it was always exciting when they were coming to town. So I remember having a very different response to that news that day. I got a very funny feeling and it felt like, no, no, she's not coming. And I actually had a physical sensation in my stomach when I got that answer. Didn't really give it much thought. And then the weekend comes along that Aunt Marlene was supposed to come. And lo and behold, she did not show up. That was my first recollection of having the ability to have some information that wasn't told to me and receiving it in a unique way. And I remember thinking, wow, this is really cool.

This is kind of different. I think I'm going to use it to help people someday. I don't know what it is, but it's really cool. So then fast forward throughout my childhood. I had a few other little experiences like that here and there and didn't really give it much thought. Then in my early 20s, I started my own journey of personal growth, spiritual growth, self-discovery

as I'm making my way in the world out of college. I actually went to ASU. And that's when I started realizing, oh, this is intuition. I have a heightened intuition. Some may call it psychic, whatever you want to call it. And then I began to realize how my intuition worked for me. Everyone has intuition. For some, it's more natural. For others, it's a skill you can learn. And it can work a little differently for everyone. So I learned how mine worked. I learned what it felt like, how to interpret the information I was receiving, and how to apply it to my life and to use it to help other people with their own need for guidance and direction and answers, actually.

It's wild like if if you've never had a reading you know it or if you think the best way i can equate like what it could pop what it could feel like for those that you don't know if you went and got your palm read and then you just went on about your life and you never kept that as a conscious memory. And then out of nowhere, something happens to you and you're like, holy shit, the, the, the palm reader told me that this was going to happen. And it kind of just validates the entire experience. Um, you know, when you gave me that, that reading, I didn't even know you were reading me. Honestly, I thought we were just having a conversation and you were just like, you know, when you gave me that, that reading, I didn't even know you were reading me.

Honestly, I thought we were just having a conversation and you were just like, you know, a lot of the, the dialogue that we had was, you know, I sense this about you. I feel this, you know, it's, it's very, it, uh, how is that gift for you? How heavy is that gift? Cause I feel like, you know, whoever you come in contact with, I mean, you spent two minutes with Jeff before we got on the air and you were like, are you a Virgo? You're really grounded. Whatever you're doing right now seems really muddy. Oh, I'm trying to get this out the ground it's just like all these you like pass through all these filters almost immediately with people that you just meet and people that you connect with and like does that come in in levels for you i'm asking you 10 000 questions right now but that's okay well first let me just say i don't

do that automatically with people so i don't want anyone to be uncomfortable about that. But I got permission for them when I got here to do that. So when you said sensory, that was a really good way to put it because I'm very kinesthetic. I don't see things like some people see auras. I don't see them, but I feel them. So when I'm getting the information, it's literally a kinesthetic sensation. And I use that to guide me excuse me, to what the information is it's like a big ball of yarn everybody comes to me at

and then I find a piece to pull out and go from there and it can happen automatically when I come in contact with people but I've learned to tune it out and shut it down a little bit because if someone isn't asking me, it's rude to do that, to read someone, it's not if someone isn't asking me it's rude

to do that to read someone it's intrusive it's arrogant it's just not it's it lacks integrity sure so i make a conscious effort not to do that when i can and sometimes it just happens and i simply just dismiss it but it can get a little weighty sometimes i'm told things that are a little uncomfortable um sometimes it comes with being very kinesthetic can also have a sense of empathic ability to it a lot of people are empathic sure you are empathic by the way what's what's what that means is you are able to absorb other people's emotions and energies and the it's a gift yet it can also be a challenge in the sense that you have to know where you end and other people begin.

For example, you all can't see my hand gestures on this thing, I know. So I am putting my hands around me like a bubble. So like where your bubble, for example, for a visual, ends, where your space, your energy bubble ends, and other people begin because people infiltrate that with their own energies and emotions It's it's automatic. It's not something they intend to do It's just something that happens and you have the ability to absorb that So if you don't know where you end and where they begin you can get really overwhelmed with other people's stuff Mmm, and that can also happen being kinesthetic and reading people or automatically reading people

So sure the more it with time and practice I've learned to stay in my own bubble, I stay more grounded, I have my own practice every day that I do to keep me in that space so that I don't get overwhelmed by the information that I get. Mm. So. Interesting, and what are some of the signs that you read when you're working with somebody, or does it switch from person to person? Like the physical traits or the way they speak or deliver a message like you mean

how does it how do i get it yeah how do you get it like do you hear like tentative and like people's voice get tentative when they speak and like oh like like for instance when i mentioned the business like oh it's it sounds sort of muddy was that just the way like the inflections or no had nothing to do with you okay with what you said i should say let me clarify that it had to do with with when you mentioned it i felt this energy come through and then i have to decipher what that means i have to interpret what that means that's interesting and and it felt just felt muddy ah so sometimes it might feel if you if you're really in the flow of it it will feel like a flow would feel like a light movement you're not quite there yet because it's it's beginning yeah so that's just a natural state for you to be and this is what i do when i'm working with people is illuminate

these things so they can understand why things are the way they are so they can take this information and change what they can accept what they have to and tools to do both of those things if necessary it's like i in my my information is simply magnetic north you're holding the compass and you do what you want what was it i just gave you the whole map oh that makes a lot of sense and so you get an understanding of things in ways you didn't know before yeah and some nuances that you didn't know that really help you have a full picture yeah and um sometimes it's simply a matter of just pulling back and waiting a bit sometimes that information just gives you that kind of

answer that's interesting and does div does energy have weights to it like um very much so really and what's that feel like to you when you know that's a good question that was my uh a friend of mine was asking me yesterday this young lady she's close to is in a new relationship and she's like, I don't get a good feeling about this guy. No, she didn't even tell me that. She didn't even tell me that. She said, I want to get your read on this guy. And so she just gave me his first name and I had this very heavy feeling in my solar

plexus, in my stomach area, which to me I interpret as this guy's not up and up there's something to be cautious something to be cautious I can't always tell specific details so sometimes it can physically feel heavy but that's how I determine what the information is heavy doesn't necessarily mean bad it can also mean no if someone's asking me a yes or no question it can be no it can be in action the The light, the warmth, the movement feeling is more of a, it just gives me a different information. Like my girlfriend yesterday, she's having her

sales meeting, a national sales meeting this week and she was asking me, she said, hey, I'm up for this potential award. Do you think I'm going to get it? And it felt very light and it felt very light to me. I was afraid to say yes, because I really wanted it for her and I knew she really wanted it. So I just said, well,

it feels like it's really possible. I was rather vague, but that was my own personal attachment to that. So, and she actually won. That's cool. Yeah. Yeah. That's super interesting. Yeah. And how you mentioned it was in your solar plexus. Did I say it correctly? Solar plexus, your stomach. When you felt that energy, does it happen anywhere like any other sensations around your body or any other extremities that's a good question um okay so it varies sometimes i feel it when i'm teaching people how to use their intuition which is sometimes what i do i tell them your intuition speaks to you in three very specific areas you'll get a physical sensation in your solar plexus, your chest, or all over. For me, it varies, and sometimes it just all kind of comes at me at once,

and so I've got to figure it out. So it just varies. Okay. Yeah, I know that's a little bit vague, but that time I felt it here. Sometimes I feel it all over. Right. Sometimes I just get the little nuances and pull them out and read them and interpret them. Just being able to decipher that message. Yeah.

And something I've had to learn, part about the intuition training is you learn the difference between your emotion, your intellect, and your intuition because they all feel different and they're giving you different information. When I'm reading for someone, sometimes your emotion is what you want. Your intellect is what you should do, what you need. When I'm reading for someone, what I want for them sometimes can interfere what, what I think they need can interfere. So I have, but it feels different. I have learned to recognize when my own attachment to that person I care about is really what I'm getting. That information is

motivated by that and not really my, my intuitive or psychic ability. So when I recognize that now very quickly, it doesn't happen very often anymore. So when I recognize that now very quickly, it doesn't happen very often anymore, then I just take a few breaths and get back into center and then the truth comes through and I can put that aside. But that feels different too. Okay. Yeah.

Wow. Do you feel kind of this almost a first responder type of responsibility where if you're having a conversation, uh, and, you know, there's just that, the soloplexis like red flag spider sense thing going off. Do you, I know you don't impose a reading on somebody, but do you ever, you know, uh, uh, rather fervently, uh, request that their permission to read them so they can get some information that may like Assist in an immediate need that may they may not see coming it varies

Scenarios like that there is there has been a couple with close friends. I do If it's there's a fine line to between playing God is how I put it Sure, I had an experience a year and a half ago where I got a very strong Unique message that has never happened to me before that a tragedy would be follow some people that I care about Mm-hmm I dismissed it because I didn't want to know but yeah couldn't say hey by the way something may happen because that's too vague And what if I'm wrong sure so I just I you know, wished for the best and put it aside. And two days later, I got a phone call about a major tragedy that happened to this family. Oh my goodness.

And that doesn't happen very often, fortunately, because that, that doesn't help me help them. Right. So I'm glad I don't get that a lot because I don't know what I would do if that happened on a regular basis. But, but I, the point to my comment is I wouldn't know what to say to them to help them prevent something. And sometimes it's simply information. Right.

I had one lady I was working with one time tell me that she's afraid to follow her own inner guidance because years ago she had her husband and her two sons wanted to go. They lived up north somewhere and they wanted to go snowmobiling on ice or something and she had a very bad feeling about it and her they were all like no we're fine it's not a big deal there won't be a problem but she still had a very bad feeling about it and they went and her sons were killed oh my gosh so sometimes there's nothing you can do about it it's just

simply information yeah and that's you know there's, there's a discomfort with that, but you take it with, you take that with the good that comes out of it. Sure. It can be a little exhausting though. I can imagine. At what point in, in your journey, did you decide that, you know, I mean, you obviously discovered very early that you had this gift, but at what point did you decide that you had a responsibility to make this a career? That's a good question. I've always helped friends and family with this. And, you know, it was a bit of a struggle for me to actually make this as a career because, because it is to me as gift and a higher calling and all that, and yet asking for money in return.

There was a little bit of a leap. I think that's very common when people do what I do and they have certain gifts. But yet it's an energy exchange that needs to take place. I give you this, you give me this, whatever their exchange may be. So there's an integrity in there that I've learned to, I've learned more it's more about integrity than actually exploiting something you know for

money um but i started doing it for money really just about probably a few years before you and i talked okay and uh how is how is i guess how is business suddenly just crazy I mean usually it goes in waves you know there's kind of ebbs and flows because people don't come to me every month or every week

they come to me as needed and you know if you need me every week well then you're not doing your own work and you know we got to talk about that

so but lately it's just been it's just been booming people are last year was a really difficult year for a lot of people. It was a year of transition in very unique ways for people. And because I feel that this year we're moving into a new way of living and a new way of being.

And so everything kind of had to crumble last year for us to find and rebuild this new life, so to speak new existence and so people are struggling and they need some answers and I think that that's why it's just crazy right now it's great though I love it well I'm sorry they're suffering let me read no I mean the the integrity of it all is also intriguing in the sense that you have to have such a level of trust for people to give that can lead up to whatever the good or the bad outcome could possibly be? Because I feel like based on our conversations and my dialogue with you, that these are all things that are out there in the ether. And they are possibilities should you decide to follow certain courses of action, or if you pivot just a little bit to the left, a little bit to the right, that'll change everything completely.

Is that accurate? It is, it is. So when I'm giving you the whole picture, that whole picture comes with a bunch of different possibilities, as you say, and options and potential outcomes. So we talk about the potential outcomes. I can't really dictate which outcome is going to happen.

I mean, I can see the outcome of this if you stay on this path. And I illuminate that in, I don't make things negative, but I'm not Pollyanna. If I don't see it, I don't say it. I'm very direct, yet very compassionate. But I try, I don't make things negative because'm very direct yet very compassionate. Um, but I try, I don't make things negative because it doesn't have to be. It's really about choices and action and inner introspection, learning more about who you are, how you're wired, what you need to heal and release as well to get you where you want to go or to accept what you need to accept. And, and that

whole, the whole journey that comes with that. So I try to keep things a little more positive because it really is ultimately the case. I did have, when I was very young, one of my initial teachers said to me, she said, Julie, if you ever get a reading and someone tells you someone's going to die, you get up and you leave. She said, because no one should tell you things like that because it's playing God and they might be wrong. So that was my first lesson in integrity. Right.

And you can get a, like I've had a feeling of when something was going to happen. I've had some dreams about some people and you just keep it to yourself. Just keep it to yourself. That's heavy too. A little bit, yeah.

That's interesting. But yet it also helped me because my father was sick for some time before he passed and I was going back home every month to see him and I would tune in and say, okay, am I going to see him again? Am I going to see him again? And I would always know and I was going back home every month to see him and I would tune in and say, okay, am I going to see him again? Am I going to see him again? And I would always know. And I was never wrong. And then the last time, right before my last trip, I asked myself

when I left Wichita that one of the last times I said, okay, am I going to see him again? And I got yes, but he might not see you, but I'll see him. And yet it was able to be, it worked out where he was still present and able to recognize me that very last time. But I knew that that was the last time. Oh, boy. That's crazy. Yeah, that's a little, but it helped me. It really helped me to kind of know what to do.

That's really happy. I didn't ask too much because I know there was only so much I could do. Sure, yeah. And I didn't want to, anyway, you're so attached to that. You can't always trust what you're getting. Well, you know, what's also interesting about own destiny from the standpoint that I have a deeper trust in my intuition. And based on our conversations,

you've kind of illuminated, as you say, the presence of individuals that will try to be a part of my life or my progression in business that may or may not have to be there. And that may or may not be helpful. Correct. And when I feel that, to trust that, whether it be good or bad. And I think that if it's happening for me I

know for sure it's got to be happening for other people where they feel just so more a lot more confident in the decisions they make that impact the unknown and you know as you as you said last year was such a transitional period for people there's a lot of question marks out there that are can only be answered by making decisions and a lot of question marks out there that are, can only be answered by making decisions. And a lot of people don't make decisions when faced with that, that unknown. So now, you know, you get, you give people potentially the confidence to stare the unknown in the face and make a decision and kind of let everything manifest as a result. And I

think that's super cool thank you thank you that's a big part of why i love doing this because one of the biggest things that comes out of this for people is a better a deeper understanding of themselves of their own gifts and and their own confidence even grows out of this whole process and you know ideally you would never need me you know ultimately you'll learn all this yourself and you know and um have more confidence in yourself but you might just need a little insight here and there but that's what i love because you really get a stronger sense of self so it's not so much about me showing you all these things i know and how fabulous i am it's about me showing you have me holding up the mirror and showing you who you are ah interesting and you

mentioned your teacher where you learned that that that first gift of, uh, what was it? Um, intuition. Well, she really wasn't my teacher. She was just a psychic that I knew growing up. It was a dear friend. And she's, so I just use her as my teacher because I paid attention to what she would say. Okay. Awesome. How many teachers or mentors have you had throughout the process of you as you continue to grow your skill and learn further and further it's a good question jeff i've had them along the way also because so one of the one of my biggest jobs in this work is my own discipline in my own practice and because i have to be clear and grounded and walk my walk, talk my talk, work on my own stuff so I can help others do it too. And so my teachers have been those kind of teachers

that have helped me with that journey through the years. And now my teachers are now more everybody else. And the reflection they're showing me and my own experience is, OK, this is what I'm so stuck on, or this is repeating, or this is really working. So now life is my teacher more than individuals have been but i've had a lot of individuals and readings and studies and things like that that have helped me and i've been studying this stuff since gosh i was you know early 20s wow a long time let me just say it's

the difference my age here for a long time so that's cool. And as a clairvoyant, do you need your own clairvoyant or somebody that can read you? Oh, sure. Because you get so attached to your own situations. I get inklings for myself, of course. But if there's something I'm really attached to, I call a friend. I have a couple of friends that are gifted as well. I say, hey, what do you get on this? What do you get on that?

And we do that for each other. That's interesting. It's hard to read for yourself sometimes you know i use my intuition and my own ability as a guide with my work and stuff every day um but for more personal things i definitely need some insight yeah really interesting i think i think that's that's huge that's a huge sign of growth and discipline on your point on your part to recognize that, you know, even within the realm of your profession on a personal level, you still need coaching and guidance. Oh, yeah. And all that stuff to kind of get out of your own way and, you know, create a path for yourself as well while you spend so much time doing it for others.

Yeah. We all need to feed and be fed. Right. You know, feed me, fuel me. Exactly. Feed me, fuel me. That's so cool. Do you find the time, like, when you get done with the reading, say it's like a really heavy

reading, where you have to sort of cleanse yourself of that energy? Yes. Very much so. What's that process like? Well, this might sound a little strange hearing it audially, but I'll explain it. So I do a lot of, I don't know where you all want to go with this. Take it as far. Take it all the way.

Okay. Okay. So part of the, a big part of my practice is working with energies from the higher power. Okay. Some see God in their own way. I feel, because I'm so kinesthetic, I feel God is the highest vibration that exists. It's an energy. So I call that highest energy into me and exists. It's an energy. So I call

that highest energy into me and it clears me and cleanses me. I call it into people as well. That's how I quote pray. And it's really about the calling and the energies and changing the energies of a situation and of me. So I do that. A lot of times when I'm doing something like that, I'll, I'll move, I'll like rock back and forth or rotate because it just happens automatically, but it moves the energy through me to clear me. A lot of times, well, usually when I'm reading for someone, I doodle. It's funny. It tends to be circles and sometimes they change their pattern, but because that keeps the energy flowing in the reading as well as through me. Wow. Interesting.

Yeah. If I'm having a challenging conversation with someone that's not professional that you know i doodle because it just keeps everything flowing yeah salt baths help me a lot too sure i also have an energy healer that i use and she's great so nice yeah wow that's incredible yeah so i didn't mean i didn't know if you want to go on that spiritual path but to me that's the energy of that vibration that i work with and i call in and because it moves stuff out and through you and and through other people. Yeah. I feel like that's an important piece going into the spiritual aspect of it.

Okay. I just didn't know where you guys wanted to go. No, no. Because we love hearing all about that. Well, and I do that with people that I work with. I do it with my friends. I do it with my family. I just do that automatically.

I do it when I'm walking my dog. I do that automatically. It just kind of keeps everything off of you. But sometimes it's hard to shake. One really good thing, little tip, is one of the best ways to clear yourself is take a 20 minute nap it totally resets you really yeah or if you're just in a really bad space and you don't know what to do next with the situation or something just go lay down that's so counterintuitive for someone who is active and focused and driven and pushing, yeah, sure. Yeah, the last thing I would want to do to create that is to stop moving.

So that's. You just got to reset it because sometimes when you're in that muck like that, you're so covered with it, you cannot see anything else. You can't see solutions. And so you just go lay down. And sometimes even I can feel my energy center is kind of moving and it's cool. Yeah. Yeah That's awesome. So 20 minute naps guys. Yeah, just 20 minutes. Don't get too comfortable. So you don't sleep too long. I would assume that most people that

seek your gift are Open to hearing whatever it is that you read, has it ever, I guess, backfired where you started walking somebody down a path and they were just fighting you tooth and nail on what you were reading? Does that happen at all? I can feel when there's some resistance to what I'm saying. Yeah, resistance.

And people are never rude about it, but I just tell them it's not really up to me to... I've had to let go of being attached to what they hear and if they receive it well. That was a practice for me because I want, you know, so as one of my actually medical practitioners said, how did he put it? You want to help them yet with detachment, you know, compassion with detachment. So I can't be attached to how they take it. Okay.

Yeah. Right. I mean, they know I'm coming from the highest place and if they're not ready to hear it, that's up to them too. They have that choice. Right. I mean, I they know I'm coming from the highest place. And if they're not ready to hear it, that's that's up to them to have that. Sure. So you give people the power. We were just talking about the the the power or the gift of fear, that book, which I'll throw in my queue pretty, pretty soon. I'll just add it to the list but um you're it seems like you really really give people the gift of choice that's a nice way to put it these are all the you know now it's in now it's in your hands do with it what you will but

this is what I see seems to be the the the summary of how a session ends up you know and not everybody's comfortable with that choice with having choices the summary of how a session ends up, you know. And not everybody's comfortable with that choice with having choices. No, man, that's just that. Is that it becomes my it becomes your problem. You got to take care of somebody else's fault. It's crazy. Do people because I see it in fitness all the time. People resist ownership of their circumstance.

Now, with this this this new gift of information and options and choices do you see that as well like oh for sure is there like this revelation that occurs in in a reading where people are like holy shit it's not my fault you know all these all these things are happening to me. And then there's a point in the reading where they're like, you help them come full circle with the idea that yes,

as a byproduct of the choices that you make, this is what the universe is reciprocating. It's always offered, but not always received. But if somebody comes to me with the same situation over and over and over again that's when I'm like okay I can't help them because they're not really they're not ready to do the work and yeah so and that's that's certainly their choice too yeah

but I had a little anecdote here I have a client in LA years ago he ago, he had the opportunity to invest in this company that had the potential to be very lucrative. And he didn't have a good feeling at all about the partner at all. But the money potential was huge. So he followed the money, as most people do. Sure. And what's turned out to be very good for him in a short amount of time. He had 300 and some employees. He was bringing in a short amount of time. He had 300-some employees. He was bringing in a tremendous amount of income.

And yet, because of the partner, he almost landed in jail, and the company's gone. Wow. So that's when I first met him, when he was going through all of that legal stuff. So over the years, he's called me regularly, and what's happened as a result of our working together is now he trusts his own guidance more and more and more.

It's layers of things we talk about now. First it was more on the surface. Now it's more layers of him that he's getting to and more information he's getting about the players around him. He'll go into a meeting and he'll call me and say, hey, what's going to happen here? And I give him what I got. But now he doesn't make a big decision without getting a clear yes. And if he's not real sure what he's getting, he'll call me. And I usually just end up validating what he already knows. We've worked together so long. But it's totally changed how he does business.

That's super interesting. So you can do a reading via telephone. It doesn't have to be in person. I usually do them over the phone. Really? Because most of my people aren't here. That's interesting. Does it work the same either way, like in person compared to telephone?

Same. Absolutely. Now, the more I read for you, the more familiar I am with you. So there's more places we can go. But you can ask me about someone. And I don't typically intrude on other people. But if it's directly related to a situation you're currently dealing with, then I can give you some insight about their role in it

So that you know how what you might need to do to address this or to to manage it a little differently Wow, that's super interesting. Yeah, where are you at with? plant medicine and where I'm going with this a couple of years ago, I did a retreat and We had a shaman guided ps uh, psilocybin experience, uh, a mushroom trip. And, uh, you know, over the course of three hours, you know, I was able to, uh, work my way through, you know, what I would say is roughly 15 years of bullshit, you know, like the, the deep issues that either you ignore or they

weigh on you and they inhibit your, your ability to, to move forward and do the things that you really want to do. Um, does hat does that, or has that, you know, that chemical freedom that you get from you know plants and mushrooms and ayahuasca and those things have you played with any of that along the way to help free up your Your intuition and help you be deeper within yourself because everybody I know that plays in that that that universe That's their medium to help get to what you're talking about. No, I haven't.

I haven't done that. But what I've become more and more aware of is the impact that foods are having on my own energy field. Oh, okay. Yeah. Like just food. Yes. Okay. It was funny.

I was joking with you. I said, well, you know, i don't have a glass of wine during the week because it affects you know my clarity a little bit you know i can still push through it but it's just to me it's just an integrity thing but it just it impacts you yeah um so so no not that specifically but i'm becoming more and more aware of how some of these things how how it makes you feel yeah yeah you know what do you what are you most in tune with in terms of like what food affects your ability to to read negatively yeah sure uh sugar okay probably also um alcohol okay yeah and coffee well coffee has a different reaction on me coffee

turns me into an evil person. And I get this creative burst initially. And then about a couple hours later, I get I get a hangover. Yeah. I just I can't find anything. And I feel like it's funny. I used to feel like there were pins and needles on my energy field. And this one practitioner that I know, she said, I just read how they said that coffee creates spikes in your aura. So I don't know if that's true or not, but it was interesting correlation because that's how it makes me feel that's interesting i don't do that at all and then what if i if i ate really cleanly yeah forever or like for months at a time i would probably recognize even more what would impact me sure um but i just i'm lazy yeah i'm just not that disciplined so as you as you dial it in what foods have you noticed help with your eating?

Well, I've been a vegetarian since I was 14. Okay. That's more choice. So I can't tell you the impact of meat. I will say, though, sometimes my body doesn't eat it, so I still don't eat it, but it grounds me. The denser proteins ground me sure drinking a lot of water helps me a lot because it also calms your central nervous system right so that I when I have a day when I feel really fuzzy I I

drink a lot of water just it just sort of seems to move everything through part of a class kind of cleansing as well. Yeah, a little bit, yeah. Yeah. And the days I eat more clean, I just notice a difference. Sure. My mood is lighter. Yep.

You know. Huh. It's funny that. And I love sugar, unfortunately. Well, no, it's interesting because, you know, we spend a lot of time on this show, you know, having these kind of discussions with people that play in the the fitness arena and all the things that affect you on a physical level seem to affect you on a a um a a spiritual universal intuitive level as well where you know i could see that you know somebody who doesn't have your gift you know, I could see that, you know, somebody who doesn't have your gift, you know, their intuition could be, uh, muddied. And since we're using that word a lot today,

uh, just based on their nutritional habits. Oh, absolutely. You know, they, they say that, you know, the, the cleaner you eat, the, the clearer you're able to think. But I think that if we take it one step further, that also plays into, you know, your ability to acknowledge your intuition and, you know, follow it thereafter. Why are you able to think more clearly? And what else does that impact? Exactly. One of the things I talk about when I tell people about using their intuition is becoming more in the moment, more present. Yeah. And one of the ways you do that,

well, when you're more present and more in the moment, you can feel your own inner guidance more automatically and more regularly and more instantly. And one of the things I talk about is your reactions to foods. And people with food allergies are really aware of this. Okay. Because if your body's reacting to a food, your body's in stress mode,

so you can't be as present because your body's reacting to that and so it's it's very similar to what you're yeah that whole process you're talking about i've never thought that i mean it makes perfect sense and that's an easy dot to connect yeah you know to to take it to the level and the the world that you play in that's i think that's pretty interesting that's interesting yeah And for somebody trying to get more like in tune with themselves, like how big do dreams play into like somebody's life? How, how real are they?

Or do they, yeah. How valid, how valid are dreams? I'll give you my opinion of that. I can't, you know, I can't say that I'm an expert,

but it's kind of like, what diet should I follow? It's very opinion driven. Possibly. Yeah. I mean, some there's, you know, psychology behind dreams and there's more metaphysics behind dreams. I believe that dreams can do a couple of things. I believe they can show you where you are on a subconscious level

with something you're processing or experiencing. It can show you when you're in fear about something or when you're working through something, It can illuminate that. Yeah, I Believe it can be informative as well. Mmm. I highly believe in the power of dreams sometimes they can be prophetic yeah, and If you're had like a fear dreams are often about something you're experiencing in your reality that is obviously fearful for you So it can be it can be informational like recognize what your dream is telling you, especially if it's a repeated dream so you can get the message.

It's more abstract, they're metaphorical, they're symbolic. Like I've had dreams when somebody was gonna pass and it comes sooner rather in more of a metaphorical way. It's not real obvious. Yeah. That's super interesting. What does that metaphor look like? Well, in this particular case because it truly varies with each dream

each bit of information, but the person was She was elderly and was very sick Sure, so this was not a surprise But she I said had a dream about her I walked into her house and she was laying in bed with her mate who had died 20 years prior So got it and it had a certain resonance to it like visiting dreams if you dream about someone who's passed It feels different when it's actually a visit from that person or when it's just a dream about that person. Holy shit So to put that into context my dad passed passed, it's 2018, 10 years ago.

Okay. Right? And so now that you've brought that to consciousness, there is a very distinguishable difference between when he visits me and when I just have a dream about, like a memory of him. You know, I've never put that into context before, but they do feel different. Let me ask you this, Michael. Have you noticed when the dreams are of, that are a visit, does he speak? Yes.

Okay. Like we have a session, you know, we have a conversation and it's usually us sitting on a curb um i couldn't tell you what's around us but we're sitting on the street on a sidewalk just hanging out yeah they just feel different i can't really explain it something you have to experience and find the in the dreams about him it's more third person yeah a little more removed yeah yeah like a story yeah exactly that's super interesting yeah so it i've never consciously processed the difference between the two you know i've always woken up and just been like oh i dreamt about my dad last night

yeah you know but it was i've never put into words oh no dad visited me last night versus there's the difference between the two so that's just that's crazy that is interesting because i've been sort of i've been wondering about that because before i go to bed i always try to watch something like positive or motivational so it like it influences my thoughts or dreams in a in that manner because i find it like when i watch like a movie that's like a an action-packed stressful type of movie then i'll think of something like or i'll have a dream that's crazy and like what in the world why why was i thinking that during my game of thrones infiltrated my dreams a lot yeah that's the thing i was like are these dreams that are like actually telling me something or is it just because i consumed some type of content before i went to bed and

like that's just on my conscience do you have one in mind that you want to ask about let me see do i have one i haven't had a dream or something else in in fact if that any question you might have bro let's do a reading on the show yeah let's do it let's do it let's do it oh okay yeah might as well um okay so today uh my sister she hit me up with a text saying she had a premonition and said about, she feared for my safety, especially during travel for whatever reason. And saying like, be attentive of your surroundings. And I'm a guy, I vlog a lot with my camera. She said, be very attentive, like, don't worry so much about your video. But I had a very disturbing dream about you last night.

Does she typically have prophetic dreams? Not that I know of. Maybe she just doesn't tell you. She says she's been, she had to get off her chest in a way, but she says she's been having premonitions over the past, I guess, past year or so. Things can activate in people. Yeah. And I was like, I was wondering, and I called, I was like, I was like, I wonder what caused that, you know?

Let me ask you, Jeff. When you heard that, did you get a sensation? I got one of the sensations, I guess. I sort of did. What was it? Did it feel like truth? Have you felt the difference between that knowing and when it's just information? To me, it didn't feel like truth.

It felt more like a fearful thought in a way if that makes any sense it does it very much does yeah like more of like a fearful thought of this like oh maybe there's uh there's truth to it because what's going on in the news what's what's happening but i didn't feel like nervous or anything i was just more of like a thought of like huh i wonder where that came from in a way so i didn't, it's not one of those things I accepted as a truth to me. It was just more like, oh, that was an interesting thought. Okay. Okay.

What I'm feeling about it is that it's more like if you feel like videoing something, if you kind of get the inkling not to, don't do it. Pay attention to that. She's maybe giving you a heads up to pay attention to your own inner guidance of that a little bit for whatever reason, be it, it might upset someone, you might fall off a rock you might twist your ankle it just you know you might miss out on some really cool thing happening because you're videoing your periphery gets blocked out when you're videoing okay for you sometimes because you're you're very kinesthetic too and so sometimes your video is your focus which is cool a lot of things come out of your videoing and your art and all of that.

But sometimes you can miss the periphery, the experience, the sentience experience that you would have yourself. So maybe if there's a way you can merge that both a little bit, just be more aware of what's going on around you. I'm totally digressing from what your sister said. But be a little more aware of what's going on around you. Kinesthetically, audially, open up all of your senses, not just your vision while you're doing the video. You can practice that. You've grounded enough. You can practice that. And it'll just heighten your experience. Interesting. And then you'll get more ideas for your video, for your life, for your business, you might get some clarity on...

You have some questions about your business and some doubts, which is normal with a new business. And opening yourself up this way will help you get those answers and those opportunities and that insight and those other ideas that can pop through that you can't always see because you're so... Your focus can be a little bit rigid when you're videoing because you're focused on the mark, which is why you video yeah there's a

beauty in that too but if you do it if you do it a lot jeff you might miss out ah interesting okay that makes it yeah that makes perfect sense appreciate that interesting insight that's crazy right yeah that's nuts that makes a lot of sense so too bet you don't have a call-in show we might add that to the fire yeah these are like these are the shows i love the most because we've had uh tonya reckla on here um she's she's an energy person yeah she's all about energy reading metaphysical that was the the word i was looking for a little ways ago back. How else does it manifest for you? When you close your eyes, do you, because I know you feel the direction that then comes out of you in guidance and clarity. But when you close your eyes, can you no shit see the picture that you're painting?

Sometimes. So psychic ability comes through knowing, hearing, feeling, or vision. For everybody. Everybody has at least one of those. Some of us have more than one. I, I have all four, but some are much weaker than the others.

Okay. So like that message I told you about the, um, family that was going to have the tragedy that was audio. I heard that specifically in a very specific tone in my right ear. That was unique. That doesn't happen. Right.

Yeah, exactly. the guy that i told you before the recording about the gentleman who had an interesting life on the side i'm telling you man i don't know if i can walk around tapped in the way that you are i wasn't sure if i was really hearing that i'm like did i really just hear that you could say you could tell that story on air if you want to i don't know that people would believe i think it's fucking hilarious okay so i was some years ago i was sitting with a friend who was in town with her company and i

was talking to a gentleman from her work and we were talking a lot about his wife and kids and what they like to do in their activities. And he was a very nice man. I mean, he wasn't at all intrusive or uncomfortable. And all of a sudden, I heard in that same voice that I just mentioned, this man is into hardcore porn and nobody knows about it. And it was shocking to me. And I had to keep my face straight because I wasn't really sure if that's what I heard. And then when I went home and I processed all that, I said, no, I really did hear that.

I'm not sure why I needed to know that, but I really did hear that. But sometimes I can also see images in my mind's eye. The knowing and the feeling are like 100% for me. The other two are a lot weaker. Interesting. Yeah. Now, are you? The more you use it, the more it works for you.

So your level of intuition and your psychic ability related to your, well, back up. Your level of intuition specifically is related to your level of fear or opposite of that is trust. So the more you trust it and yourself, the more it will work for you. And the more you use it, the more you'll trust it and the more loudly and clearly it will come through. Okay. Wow. So for you, your feeling and your knowing are leaps and bounds above hearing and seeing.

Seeing, it's a hearing, knowing, and then seeing is third, and then hearing is fourth. Is there things that you incorporate in your practice to bring those other two up? Or is that even worth your time at this point in the game? Good, I can never sleep if I... Okay. That was my next question. That's a good question. I don't need to.

It requires that much work to even... Well, as you evolve yourself and you raise your own vibration, which is part of my daily practice, all of these gifts we all have all of us amplify they just they accelerate and they grow and they expand okay so these things have expanded like the hearing and the seeing have expanded as i've as i've expanded sure okay and so is actually all four they've just they've just amplified and accelerated yeah that's just

part of what happens when you're on a journey of that kind of growth you know anybody you guys anybody yeah so when when you uh you're learning about this stuff and the the the practice of intuition and reading and stuff like that what does that what does that education look like because it's got to be way more it's i'm dumbing this down because not to sound super ignorant but it's got to be way above you know spending time in the personal growth and development X area of Barnes and Noble you know what I mean like what is how is your education transpired over me personally yeah my spiritual practice. Okay. And, and I think, um, that has been my education because this, because the less fear you have, like I said, the more this comes through to me into psychic

ability is an advanced form of intuition. Everybody's intuitive, not everybody's psychic. So because I have that ability, it just has expanded with my own spiritual evolution. Um, but I think sometimes like when I had that guy, that weird thing about the guy in the porn, that was the first time that it ever happened to me. This was probably 10 years ago, kind of 11 years ago. And I feel that was showing me an advancement because that had never happened before.

So it had to be such an extreme, kind of obnoxious thing I would notice. Like, hey, this could happen now you know so yeah so uh it comes to you sort of in that way too so it's not but truly about your own inner journey that helps it expand sure so it's that's my practice it hasn't been you know a textbook journey no not at all you know uh an academic learn how to learn as i go yeah it's not it's not an academic but you're learning about yourself. Yeah.

So that's been somewhat academic in my spiritual practice and the metaphysics I studied and things I've read over the years. So that's been my study. Yeah. Learning about yourself. Okay. Because these gifts you guys all have, we all have our aspects of ourselves. So the more you learn about you and more so for where you are, it just by default, the

more you learn about that. Wow. Is there a specific routine that you follow to continue to grow in those areas, like on a daily basis? Yeah. It's so changed over the years, Jeff. That's a good question. It's changed a lot over the years.

The material I used to study, I don't study as much. It's great. Now I just do more of the energy movement, like I mentioned before, with calling in the light and calling and moving the energy through. I do more of the energy movement like i mentioned before with calling in the light and calling and moving the energy through i do more of that and being more paying more attention to um my own energies and my own emotions because that's an indicator of what i might need to work on or clear out or address interesting it feels a little narcissistic but you know yeah but that's cool do you find out that does working out help you

oh yeah helps me ground a lot. Really? Yeah. Because I am, that's why I do CrossFit, dude, because I'm so ADD, you know. I don't have the focus. So then I also do yoga, but that helps me get out of my monkey mind because I have a real problem with monkey mind. A lot of people do, but I'm very in my head and that keeps me more on the ground.

That's cool. Yeah. Really cool. What's the difference between like your sensations or feelings that you get between like a CrossFit workout and a yoga workout? Like what are the benefits from each of the ones that you've done? That's a good question. Yoga helps me really ground because it gets me into the breath and the constant movement of the more gentle movement. CrossFit helps me blow off the anxiety and get out of my head and into the earth and out of my head more and get out of the focus

of the chaos and into that short wad, you know? So based on your lifestyle, um, do you choose one or the other on a given day, depending on how you're feeling or is CrossFit where you're at right now? And then you kind of do yoga on the side? Well, I do yoga only once a week now because I have a shoulder issue. But it used to be CrossFit three days a week, yoga two to three without fail.

Okay. I have to regiment it or I won't do it. But I mean, that's really balanced. But now I do three CrossFit and one yoga. Okay. And then I walk my dog this time of year. Walking on the green belt really moves all this through. I'm in a totally different mood when I come back from that.

That's cool. We're going to have a follow-up episode with a guy who's been on the show in the past, Mike Bledsoe. And speaking of walking on the green belt, he's a huge proponent of being barefoot. And I'm just diving into some articles about being connected to the earth in that way directly. Is that kind of what you get out of being out in nature? Oh, I don't know. I'm a city girl. I'm not walking barefoot where dogs would pee. All right.

But to a degree. I mean, I have my dog. We're walking on the green belt. I'm paying attention to the nature. I'm calling in the energies when I'm doing it, and it just moves it through. Yes, if I stood on the earth barefoot, I'm sure it would make such a difference, but I'm too much of a princess to do that. That's awesome.

And do animals? Animals ground you big time. Oh, really? So they do release different types of energy. Do you not get readings off of people with animals? No, I don't read animals. I have friends that do that, but no. But if you think about it, animals really ground you

because you're always looking at the ground. You're looking at the dog or the cat or you're on the floor playing with them. So they keep you more connected to the ground. When I lost my first dog some years ago, I noticed a huge difference. I had a hell of a time staying grounded. Really? I do anyway have a hard time staying grounded.

But without him around, it was really hard. That's super interesting. Because I know people are really connected to animals, and I feel like... Oh, yeah. That's just my pal. Yeah. When they can have... The lady you said was an energy person here she could probably tell you this they some animals in particular really can create bond energetic

bonds with you and so they they do ground you more you are more connected some i think are more spiritual guides and some are just more playmates too yeah so she could probably speak to that more but okay i mean it's a real thing it's a real thing yeah yeah that's interesting wow wow i love this stuff that's why you're here yeah for sure um we'll let you get out of here on that note um but before we let you go i want you to answer two questions on any level the um you're probably gonna answer them on the spiritual level if my intuition is correct well now i'm under pressure to do that. So I validate you.

I have to validate you now, Mike. Uh, you do the reading. I just listen. Um, uh, but each and every day,

what do you do to, uh, feed yourself and, and kickstart your practice? And then the follow onto that, uh, in your daily practice, uh, what do you do to fuel yourself so that you create that energetic carry over into the next day? That's a

good question. Okay. So feeding myself is the, the practice I mentioned when I do this every morning and I get quiet, I play music and I move the energies through. That's how I feed myself. It's also how I fuel myself. But I fuel myself in my 20-minute naps, connecting with my friends and my family, my close circle. That fuels me. And yet the more solitude that I need from time to time helps me fuel because I get so easily exhausted.

Yeah, like in big crowds, I get easily exhausted. So the quiet time does that too. Okay. I love that. And then where can this community go support you and even reach out to you to get readings or do anything like that? Well, they can email me or they can call me. I have a website that's about my intuition work, juliefarho.com. Okay.

And you can also email me through that, julie at juliefarho.com. Okay. Perfect. Or through you guys. And you're on social media as well? I'm on Facebook. On Facebook? Yeah, I have a – God, I don't post much on Facebook.

I'm lazy about that. Yeah, I'm on Facebook. I have a Clear Insight, juliefarho at Clear Insight. My name of my company is Clear Insight. Clear Insight? Because that's what I do. Awesome. I give you Clear Insight. Julie Farho at Clear Insight. My name of my company is Clear Insight. Clear Insight? Because that's what I do. Awesome. I give you Clear Insight.

Awesome. We'll link that all up. There it is. Cool. Thank you. Thank you for everything. Thank you. This was fun.

Appreciate the reading. Anytime. And yeah, guys, make sure you get out there and support everything that Julie is putting out into the universe. And if you have any questions, you know, the, the fact that she's able to provide such, uh, uh, clear insight, uh, over the phone, uh, that just makes her reachability that much easier to access. So, um, you know, reach out to Julie, if you have any questions about, or need clarity in terms of the next step you need to take in your life, or, you know, maybe she can just help you, you know, clear,

clear the water for yourself. I know she's done that for me in the past and, you know, I look forward to being the, the, the master of my fate, so to speak, as a result of her guidance. So she's a trusted friend and she definitely has, she's a master of her craft. So support that. And until next time, guys, feed me, fuel me.

And that'll do it for this episode with our special guest, Julie Farha. If you want to check out everything that Julie has going and support her company, Clear Insight, please go to the full show notes on feedmefuelme.com. Also, be sure to connect with us on social media, including Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram, and Twitter at Feed Me Fuel Me. We would love to hear from each and every one of you. If you found this episode inspiring in any way, please leave a rating and a comment on iTunes so we can continue on this journey together. Also, be sure to share it with your friends and family on social media, including Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram, Twitter, or any other social platforms that you use. We really appreciate you spending your time with us today

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and we will catch you on the next episode. We'll be right back. I know you're there.