Barbell Shrugged - [LIBIDO] The Biochemistry of Improving Your Sex Drive w/ Anders Varner, Doug Larson, Travis Mash and Dan Garner Barbell Shrugged #659
Episode Date: September 14, 2022In today’s episode of Barbell Shrugged you will learn: The internal mechanisms that create your sex drive. How psychological, hormonal, and functional dysfunction impacts sex drive. The biochemistr...y of boners The nervous system’s response to sexual arousal The psychology of porn addiction Supplementation that can improve your sex drive Impacts of chronic fatigue on sex drive How estrogen and testosterone influence sex drive Hormonal changes during pregnancy that heighten sex drive How aging affects your libido They affect of marijuana and alcohol on sex drive Hair loss medication and erectile dysfunction symptoms To learn more, please go to https://rapidhealthreport.com Connect with our guests: Anders Varner on Instagram Doug Larson on Instagram Coach Travis Mash on Instagram Dan Garner on Instagram ———————————————— Please Support Our Sponsors Eight Sleep - Save $150 on the Pod Pro and Pod Pro Cover
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Shrug family, this week on Barbell Shrug, we are talking about libidos.
Literally a subject that every single person listening to this show should pull out a piece of paper,
take all the notes, because we're digging into how to increase your sex drive.
That's men, that's women, and we dig into a whole bunch of fun stuff on the biochemistry side of things.
The function of arousal, the psychological
factors, the hormonal factors. We even dig into some of the supplementation that is just over
the counter that you can use to optimize or to improve your sex drive. And it's filled with tons
of information that I believe everybody can use to have a better life. Because if you're having
more sex, you're going to be having definitely more fun. And more fun have a better life. Because if you're having more sex, you're going to be having definitely more fun.
And more fun equals a better life.
And get out some paper, take some notes.
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Let's get into the show. Welcome to Barbell Shrug. I'm Anders Warner.
Doug Larson.
Coach Travis Mash.
Dan Garner.
In the house today, we are talking about libido.
That's like the coolest subject for any podcast because everyone's going to get a little something they like.
And hopefully, if you pay attention, you'll get a lot of something you like at the end.
I got a lot of something.
You got a lot of libido.
You get a little more.
If you don't have libido, maybe you get some.
Travis Mash level libido in the next uh 60 minutes
i hope my laws don't listen to this
they can always say we hit the record button too late for that one
um i think everybody probably understands what their libido is but has no idea what the mechanisms in place are for you
to have a sex drive um where does our sex drive come from okay that was that was your broad open
ending question to start the show we're throwing the largest uh umbrella over this as possible to
to start well actually here let's back it up just for a second.
You said nobody knows where their sex drive comes from. I feel like that's kind of accurate,
but not all the way accurate. I feel like most people think it's like pure testosterone. Like,
that's it. Like, if you have tight testosterone, you got sex drive. And if you don't, you don't.
And I feel like it's probably not that simple. And now we'll turn it over to Dan. There he goes. Yeah, sure. We need a new host.
I'll tackle this one the best way I can here. So libido is actually super complicated.
And it's way more prevalent than people allow themselves to admit because it's something that's
super private. It's something that people are embarrassed about. But I work with a lot of
people with low libido. That's not an uncommon complaint to come my way is low libido, low sex drive.
It's not the way it used to be.
And I'm talking males and females.
This is absolutely a unisex thing that applies across all categories.
And when it comes to libido, there's primary areas that you want to focus on.
There's psychological, there's hormonal, and then there's actual function.
But I think a more productive place to begin the conversation would be to understand function
first, that actual, like the biochemistry of libido and how that's actually going to
break down and help us.
So why don't we just talk about achieving interaction?
That's probably one of the biggest, one of the bigger complaints that we get. I can even give like some real, this is probably like
20% of the people that come to see us. It's a very high number. Yeah. It's something that
affects and affects way more than 20% of people. It's just 20% of people reach out. I get to talk
to. Yeah. You know? Yeah, exactly. So this is something that's hyper common,
but it's understood biochemically.
So basically what you're looking for
when it comes to achieving an erection,
you've got three different primary types
of muscle tissue in the body.
There is your skeletal muscle tissue,
your cardiac tissue, and your smooth tissue.
Skeletal muscle is the stuff we normally talk about
on this show.
Biceps, pecs, getting jacked. Cardiac tissue is a little self-explanatory. That is the muscle
tissue that is a part of the heart and allows the heart to do what the heart does. And lastly,
there's the smooth tissue. Smooth tissue is different from the cardiac and skeletal muscle,
and it's found in things like the lungs and in the intestines and also in the penis.
So there's a spongy type of muscle tissue in the penis called the corpus cavernsum.
And the corpus cavernsum, that's actually where we're trying to dilate vessels and get
blood flow into so it can expand and stiff it up for you to do what you need to do.
Success is not unlike what we're trying to do in the gym, believe it or not.
So what we're trying to do, you've got nitric oxide.
Nitric oxide is what's going to trip off activity of an enzyme called cyclic guanosine monophosphate
or CGMP.
CGMP is what allows the vessels in the corpus cavernosum to relax, dilate, and completely fill
up with blood. So the degree of activity of the CGMP, you can think about the degree of activity
of the CGMP, like the degree of integrity of your erection. And everybody on here knows that that's a continual. You can have a 25% good one,
you could have a 50% good one, you can have 70% or you could have that 100%. We're ready to rock.
We're ready to rock, being a pun, rock hard. But that's totally a continuum. And that is dependent upon CGMP activity. So we want plenty of nitric oxide
to activate CGMP activity so that that activity is very high. So lots of dilation takes place,
and therefore lots of blood flow can get in there. But there's something known as phosphodiesterase 5 or PDE 5. PDE 5 is what inhibits and breaks down CGMP because biologically or evolutionarily
speaking, it doesn't make sense to walk around with an erection all day. So PDE 5 will slowly
degrade that activity of CGMP. And this is actually how things like Cialis work. Cialis inhibits PDE5.
So PDE5 is what's breaking down CGMP.
So when you stop the enzyme that is breaking down CGMP, then you allow not just more CGMP
activity to take place, but it can take place for a longer period of time.
So then you get that 100% erection that you're after, and you also can sustain it for a longer period of time so that you get that 100% erection that you're
after. And you also can sustain it for a longer period of time. That function is important to
understand because this is how we can kind of utilize certain over-the-counter things to get
the job done. Things such as arginine, things such as citrulline, these have been demonstrated
to increase blood flow. Yes,
in the gym, we take them pre-workout, but they also increase blood flow to other areas as well.
And blood flow is not only a thing for males either, because when it comes to desire sexual
function, blood flow, even to the clitoris and vaginal area is just as important as blood flow to
the penis.
So that's actually a unisex thing that we can apply to both categories.
Now, that function, that needs to be happening properly because there's such a thing as having
desire without function.
Those are like two different categories.
So when I'm looking at somebody's questionnaire or I'm looking at somebody's labs, I'm basically
trying to break it down into psychological, hormonal, and function.
When I can identify where that issue is coming from, then we've identified how we're going
to increase libido.
Wow.
I get a question like with, you know explode like i'm sorry you're good can you guys
somebody told me that like with you know to explode that a lot of the breathing techniques
you know like breathing through your nose is a part of like um you know too because it is
potentially through the through the nose can you you explain that more? Because ever since I was told this, I've been curious.
Sure.
So yeah, nasal breathing enhances parasympathetic activity.
So our nervous system's basically got two branches, right?
We've got the sympathetic branch
and we've got the parasympathetic branch.
Sympathetic is very fight or flight.
Parasympathetic is rest and digest.
So parasympathetic activity actually dilates blood vessels. So parasympathetic is rest and digest. So parasympathetic activity actually dilates blood
vessels. So parasympathetic activity, and this is actually how ejaculation is accomplished. So you
actually want to be maximally parasympathetic to have a maximum erection, but then your body
actually flips from parasympathetic into sympathetic for and during the ejaculation stage. So somebody who is able to nasally breathe
and therefore activate more parasympathetic activity is going to have greater blood flow
due to not being in a sympathetic state. And this is exactly why. And then it kind of starts to make
sense when you start thinking about evolutionary biology, but also kind of just common sense,
because common sense would tell you, hey, if I've got stress, am I going to be in the mood?
Probably not. If I've got a lot of anxiety going into this, am I going to perform very well?
Probably not. And this is largely due to sympathetic activity, overriding parasympathetic
activity, and therefore overriding proper blood flow.
So that's a that's something where and you can actually read more about that. There's a book called Why Zebras Don't Get Ulcers that I read a long time ago. And that that part actually stuck
with me, he goes over an entire section on parasympathetic activity for during sex, and then
sympathetic activity for that's when the ejaculation takes place. So
that nasal breathing is a huge part of it. But it's also why I kind of begin that whole libido
breakdown process with the psychological, because we can talk function all we want. It's very easy
to talk about that. But a psychological like when you go through the literature on libido,
you just see an undeniable connection with depression, with fatigue, with insomnia,
with stress, and with porn addiction. Between fatigue, insomnia, depression, stress and porn
addiction. Those can absolutely railroad libido because they
do a lot of things to us that is simply going to make, let's just back it up to an evolutionary
perspective. Stress, because we are hardwired to survive. We're hardwired to survive. Our DNA
hasn't changed a whole lot since back in the day. So when we have any form of stressor coming into our body, our body sees that as very
sympathetic, very fight or flight.
And this is a connection to reduce reproduction at the expense of survival.
Because, for example, if you've got a tiger in front of you, it's going to be a really
bad idea to have sex with your girl.
OK, so that stress is in us to survive so that we can reproduce
another day. So any kind of psychological disorders, that is going to play a huge role
in reducing many, many, many different areas of libido that say Cialis or Viagra or any kind of
supplement could never do. So that's kind of like, number one, is if you haven't seen a sex therapist,
for example, and you've tried a bunch of stuff, that's a huge thing that I would recommend.
And if anybody's listening right now, if you think you're the first person that that sex
therapist has seen that has your exact issues, you're fucking wrong. Like that person has seen
many, many people like you you and if you need help
go freaking talk to them because your root cause isn't going to be found in biochemistry it's going
to be found in psychology so how would that be different than just seeing a regular psychotherapist
like a sex therapist may be dealing with like a sex specific issue but it also could be something
totally unrelated to
sex. Like you had, you had trauma from when you were a little kid, you feel like nobody loves you,
what that type of thing, it has nothing to do with sex. And that's just, it's just a downstream
consequence of some totally unrelated issue that a regular psychotherapist that presumably could
handle. Is it, is it radically different? Do you know much about the distinctions there?
No, I don't know much about the distinctions there. But it would be my, it would be my intuition that psychology is very
much like physiology, and that you're going to have one person that specializes in the endocrine
system, one person that specializes in the immune system, one person specializes in the muscular
system. I think that in the world of psychology, and how much goes into that, there are likely
specialists in sex by itself. And then that person would be able to better identify if their client
needs to go see someone else. This is not a sex thing. This is depression. This is not a sex
thing. This is this. So I think that that would just be a better curator if their need to work
with them or exactly who they would need to see
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the show. If you had if you had adequate desire, we'll say but it was purely a function issue.
You think a sex therapist was still helping that case? Or is that if you have good function,
but just like you just don't ever feel like doing it? Is that more sex therapist role?
In my opinion, yes. So if somebody if somebody has adequate desire, I don't think they need to go talk to somebody
because the desire is already there.
It's going to be a function thing.
So that's actually when I'd start going down the list,
I'd be looking at hormones
and then I'd be looking at function
and I'd be looking to incorporate things from there
because you know all that nitric oxide stuff
that I just talked about?
Well, in the genital area,
that's mediated by testosterone and estrogen.
So testosterone and estrogen both play a huge role. And that's something that a lot of people kind of
miss too. And something that I believe you talked about, Doug, at the beginning of the podcast,
everybody thinks it's only testosterone. It's absolutely not. Testosterone plays a role in this,
no doubt. But estrogen plays just as big of a role and in a lot of data it plays an even bigger role
in sex drive not just in females but in males estrogen is absolutely required for libido
ask any bodybuilder who's five weeks out from a show and taking a lot of anti-estrogens to create
a real dry look in his physique what happened to his libido in those last five weeks? Even while he's taking tons of testosterone.
Yes.
Even while they're on testosterone, testosterone, that the suppression of estrogen is enormous
to, and of course the hypocaloric state in that context, but the suppression of estrogen
is absolutely enormous when it comes to libido.
So testosterone and estrogen are key for both sexes. And estrogen,
the way in which the menstrual cycle works, estrogen actually peaks right before ovulation.
And it's very clear in the literature that sexual desire in females is highest during ovulation,
and that's triggered by that peak in estrogen. Yeah. So both of them, if you've got hormone issues on either side, and that begs another question
too.
So like this, this topic is so big.
So we go over that psychology stuff, right?
But then even when you get into hormones, we can dive into the nitty gritty on testosterone
and estrogen, but those could be completely thrown off due to obesity, due to insulin resistance,
due to sleep apnea. Like these are things that like even testosterone and estrogen therapy,
which people freaking jump to, they will jump to hormone replacement therapy in so many different
scenarios, but never actually address why that took place. That's such a huge mistake because
you're kind of missing the point.
Maybe you got your desire back, but you're not any healthier. You just got a thing that got your desire back. And it's actually artificial desire. Like it's not even the real deal because
insulin resistance was offsetting your hormones. Obesity was offsetting your hormones,
sleep apnea, insomnia. What was the freaking reason why you had stress or anxiety that's
offsetting your hormones? Because that's still in your life. It's just now you've got some desire.
Like I'm very big. I'm just take, I like to take a more holistic approach. And it's kind of like
my answer to everything is when you improve health, you're never worse off. We just improve
systemic health and everything gets better along the way. Yeah, go ahead. I was just gonna say, like, if you have a low libido,
isn't there a big chance that you have a much bigger problem
that could be like early death?
I mean, like, you know, I've read everything I've read about low libido.
It's a very good sign that you have a much bigger problem
you need to deal with.
So like, if you just take the hormones,
I mean, you might just be like placing yourself into an early with. So like, if you just take the hormones, I mean, you might just
be like placing yourself into an early grave. So yeah, absolutely. Because one of the key
predictors of erectile dysfunction is high cholesterol. And then that starts to make
sense. Like, yes, that would absolutely increase mortality risk. But hey, that also reduces blood
flow. So it makes perfect sense that that's impacting
the erections but also impacting mortality so while you're trying to chase an erection
you're gonna die sooner so let's figure that out first something more important brother i mean yeah
believe it or not there's something more important yeah if i die at 50 yeah my volume doesn't get to where i want i'm looking for volume
not intensity volume but
um when you were when you were going through kind of uh talking about the psychological side of this
thing uh we've also done a show i can't remember the exact number what show it was on uh the number
of ways that poor health actually leads into the behavioral health side of
things. Is that also a factor of it? Like, obviously, I think the running theme of all
is let's get you as healthy as possible and then see how does someone know if they need to go to a
psychologist or they need to get look into dopamine and serotonin and understand hormone levels before they've gone into see
a behavioral health or sexual health specialist?
I think that there's going to be some degree of escapism.
So with people who are honest with themselves, humans, we do an amazing job at justifying
our terrible decisions.
We are so good at that.
Justifying cheat meals, justifying alcoholism, justifying substance abuse. We justify all this stuff. And it is just that a justification. But somebody who's truly ready for change
will reach a level of self-awareness to identify, hey, is this psychological? Am I doing some form
of escapism here? I truly think that a coach will bring that out of you. And sometimes that needs to
take place where a coach just needs to reach into your heart and pull it out and show you that this
is actually the route you need to go. And I've done that for a lot of people in the past too.
And you just tell someone, hey, have you ever talked to someone about this? And then the answer is almost always
no. And then that you almost give them permission because now it's not them, you know, um, seeing
that they've lost in their mind in some way and going themselves. No, it's like a prescription
from coach. Hey, go talk to them. Just give it a shot, try it out. And then there's, there is an
admission there. So I think a lot of people, whether they're ready to admit it to themselves
or not, they know if they have some degree of depression or some degree of anxiety,
or some degree of porn addiction. Yeah, these are all things that play a huge role in it.
So I think that that would just simply be a conversation you have with your clients.
And then if that conversation goes well, then do your labs and we'll see what's going on under the hood so I can fix your testosterone, estrogen and function. I've asked two people that we've
interviewed on this podcast over the last couple of years about the porn addiction thing. And nobody
really has a great answer. Cool. I feel like those, those uh like the depression side of things if i were
to look at behavioral health is like going a and maybe i don't understand all of the pieces of
depression um but that that seems to be uh like a psychological issue where i view like the porn
addiction side is like alcoholism. Is that correct in aligning
those two in a way of like, this is a personal choice that you're making and it's negatively
affecting your life where depression seems like it's in a way it's like some event triggers and
stacks on top negative emotions and negative like seeing where you're going to be in the future.
You don't like where that's headed, the anxiety, that side of things.
Obviously, this is a massively prevalent thing in our society
in that somebody is going to Pornhub billions of times a day
to make it like the fifth most visited website in the world.
What does porn actually do to your body that is so detrimental or your mind that is so
detrimental that um one it's labeled as an addiction now to look at naked people
rubbing each other and then two like how does this create like long-term issues where people can
become impotent or have no sex drive whatsoever?
Sure. So that was a beautiful question, my man. I think this is something that's so important to
talk about. And I really like actually how you separated depression and addiction, because
that's important. Depression is kind of a big category where you're apathetic about most things.
Being motivated to have sex is hard
for someone who's depressed, being motivated to work out is very hard being motivated to make a
meal or even get out of bed. Like these are all things that's very hard for someone who's truly
depressed, but they don't represent the characteristic traits of addiction. Whereas
addiction is a totally different thing. And this is already in the research that alcoholism and opioid use reduce libido dramatically.
And one of the reasons why they reduce libido dramatically, chronic alcohol use, not acute,
acute can drive it up because of estrogen factors, but chronic abuse completely suppresses it.
And one of the reasons why opioid use and alcoholism
suppress libido over time is because dopamine is involved in libido. So dopamine is the reward
neurotransmitter. So when you have that orgasm, you have a dopamine rush and it's rewarding.
And you remember what that was like. And that's, what's going to have you come back next time.
That's very dopamine mediated. However, if you're getting your dopamine elsewhere,
your desire for other things to get dopamine isn't even nearly the case. Because when you feel
right, exactly when you know how good painkillers feel, when you know how good heroin feels,
when you know how great of an escape alcoholism gives you from
the reality of your life. These are all rewards that actually make sex secondary, as opposed to
primary. They're not having the right sex thing, but go ahead. Yeah. Yeah, man. Damn that.
So it's a dopamine thing. If I can get a better kick, if I'm getting more juice from something
else, then why would I go for another tree? Like I'm not going to visit the tree over here. If I've
got a tree here that can give me everything that I need. So that's a huge part of the chemistry
behind how addiction can over time reduce libido. But hey hey that's also pornography when you when you log on to porn hub
that porn addiction is a thing that's a real thing and there is so much porn out there now
that if you wanted to watch a porn video every day for the rest of your life i'm sure you'd be
able to do it you can't keep up there's no way it's produced way faster yeah yeah you think it's tough to keep up with shows on netflix try keeping up the porn hub jesus nobody quote me on that actually by the way
like i heard humor you've been talking about this to where like it's uh the most important part is
is the difference in the amount of dopamine to the baseline so like it's not really
necessarily how much it's the difference in baseline because every if you watch i guess if
you watch porn every day that baseline creeps up and soon like you have to go to crazier porn
or something more you know out there to get that difference in baseline because you're increasing
that baseline which then therefore makes normal sex really hard for there to get that difference in baseline because you're increasing that baseline,
which then therefore makes normal sex really hard for you to get excited about, you know,
for that dopamine dump. What are your thoughts? What's the truth to that?
Well, I think that a comparable example would be caffeine. So like the first time you have
a hundred milligrams of caffeine, it makes you feel feel freaking great. And then, you know, over time, you might go to 125 and then 150, 175, 200.
And you kind of keep climbing up that ladder, even though you're still never achieving that
initial 100 that you got.
You keep chasing that hit.
You keep chasing that same feeling that you originally got.
In the world of pornography, you can look at something that I guess societal norms would call somewhat normal, right?
I think it's a normal thing to explore pornography.
But when you start doing it every day, dude, you're going to start looking for that extra hit, that extra hit.
And then it ends up getting more more weird more hardcore more all kinds of
things and you've reached a scenario where like you're actually watching something that you don't
necessarily enjoy and i think a good a good um way to almost calculate this is if the moment
you're done the moment you finished and you look at the screen
and you go, oh, what the fuck's that?
Like, that's like one of the first things.
Yeah, like you can actually get into these states
where you're like in a type of trance
seeking that reward.
And then it's something
you would never do in real life.
It's something you're not fucking interested in at all.
But in that moment, in that heat,
the dopamine rush is worth
it and you're going to go after it. So then that over time can raise that dopamine baseline. So
then when you go have missionary sex with your girl later on, it's quite below baseline. And
then you're not going to be able to perform because the desire is not as high because the
dopamine rush isn't as big as it otherwise would have been.
And you might be going to the tree of reward of dopamine on Pornhub.com rather than having a healthy, loving, great relationship with your girl. So that's something where if people can
kind of understand that and stop, let me tell you something. Your life will never get worse
if you quit porn. Your life will never get worse if you quit porn. Your life will never get worse if you quit it.
It will only get better in so many different ways because of dopamine and a host of other
factors revolving around being in a healthy, amazing relationship with your partner.
I have a question about how that same cycle repeats itself in real life, in that I have talked to multiple people that are unable to climax,
even though all of the hardware works. And in the back of my mind, while they were explaining to me
the issues that they're having, realizing that these
people have probably gone out almost nightly, had plenty of success due to the level of power that
they have in their life, whether it's financial or access or whatever that whatever allows them to meet the opposite sex and influence that situation to to
get those people home with them, whatever it is, that are now unable to actually enjoy
even real life sex to the point of climaxing and having an orgasm. Is that, is it possible? I mean,
it almost has to be, I guess, but, uh, those mechanisms can play themselves out in real life
as well. Is that correct? Yeah. Yeah, absolutely. Like that, that you're just simply finding another
way to raise that dopamine baseline that we were just talking about is that if you've had these
extreme experiences, it's kind of like um
this happens a lot in the fight game actually it's like when you've been the main event of a pay-per-view and you've won a world title via knockout um you actually you hear about a lot
of these fighters actually getting a lot of trouble after their career because they're that
nothing gets their juices going anymore there's no that that same thrill of victory of fighting in
a cage of prepping for it that that that is just an unbelievable high that they're constantly
trying to chase again and i think that an example of somebody who's killing it at the bars and now
has a trouble that has a troubled time being loyal to their girl or to their man um that's just
another representation of someone who kind of needs to reset their priorities
and do like a type of, I don't know what to call it, a dopamine fast.
You could like just truly, you know, cut out pornography, revisit your priorities, and
then also use some, you know, there are things over the counter that can actually help in
this situation.
Like MACA.
Have you guys heard of MACA?
No. No. M-a-c-a that's like one of the most well demonstrated things for libido um and it's
males and females by the everything i'm saying right now i'm using males because i want to speak
from experience about a topic as important as this but everything i'm saying also applies to females
everything um three grams there's just to provide people with some value
here, three grams of maca powder with breakfast. And there's no difference in yellow, red, green,
there's different colors of maca. They all seem to work very similarly. Three grams with breakfast
for males or females reliably improves libido without altering hormone status. So you can really increase desire over time without
impacting hormone statuses. That's why it's really good from a unisex perspective. But the problem
with Macca is a people take underdose stuff like the 500 milligrams or something like that.
Three grams is really where you want to be at. And Macca actually progressively increases desire for eight weeks.
So when I give someone maca, like first off, I want to do the psychological, hormonal and function thing.
But if someone really just wants a little boost, a reliable and safe for long term use
boost, three grams of maca with breakfast over the course of eight weeks will increase
sexual desire for males and females.
And then after that, that's when I start
looking at other function things. Citrulline is great for blood flow. Arginine is another one
demonstrated in the world of research that's good for blood flow. Citrulline is a little bit better.
I've seen a study actually in, this was actually on heart disease patients, but it was found that three grams of citrulline increases
levels of arginine inside the body as much as six grams of arginine. So three grams of citrulline
via the arginine citrulline cycle that happens in physiology, three grams of citrulline is as
effective as six grams of arginine. So it's actually better at increasing blood arginine than arginine itself because arginine gets really eaten up by the liver.
So citrulline is great for blood flow. Cocoa powder, believe it or not, is well demonstrated
in the world of libido and function because of its impacts on nitric oxide as well. And then
there's also yohimbine. I don't really recommend recommend it as often but yohimbine at about 0.09
milligrams per pound of body weight uh it's a stimulant um so it's 100 it's very bad for people
who have who are prone to nervousness or anxiety like that's it's totally contraindicated in those
situations it seems to exacerbate nervousness and anxiety but yohimbine is one of those you know
kind of unique ones that improves desire and
function. So it'll actually increase desire while improving blood flow. Whereas arginine and
citrulline, they're more just blood flow based. And maca is more pure desire based.
Yeah. One thing I'd love to get into is how sleep affects libido.
There has never been a time in my life that I have wanted to have sex less than having children.
And the lack of sleep, like, if somebody was like,
you could have sex with whoever and whatever,
how about I just take the eight hours of sleep?
Is that possible?
Can I trade that sex life with just take the eight hours of sleep is that possible can you just can i trade
uh that sex life with just an extra three hours of real sleep um i i had never experienced like a low
sex
drive into my life and now it's like i shouldn't say all the time. It's thanks to Dan Garner. Now I sleep great. But especially during the like first year to you have another one on top of that. And
then all of a sudden you start back at zero. Like it's like a three, four year long process of
feeling alive. And I honestly had never felt like I had a low sex drive by any means. And then kids
showed up, the sleep went away. And all of a sudden,
it was like, just pure survival. And the last thing I cared about was like,
rolling over and performing for three and a half minutes so that I could
go to sleep. I'm fine. I can go to I need sleep. Well, how does that all play together?
Well, first of all, three and a half minutes, you stud you.
I know, right?
I know.
You're killing it.
I love it.
That's three minutes longer than me, dude.
My wife might argue with me too.
She'd be like, why are you making yourself sound cool on the podcast?
When it comes to sleep, fatigue is just an enormous overwhelming factor to where if i sleep
three hours last night um i i don't sure my libido is lower but i also don't really feel like training
i also don't feel like recording a podcast i also don't really feel like walking the dog also i
definitely don't want to go shovel the driveway or get groceries or any of that shit. So I think just fatigue is systemically downregulating everything, which again, I just always think
in terms of like evolutionary biology, is it a good time to be a dad if you're never
sleeping?
Like, I think that that in many cases is just biology answering questions that we don't
even know our questions yet and having protective mechanisms in place. So, and that protective mechanism will play itself out from an endocrine perspective
because sleep reduces testosterone and increases cortisol. So we're having less drive for
reproduction and more drive for stress response, which is not an evolutionary great situation
for reproduction and having kids. So it just,
it's playing itself out from an endocrinology perspective. It's playing itself out from a,
from an evolutionary perspective. But then I also just think fatigue is a, is, is a real big factor
there. Yeah. I actually saw a study a while back. Don't, don't quote me on the numbers here,
but it was something along the lines of like 30 minutes extra sleep per night increases sex drive, uh, in, in new mothers by 14% or something like
that. And I showed it to my wife and she was like, see, see, it's not just me. I just need some more
sleep. I know. Okay. Go take a nap. I'll see you in 30. is worth it yeah i think too that that would just that
would improve female hormone balance um it would reduce her fatigue and i also think it would
reduce her stress and i think that's a great combination to have a higher percentage chance
of being in the mood um yeah you do get the double whammy with kids you get the sleep thing
but then you also have the stress thing on top of it. Yeah, that's right.
Yeah.
That time alone, even if it was 30 minutes of peace, let alone 30 minutes of sleep, I
think they both have a pretty similar effect.
I have two.
So I don't know about you guys, but in my life, when my wife got pregnant, fireworks.
Like what goes on hormonally when you're pregnant when
for the first time in my life i was like hey can we just like take a night off this is like
rock i'm trying to read it off yeah like i'm i literally can't keep up i i have i can run like
a 5k in 20 minutes but i cannot keep up with you right now why um what what hormonally is
going on when women are pregnant that potentially sends uh sex drive just through the roof well
i am not sure of the exact answer but my my my greatest guess there is a form of estrogen known as S3L that has estrogen like properties that increases
over a hundred X on the insight on the onset of pregnancy. So S3L increasing a hundred X,
I've actually seen it on a lab before. And it was actually, I think I told the story in the seminar.
I've seen it at a lab before. It actually had to tell someone that they're pregnant,
but S3L can increase a hundredx and it has estrogen like properties.
So it would be my prediction that that is what's creating the hormonal response that's allowing for
libido to take place. I also think too, depending on a certain situation, that there's a lot of
people who struggle with pregnancy out there. And when you get
pregnant, finally, it's like a huge sigh of relief. It's like a weight off your chest.
There's a weight off your shoulders when you can't get pregnant. It's the worst. And I'm
speaking from experience. It's the absolute worst. It's a real tough time for everybody involved.
And then when you actually do get pregnant, there is an enormous sigh of relief.
And I think that you do sleep better. You do have less stress. You're happier. It's not,
you know, that I think that also when you're trying to get pregnant, it's like prescriptive.
It's like, this is the day we got to do it. This is how we're going to do it. It's like,
as opposed to just fricking doing it and enjoying yourself and remembering why you did it in the first place like i think that the combination of a lot of
those things would uh would contribute towards that but estriol being a big one um the the other
piece as we get older um i don't know if it has to but uh most people trend towards having a lower sex drive. Is that merely just because you've had
decades of sex? Or is it the the lowering of testosterone? What what happens when we get
older that makes sex drive and libido lower? I think that the progressive reduction of
testosterone and estrogen is very well documented. So that would play a large role. I think that the, the progressive reduction of testosterone and estrogen is very
well documented. So that would play a large role. Um, I think also like when you're, when you,
when you say things like this, there's always reading between the lines because you say that
libido, um, decreases over the course of time. You know what people over the course of time also
get fatter, lazier. Like that. I think that those are actual contributors to libido and not necessarily
libido because people can actually, they can show you a beautiful graph and be like, you know,
libido has decreased this over the course of time. And this is what happened to their age.
So the correlation is great. The correlation is not causation. As people get older, they do have
a higher body fat percentage. They are more insulin resistant. Their testosterone and estrogen
is down, not necessarily because of age, but because of their bad decisions.
There's a lot of things happening that can contribute to that. So I think that that would
play a role there. And, and I think that's probably all I would say in that in that category.
That's it. That's, that'd be my answer., we dig. Can we dig into you mentioned alcohol earlier?
We dig into alcohol, marijuana, like recreational drug use, steroids and just other other things people might be consuming for a variety of reasons and how that affects sex drive, both in the short and long term.
Yeah, so estrogen is increased by marijuana and alcohol.
They both have estrogen-like properties.
The difference is marijuana for a large amount of people
is kind of like cut in half.
It either gives you anxiety or it allows you to calm down.
And there are different strands.
You can go Indica, you can go Sativa,
you can have a CBD to THC ratio.
I'm telling you just from a coach's perspective,
there are people out there that get anxiety kind of no matter what combination of stuff they throw
at them in that department. So I think it's kind of just right tool for the right job.
Alcohol is likely the the worst of the two, because of the amount of calories it has because
of the the larger negative effect on hormones,
because it reduces testosterone over time, because it dehydrates the body and the genital
musculature is still musculature. And that requires hydration. Alcohol also reduces serotonin
over time, which can have a which, which is actually what creates the alcohol dependency.
Alcohol, it does this like very strange thing
where you take it.
So if you're someone who has anxiety
and you drink alcohol and it reduces your anxiety,
that's alcohol is actually providing you
an artificial form of serotonin synthesis,
but then that actually reduces your baseline serotonin
in the absence of alcohol.
So then although alcohol reduces anxiety by improving serotonin, you end up having more anxiety without alcohol because it
reduces your brain serotonin in the absence of alcohol. So then next time you need more alcohol,
and then more and then more, and then it becomes more frequent. And then you run into a situation
where yes, alcoholism is going to impact libido in its
own way because of dopamine pathways.
But then I also think it's going to impact libido in its own way via serotonin pathways
because it's going to impact anxiety and nervousness.
So at the end of the day, when it comes to poisons, less is better.
Poisons.
I want to ask one more question about the nitrous oxide like i look i've been
trying to find what they're talking about the lady that i spoke with said that there's in the
sinuses that there's actually when you breathe in your nose you you take nitrous oxide in from
the sinuses is that is that right i'm actually i'm'm sure I'd be the wrong guy to ask. I've never
seen that, but that'd be fascinating. Yeah, I know. Like, yeah, I've, I've never, you know,
I've never heard that. So I was going to ask the expert, I found an article, but like, I don't
know proof of that. Yeah. Yeah. Unfortunately I don't, I don't have the answer for that one no problem yeah um when we start to get into um the the testosterone
thing uh i know we've done multiple shows on testosterone and uh kind of as as it was discussed
earlier it's like uh adding adding it just throwing testosterone in your body without the health side
of it really is not the best solution. Is there a time or like
when? How many layers of things can people do before it's like, now there's an actual testosterone
issue, and we need to kind of go down that that route? Is that is that a real thing for increasing
sex drive? 100% Oh, there is undeniable that hormones play a huge role. And that's why it's
the first thing I look at after psychology. And a lot of times those are kind of a chicken and the egg at times too. So you got to be, you got to be pretty intricate with your data collection process. hormone, like ruling out environmental pollutants, ruling out heavy metals, ruling out dietary
consistency, ruling out body fat percentage, ruling out micronutrient availability, ruling
out psychology because stress by itself reduces testosterone, ruling out sleep quality because
sleep reduces testosterone.
I mean, I mean, that was seven or eight things that also have their own subcategories of
things that all negatively impact testosterone. So like, I'm just a guy where if somebody comes to me, and they want
sexual desire, then I want to achieve that through also making them a way healthier person at the
same time, as I think that's the way that they're actually going to maintain that desire in the
absence of supplements, because I could give them three grams of Maca and it's probably going to
work. But did I actually help that person? Or am I kind of a guy now who's a symptom manager rather
than a root cause solver? I could give that person desire. Sure. And I might even do it or recommend
it in the short term while we work on the root cause in the long term so that they can eventually come off of that and sustain their own sexual
desire moving on in the future.
But yeah, I like to do a comprehensive process to improve the system as a whole.
Like we got to remember, we're hardwired to have sex.
Like humans are hardwired to reproduce.
That's another, I keep saying evolutionary biology. We are hardwired
to keep this species rolling and reproduce and increase the population and do what we need to do
on this evolutionary journey. When you aren't executing something that's hardwired, we should
look under the hood and see where that dysfunction is. Under the hood sometimes might
be in your mind, but other under the hood, other times might be enzyme related. It might be blood
flow related. It might be hormone related. So I just, I think that that comprehensive process
would is extremely likely to not just eliminate a lot of things that will make you a way healthier
version of yourself,
but in the process of doing so increase your libido at the same time.
Gotcha. So we talk a lot about hormones impacting sex drive and the desire to have sex. Does it
work the other way as well? Like if you don't have a very strong sex drive and then, um, and then all
of a sudden you find yourself in a situation, you have a new partner and like the opportunity to have like a lot of novel, exciting sex becomes available and your partner is bringing it to you.
Like having more sex, does that improve your hormones?
Does it work like that at all?
Not to my knowledge, no. think that I don't know if having sex improves hormones, but that might be something that would be more fit to ask somebody because there's a whole area of research in like the world of
pheromones and sense and things like that. And I think that that would likely probably have an
impact on hormones, but I don't know the research offhand on that. But I do think that that desire
is a big component of sex drive. And then hormones are a big component of sex drive.
But I don't know if having sex would increase hormones. I just, I haven't seen that in the
literature just yet. But I feel like if you do consider it on a case by case basis, or really
just talk yourself through it, it's not unreasonable that there would be an increase in hormone
synthesis due to having more sex, probably just because you're a happier person. You are in a new
relationship. The sex is being brought to you. It is fun. You are getting a dopamine hit from it,
which means you're going to want to come back for more. And that's also great for confidence.
Confidence is good for libido and testosterone. So I think probably you could talk yourself through a scenario where that makes a lot of sense, but I just haven't seen any studies
on it. Yeah. My final question, hair loss medicine seems to be, have a very big impact
down range on erectile dysfunction. One one why do they keep giving it to people
who cares if you have hair yeah we're crushing it without it you don't need that um who cares
if you have the hair if you can't uh get the the downrange result of getting the girl and then
uh getting it up who would knowingly want hair over libido well i don't think it affects everybody
the same which is really what um is is interesting to me of like why are some people go on propitia
and then have erectile dysfunction or there's there's many hair loss methods or no risk like
that no risk um but what what happens from hair to penis and all of a sudden now
things aren't working? Yeah. So when it comes to Propecia or a finasteride,
what they do is they inhibit an enzyme called 5-alpha reductase, which allows for the synthesis
of our conversion rather of testosterone to dihydrotestosterone. Dihydrotestosterone plays
a role in libido, and it even plays a role in flaccid size. So it plays a role in the grower
or a shower. But for real, dihydrotestosterone plays a role in that. Finasteride actually
reduces the activity of 5-alpha reductase, which is what increases DHT.
So to degree at which that happens and the degree at which you're naturally predisposed to making
DHT is likely what's resulting in the inter-individual variability. Because if we had a
very low conversion rate to begin with, and then we cut the enzyme off, it's likely that that is
going to have a major impact on libido and erectile dysfunction. But if you had a decent conversion rate already,
then, and you do reduce enzyme activity, it's not going to completely cut it off,
it will reduce it. And then you will have basically not as large a reduction. So you
can think about it like going from 100% to 50%, rather than from 50% to 0%. And that's likely resulting in the
variability, but that's a major, major prevalent thing. And if people are on antidepressants can
actually reduce sex drive. So like, it's just a good conversation, even, even larger than that.
Finasteride or Propecia antidepressants have a big impact on libido, alcohol, opioids, pain medications.
There's a lot of things like I would just also invite people to go to drugs.com and type in
their blood pressure medication reduces libido. Like a lot of people don't know that the blood
pressure is one of the top things that reduces libido. How many people are on blood pressure
medication? A ton of them.
And so like, I think that it's important for people to just go to drugs.com, type in your
medication and then look at the side effects because you might find something that matches
a lot of your current symptoms.
Yeah.
Yo, one last thing here.
I believe I heard Huberman say on a podcast a while back that a lot of people kind of
incorrectly, and we already addressed this, think that high estrogen is a problem for sex drive, even though that it actually
can be beneficial in many ways, but high prolactin is very often an issue for decreased libido.
Do you know anything about prolactin specifically in relation to the other hormones?
Not in the way in which it, not in the way in which it impacts libido. No. Nothing I'd be able to rhyme off offhand here.
Yep.
Cool.
Got it.
Dan Garner, where can people find you?
At Dan Garner Nutrition on Instagram.
There it is.
And Coach Garner, Team Garner?
CoachGarner.com.
There it is.
Make sure you get over, check out those courses. I tell many people to go check out those nutrition courses
so they can start to dig into their own labs
and understand how all this stuff works together.
When we hire new coaches, one of the first things they do
is watch the Ultimate Nutrition Mentorship.
So we recommend that one first for sure.
Yeah.
Travis Mash.
Mashlead.com or Mashleadcom or uh what do you have going on what
are you putting out into the world these days how's your olympic lifting coach course going uh
really well you know we sold a ton of those and said we're about to release a live seminar we're
going to do in california with stronger experts we're going to do the like you know basically
version two but live it's going to be really good. I'm the one that developed the, you know, the, I guess the,
all the different categories that we're going to touch in.
It's going to be cool.
We're going to go deep into, like, you know, correcting dysfunction.
We're going to look into, like, the advancing techniques in programming.
It's going to be good.
A deep, deep dive for coaches.
When is that?
October.
I think it's October 7th and 8th.
Early, first weekend in October, I believe.
Are tickets on sale?
Any minute.
Today they launch.
So we're just waiting on Phil to give you the website.
And then we're going to.
We'll have it up on the next show.
It'll be me, Spencer Arnold, Chris Lamenta.
And then, of course, my man, Phil from Stronger Experts.
That'll be good.
Awesome.
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