Bedros Keuilian Podcast Show - 182. How AI P*RN Is Quietly Causing ED In An Entire Generation
Episode Date: March 24, 202642% OFF - Get your Digital Man Up book + Audiobook + 2 Exclusive MASTERCLASSES https://bit.ly/manuptribeTruLean Supplements | https://www.trulean.com/pages/bedrosGet 50% Off Trulean Subscribe & Sa...ve BundleUse Code: BEDROS OPEN A FIT BODY LOCATIONA High-Profit, Scalable Gym Franchise Opportunity Driven By Impacthttps://sales.fbbcfranchise.com/get-started?utm_source=bedrosHow AI P*RN Is Quietly Causing ED In An Entire Generation | The Bedros Keuilian Show E0182Most guys think loneliness is about “no options”… it’s not, it’s about no action.In this episode, we break down why young men are more isolated than ever, how “easy dopamine” is killing your drive, and why AI girlfriends and digital substitutes are about to make it way worse.If you’ve been feeling stuck, unmotivated, or like dating isn’t even worth it anymore… this is the wake-up call. The truth is simple: the less you hunt, the weaker you get—and the weaker you get, the more you settle for fake substitutes.
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There is a massive loneliness epidemic in young men, and it's causing so much friction and frustration in their life that they're all but giving up on having a relationship with a young lady.
And because of that, he's massively lonely, sad and depressed.
I think what's happening is the temptation of easy satisfaction is causing men to not want to go out and hunt.
You see, there was a time that porn addiction was one of the greater threats to dudes in their 20s,
and 30s and even young men in their teens.
I've literally found something even more damaging and destructive to a young man's life
than porn.
There is a massive loneliness epidemic in young men and the epidemic continues to get worse
and no one's really addressing why this is happening and we're going to do that today on
the Bedros Kulian show.
Guys, welcome to the Bedroskulian show.
My name is Bedros and today's episode is all about the young men who are struggling
and suffering with the state of loneliness more than ever before and it's causing so much mental harm
and it's causing so much friction and frustration in their life that they're all but giving up on
having a relationship with a young lady now where do i hear this from well pretty simple you guys
know we run the squire program the squire program is a father and son experience and anytime
we run these things we'll get as you know 20 fathers and sons 30 fathers and sons and
40 fathers and sons.
And throughout the day, they're doing awesome exercises
and activities together,
but also halfway through the day,
we separate the fathers and sons.
And when we're talking to these young men
for about a couple hours,
and the dads are kind of talking to the other instructors
and learning life lessons and business lessons
from the other instructors,
and then we'll be talking to these young boys
about the struggles in their life.
More and more we keep hearing
about the loneliness epidemic that they're dealing with.
And that's not the only place,
that I'm hearing this about these young men who are 16, 17, 15 years old.
And I get it. You know, that's an age where you're supposed to start finding girls
attractive and they do and maybe they start risking it and asking a young girl,
hey, will you be my girlfriend, right? But now they are afraid to. And we'll get into
why that's happening and what happens as they get older reach their 20s, mid 20s,
late 20s, even early 30s now, now we're seeing a grown man acting as though he's a young boy
who's afraid to approach, fears rejection, doesn't feel he has the value to bring to the table
to attract the young lady. And because of that, he's massively lonely, sad, and depressed.
The only problem is there was a time they would turn the porn. Now things are even worse.
I've literally found something even more damaging and destructive to a young man's life than porn.
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See, I hear this in my comments and my Instagram and YouTube all the time.
that it's hard to find a girl, that it's hard to find a real meaningful relationship,
someone who's not comparing you to the rich bros who drive the Lamborghinis and all those
douchebags on the social medias.
And I get it.
There might be a variation of that, but that doesn't mean you have to be lonely.
I think what's happening is the temptation of easy satisfaction is causing men to not want to go
out and hunt.
In fact, I can tell you this, that if food and water are constantly,
constantly delivered to me, why would I have any urgency to go out and buy food and buy water?
Even more, why would I have any urgency to go out and hunt food and go find a river and get a
bucket full of water and save it for the day or the week? I wouldn't. Now, if I was hungry and I'm
thirsty, my desire for food and water are going to go up. My desire to take action to go find
it will increase because I don't want to die of thirst. I certainly don't want to die of hunger. I am
going to go hunt and risk and deal with rejection. Or if this is the caveman times and I'm hunting for
food and water, I might even be willing to risk death because if I don't eat and don't drink,
death is certain, right? And that's what's happening today. You see, there was a time that porn
addiction was one of the greater threats to dudes in their 20s and 30s and even, you know, you
young men in their teens.
And I've done many of episodes on pornography and what it does to a young man's brain.
It starts rewiring your brain to expect unnatural, unhealthy ways of sexual expression.
What you see when you're watching porn is unrealistic and unnatural, right?
Especially as you go deeper down the weird channels that I know you freaks out there are doing.
As much as I can laugh about that, because I get it, a lot of weird shit out there.
It also creates new neuroplasticity in your brain.
In other words, your expectation of sex and what gets you off because of sex needs to be that,
that weird, freaky scene with nine dudes and eight chicks.
Weird, right?
And you think that's going to happen in your life?
You think you really want that?
You think that that's somehow healthy and natural?
It's not.
And when you start setting those expectations in your head and you start creating new neuroplasticity in
your brain, now you end up getting into a normal, what should be a healthy relationship,
and you have what's known as porn-induced erectile dysfunction.
Studies are showing now more young men are experiencing erectile dysfunction than ever before.
It's not that because they're stressed and whatever and they can't get hard.
it's because you have seen so much of porn that your brain is like unless it's this weird this freaky
this kinky regular sex ain't going to cut it for me so that ends up creating porn induced erectile
dysfunction it's a thing it shouldn't be a thing but it's a thing but what if i said it's even worse now
what if i said porn alone is nothing porn alone is like a knife
brought to a gunfight.
Because there's something even worse.
See, when you're on those porn channels,
you're literally watching a scene play itself out.
You have no ability to direct that scene.
You have no ability to interact with that scene.
And you have no ability to influence that scene.
You have no ability to be a main character in that scene.
You simply have your shorts around your ankles,
an old used sock next to you, on your mom's basement couch, watching something, and rubbing one off.
See, there you're not an active participant.
You're simply a spectator.
That's porn 1.0.
Now there's porn 2.0.
Far more destructive, far, far more addictive, so much so that it is bending the reality of young men.
Because I started finding Reddit threads of young men.
when I say young men, I'm 51, so dudes younger than me, in their 30s, in their 20s, who now have
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show. See, when you have an AI girlfriend, when you turn your chat GPT or any kind of chat agent
into your girlfriend and you assign her a voice and you have her to speak to in kinky ways
and you guys go back and forth in those kinky ways, that's creating a whole new set of expectations
in your brain. That's rewiring your brain in a way that again is not realistic at all.
And what ends up happening is when you layer AI on top of things like virtual
reality headsets where you are now being able to direct what is happening and literally interact
and communicate with your AI girlfriend.
And now you introduce a sex doll into it that has body heat and textured.
They're out there being sold.
And you layer these three components together and you realize why do I have to go out and hunt,
spend money on a chick when I could just have my AI girlfriend, the virtual headset,
And this near perfect sex doll.
See, when I was coming up, a sex doll was literally, we called it a blow-up doll.
Ed, do you remember that?
Right?
A blow-up doll.
In fact, Ed, your wife literally decorated my office for my 42nd birthday with a sex doll
sitting in my office chair.
Joan, the great and powerful Joan, my assistant, is Ed's wife.
Ed is my homie, who we jujitsu with, and who does all the filming of my content.
And so as a joke, my generation would use blow-up dolls more for humor than actual intercourse.
And so I remember coming to work to HQ, walking in, it was my birthday, and my office was
decorated, and on my office chair was a giant blow-up doll with its mouth open.
True story.
These guys are behind the camera laughing, but it's a true story.
And I remember just grabbing that thing, looking at it, flinging it aside, and getting to work.
Like, it was literally like a balloon.
Nothing human about it other than its shape, right?
Today it's very different.
You've got AI that will start speaking to you in ways that you've never been spoken to before,
provocative ways, sensual ways.
Then you've got the virtual headset that,
will show you what you are verbally trying to act out. And so now if your auditory and your visual
senses are captivated by this. And then now you're feeling senses of a warm body and torso and that
magical hole that's got temperature and tightness and lubrication, unlike the blow-up dolls
of my era, which was something more like a fucking a pool toy that you would have in your backyard.
Like, how the hell are you guys ever going to procreate? And so I've actually talked to some dudes
and they're like, you know what? Dude, my AI tells me exactly what I want to hear. And the body
feels awesome and the virtual headset is great. And one dude turned me on to the fact that he's like,
hey, by the way, I don't know if you know the spaders, but they're actually making holograms now.
holograms of hot chicks.
Layton, did you know this?
You didn't know that, did you?
Yeah, that's right.
Holograms.
So imagine you're talking to your AI chick,
your chat GPT hooker,
and you're like, hey, come to life.
And through this holographic thing,
kind of like how, you know,
they had Tupac on stage after his death.
They had Michael Jackson on stage after his death.
They're able to use holographic imaging.
And so now you're communicating with this chick.
Now you're using holographic imaging as she's moving.
Now you've got this torso that you can feel the experience.
And it literally dulls all of your senses to want to go out there and hunt.
And so you might be like, B, this actually sounds pretty great.
You're like an advertisement for AI sex, a virtual headset, the holographic body,
and of course the hot rubber torso with vaginal lubrication.
Where could I buy the combo, B?
Hold your horses.
before you go to the website and watch the VSL and order the extra tight model,
you might want to consider what I'm about to say next.
Because at some point, you're going to realize that you want companionship,
that you want to have experiences with someone and not just be alone.
You want to go on a road trip.
You want to travel.
You want to eat at nice restaurants.
You want to talk about the food, the hike that you went on.
You want someone to grow old with, someone who might be there to take you to urgent care,
someone who might be there to help you through a hard day.
You're going to miss out on the real human contact, connection, true love and respect.
Those things are essential.
How do we know?
Well, do you remember the pandemic of 2020?
Do you remember how everyone was separated and segregated and isolated?
Do you remember how mental health issues went up by 450% in that one year, spilled over into 2021?
When we are alone and isolated, we only have people to text with and to DM with and to interact on social media,
because that was before 2020 pandemic was before the whole AI boom that we had.
People were still lonely.
Even though you could text and chat, we were lonely for human contact, human interaction, human experiences.
That's what you're missing out on.
The human experience.
You're rewiring your brain to false expectations.
You're literally creating future erectile dysfunction for yourself.
You're destroying all of your social skills that you need.
The only way you can sharpen these social skills and make them better is by going out there and talking,
communicating, interacting, finding hobbies, interests.
And in that process, you might find a person that you're interested in.
And you talk to her.
You spit game.
You invite her for coffee, lunch, dinner, something.
and before you know what a relationship is building.
And guess what else happens?
Unlike AI, who's going to tell you exactly what you want to hear every single time,
this person is going to help mold you into a better person.
Iron sharpens iron and make no qualms about it.
You find the right person in your life and they will help expose all of the shortcomings that you have
and you love this individual so much that you're willing to take those things that were exposed
and work on them and become a better man for it.
And she's willing to do the same for you
because through loving you
and through the vulnerability that she shows you,
you have exposed her shortcomings,
her traumas, her trust issues.
And now she's willing to work on those things
to become a better woman for you.
Iron sharpens iron.
And this is how you elevate together.
Your little fuck doll with the AI voice,
and the virtual reality headgear is not going to ever sharpen you.
It'll continue to make you even more dull by saying you're great, you're perfect,
and you're the most awesomest fat, cocked, long cocked human on the planet.
And you know you're not, you're probably hung like a light switch.
You probably have no stain power.
But if you really interacted with a human over time, you might develop staying power.
You'll still have the same light switch.
You can't do anything about that.
Maybe you can't through surgery today or prosthesis.
But the point is, all joking aside, men are single-handedly going to destroy humanity in the next two years.
This isn't five years or ten years.
Look how fast AI is evolving, growing, and becoming so layered onto our life.
AI is not just, hey, chat, GPT, where's a good place to eat around here?
Or do some research on the war in Iran and tell me exactly.
what's happening or am I going to get recruited and drafted to go fight in this in this war that's
about to take place which is a whole other episode I need to do but what you need to understand is
AI is being layered onto our life it will be in your car it is already part of Alexa it's
already on your phone it will just live and breathe around us and knowing that it makes it
significantly more difficult for you to have human interactions. And so now you have to go out of
your way. Just like when the iPhone was born and then social media layered on top of the iPhone,
now you have to be even more intentional to be present around the people that you love.
Before it was a lot more easier to be present. Why? You didn't have all this information and all this
entertainment 24-7, 365, brand new content available to your fingertips, perfectly curated,
through the algorithm specifically for you, you didn't.
Now the humans around you that you love have to compete with that device.
AI is about to take that to a whole new level.
And you have to be very intentional in how you show up.
And I'm telling you, men are going to be the downfall of humanity starting in the next two years
because AI is progressing so quickly.
It's such a wonderful tool to use.
We use it throughout all my companies to grow the business.
to make it more efficient, to drive more leads, increase sales presentation, all of it, all of it.
But it is so going to be layered on your personal life that you will have no urgency or agency
to go out there and hunt and find the perfect person and to make yourself an even better human
by healing, learning to speak, to be fit.
Because you could be a fat fuck with a small dick with no ability to communicate, be unwashed,
unclean, smell like shit, and your AI girlfriend will tell you that you're a stud and that no one's
ever given it to her like you have and you will believe that nonsense and then you will be satisfied
and because of that when you're satisfied you have no urgency and desire to go out and hunt and
produce and perform and become the fucking man that you're meant to be and so porn 2.0 my friends
is not what you're going to find on a porn hub it is what is going to be layered on top of your
life through technology through robotics and through access to things that so that feel so
real and realistic that it will contort and distort your brain. Start now, become that man.
The good news is that so many of you will become rubber sex doll fucking zombies that are connected
to AI girlfriends that the handful of dudes out there who are focused on their growth,
their fitness, making money, becoming stoic, developing as humans, they will have
have access to all the most beautiful women, but I want that for you. And it starts off with you
doing the work to become the guy and breaking off from what is about to be porn 2.0.
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