Begin Again with Davina McCall - Gary Lineker: The Private Battles Behind a Public Life
Episode Date: September 3, 2026What happens when you stop seeing your hardest tests as failures and begin to see them as a life well lived? In this episode of Begin Again, Gary Lineker joins Davina McCall for a deeply personal con...versation about fatherhood, relationships, football, leaving the BBC and learning to embrace change. Gary opens up about the terrifying moment his son George was diagnosed with leukaemia at just six weeks old, the fear his family lived with during seven months at Great Ormond Street Hospital, and why they “could never relax” even after returning home. He also reflects on his two marriages and challenges the idea that divorce means failure. Gary reveals why he considers both marriages a success, how he has remained close to his ex-wives, and why, after years of being single, he has become comfortable with his own company, while remaining open to finding love again. After 30 years at the BBC and 25 years presenting Match of the Day, Gary shares what it feels like to step into a new chapter, why life outside the BBC means no longer “treading on eggshells”, and how he built Goalhanger into a hugely successful podcast business. From his father quietly believing in his football talent to becoming a dad himself, this is a warm and moving conversation about family, divorce, love, resilience, career change and finding the courage to begin again. 🌟Like, comment and subscribe for more honest conversations about purpose, resilience, love, loss and beginning again. Follow us here: 📸www.instagram.com/beginagain 🎥https://www.tiktok.com/@beginagainpod ✨Sign up for the Begin Again newsletter for behind-the-scenes access, recommendations and much more: https://linkly.link/2g2xm Follow Gary here: https://www.instagram.com/garylineker/?hl=en We'd love you to share your Get Busy Living stories with us at https://getbusyliving.beginagainshow.com/ (00:00) Intro (01:28) Gary’s Latest TV Show (05:35) How Gary Built Goalhanger From the Ground Up (10:56) Gary’s Son George’s Battle With Leukemia (18:35) Monzo GBL Ad (20:06) How Gary’s Childhood Led Him to Football (23:19) How Harry Kane Broke Gary’s Record (24:50) Why Gary Ended His Football Career (29:35) Monzo 90 Days Ad (30:42) How Gary Made the Leap Into TV (36:05) How Gary Became the Face of Match of the Day (39:57) Why Gary Left the BBC for Netflix (42:18) What Gary Really Thinks of England’s World Cup Performance (45:09) Why Gary Wants the Super-Rich to Pay More Tax (47:11) How Two Marriages and Divorces Played Out in the Public Eye (51:34) Why Gary Is Still Single Download Monzo. Monzo Current Accounts are for 16+ and UK residents. Ts&Cs Apply. Join the 'Say Yes Club' and hear more about our events here - https://events.beginagainshow.com/ Mastercard's exchange rate applies. Monzo Current Accounts are for 16+ and UK residents. Ts&Cs Apply Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Davina and Linneka who linked up so well for Begin Again.
Gary Linneka has etched his trademark
and Gary Linneker relishing the service.
That one was a gift but he was there.
Superbly done.
Linnika! Chances today are all ending up in the back of the net.
Gary's coming home.
This is so exciting.
So first of all I just want to let you know Gary Linneker, man of the people.
See you. He's got a taxi. Forget the man of the people. He's not at all.
Look, he's giving a tip. Man of the people I take that back.
I know.
Gary.
I know.
I know I am.
Gary. I'm not happy now.
I'm so excited. That's it.
Come on, Gary!
I'm quite excited. Can you tell?
You seem a little bit excited.
It's just that I've known you forever.
Yeah.
But I don't know you.
Do you know what I mean?
Yeah, it's quite a funny thing, isn't it?
Yeah.
That we have met occasionally over the years.
Yeah.
We've done various shows together and we saw each other at the NTAs last year, which is brilliant.
But it's an honour to have you here.
I think for somebody to still be relevant in the public eye after such a long and illustrious career is worth celebrating.
Well, thank you.
Well, thank you.
Likewise.
Still here.
We're still here.
She's still going.
Still punch you.
So I'd like to talk to you first off
because you've got this new show on ITV.
And I was a bit like, you know,
how many ideas can there be for TV?
How unique can it be?
Oh my God, I got presenters envy.
Did you?
It's so good.
It's a lot of fun.
So tell us a bit about it.
It's on ITV.
It's on ITV.
It'll be coming in September, early September, I think.
What day?
What time?
Saturdays and Sundays for four weeks
Prime time of course
Obviously, this is Gary Lineker
Come on, come on
We don't do anything but prime time
And you don't have to do anything except for enjoy it
I'm so jealous
That's very true
It's a bit
It's watching people
Mostly have fun
But also face their fears
And all sorts of different challenges
So it's basically
We've got ten celebrities
And these 10 big yellow boxes
It's a bit like telephone boxes, but you can't see out of them.
So they wield these trucks around these boxes around the country,
and the celebrities inside the box don't know when the box opens,
where they are, what they're about to face, and it could be anything.
And I don't want to give obviously too much of us people,
because part of the surprise is mostly the fun of the show.
But some of the challenges are, you know, the I-360 at Bright, for example,
We managed to get one of them on top of that in the sky
And they walk out and it's like
Wow, what have I got to do?
And there's also a challenge after that
So, you know, they come out of the boxes
They're in front of a botlin's crowd and all sorts of.
I won't tell all of them, but they really went for it.
I mean, it's the kind of show you have to throw yourself into,
I think, as a celebrity.
Definitely.
They are having to.
take themselves out of their comfort zones.
And they're usually used to public arenas,
but this is next level what you put them through.
Well, some of them.
Some of them are actually just a bit of fun
or some of them are actually a little bit thoughtful.
They've got to work themselves through something.
So it's not all horrible,
but there's always a degree of the fear of the unknown
as they step out of the box.
It was something totally different.
They hadn't really done anything like that before.
I've obviously hosted shows outside of football,
but something like this was sort of gamey reality show was different.
I mean, you've done lots of.
And it's a huge, it's on such a huge scale.
And you are having to think out of the box.
Indeed.
Very good.
Boom.
Do you want me to write for you?
I mean, there are a million pounds, right?
You should do a lot of presenting.
You should just try to present me.
Have a go at that.
I mean, you've had such a varied career
because this is you're in your 60s now
and you are presenting like a mega entertainment TV program.
That's so inspiring for other people,
I think, as we age, to see you living your best life.
It's still possible.
Yes.
pensioners that we can still soldier on.
I'd like to talk to you as well about Goal Hangout.
Am I right saying that you set up that business like 12 years ago?
About that.
It was originally a sports production business with my partner, Tony Paster,
who I was stayed in touch with.
We used to work together at the BBC a long time ago.
And then he was head hunted by ITV to run football there, to be head of football.
So he did that for many years.
But we all stayed in touch.
And then we met one day and talked about doing something.
something together. He'd already started on his own doing this production company, but
we joined, we made lots of sports docs, we did, you know, Rooney, Kevin Peterson, Anthony
Joshua, did three with him. You did three documentaries with Anthony Joshua, yeah.
Did you? Yeah, back about 11 years ago, 10 years ago, yeah, when he was making his name.
So we did a few of those and then and then we discovered podcasts. I did, I did a, I did a,
a podcast because we thought, what is this pocketist?
Shall we do one?
And we're going, yeah, maybe.
So we thought we'd do something.
I did something with Danny Baker called Behind Closed Doors,
like Footballer meets Football fan.
And Danny's, you know, really funny.
He's so funny.
And he did okay.
And we thought, we got a book deal.
And it was very early days of podcasting.
We thought there might be something in this.
And then we'd always done sport, though.
And then Tony was in a bookshop.
And he was a big World War Tourifice, you know,
and he was looking for a book on World War II
and he called me, he said the top four books
at four of the books in the top ten
are about World War II.
I went, oh great, because I'm not really about fussed about World War II.
So I said, oh, great.
And he said, so I thought I'd look for a podcast
and I can't find one.
I went, oh, that's a shame.
And he went, shall we do one?
I went, on World War II.
I said, we've only ever done sport.
And in the end, we did,
we did with Al Murray, the comedian,
who's a massive World War II officiado.
and his friend James Holland
and it proved really quite popular.
It's niche subject, but it does really well.
And we have a World War II festival every year now.
Yeah, for that podcast, yeah.
And then from there, we went from James Holland to Tom Holland.
At school?
Yeah.
As well as so interesting.
Sorry, James Holland to Tom Holland.
So James Holland said Tom, his brother wants to do one on all history,
and then it took a while to get his partner.
and in the end we said,
well, we're a historian, mate.
Who do you want to be with when you're in the pub?
He went, oh, Dominic Sandbrook.
So you could say the rest is history,
but you know I've used that one a few times before.
But the rest is, is such a brilliant precursor to anything.
In the end, it is.
And it's quite interesting because we undenade about whether to use it.
Again.
Again, because the rest of history is obvious,
because it's actually a phrase.
Whereas after that, the next one,
we did was politics.
And there's only about four of us in the office back then.
And we sort of, we were, should we do it with the rest is politics?
Because it doesn't really make sense, but can we build a brand?
And we went with the brand idea and proves to be good, yeah.
I mean, it's really works.
And you know that they're all from the same stable.
You know what you're going to get.
You've built something you can trust.
I think it's, yeah.
No, I'm really proud.
I'm really proud of what we've built out of nowhere.
but it didn't come about by accident
but it wasn't a like preconceived plan
to build this podcast empire, yeah.
What's up your sleeve for the rest is?
Up my sleeve.
Well, we've been looking for a while at things like food
and how you can do food
because obviously food's very visual
and but having said that the podcast world now, as we can see here,
everything is now filming.
It is incredible, it's like a TV show.
And we've obviously gone down that route as well.
So food's impossible
And we're looking at one about power
And also true crime is a possibility
But there's nothing absolutely immediate
At the present
But there's a couple trying
We're doing a few tryouts and things like that
But I like going clubbing
So if you could do the rest is raving
The rest is raving
The rest is raving
Whoop
It's just been me in a cup
Just do that.
I'll have a really good time.
I think it'll be all right for about three episodes.
Thanks, Gary.
After that, I think you might run out of something to talk about.
I won't be talking.
I just be dancing.
Oh, okay.
It's great telly.
I think it's not only is it a good brand, but it's also been such a massive success.
I mean, it was something like 371% like increase.
As a business, it's been incredible.
It's just been nuts, right?
You were talking about four of you in the office.
How many are you now?
I think we're closing in on 100.
But it's lovely.
I go in the office and there's just such a really young people.
We're employing young people.
They're enjoying it.
Really diverse.
Super intelligent young people who are really enjoying their job.
And that gives us so much satisfaction.
It's great.
It's lovely to be around young people.
It helps keep you young.
Yeah.
you got four boys.
Yeah, I know.
Michelle and you had four beautiful boys.
How do they keep you grounded?
Quite easily by taking a piss out of me.
Yeah, that's what I mean.
Like, what do they do?
Oh, I don't know.
They don't appreciate my dad jokes.
They rip me for that.
You're a dad joke guy?
I love dad jokes.
It's almost like it's compulsive.
I'm not actually telling the jokes,
but it will always be like a ridiculous puner.
There will be one before the end of the people.
Good, okay, I'll look forward to that.
I'd like to talk, in fact, about you and Michelle, you had your boys,
and I know that George, when he was quite young, he got, was it leukemia?
Yeah, yeah, very young.
And he was very, very poorly.
Yeah.
But you were at the height of your football career and, you know, a dad and with Michelle,
like, how did you cope with that?
Well, we both cope with it differently
Michelle's more spiritual than I
I'm kind of atheist
I don't believe in any of that
So
So we dealt with it in different ways
Was that difficult?
Not really, no
Because it was equally difficult for both of us
So
I mean he was about six years
Only six weeks old, six weeks old
And he had
He's so vulnerable
He had this little bump on his head
And we thought, it's a bit odd
But it wasn't just a bump, it was like really hard
So we thought, I would take him in to see, get it checked
And they looked at it, they said,
Oh, it looks like this kind of skin condition
That we'll take a little biopsy
And we'll report back in about 10 days.
So we went home, blah, blah, blah,
10 days goes on
He's now got lots of the bumps all over his head.
He's like a bit.
His head was a bit like a golf ball.
And it was really weird.
So we were obviously worried.
So we went back to the,
and there were two doctors in there.
And they said, well, first thing,
it does look like it's this skin condition.
It's come back as.
So he thought, well, that's a relief.
And then I said, well, I said,
you say that, but, you know,
the last two, three days,
he really does appear quite unwell.
And his glands are up a little bit
under his arms.
You could feel that.
I could feel that and his groins.
And they said, oh, okay.
So they went, let's have a look.
So they took his little outfit off
and he took his nappy off.
And they started feeling around
and I'll never forget it.
They just, I mean, they just looked to each other.
And they went, Mr. and Mrs. Lineker,
I'm really sorry, but this does appear
to be something much more serious.
It was like, what do you mean?
So, he said, well, we need to do some tests, obviously,
but this does look like leukemia, so we've gone.
I mean, yeah, it was just like being whacked.
And then, so I knew leukemia was a blood cancer,
but I didn't know anything else, really, at that point in my life.
So I said, well, what does that mean?
So, well, we need to do some tests.
The first thing is clearly very unwell.
We need to get him within an hour,
or even Great Ormond Street and where he spent the next seven months.
And it was, it was so, it was hard.
And also being in the public high made it some time, you know,
most of the time in life it's, it's really good to be in the public.
Everyone's lovely and we're, you know, we're lucky.
We're blessed lives and it's amazing.
But this, I mean, we were in there, I was in there all,
most of the night and I only made a couple of calls to family
and to Terry Venables who was the Tottenham manager because I was playing for
Tomlin now weren't you? So Terry said right he said
Michelle's going to stay with him because it's just room for her
I'm going to go home and then I'm going to he said you said I'm going to
pick you up in the morning I'll take you to the hospital
and I said thank you and Terry came and I opened the curtains and there were
hordes of paparazzi and tell it and it's like
so I'm dealing with what I've
you know this absolute
terrifying news
and but he took me to the hospital
and then for about three weeks
I was there all day with Michelle
and then I'd go home later and night she'd stay
there were ups and downs
they were incredibly honest
doctors as they are a matter of
facts and the next morning when the test came through said, right, we know it's acute myeloid
leukemia, blah, blah, blah, and they said under these circumstances we would give him between
a 10 and 20% chance.
A survived.
I'm making it, yeah.
And that is like, it's hard to describe that emotion because most of it was just fear.
Yeah.
Fear, you know, you just go.
And I used to have these recurring dreams of, like, I'm not.
like carrying a like coffin, little tiny art coffins were.
There was just, but even though we were told,
we were told at least twice that he might not make it through the night.
But he did and he kind of, whatever was thrown at him, he got, he got through,
but the other parents weren't as lucky as us next to us in the ward.
Yes, I mean, when you experienced that as well, it's,
when you left the hospital and you knew he was through the war,
worst, how did that change? Because I think an experience like that of coming that close to losing
someone you love or supporting someone trying to help through something, changes your whole life,
right? It has to. Yeah. It has to. It's obviously your imminent life because you have to work around
things. And also, as we know, the most important thing with cancer is to get the patient into
remission and they got George into remission quickly, that was important.
But then you have to have other courses of chemo.
And then it's a question of once you've, the cancer's not there.
It's whether it comes back.
Yes.
And, you know, even when you leave hospital, which we're seven months and we're all clear.
But at the same time, we do know there's a serious chance that it could come back.
So they say five years for cure, five years post-treatment for cure.
but, you know, we had four sons in the end
and if any of the other three had a cold or anything like that
you wouldn't think anything of it.
But when George it was like, oh my, I always got a cold.
Is it?
Right.
Is it like a spot on his face?
Like a little spot because of his head thing,
you go, and you never really relax on it.
But we were one of the lucky ones.
A lot of the parents did they didn't.
And however really was, you just clung on to a little bit of
and that, I think, got us through it in different ways.
I was always more comfortable and it helped me.
I found to talk about it.
Michelle couldn't talk about it.
So, you know, we dealt with things in our different ways, albeit together.
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Parenting, you, there's a little bit that I have met you and talked to you.
We've talked about being parents, and I know what a great thing.
dad you are and how plugged in you are but i i know that your parents were um amazing can you just
talk to me a bit about the influence that your parents had on you when you were a kid because
you are a lot of your mum but your dad's work ethic you know he was a car after but also he
sacrificed a lot for you right oh very much so um i'm definitely more my mum's personality because
She's always quite calm, whereas my dad's a bit more fiery.
And he's a market trader and a card player and a drinker.
And he lived life to life to the max, but he worked his socks off.
And they used to go and watch me play all the time.
And my brother, Wayne, wherever we played.
How old were you when you started knowing that you loved football?
Well, it's a little bit different to now because you didn't really play any kind of,
competitive football until you were about under 11.
So it would have been 9, 10, around that age that by the time I was probably 12, 13, people were going,
I was scoring, like, ridiculous amounts of goals.
But your dad saw it before then, didn't he?
Well, he did, but because, I mean, we moved out of the city to a place called Kirby Muxlow,
just outside the city centre.
and I passed the 11 plus
and it meant that I would go to
I only had one choice of school
because of where we were about
where we just moved to
and that was a rugby playing school
and my dad said
I know you know no you know
he said that happened to me
he said that's not happening to you
so
did you cook to like kicked a ball about
with your dad
could he see that he must have done
I had a conversation
it's one of the last conversations
we ever had
he died about
about 10 years ago
and one of the last conversations
we had was
you know we were talking about my career
and that's nice
and I went you know you did all these things
because they moved house for me
and I went to live with my grandparents for eight months
which was great because boy could she make a cake
so anyway so they moved
and I lived my grandmother parents
just so I could go and play for a football in school
and I had this conversation with him almost on his desk
And I said, you know, to do that, you must have saw something.
He went, I always knew.
I went, I went, well, why didn't you ever tell me?
He said, well, no, you've got to keep grounded and all this.
But, I mean, I didn't know.
I didn't know until I was well into my career that I, yeah.
But he always, you know, he was the only person on the planet that backed me to be the
when the Golden Boot in 1986, I think you got about 16 to 1 or something.
So, there you go.
Oh my God, that's amazing.
While we're on that,
I just want to say you were the highest goal scorer
until this World Cup.
Oh, no.
What was the...
Because, you know, Gary, that is, well, first off, well done.
For lasting that long.
Yes.
It's a record ad for a long time.
It is incredible.
Anyway, and well done, Harry Kane.
But you were really lovely about.
about him at that moment.
Quite rightly so, because he's
not only a wonderful footballer and a
brilliant, brilliant goal scorer and hugely
talented, but, you know,
he's sound, isn't he? He's a really
good bloke. You can tell. You can tell.
I mean, do you know, I've never met him?
No, seriously.
No, I've met lots of... I've met lots of... God, if we didn't
know that, I'd never... We'd have made that happen.
And we've flown him...
We've flown him...
We've flown him a thousand miles from Munich
to be here with you tonight.
I'd love to look. This is your life.
I love that bloody show.
Let's do that again.
Amen.
Yeah. God, we're showing our age.
I always thought about it, because I never fancied that this is your life.
So they don't tell you, but my agent was under strict instructions if they ever asked.
Yeah. No, never.
You imagine someone turning up that you don't like?
Yes.
What are you doing here?
Yeah, I know.
That must have happened sometimes.
Oh, it absolutely must have happened.
because they obviously genuinely surprise you.
God, there's so much heart.
There's not enough time in my life to talk to you.
But what I want to get under the skin of with you, Gary,
is that all the emotions and you've had a lot of loss in your life.
You're gifted enormous things through your talent
and you're playing and you're presenting and your business and everything.
But you also leave...
big things and move on.
So in terms of beginning again,
these are the things,
these are the reasons
why people stay stuck.
Somewhere they don't like,
some of them are not enjoying
because they love the people,
they love the office,
they're going to.
You're just like,
nope, leaving, gone,
gone, next thing.
Yeah, it's, it's, I admire it.
Well, you've got no choice
with football, right?
So because, I mean,
you can stay in football,
which I did in a different way,
but you can't continue
to be football
because you know, you come to a certain age
where you can't function as well.
But what's that feel like?
I think I was, I'm not going to say lucky
because I didn't enjoy it
because I was injured for almost the last two years
that I played or didn't play.
I was in Japan.
And I only played a handful of games there
and I spent pretty much the last year of football
trying to get myself fit in rehab.
And it was grueling
and it was boring
and I was without the buzz of a game
at the end of the week
and I just got me to the stage
where I thought,
I'm ready to do something else
and you know you've got to
because there's a lot of life after football
you can't just quit.
I mean, the players now earned significant amounts of money
that they probably could.
You couldn't have done,
even though I was well paid relatively in my day,
it doesn't compare with the modern day.
So, you know, there's a lot of life.
So I was already planning on,
going into the media side of things because I looked at things like tennis and golf and
other cricket and the people that ran the shows were all former play.
David Gower in cricket, Sue Barker in tennis, pretty much all of them in golf with former
players.
So I thought if I could get into the media but not only as a pundit, which was just starting
to be quite a big thing, I thought if I could possibly be a possible,
present as well it might give me some form of longevity.
And you had a chat with some of the presenters, didn't you, to kind of say, what, you know,
what you're, I was keen to learn.
And even when we're, even when I was a player, I used to sit with the camera crews or the
radio people or some of the journalists, see how they did their columns and opened the
themselves.
I was quite curious.
I was always curious.
I think, yeah, I've definitely always been curious about all sorts of things.
Sometimes not known.
Sometimes not for the better.
And so you end up realizing, well, okay, I can make this jump from football to not just being a pundit, but actually being a host on a sports program.
I quickly do just want to talk about what it's like.
So you'd been in Japan, but when you left the UK, because there is something I don't understand how much you would grieve leaving a group of people that you've been.
with through thick and thin through all those
letdowns and triumphs.
Yeah, go on.
Football is that that does change all the time.
It's always transient, right.
Always, you know, you move clubs.
Some players have one career, what, you look,
a long career at one club.
And I suppose that would apply more to them.
But even then it's, you look at a squad now of a team,
a big team now and compare it with six years' time.
There won't be many left.
There won't be, you know, there won't be,
they'll be kind of probably a handful of players that are still there.
So it's something you get used to.
You get suddenly,
suddenly you find a new mate and then he's gone.
Yeah.
And sometimes you stay in touch.
And with others,
you just don't.
So in a funny kind of way,
it's like prepping you for all the change that you have in your life anyway.
It's like,
oh, change.
I've changed living where I live.
I've changed where my family all live.
We all move.
Well, I played, you know,
I played for a few different clubs in two different,
countries are that I've signed from here as well.
So I think it probably, it's not, it wasn't part of the plan thinking,
well, this will prepare me for life, obviously.
But I think it does.
I think it does a little bit.
You know, you're suddenly in an environment, you're in a different country and you've,
you've got to get on.
You've got to learn the language.
You've got, you know, live the culture, which was quite easily in Barcelona.
Yeah.
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How did you go from Japan to TV?
Well, I'd already started planning to do things.
And I think it's, I get a lot of, I'm sure you do, a lot of people say,
how do I get into the media world?
How do I do it track?
And I've got, how do you get into sports reporting?
I said, well, you know, just watch as much as you can, write things,
practice when you can, maybe try and get into some charity radio,
hospital radio, local radio, school stuff,
anything that you can do,
and maybe you'll get your chance,
or you can score 40 or goals for England.
So, which is my...
Gary!
No, but it's true, that was my way in.
I was lucky because of that.
So, you know, if I'd have just been, you know,
a regular player, I'd have been so successful,
it's true.
You weren't lucky.
I was lucky to be born good at football.
Yeah.
So, yeah.
But I have been lucky.
I've had an amazing life.
Amazing life.
You've worked hard.
Yes, but lots of people work hard.
Yeah, that's true.
I was born with a gift.
You were.
I was born with a gift to score goals.
And that gave me a massive, massive star in life.
Yeah.
Big advantage.
Yeah.
And I'm aware of how lucky I've been, I think.
I think also you were lucky because, and now I'm telling you, you're lucky,
but you worked hard and you got to where you got to with your scoring goals.
But also, you are a good communicator.
It wasn't when I was young, though.
Really?
So shy when I...
Yeah, I remember...
Are you shy?
Yeah, I was terribly shy in my, you know, late teens and early 20s.
I was kind of a very late developer as well, so...
Yeah, I was always a bit...
I overcame that.
I'm definitely not too shy now.
But...
And people go, yeah, you're not bloody shy.
But I was when I was young.
But I think all the traveling and all the experience that I have helped that, yeah.
So how did you get into kind of the...
BBC or did you start at the bead?
I did a couple of bits for various, I think I did a little bit for ITV, a couple of things.
And then BBC wanted to, we had a conversation.
Brian Barber was head of sport at that point and Brian was keen to get me in.
And it involved doing quite a bit of punditry for the start whilst I learnt the trade of
presenting, which I did on radio.
So Radio 5.
And let's say I wasn't very good.
I was a rabbit in the headlights,
particularly when the TV started.
So, you know, it's the difficult to add out,
I didn't learn like a lot of people do
on some little show that no one ever watches.
I was learning on football,
which is watched by a lot.
I think when I started presenting,
the second show I ever did
was the highlights of England, Scotland
in the Euros in 1996.
And there were 11 million people
washing it. That's the second show I'd ever done.
God! I didn't know that at the time,
but I assumed it'd be a biggie because
England's Scotland and it was such a huge game.
It was, you know, the Gaza moment and
the dentist chair and all that
celebration. So it was
a baptism of fire.
I wasn't brilliant by any stretch of the imagination,
but I wasn't quite
bad enough for them to give up on me.
So they gave me time
and
there were so many times that.
I started to present football focus,
which was my first real regular television slot.
And I'd drive home sometimes at Saturday, lunchtime after the show,
thinking I'm never going to be able to do this live thing,
listening to people talking in my ear.
You know exactly what it's right.
But in the end, you get to enjoy it, and it's part of the fun.
I mean, I was going to say,
now, hit an account and all this.
Right.
And now, if I have to do something that's recorded,
I know.
I'm like, like, what, we've got to do it again.
boring.
It's not.
It's not.
Well, I hope it's not.
People will decide.
But it is funny.
I mean, at least this, it does feel,
we're doing it as life.
Yeah.
But when they go,
actually, could we do another take of that?
And you're like, oh God.
It's not that I'm not grateful,
but it's just when you're used to just doing
this is it, it's gone,
and break gone.
I much prefer doing the live.
In that sense,
for the buzz
it's good
you know but I've done a lot of pre-recorded
and obviously the box that's about to come out
was pre-recorded
but again it's as live
it's as live because you can't repeat
the stunts and the games and the exercises
so there's even though
there are lots of times you do the show
and then you've got to wait while they set up
the next challenge etc
right but so they're long days
but then matches they were long days
yeah very long days
You know what's quite funny is how many boxes you have in your life?
Because you've often talked about.
Yeah, because I was, yeah, the old one, born to be in the box.
Yeah.
Learned to be on the box.
Soon to be in a box.
Yeah.
Anyway, yeah.
It's only a marathon.
It's closer all the time.
But yeah, and then to get a show called the box.
Yeah, to get the show called the box.
I know. Yeah.
That was a natural fit.
Yeah, of course.
Absolutely.
So then you become a pundit.
and how long were you with the BBC, like 20 years?
Overall, almost 30.
I started in about 95 and finished in 25, so that's 30, yeah.
And it was 25 years...
I thought 95 was yesterday.
That's what's so mad.
I know, it's mad, how quickly it goes.
But we're still here.
Yeah, because it was 25 years of match of the day,
and I started that when Des left in 99.
Des.
Des, Des was
Des was the master.
I learned a lot from Des.
Yeah.
Being alongside him
because I did two years
as punner truth
for much the day
and Des was in the chair
and,
you know,
talk about calm and the calmness,
yeah.
And a humor that I think,
you can't learn humor
but he taught me to be brave enough
not to worry about
trying to have a bit of fun.
And he says
so many sports presenters
he said, they're good.
He said, but they're safe and they're serious.
And he said, it'll give you an edge.
And I went with that.
And sometimes, you know, you try that silly pun at the end of the show.
If it makes three people happy in the country, it's, that's satisfactory.
You know, it might make a lot of people go, oh, here he goes again.
Yeah, but that's good.
But that's fine.
It's good, yeah.
Do you think that you've helped other presenters?
Obviously, you know, we're getting to the stage now.
where we've got other people,
like you said, always kind of saying to us,
like, how do you do it?
How have you got on?
Like, what can I learn from you?
And that you've done the same as Des did for you
for other people.
Like, can we talk about Micah?
Yeah, of course.
Please tell me he's as lovely as I think he is.
I'm sorry to disappoint you,
but he's even more lovely than...
Oh, God.
Gary, did you see my face fall for a moment?
No, Micah's great.
I mean, hopefully you won't listen to this.
He won't be able to get out of the door.
Is he hilarious?
Because his laugh, honestly, I think I would...
No, he's a lot of fun.
He's got an amazing presence and real energy.
And he's the reason why it took quite a long time
to do a football pod because I wanted to get my car.
I recognised it quite early when he...
I'd never met before he started doing match of the day.
He did a few shows and I...
Did you see it?
Immediately.
Fairly immediately.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And he's grown into it more and more.
So he's just one of those.
He's got such a great enthusiasm.
And he can turn it on for the, when it, I mean, for example, during the summer,
we did the show, we did for Netflix.
I mean, it was amazing.
It was really amazing, by the way.
Congratulations.
Thank you.
It couldn't have gone better.
Yeah.
So Michael was obviously a key part of that.
But he was also at home because he was doing.
the, they were doing it from,
BBC were doing it from Salford.
So in the green box and the time changes
make that a lot of the nights that he would then come
and do our show from his, when he got home,
from his garage where we set up this beautiful shot.
But sometimes it'd be three or four in the morning,
you're thinking, God, and he comes in his way,
and then boom, and he's like this energy.
So he was one of the reasons that it took along all right
to do our podcast because I was waiting for him.
Oh.
And eventually we got him to...
Oh God, he knows that.
How nice.
And obviously, Alan, as well, I've worked with forever, Alan and Shirers, Alan Shira.
Alan's solid.
I don't know.
I don't know, Alan.
I feel like I know, Alan.
You know what I mean?
He's exactly as you know what I mean.
So, yeah, so to get those two together, it took a long time.
But it worked.
This thing of going from the BBC to Netflix,
I know that the BBC is a place where you are quite kind of...
Well, it's the BBC and they have people to answer to
to and they have the public to answer to.
We all pay the licence for blah, blah, blah,
but suddenly you're on Netflix.
Were you like, knees up, Mother Brown, okay, let's go.
You could say that.
I mean, I will say that I love the BBC.
Yes.
For all its faults.
Oh, I mean.
And it has a few, obviously.
Oh, but it's an amazing institution.
It is, and it's still hugely respected around the world,
and we should be proud of it.
And it was, you know, I've been married twice.
And, you know, eventually you can kind of be.
go you different ways.
And it was a bit like that with the BBC.
So,
and,
but yet,
I must say,
though,
living life
outside of the BBC
without having that thing
on the show,
it's nice not treading on eggshells
all the time.
Yeah.
And,
you know,
lots of things have happened subsequently.
So now,
um,
the World Cup's over.
Like,
where's that going?
Well,
it turns back into the podcast that we've already doing,
which the show was based on.
Yeah.
Netflix had taken,
But you're going to do more...
Monthly episode.
Right.
And obviously we're upspecking the cameras in our various homes.
So they've wanted to continue, which was great.
You know, I know what it's like in a World Cup.
And I was convinced it would be the same that once it starts taking shape
and England start doing okay, then the country goes mad.
And they can't get enough of football.
Everyone wants a bit of the stress of it.
So from my experience of many, many, many, many world cups,
I knew that would happen
as long as England progressed
because it was a Netflix show
but it's based at UK audience
even though we did get an audience
from all parts of the world as well
so it was fun because
also I was slightly nervous about doing this show
because they don't tend to work
these kind of shows
but normally they're comedically led
so you've seen a lot of these
post England game shows
or post World Cops
and they've always
They're really flop mostly.
So I was a little bit worried.
But I think because we went at it with actually a serious football head-on,
but also have some fun as well.
To get it that way round, I think it made it work.
It worked.
It did.
I mean, I don't really know much about football.
That's all right, Vivina.
Nor do I, but I've lagged it for years.
When it's a big campaign, I'm excited.
I'm also a gooner, I'm sorry.
You're a gooner.
Well, you're happy days.
Happy days.
Yeah, happy days.
My dad used to take me when I was a little girl
and then I took my son
and now it's the best thing ever.
Anyway, but I go and he has to explain everything to me
but I love it.
But this year and I know nothing
and I don't know if you felt the same,
I really thought it was coming home.
We need to get rid of that phrase
because he said jokes.
It's such a jinx that's coming over.
Have I jinks it again?
Well, no, because we were already home.
Okay, okay.
We're home, but it is not.
Is it my fault?
It is in Spain.
So don't blame yourself.
I honestly felt like it was, it was seriously going to happen.
I had a real vibe.
I didn't.
You didn't?
No, not this.
No, I didn't quite.
I thought we got to about where we are.
I think we got in a position where we should have made it.
I think we'd have really strong.
Yes.
The best team won.
The best team won the World Cup.
There's no question about that.
They were so dominant, so good.
They only conceded one goal.
They played really good possession football.
I thought England did okay.
I think they'll really regret the last half an hour
against Argentina because as soon as we got ahead,
you know, I've played in games
and subconsciously sometimes you just try and hold on to what you've got.
And I think Thomas Tuchle, if he reflects,
and I'm sure he has, will go,
I think I exacerbated that
by bringing on defenders and making it more.
And you can look at things tactically
like if you've got that many defenders on the pitch,
how can you give Messi that much space to kill you?
So there were lots of things.
But prior to that, you know,
we're wonderful performance against Mexico in altitude.
I mean, I don't.
Yes.
And got through it.
It was so good.
Although I think maybe that victory
in hanging on like they did,
there, but that was with 10 men,
might have influenced his thinking
in the Argentine game. Right, right.
But I think we did pretty well.
We had some really good performance.
You know, Harry Kane got his goals.
Jude Belling was fabulous.
Absolutely brilliant.
Yeah, that was.
Some good, really good performances.
But once again, not quite enough.
Can I just say something?
Everything that you've just said there,
I'm going to use another day to make myself.
Next time you're at dinner with someone.
Really good.
And they'll go.
You don't know what the fuck you're talking about.
I go, actually, I do because Gary told me.
You know, you've left the BBC, but you've done this great thing.
I'd like to talk about this petition that you guys have signed
and what that's about and what you are trying to suggest to the Prime Minister.
Oh, the millionaires paid tax?
Well, I think if there comes a point in your life where you have a wealth
and I think you can perhaps contribute to society.
Now, I know you can just do that anyway if you want to,
if you want to, I think there's a way of just paying the,
and you know, we all do stuff with charities and things like that.
But I think it misses the point when they argue about the fact, well, just do it anyway.
But I think if you can get it as a kind of law that super wealthy contribute more to society.
It would make sense.
Well, it's, and it wouldn't really make any difference to them.
How much do you actually need?
I was just going to say that.
Especially when you're talking about obviously super wealthy, like the billionaires.
And you think, well, and they say, well, and they.
say, well, they'll just leave the country?
Will they really over like 0.2% of their wealth?
I mean, would they? Why?
And you just think, well, would you want those kind of people in the country that?
Yeah.
I think, you know, as someone that's pretty wealthy, I've always been, you know,
contributors to tax, I've always paid top, top level tax for a long, long, long time.
And happy to do so.
And if, you know, if they want us to dip in, I think, I think most of us would like to help
in a way.
So we'll see if the government does that.
There'll be a lot of lobbying against it, of course, from the super rich.
Because for some reason, I don't know if it's like a,
it's like my dick's bigger than your dick kind of game for them.
A lot of them, I've got a bigger boat than you, and I've got this and the other.
I don't quite get it.
But I think it's helpful that you get it out there and you speak about it because I think it might
inspire other people to do something similar and it could make a really big difference.
So well done, Gary.
Well, it's not moved.
It's not moved the government yet.
But if it does, then we can say well done.
So Gary, you mentioned earlier about, you know, you've been married twice.
And obviously, you and Michelle, I know, because I've done it,
splitting up with somebody in the public eye is a fucking nightmare.
It's horrible, yeah.
Oh, my God.
And you were kind of on good terms with both your exes.
Exactly.
Can you tell me through what that's like going through that?
It's so difficult to do it because it becomes a public.
And I don't understand, you know, people say, well, it's part and parcel of being a famous or a celebrity or whichever way you want to describe it.
But, you know, personal lives and with your, you know, things.
Basically, I look back and I look back and we had this thing, particularly back then,
whereas that is really
that's a sight on your
you know that you get divorced
that's a failure
you're to someone has to
you used to have this thing
that someone has to take the blame
which was ridiculous
someone's got to be at fault
to get a divorce
exactly thankfully that law has now changed
because it was ridiculous
one of you had to admit
and you not only had to say
we had to invent something
we had to invent something for it
it was ridiculous
I mean I was going to
took the blame for both marriages, but
we had to make up the thing because actually it was just an amicable
arrangement because, you know, we'd been, I look at it as I had two,
people say, the failures, no, I had two really successful
managers. Yeah, you did. Really good. 20 years together, four children, Michelle.
Danielle, we had a few years, we split in the end because of children
and we're best mates, absolutely best mates now.
We see each other regularly.
So, and it's, and it works. And, you know, I'm not sure
meant to be the same people forever.
Some people are, which is great, and other people are not.
But, you know, going through it in the media and it's front-page news and it's like, you know,
when you've got kids as well, it's, it makes it really, really hard to deal with.
But it is part and parcel of being in the public eye, but I don't think it should be.
I don't think it's fair.
I mean, I...
If you sell your whole life as long as you go.
Yes, if you're a reality TV star, you can sort of say, well,
Under those circumstances, maybe it's fair game.
But I spoke to some of the main editors of the newspapers in those days.
And I think it was like a game for them to try and mess up your life a little bit.
I had somebody, I did a chat show.
And it wasn't my finest hour, but I literally got ripped to shots.
And the guy that started it was like, yeah, we knew you'd be all right though.
But they don't know you'd be all right, yeah.
Well, they, and I think they thought that I would be,
and I think that he genuinely was like,
I knew we could take you down and you'd be all right.
But I was sitting in my car going into Sainsbury's.
They don't sponsor the show, but if they'd like to, gives the clear.
But with my head on the steering wheel.
Other supermarkets are available.
With my head on the steering wheel thinking,
I can't go in again because I was getting rubbed on the back with sympathy.
it was that savage.
Like people were just looking at me across the aisle go,
I'll bless you.
And you think...
I went there's a perception that you don't have feelings when you...
And it's also, it's quite difficult.
You don't want to whine too much
because we do have incredibly great lives.
But also we need the press.
Yeah.
Well, that's it.
We need to advertise your podcast and my podcast.
But it's got better.
I think it's got better.
I was going to say that it's changed a bit.
There's not got that gotcha, that gotcha nature
that it had for years and years and years and obviously through the phone hacking and all those
terrible things that they did your phone get hacked yes yeah yeah i think everyone's to yeah i'm sure yours
yeah yeah yeah i think pretty much everyone was getting hacked in those days but um but i think i think i feel
like it's it's got better in terms of yeah trying to basically trying to ruin people's lives
which was seems a weird thing to want to do but that's i think for them it was a bit of a game
but again there are a lot of good aspects to the media and the newspapers but
I was just thinking in terms of like everything you went through then
and are you with anybody now?
No I'm single
but how long have you been single for Gary?
I've quite a few years now
that would be
I dated for a while about
four years ago
and not since
Mike, I need to sort this out
All right, you're asking me out
I've got buried
I know you, I'm sorry about that out
But I can't believe that
Because you are such a lovely
Do you know what I have
I have a lot of female company
And companions and friends
Are you just talking about friends with Benz?
No, no friends with Ben, no Ben's
Unfortunately, no Benz
I'm not too much Benz
I don't want to talk about my Benz
nowadays
But generally I have a lot of female
friends for company. I love female
company. So, yeah.
You have got like a feminine
energy. I think Michael, my husband's
got that. Yeah. Like, um,
you, you could be one of the girls.
Like, we could all sit down and have a good old chat.
You know what I mean? One of the girls. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So I really do have
a lot of really close friends
that I see fairly frequently.
So it gives me that female.
A lot of them are exes? A couple.
I can imagine that. A couple. Yeah.
but not a lot of them
but yeah
so I kind of
Gary are they all in love with you really
No I don't think so
I don't think so I think they
I think they suffer me
they put up with me
Gary they're all like probably just going
waiting for you to see the line
I think what's interesting
is that
you know I think that the danger is
as we get older is that
we feel like there's not enough room in our life
in the end to put someone
in it because we get so happy in our own company.
That's the danger.
I'm okay in my own company.
But what I am is I just got so comfortable being on my own in the sense of I'm not sure I can imagine, you know, regularly sleeping with someone again or not that you have to, sharing a bed or, you know, as you get older as well, you tend to make a few more bathroom trips in the night and stuff like that.
But we all do that.
Well, I know, but, you know, up and down, I'd say it anyway.
But I'm not ruling anything out.
I'm just, who knows what might happen?
I think it's an interesting thing of like the idea of being with somebody,
going to bed with them and then it's going, okay, you go home and I'll see.
It means if you don't want to do that, it's quite difficult then.
You don't end up having to leave someone's house to go.
And then it's all like, how am I going to do that?
They'll feel a bit rejected.
And the other things, you go.
on the occasional date or something,
something might happen.
And then, you know,
if you don't quite feel it,
then you've got to try and say it and all that.
You don't want to hurt someone's names.
I get that.
I mean,
I think what it is is it's almost like you need to reconnect
with an old friend that you know really well.
You don't have any of that awkwardness around.
Yeah, that would be perfect.
Maybe.
So go back to your Facebook, Gary.
I never had Facebook, you know.
Never.
What?
I had Twitter and then I'd Instagram.
You've got a massive following on Twitter on X.
Oh yeah, I don't use it.
I'm not used it for years.
I haven't either.
It's horrible now, isn't it?
It's gone dark.
It's gone dark.
It's gone dark.
It's gone dark.
It's gone dark.
Yeah, I like Insta.
I don't bother.
Do you do TikTok?
No, I've never done TikTok.
No, I don't know.
I don't even know where you get it.
My daughter's trying to like.
Is it in the app store?
It's in the app store, Gary.
My God, you and me.
Cut all of this bit out.
We look terrible.
It's all right, that's fine.
I think it but don't have to be on TikTok.
Tiki talks.
Yeah.
No dating apps either.
Do you know any dating apps?
I've never had to do that because I was with, I know.
I was with Matthew for 20 years and then we would, we'd been friends for 20 years.
So like I've never, but that's hard being, being well known.
You couldn't imagine going to date enough.
I'm meeting something you don't know.
I know.
What?
It's impossible.
But you've gone into my beginning.
again dating computer.
Oh, okay.
I have been in the past,
I don't want to show off or anything,
but quite successful.
I'll bet, yeah.
In matchmaking people.
All right.
So I will look out for you
and I will be in touch
when I find someone good enough.
Sounds good?
Yeah, it sounds great.
Yeah, great.
Sounds great.
Okay.
As long as they're good enough.
Yeah, yeah.
Gotta be good enough.
Yeah, we've got to be good enough.
And what I also think is nice
is that the right person brings out the best in you.
I think that's true.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So I just want to say thank you for coming on.
Oh, it's been an absolute.
It's always a delight to see it.
Honestly.
It was the first time we've probably spoken properly.
Yeah, ever.
Because you work with each other of times.
We did sport relief a few times and stuff.
And obviously met over the years, but never really had a conversation.
Yeah.
So it's really been lovely.
Yeah, now you're going to sort my love life.
Yeah, I am.
I'm actually quite good.
I've got people that have started living together.
They've now been together for five or six years.
Thank you very much.
That's worrying.
And brace yourself.
That's worrying.
Yeah.
But I understand it is quite hard when you become independent.
And you are happy in your own company to let people in.
But I think the right person would you give space to.
There you go.
So good luck.
Thank you.
I'm sorting out.
And I just want to say,
Thank you for being such a brilliant part of our lives for so long, for everything you've contributed to society and all the great entertainment you've given us and everything you've taught us.
Don't make me cry.
With Goalhanger and all the lessons we've learned and for being a great dad and a great role model.
So thank you very much, Gary.
Big round of applause for Gary.
Stay there.
I'm coming over for an uncomfortably long hug.
Brace yourself.
That was great. Thank you.
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