Berner Phone - Berner Phone #3: Pet Peeves Part One with Des

Episode Date: August 24, 2023

The hotline was blowing up this week because everyone is annoyed about something. We listen to your pet peeves while Hannah and Des’ generational differences are exposed when discussing directions, we advise husbands to stop asking “are you ok?”, and we might have some future stand up comedians on our hands. Upcoming stand up shows in Mashantucket, Westhampton, San Antonio, Dallas, Tuscon, Tempe, Bensalem, San Francisco, Hanover, and more! Get tickets here Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get $5 off your Starter Pack (that’s over 40% off) with promo code BERN at lumedeodorant.com/BERN ! #lumepod

Hi, it's Hannah Burner and Des Bishop. Thanks for calling the burner phone. If you leave a message after the tone, we may have to make it into a podcast. What's up, guys? It's another episode of Burner Phone. This is your girl, Hannah Burner, featuring... Des Bishop. On the mic. That's right. I got to...

If you hear heavy breathing, it's not because I've gotten old. It's because we have a pocket pit bull on my lap right now, Foster Pitbull, Abby. She's so in love with Des. Right now she's just watching him just looking, oh, I love my daddy. Why don't you love your mommy? She does love you. You're focusing a little too. She loves you, but you've just got into this mindset of Abby.

She's trying to steal my man's. Yeah, even though like, we got butter who just like can't function without you. I know. You know, it's fine. I just, when an animal, I'm not an animal's favorite, I take it, like, very personally. Yeah, but it's not that you're not even the favorite. It's just that I picked her up from the shelter. You also do feed her and walk her. Yeah, and I'm around. You're not around all the time, so it's fine. Anyway, Abby was on my lap. So if you hear any breathing or anything, Abby is, uh, Abby is involved in the pockets. She is available for adoption. We're only fostering her. She is available. Southampton Animal Shelter. Go to, dot com. Go to Abby. We would love, love, love to get this baby adopted because we travel to.

much. Everyone's in our DMs, like, please adopt her because we love her so much. And listen, we would love to adopt a dog, but we don't have a lifestyle that soup's dog adoption. That's why we foster because it's our way to give back to the shelter while also try to help get animals adopted while we have to. What we're trying to say is we're better than other people. We foster dogs. Yeah, I mean, that's what Hannah's trying to say. I'm just trying to be of service to the animal kingdom. yes um anyway how are you doing oh how am i doing i'm wonderful hannah thank you for asking like we haven't spent all day together yeah like we haven't been together all day oh thank you for

asking since i saw you last a lot has happened i'm wonderful we have a great topic today pet peeves pet peeves you were the one who actually came up with my first topic suggestion uh pet peeves so I mean, obviously I have my personal pet peeves, which we can, which we can talk about. But first, how are you? I'm doing great. Wonderful. I'm actually feeling like I'm not that much of a pet peeve person. Interesting.

Like, I'm too in my own head to be aware of like the little things going on around me. You think? Interesting. Where I feel like you are, you're quicker to notice things that annoy you, I think. Yeah, I might, I might, I might, I might be more particular. But it makes me laugh. when you get like worked up over little things well if you were to guess because i know you already know but like if we had not already discussed this what would you have guessed was my number one

pet peeve what is it the one that you know that i'm going to say yes or otherwise it's obviously mesothelioma i don't come on man you need to move on from that it's misophonia is the condition but my pet peeve is the sound of people chewing the sound of people chewing i can't I can't stand it. The dog is currently licking her butthole right now. To be honest, I don't love the sound of her licking, like when she's sleeping next to me. I don't love the sound of her chewing either, but it doesn't bother me as much.

I struggle a little bit with the sound of like dog licking, but human chewing absolutely kills me. When did you realize this? I don't know. Now, it's interesting because with Ms. I don't think it's coming through the mic, is it? No. It's not coming through the mic.

but just coincidentally enough the dog was loudly licking her vagina like in a way that it almost sounded like deep throat porn it literally sounds like deep throat porn anyway when I looked up misophonia which is a real thing and for anyone out there who struggles with certain sounds um the misophonies is a real thing but the weird thing is that it's actually like connect it can be it can be to people. So in other words, like, the sound of somebody that you don't really knows chewing can, like, not bug you like the sound of your wife or, because honestly, you're not a loud chewer. So, like, the sound of you chewing is not a thing. Okay. But my brother is a loud chewer. And when I originally joked about this years ago in Ireland, it was about my brother. And my cousin, forget it. My cousin is like the loudest chewer on the planet. And you know,

what's funny is eventually I told him, you know, eventually I was like, bro, you choose so loud. Like, what's the matter with you? Like, eventually I had to say it, right? So then he thinks I'm being like irrational, right? So he goes to his friends and he's like, yo, my cousin says I'm a loud cheer and they're like, yeah, man, I don't want to say. Everybody was like, yeah, you're a loud cheer. Do you know what's so funny about that story? My brother thinks I'm a loud chewer.

But there you go. You see, that's misophonia. It's person specific. Because I told him Desh hate the sound of chewing and he starts going, whoa, how do you guys even have a relationship? And I'm like, he's never complained about me. And he goes, has he ever heard you eat a banana? Has he ever heard you eat cereal in the morning? Because growing up, that was my fucking nightmare.

And I was like, oh, my God. I didn't know you were. He also, my brother also didn't like my laughter for all of high school because I was like on the phone giggling late at night all the time. And our rooms were like connected and he couldn't fall asleep. And I was like, sorry you don't like to hear the sounds of women enjoyment of life. Yeah. And it's like, there's so much going on. Like I can't control the amount of thoughts I'm having right now.

I can't even. It's your favorite thing to talk about it. I can't even stay on top of it. But obviously, cereal is a huge offender. Right. So like, cereal, like, because it's not just the chew, right? It's a slurp. Because if you're, it's the slurp.

Some people are big slurpers. Right? Yeah. and that can that can be some people do you hate the like chips chips kind of like kettle chips kind of chew or like the like banana soft it's really the mastication the mastication is the real issue what's mastication is is is basically masturbation with your mouth chewing like it's it's it's it's getting things down to to a swallowable you know why I actually don't chew I just inhale my food yeah I just just deep throat all my food. Sometimes crunch annoys me, but, but the, the, the, the, the, the, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so was always a big offender, because sometimes then, the, the, people, they close their mouth, but then they breathe through

their nose and the breathing through the nose is just as annoying. Wait, so they can't breathe or chew like just I'm just I'm just telling you that the sound of nose breathing while chewing well can also be loud nose breathing yeah it can be torturous so have you ever been on a date and this happen now because the thing is that apparent a lot of it so the next thing that the other thought that I was having when I was having all these thoughts was that apparently a lot of it has to do with like familiarity in your relationship so when you think about all these uh you know like married couples where like literally you can't do anything and the wife or the husband is like this again here she is here she is and you're watching you're like she didn't do anything she didn't

do anything oh this again oh oh she's ordering a burger again this again you know you know when people get to that level so i think a little bit of her has to do you know like they can't even like answer where's my sandals she always loses a sandals I can't do this this with the low this she's too loud again you know oh this with the scratch can you hear the sound of her scratching her head it's her hair the loudest hair you've ever heard being scratched you know like things become like exceptionally yeah like amplified yeah that's that's that's that's part of the misophonia but there's not that the you know we i don't have a misophonic relationship with you but if anyone thinks that they don't know about misophonia the best example which seems to be

is scratching on a chalkboard, right? So scratching on a chalkboard seems to be a universal sound that people struggle with. They have like a misophonic reaction to scratching on a board. But imagine that you were having that with things like chewing or tapping.

Oh my God. Oh, yeah, you hate sounds on a keyboard. Oh, typing is, I have a misophonic. But I looked it up. That's another common misophonic reaction. And you have that with me. I hate that. typing and you love coming into bed at night and continuing to work and then suddenly you know like

I'm chilling in bed you know getting slightly tired and then suddenly it's like you know and you're like type in my thing I'm like oh I miss my my beautiful husband who's in bed and I'm writing up some jokes or something I'm going to go into bed and work with him next to me it's going to be so cute so romantic than I hear do you have to fucking type that loud and then I'm trying to type like not loud and it's taken me forever to type a sentence. No, because I can't, it's the typing. You know, it's funny, I love the sound of typing. Yeah, I hate it.

I love the sound type. To you is like, like, putting on like waterfall sounds at night. Yes, yes, no, literally. Lucky you. Literally. Lucky you. Or when someone's like, you know, has long fingernails at the cashier register. Oh my God.

I love it. Kill me now. Like the sound, the sound of like somebody with long nails, like tapping. Like, kill me. tails tap each other oh my god wait so people will literally make a lot of money on asmr chewing ice cubes into a microphone yeah my question to you is that's torture what is if i was like if i was like a spy for china and the american government was trying to find out information about about the chinese coming the teenager who choose ice the teenager with the tiny microphone that they hold against their

mouth bring in the YouTubers girls will take their nails and just like like scratch along the microphone. This is, so this is my question to you. If you had to enjoy SMR, what sounds does that entail? I know, I'm not a big ASMR guy, to be honest with you. Like, when they do the ASMR, the minute somebody separates their lips and I can hear the lip separation, I'm out. I do not like when comics are on stage and they have a certain dryness where you can like hear the like stickiness of their voice. Or in a radio show. Yeah. And there's been times where like I, I could tell that I'm on a really sensitive mic and I can hear my own lips separating and it's not that it makes me it's not that it annoys me but I I'm thinking of all my brothers and sisters out

there who have misophonia who are out there listening and I'm like I can't be the guy I can't trigger these people so oh my god a sensitive mic on a radio show and you can you know you can hear the mic separate I can't handle like someone give that person I just drove somebody crazy now just with that alone yeah just with that only see I apologize because I didn't realize it was like a nail on a chalkboard thing. I just thought you thought it was annoying. No, I mean, like, it's not that it's, it's not that it's exactly the same as nail on the chalkboard. But what I'm saying is that like, it is a real reaction. And I looked it up, right? So it is psychological. So obviously it has to be psychological, right? So how can my brother's

chewing of cereal drive me crazy? And then like somebody visiting the house, not drive me crazy, right? So that it has, there's obviously an emotional connection element to it. Yes, you should talk to someone. Even with that, when I looked it up, when I did my research, it is real, though. It's not like... When you went on WebDMD. Yeah, but what I'm saying is that, like, these, they're not to be dismissed. These are real reactions.

Yeah. It's not like... I actually was thinking of the concept of pet peeve, and I just Googled it. Pet peeve came into the, into use in the early 20th century from the combination of the word pet, meaning an especially cherished thing, and the word peeve. meaning irritated or exasperated. Peeve is derived from the late 14th century word peevish, meaning perverse or capricious, likely originating from the Latin perversus.

Holy shit, we're learning a lot today. Now, did you know that one of my favorite things in the world is etymology? I don't even, like, edamome? No, come on. Why do you always try to play like you're dumb? Because I am dumb. No, etymology is what you just did. It's the origin of word.

I know. Did you just, you got, ooh, love that. I love it. The fact that you decided without even, what is the opposite of a pet peeve? Because whatever you did is the opposite of a pet peeve for me. Oh my God. I love etymology. Are we having sex tonight? Oh my God. Okay. But this is what's interesting because I was thinking pet peeve, that's so random. It has nothing to do with pets, but this makes more sense. But it's true. It's not, because I was thinking what's my pet peeve. It's not something that annoys you. It's more like a very specific,

weird thing that you just can't handle it has to be specific I know I know a pet peeve of yours what mentioning that one day you might get beaten in tennis no that's a deep

psychological that's a pet peeve a pet peeve is when men are like oh I can beat you yeah that's good that's a pet pee that's a real pet peeve okay yeah like I'll meet a guy

at a bar and he's like oh yeah I play tennis in high school I could dig Copa games off of you I got to the point where in college, I had Division I one football players, basketball players, talking shit on me. Because obviously I'd talk shit back. Like one football guy, he was like, I think he went to the NFL. And I'm like, you push people for a living. All you do is push people.

He was like a defense of whatever. And I was like, you didn't even play football in high school. I spent my whole life, like, becoming incredible at the art and the details of the skill set of tennis. No one can not play in high school and become a Division one tennis player. You're just fat. But I was like, you're really athletic, and your sport is, you know, for athletes in that way. This one guy, Mike Brzewitz, I'll call his ass out. Wow, you call it your name in somebody.

Name in his ass. One of my great friends, he was 6'9 red hair from Minnesota, and he was like, I played tennis in high school, and I'm going to get a game off you. And it got to the point. It got so heated. That's fair enough, though, a game. I know. Well, that's a decent, that's not outlandish. But I think that's disrespectful.

So did he take a game of you? No, we played. He actually, he, he, I think it was like 30, 41 game. And I was like, oh, shit. But I won it. And, um, so, what was this last name again? Bruzowitz. Take that, bruiserwitz.

We called him brew. Um, so anyway, yeah, I hate that shit. Men are being annoying. Just men are my pet peeve, actually. Oh my God. Here we go. Here we go again. So, we're, so let's get into some pet peeves.

Yeah, let's get to some pet peeve. We've established. Because we have some I had one that was like Burn your phone message We have to have You know like This segment is like

The messages are coming up Then Yeah Here we go Okay Okay guys Is this reporting My biggest pet peeve

Is absolutely when people Will not clear the phleg Out of their throat You have ears You can hear it You can hear that awful noise, gurgling in the back, I wrote, and cut that out. Cut it out. Enough. So this is the one one that's similar to like mesothelioma. No, babe, it's mesophonia, but actually one of my pet peeves

is your inability to like get a word. You know what I mean? Like don't, you keep, you're jokingly saying mesothelial, now you're never going to remember the right one. I don't know. I've heard of Listen, this, amen sister. Actually, my grandpa would never get anyone's name right and he would just stick to it. I'm very much my grandpa. No, I know what that person's means where it sounds like if you just did one cough, this would all be cured. Whatever this like thing hanging on to the back of your throat is by its last leg. It drives me.

I think this is the one of, this is the best message that we've ever had. Like, because that's not even miserable. That's like next level. It's like, what's the matter with you? Like, like, your time is so busy That you don't have the one second to clear your throat And like, like, we're all hearing it Oh, so it's like, are you drowning?

Yeah, like, why, I'm trying to listen. Now I'm thinking about phlegm. Like, I don't want to think about phlegm. Like, I'm literally like, I'm visualizing like yellow mucus on the back of your throat. Oh my God, this is, that's the perfect. And then it's like, do you enjoy it? Like, do you like this like feeling in the back of your throat? I know, like, like, I don't understand.

So my advice for this. is human nature as a psychologist and woman in STEM you when you do something sometimes people will repeat it like if you know so you like scratch your face people will scratch their face or if I like go into my teeth other people will think that there's something in their teeth so I recommend coughing and maybe they will cough right it doesn't even require a cough it just requires like like but you know I have a pet peeve when people sneeze like the most dramatic sneeze you've ever heard like the most main character Yeah like they make their whole personality their sneeze my grandmother was a lot of sneezer

But like I think at first I thought I think that people they enjoy it and they keep doing it And actually you know they think it's how they sneeze but you don't have to sneeze that way Yeah well you know that that would be that would be something to research how in control of your sneeze volume are you yeah in this life because my grandmother was a loud sneezer. My grandmother was in, what did it sound like? She died in her mid-80s. Like, in her 70s, she was still sneezing loud.

I don't think my, my 70-year-old grandmother was like, I'm going to light this place up right now. I'm going to let these motherfuckas know that I got to snooge. I think grandmas love that shit. No, but Aiden's a pretty loud sneezer. This is the thing. I think sneezes are like laughs. You know how I'll go through different laughs in my lifetime,

like depending on who your friends are? like I actually started snorting laughing for like a couple weeks and I was like okay we need to undo that like I started snorting for a bit yeah it's just like your body getting breath control it's a form of like an orgasm that you do and a different it's a do you want to know my the most annoying laugh to me is the comedian at the back of the room letting everyone know that he found something funny that nobody else found funny. Can I do it? I mean I feel like it's more like a ha! Oh my God, you're right. Yeah, yeah. They go, ha! You know, like,

the comedian, like, letting everybody know, I want you to know that I laugh. Now, of course, I've done it because... I do, but... I've also done it because here's why. There are times where

there's something that's funny to comedians that's not funny to anybody else. You usually have something to do with, like, a joke bombing or like, you know... Or an inside baseball. Some inside baseball thing. Yeah. But I do find that...

But it can be cocky, Like, I'm actually, you know, a genius at the art of comedy, and I'm going to tell you people what's funny. And it can also be thirsty where, like, they, they want to like, like, it's a comic on stage that they want to be seen to be liking. This is very niche. So, anyway, phlegm clearance. It doesn't even require more discussion. Very good, very good pet peeve. Let's see what's next.

Hannah, I cannot stand when you come up with an excuse why you cannot make a plan or a date or whatever. and the person just comes up with a grand solution for you. You know, take a hint. I relate to this so much because I will go to great lengths to come up with the perfect white lie. I cannot say no to people. I have to find, like, some reason. So then when they come back to me, I'm like, do you know how hard it was for me to come

up with this fake reason to not just say no to you? So I completely understand where this is. I mean, I get it. There's nothing worse than like, listen, you know, I'm just going to stay home because I got you know, I, you know, whatever, you come up with some stay-home reasons. They're like, hey, well, I come over and hang out. It's like, no, motherfucker. I'm just not looking to hang out with you right now.

People are not taking the hint. Yeah, it's like, oh, I got to, you know, watch my dog. They're like, I love dogs. I'll come and walk the dog with you. If they want to hang out, they will. It's like, oh, sorry, actually my dog is a pit bull that likes to bite people. Oh, I'm a dog trainer. Why don't I come over and, oh, doesn't like dog trainers?

They come up with a whole huge scheme to make it work. My good, it's a good pet peeve. It's an interesting pet peeve, but. I actually thought of a pet peeve that I have, now suddenly I have a ton, is when you ask someone, wait,

what was I going to say? Oh, God. That's actually a pet peeve. Oh, you get plans with someone like two weeks in advance. And it's like not a close person. You're like, yeah, I'll get coffee with you next Wednesday, whatever. And the day comes, and they don't text you. and then they assume you're still just going to show up you have to confirm with me

one of us has to confirm that morning or it's not happening be a confirmer it's not happening because I once had a girl randomly at like five o'clock be like hey I'm at the coffee shop where are you and I was that was New York City I was in West Hampton and I was like holy shit I had no idea and then we actually I was like I'm so sorry then I voice noted her and go I said wait a second I'm sorry however I feel like we should have had a check in this morning for this and she goes you know what you're completely right and i live five minutes away so i'm fine but you're completely right so she apologized to me yeah but you were you were you were i was i was literally gaslighting because you didn't make her feel crazy yeah i acknowledged my

fault but i also said in the future with me this is how i work yeah you need a double i i agree with you but you were actually wrong in that situation but it is funny i was wrong but i did twist it to gaslight her but she laughed so hard and now like whenever we have plans we do that i also think it's to give a person a chance to be like i know two weeks ago this was a good idea is this still a good idea i am the worst whenever i'm actually out talking to people i will plan a whole european vacation with you and be like we're going to do this i'm so into this i'm putting the down payment right now i'm giving you a check and the next day i'm nowhere to be found i think it's the worst idea i've ever done you really are you have a bad habit of making plans and then the next day being and i'm

like making because of things your plan i would never do like hiking yoga like i think i'm a different it's like when i'm shopping i'll shop for things what girl would wear this like the tightest outfits most uncomfortable outfits i'm like yeah i'll wear that on night out absolutely not i my future self i think is like a better person than i am yeah yeah that's a good i have not i've not add there. But I, this is, you know what, this partially brings up the issue of why is it considered so bad to like change a plan? Because you know what happens? Like 50% of the time when you tell somebody, hey, listen, I know we're going to meet up, but I can't meet up. They're just as happy as you are. Oh, yeah. But of course, in our minds, we're like, I am the worst person in

the world. I'm about to change this. Yeah. Page and I get off on it. Page and I will make plans to cancel it like we literally wait like who's going to cancel it and then when she canceled it i go yes bitch yeah well she got upset let's not get into the details of it but let's just say that there was a moment recently where uh a plan you guys decided not to go through the plan and she was feeling kind of guilty thinking somehow like it was bad that she didn't do it and like it was it was ideal for both of you yeah well she was the one who thought of the plan first i think when you think of it you feel guilty it's like when you break up with someone when it's like you know what it's better for both of you can we just for audio purposes

just for audio so this is abbey that's the sound of abby that's the sound of abby fucking licking herself it literally like you know that that there's like a genre there's people that get off on the sounds of like we start and only fans for abby yeah adopted yeah so well it is funny some people's yucks are some people's yums yeah well 100% yeah you know but uh anyway can i ask you something inappropriate oh come on how can we have a well grandma just mute this for a second no you brought it up when you get a bj do you ever get mesophilia um hana fucking misophonia do you ever have a misophonic reaction to the to the to the the slurping if she's using her nose like who's she we're married Hannah by she didn't mean me if I'm using my nose to breathe like you have to breathe I have a joke

about you have to breathe for your nose when you're doing that there's no choice you know you have no choice same with but looking you know you need to be like a circular breather you need to actually like you need to learn you need to like be trained by a an indigenous Australian musician to fucking stay down there long enough to get the job done. You have to be a scuba diver. Yeah, you have to be like, you know, the big blue. That's a movie reference you won't get. You have to be a whale and have stuff coming out of your butthole.

Wait, but also people don't talk about when you're licking buttholes. Hannah, come on! In the fucking pet peeve section. This is my pet peeve. When you're looking butt holes, like it's not like a blowjew. job where your nose is out in the open where you're looking at a butthole your nose is stuck in the butt so like you could die but your nose is not stuck in the butt when you're looking a butthole if your nose is stuck in the oh you mean in the crack of the butt yeah oh yeah but you should

never look a but hole this is fresh out of the shower that's the whole thing about but the ass play the crack could be closing it on your nose like that oh oh yeah you have to inhale it's a phone aisle five, I'm like in your butt. I'm sorry, I can't talk right now. I'm licking a bottle right now. So you actually have to breathe out through your mouth into the belly. Okay, kind of, come on, man. Come on.

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all great delivery that's stand up like uh it's funny all these people you guys you guys all your whole cabal you all have a cadence it's very similar we're all the same person yeah but anyway it's generational right because i there was a time where you used to have to know where you were going you know and there was a time where you know you used to have to like get written out directions yes so i i actually like knowing but obviously don't need to know anymore yeah you know it's like Like when we were kids, they wouldn't let you use calculators and doing a math exam. They'd be like, well, you can't use a calculator. You won't always have a calculator with you.

And they were wrong. They were fucking raw. Because as it turns out, everyone has a fucking calculator with them all the fucking time. In fact, they often have two because they got a fucking Apple Watch and a fucking iPhone. So they have numerous calculators on them, right? And they even have better than that. They don't even have to use a calculator. They can literally Google, what is 15% of fucking 27?

okay yes yes so they were wrong but some people like i'm talking even little things like if i'm like oh i have to go across the street is there a bodega and they'll be like oh yeah take a left on this and then a right on that my brain isn't going to process it and when people go oh yeah go a little just go north and it'll be there north where the fuck is north i'm not you know like peter pan i don't have the north star i know but see this is very generational okay i'll give an example if someone says go east go east I mean, I think her message was perfect because I'm not her, but I definitely know that it's an issue. So one time, back in the shift days, I'm with K.E. Boyle, right? And sometimes we used to record in the car, just like out of a practicality.

So I was around the corner from the comedy seller outside a coffee shop on West Third Street and Sullivan Street. It's literally a drug deal podcast. West Third Street and Sullivan Street, right? I parked the car. I got a good spot. I'm not moving the car. Katie Boyle is at the bottom of McDougall Street on Bleaker Street, which is the bottom of the street

where the comedy seller is. It's confusing there. So 90 degree angle. On 90 degree angle, I said, walk up McDougal past the comedy seller and take a right on two blocks down. And she was like, can you send me the address, though, so that I can put it in? I said, Katie, it's at 90 degrees. I said, you just walk to the end of the block and take a right.

And she was like, no, please just send me the address. I had to send her the address. Yeah. Because to me, it's like, go up to the corner and take a right. She's like, instead of trusting these words you're saying, I'd rather cede the location on my phone to know exactly where I have to go. I know, but it's like, yo, you know the comedy. Just go up past the comedy, so I'll take it right.

Look, New York City is a little easier because it's a grid. But I also think this is giving a little, like, people are proud to know where things are. So they're, like, telling you. Oh, you think they're showing off? It's a little mansplaining. You're like, thank you. And then you just, you say thank you. But, yeah.

But when you're from Queens, like, Queens people like to talk about. Like, which way to go? And, you know, this is the thing that Waze has taken away, like, a whole vernacular of, like, of a generation. Because, like, my mother's favorite thing would be like, oh, I'm going to, I'm going to, I'm going to, I'm going to the Bronx. But like, oh, you got to take the Bronx River. I mean, you can't, you can't, you can't avoid the cross Bronx at all at all at all caught. You can't go. You got to take the Bronx River.

It'll take you three hours. Yeah, you're going to take the hutch. You're out of your mind, you know? but that was because back then you didn't know you know like it's hard for you to imagine what it used to be like to just take a guess you know which bridge am i going to take and it'd be lucky or unlucky it sounds like a little bit of a high like ways is taking ways has gotten rid of all that and this goes for all of america i'm using new york examples now but this goes for all of america and and ireland too the internet has taken away the randomness of knowing what's the way to go it probably was kind of an exciting moment to be like a fork in the road, Robert Frost, which way do I go today? I know, but when you made a mistake, as you know, one of my pet peeves is picking the wrong fucking route and ended

up in traffic. Oh, yeah. Have you ever gone? Have you ever not put on ways? Because, like, I will always put on ways now for the traffic. Have you ever not put on ways thinking just like, oh, this time of the day, it can't be a problem? And then suddenly it's a fucking three car pile up. Or you think Ways is not right. Oh, well,

listen, I've made the mistake of doubting Ways many times in my life. Yep. Ways will laugh at you every time. percent of the time, Waze knows. I've thought about in my life. In fact, I don't know how they haven't done a campaign. Waze knows. You think you know, but you don't know.

It's like, this is too male, but I'm going to say it anyway. When you listen to WFAN, they're always complaining, it's a sports radio. They're always complaining in baseball about analytics. Like, well, all these fucking analytics, you know there's a fucking human element. And it's like, they're fucking wrong, but in their minds, they think they're right. And that's what I'm like with Ways. Wayes sometimes I'm like Wees

I'm not getting out of fucking I'm not getting out at exit 37 I'm like what I'm not getting out of 37 Ways you're out of your fucking mind you know

and then I don't get out of 37 I fucking five minutes later five minutes later I'm like what's the matter with you bro I'm gonna say the female perspective which is Ways is like your wife she's always right okay Waze is a woman

I think sometimes about what generation I really wanted I was meant for and I always thought I was meant for like the 70s women in tennis when you know the slice my my game was more good for that time I think I could have been a grand slam champion in the 70s like or martina avatilova type time but I wouldn't have ever made it to the tournament because I cannot do directions

and I cannot imagine living this life does in college I went to the university of Wisconsin I would call my mom and say mom I can't find my next class and she off the top of her head after visiting once would say, oh, that's on Lakeshore. You have to go all the way left. Like, I just couldn't find my way around. And it's, I think it is a little bit of a disability. My dad has it too. Would you guys

consider anything less than a championship to be a failure from this year? I wouldn't say anything is a failure, especially because we all grow every day. Obviously, the goal is a championship. There's no doubt in that, and that's the goal. We want to win a championship. I'm Christina Williams,

host of the podcast. In case you missed it with Christina Williams. The WMBA playoffs are here and I've got the inside scoop on everything from key matchups and standout players to the behind the scenes moments you won't find anywhere else. It's really, really hard to be the champions, but we have to remember how it feels and embrace the new challenge that we have. For all the biggest stories in women's basketball plus exclusive interviews with the game's brightest stars.

So to be here, I think it's one that we definitely don't take for granted. But we also know, you know, that's just one stop along the way. hoping to, you know, make it run. So listen to, in case you missed it with Christina Williams and IHeart Women's Sports Production in partnership with Deep Blue Sports and Entertainment on IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast.

Would you guys consider anything less than a championship to be a failure from this year? I wouldn't say anything as a failure, especially because we all grow every day. Obviously, the goal is a championship. There's no doubt in that, and that's the goal. We want to win a championship.

I'm Christina Williams, host of the podcast, in case you missed it with Christina Williams. The WMBA playoffs are here and I've got the inside scoop on everything from key matchups and standout players to the behind-the-scenes moments you won't find anywhere else. It's really, really hard to be the champions, but we have to remember how it feels and embrace the new challenge that we have. For all the biggest stories in women's basketball plus exclusive interviews with the game's brightest stars. So to be here, I think it's one that we definitely don't take for granted. But we also know, you know, that's just one stop along the way and we're hoping to, you know, make it run. So listen to, in case you missed it with Christina Williams and IHart Women Sports Production

in partnership with Deep Blue Sports and Entertainment on IHartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Um, oh, this is a good segue. Hey, Hannah. My biggest pet peeve is when my husband keeps asking me if I'm okay. At a grocery store. At a party. And his parents. house like if i am okay then you sound like a hysterical girlfriend and if i'm not okay you should already know it and you're just trying to get me to start the conversation that i don't want to have she's like read my mind bitch well yeah but i i get it though because there's nothing worse than when somebody's like are you okay and it's like yeah i'm fucking okay what what part about me

right now made you think that you need to check in with me you feel defensive immediately when you are okay. Yeah, I'm okay. Yeah, I'm okay. I'm okay. I mean, I was okay until you asked me if I'm okay. And now I have some things I'd like to bring up. Now I'm like, was I making a facial expression that suggested I'm not okay?

Especially when you're like at such a peaceful moment where you're just like zoning out, relaxed. And someone is basically saying you don't seem okay when they say are you okay. Yeah. Or when they go like, oh, you look tired. Oh. It's just like when I didn't wear mascara one day at the office. Do you sleep okay last night? I thought what?

I've never felt, I've never felt more sprightly. It's a, that's what it is. It's a passive, aggressive way of being like, what's wrong with you? Now, can I just, can I devil's advocate here? Yeah. I, and this is not, she's right to be annoyed, but what I think happens sometimes, and I know this state of mind, is if you're in a situation where you feel like maybe your partner is doing you a favor, being there, or you were never 100% sure if they were happy about

the situation, it can, it can put you in a mindset where you're just checking in just to make sure i agree i have some feedback for this guy i when you say are you okay those words are kind of like like are you fine like are you going to be okay like a baby like it's kind of like um what's it called when you're like talking down infant a little bit infant you actually infantilism in infant and wow mess with liama you do something that i really like Inventilize? You say, yeah, patronizing. You say, are you happy?

And I actually really like when you say that, because people don't ask enough in this life, are you happy? I say that? Yeah, you go, are you happy? As in like, are you having a good time? As in, you're not worried that I'm like, not fine. You're just like, are we feeling happy? And if you're not happy, how do we make this happy?

Which is much more positive than, are you okay? Like, can you even keep up with this? Are you fine? you know what I mean or someone saying how are you doing that's better yeah how are you doing are you happy what about all good question mark all good that's good too i like that too are you okay seems like that's a kind of text me though right see are you okay seems like you okay seems like you can't do the bare minimum at this party and just be fine we're like are you happy is is nice because it's like yeah good that's a good one are you okay well listen are you okay can definitely be an issue

It can start a fight for sure. It can start a fight. What's the matter? Are you okay? It's the same as what's the matter. What's the matter? What's your problem? What's the matter?

What do you mean? What's the matter? And then why are you getting so defensive? It's like, no, bro, I was fucking fine until you fucking, what's the matter to me. So don't fucking, don't say I'm getting fucking defensive. You what's the mattered me, asshole. Don't fucking what's the matter me. It also, regardless of what you say, your tone does matter.

Like if you go, are you okay? that means like I'm so done with your shit are you going to have another freak out are you going to start a fight if you go are you okay that's still annoying actually what about this one what about when your partner looks at you when you go what what see I feel like that's the kind of thing too that if you're really connected you should do with your eyes like at a party I look at you and I can tell immediately if you're okay or not when you look at me I know But I think I've, one thing I've noticed in my life is that I sometimes give off unsatisfied vibes. When I am not unsatisfied at all, I just have kind of a serious concentration phase.

Well, sometimes you'll be thinking and you'll get in your thoughts and you'll have a pretend fight in your brain and you look like you're fuming. Yeah. And I actually now can differentiate between that. Because when you're not having fun, you will be looking at me with eyes like, let's get the fuck out of you. here. If you're not looking at me, you're fine. But the good news is you always want to go. I know. Okay, what is?

Oh my God, this is so good. This is such a good segue. This is incredible. I love producing. Hey, my biggest pet peeve is when grown men and a phone conversation with saying, bye, bye, what are they babies? Bye, bye. This is like an

ick with a pet peevee. That's an ick. That's an ick. That's an ick, which is fine. It's a good it. It's a good egg. It's a good egg. Bye, bye. honestly i i feel like you hate this man because like you could say bye in any way and i'll be like oh like when you're into a guy bye bye bye what are children um okay but go ahead sorry what were you going to say no just that there probably are better ways to say bye but like if you're getting that turned off by bye i feel like you would say bye bye in a funny way no so i would never say bye bye before but here's

how i got into bye bye right so in china They actually got over, you know, because language just evolves, right? So the Chinese, it's speaking Mandarin, but they will, they will say bye-bye. So at the end of a phone conversation, they'll be like, bye-bye, right? That's almost become like you're speaking Chinese, right? Yeah. So I kind of got into like, you know, like, oh, okay, well, goala, go-la, bye-bye, you know? Yeah.

So I kind of got into bye-bye. I think you said bye-bye to me. I don't know, but when I say it, it's kind of like from the. from getting used to me in China. You're always doing all these, like, accents and voices and characters. Like, we speak in British accents all the time. Like, so I don't really judge how you say by, bye. And then, you know, there's an Irish kind of, it's like a meme now at this stage,

but it's a real thing, which is Irish are kind of bad at ending conversations. So they'd be like, okay, um, okay, um, okay, uh, talk to tomorrow. Okay, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, but that's a real thing. Oh, yeah, they go, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, that's a real thing. And they both do it at the same time. And you're kind of hanging up, okay, bye, blah, blah, blah, that they're hanging up, or the old school hang up. I love average people that's a real thing, though.

I'm famous. Bye, blah, blah, blah, blah, is a real thing. I'm famous for hanging up on people. Like my whole life, I say, okay, bye, and hang up. And I've hung up on you. I hang up on my parents' accent, my friends. And then I call them back and I go, oh, my God, I heard you were saying something after. But I'm a famous, okay, bye, hang up thing.

When I'm done, I'm done. I like a quick, I like a quick hang up. Actually, can I just talk about it. I'm going to contradict myself and digress here. Has anyone noticed a flaw in the iPhone, which is that if somebody hangs up before you press the red button, the phone automatically hangs up and then sometimes you accidentally call them back? Yep.

That's a flaw, man. That happens all the time. That needs to be fixed because sometimes it's the person you're calling. But other times you hit another number. And it's like somebody you do, and then they seen a fucking miss call. And it's like, I was avoiding this person. Yes.

And also. I didn't answer that call deliberately. Now they think I fucking called him back. Also, Steve Jobs, if I call someone... He's dead, by the way, just so you know. If I call someone from heaven, if, or hell, if I call someone and I hang up before the first ring, don't let that count as a call towards them. Yes, it needs to be two rings.

Because I'll get a ring back and have to do the awkward. A, I don't want to talk to you. I didn't want to talk to it was a fucking accident. It was a butt dial. You should be able to retract Ms. Calls, actually. Oh yeah, like how you can have. be able to retract somebody like it's like yeah that yeah yep you're right it was a miss call well i can't lie it was a miss call but actually it was an accident so i don't want them to know

that i tried to call them okay ready yes okay so you know when you find a single person bathroom usually it's great because you can go to the bathroom in peace without worrying about people coming in and out and listening to you to your business well my biggest pet peeve is when somebody knocks on the door because i instantly go into a panic i feel like i'm not not supposed to be in there and I don't know whether to stay quiet or awkwardly yell out into the empty bathroom someone's in here or occupied like I feel like anything I say just feels embarrassing at this point so now I feel like I need to rush because I know someone is waiting to come in so if we could all just softly jiggle the handle on the door and feel that it's locked it'll save

the person inside from a very stressful situation like incredible a plus pet peeve she's so right so fucking right why are you knocking like as if that person's going to open the door for you the second you knock yeah it's like you didn't trust the lock you know oh my god i hate that when someone tries to open it and then they like really try like they're trying to break the door down i'm like this is a bathroom that people are using i mean i can understand a knock when like somebody's been in there like four minutes it's like hey there's other people waiting i'm letting you know but you know it's so annoying the injustice of you just get into the bathroom they obviously didn't see you right

You literally just started the process. Yep. And then you get a fucking knock. It's like, bro, I just fucking got here. It's like immediately the countdown is on of you thinking what they're thinking while you're in the bathroom. But it's so right. You don't even have to try to open and then knock or just push it down once.

And if it doesn't push all the way down, you know it's locked. You don't have to do it even jiggle of the knob. The people who go and say, oh, I'm going to knock so I don't jiggle and scare them. No. just do one light pull if it's locked you wait and then what about the asshole you're waiting right say you're somebody

that's checked the lock it's locked somebody's in there what about the asshole that comes up behind you and goes like did you check it's like yeah I check but then they like they give it a fucking check themselves and also you think you're a better door opener than me the person that's what do you know about door opening that I don't know and the person

that's in there is like how many people are trying to break into this bathroom right now like what have I done I've been here for 90 seconds it's like when you're waiting for the elevator and the button's clicked and it's lit up and someone will go and click the button again

like they have some magic finger that's going to help the elevator although I'll tell you I'll tell you the awkward scenario is when somebody's standing there and you can see that it's not clicked and it's so embarrassed to be like

ah he didn't press you know what and that happens and at the end of the day you're embarrassed but you're like thank God someone pressed it because somebody's got to have the confidence

to be like sorry you're gonna pray no what i do is i go i press and i go sometimes it doesn't work i'm such a people pleaser i will lie i know i will throw the elevator system under the bus to make that person feel better but this is a great peeve man this is i actually been in that situation recently in montreal even though i'm the fastest pooher everybody knows i'm famously poo incredibly fast i do too but i can't stand when suddenly somebody knocks when i literally just sat down and it's like whoa wait a minute i also feel like they always knock when it's like the one time you kind of might want to see if there's more coming out yeah or yeah or like a moment where their knock actually startles you so it actually affects your flow you know what i'm saying i don't want to

get into detail we've already had too much poopy stuff but what i'm saying is like sometimes a knock can fuck with your flow yeah well yeah your adrenaline's like a nervous pee happened or you know what i it was like when you know people are waiting but they only have an air blow dryer for your hands. Yeah. And you're like, you know that this takes like 45 seconds for my hands to get dry but now I feel like I feel like

I'm taking up too much bathroom time. Yeah, I don't. But now I'm going to wet the door handle. So then the person has to do with my bacteria infested wet door. Like I can't stand a wet door handle on a bathroom door. See, I can't wait the 45 seconds with a blow dryer. I just turned the blow dryer on to show them I did

try, but I'm not going to know that you wash your hands yeah but i also had a traumatic thing happened to me in montreal recently a couple weeks ago because i love going to the bathroom it's my peace if i have social anxiety i go to the bathroom if i'm at a dinner that's too much i go to the bathroom and i love that time i treasure it before a show i go to the bathroom like 400 times because i'm like i have a fear that i'm going to have to pee on stage and be uncomfortable so before this show which is like there's like six of us on the show there's one bathroom And not only is there one bathroom

To get into the bathroom It's like a room That has a bathroom So it's like Someone could be standing in that room Just waiting for you It's very weird and intimate So I go in, I shut the door

I hate when a bathroom has a foyer Yes We can't have a we can't have a bathroom foyer Because it makes people feel like They can just wait there I don't know I'd rather people like Well you've got to lock the foyer Well that's do you lock the foyer

Do you lock the bathroom foyer? I think you should. Yeah, the problem is that you could be washing your hands while the other person is going into the stall. So what you're doing is you're delaying the situation. Yes. Well, okay, when the bathroom is a foyer and it's a foyer and then one stall in it, that is so fucked up because someone could be standing in that foyer just waiting for you in that

stall, just intimately listening to you. Yeah, and it's quiet too. Like when you're in a nightclub or something, or like a Starbucks where it's noisy but now it's just you're in the room so then it's like you can't fart you can't do it you can't make any noise you literally can feel them breathing on you

there's nothing worse so I go to the public bathroom fart for example I feel like you need to comment it's like hey this is a safe space to fart we're in the fart place but now somehow because you're standing there waiting I gotta be like well that was a biggie well some people would you say that

no you just you know you just don't there I feel like dudes have a different culture with that than girls girls will straight up be like I don't poop in public places where else are you going to poop I don't hold in poops that's my joke from me a mama men cry like women fart you never see it in private you just never see that is so funny um so I'm in this bathroom that has a foyer and this is also not like just women it's everyone it's literally in the theater so suddenly and I think it's locked some guy comes in and just like aggress I think it was locked but this guy just like I just like aggressively pulls it down it like jiggles and opens oh my god so he i go whoa i'm in here and he goes oh sorry and he shuts the door and for girls like we're never standing up peeing like i'm sitting there labia out like you're and so if you're wearing a jumpsuit your whole top is off like there's many reasons why girls when people walk in on you it's very traumatizing so i finally i'm like okay i now have to get out of this bathroom and address my like kidnapper

You got to address the guy that is over-aggressively, yeah. Who was it? It's this guy, Max Manacoff, from the stand. And we're all the way in Montreal, who I know very well. If you know, and then you just have a laughing. So we start dying laughing. And then the whole rest of the time, I'm like, remember when you try to break into my restroom? But I was like, why did you have to so aggressively open?

He's like, I don't know. I had to take a shit. I know, but some of those locks suck. Yeah, those locks are not good. I also once locked myself in a pizzeria when I was seven years. years old at a birthday party so i've just been traumatized at public bathrooms in general yeah i i i thought of something else but it's it's it's gone out of my head because we we were in um we were in santa pay and uh there was a woman in the bathroom she forgot to lock the door oh yeah opened the door

that happens yeah and like she was so embarrassed but i feel like that's one thing in society is we need to like we need to get out of that supreme like it happens it's no big deal how much did you she was so whatever she was so apologizing about it like i lived in china maybe used to fucking poop next to other humans you should have been apologetic yeah but she because yeah because she didn't lock the door right oh she was like apologetic about causing me embarrassment i was just like i felt bad i was like no i'm sorry you know but in actual fact it's not that big a deal do you ever have ocd where you sat down and you're like is that locked did i lock oh all the time you can't enjoy and then you're trying to reach out like

there's nothing worse than you know when like a toilet is so far away from the door you know you You feel so exposed. You're like, oh, God, anything could go wrong here. Or it doesn't work, so you have to just, like, hold your hand on it. Oh, yeah, I've had that so often. Or have you ever been in a bathroom where the light doesn't work? Yeah. So you need to leave the door open for light, but you can't because it's like a public place.

So then you feel like MacGyver when you're just like reaching out. But I also feel like dudes walking on each other, they like, they don't care. Like, it's like whatever. People care. People get embarrassed. I don't know why, but people do. People definitely do. what was the actual peeve i forgot the peeve was when how people knock oh yeah the knock

and also this i think what do you say what are your words when someone knocks oh just like i'm in here depends too i go i'm in here yeah sometimes i'll be like just got here you know sometimes i'll throw some passive aggression back like fucking hold the horses charlie nobody's home oh this is what i was going to say i feel like if you're in a a gala show like you have right like six or seven comedians on the show and there's one toilet in the dressing room the use of the toilet follows the set list. It's like

hey, you're not on next. What are you doing to a fucking bathroom? True. You know, because what if you're about to go on, everybody's about to go on, they need to use the bathroom. You know, if I'm going towards a bathroom with another comic and I know they're going up before me. It's as bad as running the light. It's as bad as running the light. Disrespect. Again, this is very comedy

niche. You guys, we just hit an hour. I think we have to do a part two. Yeah, we're going to do a Part two, but I want to do one more and then part to it. Okay, great. Yes, of course. One more and then part two it. Oh, this is a good one.

End of the night to wrap this up. Our last peave. My biggest pet peeve is when you go out for drinks and dinner with people and some people get like an app, multiple drinks, and then those people are usually the ones to say, let's just all split at the end. And some of us are baling on a budget. She said some of us are balling on a budget. I mean, I have a lot of thoughts. Great pet peeve.

Great pet peeve. Well, as two people who don't drink a lot, I remember in my early 20s, I'd be asked to go to a dinner. And it would be like 15 people. And some of these people are ordering drinks on drinks. And then they'll go like, oh, let's get a pitcher. Let's get a pitcher. And I'm drinking none of it. And the bill comes, and it's $170 per person.

And I remember being like, look, I want to be a good friend. but my cheap ass can't afford this and I also, all I ate was some yokee. Yeah, man, this is a great pet peeve. As a non-drinker, having drank since 95. Sometimes people are like straight away. It's like, oh, let's split it, but Des didn't drink. But then a lot of times they don't.

And I hate being like, hey, guys, I actually didn't. I don't want to seem like a cheapo, even though there are cheapos in the mix. Here's my problem is I'm not a cheapo. right but there are cheapos in the mix because you know there's some people that just love a bill split because I love getting the bill but my problem is I don't like getting the bill with people who never get the bill

you know it's like are you in the are you in the get the bill club because if you are then I'll gladly get your dinner this time but there's a lot of people that are not in the get the bill club they're in the club of how many times can I not pay the bill well you're right for me saying hey I didn't drink that's

annoying of me but then if you get into the I didn't drink thing then people go Well, I only had two drinks. Yeah. Well, I had three. I had one. It's the people who know they've been fucking drinking a lot that go, hey, I ordered a lot of drinks. Let me get hers or something.

And my thing is, in New York City, like my pasta would be $14. Your margarita was $19. And you're getting seven margaritas. Like, it's one more. It's not cool. The drinks in New York City are so expensive. And my thing is like, I can be talking $30.40 difference. If I'm splitting the bill.

and you're including the booze on my end it could be $30.40 difference or more I mean this was like someone's birthday party and I'd rather get the whole bill then split the bill and get shafted for the booze I'd rather be like let me get it because I love all you guys yeah instead of I'm not fucking paying for your booze and and and splitting it even though it's it's not it doesn't make sense but that's when you're younger when your budget is tight I'm, you have a group dinner, I'm busy. I'm not talking about like four or five of your best friends. I'm saying when you have a, I did not know these people that well.

I was brought on on a side group of 15 people and I'm now paying $120 to watch you get blackout. But then there's the people who start Venmoing you like $7 for a drink, as in like I have to pay you $7 for that drink. That's when it's like, look, I got it. I got the coffee. I got the drinks. Don't penny pinch. Yeah, but Venmo can be, you know, Venmo has made that a little easy. year.

Irish people's pet peeve in this vein is the people that disappear when it's their rounds. So, yeah. When you're doing rounds, of course, I have a tickle on my throat now and I'm like doubly paranoid because I'm like, is this phlegm? Cough it out. Let's just talk together because I want to. So. The dog got scared.

So, yeah, the Irish people's pet peeve is if it's your, like people doing rounds and then suddenly they disappear, they leave before it's their round. I have a question for you because, again, I was like 21. in the city no money and I didn't like drinking that much and my friends would be like okay drinks on me and I'd be like I don't want to drink and they go no we're getting it we're getting you drink I say okay they get the drink next person drinks on me Hannah no I don't want to drink we're getting you drink we're getting you drink because I'm like I don't want to get people drinks don't get me drinks but they're forcing these drinks on me shot have the shot how the shot and then they go Hannah it's your turn to drop a hundred dollars

but they're right they're right you were taking the drink but I didn't want to Yeah, but you got to say no there. I know. I got to be strong. I wasn't strong when I was 21 where I was basically forced to drink. So the next thing you know. Well, the price of your weakness is around. That's the, in that situation, you got to be strong.

I know. You got to be strong. That's what I got for having no boundaries. You got to be bar strong, man. Do you have any advice for being bar strong? Well, you just, listen, you got to be firm. So this is what I learned, especially living in China. This is a cultural thing.

But it's easier to not drink at all than to just try to have one or two. You're so right. Because once you're drinking, people think you're in the mix. Yes, and when you're younger, people think, like, oh, she doesn't know how much fun she's going to have. I find as I'm older when I say no, they assume that I know it's best for me. When I was 21, everyone was like, when I was 21, I didn't even know you should have a chaser. I mean, when I was like 19, I would just take drinks without a chaser.

And they were like, whoa, hand is tough. I just didn't know what I was doing. Yeah. So I think it's easier to not drink. But I also think. So the trick is if you only want to have one or two, you got to be like, listen, I'm not going in on the round. tonight because I'm just I'm not I'm not going I always make an excuse and go like oh I have something really early in the morning and I wish I didn't have to I wish I could just say no but that does

get easier as you get older that is a you know the younger you are the harder it is to get out of a thing but that's that's that's a great pet peeve um I love it but on the flip side my other pet peeve is the people that like trying to save themselves like two dollars when like you're like let's split the bill and they're like well I only got the this and then it's like you know that like when the difference is minimal it annoys me when people try to save themselves two dollars but it's more important when the difference is immense like you you know that somebody's trying to get away with one and i know there's different points in your life where like you're making money or you're tighter with money but it's more about trusting that like if you spend this the next time they got you and you have

that kind of trust in your kind of yes and we all have the friend that never finds themselves on the i'll get it side we always have a friend who's the alligator on the commercial that their hands just never reach the check oh that that's the word right they call alligator hands right isn't that what they call it i don't know yeah alligator that that's a term yeah they can't reach the check yeah and i'm not gonna name them but i have a few friends like that you know that and that's a that's a that's a character flaw is that what we should call the burner phone listeners alligator hands hello our little alligator but that is a character flaw some people and it doesn't mean that you're all together a bad person but that is definitely a character flaw the people that like they have this like I don't know like they just they're so cheap that like it kills them to cover their end sometimes you know yeah and we all have that friend that'll be another episode yeah solid ep solid so much fun we have a couple really good ones and I think we have to do a part too yeah we're doing a pet peeve part too I love an alliteration PP2 coming up next week

week, or maybe even this week, but we're just going to, we need to stop. We need to stop. We need to take our breath and breaks. I forgot to turn the air conditioning on before we started. We're schfitzing. You guys, I have a show coming up in West Hampton. I have a show coming up in Connecticut and more shows coming up. You know, by the way, that you're supposed to do this at the beginning of the episode.

I always forget. I'm the worst at housekeeping. Because the promo should go up front. It's okay. Do you want to tease something you're working on? Oh, I'm just editing a special right now So that'll be coming up soon I'm getting I'm getting there

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