Betrayal - S1: E6 - The Only One

Episode Date: May 26, 2022

One of the hardest pills to swallow for Jenifer was discovering a friend of hers was involved with her husband. She and her former friend haven’t spoken in years. Anger, shame, and blame created... a gulf. In this episode, Jen confronts her former friend to find out how it started and why no one told her about the affair, even when the opportunity presented itself. She walks away with many answers and some questions that will never be answered.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:01:37 One of Spencer's long-term affairs was with a friend of Jennifer's, and she found that especially hurtful. He wrote about it to Jen. To my memory, she was staring at me a lot at the bar. I'm sure I noticed and tried to dismiss it as just my imagination, but it continued. I honestly have no idea how it started. I simply found times when you or her husband were both out of town. When it was over with her, you can't imagine my relief. That problem in my life was over.
Starting point is 00:02:16 I was so happy. I'm Andrea Gunning and this is Betrayal. Episode 6, the only one. I don't know much about your relationship with this woman, but she was your friend, right? Yeah, I mean, one of the reasons that I really wanted to talk to her is because she was a friend of mine. She knew us. When Spencer and I opened the bar, her and her husband started coming in as regulars, and so, like, a lot of people, we became friends with them. When they got out for a night and had a babysitter,
Starting point is 00:03:11 they'd go to dinner in town, but come by the bar before or after and spend time with us. So when I opened Spence's email and started scrolling through his photos, All of a sudden, her picture popped up and to see somebody you know provocatively in a photo and knowing that they sent it to your husband,
Starting point is 00:03:37 I mean, I was so angry as you can imagine. I mean, I was with everybody, but I called her that night. And it was probably 11, 11, 30 at night, and I didn't care. I went back to look through all the correspondence between them. And I realized that they had been seeing each other from like the end of 2014 through 2016 and in reading all of their correspondence I could really tell that she got hurt like she had fallen for Spence Hard. She really believed she was the only one. She really did she left me a voice mail and she said, I thought I was the only one. It wasn't easy for any of the women involved with Spencer to participate in this podcast.
Starting point is 00:04:36 Jen's former friend agreed to speak with her on the record, who requested that we keep her voice in name private. Although this conversation is 100% real, and the interest of protecting her identity, we used a voice actor for her side of the conversation. Can you tell me how the relationship between the two of you started? It happened so slowly,
Starting point is 00:05:03 finding things that were similarities between us like, I played soccer, you know, he played soccer. I coached, he coached, so early conversations would be, you know, when we run into each other, like, oh, how's the game or how's coaching or hey coach, you know, certain things that were not necessarily flirtatious, but getting to know me and my family and, you know, making me feel comfortable with him over time. And then I guess, you know, knowing that there was an instance where he would try to start physical interactions. Was that usually at the line bar?
Starting point is 00:05:40 Yeah. The very first time I went to the bathroom at the end of the night, he asked me if I could help stay there for him to close up like help carry something out. I went into the bathroom and when I came out, he was there and mentioned like, you know that we have touched his crotch with my hand on the outside of his pants. And what did you do? I mean, I just had wine, you know, so me feeling like it was somebody I trusted over at least six months to a year. I mean, I had thought he was attractive, not that that's any fault to my significant other, but he was traveling a lot and when he was home, he fell asleep early and I was a stay-at-home mom with kids and I was stressed out and I felt like somebody got me in that moment. So he knew he was taking advantage of that.
Starting point is 00:06:39 So how did it press them? Like how did he, I guess, justify it? That we were meant to be together. However, in the midst of things, I remember him saying that, you know, his wife could never find out because, you know, he loves his wife and his relationships. So nobody could find out what was going on.
Starting point is 00:07:04 He made me feel like I was the only one and special and I know that sounds weird. Nope. But both being married and in a relationship, I was okay with it. I felt like I didn't necessarily want to have physical contact, you know, I think guys are more driven towards that, but I guess in a way I almost felt like I owed him something. And I was never forced or never said no and against my will, but all along, I knew it was wrong. But then I would always hear, you know, like,
Starting point is 00:07:37 you're so beautiful, you're really, really well-rounded, you're a great mom, but I was strung out, stressed out, didn't feel pretty all the time, because I had kids hanging off me, breastfeeding, I was breezy, maybe showered every couple of days, maybe washed up with baby wipes, and him coming in and making those compliments and stuff, of course, it made me feel good.
Starting point is 00:08:00 And I remember one day after the wine bar, we went to the restaurant back in the back. And I remember questioning him, like, how many people do you do this with? And he's like, what? And I was like, how many people have you had relationships with outside of your marriage? And he's like, are you kidding me? None. No others. No one. In my gut, I knew that this was happening all over, because I could see the way that he would look at people in public situations. If I was off in the distance, or he was exchanging money with somebody, his hand would linger on
Starting point is 00:08:35 hers a little bit longer. It was a challenge. It was a game. So this happened over a couple of years at the peak of it. What was it like? Like, we weren't in contact all the time. I mean, it was mostly like texts or emails and the times that we met up were few and far between
Starting point is 00:08:57 than what you probably think. Because I wasn't about all that. And then there were times where he would, you know, say, we'll just roleplay. And I felt okay doing that because I'm like, I'd rather talk about it than meet up and do something that I know is horrible. Did you also feel that sense to like, please him?
Starting point is 00:09:16 I did, because at some point, I did kind of feel like, well, now I'm into deep. If I try to stop this, is he gonna like, go tell somebody, you know, but it wasn't like I was ever forced. Looking back, that's what's embarrassing. I consented to that stuff, with him merely taking that time to build that relationship. You don't want to live your life having a shield up against somebody who's going to pay
Starting point is 00:09:43 you a compliment or somebody who's going to get to know you and be a good person, but that's truly how it happened. Very nonchalant, over time, gaining that trust. And I think people that have that sickness or that addiction, they know that that's what works. It's grooming. It's grooming. It is grooming. And they don't mind taking the time to build that trust. And at what point did you realize it was grooming? You know, going through all this, I was going to church and believing in God.
Starting point is 00:10:21 Was I as strong with my relationship with God at that time? No, I wasn't. I felt bad going to church. I felt bad taking the communion, but I felt at one point, like I was just in too far with things, and it just hit me. Like, I realized what was going on
Starting point is 00:10:39 and I just said, I can't. You know, I can't do this anymore. And it was at that point when I really realized that I'm not the only other one that's being flirted with. And that's when I kind of said, I can't. You know, I can't do this anymore. And it was at that point when I really realized that I'm not the only other one that's being flirted with. And that's when I kind of said, like, what's going on? There were plenty of times when I wanted to come to you, but I didn't think you'd believe me because he was so good at charming
Starting point is 00:11:02 and talking his way around things. You probably would have went to him and he would have denied it and he's your husband if you don't know for sure You know there wasn't any evidence But there was evidence not Earlier on when it was just kind of the grooming process Right, I wish that I could have noticed it at that point I wish I had the strength to be that person that would have just seen everything bright and clear and could have given you a heads up because surely things wouldn't have happened with other people, you know?
Starting point is 00:11:33 And I think that's why it's important for other people to hear this because you can honestly say I might have stepped into something and made that mistake and fallen for it but like look these are the signs. And then especially when I found out what happened with somebody underage, do you think I kicked myself? The way I was talked to, to feel good about myself and to trust him, surely that happened to that same girl.
Starting point is 00:12:02 I bet you any money it was the same steps. Just continuously building a relationship with somebody and making them feel good about themselves but also making them feel like they're not doing anything bad. I had remembered saying like, I can't do this, this is wrong. Well, no, no, it's not wrong.
Starting point is 00:12:22 You just can't help when two people just click like we do. Those were the kind of comments that I would get. Really? Oh my gosh, yeah. But then at the same time, I didn't want anyone finding out about this. And didn't want his marriage, me ruined. I think that was his cover. His cover was being married. People didn't expect him to do these things and he used that. Hi, my name is Cooper and I'm a mini golden doodle from Crocodoodles. And I'm a bit late, the cover. Now I know what you're thinking, talking dogs? Well, hold on to your tails because it gets
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Starting point is 00:15:21 So you knew me. You must have asked him about me, like, were you guys gonna go off together? Absolutely not. And I asked him that. At one point, I said, what do you want from this? He would say that he was happy
Starting point is 00:15:42 and nothing was wrong with his relationship and he would just bring it back on like, you can't help kind of like a fate situation of two people being really good for each other. And then he would say like, you know, there's no commitment or whatever. And then at one point, I remember him saying something about meeting up and I said no. And he texted me a picture of his dick right right out there not not even expecting it right out there on my phone. So when he was wanting to meet up and I knew things were wrong I felt like well if I could give him anything
Starting point is 00:16:22 that would make him happy and I wouldn't have to do physical, you know, like me in person and do that kind of stuff, then I will. So if I was drinking wine one night and you know binge-watching shows or something, and he texted me, and at one point then requested me to send him a picture, I felt like that was better than actually getting together with him. Right. And then I remember saying to him the next day, like, you need to delete that. Will you promise me you delete that now? Are you surprised to know that he kept everything? I mean, he told me like, of course, of
Starting point is 00:16:59 course, you know, but then in the back of my mind, I had a feeling, especially towards the end that he did not delete that kind of stuff. Really aggravates me. That was personal and important things. Yes, that I made the wrong decision to do, but in me asking him, he should have deleted those. Like, I feel like that is not right at all.
Starting point is 00:17:21 Well, wait, let me ask you this. I just wanna go back. Did you guys sleep together? Yes. Where? In the bathroom at the bar. And then there was another time when I was out on my own with friends and he was kind of pestering me
Starting point is 00:17:42 for me to pick him up and that was another place. Is this car? Yes. Did you ever come to my house? I came to your house once. He invited a woman into my house. He did. And I bet I wasn't the only one.
Starting point is 00:18:00 And so you just came into my house. He took my hands and he took me upstairs. He had things set up in the upper bedroom with like candles and shit. That was the point where I I couldn't. And I told him no. So I ended up staying downstairs and we got into an argument. And that was one of the times toward the end that I felt like I just couldn't do this because of the regret that I had for what I was doing to you and my family. Well, what did you think you were there for?
Starting point is 00:18:35 I don't know, he talked me into going. I was just like, yeah, I'll come over quick, whatever, you know? I said, I don't feel like going in your house. And I'm like, is somebody else home? He said that you were traveling or something, and that's when I was like, I can't. And along the way, I think it was things like that. Situations, he was putting me into where I knew
Starting point is 00:18:56 that it was going past the point of no return, but I wasn't going any farther. And then finally, I just took a look back and really started praying about it. And at that point, it was almost like a dream. Like, I can't believe what I did, what had happened, it was like, what's done is done. I ended up telling my husband on my own without him even finding anything out because it was just eating at me.
Starting point is 00:19:21 So what happened after you told your husband? It was one night and the kids were in bed and I ended up telling him at the table. I'm like I have something to tell you. I'm like I did something really horrible. He's like did you have sex? And I said yes. And that was the utmost hardest thing I ever had to do. And he was very distraught, very distraught and it was really hard for a long time. Our relationship is great now and looking back, I think it was that moment when I got a text from somebody with the article that came out about him going to jail
Starting point is 00:20:03 for underage sex and stuff like that. And I had no doubt, no doubt. I felt a flood of emotion. Is that something I could have prevented, you know? But that's the moment in our relationship that we could actually look at this in a different light other than me just being a person that goes and does this.
Starting point is 00:20:24 I thought I was just a horrible person and this is something that I sought out and knowing that it's not, I was blindly taken advantage of in a lot of different ways. Did us being friends ever give you pause or factor into it? I know we were associated with you guys and we were friends but like there wasn't too much entanglement in our lives It wasn't like we were going out every weekend and we were doing things together and part of me looks back and Wish is that would have happened because I think I would have been stronger to resist, you know those those passes by him What happened when your husband confronted Spencer about this?
Starting point is 00:21:03 Just yelling and screaming and he didn't want me to hear him, but I was trying to listen through the event in the first floor to listen to him like in the basement. He was livid. He was yelling, spitting. I mean, he wanted to rip him apart, still to this day does. Cannot ever, ever forgive. Even though he's a God-loving person, can't ever, ever forgive what had happened.
Starting point is 00:21:28 But at that point, like, why didn't anybody come to me? I guess I just knew that it was like your fairy tale and stuff. And I guess at that point, I just wanted to just hide everything. But then after that, you guys still kind of communicated. Was that spend kind of making that gesture? Oh absolutely. I mean now that it was out to my husband I would have never. I had to salvage everything that I could. I mean I wanted to meet up to like talk to him about why and how many other people and puty come clean with me because I knew he was lying and then I also wanted to
Starting point is 00:22:11 tell him like you need to tell your wife or else I'm going to and he avoided he always made an excuse not to get together. The first voice now that you left me, you said something that stuck with me and that was that he made you feel special, unlike you were the only one. He made me feel that way, but lied to my face, yeah. I felt like I knew him and trusted him. Looking back, it was so stupid, it was so stupid. I cannot believe I let somebody so far into my mind mentally.
Starting point is 00:22:48 And I think it was also the situation that I was in, you know, with my husband working a lot. And again, not his fault at all, like I should have known better. As a void of other things, I guess, kind of in my life, he came in and he knew. Those were things I would tell him. And he knew that he could be right in there but my thing that boggled my mind was like if I was his only person why would he always say like well my wife could never find out or like I like things how I have them well yeah you do because that's your front and it enables you to do this stuff. It enables you to go out and like encroach on other women knowing that you're married,
Starting point is 00:23:27 like nothing would ever happen. Well, I mean, you are right on. There were more women, that's for sure. You know, I hate what happened all around. And I feel like you're super strong, obviously way better than he is. And I'm glad you found this out in the way like you're super strong obviously way better than he is and I'm glad you found this out in the way that you did. I'm glad you found it out so you can live a really awesome life moving forward. That's right. I mean it's one out of all the women I found had spoken up, you know, thank God for the victims,
Starting point is 00:24:06 the students who had the courage. She even waited until later to come out, right? Like, you're scared. First of all, you don't want to admit that you did something horribly wrong. Of course. You don't want to admit that you were taking advantage of. Right.
Starting point is 00:24:23 You know, it's embarrassing, but people can't be afraid to be embarrassed. You have to talk to somebody. Hi, my name is Cooper and I'm a mini golden doodle from Crocodoodles. And I'm a bit late, the cover. Now I know what you're thinking. Talking dogs?
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Starting point is 00:27:06 Are you surprised to hear that I found more women? No, not at all. Absolutely not. That's why when I came out and saw there's comments about an underage girl and stuff like that and people being on his side That pissed me off Because I sometimes wondered if he did that You know, I was like all these girls probably think he's real cute as school and stuff like in the back of my mind I was like Hopefully he wouldn't do something like that and then then like that comes out, I felt horrible.
Starting point is 00:27:45 I felt mixed emotions. I felt bad for the girl. I felt pissed off at him. I felt sorry for you. I couldn't believe it actually came out and happened, but I was happy it happened because that got him. If not, to this day, he could still be doing that crap. But knowing that he kept all those things, that's somebody with a major issue,
Starting point is 00:28:11 major horrible, disgusting issue. He had you, he had his kids, he had everything right in front of him. And whatever it was, whatever was wrong with him, mentally fucked up or whatever, was whatever was wrong with him, mentally fucked up or whatever. That is somebody with an issue. So all along I felt like it was me and that I was horrible and I did this. I did this thing and made this horrible mistake. But now I do realize that it is a victim type situation. I'm sorry for what happened overall. For me, you would think I would know better,
Starting point is 00:28:48 but exactly what happened to the underage girl is what happened to the other women. And you know what? There's probably so many women that don't have remorse for what they did or what they took part in, but I can tell you that I do. And I know you do, and I really want you to get past this.
Starting point is 00:29:08 I mean, I don't think about it every day now, but of course, since you and I have come into contact with each other over the past couple months here, of course, I've had like full on anxiety attacks, and I've had to like pop out out of Anna and really try to get my head straight around everything. But it makes me feel good for you saying that to me. I can never be sorry enough to you.
Starting point is 00:29:33 It was never ever pointed at you. I knew you were in this situation, but I can't even tell you how he made it feel like there wasn't anything else. Any barriers there. and that was part of whatever he does and whatever those types of people do. Well, and I guess I was looking for like what was that secret ingredient and how did he get away with it, how it was he able to manage so much going on at the same time. I have no idea. You teach, you coach, you have a wife that you do things with. You guys had a business.
Starting point is 00:30:12 How do you do all these things? But then I would hear him say, like, I'm going to go away on my army weekend or whatever. And I knew I was like, OK, how many states does he have people in that he's counting on? My biggest regret going back, I mean, of course I would say for all this not to happen, but my biggest regret is not saying something right away and I'll always regret that. I can't ever not feel like that.
Starting point is 00:30:41 But I mean, definitely helps me. I don't know if I've helped you at all. Yes, you did. You really did. Thank you. But that's also why I'm sharing my story. It's one of those things that's like, no, no, no. That could never happen to somebody I know. It's like, wait, what? How do you navigate that? It's crazy. I have a question like, was your husband always on his phone? No. I swear to God, no. I think about that all the time.
Starting point is 00:31:18 Was he sitting in bed like texting all night and things like that? No. I think a lot of it happened during the day. We'll never understand why she was able to tell her husband but telling you was different. Maybe she felt like that was Spencer's responsibility. I think I do hold her somewhat responsible for not telling me because she could have.
Starting point is 00:31:45 And you would hope that the relationship and connection you felt with someone would make them second guess their decisions. Yes, that's another thing. It's different for some reason the women who didn't know me that chose to do this. But for a woman who knew me and saw me a couple times a week, I just can't even imagine doing that to somebody. Is it hard to know that people were just like walking around, knowing your life, and your marriage, and your house, old, was something fundamentally different than what you knew it to be?
Starting point is 00:32:24 Yeah. And that's what it's so hard to wrap your head around when your reality of the life you're leading is one way. And then to think that it's really not that. And there were people who knew it. You know, I think there were people that did know me, maybe not well, but certainly knew he had a wife. I read so many correspondence with him and women and him inviting them
Starting point is 00:32:52 to the bar or saying it was so good to see you at the bar last night or come see me at the bar tonight. So clearly, this was a place that I'm finding out now where he used to get relationships. I walked away feeling like this is a person that was really hurt and really into your ex husband because I'm trying to put myself in someone's shoes and unless I'm interested, I'm not noticing the hands from a customer on his hand. I'm not noticing the subtle looks. I mean, she was paying attention to him
Starting point is 00:33:33 on a very deep level. She was watching him. That just makes me feel like, you know, she was really roped in. I really think in her mind she had invested some of herself into this relationship. I'm just curious if you're like, letting go of that anger that you have towards her. I do have a little more anger toward her because she was a friend and she was doing this right under my nose with my husband.
Starting point is 00:34:06 friend and she was doing this right under my nose with my husband. I also appreciate though that she was willing to get on the phone and talk to me about it. So I can let this go because honestly I want her life to be okay. I hope that the conversation maybe gave her some closure as well. And hopefully by letting her know that he was like this with other people, it helps her a little bit to understand, you know, that this is a pretty sick person. She's not the only person that fell for it. Yeah. At the end of the day, it was Spence that hurt me.
Starting point is 00:34:44 But that part of being mad at the women, I just don't carry that. His behavior was so out of control that it could have been anybody. On the next episode of Betrayal, I had never ever looked at her in any inappropriate way, not at all. In fact, probably for the last 10 to 15 years, I have not looked at any team girl as anything, but that a team girl.
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