Betwixt The Sheets: The History of Sex, Scandal & Society - The Real Casanova
Episode Date: February 7, 2023Can you imagine being SO smooth-talking and seductive your surname becomes an actual noun in the dictionary to describe someone who has a reputation for being an expert at in the sack?Well today we’...re going to be talking about a man who was just that…Giacamo Casanova.But is his legacy accurate? Was he really a prolific ladies man? And did he do anything else in his life other than seduce women…and if he did, why do we only remember him for that reason? Today we’re bringing you a very special Betwixt the Sheets mash-up episode with History Hit’s very own Casanova, Dan Snow (don’t worry he has humbly confirmed we could call him that).Kate and Dan will be discussing why there is much more to Casanova than just womanising - he was a scam artist, outlaw, alchemist, spy and church cleric. He wrote satires, fought duels, and escaped from prison more than once. He even set up the French national lottery. Join Kate and Dan for this special collab episode of History Hit in the Sheets to find out all this and more!Produced by Freddy Chick, Charlotte Long and Mariana Des Forges. Mixed by Dougal Patmore.Betwixt the Sheets: The History of Sex, Scandal & Society. A podcast by History Hit.Email us with your subject ideas at betwixt@historyhit.com. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Oh, my lovely betwixters, how are you doing?
I hope that you are keeping well and staying fabulous.
But it's me, Kate Lister.
I am here with your fair do's warning.
What is a fair do's warning, Kate?
I will tell you.
A fair do's warning is what I give before every episode,
just to make sure that you know exactly what's going on here.
This is an adult podcast with adult themes
and adults speaking to other adults about adulty things and adulty,
We're talking about Casanova today. So there is lots of adults doing adulty things going on.
Lots of discussions around sex. I'll probably be swearing quite a lot. And there might be some
discussions around venereal diseases as well. I can't quite remember if we got round to that.
But if we haven't, then we should have done. And now that I've told you about this,
you can't get mad at us if you continue listening to this because fair dues, you have been warned.
Can you imagine being so smooth-talking and so sexy that you're not.
name itself becomes a byword for anybody that is an absolute legend in the sack.
Oh, she's alright, Cassanova.
Hmm.
I'm still hoping that Lister might catch on in this way, but I doubt it.
But one man whose name did catch on like that is Giacomo Casanova.
But is his legacy accurate?
Was he really a committed ladies man?
Did he do anything else in his life, apart from shagging his way across Europe?
and if he did, why do we only remember him for his bedroom antics?
Who was the real Giacomo Cassanova?
Today, in the lead-up to Valentine's Day,
we are bringing you a very special Betwixt the Sheets episode
with history hits very own Cassanova, Dan Snow.
Well, he's the closest that we could get, okay?
But don't worry.
He is humbly confirmed that we can call him that.
We're going to be talking about Casanova's most famous love affairs,
which even included a couple of nuns.
Some of the people he met in his lifetime
from Mozart to Benjamin Franklin to Catherine the Great
and of course, sex in the 18th century.
I mean, why would you want to talk about anything else?
Enjoy!
Who have a girl out there?
Five.
Five? At work?
What I'd like to know is
how can you figure out what a girl would like to do?
A certain girl, I mean.
Well, you might ask her.
First of all, be late.
That'll show her you're a busy, important person.
But you're not too interested in her.
Play hard to get.
Kate Lister, how's it going?
You've got the fastest growing podcast in the world.
The Twix.
It's pretty cool.
I always love your sexual advisory stuff at the start.
You're like, course, it's the whole point.
Listen to you, Muppets.
That's my favorite bit is that having to go, right, yeah, it's about sex.
We're going to talk about sex.
It's like when you get the little bottles of nuts.
night hole and it says warning may cause drowsiness.
Yeah.
But I actually quite enjoy that bit now.
It sounds like you enjoy that bit, for sure, for sure.
I mean, Cassanova is like a central figure of this story, isn't he?
I mean, it's bonkers.
There's a lot of things you could say about him, and I'm sure that we will,
but you'd have to say that he drank deeply from the cup of life,
I think is what you'd have to say about Cassanova
is he lived several lifetimes over, didn't he?
I think that he realizes quite early on, you sort of get this sense when you read
in his memoirs, which is really,
the only source that we have for Casanova
is these like thousands and thousands,
10,000 words on more memoirs that he wrote
when he was in his 60s.
And you get a real sense for him,
sat there, he was a librarian at the time
because he'd fritted everything away.
By the way, can we just briefly,
Cassanova ends his days as a librarian.
I love librarians, but I mean, that is a classic.
It is, isn't it?
Because he earned his fortune several times over
and then spaffed it up the wall repeatedly
because he couldn't stop gambling.
He was a terrible, terrible gambler
and everything he did was about chance and opportunistic
and he would keep getting in trouble,
he'd keep being chucked out of places,
which is kind of one of the reasons he was on the run all the time
is because he would keep pissing people off
and then he'd be exiled.
But I don't think he ever stopped being a chance.
I think he worked out very early on that he was really clever,
and he was. He was really, really bright.
But I think that he worked out that you can trick people.
You can manipulate people.
And I think he liked doing it as well.
So he is super smart and he graduates
He hates the law, doesn't he hates it?
But he graduates super young from university
And is it still a teenager?
He's really young.
He's one of those like child prodigies
He graduates from law at about like 17
Or something like that
And he was just a voracious reader of books
He would just absorb everything
But then he's stuck because well
All right, you're very clever
And you know a lot of stuff
And you're quite good looking by all accounts
But what are you going to do?
You're still the son of an actress
And you're penniless
So he attempted to go into the church for a bit
but wasn't very good at it.
He was a bit of a wronging, wasn't he?
Well, do you know, he was really good at delivering the sermons,
and people started coming from all over the place to hear him talk.
But there was one incident where he got smashed before he was supposed to give the sermon,
and then he wasn't sure what he was supposed to do,
so pretended to faint rather than give it away that he was absolutely sozzled.
And it just became pretty obvious that he was not going to fit in the church
because he kept shagging everyone.
And he then, he basically finds himself a word.
wealthy patron, right? Which is, I mean... He does. It's just a shortcut. It's a life hack,
that, isn't it? But then what are you going to do? You're like 18 years old. How are you going
to make your money? It's a very, very, very different world. You can't really have an apprenticeship.
If you haven't inherited the money, there's only a few options available to you, really.
And getting a wealthy patron is definitely one of them. And he does score the jackpot, and it's
Senator Bragadin. Kastanova found him when he was having a heart attack or a stroke.
And he kind of launched into... It's another example of that. It's another example of that.
them being this brilliant con artist.
He launched into this, oh my God, I'm going to help you.
I'm the hero. And he picked him up off the street and took him back to his apartments and
lay down the bed. And then he made this whole big song and dance about how he'd saved him
and his doctors couldn't. So when Bragenden kind of came back round, he was incredibly
indebted to Kassanover when he made him his principal air. But it's another example of him
bullshitting really, really well.
Well, instead of being a healer slash alchemist is something that he would turn to when he was
struggling for a square meal.
Yeah, and it was a dangerous game, actually,
and it was one that would come around
and bite him on the ass,
because in Venice at the time,
there was sort of their own version
of the Inquisition going on,
which is sort of the repressive,
religious authorities.
We're getting very upset
with this sort of magic occult,
sacrilegious stuff going on.
And Cassanova really liked that.
In fact, he's got one story
that when he was really little,
his grandmother took him to a witch
to heal him of nosebleeds,
which is extreme.
And he thinks at some point
that he is able to,
able to perform magic and cabala and mysticism.
And at some point, like when his life pretends to be like a spiritualist and a mediumist,
but he does kind of play around with this stuff, how much he believed it himself.
I'm not quite sure.
Yeah, he does a bit of philosopher's stone action, doesn't it?
We should talk about sex because he is also the victim of child abuse.
I mean, he had his first sexual experiences were under the age that he was young.
I mean, wasn't he?
He was young.
He didn't have full penetrative sex until he was in his teens.
but his first sexual experience was with a woman that was older than him, definitely.
And he kind of remembers it as like it awoke something in him
that he was going to devote the rest of his life to.
But today, yeah, we'd say that that's child abuse.
And then he's sort of famous sleeping in nuns,
but that does fit within the genre of sort of literary nun porn in the 18th century
was actually a thing. It was a thing.
You've got to be careful when you talk about Casano,
because it's like how much of it is true.
If the authority that you've got on this is himself is his memoirs,
how much of it can be corroborated by other source material, you know,
or how much of it, if you put different lenses on it and like,
it's your mate at school that was bragging about shagging two supermodels
and you're like, did that happen? Did that happen?
And there's certainly a lot in the memoirs that sort of maps onto quite popular genres of porn at the time.
And non-porn was quite big.
But yeah, famously, he had two very turbulent love affairs
with two women who lived in a nunnery.
We should talk about his...
He was in prison.
You've mentioned this.
And his famous escape from prison,
because that is a classic.
Tell me about that.
Right.
Okay.
So he gets in prisons because...
And this is going back to what you were saying at the beginning about
at the time people were aware that he was shagging people.
He shouldn't be shagging.
And he was...
Like, the Venetian authorities were gathering information on him
about him being a...
fornicator and a seducer of women and a liar and somebody that stole men's wives away and was
generally a rake and a scoundrel. But what really did for him was this sort of dabbling in magic
that he liked to sort of put about. And there was the accusation that he'd said anyone who believes
in Christianity is weak. And he was arrested on those charges and he was thrown in jail in Venice.
And he stayed there for 15 months and he did manage to escape, which was no mean feat because he
was right up in, they were called like the lead cells or something like because they had lead
on the roof. So it's how does he get away? And he manages to find it sort of like, I'd say
an ice pick, but it's not. But imagine like an ice pick. And he manages to sort of make a
hole in the ground. But then he's moved to a different cell just as he's about to Andy Dufrain
it, right? But then he starts talking to a monk who's a bad monk, who's in the cell next to him.
And he manages to get him the ice pick. And then he kind of tunnels through to his cell and they pull
each other out and then they're like loosened the rafters in the ceiling of the building of the
jail. This is a perfect example of Casanova being a complete con artist. So they're climbing up the
roofs, they're climbing in the eaves and the only place they can get to is like this big,
great hall that they kind of drop down into, but all the doors are locked. So it's like,
well, that's brilliant, we can't get out. But they're so tired, they fall asleep. And then they get
woken up the next morning by a guard opening the door. And Casanova leaps into action straight away.
And he goes, how dare you? How dare you treat us like this? And what he knew was there'd been a
ball there the night before. So he managed to pass off in that second that they were two
guests of the ball that had been locked in there overnight by accident. The guard was so
apologetic and terrified that they'd report him to his superiors. He led them out of the building.
That's like mad skills, that isn't it? Mad skills. The joyful years before like, you know,
official papers and... Yeah. It just shows how far confidence can get you, doesn't it? If you just front
it out.
After he escapes, is that when he goes to France?
It's incredible, the most proper bit, well, I say that, it's still gambling,
but the most kind of perhaps a bit of his career that he's not actually breaking multiple laws and customs at the same time.
He goes to France.
He goes to Paris.
Yeah, and he loves Paris.
And he learns the language.
And again, he's seducing everybody, famous courtisans, famous actresses, famous actresses,
famous men's wives.
But the one thing that he does is he, quote, unquote, invent the first lottery.
Yeah, like a national lottery.
Like a state lottery.
Yeah.
I mean, he, again, what he does is he manages to convince people that he's invented it.
But what he actually did is he nicked the idea from other people that he'd been speaking to.
So it wasn't his idea.
But he packaged it really well and he was an amazing salesman.
So he sold this idea to the Parisian authorities.
And obviously, like, the lottery is win-win for everyone in it.
All those poor schlubs think, yeah, but I might win it.
And we kind of enjoy that little buzz and the people that win.
another company that does it.
So he made them a lot of money
and he made a lot of money for himself.
But yeah, he's still remembered
as the inventor of the lottery.
It gets a bit of work as a spy at this point.
He hangs out of Madame de Pompadour
who's Louis the 15th sort of favorite
foremost mistress and Rousseau he's hanging out with.
I mean, it's bonkers.
If he did hang out with him.
Oh, you see, maybe he's just making a lot.
He might be.
I mean, there's some cooperating evidence
because when his memoirs were discovered
and finally published,
there was a lot of his letters
and correspondence that was found.
And there are letters that have been written.
to him.
So we know that, I mean, unless he was going to the extent of faking letters written to him,
like we know that some of this can be corroborated.
But you can't help but reading it through and go, oh, you helped Mozart with your music.
Did you cast him over?
Right.
Of course you did.
It just sounds very much like, yeah, he goes to another school.
You wouldn't know him.
It's just got that kind of vibe about it.
But maybe I'm being really horribly wrong.
Maybe it was all true.
Well, yeah, you don't know if you want it to be true or not.
It's so bizarre.
I like the way he basically nicks loads of money off an old French aristocrat.
by promising he can make him young again.
And then goes to Britain to flog his lottery scheme to the British government
and ends up shagging some Brits.
Then he does do this kind of mad European tour.
Again, meets Frederick the Great, meets Catherine the Great, wild.
Yep, he's all over the place.
And you can look at that as like, isn't that quite exciting,
that he's always kind of on the move,
he lives his very kind of rootless existence.
But he also keeps getting thrown out of places.
So he has to keep leaving places.
When he was in England, he was shagging various quarters, and he didn't like it very much because he couldn't speak English all that well and they couldn't speak French, which is kind of nice because he had this thing about, like, he didn't just want to have sex. He also wanted witticisms and banter and, you know, all those things, knock-knock jokes, I don't know. So he didn't like that very much. And he got in trouble with quite a famous courtesan in Britain whose name escapes me. She had a French name. And she wouldn't sleep with him and he got really upset and angry because it's like the first woman that had refused him.
I think he slapped her as well
and he was really upset with himself and he left.
I'll be back with Dan and Casanova
after this short break.
It's funny, the pictures of Casanova,
I'm being a bit superficial.
It doesn't look super attractive
and I just wonder if
people's teeth must have been so bad.
If you were like a bog standard
six and a half out of ten, seven,
were you like a ten in the 18th century, do you reckon?
I think that what Casanova has,
and I still think that this is true today,
self-confidence and self-belief and wit and being funny is one of the most attractive things that you can have.
Like you could put someone in front of you that is a solid 10 out of 10, like your absolute dream shag.
And it would be amazing for a bit.
It'd be like, oh my God, I can't believe I get to play with this.
This is incredible.
How long would it take before you started going, you still here?
If they had like no personality, if they were actually quite boring to be around.
Like how long would it take for that novelty to wear off?
But he didn't have that.
He had wit and charisma in absolute spades.
And so he was really confident, and that will get you, like, so far almost every time.
Listen to this, kids.
That's advice for you from the expert.
That's advice.
Yes.
He was expelled from Warsaw when he had a jewel.
I mean, come on, he's got to have a few jewels, and he got shot in the left hand
with a colonel.
They argued over an actress, of course.
Of course.
By the way, can we just talk about the actress thing?
Like, what is it about an actual?
Hence the bishop actresses of the phrases that we used.
Tell me about 18th century actresses.
Right, so there has been, as long as there, because women weren't always allowed on the stage, of course.
Right in Shakespearean times, it was men playing the roles of women.
So it was considered very daring when women were finally allowed on the stage.
And there has been a very close association between actresses and sex workers, courtesans.
They've merged into one of them for a really, really long time.
And I suspect it's because an actress has got a certain amount of agency that other women
don't have. So, for example, Cassanova's mother, she travelled all over Europe. You're not going
home to a husband, that you have a certain amount of freedom that's built into that, that you're on
the stage, so you're already being admired. That's definitely a part of it. And if you look at
someone like the great courtesans throughout history, they start off as actresses. Like Nell Gwynn,
one of my favorites. She started off as an actress on the stage, and that was how she caught
the eye of Charlie Boy, Charles II, and became his mistress. So there's a really close
association between the two.
Is this unusual a moment?
He talks honestly about how he had sex with men as well as women.
Is that something, given that Sodomir's capital crime,
that strikes me as kind of quite honest?
He doesn't quite go into the same gory details that he does with women.
There's like veiled suggestions.
So he would write about one of his famous lovers, M.
who was actually a nun, of course she was.
But he was also the lover of a really prominent bishop, of course she was,
and that they had sex while the husband was.
and it's kind of like, is that true?
Or was he in there as well?
But there is one incident where he's very, very attracted to a famous singer, a castrato,
and he goes to have sex with him and then kind of realizes at the crucial moment,
him as a her, and she's been masquerading as a castrato
and stuffing her pants with a fake penis.
And there is a certain amount of, he seems to be getting off on it a little bit.
So he probably wouldn't have written it down as explicit detail.
because, as you said, it's like really, really bad.
But he seemed to have sex with literally everything.
He gets back to Venice eventually.
I just love the way he just travels looking for opportunities
to ingratiate himself with rich people.
And then occasionally he just doesn't find it.
He's like, oh, well, Spain was complete.
Nothing happened there.
So then he keeps going.
He's like a shark.
He's got to have oxygen over the gills.
I find it such an extraordinary way to live.
It would be interesting, like,
what would people make of him today from, like, a psychological
point of view.
There's so much going on there that he never marries and settles down.
He doesn't really have a permanent home.
Like he said, he's always on the move.
It's this very sort of rootless existence.
But he seems to really thrive on it as well.
And like in some places he's, when he was in Paris, he was a millionaire and then he lost
it all, which is like an incredible feat.
Like how the hell did you do that?
He's silly sod.
And then other places he was just working as a violinist as a fiddler because he couldn't
do anything else.
He certainly fiddled.
He certainly fiddled.
But also, I was like, you know, now we've got credit cars and sadly people can run up like massive.
But like when you're wandering around Spain looking for a rich person to read their fortune or do some crazy stuff to, other days when he's got nothing left in his wallet, he's like, oh-oh, like I'm going to go hungry and sleep in a barn tonight.
Like I find that just that pre-modern journeying lifestyle, I find it kind of so fast.
Like the logistics of it, how did it work?
A lot of it's on credit and a lot of it is like the art.
of the con artist is to make people think that they can trust you.
So he needs to present himself to people.
And he kind of gets this reputation.
People might know who he is,
even if they know him as a rake and a scoundrel.
He was definitely famous for his jail break.
So he's got a kind of a license to sort of turn up at places as a fascinating person.
He just gets to a village, goes, where's the big house?
Kind of.
Bang on the door.
Hey, everyone, it's your lucky day.
Castanova is in town.
I'm here.
It's really weird.
It's the thought of, like,
be-list celebrities turning up at your house going,
Hi, I'm here.
It's mad, isn't it?
But he sort of had this reputation, so he knew where to go, and he knew the right people.
There's a certain sense that he kind of just things happen to him.
At least in the memoirs, that's how he remembers it.
Like, he doesn't seem to be able to just go out to the shops for a pint of milk
without bumping into an actress or a Corsican or...
Or Benjamin Franklin.
Or Benjamin Franklin.
Here he meets. Yeah, extraordinary.
They talk about aeronautics and balloon transport together in Paris.
They do.
And he's spying.
He seems to have a little nice, towards the end of his life,
he gets that nice little stipend from the Venetians.
He so does a bit of spying.
I guess he's flogging his roller decks.
He's flogging his little back book and his contacts
to provide a bit of intelligence, the state security services.
I think he would be a brilliant spy,
apart for the fact that he wrote it all down in a memoir,
which was definitely a bit of a giveaway.
One of the things that he was really good at was reading people.
And so the way that he seduced,
and I think that he still continues to seduce people, actually,
because we're still drawn to him.
was still like, who was this person, this enigmatic person, is that he kind of presents himself
as this very exciting person who does stuff that you couldn't possibly do. I think that's quite
magnetic, isn't it? The reality of it would be very different. And his last year, as we said at
beginning, he was a librarian, amazingly. He got very depressed. He was having a not particularly
good time. That's the period in which he claims of Mozart helped him with a few bits and bobs.
As you do. But then wrote this unbelievable memorabilms.
That's surely your dream, because I've talked to you many times in this podcast,
and you're saying the big problem is people don't write down the things we do, like, sexually,
and we don't write honest memoirs, right?
We all write boring, unbelievably, because we don't offend people,
and we don't want to get caught out for telling little porcupines,
but he is one of those rare people that does just write this incredible memoir.
And it is an incredible, as a historical document, it's so valuable.
And it wasn't published unedited to begin with.
It took a while to get the full gory details out there.
But again, even that, as valuable as that is, you've got to always be thinking, is this unscensored, though?
Because there's a real sense that he knows he's writing it for an audience.
He knows and that he's really enjoying reminiscing.
One of my favorite quotes from his memoirs is, I wrote my life to laugh at myself and so far I've succeeded.
So he's like having a really good time remembering this stuff.
But it's how accurate was it?
If we could find the people he's writing about and go,
well, Katanoa seems to think that you had an amazing time.
Is that what you remember?
I'm not so sure if those things would marry up,
but it's still such a valuable document.
I like his line where he just says,
I can say I have lived.
And I think is probably true.
Although it's not whitewash things,
there was at least one, but several rape allegations.
And then he slept with his daughter.
What's going with that?
It's really complex because, like,
if I tell you this story about this,
you invented the lottery and he's funny and he's charismatic and he chagged his daughter.
It's like, whoa, go back one.
What?
So we're kind of left with this like, wow, okay.
If it's true, if it's true, we don't know if there's corroborating evidence,
but he had an affair with a woman called Lucrezia.
And then years later, he met her daughter, who was called Leonilda.
And he almost had sex with her.
And then it found out that that's actually his daughter.
He almost had sex with her.
And then there's a weird description about he has sex with Lucrezia while Leonilda's in the room, but he doesn't have sex with her then.
But that's weird.
Like we're in weird territory already.
And then he has this thing about later on when he met her when she's like 25, she was unhappily married because she couldn't get pregnant.
So as a favour, as a fatherly favour, he has sex with her to get her pregnant.
And it's kind of just like Cassanova.
Like I want to be on your side, but it's like, what are you doing?
And it's, again, you've got to, like, I'd say look at it in the context of the time,
but no one was chagging their daughters, even at the time.
But what it might be is playing to incest porn, which was bizarrely common.
Like the Marquis de Sard writes about it all the time.
And when you look at erotica into the 19th century, there's a weird amount of incest.
And by the way, incest porn is still incredibly popular today on Porn Hub.
It's not fathers and daughters.
It tends to be stepmother and stepson, that kind of thing.
So what he might be doing is bullshitting
and trying to create weird sexual fantasies.
Not that that makes this okay,
but that's what he might be doing.
I guess, like, I struggle with his life to think,
like, how unusual was it?
Other lives like this, but that we just...
Which I don't know about.
Is it the fact this one's chronicled?
It's fascinating, isn't it?
And if they hadn't found those manuscripts,
if they hadn't been published,
we might never know that this man...
Yeah, they had a really...
really interesting life, didn't they? They survived the bombing of Leipzig. They were suppressed for years.
It's only quite recently that they've all come out, really. Yeah, and we're still, like,
discovering little things, like, who his famous lovers were, and because he, like, anonymizes
some of them in the memoirs, like, M.M. and CC, and all these things. I think that he was unusual,
even for the time, and I think that he knew that he was unusual. And he had to have been
unusual because no one would have given a shit about him otherwise. You can't be turning up
at the court of Catherine the Great and going, hello, I'm casting over the completely normal, because
no one cares. He had this huge appetite for adventure and I think that he just said yes a lot.
You know, like most of us have that kind of like, I'm not really sure I should be doing. I don't
think he had that. He just steered into the skid his entire life.
Steered into the skit. Yes, he did. Well, Kastanova felt like the obvious point where our two
podcasts would intersect. Because I love the 18th century and you love the history of, well,
things that gone betwixt the sheets. I don't think Kassanova was puttips the sheets for that long.
I think it was, you know.
It was anywhere he could try it up against walls in castles, boats, anywhere.
But he must have done it betwixt the sheets a few times.
I mean, you think so, wouldn't you?
Yeah.
Some of the relationships were off a bit longer.
I think they would have had time for a bit of sleep occasionally.
But, you know, he only actually slept with about 120 people.
I think that's quite an important thing.
I think that's quite interesting as well.
It made me think that it's not a kind of eye-watering figure, I don't think.
It's not, is it?
No.
You know, I might be giving away too much about myself.
But when I read that, I was like, what?
Yeah, I think it's really interesting.
I sometimes wonder whether he includes, is that like a class thing?
Does he not include like a quick, like roll in the hay with like somebody he considers
are those people like named people that he considers importance?
I think that was interesting.
Also though, I wonder how like Catherine the Great had love affairs and gained her reputation
as like a serial shaggar.
Well, in fact, she seems to have been someone who enjoyed a consecutive series of reciprocal
loving relationships.
And I wonder if in those days
Maybe that was an astonishing number of people
who have slept with it, it's fascinating
I mean, it's still quite a big number
But when you think of someone like,
I think Gene Simmons brags
that he slept with over 10,000 people
Yeah, it was a mad weekend, I'm telling you.
That's kind of that sort of number
And I think that's quite an important point.
I mean, yeah, there's a lot of dodgy stuff about Cassano
but you'd have to say that
He does fall in love a lot
That there is like a lot of casual sex
but he does seem to have genuine relationships for a lot of people.
But I have also wondered, were these just the named people?
What about like the faceless poor people that you had sex with?
But yeah.
Yeah, that's the thing I find interesting about him.
But yeah, it's fascinating.
Well, listen, Kate, thanks very much for coming on my...
I'm surprised you have time these days.
You're so important to come on my podcast.
I really appreciate that.
Well, you know, just I'll try and remember you from when I was done.
It's been so lovely to talk to you.
Thank you.
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