BigDeal - #38 Kim Kardashian’s Personal Trainer: Take Control of Your Health Before It’s Too Late | Senada Greca
Episode Date: November 26, 2024🚀 Main Street Over Wall Street is where the real deals get done. Join top investors, founders, and operators for three days of powerful connection, sharp strategy, and big opportunities — live in... Austin, Nov 2–4. https://contrarianthinking.biz/msows-bigdeal Record your first video with Riverside - https://creators.riverside.fm/Codie - and use code CODIE for 15% off an individual plan. In this episode of the Big Deal Podcast, Codie interviews Senada Greca, a renowned fitness trainer known for her work with celebrities like Kim Kardashian. They discuss Senada's journey from growing up in communist Albania to becoming a successful entrepreneur and fitness expert. The conversation delves into the importance of the mind-muscle connection, the significance of strength training for women, and the launch of Senada's app, We Rise, which aims to empower women through fitness and holistic health. Senada shares her insights on nutrition, debunks myths about women and weightlifting, and emphasizes the mental health benefits of physical activity. In this conversation, the speaker discusses the importance of resilience in the face of negativity, the significance of holistic health practices beyond traditional workouts, and the challenges of perfectionism in both personal and professional life. They emphasize the foundational role of nutrition in fitness, the need to navigate health trends critically, and the importance of sleep and mental well-being. The discussion also touches on the growth of businesses, the necessity of authenticity in social media, and the journey towards self-love and acceptance. Want help scaling your business to $1M in monthly revenue? Click here to connect with my consulting team. Chapters (01:18) How to get a ‘Senada butt’ (05:28) Moving meditation (06:37) Senada’s fitness journey (07:46) Growing up in Albanian Communism (12:16) Success beyond aesthetics (15:18) Senada’s WeRise App success (19:18) Optimal breakfast breakdown (20:11) Is creatine worthwhile? (21:07) Women’s muscle-gain concerns answered (23:30) Defining ‘heavy’ Lifting (24:06) The Correct Way To Workout (26:33) Training Kim Kardashian & other celebrity Clientele (28:08) Senada’s mental health journey (32:57) Women & antidepressants epidemic (34:50) Day in the life of Senada (36:39) Why start Zentoa fitness apparel? (39:42) How many workouts per day? (40:58) Social Media and Body-confidence (44:31) Senada’s Wellness Protocols (47:29) Other Ambitions & Nerves (48:41) Bypassing Inner Dialogue (51:17) Nutrition: Diet Importance (53:18) Alcohol replacements (1:00:03) Worst to best: Alcohol, Seed Oils, Sleep, Workouts, Diet (1:04:25) Business & Social Media Growth (1:12:24) Senada’s must-have Home Gym Equipment (1:15:17) This or That: Fitness Activities (1:18:37) Senada’s Key Life Advice MORE FROM BIGDEAL: 🎥 YouTube 📸 Instagram 📽️ TikTok MORE FROM CODIE SANCHEZ: 🎥 YouTube 📸 Instagram 📽️ TikTok OTHER THINGS WE DO: 🫂 Our community 📰 Free newsletter 🏦 Biz buying course 🏠 Resibrands 💰 CT Capital 🏙️ Main St Hold Co Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Hi and welcome back to the Big Deal podcast. I'm Cody Sanchez, and this is for those of you who don't want to just be rich but free and are willing to do what it takes to get there.
All right, this week we have Sonata Greca. This woman is a powerhouse, and I don't just mean physically.
She's definitely one of the buffest women I know, also beautiful, but she is the trainer for Kim Kardashian and Carly Klaus, plus a bunch of other fancy names you would know.
She also has multiple companies. She runs simultaneously, millions of followers online, and we talk about things that I think you guys are going to.
care a lot about, which is if you are a woman, how do you become healthier, fitter, look better
in a gym in a way that's simpler and easier?
But we're also going to talk about some crazy origin stories.
Like, she grew up in communism, real communism, and what that meant to go through that
difficulty and become the woman that she is today.
I thought she was pretty incredible to follow on the internet prior to this, and then I got
to meet her, and I realized that real strength is not on the outside, it's on the inside.
So if you want to hear stories about a brilliantly strong woman and how to become one yourself,
this episode is for you.
I think when everybody, you know, says your name, they think what I think, which is,
how do I steal her butt?
Immediately.
So I think we should start talking about first.
Like, it's pretty incredible.
Like, you have all these methodologies you use.
But for us, women, we have a hard time activating our glutes.
in particular. And I didn't know that was a thing until I started going down your rabbit hole of
mind muscle connection and how important that is for glutes. And so for normies like me who've never
done anything like this, how does one steal a sonata butt? You got to put it in the work.
There's still three steps. It's not easy. There's no magic pill, unfortunately. You know,
I say that the magic pill is in the work that you're trying to avoid. So do the work. And unfortunately,
like glutes are a big muscle so they need a lot of work but my muscle connection is one of the biggest things that i've always employed
which is you touch you you think about the muscle that's working you are present with the muscles that are working in this case your glutes
yeah you'll see me on a lot of videos i'm like touching whatever area and mostly glutes yeah um that that i'm working out
because there is a correlation, as you probably know, with mind to body and body to mind.
It basically sends those signals up to the brain that we're working these muscles.
So let's activate them.
And then to get more, if you want to know more, like technical aspects of it, you know,
there is in my book a way to work out your glutes that is effective.
So including things that are like a squat or a lunge, which are moving in one vector
and then doing our deals like hip hinge exercises.
this and then going into vertical vectors like step-ups doing abduction, which is working your
side booty, upper booty, and then a hip thrust, which is like that contractor.
So employing all of these different aspects and then hitting it, you know, like three times
a week. For me, it's really important because it is the biggest muscle in your body.
And we'll burn more calories and will help you health-wise.
Yeah, I like that.
And so basically, if we've never heard of that before, mind muscle connection, the first activation is you touch it.
So if I'm like trying to move this part, I actually touch it with my finger.
And why does that actually help?
Like how have we gotten so disconnected from our muscles?
Because we're thinking about, you know, what am I going to have for dinner?
Am I, what TV show I'm going to watch, you know, or, you know, the children have, you know, this sport and that activity.
We're busy.
So we are not in our bodies.
Most of us are like, you know, watching a series or something while we're working out or listening to music or I don't even listen to music anymore because I want to be present with what I'm doing in that moment.
That's like my moving meditation in a way, not the discount actual eyes closed and bringing it to, you know, internally, but that's my moving meditation.
That's one of the reasons, especially nowadays that we've become so disconnected.
But there's also a chemical process, if you will, that happens when you do actually touch.
All of a sudden, your brain is like, oh, that's, that's, that's, that's being worked.
Like, it's actually a chemical process that's occurring as well, not just a woo-woo.
That I'm touching.
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meditation i went down a rabbit hole of your stuff you've talked about this a lot but i think a lot of us
when we're in the gym we're like this is painful i want to pretend i'm not here i want to distract myself
and yours is kind of the opposite so explain what that is it is so i actually am maybe a gluten for
punishment but when my mind goes there like this sucks like i want to get out of here
I'm actually, no, you're going to slow it down and you're going to add two reps on top of that.
Just so that, you know, again, I'm kind of bringing it back to the body and not running with the thoughts that are taking over my mind in the moment.
Listen, if you watching TV or listening to music or whatever you need to do in the meantime gets you to get moving and work out, do it.
If that's the only way that you're going to do it, do it.
But if we're talking about, then maximizing, like, your results and talking about, like, the nitty-gritty, then, yes, you'd want to kind of fully concentrate on what you're doing in that particular moment.
Yeah.
When you, you grew up in Albania, right?
Yeah.
And you left when you were a teen?
Mm-hmm.
Yeah.
Were you, were you into fitness and kind of the same sonata there that you are here?
Or did something change?
Yeah.
I've been on active kids.
So I've always been like on trees and, you know, climbing to get like the ripest fruit,
which I saw some tangerines outside and I stole the couch.
You did.
I did because it just, I don't know, it brings back like such good memories of that part of the childhood.
So I've been an active child, but I didn't, I was not like, I didn't excel at sports.
I played every sport imaginable, but I was in like an excellent athlete because I think one of
idea one of the things there is is that when I got into the sports like as a teenager it wasn't
for the right reasons I just wanted to work out be as skinny as possible as thin as possible so
it wasn't like I want to be just a good athlete and now it's become to like I want to be the best
athlete that I possibly can at this point in my life but yeah that was an active child's
super active child to now doing what I do
What's Albania like I've never been?
What was it like growing up there?
So Albania was a communist country at that time when I was born and well into my early years.
It was tough.
It was waiting in line for ration food, placing a water bottle in a very long line of people to claim your spot so you'd get your rationed food.
And then with the turning over,
of like communism to democracy quote unquote that also presented a lot of issues there was a civil
war that broke out you know I was I would stand in line for like I mean it sounds surreal sometimes
right for a loaf of bread and being like passing out being elbowed by adults because you know you
you had only a limited amount of food that was being distributed at that point in time so you just
had to fight for literally like survival like literal survival um so yeah that that even though you know my mom
was a professor my dad was a doctor you are slightly better off than than other people in the sense
that you know my dad would get extra payment in term in in the in the way of a sheep or a or some
chickens, you know, so sometimes you'd have that little, uh, little surplus, if you will.
Um, I, I can remember like as clear as they, like the first can of soda that he brought home
because somebody had gotten it from somebody that gave it to him literally like a can of soda that
me and my two younger sisters split into three little espresso cups and I can still taste
that and, and my mouth. And yeah, so it, uh, that's very different than L.A.
Yeah, it is. It is. And like living this reality right now where, you know, I'm training Kim Kardashian. And I am, you know, I have a couple of businesses that I run. And I would say, you know, like a very successful individual. Like that almost seems like who whose life was that? But it was very much my life.
Do you remember like the lines? Do you remember those moments?
They're like, I keep getting chills as I speak about it.
But yeah, you can get me emotional.
Yeah, I remember the lines very vividly.
I passed out in one of those lines, like, you know, waiting for bread and in the heat, dry heat of Albania, probably eight, ten years old, you know.
Oh, my God.
And were you there by yourself with your family?
I was.
I was the oldest of, of the.
Three girls.
Three girls.
So I a lot of the time assumed the responsibilities of the household.
I was like, I consider myself as like the boy of the house.
You know, I was that tomboy that I wanted to protect and to care for the family and for my sisters and my mom.
I forget the question.
No, it was a beautiful answer.
Do you think that's part of the reason why you care about being so strong now?
Is that?
It is absolutely one of the main reasons why I,
I thought we're going to talk about business.
I started with a butt and now I'm talking about breadlines.
It's so, but it is, it's truly, you know, it's so multifactorial.
It is, you know, caring for my sisters, my younger sisters.
as it is, um, caring for my mom who had a very, she, she had me at 19, you know, um, and a child very
much herself who was dealing with her own, you know, history of anxiety and whatnot. And, um,
to have a kid that young, you know, to at times be, be her parent as well, you know, um, so,
I think that that's one of the main reasons why empowering women to step into their strength
and really embody who they're supposed to be at their fullest is so important to me.
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It also makes sense why you've attracted these millions of people that follow you online
because it's so much deeper than aesthetics.
I mean, I had followed you and, you know, you are a very strong woman physically,
but going through that mentally and emotionally at such a young age, incredibly rare.
How did you guys get out of Albania and get to the U.S.?
It was at the height of that civil war that was talking about.
It was.
And this is where it was Albanians versus, there was like.
It was Kosovo that went to, you know, like Serbia went to war with Kosovo.
I should take a step back.
It was a little bit before that.
It was like two years before that, if I remember correctly.
were this like civil unrest, people broke into the armories where they hold, is that the
armories where they hold the guns and everything, weapons and, and they were literally just
shooting at each other like targets, like, you know, let's see.
And it was racial based or religion based.
It wasn't any, it wasn't anything.
It was just the rebellion against, the government against, there were some pyramid schemes
that went on that stole people's money.
So it was just like, you know, it was young at the time.
So the full story.
you know but it was those are like kind of the main components it was just a turnover from from communism it was just a
something that had built up over over that time so like that the pyramid schemes and then so yeah people
were just literally shooting at each other or were making targets of something like you know can can you
do can you make that shot so i remember clear as day when that started like going under the bed and like
hiding for cover to because it was just so it was extremely scary i don't even know how all of us in my
family made it out alive we fortunately to go back to your question fortunately won the the lottery to
to to actually come here legally so we were equipped with a green card which very fortunate as compared
to other people so right away we had the green card then we got our passports
And that came at a very time that was needed.
Did you speak English?
I was the only one in the family that spoke English because I had taken some courses, some private English course.
No, not one-on-one, but like group courses that were outside of school hours.
So, you know, that came again with the responsibility of like having to translate, you know, at 14, 15 for my, my people.
parents and had to carry them, carry them through. I was the only one to, yeah. And do they all
live here now? They're in New York. Yeah, they live. They live here. Oh, Lord. They're better equipped
now, so thankfully. He said, mom, learn some English. Yeah. Incredible. And you know what's fascinating
is I want to talk a little bit about the app and the business that you have too, because it
translates to so much more than physical strength, which is really one of the main reasons I wanted
to have you on. Everybody knows you on the internet for your strong body and these videos that you do
that are very easy to understand about how to get strong and beautiful for women. Like you could be
strong and fit and feminine. And yet there's so much depth here. And so you could have, quote unquote,
just started another workout app. But instead you decided to do something a little bit different. We
talk about that and now it makes a lot more sense yeah I think there is a lot of areas in our lives
especially in women's lives that are sometimes spoken and unspoken that we would like a little bit
of help with and a little bit more direction I mean there's so much information out there nowadays
that it's so overwhelming to decipher through I mean god knows how many reels my mom sends me
on a daily basis I'm like mom forget about like children paramedopause now it's
like we have to know everything.
Yes.
Yes.
So you have to be an expert.
You have to be your own advocate.
You have to maybe have a medical degree and, you know, a lawyer.
You may have to be a lawyer maybe in some situations, a law degree.
So the idea is to really help women with not just fitness.
I think fitness is paramount.
It is, you know, taking care of our health is probably one of the most important investments
that we'll ever make in our life.
but I think there are so many other areas that we need expertise on,
like true expertise that you can kind of go,
you can go in one place and find all of this
versus scouring the internet or versus getting fed
all of these sometimes very contradicting information.
Yeah, and so the app's called We Rise.
Yes, we rise.
We rise together or together we rise.
I like it.
And you, and the idea is there's fitness on it,
but you're going to have a bunch of women speak on different subjects.
Yes, and have actionable items, not just speak.
So, you know, somebody's speaking at you, but actually giving you tools that you can implement to achieve goals that you're working on.
So whether that is changing your mindset or navigating through careers, changing careers, or creating your own brand, that's coming in 2025.
what we do have now is an expert in habits and a nutritionist expert as well to help you,
you know, with even things like what are macros? How many macros should I be consuming?
Did I need this out? It's so overwhelming. Yeah, it's super simple. And a lot of it's not for women.
Like I, you know, I mean, I have buddies that are all your buddies too that are health experts,
but most of them are men. And so, you know, it's intermittent fasting. Well, it turns out that's
not that great if you're trying to get pregnant, for instance. I had no idea. It's not that great period.
if you're, you know, especially when you're hitting your late 30s and early 40s, it is just not a good idea because of our hormones.
Our hormones are much different than men's hormones and that can wreak havoc in our hormonal system.
So, no, yeah, I used to a long time ago, intermittent fast and I've changed that because, you know, naturally it wasn't like a breakfast eater, but now I kind of make myself have that 30, 20 to 30.
30 grams of protein first thing in the morning, 30 minutes within waking up so that I can tell my body, basically, we're good.
We have some nourishment.
We don't have to go into the fight or flight mode because as women, we are predisposed to go into that mode.
We work out of the sympathetic system more so than the parasympathetic.
And that kind of helps start the day that way.
To really be simple here, what's the right way to start the day breakfast-wise as a chick?
What should we be eating in the morning?
Make sure you're eating like 20, 30 grams, if you can, of protein in the morning to just
start you off because your body is looking for that protein for all those amino acids,
for all those nutrients.
To keep it simple for myself, like, you know, I don't have time to cook first thing in the
morning, so I'll make a protein smoothie that's also a very digestible, absorbent, you
you know, meal that you can make quickly.
I throw in, you know, pretty simple blueberries to get a little bit of fiber.
I throw in some protein in their protein powder, either almond milk or oat milk, unsweetened, usually.
And what else?
I throw in some nuts.
I throw in my creatine in there.
And I think that's pretty much it.
What's the deal with creatine?
People are really excited about it right now and seem to think that people should be taking
creatine? Yes, yes. For a long time. See, I don't jump onto supplements right away. I like to
see the data and see where it's going before. First of all, let's back up. You know,
supplements are not necessary unless you are lacking in nutrition. I always go nutrition first,
make sure that that's on point, and then you can see where you can supplement. It turns out
that creatine is a pretty important supplement, not just in,
muscle growth, but in brain health as well. So I have, I've started myself adding creatine to,
especially as, you know, get a little bit older. And, you know, we want to really keep that muscle on.
We want to grow that muscle, the strength, as well as keep our cognitive functions in check.
And creatine helps with that a lot. Yeah. You've said before that one of the things that's a pet peeve of
yours is that women say, hey, when I go lift, I'm going to become really bulky.
Yeah.
Can you talk to me about that?
Is that what happens with women?
We work out.
We instantly get huge muscles.
Huge.
Huge.
No, I mean, it's how we're built, like our hormones do not allow us to, for us to become
that big.
Naturally, you know, I'm sure there is steroids and other inobolics that, like, people can
use that can do that and that's their choice and maybe that's the fear there because people see
some of these bodybuilder women that when you go to certain classes of bodybuilding then they're
almost like forced to take them and you're not going to become that because that is not being
done naturally just lifting eating properly will not get you to that point it'll get you to be
healthy to grow healthy muscle that you need for quality life or quality longevity. I mean muscle to
me is a currency. It's a currency to help. That's how I see it. And it used to be again, how can I be
as thin as possible because of these thin models now? I'm like, how can I put as much muscle as
possible while I can so that I can prevent anything that might be detrimental to my health down
the road, you know? Yeah, it seems like more women are working out these days with weightlifting,
but it's still not that common.
Like of my girlfriends, maybe 10% I can think of,
actually like to lift.
Why do you think lifting is so important for women?
Health, longevity, you know,
preventing osteoporosis, preventing sarcopenia, like muscle loss,
like preventing all of these diseases that are at the top of the list
from which women die from.
Because, you know, you want to prevent the fall
or you want to be able to get up from a fall.
And those are, and weight lifting, it's so important to do right now or wherever you're at,
whatever point you're at, it is so important, whether you're in your 20s, but then it becomes
even more important when you're like 30s and 40s and 50s and so on to lift.
To lift relatively heavy, I would say, with great form.
It's our health.
How do you know if you're lifting heavier or not?
So usually heavy, it's all relative, you know, but.
by, I would say, if you're recommend, if in a program you're recommended, let's say 12 reps or
eight reps, heavy means going up until that eight or 12 rep and you're not able to go any further
than that. Maybe you have one or two more reps in the tank, but you're basically, aka going to
failure. And that's considered heavy while maintaining great form, great form. You don't want to
compromise form for the weight that you're lifting. You know, when I knew,
I really liked you on the internet.
When I saw that you also wear your hair up to the gym, I go to like collective and there's
a whole thing there in Austin and everybody's like all dolled up in the gym.
Have you noticed this trend?
And the hair down?
No, you don't have that long hair.
But I'm immediately judgy.
If I see like a woman working out with her hair all the way down, I'm like, oh, no.
You know, I'm never going to look that cute.
So I immediately judgey of it.
But you talk a lot about intensity too in your workouts.
Like how important is it?
hard you go? Should you be sweating? Does any of that matter? Is it just, do you have to go fast?
What does like a workout look like in your mind? Yeah. That's ideal. I go hard and heavy.
And you're sweating. Are you sweating? I grunt. I do. I'm one of, you know, the people that sometimes
by the end, by like the last rep or two, I don't maybe look like that in the videos.
No, I've never heard it grunt. Can we confirm? I don't want to be too distracting.
I do breathe heavy, but yeah, I think intensity is as important as, like, lifting heavy.
And then when you come to intensity, are you talking about, like, when you're lifting heavy,
or are you talking about, like, high intensity, like training, interval training, or all of it?
All the above.
Yeah, my husband always says that you can't, like, you know, I go to the gym and I do the reps,
but I'm probably not going as hard as I should, maybe not as heavy, maybe not as fast,
maybe too many breaks?
Well, breaks.
Fast, you don't have, slow is fast and fast is slow.
So, like, lifting slow actually will help you with that mind muscle connection even further.
So slow down the movements and then think about touching, feeling, thinking about the muscles that are working.
So you don't have to go, yes, don't go fast, go slow.
When it comes to, yes, most people don't lift as intensely as they probably can because they're afraid, again,
and especially women of bulking.
And I would say test yourself, you know, test what that 12 rep to failure is.
Like how close are you to that?
Like if you're doing, say, bicep curls or if you're squatting, can you do 20, 30?
Then you probably need to say it's time.
It's time.
It's too light.
Okay, fine.
You've talked about, you know, you train Kim Kardashian, which maybe a few people know on the
internet who that is. And others, just a few. And other, 350-something million.
Wild. Also, like, ultimate businesswoman. I guess her. I didn't get that wrong.
I think she's fine. I think she's doing good. But incredible businesswoman, as are you, too.
What is it, how did that start? Like, how do you start training celebrities? How do they find you?
What does that like working with celebrities?
They found, she found me.
She slid into your DMs?
She slid into my DMs literally.
Well, not her, but you know, her people, her people initially.
I've had, I've had the honor and pleasure of working with a few celebrities,
including a queen of a country.
That's wild.
That was wild.
Yeah, very wild.
And she's still my really good friends of this day.
but surreal yeah they approached me
I was never in the business if you will
of training celebrities
I never even thought that you know
little old me could do that
but yeah
the opportunities have kind of come across
because at the end of the day I've always
been of the belief I'm put myself
my best self out there
and I find like
you know with like
aesthetics. Estetics come if you put in the work. All the good things in business come if you put in
the right kind of work. So, yeah. Yeah. You also, I think, you know, you mentioned some really
raw and honest things in your life about depression and how fitness helped you with that. And then
obviously what you shared earlier, you know, what happened before? Were you depressed?
And did fitness help you get out of it?
Mm-hmm.
I found out later in my life that I have a genetic predisposition to that.
And I guess you could have, you know, realize that by seeing that my mom suffered from anxiety.
And I guess you told me that her father also did have.
So, you know, you can see kind of a pattern of that I got genetic testing done and it was confirmed.
So, yeah, I did as a teenager.
You know, as a young child, I don't know that I can see any of the things that I suffered from when it came to like my teenage years.
So it probably was a compounding effect of like being in a new country and having to take the role of a parent in some ways.
And then this genetic predisposition, which I don't know if there is any.
date out there or any studies that show that maybe creeps in at a certain point in your life,
maybe with your hormones changing and now you're a teenager and that kind of gets activated, if you
will. I have no idea how that plays. But I did. I did go through anorexia at the time too,
so it was kind of everything kind of fell on my lap at the same time. And working out strength
training in particular was my way out of out of all of that. Did you find it? Like how did you go from
anorexia and being depressed to like pulling yourself out of out of bed and deciding to move?
That takes a strong human. Sometimes I do question like where I find this. I must be like some
some place that I'm pulling out from because yes you have this kind of like two very opposing
reality is this things that just want to keep you down and then this like very crazy drive at some
points which I think I have but I just I knew that something was wrong so I you know would find help
like in college found a therapist and would try to find for read books like self-help books
has been like my biggest friend alongside with like obviously working out as a
like self-help books, a lot of psychotherapy, a lot of even like graduate, like college level books
for some reason fascinated me.
Maybe I have a fascination with the brain and the mind and how it works.
So it was kind of like a loop maybe, you know, help yourself to get out of this situation and that I did.
And plus I had catalyst like an amazing primary care doctor at one point where she was running
marathons like I don't want to say every month but at least every like quarter she was running a
marathon she was like in her 50s and it was incredible like incredible shape and that was like I know the
starting points like sonata just run just just go for a run that's what your doctor told you yeah yeah
just go for a run because other you know you know what happens some like it's not the sometimes you're
like you know take this medication it's like that's what I was thinking yeah yeah did they ever try to prescribe
you I have been yes yes
Yeah, so it was like, also a combination of both.
Yeah, of both.
And but running like really was life changing.
Like that was my little step into doing things to take care of of my health properly.
Doing it for the right reasons, you know, to get out of eating disorder and anxiety and depression and not to diminish myself and make myself smaller and like doing cardio.
And so like I started running with the goal like I'm going to run a marathon.
And that brought the need to nourish my body properly.
And then I found myself in strength training.
You know, I was doing, I was still kind of like running and found, I was going to my local gym.
And just friends of mine were like, you should, you should try weightlifting.
And I also had the fears of like, I don't want to be bulky.
Like I don't want to be big.
And, but once I started down that path, there was like no turning back.
No turning back, yeah.
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You know, I was reading a study the other day that for women under 30, in the U.S., 60% of them at some point in time, have been on an SSRI or an antidepressant.
And that there's an epidemic, really, in the U.S., you know, whether that's over-prescription or over-necestitation or, you know, not really sure.
But for young women who are anxious or depressed, obviously we're not doctors. We're not making
medical advice. But would you tell them to replicate what you're doing? Would you say try the
gym, try running? What do you tell young women who reach out to you about that? Try physical activity
first because just as little as 150 minutes a week of physical activity can have almost
twice as much of the effect as an antidepressant or as an anxiety medication can have.
So try that first.
That's your natural antidepressant.
That's your natural, like, anti-anxiety.
And maybe, again, like you said, we're not medical doctors, so we're not making any
of those statements, but why not start there with something natural?
And if you need to, I mean, there's cases where people just can't get out of bed,
just can't do it.
So why maybe then do it in conjunction?
Consider that or utilize if it's not medically necessary, the prescription to get out of the
bed, but then do something with it.
Go to go to the gym and then hopefully by setting up that healthy habit of moving your body
and working out, you can then in time, like I did, ditch the antidepressants and anti-anxiety
medication.
You were able to get off of it entirely.
Yeah.
Wow.
Off of it's been 10 years.
That's incredible.
So what does a day in the life look like for you today?
Obviously besides podcasting.
Yeah.
But maybe that's a big part of it.
Lately it has been.
Yeah, you're running a bunch of businesses.
But what does it look like a day in life if you got to choose?
Yeah.
What would it be?
I get up, like I said, I make my smoothies so that I...
Like what time?
Is this like, are you like a 415 riser?
You look like an early riser.
No, I'm not.
Really?
I'm not.
I need that little like extra REM sleep in the morning that I can get my.
Sleeping is important to me.
Sleep is another like component of health.
So if I can get that right amount of sleep, I'm not going to get up in the morning at 4.15.
So I usually is like 6.6.30.
That's more realistic for me.
I don't want to lie.
So I get up.
make my smoothie, I make my cacao. The cacao is my caffeine, my caffeine substitute. And I either
have meetings. It's like there's no day that is exactly the same. It's like meetings. I have to
train Kim. I have to go to the gym. Like those pieces of the puzzle kind of move around. I work on
content. I still manage my own page. I have a few other social media platforms that I have not
given up the controls yet. I manage it. I put the content together. I added the content.
So all of what you see is done by me unless it's something from the Weirize or Zentoa,
which is the clothing brand page. Just finally the past few months decided to give up.
It still looks good. I think you're crushing it. Yeah. Thank you. Thank you.
Plus the clothes are really cute. That's your brand that you started. Yes, yes. Zentoa,
a little mindful warrior. Yeah. And it's, why did you start?
that brand. Like there are a lot of workout brands out there. What made you think I want my own and I
don't like with options? I just wanted something that I could wear all the time and feel good in it
like all the time because that's what I live in and in the workout clothes in Zantoa pretty much.
So I wanted something that was fashionable. I wanted something that made women feel good and it was
great quality. So that's where I started. But to go back to yeah, why it's not an easy business.
Like clothing industry and competing.
Yes.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I mean, good for you.
I shouldn't know.
I wish I knew before.
But, you know, but you know, you make certain decisions early on when you don't really know how, you know, like your following is and what that translates into and what you're able to order and sell.
So it's a tough business, especially for a small brand.
When you're trying to compete with larger brands that can produce tons of units at super low cost,
and here you are producing a fraction at a higher cost,
so then you have to pass that on to the consumer.
And yeah, it's, but it's still my little baby, a little engine that could.
Well, it's really cool stuff that looks unique.
and you can tell is designed by some like a woman who actually cares about the shapework
because she's got to wear it every day which makes a huge difference I've found and a lot of
the times I think these big brands before were hard to compete with but now you know you go
and use some of the big brands and I won't name any names to be a jerk but quality definitely
comes down I think at scale yeah because even those brands are suffering like just to hear
some of the like margins that they're having to to deal with it's like it's it's they're suffering so
they're having to cut on quality they're having to cut corners and that is one thing that I've never
wanted to do like I didn't want to cut corners I didn't want to produce something and white label it or
I wanted to really like stand behind the products that I put out there like something that I was
proud of like wearing and sporting around the gym.
It's true too because then you're not going to attract a Kim Kardashian.
You're not going to attract a Carly.
You're not going to attract the type of people you want in your life if you have a cheap brand.
They don't want to be associated with that.
So I think that's really beautiful.
She likes, she likes Zentosh.
I give her pieces.
She puts them on because they do shape you nicely, especially the behind.
Yes.
So that's how I get your butt.
I just wear the clothes.
That's what I should have said from the beginning.
Mark, there are you?
We have to work on this.
Bad. I am bad.
Okay, I do want to talk about, so your day, you wake up in the morning, you wake up at six.
You're making the smoothie.
You're going to medians.
You're doing some working out.
Probably some more medians.
Only one workout a day?
Yes, yes.
It's funny.
Like, I used to work out more when I had a corporate job and had, you know, like a super busy corporate schedule than I do.
then I work out now. You used to find me in the gym for a few hours and now I'm lucky if I can
get, you know, usually it's like 45 minutes to max on a good day, an hour and a half when I'm
doing lower body. That takes a little bit longer. So yeah, on a day to day basis. That feels doable
like for a woman because when I see some of the women in the gym and they're there for like two
hours, I'm like, dang it. Or they have like two different workouts during the day. That can be
tough. It's unnecessary. You don't need to be two into workouts a day.
unless you, that's, that's, you, you, you, you're bodybuilder and that's what you're going for.
You know, if you're, some bodybuilders do, do two workouts a day.
I've never done that even when I was competing.
I did bikini bodybuilder competition.
So like the very first level.
I've seen you.
So even then, I didn't do two workouts a day.
Amazing.
Do you ever get, was it ever hard to put your body on the internet?
I mean, I get comments on the internet and I talk about business stuff, but I don't really get comments about what I look like because it doesn't really matter.
You know, they could be like, ah, you're poor, you're lying, Cody.
You really don't know what you're talking about.
But it's never really my body.
I think I would freak me out to put that on the internet.
Does that ever get to you or did that in the beginning?
I don't know how I bypassed that.
At some point I did.
I think the hardest thing was hitting like 100,000 followers.
I'm like, I didn't sleep that night where I'm like 100,000 people.
are watching me do this and are it was that was like the and then I don't know I just kind of like
adjusted myself to the reality of having so many people um look at me and look at my body and
honestly when it comes to like I know there's like a lot of negativity sometimes I don't have I'm
super grateful for my audience that they're incredible they don't have any negativity if and
Yeah, much, if any, at all.
But even if there is, it almost kind of makes you stronger
because you can take it two ways.
You can allow it to bring you down
and that's the only thing that you think about.
Or you can take it as like, this is not a reflection of me.
This is a reflection of the person leaving that comment.
So it just kind of builds more confidence in that sense for me
because I go the other way where I'm like, no, I know who I am.
I know what I'm doing and that's not that that that's your opinion I'm sorry you feel that way
oh it's beautiful do you ever feed the trolls you ever clap back at them talk a little shit ever once
very rarely when there is like when there's comments about steroid use that one gets you there's
always one that gets me because I am such a puritarian if you will when it comes to like what I put in
my body like I don't even take an ibuprofen for not matching any
brands like I don't even take anything or I try not to you know if you know I've got super
bad grams like maybe yeah on those days very rarely even so I just move my body and the
the PMS goes away but if my diet is so clean why would I do something like that to
myself why would I ingest that no like I refuse to yeah so that's what gets me because
I put in so much work with nutrition and working out and mindset that it kind of diminishes,
takes away from what I do.
And also, I think more importantly than that is sending a message to my audience to other women
that that is not achievable.
She's taking something to achieve that.
And I don't want that message to be out there.
And it's like, no.
And I don't necessarily want you to achieve my body.
You achieve the best version of you.
But know that it's attainable.
Whatever you're wanting to attain,
it's attainable or a version of it.
So that I think that's what bothers me the most.
It's like, don't speak on my platform
to my audience because they're listening
and they're watching.
I love that.
Yeah, I think it's very easy to,
there's always easy to tell people why they can't.
It's very hard to inspire people why they can.
And so I think that's really, really beautiful.
What stuff do you do that's not working out for your body?
Like, are we doing red light?
Are we doing acupuncture?
Like, what else should we do alternative-wise to stay healthy in your mind?
When I can.
I'll hit a cold plunge.
I'll hit a sauna.
You know, I'll do those.
But I don't always have time for those things.
And they're not always readily available.
So I just did actually chase the real dopamine kind of post.
and it went viral, if you will,
and it includes things like cold plunge and sauna and meditate
and all of these things and people are like,
I don't have time for all of that.
I'm not doing all of those things every single day.
I don't have access to all of those things every single day,
but whenever I can and pick and choose, you know,
if it's sauna, if it's cold plunge, if it's meditation,
if it's working out, like whatever those,
elements that you are that you can bring in that will release that natural dopamine do that for me
working out is a non-negotiable meditating is a non-negotiable and I do a little bit of yoga after my
workout just like five 10 minutes to bring it's my cool down so those are kind of my non-negotiables
it's the mind mindful stuff you know it's meditation and the yoga and
the workouts. Yeah. And obviously the nutrition. Yeah, I love that. Well, I also think it's cool that
you share all that other stuff too because, I mean, man, I think Gwyneth Paltrow did such a cool
thing by normalizing the extra crazy stuff that you can do. We don't all have access to it. We
can't all afford it. But like I still like to know what's up. You know, nobody's yelling at Andrew
Huberman for having access to all this stuff. Why are we yelling at the ladies for having it?
Right. It's very weird. Right. You know, and even with Kim, like, I want to know what, I want to know what
weird shit she's doing that makes her look so great and maybe we can't afford all of it but at some
point we will be able to afford more of it because it all becomes more accessible absolutely i think
it's like that that um view at least for me i think people think that this is what she does all day
every day you're just like take care of my body i'll work out i work out i work out all day every day
um that's what i do meanwhile it's like the time in my life when i've worked out the life when i've worked out
the least if you will um yeah i mean like you were talking about before meetings take time as you know
one hour meeting turns into a two hour meeting training um somebody takes times it's all of these
components that come together that yeah no i don't work out all day every day i run two businesses
i run social media platforms um don't have time for all of that no no you don't i'm sure so
Is there anything that makes you nervous still?
Like you've kind of achieved this peak in so many different things.
You have a couple incredibly strong businesses.
You have this huge social platform.
You're hanging with all these celebs.
Like what makes you nervous these days?
Is there anything you're doing right now that you're like, oohf, I'm pushing the edge?
What makes me nervous these days?
I'm a perfectionist, so I'm always nervous.
I mean, I'm always contemplating whether I'm doing enough.
know, like with the We Rise app, am I providing the most value that I can?
Am I providing the best content that I can?
So those things as much as I've minimized them.
They don't keep me up as much at night.
They don't keep me up as much, but they still do to a certain degree.
But it's also, when it comes to, like, I have people depending on me now that are part of the We Rise app in Zantoa.
So I want to make sure that I bring my.
best self for them and for everybody that I serve. Yeah, hiring employees is scary because then you are
responsible for them in some way, at least I think. Do you have things that you tell yourself when you
absolutely do not want to go to the gym or you absolutely do not want to do more? What's your inner
dialogue sound like? Can we steal it? I don't try not to have an inner dialogue. I do. So it's not,
you know, maybe brushing your teeth is not the best.
I don't know.
Do you negotiate with yourself whether you got to brush your teeth in the morning?
That would be gross if I would admit that.
So it's kind of for me is like that as well.
It's just we're going to get to the gym.
We're maybe not going to crush it on that particular day.
We're just going to start with whatever feels comfortable.
I usually go for like a seated something.
Like maybe seated abductions.
Just sit and kind of move your legs in and out.
That seems kind of like easy.
and then that kind of builds that motivation.
So I don't wait for the motivation.
I don't talk myself into feeling motivated.
I act my way into being motivated
because that motivation comes with movement.
That's a great point.
So move first and then your mind sort of follows.
Absolutely.
And also, like, if you keep in mind that things that are usually hard in the moment,
you know, like working out or making the right choice
when it comes to nutrition, like we'll have that reward later.
We'll give you that reward later.
Just keeping in mind like how good you feel afterwards.
Like I've never, I know this is cliche, but I've never regretted a workout that I did do.
No, man.
I never regret it once I get to the gym.
Exactly.
It's just getting in the fucking gym sometimes.
I mean, I've had people in the app that slept with their clothes on so they could just
take sure that I've already put these clothes on.
I might as well get up and like get some, you know, like workout.
in the morning. Just eliminate when it comes to that when you know that you're a person that's
contemplate, then contemplates that a lot that is struggling with yourself. Am I going to work out today?
I don't feel like working out. Set yourself up for success. You know, have your clothes ready, have your
shoes ready. Know what you're going to be doing. Leaving it out. Sometimes it's like, I don't know
what I'm going to be doing. So that's like another thing. Like know what you're going to be doing.
Know when you'll be doing it. Like what time of day. Like schedule it almost like a meeting. Schedule it
the day before or schedule your week. Where are you going to do it? Are you going to do it at the
gym? Are you going to do it at home? So scheduling and kind of removing all the unknowns and the
stressors around it makes it more accessible. It's so true. And I still don't do so many of those
things, which is like the funny part. It's layering a few actions on top of that. Now, you are going
to have in the app mindset but also nutrition. Is the saying true that you, you're going to be a lot of
you can't work your way out of a bad diet?
Yeah, it is true, unfortunately.
It is true.
I mean, we do have currently habits and nutrition.
That's currently in the app.
So then that's great because it does help people with setting up this new habits
and just in general new habits and ditching old ones
and then moving into better nurturing themselves.
But your original question was, yeah, you can't.
can't out-train a bad diet because, and that, you know, what does a bad diet look like at the
end of the day? You know, if you're not, if you're not nurturing with enough protein, then you're
doing yourself a disservice because you're not building the strength and the muscle that you need.
If you are putting in foods that are not good for your body, like sugars and whatnot, that's
also, you're not going to be able to out-train that because your body can only process so much.
Yeah. Do you drink alcohol?
I think I heard this on another podcast I knew it was coming with Mike actually.
I used to love a glass of wine in the evening.
I used to love because for me it was like an experience.
You know, I just love the experience.
It doesn't serve my body anymore.
It doesn't serve like I get from even a glass of wine.
I could have a hangover the next day.
experience like heart palpitations at night which so it's like that that trade-off just is not there
I will still do it once in a while make sure like I drink a ton of water and yeah clean you know
try to do like clean clean alcohol but you know it's it's just not something that benefits me anymore
so what do you do at the end of the day when you're like you know how that that's how I used to think
about it. We were kind of taught, especially in finance, we drink a little bit too much. But,
you know, at the end, you're like, it's a long day. I got to wind down. I grab a glass of
wine. I sit down. Like, it was my habit. Yeah. So what do you replace it with? Walks. That's like
walking my dog in the park and watching the sunset and just chatting with people. That's kind of been
a huge. Honestly, it created anxiety in the beginning because for me, like, you know, that was my,
my thing. I created a habit. We create this habit that we rely upon. And, and, you know, it was. And,
And just a matter of like putting in the reps with a new habit.
Yeah.
And walking and meditating and truly listening to my body and what that did for my body.
Now do you crave like meditating and walking?
Like I like meditating in the morning.
Yeah.
But if you're like Cody, long day, go ahead and meditate.
I'd be like, the thing is no.
Like that doesn't sound like tasty enough.
Yeah.
But do you start, does it feel tasty for you now?
Does it feel like lovely?
Yeah.
It does.
it does especially it depends try out different kinds of meditation i went to bali um and and got certified
in meditation and breathwork and did learn some meditation and breathwork techniques that that does
give you that real good feeling so that it does have that reward effect yeah that's a good idea
do you do it with your with your man i do we went together actually who leads the meditation oh it's it's
None of us.
None of us.
It's a pre-recorded, yeah.
I like those too.
Do you listen to a person in particular?
Or you could do a silent.
Like those were the, you know, a couple of things that, I mean, more and more than that.
But like those are kind of our go-toes.
If we want a little bit more of an activating, like feel good, maybe more of a breathwork.
So you're really oxygenating your body.
Yeah.
And moving your energy.
And then if you want more of a relaxed thing, going back to.
center then it's more of a silent meditation yeah do you ever get him to do like eye gazing or anything
we did eye gazing and uh we had said the time or wrong so it was like staring for like 10 or 15
minutes like i think this is it's been longer than five minutes i tried to talk chrisen to that he was like
what is wrong with you he actually he loves meditating he does it a lot now it helped him a lot of when he was in
in conflict zones too, actually.
I forget what the name of the woman,
Ziva Meditation, maybe, is her name?
Anyway, but he started doing
what I would consider kind of similar to Transcendental Meditation,
which is what I do or like.
And then I started listening to, you know this,
do you know the guy David G?
Kind of looks like Santa Claus?
No.
It's not coming.
Yeah.
Sometimes it's like, I'm bad with names.
I know faces, we see them maybe like floating around.
You can tell me what you think if you like him or not.
Okay.
Are you going to have a meditation person on the app eventually?
I'm sure we're going to have somebody that's dedicated.
Even though I am certified in it twice over because I went to India and got certified in yoga and meditation and breathwork.
And I went to Bali to further my meditation and breathwork knowledge and the certification there as well.
But I feel like we might need somebody that has, and that's been more, that was more for my personal and usage, if you will.
I'd love to bring somebody that's their soul focus.
Right now there is some meditation and yoga on the app as well, just shorter.
You know, I guide people through it, through the yoga and through the meditation.
There's a little like 15 minute, five minute yoga, 15 minute meditations, just like graspable
little pieces for people that are short on time.
But yeah, eventually that's definitely the goal.
I love that.
Okay.
So I was thinking that these days I get a little overwhelmed.
There's so many things about health overall.
And especially like right now what's going on with like, you know, make America healthy again.
And there's a lot of commentary about seed oils, GMOs additives versus like portion size calorie count.
You know, is it both?
You know, Mike's take is Retel, he was basically like, hey, stop eating so much.
And then you won't be fat.
And then you have RFK who's like, we're getting poisoned by seed oils.
Is it both?
what do you think i would side with mics a little bit on that in the in the sense that let's tackle
like the big rock issues like the the easy the easier issues and you know um are you eating what
what was the calorie amount that you're eating what's the macro breakdown like those are
i feel in a sense a little bit easier and then when you have grasped that when you're consuming
enough protein when you're prioritizing protein then you can dial it in am i eating the
right type of foods am i eliminating um you know all of these other things that we know by now are not
good for our bodies but it's a it's a step-by-step process and that's what i tell like my family too like
stop consuming all of this crazy information like don't eat spinach and oxalids and this and
that like don't do that start with the basics like and eat enough protein um move your body
properly because that is proven that will most likely override some of these other things that
you're not even doing in like big amounts you know and if you want to then once you've got this
like foundation and big rock issues then then dial it in like we're talking about before
even with supplements like big rock issues and then see if you need to like supplement
around that I guess it's sort of like money because it's the same thing it's like yeah you could
learn about equity investing in shorts and, you know, options, or you could earn more money and spend
less. Exactly. And you could start with those two things. Exactly. Interesting. That makes me feel
better because these days I'm like, I can't keep track of all of the things we're supposed to do. It's so
overwhelming and then people don't do anything. It's just like go back to like their old, you know,
habits because again, you're trying to like eat an elephant versus like little bites.
Not an elephant. You don't eat an elephant in one bite.
Either way, not great.
Frowned upon, I think.
Yeah, exactly.
So what about, like, you talk a lot about...
Don't eat elephants, by the way.
That's going to be the title of this podcast.
Sonata said, eating elephants will make you grow a big booty.
Exactly.
Albanian advice.
Yes.
Okay, so if you had to rank it from worst to best,
I want to throw a couple things out you
and you can tell which one you think.
So alcohol, bad sleep, processed food,
seed oils, not working out consistently.
Are we rating from...
I don't know, whichever way you feel.
From bad to good.
Let's rate from bad to good.
So like if you had, what's the worst?
Is the worst thing you can do bad sleep?
Is it alcohol?
Is it, you know, processed foods?
Is it too much foods?
Oh my gosh.
I feel like these are...
bad. I would say prioritize working out, prioritize sleep, prioritize nutrition, like eating enough
protein. What was the other two? Like processed foods, try to eliminate then, try to eliminate. So it's like
taking that step by step, you know, get enough sleep, work out hard, dial in your nutrition. And then
the other steps of like eliminating processed food and eating as much as you can whole foods. And then,
sure like eliminate seed oils replace olive oil you know now my dad always used to say like
olive oil is medicine i'd be like ha ha like olive oil is medicine and now you know there's so much
also out there in the media including brian johnson like yeah drinking shots of olive oil do we
do we believe that i like olive oil i actually am pretty pretty you know i haven't done studies i don't
i'm not sure what the studies are out there but personally
love using a decent amount of olive oil in my diet.
Interesting.
My salads are basically, the dressings are pretty simple most of the time, unless I want
to get fancy, but most of the time, like 90% of the time is olive oil, lemon, salt.
That's it.
Yeah, that's good.
Okay, I like this.
I'm basically trying to work my way back into my glass of red wine is not the worst option.
So I think we almost got there.
I mean, again, like how often it comes with a glass of red wine, like how often are,
you consuming it. You know what I mean? So if it's like once in a while, and I like what Dr.
Mike said that if that is the only way that is going to kind of help you unwind and like the risk
benefit, you always talk about the risk benefit in that situation. That's a good point. Yeah.
What do you think about stress? Like how bad is stress for your body overall?
And how much does working out offset stress?
A lot.
Like working out is like we're talking about before.
Like stress goes into like anxiety, goes into depression.
Like all of those things are mood disorders.
It is at the top of the list.
Working out is a big release because it uses up that cortisol.
Like it is huge at the top of the list, I would say.
Is that how that works?
It actually uses up your cortisol on working out.
And so it removes it?
It actually helps, yeah.
Like it, well, and it depending on, you know, certain types of workouts can increase the level of cortisol.
And there is later on a longer period of time where it can be brought back down unless you're doing, you know, things like maybe meditating and doing those mindfulness practices to lower it back down.
But yes, working out as at the top of the list for as a stress reliever.
What do you think is the worst exercise advice you've ever heard?
Worst exercise.
In terms of like, don't lift because they'll make you bulky.
Yeah, that's bad.
That's bad.
That's one of them up there.
And the best was you actually start doing it, lift weights.
And for me, like, maybe it's a little tangent just to like stay authentic.
It doesn't quite fit into the workout.
but like the authenticity part of it as far as like when it comes to like my presence on social media
and my platform and and the businesses it's just to just to be authentic yeah well you come off that
way well thank you yeah i appreciate that i think it's hard to grow on the internet to the size you are
if you're full of it i mean there well actually you live in hollywood you probably have been like
cody i've met plenty of them actually not true okay one other thing that i wanted to kind of talk about
in a little bit.
It's like the size of social media that you've grown is really big.
You know, as you're building these other businesses and understanding the importance
of distribution, how did you think about growing these businesses?
Like what does CEO Sonata think about growing an online presence, how to do it, and what
did you learn?
It's been, there's been definitely growing pains as with every business.
And, you know, to be honest with you, it's been the focus mostly has been on We Rise versus like Zentoa and the distribution on that.
That has been a lot of logistical.
Yeah.
Not nightmares, but like with COVID and everything, it did bring upon like nightmares.
So, but when it comes to We Rise, which has been kind of the main focus, we have been like.
we have been lucky to work with a team of people and have brought on good people to kind of manage to help really
you know I can I can almost I can almost not involve myself to the detail that I'd like to involve
myself with and allowed them their freedom to operate because they they are and have grown
into experts that they are nowadays but
long of that you worked with these people how'd you know they were your people you probably
get approached with a lot of stuff and I don't really see you promote very much at all it's been um
I would say maybe a year and a half mm-hmm is that true yeah about a year and a half and then we
finally were like you know I'd I'd worked with a different set of people when we first launched
zantoa and we were working with people in Australia we had production out of China and
And that was a little bit of a nightmare.
So then we engaged people that we had known for a long time.
And we had gone back and forth and spoken.
And then we saw the work that they were doing.
Then we involved them into kind of clearing out and settling that process
and the production in China and moving it to Portugal,
where it's in Toa is now exclusively being produced.
And then they proved themselves with their abilities
used to move product where they're marketing, advertising with logistics and everything else that
comes with running an apparel company. And then we trusted them with actually working with WeRISE
as well. Oh, interesting. So all the same team. Yeah. That's incredible. They're all the same team.
Do you have another CEO that's not you? We do, yes, yes. Kind of share that role. But then we have
hired actual people that are in LA that are part of like the immediate team. Do you ever ask Kim
for business advice while you give her workout advice? Maybe in passing, like it hasn't been like
super direct. I'm like very like, okay, this is what we're doing. This is what we're going to focus on.
Yeah, you're a pro. Sometimes it's like, you know, and I, you know, she knows this, but she'll try to like
tell me something or like maybe we'll, like, you know, she's even put it up on on the.
on her stories like watching love is blind while working out I'm like okay sure I'll we'll let that
happen today but you're probably not you try you know and I'm like I miss that I'm sorry I was like
focusing on your form focusing on what you were doing so yeah I'm kind of like a hundred percent
there but yeah in passing I mean just she is kind of a living embodiment of like a
a hard worker. Like she she works hard. You're not a lot of people see that, but she works,
she works hard. Yeah, you don't get struck by lightning twice. You know, you don't have multiple
billion dollar businesses by accident. Hitting a billion dollars once is so damn. I mean,
that's 0.0001% of newly created businesses would be anywhere near that. So that's, that's rare.
But she does have that Emma lady who seems like a stud that runs a bunch of her businesses too.
So maybe you need your Emma.
I know.
I mean, we have some Emma.
Yeah, you do if they're listening, huh?
Yeah, but we're, we're building, you know.
Yeah, it's, it's, it's, you're always going to have, um, people that, that, that, that you believe in, that you help them grow.
And, um, unfortunately, we've had, we've had some good people.
I love that.
Some good people.
Yeah.
Well, like attracts like.
Okay.
I want to go for a couple just quick questions here.
Mm-hmm.
Oh man no some of these don't work for you so if I was going to ask I was going to build my
playlist based off of yours your playlist is nothing is your zen brain no I have if you had three
songs like who's what are the top do you do you put a song on to like get you amped up I don't know
weird song choices lately yes just because like the combination of like meditation and all of
this stuff but it's uh perungi oh I like that guy yeah only because I live in office
Austin. That's like Aubrey Marcus and I forgot. Yes, yes, yes. So he's got a few songs that really
like amp me up. Yeah, those are like, five. You got like that tribal stuff, you know. Are you
dancing around while you're listening to those? Maybe. Maybe. Maybe I know I need. I'm like,
I do need somebody that is capturing some of those moments. Yeah. Come on, man. Yeah.
What's happening? But those and then, you know, I love Fred again. I don't know if you
listen to Fred again again.
They've got like a few good songs.
Okay.
I'm not sure like what your vibe is as far as like music goes.
Are you any sing-alongs?
Sing-alongs?
Yeah, like you're singing to anything?
I have like Fred again.
I like Fred again.
They have like good.
Yeah, it's like not a lot of, not a lot of syllables.
Not a lot of like words.
But like very impactful words.
Okay, I like this.
I think I know the answer to this.
But like if you could only do one or two work.
out moves for the rest of your life. What do you choose in? Oh man, one or two. I would choose a Bulgarian
split squat. And why? Because it tackles just like so much of your lower body, like your glutes,
your your quads to a lesser level, like your hamstrings. And it's a compound because, you know,
depending how you're performing it, you know, and the weights that are you, you're doing.
where you're placing them.
That would probably be like a good go-to.
And if you're going to do like an upper body one, so if you're going to make me choose like
one and one, then a pull-ups because it's working on your grip, it's working on your back.
Like it's almost a total body exercise.
Not so much legs, but like I already chose the lower body exercise.
Do you also squeeze your butt when you say the word?
You hate pull-ups?
But you do a lot of them.
That's why I do them.
actually I had somebody in the gym approach today.
I was like, I saw you last time doing pole laps because I must love them.
I'm like, I actually hate them.
That's because I do.
That's why I do them because I hate them.
Sometimes, you know, those are the best things to do is the things that you don't enjoy doing.
It's so true.
It just builds that resilience and mental resilience.
Do you also squeeze your butt when you say the word Bulgarians quitspots?
I feel like every time you're mentioning a movement, it makes me decide to.
Did I?
I feel like I don't.
Yeah.
I think I do every time.
What about if you sort of had to think about building out a home gym or like the top pieces of
equipment?
Some of the stuff I love about your workouts is a lot of them you don't need much.
Like I can be on the road and I can be like, all right, scroll, scroll.
There's like one or two I could do there.
What do you think is absolute must have in a gym?
If you've got like three to five things and that's it, what is it?
dumbbells like have a few sets of dumbbells maybe like a few lighter ones medium and heavy
if you don't have like the option to just get a full full stack yeah if you can like a cable machine
would be great like a corner cable machine because there's so much that you can do with that
yeah I think those are kind of like the main absolutely like I can get a an amazing work I was
just having those two two things and I mean then you can add other other things as well as well
well, like maybe a squat rack or leg extension combined with a leg curl.
But those are, like, if you're wanting to add different pieces of equipment.
Yeah.
I love that.
You don't use a lot of kettle bells?
I do.
You do?
Okay.
I do.
It's a common.
I mean, yeah.
Okay.
You like them, but you could just as easily do the other stuff.
Yeah, yeah.
I mean, I feel, are you talking about?
about like if I was to choose between dumbbells and kettlebells oh my gosh like one group of
people is going to come out there is that true I don't know this is like a gang yeah maybe the kettlebell
gang yeah they're not going to like it they're they're they're tough you know I love kettlebells
are so versatile and I I utilize them both but um there's there's unique ways that you can utilize
kettlebells that maybe um you know dumbbells you can't you can utilize in a more
way more I feel like not I feel like I know you know you can utilize dumbbells in a way that you can
utilize a kettlebell I think I might have said that the other way yeah yeah so if you're doing like a kettlebell swing
I utilize a dumbbell like a heavy dumbbell to do a dumbbell swing um for people that don't have kettlebells
because a lot more people have dumbbells versus kettlebells yeah at their disposable and maybe they're not so
intimidating like my mom wouldn't know what to do with a fucking kettlebell yeah you know yeah yeah
chance. But dumbbells, she might be able to throw that out. I think they're a little bit, just slightly more, more versatile. Yeah, that makes sense. All right, let's do two rapid fires, and I'll let you get out of here and back to the non-gym, but meetings you have to go to. Rapid fire, animal protein versus plant protein.
Animal protein. Do you do any plant protein or not? I do. I do. Sometimes, you know, we'll add, but their studies are just out there and are undeniable as to how much more beneficial, like animal protein.
is. Yep. How about, I already know the answer to something, but lifting heavy three X a week
versus cardio seven X a week. Oh, lifting heavy three X a week all day. It's like, do you follow me?
Walking versus running. Pick your, pick your poison. I should say, I keep saying, pick your
poise. Pick your elixir. Pick your elixir. I mean, it depends, you know, you could do a steep walk
or you could do a run and again what is the purpose that you're using it for like again i always go
back to like what is the purpose that you're wanting to choose between walk and run running can be great
can release those endorphins so can walking to a certain degree running can get you into that cardio
vascular zone probably faster not probably faster than walking can but again it's like if you
absolutely hate running, like walk.
Yeah.
Yeah.
What about, do you have like a book or short story that you go back to again and again
where you read and get inspiration from?
Oof, you may have me having me go back and think.
You know, there was a time that I was listening to a Buddhist monk,
to a Buddhist monk's book that had short stories and had very deep meaning.
What do you like about this one?
Why read it or go back to it?
Just a lot of short stories that have like a deep meaning for everyday life
for things that most people are struggling with.
You know, like I love a story and I hope it's from this book.
There's two by monks that I love.
and it's about like the
this monk,
this young monk was building a brick wall
and he misplaced a couple of bricks
and he couldn't,
it's going back to like the perfectionism
and he could not give up
the fact that he had put this two bricks
that didn't look like the others
that they were imperfect.
Instead of looking that he built this amazing big wall,
he kept on just thinking about the two bricks
that he placed wrong and that's for me
that's a big lesson that I'm still, I still learn every day. It's like, not, don't look at the two
breaks that didn't quite fit. Look at the big wall that you just, that you just build.
True. Yeah. It's probably why you're such a good builder and prolific, because you're always
noting the downsides. True, true. There is, there is, there is, there are some benefits that come
with that with being a perfectionist for sure. I think I attribute a lot of my success to
to being somewhat of a perfectionist. Now there are some other things that you need to,
to work through and be accepting of that not everything is going to be perfect, that there's going to be
a learning curve, that there's going to be, you know, it's like, it's like lifting, you know,
it's like making progress when you're first working, when you're first starting a workout program.
It's like building a business, you know, like you're going to have those setbacks.
You're going to work hard and maybe not see results like right away, but keep your head down,
put in the work. And the results will come and don't try to be perfect.
Yeah, I like that.
Okay. And then if you had to leave people with like one action to take, one thing that maybe they could do after listening to you today, what would it be?
Lift weights and eat your protein.
I put that on my mirror.
Yeah. No, the one thing that I always like to say besides that is do everything from a place of love.
And I've said this before, but I just always want to keep saying it.
Even, you know, when you're at the point where you're like, I'm just not happy where I'm at.
I'm just not happy with my body or whatever it is.
Like start from a place of loving where you are because that is the only way to get you where you want to be.
Is that what you remind yourself of about you?
Yes.
Mm-hmm.
Absolutely.
Yeah.
Like it's sometimes hard to love yourself?
Well, yeah.
I think I was raised by by perfectionist mom I think that's where I got you know she
an a must a minus was was failing you know so you needed to to have all A's and if you
weren't first you were last so that doesn't develop a whole and the praise came very
rarely if at all. So yeah, it was definitely it's been a learning curve as far as like loving yourself.
But I think even strength training for me is was one of those aspects that did help bring,
build that self-confidence and all of the other aspects, you know, kind of like stepping back
from myself and looking at all of the things that I have done, you know, like graduating in three years
with summa cum laude from, you know, well-known university and then going to business school while
I was full-time, working full-time. And, you know, it's like, okay, if I were still, like,
see all of this as, like, somebody else's resume, not my resume, right? Then I'd be like,
wow, that's an accomplished person. That person has done some things. Yeah. One of my dearest
friends, Shana, that's what she always reminds me. She goes, you know, you're enough, right? Like, how you are,
right now you're just fine and I'm always like shut up then I start tearing up you know because
for perpetual perfectionist drivers for whatever reason it's never enough and it's not like at least
I don't know if it's for you but for me it's not that I need more things it's like no I have to be
more somehow exactly exactly it can be a sickness in a different way it can yeah you you put it so well
you know like yeah it's there's nothing that I that I need I don't
don't necessarily go like I hate shopping me too you know what I mean so but it's it's it's it's it's it's it's it's it's it's it's it's it's
kind of trying to find that point of being enough like where that is and I think it's always a moving
point so um realizing that we're already that and knowing that for whatever this other idea of being
enough is, you know, we already have that. That is just a moving target of some absurd,
whoever created that situation. Yes. Well, this was so beautiful. I am so honored to hear your
story that I didn't even know half of. And I can't wait to watch you and We Rise grow and all the
things that you do next. It's so impactful for women everywhere. But I think everybody's listening
is going to have to go check out. We Rise.
they're probably already following you on the internet
so I'm not even going to tell them that
but your biggest platform is Instagram
SonataGreca
Sonata.canaGreca
Sonata Greca
and anywhere else
you want people to follow you.
I'm on the
main ones YouTube and TikTok
but sonata.orgraq on Instagram is the biggest one
and then VRIZ
dot XYZ is my little
baby.
And she's going to have even more of a glow up
in January.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. As I said,
we already have the nutritionist expert, the habit's expert, but then we're going to have a
bunch of other experts join us in the field of mindset and sleep and hormonal expertise, if you
will, career advice.
Do you want to get pregnant?
That's a real bitch for me right now.
And I think a lot of getting pregnant.
I feel like that advice out there today is damn hard to find the life stuff.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I don't know who plays in that game, but the answer can't you.
just be that more of us have to do IVF.
Like that's so wild.
Sonata, we rise dot, XYZ, all the socials.
Thank you so much for being here today.
Thank you.
It's been an honor.
Thank you so much for having me.
I really enjoyed chatting with you.
