BigDeal - Stop Avoiding: The 4 Traps Causing You To Procrastinate

Starting point is 00:00:00 Have you ever planned something big and then done nothing about it? It actually turns out you're not lazy. You're stuck in a neurological loop that this episode is going to break for you and me. Today the idea is we're diving into the simplest way to kill your procrastination and reprogram your brain to achieve things. So you're going to walk away with three extremely valuable things, all backed by neuroscience and behavioral science that led me to make my millions and build a life I want, and I want you to do the same thing.

Starting point is 00:00:26 Three things today. One, the equation that explains why you don't start. Two, the four traps that hide the equation from you in real time. And finally, the three-move protocol, you can run today to break out of it. I'm Cody Sanchez, this is the big deal pod, and today we're killing procrastination loops. Let's go. Okay, so before we jump in, if this channel is useful to you, do me a favor. Hit the subscribe button.

Starting point is 00:00:50 I make this show for ambitious people who are tired of business and life advice that doesn't actually change anything. So every subscriber we get you gets episodes like this in front of more people who need them. So thank you. Okay, I want to start here today, the equation. So there's this psychologist named Pierce Steele. He spent two decades reviewing every major piece of research on procrastination that he compressed it all into a formula. He calls it the procrastination equation. That's a mouthful, but it's actually fascinating. It's the closest thing the field has to a unified theory. And almost nobody outside of academic psychology has heard of it. So here it is. Your motivation to do a task equals the expectancy times value divided by impulsiveness times delay. I know this is a lot,

Starting point is 00:01:37 but like take a second to look at this and take it in. So the translation to this is basically, if you're like me and not a psychologist, you don't start when you don't believe you'll succeed. That's expectancy is low. The task doesn't feel meaningful. That means the value is low. your environment is full of dopamine cheaper alternatives. Impulsiveness is high or the payoff is months or years away. The delay is too high. So most ambitious people have all four problems running at once and they don't realize it. So what does this actually look like? You want to build a coaching business, but you don't really believe you'll get clients. Low expectation. Asking for money still feels weird, low value. Your phone is six inches away from your hand and face at all times. So the risk of impulsiveness is

Starting point is 00:02:25 high. And your first paying client is at least six months away. Delay is huge. Just like that, the equation eats you alive. So again, you don't have a willpower problem. You're not lazy. You have an equation problem. Willpower is really hard to scale. Equations, though, they can be solved. But the only way that you do that, which we're going to talk about now, is like, how do you change your inputs? That's what the rest of this episode is going to break down. I want to take a step back and look at the hardware you and I are running in our brains. So in 2019, research, researchers ran an fMRI study that scans the brains of high procrastinators while they worked through really high pressure tasks. And they found measurably reduced activity in two regions. The anterior

Starting point is 00:03:09 cingulate cortex, which handles error monitoring and correction, and the dorsolateral prefrontal cortex. I mean, very big mouthful, but that basically means your executive control. So if we talk in plain English, not like a crazy scientist, the parts of your brain, that say, wait, this matters, keep going, they're firing way less. The hardware is actually biased for you to avoid things. Like, say it with me. Do you feel that? Because I certainly did when I read this. So every time you say, I'll start tomorrow. You're not just losing a day. You're actually training that neurological pattern deeper. So the reduced activity becomes your default. And the avoidance actually becomes the automatic. So you wake up one morning and the

Starting point is 00:03:54 business you were going to start 10 years ago, it still doesn't exist. The book is still three paragraphs in a Google Doc. I do not think this is because you were lazy. It's because you spent a decade running the wrong program and now the roads and grooves are so deep you don't know how to get out of them. So the good news here is that the same brain is actually plastic. So we can rewire the inputs and your activity can change. But before we get to how to do that, you need to know what you're actually fighting. Trab 1, planning theater. Like, you're not avoiding the launch, you're building the plan. If you're like me, a content calendar, maybe you've got a brand Bible, totally worthless, those things I think, and some tagline. But you haven't made a single dollar

Starting point is 00:04:33 because you're confusing planning that feels like progress because it just produces these artifacts, these things. But the artifacts are not customers. The test is actually stupid simple. If you spent more than two weeks planning without doing one thing that touches a real human with a real ask that is uncomfortable, you're building an idea instead of a business. And like, this isn't just me saying this. Let's go to Phil Knight, one of my favorite huge inspirations. He started Nike, right? He didn't have a 40-page plan for Nike. He had a day job as a CPA at Price Waterhouse and a station wagon full of these crazy Japanese running shoes that he flew all the way to Japan on, got credit to import them. He sold those shoes out of his trunk at a high school trackmate in Oregon again and again and again.

Starting point is 00:05:20 And the first year he sold 8K worth of shoes. You know, that like beautiful Nike swish, the company name, all of that, that came after. He got the sales and the company followed. So get the fucking sales. Get the first dollar. You know, similarly, I didn't have a plan for contrarian thinking, our company. I opened a substack account for a newsletter and I had a chip on my shoulder. I wrote the first post on a laptop on my couch without any plan.

Starting point is 00:05:47 And I hit publish before I think the show ended. One day later, the first subscriber came through. I remember screenshoting it and showing Chris. He was like, cool. That was the launch. So the newsletter, the podcast, the book, the brand, the team. All of that came after. I got the subscriber, then I got the first dollars, then the company followed.

Starting point is 00:06:05 So you don't need a plan. You need the dollar. Trap two. Research mode. You're going to start right after you finish the course. You promise. Right after you read one more book, I swear. Right after you watch the podcast, right?

Starting point is 00:06:20 this like information consumption, it feels like you're progressing because it has the same texture as work, you know? You're learning, you're taking notes. But sadly, and this is crazy, but neuroscience shows you're burning the exact dopamine your brain needs for execution. It can't tell the difference. So by the time you finish the mental masturbation is what I call it, you're not ready to do the real thing.

Starting point is 00:06:45 Never going to make a baby by yourself, right? And so you feed the want and actually starved the dew. And then Val Ravacant, we have an incredible episode on that. Actually, you should go back and listen to it with Eric Jorgensen. Nnaval Ravikant said he'd rather read the same hundred great books over and over than chase a thousand new ones. And that like bottleneck on building anything worth having is not input. It's rep. So if you've been researching the same topic, then you're actually hiding. So I want you to stop. I mean, I spent six months researching before I bought my first laundromat, six months of like, reading a bunch of stuff. I had been in finance already for a better part of a decade. And, you know, I would be on YouTube feeding me case studies at 2 a.m. You know what I had at the end of six months? A folder full of PDFs and zero businesses bought. The day I actually bought one, I did less research than I'd done on a normal Tuesday. I just like, I literally drove to a laundry mat that I thought looked interesting. I sat in the parking lot. I watched you,

Starting point is 00:07:45 walked in for an hour, then I walked inside and asked the owner one question, which you is, hey, do you own the place? And if so, would you ever think about selling it? Like, that's the research. The best research is when you collide with humanity. And so everything else was kind of this costume I was wearing so I didn't have to do the scary thing. You know what I'm talking about? Trap three, waiting to feel ready. So this is maybe the most spiritual sounding to the four, which is exactly why it works so well. It's like, you're not of winning. You're not researching. You're just waiting for the right moment. Oh my gosh, I hear this so often. It makes me want to die on the inside. Like when the kids are older, when you have more energy, when this isn't done,

Starting point is 00:08:22 when you feel better, like motivation is not a prerequisite for action. Motivation is a byproduct of action. You don't ever feel like going to the gym. You just go to the gym because you got to go to the fucking gym if you don't want to be fat. So the brain only releases the dopamine of momentum once you move. The brain's like, you don't get this before you do the thing. So if you're waiting for the feeling to show up before you begin, that's biologically impossible. It's like, hey, I'm sitting in a car. Why isn't this thing driving? I don't know if you know this, if I've told you this before, but I went down to the border to report for the Associated Press a million years ago. And I know you're like me. You're like a hard charger. So I was a hard charge in college student. But I had never

Starting point is 00:09:06 been a real journalist. Like my Spanish wasn't that great. I didn't have a fixer to write these intense stories. I had like a notebook. I might have had a recorder because I don't even know if they're iPhones back then, and I had a tip on a story everyone around me said was a terrible idea to do. And I went anyway. I stood at the border, I remember, to cross over the Rio Grande, where there was barbed wire everywhere, barking dogs, a bunch of Border Patrol agents. And I remember thinking, if I turn around right now, no one will ever know I almost did this. And then I walked across. And actually kind of wild story, the first thing I saw was a man getting stabbed right next to me. So that was actually incredibly traumatizing. But I kept going. And now,

Starting point is 00:09:45 And that day, I found one of the most incredible stories ever in my career about how the number of bodies getting counted in the desert wasn't right. And that story ran to really big headlines. And it led to the next one and the next one and the next one and the next one. And all of those eventual pivots led to contrarian thinking. And none of that happens if I sit waiting to feel ready. So you don't wait for the feeling. You walk across the bridge.

Starting point is 00:10:10 Trap 4. The Future Self Illusion. So this is probably the deepest one. you believe that Monday you, January you, or after this quarter you, will be different, right? Like, you'll be more disciplined, you'll be more focused, you'll be less tired. I hate to tell you, that person does not exist. Like, there's a behavioral economist at UCLA, name is Hal Herschfield. He ran a study where he showed participants age-progressed renderings of their own future selves.

Starting point is 00:10:38 The participants who emotionally connected with the older version made dramatically better long-term decisions. They saved more for retirement. They exercised more. They were less impulsive. The ones who couldn't connect treated their future self like a stranger. They didn't know anything to that person. So when you start to say, you know, I'll start Monday, you're actually passing the responsibility to a stranger. And that stranger doesn't want to do it anymore today than you do. So this pattern just repeats. The version of you who builds the business is not Future You. It's Today You, doing one small thing for five minutes. Future You only exists if you make them. And I lived this one. I had the idea that became contrarian thinking for years before I did

Starting point is 00:11:18 anything. And, you know, every day, every month, whatever, it would be, well, I'll start it then. And I remember having four notebooks full of ideas. Like, have you ever had that? Like, you know, your ideas list? I used to call it my someday maybe list. And I hadn't actually done anything because future Cody was going to do the work. Present Cody, well, she wasn't ready to become her. And so the only way that that happened was opening that laptop on a random Tuesday and writing the worst version of a newsletter anyone had ever read. And that bad newsletter is the only reason any of this exists. So here's the fix or what we call the protocol. Shrink, specify, stack. You shrink the action until your brain stops fighting it. The avoidance reflex fires when the task looks too big. It kind of threatens your identity. So you shrink it. until your brain doesn't really feel like it needs to defend against anything. You don't say I'm going to write a book. You're like, just going to write a sentence. You don't launch the business, you buy the domain.

Starting point is 00:12:18 You know, you don't make 20 cold calls. You write one cold email. So this actually comes from that famous BJ Fogg study at the Stanford Behavior Design Lab. His model is simple, but like, oh, so brilliant. He said, behavior equals motivation times, ability times prompt. So, like, you can't reliably crank motivation, right? You can crankability though by making the tasks smaller, smaller. So if you do it in under two minutes, it turns out you have continuation rates many times higher than tasks framed at their full scope.

Starting point is 00:12:50 And I know you know this too because you're like me, but how many times have you had a six-hour problem that you need to solve? And when you go to do it, you're like, oh, that took about 20 minutes. So here's the trick. Most days, once you do the five-minute version, you keep going. Like, you can go the 20 minutes or six hours. The avoidance only really happens because you haven't started. So if you get past that threshold, it kind of disappears. But even if you do only the five minutes, you win. Like, okay, that's a receipt. That's a new rewiring of your brain. Move two.

Starting point is 00:13:24 Specify the move with surgical precision. I think a lot of people fail here because they say, okay, I'll work on the business this week. That's not a plan. So what does neuroscience tell us? behavioral psychologist Peter Galwitzer. He spent 30 years studying something he calls implementation intentions. Also, I don't know why all of these are such mouthfuls, but must be a psychology thing. He basically did this meta-analysis combining 94 independent studies across 8,000 people. People who pre-deside exactly when, where, and how they'll decide to do something. Well, then they complete tasks at roughly two to three times the rate of people who are like, I'm going to at some point do something. And this is across like nearly everybody measured. So if you say, I'll work on the business this week, no bueno. Instead, you're going to say, I will spend 25 minutes on the customer outreach list at 7 a.m. tomorrow on the kitchen table with my phone in the other room. That specificness is the entire mechanism. So kind of hands future you have finished decision. So you don't have to argue about it in the morning. And there's like something called the if then format that works even better.

Starting point is 00:14:35 So if it's 7 a.m. and I'm at the kitchen table, then I open the laptop and start the outreach list. So you're not asking yourself to feel motivated, right? The next move, move three, stack it on to something you already do. I think the reason most new habits die is they have no anchor, right? Like, you have to remember to do that. And that remembering is the tax. And that actually breaks your habit eventually. So if you anchor the new behavior to an existing one, like after I pour my cup of coffee, I open the last. laptop. After I drop the kids off, I open the dock. After my morning run, I write one sentence. The trigger is the old habit and the new habit gets to ride along as passenger. I like to think about can my habits ride along with me. And this is probably one of the most underrated lovers in behavioral science. Like you're not even having a habit. You're just extending one that you already got. So three moves. Shrink, specify, stack. Here's what that looks like in practice. So, you know, I had been saying for three years that I was going to write a book about buying business. I had a Google doc. I had like three, I think, chapter outlines, a folder of research, but I had written nothing. I remember one morning, I was pouring coffee in the kitchen, sun's not really up, I can't sleep, my little dog goes at my feet, and the thought arrives, I should work on the book today. I've chest kind of tightened at it, like my hand was like, ah, there's probably other things. And so move one, shrink. I was like, well, I'm not going to write the book today. I am writing one sentence. And that one sentence I wrote. Move to specify, I sat at the kitchen table at like,

Starting point is 00:16:10 I don't know, 5.15, 6.15 a. And I set a five minute timer to write one sentence. It's crazy as 40 minutes later I had, you know, a couple pages. I didn't plan on that. But the rest of the work comes because the door is staying open. Move three. Stack. So before I close the laptop that day, I wrote the next move on a post-it. And I stuck it on the expression machine. machine. After tomorrow's coffee, at this table, I will write one sentence. The coffee, I already want that every morning, like an addiction. So the writing just rides along. And you know what? That book became Main Street Millionaire. It didn't start as a book, but it became a New York Times bestseller. It started with a cup of coffee. And so I guess my question for you is like, what's your move

Starting point is 00:16:55 one through three? Tell me in the comments wherever you're listening to the podcast. Like, you did not launch a business, right? You moved one inch. You collected one receipt. But six months of inch moving or receipt collecting, that's how a business gets built. And one thing that's like Ashley really important to say is you're going to miss days. Everybody does, including me. Here's the rule to put into practice. Don't try to make up the mess day with a bigger action. Have you ever done that? You're like, I miss my walk today, so I won't do 10,000 step. I'll do 20,000 steps. And you're like, well, that's ludicrous. I don't have time. We don't want to do that because it actually triggers the avoidance reflex harder because now the task is, oh, it's bigger. It's grown. And so when you don't

Starting point is 00:17:41 succeed at that and you fail the next time, it feels worse. So I just want you to run the protocol again the next day at the smallest possible scale. Five minutes, one sentence, that's it. In fact, like James Dyson, who's like such an underrated entrepreneur to study, he built 5,126.5,000. seven prototypes of his vacuum cleaner before he had one that works. He literally failed, I think, for 15 years. And, you know, he built prototype, you know, whatever one morning, then the next one, the next morning. And he finally sold the company that made him a billionaire and one of the richest men in the world. And, you know, I remember, like, when I was trying to buy a business, I cold called business owners before I bought my first one. I think I called called 50. And I got so used to

Starting point is 00:18:29 knows. Some people hung up. You know, if you told me I was too young, one said his wife would kill him. If he sold, you know, one of them asked me out. Well, but, you know, I ended up buying number 51. And it wasn't that I just stacked more and more calls. I just made the next call every morning. The business I ended up buying wasn't the smartest deal I'd ever seen. It was just the one I got because I didn't stay stopped. So you don't need a perfect streak. You need a refusal to say stopped. And that's the secret. The version of you who finishes things is just you. The only difference is you learned the equation. Now you can recognize the traps and you built a protocol that runs even when you're not motivated. And so every time you let that avoidance win, you cast a vote for who you're going to become and you're not going to like that person. So let's break the habit together. So if you're like me and you've been waiting years to do the thing to buy the business in particular, well, then your next move, I got you. I know how to skip to the first. I know how to skip to the first. on the line and avoid all the procrastination. I want you to get your ticket here for Main Street Millionaire Live. It's a virtual event where my entire team and I walk you through the business buying

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BigDeal - Stop Avoiding: The 4 Traps Causing You To Procrastinate

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