BiggerPockets Money Podcast - 166: Are You Burning Out from Over-Saving? Finance Friday with Firefighter and Teacher Couple Nathan and Kristen

Episode Date: January 29, 2021

Having too much money in investment accounts seems like a good problem to have, but it’s a problem nonetheless. Today we talk to firefighter Nathan and teacher Kristen about their income, expenditures, and investments. Nathan and Kristen own their home and multiple rental properties as well. Collectively they bring in a respectable income, but are being stretched thin due to time restraints. From 24 hour shifts as a firefighter, making cornhole game pieces as a side hustle, and taking overtime, Nathan is working a lot, while Kristen has her hands busy as a remote teacher and taking care of their kids at home. Between the two of them, they’re contributing a generous amount to their investment accounts, but still want a solid emergency fund (or as Scott likes to say a “financial runway”) to help them sleep better at night. Aside from that, they are donating heavily to charity and fostering one child while in the process of adopting another. Although this philanthropic couple has all the right things going for them, they still need some downtime to enjoy the fruits of their labor. In This Episode We Cover How much money to keep in your emergency fund  How to assess whether or not you’re over-contributing to retirement accounts Paying off rental properties for added peace of mind Developing side hustles to bring in even more income Why everyone needs a “financial runway” so their investments can take off Paying down a 457 plan loan Putting yourself in a favorable “liquidity position” And So Much More! Links from the Show BiggerPockets Money Facebook Group BiggerPockets Forums Finance Review Guest Onboarding HSA – The Ultimate Retirement Account - Mad Fientist Challenge Everything! | Budgets Are Sexy Real Estate Investment Calculators - BiggerPockets Mindy's email Scott's email Check the full show notes here: https://www.biggerpockets.com/moneyshow166 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Welcome to the Bigger Pockets Money podcast, show number 166, Finance Friday edition, where we interview Nathan and Kristen and talk about paying off debt and being intentional with your money. One of my hangups from reducing my 457 is, you know, over the years, I've made some crazy investment mistakes or, you know, buying cars or just not managing the personal budget as well. as I've matured, obviously, you know, some of that, a lot of that has been corrected. And even this year after we, you know, we didn't start tracking our net worth until like January this year. And so that's helped a lot. Hello, hello, hello. My name is Mindy Jensen. And with me, as always, is my world's worst Robert De Niro Impressionist co-host, Scott Trench.

You talking to me? No, we're talking to Nathan and Kristen. Scott and I are here to make financial independence less scary, less. just for somebody else and show you that by following the proven steps, you can put yourself on the road to early financial freedom and get money out of the way so you can lead your best life. Whether you want to retire early and travel the world, go on to make big time investments in assets like real estate, start your own business, or maybe relax a little bit on the long-term wealth creation and enjoy the present a little more. We'll help you build a position capable of

launching yourself towards those dreams. I am excited and a little nervously excited to bring the story today of Nathan and Kristen because, not because I don't like their story, but because my advice to them is a little unconventional for me. Yeah, Mindy and I, I think we had a really raw, great discussion. This is a couple who's, I think, doing a lot of things really well and a lot of things right, but isn't really able to have freedom in the present, given a lot of their financial choices. They're building wealth for long term at the expense of the present, which I think is an unusual one that we haven't come across yet very much, in our experience, Mindy, you and I.

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going to listen to this show and say, oh, I totally identify with these things that they're doing. We're glad to be here. Yeah, we're excited. Thank you. So Nathan and Kristen are a married couple with three children. He is a firefighter, and she is a part-time team. for an online school. He also has a side hustle building cornhole game boards, the world's

worst named game ever. But it's a lot of fun. Every time somebody brings that up, what's wrong with the name? Cornhole. Look it up, Scott, Urban Dictionary, not at work. Once he's retired, he will be eligible potentially for a pension, but he's not relying solely on that for his post-work life. So Nathan and Kristen, let's talk about. your income and expenses. First, let's recap your income. Yeah, so where we're at today is my income from my annual income, typically from the fire department, is around 140 to 150.

That includes quite a bit of overtime. That's kind of a regular occurrence for us. And then Kristen is making 22-5 teaching online part-time. So she has started that in August. Yep. So our salaries are about 160 to 170. And then we also have some rental properties that cash flow about 2015, 100 to 1,800, depending on expenses. And then, but that money is just left in the LLC for the rental properties.

So that's not money that would really count on as expenses or money to live on. Good. I love that you keep that in there. Yeah. I'm really interested to see what your thoughts are for capitalizing that business when we get to assets a little bit here. With your income, can I ask what your base pay is and what percentage is overtime? Yeah, my straight base pay is $107,000 a year. But then there's incentive pays for my certifications and education that they add on there. So that's automatically paid whether I work any overtime or not.

So that bumps us up to about $120,000. and then overtime is typically anywhere between 20 and 30,000 a year. Great. And what kind of hours are we talking about here? What's the, I understand firefighters are sometimes on like for 24 hours in a row. Is that the case for you or how does that work for you? Yeah, we work at 24 on 48 off schedule. So it was one day on, two days off.

And then typically when I work in overtime shift, it's, it's 24 hours at a time. So when we do, when I'm up for over. times, then that comes in like a 24-hour bundle. Got it. Okay. Great. So what I'm hearing here is you've got an unusual schedule with that, of course, but there is some time that you could tap into and that you can access for both recreation and potentially other income sources. Is that fair? Yes. How about you, Kristen? Yeah, so it's 20 hours a week, and it is from home, but I'm also taking care of our one-year-old. with that. So it's Nathan and I kind of juggling her, and it's kind of however I get to 20 hours

in a day. So sometimes it's in the evening, sometimes it's in the morning, but I usually try to do about 10 to 2 each day. Okay, so this is great. And is that enabling you guys to not have any daycare expense or those types of things? Okay. So this is a, this is a very, that work is a huge contribution to your savings right here with this, the way you set that up. So okay, great. Let's go through expenses, what are some of the big ones there? Yeah, so our monthly spending right now is at $6,600 a month. That includes a $950, $457, which is the government version of a 401K, so a $950 a month loan repayment.

And then, yeah, so for auto expenses, we're spending about $600 a month, including gas and insurance service and toll road. Our utilities, including phone, internet, gas, water, electric are around 5 to 550. Life insurance for both of us, each of us have a policy is 120 total for the both of us. One of those is a life insurance plan that I signed up early on in our marriage. It's a return of premium policy, so it's a little, it's a higher monthly expense. I get the premium back, but probably would be doing a lot better if I had that money going in, you know, lower monthly. But I haven't really looked into what it would take to get out of that policy and into something else. And if at this point, after 10 years, if it'd be worth

making the switch. But yeah, so groceries and my food fund at the fire department is 900. So we spend $800 on family groceries and $100 on my food fund at the station. And within the food budget is like all toiletries and all of that. Dog food, diapers. It's not just food. It's anything you buy at the restaurant. And you have a family of five. That's right.

Mm-hmm. Yeah. We just had somebody on here who had a same budget for a family of two. So I'm curious. I imagine that you're reasonably disciplined there. And there's not much to go hunting for in that budget. But we'll be interested to see if there's anything. And we've tried to do less.

I just found that it's better just to go ahead and plan for a little bit more because we're going to end up going over budget in this way. We've got into budget. We know how much we need to make up. And I don't know anything, but it sounds like kids get bigger as time goes on and eat more. That's all right. Typically. Some of those little ones scarfed down a ton of food too.

We got a couple of years for sure. So do I. And then so we have a gift and donations category. That includes our tie to church and some missionaries that we're supporting. And so that's about $900 a month. And for home expenses, including our mortgage and our escrow, weed control in there, but for home improvement and we do house cleaning every two weeks. So for just home improvement budget, we budget $100.

month that doesn't always get spent but can add up. We have a cleaning every two weeks and that's $170 a month. And that was a tradeoff for Kristen being able to go back to work and watch the kids. And so that's been actually a positive change for us. So she's making about $1,600 a month. And so the tradeoff there was $170 every month for a couple of cleanings. So a good deal on my part, I think. And then the mortgage and escrow, so our principal in interest is $11.85 a month.

Then we do our own escrow into our savings account, and we add $800 a month into that. That's like a $6,400 a year in taxes, $1,500 per year in home insurance. and then about $700 a year in HOA feeds. So is it $1185 in mortgage plus another $800 a month in those items? So we got about bumping up against $2,000 or $1,900? Yes, that's correct. And then we're in the works of doing a refinance on the house. So we're at like $3.875 and on 30 year.

And then we're looking at going to $2.75 on a 30 year. and with about $1,000 in closing costs so that will reduce our monthly budget by about $170.70 a month. Now you just made up your house cleaning. Yeah, there you go. I haven't looked at it like that before. That's good.

So I would say, three years ago, Mindy would say, oh, my goodness, you should clean your house yourself. Now Mindy says go ahead and pay that fee. Nathan, you think you're getting the best end of that? deal? No, Kristen's getting the best end of that deal. Oh, well, no, I think I am because everybody's happier for sure. And it does, it does free us up. You know, before that, I was helping a little bit more with the house cleaning and stuff

and trying to do side gig stuff. So it does free us up, you know, just mind space and opportunity for other moneymaking ventures and then just time to, in all that, some time to just relax too. So it's been a big help. That mind space is huge. Yeah. Having mental space to just not be worried about, you know, oh, I got to do all this. Like that is not just mind space.

That's like a lift off your shoulders too. So, you know, three years ago, Mindy was wrong. Yeah. And I think it's just, you know, whatever season you happen to be in at the time, yeah, it just kind of changes with that. So I'm doing some mental math here and I've got, you know, I'm rounding a little bit. We've got 2,100 or so for the mortgage and cleaning plus utilities puts us at about 2650 for your housing and related expenses, right?

Yes. Then we layer in $600 for the car gas insurance, sort of about $3,100 here. You've got another $900 for groceries. That puts us at about $4,000. We've got $900 a month in giving, and that puts us at about $4,900. and we've got a little bit of life insurance there as well. So on your income of 66, 6,600 after tax, we're talking about a $1,700 net savings after that.

Is that what you're experiencing? Are we missing a couple of things still? Yeah. And so we've also got clothing budgeted. And so we budget about $180 for the whole family per month. Again, that doesn't always get spent, but we can. either put that into savings or use it or, you know, let it add up for when we do need to spend more on clothing.

Then we have a miscellaneous budget of just our, so each Kristen and I both get $60 a month for just random stuff that comes up. And then family entertainment, we've got at $100 a month right now. So that all added up together with, including the loan repayment, comes out to be about $6,600. And then our, yeah, like we said, our take home is about $6,100. So that leaves us a negative cash flow each month of about $5.58. But that doesn't include our 457 contributions, which we're maxing out. It doesn't include about $600 that goes from Kristen's check directly into our savings account. And then that funds our Roth contributions of $500 each month.

And then so our, my pension takes out 7% of my check each month before taxes before take home. And then we also contribute about $475 a month. Or we're maxing out our HSA as well. And so that our employer matches or contributes $1,500 a year to that. And then we contribute the rest to max out this year, the $7,200. And then next year, I think it's $7,300 a year for that. the HSA. Okay, I want to break that down in a second here because you're not coming up negative 500 a month short. You're investing heavily and with all that. But let's talk real quick about that

loan repayment that you just described. Can you describe that load and what that is and what's going on there? Yep. So I took a $50,000 loan from my 457 plan in January, the original plan. So at that time, we still had two car loans going on. And we also had a, about, let's see. Yeah, we had another $20,000 on rental property mortgage that we had that we had in January. So we had about $50,000 of auto loans and mortgage left on a rental property that we have. We took that $50,000 loan initially to use that as money to buy more rental properties. use it kind of like a burr, buy the rental property, fix it back up, refinance it, get that $50,000,

and keep using that $50,000 as cash to purchase more rental properties. We ended up doing that. We bought one property in Oklahoma. We bought it off of auction.com for about $50,000. We put $15 into it, and then we refinanced it for $55. So we ended up leading $10,000 to $15,000 in that property after closing cost. And then so we had the rest of that money, we had about $40,000 of that loan left in our accounts. And so just going back and forth of deciding whether or not we wanted to keep using that money to buy more properties,

but decided we really want to invest more in the future out of a position of strength instead of like maxing out our dollars to buy the next property. And so we used that money and money that we have just saved over the year to finish paying off our vehicle loans. We paid off the $10,000 that we had left at that point on our mortgage on our rental property that we had in January. And then we ended up selling one of our vehicles, the van, which was the more expensive car that we had, and replaced it with a Honda Civic that we got for about half the car. the price and so paid off those and then bought a cheaper vehicle to replace some of those funds into our and so that now yeah so now we're we're left we've got some our emergency fund built up we've got some operating money in our LLC still and but we've got about $42,000 left on that

457 loan that we want to try and get paid off as quick as possible and then that's going to create the room in our personal budget each month to feel like we've done. got a little more freedom. I love the concept that we're introducing here and the way you're thinking through the situation. Basically, if you're listening and you're wondering what a 457 loan is, basically it's a loan against your retirement assets, right? So this is a loan that you're taking out against from yourself and you're paying interest back onto it back into your retirement plan. Is that correct? Is that how you're understanding? Yes. And so, yeah, we took the loan. You know, the fees are almost nothing. And then we repay the loan.

at a 5% interest, but that 5% interest is being repaid to ourselves. So we're paying our sales back at 5% interest. The downside of taking a loan from your retirement account is you're not making any interest on that money while you have your loan taken out. And then also the money that you're paying back into the 47, which is like 401K, is after-tax dollars. And so you're paying it back with after-tax dollars. And then when you pull it back out, it's going to be taxed again.

And so there's some different tradeoffs when you decide to take a loan like that from your retirement account. I think you have some great points here. Generally speaking, here's what I like and don't like about your thought process with this. I love the fact that you are thinking about how do I refinance basically certain debts and consolidate that make it simpler, probably have a different interest rate, those types of things. That's a great thought. And I love both things. I love the fact that while you initially started out thinking about how do I use it,

use this to accelerate my real estate investing, you stop that thought process and you're like, no, we're going to build a financial position of strength from which to invest. I think that's the root cause of a problem that you're dealing with now, which is you got a $900 drag on your liquidity position per month. It's $12,000 a year. That's pretty impactful to your ability to do the next deal or whatever because you have to pay back this loan into your 401k. The root cause of that is is not having the high savings rate and ability to build wealth outside of those retirement accounts or tax-advantaged accounts. And I think that that should be, I think, a goal of your guys as a household is to, over the next six months or a year, put yourself in a position where you can get that,

the anchor out of your liquidity position, build a strong cash position, and have a strong net savings rate even after all the great things you're doing. You're doing a lot of things right. You're in a great income. you are building wealth pretty aggressively with these pensions, Roths, HSA, 457 contributions. It's just you're not able to build liquidity. You're not realizing any of that freedom that finance can give you in the here and now. Is that a fair articulation in the situation? Yeah, that's what we talk about a lot is just as far as having that freedom to really move our focus off of finances and really more of less of just moving our focus off of finances,

is more of our moving our focus off of how much do I need to work this month to make sure we cover the expenses or are still able to save. Get our expenses below our take-home pay each month and have some extra room there. And below take-home pay before any overtime or before any side gigs so that any of that is extra and we just do it when we want to do it. And we can focus more on, you know, just our church and our friends of church and our family and yeah. Yeah, I love it.

I think that's completely correct. And so when you think about that, the elephants in the room in terms of your financial situation that are holding you back from that are your housing expense. You got $26, $2,700. That's nearly 50%.

That's much more than even the average American household is spending on housing expense. And that's most of what you got there. Your other stuff is pretty tight, right? I think you got a pretty reasonable situation with the car gas and insurance for a family of five.

I think you got a pretty reasonable grocery situation. I'm sure there's something you can do there on the discipline side with that. And like, who are we going to say, no, stop donating and tithing to your church? No, we're not going to, you know, that's ridiculous advice. So I think that that's your elephant in the room in terms on the expense side. I think a position to think about is how do you get to a place where you've got three to six months of liquidity just sitting there in the bank and you're feeling pretty good? And you've got a one to three thousand dollar a month net even after that after tax. wealth building or the pre-tax wealth building stuff that you're doing a great job of currently.

And from there, you're going to feel a lot better about real estate investing because you're not going to be buying more properties, which are then requiring you to suck more cash on an ongoing basis out of your position. They're going to be adding cash to your financial position and being to multiply like that. I think that's what's going on with your portfolio right now is you've got this real estate portfolio. You're not taking any cash out of it. You say it's cash flowing, but it's not contributing to your net position here. And in fact, it's, taken out $1,000 a month because you got to go back to that $457 loan. Yeah.

What do you think, Mindy? I think you're correct. And I'm wondering how we can pay that loan off faster or slower. Is the 940 the lowest, the minimum repayment? Yep, that's the minimum. So it's any loan that we take out is required to be paid back in five years. And so I just put it at the maximum of five years. But I can't make it.

make any extra payments until I have the lump zone. As far as I know, and you know, I can't say, I want to put a $1,000 extra in this month, but then go back to the $9.50 next month. So, yeah, the only way that I can get that pay off sooner is to add up the lump sum in my savings and then pay it off all when I have the principal, whatever the principal is at that time to pay off my lump zone. I don't have enough experience with a specific type of loan, and you brought up some really good points about the pre-tax versus after-tax arbitrage, which I've got to think about a little bit

more. I'm not sure. I'm going to be able to give you on the spot feedback on that one. But are you forced to pay that back every month at that rate? Or is there a compounding interest situation there? What happens if you don't, if you temporarily don't pay that? Well, the loan would go in default. And then they would just say that you have taken a withdrawal from your account, and then you get penalized plus taxed on that, on whatever. the principal is left on that loan. Yeah. And when you separate from service from your company, if you don't repay it within like three

months, they just assume the same thing. They assume that it's a disbursement. And then they tax you at your current income tax rate and also a 10% penalty. So it's just like withdrawing money early from the fund. I've done this a couple of times. And I like these loans. I like these loans because if I'm going to pay somebody 5% interest, I want to pay me. the pre-tax versus post-tax money argument, I get it.

Sometimes it's just easier to take a loan from your retirement account than go through all of the things to go pay somebody else 5%. So is there any help from the cash flow of the rental properties that you could put towards the 457 repayment? Because that's where you put the money in the first place was towards the rental properties. Can you use, it looks like $1,600 a month, coming into the LLC for the rental properties. Can you take that and make your payment instead?

The problem that we have there right now is right now we have about $15,000 in savings and then about $6,000 in our checking account in our LLC. And I'd rather have that closer to $25,000 in our savings for the LLC. So I want to keep you building that up. And then we've also got a on one of our properties, a rehab that's, So we had a bad tenant. It's going to end. We're replacing a furnace and a water heater all at the same time. So within the next 15 days, I'll have about a $14,000 payment that I've got to make on one of those properties to get it back and rent ready. But you're going to have to finance that with, you know, with equity of the property, you're likely like a HELOC or something. Well, no. So we've got, we've got the money in the savings account to make that. But then I don't want to take any money out of the LLC right now until that savings account gets.

built back up. Great. I think it's perfect. And I think you're doing a smart thing there. You're capitalizing your business appropriately to be able to handle this. If you don't have that savings in the LLC, this is called a disaster and you become a motivated seller. Because you have it, it's called a capital expense and you're going to rebuild your position there. So I think, and it's part of the deal. Yeah. And then another benefit we have there with the LLC is we have a $120,000 line of credit because we have, so we have four rental properties. One of when we have a 30-year mortgage on, it's like a $289 monthly mortgage. And then on the other three properties have a portfolio line of credit, but I don't have any money pool from that. It's just

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We'd love to talk, business. I think it sounds like you're well capitalized in your rental business, I think you're very wise not to tap that line at that credit, because if you do and you're wrong or it doesn't work out, you're just compounding the current situation that you've got here where, again, you're doing lots of good things right. In 10 years, these are all great moves that you're making. You're just going to be continuing to dip in this current period, which is probably very frustrating for you and probably the root problem. Is that, again, am I kind of on it with this? Yes. Yep. Great. So let's talk talk about the solution set here. Your rental property situation is not going to provide cash flow

that is meaningfully going to change the name of the game in its current situation. Is that correct? Yeah, as far as our personal living expenses and day-to-day living, we're just kind of pretending like that money's not there. Great. And I think you have to make a decision here between these things and say you have a lot of wealth and you're putting a lot of cash flow into three places right now. One is into your home living situation, which is your major leverage point on the expense side. The other is your retirement accounts, which I think you're certainly going to be able to hit a goal of having a good amount of wealth in 10 years with that approach, I think. I think you said you'll be eligible for a pension in 10 years.

Yes. Yeah, so you're going to be grinding it out between now and then, but I think at that point, you're going to be sitting reasonably pretty if you continue with those. And then your real estate portfolios, your other source of significant assets per my understanding. Am I missing other assets or other areas where your money's going? Yeah, just the HSA as far as assets. Which is, yeah, another pre-tax for type. Yeah, pre-tax. And then, so as far as our home, we've talked about buying a house that we could house-hack essentially that we would, that we could either build a space or that already had space

or we could rent out like a mother-in-law type suite or something like that. What's keeping us from being able to do that right now is we are foster parents to our third child. And so there's a lot of home studies and requirements that go into being able to have a child placed in your home. And so changing that up right now would be difficult. And then we're also,

in the process of we would like to adopt, but there's some court stuff that's going on with her case. And so we've got every two to three months of $4,000 lawyer fee that we're paying right now. And so that's kind of indefinite until we can, the situation gets straightened out. And so that's kind of increased our drive to work overtime, work side gigs. So that's kind of where some, that's where a lot of our money is going right now. This is amazing. I just admire the good work you guys are doing so much with this. It's really impressive and the sacrifice that you're making to do that good stuff. I mean, wow, what a great reason to have this complicated wrench in your housing situation. Okay. Well, let's think about this.

So your goal, I can't see a way, a reason why your portfolio is not going to give you a really good shot at building wealth over the next 10 years. You're not going to get rich. You're not going to get rich. quick with your current situation, if nothing big changes. But I think your choices here are, if you can just keep pushing through and clearing that $500 a month, a couple of things are going to happen over the next five years. One, your one-year-old, I believe you said a one-year-old, is going to go to school. And that's going to enable you, Kristen, to work more hours and change the income situation. Two, you're going to pay off that $940 loan, which will just happen over time. and gradually these items will clear up.

And I think you'll continue to be tight on that budget and continue to change that cash flow. If that's too slow for you, if you want a faster transition, you're going to have to figure out a way with that to make a change in the housing situation. You're going to have to consider recapitalizing or selling off a portion of your real estate portfolio.

Or you're going to have to consider, well, I guess you have two more options after that. You can consider changing how much money you're allocating to your pre-taxed. retirement and Roth IRA situation, or four, you can grind out a lot more hours to try to generate more income, right? I think those are your four options that I'm seeing. What do you guys think? Am I missing something? Or Mindy, do you have any other things that you're thinking about? You know, I don't love to suggest cutting back on retirement contributions, but since he has a

pension, that is a little bit different. What is your pension, versus what you're making now. We just spoke with somebody who is military, and when he retires, he gets 50% of his current salary. Yeah, so the way my pension works is they have a formula that they calculate and they have an estimated year of death. And so from the time that you retire until that,

I think it's like 82 or something like that, so if you retire at 46 and the 8th, of death is 82, then however many years, that is divided into the amount of money that you have contributed to the pension plan with interest calculated into that over the years, is the amount that you get paid per month for the rest of your life, whether you live to 60 or you live to 100. Okay. Do they give you any sort of estimates in advance? Yep. And so we can run estimates, and it's all calculated on the amount of

money that you're making over the last couple years. And so if that amount changes, these estimates can go up or down. But if I retired at 46, which be the first year, that I'd be eligible for retirement. So they have all different options that you can take, like 100% survivor benefit. And then you also have an option of taking a lump sum from your retirement when you retire. So what I would choose to do is take the full partial lump sum that I was eligible to take and roll that into my 457 plan, and then I would get a $4,200 a month monthly payment if I retired at 46. And at that point, if I rolled the $200,000 into my deferred comp, which is by $457, I would have about $900,000 in that 457 plan.

And then if I calculate 4% from that 457 plan, that would give me another $3,000 a month. month on top of the $4,000 a month that I would be receiving for my pension. So you're going to have plenty of income and retirement. Yeah. It should be good there. My first reaction to that is like, why have this kind of, look, again, I'm just getting inside your head, so please tell me if it's different. But I presume, based on what I'm hearing here and here, and you beat on the show, that there's

a little bit of frustration or disgruntledness or I don't know with the current financial situation that you guys are going through. is that correct yeah so there's yeah and christian can probably speak on this more than i can because we have a little bit different goals on finances i'm more focused on finances and and i want to get to my goal like tomorrow so i want to get that to that 10 year goal tomorrow and christ's logically okay with reaching the 10 year goal in 10 years i'm always focused on okay what can i do to make sign up for more overtime or how can i make more money in the side job. And so that focus steals a lot of time from family and in our,

and just, yeah, just that free space that we need to have to feel like we can have better relationships. But I'll let Kristen. Yeah. I would just say when you brought up the option of keep grinding, I say that's that's not an option that just he's been grinding for since we got married. And he just has an incredible capacity for extra work. And, not a lot of sleep and just hanging Christmas lights and cornhole boards. And I mean, he can, he's got a lot of skills and puts it a lot of places. But just I think he could keep running at this rate. And then we could get to 46 and it's all broken down in one way or another physically.

So I just, I'm at a point where I feel like I'm not willing to make the sacrifice of the lifestyle that we live, where it's just constantly working extra for our kids and for me. and yeah. Okay, I got this one, Scott, because I am in Kristen's position. I am married to Nathan, too. My husband never stops ever. And on the one hand, that's awesome. It's so much better to be married to somebody who is ambitious than somebody who is lazy. But you see them working so hard and you want them to take a break. You want them to relax. Like, hey, it's okay to read a book that isn't teaching you something. getting that through my husband's head was amazing because all he wants to do is keep learning and keep learning and well, when are you enjoying yourself?

So I completely understand what you're saying, Kristen, on that front. And also, I am on the other side of 46 and you are not wrong. You hit 45 and all of a sudden your body's like, what world now? Everything hurts. So yes, it's great to keep in shape. You absolutely should keep in shape. But I completely hear what you're saying, Kristen. and the pension, if you didn't have a pension, I would have different advice.

But this is all for you guys and this is based on your personal experience. And based on your pension, I would maybe pull back on the 457 contributions for next year until the loan is repaid and the adoption goes through and these big fees are just taking money out of your liquidity. And I like the Roth contributions still because that's a lower amount. The pension is kind of sounds like it's involuntary. You get 7% taken out automatically all the time. Scott, I would be interested in hearing your thoughts on that.

But $4,000 every couple of months is going to be, I mean, that's like $2,000 a month that we didn't actually include in your list of money here. And the $940, that's another $1,000 rounded out. Scott, what do you think about maybe pulling back on the 457 contributions for a little bit because they have the pension? You know, I really respect that advice. I think I'll take a completely different tact here, though, with it. Because I think my favorite outcome is that you guys really sit down and you say how with regards to your housing situation. Because to me, one of the things about like Texas is that there is a little bit. there are some cheaper housing options in many cases than perhaps, for example, here in Colorado.

I'm not sure about Denton specifically. But, you know, I really think that is, if you can figure out a way to somehow reduce that housing expense by one or $1,000 or $1,500, and that's net of your mortgage escrows and your utilities that are going into that, that's going to make everything so much easier. That allows you to not stop anything with those types of things. The second place I'd look, if that becomes truly not an option, is, and this is bigger pockets, yes, I'm here at bigger pockets than I like real estate. I wonder if your real estate portfolio isn't costing you more in the here and now than you need. We just talked about that you're probably going to be working for the next 10 years to get that pension.

So within 10 years, you're going to be, if you keep, if you just keep up the 457, the Roth, the HSA, and the pension, you're going to be done. Right. So if you can have a much better here and now right now, get that six-month liquidity position fortified, get some solid savings, pay off that debt and build a get a really solid financial foundation. I wonder if you might not benefit more from that than the real estate portfolio. And then you can always come back or to the real estate portfolio and rebuild it in a few years. So frankly, those are the first two places.

My instincts are telling me to look, which is completely different from Mindy's there, frankly. So what's your reaction to that, guys? How do you feel about those two conflicting opinions or different areas? I think we've tried to look at options for housing and Denton is pretty expensive. I feel like we've tried to, you know, there wouldn't be any other houses. I mean, I think the only other option we could possibly consider would be like having a college girl, you know, live in one of our rooms. But again, that goes back to the whole fostering and background check, which we could do that I just don't know that we,

our house just feels like chaos and I just don't know that anyone wants to live with us. So I don't know. Yeah, I think that the housing so we went through a season of looking for some housing that we could find

a house that we could rehab and you know, have a lower monthly expenses on housing or like you said, do some type of house hack where they could really have a separate space whoever the renter was and bring that down. But right now, in the season we're in, with our kids being so little and with the foster

restrictions, it seems like the just, again, it's just a mind-spaced tradeoff of searching for the perfect house that would reduce our monthly expenses enough and or finding a house that needed rehab and then putting the work into the rehab. So I think for the housing, we like being. because we have moved quite a bit, and so just being stable in housing for this season we're in is a good option for us. Then we do have an upstairs extra bathroom,

living space, bedroom. And, you know, if we did stay in this house, you know, once they, or just kids got a little bit older and got a little less chaos, then, you know, consider having, like, a college girl move in and take some of that housing down as we really like the idea of that. or even, you know, once we get a little more settled than being able to look at the, you know, like just the perfect, perfect house for our situation would be good. And then looking at, you know, if we were to sell off some of our rental properties right now, you know, when we did get back into it, we bought these properties for like three of them that we've got in the St. Louis area.

We bought them for $20,000 to $30,000. So they'd like we'd never be able to find those deals again in that area getting back in. So it's nice that they're paid off over there. When you go through that real estate thing, by the way, that's wonderful. Right. I got the same problem. I bought a property for a while back for like 240, a duplex. And now it's worth $450.

What a fantastic problem. I'm never going to buy that again for $2.40, right? But it's not that's not the analysis right now. The analysis is right now I'm, I am every day I'm not selling it. I'm buying a property or holding a property that's worth $450 and rents for X. Is that still a good investment today? Is the question, right? Net of transaction fees, because I'm buying it with no transaction fees.

I continue to hold it. And when I sell it, I'm going to be incurring transaction fees. So there is an advantage to holding rather than selling and going somewhere else. But I would just encourage you when you think about it to acknowledge that good problem, be like, man, I made a lot of money. That's a great problem. am I deploying it right now? Be ruthless in that analysis.

Yes, I'll return on not the initial investment, but what the properties are worth now. What's it going to do in the next five years in your opinion and your best guess? That would be how I would think about that one. Okay. Got it. Yeah. And when you go to sell those rental properties, remember you do incur a lot of fees when you're selling a rental property.

You have to recapture depreciation regardless if you took it or not. You have to recapture that. You have to pay capital gains taxes if you're not going to 1031 into something else. You have to pay commissions to the real estate agent and on and on and on. So selling shouldn't be something that you just do on a whim, you know, really run through those numbers and see if it's worth it. On that note, I was just going to say, we'll set you up with the Bigger Pockets Pro account and go ahead and just use our rental property calculator and analyze it as if you're buying it fresh with the amount of equity that you've got in the property right now. and see what your return is on that. And ask yourself, is that high enough to justify my continuation of this slog

if I'm not willing to do the housing or the $4.57 or whatever on that? Yeah, just rough numbers on those. Each of those properties are worth around $70,000. It averaged out. And I'm getting like $900 rent on two of them, $8.25 on the other with minimal fees for, you know, taxes are pretty low up there in all the other expenses that typically come out. So it's still a decent retirement on. Yeah, you might be like, yeah, that's a good move.

And I'm not doing that. So that's fair. But those are the places to look. Those are the big places I think you can look without going into the stuff that's really going to impact your day to day. It's going to be the housing. It's going to be that real estate portfolio. Or it's going to be these pre-tax retirement situation.

Yeah. And I do kind of like the idea of, you know, changing any of those, maybe reducing the 457 right now and leaving the real estate alone just for a little more diversification as far as once we did get to retirement to be able to, you know, if the, if stocks are down or whatever, then I can reduce the amount of money that I'm taken out of the 47 and use some of that real estate money to offset some of that. So how stable is your pension plan? I know that some union pensions can be, I think it was the Chicago Teachers Union pension, was invested in something that wasn't doing very well and they were down quite considerably.

Do you know about the strength of your pension? Yeah. So as far as in Texas, we have like one of the strongest pensions. So it's a municipal retirement system that several cities are in. And it's not so it's not based off to just one city's ability to. So it's really scrutinized by the state of Texas. And yes. So from our knowledge, it's one of the stronger ones in the state.

Good. And probably in the country, yeah. And what is your adoption timeline? Well, because of COVID, everything's been pushed back in the court system. And so it truly is indefinite. It could even be 12 to 18 more months. Fatterson, she was two weeks. She's 18 months.

So she could be almost two or three. So it's just indefinite. And then the lawyer bills are intermittent. and in depth there's just no way to know yeah so some sometimes there's more activity in the case and so a lawyer obviously has to spend more hours on it and sometimes there's less and so there may be several months before we have to pay the fee again so but we've been really it's been we've been really well taken care of so even our family has assisted a little bit in those lawyer fees there was we've had there has been plenty of overtime for we have i mean which is a trade-off but it's been it's been it's

been really good that we've been able to get enough overtime to cover that. And then in November, I hang Christmas lights. And so that's a really big boost during the month of November 4. So that, you know, so we've got like, we've been able to pay those fees and still our net worth would increase, has increased each month, even with all those extra expenses. So that's been, And yeah, so the big goal is there just to pay those as they come in without having to dip further into savings than we typically would. Yeah, that's a great goal. I think we're like, I'm super comfortable for my seat that you're going to be pretty

wealthy over the next 10 years. The concern is not really how you're building wealth. I think it's about how you're, again, you're building, I have this concept called financial runway. That's what you're lacking right now. You have no financial runway or you're not building any. you're depleting it on an average basis unless you put in a lot of extra grind. To build financial runways, the cash or liquidity you have access to net of your household expenses.

So, for example, you spend about $600 a month, one month of financial runway is $6600 in savings or cash. So to have three to six months of runway, I think you're going to feel a lot better about your situation. And if you're having a surplus on top of that, that you can actively choose to then allocate however, you want whenever you want, I think you're going to be feeling a lot more comfortable. And that's going to allow you, Nathan, to potentially ease back a little bit on what I sense is an extreme sense of urgency on earning that next dollar or finding that next income opportunity and really think about, hey, how do I not earn an extra dollar? How do I strategically develop a portfolio that just makes this game really easy for me on an

ongoing basis? And then maybe you find a passion project that's just fun that you're going to invest just heavily in, but you're not doing it out of this sense of I'm trying to claw out of this pit to get my finances in order. Again, and we've just talked about multiple ways to do that. I'm very interested. I don't think we're going to come to a decision on the show here today with you guys. I'm interested to see what you guys kind of discuss amongst yourselves and think about which path you choose to go of the ones outlined or if you find a new creative one. I don't know, but I think that that should be the goal. I think you should, hey, how do I get three

six months of financial one way and a position where I'm accumulating at least at that or 2000, you know, 1,000 and 1,500 a month in runway, not this stuff that I can't access that's not, that's frustrating, you know, frustrating our financial position on our ongoing basis. Yeah. So that's another frustrating point for Kristen is I'll tell her, hey, we put this much money into our 457 or we put this money, much money into Roth, you know, our, our net worth increased by such and such this month.

And it's all like fun numbers, but it's all like, she's like, okay, well, that's not money that we can, none of that money is made in our lives right now. You're seeing your spreadsheet grow and she's seeing you working harder and harder and harder and the hamster wheel spinning faster and faster, right? Yeah. This is where I get into trouble with this because retirement accounts are very powerful, but like I didn't invest in retirement accounts when I first got started with my financial position because of this very reason, right?

It's just, it's just a position of control that you're lacking right now because it's going so heavily into retirement accounts and real estate equity. both in your house and your portfolio, that is not actively helping you gain control over your life. How much different is your situation if you have $50,000 in savings in the bank and a $3,000 monthly accumulation rate, but less than those retirement accounts? You know, I wonder, and this is a dangerous thing to wonder,

but I'm going to do it anyways, I wonder if you had way less in your retirement accounts, but that position with your work ethic and clear passion for building wealth, in particular, Nathan, and whether you might find ways to generate a lot more real control from that and wealth over a 10-year period than with your current approach. So I don't know how drastic to take that or how far to take that or whether to – but I think that's a worthwhile thought to consider as you're thinking through your portfolio. Yeah, I think one of my hangups from reducing my 47 is, you know, over the years, I've made some crazy investment mistakes. or buying cars or just not managing the personal budget as well.

As I've matured, obviously, you know, some of that, a lot of that has been corrected. And even this year after we, you know, we didn't start tracking our net worth until like January this year. And so that's helped a lot. But the thing that has kind of saved me up to this point is that the 457 was just automatically taken out. And I never even really thought about it. I didn't really know what I was investing until.

January this year, you know, it was a managed account. The fees were stupid, but, you know, at least that money was just going. I wouldn't have to, you know, and what's got us to this point, and now that we, you know, we have a decent amount in that retirement account, it's, I like that the security of it just being automatically taken down. I don't have to think about it. And I can't, you know, I can't mess it up. But I also agree with you that, you know, now that I've, you know,

we're kind of on this other side of maturity financially. I think that we can make some better decisions if we did reduce our 47. Nice. So, Mindy for the win. My advice would be different if you didn't have the pension, but that pension is so big. I mean, that's a huge chunk of change that you're going to get every month. Only if you work till 46, if you continue to love your job and you want to stay at it until 51, that's even higher. I'm wondering what your house is worth versus what you pay.

paid for it. And you know, you don't want to sell it and lose money or sell it and break even just to find a house hack potential. But it sounds like you've lived there for several years. 2017. Yeah, the beginning of 2017, we bought it for 285. You know, we calculated in our net worth. I calculated it at 310, but it's probably worth more around 330, you know, just with the houses that I've sold around here on our street in the last couple months. But I like to estimate it. made it a little bit lower. How much is it cost to rent in your local area? To rent a similar house, it would probably be like $2,200 a month to $2,300 a month.

And would utilities be included in that rent? No, that's just rent. You know, just looking at Zillow and looking for what people were renting similar houses for. Okay. So I think something Scott's really excited about you getting a different house. I think something to consider is just reaching out to a real estate agent who understands what a house hack is and just have them start sending you listings. Here's what we want.

We want something either with a second unit attached or detached or the ability to build a mother-in-law suite or the ability to build an ADU somewhere on the property and then just look and start learning the market and see what's out there. Just because you're getting these listings doesn't mean you have to jump on them as soon as something pops up. But you can see, oh, so I could sell my house and buy this house. with the income potential and the expenses of buying versus the expenses of selling is a wash, and then I can now start generating income.

Or you would at least know that there's nothing out there, if there's nothing out there. So that's something to just consider is talking to an agent and just getting on a list of getting rentals or I'm sorry, listings so you could potentially move. Yeah, we did do that about six months ago. and again, I like your suggestion of we don't have to do it right now. But when we were looking six months ago, it was like it's kind of my same mindset that it gets me in a trap a lot is if this is something I want to do, I want to do it right now. And every house that would have maybe a slight chance of working out, I was calling the

realtor. I want to go look at the house. And so it was, again, it was just another thing that kind of sucked time. in mind space away from family and being focused here. And so, yeah, we stopped that. But even, like you said, even if this is, it's not their exact right seeding for us to do that, to be able to get those listings and to even talk about them

together and just have a, be a way for it to open up conversation about that possibility when we are ready and to know the market when it comes out, then I think that's not a bad suggestion. What do you think? Yeah. So we're in a college town. I think Krista should get the listings.

Don't share them with Nathan because you're not going to want to go see them every five seconds. And just to review what's out there. It takes a while to find something. So you start looking and you're seeing, you know, oh, $300,000 gets me nothing, nothing, nothing. Oh, look at this one's $2.75. This one's $2.85 and it needs new flooring and it's got ugly paint. Oh, that's something I could do. you know, there's just, there's a deal for everybody at some point.

And if you're not looking, you're not going to find it. And Nathan's not allowed to look at them. Only Kristen can look at them. And then you can decide, oh, Nathan, you know what? This does look kind of nice. Let's go see it. Or he's going to want to see that and I have no interest. Like if you're, you both have to agree that you want to buy the new house before you,

before you go buy it. And sometimes that takes a while. But learning what's out there is also really helpful. Yeah. I think that's good. I think you guys are doing so many things right. I love the fact that the work ethic is clearly there. You guys are willing to grind, but that's been the answer for a long time. And you're saying, no more. We're going to work smarter, not harder with the stuff and build a foundation there. I think I love the fact that you're at least willing to explore every component of the financial position there. And I love the fact that I think we got to the root of the problem, which is just the you're earning good income. You're not being unreasonable in your day-to-day spending. It feels like a grind and something's got to give on the weight on your ability to accumulate liquidity and improve your day-to-day life. I don't know what that's going to be, but I think that now you've got the problem to find that you guys are going to come up with, again, that really good solution there.

And I'm really excited to see what that is. Maybe we can have you back on in a couple of months to hear what it is you decided and how you've been going about that. Yeah, that'd be great. Yeah, thank you so much. A lot of good things to think about and talk about Nets. Yeah, I think one of the things I've been most excited about coming on the show is just a way for Kristen and I to, again, you know, another reason for us to talk about this stuff and to be more focused on it together as a team and to figure out what goal we want to tackle. And just preparing for the show has been good. There's no reason with your income and the way you're doing it that you can't have a great, relaxing, wonderful year next year in 2021.

and continue to move well on your way to be a multi-millionaire before you're 50, but you know, by the age of 46 with that and have all that. I just think that there's a way to have your cake and eat it too, but you can have anything you want, but you can't have all the things you want there. And then lastly, we talked about one last thing here, which we could have cost over. But a big chunk of the limiting and flexibility and your cash outflow is the amount that you guys give. and while that's very admirable in those types of things, you know, you guys are doing much more, really than any guest I've talked to relative to your position at least on that.

And so that's something to think about it as time goes is, is there a way to be, you know, do we need to kind of have our situation fixed and really feeling very strong and flexible? And what if that allows you to instead of pay in 900 a month in tithing or giving or supporting other folks, if that allows you to donate way more of your time, which could be way more valuable to that, or allows you to donate more in a few years. Just something to consider along with that. It doesn't have to be something you change now, but just know that you guys are in the top 1% in my experience of givers relative to your position. I don't know about how you think about that, Mindy, but yeah, no, top one, not even 1%, top 1% top 1 in the givers. And I'm glad you said that, Scott, because I

couldn't think of a nice way to say that. But I mean, that is a thousand dollars almost every month that is coming out of your pockets. But I also think that there's a way to, I mean, I really, again, I don't like to suggest cutting back on the contributions to a retirement plan. But with the pension, that's a huge advantage that so many people don't have. Bigger pocket to make a pension plan, Scott. Let's do that. Scott's like, no way. It'll never happen. So, and, you know, not reducing them forever, just reducing them until the adoption goes through, until the loan is paid back and continuing to max out the Roth IRA and the HSA, because the HSA with three kids, somebody's going to break something.

And, you know, appendicitis. I had my appendix out in 1996 and it cost like $17,000 in 1996. And that's, you just, you're fine, you wake up, you're fine. go to bed in a hospital bed and, you know, after having surgery, it's like the craziest thing. So continuing to max out the HSA, I think, is a great plan for future you guys, because even if you never use it, even if you can cash flow all your medical expenses right now, that is a great retirement plan. And I'm going to bring up the mad fientists, HSA article every single time that we talk about

this because he's got an article called HSA. say the best retirement account. I should actually look this up before I even sit down. It's the first thing when I type in MAD. HSA, the ultimate retirement account by the mad fiatist. It provides the benefits of the traditional IRA with the, it's like a super IRA. You know, if you can cash flow your medical expenses, if you're healthy enough to do that, that's just a great way to sock away an extra $7,300 a year.

And let's see, we're going to set you up with a pro account on bigger pockets. Do you have an account now? I've got a free account right now. Okay, great. I will make you a pro account so that you can go and run the numbers on your rental, on the potential new property, on your current property, and see what, you know, see how they shake out and see how it's working out for you. Thank you. But yeah, I think that just little tweaks here with the 457 contribution reduction will help

you get through the part of the, you know, those, that's, that. $4,000 attorney fee is to let me tell you, it's not that much fun. But it's so worth it. But it is. It is. It's not, it's not a, it's not something we're frustrated over. It's something that we see is definitely an expense that we are very willing to pay for. And yeah, yeah, it's not a, it doesn't feel like a sacrifice.

It just feels it's just a number that we have to. Yeah, it's a line. in the budget. And I'm going to plug the challenge everything challenge from budgets are sexy. In 2016, J Money decided I am going to see every line I'd imagine my budget and I'm going to challenge it. My insurance, how can I reduce that? My phone bill. How can I reduce that?

My cable bill. How can I reduce that? Is there anything around my house I can sell that I don't use anymore? What can I do to get more income or more money coming in and less money going out? and that I'm going to link to that in the show notes. It's at Budgetsarsexy.com slash challenge dash anything. But that's a really great article for, you know, inspiring you to just, you don't even have to challenge everything.

Challenge one thing. Challenge, you know, another thing in the month and see how much you can reduce your expenses and watch your balance kind of shift in the right direction. But I do really like, I want to check back in with you in a few months. So I will reach out after we're done recording and set that up as well. Do you have a joke for us? Some of the Finance Friday people have a joke and some don't. So that's like you can tell us.

Yeah, we, I mean, I've listened to the show a lot, so I was a little bit prepared. But it's not really a joke. It's more of a story. You know, we're in Texas. So I heard a story about a rancher recently and he got a new bull and let it out to year with his cows and I was a young bull and just wasn't performing like he was hoping it would. And so, you know, he was troubled and he called the vet and the vet came out, of course, gave the bull some medicine and all of a sudden the bull was ready to go and just taking care of all the

cows in the pasture trying to jump the fence to the cows in the next pasture. And he had a buddy that came up and said, man, what did that vet get to the bull? he said, I do not know, but it tastes like mint. Nice. I love it. We'll steer that toward a board appropriate direction here. But that was my attempt to bringing in a steer putt. That was awesome.

Oh, I didn't even get that steer pun at first. That's hilarious. Okay. Okay, Kristen and Nathan, I am super excited for the next few months for you. And I'm very excited to talk to you again. So let's circle back in about three months. Great. Thank you so much.

Okay, thank you. It was nice to meet you. Thank you so much, guys. Bye-bye. That was Nathan and Kristen. Scott, what did you think of that episode? I really like this new format, Mdede. I think we're going to do a lot more of them.

So hopefully Ulysseters like them as well, let's do format as well, too, because I just learn a lot here. I think we're able to get a lot more into the details. It's just fun to attack the leverage points in someone's financial position. and sometimes it brings up the elephant in the rooms, right? The elephants in the room.

And there were four today that we came across, right? It was the housing expense. It was the pre-tax retirement accounts. I think it was the real estate portfolio, although no one else did. And then also the grind, the fact that the solution for so long has seemed to be just work harder, find more ways to make money so that I can finance all of this investing that I'm trying to do. You know, again, I want to flip that on its head. The way I approach investing way I think most people should approach investing is I invest

from a position of financial strength and each investment I make allows my position to snowball and become easier, not harder. And so that's, I think, the work that they're going to have to undo one way or another here. I know I said in the intro that I am right and you should, of course, I agree with you that I'm right. But it was very hard for me to say you should stop control. contributing to your retirement accounts or reduce, reduce, not stop completely, but reduce the contributions. Because they have special circumstances such as the pension and the adoption fees

and the loan from the 457 plan, I think that that is something that they should really consider toning down just a little bit to see where they can create a little bit more breathing room in their current financial situation. But I completely agree with you, Scott. The rental properties, encourage them to buy any more at this time. They got such a great deal that it's hard to sell them, but I really hope that they're able to run the numbers through the bigger pockets calculators and see what that gets them. Yeah, I think, look, I just wonder, we didn't get enough of a chance to dive in there, but I just wonder if those properties are sucking cash out of their lives rather than putting cash into their lives. I don't invest in rental properties in order to

continually commit more capital on an ongoing basis to the portfolio at the expense of my day day-to-day life. I invest so I can pull cash out over time that continues to snowball my position. And I think that that's hard and that can be difficult in many markets, especially here in 2020. But I think if it can't happen, why are we doing it? Right. And that's my worry about their portfolio is that it's still several years away from being able, and he's so responsible. He's not, he's, he could pull some cash out, but he wants to build a better liquidity position. That's exactly what he should do and exactly what I do with my portfolio. But I think, look, he's just so many years away from, I think, realizing that in a literal sense from his portfolio and being able to pull that

that cash flow out, that was where I was kind of feeling about that. So if you're listening, maybe just, it's not a stay away from real estate, but maybe to understand like, hey, if, think about that real long and hard before each deal you go into to make sure that it will enhance your position rather than suck cash out of your position. I 100% agree, Scott. Okay, this episode wraps up our very first month of Finance Friday review episodes. And Scott and I just really love this. So if you would like us to review your finances, please fill out the application at

BiggerPockets.com slash finance review. And we're looking for a diverse set of applicants. We're looking for people with kids, without kids, with great retirement plans, with no retirement plans. We're looking for anybody who would like to share their information with us. We're not here to put you on the spot or make you feel bad about past money mistakes. We are here to share your story because what you are going through is not special.

Somebody else is going through it too. In fact, a lot of somebody else's are going through it too. And Scott and I have a collective 38 years of adulting. Most of that comes from me, but Scott's been an adult for a couple of months now too. And we just want to, you know, share a neutral third parties take on what's going on in your life and your finances. Because sometimes we can look at it from a different point of view and see where little tweaks can be made where you can't see them because you're sitting in the middle of it and you feel like, you know, oh, I'm making all these mistakes. So far, people aren't making a ton of mistakes. And, you know, little tweaks, I think are going to send them on a brand new trajectory, almost

straight up. And don't think you're alone in this. I look, we're sitting here. It's, it's something, you know, because we're doing this all day long, it seems sometimes like we're able to find some of these situations, maybe, maybe not. I don't know. That's up to you guys to decide. But, you know, I will say that it's hard to judge it from me inside so hard that I'm personally struggling with that. And I just went to Mindy for advice the other day. And she was able to give me a lot of really good things by just looking at my situation from an outsider's perspective. So I understand we all struggle with this, with kind of assessing the situation from inside, from the inside of it. Wow, Scott, I think you just said Mindy knows everything.

Mindy knows everything. Mindy is right. Listen to Mindy. I do not know everything, even though sometimes I think I do. So I certainly act like I do. Okay. Scott, should we get out of here? Let's do it.

From episode 166 of the Bigger Pockets Money podcast, he is Scott Trench and I am Indy Jensen saying Be sweet parakeet.