BiggerPockets Money Podcast - 207: Comfortably Retiring in Her 40s as a Single Mom with $850k Net Worth

Episode Date: June 21, 2021

Part of the reason we started the BiggerPockets Money Show was to share financial stories from all different backgrounds, giving you, the listener, confidence to reach your financial goals regardless ...of the stage you’re at in life. There’s no better story or person to personify this than Dr. Lakisha Simmons.  Lakisha grew up in Indianapolis, born to teenage parents who didn’t have much. She spent the majority of her youth living at different family members’ houses, shopping bargains, and being content with having enough to get by. She started working at 14 years old and has fond memories of taking her paychecks to the bank so she could deposit them in her own checking account.  When Lakisha hit some road bumps in her personal life, she put her children first and sold her home, started renting, and dove heavily into FI. She managed to hit a 60% savings rate as a single mother, thanks to her helpful side-income streams. Now, after almost 3 decades of working, she’s ready to retire, spending time with her children and teaching other women how they can do the same.  In This Episode We Cover How growing up in poverty can lead to living frugally in the future Whether or not student loans are worth it for the paycheck Looking at ALL your bills and only paying for things that bring you value Renting vs. owning a home, and how it affects your bottom line Taking advantage of 457(b) plans for government employees  And So Much More! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Welcome to the Bigger Pockets Money podcast show number 207, where we interview Dr. Lakeisha Simmons and talk about starting with nothing, taking a big hit, and still managing to reach financial independence within four years. Now I have this house on my back. I have the lawn care. And it was my decision to stay in the house, right? Because I had the children. I didn't want to uproot them at the time. But then everything just hit me that now I'm responsible for all of these bills. And when I looked at the bank account and I said, oh, my goodness, what have I been doing? And that was the moment that my financial independence journey started. Hello, hello, hello. My name is Mindy Jensen. And with me, as always, is my pun-loving co-host, Scott Trench.
Starting point is 00:00:48 Thanks, Mindy. I've been trying to, you know, land one of these puns on the last 10 shows in a row, but not one pun intended. I don't know if that quite worked. I don't know if that quite work. but it was close enough. Let's continue. That works really well. All right. Scott and I are here to make financial independence less scary, less just for somebody else, to introduce you to every money story because we truly believe that financial freedom is attainable for everyone, no matter when or where you're starting. And today's episode is going to prove me right. That's right. Whether you want to retire early and travel the world, go on to make big time investments in assets like real estate, start your own business, or quit like a millionaire.
Starting point is 00:01:34 We'll help you reach your financial goals and get money out of the way so you can launch yourself towards those dreams. Oh, that was good, Scott. Quit like a millionaire. Today we are talking to Dr. Lakeisha Simmons and she started off at a slight disadvantage. We are going to let her tell her story and not try to paraphrase for her. But let me tell you, if you have an argument about why you can't reach financial independence because of where you started, Dr. Lakeisha is going to tell you.
Starting point is 00:02:05 that you are wrong and she's going to be right because she had no advantages whatsoever. And she did it, what, in four years? That's amazing. And quick note, Dr. Lakeisha Simmons has a PhD, not an MD, just in case that nuance helps you. This is not a $300,000 a year income earner with this kind of stuff. It's a remarkable money story in terms of how she got there and overcoming a large amount of disadvantages to get to that point. And then attack five, in a matter of years, starting at the age of 37 with two kids. So a really impressive, impressive story from Dr. Simmons here. Yeah, and thank you for making that distinction, because I knew she was a PhD, but I forgot. And this is not a disrespectful, oh, she's
Starting point is 00:02:51 only a PhD, not an MD. She's a PhD. That's awesome. But in this case, that distinction is important to know because it isn't a physician salary that she did this on. Yeah, and I don't think that came up until later in the interview. So just, just if you're listening, you're not listening to a medical doctor's journey to financial independence. You're listening to a PhD's journey to financial independence. Yes, good point. Tax season is one of the only times all year when most people actually look at their full financial picture, including income, spending, savings, investments, the whole thing. And if you're like most folks, it can be a little eye-opening. That's why I like Monarch. It helps you see exactly where your money is going, and more importantly,
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Starting point is 00:06:15 Thank you so much for having me. I have a little bit of a sneak preview when it comes to these episodes, and I am always really excited to share them, but this one I am super excited to share because you started off at a slightly less than advantageous point, right? Absolutely. I come from humble beginnings, as I like to call it. I think that's being a bit generous. Let's start off with where your journey with money begins.
Starting point is 00:06:47 When I was a little girl, we just, my family, I get Tyrionette even from the very beginning because my parents were teens. And we didn't have much. We honestly didn't, but we had each other. And you've heard that phrase, a community raising the child. And that's really what it was for me. My mom was just 17. My dad was 18.
Starting point is 00:07:12 And life was really, really tough for them being so young, having children. And so I live with different family members for a good portion of my upbringing. And what I remember about growing up in terms of money was that we valued every little thing that we had. And we, we, my mom cooked at home. We shopped at, you know, the local grocery stores and, you know, it was about time with each other. And my mom always worked two jobs. As long as I've known her, she's worked two jobs. And everybody in my family has worked multiple jobs. So that's really where my story begins, humble, beginning, work ethic, and just enjoying time with family.
Starting point is 00:07:53 where did you grow up yeah i grew up in indianapolis indiana over by the motor speedway actually if you've ever been to indiana you know the the races are a big thing for us during that time we usually stay in when all the tourists come but that just gives us the time to cook out in the backyard and and just enjoy each other that's awesome i always always wanted to go i've never been to an ascar event at all let alone that one. Very exciting. What was your like kind of relationship with with money? Like what were you?
Starting point is 00:08:28 What did you kind of how did you work or earn money or contribute in high school? And how did that evolve going into kind of like the next steps? Absolutely. I started working at 14 years old. There was a little truck stop actually that I worked at that had a diner in it. And I did that for a bit. And then when I turned 15, I started working. at McDonald's. So I've been working since I was 14 years old, but as we'll share it later,
Starting point is 00:08:59 I hadn't mentioned to you yet, but at the end of this month, that all comes to an end. All these years are working. But that's really where it started for me, because as I said, my mom and dad, my dad went off to the Marines and my mom just needed more time to grow up. And different family members helped raise me. And so it was time for me to work. help out and help take care of myself because again we didn't have much so I learned very early about getting a checking account my I'll never forget my uncle co-signed for me to get a checking account and so when I would get my paychecks for McDonald's I had my little check register I'd make my deposit and you know I had to ride the city bus because I lived a little too close to the school
Starting point is 00:09:45 to ride the school bus but just far enough away where it as a young girl I shouldn't be walking alone. So I would get my quarters from the bank and use that to catch the city bus to school. And so I always had to make sure I had my money for that and things that I need it. So yeah, from very early, eighth grade, ninth grade, 10th grade, I learned about money and that I needed it to support myself. And so that's really my foundation with money. As you were doing this, were you a saver or were you kind of, you know, spending a lot, like, like, it sounds like you had to spend on some necessities to get to school and that kind of stuff, but were you kind of thinking about piling up money, or how did that, how did that work? Yes, I definitely have a scarcity mindset because of how I grew up. I really felt
Starting point is 00:10:34 abandoned as a child. And so any little thing I had, I would hold on to it. So yes, when it came to money and working, I held on to that money. I didn't buy the things that young girls would want to buy. I learned how to paint my own nails. So I'd go to Walgreens and get nail polish. And a cousin that also lived with me at one of my aunt's house, she taught me how to do my nails. I learned very young how to do my own hair. So in eighth grade, I remember it. I remember her teaching me in the bathroom how to curl it and how to put the rollers in and how to wash it. And so all of those experiences really have carried me through until I went to. to college, right? So luckily, I was able to go to college. And when I went to college, I thought,
Starting point is 00:11:24 wow, I have made it, right? And I graduated college, thank God, right? And I thought, wow, a salary in my first salary out of college, out of my undergraduate degree was $44,000. I'll never forget it, $44,000. And I really thought I was rich. I thought, oh, my gosh. Well, let's let's pinpoint that. What was your position after graduation? Did you have student loan debt? What was the job? What was the degree in?
Starting point is 00:11:52 Yeah. Good questions. So I graduated from Tennessee State University with a bachelor's degree in business information systems. So that degree, I chose it purely 100% because I wanted money. I had no passion for technology, which we'll talk about later. That's not my passion, but I'm really good at it. And believe it or not, I'm good at math, which I didn't think so in high school because I wasn't a great student in school because I just had so much emotional trauma and just trying to take care of my basic needs. So I wasn't really focused on school.
Starting point is 00:12:28 But when I learned about college from a college tour and I realized, wow, this is my opportunity to flip my life in a whole completely different direction. When I was exposed to that, I knew I had to go to college. So I went to college, bachelor's degree in information systems, business information systems. And I started working for a corporate 100 company, got my first salary, and thought, wow, I've made it. I had student loans. I had about close to $30,000 in student loans when I graduated. I graduated in four years. And as you can probably imagine, after talking to me so far, that was my number one goal was to pay that debt off.
Starting point is 00:13:10 because I didn't want debt. And I didn't mind taking the debt because people always ask me, should I take student loans? Yes. I think that you should because if it were not for me being able to take student loans and, of course, I worked all the way through. But if I didn't have those student loans, I wouldn't have been able to have my degree or degree or have the life that I have now
Starting point is 00:13:32 and to be financially independent. So for me, it was the best thing. Okay. So did you say you graduated with 30 or 100? 130 in student loan debt. 30. 30. 30.
Starting point is 00:13:43 And then I just want to highlight, you said you chose a, you graduated with a bachelor's in business information systems, which you chose purely for the money. I have had, this is like this speaks to me personally because I got a degree in fashion design, which doesn't speak to me personally. It doesn't pay a lot of money. It was like the stupidest choice for me ever. And I have thought, or I had thought. about going back to school and getting a degree in a field that is a high paying job.
Starting point is 00:14:17 If you are going to hate your job or not love your job, what does it matter if you work in a field that you don't really love as long as you're making a lot of money and you said you were really good at this? That's awesome. I just want to underline that and say, if you're listening to this and you're thinking, hmm, I don't really know what I want to do with my life. go for the one that, you know, the pays more. Absolutely.
Starting point is 00:14:41 Look into what jobs you can get with the degree that you're studying. I mean, I am kind of being preachy here, but I study, I have three college degrees and they're all in like the arts field. And it's not like, I have a great job now, but I worked my way up into a great job. I don't know. Maybe I'm being too preachy. But yeah, if you're going to, if you're going to go to college, make sure that you're studying something that either you are so passionate about your life.
Starting point is 00:15:08 would not be complete without doing this, or it pays a lot of money. Bonus points, if you're so passionate and it pays a lot of money. Mindy, seriously, I did determine that my passion was teaching. I determined that halfway through college, and I actually started going that route. But once I learned, I was still in information systems, but we had a concentration that you could do teaching. And once I learned what the salaries were, it really broke my. heart because I knew that I just couldn't live the life that I wanted to live with that salary.
Starting point is 00:15:44 And so I just put that on the back burner because I come from poverty. And I just could not go to college for four years, have loans and then go back into that at that time. And I'm not, let me be clear, I love teachers. I am a teacher now and I'll share that with you. And I, I don't know, and we need to pay our teachers more. And I love that. my children's teachers and they are really doing so much for our world and our community. They teach all other professions. So kudos to all the teachers out there. Yes.
Starting point is 00:16:20 If anything was going to show us that we need to pay our teachers more, it's everybody having to teach their kids this last year. Exactly. Those ladies need, I'm sorry, those people need five X rays. I'm in agreement with that. So you graduate and you have 30,000 in debt and a $44,000 a year salary. How long does it take it to pay off those loans? And what year did you graduate?
Starting point is 00:16:47 I graduated in 2002, 2002. So it was perfect timing for technology. When I graduated high school in 98, everybody was talking about Y2K. And so that's why I chose. They said, oh, Y2K is coming. All the computers are going to shut down when the clock strikes January 1, 2000. You remember the? Because computers can't handle going from 1999 to 2000.
Starting point is 00:17:12 Yeah. So if you weren't in that industry, then you may not remember. But that was a big deal. So that's why I chose that. And when I, it took me about, let's see, oh goodness, it's been so long. I hadn't really thought about that. But maybe five, six years. I did end up getting married a few years after college.
Starting point is 00:17:34 And so then we had a dual income. And so that obviously helped. me to be able to pay off my loans. And then I did end up pursuing a master's degree, but I did that while I was working. So my job paid 90% of that. And then I paid the 10%. And I just paid that cash. I didn't take any loans for that.
Starting point is 00:17:54 And then from my doctor degree, it was, so I have a PhD and I had a full ride for that. But I did take a few little loans in there to help smooth. out the ride because I was not supposed to be working. So in a PhD, that's kind of the exchange. You don't work, but we'll pay your tuition and expenses. You have to pay your living expenses. So I took a small amount of loans, and I was still married at that time. So my spouse at the time paid for our living expenses. And then we had to have a small buffer in there as well to just kind of get us through. Well, let's talk through a couple of these highlights here. Okay.
Starting point is 00:18:36 So and correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm gathering that maybe your intentional push to retire early doesn't begin for some time still in this story right now. Is that correct? That is correct. At this time, I've graduated college. I'm enjoying life. I go back to get the doctorate so that I could be that teacher that I always wanted to be. So I chose to get a doctorate in information systems, yes. Okay.
Starting point is 00:19:04 And you're getting you get married at this time. Where, where does the journey to financial independence or financial freedom? Where does that begin? And how do we kind of like, what are some background we need to frame the beginning of that kind of push there? Yeah, Scott. So unfortunately, after almost 11 years of marriage, my ex and I, we did go through a divorce. and that was, let's see, the end of 2016, we parted ways. And I remember on New Year's Eve of 2016, the end of the year, December 31st,
Starting point is 00:19:47 and I was in that home alone, and the children were with him for the holiday. And I was alone. And I was so depressed. I was in a big five-bedroom house. all alone on New Year's Eve. And all of those feelings of being the little girl who was insecure and shuffled around family member to family member and was working at McDonald's and saving her coins, all of those feelings came back to me that night.
Starting point is 00:20:21 I'll never forget it. And I remember saying to myself, we're getting a divorce to stay in the house, right? Because I had the children. I didn't want to uproot them at the time. But then everything just hit me that now I'm responsible for all of these bills. And when I looked at the bank account and I said, oh, my goodness, what have I been doing? And that was the moment that my financial independence journey started because, again, I got back into that young Lakeishamol, pulled out that check register, pulled out that budget. And I got serious about saving.
Starting point is 00:20:57 And what do I need to do to just reduce my expenses at this point? because as a single mom, I have all of these bills and two little ones. I can't, something's got to change. So around this time, what's your network or what's your income? You have two kids. You're recently divorced. What does the kind of financial profile look like? And is this early, is this the beginning of 2016 or the end of 2016?
Starting point is 00:21:24 That was the end of 2016. So this is going to, this is the very beginning of 2017. So we can start at January, 2016. 17 waking up alone in the house. And so my at that time, you know, we were going through divorce that year. The divorce finalized in the summer of 2017. And by the time we split what needed to be split, I had about $5,000 cash and I had about $125k in my retirement accounts from between the rollovers I had and at my current university at the time. So, 125 total.
Starting point is 00:22:06 And I was in my mid-30s, in my mid-30s at that time. Okay, great. And so what do you do? So the first thing I did, I pulled out an Excel spreadsheet, and in which we had lightly been on a budget, right? but we had two incomes. And so we just didn't have to analyze every single thing that we spent. Right.
Starting point is 00:22:33 And I'll speak for myself. I didn't feel like I had to analyze every single thing I spent because, right, mama, I made it now, right? Especially I had my doctorate degree. So I was pushing right up under six figures when I moved to Nashville and got my job. So I was felt like I was doing well. It was finishing off, paying off my loans from the graduate program. and at that point, I said, okay, I've got to really analyze my budget.
Starting point is 00:23:00 So I put everything into a budget. And the first thing I saw on the budget that was looking at me, like just staring me down, was that mortgage. The mortgage was $2,410 a month. That was a lot of money for a mom with two boys. And that's not even included. The electric bill was $300 a month. and the lawn care every two weeks because it was on almost half an acre land.
Starting point is 00:23:29 And so just all the expenses, it all just, I really had very little at the end of the month. And I couldn't save and invest the way I felt like I should to pull myself up out of only having, you know, $5,000 in cash. I basically was living paycheck to paycheck. Yeah, when you spend every dollar that comes in, it doesn't matter how big that paycheck is. Paycheck to paycheck means you're spending everything and you're not saving anything. That's $2,400 is a hefty mortgage. While you're conducting this study, are you reading or being influenced to buy like the fire stuff? Or is this kind of all just kind of like you just doing it for yourself kind of in your way?
Starting point is 00:24:13 Are you like any educational content spurring this action? So this is where it gets good. So I'm going through my budget. and everything and I decided I got to sell the house. So I immediately call a family friend and put the house on the market, you know, start preparing to get it staged. The house, because I'm in Nashville and the market is hot and it's been hot for years. We put the house on the market and it's sold the same day. We had three full price offers on the house. And so immediately, Scott, I said, oh my gosh. Now,
Starting point is 00:24:53 where am I going to move? Right? And what am I going to do? And so I called my financial advisor at the time because I had one, we have one through, you know, the job and then I had one from the rollovers that I had. And I was just looking for information. And so while I'm scurrying around trying to figure out where I'm going to move, because I didn't think the house was going to sell that fast.
Starting point is 00:25:15 I'm asking him, you know, I'm going to get a pretty decent profit off of the house. I think it was it was about 30,000 is what they were. were estimated I would get off the sale of the house. And so I wanted to do something with it. So I called and I said, well, the savings account doesn't give me much money, right? 0.01%. You know, is there a way that I could maybe send this money to you and you can invest it for me and, you know, maybe it can help me build up my safe, you know, in such a, in a way that helps me become more stable? Oh, yeah, sure. Send me the money. And so, uh, um, This is where it gets good.
Starting point is 00:25:55 So he says, well, there was a Friday afternoon because the house sold on a Friday. And he said, well, let's talk on Monday. And I'll have some information for you. I said, okay, sure. While I'm online searching for a place to move like an apartment or a condo or what should I buy? Should I sell? Start coming across information on financial independence. I'm telling you, this is just divine intervention.
Starting point is 00:26:17 And this is late 2017. Yes. This is summer. This is This is all simultaneous with the divorce and the sale of the property and the budget. Yes. All happening around the same time. It's all happening around that time.
Starting point is 00:26:32 This might have been later, 2017. And I started finding information on financial independence because of this whole, should you buy, should you rent, right? This whole thing. And I was like, what? Financial independence. What? Fire. And I just kept reading and reading, reading.
Starting point is 00:26:49 The entire weekend, I read everything. I could find. So of course I came across Mr. Money Mustache. Wow. Changed my entire life in that weekend. I'm not kidding you. But then I came across millennial revolution. Had never heard of these folks before, read every, they have this workshop on their website, and I went through the entire thing that weekend, and I learned everything there was to know about the fire movement. And I said, this is what I want to do. I want to be financially independent and retire early. And that is. the journey that I started on.
Starting point is 00:27:23 So, of course, the first thing that anyone in the fire movement, for the most part, not everybody, but for the most part, they'll tell you rent. So I sold that house and we moved into a two-bedroom apartment. It was like a thousand square feet. And I'll tell you, Mindy and Scott, I had never felt so secure in my entire life. It was like, ah, I just felt free. I felt alive. I felt, you know, I obviously had a purge.
Starting point is 00:27:47 The rent was, it was downtown, which is kind of high. But it was like $1,300 a month, which is a lot for two-bedroom. But I'm in Nashville. And you're paying $2,700 a month between the mortgage and utilities previously. Yes. Oh, easily. I mean, no, more than that, once you add in the lawn care and, you know, the water, we had gas and electric. I mean, we had everything.
Starting point is 00:28:12 So the apartment had all the garbage included. And it was near my job. It was downtown. it was in a place where for me and the boys, we could walk to the parks. So it was just a complete purge and a new lifestyle. And it enabled me to save a lot more money. And then I had this newfound fire in me to really purge my budget even more. To cut expenses.
Starting point is 00:28:41 Yeah. Nice pun. Love it. So here's what I think is outstanding about this. You're looking at your budget and you're saying, hey, the biggest thing, the obvious problem is the housing. And how do I attack and start with that? And simultaneously, you're conducting lots of research and learning about all this kind of stuff. And then you make a dramatic lifestyle change, which it sounds like, made you happier immediately afterwards in addition to boosting your savings rate tremendously.
Starting point is 00:29:12 Immediately felt such a relief. There is nothing like the feeling of having. debt on you, on me, especially from how I grew up, because we didn't have much, but I don't think, I don't remember people really talking about dead. We just didn't have much, right? So for me having that big house, it didn't feel, you know, it didn't feel good to me to just be kind of house poor, as I like to call it. So yes, that immediately felt better to me. So what do you do with the 30K you get from the sale plus the now 2,000 a month or some sort of that you're starting to save after making this change.
Starting point is 00:29:52 Yes. So my financial planner was not happy. I kid you not on Monday when we talked. I told him, I'm sorry. I'm not sending you the money. And I'm going to invest in myself. Because I felt so empowered by everything that I read.
Starting point is 00:30:09 And on the communities that I found and all the podcasts, you know, that I was learning about. And I said, I can do this. have a PhD in information systems. Surely I can learn. I've never learned about the stock market. I don't know anything about it.
Starting point is 00:30:25 But surely if all these people have done it, I can do it too. And you know what he said to me? He said, you'll be back. Yes, he did. I would never call him again. Yes, he did. I have never called him again. But on May 31st, I will be sending him a letter and letting him
Starting point is 00:30:47 that I am fired. All right. I will be letting him know. I love it. Yes. I love it. So what do you invest in? What do you put the money in?
Starting point is 00:31:01 Okay. So this is the good stuff. I'm sorry. Hey, if there's a formula that works. It's all good stuff. I love it. If there is a formula that works, I'm sticking with it. Okay. So index funds.
Starting point is 00:31:14 Yep. That's me. Why color outside of the lines? I don't have to. So I do like the S&P 500 a little bit more than the overall stock market index, but I do have a majority of my money in VTI and then a good portion of it in VOL. I haven't done a whole lot in bonds because my allocation right now, because I had been working, had been about 90% equities and then the 10% in the bonds.
Starting point is 00:31:46 And so now that I am, and so the past few months I've just kind of been saving the cash, and I'm going to change my allocation into more 75, 25, and I'm going to do some REITs, index funds, and more bonds, and I'm going to just go from there. Yeah, I'm, you know, I have turned in my resignation, and it was the hardest thing to do. Well, well, let's like, before we get, I want to go. I were going to spend lots of time with the resignation and all this kind of stuff. But let's keep going with the story here. So you start off, you have $30,000 and you're putting in index funds.
Starting point is 00:32:23 You have $135,000 in your retirement account. And you clear $30,000 from a sale. And it sounds like you're saving $2,000 a month after your move. Is that about right? I was saving more than that. I was saving. So I started maxing out. I'm telling you, when I say I purged, I purge.
Starting point is 00:32:44 I've switched my mobile phone down to the prepaid. So it's $15 a month. Started only shopping at Aldi first. And I'm not working with Audi or anything like that. But I went bare bones, Scott and Mindy, to I reduced every single thing I could in that budget. Okay. And over what period of time did this occur? Was this like a six-month process to zero-based every part of your budget?
Starting point is 00:33:11 Or did you, it sounds like you were all out for. I was. I'm a pretty ambitious person. When I get focused on something, you really can't deter me. I don't really, I pretty much go all in. I'm pretty intense about things in that way. And so it was pretty immediate. I didn't really think much about switching my mobile phone.
Starting point is 00:33:31 It's like, why? Just switch it. I'll try it. If I don't like it, then I'll move to something else. And so I did that with every single expense that I had, every single thing, shopping at Goodwill for summer clothes for the boys. I mean, why not? It's summer.
Starting point is 00:33:45 They're just going to get dirty. We would go there and get clothes for them to play in. And I started cutting their hair because I didn't like sitting at the barbershop. It takes too much time to drive there. It's not very welcoming for a mom, for a single mom in there with a bunch of men. That's just not, I didn't like it. I didn't like it one bit. So I started cutting their hair.
Starting point is 00:34:07 And I started investing every other little piece. So I got my savings rate or investing rate to 60% of my income. come in just a matter of months yes and previously previously it doesn't sound like you were saving much at all maybe like a few hundred bucks a month i wasn't even maxing out my 401k at work at all so that was another thing that was like immediately as soon as i learned about fire that monday i called the hr department and i said do it take it all at that time i think it was my 1800 a month i said do it take it put it in put it into 401k. Yeah. Before we move on, because I think it's so valuable with this, mechanically, how did you go about doing this? Did you kind of just like print out your
Starting point is 00:34:52 credit card statement? Did you look at, do you use a service like Mint? How did you see your spending and then begin attacking it? Hmm, that's a great question. And I, yes, statements. I didn't use Mint app or anything like that. At the time, one thing I did learn about was personal capital because they have these free tools there and that allowed me to see my net worth and see my transactions. But the bank statement was important to me. The credit cards, I realized that there were things I was spending like Amazon that was just so convenient that I would just buy things. I wasn't really thinking about it before I would buy it. So I immediately just stopped, just stopped spending. So I did something.
Starting point is 00:35:40 called a no-spin challenge. There's a group on Facebook, and they do this every year. And but I did a no-spin challenge. And that really helped me when I say, okay, for $30, that can only spend money on necessities, which is basically food and transportation. And I mean, you pretty much have everything else. So that showed me just how much money I was spending on things that I didn't need to be spending money on. Awesome. Okay. So how much do you save per month on this? Is like $4,000 a month? Yeah, it was, it was at least 4,000 because I, not only was I investing, maxing out my four, we have a 403B, I'm in a university, and we also have a 457B.
Starting point is 00:36:24 And I learned about that on Bigger Pockets, because I was listening to one of the podcasts, and there was a man, he was an educator. I don't remember the name of the episode, but I remember just, I think I was jogging or something, and I was listening and he was saying how at his university, they had a 457 and most university teachers or even not university has this 457 and it's called deferred compensation. And I said deferred compensation. I've been a professor for years. I've never heard of this.
Starting point is 00:36:58 Again, called HR. And I said, do we have something kind of deferred compensation? Is that a thing? Oh, yes, we have that. I said, what? Where's the information on it? Well, we don't really, I can just tell you about it, but, you know, we just have so many benefits that we can't share all the benefits that we have sometimes. I said, what? I couldn't believe it. I couldn't believe it. And so she sent me the paperwork and you can actually max out your 457. It's the same amount as the 403B. So, for example, this is 2021. It's 19,500.
Starting point is 00:37:38 So you can do 19,500 for your 401k or 403B and an additional 19,500 for the 457B. So I was doing both. So that was 4,000 right out of my paycheck right there. That is awesome. Okay. So the millionaire educator. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, I want to make sure we tell this to everybody.
Starting point is 00:38:01 That was the millionaire educator. And that was episode 124. The episode or the product is called the 454. plan and it is available to government employees. So if you are a government employee or a teacher, you work for the city, whatever, ask your HR department, do you have the 457 plan available? Because you can max out your 401K, 403B, whatever option that is, which is tax-free. But if you take money out, you are charged a penalty when you withdraw.
Starting point is 00:38:34 You can also max out your 457, which is an additional. additional 19,500 this year. And going forward, it'll probably change again. But so that's 195 to your 403B and 195 to your 457. But when you quit your job in my crystal ball in May, you can access that money. You still have to pay taxes on it. But you are no longer, you're not assessed any sort of penalties when you withdraw as long as you have separated from service. So the millionaire our educator has a great article on his website because he is more knowledgeable about this than I am. And we will link to that in the show notes for this episode, which can be found at biggerpockets.com slash money show 207.
Starting point is 00:39:21 But I'm so excited that we shared that with you. We actually first heard that with Jamila Sufront. Oh, goodness. Was she on episode 34? I'm going to go back and look and see what her number is. But she was the first person who just casually mentioned this. And I'm like, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. The 457 you can put 19 in and the 403B you can put 19 in.
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Starting point is 00:43:24 Okay, so four years go by, and it sounds like you make a hard transition in terms of your spending over the matter of a matter of months in terms of discovering FI and reset everything about. how you spend money, including your transportation, housing, food, every one of your line items inside of your budget, and you go from saving basically nothing to thousands, maybe four or
Starting point is 00:43:45 five thousand a month. Yes. You apply it all into these tax advantaged accounts as much as you can. Do you have any leftover after the tax deferred stuff? Yes. So I started side hustle. And any and all money I would get from side hustles, I will put into a brokerage account. And Vanguard, again, we're just buying V-O-O-V-T-I and not even thinking about it, setting it and forgetting it, right? Because that's what I've seen work for so many. And so I said, I'm going to do the same thing. But I want to take a pause here.
Starting point is 00:44:17 And I want to really express something that I think is really important. It has been important to me is that people really think about what it is that you value. Because that is how I was able to make these cuts. Because so many times people say, well, how did you do that? or say, oh, it must be just because of your income, or oh, it was just because of this. No, there are no excuses. It came down to me sitting down, evaluating what's important to me. And I had to think back to my childhood.
Starting point is 00:44:46 What were the times that I was the happiest? When we would have those backyard barbecues and just have family over and do a gift exchange, you know, everybody would get one gift at Christmas and we would switch and go through the gifts one at a time. Like those warm moments, that's what. I value and that's what I wanted for my children. And in that picture, nowhere was a big fancy house or a big expensive car or, you know, diamond rings or expensive gifts, nothing like that. And so that made it so easy to cut my line by line expenses because it's like, well, if I don't really
Starting point is 00:45:21 care, if I, if I drink coffee, do I really care if it costs me $5 at Starbucks or if I made it at home? No, it's just coffee. But what are the things I really do value? I enjoy cooking meals with my children and teaching them how to cook and spending time with them. So I was able to just shed so many expenses simply because I realize I don't even value those things. Does that make sense? Yes, yes. But it's so true. When you cut that out, what do you miss? Yes. Nothing or nothing. for almost nothing. Who was it? It was Liz Fuglewoods came on the show and talked about very similar to you. Once I discovered financial independence, I had to cut out absolutely everything. And then the next month I realized there were some things that I missed. She missed yoga and bubble water. So she
Starting point is 00:46:19 figured out a cheap way to add bubble water back in and she figured out a free way to add yoga back in. Like you think you can't live without, not even that bubble water, soda stream bubble water. Yep. You think you can't live without all this stuff. But then when you cut it out, you discover, oh, you know what? I don't really care that much. I do want to spend more time with my kids than working so that I can stop at Starbucks. You know what?
Starting point is 00:46:47 In the morning, stopping at Starbucks, my coffee pot just broke yesterday, so I have to. I don't have to. I choose to. But it takes a long time. I would much rather drink coffee in my pajamas than get dressed and go someplace else. I mean, I got to drive and the car's cold. And I mean, total first world problems. But I would rather be at home and be with my kids and help them get through their morning than leave 20 minutes early so that I can stop at Starbucks on the way to work.
Starting point is 00:47:19 Which is, you know, just one thing that you cut. Yeah, just one. Yeah. What did your boys think of this new situation? Because, and how old are they in 2017 is what, four years ago? So how old were they four years ago? So six and three. Okay.
Starting point is 00:47:38 So that's a lot easier to change when it's not, like, I would think if they were 16 and 13, it would be a little bit more difficult to change. Right. Well, they, yeah, they didn't, they kind of noticed it because there were. were things that they missed like their backyard because we had a huge playground in the backyard and all the land and so then we moved into this tiny apartment more in the city and they just didn't have that but we would walk together to the parks but they couldn't just go out so there were certain things that they missed and we found found ways but I talked to them about every step that was
Starting point is 00:48:14 happening and I still do to this day I sit down with them and I talk to them about okay what's happening that's what's changing, what's mommy's expectation of you, what expectations do you have of mommy. That is one thing I think has helped the transition. Now, it has been tough. Going through a divorce has not been easy on any of us, okay? But we try to keep the lines of communication open so they can share how they're feeling. And if there's things we can do to make adjustments, we definitely do that. So just going through the journey,
Starting point is 00:48:48 you're saving four, five, six thousand a month and your side hustling, what are some of those side hustles that you're doing? And how much do they contribute? Is that what really is turbocharging things? Or is that kind of just a little additional boost? That's been a little additional boost because I basically would go from my paycheck, making sure that I have all that tax deferred money in there. People really have to realize that is key. That tax deferred money in there and the amazing gains the stock market has had. If you go and you look at that, well, in 2018, what was it, 31% gains, the S&P 500. Even in 2020 COVID, it was 15% gains. I mean, you cannot beat that. So that has really skyrocketed. But the side hustle, so the side hustling, since I'm a teacher,
Starting point is 00:49:40 I found ways to teach extra classes in the summer. So that's an extra paycheck because I'm on a 10-month contract. So whenever I teach in the summer, that's extra pay, which could be substantial. If I teach in a grad program, I'm looking at additional $7,000 paycheck, right, for teaching one class. Also, I do my own teaching. So I love women's empowerment. That's where my passion is. My passion is teaching and teaching women how to overcome and achieve because I've just overcome so much in my life. And it's kind of therapy for me to kind of share what I've overcome and helping other women, especially women of divorce. And so I'll do body language workshops or conflict resolution workshops, how to negotiate your raise
Starting point is 00:50:27 at work and all that I ended up put into a book called The Unlikely Achieve Her. Because look at me. Who would ever thought I, the daughter of teen parents growing up in inner city would help a PhD be the first one to go to college and get a bachelor's of master's of PhD? can't even believe in myself half the time honestly and so i so my book is a workbook actually and so that is passive income because it's on amazon and as long as i promote that on my social media and my you know people that are on my email list so the workshops that i do live are on zoom and then i have the book so all of that it's been a slow build though you can't just write a book and put it out there
Starting point is 00:51:09 and people buy it they don't but that has been a able to help me anywhere from $500 a month to $3,000 a month, depending on how many workshops. Before COVID, I would do live workshops, half a day on a Saturday. And people would come and they'd have lunch. I'd have the lunch catered. And women really like that. Women love community. So, you know, to be able to charge $150 a person for a half day body language workshop,
Starting point is 00:51:38 something you can't really get anywhere else. So always tell people, if you're going to do a side hustle, really do something that's unique and that's unique to you, that you're very well equipped to do. And then people won't mind spending the money for something that's valuable to them. Again, values, right? And so all that money would go right into my brokerage account.
Starting point is 00:51:57 Awesome. So these are, so these side hustles are adding in some, a few hundred, maybe a few thousand to your overall savings each month, but it's really being driven by your paycheck for this last four or five years, in dumping that into the stuff. And then any extra cash you have, you're dumping into index funds inside of a brokerage account.
Starting point is 00:52:21 Yes. This year, I focused a little less on putting so much in and just putting up my cash buffer in preparation for firing so that I have. I want to have one year of living expenses because my living expenses, last year in 2020, my living expenses were around 36,000. And I did get married at the very end of the year, and we moved in together in December. And so now we're together.
Starting point is 00:52:54 So my living expenses are a little bit less because we share the expenses. But that has also helped. But prior, all of this, it's just been me in the boys. And their dad and I, we share their expenses. Okay, so he doesn't pay me. I don't pay him. We share their expenses.
Starting point is 00:53:15 So what does fire mean to you? What was the finish line that you were shooting for? In terms of financially. So my goal was at the minimum to have 800K, and then I could lean fire or a barista fire, however we want to call that, right? but 900k would absolutely be possible for me to just not be too stressed about a side hustle or anything like that because again, I've been able to get my expenses reduced so low that I know that at any given time I could reduce them even more if I really needed to.
Starting point is 00:53:56 And so now I'm right in the middle of that. I'm right around 850K and I still plan on doing my workshops because that's what I love to do. I love to teach. I don't think I'll ever stop teaching. even though I'm resigning from my full-time job just because of some health issues that I experienced this year and some, I just realized that I don't need to continue to push myself so hard. When I look back at my childhood and all that I've overcome and all that I've been through mentally, it's difficult. And so I'm at an age now where I'm 41. and I need to really think more about my mental health and my stress levels and my anxiety.
Starting point is 00:54:42 And I want to focus on that. And so now that I've reached a financial point where I'm financially independent, and again, I can do workshops and sell my book or, you know, there's things I can do. I can teach adjunct if I wanted to. I don't have to be tied to a full-time position that can be very stressful, especially during COVID 2020, it was so stressful being a college professor. The students were not happy with online classes, and then you still have your boss who wants you to be the perfect teacher online.
Starting point is 00:55:15 And there's just so many things to be stressed and worried. And then I had the children home, and that made me all realize that life is so short. I've reached this independent stage in my life. It's time for me to do the things I really, really want to do and invest my time in. What I want to get to all this stuff and I love that. What mechanically did you set yourself up for with the transition to being fully fire? Like you said I built up a year long emergency reserve.
Starting point is 00:55:45 What was the position? Like you know, you had all this money in index funds. What was that position? Did you have the money half in, you know, tax deferred accounts and half in your brokerage account? Did you have cash? Was it really just all in stocks? And that was pretty much basically it, in addition. to the side hustles. What did the picture look like for you? Oh, yes. Excellent question.
Starting point is 00:56:06 Or does it look like for you? So it's majority in the 401k and the 457. That's where it's over half of it. And then I have a brokerage account that probably has the, so it's probably two thirds to one third. And so I will exhaust the brokerage account first because it's the, you know, the least tax efficient and since my expenses are low, I should do pretty good with selling my stocks and living from that way. And then I will exhaust the 457B because as Mindy mentioned earlier, you can use that money. As soon as you separate from your employer, you can start living off that money or, you know, it doesn't matter. You can just take the money, but you'll pay your tax, whatever tax bracket you're in. So again, with low expenses, I shouldn't pay a whole lot of.
Starting point is 00:56:58 of taxes that way. And then last, I'll tap into my, well, the other thing I'm going to mention is the Roth ladder. I do plan on doing the Roth ladder transitioning money from my traditional IRA over into my Roth IRA a little bit each year. I'll do that to start moving that money as well. But that's basically the structure of it. Love it. So we have Roth conversion ladder. We have the one-year emergency reserve. We've got the after-tax brokerage account. We've got the side-house. income. So you're really in a dangerous position here, it sounds like with this. Hey, I'm ready. I am ready. Well, and it's time for my sort of favorite quote. It used to be my favorite quote, but then COVID happened and it's not really the best anymore. But Joel from F-I-180 said, what's the
Starting point is 00:57:50 worst that can happen? My worst-case scenario was I go back and get a job. My worst-case scenario was everybody else's everyday life. So if you are in danger of running out of money, you're not going to go from I have $800,000 today to I have $0 tomorrow. You're going to see it and see it step down and oh, it's $800 now and oh, now it's up more. A Purple Life just tweeted a few weeks ago that she has more money than when she started a year ago or six months ago and she's been pulling from her retirement funds the whole time that she's been retired. So as you withdraw money, it still continues to grow more than when you started. And of course, past performance is not indicative of future gains, but you're not going to just be fine, fine, fine, drop off a cliff. You're going to have well an advance
Starting point is 00:58:43 notice if you need to go back to work. But again, you've got all these options. I am so excited for what the future holds for Lakeisha Simmons, who started off as an insecure little girl who wondered where, you know, where she was going to go. And I love that you're here now. Thank you. Let me just thank you both for having me on the show, just sharing everyday stories because we need to hear this. If I would not have heard several of the podcasts here, my journey right now would be very different. I may not even be here if I didn't have the 457. and if I hadn't heard Jamila and see that someone who looks like me who's also on the path, right? So sharing just these everyday stories is important for people to hear.
Starting point is 00:59:32 And so thank you for having me for me to just share my story. Yeah. Thank you for coming on. This was an amazing show. And your enthusiasm for this is just so infectious and contagious. Your results are incredible. And you've got so many, I'm just very excited to see where life takes. you know, over the next five, 10 years with this stuff because you've got every option in the
Starting point is 00:59:53 world. And it sounds like a pretty wonderful life and setup right now. So congratulations. Thank you. I couldn't be more, you know, I couldn't be more happy just basically because I'm able to spend time doing things I love. I have a nonprofit that I work with. And again, it's not only about just not having a job, but it's about spending your time on things you love. So if you have a job that you love, by all means, stick with it because you're already living the best life if you have that, right? So just make sure that your days that you're living are full of love and full of life and that you can truly enjoy them. Awesome. Yes, yes, yes, yes. Well, well, with that, I think that's a perfect segue into our famous four questions. These are the same four questions
Starting point is 01:00:44 that we ask all of our guests. And Mindy, would you like to kick us off? I would. Lakeisha, what is your favorite finance book? That's actually really hard because there's so many, but I have to go with quit like a millionaire. I have to go with that one. That's the number one that I recommend. But of course, your money or your life, if I can sneak in a second.
Starting point is 01:01:07 Oh, sure. You can do anything. You want this as your show. Yes, yes. Yes, but quit like a millionaire just because of the way that it's written is just layman's terms and it's very practical, like ABC, one, two, three, do this, do that. And it sounds like millennial revolution, Bryce and Christy, were very impactful to you,
Starting point is 01:01:25 especially in the early days of your journey as well. Absolutely. I actually started a book club, and that was one of the first books that we read in the book club. Oh, I'm going to make sure to share that with Bryce and Christie. They were on our episode 55 and episode 55 and a half talking about when they were on the episode, they're like, oh, yeah, we just casually mentioned that we just casually mentioned that we tested out our theory for three years before we retired and like, whoa.
Starting point is 01:01:53 And then they moved on to another topic and like, wait, wait, I want to talk about that. Like everything they said was so interesting and so like tested and good. It's not just theory. They went down every rabbit hole in the theory and built up a remarkably simple yet effective approach, which has now translated to. Yeah. The yield shield is just translated to it seems like direct impact on your life, Lakeisha, which is just awesome to see. Hands down. Yes. All right, what was your biggest money mistake? My biggest money mistake was going to college, graduating college, and just thinking that,
Starting point is 01:02:32 oh, miraculously, I'll just have plenty of money and not being dead and it'll just be here forever. And I'll want to work forever. That was my biggest money mistake, honestly, because thinking that, oh, I've got this degree and so now I can just work and I'll have money. No, you get laid off jobs sometimes or, you know, something you think is going to happen doesn't. And so you really have to be financially independent. And I just didn't go into life thinking like that. And I wish I would have done that. Nope, love it.
Starting point is 01:03:10 I think that's great advice. What is your best piece of advice for people who are just starting out? my best piece of advice for people just starting out is number one get you an excel spreadsheet together grab your pay stub and start at the top what was your gross income subtract each of those line items on your pay stub so you can see how much you're paying in taxes are you investing in tax deferred accounts how much is your health insurance these are things you need to know and to be aware of and see if there's any way you can reduce you. your cost. One of the things I did was went to a high deductible plan because that saved money every
Starting point is 01:03:50 month. And so look at every single line item in that budget and challenge yourself to say, do I need to be spending this amount? Is there a way I can reduce this and do it? And then if you don't like it, you could always go back. But test yourself and try. I get so many people who say, oh, I could never do that. Oh, I like my phone bill. I could never go to prepaid. It's just not any good. I've been on it for years. It's just fine. I don't have any issues with it. So just challenge yourself to try.
Starting point is 01:04:21 Try something different. Yes. Awesome. All right, Lakeisha, what is your favorite joke to tell at parties? Okay. Knock, knock. Who's there? Knock, knock.
Starting point is 01:04:35 Who's there? Well, I'm supposed to say orange. Sorry, knock knock. Who's there? Orange. Knock, knock. Orange, who? Knock, knock.
Starting point is 01:04:44 Who's there? Who's there? Banana. Aren't you glad I didn't say orange again? You can't help but to laugh, right? I love it. This reminds me of another fruit-related fruit joke. Do you know what Beethoven's favorite type of fruit is?
Starting point is 01:05:02 No. Banana-na-na-na. You can't help what to laugh. Sometimes these jokes make me laugh. they make Mindy a little melancholy. All right, what do people find out more about you, Lakeisha? Oh, I would love to connect. I loved hearing stories.
Starting point is 01:05:25 I love when people tell me their stories and what they're doing. You can find me on my website, Lakeisha Simmons.com. It's L-A-K-I-S-H-A Simmons. And there is another Dr. Lakeisha Simmons. So I'm Lakeisha L. Simmons. And, of course, I'm on social media at Dr. Kisha Simmons. And so that's where you get fine.
Starting point is 01:05:47 You just check out my website and send me a contact form. And let's talk. I love talking about fire and financial independence. All right. And we'll link to all of those and your book. Oh, sorry. Go ahead. I was going to say, what is your book called?
Starting point is 01:06:03 My book is the unlikely achieve her. And it's a workbook. It's action-oriented. So I go a little bit deeper into my story. Some things is hard for me to share without crying. I don't think we wanted tears on the podcast today. But there's some of that in the book. And then it's just a lot of encouragement.
Starting point is 01:06:18 And it's a workbook. So you work through a lot of different activities. And, of course, body language exercises and conflict resolutions and things like that. It's very practical. Hands on. The unlikely achieve her is available on Amazon.com. All right. And we will link to all of those, your social media accounts, your website, and the book
Starting point is 01:06:38 available on Amazon at biggerpockets.com slash money show 207. Thank you. Lakeisha, this was such a fun show. Thank you so much for sharing your story and for taking time out of your day to help other people hear that really, wherever you're starting, it is possible. You just have to put in a little bit of work. Yes. Thank you so much. Okay.
Starting point is 01:07:09 We'll talk to you soon. Thank you. Okay. Scott, that was awesome. I love her. What did you think? It was just a fantastic, incredible story. And I don't know. I love to, we got a glimpse of the background. And then the turbocharge of the complete all-out pivot when she discovers FI coinciding with the obviously, you know, horrible life event of a divorce with those kinds of things. The tough life event of a divorce that's going on. That, but then that and the transformation that occurs in a matter of months to jumpstart
Starting point is 01:07:49 the wealth building process and then to finish out the journey in four or five years as a single mom on one income, with a good income, but, but with this discipline and that kind of stuff, it's just a remarkable. And her enthusiasm and passion, what a fun show. What a fun show and what a great story. I did it and you can do it too. And here's, how I did it. And I started off with no advantages at all. And I still got there. And it is a fantastic episode. I'm so happy she had time to spend with us and share her story. If you would like to share your story or if you know somebody who has a great story, please encourage them to apply at biggerpockets.com slash guest. We love telling these stories. We really love sharing.
Starting point is 01:08:43 all of the different ways you can reach financial independence because we truly do believe that financial independence is attainable for everyone, no matter when or where you're starting. I have a question here before we get out because I know you sound like you're about to sign off. I was. One of our goals here at Bigger Pockets is to create one million millionaires. We want, or at least eight in that. You guys are the ones that are creating your own financial journeys. But we want to assist you in becoming a millionaire or close to it or financially free.
Starting point is 01:09:13 but specifically one million millionaires. And how can we, at Bigger Pockets, track towards this goal, at least directionally? We don't need to, like, see every penny of your net worth or whatever. But can you, could I crowdsource some ideas from the listeners here? And we'll put this in the Bigger Pockets Money Facebook group as well. But I would love to get some ideas on how best we can go about measuring directionally the impact that we might be contributing to in some small way, at least, to people's finances and their journey to financial freedom.
Starting point is 01:09:43 so that we have a measurable goal here. So if you have any ideas, please ping me at Scott at BiggerPockets.com, or we'll have a thread going in the BP Money Facebook group. You can respond there and ping to it on that one. And the Facebook group, if you are not a member yet, you should join us, is Facebook.com slash groups slash BP money. And we will talk to you there. Okay, Scott, should we get out of here?
Starting point is 01:10:06 Let's do it. From episode 207 of the Bigger Pockets Money podcast, she was Laikisha Simmons. He is Scott Trench, and I am Mindy Jensen, saying we're going to make like a bakery truck and haul buns.

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