BiggerPockets Money Podcast - The Financial Independence Step Most People Forget: Estate Planning
Episode Date: June 16, 2026Most people know they should have an estate plan, but keep putting it off. In this episode of the BiggerPockets Money podcast, Mindy Jensen and special guest Carl Jensen sit down with estate planning... attorney Skipton Reynolds to break down everything you need to know about wills, trusts, probate, beneficiary designations, powers of attorney, guardianship planning, and estate taxes. Whether you're a young adult, a parent, a high-net-worth investor, or someone pursuing financial independence, estate planning is one of the most important financial moves you'll ever make. Learn how to protect your assets, avoid costly probate mistakes, ensure your loved ones are cared for, and create a plan that reflects your wishes. Connect with Skipton Reynolds: Website: https://www.skiptonlaw.com/ To go beyond the podcast: Kick start your financial independence journey with our FREE financial resources - https://biggerpocketsmoney.com/ Subscribe on YouTube for even more content- www.youtube.com/biggerpocketsmoney Connect with us on social media to join the other BiggerPockets Money listeners - https://www.facebook.com/groups/BPMoney We believe financial independence is attainable for anyone no matter when or where you’re starting. Let’s get your financial house in order! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Most people spend years building wealth, investing for retirement, and working towards their
financial independence goal. But many overlook one of the most important details of a complete
financial plan, an estate plan. And Carl and I were guilty of that. We didn't build an estate
plan until our oldest daughter was 19. In this episode, we're going to discuss why you need an
estate plan and how to start the process to build yours today. Hello, hello, hello, and welcome
to the Bigger Pockets Money podcast. My name is Mindy Jensen, and as a special treat, I have Carl Jensen
with me today. Hello. That's it? Just hello? Yeah, that's it. Okay. I'm going to matter
a few words. There we go. I hope you're not. You're co-hosting this episode with me.
Today, we are joined by Skipton Reynolds, who is our actual estate planning attorney, and we are
excited to pick his brain on the topic of estate plans. So, without further ado, welcome Skip to
the Bigger Pockets Money podcast. Thank you so much for having me. I'm really looking forward to
joining you today. I am too. I have been planning this since we finished our estate plan at the
very, very beginning of this year. It took us about six to eight months to just figure out all the
things that we wanted in the estate plan. And I know why we never did it. But why do you think
most people ignore estate planning? I think there's lots of reasons. I think the number one,
reason is people don't want to think about not being as well as they are right now or dying,
frankly, you know, there are people that literally say, if I do an estate plan, I'll die. And so
then they don't do it. Hard part about that is, I can guarantee it's going to happen whether you've done
an estate plan or not. So you might as well do the state plan and get on with living, at least from
my perspective. Yeah, I'm going to say every single person on this call and listening to this episode
will be dead in the next 200 years.
I guarantee it.
So if we're all going to die,
then we need to start thinking about what we want to do with our money.
So let's say that something horrible happened to Carl or I or both of us
before we had signed our final papers with you.
What would have happened to our estate?
It kind of depends on a number of factors.
So, for example, if one of you had died,
and you own joint accounts or joint assets,
it would have been fairly straightforward.
But where you run into road bumps is we don't own everything jointly.
A lot of clients will say, oh, yeah, I own everything jointly.
And then I'm kind of a smart aleck.
And I'll say, well, do you have a retirement account?
Do you have life insurance?
And they'll say, yeah, I do.
And I said, is that a joint account?
And they'll be like, yeah, my spouse is on there as a beneficiary.
And I'm like, but it's not a joint account.
It's in your name, right?
And you guys probably talk about this.
But if you don't have a proper beneficiary on one of those accounts that is in one person's name,
or if you're a single person, for example, and you die, there is the possibility that it goes through probate.
And depending on your family structure or other factors, you may not control where that money ends up.
Just to be clear, I think a lot of people would assume, including me, that, hey, I'm married.
The beneficiary is automatically my partner, and that's not the case, is it?
So not necessarily, right?
We do think that. And I think it's why people say, oh, it's my money too, not realizing that whole
differentiation between joint ownership and say a beneficiary. But yeah, we just assume it's going to
go to my spouse or if we have kids, it's going to go to my kids kind of thing. And depending on your
family structure, depending on financial institutions, depending on the state you live in and their
law, it can considerably change the answer to that question because you didn't tell us where you
wanted it to go. Because when you die, let's say, without a will, or you die without beneficiaries
or a joint owner, you can potentially lose control. It's what we call dying intestate. I may know
a semblance of an answer, but I don't know the 100% answer. And just from my own personal perspective,
I want people to know the 100% answer, not the 90%. Okay, so I will share then a slightly different
version of this. I have a friend whose husband died all of a sudden, bicycle accident. And because they
didn't have a will, she received the first 300,000 of their net worth. And then the remainder
was split 75% to her and 25% to his parents because they didn't have children. That is not what they
had planned, and if they had had a will, that isn't what would have happened. If I look at that same
parameters, and this was five years ago, perhaps things have changed, but if I look at those same
parameters, there's a lot of money that would be going to, well, we have children. So then it would
go to our children, which I guess would be fine. I mean, that's where we wanted our money to go
after we passed. But would it go like the 75-25? So the answer is, it depends. It depends.
Great attorney answer, right? But the answer could be yes. And so in that scenario, that 25% of, you know,
yours or Carl's account or accounts that didn't have everything structured properly would not have
gone to one another. And maybe it went to your kids before you wanted it to. Or maybe they were
minors and now we've got to go set up guardianships and conservatorships for the money. And or
they get access to money. Let's say they're 18 plus here in Colorado. They're going to get
that money right away instantly. No rule books, no parameters. Hopefully they're a good steward of it.
And another kind of unfortunate ramification of that is it's not available for the surviving spouse
to get to their end, however long that might be, because it skipped them. Yeah, look at that.
As soon as you said that, I'm like, oh, we have, we have guard rails in place because should we
pass today, our children aren't getting the money instantly. They'll get enough to live off of and then
it'll kind of trickle down over time, I don't think that a 19-year-old and a 16-year-old are going
to be good stewards of money, you know, at one point, maybe when they're older.
Yeah, absolutely. And this is where, at least here in Colorado, the rules are kind of weird.
If you had died prior to the kids being 18, we set up a conservatorship that extends until
they're 21. But if they're 18, no conservatorship. So it's kind of like you can smoke cigarettes and
vote at 18, but you can't drink till you're 21. Just some of these rules don't align very nicely.
So, like, for example, in your scenario, one of the kids would get the money right away,
no guardrails. The other one would have some guardrails for a period of time, simply based on their
age at the time of your death, but you also may not get to pick those things, putting in the
context of your friend. Let's say they had a child that received some of this money, and he had
died without a will. Now there's no potential guardrails, and you don't necessarily,
get to pick who's going to be in charge. The court does. And the court could look at mom and say,
you know, mom, you're not very good with money or, you know, feels like there's some self-interest here or
whatever. And they could appoint a third party who knows nothing about the child, knows nothing
about the family. And dad has no control because he died. Okay. So the estate plan is for everybody,
because everybody's going to die. And therefore, you need an estate plan. However, I don't really think
that estate plans are for absolutely everyone. Like right now, I have a 19-year-old and a 16-year-old,
and they, neither one of them have an estate plan. Neither one of them have an estate, but they
will eventually. So at what point should you start thinking about an estate plan?
Long before we did, it took us 25 years. Sure, sure. It took us 53 years, 52 in your case.
Well, 25 after marriage, but... So to be funny here, before you adopt.
right but trying not to be funny realistically there's parts of an estate plan because I
think there's two sides to estate planning there's helping us while we're alive if we're not as
capable through things like powers of attorney but then there's things that do things after we
die like wills and trusts and beneficiary designations so realistically using the context
of your family scenario if you are 18 years old plus you might have a bank account
and you have medical needs, but you are now an adult.
And so your parents are not automatically in charge of those decisions if you have that car accident or other things.
So in my mind, they may not need fancy wills or trusts to your point, Mindy.
They may just need the powers of attorney.
So that way, if, you know, they have that car accident and they're out of commission for a period of time,
mom and or dad can step in and deal with their accounts, deal with the doctors, and make decisions on their behalf.
Okay, so our 19-year-old now needs a medical power of attorney and...
And a financial power of attorney.
Okay, so she needs two documents that are pretty easy to draw up.
Yeah, generally speaking.
Generally speaking.
Does our 16-year-old need anything?
She is not old enough yet.
So you can't do that stuff until you turn 18.
That's kind of the threshold there.
And honestly, just making a wide-ranging recommendation, I think every child 18 and up,
their parents need to make sure that they get these powers of attorney.
Because a parent's worst nightmare, I'll give you a real story that happened in our office,
where their daughter was at the University of Northern Colorado,
and she had an accident in the dorm.
I think she fell out of her bunk bed that she'd made.
She broke her arm.
Well, she's in the student clinic with the broken arm,
and they call mom and dad, but she's over 18.
And they say, we have your daughter here.
They say, well, can you tell us what happened?
They're like, we can't.
Because the daughter hadn't given them consent for whatever the reasons were.
Their drive from Denver all the way to Greeley, they're just panicking, right?
Your mind goes in a million different directions.
You know, what happened kind of thing?
And they show up and she just got a broken arm.
But had they had a power of attorney on file or a hippo release, it would have been a different experience.
Let's say it wasn't a broken arm.
Let's say she'd hit her head and she had a brain bleed and was in a temporary coma.
They would have had a very difficult time making medical decisions for their daughter
without going to an attorney like us to become their guardian.
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Okay, so it sounds like the time to start thinking about your estate plan is when you turn 18 or now.
Like if you are like Carl and I last December, you didn't have an estate plan.
And I don't want to make people feel bad, but I kind of want to make you like light a fire under you and get this going.
If you are on the path to financial independence, I am assuming you have some level of wealth.
If you're at the beginning of your path, you know, maybe you have a negative net worth.
But once you get a positive net worth, clearly even if you don't have any sort of net worth, you need to have at the very minimum, a power of attorney for medical and a power of attorney for financial.
But once you start growing your net worth, where is it going to go? Nobody plans to die, you know, walking out in front of a bus or, you know, getting into a car accident. It's an accident. It just, it happens. And if you don't have your plan in place, you have to go through probate. Probate is a bad word to everybody who doesn't know a state.
planning law, which is like the bulk of my audience. What happens in probate? Let's use Carl and I as an example.
We both pass and are no will. Now we would have to go through probate because we have kids or do we
skip it because we have kids? Really what probate is at kind of a 30,000 foot level. And obviously,
it's administered slightly different in different states. So obviously, if you're not in Colorado,
different states have different rules. In fact, there's I think still nine or 10 states that have some form of an
a state or inheritance tax. So if you live in a different state than Colorado, you might need to
be aware of your state's rules that way. But to your question, Mindy, is probate at a 30,000 foot view,
is how do I take somebody's name off of an asset after they've passed away if they don't have a joint
ownership with someone else with what we call right of survivorship or a beneficiary designation or have a
trust? If you don't meet one of those three and I die owning a bank account,
or my house, or my time share up in Breckenridge.
Those things will go through probate.
And what probate's trying to figure out is it wants to know who's in charge of the estate,
most commonly referred to as executor,
and it wants to know who are the beneficiaries of that estate.
That's what probate is trying to do.
And then it's the paperwork process of empowering that executor
to go and grab those assets that don't have joint owner, beneficiary, or trust ownership,
and grab them, pay off all the debts.
So there's an attorney I know that she kind of jokes.
You essentially are suing yourself for a creditor's benefit, right?
Because you're opening the case so they can come in and make a claim, right?
So credit cards and mortgages or whatever might be out there, other claims that might be against you.
Like in Colorado, we have to put something in the newspaper, notifying creditors that you've died so that they can call your executor and make their claim.
So it's just all of these formalities to essentially open it up to the world to come and grab money from your insurance.
state. And it's just so that they can grab those assets that got missed because your name is still on them without those other three things. And so my
analogy for it is, you remember back in school days when your math teacher'd say show your work and go through
every step of the process to get to the answer? That's probate in a nutshell. It's every step. If your
family's not fighting, it might not be awful. But it also opens the door for the fighting because maybe I don't
like it that this kid's the executor. I want to be the executor. Or mom told me I was going to get this.
All of those skeletons come out in the probate process. So I found you through Jenny Roselle,
who hosts the podcast called Legal Tea. I love that podcast. I love listening to, I'm not even a
probate attorney, but I love listening to all the different things that could go wrong in an estate
plan. And she has a list of elder and estate planning attorneys in all 50 states.
at legaltypodcast.com slash
C resources.
That's S-E-E-E-Resarses.
So if you live in a different state than Colorado,
we are primarily talking about Colorado law today
because Skip is a Colorado attorney
and Carl and I are Colorado residents.
But like he said,
laws may change in your state.
If you don't have an estate plan,
go to Legalty Podcast to the resources page,
find an estate attorney,
and start learning about the process
to get yourself
an estate plan because you are going to die again.
I keep saying that.
That's not a polite thing to say.
But everybody listening to this is going to die eventually.
So do you want somebody else to say where your money is going to go?
Or do you want your money to go where you want it to go?
I mean, I would be really upset if my money didn't go where I was wanting it to go.
And yet it still took us 53 years to get an estate plan in place.
I'm not 53 yet.
You are.
Oh, wow.
Well, and kind of circle all the way back to that point, Mindy, you'd ask the question in the very
beginning. You know, what are reasons why people don't do it? Obviously, afraid of death or not
thinking they're going to die anytime soon. Those are big reasons. But I also think life. Life happens.
Like, if you guys were to take an honest look, you had talked about doing this many years before we got
around to doing it. And then time goes by, right? You know, one month becomes one year, becomes five
years. And it's not because you didn't have the intention of doing it. You were just doing life,
right? Especially if you've got children, doing life makes life crazy. Every day is a sprint,
and then a week is gone. It's this weird dilemma of time, I feel like. One other thing I'll say
about that whole thing is, I think it's a lot more pleasant to do all this work when death is not
imminent to it feel a lot more macabre and depressing if I was doing this because you absolutely had
to do it because something has gone wrong. So, well, you don't like to put it.
ponder this kind of stuff. It feels good. I think I've got at least a couple of good decades left.
Yeah, well, I hope so. But also, yeah, I think that's a really good point. If one of us had had,
like, let's say, a terminal cancer diagnosis that would have made this, I mean, it was already
stressful enough doing this estate plan because I'm thinking about, well, eventually I will be
dead, even though I don't want to think about that. What am I going to, like, I don't want to think
that I'm not going to be there for my girls. But eventually, hopefully, they will be alive and I won't.
So I want my money to go to them.
And you actually asked us some pretty thought provoking questions, which was another reason why it took so long to do.
You know, do we want to leave money to anybody else?
I didn't think about that.
So we start going around the family tree.
And do we want to leave money to these people or those people?
And, you know, who do we want to be in charge of our estate?
And who do we want to?
We still have a minor daughter.
So who do we want to be her guardian?
Should we both pass at the same time?
One thing that I thought was really interesting was, okay, Mindy and Carl, you said, Mindy and Carl, one of you passes, the other one survives, and in a few years gets married.
How do you want your money to be handled in that case?
That's not something that I am thinking about at all sitting here in a happy marriage where, you know, we're in our early 50s, some of us earlier than others.
We're in our early 50s and we're not thinking about marrying anybody else.
yeah, I wouldn't want our hard work to be, to go to your new wife.
No, especially if you, well, there's those stories in the media like who's that.
We won't call names, but sometimes young people get married to old people because they have money.
Oh, you're going to marry a 26-year-old woman?
No, I wasn't saying that.
But some other people make those choices and it might happen to you too.
I don't know. You might. Yeah.
Yeah, no.
But to your point, Mindy, a lot of us just essentially.
assume, right? Even if you haven't done any estate plan, we assume it's just going to go to
each other if we're married. But have we been asked the question, even if you've gone through
estate planning, I think that sometimes it isn't asked. Because I mean, there's this thing called
the internet where you can go do a lot of this stuff for cheaper, right? But in my experience,
it's what you don't know that gets you in trouble. And it's those right questions to your point.
you know, I don't care how a client answers that question per se.
I just want to make sure they answer it.
Because if they never answer it, they never get to the right solution for their family.
And that's what our goal is, is to protect you, protect your family, and protect your assets
in the manner in which you want to during life and after death.
And if you aren't asked the right questions, you never get there.
I read something, I think it was this morning or yesterday, where it was pointing out
that you need to be very specific in your work.
will, let's say I pass and Carl remarries. And he and his wife have put it in their wills. Oh,
everything goes to the other person. Well, then Carl passes and his wife remains. She can change her
will to say, I'm just going to keep all this money or I have my own kids. All of what was our money
is now going to her kids that I've never even met before. And our kids get the shaft.
A hundred percent. And where you see this the most actually is not necessarily in debt. That
happens to like you're describing, but it's the blended family already. 50 plus percent of Americans
are divorced. Well, if you're coming to the party with his kids and her kids and you join your assets and you
leave it all to the surviving spouse, they can leave your kids out. I call those scenarios an accidental
on purpose disinheritance, right? Accidental by the individual who left it to their spouse expecting
them to keep it in place on purpose by the new spouse. So Carl and I have just created our estate
plan. How often should we be reviewing our estate plan? Are there any life events that should
trigger a review? Or like once Daphne turns 18, we're going to have to get her the powers of
attorney. But what about for us? You know, I think the biggest piece is there's three parts to an
estate plan in my book. There's number one, put in writing what you want. We'll trust whatever that
is. Part two is integrate your assets appropriately. So making sure all the beneficiaries are
designated correctly, et cetera. And then part three to your question is maintaining it. But it's
maintaining the documentation and the integration as we move forward. The kind of big triggers that I see
are somebody dies, obviously, right? Whether that's our spouse, that's a kid, or maybe that's just
somebody we've named in the documents, right, to be our power of attorney or executive of our will
or trustee. So that's one. Another is maybe like in your scenario, the kids aren't young anymore.
They're 30s. And now you want them in control of things instead of, say, other family members.
So that would be another trigger. Another trigger is somebody loses capacity that you've named in the
documents as a decision maker or beneficiary. Those are big ones. Grandchildren would be another one.
How do you want to care for them, if at all, in your planning?
Obviously, if you're a married couple and you don't have children yet, but then you have children or subsequent children, making sure that those are all put in.
But the asset piece is equally important because we move houses.
We change jobs and our 401Ks change.
We buy life insurances.
We do all of these things.
And the integration piece is actually where I see people miss the boat the most.
because they're just not thinking about it.
Like, for example, you guys have a trust.
If you buy a new property, we got to make sure that property is properly integrated into your
trust.
If you open up a new account, we got to make sure the beneficiaries on that new account align
with the trust.
And if they don't, you can have the perfect plan on paper and not full fulfillment of that
perfect plan.
And for our listeners, what is the difference between a will and a trust?
Great question.
So many people believe that if I have a.
will, I have avoided probing. And the attorney answer for that is it depends. Because a will actually
doesn't avoid probate itself. It just makes probate easier. So going back to my 30,000 foot view of
probate, how do we take somebody's name off an asset? And who's in charge of doing that and who
benefits? Well, we have those ingredients built into our will. So the will really just answers the questions
of the quiz called probate. It doesn't negate it. But it's your rulebook for
who's in charge and who gets it. What a trust does is those same things so it can create
your who's going to be in charge and who gets it and how, et cetera. But if we align the assets
right, it skips all the steps of probate. So I use the analogy earlier of probate being showing
all the steps in that math problem. The trust is I know the shortcut. I skip straight to the answer,
but the answer can be the same. So it's one of the reasons why so many folks, if they want
rule books for how they want to leave things to their family, choose the revocable trust because it gives
you the flexibility to make changes while you're alive. And it gives you the rulebook after death,
assuming the assets are right, outside of probing. Who needs a trust? I get that question a lot.
That's probably the number one question that we hear when people come to our workshops or they
come in and meet with us. Do I need a will or do I need a trust? And the answer, just being very honest,
is it really depends on the family scenario.
It depends on who are you leaving it to?
What are their ages?
What are their competencies with money in your eyes?
And I'm going to jump on my soapbox here for a second.
This is where it's a really interesting, I'll say, thought experiment from my perspective.
You know, especially those of us that have children, I've got two minor boys myself.
We do whatever we can once we have those children to advise them, to protect them,
to do whatever we can to make their lives better. We give them deposits to go by their first house
or go to college. We advise them how they need to invest their money and what job they should take,
etc. But a lot of people look at it that when we die, let's say they're adult children,
we'll just give them the money. We will stop protecting them. We're just going to give it to them.
And I find it a really interesting thought experiment that it's that black and white in so many people's
Why would we stop protecting our kids or allowing them to protect themselves potentially, assuming
their adults, when we die?
And that, in my view, legal view, is where trusts have real power.
Because I can set up protections for my kids to protect what I worked so hard for during my
life for them and my family only.
Not their divorces, not their creditors or their bankruptcies or bad financial mistakes that
they've made in the past or even after I've died. And that's where a trust really has power versus
just naming beneficiaries. But so many people put zero stock in this and they're like, you know what,
I'm dead anyway. I don't care. And I just find that a really interesting mind thing, that that's
how we look at life. Like, I'm not going to die. And when I die, I don't care because I'm dead anyway.
I still want to have a lot of control. Right. Or at least the ability to protect. Who knows what our
kids' lives are going to look like in the future. I'll give a real example. I got a referral from
another estate attorney, and the referral was actually the daughter calling on behalf of her 62-year-old
mom, and 62-year-old mom had had a stroke and was now going to need care for the rest of her life. But the day
before she had her stroke, her mother's aunt died in New York, and the aunt had just done beneficiary
designations to everybody. So it avoided probate, yay! But there was no ability to protect those assets.
So now they're exposed to the long-term care risk of this 62-year-old.
The day that the aunt died, everything was good.
The following day, everything changed.
And there was no plan for it.
And so that's really what an estate plan does from my perspective.
It creates contingencies and protections for these contingencies that maybe we can't
totally foresee at this time.
So a moment ago, I asked you how often people should be reviewing their estate plan.
And you said, you know, there are some.
life changes that could happen, you know, obviously a death or, you know, the birth of another
person. But you said if a beneficiary or somebody who's named in the will dies, you need to
review your documents. I don't know that that's always top of mind when somebody passes away.
So I'm going to encourage my listeners to make it part of your annual or quarterly money
review that you're doing either on your own or with your partner, where you're just reviewing
your beneficiaries, read through your estate plan.
Like, go ahead and, like, my, the document we got from Skip is like this thick.
But there's, like, it's very easy to go through and just pull out all the names.
These are the names of the people that are named in our will.
So that is a list that I can review every quarter with Carl when we're doing a quarterly
money review.
Like, I would hate to have named somebody and they pass and now their role is up in the air.
because I didn't review it.
I mean, what's the point of having control
if you're going to lose control
because you made a mistake?
100%. And one of the big mistakes
to your point, Mindy, that we see,
I've been fortunate I haven't had too many of these
in my office, but people get divorced
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on things like life insurance.
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not the new wife.
And obviously the new wife's a little steamed
that the ex-wife,
that the ex-wife got that benefit.
And it's simply because you fail to keep up with those kind of reviews as life changes occur.
That would not be fun to be the person to have to tell the current wife that the ex-wife is getting the money.
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They might be bumping up into that lifetime exemption limit, which is a great problem to have.
Oh, you have so much money now you have to pay taxes.
Is there anything that can be done like now or in their planning process to avoid pay?
some of those estate taxes that they get over the limit? Or is that limit like a hard and fast limit?
There's actually a lot of things they can do. I mean, we can talk about some of them, but one of the
easy things that you can do is you can build into your trust, say, for example, that if you are
at or near the threshold, so this year it's $15 million here in 2026 per person. So if you're a married
couple, it's 30, 15 for each. What we can do is build into that estate plan. Let's say you've
got a couple that's right now at 25. They're not over the 30, but they're over the 15. So what
you can do is build into the estate plan that when the first spouse dies, we clip that $15 million
coupon. And it goes down to what is often called a credit shelter trust. It's still for the
spouse and benefits the spouse, but it's locked in that exemption. And it can now grow to infinity
and never be included in the estate of the surviving spouse.
And so then in that $25 million, say we clipped a $15 million coupon,
now the survivor only has 10, but they have access to all 25 still.
And so there's things like that that can be done.
There's a concept, even without trust, called portability that's been around since 2011,
which is essentially the same thing.
But just being very honest, I don't trust the IRS to track that appropriately.
it would be better served to ensure that it happens by having it in your estate plan.
But then there's even other fancy stuff we can do.
There's trust called irrevocable life insurance trusts,
where families that have these big estates like that,
we'll go buy a giant life insurance policy and put it in this irrevocable trust,
and it's not a part of their estate.
So you've got a $5, $10 million life insurance policy that's not included in their estate,
and it can be used to make the estate larger for the kids down the,
the road, pay estate taxes if there were over the 30 million. So there's lots of fancy stuff that can be done.
I'm glad I asked that question. And if you need an estate attorney, again, please go to the
Legality podcast website, legalitypodcast.com slash the resources because that is how I found Skip.
I reached out to Jenny Roselle. I was like, I need to do my estate plan. She's like, yeah,
you do. Why don't you call Skip? And I called Skip, and it was fantastic. And I know, Jenny.
Yeah, you know, Jenny.
She's great.
She is great.
I had my friend pass away.
I read an article online somewhere about a woman who was going through a similar thing.
I've interviewed now two people who have lost their spouse with no estate plan in place.
I've had Jenny on the show talking about estate plans.
This is all well past last year that this happened.
And I still didn't do my estate plan.
So if you were listening to this episode and you're like, yeah, I should really do that.
Yeah, you should really do that.
You need to get your estate plan in place.
At least get something down so that not everything is up for grabs and then just refine it as you go.
But having something in place is better than having absolutely nothing in place.
A hundred percent.
I mean, we call it giving peace of mind, right?
You can stop worrying about what would happen if you die or become disabled because you've got it set up.
And now you can just get on with living.
Skip, I really appreciate your time helping us.
through our estate plan and also coming on and sharing with our audience today. If somebody is in
Colorado and looking to reach out to you, how can they get in touch with you? So there's a couple
different ways. Obviously, we've got a website. So our website, my real name is Skipton. So our firm name is
Skpton Law that's spelled S-K-I-P-T-O-N law. So you can go to skiptonlaw.com and we do educational
workshops in our office. So if you want to just come and meet us and you want to hear more about this
stuff and how it might pertain to your family and I tell funny stories and say stupid stuff,
you're welcome to come to that and we've got those on the website. But I also got a whole
bunch of other resources there as well. So that's one way. And the other is you can call her
office. And the phone number to our office is 720-440-2774. And you can call and come to one of those
workshops. We do them a couple times a month. Or if you just want to come in and meet us, you can do that
as well. Yeah, I went to your workshop first, and I found that supremely helpful. When I then went through
and answered all the questions that you had for us, you kind of explained everything that went through.
So, yeah, if you're in Colorado and you need an estate attorney, I cannot recommend Skip enough
and go through that workshop. It's free and it's super, super informative. Do you have anything else you want to
add? I think we're good. In our plan, do I get all of your stuff should you pass before me? Just asking for a
friend. I think I do probably. I don't recall. We're going to have to review our estate plan.
I don't want your car. Yeah. Oh, wow. Okay. No, I do believe that everything goes to you if I pass first and I get all of
your stuff if you pass first. All right. That was Skip Reynolds and that was a super fun episode.
I really enjoyed talking to him again and I'm really glad that my attorney was able to come on and have a chat with us
today. Skip said it depends on this episode and during the workshop that I attended quite a bit.
And while it can sound like a cop-out, it really does depend because your estate plan is specific to
you and your situation personally, coupled with the laws of your state. So if you don't have an
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