BiggerPockets Money Podcast - The Money Guys Help us Escape Our 401k Tax Trap
Episode Date: July 14, 2026In this special episode of the BiggerPockets Money Podcast, Mindy Jensen and her husband Carl head to The Money Guy Show studio for a comprehensive portfolio review with Brian Preston and Bo Hanson. A...fter years of maximizing traditional 401(k) contributions to reduce their tax bill, they've built substantial wealth, but now they're asking an important question: Have they fallen into the middle class trap? Together, they break down Mindy and Carl's investment portfolio, retirement accounts, tax strategy, and long-term financial plan to determine whether they're on the right path. Whether you're pursuing FIRE, planning for early retirement, or looking to optimize your portfolio, Brian and Bo share actionable advice to help you avoid costly financial mistakes and create lasting wealth. To go beyond the podcast: Kick start your financial independence journey with our FREE financial resources - https://biggerpocketsmoney.com/ Subscribe on YouTube for even more content- www.youtube.com/biggerpocketsmoney Connect with us on social media to join the other BiggerPockets Money listeners - https://www.facebook.com/groups/BPMoney Connect with The Money Guys: Website: moneyguy.com YouTube: youtube.com/c/MoneyGuyShow?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram: instagram.com/moneyguyshow We believe financial independence is attainable for anyone no matter when or where you’re starting. Let’s get your financial house in order! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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The reason we're here is because I never planned on this early retirement thing.
We just thought we would work until we're 65 and then this whole thing wouldn't be an issue.
Hello and welcome to the Bigger Pockets Money Podcast.
My name is Mindy Jensen and I'm in the Money Guy Show studios today with the money guys who are going to be helping Carl and I figure out how to get our way out of the middle class trap.
Brian Preston and Bo Hansen, otherwise known as the hosts of the Money Guy show, are both CFPs.
Brian is also a CPA and Bo is also a CFA, which is a bunch of letters that I'm throwing at you.
But what that means is they know taxes and investing and money and finances.
Carl and I find ourselves in a good but not so good situation.
We have discovered that we are in the middle class trap.
We've done everything right, but we were prioritizing current year tax reduction instead of thinking about RMDs down the road.
So we find ourselves sitting on a kind of big pile of money in a 401K, a traditional 401K.
So Brian and Bow are going to help us figure out a way to kind of access that cash.
I feel like your self-awareness is perfect.
I mean, because I was sitting here.
I mean, you guys know the situation you're in, it sounds like.
Well, and it's interesting.
I think so many people, you are describing it as a middle class trap.
And that is correct.
It is a trap that will be thought through.
But it's not a bad thing.
There's a lot of people out there when we kind of go through the numbers,
I'm like, holy cow, I would trade places with you guys.
But there are some things that with some strategic thinking and some strategic planning,
I think you're going to be able to solve for.
So it's not as perhaps dire as maybe it sounds,
but there are some things that you're going to be able to do.
And I don't think there are a lot of folks that are dissimilar to this.
They find themselves at the stage of life you are saying,
oh, wow, we have this ticking time bomb.
What are we going to do about it?
Well, and I think people aren't thinking 20 years ahead.
If I do nothing and the stock market returns, you know, the rule of 72.
Oh, yeah.
I could be facing incredibly large RMDs, required minimum distributions, where I am now paying a lot of taxes to the government.
And frankly, I'm a better steward of my money than the government is, so I don't want to do that.
I think that there are ways to pull money out of the 401K so that I can reduce my RMDs down the road.
Plus, we have two children.
And I don't want to leave them a pile of traditional money when I could leave them potentially a pile of Roth money.
It's way better to do it that way.
I want to hear more of y'all's story.
But I do think just because people go jump in and go, what's this trap that you are talking about?
And I consider it, you said the middle class, but I think it's more of an achiever's trap.
It's because you guys, in a lot of ways, every year, and we see this with prospects all the time, every year,
you all maximize to minimize taxes, but to help build and grow assets by owning stuff.
That is great, but it has created this potential tax issue for the future.
And then y'all are also getting squeezed probably on your liquidity to some degree, too.
But I want to hear before we get into, I just want to tease up some of the big overarching.
That's why I love that your self-awareness already, you kind of know, because you're living this.
You know what y'all are struggling through, even though it's kind of a blessing or a good problem to have.
But we want to know more about y'all's story so that people, when they watch this, can also figure out how they can apply this to their own life as well.
Because if I understand, Carl, you're retired. Is that right?
That is true.
Not a bad place to be.
Not a bad place to be. What were you doing in your previous life?
I was a software developer.
Software developer.
How long have you been retired now?
Oh, it was April of 2017.
So coming up on 10 years.
Wow.
Wow.
Retired for a decade.
For those out there that are thinking about retirement, how's it been?
Do you recommend it?
Oh, it's been great.
You have to work at retirement, just like you have to work at your job.
A great life just won't come to you.
You have to build it for yourself.
But it's fantastic.
I would not trade it for anything.
There's no amount of money that would make me go back to conventional work.
So I tell people I work harder than ever, but I do work on my own terms and it's things I really want to do.
Like, right now I'm building a house, and I just install a hydronic floor system and a water heater.
I love it.
Did you do it yourself?
I did.
While the house is being built, that's great.
Yeah, yeah, I did.
I'm putting up solar panels now because I'm cheap and don't want to pay a big electric bill.
All the state of centers are coming online, so I'm just going to nip that one in the butt.
So I do work.
I probably work harder than ever, right?
Oh, yeah.
I don't know how we ever had a time.
I don't like people telling me to work.
Just you, I guess.
You don't like that either.
I am curious because I noticed some of the big retirement accounts in your name.
So were those big earning years back before you retired?
Yeah, I was a software developer.
And then at the very end of my career, I was a contractor.
So I went from W to employment to a contractor.
They're like, hey, we want you to change the nature of your employment.
So you need to become a contractor.
I was doing consulting.
And they're like, well, we'll double your pace.
So I was making like $85,000 a year.
And they're like, we'll give you $85 an hour.
I'm like, okay, great.
So at that time, I'm like, let's really maximize these retirement accounts.
Let's go for the self-directed 401K, which we did.
end. We totally maxed that out. And I was subject to the, I think at the very end, I was subject to
the highly compensated employee. Yeah. But when you have your own thing, you can go up to, what is it,
like 55,000. You can do the 25% employer match. So we took advantage of all that. And because
I was the breadwinner, and we were fortunate that Mindy was able to stay home and raise the kids.
We just pile as much as we could in there. And I'll back up and say one thing. I think the
reason we're here is because I never planned on this early retirement thing. We just thought we would
working until we're 65, and then this whole thing wouldn't be an issue. And then I discovered
this all of their life. I'm like, I don't need to work until I'm 65 because we have the
money, but then all of a sudden the money's locked up till we're 50-9 and a half. Was it your choice?
I mean, did you choose? Because I have a lot of clients in technology, and unfortunately,
that industry is known for kind of helping you to.
Recommending retirement early. Yeah, recommending the exits sooner. It's a great, you know, lucrative while
you're in it, but then it does seem as you get grayer. They kind of show you the exits,
earlier than you anticipate. Did you get to choose when you left?
I did. I chose. I dodged a couple of bullets. My first job was with Sears, and we all know how that worked out. I was there for the downfall of that.
This catalogs coming off. Oh, my gosh.
That's my whole childhood Christmas time with circling Sears catalogs.
You could go in there buy underwear and a lawnmower, all into the same roof.
It was a great place, but unfortunately, they didn't evolve with modern times. Shopping malls went down the tubes.
But yeah, I never, I was always, I've got a lot of financial insecurity, which explains some of our net worth too.
So I'm like, we need to save, save, save.
All it turns out all that worrying and financial insecurity was for nothing because I never lost a job I left on my own.
And yeah, it's great.
So you've been retired for a decade.
How old are you right now?
I am 52.
52 years old.
And Mindy, how old are you?
I'm 53.
53.
And what does your retirement timeline look like?
How long before you enter into this face?
So I really love my jobs.
I host the Bigger Pockets Money podcast.
I get to talk about money in real estate all day long.
That's not a bad gig.
And I say all day long, I have pretty low hour commitments.
I probably work five or six hours a day, three days a week.
Oh, that's great.
And it's doing something that I love.
So I don't anticipate leaving that in the next 10 years.
I am a real estate agent.
I also really love helping people buy a house.
house. I think there's no shortage of real estate agents who aren't as good as me because they're just
kind of pushing people into a house. Oh, just buy it, just buy it. I really want to help somebody
find the house that works for them. I point out issues and like, hey, this is going to be hard
to sell when you go to sell it. So maybe let's not buy it in the first place kind of thing.
And again, I really like that. That is very low lift for me because I usually only work with one
client at a time. I probably sell 12 houses a year. I make a lot of money doing it. And I can just say,
no thank you when somebody comes up and wants to work with me and I'm busy.
From a lifestyle standpoint, you're still working, you plan on working for the next 10 years.
Does your income cover the lifestyle needs that you guys have or are y'all living off the
portfolio?
Like where, how are you paying for the bills right now?
Well, so outside of building a house, our, my income, my income, he makes, he makes some money
too.
How much do you make, sweetie?
Oh, like $500 a month.
Yeah, so that's, that's groceries.
Some groceries. No, our income covers way more than what we're spending outside of building the house. Building the house, you want to talk about where that money's coming from? Yeah. So as Mindy alluded to, our core expenses are pretty cheap. This beautiful hair, I cut it myself and Mindy cuts it myself.
Is that like a flowbee?
You got it yourself?
These good looks don't come from a fancy hair flight.
Our daily life is pretty frugal.
And we don't go out to eat a lot.
We cook.
So our taxes are cheap.
We own our cars.
So our daily life is pretty cheap.
But we do have a kid in school now.
And we decided to build a house, which is something I never thought we do.
But here we are.
That's almost done.
And that costs about a million dollars.
Are you a general contractor?
You're for yourself?
Did you do this work or did you all work with somebody?
Kind of sort of.
I'm like a co-general contractor.
Okay.
Yeah, I'm doing some of the big money items on there because I'm still pretty cheap and I don't want to pay someone $120,000 to install floor heat when I can do it for $20,000.
But we did outsource most of it.
So to back up a second, most of our life is pretty cheap except for when we do these big projects or when our kids decide to go to school.
Got it.
Yeah, because we didn't put any money in a $529.
And so to answer your question, her income is not covering, and my income, too, my $500 a month
is not covering tuition and the cost to build this house.
So income is covering living expenses and seems likely it'll do that for the next 10 years,
but for any big stuff, homes, travel, education, that's probably going to be portfolio
or some other source is where that's got to come from.
Yes.
Talk to us about, because you mentioned, y'all, one daughter, two daughters.
I mean, what do you all?
Two daughters.
And where are the ages and what stage of life are they in?
One is a sophomore, going into be a junior in her high school, and one is entering sophomore year
of college.
Oh, so you're in the front end of college.
Oh, we got, you got a college to pay for and then another college to pay for.
Yes, we have seven more years of college to pay.
I got caught up.
Junior in high school, just finished sophomore year of college?
No, starting sophomore year of college.
Oh, so.
Okay, so we got three years of college still, too.
Okay, rising sophomore.
seven years of school to pay.
Yeah, seven years. At least seven years
depending on what they do.
All right, awesome.
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Well, you guys are in a fantastic financial spot. You were kind of to share a net worth
statements. We thought we'd kind of look at where you guys are present. And you can see right now,
you guys are creeping right up on deck of millionaire status. Total net worth right now,
$9.8 million. And I thought it'd be helpful for us just kind of understand perhaps where some of
these assets came from. Because the very first thing that I noticed right off the bat is when I look at
cash on hand that you have, I see $70,000. And I just heard that we're building a million
house and we have all these other obligations. Kids in college. One of these does not,
something does not seem aligned right here. Walk us through what's going on here.
I would say we've always had a very, very aggressive risk profile. A friend told me that I should be in
bonds. I'm like, can you tell me about that? He's like, well, you must know about them. I'm like,
no, actually not. So we've always been very aggressive. That's why there's hardly anything in cash
and almost everything is in stocks and a lot of scary ones. I'll back up a second to say we're
big believers in index funds, but I didn't know. Are you, though? Well, no, no, because in a second,
we're going to talk about concentration. Our plan is, I want to look at a high level of your accounts,
but you were kind enough to even share what's inside of these accounts. And that was
for us, eye-opening. But before we get into like risk profile of the investments,
so you've never had a lot of cash. You've always been pretty lean on cash. So how are you
like you're building this million dollar house? How are you funding that? Or you have
tuition payments coming up. How are you got stroking the check for that? Are you selling assets and
creating liquidity? What's going on there? Ooh, you're going to love this. So to build a house,
we borrowed $400,000 from a friend. The friend who said I should be at bonds. He's like,
Oh, I get like four or five percent through bonds.
So I could get the same amount from you if you want a loan.
So we'll pay him off when we sell our current house.
And the rest, this is where it's really interesting, is a margin loan from Robin Hood against our post-tax portfolio.
Oh.
And that's $400,000 on the margin loan?
How much is on the margin line?
It's around $500 at this point.
$500,000 on the margin line.
Yeah.
All right.
And what's interest rate is built into that one?
I think it's 4.25%.
It's very competitive, but it is variable.
So if we see rates go up, that will go up.
The other thing I think we're going to do real quick is we're going to get a mortgage against this house.
I think it's 5.4%.
Yeah, something like that.
Like once it's finished, you're going to get traditional financing to clear off some of the debt.
Only for the outstanding portion, I'm assuming, just swapping.
Essentially that $500,000 on the margin, you just swap that for our primary.
Exactly.
I don't want to be like margin could be scary.
We did that once before and we almost got called out on it, even though I thought we were being very
conservative. We weren't conservative enough. And with rates going up, I'd rather be locked into
5.4%. Yeah, that was 2022 when the market had a really bad year. We had so much space in our
margin. So we borrowed. And then we watched our margin go down. And it gets to here. And I'm like,
we should probably get a helock on our house just in case we, because we had borrowed to buy the house
that was there.
And then we tore that down and we built it.
But we're getting real close.
So we get HELOC and we take some money out of the HELOC and throw it at the margin
to bring it back up.
Otherwise, it would have gone negative and they would have called us out.
Yeah.
And for those that don't know, if you do, if you don't have enough collateral inside the
investment account to substantiate the loan, they will do what's called a margin call.
Or they're going to say, hey, you've got to put some money in here.
Well, if you don't have any liquid it anywhere, you either have to sell assets to cover.
While they're down.
Because 2020 is not the best time to sell assets, or you've got to come up with capital somewhere.
So it is a useful tool, most often for like short-term borrowing, but very risky.
So I don't love hearing that it's there, but I love hearing that you have a plan for it to go away.
So it is kind of a short-term bridge right now.
And I don't mind, Sharon, when I wrote Millionaire Mission, the home equity lines, they are great on paper too, but sometimes stock markets get beat up at the same time that banks are getting squeezed.
I got a, because I thought I didn't keep any cash and I had access to cash was my brilliant scheme with a home equity line because I had six figures plus in a home equity line.
And then, of course, you know, in 2011, I think it was, I remember, I think it was 2011, May 4th of 2011, I got a note from the bank saying, hey, that home equity line that you value so much because your house has been crushed, we're going to freeze it.
Like no more access.
No more access, that checkbook, that debit card completely gone.
And I'm sitting there going, no.
I mean, this is my cash.
You know, this is all my emergency funds.
And I thought I was so smart.
And that's why I always, because both things that you're leaning on are what we consider access to cash, not cash.
I think it's because you're so disciplined.
When worse comes to worse, you can, you know, circle the wagons and y'all can make your spending so small that you feel like you're really not taking that much risk.
But the problem is, is that you have to be careful to where you least have real cash on hand
because things can happen.
When it rains, it pours typically.
So your stock market can get crushed.
The banks can write you a dear John letter on your home equity line.
Y'all are at the stage of life and success.
I want you to maximize, but let's also keep some liquidity just to keep you safe, too.
Well, it's not about how much you can make at this point anymore.
You've kind of already won the game.
For sure.
You've rounded third heading towards home.
now you've got to make sure you don't trip. You want to make sure you don't start showboating and gloating and end up getting yourself in trouble. It's more about how much you get to keep in your back pocket, not how much you get to add to your front pocket at this point. I really appreciate these comments because Mindy will tell you about this endlessly. But one of the things I struggle with is optimization in all parts of my life, especially money. And that's why we see there's no cash. My cash earns 3%. I think I can probably do a lot better than that with other things. But again, as you just said, we won the game.
There's no need to play these games anymore, although I still enjoy them.
Well, one of the things, people often think about optimization in terms of growth and accumulation.
There is also risk optimization.
And I would argue that you have not optimized for risk where you are in your current circumstance.
I mean, just look at your net worth.
Your cash holdings is a percentage of your net worth.
Is rounding error.
Negligible.
I mean, you see that that's a problem.
I mean, we're not even, what's that one, that's less than 1%.
Yeah.
I mean, we probably ought to have at least a few percent to cash.
I mean, just, you know, because.
Remember, he has all those bonds that are keeping and protected.
But we've turned our cash into a rounding error.
And that's not really that big of a safety net.
So I am a member of a group online called Long Angle.
I don't know if you've heard of them.
It's a closed forum for people who have a net worth, a minimum net worth of $3 million or more.
Okay.
And I went in there and I asked them, you know, how much cash do you keep?
because I was looking at these numbers too. I'm like, you know, $70,000 seems like a lot of cash.
We probably spend between $65,000 and $100,000 a year, not including kids school and not including
building a house. 70,000 is a whole year's worth of expenses. That's a lot of money to keep in cash.
And like he said, it's only making 3% when we can do so much better in the stock market.
And I asked in the long-angle group, how much cash are you guys keeping? Because it seems silly to, you know, have a
percentage of your net worth when that's your net worth. And they were saying around five percent
is what people, they did an annual poll of their members. And they said around five percent is what
people are keeping in cash on average. And I thought, that's a lot of money. But you're thinking in
terms, you're not thinking in terms of your net worth. You're thinking in terms of your spending.
And I keep hearing you bring it back to the grounding of, hey, that's a full years of our
spending. But whereas you have a blind spot to, no, it's not just the spending. It's the $35,000
for your daughters next year of college for the next three years. There's 70, I mean, if you think about
35,000 times three, we already have exceeded $100,000 just on her education. And by the way,
you got another one coming right down the pipe, probably $35,000 to $40,000 a year. So just right there,
we've told you that within the next three years, you have well into a hundred plus thousand
dollars of need that you'll have to. We got a house that's being built, that we have a $500,000
of debt that we have to, and you need to have margin to cover the underwriting period, you know,
when you're turning this into a loan.
Let me speak to the optimizers in you. We're going to talk about some tax planning in a moment
to help solve this trap that you have suggested. One of the things that you're going to need
in order to actually be able to implement that planning is having liquidity, which you don't have
right now. It's going to have to figure out how do we find liquidity to satisfy the necessary
mechanism to do some of that tax planning. But we're going to get there. We're going to get there.
I do want to say one more statement on cash, though, because I think it is a, look, and I was the
same way as I've shared is, you know, I was so leaned. I had no cash because I had home equity line.
The biggest surprise for me, as my wealth has exploded, is the superpower of cash,
when nobody else has cash.
Because some of my biggest opportunities that have changed my financial life is when I'm sitting.
And this is what I talk about the financial order of operations.
We'll talk about this more.
Step eight is when I like people to, and y'all are successful enough that you're definitely into this phase.
You should actually boost up cash, not because it's bad, but because it creates huge opportunities when others are struggling.
And I don't want you to be a miser and have all cash, but y'all are big enough now that that 5%, maybe even a little beyond 5%, that the next time things go ugly, you're going to be like pig and slop. It's so happy. You really are. I mean, you're just like, oh, my gosh, I can't believe I can get what for that? You know, and that's the most amazing thing in the world.
I think about how much different 2022 would have felt if you weren't thinking, oh, gosh, we got to go take money out of our home equity line to go pay on this margin call.
what if you're thinking, man, we have cash and capital, we could deploy at these unbelievably
attractive prices while everything's getting beaten.
The clarity of chaos, too, is because now when you're liquid in chaos, everybody else
is scrambling, and you're like, it's a superpower. It really is. And that's something,
now I don't want people out there hoarding cash because they're waiting for the night.
No, that's timing the market. But there is something, too, when you're in step eight of the
financial order of operations, is to be frothier after you've already taken care of, and
of a lot of your other financial foundations.
Think about Warren Buffett.
Why is everybody watching the airport, you know, the FBOs,
whenever the market goes down?
Because they want to know what airport, you know,
who's flying into Omaha to come to the feet to talk to Uncle Warren
for money because they know he's sitting on the cash.
I mean, there is something to that
when you're talking about the power of cash as a kind of a contra wealth builder
in a lot of ways.
Yeah, we actually encountered that back in 2011.
we saw, we don't want a 12,000 square foot house, but we saw one that had just been built,
and they're like, the first person to show up with $400,000 gets this thing.
And I'm like, we could buy this, hold on to it until all this, all these dark clouds pass
and sell it for $2 million.
But we didn't have $400,000.
We didn't have the cash.
And nobody else does either.
And we didn't want to be selling.
Yeah.
And then the townhouse in Breckenridge, $250,000.
That thing would be $2 million now.
But nope, no one to give us cash.
It gives you opportunity money.
It gives you the ability.
to capitalize on opportunities other people can't capitalize.
And nobody does it.
I mean, nobody has cash when we hit these horrible periods in the economy.
So you said that 5% or maybe even a little bit more sounds good for us and then you said
you don't want people to hoard.
You guys have you.
Because I was trying to create a teachable concept there, but you guys have some unique
things.
All of your stuff is highly appreciated.
Y'all have not only done a good job of minimizing taxes, but then even, you know,
in your after-tax assets, it's all highly appreciated assets. So anything and everything you
touch is going to create taxes now. So it's time to pay uncle. We have to figure out how we do this
in a strategic way. So I don't want to say, yeah, go to have five, six, seven percent cash. And
then like, well, how are you going to do that without generating a big tax bill? That creates a
friction cost that we got to get a little cute and creative with. I want to make sure understand
because right now, so we're showing the net worth here. But realistically, we got a $400,000
personal loan to a friend. We got another $500,000 margin loans. We got about $900,000. Any other debt
that we're not aware of, or is that it, just that $900,000? Our house now is worth about
a primary house, $800,000, and we owe like $280,000 on it. Okay. On a like 2.3% loan.
It's going to break my heart to sell that house. You're selling that house, right? We will sell
sell that house. And then I imagine that the equity from that house is going to pay off the personal
loan and you'll get traditional financing for the margin loan. Is that the idea?
We should be almost clear of debt once the one house sells and we move into the new house.
Yes.
And once we refy that house.
Yes.
Awesome.
All right.
So when we look at your account structure, I do notice what seems to be a little bit of redundancy in terms of accounts.
Like, Carl, you've got this 401K, but you also have this large roll over IRA.
Any reason why those two are not consolidated since you retired?
The 401K is a self-directed solo 401K?
Oh, so you're still participating and adding to that one.
Yes, yeah. And it holds some. We do want to close it eventually, but we have one more private company in there. So we'll have to wait until at least that company goes public or sells to dispose of that account.
So the idea is once that's done, potentially you do have, or once you stop working, stop earning, there's some consolidation that could have between those two accounts potentially.
Yes. Are you guys able to fund Roth IRAs every year based on income level?
Yeah, we could. We haven't been just because we've been using all our money for this house project.
So the past, this year and last year, we did not, but we have done a lot with Roths in the past.
One of those Roths is also a self-directed Roth, hence why there are multiple of them on there.
So most all Roth IRAs are quote-unquote self-direct.
You get to choose where you put it.
You get to choose the custodian is.
But I think you did some unique stuff inside of your Roths, right?
What did you do in the Ross?
Well, the regular Roth IRA, the $19,000 Roth IRA is, I don't even know what's in there.
Well, there's one, there's a one that says 285 and one that says 16,000.
She's saying hers is one.
Oh, okay.
The 109 is just like regular stocks.
The self-directed Roth IRA is a SpaceX holding.
Okay.
And we were able to get into SpaceX in that account into 2024.
Oh, wow.
And so when it recently went public.
It's been an exciting couple of weeks for you guys, right?
It has been an exciting couple of weeks.
When it went public, that's when it kind of exploded.
Carl was able to get into SpaceX in 2022 through his 401K.
That's a traditional 401K.
And when the opportunity came up again, I said,
is there any way we could put it into a Roth?
Because you put your risk in your Roth, right?
And I wanted that money to grow tax-free.
So we were able to do some financial monkey business to get that into the Roth IRA.
So when we look at 401K for Carl, a big chunk of that, SpaceX, and it's in a Roth?
No, that's a traditional 401K.
That's all pre-time.
My self-directed Roth IRA is, is that all SpaceX?
Yes, that one is completely SpaceX.
Okay, got it.
So there's some reasons why there are multiple accounts that haven't been consolidated,
because there were some unique things going on there.
Now, with the way that you were able to enter into your SpaceX exposure,
are there limitations on your ability to move and consolidate now that it's publicly traded?
There are lockup periods.
The first one comes up in August, so we will start receiving our shares there.
The last one comes up in December.
So between August and December, we will receive all of our shares.
But, Bo, as of right now, we cannot do a thing.
They're locked up.
They recently, because I know we had some clients who had also bought SpaceX through these.
Essentially, they were buying them from, you know, employees as they left these private investors
who realized they could put together these groups, help buy out the employees.
There was some grayness on how long, because I saw some disclosures that had come out post-IPO.
Now, they might have clarified this.
This has been a week or two since I got.
But the first thing that came out from the private company that we were dealing with for a few of our clients was we think we're going to be able to get you access at these points.
But there is a chance as we're getting clarification that we might be locked down in for a full 366, the first 366 days.
Have you all gotten a bunch of communication from these companies on which are windows?
Because it was gray initially.
Yeah.
But maybe they've clarified that.
Yeah, we have.
and I think I might know what you're referring to.
Certain employees and certain very early investors
have more restrictive shares
where they have to wait that full 365 days.
In our case, we will have access.
Okay, so you'll have access earlier.
Okay.
Yep.
Well, and so it's probably a decent,
once you begin to have access to these shares,
what are your thoughts?
Because, again, you were kind of,
not only sharing that worst at me,
you shared a sort of a breakdown
of what you have in your accounts.
And when we look at,
when we look at your liquid portfolio right now,
it's a touch under 7.
million dollars, and we look at the things that you actually own in there. We have nearly
four million dollars of SpaceX stocks and another $850,000 of Tesla, almost half a million
dollars of Facebook, Google in there, Amazon, there is this impulse space. I'm curious to
know what's impulse space? That's a privately held company right now. Oh, no, this is a really
good story. I'm a nerd. Feel free to cut this out. Thomas Mueller was SpaceX number one,
probably the most brilliant rocket scientists of our time.
He developed the original engines for SpaceX.
Unfortunately, he became an employee and not a co-owner because he was worried that the company
wouldn't succeed.
So he's only worth like, I don't know, 50 billion instead of whatever he would have been worth.
But anyway, he's going to be okay.
Thomas, if you need help with your money, come talk to the money guy.
That's right.
We'd love to talk to you.
He started it.
He left SpaceX.
He started a new company and I'll get real nerdy for just a second.
They'd bring stuff.
It's very easy to get stuff to low Earth or.
Very difficult to get stuff to higher Earth orbit.
You need like a triple core rocket.
I told you nerd time.
So this guy is deploying space tugboats.
SpaceX will launch something, get into a low Earth orbit,
and then his things in space bring it to a higher orbit in a matter of hours
instead of the year long it would take.
And yeah, we got in on the same round as Peter Thiel, which is pretty cool.
Awesome.
Wow.
And this was, yeah, this whole thing was a bet on Thomas Mueller as most of her investments.
Well, and you know something about making a bet on people.
because let me give you some.
Now, this is, I did some real back of the napkin math on some of this,
but your top five holdings are about 86% of, meaning individual holdings are 86% of your total liquid assets.
So when you said you were an index investor, we're not.
Y'all are pretty concentrated.
And then let me, let me blow your mind.
If you think 86% with your first five holdings, how about the fact that 70% of your total is all Elon?
I mean, between if you look at SpaceX and Tesla, I mean, you guys are like, you're ride or dying with Elon in a lot of cases, which, you know, it's been kind of a bumpy rod here in the last few years.
It has been a bumpy ride.
But, I mean, but incredible wealth building has happening.
Y'all have been actually the beneficiary of a lot of this.
But it is one of those things of I wanted to get y'all's temperature on is this?
Because obviously, you have somewhat of an emotional attachment to these investments, too, because.
because I can hear you telling the stories.
I mean, this is, you're probably setting a table at Thanksgiving for impulse space at this point because you just told that story.
You're pretty excited about it.
What's the actual, what do you want to do with these holdings?
Because you've got huge appreciation.
We've heard some of these are in Roth accounts.
Some of them are in after tax accounts.
Some of them are in 401K.
So you've got, you know, it's dealer's choice on account structure.
What are your ultimate goals for these individual holdings?
I feel, we feel stronger about some of them than others, but I would like to slowly get rid of them.
I am a big believer in index funds.
And where I was going with that was, we bought Tesla in 2012.
For other people.
SpaceX was, our Facebook was 2012.
Google, I was a computer nerd.
So we bought that company in IPO in August 2004.
Wow.
Yeah, 85 bucks to 15,000 if you don't account for splits.
But, yeah, just luck.
I didn't run numbers or anything like that.
But anyway.
But hold on, hold on.
Because I say this all the time.
If you were going to invest in individual stocks, you need to be doing a ton of research on that individual stock because you're going to lose.
Like most people are going to choose something.
I mean, he had a loser stock once.
Once.
Carl's got a pretty good track record.
I'm about to say right.
Carl's got a pretty good track record.
I would like to say that I suggested Berkshire and Costco.
Okay.
Thank you very much.
They're, you know, at the.
bottom, but they're still like, they're not worth seven figures like Carl's picks are.
You know, if you want to keep track with actual numbers, Carl is a little more successful at picking
stocks than I am. But he also, I think he's downplaying. He reads tech news all day long.
He reads, I mean, ask him anything about Tesla or SpaceX. He's done a ton of research. And our Tesla stock
was from 2012. Right. When some random dude with a funny name was going to make electric.
cars. And back then, electric cars weren't cool. They weren't sexy. They were just like a pain in the
butt because there was nowhere to charge it and they got like 40 miles of range and that was it.
And this guy came out with, I don't know if you know this, but sometimes he makes grand
declarations. I'm going to change the world. Does he really? But he said he was going to put
full electric cars on the road. Did he say he was going to make them self-driving back then?
It wasn't back then. It was a little bit later on. Yeah. So and Carl once.
the earth to continue to rotate and, you know, let's get off fossil fuels and all of that.
Sure, I'll throw some money at that. How much money do we have in Tesla? How much did it cost us
to get that Tesla stock? Can I have a guess? Yes. I bet you put less than $10,000 into it.
Yeah, I think it was about $2,000. It was $2 a share. It's wild. And where I was going with this is I
discovered index funds in 2014, and that was after we had invested in most of these. So now,
when we do get money almost all that goes to index funds.
And that's a question we were going to ask is essentially what's happened is you guys have some winning lottery tickets here, right?
You took a big bet.
You took a risk.
Those risks have obviously paid off up until this point.
The question is, what do you do moving forward?
Especially as you're thinking about, I'm not going to say derisking because you're going to perceive that as being suboptimal, optimizing for risk-adjusted nature.
Thank you.
So when we optimize for risk, I do think probably one of the things, because you guys do guys do.
have index funds. You have another $1.7 million across various index funds. And all of these
index funds happen to own a lot of the same companies that we just went through. But this is at least
more broadly diversified than your other holding. And so what we'd love to see is as you guys
age and as you move into retirement, now that you've kind of got this very healthy portfolio,
how do you build a portfolio that doesn't just focus on capital accumulation, but also has some
sort of idea around long-term capital preservation. Why take more risk than absolutely necessary?
Yeah. I think the one thing we have the luxury of doing is because so much is in the 401k accounts,
we could get rid of those holdings, move to bonds or VTI and not have any tax consequence.
So just one thing. But I would like to get at some of the money so we could actually use it
sooner than later too or start being tax efficient. I don't want a $2 million arm D in 22 years.
Well, what I was nervous, you were going to say was that you love having these holdings so much that you didn't want to sell.
Because, look, I get it.
I mean, especially when you make a $2,000 or $3,000 investment.
And I bet you've done.
I mean, we could do that with the Google investment or even the meta, you know, with Facebook.
Because you guys hit them right as they came up.
And then you just held them.
I mean, you've permanent portfolioed these things until they've created huge success for you.
But what I was worried is you would say, I want to really keep these holdings because I really believe them, these brands.
But, and we were, we had kind of talked about this beforehand and is that there's nothing that says that you couldn't, if you had said that, liquidated in the taxable form so we can actually have access. And then you can go move things around in any other retirement accounts and not pay taxes. But, but I actually like hearing. It's the preferred answer is that, yes, these have created tremendous success. But I'm okay if we start diversifying our capital structure so that we can, you know, have access to this money and kind of optimize.
from a risk standpoint, what we've got going on as well.
So you did even better than what I was worried that you were going to be locked in on
because we see it all the time.
Yeah, thank you for saying that.
These companies are near and dear to my heart.
You can tell them I'm obsessed with some of this tech.
But I think going on a nice trip, like we're taking our kids on a trip to Japan.
And going on a trip to Japan with our children, sounds like more fun than owning Tesla or SpaceX.
I love that.
That's the reason why we build the wealth is so we can actually use it.
to do the things we want to do and have the experiences we care about with the people we care about.
And you guys have obviously done that. Now you're at that stage where you get to enjoy some of that stuff.
But that doesn't mean you have to walk away from optimization altogether because you've already said,
hey, we've got this problem, right? And fortunately, we have software, we're able to kind of model out this problem for you.
So what we looked at is based on where you guys are now, your retirement is no longer pass fail.
It's no longer, are we going to have enough to be able to retire? Are we going to be able to be
financially independent? I think we've already answered that question in spades. Now it becomes,
how do we optimize and make sure that we're making the right decisions early enough that it can
have a meaningful impact over the long term? So what you can see on the screen every year,
this is just a projection of based on the living expenses you share with us, portfolios you shared
with us, what we anticipate basically your tax return looking like every year. Each one of these blue bars
is like an active tax, your active tax base that you'd be paying tax on.
Now, we didn't know about what your working life was going to look like over the next
couple years.
We just made some assumptions.
Like, okay, if we're owning a decent amount, we said for five years and that goes away,
really all of your income turns into capital income from the portfolio.
For a lot of folks, depending on how your portfolio is structured, a lot of people pay zero percent
capital gains taxes right in the early years of they retire.
So your tax bill kind of goes next to nil.
if your portfolio is structured correctly.
And that would work wonderfully.
And you guys could retire and you could live off of your brokerage assets.
You could begin, you know, selling at 0% cap gains, generating some capital so that you
can pay for the things you want to pay for.
But eventually that becomes exhausted and you would have to start pulling off of your
retirement assets at some point.
But what really gets you guys is right there in your mid-70s.
Right there in your mid-70s, because your qualified accounts are so long,
You're going to have these huge RMDs that are going to take place.
And we actually went and looked at the number in nominal dollars, your RMD based,
and we did like a very conservative, I think six and a half percent rate of return,
like very, very conservative.
It's going to like $850,000, year one of your first RMD, I think, was 2049.
$840,000 of income, you'd have to recognize that you may or may not want to recognize.
And what that's going to do is going to now jump you into the highest tax bracket.
You're going to go through the 24% bracket, 32% bracket, and ultimately you're going to even
into the 37% bracket under current tax code.
So we said, okay, there's no point in all this tax deferred savings you guys have done your
entire life to try not to pay taxes to only spend the last 20, 30 years of your life
paying way more taxes than you want, right?
So one of the ways that we think about helping clients figure out how they pay less taxes
over the lifetime is what strategies are available to begin minimizing that lifetime tax bill.
And for most of our early retirees who retire before a pension kicks in and before social
security starts, before we have to do RMDs, Roth conversions are a great solution that might
be available to you. And we just said, if all we did for you categorically was let's just think
about maxing out the 22% tax bracket. Now, there's an argument we made we could go up to 24 and
max that out. We just max out the 22% bracket. What does that look like?
conceptually. And if we started doing that this year, and we did it all the way until you got to
age 75 or got to RMD age, what does that change about the plan? Well, now you can see you never
actually cross into those 30 plus percent tax brackets. You never actually have that tax bomb
take off because you're converting so much of your pre-tax assets to Roth. Well, if you run this
through the scenario and you look at what does this mean tactically for you guys, if you were able to
implement this, you're able to convert all of those pre-tax assets or a lot of those pre-tax assets,
your required minimum distribution, and the first full year you had them goes from like a
$850,000 distribution to like a $300,000 distribution. It's like a $500,000 annual income
offset because now you've shifted them to Roth. And what you can see is by doing this,
at the end of your plan, when you guys leave this earth, and we just use age 95,
is our mortality assumption, it actually adds almost $3 million in present value dollars to what your
kids would inherit one day. Because now you've paid tax at lower rates, they've grown tax free,
and your cumulative tax bill drops by over $1.1 million in present value dollars by doing this
Roth conversion strategy. So when we look at this, it seems like a slam dunk, right? Right?
Yeah, that was great.
The legacy factor is huge because your kids, because you know, with the new, you know, with the
new updated beneficiary rules, 10 years is what you get to continue to let the assets grow
after your passing. So they inherit Roth assets, and then they can grow for 10 years if they
so choose to optimize. I imagine I've probably instilled a lot of these behaviors in them as well.
But it is, it's just a huge legacy win, too, because when they inherit a 401K, now they have
these inherited IRAs that they would have to take distributions off of life expectancies.
as well, whereas this lets them say, hey, how do we use these assets, but also optimize
these assets from a tax planning standpoint. It's a pretty cool win.
Okay. And from a selfish standpoint, if we convert to a Roth, and for your audience, too,
we can use the money after five years, right, the money we move over. So, yes, technically you can,
but I'm telling you, everybody who once you get big Roth assets, you hold them like Gallum.
And, you know, you did, it's just so hard to use Roth assets because you just know how powerful that growth is.
That's where your tax nerdiness, maybe it's, I just know when we plan it.
That's why I'm always amazed when we, when we do deal with like Coast Fire and others, everybody's like, well, I'll just use my Roth first to bridge me.
I'm like, you think you will, but you're probably not going to want to burn through all those.
Because that's just from a legacy standpoint.
Now, look, I know y'all also have the Die with Zero type.
mentality. And we'll talk about that too, because I think there's some better assets that you can gift,
especially with the zero percent capital gains. While you're, you know, assuming your girls have
lower taxes, there's some ways you can make gifts maximize their lack of income to give some of these
highly appreciated assets that's so much better than just giving, you know, burning through your Roth assets.
Yeah, I would like to leave them as much Roth money as possible and to get it out of the 401K.
as soon as possible so that it can be in the Roth.
The only issue is we, you alluded to this earlier,
we have a liquidity problem,
and we don't have the money to pay the taxes.
I mean, we have the money to pay the taxes,
but we have to find it somewhere.
So doing a Roth conversion at our age,
we have to pay those taxes next year.
Right.
If we Roth convert.
How do we do that?
Yeah, so one of the things that we think is important,
whenever we do a Roth conversion analysis, we always set out like best laid plans.
Like, hey, our strategy, our goal is going to be to convert it this bracket, whether it's 22% or 24%.
But what happens in reality, even though we lay out this like playbook of what we want to have
happen, in practice, the way it actually manifests is that every single year, it's a year-by-year
decision based on the unique things that go in this year.
Maybe in one year you sell 10 houses instead of 12 houses.
Maybe it's a 20-22.
We were able to harvest a lot of capital losses.
There's no capital income.
What we do for our clients, and this is like what we get to do, like for our day jobs,
is every year towards the end of the year on October, November, we'll actually do an analysis
of where your income is for that year, and you begin doing tax projections to figure out how much
could you convert in reality and what would the associated tax bill pay for, and then how do you pay
for it?
For you guys, we wanted to put together an illustration, just kind of give you an idea of what that
tax bill could look like under this scenario, but the numbers would change.
And so we just picked a random five-year period.
I say random. We assume that you worked for five more years and then you retired, right? So from
20131 to 2035, if you did nothing, you had no other income coming in and all of your income was
strictly capital income and it was structured in a way that you weren't generating tons of capital gains
or tons of dividend income, you're going to have a relatively muted tax bill. It's just not going
to be a super large tax burden for you guys. And so our goal was to then convert at the 22%
bracket for you guys, that would mean about a $21,000,000 conversion.
every single year, roughly, obviously it changes every year based on your income. But the associated
tax bill due on that would increase by about $60,000. Right. So your effective tax rate on that
income, because a lot of your income is going to be capital gains income at 0%, you run through that
and then you have 15. You're still not even hitting an effective tax rate of greater than 20%.
So it makes tons of sense. What you have to figure out with is figure out is when you get to 23rd
to 1, how do you begin paying that tax bill? How do you begin doing that $60,000?
I'm going to argue that right now while you're still earning, if you're a higher income earner
and you look at your taxes and there's not a ton of room to convert, I don't know that converting
in these years are the years that make the most sense.
What likely is going to make the most sense is when your earnings drop or in specific down
years where you do have low income years, and you begin doing that from now out until age
75 or 73, whatever age your RMDs have to start. Does that make sense?
That makes sense.
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Again, high income, and we get people love Roth.
They love Roth.
We always remind them you're likely going to have better opportunities in the future to
convert to Roth than these current years if you're a higher tax earner.
Now, if you have the thought process that I'm always going to be a high earner or tax rates
are going to meaningfully go up within the next one, two, three administrations, then there's
an argument even made for that.
Maybe you could look at, okay, we're going to earn income at this level.
and then we'll convert up to 24, and we're going to be comfortable with that.
But if you begin doing that, you have one of two options to satisfy the tax bill.
You either have to start saving up cash from your earnings every year to be able to pay the tax bill,
or you have to start slowly divesting out of your taxable brokerage assets and begin using those to pay whatever the associated tax bill would be.
Also going to be kind of hard to do in a year that you're paying for a bunch of college in in a year that you're building a million dollar house.
But to bring it to a simpler form just to understand is that I think you have to, you guys need to go ahead and start playing the mind game with yourself is I have to get comfortable that we're going to just have to pay capital gains on some of these after tax assets because it's going to, I mean, it's the easiest, lowest cost access to capital because it's 15% on a married couple with y'all's income.
that's a pretty low bar, if you think, from a tax standpoint.
You've won a lot of this.
You just have to kind of know that's the toll you have to pay to get access to this liquidity.
And I think that that's okay, because I know y'all had asked that, you know, when we were trading emails,
you'd asked about 72T and some other things like that.
And those concepts are powerful.
Did you have a thought process?
What were you guys thinking when you brought up 72T?
Just access to the 401K.
It's a taxable access, but it's not a thought process.
penalized access? Because I don't like to pay taxes. I super don't like to pay penalties.
Sure. So I don't want to just pull money out of the 401K, but it's a way to generate a little
bit of income because we do have that liquidity problem this year, a way to generate income
and take money out of the 401k that isn't a Roth conversion because the Roth conversion,
we can't access for five years and we have to pay taxes on that. That's the opposite of helping
us with our liquidity problem. But your ordinary income tax rates, plus you're earned while you're still
working because that's more unlikely if you did something like this on on carl's assets because he's
retired you're still working it's such a higher barrier about you know the higher tax rate whereas
these capital gains are going to be higher than capital gains because you're already you're earning
money as well so it's going to run you through the tables or at least the capital gains i mean
you don't get into the 20% tax bracket until y'all's combined income is around 600,000 dollars
so it would be 15 now that look there's the medicare surcharge and other things i'm
I'm oversimplifying this to a degree, but it is still lowest cost of access to capital.
And that's kind of where you have to go through the triage of thought matrix of how am I going to get access to money.
That's the easiest area to probably do it.
Yeah, we talk about, you know, we use the financial order of operations as a mechanism to help you think about how you accumulate.
Well, when you begin decumulating, you kind of pull money out in the reverse order that you put money in most often.
So for most folks, the first money they ever save is the Roth money because they open up a Roth IRA when they're young or whatever.
That's probably the last money you want to pull out in the accumulation.
The second money that people start putting in is their 401K.
I started max out my 401k, getting my employer match.
That's probably going to be the second money that you want to pull out in retirement.
And the last money that most people often put in are the taxable brokerage assets,
one sort of savings mechanism or have an opportunity to do that.
That's generally the first bucket you want to pull from.
And I think that's going to be true for you guys, even though.
capital gains are present, because capital gains tax rates are going to be lower than whatever
your 72T tax rates are going to be. While it does give you access to that, I'm going to argue,
rather than pulling those assets out early and paying the tax and uncaptivating from this tax
incentive by structure, you'd rather use taxable assets, preserve those tax deferred assets
that you can then convert to Roth when your income does go lower because you're going to love having
those Roth assets later on. Yeah, that's a good point. And a lot of the stuff I would like to
get rid of is in our brokerage account too. So that just makes a lot of sense. And it's also not an all
or nothing because you guys do not seem like you have anxiety around selling these things. But a lot of
folks do. They're like, oh, I can't sell SpaceX now. It's going to do this. Or I can't sell Tesla now.
It's going to do this. Whenever there's a motion in a decision, we try to remove emotion as much as we can
by adding a system. And for us, the system, even when there's like highly concentrated,
highly appreciated positions is something like a dollar cost divesting strategy. Same way that we would put
cash to work, hey, we're going to sell $10,000 a quarter, every quarter of this stock,
and we're going to do it an automated basis. So that way, whether the stock is going up or down,
we're not having to time it to figure out, okay, is now the right time to sell or not the right
time to sell? You kind of cover all your bases. That's interesting that you say it like that.
I've never heard dollar cost averaging for the withdrawal as well. But I mean, I talk about the dollar
cost averaging into it.
Automate it and then you don't have to, like, you've made the decision once.
That's the exact same thing.
Because people sometimes need to take the emotion out of buying because they're worried
that they're buying at the worst time or so forth.
This is the exact same thing just in reverse order.
We're taking the emotion out of you guys feeling like when's the best time to sell.
Let's do it in a systematic way.
So now it's not a human.
It's more of an automated process.
Yeah.
And we've made the decision to sell one.
time and you set it up and it just happens.
That's right.
Can you do that?
Yeah.
I think Brian hit on something important a while ago and to back up a second.
We were always like, I had healthy income as a software developer, but we were super cheap
and super frugal.
So we just minimized our taxes so much.
We hardly paid anything because we would max out our self-directed 401K.
So my struggle, perhaps my biggest one and perhaps I need a therapist instead of a CFP is
just to get over the pain taxes thing.
Exactly. I've got a friend who works for Sandisk, and he told me he's got to like he's going to have a $500,000 tax bill. He's got to write a check to Uncle Sam. And that made it a little bit easier because ours won't be anywhere near that. But it's still a struggle. Like we spent so many years absolutely minimizing that. And now we're going to have to pay up and it's going to be okay.
Well, I still think you're going to minimize it. Right. You're still like obviously in your highest earning years, if you were trying to do some of the stuff, you might your capital gains rates might have been 23.8 percent, right? It would have been there. But you are still paying taxes.
but you want to pay as little tax as possible in the sense that makes the most sense, right?
And you're still going to be able to do that.
I'm going to challenge you all from a mindset standpoint is because all the things that have rewarded you in the past,
to some degree you have to rewire or reprogram.
You were rewarded for being as minimalistic as possible.
But, you know, and I love that y'all gave me the notes that y'all, y'all have read the book,
die with zero.
And look, I pick on that because a lot of people, I love.
the concept, but a lot of people, it makes some assumptions you have to be high income and
you can go grab capital very, or make capital very easily. And for most Americans, that's
just not the case. You know, the ability to turn on and off how much money you make. You guys
can. You've already won the game. So I do agree with the die with zero for you guys to challenge
you is that because you've got to think about the fact that you have your time, which is diminishing
for you guys. I'm the same age as y'all. So I understand.
I was like sick burn, bro.
I deal with this.
Success at this age is unique because you still feel so healthy and so good, but you also know where you are from a chronological.
So time is, you know, is a limited resource.
Your energy, how well you can go and do activities and things like that is also, as you found out as soon as you were talking, like, holy cow, I don't have time to do work because I'm so busy.
And then you've got your wealth.
the one that's probably of the three that's the most valuable to you guys is the two that I just
mentioned. It's your time and then the energy to go live your best life. So don't think in terms of
maximizing or minimizing the taxes, maximize life because you've won the game. We still can do it
in a strategic way that does it well, but I want you to live your best life. Because I think
you'll say on paper you have a die with zero mentality, but when I look at how you're
structured. It's more of, hey, how do I keep from paying uncle taxes? And those two don't
coexist when you're in the consumption side of your life. I mean, because you are. This is the,
my favorite clients is because I see it. And I am a therapist in some ways. I'm not licensed and I'm
not trained. It's more of on the street training. But it's, um, most people who are really successful,
you've been rewarded for being so good with how you allocate capital that when it comes time to
actually start, you've been rewarded to build that capital. When it comes time to consume the
capital, you lose your mind a little bit because you're just not used to it. You don't know how
you feel guilty, you feel weird. And that's what I have to, part of our job is to basically
hammer you on why, no, focus on the energy, focus on the time and the diminishing capability
you have with that so that you can live your best life. We get to tell people, it's okay
to do things that doesn't naturally feel like, hey, it's okay to spend money.
Hey, it's okay to have a bunch of money in cash.
Hey, it's okay to pay taxes when it makes sense to pay taxes, even though it grinds against
builder's natural inclination.
Well, I mean, y'all know because when I was watching, I love personal finance content, too.
And before we were all doing the podcast and YouTube and stuff, there was Susie Ormond
out there, you know, in her nightly show.
And they would have that segment where people would say, can I do this?
And we all loved hearing it go, no, you know, because that's what, that's the whole segment
was just her killing dreams, you know.
And what's funny is that once you do this for a living, you realize my job is actually just the opposite.
I think people think a financial planner is going to tell you no.
We're actually like, please go do this because I'm going to show you statistically why your chance of success is still like pegged at 95 plus percent.
Let's go do more.
You'll just have to free your mind to feel okay with that.
That's the problem that we're having.
That's the achievers trap.
is just you, you can't, you've been rewarded for building to consume hurts. And that's what I do like,
that's where I do like the Die with Zero mentality for successful people is you have to figure out
how you create the balance on that. Yeah. With Die with Zero, it's more like we want to do experiences
and with our kids and, you know, maybe buy them a house when they're 30. Sure. As opposed to
leaving them a giant pile of cash when they're 65. I like 50 year olds reading that book. I don't like 20 and 30 year
old's reading that because that's the problem is that when you're 20 and 30, you probably more than
most Americans anyway. Now, look, I was somewhat miserly in my 20s and 30s, but now I'm looking
at my life and I'm like, thank goodness I was kind of miserly because that's where I'm getting
the dividends of my money working harder than I do in a lot of aspects. But to tell that to a 20, 30 year
old is probably the wrong message at that stage of life. Yeah. And it's even, you know,
DiW is one of the things they say is, hey, we want to be able to use the money now. I want to be able to see
the money get used now. I want to be able to help our kids. You guys are a great situation.
You have young kids. If you want to start doing some sort of like annual gifting strategy,
you can gift up to the annual gift tax limit to each of your daughters. And one of the really
efficient things you could do, Brian already alluded to this is you could gift them appreciated
securities. Because whenever you do a gift of an appreciated security, the basis that you have
in it carries over. So you have something that has a very low basis, but a very high price.
You gift that. If they were to sell it, they're not going to say.
sell that at their tax rate, not at your tax rate. So if they're not earning a ton of income,
if they don't have high, you know, not in a high tax bracket, there's a good chance there
would be able to sell up to that $20,000 gift that you give them and not pay any tax on that
to be able to liquidate it. Oh, that's a great tip. Well, especially your college age daughter,
who probably can stand on our own more, you know, because there is some things with kitty taxes
and other things, but for, you know, adult children who are more independent and filing their own taxes,
and stuff, there's some big planning opportunities there.
I was just talking to someone this week who has a wealthy relative, and he said, I think this
person has multiple kids, three kids, and he said, oh, the kids, I've heard him talk, like,
they're looking forward to this guy's death because then they'll get a lot of money.
I don't want anyone to look forward to my dad.
You know what your kids pulling for it.
You want your kids to, man, I hope mom and dad stay around for a while.
They sure are nice.
Yeah.
Well, I will tell you, there is a curse, though, of success is that you do need to go ahead and start
haven't, and surely y'all have already been doing it with the girls being the age that they are,
I've had to start talking to my daughter about money much, because there's something about growing up
in a successful family. Now, you guys live a tight lifestyle, but it's pretty obvious that y'all have
a big net worth. And you want to start just planting those seeds because you don't want your kids' best
life to be while they're under your roof. You still want them to have drive to kind of create.
I think there is, look, we both grew up without any money, and I know you both shared, y'all come from very humble beginnings as well.
So I think we all want to make our kids' lives as easy so they don't have the struggles.
But we need to still have enough struggle in there that they get all the fulfillment when you get to go do all the big experiences of life.
When you buy your car, your house and stuff, there is something, that hedonic treadmill that I know you've probably talked about that concept before.
you always remind people spread out the good stuff as much as possible.
So every time you get that dopamine hit, it's actually as healthy.
And that's why you don't start with the Lamborghini or the Mercedes, you know,
or even the fancy BMW, you know, or something like that.
Or the roadster.
You start with the smaller cars, you know, and then that way as you're going up, the train, you know,
and it's the same way with vacations, you know, you're hoping your kids.
Now, I love giving experiences, but you're hoping that they also, as they're going through
own life, you know, have some achievements built in there so they get to live their best versions
of themselves.
We've put some carrots out there.
I'm trying to, what's the term, wag the dog or whatever?
I'm like, hey, girls, because we're open with them about money, which my, neither of our parents
were or ever were, which I think, I don't know.
I don't agree with that.
Anyway, we've been open with money and we've told our girls, hey, you have to make it on
your own.
We will help you, but you've got to, this help isn't going to come for another decade or two.
Like, maybe your 30s, but you got to get out of that.
there go get good grades and and then we're rich you're not our money love it. Our money. I love it.
Do parental matching though. That's one of the things. Probably the best thing I did with my daughter
when she was 15 and started babysitting and then she started working fast food at Chick-fil-A
all through high school was I started priming the pump by doing a dollar-for-dollar match on Roth
contributions. And it's been huge. It's been huge because now, I mean, she's full-time employed
out of college and she's still like she's loading up Roth IRAs.
and doing other things.
So the priming of the pump, you know, just like you'd pour a little gas in the carburetor to get things going.
You do the same thing with your kids with parental matching.
And it works beautifully because you're modeling that behavior and then they start seeing the power of compounding growth.
And it sticks.
When you realize your children are hard workers and they understand the value of deferred gratification and investing, man, that is like parental dividends right there.
Heck yeah.
They'll take over the world.
I will say you have to be very clear with your kids what you're talking about.
I had told our youngest just started at Taco Bell like a week ago.
Okay.
And I told her, yeah, dad and I will match your salary dollar for dollar.
And she's like, this is great.
And then we were having a conversation a little bit later.
I'm like, oh, you think I'm just going to give you?
No, no, no.
That's not what's happening.
That's not what's happening.
You have to put it in your Roth IRA.
Right.
Oh.
Oh, I don't get to.
I thought I was making double time.
I was just going to give her cash.
That's hilarious.
But think about the learning experiences on that because that's deferred learning the concept of putting a little bit away that you just don't get access to, but you get the value of watching it grow and build.
So you don't have to work so hard in the future.
Yeah.
And I understand.
I mean, the whole reason I want to do that is she's 16 years old.
60 is a thousand years for her.
When she can actually get access to this money, she's like, that's so far away.
It is.
I hope that you make it to 59 and a half.
And I would love for you to have a lot of money in your Roth IRA when you do it.
I love that.
So that's why we have talked about doing that.
Our oldest one actually doesn't have any taxable income right now.
So you said something about your daughter was babysitting.
Did you do this when she was babysitting too?
Yeah.
I mean, well, those years, because, you know, when you do a neighborhood stuff, you have to file a tax return for and report claim.
There's not really any taxes do on it except for self-employment, you know, for Medicare and Social Security.
But you just had to file so you qualify then for doing the custodian.
Stodial Roth IRAs.
Okay.
Yeah, it's a great planning thing for anybody who has children who are starting to work,
earning money.
Go ahead and let them know that a portion of that ought to be working for them,
going into their army of dollars so that they can get that behavior and that habit.
And what I always did, we get the statement.
I look at it and we look at the change, especially on good months.
And I'd be like, you see you made $300 on that, that what you put in over the,
you know, a year ago.
And you'd have to work.
If you're making $10 an hour, that's almost.
You think about that's like two weeks worth of work, part-time work for you, you just made without doing absolutely anything.
I mean, and that's, when you start building those connections in the brain, you see the fireworks that are going on.
That's what we all have kind of figured out is that, yes, it's fun to spend money.
But what's really cool is when your money can grow so you can spend without having to work.
Any other questions we can answer?
Any other things that you guys are curious about that we could speak to?
The comment about the long-term capital gains versus 72T income is kind of eye-opening.
I know the long-term capital gains tax rates are 0.15 and 20 percent.
And income tax is more.
And it didn't click.
I really appreciated that comment.
Did you hear that part about selling after tax stocks?
I did.
Yeah, capital gains rate is like 98.
When does capital gains kick in?
Like for a merry couple, 98,000.
Something is around there.
Yeah, it's pretty high.
Do you have your tax thing?
Yeah, I've got it right here.
It's the zero percent capital gains married jointly, $96,700.
This is for 2025, though, probably.
Yeah, it's $20.
So we're a year off from an indexed.
If they index that stuff.
So right under $100,000.
Right under $100,000.
Yeah, that's huge.
I think people don't appreciate a brokerage account because it's kind of like if you're not a big
spender, it's similar to a Roth, but even better because it doesn't have the restrictions
as long as you standard that amount.
I guess the only other thing we talked about was we'd like to be charitable.
We're going to start a donor advice fund.
Those are brilliant.
Yeah.
We both use those.
I mean, I love to nerd out on those things because you feel like it's a win-win.
You're giving appreciated assets so the charity gets full access to whatever the market value is.
But you get full charitable deduction for it, never pay the capital gains tax on it.
So with you guys having huge capital appreciation, you get the huge benefit.
on that. And the one thing I would think through is, depending on the level at which you want to
give, you guys have appreciated holding. So it's going to make sense to use a donor advice fund no matter
what. You ought to review how much you think about giving. Some folks, they give an amount every year,
but because of the standard deduction is so high now, they're not even able to take advantage
of the charitable deduction from that. So whatever we review one of our client's tax returns,
and we see that going on, we say, hey, instead of you giving to the donor advice fund every single year,
let's make a donation every two years. So if they're given $15,000 a year, instead of giving $15,000
every year and never taking deduction because standard deduction so high, we'll give $30,000 one year and zero the
next year and $30,000 one year and zero the next year, allowing them to itemize standard deduct.
It allows you to still get the tax deduction and then you can still give the money to your
charities on whatever cadence you want to. So they can still go out every single month, even in that
year you're not contributing. You're basically just bunching those donations. Does that make
sense? You know, you're given throughout the period. So the charities, because they kind of
count on your, they know who their givers are and they start expecting that. So you can still
fund it throughout, give distributions throughout that with the donor advised fund. Yeah, that makes a lot
of sense. Okay. So we'll do huge gifts and then zero gifts for a couple. Is there any way to get
the money out of the 401K into the DAF? Or? Well, there is. You have to be.
70 and, well, not in the DAF, but when you turn 70 and a half, there is a really, really
efficient way that you can start giving, you can do qualified charitable distributions.
QCDs, where you take money out of an IRA or out of a 401K, and rather than it coming to you
directly, you can have it go straight to the charity. And if you do that, again, this is after 70 and
half, when the money goes to charity, it never shows up on your tax return. So if you give $10,000
as a qualified charitable distribution to a charity, it goes from your IRA, from your 401K, to the
charity, no tax ever. So it doesn't even show up on your tax return, really. The benefit is that
that's just less forced income that year. Because, you know, when you get to those required minimum
distributions, you know how big that pushes it up. So it lets you meet the, you get to fund the charity
and lower your, not have the taxable income hit your tax return. So most folks are,
who are giving in a tax efficient way, their donor advice fund, donor advice fund,
on our vice fund until they hit that age and then they switch over to qualified charitable
distributions.
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So one last question about Roth conversions.
Right now, because I'm 53 and he's 52, if we Roth convert, we have to pay the taxes.
I thought I heard something about at age 59 and a half you can Roth convert and then you're not, you can pay the taxes from what you converted.
Can I make that up?
You can still, I mean, you can still pay the tax from what you converted.
No, you can still convert.
to Roth right now, same as if you were after 59.5. What happens after 59.5 is now your
Roth assets come into play if you needed to take distributions from them. Like, you could actually
begin using Roth assets if you needed to. Brian calls it like your Gallum precious. You don't
ever want to use it. Where we see clients practically do it is in years where you're doing tax
planning, something comes up, oh, we had to replace the car. I need to pull out $40,000, but man,
I really don't want to trigger any more capital gains or I don't want to make a distribution from IRA.
I'll use Roth dollars to do that so that I can still keep in the same tax strata that I'm trying to stay in.
And the reason people talk about Roth is the bridge pre-59-5 is because you can always get access to your basis.
You mean your contributions can come out tax-free.
So that's why everybody is usually talking.
59.5.
You know, the key dates, 401Ks if you're still employed, is 55 for if the plan is written right.
And then for all IRA and other retirement and so forth, it's 59.
for access penalty free.
Talk to me about that 55 because we are, we have a self-directed 401K, which is where his SpaceX is.
Right.
If it's written right and we can get it at 55, that's like three years for him and two years.
It's kind of squishy, though, because don't you have to like close it and be disconnected from the company, in which case you have to close that.
Yeah, you have to basically, you have had separation from the company at that point.
But it's back to, for you guys specifically, it's back to tax rates.
You know, you're going to pay ordinary income tax rates when you pull out that.
money versus still capital gains. So you could create that as a penalty-free access point,
but from an optimization, I don't know if it will be the ideal choice for you guys.
Okay. So at 55, if you were separated, you could access your 401k so long as you were
employed in the year that you turn 55 and then you stopped. So like, so long as Carl's actively
participating until that point turns 55 and then retires, then he could access it. Much more efficient
way, much cleaner way than trying to do 72T distributions because it's not a thing that's fixed in time.
You can do it ad hoc.
But like you said, you're still paying ordinary income tax rates, which are going to be less
attractive than your capital gains rates.
Okay.
Well, I think we now have a lot of things to talk about.
Yeah.
One closing thing, we were talking this.
We talk about money all the time, including on the walk here.
But one thing I think I asked you about yesterday or the day before, I said, do you feel
wealthy?
What was your answer?
No.
Yeah.
But I think part of the reason we don't feel wealthy is the reason we're here.
We've got this, but we're too afraid to like the monkey, like grabbing the food, the monkey trap or whatever.
You don't want to put your hand in the cookie jar.
But it would feel good to actually be able to use something.
I would say, you know, we harped on it a little bit, but we didn't actually give you the action point on it.
I do think y'all need to boost your cash just because of the college.
You got things you can't get away from with the college tuition coming up.
Y'all probably should boost that cash up just so the volatility of, because you have to make.
the tuition payments anyway. The volatility of some of the things that are coming, it's a good
time with markets as good as frothy. Fothy is not the right word because I've just been on a trend
of saying frothy. The markets are up. They're up right now. So it's a good time so you don't have
regrets just in case it turned into a rainy day. You know, it'd be nice to have a little more
liquidity. Yeah, I'll put a few little homework items for you guys if you're interested.
Absolutely.
Homework. Item number one, talk about building your cash up. I would,
wrote down the number $500,000, only because that's 5% of $10 million, right? That's not
prescriptive. But as you guys think about like an appropriate cash goal to have, as you think about
some of this stuff. They about threw up in their mouth. Yeah. As you think about how you're
earning and what you're doing with real estate commissions or what you're doing with those sorts of things,
rather than going and deploying those dollars, I might consider thinking about building up your
cash holdings to the extent to the extent that you can. In doing that, if you do decide to put
together some sort of like reverse dollar cost averaging or dollar cost divesting strategy.
I would think through your overall allocation. You guys are 100% equity, zero percent anything else.
So perhaps is there some way to maybe mix in, you know what? We're talking about optimization.
Maybe it's not bonds. Maybe it's like municipal bonds, right? That's like a sexy way to say bond
without just saying bond, right? So there's some opportunities there. It's less about rate of return,
more about risk mitigation, but review your allocation. I do think you guys are at the stage
or every single year around October, November, you ought to be doing an end-of-the-year tax
projection. Hey, what's everything we earn this year? What's it all look like? What are all the dividends
that have come in? All the capital gains that have come in. How much room do we have in whatever
bracket we're in? If we're already in the 24, how much room? Because even if you're doing
small Roth conversions, how we can only convert $15,000, that's still $15,000 that you're
able to convert in that tax bracket. So it's worth doing the exercise every year to see where you
fall. And then I said, talk with your kids about money, what you're already doing, but
If you are trying to figure out how can they begin using some of these dollars now or begin having access these dollars at some point in the near future, are there efficient ways that we can begin doing that even today without them having to wait until we leave this planet?
Yeah. And I'll just, I'll put an exclamation point on that one because we work with a lot of successful families. And that's y'all are the tell end of the influence you have on these girls.
Please have those conversations out because we look, we have conversations all the time with wealthy families.
They're like, I screwed up.
I didn't talk about money.
I didn't talk about money early enough.
So now they have these misunderstandings about money that somebody else placed in their heads.
Y'all have been very successful with how you've allocated your capital.
It would behoove you to please pay that forward into your daughters as well because y'all, y'all understand how money works.
Please put it in their head because if you don't, somebody else will and it might not be the ideal way to be.
Because then when you get spouses and other things, you know, it gets.
It gets very inefficient.
And so this is your moment in time to make good things happen.
I laugh because we had that conversation on the way here too, like with the whole pre-nup thing for, we specify that our kid must have a pre-nup so they don't have to.
But that's all.
Yeah.
If you talk to our kids, they would say, mom and dad, we'll never stop talking about money anymore.
But, wait, what you talk about?
I haven't pitched you guys.
But when you start getting into this stuff, this is the perfect reason why you should have a financial planner is because do you realize how often I'm the bad guy?
and when we talk about pre-nups and other things,
is because we're, instead of you,
because you have to eat Thanksgiving and Christmas with these people.
So it's nice if you have a big bad boogeyman that, and that's honest.
I don't really want to do this.
Ryan said, I have to.
I've had some adult marriages that we are brought in to kind of,
because it's an uncomfortable thing,
but we're also, it's a legal protection that needs to be,
and we're all about to become one.
I mean, we are, if you listen to any of our content,
I love joint accounts,
but I also think that if you come into marriage with assets,
you also have to be smart and realistic on protecting that stuff as well.
And I've never wanted a CFP more than I do right now.
But that's the thing.
Everybody always, you know, I'm always, I think most people don't need a financial planner
while you're building, but once you get close to seven figures,
you'll realize no matter how simple you've tried to create your life,
it gets complex with success.
It really does.
And that's when we're there to kind of help with the therapy side of it as well as the allocation side of it, as well as to be, you know, kind of the guy under the bed, you know, to do the bad stuff that nobody wants to do.
I mean, we're kind of the fixer in a lot of those situations as well.
I can picture now.
Talk to Uncle Brian about this.
That's right.
Talk to Uncle Paul.
There you go.
It's a true thing.
That's why, you know, y'all can tell we do this same type of content on making a millionaire is because we want people to see behind the curtain.
Because there's so much.
I think most people think financial planners are just asset allocators.
And that's so, the world has become so commoditized on the investing with index funds and so forth.
If that's what you think a financial planner is, then you're probably missing the boat.
So we're like, what better way than to kind of sit down with real couples and let them know, hey, this is actually what a financial planner does for families and help them know how to work with money?
It's awesome.
Tell me about your book.
I saw The Rocket.
I, New York Times best selling book.
Oh, my kid.
Yeah, retake that.
Tell me about your New York Times best selling book.
Yeah, so that's the thing.
I mean, look, I think my high school teachers would be just as shocked to find out that I've written a book.
If you saw my SAT scores, I am much more math-minded.
I see it.
But it is, I am very, the two books that changed my life when I came out of college was
Wealthy Barber and Millionaire Next Door, because I was a very motivated 22-year-old when I got out of college,
about I didn't know how money worked at all because nobody in my family had ever dealt with it.
And I've kind of walked through my journey with how we develop the financial order of operations,
put a lot of life stories in there.
And I think anybody, if you go look at the Amazon reviews, we hit the mark on it being extremely
motivating and helping people know exactly what to do with their next dollar.
So we have a very close friend, and we've met through the show now because I had to meet him
after this guy was buying hundreds of books every year that he gives out to students at Clemson.
So we have lots of people who are buying this to give out to graduates and so forth.
And so I feel mission accomplished on helping people understand how money works.
Super cool.
One final comment, I was listening to you all earlier this week.
I heard you mentioned the millionaire next door.
And that was probably the most profound thing I've read because growing up, you might remember this, you know.
But there was a show called Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous.
Rob and Leach.
Robin Leach.
Blah!
I can't do an accent.
But look at this helicopter and yachts.
I'm like, whoa, when I was eight, I'm like, whoa.
That's how rich people live.
That's what rich people do.
And then I read that book.
I'm like, whoa, I had it all wrong.
They're all driving at Ford F-150s according to that book.
I'm like, I know Uncle blah, blah, blah, blah.
They are millionaires and the people who look like millionaires probably are not.
That's right.
Well, that's what, you know, what's funny is we work with all these millionaires,
these thousands of millionaires, is that we, I have asked that question of any, all of them.
Do you feel rich?
Most people, you know, say no.
I mean, because you don't.
I mean, because it's back.
to the understanding that there's a difference between access to capital versus access to cash.
And most wealthy people, they don't have, y'all are the perfect example.
You're worth $10 million and have less than 1% in cash.
You know, that's the difference.
You know, and you've heard that Morgan Household quote is that most people say they want a million dollars.
They don't really don't want a million dollars.
They want to be able to spend a million dollars.
And there's a big difference between having capital and wealth versus having just money that you can
consume. And that's the big mindset difference we try to help people with. Oh, that's huge. Thank you.
How do you feel about having $500,000 in cash? And what does in cash mean? Because he is never going to
have just $500,000 on a $10 million portfolio. Put the context on it. So high yield savings account or
high yield money market fund. Like right now, where my cash is, if you hold over $100,000 in cash,
it's like 3.47%. So it's like 3.5% yield on that. If you want to get real, like, you know, sophisticated,
you can look at treasuries and do some sort of ladder.
I mean, you can make it complicated if you want.
No, no, don't tell him he can make it complicated.
Did you see this?
I know he's going to optimize.
I know it's going.
But just readily available liquid cash paying somewhere between 3.5 to 4% right now.
And it's just kind of sitting there for when you need to pay for things or write checks
or when opportunities present themselves.
And it's kind of one of those things.
Your portfolio is not going to start growing.
So even as you use that 500, maybe you have to use 100.
or maybe you have to use 100 of it for tuition, whatever.
As you're selling securities over here, you replenish it, right?
So it kind of is like this revolving door.
We go down a little bit and then come back up and go down a little bit and come back up.
And that's okay.
That's the life cycle of what your total portfolio allocation should look like.
So how does that feel?
It feels good now that I talk to Uncle Brian and Uncle Bo.
Sorry, you're younger than me, so it's a bit awkward.
Oh, that's all right.
Weird family dynamics, I know.
Some people start young.
My aunt is younger than my oldest cousin.
Okay.
Yeah.
You're from the south.
There's some drama.
Tell me from the south.
Tell me for the south.
No, there's just a lot of, there's a lot of people.
I know this is a bit going for your show too, but we've had a great time creating this content.
I really appreciate the time that you took to make all these fun slides and to look at our situation.
I mean, obviously, we know that we probably have a little too much money in Elon controlled companies or a lot too much money in Elon controlled companies.
And the 70,000, when I saw this slide, I was like, wow, we really only have 70,000 in cash.
And that's, I mean, that sounds so snotty to say.
Oh, we only have 70,000.
But compared to our net worth, that's probably not enough compared to our upcoming known expenses.
You have no rounding error.
Seven years of college, at least, the next seven years.
And I think it's actually less than that because I paid a bill this week.
I think it's more hard.
While you're building a house.
by the way, which if anybody's ever built a house, it's like your builder is like, yeah, I can do
that, but it's going to cost you. Back when I built my last house, it was probably like three to
$5,000, now with inflation, it's probably, yeah, but for $10,000, $15,000. So you can make that
disappear with four upgrades probably. One of the workers pulled up in a new pickup truck this
week. I'm like, well, that's better than any of our cars. And it's probably from the last bill I paid.
They're great finance for the next seven years. If you're listening, you guys do great work, so I'm not
throwing you under the table, bite-up. Yeah, enjoy the pickup truck. The orthodontist also
drives a really nice car. We don't drive a nice car. I mean, they're okay. You have a nice car?
35,000. It's a Tesla model Y, but. Of course it's a tough. Of course. You never say that.
We all knew. We all knew. It drives itself. I don't drive it. Thanks so much for having us on,
though. This has been great. Yeah, this was a lot of fun. I really appreciate you guys giving us all this
information and now we have more conversations to have. Good thing we have a flight home to
discuss, to start to discuss. Plus, we're in the town this whole weekend. So we're going to
talk about it all the time. I can hear my daughters watching this thing. Oh my God,
please tell them not to talk to us more about money. Well, yeah, I'm going to do what I mean, just like
I remember when my parents gave me the birds and the bees, they gave me a book instead of actually
having a talk. I'm going to give y'all, before y'all leave, I'll give you two copies of the book
to give to your girls. Oh, that would be awesome. Thank you. That uncomfortable
talk can be helped with Uncle Brown's book.
Can you please sign them to?
Yes.
That's great.
Oh, we're going to the Gibson guitar store.
Yeah.
I can buy a guitar.
No, I can buy like a nice Les Paul.
Oh, I don't think they said that at all.
They alluded to it.
$500,000.
We already have three guitars at home.
How many can you play at one time?
I don't know.
One.
We'll find out.
That wraps up this episode of the Bigger Pockets Money podcast.
I am Mindy Jensen.
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