BiggerPockets Real Estate Podcast - 430: Best of 2020: Brandon and David’s Favorite Pieces of Advice from 2020 Guests
Episode Date: December 31, 2020Another year of the BiggerPockets Real Estate Podcast is in the books! This time, we’re joined by co hosts, David and Brandon, live from the Sea Shed in Maui! We’ve had such a fantastic group of g...uests this year, so to help ease into 2021, David and Brandon picked their 7 favorite clips from the whole year. You’ll hear from familiar faces like Tarl Yarber, Thach Nguyen, and other real estate rockstars. This episode doesn’t just touch on real estate, we also go into how many real estate professionals made personal growth a priority when accomplishing their goals, all while enjoying their life more. If you’re ready to expand your business, get more units under contract, or begin your first house hack, this advice will be crucial for your personal, business, and real estate success in the coming year. It has certainly helped out Brandon and David! Thanks again for joining us this year, we look forward to interviewing even more amazing guests in 2021 (and beyond)! In This Episode We Cover: Why certainty is often more expensive than risk Why integrity in the present is worth so much more for your future Staying focused on the long-term perspective for consistent success The importance of peace of mind when investing in real estate (and other assets) Why you need to build a business around your life (not the other way around) How to commit even when you don’t have all the pieces needed Why you always need to keep your expenses low (if you want to escape the rat race) And SO much more! Links from the Show BiggerPockets Forums BiggerPockets Podcast 368: $3,500 per Month From One BRRRR Deal With Palak Shah BiggerPockets Business Podcast BiggerPockets Business Podcast 88: What’s Your Special “Cut”? Why Brandon Turner and David Greene Doubled Down on Theirs in 2020 BiggerPockets Podcast 375: Live Coronavirus Q&A: Resources, Tactics, and Mindset Shifts for Today’s Real Estate Investor BiggerPockets Podcast 376: 12 Real Estate Rockstars Reveal Their No. 1 Tip for Surviving (& Thriving) Through a Downturn BiggerPockets Podcast 226: From “D-Student” to $400,000 in Annual Rental Property Cash Flow with David Osborn BiggerPockets Podcast 201: Flipping 100+ “Zombie” Houses with Justin Stamper Zombie House Flipping Hustle & Persistence To Build Wealth Through Real Estate | BiggerPockets Podcast 169: Using Hustle and Persistence to Build Wealth Through Real Estate with David Greene BiggerPockets Podcast 395: From Car Valet to $100k/Month… Seriously! with Thach Nguyen BiggerPockets Podcast 398: 22 BRRRR Properties in Under 10 Hours Per Week with Tarl Yarber BiggerPockets Podcast 403: Developing a Millionaire’s Mindset and Overcoming Limiting Beliefs with Performance Coach Jason Drees BiggerPockets Podcast 422: From W2-Job Single Mom to Flipping Real Estate Rockstar with Amanda Young BiggerPockets Podcast 425: Focusing On Your $10,000/Hour Tasks (And How to Outsource the Rest!) with Benjamin Hardy BiggerPockets Podcast 423: Who Not How: Stop Doing the Things You Hate, Free Up Time, Be Happier and Richer with Dan Sullivan BiggerPockets Webinars BiggerPockets Podcast 385: Once Homeless, Now Investing in an Expensive Market (With No Money of His Own) With Greg Gaudet BiggerPockets Podcast 393: Campus Maintenance Man to $10M in Real Estate Owned with Rick Jarman Rick Jarman's Instagram Check the full show notes here: https://www.biggerpockets.com/show430 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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That's right with David Green here in the C-Shed.
What's up, David?
What's going on, Brandon?
It is awesome to be doing a show in the C-Shed.
That's becoming a bit of a tongue twister there.
She-shed.
Yeah, this is a cool way to close up 2020.
Yeah, speaking of 2020, the show was actually about 2020.
It's about the end of 2020.
And so what David and I are going to be doing today is breaking down some of the best pieces of advice.
We've gotten all year from some guests.
We're going to be plain little clips and then talking about them.
It should be a lot of fun.
But before we get to that, let's get today's quick.
Today's quick tip.
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Like take the time to do it.
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I have never regretted any time I did something intentionally. The best friends I picked,
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So let's get on with today's show.
Again, today we're talking about a recap of 2020, some of the best moments, some of the best clips.
So we're going to just start here right at the beginning.
It's a very good place to start.
So Pollock Shah we had on the show back on was a show 368.
of the podcast. Former corporate executive made good income, wasn't satisfied with the lack of freedom.
If you remember that episode, we talked a little bit about risk-taking muscle in that show.
But here's the clip we're going to play. Here the tape.
Yeah, one of the big things as a nine-to-fiver is you get so used to this cushy lifestyle
where there's like a paycheck coming in. You know, you go to work at a certain time,
you come back at a certain time, and then you get a certain amount of money every month,
And there is very little unpredictability, although you could get laid off any minute.
But you know, you just get used to this lifestyle.
And it's really hard to become a risk taker being that way for years and years.
It kind of conditions you to just be used to like these little vacations.
Like I get two weeks at this time and I get one week at this time.
And it's really hard to do that.
But what I learned is, you know, risk is like taking risks.
I always assumed actually that people are born with these abilities.
but that's a skill that can be developed.
And I probably read it somewhere, I don't know,
but I call it like flexing my risk-taking muscle.
And in the beginning,
I had to learn to be comfortable taking risks
and assigning numbers to it
so that I got more and more comfortable.
And then, you know, it's in the last few years,
I have understood that it's something,
it's a skill set.
You can develop it.
So just,
building a framework around it helped.
That's really good.
Do you have any advice for the listeners of some things that you did that helped you build that risk-taking muscle?
Because I really do think that, and Brandon, you might agree, probably the majority of people
who want to get started in this and don't.
It's because of just that fear that encompasses the risk that's involved.
Yeah, that's a really good question.
We, what I would do is I would make a spreadsheet and do like the first column as put all of the
risks involved in a deal.
And in the beginning, so we do bar, we do bur deals.
That's what I work on.
And in the beginning, for example, thinking about my first, very first per deal,
there are like so many risks that come to mind.
And as a new investor, what, what one does is you just club all of these together and put
them in a big risk pot.
And then just, it just seems like a really, like a massive daunting task.
But they can be broken down.
So I would make a spreadsheet and build first column as all of the risks.
And for example, for in a board deal, I would say maybe it's what if I go over my construction
numbers or what if I, what if the property doesn't appraise for what I wanted to appraise for
at the end?
What if I don't get the rent that I want?
And so list all of them and then assign a dollar value to it that would be like the worst
case scenario.
So for me, for example, in construction to mitigate that risk, we started putting 50
percent extra towards contingency.
So we say, okay, this is a risk.
We can go over construction.
So let's start putting 15 percent and that mitigates that one risk.
So moving on to the next one, right?
Then you say, okay, what if it doesn't appraise for what I wanted to do appraise?
And having been in corporate and being a dabbler investor before, I know that a lot of people
put 25% down and buy properties.
So if I'm left with 5% in the deal, it's still better than putting 25% percent.
person down and buying a property. If I don't get the rent that I want, okay, do I still want to invest
in this property knowing that the worst case scenario rent is $100 less than what I'm expecting
it to be and assign dollar values to them and then decide if it's still worth pursuing it?
And then the worst case scenario, I always think if the worst case scenario happens, am I willing
to spend that money to learn what I'm going to learn from this deal?
Yeah. Okay. So,
This, the idea of it's really easy to accept the life that we're given, right?
It's really easy to say, hey, this is where I've been.
This is what I have.
And the majority of the world does that.
They don't think, how do I expand out that?
My question for you, David, is why do you think that is?
And what's the first step in getting outside that?
I think that risk inherently sounds negative, first off.
We're conditioned to look at when you say risk, what you're talking about is what you can lose.
So it feels expensive.
There's a price to pay to take risk.
And I think what Pallak here is pointing out is that certainty is sometimes more expensive than risk,
that you being locked in that job and having comfort making your 80K a year with your two weeks of paid vacation
and no risk actually comes like with in some cases a prison.
That makes sense.
So it's expensive to go for certainty.
Your ceiling comes down pretty low.
It's not like you have limitless ability to move forward.
you have to be at a certain location at a time.
There's maybe things you want to do
when that company isn't offering you that opportunity.
So the first step I would say is understand
that while risk is going to cost you something,
certainty almost always costs more.
If you look at the highest paying jobs,
they're commission-based.
Why is that?
Because there's risk with it.
If you don't work,
money's not just coming your way.
It's easy to fall into that.
I'm a house cat.
Someone's bringing me my tuna.
But a lion loves the hunt.
If you want to feel like a lion all the time,
You have to accept that there's going to be some risk.
But I continually remind myself that certainty is actually more expensive than risk.
So I don't just focus on the negative elements of risk.
You know, this is one of the reasons I really like house hacking as well.
Because house hacking is a low risk way to get into your first deal.
It's building up that risk muscle, that muscle that it's a little scary.
It is scary.
It's not easy necessarily to go buy out your first property by that duplex, live in half of it.
But you can do it.
Partnerships are another way.
They're a fairly low risk way to do it.
If you're like, even if you got one percent of somebody's deal, but you've got to help out with every single aspect, it's a very low risk way to get that muscle going up.
So people are struggling with that right now.
Think about that.
What is the smallest, like lowest risk way?
You can still take some risk.
That's brilliant.
Yeah, you got to get comfortable with the, it's like surfing, right?
You don't need to go out there on a 40 foot wave when you're learning.
But you do need to get into the water and get wet and feel what surfing feels like.
So we start with smaller waves.
But once you've got that down, now you naturally want to progress.
Yeah, that's totally sure.
All right, moving on to the next clip of the day.
In my opinion, the most important thing we can do right now,
aside from like be a community, stick together and quarantine so we can beat this.
As an investor and a businessman,
one of the most important things we can do is like still continue to pay our vendors on time
and also pay our investors on time.
Because like, I don't want to come out of this known as the guy that called his hard money lenders
and asked for 12 months forgiveness.
Like, I don't want that reputation.
I want to be the guy that was like, oh, damn, when everything shut down, we did work for Justin,
and he still paid us.
You know, I just put a new roof on a house last week on the spot, $15,000 check.
I mean, obviously, I don't want to write that right now.
But at the same time, I respect my roofers and I still want to do business with them.
Yeah.
So I love that advice about reputation mattering so much more than even profit from this time.
Now, here we are almost a year into this COVID mess.
And we're still not all the way through it.
Yeah, right? We don't know what 2021 is going to hold.
But I think that principle still applies is that the integrity that you handle problems.
It's like the fire, you know, like you're refined by the fire.
The integrity at which you handle it is going to help you the next five, 10, 15, 20 years of your business.
And I think that this year, I said this on the Bigger Pockets Business Podcasts that just came out,
or I think it's either coming out now or just came out.
But it's like this is a refining year for real estate investors and for business owners.
It refined.
Who had the right systems?
Who had the right processes in place?
who had the right integrity and those people who didn't are going to struggle.
One of my favorite quotes is that when the tide goes out, you find out who's been swimming
naked.
And the last 10 years or so, we've just seen the economy increases, increases, increases.
You can make bad decisions and you're okay because the tide just keeps going up.
And when something like this happens and it shakes, the tide will go down.
And what I'm getting at with that is your reputation doesn't seem like it matters as much.
When the environment is so conducive, the wind's always at your back.
What's that?
Are you saying like when people are panicking and.
crazy like it doesn't matter about your no that's when it does matter we've gotten away from that
because it was so easy that your reputation didn't matter and then what's do you see that little bump in
the road now it exposes if you're running a good business if you're a man of your word or a woman
of your word if you have sound principles so don't get lulled into that false sense of security
of a rising tide being all that matters because at some point it is going to change and how
your reputation and how you manage your business will become very important yeah what do you
think about the advice about you know not trying to catch a falling knife um how do we balance that
with at the same time saying we want to keep, you know, growing our portfolios, even in bad times,
good times, we want to do whatever. Like, how do you balance that? And how have you balanced that?
How do you continue? Because we don't know if the knife is completely falling, right? It may not,
fall more. But if you always took the like the viewpoint of, well, there's risks, I'm not going to do it.
You'd never do anything. You'd never do anything. So how do you balance that?
I think that that analogy of you never want to catch a falling knife typically comes from a stock
market perspective where prices are dropping and the only way you make money is buying low and selling.
high. So when I think the knife could be falling, I don't look at it like, well, I want to wait
so the knife goes all the way down because we don't bet on appreciation to make money in real
estate. You shift your strategy and you start buying properties where even if the value kept
coming down, the profitability or the cash flow of the property would be good or over a 10, 15, 20 year
window. Like, I caught a falling knife when I bought my first house in 2009. I bought it for 195.
It had originally sold at 565. It dropped down to about 180.
I could have paid $180 a couple months later.
I didn't hit the bottom.
Does it matter to me now that it's worth $475,000 again?
But taking that big picture approach is a really big way.
And then I just don't like investing in any asset where there's only one way that I win.
It's why I don't get into Forex trading and I don't make these quick and easy, quick, fast deals where I just got to buy low, sell high.
That's my only option.
What we like to do when we're investing is several layers of strategy that will be profitable for that deal.
Yeah.
What's your thoughts on Bitcoin right now?
I think that people are going to like Bitcoin because I think that we're in a sense kind of ruining our currency by just printing more and more and more of it.
That's one of the reasons that COVID didn't shut down the economy.
Like a lot of people expected, they just didn't factor in the fact that the government just keep pumping stimulus in.
Like it probably should have went down and it didn't.
So I think that I don't know about Bitcoin itself and I don't want to claim to be an expert in cryptocurrency.
But I think things like cryptocurrency, maybe like baseball cards.
other things that you might not have considered will gain value as we debase our own currency.
Yeah, I don't think, I don't think you're wrong.
I'm actually might.
I'm thinking I might just like take 10 or 15 grand, which, you know, to put it in perspective,
like I have a lot of money.
Like I'm not like, you know, Bill Gates here.
But like it's not like life change money.
So I'm not telling people.
It's not really a risk for you.
Yeah, I'm not saying go out and take your life savings and go buy Bitcoin, but I might
take a small piece of my portfolio, a small piece of my disposable income and put that
into like Bitcoin and I might put into a few other things as well as a I don't like gold for
example as potentially as a it may go to zero what as a hedge maybe as a hedge but also more of as a
long gamble. Okay. Like if Bitcoin goes to you know 10 you know a thousand X of what it's worth today
I'm like well I'm sure I'm glad I did that. It made my million dollars or whatever but in reality
I don't think it's going to and I may lose all of it but if I do that across two three four different
like you know somewhat crazy speculative investments and it's only a very small portion of my
I think that might be a fun way to, I don't, I mean, I'm, I'm a diversify within your, like,
basket kind of guy.
Like, you know, like, I'm not like getting, you know, put 10% of your money in stocks, 10 in
real estate, 10 in cars, 10 in gold.
I'm not that guy.
I'm all real estate.
But if I want to do 1% of my income and something else for the, for the fact that it may shoot
up, I may do it.
What I don't like is that Bitcoin is at the very highest that I've been right now.
Again.
And again, this show is coming out a few weeks after we're recording this.
So, or a week after, I think.
So maybe it dropped again, but it's doing crazy good.
That always makes me scared.
It's the whole taxi cab philosophy, right?
It's when your taxi cab driver says to invest in something.
That's when you should get out of it.
Well, it's so confusing because on one hand, you hear don't catch a falling knife.
And on the other hand, you hear, don't buy something when it's at its peak.
The knife's really high.
Yeah, so what do you do?
Yeah, it's, you invest for sound principles.
There you go.
Or you'll drive yourself crazy trying to predict things you can't.
You will drive yourself completely nuts.
All right, let's move on to the next clip of this show.
And this, by the way, is Justin Stamper, who's a good buddy of ours here on the show.
He's the guy from Zombie House flipping.
If you've seen that, he was on episode 375.
That's where this clip comes from.
All right, so for our next clip, we actually asked in episode 376.
We went and talked to 12 real estate, just rock stars.
People who are really good with finance and real estate.
Ask them their advice on what they should be during during a recession or during hard, difficult times.
And we're going to pull out one little clip here from our friend David Osborne.
David Auburn is a guy we've on the show a couple times.
New York Times best-selling author of Wealth Can't Wait.
He co-wrote Bidding the Buy that we came out with here,
Bigger Pockets recently.
And here's what David Osborne said, that I think is just so good.
Write yourself a 10-year vision.
Right at the top of the page, it's 2030.
My last 10 years have been amazing.
My wife and I are getting on better than ever.
My health and fitness is incredible.
My kids are all doing amazing.
My daughter's in college, whatever.
Then get into business.
You say 10 years ago today, we had this crisis, this coronavirus,
The entire economy came to a halt. And I'm so proud of the way I led and the character I developed and the man I became through that time period. I made great decisions. I cut overhead quickly. I preserved cash. And then I took full advantage of the recovery. And because it was such a deep, sharp crash, the recovery was long and lasting. And there was a lot of money to be made. And that's what really made my fortune and helped me get to a whole new level. And you remember the worst thing about a boom is that every day you're in a boom, you're one day closer to a crash. Every day you're in a
in a crash or one day closer to a boom. And the great thing about right now is we're in a crash. So we're
going to ride this thing out. And then we're going to ride a big boom into the future. We'll be twice the
people, twice the business people we are, twice the men we are or women, stronger fathers, stronger
husbands or wives, whatever. And we're going to do all that. And the reason it's valuable to
write about your future from today is it puts perspective on it. In 10 years, you won't remember the
pain and fear that we're living through today. You'll just remember the abundance that came from it. So good
luck write your 10-year vision. Yeah. So David is basically saying here, of course, like,
keep an eye on the long-term perspective. I mean, it's really easy to get cut up and like,
what am I doing right now? What's happening right now? And honestly, as you go into 2021,
we don't know what's going to happen. In 2020, nobody could predict what happened here.
But when you have a long-term 10, even 15, 20-year outlook on your life, you realize like
this will be a blip, but it's not going to be like a life-changing necessarily blip for most
of us. It'll be a life-altering blip.
but not like life, not life ending.
It's kind of like what I said where when I bought that house at 195 and it dropped to
180, I was kicking.
Imagine the motions I was feeling.
You're an idiot.
Why are you doing this?
You should have waited.
You bought too soon.
You don't know what you're doing.
And then that moment over that couple of months, that's how I felt.
And I was thinking I should never buy real estate.
Same thing happened on that very first deal where my tenant took advantage of me.
We documented that in the bigger podcast.
I think 169.
I went over that.
I thought I sucked it being in landlord.
I did suck at being a lander. It felt like a terrible decision. Looking back, I have a house I bought it
at 195. It is now worth about $4.75 and it's cash flowing over $1,000 a month. That was not a bad
decision. Almost everything that I look at from a overall perspective, a longer term, it feels so
much different than it did when I was in the moment. Think about a house, the first house you bought
what the escrow process was like. Yeah. Do you ever even think about it once now? No.
But in that moment, it's so big. So what I say is zoom out. What I love about Dave's advice is he's
talking about creating a vision that you can set your sights on and focus on that. And it creates
the emotions like you just said. I became a much better person. I have a great relationship with
my wife. I'm in really good health. So he has a setback about his health. He gets injured. He can't
run. Maybe he gains a little bit of weight. In the moment, it's easy to feel bad. But when you're
constantly looking at the big picture and you're like, hey, I can bounce back from this. That was a three-month
period out of a 10-year chunk of time. That meant nothing. You stay in a healthier emotional state that
keeps you excited and unoptimistic about moving forward. Yeah, that's totally true. Yeah, I love,
I love that idea. I mean, you know me. Like, we talk about the vivid vision all the time.
This book by Cameron Harold, who I think it's coming on the show in a few weeks, which is pretty
cool. But yeah, we talk a lot about this vivid vision about, like, where do you want your
life to be? Like, if you're an artist and you have a paintbrush, what do you want to paint?
Go and paint it. And that's exactly what David Osborne is staying here. So I think it's helped
clarify for me a lot of things this year. I've having that vision. You know, because I had this
clear vision, like, I think I was able to navigate 2020 better. And so my advice for everyone
listening right now is if you don't have that,
create that vision.
Do exactly what David just said.
You sold me on it.
I never was a proponent of that.
I was much more tactical.
Now I'm seeing after I'm seeing the changes in your own life that this is something I
absolutely have to do.
And while I'm in Hawaii,
I'm working on that.
That's awesome, man.
It's awesome.
All right, moving on to the next clip today.
And that was David Osborne.
Next one is Thatch wins.
So Thatch was on episode number 395 of the Bigger Pockets podcast.
You guys remember Thash.
He was a hilarious, amazing dude from the Seattle
market who is like i think it was up to a hundred thousand dollars a month in passive income the guy's just a
beast when it comes to real estate awesome energy still door knocks even though he's a multi-millioner
you probably remember that little thing no excuse attitude uh and he talks about a lot about paid off
houses he was one that normally we talk a lot of leverage but he pays off a lot of houses and the
peace of mind you get from that so with that said let's pull up the clip from thatch
i accumulated the number of doors i needed so i know that if i had the limited door i'm getting like
25 grand. Once I accumulated the number of doors and then I have, then I call it phase two,
which is I started to pay them off. Okay. Phase one, I accumulated phase two, then I paid off.
Once I got that out of the way, now I am out of the right race. Now I can go ahead and increase
whatever I want. I'm doing it because I want to do it. That because I have to do it.
Yeah, that's cool. Now, there's a lot of debate on whether or not you should pay off properties.
Let's have that debate real quick here or this discussion. Let's say you like you could pay off a
mortgage at 4% interest. And then it's basically like you're making 4% of your money,
which people say is stupid from a financial standpoint. But then the beauty of having them paid off
is that nobody can come take it from you. Dave Ramsey all day long would fight for pay them
off as quickly as possible or just buy them for cash. So how do you look at the debate and where do
you find yourself in there? Yes. So for me is I gone through the cycle now. This is this craziness
going on right now. This probably maybe the fourth and fifth time I've gone through some crazy stuff.
By craziness, you're talking about the coronavirus to the threat to the economy.
Yeah, the coronavirus, you know, I've gone through the 2008 crash.
But the bottom line is you've got to have peace of mind at some point on this journey.
If you always buy it to keep buying and leverage, you keep leveraging,
borrow to get borrowing, right?
And you don't ever have paid off.
You don't really have the true peace of mind.
I mean, why are we doing all this for, right?
Not to create more stress for ourselves.
I will get older.
I'm 50 years old.
I do get older, you want peace of mind.
And so in my opinion, when I learn from my mentor is figure out,
How much money do you need to live comfortably if everything was free and clear?
And at that time, I say, if I had 25,000, every free and clear.
So I'd be very comfortable.
He said, well, let's make that the first benchmark.
Let's figure out how many do you need to have.
And let's get those paid off out of the way so that you can have peace of mind.
Then after that, if you want, you can grow how much more passive income you want,
but your house is free and clear.
You know what I mean?
You don't have to worry about selling right now.
There's a lot of...
In Seattle right now, that are scared to shit right now.
this in anywhere through America, but in Seattle, since we are the hot city right now with this
virus, can nobody sell no real estate? Well, imagine this goes for two, three months. They're all
going to go, you know what I mean, a broke, let alone what they're going to do. So I think at some
point, the peace of mind is worth a lot of money. So what I love for my mentor is figure out of
money I need to have to be out of the rat race and then get that out of the way, get my house.
I live in a, you know, a big house in Mercer Island. This house is like over $3 million.
free and clear, right? And I get everything out of the way. And after that, I go and invest and
grow my net worth and grow my passive income because I want to. And it's fun now. It's not because I have to.
All right. So that advice from Thatch, his idea of peace of mind, I, I, something like that just
resonates in my soul so much, you know, like just having that like piece that no matter what
happens, I'm okay. And I think this year was a good reminder of why leverage, leverage, leverage,
leverage, leverage is not always the best advice. Like sometimes it's okay to pass some properties.
and I've been working at that this year as well and I hope to continue to.
Because there's something nice about like, what are you building for?
If you're looking for that peace of mind, why not relax a little bit and do that?
What do you think on that?
I think that's why you need to have your vivid vision.
Yeah, yeah.
Because from my perspective, having paid off properties, it causes me anxiety.
I've got about eight right now and I'm constantly trying to figure out what do I need to do to get those refinance and where would I put the money.
I don't have peace of mind because I've got this equity sitting out there that's not working for me.
But my vision for what I want is much different than that's just.
where he was basically saying, look, I want to take risk, but I don't feel comfortable doing that
while I have a family and they need to be taken care of. So I'm going to earn the right to take risk
by creating enough security on this side. I think that's brilliant. He said, you pay everything out,
then you can do whatever you want. Then he goes and rolls the dice and he has a blast and he built
an empire. He probably wouldn't have if he was constantly worrying, will my family not eat if I fail
rolling the dice. So having the vision will make it very clear whether you should leverage, whether you
shouldn't how to go about doing it, what type of property to buy. And what we really see from people
is saying, well, what are they doing? So I should go do it like for myself. But if their vision's
different than yours or different than mine, then it doesn't make sense to follow what one of us is
doing or what thatch is doing himself. Yeah, that's 100%. Yeah, I think knowing yourself,
knowing what you want and not just taking blind advice from some random person on the internet because
they said to do this. You think about what do you actually want. Now, there's a really good book
out there called Life Anair, L-I-F-E-O-N-A-I-R-E.
It's like Millionaire with Will Life.
I've mentioned it before on the show.
But I really like it a lot because it's all about that.
It's like designing a business and investment, like world, like, you know, whether it's a business
or your real estate investor, around your life rather than the other way around.
So you're not saying, I'm going to, you know, I'm going to do all this real estate stuff
and then I'm going to fit my life in where it fits around that.
You're saying, what do I want my life to look like?
And then I'm going to build a business that supports that.
And for many people, the idea of just having more freed off properties is such a powerful thing.
I mean, again, if paid off properties, they can give you that security you want.
For some people, that's the opposite of security.
They want to get that money working.
They want to build a faster, they want to grow faster.
I mean, the more debt you use, the faster you grow, but it's the more risk you are.
So the more risk you have.
So there's definitely a balance there.
So again, that whole interview with Fash was just like fire.
Like he was just like spitting so much good stuff on that show.
If any, if you ever run out of motivation, that's when to go listen to you.
He'll get you fired up again.
Yeah, 100%.
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All right. So moving on to the next clip. The next clip we've got, oh, our buddy Tarle Yarber.
Actually, I think was here earlier. Tarrell actually was on show number 38 of the Bigger Pockets podcast.
guess he flipped hundreds of houses, but then he had not flipped, he had not owned any single
rental properties. He had a big business, tons of stress, wasn't too happy. So he changed his
business around when he realized something. So we're going to like, he actually learned from
thatch, the guy we just had on the show, a second ago. He learned from him. And so he's going to
share a little bit of that right now. And even though we did more deals, more production in 2017,
than we did in 2016, I made the same amount of money on both years, personally me. My company
made more money, but we had more overhead, more stress, more hours into it. And at the end of
day, I personally had the same reward doing less work in 2016, if that makes sense. And so the,
so it was a wake-up call for me, go like, something's broken here. And I don't like this.
And why do we keep doing this? Because I thought of repeating another year, this sucks, right?
So luckily, you guys just had Thatch Nguyen, right, who was on your guys' podcast recently.
He's a really good friend of ours. He had a little thing that he was doing, and I went to it and to go
hang out with them. And it was like that perfect crystal moment. I could have probably heard somebody
say this a hundred other times, read in a book and ignored it completely, right? And I probably did.
But he said it at that moment. And he said, the key right now is most people build their business
and then take their life and try to get their life to fit their business, whatever they have left
over, right? Instead, why don't people do it the other way around where they figure out what kind of life
do the extra man to live and then design their business to fit that lifestyle.
And I'm like, what?
Yeah.
You could do that.
So why aren't we doing that?
And so the, it was like that perfect.
It was like, aha, my wife and I need to sit down for a second and figure out what do we
even want our lives to look like because we never took the time to do that.
And if I didn't have those failures at the end of 2017 and I actually got what we originally
wanted on our business plan, I wouldn't have had time to even think about that stuff.
we would have just been growing, right, and going.
I would have still hated it more.
So that was the aha moment.
And at that point, my wife and I made my wife and I sit down for three Saturdays in a row
with white butcher paper out.
And we started mapping out like, what do we want our actual life to look like on it?
Just next year.
Let's just start with 2018.
What do we want 2018 to look like?
Because I've had a struggle with thinking long term for a really long time because
I was like, I couldn't even think past six months or a month at times and stuff.
And so we worked on 2018.
And we said, what do we want to do?
most. What would make us most happy?
So the funny thing about this clip is that Tarrell, who's a friend of ours, right after we
recorded this episode with him, like an hour later, I called him. And I was like, Tarrell,
you said on the interview we did with you, and it's not on this clip necessarily,
but you said your favorite thing in the entire world is diving. Like, just you love to dive.
Why don't you come to Maui for the winter and come hang out and dive more often? And he goes,
that's a really good idea. And like he took the advice he just gave and he built his life
around it. And now Taral is here. He's a block from me.
just like Josh Dorkins a couple blocks for me.
And now you're right here with me in this room.
Also because of advice you gave where you said,
David, you have some decision fatigue.
Why don't you come to Hawaii and get away from it all.
I'll get some perspective.
Got you out here.
So it's interesting that Tarle came out here.
And again,
it's similar what we just talked about,
this book Life and Air that I mentioned
and building your life around it.
Charles is a great example of that.
He leads his life by his lifestyle at this point.
Like, what do they want his lifestyle to look like
and he builds his business around it?
How are you doing that in your business, David?
Well, I really didn't put a lot of thought
into that until this trip. So getting away from it was a really big help for me. What I'm doing now
is I'm, this is not something I would totally do normally. I'm looking at creating, having the whole team
make vision boards. Oh, nice. Writing out, these are the things that I like. Being here in Hawaii
looking at condos, maybe we'll do a show where I'm talking about, like, what the experience has been
like coming out here to buy property has helped me to realize I want a couple of these and then I
want to get a property more like yours. So that's where I want to go. What would I need to do so that my
California businesses are still operating profitably and successfully if I'm out here more often.
Now my mind's constantly looking at what do I need? What do I have to change? What do I have to do
do differently? Who do I need to let fail a couple times to let them grow? All this stuff that I was
probably before this thinking more along lines. I don't want to go through that. That sounds too
painful. Well, now that pain doesn't seem so bad if it means that I get to be in Hawaii more often.
So, I mean, you're a man of influence. I'll tell you that. I'm a man of influence. I don't know.
what that means, but yeah, good stuff.
Like, it's good.
How do you think this stuff applies to people who are just getting started?
There's a tendency of people who are super successful.
Tarle, you know, Thatch, you or I, that we've got a lot of real estate, a lot of cashful
coming in.
How do you do this when you're just getting started?
Well, I think a lot of people already have it.
That's why they're listening to you and I on the podcast.
They know that they want something different than where they are, but they don't know
what that needs to look like.
You really, when I first joined Gobundance, this came up a lot.
Dave Osborne was constantly saying, well, what kind of life do you want?
what are your goals? Everything was about goal achieving. I'm like, I don't know what goals I have.
I just taking the most of what I got and trying to work with that. I didn't have a plan of where I wanted
to go. So I was very confused. It took me several years to get to even this point. It's okay to take
time worrying about that and thinking about it. It's a complicated process. You got to figure out what do
you enjoy doing? What feels light to you? What's your superpower? What are the things that are
currently draining you. It is a process to identify those types of things and label them out.
So I think that the 90-day intention journal is a really great place to get started because you're
going to write out your thoughts and what you want your life to look like. I think journaling and
saying what you liked about your day is really helpful because you can start to analyze,
well, this was awesome. This wasn't. I need more of that. And let it happen naturally. It's going to be,
you have to be purposeful about it, but give it some time to play out. And then once you identify,
this is something I don't want. Be really intentional about.
getting it out of your life, replacing it with something else. And I think it's, it is a journey.
It is not a one stop. Hey, I made a decision and it's all better. Let that go. That's, that's
hurting a lot of people. That's holding you back if you think, well, what's the one move I got to make
to get that property under contract or to change my life? It's a series of steps. And it's a muscle
that you have to build. But I would say for the new people, like when I was new, I didn't even know
what I wanted my life to look like. I just knew I didn't want to have to go back to being a cop.
I didn't know what I wanted to do instead. It was a scarcity mindset. And that's changed from spending
more time with you. Oh, that's cool, man. I will add this one thing. It's easy when people listen to
stuff like what Taral just said, be like, well, I want to dive every day and hang out in Hawaii.
And there's the phrase that we've been using a lot lately. And it's the you haven't, have you
earned the right to be able to do diving every day, right? Have you earned the right to be able to
go move to Hawaii? And for many people you have already. And if you have, you need to start thinking that
way. If you have not, it doesn't mean you can't start thinking that way. Like, what do you want?
You just may not have that yet. Like right now, Taral was able to go, you know,
I was diving in Hawaii sounds for the winter sounds fun.
So Taral came out here.
It's awesome.
And we hang out like almost every day now.
But he had built up a business over the last five or 10 years to be able to be able to do that.
So you might be listening to this in a different spot.
Still have the vision.
Start thinking what do you want?
What looks great?
And then build your business.
Start working toward that point.
So again, I want people to miss the point here just thinking, oh, you got like once
you get rich, you can do whatever you want.
No, you should start working toward that right now.
Start with the end in mind.
All right.
With that said, let's move on to the next clip.
Oh, and this clip is with actually my performance.
coach, Mr. Jason Drees from episode 403 of the podcast, one very popular episode of our show,
one of our first weekend mindset shows.
And he really pinpoints like the number one mistake that people make when they're set out to
accomplish something.
It's like a really simple shift that can totally change everything.
Let's listen now.
There's two decision making models, right?
And these actually stem back from the Tony Robbins days.
But the first decision making model is, okay, I'm going to get a property.
So let's decide, plan, commit.
I'm going to decide on the target.
I'm going to create a plan and then I'm going to commit to the target.
And they're getting stuck in the planning section because they're aiming for perfection.
Right.
So they're going decide, plan, commit.
So they're never actually committing to the end target.
They're trying to plan their way to a commitment.
The other alternative is decide.
Yeah, going to get one prop for my first door, first duplex.
Commit.
It's going to happen.
Absolutely.
Do I know how?
I don't know.
So decide, commit, figure out how.
That's where people need to go.
All right.
So I love this point.
I love this point that Jason makes today
is that so many people are,
what I say, they're interested in real estate.
They're interested in success,
but they haven't actually fully committed to it
because they don't know all the pieces yet.
They haven't put it all together yet,
so they haven't fully committed to it.
And therefore, they never take the steps needed
to get to the point to committing to it.
But like the idea says,
like the first step is deciding.
Like, are you going to do this or not?
Yes or no.
Are you pursuing financial independence to real estate investing?
Yes, I'm doing it.
Are you committed to it?
Yes, I'm committed to it.
I'm doing it.
Like, no matter what, come hell or high water, I'm doing it.
Now let's figure out how to do it there.
And it's just a different way of thinking because so many people just think, well, how do I do it first?
I got to know the whole step.
Have you found that true in your own life?
Do you feel like you made that adjustment?
Have you always been this way where you just like, you know, decide?
Like, have you been the opposite or which, which model have you followed?
I got very lucky when I was young with that.
I got into basketball at a very high level.
And I wasn't, I was athletic more than the average person, but not compared to the really
good basketball players I was competing with.
And I realized that my athleticism improved, my game improved from hard work.
My brain made this connection between if I stick with something and put a lot of effort,
magically the results I get will come up.
And then I just started applying that to everything else in life.
And I think everyone kind of needs that moment in their own life, what it is.
Hey, I didn't get good grades and then I learned how to study and I did get good grades or
whatever.
Because once you catch that momentum and that feeling, it starts to become very very, you
easy to say, hey, I'm going to do this and it's okay if I suck at it, I won't suck forever.
I think if you've never had that experience, you think in your own head, either I'm good at it
or I'm not. Oh, I'm not good at real estate investing. I don't know anything. I shouldn't do it.
But life doesn't work that way. Doesn't work that way for anything. Doesn't work that way for
working out, learning a new skill, like snowboarding. There's no one that goes out there and
crushes it snowboarding or surfing on their first time. There may be people that pick it up
faster than others. But a lot of that is like, well, what other things in your life did you do
and learn and the synapses in your brain were sort of connected.
So I think that's a big problem is if you haven't had something to build on in your past,
that this can feel daunting and you think you're doing it wrong.
And another point that they made that I really liked is the idea of perfection getting in the way.
That's huge.
And as a performance coach, I know Jason sees this all the time.
I struggle with this.
I'm looking at houses right now, a new place for me to go by.
I'm going to house hack in the Bay Area.
They're very expensive houses.
It's around a million and a half.
So it's a pretty big decision.
and it's easy to get sucked into, well, what's the perfect house?
What's the very best one?
And if I finally find the very best house, then the next question is, well, what if I wait,
will a better one come out?
And you never get out of that.
What I now do instead of thinking what's perfect is I say, well, is it better than where
I am right now?
Yep, then move forward.
If I find a better house after this one, I'll buy it next year.
That's such a healthier way to think.
Instead of, am I in perfect shape to go work out?
No, but would it be better if I worked out than if I didn't work out?
And if we all sort of adjust our expectations with, is this better than where I am?
Can I move the ball forward?
As opposed to can I get a touchdown on one play?
Progress starts to become a lot easier.
I really like, I love that analogy of like moving balls down the field, right?
Like if you're playing football, every play doesn't have to be a Hail Mary.
Like just continually drive that forward.
And I think that's a big piece of commitment is like I was like kind of 2019 or 2018, 2017 was like, you know, pretty satisfied with my real estate.
I had a big portfolio, almost 100 units.
And I'm like, well, what do I do next?
I'm not really sure.
And I was doing the podcast.
I wrote, you know, I wrote a book.
And it was good.
But I was trying to make a plan on what I was going to do next before I was going
into the like commitment phase or even decision phase.
So like I literally was like one day.
I was just like, you know what?
I'm doing mobile home parks.
Actually, I think I was with you that day.
I think we were out of go abundance thing.
I was like, I'm doing mobile home parks.
That's what I'm doing.
And then it was like, I committed to it.
I'm doing this no matter what I was in.
And commitment is oftentimes, it's something we say.
We can be intentionally committed to something.
but then commitment is reinforced by the actions that we then take repeatedly.
Right.
So if you're committed to losing weight and then the next day you're going to McDonald's for
every meal and then after you're getting pizza hut for every meal and like you're just
continually eating fast food and junk food, are you like you're not really committed.
You're just desiring it.
There's a huge difference between desire and commitment.
So I was like, I decided I'm doing it.
I'm committed to it.
I started taking little actions.
I started moving the ball down the field.
And as a result, that I figured out the plan.
plan along the way. It's like jumping out of an airplane and building your parachute on the way down.
Like I figured out the plan. I made a lot of mistakes the first few months and even in the first
year. I did things I wouldn't do again. Hire people I wouldn't hire again. But each of those
things taught me a little lesson. And we learned what better ways to do things, what not. And so like,
because of that now is why we, I think, have grown so much. So it's just a different model.
It's the decide, commit, then plan model. Every good football player knows that the big plays come out
of what you learned on the smaller plays. You run the ball. You. You.
You run the ball, you run the ball.
You start to notice that they're bringing their safety up to try to stop that run.
That opens you up for the big play.
Real estate investing is the same way.
I'm analyzing deals.
I'm making progress.
I'm getting base hits.
And then boom, because I'm in the game, an awesome deal crosses my path that I never would have
saw if I wasn't moving the ball forward.
So just adjust your expectations.
It's okay if you're not on your very first deal crushing.
And it doesn't have to be perfect.
In fact, if you're trying to be perfect, you're probably going to get passed up by everybody
who's not.
Yeah, that's so true.
All right.
For our last clip of the day, we're going to bring in Amanda Young.
So Amanda Young was on show number 422, just a little bit ago.
Amazing show.
A single mom who lost her job had no other options than to make real estate work.
So let's hear from Amanda right now.
All my bills are paid through my rental income.
My mortgage, groceries, gas.
I do not live an extravagant lifestyle.
My house is just a normal house.
I drive an old beat-up Toyota as a work truck.
So, you know, if you're not extravagant,
And then you can kind of get to a point where you don't have to have a W-2 income.
And what happened for me was the W-2 income was really holding me back in a lot of ways.
I did not have time to devote to real estate.
Real estate was my passion because between the time I bought my second rental and then started my flipping business,
I did have to go out and get another W-2 job.
And that really hindered my business in a lot of ways, but I had to do what I had to do.
And the end of 2018 corporate America quit me.
And my boss at a time sat me down.
And Kristen, I love you.
Thank you so much.
But she sets me down.
And she says, Amanda, this is not your passion.
Your passion is real estate.
And you need to follow your passion.
I have to let you go because I was in a sales position.
I didn't meet my numbers.
So she let me go.
But she says, this is where you need to be.
This is where you excel at.
This is what you're passionate about.
And one day I'm going to see you on TV.
And she actually, she saw me on TV.
I was on the Discovery Channel for doing what I do.
That's so cool.
Yeah, I love that story.
Because if you listen to the whole episode, she ended up,
she was buying like houses with sinkholes like problems.
Remember that?
Yeah, super cool niche.
Yeah, super cool niche.
And she ended up being on a Discovery Channel for that thing.
So, but I just, this is such a powerful statement from her,
this idea of if you keep your expenses low, like generally low,
when you're trying to build financial freedom,
It's so much easier to get that, to get out of the rat race.
In fact, I do this webinar, you know, you do them a lot too, but we do these webinars every
week for bigger pockets.
And a lot of times I have a poll that I pop up.
I say, how much money do you need to pay your bills?
Like, level one, financial freedom.
I like to say there's three levels, right?
Level one is like, I can pay my bills.
Level two is I can buy a jet.
Number level three is I can buy the New York jets.
So there's like the three levels, right?
So level one, what do I need to be able to do that?
Pay my bills.
Some people say $3,000 a month.
Some people say $2,000 a month.
But like, I would say a good chunk of them, say 15,000 a month, 20,000 a month, 25,000 a month, just to pay your bills.
And I'm like, man, the job is so much harder for those people than it is for the person that needs $3,000 a month.
So when I was 27, I hit $3,000 a month.
I was able to quit my job.
And because of that, I was able to go invest all my time into two things, bigger pockets and my real estate portfolio.
And because I had that, I kept my expenses fairly low.
and then I just creeped up from there.
Rather than make an expensive high, expenses high with your job
and then always struggling and never be able to leave your job.
So if there's like, you know, I mean, there's a lot of advice I'd give people.
But like if you're listening to this right now is keep your expenses low
if you're not yet at that financial freedom number and then just scale with your finance.
Scale with your cash flow rather than scale with your job income.
And that's so hard to do.
I'm so glad you share that story though.
Because I would think looking back if we said how did Brandon Turner become the legend?
That was a big component of it.
is you made yourself pivotable.
You weren't weighed down.
You could make adjustments.
You could take risks.
You learned faster than other people did.
Amanda was one of my favorite interviews of the year.
And her story reminds me of a scene in Batman.
I'm a huge Batman fan.
I love the Christopher Nolan movies.
And there's a scene where they're all stuck in a prison.
And let's say that that prison would be not being financially free.
And the worst part of this prison is you can actually see the way out.
You just climb up a wall and you can get out.
of there. So it torments you because you're looking at this carrot that you want so bad,
but you're reminded every day, I can't climb that wall. And I think that's how a lot of our listeners
feel. And the problem with getting out of that prison is you had to climb a wall and make a jump
from one rock to another. And they would all tie a rope around their waist. So if they missed the
jump, the rope would catch them. That way they wouldn't die. It would hurt, but they wouldn't die.
And nobody could make the jump. And Batman, who was stuck in there, talked to an old man who
told them about the one person that made the jump. And the secret was they didn't use the rope.
The rope was actually weighing them down. What you thought was keeping you safe was preventing you
from achieving your goal. So in order to escape, what he does is he takes that leap of faith.
He gets rid of the rope. He makes the jump. He catches the rock and he climbs out of the prison.
That W2 job, that security for many people is their rope. They're looking up and they want to get out.
They've tried a handful of times, but that security was too heavy and it kept them from making the jump.
So what Amanda realized was, hey, corporate America fired me or corporate America left me, whatever that was is a funny way of saying it.
So she didn't have that rope.
So she stumbled into this like I, she meant and made it because she had to.
She didn't have that thing weighing her down.
You stumbled into being financially free because you had very low expenses.
I don't think your plan was I'm going to be a multimillionaire.
You just knew, hey, it would be smarter to not have expenses.
So this is really about sharing how those people made it out of that prison so that more people can follow.
Yeah.
And one piece of just tangible advice in there.
I wrote this in the book,
How to Invest in Real Estate,
but I'll repeat it here.
Our income is oftentimes like this creature.
In fact, there's the movie Fantastic Beast
and Where to Find Them.
It's the Harry Potter spin-off.
In there, there's this creature called the Akami.
And this thing will grow to whatever size container you put it in.
So they put it in a teacup.
It's the size of a teacup.
You put it in a bus.
It grows to the side of a bus.
Our finances are just like that.
They grow to whatever size container you put it in, too.
So if you just make ten,
grand a month at your job right now. If you're listening to this, you're making 10 grand a month
of your job. My guess is you're spending between $9,000 and $10,000 every month. You might have a few
$100 a month you set aside for savings. You might have something, but everyone spends to what they make
for the most part. It's very rare to find people who don't do that. But those who do, I find most of the
times follow this exact principle I'm going to say here, and that is to find the way to shrink your
container. And you won't even notice it. So if all of a sudden your container was only $8,000 a month,
you would spend $8,000 a month. You wouldn't, you would not notice a, you wouldn't be cutting back.
You wouldn't notice anything missing.
You'd just be spending $8,000 a month instead of 10.
And then if you made that container seven, you probably wouldn't notice that either.
Maybe you got down to like three you would notice or four or five, you know.
And maybe it has to happen slowly over time.
But find ways that reduce your container.
How do you do that by having money sent from your direct deposit?
If you have a job that is direct deposit,
have it sent to another account that you don't have easy access to without online banking or whatever.
Have it sent to another system.
Pull more of it out into a Roth IRA.
Things like that, ways to divert your money so it doesn't land in your account.
Now, who's the best in, who's the best at understanding this and forcing us to all do this?
The U.S. government, right?
They don't tell you at the end of the year, pay us all the tax money owed us.
They take it as soon as it comes in.
And so, and I mean, I've known numerous entrepreneurs who, numerous entrepreneurs,
in fact, most of them, who they make a bunch of money throughout the year, whether it's
being a real estate agent, whether it's being, you know, whatever they do.
And then at the end of the year, they spend all their money.
They have no money for taxes because it's really, really, really hard to set that money
aside every month.
I mean, I've done it.
Many times I've done it.
I've spent the money.
I've set aside for taxes.
And it's like, I've got to scramble at the end of the year.
So the government knows it take it away.
So it's taking the same power, the IRS power, and putting in your own hands.
And so that's just a good way to be able to limit that.
So you limit how much you're spending now so you can spend as much as you want later.
It's just sacrifice.
It's what investing's all about.
Fantastic advice.
Thank you.
I'm a fantastic beast.
And now you know where to find me.
All right.
Well, we got to begin wrapping this show up.
This has been fun to kind of recap some.
of our favorite clips and episodes from the year. Of course, there are dozens and dozens of more
episodes. We launched over 65, maybe, or 70 shows. I think it was 65 shows this year because
we did one each week and then we doubled up towards the end of the year. So lots of episodes
to go back to listen to. So if you are looking for something to do over this holiday break or
in the new year and you want to fire yourself up, go listen to these episodes we just talked about
or go find one maybe that you have not listened to. David, what comes to mind for you if I had to
pick, if you had to pick one of your favorite episodes of the year? I know I'm putting you on the
spot here and we're not looking at the whole list.
But anything coming to mind is like, oh, yeah, that was a really cool episode.
Amanda Young's, the one we just heard was really, really good.
Ben Hardy and Dan Sullivan.
Yeah, both those were awesome.
Those were both really, really good.
All right.
I'm going to pull this up actually right now because I want to know some of these.
I kind of just scrolling through here, some of the ones.
I mean, there were so many good ones.
Greg Godday, like he was my partner out here in Maui.
He is awesome.
And he had a great story.
I love that episode.
I mean, every one of these is awesome.
AJ Osborne was amazing.
Rick Jarman was awesome.
So yeah, Rick Jarman episode number.
I'm sure we're number.
I came out on July 29th.
He actually passed away just recently.
And he was real estate old school on Instagram.
Amazing guy, amazing dude.
But sounds like he got the coronavirus and like hundreds of thousands of other Americans didn't make it.
Which is terribly sad.
So go back and listen to that episode.
Maybe that would be a great one to go check out and listen to.
And again, everything we talked about today, plus, I mean, there's so many on here.
I feel like lists every one of these.
But, yeah, well, we'll keep them coming in 2021 as well.
So thank you guys for being a part of Bigger Pockets podcast.
If you haven't yet, it's a rating and review.
We'd appreciate that.
And I'm going to let David take us out of here.
All right.
Thank you guys.
Hope everybody had a great 2020.
Let's go crush it in 2021.
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