BiggerPockets Real Estate Podcast - 507: Sacrifice, Failure and Pain, A 100 Days of Hell Success Story w/The Iron Cowboy

Episode Date: September 19, 2021

Finishing a triathlon is a grueling achievement, only accomplished by those who are in peak physical and mental condition. Once finished, the top of the top go on to train for an Ironman, arguably the toughest triathlon on the planet. One hundred and forty miles of pain and pressure, broken up into a two-mile swim, a one hundred and twelve-mile bike ride, and a twenty-six-mile run. This is not a race for the faint of heart, and if you can finish just one, you have bragging rights forever. What would it take for someone to finish not one ironman, not two, not ten, not twenty, but 100 consecutive Ironman races, back to back? Wake up, swim, bike, and run over one hundred and forty miles, go to sleep, and do it all over again. That’s what James “Iron Cowboy” Lawrence did, smashing through world records and personal goals. James sits down with Brandon and David today to talk about mental toughness, creating goals that scare you, gradually working your way up to mastery, and asking “what am I willing to sacrifice to reach the end?” James had to run a business, take care of his seven-person family, and compete for more than a quarter of a year straight. If he can conquer one of the greatest physical and mental feats the world has ever witnessed, what’s stopping you from accomplishing your goals? In This Episode We Cover: Pushing yourself past the limit to see what you’re truly capable of Breaking multiple world records and developing mental toughness  Why your goals should scare you enough to pursue them Why you don’t need to 10x your output and the importance of small steps Finding what you’re willing to sacrifice to reach your goal Why every great athlete, entrepreneur, and leader needs a rockstar team  Choosing the person who “doesn’t break” under hard circumstances And So Much More! Links from the Show BiggerPockets Forums BiggerPockets Youtube Channel BiggerPockets Podcast BiggerPockets Bookstore Open Door Capital BiggerPockets Perks BiggerPockets Insights BiggerPockets Books BiggerPockets Podcast 485: Atomic Habits That Help You Achieve Unthinkable Success w/ NYT Best Selling Author James Clear James “Iron Cowboy” Lawrence's Website Click here to check the full show notes: https://www.biggerpockets.com/show507 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is the Bigger Pockets podcast show 507. Every single time I'm doing something big, I'm like, this is it. Like, when I've done this one, I am done. And then you finish it and you look back on it. And it's like anything, when you're pushing limits and boundaries, dude, it's super tough when you're in the middle of it. And if you're truly pushing limits, then it's the hardest thing you've ever done to that moment. But then when you accomplish it, right, you take a look back, you analyze it. And you're like, ah, okay, I learned here, I grew here.

you know, and then you've got different perception and perspective on what was happening. And you're like, okay, now what's possible, right? You're listening to Bigger Pockets Radio, simplifying real estate for investors large and small. If you're here looking to learn about real estate investing without all the hype, you're in the right place. Stay tuned and be sure to join the millions of others who have benefited from BiggerPockets.com. Your home for real estate investing online. What's going on, everyone? It's Brandon Turner.

our host of the Bigger Pockets podcast here with my co-host, Mr. David does the work green. What's up, man? These nicknames are getting more and more show focused. I like it. I'm actually putting some effort into it now. Anyway, what's up, man? I'm going to ask you question. How's your workouts going lately? You've been at the gym?

No, I'm going today. I haven't been going a lot. I started jujitsu and my neck got cranked on quite a bit. So I've been in the chiropractic office and getting the same. massage and physical therapy trying to get it straightened out again. I always have neck and back problem. So I haven't done a ton of that, but I am going to be going today. And, uh, Jiu-Jitsu is sort of becoming a little more consistent. I'm getting two days a weekend right now. So the goal is to get to where I can get four days a week, probably not rolling every single day. That'd be a lot to just take on in

the beginning. But I want to get up to four days a week. Unless you're the iron cowboy, then five, seven days a week would be about normal. Yeah, seven days a week twice a day. He's like basically, I just count the time I'm not doing jujitsu. All right. So our guest today is the Iron Cowboy. It's named is James Lawrence, but he's known as the Iron Cowboy in the world of competitive athletics and crazy feats. Guinness World Record Holder multiple times ran 50, was it 50 triathlons and 50 days and 50 states?

And then a few years later, just recently did 100. triathlons in a hundred days. Just complete craziness. But it's also an entrepreneur, a speaker, and a awesome guy who's going to tell us a ton about what mental toughness is and how that works and how we can apply that to our business and our life to do better in every area of our life. It was really a really great conversation about a lot of different topics. And of course, it's about, you know, kind of wrapped in this idea of athletics, but I don't care if you've never walked a mile in your life. This show is going to, it's just going to deliver a lot of massive value to your life and things that you can apply to your business or your family life,

your entrepreneurship, your fitness, whatever. It's going to help you. I really think you're going to love this show. Now, before we get into it, though, let's get today's quick tip. You know, one of the things we talk about today on the show is this idea of starting small and scaling up. In real estate, we talk about something called the stack. It means you start small and then you maybe double every year or every time you buy a property and kind of invest outside your comfort zone. So here's what I want you to write down. If you could take five minutes today and write down what is that next purchase maybe it's your first purchase maybe it's you but maybe you've done 100 already what's that next purchase that scares you and now that's

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It's awesome to have you join us. Thanks, Brandon. Thanks, David. Happy to be here. Yeah, so let's jump into your story. I mean, I want to get through all the triathlons and the crazy feats you've done. But have you always been an athlete? Is that where this thing started or what was your background?

Yeah. I mean, I guess you would say there was a, gap in my athletic career. Just always been athletic kid, always love sports, the only one of my entire family. I've got sisters, only sisters, neither of my parents are athletic into sports. And so it's kind of like a lone wolf in my family. And I just found athletics in school. And I just did every time there was a tryout for any sport. And I mean, I was on the badminton team. I did all the cross-country events. I did handball, just everything.

And made all the teams and just had a ton of fun. It became kind of my thing to do. I grew up in Canada, and so you got really long cold winters. And if you're not playing hockey, you better be doing something else. You're getting in trouble. And so for me, it was just a lot of different sports. And I think, you know, I'm just trying to contrast to kids. of today, they just get so hyper-focused on one sport at such a young age because mom and dad

wanted to go to the Olympics. And I think they're doing a disservice to their kid and truly finding out what sport they truly enjoy and then really getting a well-rounded base of athleticism for that kid or that person. And so for me, it just started with playing every sport possible. And I gravitated towards wrestling in about seventh grade, still did all the sports. And then by the time I hit high school in 10th grade, I just went wrestling exclusive. And then for my last years through high school and a couple years after high school, that's all I did as I wrestled.

And so I really think that was an unbelievable foundation for me as far as athleticism. And also mental toughness. I get asked often, you know, when did that mental toughness journey kind of start for you? And if I was kind of a pinpoint, a time in my journey early on in athletics, it would be those wrestling days because I didn't start out a great wrestler. You know, you get, you get beat up when you don't know what you're doing and the kids have been doing it for a while. And it takes guts at that age, you know, 11 years old to say, okay, I'm going to go back out there

and get my ass handed to me again. You know what I mean? Yeah. And that just takes some early day resilience and stick to itiveness, if that's even a word. And so, you know, that was kind of the beginning. And then that lull after. competitiveness in high school and whatnot. There's not really an outlet.

You know, there's wreck murals and slow pitch softball and things like that, but that really wasn't my jam. And so I kind of got displaced a little bit. Still went to the gym, still did my weights. And then I got into running with my wife. I'd been married for a couple years. And really, she took me out to this four-mile fun run, and I kind of just suffered and staggered through it.

and I was a complete disaster. And I hated running. And I know with my history that comes as a bit of a surprise, I learned to enjoy it a little bit more. And then that's kind of how I stumbled into endurance racing. And as we'll talk about, things escalated from there. But it kind of all started after a lapse from, you know,

wrestling in high school and a little bit after high school into kind of just running with my wife. And we found triathlon together and really got into the multi-sport world and loved the community. It was kind of like in its infancy as far as like the big spike that it's had over the last little while. And it was just really cool. It was organic. It was fun. It was something new that I had never done before.

And I was good at it. And things are always more fun when you're good at them. And then I just really do it. Venn started to learn and just just kind of fell in love with endurance sports. That's good. Can you walk people through or explain what a triathlon is just so we make sure everyone understands? I'm sure it'll come before. Yeah.

So, so triathlon try is three. And it's a race that compiles three events, swimming, biking, and running. And within the triathlon family, there's there's four pretty main distances. So the shortest is called the sprint distance. And then it doubles and it's called the Olympic distance. and it's what they actually race in the Olympics. It doubles again to the half distance, and then it doubles again to the full distance.

And the most common brand of the full distance is called an Iron Man. And so a lot of people just think the race is called the Iron Man, but that's just a brand. It's actually a full distance triathlon. So it goes Sprint, Olympic, which they do in the Olympics, half distance, full distance. And so those are kind of your four, and they're all swim bike run,

kind of doubling each time. That makes sense. Yeah, I did the, I did the half, I did a half Iron Man a couple years ago, and it was, it was no joke. I don't think I'll, I don't think, like, I don't think I'll ever do a full because, like, and I want to ask your opinion on it, but I didn't enjoy the pain, like the pain or the struggle that went with it. Like, I didn't enjoy the biking or the swimming all that much. Like, there are sports I enjoy, but I didn't love that. But you enjoy, like, you're out there running. You're just like, this is great.

I enjoy this? Or is it always a struggle? Always like, oh, man. this is hard, but I just love the results from afterwards. No, see, I'm not, I'm not a big lover of training. I love to race. And it's no fun to suck at racing. And so for me, I tolerate and I do the training so that I can go out and perform and race

and compete. And my wife's the exact opposite. She loves the training aspect and then hates race day because she is so easy going, loves to have fun. She's, she's the person on the race course that's cheering. everybody around her and borderline obnoxious. But we love, we love those people too. And, but I, you know, I've, I love cycling. Like, I did a three-hour ride today on a mountain bike up in the mountains here in Utah. And it was spectacular. I loved every second of it. And then,

you know, I really don't enjoy like going out and pounding the pavement and going on a run like that. But I live in the, in the Rocky Mountains, in the Wasatch Valley here in Utah, just south of Salt Lake city and we have world-class trails here and I'll go on a two three-hour run and it goes by quick and it's enjoyable and you do it with a group of friends and so I've really started to enjoy the the training part of it and but I love the racing part that that's what's fun and as my career escalated I've got more into more of pushing you know human potential like truly finding out what your body and mind can do. And there is, there's, there's a little bit of enjoyment in that, that pain cave,

in that suffering mode. You know, and it's not a flex. It's just, you know, I can appreciate that moment because when you get to the other side of that, you know, that's what I did, you know, and that just that sense of accomplishment is, is super, super cool. You know, with the long endurance stuff, dude, I retire every single race in the middle of it. Like every single time I'm doing something big, I'm like, this is it. Like when I've done this one, I am done.

And then, you know, and then you finish it and you look back on it. And it's like anything, when you're pushing limits and boundaries, dude, it's super tough when you're in the middle of it. And if you're truly pushing limits, then it's the hardest thing you've ever done to that moment. But then when you accomplish it, right, you take a look back, you analyze it. And you're like, ah, okay, I learned here, I grew here. you know, and then you've got different perception and perspective on what was happening. And you're like, okay, now what's possible, right? And really, and then you continue to push that envelope. And, you know, we just did. We're just coming off of a huge, huge campaign that lasts

at a quarter of a year. And I can honestly say that I'm fully satisfied. I have found a limit to my satisfaction. I truly believe that I could take on any challenge physically and mentally if I prepared well for it, I just, man, I just, I want to get more into a comfortable, the comfortable phase of my life. Yeah. Where I'm just not like burying myself, you know. I'm getting a little bit older. I'm, I turned 45 in the middle of that journey.

I've got five kids that are right in that age to like 12 to 18, 19. And they're like, okay, they're transitioning in. I'm going to blink. They're going to be out of the house. And so for me, it's like, okay, this is a really meaningful six years with my family. kids and kind of a they're all super you know in a time of their lives where they're absorbing their sponges and what we do and say really makes a difference in this time of their lives and so you know I I'm busy with with business and I'm busy with training and still maintaining my health and

I'm still doing races that you know trying to be competitive for my my age bracket I'm not I'm not winning races anymore that was years ago but but I still love to to push myself and see what I'm capable of, right? Like just testing myself against the course and the clock. Yeah, it's really good. So the event you're talking about is the 100, the 100, what was it, 100 day channel? What do you call it? The Conquer 100.

Conquer 100. Yeah, Conquer 100. And I followed every, every day of that of yours. And I want to get to that in a second. But first, I want to pull back to the 50. All right. So you did, was it 50 triathlons and 50 days in 50 states? Is that right?

Yeah, so 50, 50, 50. So what's back up even further? Yeah, please. 2010, I broke the world record for the most half firemen's in a year. And then I was like, well, I don't know anybody that wants to be the half Ironman world record holder. When there's fools out there, right? And so I'm like, okay, I'm going to do some research, find out what the full world record is. Looked up Guinness and found out the number.

And I was like, okay, I'm going to take that down. Ended up doing 30 full distances, 11 countries around the world, all official sanctioned events, race them all. one, two of them, play second five times, just had an unbelievable run, 39 years old. And again, when you finish that, you're like, holy crap, that was the hardest thing I've ever done. But then you look back and you go, okay, you know, a year after you're like, okay, what's possible? And I started to put together the 50. And what that is is it was 50 full distance triathlons. And just for the listeners that don't know, a full distance is a 2.4 miles.

swim, a 112-mile bike ride, followed by a full marathon run, which is 26.2 miles. So that's 140.6 miles. And so I said, you know what, I want to do 50 consecutive of those. And then to make it even harder and push myself, I want to do one in every single state again consecutively. And so 50, 50 Iron Man's, 50 days, 50 states. And so at the time, my kids were six to 12, five of them. And we loaded up in a motorhome, and we started in Hawaii and went to Alaska. And the team was waiting for us there in Washington, and we did the lower 48. And it was an unbelievable journey.

We've got a documentary on Amazon Prime called The Iron Cowboy, and we've got a book called Redefined Impossible that's available on our website and also Amazon and also Audible. But, yeah, I mean, that's just, that's really pushed us. And it took me six years to where I wanted to even do anything else. And I was just so busy. I mean, after the 50, people were so fascinated with how we did it, why we did it, what that took. My wife, Sonny's perspective, the five kids, like, how on earth do you logistically do something like that? And the project got called redefined impossible. and and I just got swept away into this world of speaking.

I mean, I did not anticipate ever being a motivational speaker. And I actually don't, I don't even, I hate the word motivational speaker. I think, I think it says, you know, it's cliche as, you know, the guy down by the river, his speech. And so for me, I just like, I don't, I don't thrive off of motivation. And so I never understood that world. And I love, I do love the stories. and the inspiration that comes from that. But I like to empower people to where they're not just motivated,

but they're empowered to go do something. They actually take action. And I kind of got swept into this world of speaking. And over the past five years or six years, I've spoken to 48 countries around the world, and we've done hundreds of events. And we've done no marketing, no advertising, just straight word of mouth. And the pandemic hits, right?

And literally, beginning of March, in 48 hours my calendar gets wiped clean. We're talking no racing. That means no coaching, which we did a lot of, which means no speaking. Everything involved gatherings of large amounts of people. And so instantly overnight, everything got wiped off the table. And it was an incredible blessing for our family. And I know lots of people have suffered around the world and complete empathy and sorrow for those individuals. But for us, it was just this opportunity to gather as a family and have some of that together time again. And then for me personally, it was an opportunity to craft kind of the last dance,

if you would, that I wanted to do for my career. It gave me a full year of training and planning to where the Conquer 100 was conceptualized. And I had an opportunity to really go after it. Do you remember the moment where you're like, I'm going to do 100? I mean, nobody that had ever done 50 and 50 before, right? I mean, I assume that was the first time. And so rather than doing like 60 or 70, like what, do you remember when you were like, you know, I'm going to do 100 and why 100?

Like, yeah, it just seems so crazy to me. Yeah, it is a crazy number. It's big. And to be honest with you, I just kept getting the impression 100, 100, 100. And I'm like, no, that's stupid. And I didn't know why 100. And then I was like, let's just do 75. And then I think about 75.

And I'm like, that really doesn't scare me. Like that seems really doable to me, especially because the whole premise behind the 100 was like, okay, if the 50 was chaos, logistics, confusion, exhaustion, if we removed all of that to the best of our ability, did it in one location, which was around our home in Utah, slept in my own bed, controlled the food, didn't have the intense travel. Yeah. Could we double it? you know and then you know the number 100 was kind of a cool number it doubled what everybody was was like losing their minds over and then i was like okay i believe like mentally and physically okay if we can control a lot of these variables and just have to worry about physicality and and the mental toughness of it i think i believe a hundred is possible and so that's kind of

the premise of where i was coming after it from and uh and then i just I just started to plan and tried to figure out, okay, what's the best way to train for this? How do we minimize the amount of chaos, the distractions to make this a possibility for our team? I noticed this like this pattern that's not the right word of doubling that keeps coming up, this concept where you know, you take a regular sprint, you double it, you double it, you double it, then you say, all right, let's do 50 these in 50 states, which is more than twice of what anyone thought could probably be done. And then you took that and you doubled it. And Brandon talks a lot about a method we have in real estate investing. He calls the stack where you basically say buy a house and next year by two and next year buy a fourplex and next year by an eightplex.

And there's this maybe this like mental frame that you can look at what you believed was possible could be doubled, right? To 10 exit a lot of times you're like, oh, my brain just doesn't believe that's true. And to repeat what you did before you sort of start to lose confidence in your own self because you already know you did that. So you're not making progress. You're not improving. and so what's the fun in doing it?

And I'm just curious if you could share if this doubling thing is a complete coincidence or if there's actually a method to that madness with how you pushed yourself through this rule of doubles. Yeah, I think total coincidence. But now that you bring it up, you know, I read the stuff and 10x and all that. And I'm like, okay, that's a great concept and all. But it becomes so far outside of someone's realm of possibility. And I believe that big goals like that take time and you have to have stepping. in order to gain that knowledge and experience.

Because you're going to make mistakes along the way. And if you 10x something out of the gates, you're going to fail. And yes, there's going to be an outlier that figures it out, that gets lucky, that does it. And then everybody tries to build their campaign off of that success story. But it's smoke and mirrors in my opinion. And I have seen, like we coach and a lot of people contact us because we are the front runners in successfully doing big campaigns and challenges. But what people don't realize is.

I started with a very achievable half-iron man, half-distance goal that at the time was challenging me and pushing my limits, but wasn't out of the question as far as where I was starting. And I think that's a great lesson for people, whether it's in business and anything that they're doing. Yeah, we want to push the envelope. We want to make ourselves uncomfortable. But we also want to gain momentum and success. And I say all the time that like, guys, success breeds success, confidence breeds confidence. And we want to create an environment of winning and momentum. And if you just, if you just, you got, I get it, man, shoot for the moon, train big and all that stuff.

But there's got to be a journey on that path to getting there. And what I see a lot of people doing is they don't respect the goal that they've placed for themselves. And they've just like, they get super pumped. They get motivated, right? And they get outside of themselves. And ultimately it's a path to failure. And now what do you have? You've got a resume of failures that, you know, now they're saying, oh, you know what?

I'm going to learn from my failures and do it. I would rather learn from my successes and have small failures on the way to those successes than to constantly have these disastrous dumpster fire fails on these massive accomplishments. And I think there's a massive mental paradigm. shift that people could be having and be gaining momentum and confidence. Because like I said earlier, I don't think there's a goal that if I was passionate about it, believe that the risk reward is worth it, that I couldn't achieve. Now, the caveat or the asterisk, so that is, depending on the size of the goal, will determine how many, many goals or stepping stones along the way that I have

to have in order to get there, right? That's what people don't do, is they just go. from boom couch to 100 i call it you can't go from zero to 100 like you just can't do it you got to learn how to you know do the small things to get that foundation i see people go from from couch to to full distance all the time and they struggle through it they hate it probably like you did brandon and you you hated it because you didn't do the journey you probably suffered a lot you didn't have the foundation a lot of people don't know the beginning of my career i did three to four years of exclusively fast speed sprint distance racing. And what that did is that built an incredible foundation of strength,

durability, and allowed me to be an injury-free athlete. If you look at every single world champion today in the long-distance part of our sport, guess where they all came from? Olympic ITU fast as hell racing. And then they went to halves and then they went to fools. but that's a journey over a long period of time. If the world champions of the sport,

like I'm talking the best in the freaking world at the time, are following that type of progress and stepping stone methodology, why should you the weekend warrior not follow those same principles? You're going to get burnt out. You're going to get injured. And you're going to walk away from the sport with a bad experience. And so why put yourself through that? Take your time.

And I get it because people are like, oh, I got go all in. go bigger, go home, and they go, oh, a sprint triathlon. That's a, that's a wussy thing to do. I'm not going to do that. No, dude, if you race an all-out sprint, like, it is a gut wrenching, turn yourself inside out hour of hell. And an Olympic is, you know, hour 50 to 210 of hell. And so you can really challenge and push yourselves at those lower ones.

And there's so much frigging benefit to starting there. Any one of my long-distance athletes that have been with me that, like, they were just insistent on doing a full. and I was like, fine, I'll coach you to a full. I've over time convinced them, let's go back to the basics. Let's work on your speed, your foundation. The reason you're getting hurt is because you haven't developed that amount of speed and intensity at those shorter distances.

You're not learning the fundamentals of how to do it. It's like you don't go in and you don't buy a 30-unit apartment complex on day one. Dude, go buy a single-family residence, figure out what it is to manage one unit, just one. see what that takes. And you're going to learn. You're going to F up and you're going to learn what it takes. And then you're going to go, okay, okay, learned, grown, let's do two, just like what you guys said. And that to me is the same as like, let's do some sprints. Hell, let's do some 5Ks. Let's get some raw 5K power and then move on. I think there's so much wisdom to what you're saying as you're talking. Examples are popping off in my head of how I've seen more injuries. This is funny in my entire like athletic career in softball games. running from home plate to first base. Everyone blows their hamstring out because blows their hamstring and tweaks their meniscus.

And it's 45 feet or whatever it is, but it's because you're not in any form of condition to be doing that thing, right? Like you could run a triathlon. And it's flag football. Same idea, right? And I think about investors. Pickleball.

Yes. There's like all these examples start popping off in your head, right? Of like every time I got hurt, it's because I went back in the weight room. And I remember the weight I used to lift. And I thought, I can probably get most of it. And then some ligament that wasn't even tied to my muscle just couldn't handle the strain that I put on it.

And it ripped. And it's my fault for not letting that ligament build up, right? Like the worst fad that ever showed up was CrossFit. Oh. And every chiropractor and every PT in the world is like, yeah, CrossFit, maybe let's go. Bring on the insurance claims, man. I love it. Bring on the PT.

Ankle surgeries, knee surgeries, shoulders. There's, I mean, ever, these, these guys are like, yes, do more CrossFit people. Yeah, and we see this. Jump in right there and do the heaviest Olympic lift you can. And you know what? Do it as fast as you can. And when you're tired and you can't do it anymore, throw your form out the window. It doesn't matter.

Just get to 100, however ugly it takes to get any way you can. Get to 100 as fast as you can blow out your knee. So we see this a lot with clients that I'm working with trying to buy like their first house. And they basically have a goal, a hundred. 100x goal of financial freedom. I don't want to have to work ever again for the rest of my life, which is really a much bigger goal than almost every human being actually gives it credit for. What you're saying you want to accomplish, never work again ever, is a very difficult thing to achieve.

It is also a worthwhile goal to pursue. So you're not living your life as a slave to money. It's going to take some work to get there. And they try to do it in one deal or two deals. And they're looking for this unicorn that's out there that in one fell swoop, they can just boom, achieve it. And then it doesn't happen. And then they get discouraged.

And then they think real estate's not for me. And then the sourness starts to set in. And everything goes wrong, whereas if they could just listen to the advice James is giving and say, you're not trying to get financial freedom with the house. You're just trying to learn how investing works. And then you're trying to learn how to do it at a little bit of a bigger level. Like my first world record. World record was in 2010.

That was 11 years ago. That first world record was a stepping, the smallest of stepping stone. for me. And now I've done sports endurance history. And in my mind, I'm thinking, okay, I have five to ten years of a lot of really hard work before I can exit this game. Five to ten more years after giving everything I have for 11 years. That's going to be 21 years of going all in before I'm like, okay, I now am going to have complete financial. 21 years. And, I was like, yeah, which, which MLM should I jump on right now? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

And try to, okay, that lotion is going to do it for me. You know, it just, I laugh and people are like, no, it doesn't matter if you're doing MLM or whatever. Like, you can make a lot of money, but it just takes so much time. Guys, the secret to success is doing a lot of little things consistently. Here's the catch over a long period of time. Yes. And it's a foundation and foundation and building, building.

you have to build those building blocks. A mansion starts with one brick. A mansion literally starts with one brick. I'm still a decade out of putting the top spire on my mansion. And I've put in hell at work to this point. But most people aren't. Here's the thing. Everybody knows what they want, right?

I know what I want. I want the car. I want the boat. I want the hot trophy wife. I want the amazing kids. Everybody knows that they want. New Year's coming. around like everybody knows what they want they're asking the wrong question what are you willing to

sacrifice in order to get it and if you can reverse engineered and then start to start to like really really hone in on what you're willing to sacrifice now you're getting closer to what you can accomplish and get so you need to flip that script and go now what do i want what am i willing to sacrifice and how do i divvy that up and change that narrative now we're getting in somewhere. I think there's a lot of wisdom in that too. I think most of us when we see that there's somewhere we want to be that we're not. The first question we say is, well, what more do I have to do? We're very comfortable with saying, what do I have to add on to my life? But typically success comes from me saying, what am I willing to let go of, which is what

you're saying here, what am I willing to sacrifice to have what I want? And I also, the last thing I'll add is I think that in order for predatory companies to take advantage of somebody, a nasty MLM or in our world there's all these gurus that say give me $80,000 and I'll teach you how to flip a house. They have to sell you on the dream of the one punch knockout. Give me your $80,000 because I can teach you how to take somebody out with one punch and you can skip the consistency and the fundamentals and the building blocks. And that is literally how people are taking advantage of. If we can remove that element of wanting to skip the work just to get the result, people won't

be vulnerable to the point where they'll fall for this stuff. Dude, I don't even know a ton about real estate. And just you're saying that, I'm like, take that 80, divide it into four, take 20, put it down by four single residences. Yep. And now you're actually getting real life experience. Sure you're going to make some mistakes, but you're going to get at least one good property out of that and then take that flip it and sell it. Now at least you have an asset instead of whatever. I don't know.

There's just so much. That you could have heard on this podcast. Yeah, for sure. I'm just like, take that 80 and buy some property. Yeah, because you will learn. I don't know anything about. I don't. Like, I'm a dumb athlete, right?

But you're spot on with what you just said. Even I can just get that concept just in the last 30 seconds. Yeah. Yeah, it's just because people want the easy way out. They want that financial freedom fast, which is one thing me and David talk a lot about is great. Like, you can pursue that. Like, you can pursue being a triathlet or winning the Ironman.

Great. That can be the goal. But yeah, you're not going to go out there immediately from day one and go try to try to win that in the first race, right? Like build it up. So be comfortable knowing that it's going to take. a while, it's going to be uncomfortable. I mean, David and I have both been now investing for almost 15 years. And so when people see us buy a multimillion dollar property and we're like, oh, yeah,

I just bought a new thing or put it on my Instagram and I talk about it. Like people are like, wow, yeah, I can do that too. I'm like, yeah, you know how many houses I crawled underneath and like insulated myself and how many three in the morning paint nights my wife and I would do together where we're just painting units? Should I get it ready for a tenant who was just going to end up leaving us anyway in the middle of the night two months later? Like, we went through all of that so that we could get to where we're at today. And, you know, 10 years from that will look differently. I just put it out one more analogy, kind of spin on our metaphors. David and I here both have started doing jujitsu. We use us, we bring up jujitsu every episode now of the podcast because

I don't know, it's our life. But like when I asked my, my kind of instructor, his name's Jerry, like, so how long until like, you know, if I'm doing this consistently, how long until I get like the black belt, right? That's like the ultimate. Like, I want to get a black belt. How long it's it going to be? You know, honestly, in my head, I was thinking a couple years. He's like, I don't know, probably 15 years. And I'm like, 15 years. Like, that's insane. And like maybe 20.

It depends. You know, 10, 15, 20 years, depending how much you want to put into this. But it's not going to happen overnight. But just recognizing that. Yes, there was an initial like, whoa. But now that I know that it's there, it makes the whole journey easier because now I have a long-term outlook.

And same thing is true with financial freedom. If you just accept that it's going to take you a decade or longer to get financial freedom, and maybe it'll happen earlier because you're, you know, uniquely qualified and special and you bought some amazing property or the market just happened to do something good for you. But yeah, keeping that perspective when you start a long journey, whether it's athletic, business, entrepreneurship, real estate, whatever, I think just kind of helps you redefine the whole journey and then you just come at it from a different point. Well, and I'm going to go out on a complete limb and I just wrote this down, but I'm going to say

there isn't a single, not a single successful person out there that started their journey as an expert. Not a single one. Like they all, at the beginning of their journeys, they all had limited experience. They had a get up and go attitude, right? And they had probably they bootstrapped it, but not a single person at a really successful level

started out as an expert on any of their journeys. They just said, okay, I know enough to at least get in trouble and get going, but I'm going to dive in and I am okay making a few mistakes along the way because that's the only way to learn and grow. And you want to try to learn from other people's mistakes as best you can. But ultimately, dude, nobody's an expert when you start. My journey, trust me, like I said, I struggled through a four mile front run. My first triathlon, dude, I didn't know how to swim. I did, I didn't know how to swim. I got, like I laughed at and mocked in the pool because I was

like halfway through this 400 meter swim in a pool. I am literally hanging. on the side of the pool gasping for air with a nose plug on. I'm telling you, nobody would have looked at that guy in that moment and said, yep, endurance sports histories. And here in his future, go get after it, right? So I'm just, I'm just saying like that, you have to start somewhere. You have to know just enough to be dangerous. And you just got a lack of a better analogy, you just got to jump in the pool, nose plug and all. And just get after it and make some of those mistakes and come up gasping for air and get back in fight in support of that i would say there's a jiu jitzu analogy and a business analogy here there's a wild difference between your wrestling coach saying listen man you got to keep your elbows

in if your elbows go out he can get an underhook and take you down and you nod your head and say okay i understand versus you are in a match and a person does that to you and drops you on your head and embarrasses you in front of everybody or in jiu jihitsu right like you you didn't do the move the way they said, and so you didn't finish them. And then you gas out. And now they turn around and they punish you for 10 minutes. And you go crawling back to your coach and say, okay, now I will listen. I've just seen this in business. I've seen this in sports. I get why this is important, right? What we see, the people that sit on the sidelines, they hear what we're saying. And they're like, okay, I get it. I have to do these things. But until you jump in the pool, you don't understand

at a emotional level how important this advice that you are getting about the right form or the right, whatever is. And that is why, James, what you're saying, it's so important to so many people, because you could hear the words and nod your head and say, okay, I understand. I need to do the choke this way. But until it doesn't work or someone does it to you and you can't get out of it, it gains a whole new level of importance with the level of commitment you put into it. And we see this with like the realtors on my team. I'll say, hey, this is how you got to say something. Until they get in an open house and they totally screw the pooch and the person walks out the door because they blew it, they don't take my advice all that serious. And that's,

In support of your point, I've just seen this at so many different things in life. Yeah, I mean, I just wrote down knowledge without execution is the same as not showing up. You can have as much knowledge as you want, but without, I mean, great, take course after course after course. And if you don't do anything with it, it's the same as never taking the course. And so why waste that money and the time and energy? And so stop taking the courses and just take the knowledge that you currently have today. and start knocking it out of the park. Because that's, like you said,

that's the only way to learn. You got to take a knock or two. You got to get the wind knocked out of you. You got to be gasping for air in that water, you know, square on your back in a match. But that's just life. Yeah, that's good. People love to call real estate passive income,

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wrong one went right very few things went right um even with as as much experience as as i had going into it um and as much things as we tried to control and i mean you got to think again great example i had 10 10 years worth of experience and we tried to push limits and boundaries and we jumped in with an insane amount of experience and still everything went wrong and we had to figure it out. If I did it again, I could do it a lot better. But we decided to keep showing up and we were ultimately successful. But if I, if I'm to contrast the 50 versus the 100, the 50 was logistically chaotic. It was tons of learning, mentally and physically understanding what the mind and body can do. And it was just an overwhelming amount of fatigue and exhaustion because we're just

dealing, always dealing with something. And with the 100, I was, you know, 39 during the 50, and I turned 45 during the 100. And so you're, you're a different physical being at 45 than you are at 39. And, you know, sometimes you take for granted the experience that you have. You think you're prepared for something. And it just like checks you immediately. And, you know, I kind of, you know, once you go public with something like this, and you set the date and then you've got sponsors and commitments and media and everything behind it. It's go time, whether you know, really want to or not. And I kind of came into it with a little bit of an injury that I didn't tell anybody about because I was kind of backed into a corner.

And I was like, you know what, I'll manage it. We'll get through. And I had this ankle injury. It didn't realize it would manifest into what it did. And it just exploded up my leg that led to some really intense shin pain that went into the hip. And so this 100 campaign turned into two things. One, pain and managing that pain and injury and then just sheer longevity. You know, you hear 100, okay, 100 consecutive days.

Dude, that's a quarter of a year. Do you imagine staying mentally sharp in the grind, getting the shiz beat out of you for a quarter of a year? No days off, day in and day out, 140 miles a day. the compounding effect of that. So really the hunter became just a battle of managing pain, figuring out the constant movement of injury, and then managing mentally and physically a quarter of a year of the compounding nature of 140 miles a day,

which is it's so hard to put into words what that feels like, what that looks like. but just do any, dude, brush your teeth for a quarter of a year and nothing. You know, some people would really struggle with that type of consistency. And to be all consuming for a quarter of a year, it got intense, it got real. And to just stick with something for that long, that is that challenging was, was really, really tough. Did you get worse and worse throughout it? Like, in other words, slow down.

Was it, like, consistently every time was harder than the last, where you, you know, were you crawling across the finish line at the end? Yeah, I just have enough experience with these type of things that I know I'm going to get stronger. It was interesting that people were like, okay, we're going to join, we're going to join you like 80, somewhere in the 80s, 90s, maybe 100 when you've really slowed down. And our entire team was like, you don't want to do that. You want to join him early when he's intentionally pacing, when he's still adapting

and adjusting because once we figure it out, the back-house. have with this campaign is going to be lightning and we're going to get through the injuries. We're going to get stronger. And we had analysts from, you know, cardiologists from UCLA, top doctors analyzing our patterns, our sleep, our heart rate variability and all of it. And we started to see improvements. And our, if you look at my bike times throughout the entire hundred, we got faster. We started breaking our times as we're going deeper and deeper.

We got into this. I think on day 100 it was our fastest overall time for the entire event and we were the second or third fastest time on the bike. The last two weeks I think we broke the course record

five or six times. We were dropping people that came out to participate with us on one day. And I mean, just through experience, we told people like, look, hold on

because we are going, we throw down on the bike. We go out there and we bike really, really hard. And then on the last day, obviously we try to lay things out on on the line and and just give everything you have knowing it's it's the last day that's insane i didn't realize that you would improve i just assume you just get worse and worse but i guess that's like the power of momentum it's it is it's success and momentum and and what

happens is is when you go from a a normal training camp because you're trying to avoid injury you're trying to stay sharp you don't want to get hurt and then the campaign starts and you're like I got to do 140 miles a day. Your body goes hold on and it goes into this freakout mode where you're really ramping up the volume. And so the hardest thing, you know, the first five, you're like, okay, that's easy. Five through 25 is really the hardest part of the campaign because your body's like, what are we doing?

And it tries to do everything it can to stop you. And whether that's in the form of inflammation or injury or it's just trying to protect itself and trying to get you to stop, you know, that's the most challenging part. And that's when everybody quits, right? And then they don't push and get to the point where the mind and body come into harmony with each other. And you really figure it out and get to a rhythm. And it just, it took forever for that to happen to us. And honestly, it was like day 85 to where we like really got into sync to where I was pumping out consistent times, getting faster, really over the main part of the injury fatigue.

I mean, it got to the point, you know, early early on where the shin was such a problem. problem, the pressure got so much it felt like my leg was going to break during the marathon. And long story, won't get into it, but miracles happen. And, you know, in success in life, you have to have a lot of skill, a lot of grit, but there's some luck involved. And we ended up getting, coming across this person that had access to a carbon plated brace that offloaded the shin that allowed me to continue and do the effort. and recover that stress fracture in my shin and continue on the, I mean, just so many things had to

happen and come into alignment. But it did. And so just these small miracles. But yeah, I mean, that early adaptation is the hardest thing. And as we progressed, you gain more knowledge, you gain experience, you gain momentum. And we did. We got faster. Did you ever have a point where, I mean, I know mentally you're probably like, I'm just going to

quit. I got to quit. Was there ever like a serious moment where you were like, I'm done. I can't do this anymore. And somebody talked to you off that ledge. Yeah, no. Yes and no. I mean, the team I put together is so excellent. And we've been together for long enough that we understand that, look, we're not going to quit, but there's going to be moments where we have to process. And it's okay to cry. It's okay to feel. It's okay to piss and moan. But as long as we don't stay there for very long. And that's why we're so successful is because our core team, we all have that mindset. And we just rally around each other. We let the moment happen and we get them through it and have what I call a quick turnaround. And as long as you can have those quick turnarounds and don't really hyper-focus

on that and get back on track, it's okay. And it's actually healthy to have those moments because we're human and we're going to have those lows. And every journey has insane lows and insane highs. I just remember a couple of times I was just like, to my wife, I was like, I don't, I don't know how many more days I can manage that level of pain. And it was always at the end of the day when I was like, that was almost my limit. And she would always say, look, we're done today. And you don't have to do any more work today. The team's going to take care of you, work on you. Let's wake up tomorrow and attack tomorrow when tomorrow comes. And that just became a routine to every night for a little stretch there in the middle. I was like, I don't know how many more

days, I can manage that type of pain. Because there was a stretch there where the pain got so high. I thought my leg was going to break. I was blacking out. The team would catch me. I'd come to. We'd do a countdown and get moving again. And it would repeat throughout the night until I got to the finish line. And so it just became this great piece of advice. The work is done today. You showed up. You did the work. Now, let's rest and recover. Let's hit the reset button. And let's attack tomorrow when it comes. And it became this great recipe for us to where like we'd fight all day long. We'd come right to our breaking point. We'd have success. And then we'd have to take that step back. You know, breathe through it, process it and then show up again. But that was the thing is you had to make a

conscious choice to show up. I got to ask the question a lot. Hey, at what moment did you know you were going to finish each day? And my answer was, as soon as I jumped in the pool and pushed off the wall to start the day. And like that was it. And so for me, it was like the biggest was like alarm to push off. Like if I can get that through that 30 minutes, I knew we were going to be successful because I could deal with anything that happened after that moment. Because once you start, you go, right? It's game on.

You're using the phrase we a lot. I'm wondering like how, I mean, you've talked about your team. Like, what are they doing and what kind of role do they play in this? I mean, you're the one running. And I feel like most athletes would just say me or I or I did this. But you're continually saying we did this. and you're treating yourself as a, like yourself as a team. Like how does that mentality play into your success?

Yeah, you know, nothing great. It's ever accomplished on our own, really. And anything that I've accomplished has always been. My wife, Sunny Joe is a driving force. She's the behind the scenes that a lot of people don't see. We do have a family that we have to run and manage it. We have a business. We have to run and manage.

And none of that stops. And we have five kids. And, you know, so that that's a huge part. She knows me really well. She has to manage me, my emotions, my food, my therapy, all of that. I mean, it just, it doesn't happen without that type of management and compassion and love. And then, you know, I've got what we call the wingman. I've got two guys that are full-time, Casey and Aaron.

And, you know, in the 100, Aaron's job was the bike. He did everything bike. He did all 100 bike rides with me. He managed, he managed a cyclist. He did the mechanicals. He took it down to the shop. He did, he just got, he was all things bike. And Casey was all things.

run and then I had a pacer in the pool that was all all things swim and so their job was to do that and that was their part of the journey and it just doesn't happen without them doing that part of it I was so you know I it took such a physical and mental effort that that that's my only job and that's all I can do and the the amount that it takes to do that I need other people to do those other jobs and and that that's why it's we we are I'm not the iron cowboy. We are the iron cowboy. I'm this head of the spear and people see me and I'm I'm the visual piece of what's going on. But there is so much going on behind the scenes that this head of the spear doesn't have any momentum without the stick, the shaft, the arrow, the person pulling all of that.

Like none of it happens. I am by myself, I lose velocity. I lose power. I lose momentum. I don't become a very powerful battle ram without the people behind it like knocking down the door right so it is so important to have an unbelievable team and it takes a lot of effort and soul searching and and going through experiences with what i do to find an unbelievable team don't take somebody at in their best moment put somebody through hell get them exhausted and tired now now what do they do who is that person and if that person performs really well, tired, exhausted, broken, confused, take them, put them on your team. Because everybody's great when they're great. It's can you be great when you're broken and you're supposed to suck, right? That's how you choose your team. Put somebody in a terrible

situation and see who they are in their darkest moments. That's such a good point. You know, when we're hiring people for, you know, I own a company called Open Door Capital. We buy a lot of apartments and mobile home parks. And we, when we're finding people, like, It's what my natural reaction is, who do I like or who's around me, who's got a pulse within my vicinity and I can grab them for my team. But in reality, like you said, everyone looks good. Everyone looks good on a resume. Every resume I've ever read looks great. Awesome.

Like, these are amazing. Yeah. Like, these people are great. But you don't know until they've gone through it. I use the analogy a lot lately of like, you know, Old Testament Bible. There's like David, right? David and Goliath. I've once heard of that story, David and Goliath.

And like, so little boy David goes to fight Goliath. to win the whole, you know, the whole war, basically. And the king of Israel is like, yeah, go ahead. Now, like, in what world would a king allow a little kid to go and, like, represent their country, right? It doesn't make sense, except for the fact that David had proved himself in those tough times. He'd killed, what, a bear and a lion. And, like, he was a lion killer. Already he had that reputation to himself.

That was an identity. He shows up there with a powerful weapon, that sling. And, like, that's why the king was okay, letting David go out. out there. And he knew he had that confidence. And he had that confidence because he, he had done the 5K. He did the sprint. He did the Olympic. He did the, he did the smaller stuff. So that way he could take on the thing, regardless of age. And so anyway, that's, that's been a big thing is we only hire lying killers. Like you've got to prove in our business that you've come through. Every single person I think in my company now has either been an intern, like started

from an internship of some kind and rose up. Or they've gone through a exhaustive like, you know, We have a thousand applicants for a job position and we'll whittle them down and we'll have to do test after test after test until we're left with one. And it's worked. I mean, like I think more than anything else, like our success we've had in real estate has been because, I mean, not I think. I know our success and our speed at which we've grown is because we only hire a lion killers and they have to prove it.

Yeah. Team is everything. For my business, I went through intern after intern that said they can do this and the resume said this. You know how my number one employee and my only employee right now is? My 19 year old daughter who's been through everything with us that understands it. And you know what? She's a frigging lion killer.

And she's unbelievable. Like if you watch The 100, you know Lucy, she was and managed that entire campaign. And she's a special kid. And she is that special because she has been in the fire on the battlefield with us the entire time through all of these journeys, all of these records. And she understands who we are at the brand, what we stand for. And she just gets it. And she's a lion killer. I love it.

Speaking of your kids, I mean, what world do they play in this? Not necessarily like the helping side, but maybe that as well, but like, like, how much motivation do they put for you? What kind of like, you know, a character you're trying to instill in them by what you're doing? Like, how does that, how does the kids play into this world of, you know, your crazy athletic? Yeah, I think the best advice I can give to any parent is set the best example you can because your kids are watching with an intent eye. And, and that's true with mine.

As my wife and I, we're not perfect. We totally struggle. We're learning as we go with kids too. But if we just try to be the, be the best we can and push our limits, our kids really pick up on that. And that becomes the new standard of excellence. We've, we've never set rules. We've only set expectations that have natural consequences and held them to it. We've never had to ground our kids ever. And it's because this is the standard. This is the expectation. And if you can choose, you can do that or don't do it, but then there's a natural consequence that comes along with that. Can you, can you say that again? And that was really good.

You don't set, I just want to hear that real quick again. You don't set rules, just the expectations and the consequences. What do you mean by that? Okay, real simple one. My daughter got her driver's license and she, we told her, she took the test, she knew what the speed limit was. If you obey the rules, you don't get any tickets, we'll pay for your insurance and we'll pay for your gas. And if you break those rules, you have total free agency, do what you want.

But if you break those rules and. the law comes in and says XYZ, that's going to have a natural consequence, a natural consequence of a speeding ticket. It impacts my insurance rate. Okay. Well, now, because you chose to do that, it was your choice, you now get to pay the difference. I'm not going to ground you. I'm not going to take away your car. I'm not going to punish you. But the natural consequence to you speeding is my insurance goes up. You are now responsible for that insurance hike. I love that. I think that's such better training for kids than just like, because I said so, right? Yeah.

Like that's what I want to say that to my kids all the time. I got a five year old and a two year old, almost two. Yeah, it's like, why? Because I said so versus this is what the consequence. That doesn't help them. No, he doesn't at all. And it's the easy way of parenting because I said so instead of taking the time and explaining why the consequence or natural consequence is happening and what it is.

we're just like get lazy and let her the law because I said so instead of really explaining to them why. Like early on my daughter, we said, hey, don't step on that metal plate. It's really hot. And she didn't know what that meant. And then she stepped on it and burnt her feet. Guess what? She now knows what it means. If I step on something that's really hot, it's going to hurt. And she had to have that experience. And that was the natural consequence of doing it. I was going to say the older I get, the more I see that so many of life's complications come from our own efforts to separate consequences from decisions that we make. Life is actually remarkably simple.

And we complicate it when we try to say, how can I get the result I want by skipping the consequences that would come from the decision that I'm making? Oh, man, so what's next for you? I mean, where do you say you said you kind of want to go into a phase of your life where things slow down, but you're still racing. I mean, like, where are you headed up to this point? Yeah, I really enjoy the cycling aspect of triathlon. I think I've accomplished everything I want to do in the triathlon world,

and I really enjoy riding my bike. And so I really enjoy getting off the road and up into the mountains. And so I'm just going to do just try to be as strong as I can on a bike, really enjoy it, don't take the fun out of it, and then just be the best weekend warrior that I can be. My focus shifts to speaking, empowering other people, because I've learned through traveling to the world, like people are generally stuck. And it's the conversations they're having with themselves.

It's the space between their ears. It's excuses that they're giving themselves. It's the entitlement that they feel is justifiable. And so really, I want to just share the message and be the ultimate example, you know, for my type of thing that just says, look, there are no excuses. You take full accountability. You get up and you have to do the – I mean, I'm wearing a show right now that says, do the work.

That is such a foreign concept to some of the newer generation. It's staggering. My daughter is a supervisor at a pool for lifeguards. And there's a three-strike policy on a no-call, no show to work. Can you remember any job you've ever had when you were growing up? What would have been the natural consequence? one time. You don't, there isn't, you don't show up and don't call one time. You don't have a job. And so I was just completely floored with, you know, you're allowed to no call no show three times.

It was just ass and I, just shocking to me that that's what we're dealing with nowadays. And so really, I'm kind of on a mission to help people get out of their own way, realize that they have to show up. They have to do the work to be accountable that if you suck in life, it's your fault. If you're awesome at life, it's your fault. And surround yourself and put yourself in a situation that gives you every advantage that you can and fight for it. And I don't care where you come from. I can show you a success story from I had nothing. I was born in this neighborhood to I was born with everything. It is possible. We are human beings.

And I'm strictly talking in the United States. like you can like i don't know the landscape of india or mix and all these different places right i know i know canada that's where i grew up and was raised and i know you the united states there's so much opportunity there's so much that can be achieved and it's our responsibility to learn educate ourselves and then show up and get after it because it truly is attainable i i came from a from a country with literally a couple hundred bucks in my pocket and i knew one person in the United States. And I've now traveled around the world. I've achieved a lot of things. I'm very well connected. And it was all because I decided to show up with intent in my life because it was up to me,

whether it was going to happen or not. That's phenomenal, man. I want to shift over to the last segment of our show here called The Famous Four. But before I do, I do have one quick question. What do you listen to when you run or bike nothing or your music, podcast, what's your listening? Yeah, I do a lot of podcasts. I do a lot of audio books. So I kind of will start my rides as I'm warming up with an audiobook or a podcast and just trying to gain some knowledge. And then once I get into the meat or the intense part of it, I'll put on music. And then I'll either finish in silence or go back to a radio book or just continue with music. So just kind of all of it, I'd like to learn when I'm out there.

And that's kind of the best time to do. Because I'm at home. I obviously the kids are full bore. And then we've got podcasts and business to run and coaching to do. Yeah, you know, when I did that, when I did the half Iron Man, I, I train, you know, in training for the few months beforehand, I listened to music and podcast and all that. And then the actual event, right? They said no music. No headphones and nothing. You can't do it. I was so bored out of my mind. I'm like, I'm just like, I'd never done that, like, gone that long with just my own thoughts. And it, what I find was it, I couldn't, I couldn't think even of like deep thoughts or like, oh, I just like think about business or all I like brainstormed that. I just couldn't. Because all I get think about it was like how tired I was and so like anyway that was that was when people ask me the hardest thing of doing that that was it it was the the mental weirdness of not listening to anything so I think of my train again truly have to be okay with who you are yeah and the conversations that

you're having with yourself and then you got to be creative I I love that time because it's the time on my bike when I get me up in the mountains and I turn everything off and it's just me I do I come up with my best inspiration. I come up with some incredible teaching things. I come up with some great projects and ideas. Really, it's my meditation, my Zen time. And I encourage everyone to find whatever that is for them to where they can unplug. They can get that source of inspiration from whatever it comes from for you.

But for me, it's just such an important time. I love that time where I'm just like up there and being creative. Yeah, that's cool. I don't know. I couldn't do it, but I 100% agree with that, that concept. Like, I actually have a goal. Like, I track it every week on do I get two hours of just thinking time? No phone, no music, no nothing.

Like, do I spend two hours a week where I'm just in that mode? Like, with my thoughts, working on something. And my favorite thing is I got this news. It's going to sound like an ad, but I swear it's not. I got this thing called The Remarkable. You ever seen these things before? It's amazing. It's like a Kindle.

If you ever use a Kindle that's like a black and white screen where it's like the, you know, the text on there, except for you can write on it with a pen. And it's just like a notebook that you have unlimited pages and you carry it with you. Anyway, this thing's been a game change right out for my birthday, I think. But yeah, it's all the remarkable too. I'm a fan. And I think the whole thing about stepping stones is like, look, don't. And I know you said two hours a week, but a lot of people try to do two hours a day.

Dude, start with two minutes. Like, try to sit in silence with your own thoughts for two minutes. I read a great book. It's actually one of my favorite books. It's James Clear Atomic Habits. Oh yeah, we just had him on the show a little while ago. Oh, dude, such a great book. And one of the things he says is like, look, if you're trying to go back to the gym and get fit and healthy,

don't go try to power through an hour session. He's like, you're only allowed to go to the gym for a maximum of five minutes. And you're like, what am I going to accomplish and go to the gym for five minutes? And the whole thing is to change your mindset around going to the gym. Because if you go to the gym every day for just five minutes, you've now become a gym goer. right and then slowly build upon that because what again all the way back to the beginning of this podcast we talked about people set themselves up for failure by trying to be perfect by trying to do too much dude go to the gym for five minutes seriously just go to the gym for five minutes

dude if you're 400 pounds and you're trying to go on a journey don't go vegan and try to be perfect just eliminate soda or just eliminate like start so simple that set you up for success it is the secret to winning thousand percent agree all right Well, we got to start getting up here out of here. So why don't I close this with the last segment of our show. It's time for our famous for. This is the part of the show where we ask the same four questions every week to every guest. So let's throw them at you quickly.

Number one, is there a habit or trait you're currently trying to improve in your own life, something that you're working on? I'm actually doing 75 hard because I don't drink enough water. And I do get into the habit of listening to audiobooks. and I want to continue to strengthen and stress my mind. And so I have to read those 10, read physically out of above 10 pages a day. Yeah, 70 of our heart. I was no joke. I did that last fall.

It was intense. I'm on day 24 with my daughters. Nice. Congrats. Oh, your daughters are doing it with you. That's cool. I love that. That's very cool.

All right. Next question. What is your favorite business book? I don't know if I'll tell you my three favorite books. It's atomic habits, outwitting the devil. And as a man thinketh. All phenomenal books. And mine, of course, redefine impossible.

Of course. So the next question is we normally ask about your hobbies. I'm just curious if you have any space for hobbies in between setting world records in athletic endeavors. I'm so pumped tomorrow morning. I have a tea time at a very private course here in Utah. I love golf over any of the sports that I do. So come on to know some time. We'll go some of these world class golf golf courses out here.

It'll be fun. You should. I'm going to hold you to do that. It's a cool place. All right, last question for me then. What do you think separates successful, we'll say entrepreneurs today, but you could apply that even to athletes, just people in general. What separates the successful people from those who give up, they fail, or they never get

started if you really had to boil it down? The ability to be okay with boredom and repetitive, monotonous tasks. So true. So true. I could not say it any better. Yes. Last question of the day. Where can people find out?

more about you. Yep. Best place is our website, ironcowboy.com. And a bit biggest social platform is on Instagram, Iron Cowboy James. That's where we post everything. It shoots it off to the other ones. But I answer all the questions. I respond to all the DMs right there on Instagram. You can book us for speaking. You can buy our books and our merchandise and everything Iron Cowboy on Iron Cowboy.com. Yeah, your Instagram is phenomenal. Like I said, I followed every single day of your hundred days. Like it was like my favorite thing I did. I would be like, watch. And you can actually go back. I noticed it just now as I was before the show.

You can go back on your story highlights and see like all the days. Every single day. Yeah. Lucy did an unbelievable job. She made a highlight for all hundred days. Yeah. I remember thinking whoever your social media person is, you need to give them a raise. It's cool.

I hired her full time. She got the job. Yeah. Yeah. There you go. Yeah. Because she did the work. I love it.

All right, man. Thank you so much. This has been a ton of fun and super inspirational. I can't wait to see what kind of the next phase of your life looks like. And I'm going to go check out the document. I never watched it. So I'm going to check that out. It's on Prime.

And also, if you're bored, there's a 10 episode series also on Prime called the World's Toughest Race. And we were one of the competitors on that. It was Mark Burnett production hosted by Bear Grill. So Brandon, thank you. David. Thank you. And all the best.

All right. Thank you. This is David Green for Brandon, the Iron Man Turner. Signing off. You're listening to Bigger Pockets Radio. Simplifying Real Estate for Investors large and small. If you're here looking to learn about. real estate investing without all the hype. You're in the right place. Stay tuned and be sure to join

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