Brown Girls Do It Too - How To: Safe One Night Stands
Episode Date: May 5, 2023Poppy and Rubina are on a short break but the Shagony Aunts are always here! Have a message for Poppy and Rubina? If you’re over 16, you can message the BGDIT team via WhatsApp for free on 079681008...22. Or email us at browngirlsdoittoo@bbc.co.uk
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this week
P has been in touch
hello
hello
hello
first of all
I love your podcast
started listening to it
after seeing your live show and you've helped me grow more confident in my sexuality than anyone or anything else so far has. So thank you for that.
I love your advice, please. I somehow managed to get into my 30s without ever having a one night stand. I've now been single for well over a year and just want to get laid with no strings attached. But i've no clue how to do that safely beyond just
condoms and stds wish i could afford that glamorous hotel lifestyle but cost of living crisis you know
any advice would be much appreciated okay to this listener thank you very much for your wonderful
feedback and compliment i would say don't overthink it make sure you pack some condoms
maybe some viagra no i'm joking about that last one. Maybe I'm not.
Just don't give it any thought.
I think if you overthink it and you try too hard, you're never going to get laid.
In fact, go out all the time thinking you're not going to get laid and you're going to get laid.
Also, just set it up with somebody to be like, this is a one night stand.
I would like a one night stand.
I'm not looking.
I'm looking for no strings attached.
And then, you know, it will happen.
The boys, all the girls, they'll be lining up. And apart from condoms and STDs, you have to be safe in other ways.
Send your coordinates to a friend.
Yes.
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