Business Innovators Radio - Interview w/Miriam Divinsky, Ph.D. Author of “Playing The Game Of Life And Business To Win” Discussing The Game of Success

Episode Date: July 31, 2023

Miriam is a business and personal coach who helps her clients synchronize their inner and outer lives.She helps her clients to synchronize their business, “Outer Game of Success,” with their “Inner Game of Success,” with who they really are.The synchronization of these two games of life allows her clients to live their professional lives with success and fulfillment and their personal lives with fulfillment and joy.Miriam Divinsky has been featured in “Who’s Who National Registry” and “Who’s Who in American Women.”She is a Diplomat and Fellow of the Clinical Hypnotherapy Board and is listed in “America’s Best Therapists.”Connect with Dr. Miriam Divinskyhttps://www.Miriam360.comInfluential Entrepreneurs with Mike Saundershttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/influential-entrepreneurs-with-mike-saunders/Source: https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/interview-w-miriam-divinsky-ph-d-author-of-playing-the-game-of-life-and-business-to-win-discussing-the-game-of-success

Welcome to influential entrepreneurs, bringing you interviews with elite business leaders and experts, sharing tips and strategies for elevating your business to the next level. Here's your host, Mike Saunders. Hello and welcome to this episode of Influential Entrepreneurs. This is Mike Saunders, the authority positioning coach, and today we have back with us, Miriam Davinsky, who's the author of Playing the Game of Life and Business to Win. and today we're discussing the game of success. Miriam, welcome back to the program.

Thank you. Honor to be here. Yes, and I love the book title, of course, but I love how today we're going to talk about the game of success because I feel like people get a little bit too serious about things and when you can lighten up and make sure that you achieve your success goals by having fun with it and realizing that there are specific steps and maybe the game of success, then it makes it that much easier.

So what do you mean about the game of success? Well, the first thing, let me cite for you a sad guru. If you want success, the formal thing is to ensure that you are not the obstacle to it. So what is the game of success? The life has two games, outer game, the level of your mastery, your competence and what you're doing. And the inner game, it's who you actually are. And that is two sides of the coin. It's two sides of the story.

For us to be successful in our business, obviously we need to have a competence in it. But however comes the point when this is not enough. And it's extremely important to understand that all wealth begin in the mind. Your income can grow only to extend you do. It's Tiharv X. Tony Robbins, your behavior is not result of your ability, but the state of mind that you are in at this moment. To change your ability, change your state.

Change your state and you will change your life. And obviously, your business too. So what all these people have in mind? What Bruce Dixon, if it's a coach, a spiritual coach, too, who says success is not one game, it is too. This is exactly what it means, that our outer game, what we experience in a three-dimensional world,

it's a function of who we are. And that is how connected we are to who we truly are, and it truly are embodiment of spirit in a physical reality. And that's what's a very important point to understand, that how we, how fully we embody that power, how connected we are to our higher self is our outer game. How we look, our body, our success in business, everything else is an effect. The cause is an inner game. How connected we are to our higher self and how fully we understand that our higher self is an embodiment of spirit, that we are spiritual being, living simultaneously in many dimensions, and our higher self is who we truly are.

You know, it makes me think about the fact that what you said about focusing on those two games, and it makes me wonder, talk a little bit about becoming imbalanced. if someone focuses on one more than the other. Because I feel like sometimes people would go, oh, my outer game, I'm going to focus on these things, but then they leave the inner game out. Or maybe they even focus on the inner game and they disregard their outer game.

So how are they balanced together? First of all, to function in a three-dimensional world, you need to be an expert. Think about any sport game. Right? First of all, you need to master. the game. And when you're a master of a game, when you function appropriately to the rules of the game, the question, second question is how fit you are to play that game, right? Or maybe the first

question is how fit you are and a second to know the rules. You, at a certain point, if you look on a hooking scale of a map of consciousness, a majority of United States business people are around 310. And it's not a small number. It's a substantially good number. Why is 310? Because at 310, you can have an intentional relationship with life, at least 310. But at 310 on a map of consciousness, the success, very often is the success of force, not power. People understand that they have a higher cell, but is not fully connected to it. I have a protocol, and I think, it's my intellectual property, I never have seen anybody even come close to these results, that allows me to raise my client's placement on a map of consciousness, you know, in one session,

several points. And if you want to realize, you know, how big success it is, Dr. Hawkins says that if you're in your lifetime, you raised four points. It was a good spiritual lifetime. And now, you know, You know, I'm able to raise up to 10 or 11 points in one session. In one session, wow. Right. How people can hold it. That's another question. And obviously, you know, I have a protocol supporting this holding because it's an incredible, you know,

raise of consciousness in one hour. Now, at 3.10, per person can be successful. But it's a success of force. The closer we come to 540, that is success of power. What we call miracles, wonders are daily occurrences. And it's at 540. And this is a progression. And again and again, you know, I have a couple plans for an already 600.

So, but the thing to understand here is who we are. as Tony Robbins says, the state of mind. And I figured out how to change my client, to facilitate my client, change of mind to high and higher level of embodiment of the inner-game and outer game. What would be some good examples of what the inner game would be and an example of what the outer game would be? Outer game is what we do in the world.

Inner game is who we are in this world. And when this is an imbalance, and we are expert, you know, a master of our outer game, the point comes that we need to understand that now our outer game is a function of our inner game. Because universe is benevolent. And the universe is affirming where we are. Universe affirming us by our dominant vibration. And your dominant vibration is a function of your unconscious, nine from ten and one from ten of your consciousness.

So this dominant vibration is how universe responds to us. So opportunity comes to us according our dominant vibration. Unfortunately, bad things are coming here, according to our dominant vibration. So the highest dominant vibration, the closer we identify with that we are embodiment of spirit, our higher self is multidimensional being with the Christ consciousness and I empower. The more affirmative, the highest our position on a map of consciousness, the more opportunities normally come to our life because the universe is affirmative. affirmative. I hope I did answer your question. You really did. And I think that it's really neat that you are tying these concepts in with metrics that can be measured. I think too many times people just say you should do this,

but you're talking about on the map of consciousness, on the map of and on this number. And if that can be quantified, then it can be tracked and it can be improved. Right. Mike, you know, as far as I'm. understand this intellectual property is nobody even come close to what my spiritual dousing allows me to do for clients. And this is my mission to raise my client's opportunity to meet their destiny, which I believe is the full living according to completely full potential of a person. Excellent. So let's talk a little bit about now that inner game because I feel like the outer game almost is easier because I feel like

I can do things. But that inner game, I think, feels a little invisible and I don't know what to do. So what are some things that people can do to improve their inner game? But let's do that. Let's give an example. Let's release fears, the most common fears that people experience. And we install the affirmative baseline. So when I, I release, I will release it with pendulum in my right hand, and then my pendulum will move into vortex counterclockwise. It's a release. When I will go to install, my pendulum will change the direction, and it will be clockwise.

So, let's get together. Let's take a deep breath and let us release all fears from everybody who listen to this, from your conscious, subconscious and unconscious mind. Fear of death. Fear of not being in control. Fear of unknown. Fear of loss. Fear of loss of money.

Fear of rejection. Fear of making decisions. Fear of not making the right decisions. Fear of disease. Fear of suffering. Fear of poverty. Fear of having money. Fear of not having money.

fear of intimacy, fear of past, fear of future, fear of losing identity, fear of commitment, fear of loneliness, fear of abandonment, fear of betrayal, and fear of disappearing. We ask in spirit and our higher self, find neutralized, release, remove, and scramble all these fears from your conscious, subconscious, and unconscious mind. And now, I invoke our higher self to eliminate all the whole. these fears and limiting beliefs. And do not these beliefs that do not

reflect the truth of your divine self. I now help you to embrace positive life-affirming beliefs that will help you to fully accept your divinity. And now say to yourself

together with me, I affirm self-forgiveness, self-acceptance, self-worth, self-love, self-respect, self-regulation, self-esteem, self-confidence, guilt-free success, financial success, resilience, deservability, mental clarity, clarity of communication, trust in physical safety, attracting abundance, attracting, good fortune, ability to prioritize, ability to adapt to change, accepting pleasure, pursuing pleasure, ability to connect to my highest self, willingness to do so. And we installing all this in the space where fears used to live in deep gratitude demand. I want just to realize, I have to realize that it's not one time.

affair. Imagine that you're training for Olympic and you know you need to do it again and again and again and again. In a case of releasing and installing, I have clients who do with whom I work once a week. I have clients with whom I work twice a month and once a month. And every time before my session, I check, do you, do that, does the client need a refreshing of something, for example, fear release, something happened in person life that has the same frequency or resonant frequency with one of those fundamental fears and a fear as a walk. It doesn't happen every session. It may happen one in quarter or one in five, six months, but it does happen. Another thing that I'm working is a personal crisis. That's another

things that when released, it's an incredible move toward personal power. Because again and again, everything that we lived is in our unconscious and it puts down our dominant vibration. When it's released, our dominant vibration can stay high much, much longer and much, much higher. However, we're not living in Himalayas and, you know, meditating 24-7. We're living in a real life. An event can come that has the same frequency that one of the deep fears,

and some of them can need to be released again. You know, one thing that I thought of when you were doing the release is you can't really only release something. You have to release and delete it and then immediately replace it with something good. Yes. And we just replaced it with affirmative baseline. which is extremely important part of our work. Again and again, because people come to this life, you know, through the childhood, and it's a time when we are not in power.

And unfortunately, people around us say things or do things that are deeply impressed our unconscious. And we don't even know it is there until, you know, we talk about it and get it out and release it. And believe it or not, all this repressed material, it's a stuff, it's negative stuff that creates a ceiling to your abundance, sealing to your well-being, sealing to everything. And when it is released, you know, people often say to me,

you know, I never knew I have it. And it's like having a hard backpack on my shoulders. And when it's released, it's so much life. Life is so much lighter. And this is how people usually feel it. And if people are very clairvoyant, that they actually even feel it even deeper because they can see actually what was released and what was installed. You know, Miriam, when you're doing these therapies with the pendulum and the dowsing, I know you touched on it, but let's think about what are some things that you teach your clients. to do that would enhance what you're doing with them.

And I'm thinking about things like meditation or journaling or things like that. Everything helps. Meditation definitely helps. Journaling very, very much helps. But I would recommend is to do this. Write 10 to 15 things in your lives that you're really, really grateful for. and then write one or two things that you would like to happen, business or personal. And every morning, right after you wake up, first read what you're grateful for.

So you will put yourself in a state of complete gratefulness, correct? And then read in that space of gratefulness, what do you want, what you really want to happen to you. And do it twice a day. First thing in the morning and last thing in the night and watch what happened. Another very good thing is mantras. According to Dr. Hawkins, there are mantras that are on a scale, 630, even 700. Omnamashiyah is 6.30. Omani Padma Khan is 700.

Obviously, to reciting these mantras help to maintain what I am helping clients to achieve. And I strongly recommend them. You know, you mentioned mantra. I know Tony Robbins talks about incantations. Are those just the same things as like, is that similar to an affirmation? Absolutely. The mantras, you can incantate them. You can taste them out loud.

And eventually they're so part of your consciousness that you can, you know, go for a walk and, you know, and you just say it silently to yourself. Yeah. There is a formal way to do mantras, and it is with Mala, and you say them. And there is an informal way after that to saturate your consciousness with mantra. You don't even need to do nothing. You can walk or you can do dishes and repeat the mantra. And this mantra that I just said, Omnamashi Y is 630 and Omani Padma, 700,

imagine their frequency is incredible. 700 is sainthood. And they help us to connect to a huge thought form. Because people in the world, all over the world, recite this mantra has a huge helpful thought form that help us to stay on closer and closer to those levels. Yeah, you know, I remember the book years and years ago by Shad Helmstetter, what to say when you talk to yourself.

because we all talk to herself in our minds. We all have thoughts that, well, I'm not good enough or, you know, I can't do that. So I think that these mantras and affirmations just help us to delete those negative thoughts and replace them with good, like what you've been saying. Correct. Correct. They are helping to replace. Unfortunately, you know, if it's not deleted properly, you're putting a good on top of not so good.

And, you know, this is why dowsing is such an incredible technology, because I, you know, I can help a client to empty the cup before we will fill it with the new content. But in any way, doing it is better than not doing it. That's absolutely correct. You know, we've talked about how both of these games, the inner game and the outer game, are connected. do you find that when your clients start that journey toward getting them interconnected, because there's never a time that you arrive. There's always constant and never-ending improvement. How does personal well-being tie into that? Is that something that just starts growing along with your mastery of the inner and outer game?

Absolutely. People usually come to me with the outer game is already more or less in order for they know what they're doing. And the question is, Miriam, I'm doing it. Why I don't see the result? I measure standing on the map and it's 310, or around 310, not necessarily exactly. So 310, yes, you can be successful, but it's by force, not by power. Around 500, the life completely changes. And at 540, you are embodying your higher self.

So you are spiritually, mentally, and emotionally can invoke that power inside of you, not force, power. And it completely changes your life. Your health improves. Your relationship completely changed. You're just different human being. You know, that power is always in you. It's already there. The question is that God can do to you only can God can do through you.

What does that mean? It means to the degree that you are consciously embodies that. Everybody on earth, even the biggest, you know, bad people, have that power inside of them. Now, question is, how do they use it? You know, that's a really great point because it's like the old saying knowledge is power. You might have the knowledge, but the power comes when you use it. Exactly. Exactly.

Truth sets us free. You need to embody the truth. It's not only, okay, I understand I have a higher self, Miriam, so what? Well, you understand. Of course you understand it because I just explain it very well. Now what? Now what? We need to change your placement as closer to 500 as possible and better to 540.

On that placement, you embody your higher self, or at least you have an opportunity to embody it, 100%. And it's a time of miracles. What we call miracles, it's normal occurrences for a lot of people, including myself, I need to admit, humbly. It just completely different life, because it's a power. It's not force. Remember the famous book, Power versus Force by Dr. Hawkins? That began my journey toward all of that. And it took many, many years to figure out how to find the spiritual dowsing protocol.

to give it to people. This is why in my book I say, you know, I experience myself as a bridge for my clients to get to their destiny because I first did it to myself, through myself. And again, when I say to myself, through myself, I want to be understood properly. It's all channeled.

It's not me, Miriam. Yes, I. take authorship of it, but it's channeled thing. Nobody is that smart, nobody is that, you know, to figure out how can you do this kind of things. And certain point of this, I had a vocabulary, and I was given, you know, intuitive understanding where to go, what to do, how to connect all this together, that I can serve it my best. I love it. Well, Miriam, as we wrap up this conversation here on the game of success, the inner game and the outer game. What is some final thoughts that you would like to leave with our listeners?

If you are a douser, my listener or reader of my book, you know exactly what to do. The book will have addendums and you know exactly how to release and how to install. If you are not a douser, just by reading these releases and install, you are opening yourself. to come and closer to your destiny. It may be not as effective as dousy, but you would not pick up the book and you would not pick up this, you know, listen to this conversation

unless you are ready and to understand that matrix. And the sheer readiness to understand this matrix is an opening to come closer to your destiny, to live to your full potential. Perfect. Miriam, if people are interested in reaching out and connecting with you, what's the best way that they can do that? Yes, it is Miriam 360.com.

www. www.m.360.com. Excellent. Well, thank you so much for coming back on today. It's been a real pleasure talking with you today. Thank you. My honor. You've been listening to Influential Entrepreneurs with Mike Saunders to learn more about the

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