Business Innovators Radio - Lizzie Laing – Therapist – Mark Stephen Pooler

Episode Date: June 11, 2026

I’m Lizzie Laing! ♡I’m an RTT Therapist, trained by Marisa Peer.I live by the belief that mindset is everything.I’m the founder of… Your Power Within Therapy – RTT hypnotherapy & creator of… Your Last First Date ♡Because True Love starts with Self Love ♡My expertise lies in removing limiting beliefs and throwing dusty dating experiences out of the window by drawing love in like the goddess you are.It’s my mission to Make Dating Fun Againwww.yourpowerwithintherapy.com instagram @yourlastfirstdate – shouldSource: https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/lizzie-laing-therapist-mark-stephen-pooler

Welcome to Business Innovators Radio, featuring industry influencers and trendsetters, sharing proven strategies to help you build a better life right now. Be conversations with leading experts in business. I am your host, Mark Stephen Pula. We have an incredible guest on the show today, the incredible Lizzie Lang. I have actually seen Lizzie for a couple of sessions myself. I think it's probably a couple of years ago now, so I'm really looking forward to a great. conversation. I know she's in a really, really great place at the moment, supporting people with dating and relationships, but I know her best through her RTT therapy, which is a very, very powerful form of hypnotherapy and many other modalities together. So I'm really looking forward to a conversation today. We're streaming globe on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, YouTube. We're on the E360 TV network. We're on USA Global Radio and Television Network. We're also on Business Innovators Radio Network and MSPNewsGlobal.com.

Let's bring in our incredible guests, the amazing Lizzie Lang. Lizzie, welcome to Brilliant Business TV. Well, thank you for having me. I'm really excited and it's a pleasure and an honour to be here. I didn't realise, yeah, we were going, yeah, live, it's exciting. Thank you. It is exciting and I'm looking forward to a conversation with you. Now, what exactly is RTT therapy? Can you explain what RTT actually is because a lot of people out there won't know?

What happens in a session and why is it so different from traditional talking therapy? Well, it's what it says it is, so it's rapid transformational therapy. So it works rapidly. So people don't have to go and spend years talking over the problem. we put you into a light hypnosis and we take you back to the root cause of the issue. So if you're repeating patterns, we take you back to that. And, yeah, so we put you into hypnosis and it combines NLP, CBT and psychotherapy. So yeah, it really gets the root problem and changes it from a cellular level.

And CBT is very powerful as well as hypnotherapy. So putting all these things together is really, really clever and I know that it's a really really powerful therapy as well now what kinds of issues do you see the most breakthroughs with through RTT Lizzie the most breakthroughs I see the very clear ones are eating disorders and eating issues because eating disorder is an emotional is an emotional disorder so if people it can be a form of protection by building up padding and it can be a form of keeping people small. I work with bulimia and all types of destructive eating disorders but once we get to the route the eating habits change

immediately so a lot of people have been coming to me instead of using the jabs now because they don't want to keep using them so it did die down for a bit and now people are coming back. Yeah and what a great service to help people who are struggling with those things as well. Now, you're on an exciting new journey. Why did you decide to move into the area of dating and relationships, Lizzie? Because it's something I really understand. I took this journey myself and I always get emotional when I talk about it and this, I promise with, when I found my person, when I worked through my destructive and chaotic dating habits, I would teach women everywhere so they didn't have to go through all that hurt and heartache.

And because when you're stuck in it and it's confusing and you're like, there must be someone out there for me. But really, I realized, everything changed when I realized that I was the problem. It was me. I was the same one in all of these relationships, different person, but the same relationship over and over again. And then when I changed, everything changes. And if I can do that for women and stop them in their,

terrible situationships accepting crumbs, then I would do the same for everyone else. I love how passionate you are about in that you've been there yourself so you can really support others and how can you help people to meet their one? Well, during my process, because I gave myself a year to meet my husband, I woke up after another New Year's Eve where I was just on my own watching all the couples kissing and singing the new year and I woke up and vowed this would be the year where everything changes. So I did coaches and I went to a flirting coach because I was done with being on dating apps. I didn't want to go on another journey up to London and spend time with a guy I didn't

like. When I saw really nice guys walking past me on the street and I thought if I could just connect with the guy next to me, it would just be a lot easier. So I did flirting courses whilst also working on my internal self. So it was a bit of a pince of movement. I was feeling good and I was meeting then where I was so I didn't have to keep wasting time going on dates with people I didn't really like. Very, very powerful stuff and you work with clients globally online as well as in person. What does that open up for people who might think therapy isn't accessible to them? Well, I like to make it all as easy for people as possible because some people like to kind of see me in person and some people just like to be comfortable in their own homes. And yeah, working with people

all around the world, I work with people in Bali and America and it just means that there's, I can help more people wherever you are. And I've had a couple of sessions, like I said, a couple of years ago, online and they're so, so powerful. And you also provide a recording after, so you carry on using that after the session. So there's a lot of a power that goes behind these sessions. I can, I and definitely vote for that. Tell us a little bit about my last first date. What made you create a group program, especially for women around relationships?

Because a lot of my clients, I've worked with an older, well, you know, 30 onwards, and they feel like their clock is running out. And do you know, I work with a lot of clients that have never had a serious relationship. So I believe that, and they're really powerful, They've got really good jobs. They're owning their life. But this thing, this relationship seems to elude them. So I know it's, it's kind of deep. It's underneath it all is, it's probably the problem

I had, the not enoughness. You know, once they get to really meet me, then the vulnerable, authentic me, they might not like me underneath the glitz and the glam. Like if you look good or you've got a good career, people, once they meet the real, the belief is once they meet the real you, the vulnerable self that they might not think you're all your cracked up to be. And that's a fear and that's why people people say they're meeting unavailable men but really deep down they're unavailable

because you feel safe keeping people a distance but this is on a subconscious level I agree I think that belief is one of the things that people struggle with not being enough not being good enough so the fact that you can help people to really overcome that belief is so powerful as well what patterns do you see coming up

again again in women who join and how does the program help them back? Sorry, how does the program help them break those cycles, Lizzie? Well, true love starts with self-love. You have to love yourself first, which is easier said and done. So we go and break the looping pattern that's that's in your subconscious and really embody your self-esteem because I always use. I always use Amy Winehouse as this example. She was confident in singing, awesome, but inside she was a little broken bird and she was repeating terrible dating patterns as well. So you have to build the foundation and raise your vibration because many of my clients, 90% of my clients actually met their person the very next day because they had embodied, I mean, they didn't enter a relationship the next day,

but they'd smiled at someone at the gym, you know, and then that kind of worked, or they'd met smile at someone at work and that had built. But they just embody a different vibration. They were held themselves better. They were just, you know, approachable because they weren't keeping themselves small. They were out there just glowing and being and attractive, like being irresistible. They were pulling people toward, they were being noticed and seen and feeling good. Yeah, I think your energy and your vibration is so, so important, but also giving yourself that self-love. I think sometimes when you do want love, you can be a bit desperate for it, so it does take and going in and giving yourself that love, loving yourself and yourself worth. And then you actually feel worthy and deserving of it, so it's even better.

So I think it can be painful at times at work, but it's very, very important to do it as well. It's extremely important. Yeah, it is, isn't it? Now, why did you choose a group format rather than one-to-one for this one, Lizzie? Because I've only got so much time and I want to help as many people as possible. And also I feel that if there's a community, because I'm going to run challenges, like I gave myself a challenge, so I'm going to give people the same challenge that I gave myself to meet my husband. So once I've taught you the steps of how to safely and naturally just approach a person that you like the look of,

because we can all talk to people we don't like. But, you know, when you see that hot person, you're like, oh, I can't talk to him. So it's, I teach you ways of just approaching it in a calm way. And the challenge I gave myself was to talk to a really good looking man every day. So to build, it's like reps. You build up that muscle. The first time you do it, it's torture and it's humiliating. But once you've done it, you're like, I survived.

And then, you know, by the time the 10th one, it's just easy. I get, I give people a challenge to just make a conversation. with someone. A great way to build confidence as well because it's all about having that confidence to do that as well. Yeah. You see, you support people in the dating area

but many other ways as well. Who is the perfect person that you want to connect with? Who would you love to reach out to you? I know people can come to your website, your power within fed therapy.com. Let me say that again because I want to do it justice. It's your power within therapy.

Your Power Within Therapy.com. Who's that person you're speaking to today? Who would you love to support? How can you support them? And obviously they can come and connect with you. The person, the people that I love are me, where I was before I met my lovely husband, people that, you know, they're in their 30s or they're feeling like they're running out of time. They want their person.

They want a family. They want to have children. They want to meet the one and they're feeling a bit desperate and that desperate energy is kind of pushing people away. They're wasting their life on dating apps, just meeting the wrong people over and over again. And it's exhausting and they're getting heartbroken and crushed and basically they're done sleeping with different people. And they want their one. They want to get on with their lives and make plans and focus their energy on the future and not have to like settle for crumbs or answer that question. And they always send on dating, I'm like, are you okay?

Or, you know, they want a real connection. They want their person. Yeah. I love it. I think you said it if you want your person, definitely go to your power within therapy.com. Before we close today, Lizzie, I know you've just launched your program. Just tell us a tiny little bit about it, please.

Yeah, so it's a three-month program. It incorporates an RTT session. and three follow-up coaching calls. They're weekly, they're 90-minute sessions, and I lay the foundation. I have the modules, but I also help you date in real time. So I'll give you the tips, I give you advice,

if you have a text message that you want to respond to or how to react, I guide you through it. But the main thing is you have to be the person you want to attract. So if you're looking for a high value committed, calm, stable man, you have to be calm and stable. You have to, you know, elevate yourself and that's what I want to. I want to build you up from the inside out. So you feel whole and you go into dating knowing that you are the prize. Not are, am I good enough for them, but are they good enough for me?

Watch and observe and don't tell people how to treat you. Get someone already is treating you well. love it absolutely love it i would encourage everyone to go to your power within therapy dot com lizzie i thoroughly thoroughly enjoyed having a conversation with you today thank you so much for being my guest thank you for having me on the show because i'm so passionate and yeah if i haven't answered anything you can just ask but i'm yeah i hope i answered everything okay You've liked everything absolutely perfectly. I've really enjoyed the conversation.

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