Dad’s Survival Guide to Football Season + HUGE Husband Loss | For The Dads Pod
00:00This is an I-Heart podcast.Guaranteed Human.Hey guys, it's us.The Jonas Brothers. I'm Joe.I'm Kevin.And I'm Nick.And guess what?We created our own podcast called, Hey Jonas.
00:12We invented a podcast?Well, we didn't invent it.We just contributed to it.We're the first people to do podcasts.We get to ask other people questions because we're sick and tired of being asked questions.Well, sick and tired is a strong way to put it.But, you know, tired and sick.Listen to Hey Jonas on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you.
00:30you get your podcast. Just listen. We don't care where you hear it. Here's something that should not beas complicated as it is, getting a racist statue removed. And here's something that should be a wholelot easier than it is, getting a new one put up in its place. I'm Akela Hughes, and Rebel SpiritSeason 2 is about both of those things. As I was watching these statues come down, I was thinkingabout what it meant that I grew up in a majority black city in which there were morehomages to enslavers than there were to enslave people. Listen to Rebel Spirit season two on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.Every family has its secrets.
01:07But what happens when you discover that your dad has been living a double life?That is not the look of an innocent man.Is everyone lying to me about who they are?I felt such desperation.I felt it was what I had to do.Listen to Deep Cover the Family Man on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast.or wherever you get your podcasts.Welcome to another episode of For the Dad's.
01:36Papa Team 6.I know you were going off right now in the comments section.I blacked out.It's because you're speechlessbecause we literally just talked for 25 minutesbefore we started recording ofwhat the fuck with this PT6 community?We are speechless.
01:56Easy with the F word early in the episode.That could hurt the algorithm.That could hurt the algorithm.But welcome to For the Dads.We are a show that embraces fatherhood.We talk dad stories, the highs and lows, wins and losses of fatherhood, being a husband.I am Will Compton.My co-host, Sherman Young, is to my right.
02:15And throughout the show, again, God damn, somebody's calling me.Hey, easy on the...Sorry.Bleep that out, too, show.It's supposed to be a parenthood show.Throughout the show, again, you'll be hearing about stories.we have a call-in hotline that dads can call in and tell us about their wins and losses,learns, things that added in their survival kit, dad hacks.
02:40That is at 601.The dad, you call in, you leave a voicemail where you read a few in the show and we send youmerch if you were featured on the show.Also, if you want to support for the dads, you want to support the podcast, you want to supportPapa Team 6.Buds, that is, if you're in Buds training, Buds stands for Breeding until Dad's status.But if you want to support Papa Team 6 in this movement, this community,The way you represent this brand is you go to bwtb.com.
03:07We have Papa Team 6 shirts.We have polos, t-shirts, hats, onesies.We have it all.BWTB.com to shop for the dads.Do what coffee mugs.We have a lot of different stuff.Guys, the replies in the comment section, it is the most fun.We were talking before the show even started and Chef brought this up about how we have.
03:30What episode is this?Episode 10.We're on episode 10.This is episode 10.We made it to 10, we made it to 10.Soft little golf clap.Episode 10, we have about 1,500 comments.And Chef was just talking how insane it was that we have a community that is just spreading positivity, that is building the community.
03:48That is talking about Papa Team 6, finding words for whatever title, whatever stage of life that you're in.And only about out of those 1,500, only about 10 to 15 might be negative.That ratio is incredible.guys, please keep leaving comments throughout the episode.We have so much fun with it.Shirm was just scrolling his phone, all of his Instagram, DM requests,shouting out the podcast, shouting out talking about this show.So keep doing that.
04:14And before we go any further, for the sweet love of the man upstairs,subscribe to this channel.Yes, please.Subscribe on Spotify.Subscribe on Apple.Subscribe on the Google one, the Amazon one.The Amazon one.they're all out there.
04:32Shermger sent me a screenshot.Remember the screenshot you sent me the other day?Where were you ranked?You want to tell them?Oh, I saw it.For those of you at home, Pt6 for the dad's podcast is officially in the top 200 of comedypodcast.That's a cross-platform scale.
04:54So the site you sent me, that's cross-platform.That's not just one platform.Cross-platform.That's not just one.It's called pod status.But it takes all the analytics from all the podcasts and it puts it together on a list.Yeah.And we are in the top 200.
05:09What are we?196.Yes.196 in comedy.Good.Good.Toward the bottom.Good.
05:17They don't show it top 200 on Apple.Good.They don't show it on Spotify.Good.Work harder.Nobody gives a shit.Work harder.The things you chat GPT at 3 o'clock in the morning is you're on night watch.
05:30Where's the pod at?Where's the pod at?Where's the pod at?And also the DMs, dude, it's crazy.Like a huge shout out to our listeners.That makes my night watch is so much fun.When you're on the wall?When I'm on the wall, because now that Scarlet is getting like good like four, five,
05:51we haven't hit six yet, but four to five hours stretches at night,it lets me get on there.I can reply to people.It's fun, dude.And it's just like the nicest stuff.It's just the nicest stuff.The vibes are sick.The vibes are awesome.
06:05This community of Papa Team 6, Goon Berets,semen Team 6, which goes by the quote,spraying lead for the love of the game.You're a young Thundercat.We might have new listeners to this show.And for those new listeners, Papa Team 6,you are part of the Papa Seals.You've done the work.
06:28You are a parent.You are a father trying to crush it and get better.if you were tuning into this show.If you were part of Bud's training.I think we just wipe seed Team 6,and we're just calling it,you're in Buds training.Buds training is you are breeding.
06:40You are intentionally breeding until dad's status.Seaman Team 6, you're a young Thundercat out there.Maybe you're not looking to have a kid anytime soon,and you're just, maybe you've got a girlfriend,maybe a fiancé, or you're just playing for sport.But you're spraying lead for the love of the game,and then we have the goon berets,which you can go back to a couple episodes
07:03and listen to the breakdown of the Goon Beretsbut welcome.Welcome Goon Brays.And don't need them.Don't forget Milk Team 6.Milk Team 6.By the way, I have an awesome commentthat I was reading on YouTube
07:17last week on last week's episode.This was 20 hours ago as I'm watching this.Okay.But it comes from In Nordell.Hey Dads and Captain Jack.Jack is our,our producer behind the mic. He is the captain and leader of Seaman Team 6. He sprays for the love of the game.I'm a mom, milk Team 6 proud, and a big supporter of the show. The community you built is so much
07:43fun and inclusive to all dads, moms and goons. Be proud and keep up the great work. I workat a fertility clinic as a lab technician. I consider my role as combat support for ST6 on theBud's battlefield in the fight against infertility. No.P.T.6, infertility. I process sperm for enhanced sniper attack in parentheses, that is IVF and ICSI. Or heavy artilleryattack, that is IUI. I believe heavy artillery attack is where you do kind of the IUI might be theturkey basin method. Oh, okay, okay. In the quest for conception, I've got a few terms of throughoutthere for the ST6 crew, both in the infertility battle or not. Popsie seals preventingadditions to their team,
08:33bisectomized veterans.They're a vet, dude.They're a vet.You're just a vet.Get snipped.There's no need to serve anymore.You have a vet?Yeah.
08:45I know you served, but like, are you a vet now?Yeah, are you a SEAL or are you a vet now?If they say vet, you know, they snip, snip.The vasectomized veterans.ST6 shooting blanks.Azo agents.asospermia agentsthose are for those in Bud's training
09:07and they're shooting blanksand that's Azo? She said it looks likeit reads Azuspermiaand then she put in parentheses ASO so AzoSpermiaagents. Okay I like that. That's what we call themI love that. I VF Papa SealsWelcome to the sniper squad. I would be in the sniper squadwith Scotty. Scottie was IVF.
09:28P.S. thank you to Will and Charlesfor sharing your IVF journey that was onwith the boys back when Mother's Day release, if you want to go check that out.It is such an intention, an emotional roller coaster for so many people.Your story will resonate with so many couples, braving the same fight for their family.Also, go Big Red.Of course. A nice little GBR at the end.A nice little GBR.
09:49I get those all the time, and I love it.I have no affiliation with the Huskers other than my work relationship with you.But I always hit them back with the GBR.You have to.great fan base. It is a goodjust like ours. I love that a momis taking time to write thismessage in the comment section of the
10:09For the Dad's podcast. What was her name?In Nordell. In Nordell.In Nordell. Do we want to get inthe shout now at comments and stuff that we'veseen off of our episodes?She's officiallythe medicof the squad. That might be common
10:27of the month. I know we don't have aI know we don't have a comment at a month of the month, but Cherm sent me a comment last week right when we got done filming our...Yeah?The Megalodons episode, which, by the way, I saw that there's a shared Sparkle Unicorn's Monster Truck.What?Yeah.There's a Sherrods Sparkle Unicorns Monster Truck.No, there's not.
10:49Yeah, so people were shooting it to me.Then Nick ended up texting me.So check out, here's the monster truck that Rue would rip with.There's a Sherrod's Sparkle Unicorn's Monster Truck.Yeah.Bro, we have to go to one now.I mean, that's just guaranteed we have to go to one now.Yeah.
11:06That's the board game.That's our board game of choice at home.Is the troll on the truck?I don't think so.He's got like his hand in the little gym back.Let me show.Let me look at, I just, I opened my phone and I have a text from Matt Malone.He's one of our, he's our new social media producer.
11:23And we had a, you know, we had a conversation where I was challenging himand our core values that we created last week as a team.and he didn't get any of them right.And I was, you know, I was busting his balls at first,but it became more of a serious conversationas far as the evidence he's been creating.Yep.Because he was a killer.
11:41He was a killer as an intern.He was.And I say sometimes when the guys put the jersey on,it changes them a little different.They lose that hunger.Some guys lose that hunger.Right now what you're showing me,the evidence that you're creating is that you don't take this serious enough.
11:53I was like, hey, did you see my follow-up email last week?And he goes, which email?And I'm thinking,And I rarely send emails.He didn't have that right.He started to rattle off core values, shooting for the sergeant.You know, like the gooner one, overachieve route to him.I'm going.
12:07And he's shit to bed.But anyway, he just-Yeah, grateful.Nope.And I just opened up my phone.I see a text from him.I let you down, but I won't stay down.That's what I love about Matt Malone.
12:23Because you're right.Some people want the Letterman jacket more than they want the jersey.They want to be able to walk around school with the letterman jacket on.God, look at that.They love what the team does for them, what the brand does for them more than they love the brand.But here's the, it's called Sparkle Smash, 2024 highlights, Sparkle Smash.I just texted you a picture of it.Oh, let's go.
12:49But the reason I was bringing up that episode in the Monster Truck is when we got done film and Shirm sent, send me an incredible clip that.honestly it's like it's just a great it's a great comment to read about why we started this thing in thefirst place do you want to read it sure yeah absolutely i can read it so this one comes fromderrick galligo 6808 he said first off shout out chef shout out papa shirm i think our kidswere born on the same day shout out scarlet and your kid shout out the legends of busting with the boyswill and taylor so he pretty much covered all the basesright off the bat right off the bat first time member of papa team six to baby boybarrett michael gallagos born three weeks ago bmg or 50 cow is uh barrett's nickname given to him by
13:41his father boys after two weeks in the nique you we got to home base back at fort couch and let me tellyou i am not in the trenches i am digging the trenches i spent months researching how to build theperfect nursery in hopes of accomplishing the mission code name Silent Knights.And we have had nothing but B-B-I-E-D-S, which is baby-born improvised explosion diapers,sleepless nights and mama bear hearing me say, good, with so many O's.He puts so many O's in good.I will tell you, after 17 years in the military, I can say some of the best training I've receivedhas been from for the dad's podcast community.
14:30Don't they gas you up, man?And not just for the dad's podcast.He said, for the dad's podcast community.Yes, dude.Yes, because again, we'll be reading some dad hacks and some losses that I saw in thecomments section, but absolutely, I love that it.I love that people are scrolling in the comments, and it's just been, it's fucking cool.Keep going and keep going.
14:51Keep up the great work with the show.Always hit record.Chef does a great job with that.And I look forward to more of the sick merch.I ordered three PT6 shirts for me and my veteran dad community here in Michigan.Hashtag go blue.Shout out Taylor.Shout out Taylor.
15:07Shout out Taylor.Shout out Taylor.Shout out the blue.Will, great job on all your stories.I salute you, brother, as you are outmanned and outgunned with the ladies in the house.Thank you, Derek.Thank you.For the members of Seaman Team 6 out there, as you prepare for the big leagues, start
15:26reading go to daddy boot camps and share the community to get as many resources as possibledot dot dot dot dot well boys i got to grab my shovel and get back to digging these diapers andtrash won't take themselves out pt6 member derrick gallagos out literally from the trenches the front lineYeah. You know who I want in my foxhole when I got to get a shut eye and who's going to be the lookout?I want Derek Gallagos to be the lookout.17 years in the military too. Thank you, Derek. Thank you for your service.Thank you for serving. Great point. Great point. But just shouting out the for the dad's community.It's been it. It's been fun seeing the comments. And you see it, hey, again, we set the tone last week on how we would like the comment section to go.
16:23people leaving comments and you see a dad out there going through something or he wants to becelebratory about something maybe having a kid maybe he's in the trenches yeah i'll talk through a dadloss here later that i read about and just i've seen more replies to comments seen it in the youtubecomment section you're not making that up because i've been seeing it too and i've been seeing a lot of likessomebody will go on a tirade and then just finish it with good and then you know it'd be like eightlikes yeah i i love that because it's their way of saying like yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah goodThey're acknowledging it.We're taking the things we learned on last week's episode on the practice field,
16:59and we're executing it on game day.We sure are.At the very end of the episode, I said, I'll know if y'all remember this.I said, and if you watched this episode all the way to this moment, last thing, leave a wolf in the chat.Just leave a wolf in the chat.There were a bunch of wolves.There were 45 wolves in the chat.Oh, you counted. 45 sickos that watch.
17:23all the way up to the end.That fires me up, man.That's electric.It helps me transitionto comments at the top of the showgoing over.I got one from PT6 Sharp.There's a YouTube profile out there,
17:36PT6 Sharp.I knew you'd grab this one.This no longer feels like a podcast.It feels like a family.Do you see the reply underneath it?No.Somebody said,okay, Ben Diesel.
17:52That's the top comment.I grabbed youand I grabbed like X ones because I was like I feel like Will's going to for sure grab that one.You know I saw that one and you just, that's what you just, you set the phone down and you kind of look around and you're like, man, we're creating something cool, man.Leave no doubt.We need, we just, I think I saw was Andrew Sholes, I think talk about it in an article.Somebody published an article or something like that.And he's like, one thing we need more of is more dads, more men.
18:24talking about fatherhood, the masculinity behind it, but fatherhood in general.And I think it's cool that we have a small platform that is building community wheremoms, dads, everybody's chiming in.And it does feel like, you know, to PT6 Sharp no longer feels like a podcast, feels like afamily, like people embracing fatherhood.Shep was talking earlier.Who are you talking to about people coming out in the hospital and taking photos?A possible employee.
18:53possible employee but thinking about people being fired up to take a photo with the Papa TeamSix shirt on it where you're walking out of the hospital in arguably the biggest most preciousmoment of your life like you're having a kid yeah you're fired up when you get married but whenyou have a kid it changes your entire world and the biggest moment of your life you're walkingto the hospital and you're reping a four the dad's shirt or you're reping a Papa Team Six shirtand you're wanting to take a moment to say,hey, can you get a photo of me carrying the little one out the hospital?Like, insane.
19:31It's crazy, dude.That gasses me up.It gasses me up because I know that just with Jill and I'm sure same with you with Charo,just how gassed up the moms are almost naturally for this process.And it's just like you texting Charo last week of,I want to get a family pick.That wife that is just putting.pushed out this baby. She's just gone through it. And she's like, thank God I got this man alongside
19:57me, but I hope he's as gassed up as I am to be a parent. Right. And he's got his hat in shirtfor the dad's used to, baby, you got to get a picture of me. Yeah. You know they're loving it.Right. They're loving it. And this could be wrong, but I feel like this is my own assumption.But I assume that moms, when they have their kid or as she's pregnant, I don't know how the entireprocess goes for them at home, but there's probably something of hope that he is going to beinto this as much as I am. Yeah. When we have the kid. Yeah. And then when you see, again,just taking a moment from like the biggest moment of your lives, he's got on, he's reping thefatherhood stuff. He's wanting to embrace it. He's about, he's like, hey, can we get a photo?
20:41You know what I mean? And kind of, I would assume it kind of gives like a, not a full relief,but like a, I'm excited that he is excited as I am about it. Because a lot of stories that you hear, too,dads don't buy in until the baby gets a little bit older.Or you'll have conversations in its newborn stage.And for me, I'm more into like once the child turns six monthsor when they start walking or as they get older and you can play with them,that's when the dad buys in more.And the fact that we're feeling like, you know,
21:12the fact that there are dads now getting fully bought infrom walking out of the hospital is just,is cool to see because it's like, yeah, you want to, you want to embrace every, every moment.Every moment.Yeah, dude.It's really, really fun and I'm really lucky to be a new dad doing this show because it's donewonders on my mentals during all the trench battles.Every single poopy diaper, every single spit up, and just like all the fun lingo.
21:46I'm doing it myself.Like, I feel like a viewer of this podcast being a new dad, and it does help me.It's kind of wild.It's, um, it adds an accountability element.It does.And I know my wife's listening right now.Oh, no.Because I feel like she's listened to every episode.
22:08She's live.She's enjoyed it.And the accountability story that I'm about to bring up.Oh, no.Pains me, but.again we were talking about before the show about like work stuff yeah if there's truth behind ityou got to find your way to accept it and so this accountability of us doing the podcast yeahwe had a moment last night where I wasn't prepared for it but before we're about to do bedtime
22:43yeah she's like we got to hey oh we got to go hang the shelf up in scotty's roomyou hate you hate that shit you hate that i hate that i hate that shit if you're coming to thispodcast and and even wives watching and think like hey i hope my husband is i want masculinityin his life like this wheel guy when it comes to manual labor and building shit you hate thatThat's out of my wheelhouse.And I'm more delegate to elevate.Yeah.We got task grab it.
23:24We got people that can figure this out before we, I had to go get out the hammer andgo get the stud finder.I don't even know what the stud finder does.Like press the button and navigate.It was helpful.But we go upstairs.Yeah.And I take the box upstairs because it's 7 o'clock.
23:42I'm thinking, I want to get the kids down.And I'm also thinking, like,Like, is she going to take Rue tonight?Is she going to take Scotty tonight?Because we were on the training camp tour for three days in a row.So usually when that happens, it's like I could be either of us,if we're gone for a few days in a row, we might be like,hey, you got the bag on Rue because Rue takes longer.
24:01Yeah.So I go up there.She's just got it.I got this big box with the shelf in it.Set it down.I'm cutting it up.I just kind of have a piss poor attitude.I'll be honest.
24:14What time was this?What time was this?probably quarter after sevenokay at this pointbecause I'm thinking to myselfwhy am I doing thisor why are we doing thislike why couldn't
24:28task grab it's easyI'll spend 50 bucks somebody come put this ineven if it takes five secondsand I'm aware that I sound like a bitch right nowyeah yeah buthate the hate justespecially when it jumps on meyeah I was about to say it was right before bedtime
24:45Right before bedtime.So I'll open it up.And I don't know.She says something.Let me go get the hammer.Whatever.I need to go back downstairs again to come back up.And again, I have a piss poor attitude.
25:00I have a pissed poor attitude.I'm not embracing the trenches of what we like to hold ourselves accountable for.Hand up, sweetheart.I know you're listening right now.And I am wrong about that.but she hit me withoh nowhat's going on
25:19why you have such a bad attitudeand I turn around and looked atI go why why are we doing thiswhy we got to do this right nowshe wants to put the monitor upbecause Scotty's been grabbing the monitorbecause we just sit it on top of the cribso she wants to shelf up
25:31so we can put the monitor on top of the shelfI do get ityeah I'm thinking why am I doing thislike we got peoplewe got task grab itlike this is an easyit's going to take five minutesyou'd spend
25:42you'd spend whateveran hourly rate on task grabber for something that takes five minutes.It's $65.Yeah, look at it.I'm like, yeah, I would.And she hits me with, I think it's why.I mean, you got this for the dad's podcast where you talk about, yeah.No.
26:04Yeah, buddy.Yeah.Yeah.You embrace the trenches and, you know, talk about moments like this.Charo, don't be putting any ideas in Jill's head.Yeah.Jill's going to steal that move.She's watching this right now.
26:22Love you, honey.Hey, she's stealing that.Buddy.Zero to 100 internally.No, you did?Me?Yeah.It didn't come out.
26:30I did not externalize it.Good.Good.I ate it.Good.Because you know what I wanted to say.You know what I told?You know what I said to her?
26:39Dad.What did you say?Tell the truth, though.What did you say?I said,bitch.Underneath your breath?Inside.
26:57I didn't say shit.But hey, I was, I was tight that she was throwing that in my face.And I was silent.I was silent to her.She's like, I'll do it.No, no, no.I'm already doing this.I'm going to do it.
27:11Finished, did the shelf thing.took 10, 15 minutes out.I had to go up and down the stairsa few different times.We had the stud finder.I ended up putting a screw in the wallwhere a stud wasn't.It's kind of loose.
27:23And I'm like, I think this will work.And it works.But I'm like, this is why I don't like doing it.I don't know what I'm doing.Yeah, yeah.But yeah, I was quiet for a while.However, here's how the story ends.I'm thinking about all this.
27:39Because I, you know, I'm an internal being.I get fired up.I keep it in.I suppress it.It manifests and even more.And a lot of pride because I'm wanting to be mad.That's crazy you want to throw this in my face.That's crazy you want to throw a podcast in my face like I can't have a bad moment.
27:57You know what I mean?Like you just go on all right.You just call me fake.Yeah, yeah, yeah.I'm having all these conversations with myself.I'm sitting there.I think I'm finishing up with Roo Roos.You know, dad, I need three kisses.
28:08A hug, kiss and three squeezes.And I kind of avoid, too.Like, but I see her like I'm not, you know, passed by, maybe stay out of the way.Like I'm trying to make it known that I'm a little upset.She's upset too.Because every time she's telling me something, I'm just like staring at her.I'm not saying nothing.I'm not saying anything.
28:28You got hot.I was hot.I was hot like my lip could have quivered when I was looking at her.Oh, really?Yeah, when she hit me with the for the dad, when she hit me with that,I'm thinking that's a wild haymaker to throw on me.But because there was truth to it.Yeah.
28:48She hit you in the sweet spot.Yes.But adding that to your offense is crazy, especially this early on.We're on episode 10.Yeah, we're on episode 10.We're all learning.We're all trying to get better.We're only 196 in the top 200, babe.
29:08You want to throw the podcast in my face because I don't want to put a shelf up rightnow talk to me when we were top 10 yeah yeah yeah yeah and uh yeah maybe that's why we're rankedoutside the top 100 right now but i come out of ruse room i go downstairs and um i says to myself wheni'm upstairs i'm like i i got to apologize because i yeah i had a bad attitude she was 100right i did think it was absolute bullshit that she hit me with the with the for the dad's brainstuff. However, as I'm thinking about how I'm going to apologize going downstairs, I wanted to justsay, hey, I'm really sorry I had a bad attitude earlier. Give her a kiss and didn't say anythingelse. Because as much as I want to say, hey, I'm sorry I had a bad attitude about everything
30:03earlier, but you say in X, Y, and Z, there's a saying out there is you never want to ruin anapology with an excuse.Yeah.So just saying what I'm sorry for, because she ended up, I apologize, like I didn'tmean to, you know, I didn't mean to say that either.She said something that, you know, I knew she was, we were both kind of in the moment.She hits me with that.I'm fuming going up and down the stage.
30:29So she had some oomph behind it.It wasn't just like a funny little like.Oh, no, it wasn't a funny thing.Yeah, yeah.Because she's like, hey, what's your problem?I was like, why are we doing this?She's like, we got to get the monitor up.I'm like, why can we have somebody else do this?
30:43You know I hate, you know I don't like doing this type of stuff.And she's like, it's going to take five.Like, again, I hear the way I'm sounding.Yeah.And she's right.She sees it as like, we're connecting and doing something together.I don't catch it that much.My connection happens under the sheets.
31:01You know what I'm saying?Yeah, yeah, yeah.She's more of an acts of service.Yeah, yeah.Again, like if there's a plan and I know it's coming, that's one thing.When it kind of like, I'm kind of like seeing the clock, it's getting close to bedtime.Hey, it's bedtime.Let's get them rolling.
31:17And then you hit me with, we got to build something.And I'm wanting to get the kids to bed.Throws me off my track.Throws me off my track.Wait, go back to, you, you were apologizing.And I kind of got you off.I went downstairs and I just walked over to her because I knew we were going to have to have the conversation.Yeah.
31:37And so I just went downstairs and I just, I'm swallowing everything that's going on in my head because I know I'm overreacting and I knew I had a piss poor attitude.So I just walked downstairs and I walked over to join the couch and I said, hey, sweetheart, I'm sorry about earlier.Like I did. I had a bad attitude. I went about that the wrong way.I said some, I said some version of that with no, like, you know, I'm trying to deliver it well sincerely.Because I was. I was being a bitch.Yeah.I was like, I'm a runto the gas station,
32:12give me a couple drinksbefore we go upstairsand hit these video games.I'm about to hit the stakeswith demon and beige iron.But that's how it went down.That's how it went down.Dude, well, that came from you talking about
32:25I've enjoyed the show,the accountability of the show,and the wives out there listeningthat, no, their man listensto the show, fellas,do not be surprisedif you get hit with something like this.You're embracing the brain,
32:38you're about the brain,and then a moment comesor they can see that they can just put the knife in the side of your back.Because that's what I felt like happened.Accountability is huge.And it's been, it wasn't on my docket before we started recording.I was not going to bring up accountability at all.But it has been a topic of conversation between you and I of recent in the office of recent.
33:02Good reminder.It is.It made me think about the ideas of having like good in the, the room.and stuff like something visually because once she checked me and I'm I'm putting Scotty down so whenI'm sitting there rocking Scottie to sleep you're you're by yourself so you have like I have thetime to think I know Charles and the other room's Rue and I'm thinking through everything becauseI'm mad and I kind of want to stay mad yeah my pride is getting in the way because of what she said to meafter the fact that I was just having a piss poor attitude about everything and every place I went I'm
33:36trying to find reasons that it could have and then it just comes to like she's wrong yeah yeahi'm trying to find any reason to where but then i'm like there yeah there is done i like yeah bodylanguage attitude everything about it oh yeah dude and i i've been working on my apologies i haven'teven said this to jill but i've caught myself um doing this with jill a lot during my apologies oflet's say i made you mad hey sorry that i made you feel mad when i didblah blah. And I'm like, dude, that's so lame. I know that's lame. And when people apologizelike that to me, I'm like, that's such a lame apology. I've been checking myself on that.Yeah. Because you're saying, the apology is, I'm sorry you felt that way. Yeah, I'm sorry.
34:27That's not, that's not saying I'm sorry for doing X, Y, and Z. It's I'm sorry you felt that way.And then we'll justify it on my mind is like, hey, we're apologizing. My, I'm letting you know myintention was never that and your reaction to it was like hey i'm sorry you ended up reacting that way icaught myself last night at the county fair actually apologizing to her because she wanted to do a diaperchange before we left i didn't want to get caught in traffic because we had to get back homeum which was a goal shared by both of us it wasn't just like i wanted to jethey it's us the jonas brothers and guess what we have some big news what's the news news newsnews. We created our own podcast called Hey Jonas. We invented a podcast. Well, we didn't invent it.
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37:46or wherever you get your podcast.But I was like, honey, diaper change.We can't do that afterward.You know, once we get home, like she'll be fine in the car.and she was like, why, so you can go home and play video games?And I was like, oh, in my head.It's like, yes, I'm excited to play video games with the boys,but no, that's not why I was saying it.
38:13And my initial apology that came out, dude,was going to be like, hey, I'm sorry that I made it seem likeI want to go home and play video.And I had to reshape it in my head.I was like, no, I need to apologize for having added.when I said, can we not just, you know, change the diaper later?And I apologize for that.I don't remember my exact wording.
38:36But I, and then I said, working on the, the apology factor.Yeah.And then I just said to Jill, because one thing that with communication and like,not arguments, but like things where she'll get upset, a big one is Jill wants to knowthat she is a priority in my life.And so in that moment, I was like, how can I,tell Jill that she is a priority in my lifeand that video games are not more important
39:03than her or my daughter at this moment.Right.That's what she needs to hear and not,I was worried about the traffic.I wasn't worried about the video games.Blah, blah, blah.And then it turns into a whole thing.Yeah.
39:15Sure, I've done that so many timesand I've, same thing, caught myself.Like, you have,you use something else as an excuseor like a vehicle as to your apologyor your reasoning for something.when in reality, like true intentions.Like, maybe it's not, it's not nefarious,
39:33but you're just like, how do I, how do I navigate this conversationin like, in your mind, like, what's going to go smooth?Whereas sometimes it's like, maybe this isn't going to be something that's going to be smooth.It needs to, you know, just be talked out.Yeah, dude. Absolutely.And just acknowledge that you completely understand why it got to where it was.Because chances are, they're going to say it might get reciprocated,like an apology that you felt like you wanted to be heard on.
39:59You don't want to go into an apology expecting anything in return.But it's more as like, I'm sorry that I did this.I can 100% understand why it made you feel that way.And that is totally on me.When you go, I'm sorry that you felt that way or that, you know,we all know those half-hats apologies.Men like we're fucking, we'll find any reason not to let our pride.Our pride will stay the pride.
40:25We find any reason not to.Because I think these are good conversations toobecause we got football season coming up.The whole, hey, get home and play video gamesin the season,well, can easily be all what you're wanting to get done right nowso you can go watch football with the boys.A hundred percent,
40:41which I've been seeing a lot in the comments lately.That has been a comment I've seen multiple times.Boys, please break down.How do we go about football season this year?There's a guy.I've got to find his TikTok.I think I've told you guys about itwhere it's uh the ticot is him doing like overly not like he's overly uh trying to where he's
41:03vacuuming yeah he's vacuuming yeah he's like in the captions like 53 days till footballi turn around my points we got yeah pull that pull like his little clip up yeah pull his clip upyeah pull his clip up when you're talking about that because those are hilarious those are sofunny those are good and the uh like looking outside and likehe's putting all of his golf stuff together.Have you seen those where he's like also vacuuming,but he's slowly like putting his golf attire on.Oh, I know.
41:33I haven't seen that one.And the life's like,man,you did a great job with all those shorts and stuff.Are you going to go golf in or something?And he's like got his glove in his back pocket.He's like,what was it nice outside?
41:42I think.Well,the guys did say if there's a tea time of two.I wasn't going to go.I wasn't going to go.What are you for that comment?I think I know when you're talking about where he'swanting to, he's wanting to know how to prepare for football season?
41:58Yeah, dude.I've seen multiple comments on that.Like, they really want us to talk about.What tips would you give?Oh.See, it's, it's different for everybody because I put out that Sydney Sweeney meme video and likein the comments you have.Buddy that video.
42:16Play the video.I think a couple of the guys are coming over a little later, like no more than four or five.One sec. I think this is Todd.Big toe!Where are you doing?Yeah, it's over.No, come on. If they're in town, bring them.Bring them!
42:41Hey, what's six guys gonna hurt?You know what I'm saying?We've got four or five coming over.Why not?Okay.Yeah.Yeah.No, she...
42:55Babe, you're headed out, right?Yeah.Yeah, she's headed out the whole day.No, she went, she goes,Are you a wrench leader?That, that video, bro, is, I think, one of my favorites.Like, across the internet.Thank you.
43:20That shit is so funny.You in the towel.No expectations.That was right when I started here, too.Yeah.I had no expectations of that.think popping off. That shit was so funny, man. Did you do that phone call off the dome or did youscript it? Because everything from the, I just went upstairs and I recorded myself for, I would say,
43:42five minutes. Right. You probably workshopped it a few times. Oh, this will be funny to put in here.Yeah, yeah. I have a buddy named Todd that shout out TC. That's my boy from high school.Shout out TC. Big Toad. But yeah, I mean, the usual suspects that would come over when I was living inFort Worth. We'd grill out all the time. I have people over on Saturdays. One time of whichI got, that was a huge mother fucked moment before Jill was a mother. We had the boys in thegarage till like 2 a.m. dude. Just ripping. Jill comes back. She had, oh, dude, I'll tell thatstory separately. Where was I going? Uh, oh, in the comments of, dad brain, dad brain. Yeah,yeah, yeah. How tips for preparing for football season. Yeah, tips for prepare. There's a lot of dads.
44:29A lot of dads are out there wondering how to navigate.It's a slippery slope, especially when you get mid-season,your team starts catching some momentum or they're bador you're in a bad mood because your team lost.Yes.And they feel like the wifey should be empathizing with where you're at mentally.Can't watch the kids.My boy's just lost right now.
44:45How can you not see how serious I take this?Fantasy football drafts.That's one that sneaks up on me that I need to do a better job of...That's coming up, dude.Yeah.That's coming up.I think number one.the God tier tip or dad hack, whatever you want to call it.
45:05Yeah, yeah.It's just the communication, the pre-communication ahead of time.Communication, dude.Sweetheart, we know you hate football season.And maybe she's like, you know, I don't hate it.This is if your girl doesn't like football season.That's what I was going to say earlier.Even if they kind of like it.
45:24Like my wife's bought into football, but I always jab her like she's not a real football fan.Like she went to Maryland.Like Maryland's not that good at football.so I can see why she's not going.To his little brother.She cheered at Washington, but I'm always like, hey, Washington's on.Why aren't we, me and you just watching this game, every snap, every player?You're not a real fan.
45:41But then she'll, like, throw, she knows, you know.She always proves.She knows the rules.She knows some players, blah, blah, blah, but I'm always jabbing her about it.So even if your wife is kind of on board with football,you know the difference between a diehard and then just a casual,or they're not a fan at all.Yeah.
45:55But even the casuals is for casuals and even not a fan.They get annoyed about football.You still want to anchor the emotion.with sweetheart. We both know you hate football season.Then they, no, no, I don't hate football season. Just, just please, please let me finish.I want to talk with you now because we both know how much I love the Nebraska Cornhuskers.And there are going to be some, every Saturday, they're going to play at a slot of time.I don't know everyone, but each week when I figure out when they're playing,
46:32I would love to have my undivided attention.divided attention be on that game. Maybe you're a sicko and you want to watch a lot of thegames. You have to do a good job of being like, here's what I would love my season to look like.I know that's not going to happen. And I would love your input on how we can execute to balancefootball season with life. With what we're doing. Yeah, yeah, with what we're doing. Because I enjoyI enjoy watching the game.I could watch them all dayif I had the opportunity to.
47:09But I know that I need to carry the load.I know that I need to be present.And I just want to figure out a great middle groundthat we can align on as we go into the seasonbecause I got a draft coming up next week.I want to be there.I kind of want to tell them the time.I'm kind of scared to commit to a time with them
47:27because part of me is scared to allow this draftto sneak up on us.and then I'm throwing the draft at you.Hey, the boys were drafted in an hour.And then we're both in a little bit of a tiff.And I'm thinking, I can't.I'm drafting right now.I want to knock it out of the way.
47:42Now I want to knock it out of the way early.How can we align on a structure throughout the year?A structure that doesn't have to be so, you know,dialed into the T, I know there's going to be moving obstacles.Yes.And moving targets throughout the year.We'll handle those.But as long as we're aligned, as long as you know where my love and my heart is with you,
48:01with the games, I think we can figure something out.Well done.You just sold me.Yeah, well set.I think that's your baseline.Yeah, you got to have a starting base line, dude.Because you can't commit to what you want your schedule to be out of the gate.You're getting in some hot water.
48:22You're already awakening the defense inside of your wife.Yeah.You want to set up your success by first anchoring.the emotion of we both know you hate football or we both know that you hate how much I love football.Give them a chance to step in and say, that's not true.Because it's a balance, right?It probably has a lot to do with yours trying to watch all these games and you're not,there's zero intention going on around the house and you're waiting into the day of
48:52and then you guys are in a reactive state of emotion.No, you're handling it by having a little fun anchor in the top.We both know you hate that I love football.and then you lay out how can we align on what this year can look like?Because here's what's important to me.Outside of you guys being priority number one,my draft coming up with the boys,watching my favorite college football team on Saturdays,
49:15watching my favorite NFL team on Sundays.Prime time, prime time.We got Thursday night football, we got Sunday night football,we got Monday night football.I know that sounds like a lot right now, sweetheart,but I know that if we just take it,if we just go one by one here and figure out what a solution can be i know we can knock this outof the park and pick pick your golden game pick that one game that you really want to see whatever
49:42you want to watch and it for your example of like the nebraska corn huskers are playing aroundthe same time as christie's gender reveal party that y'all have to go to and christie is charro'sbest friend in the world so set that expectationof, I'm not going to make that.You think I'm joking?No.No, I don't think you're joking.Charles threw a birthday party for me last year.
50:12It was Illinois at Nebraska.We lost in overtime.But charled through a birthday party for me on my birthday to where we had a dinner.We had about eight people come to this dinner.Please send him the photo.Do what?Send them the photo.I'll send him the photo.
50:25And I needed the restaurant that you're going to that you're wanting to,I don't think it was a surprise.but whatever restaurant it is, they better have a TV.And if we're going to do a private room,they better have a TV that can be in that roombecause I am watching the Nebraska Cornhuskers play on Friday night.And the entire dinner party, everybody's having a great time.And I'm just glued to the TV,
50:49and I set the expectation with everybody that, guys,I'm not going to be mingling at dinner because I have to watch Nebraska play.They wheeled it up like on one of those like,A substitute teacherNo, I saw the pictureIt was dicey for a minuteThey wheeled in some TVAnd I'm like, are we going to be able to get
51:08The game on this?It looked like the onesBack in school.Yeah.The sub rolls in movie day.Yes.Fortunately, we got it.But if not, I would have been just on my phone
51:21Just on YouTube TV.No free shot at TV.That's what I was going to say aboutlike Chrissy's gender revealis just set that expectationwith the wifeHey, honey, isn't Christy's gender reveal doesn't start at 1130?Yeah.
51:37Oh, dang, the Huskers kickoff at 1115.So I'll probably be keeping up with the game, you know, via my phone at the party then.And then whenever we head out, we can catch it on the way home.Do we have anything we got to do after?No, nothing.Okay, cool.Would it be cool if we, you know, can we get back home directly after?Yeah.
51:56I can hop on the couch.Yeah, if your team plays at 11, figure out what they're.morning looks like before 11 starts yeah and then when the game ends you know whatever emotion you'reright and you write that emotion but you know you got to get back in you got to get back in the trenches athome you got to get back in the game at home you got to be present you got to be present the other thingi was going to say in the in the comments of that video i saw a lot of people of like oh my girlwould never do this or other people being like yo this is literally my wife so the range isvery different.
52:31Yeah.If your wife hates football,you got to somehow find a wayto get her to fall in love with your team.Don't worry about the football aspect of it.Try and get her to fall in love with the brand.That would be my first...I need to get trial out to Nebraska
52:48and see their new facilities.She's been, but we went to like a spring game, I believe.And this was old teeth comp.This was old teeth, Willie.Bro, she hadn't been to those new facilities.He's got to go.Yeah.And see all the love that Lincoln has for you.
53:06But you're right.That's a good, that's a good way to buy in.I have the wife.She likes football.It's not life isn't based around watching football games,but she knows how much I love football.Yes, do.And understands.
53:21So as long as I'm communicating ahead of time and it's not taking up my entire dayto where it's like, hey, come on, come on.This can't be all year.Totally get that.And then if your wife or significant other, whatever, does have a team, you've got to buy into their team.That's what has helped me a ton, is when I know.And it's- I ain't buying into the Maryland, Terps.Well, you know, I have to buy-in if she's not interested.
53:46I'm saying, like, Jill loves the longhorns.It gets me- You like the longhorns?It gets me browning points when I go to the games.You know the Longhorns beat us with one second left on the clock and beat us 13 to 12.And Mac Brown with his little dip in his mouth and,one more second yeahy'all should have won thatyou're sure won that game you're fucking right we should have won that game
54:08little shirm at home young shirm was watching thatfucking pissand to the to the men out there that havewives or girlfriends that are sickos like youwith football congratulationsthat fires me up for you makes me a little jealousbut that's amazingbut embrace their team
54:28like when I maybe if they're sickos like youthey're probably ready for a good backand forth a good old-fashioned rivalry.Oh, yeah.Oh, 100%.But I'm saying, like, you're turning her team on and making a priority to watch her team.Yeah, I mean, you get to watch ball at the end of the day.Yeah, you do.
54:45But then it's like, hey, when it's crunch time and like whatever conflict with your team,yeah, it'll be in the back of your head.He's like, hey, Sherman sits there and watches Longhorns with me.A smart hitty play right there.That's a heady play.anything else on the...Taking a quick break from the episode to tell you about our sponsor, Roe.Are your boys down low ever just sitting in traffic?
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56:07Compounded drugs are permitted to be prescribed under federal law,but are not FDA approved and do not undergo FDA safety effectiveness or manufacturingreview.For full safety information, go to road.Go to road.com slash safety info.I got one for you, chef.How's your lady when it comes to sports and faindom?As a couple dads, couple husbands.
56:30you know.Yeah, she's great.You never know if they trick you in the beginning?Yeah, no, it's always a worry.So I shout out my beautiful girlfriend, Alex.Shout out Alex.Go balls.Does she, what, is she aware that you're the captain of Seaman Team 6?
56:48She is.And I have, well, we haven't discussed it yet, but I know she listens.So she knows what it means.Yes.Yeah.Good, good.She's actually on her way from Knoxville, and it's a Friday.So we'll probably have a great chat about that around dinner.
57:08But yeah, she's really great.So we met in college.She is from Knoxville.So she grew up going to every Tennessee game with her parents.She's a dialogue.Okay.So she's a.Yeah, for the most part, we've had like one or two instances where I lost it.
57:28It was Joe Milton year.we were walking out of Neeland and we were playing an Austin P.And this is like coming off at Henan Hooker 2021 year, we couldn't, you know, we couldn'thave a bad offense a game.And we put up like, first half we put up like 14 against Austin P.And we were leaving that game.And I might have had a little bit too much a drink.And I was grabbing random people like, what the hell are we doing?
57:53And she, it was, I mean, might have been my worst episode ever.And I remember that next day, she was like,hey I'm letting you know right nowyou ever pull that kind of shit again as we're walkingout of Neeland I swearto God I will break up with you and wefor sure we'll never go to another game everI was like yes ma'am I got you
58:11she checked your assshe checked me hard and respect I was walking out of therelike a total jackass like I was being likejust I was just pissed offI get upset when my teamyou take your ball serious man it's all goodI do a lot of passionate fansa lot of passionate fans have watched this show
58:28that love their teamLove their team.And so you don't feel alone, got sucker punch by some SAEs, some E-dogs down at TCUafter a Baylor TCU game.And Jill told me the same thing the next morning.Said if you ever get that drunk again, if you ever do anything like that again,I will not hesitate to not only break up with you, but I will never speak to you again.Her mom had to pick me up from a Kroger parking lot later on.
58:56It's a fun story.It's a fun story.To wrap it all the way back around, communication.Just communicate.Dude.Just communicate.Hey, look, we're not, I know we were kind of giving game on how it gets to where your entire undivided attention is for you in the game.I'm kind of, I'm kind of now hearing that.
59:19And it's more or less figure out what needs to be done even during the game.Yeah.I think your gal is going to respect any big moment that might be happening.It's fourth quarter.You got a two-minute drive like you're in it and you're going, blah, blah, blah.Like they know how to pivot with that stuff.But to get a full three hours to yourself could be a tall task.Figure out what you know it needs to be done even in those three hours.
59:43If you got the kiddo, first half, second, third quarter, whatever you need me to do,you got to take your time away from the TV and do what needs to be done.Especially if you're playing a slap dick team.Now, if we're talking big game, rivalry, stakes on the line, any of those games,I feel like they need to understandthat kind of pressurethat we were under during those times.Yeah, dude.
01:00:06But slap dicks,listen, take your ass away from the TV,whatever you got to do.If you got to go pick up some milkor some shit, I don't know.And, but very last thing,very last thing,make an event around it.
01:00:18We did a ton of like cookoutsand grill outs and watch partieswhen we're living in Fort Worth.Yeah.Have people over.Bring the girls.Get her friends involved.Get her friends involved.
01:00:28Like I said,I try to get Roo excited.Like the minute she could start like talking and doing stuff or hand gestures,anytime a touchdown what happened.I'm like, hey, touchdown, touch.Like getting her excited about moments within football.So anytime, you know, when she's like, I want to watch Ms. Rachel.I'm like, oh, sweetheart, it's Saturday.
01:00:45The Huskers are on right now.Like dad-da, this is, listen, I got the TV.I'm the captain now.You don't have the TV anymore.But getting her involved with watching football.So that way, anytime a sports song, she'd be like, oh, touchdown back.Yeah, yeah, sweetheart.but getting them going so that way you can foundationally build a fan in the future, right?
01:01:04Or if they're toddlers having to set up survival kit, having to bounce or having the walk or whatever it is around the TV or a little gate in case you're watching the TV.They're not in your side at the moment, but they're right there in your perimeter and they're safe.It's all about executing the plan.If mama needs to go do something, sweetheart, that's great.It's certain this game time.I'll take the kiddo.and you got to build an environment for successwhile you're trying to watch this game.
01:01:30If they're old enough, you got them right next to you.You got them trying to get them to buy in just the way you buy in.Tell the toddler, you need a good halftime show.That way they're prepping the whole first halfbecause you tell them how important the halftime show is.Dadaz Roo.I mean, you got to kill it with the ballet girl.You're the half time show.
01:01:50That's a great dad hack.And that way the whole first half dude,she's like, I gotta get this halftime performance.She's getting her outfit, taking care of.She's excited, dude.How I started the foundation two of manipulation with Roo is, remember the Go Big Red video?Go big red.One of my favorites.
01:02:09Go big red.And then somebody, it was either us or it got on, you know, we photoshopped or.Oh, I put it on the Jumbotron.Yeah, you edited on Jumbotron to where I'm showing her.I'm like, oh, Roo, look at this.Everybody, they played your video at the, at the,Husker game.You showed her that?
01:02:26Yeah, absolutely.And they were all so excited and just like, go Big Red.Yeah.Nebraska.Nebraska.The Huskers are playing.Just laying the foundation as a father that this is an important time in our lives.Anytime football season comes around and the Huskers get to play, you know, 12 to 15 games.
01:02:45God, we got to do a little barbecue watch party thing.Grill up some corn, dude.Let her know.This is what we're all about.You like barbecue corn?Oh, then you probably love the Huskers.Yeah.Build it up to where it's like an event every Saturday.
01:02:59Yes, dude.Inductionate.Yeah, indoctrinated.My childhood, fondest memories are being indoctrinated into the Tennessee Falls.You wake up on Saturday and you just, you know, the old man's going to get the grill going for you.It's a great day to be around.I don't want to go and do nothing else because they have some people over.We do need to get, yeah.
01:03:16Does she have a Husker cheer uniform?She's got some Husker gear.Okay.I'm in the process of getting more because she's outgrown the ones from last year.Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.But we got to get her fit in, ready to go.Yeah, got to get her some pom-poms, dude.She does have some pom-poms.
01:03:30Okay, there we go.She does have some pom-poms.And mom could show her a thing or two for the halftime show.Of course.Get the whole family involved.Come on.Now, dude, now we're living life.Now you're cooking with gas.
01:03:42We're not watching football.We're living life.Because you're letting your significant another on the inside of your passions and you're doing it together.That's, hey, that's the goal.It's not figuring out how you can just watch football by yourself.It's about how you bring, how you build the camaraderie with everybodyand letting your significant other in on your interest as well.Yes.
01:04:08College football helps me get up in the morning.It makes me happy that I'm alive.How can I give that feeling to others in this world of college football?Yes.I think we correct the code with that one, my friend.And slash I want my team to win.sue mewhere do we even go from here
01:04:30we just talked to college football there for a minutewe really did I could segueinto my mother fuckwhich also deals with collegiatethingsget into it broI'm gonna chalk mymy shelf building
01:04:46as moment as the dad loss of the week for myselfI think that's a really good dad lossI had a weak dad loss this weekso I'm gonna skip it and gostraight into motherfucker.Go ahead and do it.I even thought about not telling that story.Because a part of you is like,
01:05:01I know I'm going to sound weak saying this.However, it's like, we have weak moments.Yeah, dude.We have weak moments.I'm about to have a weak moment.That's my mother fucked.I can't wait to hear it.Jill's cousin, for anybody that saw on Twitter,
01:05:16Jill's cousin is graduating.Congratulations, Macy from Auburn University this weekend.We will be traveling down to Auburn.Shout out Macy.Shout out Macy.nurse nursing degree not a hard or not an easy degree um we're going to go celebrate her jill decidesshe bought an auburn bow for scarlet to wear to the graduation i'm like do you not realize thatbaler will be fighting for their fucking lives on the brazos here in four weeks against the very
01:05:46same Auburn tigers and you're going to put my daughter in an Auburn bow that's crazyIt was one of the very first timesI didn't have words for itAnd she started laughingBecause she was likeOh this bow's coming in the mailAnd I said an Auburn bowShe goes yeah
01:06:07And I did one of thoseWhat'd you say?I literally said bitchWith my faceI literally said bitchI looked at her and wentYou gotta be crazyDo you know what the internet's gonna do
01:06:23The internet's gonna grab those picturesso fast, I'm going to get flame grilled.So what did you do?Well, she's probably going to wear the fucking boat this weekend.I don't know.So when you did the whole trash thing that was...I was being dead serious about like, I don't want her wearing the bow.And then I brought it up like four days later.
01:06:46And Jill was like, yeah, we'll see, you know, we'll see how that goes for you or whatever.So we'll see how it plays out.But I will fight for my...I think every father out there knows how this is going to play.Yeah, dude.He's going to be in Auburn gear with a pretty bow on.She's going to look adorable.And Jill's going to want me to take a picture with her.
01:07:04And then what's Jill going to go do with that picture?That's where you draw the line.Yeah.I'm going to be like, you cannot post a picture with me holding her.Because then if I won't.There's battles where you have to, you have to hold the white flag up.Yeah.Right.
01:07:20Like we can all see that this battle right here, it would happen with me too.I don't know.It wouldn't happen for a couple teams.But it's like you wave the white flag.All right, she's going to wear an adorable little outfit.The reason why is because Macy.Macy.She's graduating.
01:07:38Yeah.So she wants to put her in the theme, which I love that.That's a battle.It's like, I don't like this.However, I understand why it's going to happen.But you do have to have your boundaries.And my boundary would be, sweetheart.I'm not taking the fucking photo.
01:07:55I'm not taking the photo.I've said way too much crazy shit to these Auburn burners on Twitter,and I know how these burners operate.They're going to snag that photo so quick.And it won't happen.We won't lose to Auburn, but let's say we did.Game over, dude.That picture's everywhere.
01:08:14Yeah.That picture is everywhere.So let's draw the line now.I'm not taking a photo with this.Is this happening this weekend?This weekend.So when people are listening, this will be.the past weekend.
01:08:26Yeah.So they're already going to be like,so we're going to know if you took the,yeah.If there's a picture,I'm putting it in.That's the pressure.You're going to be such a bitch,
01:08:36dude,if you take a photo.That bow's coming offevery single picture.Mark my word.Image,family,photo,
01:08:50and we're out.What you're going to have to dobecause you're going to be on watch.Yeah.A lot of the day is anybody you see snagging a photo,you just got to put up on the finger.They're trying to get a photo with you and a little scar, scar,you just, so it's unposed.
01:09:07Well, you know what I mean?They're not going to share it.You can't have the photo out there.You think the burners are going to be at the graduation ceremony?No, I'm saying, like, I'm patient.You're going to be taking care.Let's get a photo.You're just going to be on dad wall,
01:09:19so no matter what, you're going to have to get in the photo.Because then they can't use it if I'm just going to have to.Because there might not,there might not be any way.around it. Yeah, they're really, well, how much they document their lives. They're really good atlike taking fun videos, family picks. I mean, you might have to dish Scarlet off if you're in thephoto. But I want to hold her, dude. She's my little. I know, but just for, again, 10 seconds.Yeah, yeah, yeah. You want to hold her for this photo? I can't do this. I'm going to get drug by the
01:09:47burners on the internet. It's so much bigger than the gun barres. We'd come after you.What? The goon berets out there would come after you.Auburn Division is what Chef said.Great call.But yeah, that's my motherfucker.There is a dad loss that I have on here that came from the comment section that I will share.Oh, please.From McCray Moorehouse.
01:10:13Let me find it real quick.Okay.PT6 family confession time.Big time dad lost this week and I need some encouragement.It's been raining for like three days straight and my dog went outside and got soaked and muddy.dog ran inside and went full zoomies mode on the couch hand up it pissed me off so as i was trying to get her off thecouch i shoved her with two hands off the couch and i ended up shoving my grown-sized labrador into my sonand completely blindsided him son was crying and mom didn't see what happened so naturally i just
01:10:47blamed it all on the dog wife still doesn't know dot dot dot dot son is fine thankfully but big time dad lostthis week.Big timePucci loss too.That would grind my gears.K9 took the brunt of that.Yeah.That grind my gears.
01:11:08And look, I love that he feels safe enoughto come in our communityand share this dad loss.Yeah.Because that's one, you know,you go to the grave with.Oh, big time.You got to go to the grave with that one.
01:11:22Oh, big time.If Wipey still doesn't know.Like it's one thing if you're like,I got upset, I shoved the dogand I accidentally hit,I don't know what's son's name,but it hit Little Billy.And that's all me.
01:11:34That's one thing.You already got it out there.But since you blamed it all on the dog.You got to go with the story now.Yeah, which I don't mind that alibi.Depending on how bad the moment was,Waffle jumped and hit Scotty.If stitches are involved,
01:11:51100% go with that story.Yeah, yeah.But if it was harmless and the sun was all right from the get-go, maybe that's one you can share with her now and laugh as you're watching this episode.Yeah, yeah.But if it was a little dicey, yeah, I think that's when you've got to go to the grave with.We may want to bleep out his name.We may want to bleep out his name.Yeah, to help us says.
01:12:14I read that one too.I'm glad that you pulled that.Yeah.That's a funny one.I'm damn glad he came to the comments with the dad lost and felt safe enough to share with us.Yeah, that's as far as I'll go.It's a safe space.I was about to say I respect him keeping it from his wife.
01:12:33You got to hide certain things from your significant other.Yeah.Hey, look, the dog can't talk.You don't know.Also, I just caught a huge dad-ell.What happened?Like right now?Yeah, live.
01:12:49What happened?You know how I moved the Xbox upstairs because I play on that little screenso that I can see better for PubG.Guess who didn't move the Xbox back downstairsso Jill could stream movies and shows?Well, she's at home by yourself with our daughter.This fucking guy.My heart goes out to you.
01:13:11My heart goes out to you because I am a,I'm a victim and an idiot of the same type of ignorance.Charles left the house the other day,and she was having to go fast.She was like, hey, do you mind clean it?out the espresso machine.Sweetheart, I gotcha.As she goes and works out at seven.
01:13:30She comes back home on me and breakfast.She was like, I see you didn't clean out the espresso machine.Literally the other day, hey, before you leave, you mind turning the lights off in thepantry or something like that?Sweetheart, 100%.I won't forget to turn the lights off.Three minutes after leaving.Video.
01:13:54She's walking to the band.Oh, no.Walk to the pantry and flips the lights off.Buddy, my brain is fleeting.Videos and pictures are the worst.I will say this.I said it at the top.What makes Jill upset?
01:14:11When I really upset her, what is she really upset about that she doesn't feel like a priority?And so what am I telling her when I forget to take that Xbox downstairs?She's not a priority in your life.You're not a priority to me.I was not worried about if you would have,be able to play stuff on the TV while I was off at workand you're putting in, you're in the trenches by yourself at home.Fuck, dude.
01:14:35That's a huge L.Especially going into a big weekend, dude.I really need to ratchet it in.You really need to.Yeah.The mantra good needs to be at the top of your head.It does.You got to have a good weekend.
01:14:50Gotta have a good weekend.Gotta have a good weekend.That right there, that's a couple extra really nice conversationswith the aunts and uncles really being present this weekend.Digging in.Good.Yeah.You'll bounce back.
01:15:05I'll bounce back.Look in the name of Matt Malone who texted earlier,I let you down.What do you say?But I won't stay down.But I won't stay down.Matt Malone.Getting a back-to-back shout-out,
01:15:17bus with the boys,and for the day.Yeah.You know inside the buses talk about it, too.Should we get into our crack a cold one segment?Would love to you.Mike, I crack a cold one, goes toRuse excitement when I walked in the door
01:15:32after being gone a few days.So Bustin with the boys,we went on a little training camp tourwhere we flew around.We were gone from Sunday to Wednesday evening.Yeah.And we hit the Buffalo Bills.Yep.
01:15:46We hit the New England Patriots.Got the interview Coach Rable,Drake May and a few players.Then on Tuesday, we hit the Philadelphia Eagles,got the interview, the GM, Howie Roseman,and a few players.And then on Wednesday, we got to hit the Buffalo Bills,interview Josh Allen, the GM,
01:16:01and shoot content in each of these spots.So I was rolling for a few days.And when you're traveling, that's always time.It's like you get to, you know, points.I know moms, dads, everybody vibes with this.Because, again, it's like,Charles made the comment to me last night,like when we're talking about making time for each other.
01:16:21And so, like, sometimes I just feel like it's just work and being mom.And I'm thinking in my head, yeah, I feel like it's work and being dad.Yeah.And then you get to those spots where a trip, a three-day trip is like, all right, get a breath of fresh air, get to get some good sleep in.And then after about, I would say, two days, the dad guilt, like as you hear about whatever's going on back home or Loma or Roo is a little hard to put down.And Rue misses you a lot.Scotty had a tough time.The dad guilt starts to like creep up in your brain because you just feel bad because you know how much.
01:16:54work it takes to raise kids at home.And especially two.I think it's hard just one.Yeah.Especially.Yeah.Yeah.It's like a new heart every time.
01:17:04Yeah.Because the people with two look back.Oh, it was so easy with one.But when you have one, it's like, you know, you're trying to figure that out.Yeah.But getting to come home because we got to fly home a little bit earlier on Wednesday,we weren't supposed to be home until Wednesday night night.So I would have missed bedtime on Wednesday.
01:17:22Yeah.Because I'll structure kind of my thought process.is whenever I'm traveling, how many bedtimes am I going to miss?So I got to get home Wednesday evening, or Wednesday late afternoon, like before dinner.So I got to walk in the door like before dinner, like as we were sitting down and eating as a fan.But walking in the door and seeing Rue's excitement to see Dada was all time, bro.Do you have a video?No, no, I don't have a video.
01:17:47So, like, I'll do videos where it's like I want to get in the cadence like each week when she comes in for pizza Friday.She always walks in the door.She always wants to carry a box in or a little bag,whatever the smaller pizzas.It might just be like breadsticks or something.She walks in and I indoctrary.What is it?Indochinated her?
01:18:07Yeah.Indctrinate?Yeah.Into every time we walk in, she's home.She's got to yell, Mama, Pizza Friday.Pizza's here.And since she's been able to talk and kind of get that phrase out.So I'll like video that stuff like as we're walking in on Fridays.
01:18:21That's one of my favorites that you post.I kind of have it.So one day I'll do like a little montage as she's like growing up and hitting all the times where she walked in, Mama Pizza Friday, just with the little box.That's going to hit like crazy.Yeah.But I wish I would have got one of her like me coming in.She was all excited.I'm talking strong hug.
01:18:38Just like we're staring.She's looking at me and just making like, ooh.Dead day home and like hugging my legs.And she was attached to my hip for the rest of the evening.The rest of the evening.She was just fired up.And it's just that's when I sit back and I would love to crack a good.ice cold bud light to is thinking of moments like that when you come home and the kids the kids are
01:18:58just excited to see you scotty's smiling she's sitting up smiling dude she's she's crawling she's got agreat smile she's crawling and climbing shit everywhere you can't take her eyes off of her bro and i'm talkingquick on me crawl she gets going yeah in the water bowl again the other day it's what it's thosemoments of where you hear your little kiddo playing on the ground like whenever scarlet whenever she'smoving and crawling yeah you hear them playing with toys like hearingmoving around but when it gets silent that's when the alarm has to go up that's when the alarmwent off in my head i'm sitting on the couch in the living room now i was doing something and it gottoo quiet and i just raised up i'm like oh god thinking she's in the water bowl get up start running
01:19:37don't see her on the little runway in between the island yeah in the uh in the counter turn thecorner and look there she is she's got the bowl tipped over soaking wet again just patting her handin the water like damn dude yeah she found it again she's good how i'll get it's good i'll getto where I'll like see her and I'm like no no you can't go in the pantry and I'm like goinglunging to grab the door to close the pantry and she picks up speed because I feel like sheknows that the door is closing on her yeah goodness yeah she's all over the place man you got to watchher because they start being able to climb upstairs and you know they're uncoordinated so you haveto you have to keep that eye on because once they get up a couple like again I have that PTSD
01:20:20from Rook falling down the stairs whenever I likelet her call toward the stairs.Episode one.Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.That first dad lost that I told on here.And, but yeah, bro, she's all over the place.But that is my crack of cold one.To that, I say, that deserved a crack.
01:20:39That is a awesome crack.It warms your heart, bro.You just, you're happy to be home andthe kid loves it.Especially after hearing the voice recording that you playedof Rue last week.And there was a comment that I was going to read outwhen we were shouting that out, dude,
01:20:54I'm going to be in trouble.I'm going to be in trouble.You got to make sure you do those, man.Oh.A little recording, it just melt your heart when you listen to it.Because now her voice has developed a little more,so you hear a little bit more that innocence or broken language.Uh-huh.
01:21:11And those are the best.And it fires me up that we're in at such a cadence now.Like, Roos, she gets the spa treatment from dad when she goes to bed.Like, I'm scratching her back.I'm giving her a full body massage.I start, yeah, hands, feet, calves.Because I want that expectation.Yeah.
01:21:29When she's got a man one day, he's going to be like,fucking rub your back, Jesus.And she's going to say, my dad did it for me every night.Yeah, every night.Get these feet.Oh, yeah.Dad did it for me every night.So anytime mom comes down from bedtime, she's always,
01:21:45Dad, da, dad, lay next to me.And she just wants me to lay next to her.I like lay next to her in the crib.And, you know, I'm just like rubbing her bag or scratching herback. Yeah, yeah. But we're in a good cadence with that now. I feel like I, I feel like it's,Roo is more of a daddy's girl right now. Scotty's all mom. Scotty is all mom. Really? Yeah,not like, don't want to be around dad, but so whenever mom walks in the room, Scotty's eyes arelocked on mom. And if I'm holding her, she's kind of got the great post hand or like you're
01:22:12holding them, good little post hand to where she's, to where she's like turning her body, like lookingeyes on mom. She just loves mom. I think you're going to have two athletes out of those two.I hope so. The, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the,psycho scooter video that you put out.Did we talk about that on the last episode?No.No.The scoot, because that happened the weekend after.
01:22:31That's right.But my survival kit recommendation was going to be your little one or your toddlerhaving a scooter because Roo's got this little scooter where it's got two wheels in the front,one in the back, and she rips on this scooter.Like she rips to a point parents comment about how old is she?I'm like, she's three.and she was doing it on the back half of two but I'm like oh she's three she is the reallyTony hog Bob Bernquist you name it of scootering right now you got to run the clip I'll run it
01:23:05great video but that edit by will come at it charl was like um hey you should do a a scooter videolike I did I did one for Rue and ballet when she was late one early two and it was uh you know I hadrap music behind it. I did the ice skating one where I got a meek mill playing in the background.That was a good one. And she's like, you haven't done one of those in a while. I was like,challenge accepted. And I'm so I'm just taking videos of her while she's scootering around andI'm kind of sitting there throughout the rest of the day editing it on Instagram with Limp Biscuit,keep rolling. Yeah. She loves that scooter, man. She loves the scooter. And another reasontoo to add that I'm shouting out the scooter, the scooter video, the edit was was all time.
01:23:51But scooter, I'm able to use the scooter analogy a lot on any time she fails at something.Because she would fall, like, you know, at first when you're helping them out on the scooter,you're having to help them go around.They're probably a little scared.They're not getting on the scooter.They overcome the fear of riding around on the scooter and you might be pushing them a little bit.Or they need your help a lot.Then they get to where they can do it on their own.
01:24:10Then they're, you know, Rue is doing what she's doing now on the scooter.Put legs over the handlebar.Yeah, legs.I'm like, hey, you should try this.And she just, she tries it and rips it, bro.because you know she loves ballet so she'll be riding the scooter and hit the kick the the back leg like back back back dad at watch and throw her hand up have the leg out to the sky have the leg out to the side as she's like whipping it around a turn it's insane she can move on that scooter she's a psycho on the scooter yeah and it's incredible to see but i think my favorite part of that clip is when she's just sucking down the water and you got that look her heart has a totally turned black right rightriding that scooter.Yeah.
01:24:50Yeah.But I'm able to pull back to the analogy of like, you know,if she's scared to do something or she falls down and she's crying.And I always get to go back like, hey, remember the scooter?Think about how good you are on the scooter now.You weren't always that good.You fell a lot.Yeah.
01:25:05You didn't get it figured out a lot.But guess what did you keep doing?You kept getting back on the scooter.So I'm able to pull from that a lot.So that's why my survival kit shout out is going to be, you know,having a piece of equipment that they can ride.It's going to be the same with the bike, and I'll be pulling from the scooter analogy.But the scooter has been awesome for learning moments and leaning back on like metaphors and analogies when she's doing something new that challenges her because she gets pissed off fairly quick because she wants to be perfect at everything.
01:25:36Yeah.Dude, I love that as a survival game.We interrupt this episode to bring you our very first sponsor of the show.I know I've done some ad reads, but this one is strictly for For the Day.dads. It is Wayfair. Shout out Wayfair furniture. Get organized, refreshed, and back to routine forway less. Head to www.wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. Back to the episode.I might crack a cold one very briefly and we kind of touched on it at the beginning was thefair. The county fair. Tell me about your experience because I thought you were a sicko for
01:26:14taking under the fair because I'm thinking I went to the Williamson County Fair and Iwas able to write stuff but you can't do nothing with a newborn anything we didn't do anythingexcept eat a corn dog and drink lemonade that was it how good was the corn dog it was really goodthey were big and huge and jill is a corn dog sick oh she could put eight of those down and she wouldtell you that she would tell you that i'm bragging about her yeah i mean she loves a good corn dogand it was just a photo op dude the whole thing was just a photo op getting out of the house having funAnd a lot of people have a different mentality with newborns of like, you need to stay at the house and not expose them.You do absolutely whatever you want to do.
01:26:58But Jill and I were just feeling stir crazy.We wanted to get out together.Go do something fun around other humans and bring Scarlet.And, dude, it was so much fun.We had a blast.And I did the, God, what's the name of it?it's the wild bird chest strap.I had her on the chest mount for the first time.
01:27:20And just looking down, dude,like I haven't been in the world with her enough.You know what I mean?Yeah.So I'm like seeing all these humans and blah, blah, blah.And then I'm just looking down and she, you know,got the wide eyes and like the little, oh, lips going.Yeah, I'm just, oh, my God, you're incredible.
01:27:39You're so cute.And they do spit up.Good.Good.I'm not even worried about it, dude.It was just a blast.I wrote down, what I, oh, I wrote down, we were fully operating.That was the other thing.
01:27:53Jill had the diaper bag on.We had Arduna.I have the Wild Bird thing with her.I'm holding the, my survival kit, the Amazon flexible tripod fan.To quote a man that we know and love, Will Compton.Buddy.Buddy.body the amazon flexible tripod fan is next level dude it's 16 bucks it's got an LED light on it it's got
01:28:22three speeds i should be getting a commission for this fan that's how much i fucking love this fan is that yoursurvival kit that's my survival kit i kind of threw them into one but uh i'm just walking aroundwith you know making sure she's not getting overheated hitting her with the fan um got to see like all thelittle animals.Didn't get her too close because mom was like, no, we don't need to be around animals witha little scarlet.I was like, all right.It was a blast.
01:28:49You and shout out to the county fair.And you inspired that when y'all went.It's a good county fair.It is a really good county fair.They got the rides and food trucks and stuff set up on that top, on that top level.You walk down, down the concrete a little bit.They got way, a lot more rides at the bottom level.Tons of rides.
01:29:10Food trucks.Then they got this little like the farm where you can go in, like when Scarlet gets a little bigger,we're walking around.You start off at the beginning where they give you an apron in a basket.You get to pick out a red or a green apron, put the apron on.You got a basket to where it's like a day in the life of farming where you go.That's fun?You go and grab the, what do they call?
01:29:31The little teats of the cow, the udders.The udders are the cow.And then they hand you a box of milk.You're kidding.Yeah.You like milk the cow.They'll give you a box of milk.You go to the, they have set up like, uh, like wooden trees with apples sitting on
01:29:45where you pick apples.You go to where there's dirt everywhere and you hit the, you hit the little, what is it,the little gardening hoe deal, the little mini hoe.Yeah, yeah, a ho.Yeah, gardening.Hit in the ground, then you pick up, you pick up your peppers, tomatoes.You go, they have a chicken coop where I have these fake chickens and then there's likeeggs sitting in the coop where you pick up eggs.
01:30:07You got a little fishing pond where they have like magnetized.fishing rod that'll hit the tip of the fish. You pick the fish. You go into where they have thisfake sheep. You brush the sheep and then they give you a little package of wool. No. And then at the end,you go to the cash register, you go to the farmer's market and you give them, you put back allthe things so they can restock it back out in the field. Yeah. You put all the things back. Theyhand you a dollar and something else. They hand you like a dollar and maybe a sticker or something.they give you a dollar, then you go to the next table and you hand them a dollar and you can pick an oatmeal cream pie with shout out oatmeal cream pies.You either get animal crackers or an oatmeal cream pie.
01:30:48You hand them the dollar, you get you a little snack, a little treat, and that's the end of the farm experience that they have at the Williams.It was really just about it.Oh, she loved it.She loved it.She loved going to all the different things.I'm taking videos and photos because she's having so much fun.And they have all those animals where you can see the pigs, see the horses, see the llamas.Did she ride the pencil?
01:31:08She did not ride the miniature ponies.No, she didn't ride the miniature ponies.I actually don't even think I saw the chance to ride the miniature ponies.But we saw like the big horses that they had.Yeah, yeah.It was a lot of fun.Dude, so much fun.Not to be like, I am not a everything's bigger in Texas guy, but in DFW you do have the Texas
01:31:26State Fair and you have the Midway at the Fort Worth Stock Show and Rodeo.I've been around some big fairs.I could be very partial.What was the county name?Williams and County Fair.Williamson County Fair holds it to that standard, dude.That is a really good fair.Yeah.
01:31:45You have not been.You have to go.Yeah, that was our third year.That was our third year in a row, I think.But yeah, I'm glad you answered those questions too because one thing I was going,if you weren't mentioning it, I was going to ask like, what was the reasoning behind it for new dads and new parents out there listening?Because you're right.Some people, they won't leave the house or they're very particular about what they might do or they don't want to get out of routine, even though.
01:32:08You could be getting stir crazy and it could be healthy to get outside, just do something for even if it was 10 minutes.Yeah.How long did you guys end up staying there?Oh, 20 minutes tops.Oh, really?Of like in the fair, 20 minutes.Yeah.25 minutes.
01:32:23I love that.It was perfect.It's all we needed.Bought the corn dog, took pictures, drank lemonade, walked around.There's also live music there.There's two different sound stages.They had like a rock band at the top and then down below they had more of like the full.like kind of bluegrass stuff.
01:32:40Yeah.It was awesome.Rue was able to ride some rides more than she did last year.She's 40 inches, 40 inches tall.I forgot about that.And like the scrambler, you had to be like 42 inches, 46.So there were some.I'm like, damn it, Ru, we got to get you up a couple.
01:33:02Gotta get you up a couple inches.You got to buy her some Tims or something.I know I was thinking that too.I was like she would put her in some taller shoes.Yeah.Hey buddy, come on.Let her.Honey, why are you putting insules in our daughter's shoes?
01:33:17Yeah.She's going on the, what was it?The name of the ride.Oh, the scrambler.Yeah, she's going on the scrambler this year.Which I don't see why she couldn't be on the scrambler if she was with me.We won't get in all that.Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:33:29She ended up climbing up this one where it's kind of like an obstacle course where you climb to the top and then slide down.The big yellow slide?Yeah.With the cover over the slide?I saw that one.Roo got to the top and folded.Oh, no, Roo!I'm coaching her all the way around.
01:33:46Sweetheart, go up through this way.Oh, no.She's being timid and shy.You can climb and do the stuff.Did she go by yourself or were you on it with her?You got to go by yourself on that kid one.Kids in line, so they're going.So if they get a little caught, a helper comes up to help them up the next thing.
01:34:01Yeah.But she got to the top and I just couldn't talk her down.Like, sweetheart, because she loves slides.Like, Mama's at the bottom.of mama's at the bottom. You can do this. You know, she starts crying. No, no. She goes back down.I go and get her off the side. Oh, that's okay. I will cover. I know. I'll cover for Rue.That is a tall slide. She did it last year. No. Yes, and that's all trying to tell her.Oh, really? And she wasn't even tall enough to go on her last year. A lady was just sweaty
01:34:27out of her. She's, oh, she can go. She didn't know any different. I know. And you know whathappened? Did you see the clown one? Like the, with the mirrors and you go up and you do a little swirl swole.Oh, you have the fun house one.The fun house one.She did that with mom.She did it with me last year, but she went down the swirly slide,and she got caught sideways on the swirly slide.So she was a little scared at the end of that slide because she was sideways.
01:34:51I was sure, no, right?You knocked it out.You did this one last year.Yeah.And then we went to that jungle one, the one with the yellow slide next.And I think she just had the framework of being sideways on the slides over the slide,intimidate her a little bit because it was so high up.Oh, I know.
01:35:06Bro, that is like my number one thing is just like seeing friends when we'd go like cliff jumping or something at a lake and that one friend that's like too afraid to do it and they sit there for like 20 minutes.Yeah.But it's their face when they come out of the water.They get at the end of the slide that you're like, see?I know.It was worth it.I was bummed.Sweeto, you did it last year.
01:35:27You did this one last.You trust me.Trust me.It's just straight down no swirls.She would have loved it.She would have.Got to keep it under an hour.We do. I have a what are the odds? It's very quick. Good. What are the odds? Shout out Fanduel. This is a crazy one. This one's going to scare you, Will. I actually looked up some odds. Listen to this one closely, Will, because as a father of two girls, this one might strike you in a wild way. There's a 20 to 30% chance that you have already met your son-in-law.
01:36:06What? Really?If you live in the suburbs or like in a non-major urban area,there is a chance that you have already met your son-in-law or interacted with him in some way.If your child is under the age of 10, it's 5%-What are the odds that I have.That's what I'm saying.It's 20 or 30% and it's 5% in large urban areas.Yes, time will tell.
01:36:38But I thought that was a crazy.crazy stat.So there's any front runners right now, it feels like it'd be Hudson, the Canada trip.There you go.The way Rue was taking interest and talking on my man's ear off and he's just acting likea full dude.And I'd be like, she wants to talk to me.I don't want to talk right now.
01:36:58Buddy, trust me.I get it.But if you want to learn anything now, it's you listen.Yeah.Yeah.And maybe I need to go back and read that stat more carefully.But I'm pretty sure it was under the age of 10.it's like 20 to 30%.
01:37:11That's an interesting stat.Which is nuts.Yeah.But I was thinking about that when I was walking around the fair last night.I was like seeing all these little dudes running around.I'm like, these are little dudes.But the high schoolers?That little, the broccoli haircut?
01:37:28Go into that.I feel like you need to talk about that.So there is an epidemic going on right now with these high schoolers.where having that feathery layered haircut.All of them had it.I'm talking squads of eight plus all over the place.Yeah.And they all had the haircut.
01:37:52All of them, Sherm.I'm not joking.Can I tell you what that haircut is called or what I think it's called?It's the Eboy cut.Is that not right?Eboy.E boy.What I'm wrong with it.
01:38:04If you Google Eboy, I think Eboy haircut.Hey, it's us, the Jonas Brothers.And guess what?We have some big news.What's the news, name?Huge news.We created our own podcast called, Hey Jonas.We invented a podcast?
01:38:17Well, we didn't invent it.We just contributed to it.We're the first people to do podcasts.Pretty, yeah, pretty wide range of podcasts throughout there.But this one's extra special.So how do we actually come up with a name, Hey Jonas, guys?I honestly don't remember.I think it was on a call about what we should call it.
01:38:34And we were thinking I'm originally calling.it one of the earlynames of our band before Jonas Brotherswas...This is how you guys remember it going down?Yes.I have a very different memory of this.We were talking about a thing, a bit for the podcast
01:38:49where people could call in and say, hey, Jonas.And then I wrote down on my littlenotepad, Hey Jonas, and offeredit up as a potential title for the podcast.But thanks for remembering that, guys.Listen to Hey Jonas on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts,or wherever you get your podcast.Just listen. We don't care where you hear it.
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01:41:02What's go?Can I ask a follow-up question?what have they done to you personally will what what is happening or is it more so the fear ofof the the fear of those guys what are they doing what's it what are they're into they all look alikethey're all trying to be the same person and you know those haircuts like i i see that haircutand they think they're like it's like swaggy and you know they have juice with this haircuti swear to god all of them had it all of them had it so myinitial thought is all that you know these little douchebags over here this one and you're
01:41:42seeing all these high school girls walking around like you you you know the vibes you get when you goto the fair you're up the juices are there love is in the air it's the end of the summer or it'ssummertime you're chasing tail you're doing all these things so I'm seeing all the all the men andwomen you know around each other all these high schoolers around each other you want to go on thefairs wheel yeah you want to go hey I might be getting the ride with so-and-so todayThey kissed in the fun house?Yeah.Yes, bro.
01:42:10Or drama happened.Do you see this happen?I saw so-and-so with so-and-so.And I'm just thinking about Rube being at that age.I'm seeing all these dudes.I was too, dude.All these dudes with this haircut.And I'm thinking, I would get pissed off.
01:42:24Not my daughter.Yeah, exactly.Did you see my quote tweet to your E-boy tweet?Remind me?I said to the future prom date of Rue Compton.Did you see that?Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.I said, show up with the bus cut.
01:42:38And if you can't answer the question with yes, sir or no, sir, then it's probably rhetorical.And Will doesn't want you to answer it.Better have a damn firm handshake, too.Very firm handshake.But I would start with the buzz cut.That's an easy win.You would love that.It's something about everybody wanting to be the same, I guess, like conforming to this idea that this is the haircut you're supposed to have.
01:43:06Like, how are you different?Like, buddy, what are you doing?I get that.You ain't a leader.You're not a leader.You're a follower.That's what those Nike elite socks used to drive me crazy.You remember all the neon Nike elite socks?
01:43:20Yeah.I felt victim a couple times.Was that your prime?That was when I was in like middle school.Yep.With some sparries on.Oh!I remember the spary wave.
01:43:30I stayed out of it.Oh!That was the one that grinding my gears for the elite socks.I fell to the growing the hair out face.I looked ridiculous.Oh, I had a Bieber cut, dude.I had a Bieber cut.Yeah.
01:43:42That was what was big for my generation was the swoop.And so, yeah, maybe going off that, thinking about myself,like when I was, like, you know, growing longer hairto where you could, like, shake it and do the gay shit.Come on.It's like, you knew you were doing it because you thought it was coolbecause everybody else was doing it.And I'm telling you, this haircut is uniformed.
01:44:01It is.I don't know if you observed and peeped it.I was there on a,on a weekend night.So I'm talking, the high schoolers were out.The high schoolers were...By the time we left, it was just getting started for everybody else.High schoolers were out for mine.
01:44:18My headspace was not there.I was more so looking at the toddlers.I was more so looking at the toddlers and being like,I can't wait for Scarlett to be able to walk around.Like, that's going to be wild.And seeing like the moms and dads holding hands.Yeah, yeah, yeah.I got a really funny DM to save time.
01:44:39I won't pull it up.It was basically a guy saying,Sherm, saw you, saw the fam at the county fair last night.Wanted to come say, hey, and shout out PT6,but I was dealing with my own shit.I had a toddler up on the, you know, whatever,and I was holding the little one.But glad to see the fan was out and about.
01:44:59But I just love that idea of just like PT6ers just in the trencheswith the toddlers.walking. Yeah. I was daydreaming. I was daydreaming, dude. I was like, Scarlett, I want you to walkand talk so bad. But then you keep on reminding me, I'm going to miss. Yeah, enjoy it as much you can.Once that phase is over, it's over. When she my little, ooh, just in my chest patch. I respect that.It's like, I want to say my mind was doing that because it's like now that she's three and she's pretty.And it's like I'm just thinking about those things a little bit more because they're just going to keep growing up.They're going to keep getting older.
01:45:36Yep.I told,and you watch these shows where their,their daughter have these love interest in the shows,and your whole mindset is like,this is what my daughter's going to be going through.And I'm looking around and there ain't no prospects.Ain't no real prospects.
01:45:51Prospects and I'd be like, God damn it.And dude just walks into your front door.I'm not a dad.Hey, Mr. Colton.Open the door.Hey, Mr. Compton.Shut the door.Oh.
01:46:11Got to stay on track.Got to keep it under an hour.Dad.Yeah, go ahead, show.Oh, I was just saying as a non-dad,having a daughter is terrifying.Like the thought of it.No, yeah.
01:46:24It's like a, like that's scary.Oh, yeah.100%.It subsides, but then it comes back to life in pockets.Not in a bad way.Yeah.Not at all, but I'm just saying like.Well, you're just a, you're a full-blooded male right now.
01:46:39Yeah.Always will be.if a daughter comes into the picture.I've been told by every single person,like a lot of people that I will have only daughters.It just makes sense.Like one of those things, I'm like, no, I'll have a boy.And they're like, no, you're the exact kind of person
01:46:56that you only have daughters.Yeah, buddy.Trust me, I'm with you.I was in that same mentality.I'm going to get three of these boys.So will three shots.Three shots of the title.Will Sleep Paralysis Demon is a 16-year-old.
01:47:11With an Eboy haircut just standing over his bed.Oh, he would pain me, dude.Abercrombie-looking motherfuckers, bro.Zach Efron looking at.Yeah.Oh, my gosh.And shout out Zach Ephron.That was a weird ricochet shot at you.
01:47:29I have a dad hack.Okay.I have a couple of dad hacks as well that I was going to read from,I was going to read from comments.Oh, nice.Okay.Do you have them pulled up?You want to go first?
01:47:41I pulled up, sure.This one comes from Sutton Neal, 4914.Just got my daughter down again after she needed a midnight snack.I was listening to the pod and sure mentioned giving Scarlet some medicine in a syringe.A little dad hack, mixed the medicine, whether it's Tylenol, gas drops, vitamins, et cetera,in with the formula or milk in the bottle.It makes it much easier.And my daughter doesn't like the taste of the cherry Tylenol, but mix it with the milk,
01:48:05and she takes it just fine with no vomiting.Great dad hack.Great dad hack.Great dad hack.the syringe method.Roo wasn't about that.I'm talking it was a fight to getmedicine in her mouth. And I'm
01:48:19talking you would think we are torturing herto the point to where you feel badthat you have to hold her down and hold herstill to get it in.Like they're like kind of gargling or choking on the medicineand you're holding like, say keep her steady,keep her steady. You feel like you arewaterboarding your child with how much
01:48:35you're torturing them.Knowing that it tastes good and you're just likeyou've got to get it down.Well, and I'm sitting there, I didn't put too much a lot to it.Jill's really good at it because she's a nurse, like doing the stomach thing.But then, yeah, to that guy's point, Jill puts the probiotic in the formula.And so I did think I was like, why can the probiotic go in the formula, but the gas stuff doesn't?But I'm guessing maybe it's like get the gas stuff in before the formula so that it can start doing its thing.
01:49:08And then I don't know.We ain't experts.We are not experts.This is not an expert advice giving podcast.A couple dads telling stories.Just having fun here.Failing our way up.We're failing our way up.
01:49:23My dad hack comes from Tom and Tom apologies on the last name, Cavuto.Hair ties on wipes.And I'll have chef pull up the video so it's easier for people at home to see.but we've often discussed the one hand on Scotty, for your instance,while you're trying to pull the wipe and that wipe just won't come out and you're shaking that damn thing.You get your regular ponytail hair tie.You put it on the wipe bag, like let's say white bag's rectangular.You're just going to put it on one at the end so it kind of helps clamp down on the wipes.
01:50:04And it pulls out like so easy, dude.No shit.show you the video that he'll haveplaying, it's insane.It's like a tissue out of a tissuebox. Buddy.Buddy. That comes from Tom Cavuto.Shout out Tom Cavuto?
01:50:21Apologies on the last.Tom Cavuto. Tom Cavuto.Cracking the code right there. That's giving game.That's giving game.Mine comes from Chris Brake,9337. Tip for anydads flying with their little ones. This is a great tip.If they still take a bottle,
01:50:36give it to them when you're taking off.don't take a bottle use a pacifier this is the equivalent of an adult throwing in a stick of gumin for takeoff to help with the air pressure for your head pt6 out that's a good one that's huge yeahthat was one that uh char was on top of like when we'd start taking off with uh rue or scotty yeahlike timing it up to where you start feeding them for takeoff so that way yeah the air pressureears popping they're kind of sucking it down while the elevation is going on yeah so that way theiryears don't pop. That's good. I would love that week before I travel to Waco for that game.Yeah. I would love to have a breakdown with you of just go through everything. Done. That would
01:51:20actually be really fun. Done. Because I need it. Maybe we could do a double date. Some sort ofCharles would have some things that I might miss. I'm saying a meeting of the mind. Yes. I thought,I'm so sorry. I thought you're saying like y'all come to Waco?the game and I was like you're going to be at the Cincinnati game where are you talking about yeah no no noI'm talking like good to have the better half it would because there'll be some things that I forgetwell and then the girls will run off and they'll start talking about how dumb their husbands are andthey'll become good we'll have to keep the kids yeah yeah yeah it'll be good oh yeah we'll have fun thoughwe watch the kiddos yes dude that would be fun that would be fun come on now uh do you have another dad
01:52:03dad heck no I don't call ins call ins call ins haline 601 the dads.Shet Jack,Willie C, Sharm.It's Dexter from 4 for Scotland here.Papp of Team 6, Braveheart Edition.We've got...Do you hear that?
01:52:23No.For Scotland here.Papa Team 6 Braveheart edition.We've got the family trip to Orlando coming up,and I was wondering if you guys havemaybe any advice for jet lag.We're obviously.I think coming out, we're going five hours back.
01:52:44I think that's going to be okay.We can maybe make that work.But when we come home, I'm expecting to be in the shit.I mean, I'm in the mud.Kid show, kid show.I don't know if you guys have experienced this,but maybe just any advice that you've maybe heardor whatever would be appreciated.
01:53:04All right, love you, boys.Dexter.Dexter from Scotland.Pt6 Braveheart edition.I love that.A shout out Dexter for calling into the show.My tips would be, all right, so I can equate this to us flying to Hawaii.I want to see Hawaii is a four-hour time difference?
01:53:27Yeah.The Nashville?Yeah.Trip down there was always pretty not that bad for us.Again, we would do a lot of timing up the feeds as we're traveling.We try to keep the same cadence as we possibly can.When we land in Hawaii and we are four hours back, obviously us being four hours ahead,you're wired to get tired earlier, wake up sooner.
01:53:50We would try and get on the clock, get on the time locally like that we would do.So, for example, if bedtime's at seven, we'd be chopping up on first day.It's probably like eight or nine when we're trying to get everybody down.But have the same cadence of waking up.So if bedtimes at seven, wakeups at seven, if we're in Hawaii and we're trying to put the kid down or we're trying to put Roode down at eight or nine or get Scotty down for eight or nine because it's not like you're going to be able to accomplish all four hours in one day or one shot.Yeah. But say like up to two hours at a time or an hour or two at a time, the one thing you'll notice is everybody will be waking up a lot sooner.Yes.A lot sooner. Even you're going to be waking up a lot sooner.
01:54:32I know Charlie and I would be up just laying in bed at like three or four in the morning our first couple nights in Hawaii.It really took a while.But we would try and get on the cadence as fast as we could.Again, not all in one chunk to where you're trying to eliminate the five hours.So again, if bedtime is usually at seven for you, if we were doing the whole five hour difference going backwards,we would probably be trying to get Rue and Scotty down, you know, within a reasonable, probably around nine.o'clock it might be 10 but let them sleep as long as they can because again you know that they're probablychances are they're going to be waking up a lot sooner and then the next day we would just handle out
01:55:12our daily routine and time it up to where you know if they're not eating until seven or eightif they're bitching and complaining we would try and hold off to those times so if we're eating atseven we're eating at 11 you know what I mean and so forth three o'clock rude now that she's a toddlerit all kind of like if she's hungry for lunch we know like hey we got to get some lunch inwe got to get some protein in her yeah but if you're having a ta or not a toddler like a newborn or aninfant to where they're on a schedule we would try and be to that schedule as close as we possiblycan and try and get in our regular cadence as quickly as we can now i'll tell you this every timewe've flown back from hawaii or a spot to where you're traveling a far distance outside of
01:55:57canada canada wasn't too bad honestly oh okayit's been a nightmarereally yeah it gets a little diceyit gets a little tough so you just got to knowand you got to prep yourself mentally ahead of timethat this is going to be a battleand it's not just going to be one battleor dealing with traveling back home
01:56:15jet lag it's like you knowyou know you're going to have some jet lagfor us it's all about getting on the schedulethat we're at home and now we have a new local timeand that's the part that should be not the physical partof traveling back like the flight backThe flight back and being home is the shitty part.Got it.
01:56:33Flight back, yeah, flight back and going home was always a challenge for us.Okay.Has always kind of been a challenge for us.And you just got to know there's going to be about five different battles on the way home.Not just one.When the first one's happening, you've got to go, it's got to be second nature.You know what I mean?Like it's default.
01:56:50It's subconscious.This is just number one.This ain't even close to what the shitty part's going to be.That's what you have to tell yourself mentally.Yeah.So that way you're handling it the way you got to handle it.and you just know that there's a war to come.And it just started to manifest itself in its first battle.
01:57:06But that would be my advice.It'd be trying to get on your schedule as quickly as you can,a couple hours at a time.Then you just create that routine.Try not to deviate from that routinebecause it's more important for the kid than it is the adult,but you will appreciate it because you're trying to stay on schedule.But that would be, those would be my tips for having a successful vacation or family trip.
01:57:28that makes all the sense of the world i honestly can't touch on it because i haven't done itto be honest but not yet i will be doing it soon um but what they say they were going againorlando okay probably disney world yeah i'd be hitting the parks that'll be interesting that'll befun it'll be fun good for him all the way from scotland decks yeah 100% did he say how oldthe kiddo was or his kids were let me see i don't think so oh no he yeah he didn't but he's got twoCorrect? Yeah, two.But shout out Dexter and Dexter will get a little Scotland flag.Going.
01:58:05What up, PT6? This is David from Northwest Arkansas reporting a massive dad win today.We've had a rough week.David from Northwest Arkansas.Second caller, David from Northwest Arkansas.Week of sickness.Wife got sick and I got sick.And our four-month-old son William got sick.four-year-old son Stephen got sick
01:58:28and somehow our two-year-old daughter Cameronhas avoided the bullets in the crossfire.Thank goodness because she is an absolute handful on a good day.Also, shout out my youngest son, William.He has been just making life super easy on mom and dad.He's been the easiest baby, so shout out him.He's been awesome.But this morning, my four-year-old ended up in bed with us at some point last night.
01:58:52He gets sick about 5.30 this morning.on his way of the bathroom, throws up all over the wood floor.Mom takes him, they go to his room, they both go to sleep.I clean everything up, disinfecting, mopping, all the stuff, go to the kitchen,empty the dishwasher, load the dishwasher, hand-wash the dishes that are too big for the dishwasher.Good.Those put away.Then I start getting breakfast ready because I know my two-year-old's going to be up soon.
01:59:19I get the strawberries done, the blackberries, the blueberries, scrambled eggs,sausage links all the goods she wakes up crushes breakfast what a four-year-old wakes up he eats a little bitget him some water he's still not feeling great but he says he's not feeling sick so that's goodput him on the couch say hey how about you just curl up here here's a little give a mouse a cookie foryou we're going to let mom sleep in this morning get all the stuff in the kitchen cleaned up againit's still spotless and immaculate there's not a damn dish in the sink boys mom wakes up she'sexcited about it. Also, her eggs are on the stove, still warm, ready to go for her. She pumps.I say, hey, mom, how would you like your favorite drink from your favorite spot? Let me go get that
02:00:00for you. I just got back to the house with her favorite drink. So just wanted to report the massivedad win. Super pumped for the day. Just made a little extra coffee this morning and we're ready tocrush it. So love the content, boys, love the show. Keep it up. We'll talk to you later.I forgot about the favorite drink part. That is a clinic.If we ever host a conference before the dads, he needs to be a speaker.That's such a big dad win.God.It inspires me to be better.
02:00:31It makes me feel like a failure as a husband.But that is what we need.You need fatherhood being embraced that way.I would like to think in the right situations I handle it that well.I'm sure there were some tough moments, but what a fucking performance.Not only knocking everything out, but having the wherewithal for that, that cherry on top.Yes.What do you want from your favorite place?
02:01:00I got you, babe.Oh, ho ho.He's watching every Husker game.Buddy.In a college game he wants, he gets to watch.Buddy, buddy.What was it?What was Buddy's name?
02:01:15What up to two, six?David from northwest of South.David.shout out david when you say northwest arkansas northwest arkansasain't no dad's operating like david down there in northwest arkansastruly i am so that is even more reason that i love that we send out merch to people thatget on the show david's deserving of i didn't even think of it from that perspectivesend them the whole damn store dude send them everything
02:01:46what were you going to sayI just I listen to David's storyand here I am bitching about a showhey don'tdespair and comparedude I know butDavid's had his momentsit's a great story of leadership
02:02:10yeah dudeand David's had his momentshe would be the first to tell you thatno doubt no doubtI do appreciate the space to talk about lossesin such a way to whereit's like that but it's like hearing shit likethat. I hope every dad thinks about a recent dad loss where you hear a story like that and you're just
02:02:27like, and I'm over here bitching about a shelf. Was it just one shelf that you put directly to the wall?Was it like one of those little Amazon shelves that you just? One shelf. One shelf, two screws.I think I know the exact shelf. Oh, no. It's got the nice little. It's got a shelf and then like,underneath of it's got these little like antler hooks yeah and she also like uh and she's likeyou took such pride in doing it in ruse room and she's right i i i i hear that it's like i'm bitchingabout a shelf dad you got to learn from me yeah you got to you got to learn in those momentsbecause i i'm grateful to hear that i'm grateful to hear that i am too don't despair and comparebut see greatness and replicate it.
02:03:30You know, go out there and replicate what David did.Also, dapp up a dad.Just go out there and go dapp up a dad, dude.We need more dad daffs.Why am I not dapping up a dad every day?We need more dudes dapping up dudes.I feel like that's all we do.We need more dad dafts.
02:03:51We need them.Because when I come in, when I've had a hard week and I come into the officeand I dab chef nine times,times, you 20 times.JP's throwing out daps.Matt Malone, questionable daps.He's been catching so much fire.I'm so sorry, Matt.
02:04:07But we finally figured out a dapbetween each other.But when you're dapping the boys up,dude, when you're dapping the dad's up,and just rinse and repeat what David just did,being a fucking legend.And ask yourself, when you're in the kitchenand it's 1 o'clock in the morning
02:04:26and you're done with the night shift,Jill's about to clock in at 2 a.m.What's something that I can do to bless Jill in this kitchen right now, in the living room?I folded those blankets like shit.Watch me fold these blankets again.God, you're so fucking right.Watch me chop this pillow.She's going to walk in and be like an interior decorator came through here.
02:04:56Lesson of the week.Be like David.Be like David.Dude, I'm realizing this is going so long.I have such a fire lesson of the weekthis week. Say it, tell it.Do you have a lesson that you want to do?I had a pull from Instagram
02:05:11that I was going to shout out, but bro, if you want to rockthe lesson, rock the goddamn lesson.I'm on the lesson thing every week.You are. It'd be good.Yeah, it'd be good to hear.It'd be good to get a clip hole, sure amount.This is my first quote of the week.I'll paint a picture really quick.
02:05:29I talked about Lord of the Rings.Last episode, I will try not to talk aboutLord of the Rings every episode.Lord of the Rings is one of my favorite stories of all time.It inspires me, and this scene in particular brings me to tears when I watch the third film Returnof the King all the way through.This is one of my all-time favorite scenes.Sauron's forces, and Sauron is the Dark Lord.
02:05:55He is the big baddie for the people at home that have not watched Lord of the Rings.His forces have laid siege to ministereth the capital city of the city of the city.Gondor. Those are the good guys. Okay. Lord Sauron wants all of humanity to be wiped off the earth.He's the dark lord and he often uses man's fear of death to bind them to his will, to his evildark ways, promising immortality, great power, wealthy, tricks them. You remember those rings ofpower he was given out to everybody and then it turns you on one of those evil necromancer zombiebe things, right? Yeah. So when everything seems lost in Gondor is about to fall, the riders ofRohan pull up to the scene. And King Theoden that leads the Rohehrum, which is a large cavalry of
02:06:52horsemen, they're coming to basically save the day. And King Theidan turns to his army,and he says the following. I think this is a really good morning mantra. If you just want to getfucking stoked to wake up and go take on the day.Arise, arise.Spears shall be shaken.Shields shall be splintered.A sword day, a red day, and the sun rises.So he's basically saying some shit is about to go down.
02:07:26And it's going to be a sword day.It's going to be a red day.It's going to be bloody as fuck.And look, the sun is rising.right now. This is about to happen. So buckle up. He says, ride now, ride, ride for ruin,and the world's ending. And then at the end of that, Sauron's power over humanity, if youremember, is reminding them of their fear of death. King Theoden then screams out death. And his armyyells back at him, death.
02:08:01And he screams death again, and they scream death, and then they charge into the enemyforces.He's basically saying, what you hold over our heads, we fucking want it.All of that speech right there that he just said can be summed up in one word, good.He's basically saying good.We're going to go fucking kick ass.And you can't scare us.We fucking, you're going to kill us.
02:08:31You're going to destroy us.It's going to be terrible.Good.I fucking want death.I fucking want it.Gets me juice every time.Fuck fear.Fuck fear, dude.
02:08:43Fuck fear.King Dayden, dude.I feel like we were in a locker room right there.Oh.The juice is going.Yeah, I thought you were going to give me some dad lesson.Dad lesson.And I love how you just.
02:08:58you galvanized the fatherhood into what you fear.Fuck that fear.Lean into that fear, dude.It's the same thing that we've been saying.Yes.That good mentality that we like joke about,it's so true, dude.Like when you wake up in the morning and you are tired as fuck,
02:09:20wife has to pump.That means you're holding baby,but you're half awake.You don't really want to hold baby.Good.good death and you just charge in their full force you give it your all even if you know it'sgoing to end up in a you know dirty diaper or crying or whatever like shit will not go our way life ishard it's like it is not easy and going into it with the mentality of this won't be easy good
02:09:50or like bring it i love that dude gets me juice go watch thatgo watch that scene dude just type in ride of the roherom in youtube yeah if youfucking tear up fucking tear up dude cry man and look at the orcs faces dude as the roherom is justabout to get their front line and the leader of the orcs is back and he's like these guysare fucking nuts they don't give a shit and also sauron's forces outnumbered the roherom 10 to 1they literally have 10 times the guys and as that charge is coming in they're likeLike, what the fuck?These guys are psychopass.
02:10:30Just a bunch of PT6 sickos.I love that.Let's go.Hard choices, easy life.Easy choices, hard life.Yeah.You got me fired up from Michigan, Nebraska.Oh!
02:10:50And just wanted to kick ass when I get home.Yeah, dude.I got that of one fucking shelf.That's how.Hey, dude. I know. I know. Look, look, look. Even when we were talking about it and going over and she's like, yeah, you know, you know, I don't mean. Like I said a couple things. I'm like, I know. I know you didn't mean it. And I'm like, you know, you have a bad moment. You have like a low moment. Yeah. It's just you got to catch it. Fortunately, when I was rocking Scotty to sleep, I'm like coming to grips with. Yeah, dude, you got to apologize. Later that night, I'm known for.or not sheets and blankets washed on the bed.Charles usually fold them or we might fold them together,but it usually comes at a reminder,
02:11:41hey, can you help me fold these blankets?I'm sitting there kind of, we got done playing the game.And I'm in bed before Charo.She's still out in the living room.I think playing some game on her phone or something like that.Oh, let's go.And I saw the pile sitting there.I was like, you know what?
02:11:58I'm going to surprise her and have these sheets and blankets foldedAnd then stuffed in like the, you know, the drawer like under the bed.Yeah.You know how you have the bed frames that'll have like a drawer or something like that?Yeah, yeah.We have the little space compactor type thing.Yeah.You know what you're talking about.
02:12:12Drop a little, drop a little surprise.Just drop a little comeback.That was like a small wind before I could, you know, lay my head to rest for the nightthinking about the goddamn one shelf, Will.You are fucking better than that kid.Can we give ourselves a homework assignment?because this won't come out until Tuesday.Let's give us one.
02:12:32Over this weekend, because I'm traveling, big, busy weekend.I don't know what do you have going on this weekend.Family weekend.It's kind of not playing yet.I know we're looking at doing the picking party tonight,which it's where it's like over in the West Nashville area.They throw some called the picking party to where they have, you know,an artist performing.
02:12:53Everybody brings lawn chairs.Guitar picking.Yeah, guitar picking.Lawn chairs are out.Food trucks are out.Drinks are out.Love that.People lay out blankets.
02:13:01Yeah.Enjoy a little picking.Full moon picking party.Bring the dogs?Yeah, but I leave Waffle home whenever I can.Because Waffle, you know, she's a boudo.Baudow.She wants to be on the couch.
02:13:13Then bulldog on by.Yeah.Go bigh.Well, my homework assignment was we both send each other something that we surprised spoiled our girls.We try and pull a David this weekend.God.And we have to take a picture and, like,text it of like this is why I did.
02:13:32Okay.And then we can bring it up on our next episode.A homework assignment for all the dads out there.Homework? Yes. Yes. That's getting PT6 involved.Y'all send in your, yes, dude. That's actually really sick.Everybody's sending in DM for the dads on Twitter, Instagram, whatever.How did you spoil your wife? How did you pull a David this weekend?How'd you pull a David? How'd you spoil a wife?
02:14:01How'd you surprise the wifie?You know what it is too,getting up before them, taking care of the kids,letting them sleep in.That's a move right there.That's a move that I've never done.I'm not doing that shit.Come on.
02:14:19Milk Team 6 is about to be amped.Yeah.Appreciate everybody for tuning in.This was for the dad.Shut up Papa Team 6.Go buy the merch,bwtb.com.And do not forget to take out the trash.
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