Bussin' With The Boys - EP #56 - When Kids Want To Do Everything On Their Own + Will Preps For Vacation | For The Dads

Episode Date: July 1, 2026

In this episode of For The Dads with Former NFL Linebacker Will Compton, hosts Will and Sherm prepare for their family vacations coming up fast, discuss the debate about using your neighbors trash can...s for your trash and break down a beautiful voicemail from a member of Grandma Team 6 — all while keeping the episode fun, fresh and of course, under an hour. The episode kicks off with Will and Sherm breaking down the recent temper tantrums in House Compton before getting into some hilarious topics such as: Dad’s today vrs. Dad’s Back Then Dealing with Separation Anxiety Breaking down epic Dad Songs Other highlights include: Advice for Finding Your Dad Group Kids wanting to do everything on their own 👉 If you’re looking for dad podcast humor, parenting real talk, and a strong community vibe, this episode of For The Dads is a must-listen. 🎧 Tune in for laughs, real talk, and unfiltered dad energy. 💬 Drop a comment, share with your dad crew, and don’t forget to subscribe to For The Dads with Will Compton for new episodes every week!  PT6, Going Dark. —-- Timeline 00:00 - Temper Tantrums & ScarScar’s turning one!   3:43 - Happy Anniversary Will & Charo! + Vacation Prep for Will’s Trip 14:45 - Sherm got an APR from Ms Amy / Dad Brain for the Boys 19:20 - Sherms Parents Were Right, Going To Bed Early Rocks 22:16 - Doing chores early so you can watch House Of Dragons 26:45 - Prepping for Intern Chris to House Sit for Sherm 32:28 - Taking family vacations with the kiddos 34:30 - ScarScar has been RIPPING on her walker 37:40 - Dealing with kids wanting to do everything on their own 39:40 - Separation Anxiety has hit the Young household 44:55 - Hitting some comments from previous sodes 51:31 - Dads these days are playing a different game than Dads before 55:50 - Shoutout to all the new dads joining PT6 + Community Shoutouts 1:03:30 - Will hasn’t been a fan of Rue’s books 1:06:12  - Finding your dad group before you’re even a dad / First Time Dad Advice 1:15:17 - Cracking a Cold Olipop for some vacations coming up 1:18:00 - Hitting some father’s day shoutouts from MT6ers 1:21:38 - Do you put trash in your neighbors bin if theirs isnt full? 1:27:00 - Call into the show at 601THEDADS and leave a voicemail!  1:34:08 - Top Tier Dad Songs 1:38:38 - A PT6ICKO is getting a PT6 Tattoo! 1:41:23 - An email from a PT6icko dealing with their parents sickness 1:59:56 - PT6 can get you less to do at work 1:56:50 - Fathers day is better than your birthday —-- For The Dads is for every guy who needs a place to talk, vent, and laugh about all the insane, hilarious, and chaotic sh** (sometimes literal) that comes with being a dad.  Hosted by Will Compton–NFL Vet, creator of Bussin' With the Boys, and proud dad of two. This show isn’t about expert advice and how fatherhood is the greatest thing on earth—it’s about embracing the love and suck of parenthood every day. From balancing work and family to battling the mental load, fears, and the moments that wreck you in the best way, we dive into it all with honesty, vulnerability, and a sense of humor. Cause at the end of the day... us dads have no idea what we're doing. Alongside Will is his producer Sherman Young, a recently new father who’s currently deep in the trenches of Fatherhood and loving every minute of it. Together, they’ll break down everything that can go right and wrong (...usually wrong) when you bring tiny humans into this world. Expect funny parenting stories, laughs, call-ins, advice, weekly themes, and the kind of conversations you’d have over a cold beer in the garage. Whether you’re raising teens or still Googling “how to install a car seat”, For the Dads is the ultimate podcast for dads who are in it, about to be in it, or just trying to do their best while screwing it up along the way. -----   FOLLOW THE BOYS Instagram:   / Forthedadspod  Twitter:   / Forthedadspod Facebook:   / Forthedadspod TikTok: / Forthedadspod LISTEN iTunes: http://bit.ly/BWTB_Apple Spotify: http://bit.ly/BWTB_Spotify ----- Olipop - Buy any 2 cans of Olipop in store, and we'll pay you back for one. Works on any flavor, any retailer. Go to https://drinkolipop.com/BWTBSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:02:27 dumb shit kids get upset about the first one my four year old had a meltdown because we wouldn't buy in his words cleaning a robot to clean the house for us from Costco he was referring to a Roomba oh yeah no brain no brain no brain on the on the on the shit that kids break down about
Starting point is 00:02:47 literally yesterday yeah I asked Rue if she could go upstairs and get a band-aid for Scotty Scottie stepped on a screw the other day but Rue like brought down something And I was like, hey, sweetheart, do you mind going up? Do you mind going up and grabbing another band-aid for Scotty? And she just immediately shoulders drop.
Starting point is 00:03:05 She drops to her knees and sadness. And I'm like, oh, dude, what are we doing? All you got to say is like, no, I'd rather like, Deda, can you go up and get it? Yeah. And it just, the whole way, as I'm just stomping up the stairs, just thinking, God. Oh, you went? Yeah, I went and got it because when she dropped to her knees, I'm like, all right, dude. I'm just trying to see if you'll, we're a tribe, we're a team here.
Starting point is 00:03:26 Oh, Dad, Dad, Dad. Can you just help that it? Look, look, look, I'll go get, this is not that big of a deal. You don't have to break down over this. You simply say like, you know, you can kindly try and say, no, I will push you to try and go up there and get it. But you don't got to break, they break these kids, man. They break down over the craziest stuff. If you want to see a real-life interpretation of that, wet hot American summer, have you ever seen that movie?
Starting point is 00:03:49 I have not. You would think it's very funny. Have you seen it, chef? Yeah. The scene with Paul Rudd, where they. he's essentially, he's a grown-ass adult in the movie too. And the head of the summer camp tells Paul Rudd's character who's a counselor, hey, do you mind taking that tray to the like where we put the trays in the lunchroom?
Starting point is 00:04:12 Like you can't just leave it out. And Paul Rudd's character just instantly throws it and throws his arms down and just starts going. And he does it. It's like a five-minute scene of him acting like a four-year-old. you will love it because you're like yeah yeah that's it that's it that's what these kids do that's what these toddlers do um but anyway welcome to another episode of for the dads popa team six as you know i was just reading a comment we are massive in our community of papa team six milk team six seamen team six goombes everybody out there tuned in right now if you are new to this show
Starting point is 00:04:47 we're happy you're here we just basically embrace the love and suck a fatherhood you get a lot of marriage talk. You get a lot of parenthood talk. I am a girl dad myself. I have two little ones, a four-year-old Rue, who just turned four in April, a 19-month-old Scotty, and my co-host here, Sherman Young. He's a father of one baby Scar, Scar, Scarlet, who turns one on July 3rd. Round of applause. Sound off in the chat. Happy birthday, Scarlett. I'm going to pepper them with questions. But again, welcome to another episode of For the Dads. Make sure you are subscribed. make sure you're following on all of our channels Spotify, Apple, Amazon,
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Starting point is 00:05:42 because we read a plethora of comments crossing from social media all the way to the comments on our episodes. But this week, I'm going to, Shirm, I am going to pepper you with questions about Scarlet turning one, reflecting on the first year with Scar, Scar.
Starting point is 00:06:02 Me, myself, I am itching. Right now it's Friday, June 26th, by the way, anniversary. It's your boy's anniversary with Charo on shelf. And a round of applause, because it is his anniversary, we got a little something for you. Oh, for you to open.
Starting point is 00:06:20 Because it is Charo, and we have a little bit of something. Will's anniversary today. And we love our Willie One shelf. Best part, here's the card. Best part about me being married is having someone to split the pizza with, to binge watch the new season with,
Starting point is 00:06:34 to laugh out loud with, to hug during the storm, to always lean on always. What's the best part about being married? Knowing that you'll always be sharing your life with your favorite person by your side, happy anniversary, signed by all the boys.
Starting point is 00:06:49 Yeah. I love you guys, man. And Charlie, if you're listening, happy anniversary. We are, she's listening now. That means she's listening to this podcast in the middle of our vacation. We are going on vacation. I said I was itching. It was June 26 on Friday.
Starting point is 00:07:04 Tomorrow on the 27th, we're taking off Italy and Argentina, man. Come on, man. We'll be in Buenos Aires, man. We'll be in northern Italy in Austria for two weeks, full two weeks. That's sick. I actually just found out we weren't getting back until the 11th two days ago. I thought we were always getting back on July 8th. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:07:28 Here's the problem with that. Papa Team 6. This is communication. How do we always mess this up? I'm telling Charo, you always told me July 8th. She's like, we sent the itinerary over. You were all about the itinerary. I'm like, yeah, but I still always thought it was July 8th.
Starting point is 00:07:45 I didn't see the flights where it says July 11th. The problem with that is on July 11th, Connor McGregor, fights in Vegas and my wife when we were getting to know each other she asked me my bucket list she asked me the bucket list question and I'm in the middle of I'm in Washington I'm in the middle I'm football
Starting point is 00:08:03 Willie C. Yeah so I've never had like a bucket list so she's kind of laughing and she's like you don't have a bucket list like what are things you want to do and I'm like I mean I don't know she's like do you want to go places I'm like I haven't really thought like I don't really go on trips or nothing because again win the Super Bowl Yeah when the Super Bowl like be a pro bowler like that's on my bucket list you know what do you mean bucket list yeah 100 tackles in a year that's a bucket list item mean fellas in the aga don't you what don't you want to
Starting point is 00:08:32 go somewhere oh yeah the the NFL Hall of Fame yeah yeah yeah I'd be sick to go to I guess the beach in Florida or something she's like what about other countries and she's like laughing at me and when I was she was pressing me to think about it I'm like all right what do I love and I'm like I grew up I love free willie it'd be sick to swim with orcas in Norway. It would be, and then I'm like, in this era, I was, I loved Connor McGregor.
Starting point is 00:08:58 I'd be sick to see Connor McGregor in Vegas. I had two items on my bucket list. Swim with whales, swim with the work of whales, see Connor McGregor fight. Come on. And those were the two. And so when she hit me with the 11th and I'm like, Connor fights on the 11th,
Starting point is 00:09:15 how am I going to get like, I'm not going to be able to go now? And she's like, I mean, is that something you had to go to? I'm like, That's that's you're not you created this monster char I didn't have a bucket list. Yeah. And I gave you two things. This is the bucket list. And now I'm, hey, I was tight.
Starting point is 00:09:32 It was one of those silent. We drove to, we were driving to get pizza at the time with the kiddos. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I just got to sit silently because there's a part of, I got to accept this. Like nothing's going to change. Yeah. So, so why create something bigger than it needs to be? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:09:49 I'm already here right now. Yeah. So let me just. I'm more of an internalize, like just sit in it, just be silent. Yeah. But now I'm going to try and make a play. You are, you are quite literally explaining exactly where I was with first birthday party, Baylor versus Auburn and Atlanta.
Starting point is 00:10:08 Yes. Kind of. Yeah. I don't want to fully put Charo in the wrong of weed said. No, no. There was, not that you're putting Jill fully in the wrong, but I'm saying like, there wasn't like, I didn't buy. I didn't do the planning.
Starting point is 00:10:23 I didn't buy the tickets. Yeah, yeah. To where I'm setting and she throws something on me. Hey, we need to be staying until the 11th because of X, Y, and Z. Yeah. This was like very premature when we're talking about it. When can you be gone for busing with the boys? Because again, very intentional about trying to plan, prioritize.
Starting point is 00:10:38 Let's get away. Let's do vacation with the family. Let's just get out because we've been doing just a lot of shit. Yeah. And it was just always either June 26th to July 8th or June 27th to July 9th. When I look at the calendar, I'm like, it's going to be our anniversary on the 26. It's going to be a Friday. Let's just go on Friday because then we can get back a day sooner because I'm thinking about the work weeks and everything else.
Starting point is 00:11:00 Yeah. So when I found out it was the 11th, dude, because she hit me with something. This would be like personal. I don't know if I'm allowed to talk about it yet, but she's like, hey, I'm able to do X, Y, and Z on Monday when we get back? And I'm like, Monday when we get back? I was like, we don't get back until Wednesday. I'm like, when are we getting back thinking we're going to get back the weekend before July 8th? and she's like, oh, we get back on July 11th.
Starting point is 00:11:21 Then I like sat up out of my chair and looked over at her because over in the passenger seat. And I'm like, July 11th. She's like, yeah, what's going on? I was like, what do you mean what's going on? McGregor fights. And obviously perspective, there's way worse situations to be in and then be like, I'm going to be stuck in Austria and Italy.
Starting point is 00:11:41 And I can't see McGregor fight. But I'm thinking, you know, you know the seats we get at these UFC fights. We're like up there. Feeling everything, feeling the sweat, tasting the salt. Bro, feeling the blows and the McGregor being away for five years walking into that arena. Oh, it's going to be pandemonium against Max Holloway? It's going to be a movie. It's also, it's the, I would love to know how women feel when they're talking to us, men.
Starting point is 00:12:11 And I'm just going to take Jill's stance on this. And Charo probably feels similarly of Jill saying, there telling me Katie said this to this and did you know Chelsea and Brad they're pregnant and da-da-da and oh and we can make that birthday party uh da-da-da and I'm just sitting there driving on oh yeah oh they're pregnant yeah that reminds me of like Mr. Incredibles or the Incredibles and Mr. Credibles yeah he's just on autopilot yeah I was working he was good yeah and you're just you're just kind of going oh I can't believe Katie said that to Chelsea that's crazy above one yeah and then And the 11th is wide open, so I booked us for a bullet.
Starting point is 00:12:53 Wait, honey, what? You just said the 11th. What about the 11th? Oh, I booked us a reservation for blah, blah, blah. That's when McGregor finds. Like, that's the part where he turns on. The Huskers kickoff at that time. What are you talking about?
Starting point is 00:13:11 Wait! As you just said that, like, your best couple friends are pregnant, and you show like very little excitement for that. Yeah. A couple years ago when Huskers played Illinois on my birthday, Charlie can put up together a birthday dinner. And I'm like, as long as we can watch the Huskers. I don't care what you put together, but they play on, I want to say it was a Friday night game. Yeah. They play Friday night lights on my brother. As long as I'm watching the Huskers, sure, I'll go out to eat dinner. We can invite friends. But as long as we can watch
Starting point is 00:13:43 the Huskers. I'll get my toes done, honey. I don't care. As long as there's a TV with the Huskers on it. I forget where the restaurant is. It's over in Germantown, awesome restaurant. And we walk in and there ain't no TVs. And right, we walk into the room where we got my dinner set up. I was like, um, sweetheart. Where are we going to watch the Husker, the Nebraska game?
Starting point is 00:14:05 And she's like, well, I talked to the restaurant. They said they have a TV and they're like, oh, yeah, yeah, we got your TV. It's a roller TV that they bring into the room. And they, like, kind of can't get the channels going at first. Yeah. And I'm like, hey, what are we doing? I'm just going to have to sit here on my phone. Like, and everybody knows, like, guys, I am so grateful that you're here for my birthday,
Starting point is 00:14:27 but you all know I love Nebraska. Like, I've got to watch this game. Hey, waiter, waiter, waiter, waiter. Yes, sir, did you decide on those specials? No, I can't get the TV. It won't go the ESPN. Everybody else is mingling and I'm just watching on my phone. The Huskers play Illinois.
Starting point is 00:14:48 We lost an O.T. Yeah, yeah. And it was brutal. Y'all were up early too. I remember that game. Yeah, we missed one in the end zone two game winning drive to where we even had a game winning field goal, not a horrible, like a 30 yard. And we shanked it. You did.
Starting point is 00:15:01 You did. They score an O.T. We start off with the series in O.T. Then we get the ball in O.T. We start off with the penalty. Yep. Then a false start. We get sacked.
Starting point is 00:15:12 You know, I want it off myself. But yeah. That's neither here. But it was my birthday. Hey, but it was a good birthday party. It was a good birthday dinner. Thanks, honey. I didn't talk to nobody.
Starting point is 00:15:24 Dude, I love that so much. That is such guy energy. But get this. I'm making a play. Yeah. What is the play for the 11th? We land. I texted my wife yesterday.
Starting point is 00:15:36 I'm talking with Clump. I'm talking with Taylor. And I'm like, sweetheart, when do we land on the 11th? We land at 6 p.m. Oh, the fight won't be till late. Yeah. And you buy two hours going to Vegas. So I'm getting...
Starting point is 00:15:51 Oh, you land 4 p.m. Vegas side. Getting a plane. Your brother. You get in a plan. It's going to leave at 7. Yeah. You should probably land at like 8.30 or... Or me, I should land at 8.30 or 9 local time.
Starting point is 00:16:05 Fight won't happen until 11. I might miss a couple fights like on the main card. Yeah. But as long as I'm in there seated for that McGregor fight, main event. Because it'll probably that fight. local time will probably happen around 10.30 Vegas time. Because usually like 1130 midnight here,
Starting point is 00:16:21 I'm making that fight. And then Taylor, their due date is July 15th. Oh, God. So he's kind of like call while he's out there. But after we see the fight, then we're getting to the airport. We're flying back right away. Same night. Dude, there's so much going on
Starting point is 00:16:39 kid wise in this office that completely goes on me. Yeah, clump. The clumps are due around the same time. The clumps are due. It's looking like Scarlet might have a birthday twin. Like a very good chance they're saying the second, third, or fourth will be the day. Yeah, clumps are due in July, early July. Luans are due in July.
Starting point is 00:17:04 Scarlet's turning one. Scarlet's turning one. I had a great APR from my mom. Not my wife. My mom. Got a nice little text after last week's episode. episode. You'll remember me saying, hey, my best friend, just had a daughter born the day before my birthday. Get a nice little text from my mom goes, y'all are birthday twins. Remember, it was a huge deal?
Starting point is 00:17:28 She was born on your birthday. Not the day before. Well, there you go, APR. You got a birthday twin. That was the craziest dad brain of all time. I just was like, yeah, she was born a like, I don't know, a day before me. She's born on my birthday. She's my birthday twin. Who's the birthday twin? Brian's daughter, Lucy, who I was talking about on last week's episode. Okay, so that's just a simple APR.
Starting point is 00:17:55 The simple APR. Simple APR. Yes. Yeah. I haven't had many recently. The Dab brain's starting to show up a little bit more on my end. Yeah. You got to get you some of them.
Starting point is 00:18:06 No free shoutouts. No free shoutouts. No free shoutouts. If they, if Create doesn't get it by, now they ain't ever going to get it. You forgot that you sent me the picture for Father's Day and he sent me like three different iterations of a picture with his dad for Father's Day. Dad Brain.
Starting point is 00:18:21 Will. Bad. I sent it to him like a week before. Then he followed up in the group text and it was like everybody sent me pictures. I was like, oh my God, I haven't done that yet. Send him three more pictures. Dude, I got, um, Charles sent me a voice note this morning as far as like taking advantage of dad brain because I do feel like wives.
Starting point is 00:18:42 I do feel like wives and girlfriends. I feel like you guys do do this. That the male brain is obviously fleeting. Dad brain is real. My wife, she sends me a little voice out this morning. She starts it off with like, deep breath. Sweetheart. She said deep breath?
Starting point is 00:18:59 She said deep breath. Oh, no. She's trying to temper it for me. And she's like, when my computer is in the office and it's open and it's plugged in. Yeah. You can't unplug it. Oh, no. And also not close the laptop.
Starting point is 00:19:14 Oh, no. And I'm thinking, what is she talking about? And I'm like, I've just put a sweetheart. I love you. I didn't touch your computer when I went in there last night. I just opened up the box because I got you a gift for our anniversary. It was a little picnic basket, by the way. Year five is wood.
Starting point is 00:19:29 The theme is wood. So I got her a picnic basket that says Compton family on it because she loves picnics. Dude, good gift. Great gift. But all I did going in there was get the gift out of the box. I was like, I didn't touch anything. And she's like, I guess it'll be a mystery then. She's like, I was like, could you have rushed out of there when you were on your sales
Starting point is 00:19:49 call and accidentally done something? She's like, I just got up from my computer to go make dinner. Is it? Yeah. And I'm like, why didn't touch it? She's like, oh, I guess it'll be a mystery then. But I know she thinks I did it. Oh, no.
Starting point is 00:20:05 I thought there's going to be some kind of circleback that it was you. And now I feel terrible. because I was siding with Charo on, yeah, we do shit like that. But you're saying we do do shit like that to the point that if we didn't do that shit, they could still say, hey, you did it. And they say it to you enough that you start to question your own self. I was believing her. I just thought for it right there.
Starting point is 00:20:31 There's still a part of me that believes her and I know I did it. Yeah. I truly thought you were about to be like, and then I realized, oh, after I opened the picnic thing, I did do it. No. That's how they get us. Yeah, but then they beat you down with, not like beat you down, but they pepper it enough to where you're like, maybe it was me. Maybe, maybe you know like it wasn't you at all, but you just come around and take an accountability for it. Because you're like, it ain't worth. It's ain't worth what about to happen. You know, I won't do it again. And it doesn't
Starting point is 00:21:02 even feel like you're like taking a bullet to like protect the president. It ultimately kind of feels like you're just humbling yourself. Yeah. Just going, you know what? I saw, strip it off, you're right. I didn't do it. I know I didn't do it. Maybe I guess I did. I don't know. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:21:19 Because the dad brain fails us, gentlemen. And it's starting to hit me more and more and more. Yeah. It's not good. Oh yeah. I am getting really good sleep, though. If we want to touch back very quickly on the early to bed,
Starting point is 00:21:35 early to rise quote that I did the other week. Let's touch on getting good sleep. Brother, this. going to bed early stuff. My parents were right. They were right the whole time. They just go to bed early. That's all I have to say.
Starting point is 00:21:52 Get in bed early, pass out early. I woke up to no alarm clocks this morning at like 5.45-ish. Like, woo! Let's go. Didn't have to go hit the coffee? What time you're going to bed? Oh, dude, last night, like 8.45. What?
Starting point is 00:22:11 Yeah. It's like I yearn for that. It was so badass of how I just, I locked in. I put my audiobook on while Jill was doing tuck in. I put my Game of Thrones audio book on. I'm doing the dishes. I'm getting the bottles ready for tomorrow for daycare, which by the way, Scarlett's transitioning to whole milk.
Starting point is 00:22:35 We can talk about that. Hell yeah. Talk about that later. But I'm getting everything done. Okay, dishes are done. That's been a big thing. By the way, that's just that you're not, you're not feeling it because it's natural to you. That's a subtle dad hack.
Starting point is 00:22:48 When mama's up hitting bedtime, you're getting, you're prepping, you're, you're recapping the day by doing the dishes and cleaning off stuff. You're prepping for the next day. Yes. You're getting ahead. I feed the. So your ass isn't lazy sitting on the couch watching TV and mama comes down. You didn't clean the bottle?
Starting point is 00:23:06 You didn't do this? Why do you do that? Or they don't say nothing. Yeah. Here's a Hall of Fame. Here's a Hall of Fame play that they usually do. Go ahead. They say nothing.
Starting point is 00:23:18 They just get louder when they're doing all their things around the house, like in the kitchen. Yeah, the dishwasher usually when it runs, it's like, and then for some reason that day, you just hear the dishwasher. It's stopping around the house. And God forbid, you mess up dads by saying... Oh, don't say it. By just simply saying like, hey, sweetheart, when are we going to start the show?
Starting point is 00:23:53 Oh, oh, I thought you were going to go with the... Hey, honey, you need any help in there? Oh, yeah. Maybe I do. No, it's even worse. You say, hey, when we're going to get this show going? Oh, I'm sorry. I got to do all of this stuff.
Starting point is 00:24:10 around the house. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I got to clean the dishes. I got to put the kid down. I got to get the backpack ready for tomorrow. I got to clean off the counters because you know I don't like clutter. I got to pick up the shoes. I got to do. They're saying everything. Well, you're just sitting there like, oh, fuck. They're coming at my ass right now. Oh, this is something that I did or did not do. This is my fault all of a sudden. Yeah. You're getting the very passive aggressive lecture in real time. Honey, the house of the dragon season premiere. comes out at eight. I don't know what they tell you.
Starting point is 00:24:42 What'd you say? What'd you say? How to train your dragon comes out. He did. He told. That was really funny. I told Jill, I was like, are you excited? And she was like, excited for what?
Starting point is 00:24:56 I do that whenever there's like a new show coming to get Jill in the mood to watch it. I was like, season premiere, how to train your dragon. And she was like, what? And I was like, the new season. And she was like, I didn't know they were doing a show on that. It was like doing a show. We've watched the first two seasons together. What are you talking about?
Starting point is 00:25:18 Finally, the wires got connected. I figured out my mistake. It was not the season premiere of how to train your dragon. House of Dragon, good show. Great start. Tone Center. If you're Game of Thrones fan, House of Dragon starts off with a bang. I'm a big sheepseeler guy.
Starting point is 00:25:36 Yeah, who is it, man? I can't consume enough. of that of that content. I love it. And where was I going with all this? Was there... In the House of Dragon world, even the guy would almost be like,
Starting point is 00:25:52 oh yeah, I just... House of Dragon starts at 8, so I just figured we'd watch... Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. I figured we'd watch House of Dragon at 8. Like, let me help you. Well, I've already done it all. No. Oh, no.
Starting point is 00:26:03 Oh, no. Well, I guess this blanket's already kind of warm because I've been laying here for a minute, so come on in. The only... The only saving hate Hail Mary you can make is just getting them a glass of ice water. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:26:14 Or make it a little bag of popcorn for jelly bean. That's always, uh, if she's kind of, you know, not feeling the movie night or whatever, you get a little bag of popcorn going. You get some M&Ms and sprinkle it into the popcorn for her. Yeah. Game over. Game over.
Starting point is 00:26:31 Or just run of the closet, grab the vacuum and just turn it on and start going. Ooh. Yes. The mop and the vacuum are a, Sheiko, dude. That would almost be with some comedic relief. Yes.
Starting point is 00:26:45 In this scenario that we're talking. His mom's already, wife, he's already upset. And you're really doing it with the mop. Yeah. You're really like work. No, no, no, no. There's got to be something else we can do. And then you just start weirdly like running in place.
Starting point is 00:26:59 Just kind of around the house looking for things. Did you mom? Yeah, did you mom? Let's go get the vacuum. Get the back. You just start doing it. All you got to do is get him to crack a smile. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:27:09 Then you stop, turn it off. I got you. I'm sorry. I fuck that up. I'll do better. I am sorry. So House of the Dragon? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:27:18 Can we get? We're going now? Yeah. Dude. It does work. It does work. Yeah. And truthfully, like, as long as you keep your boys in the pocket.
Starting point is 00:27:30 You have to. Because right there is a domino effect of now we're just both getting kind of pissed off at each other. Yes. Because I can apologize profusely, which, will then lead to Jill being like, well, this is the same old story that I've heard 30 million times of Sherman apologizing, saying I'm going to
Starting point is 00:27:48 do a better job. If they hit you with the trigger, the trigger word of always. You always say this. You always say this. You always do this. It's always me doing that. That's my trigger. Well, guess what? The always is my trigger word. Guess what I don't always do.
Starting point is 00:28:04 Sprint to the vacuum closet, whip out the vacuum, and just start going. Yeah. So I'll sleep. Switch it up for us. But truly, that's what Jill was when we were whisper arguing of like prioritizing things around the house. So Jill doesn't have to prioritize them. So Jill has more time to do stuff that Jill likes to do instead of prep the house. And so I was like, I love audiobooks.
Starting point is 00:28:32 I love locking in for that kind of stuff. I'm down there by myself anyways. And so I've been doing the audiobooks while I do the dishes. clean up Scarlet's stuff, prep for all the day, like you were saying, a dad hack. Yeah. But it's honestly a dad hack from the standpoint of then it's like, what else do I do? I was getting into the bed while Jill was technically still upstairs tucking in Scarlet. So I may have even been in bed like around 815.
Starting point is 00:29:02 I know. Good for you, man. Dude, it was kind of sick. But I have a big weekend ahead of me. big week yeah big weekend of like getting ready for this florida trip dude getting ready for scarlet's birthday trip when is the trip uh we leave on the second which correct me if i'm wrong deke is that thursday next week yes okay yeah we leave on actually we leave wednesday we leave wednesday evening. Wednesday would be the first.
Starting point is 00:29:36 Because you're going to hit him with that drive hack. Can I hit him with the drive hack late at night? We're going to yet to purchase the turtle shell. That's also on my to-do list. Got to get the yard mode. Who's going to watch the dogs? Who's going to do it? Intern Chris.
Starting point is 00:29:55 Got hired intern Chris. He's going to house sit slash watch the dogs. Nice. Yes. he said, I have some friends coming in town because it's going to be my birthday. We guys said, Chris, are they good people? He goes, they're real good people.
Starting point is 00:30:11 They're real nice. I go, they're staying in my house with you, Chris. They don't need to all cram into your little verb-o thing that you're living in. They can come over. Is there concerns that he's 21 now after the Sunday? I kind of want the kid that he needs to let loose. He needs to have a little fun.
Starting point is 00:30:27 Jill's on board. Jill's on board. I gave him the pool, for our community pool. I say, y'all go to the pool. You have, do happy birthday. Happy 21st birthday. Nice move.
Starting point is 00:30:38 Just make sure you walk the dogs every morning and every evening and I'm a happy man. And if there's holes in the drywall, I do somewhat know how to fix that. No, no, you can't even give balance. You can't give a loose boundary of a hole in the drywall. I didn't say that part. You say, buddy, the place better be spotless.
Starting point is 00:30:54 I didn't say that part out loud. That's the part in the back of my head. That I'm like, worse comes to worse. and there's some hole in the drywall, I can take care of it. Yeah. But yeah, I gave them the, you know, you've got to be stern. Hey, every room, dude, is free rain, no nursery, no master bedroom.
Starting point is 00:31:14 And we're good. You letting him bring gals to the house? Yeah. Yeah. Hey, Chris needs to let loose, man. I don't, I agree with you there. It's his birthday weekend. I don't, I don't disagree with you there.
Starting point is 00:31:31 But I'm saying like that wouldn't be go. Like I wouldn't give him the keys of the house and be like, this is your Airbnb for the weekend. Just make sure it's clean when it's back. You can have the check. Whatever you guys do, you can do whatever in the middle of the night. Yeah, yeah. It ain't going down like that.
Starting point is 00:31:44 If Matt Malone is watching my house, it ain't going down like that. Does that make sense? Does that seem bad boys? Does that make sense? Yeah. And that's nothing against Matt Malone. Like I love Matt Malone. It's against it.
Starting point is 00:31:57 There'd be more parameters. You just, you don't think he's going to. land him with Chris. With Chris. Oh, wow. You don't think Chris is going to land it. Oh, no.
Starting point is 00:32:10 Oh, no. Chris is making that clip. I want Chris to have fun. I hear what you're saying. Hey, I hear what you're saying. He's got to his boys, or they're going to play board games. They're going to play some board games, maybe a video. game. Oh my God. They're going to be respectful.
Starting point is 00:32:35 Is it okay if I plug in your Xbox one for you into the TV? Yeah. That's no call. Hey, I know you said people coming over was like good. Is it like good if it's like 40 or 50 people though? Is that cool? Matt, that's called a party. That's a little different than a couple friends. How many friends is he having in town, Chris? Two. Okay. They're Aggies. They're Aggies. They're Aggies. If there's any school that you're like, okay, I can live with this. If they go to Texas A&M, I feel like the student body there.
Starting point is 00:33:07 I'd be like, yeah, that's fine. Yeah. Chris is a good boy. He's a good boy. Is Blake now? Does Blake now? Oh, Blake is aware. Okay. Blake's neighbor.
Starting point is 00:33:17 Yeah, I don't want, yeah, Blake's. I don't want Blake's, I don't want Blake. You need to have Blake keep an eye. I need to have Blake mess around with him a little. Yeah. Mess around. Yeah. Hey, Sherman told me to come pop my head and kind of, you know,
Starting point is 00:33:30 back around the house. Blake should put packages on your front door for Blake's house and see if Chris brings them over. That would actually be funny. Just force his hand in like doing interactions with, that would be funny. Tell Blake to come over and like leave the backyard gate open so the dogs get out.
Starting point is 00:33:47 Yeah. Well, Chris, what are you doing? Sherman asked you to watch his dogs. They're out running around everywhere. I found him though. Good thing I was here. I've like steeled the dogs and go to Chris. Yo, that would be.
Starting point is 00:34:00 funny. That would be funny. Have him take the dogs. He just finished his fence. He hand-built his fence, y'all. His backyard fence. I'll get some pictures for you. You need a, yeah, your dogs need to be in his yard, his backyard, and Chris has got to have the stones to, you know, get the dogs back. And then you want to see if Chris tells you about it. Mr. Blake, sir, I believe Sherman dogs are in your backyard. I came here to watch them. Oh my gosh. That's a good impression of them.
Starting point is 00:34:37 Thank you. Yeah, that's a good impression of them. How long are you guys staying in Florida? A week. A week. That's going to be awesome. Yeah, second to the ninth. Dude, I'm really excited.
Starting point is 00:34:50 I know. I can't wait for the vacation either. The travel there is going to be a grind. Like, we fly to Chicago first and from Chicago to Munich. And then it's transportation. for two and a half hours. So we're going to be traveling a while. That'll be a grind.
Starting point is 00:35:06 It is what it is. Those are the ones you're just going to have to accept and embrace the suck. But being there, dude, it's going to be phenomenal. Each spot we're at has some child care services with it. Oh, that's sick. It's just going to be the family. It's just going to be us for ripping.
Starting point is 00:35:19 Like the hotels that you're saying? The hotels. Dude, that's sick. Yeah. And I'm so excited. Everybody keeps talking about the dolmites. What is? I don't know.
Starting point is 00:35:29 Austria. Is that the mountain range? The mountains like sound of music that I've told Will about Oh no way. Dude, God is he sound of music. It riffs. Yeah,
Starting point is 00:35:39 that's what people say. That's what they say, man. But I'm fired. I'm fired. It's going to be so nice. That's going to be really nice having child care there too, dude,
Starting point is 00:35:46 that y'all can sneak off and go do like anniversary style like things of dinners and no pressure of watching the kids. Yeah. Because when it's just when it's just the fam. Yeah. When it's just you guys, your tribe on vacation, like it's still chaotic. Yes. Because you're just, you're juggling so many things and you have no help.
Starting point is 00:36:08 Yeah. So there is a sucky part of going on vacation with the fam. A hundred percent. In those moments that do make, like the vacation itself and makes it all worth it. Yeah. But yeah, no, we're going to have some child care is going to be a breath of fresh air. Dude, that's going to be nice. Get to go be a couple.
Starting point is 00:36:24 Yeah. That's a good feeling. I know that that is probably. built in with like our vacation to Florida. Like I'm sure that Papa Sherm and Miss Amy are going to, you know, knock it out of the park. Hey, you guys go do whatever one of the nights. I'm looking forward to that.
Starting point is 00:36:46 Like, yeah, man, that's going to be, that's going to be amazing. And just during the day, too, I have another video I need to send a chef. Scarlett is ripping on her walker dude. those, you know those stand-up walkers? Yeah, yeah. Fast. Like, out of control fast. Like, doesn't have control when she's going.
Starting point is 00:37:08 Makes you a little nervous. Makes me really nervous. But she's staying vertical somehow. And I'm like, okay. Like, I'm a proud dad, but I'm also kind of filming. I'm like, oh, shit. She bang it up against the wall and then turn around with one hand. Then you're questioning yourself for filming it.
Starting point is 00:37:24 It's like the video I had of Scotty, like walking or like taking a couple steps. and remember she like toppled over and hit her out on the floor and I was like oh shit yeah you just hear crying before the video stops yeah I mean truly I'm starting to now know what that feels like because there's no graceful way for the for like a one year old when they start walking there's no graceful way for them to fall whatsoever at all it's just from the top top down yes and you hope it's on the butt yeah like I used to kind of be nervous when it was the butt now I pray for her to fall on her butt. But fall on her butt to where they're leaning forward. Yes. Because if they hitting her like this year, it's like, oh God, then the back of her head smacks. You just explained
Starting point is 00:38:06 the biggest wipeout to date. She's on the walker doing that uncontrollable speed thing where she truly just goes, I'm going to go until I hit something. Yeah. That's how I stop. And she hits the thing. She does this, falls on her butt, and holds on to Walker. Oh, and flies back. So head goes and like, oh, so she still fell back. Oh, brother. Falls back and like that held on to Walker. So Walker literally then goes, boom, on her face.
Starting point is 00:38:40 Oh. I was like, oh my God. Like before she even started crying, I was like, oh, here we. This is about to be the worst cry. Poor little thing, dude. She just starts losing. I put her right into mom's arms because she wants mom. when it starts hurting.
Starting point is 00:38:57 And it was actually very cute and sweet. I'd then laid there and was watching like Aladdin or some Disney movie. Yeah. And I was horizontal laying on my back and I had her on my chest sitting on her butt and she had her passie in
Starting point is 00:39:13 and she had tears coming down and she had stopped like the crying crying. Yeah. But she saw the tears go now and was going and I just kept on looking at Jill and going And we have to put her back on that walker in the next 10 minutes. I don't want her scared of that thing. We got to put her back on it. I don't want her scared.
Starting point is 00:39:33 And we didn't even have to put her back on the walker. She wanted more. She was making noises reaching for it. I'm like, go. Get back in the fight. We got a gamer. We got a gamer. Put her back on the walker. Didn't have changed the strategy up at all.
Starting point is 00:39:47 As fast as I can go until I hit something. So I kind of like the bravery that's being displayed by Scarlet. it. I can work with Bray. Yeah. I can work with Bray. Toughness. Toughness. We got vacations coming up. Scars, scars turn in one.
Starting point is 00:40:02 We opened the episode with the temper tantrums that dumb shit kids get upset about. I'm fully bought into GoBirds 52-59. I feel like Rue gets upset about damn near everything. Everything. It's, I want to do the seatbelt. Sweetheart, I'm just helping you. Like, I'm just trying to get your arm. And then she's like, I wanted to do it.
Starting point is 00:40:21 Well, the seatbelt's kind of like sitting over. I wanted to do it. And I'm like, oh, do you do, do you want to finish it? You can still click all the buttons. And she's like, well, I wanted to do it. And then she starts, like, crying or getting sad. And I'm like, God, you know, let's take it all. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:40:35 Let's get out of the car. You do it all. You do it all. I was just about to sit. That was going to be my solve. Get some impossible task and put Rih Roo down and say, Roo, do it. No, Roo Roo, do it.
Starting point is 00:40:47 No, go ahead. You want to do it. You big girl. You big girl. Just get her a big old axe and some wood. say, hey, we're splitting wood and dad-da's going to do all of it. I'm splitting all this wood. You don't get to touch the axe at all, Rue. No, I want to do it. But then when she can't do it, she'll get upset that she can't do it. And she doesn't ask Dadda to do it then?
Starting point is 00:41:09 No, I'm just saying, like, for all the parents that have the four-year-old that Go-birds here is talking about, there ain't no. Go birds. Go birds. There ain't no angle. Damn. Just like talking through it. you lose either way because I we get to the point like we're getting to the spots we're just like hey
Starting point is 00:41:30 we're not going to answer you if you're whining yeah we're not going to answer you in your wine voice you can use your strong voice you can use a confident voice whenever you calm down and can breathe and know this is honestly this is not a big fucking deal
Starting point is 00:41:41 yeah and when you touch it on the arm and talk to us we'll listen to you yeah but while you're whining you're not going to hear from me yeah because I'm sick of it sick of dealing
Starting point is 00:41:52 with it. Now that I think about it, I can't even hear it. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I really can't even hear it when you start talking like that. I fully support that because Scarlett is starting to do that too with the separation anxiety. Whenever we put her down, dude, and start doing stuff around the house, it's just instantly, oh, oh, of like, come pick me up. Like, what are you doing? Then you as parents, you start to question, do we hold and do all? And do all. this stuff way too much. And I've taken the staunch approach of, I know she can't really understand me at 11 in some odd months, but I'm like, Scarlett, no, no, no, no whining, no whining. You can play by yourself. You can play by yourself and she'll start crawling to me, like still crying. You'll walk away
Starting point is 00:42:44 from her. And I get a toy and I put, yes, I walk away, I get a toy and I give it to her. I go, you, you know how to play on your own. You got this. You go and resituate and put the toy in front of me. You can play. You big girl. You got it. And Jill and I have been joking. I'm not putting Jill on blast.
Starting point is 00:43:02 Like, Jill was telling her mom, Sherman's way better at that than me. Because Jill's the one that wants to go pick her up. Yeah, you're kind of sad. Yep. And I'm like, honey, I can't, you know, every now and then, yeah. Like, if she's really, really sad and we haven't been holding her, amen, go pick her up. But like, if we've been holding there all day and we're just taking 10 minutes to make dinner, I think she's going to be okay. She's going to be good.
Starting point is 00:43:31 Yeah. Is she? How close is she to walking? She's getting close from the standpoint of on the walker. It was like we're kind of figuring it out. We're figuring it out. Now it's like, weo, down hallways, like going long ranges with that. and then she's independently standing up now.
Starting point is 00:43:52 Yeah. Of like independent of furniture. But once she gets up, she has no idea what to do. She just instantly plops down. You have, I think, right? Like maybe I got this from you. You have the little seat that sits on the island. Oh, yeah.
Starting point is 00:44:09 To where it's like when you're making dinner and doing stuff around the kitchen, you have them propped up to where they're like, they can keep themselves busy. Yeah. Because then you'll get to where you can get them their little side stool or whatever where they can kind of stand at the island with you. Ew. But you're probably, you're probably a couple months from that because you want to,
Starting point is 00:44:27 because it's like there's also, the one that we have is there's like an opening in the back. So if she wasn't, you know, you didn't trust her enough. She could like fall and go out the backside. Yeah, yeah. Because you can like take this, um, uh, was it there, yeah, their stool. I forget exactly the name of it. But you can fold it into a table too.
Starting point is 00:44:46 So if they sit down at the little table, or you can process. it up. Yes. Okay. I have seen that in y'all's kitchen before. Yeah. Yeah. To where you'll just set them there and they're like in the, they're like doing stuff with you. You give them something to do. Yes. Or a little snack, whatever, to keep them occupied. Yeah. But once you get strong enough to do that, you'll be able to get one of those. Yeah. Because she's at the point where she can, I can confidently put her down in the living room and know that she's not going to hurt herself from falling. She's going to crawl to a piece of furniture. She's got to prop herself up on it and stand, turned her body out with like one hand on the furniture to like wave high to dad dad. Of course. Of course. Watch Bluey.
Starting point is 00:45:29 We love Bluey. And what a bozo move I did week three on this show. I don't like the show Bluey. And you can run the clip. I'm such an idiot dude. Bluey is one of the best shows of all time. Dad Brain, I don't even remember you saying that. It's like one of our initial quote graphics that did numbies because everybody was in the comments like, this Sherman guy's an idiot. Yeah, that's an idiot remark. It was an idiot remark. Bluey's a great show.
Starting point is 00:45:57 One of the better ones out there. One of like a top three. And we've been ripping Bluey. But she's at a point where I can confidently, she can operate in the living room. But the solo walking, we're, I mean, we're probably, you know, what would it be like three months away from that? Two months away from that. of unless she keeps on like dive and head first into it the people at the daycare like she is so
Starting point is 00:46:24 confidently like moving around without us that we're honestly wanting to kind of move her up into the older class we just have to get her on whole milk and off a formula in order to do that because she's still two naps a day and formula and they said she needs to be fully whole milk no bottles and one nap a day before we move her up. And so that's Jill and I's like new project challenge. Yeah. Because you start when you start introducing whole milk, you'll mix it with some of the formula. Yes, sir. So we're going a little bit at a time. Yep. Yeah. And that's exactly what we're doing right now. Six ounces of formula, one ounce of whole milk. Yeah. And she doesn't, she's none the wiser. She's deleting her bottles. Yeah. She'll love that whole milk. Yeah, we'll get, we'll get her on to it.
Starting point is 00:47:13 I did. I had a follow up that I did want to read. Yeah, let's hit some comments. Because there were some comments from our episode with the dads that we didn't follow up until just now. This one, I just made eye contact with Signore Chef. Chef, there were, it was pretty much just John and Jack Hanning comments on last week's episode. Oh, people love the Hannings. What a great episode. Chef and his dad sound so much.
Starting point is 00:47:43 like. What was the, man, there was one comment. We might even said it last week, but there was one comment to where it's like, the helium one. No, it's the one where your dad's better at being you. Oh, Papa Chef is better than Chef trying to do a chef impersonation. I didn't see that one. Yeah, it's pretty spot on.
Starting point is 00:48:10 Yeah. I'm going to, for the viewers, I'll throw in a little picture, just the show that it's been like this since I was a little kid. That comment, it's kind of funny, like, reading all those because I've heard that since I was four years old. And I'll throw in a picture of me and my dad and my little brother really young. And you'll see that. It's just been like this since I was a little kid.
Starting point is 00:48:29 So this is nothing. How's it been with you and your brother? Brothers got to the family event and there were some words said on the pod. There were some big words. There were some words said. He texted me when the pod came out and he said, he sent me a picture of Cona McGregor. with when he threw the chair at Aldo's bus. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:48:48 And he just said, I'm going to kill you. But he's actually, he came home last night, but for circumstances I can't talk about on the pod, for someone that, a funeral. So no blood has been drawn yet.
Starting point is 00:49:01 But I'm sure I'm just waiting for him to bow up to me. It's going to happen. I text a chef for the weekend. I said, ask you brother. I said, how big a boy are you? Somebody picked up the,
Starting point is 00:49:12 uh, there was a comment that said love it when will he see uh references roy de mercer which that was roy de mercer was something we bonded over right when i first started yeah i mean you're you're you're from that era you're in that era you're a roy de mercer sicko there's no i think i know who roy d mercer is you either know them or you don't i got a pinewood stained box full of ass whoopin that i don't mind opening it on you um also chip With one of my favorite quotes all time, and I was so sad that it happened off the pod
Starting point is 00:49:47 when the printer was giving Deke Fitz and Deke's dad, Chipper, looking at me so serious, was not looking for a laugh and just goes, a lot of his mom coming out right now. A lot of his mom coming out right now. And like you can't pay a man to like come up with something that good on the spot. Yeah, he didn't come up with it on the spot. He's just saying that for 30.
Starting point is 00:50:12 Yeah, I was just, that's a big dadism. That's a holster. Like, if he's a Pokemon trainer with six starters, that's number two. My dad would email with Coach Dobson and Nebraska, my strength coach. He would email with him. That's incredible. Dude. My dad would, like, check in, like, hey, you don't get him going enough.
Starting point is 00:50:32 Just start throwing empties at him. That'll get his ass going. I was about to say, dude, does he still have that email address? because you have to find that email chain and go back down. Throwing empties out of it. Or like when I'd have surgery on my head, I broke my foot.
Starting point is 00:50:50 I had surgery on my ankle in Nebraska. And then when they would just catch up, he'd be like, he's got his mom's feet. Brother, start throwing empties at him. Oh my God. Dude, I'll read, I'll read another comment. and now I want to say something about your dad. Lucas Meyer.
Starting point is 00:51:14 This was something that Chipper also brought up. FYI, Schwanz, in German, means eggplant emoji, and pronounced schvans, I believe, in German. The whole segment had me dying laughing for the dad's reply. Damn, they really had us running around saying, we can't wait for the eggplant man, the Schwanz man. The schpans. He's outside this van.
Starting point is 00:51:42 Let's go buy things. Yeah. I got a couple here. This is from Polo Magno 23 on YouTube. Again, if you are listening and watching right now, leave comments. Drop some comments. Please. Come on, Opa.
Starting point is 00:51:57 Willie sees donut. Willie sees donut. Now this. Lock in. And I got another one here. Matter of fact, we got a double from Gobert's 5259 on Spotify. of I. Another one from Go Birds. He's been featured twice now on this one. That's got to be
Starting point is 00:52:11 sure. Grandparents who struggle with watching grandkids blow my mind. Like, bro, you did this shit for 18 years. How am I better at it than you? And I could not like a green moor. To Willie's burner. I looked at my mom when Scarlett first came home from the hospital. You remember they stuck around for a little bit. And she asked me one of those types of questions that I legitimately looked at her and all I wanted to say in that moment is, shouldn't you be telling me? Yeah. I don't know.
Starting point is 00:52:42 I don't know. I just met this thing two weeks ago. Yeah. Now, it's been decades. Yeah. So you can be forgetful. But there's, it's like,
Starting point is 00:52:52 you can't even find the instinct in them. Yeah. For the kind of the right answer. Yeah. The only thing that I have that I try and come to grips with, perspective-wise. Yeah, what's going on? It's just that,
Starting point is 00:53:07 The era of fatherhood was different back in the day. It was. I can tell. It was. I can tell my dad never changed my diaper. I can tell my dad never really did a whole lot of the baby stuff. Yeah. Toddler stuff.
Starting point is 00:53:22 You can't convince me Johnny Unitas could teach Patrick Mahomes a thing about football. But we know Johnny Unitas was good at football. And that's kind of where my head's at with our dads. Yeah. The great analogy. That's a really good one. That's a really good. Because, like, I know if my mom was here, she would crush it.
Starting point is 00:53:40 Yes. I think so. Like, I believe so. I've seen her around even other kids as I've gotten older. Like, she would crush it. And I can just tell she was, like, the mom and the dad. Yeah. A dad just worked.
Starting point is 00:53:51 It's like putting food on the table. It was just a putting food. It's, we're in a different era. Matter of fact, I'm going to try and find this. But how much involved dads now are in this generation is massive percentage more a big margin more than dads were back in the old era. Well, and a lot more women working as well full time, which I feel like has a lot to do with it.
Starting point is 00:54:17 Like your marriage, you and Charo, both working full time. My marriage, both working full time. Your fiance and yourself both working full time. You and your girlfriend both working full time. Like it's a different world. Somebody broke through the mold, got a job, and said you're going to do this with me. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:54:39 Yeah. Somebody said, somebody put their hands out. That's one of you did this. Somebody let them work. I'm joking. That is. It's a PT bit. That's a PT bit.
Starting point is 00:54:51 That's a PT bit. That's just dads in the garage. Milk team. Knowing we fall short and just saying easy, low hanging fruit jokes. Low hanging fruit. That was immature. Milk Team 6. We love you.
Starting point is 00:55:05 Yeah. And Team 6, we love the paychecks too. I'll raise my hand and say it. Love double salaries. Love double salaries. Yeah, dual income with kids. We were dual income with no kids. A dink.
Starting point is 00:55:21 But now dual income with kid. That's crazy. There was something else I was going to say, though. You want to say something about my dad. I'm going to read this comment. I want to say something about your dad again. I was going to say something about your dad. I don't remember specifically
Starting point is 00:55:36 So I will just say an overarching thing It's always good to see Billy C And I got to talk to Billy C Way more This time around And it sounds like from the conversation I have with them your dad Listens to the show pretty religiously
Starting point is 00:55:55 My dad lists consumes all of my content Okay that makes a ton of sense Because it felt like he knew me way more than the last, because he didn't know me the last time I met him. And he was talking to me very comfortably
Starting point is 00:56:10 because he's a man of few words but the way that he was speaking with me, I was like, yo, Billy C is like having a full on combo with me and opening. It was just very fun to get to like, know your dad way more.
Starting point is 00:56:22 He rips, dude. He's the man, bro. He's the man. The Duke of Bontair. The Duke. I found what I was thinking about because somebody this gentleman named Brad Wilcox
Starting point is 00:56:32 on X. Oh, bright. Tweeted. The alert emoji. Married Dad's engagement on the home front has tripled. Married dads of young children in 1965 did, on
Starting point is 00:56:44 average, less than 10 hours a week of any kind of child care or help around the house. Dads in 2024 contributed to nearly 30 hours a week. Oh my God. So Dad's out there. Keep going.
Starting point is 00:56:57 You're doing a good job. You're doing a good job. I know we beat ourselves up still a lot, which is, at times probably justified. But just know you're doing a hell of a job and keep fucking going. I remember the other thing that I was going to say. You were talking about grandparents, Opa, what are you doing?
Starting point is 00:57:12 Yeah. Even Lisa, who I would say of the grandparents that we have, Jill's mom, Jill, single parent home, Lisa had to do it all. She's a rock star. But even Lisa will look at me sometimes and asking a question like, are we, am I supposed to do this? And she's not quizzing me. She's not trying to like catch.
Starting point is 00:57:32 me in something. She's genuinely asking. And even I'm like, I don't know the answer to that. So I feel less bad about knowing the answer sometimes because I'm like even Lisa doesn't know. I'm good. Yeah. Imagine their parents or grandparents'
Starting point is 00:57:48 parents. Dude, listening to like the childhood that my dad had of he had two sisters and two brothers. And they literally was just like, go rip, have fun. You go outside.
Starting point is 00:58:03 See ya. See you for two days. Yeah. Oh, you were at Bobby's house spending the night? Great. Sounds good. I got some new dad shoutouts here.
Starting point is 00:58:14 New dad. Here's one from Josh Woolley on Spotify. Found out yesterday evening. Baby number two is a boy. That is two boys for this PT sicko. Boomer sooner, baby. Boomer! Heart emoji prayer hands.
Starting point is 00:58:29 Josh, congratulations, man. Congratulations. Congratulations. Oh, me would be very jealous of you for having two boys. Me now, I love my girls. I do hope to have a boy one day. But shout out Josh Rooley on getting a couple of boys. Shout out Josh and shout out some growth there. Yeah, man. Some growth.
Starting point is 00:58:47 Yeah, and also shout out Josh Rulie on two opportunities at a scholarship. Come on, man. Ross Tully wrote it. Ross Tully says, sup sickos. Well, just have my first father's day. And it was everything I could have hoped for and more. My dad and I have watched the U.S. Open on Father's Day Sunday for the last 30 years. I'm 36 years old.
Starting point is 00:59:08 This one was different because I will be holding my daughter while watching. Here's how the perfect Father's Day unfolded, and instead of goods, we're putting great. Pickleball with pops only yelled at each other twice. Great. Return home only to receive a card, book, and P.T. 6 for my amazing wife. Great. Watch the U.S. Open with. my dad and daughter. Great. Watch my dad who has been scared to hold my daughter, finally hold her and
Starting point is 00:59:35 soothe her. Great. Hit a 100 to one U.S. Open bed on Wyndham Clark. Great. That you're in with Taylor Luan on that one. Shout out to my dad who's been my idol and hero ever since I was a kid. I look up to him more than he knows and I am sure trying hard nowadays to make sure he knows that. Shout out to my amazing wife, Amy, for buying the sick merch and watching me and my dad. I watch golf for eight hours straight. Shout out to you guys who are creating a family and community for dads. I've never felt so much a part of something in my life.
Starting point is 01:00:10 My mom asked what the shirt was, what the shirt was, and when I told her, she was so happy. She wished that this had been back in, had been around for my dad back in the day. Pretty amazing stuff and keep going. Please, sicko out. P.S. bought all my boys matching PT shirt,
Starting point is 01:00:29 six shirts for us to wear on Father's Day moving forward. That's good. Rocking the shirts. He said also, Shirm, you'll love this. Tin Cup is my favorite movie. And I always watch it every summer.
Starting point is 01:00:43 I've recently started watching it closer to when the U.S. Open is. And now I am making it a Father's Day tradition moving forward. Just a thought for you since I know you love golf. Ross just unlocked something that, I was going to play the 10 Cups scene where he asked for another ball very recently for a I do a clip, uh, uh, info clip before our busing meetings. I was going to do that scene from 10 Cupp.
Starting point is 01:01:15 That's one of my favorite movies, Ross. That's a, that's a really good call, dude. I actually cried the first time I watched Tinkup. I was an adult and I teared up at that scene where he's asking for another ball again. Again, and Roy, this is your last one, man. You miss this and we're out. I can get it on that green. Then fucking do it.
Starting point is 01:01:38 And he gives them the last ball. Dude, it's so good. Have you seen to. I have not. I love listening to the story. God, it's good. And shout out Ross Tooley. Come on.
Starting point is 01:01:47 I got one here from Corey Barnhart. What's up boys? My name's Corey from upstate New York. Day one listener, P.T. Sicko, girl dad of an almost nine year old. four years ago on June 22nd, we lost our little boy at 24 weeks old. It's been a long road, it's been a long road mourning the loss,
Starting point is 01:02:06 but happy to say my wife and I are expecting. 14 weeks in and just found out it's a girl. The only thing my daughter has ever wanted was a sibling, and when we told her, she broke down in tears of joy. She celebrates and includes a brother in her life and all of her stories, very nervous about the age gap,
Starting point is 01:02:24 but know in my heart, we are making the right choice by trying again. Love the show, never miss an episode, and definitely never forget to take the trash out. Much love, Corey. And what was Corey's full name? Corey Barnhart. Dude, Corey Barnhart.
Starting point is 01:02:40 Thank you for writing in and sharing that, dude. Yeah, I can only imagine how much they're hanging on to get beyond the 24 weeks. Oh, for sure. Because that is, yeah. That is hard. Yeah, that is hard. That is hard.
Starting point is 01:02:53 It warms my heart to, know that their nine-year-old just broke down and just excited. And for excitement, for further excitement for them, our neighbor that I talk about a lot, they have a seven-year-old and a two-year-old, and they often talk about how awesome their kids' relationship is with that large age gap. An IR Radio Experience, weekend gold tickets to Ilsoni. One, two, three, eight. With Dom Dala, Chris Lakin, friends.
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Starting point is 01:04:01 getting a new one put up in its place. As long as there's a politics of race in America, there's going to be a politics of remembering the civil war. To get to school, I had to go down Robert Lee Boulevard. Get to the grocery store, I had to go down Jefferson Davis Parkway. If you're an historian and you leave out half of what the history is, you're not doing your job. I'm Akila Hughes, and Rebel Spirit Season 2 goes deep on both of those things.
Starting point is 01:04:24 The fights, the politics, the people who won, and my personal campaign to add something to the Kentucky State House that's actually worth the wall space. We are more than our bodies. We contain essence. We contain spirit. How do you represent that? They are just fueling a fire that is really catching.
Starting point is 01:04:43 You'll see what I mean. Listen to Rebel Spirit Season 2 on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This is Michael Rappaport, and my podcast, the I Am Rapaport Stereo Podcast, is unlike anyone you've ever heard. We're a variety show, and if you're looking for strong,
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Starting point is 01:05:47 Hi, it's Alecabort Podcast. Hi, it's Alec Baldwin this season on my podcast. Here's the thing I'm speaking with more artists, policymakers, and performers by composer Mark Shaman. Once you've established that you have the talent, it's about the hang. It's the pleasure of hanging out with the people that you're with. You know, Rob and I was always a great hang. We would sit in kibbitts for hours and then eventually get around to the music.
Starting point is 01:06:15 That's what I mostly think of when I think of him, the time together laughing. Lawyer of Robbie Kaplan. The great gift of being a lawyer is the ability to actually change things in our society in a way that very few people can. I mean, you can really make a difference to causes in the United States if you bring the right case at the right time. Marriage equality. Yeah, Windsor's the perfect example. Director Morgan Neville.
Starting point is 01:06:38 Film school teaches you all the wrong things about making documentary. What do you want to say? Documentary is all about your ear. What do you hear? I feel like my job is listening really, really hard. Listen to Here's the Thing on the IHeart Radio app Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. How helpful their daughter is in a lot of things. what an incredible big sister she is.
Starting point is 01:07:01 And Taylor's about, they're about to have their third. The oldest win is nine. It's going to be nine. She'll have a nine year age gap. She's going to be nine. Yeah. White and I are six years apart.
Starting point is 01:07:11 I love Wyatt. Oh. Dude, her being nine makes me really sad. When I first started here, she was lethal. And now she's taller than Jill. Jill's five foot,
Starting point is 01:07:24 by the way. No, dude, I remember when he was, She was the Bean, bro. Yeah. We'd be over playing shuffleboard, and Bean would be down for a nap.
Starting point is 01:07:35 She'd come down and brace everybody. Now she's nine. That long curly hair. It's crazy. It's crazy. I have a shout out here from Connor Ferguson. Boys just wanted to ride in with some birthday wishes. My son Cooper turns one on July 4th.
Starting point is 01:07:54 Let's go, Coop. And I know Baby Scarlet hits that milestone. the day before. So let's crack some ice cold olipops and light some fireworks for the kiddos. I will take a sip to that. I have to. I got a little orange squeeze. Connor. Great call, dude.
Starting point is 01:08:10 I got Chase Daniels hated rival Chris Bapple in my head. Thank you, fellas, for all the laps and stories each week. My buddy introduced me to the pod right after Coup was born by sending me the Jock Good clip while we're still in the hospital.
Starting point is 01:08:27 I've been an avid listener ever since. You guys are truly an inspiration to all dads out there in the trenches every day. And the community you've built is phenomenal. Remember, boys, we don't have to. We get to. Sherman's been awesome listening to you, describe the milestones and hilarious stories with Scarlet because I can absolutely relate with my boy being the same age.
Starting point is 01:08:48 Will he see where spot is a big hit in our bedtime story rotation as well. And Coup is getting a copy of what do you do with an idea for his birthday? mommy and daddy. Thank you for the recommendation. Shout out to my amazing wife, Steph, for being the greatest mom and wife. Coop Man and I could ever ask for. We love you so much, babe.
Starting point is 01:09:11 To the PT sickos, remember to empty the diaper genie, take out the trash. We are truly the lucky ones. PT6 out. Connor in Vermont. And Connor provided us with some pictures of, that's him and Coop.
Starting point is 01:09:25 And Steph, there's little Steph. And they're Mr. Coop. Dude, the where spot book? I get so bored reading that damn book. Because like, oh, where's that spot? He hasn't gotten his dinner yet. And he's like, is he behind the door?
Starting point is 01:09:41 She opens up the flap and it's a bearer. No. Turn the page. Is he behind the clock? She opens up the clock. No. And it's a snake inside. So I'll just be like,
Starting point is 01:09:50 and now I switched it up last night. I changed the whole thing up. Now when she opens the flaps, Because again, this is a very short story. It's like, it's just where spot you turn the page. And the only thing in the book is you just open up a flat. And when you open the flap, it's just an animal. And all it says is no.
Starting point is 01:10:13 There's no other words. It's probably a good sign that you're bored with your child's book. It's probably a good sign. But she always picks it. Like she never wants to, with me, Charles, like, oh, she never does where it's spot. She's always one spot with me. You got to get in there. and you got to put,
Starting point is 01:10:30 you got to tape in little factoids about your career in football behind each thing. Is he behind the clock? Oh, wait, what is that? Career, career tackles for loss? That's, it's Willie C in 2012. Ten tackles one interception
Starting point is 01:10:48 against Wisconsin. What? That's crazy. bought the green dot. Is he under the bed? Oh, that's me. Sam Bradford. It's Wilcompton. first start. Because the Arizona Cardinals, two tackles.
Starting point is 01:11:03 That's not spot. Let's check over here in the closet. Oh, 2015 against the Cowboys' his first interception. Oh, is that him doing the swag and surf? You have the little tab that falls in here. Oh, my God. We got to do our own kids' book.
Starting point is 01:11:26 We'll look into it. We'll look into it. But what I've started to do is now I just attack her with whatever the animal would do when she opens the flap. I like to look under the bed and it's the crocodile. And I'm just like, and just start biting on her leg. She loved it. Wait,
Starting point is 01:11:40 is this, is this real or Scottzilla? Scott. Oh, Scott. Roo reads all the books. All the books. Long stories. Charles,
Starting point is 01:11:48 you know, she apologized to me this morning because she's like this one that we got. I told her to pick out a book from the book shop that she hadn't read in a while. And it's like something to do with Maine. Yeah. She's like, it's a long one. But she loved it.
Starting point is 01:11:58 So you're probably going to have to read it. Oh, my God, these long ones, man. Yeah, you're going to start reaching in the library. It's going to be like pride and prejudice. You're going to be like, what are we doing rude? You just read. And we're doing pride and prejudice for bedtime. What are we doing?
Starting point is 01:12:12 I have a new, new one here from Oscar Canella via email. Hi, guys, longtime listener, first time writer. On my brand new dad to be with our little ones, expected arrival in February of 2027. Come on. At 40 years old with my wife. at 39 we're starting this adventure a little later than some, but we're
Starting point is 01:12:31 incredibly grateful and excited to finally be here. That fires me up. A lot of women that get very anxious when that 36-year-old markets. Yeah. Because risk and everything else goes up. Oh, for sure. But I love this. And to be honest, I'm feeling just about every emotion
Starting point is 01:12:47 possible right now, excited, nervous, hopeful, overwhelmed. You name it. It feels like I've officially entered the trenches of soon-to-be fatherhood. and I'm trying to prepare as best as I can. Great head start, February of 27. Like you're, you have the right urgency right now, Oscar. Yeah, you're good. I've already started scouting local dad groups around L.A.
Starting point is 01:13:08 because I know I'm going to need the wisdom of veterans who have survived diaper blowouts, sleep deprivation, and toddler negotiations. Yeah. I've also been working out more, partly for my health, but mostly because I figure fatherhood is going to involve a lot of bending, lifting, carrying,
Starting point is 01:13:22 and chasing tiny little humans at full speed. Yep. 100% on that. I like to think I'm a new recruit, hoping to earn a spot in the Papa Team 6th squadron. Training has begun. Morale is high. And readiness is somewhere between fully prepared
Starting point is 01:13:36 and absolutely no idea what I'm doing. You're in the right pocket. Yeah. You're part of the right squadron. That's me. Come on, chef. I'd love to hear any advice you have for first time dads who are a few months into the journey
Starting point is 01:13:48 and trying to get their minds and backs ready for what's ahead. Thanks for all you do. Your conversations have already helped me feel more prepared and a little less alone as I step into this next chapter. Cheers. It says future Papa Team Six recruit. This is a fellow Papa Team Six recruit. Oscar Canella. Dude, Oscar is very locked in and already on the right track. The only advice that I was going to give, which he said it best, that dad's group, I feel like doing this show with you kind of filled the gap for me finding a dad group. Like I didn't really need it because I got to do the show with you. And it made it
Starting point is 01:14:30 very tangible and realistic to just hear you talk about your right ends of people giving us the eyewicks and wins and losses. Even seeing Taylor and Jeremy in the office and talking with them, hearing them talk about like getting around other dads dude is just such a pro move. It's like if you wanted to be a good golfer, you'd probably hang out with other golfers. if you wanted to be good at writing, you probably go to writer convention. You know what I'm saying? Oh, yeah.
Starting point is 01:15:01 That would be my advice. Yeah, it seems like he's on it. He's urgent. He's preparing. Just prepare to fail. Also that. That's the biggest thing is don't go sideways when things don't go to plan.
Starting point is 01:15:11 You're going to learn throughout the entire process. You're going to fail through it all, man. Yes. The best thing, like for me, what I did when I was preparing for Rue to come, was, and I've said it in several episodes, but I wanted to be on top of what sleep training was and involved, like 12 hours by 12 weeks.
Starting point is 01:15:31 I've read Strong Father, Strong Daughters because I was having a girl. Oh, I read it while Rue was here. Those things helped me, like figuring out knowing that like my dumb brain before I had my wife and obviously before we got pregnant was a married wife and she'll do everything. Like she'll do all the stuff at home. She'll do all the stuff helping raise the kids. Like I'll just hope it's a boy and I'll want him to be a football player when he grows up. I'll want him to be like dad. Yeah. And then because of how much my mom did for us did for me, I'm just like, you marry somebody, they'll handle it. Yeah. They'll tell me what to do.
Starting point is 01:16:11 Yeah. Then you learn, as we all know in marriage, it doesn't work like that. That expectation is insane. Yeah. And you work together. And so figuring out that how much, much the women's stress when they're pregnant and losing identity and going from whoever they were to now going into the identity of mom and losing themselves a little bit, seeing the hormone adaptations that take place, the mental shift that they have, the things that they have to be on top of when it puts a lot of stress on them. For me, it was obviously conversations with my wife, but figuring out like, yeah, I need to do, I need to, I need to figure out lanes of preparing on my own. So it's not me just be like, hey, what do you need me to do? What do you want me to do?
Starting point is 01:16:57 What book should I read? Like you can ask simple things like that, but I can tell you this. Your partner wants you to be intentional and think for yourself. And it's just not them doing all the thinking. And so my link felt more of like, how do I prepare for when the baby's here, the sleep training? Because obviously nobody gets a lot of sleep when the baby's here. How you can, how I can be supportive, because they're going to wake they're going to be waking up a lot more in the middle of the night than I am or I'm hopeful anyway there's some situations where you wake up with your partner while they feed or a plump whatever the case may be but just I prepare that I don't know if I gave you a whole lot there you did but those are the things I thought about as I was developing my own sense of self into fatherhood
Starting point is 01:17:46 a creator in the dad space uh Trey Kennedy uh hopefully future friend of the show, Trin Kennedy, has a great character that he does of a terrible father. Yeah. And my favorite bit they does is honey, I'm here awaiting your instructions. I won't be
Starting point is 01:18:05 doing anything until told otherwise. Yeah, yeah. That is every woman's worst nightmare. Yes. Just you haven't told me to do anything, so I'm just waiting. I won't do anything until you tell me what to do. Yeah. If you're doing stuff proactively,
Starting point is 01:18:21 that dude and that's not even just with kids that's just around the house that's like you want to get some bonus points with your wife and your marriage not even talking about being a good dad dude oh my god we just talked about at the beginning of the show where i was doing the dishes and have the headphones off yeah just keep the eyes and ears open when it's here because again there's nothing that you're going to be able to or i mean there are things you're going to be able to prepare for before the baby comes but yeah just prepare to fail and just be aware because you're going to be own situation like me i was still trying to play football we had busts with the boys going but knowing how much work goes into the kid goes into the newborn when they get here you realize how much
Starting point is 01:19:03 your wife has to kind of sacrifice and do for all of it to to function yeah and uh the mental you touch on it with your initial answer to the mental weight really anything to soften that mental wait as the due date comes closer and close because how many weeks pregnant is she? I forget from his. The baby is due February 27. Okay. So he's got plenty of time. His urgency and prep right now is so locked down.
Starting point is 01:19:35 Keep that. New years ahead. Keep that same energy. Yeah. Oscar. And just just keep on lessening that mental load on your wife. And dude, everyone wins. And you're saying it right now.
Starting point is 01:19:49 it's less about the newborn and more about the partnership. Yes. More about the teammate aspect with your wife. Yes. Because when y'all are a good team and are fully operating and know that you have each other's backs, that's when the fireworks and the fun happen with the kiddo. That's when the mental load is off. And now we're both experiencing.
Starting point is 01:20:11 We're operating. Yes. We're operating and we're having fun with our girl and we're able to play with her at dinner and make funny faces at her and feed her. because dad's got cleanup and mom's got bedtime duty after this. We're good. We got it. Like it, everything starts working.
Starting point is 01:20:29 Everything starts working. It's fun to watch you, man, because I just remember when you were not even having Scarlett yet, the conversations we would have. And even when Scarlet was here, the conversation, how they've developed over the last year, I see your confidence, your comfort in talking about these things now that you have a year of experience. well a year of messing up exactly like you said truly like it you will learn so much
Starting point is 01:20:54 from just fucking up it's the best way to learn as a dad and as long as you care and you're intentional like you're gonna figure it out and if you care and you're intentional you're still gonna fuck up
Starting point is 01:21:06 like you are not just saying that to make people feel good yeah no not at all this is something that will never ever go to plan ever just being a dad yeah man I'd love to do a crack a cold one.
Starting point is 01:21:22 Well, as you know, Willie C, crack a cold one is brought to us by Oli Pop. What do you got right there? Crisp Apple. Glass of grapes sitting next to me. I mean, honestly, shout out all the Oli Pops, but you guys know these are my two favorites right here. Raspberry Sherberts right there, which is a new flavor.
Starting point is 01:21:37 Blackberry vanilla's right here, new flavor. New one? You know what's not new? The deal that Oliap is still doing. Nice transition. Thank you very much. They want everybody to enjoy Olipop as much as they can, and it's still the buy to get one free. They will pay you back for any two OliPops that you purchase. That works at any retailer.
Starting point is 01:22:00 That works with any flavor. You can mix and match. You just go to drinkollipop.com forward slash BWTB. By any two individual cans, they will pay you back for one. Guys, you can find them at Walmart. You can find them at Target or in the refrigerated aisle in the refrigerated aisle Amazon you can buy them online at Amazon yeah you can also buy them online at drink olipop.com dude this is a perfect one I have a dad hag here on Discord oh what they do Bishop
Starting point is 01:22:34 11 attention sickos our beloved olipop is on sale for Prime Day 20 to 24% off I know good and damn well all of our empty sickos will be having 30 plus packages showing up to the house over the next few days. Get her to throw some on the cart. And he even sent a picture how he's got some on the cart going right now. Dang, dude. So he's even, we got the boys. What a dad hack.
Starting point is 01:22:58 Yeah. It was under, as you guys see, just so you guys know, dad hacks. Hey, I'm going to, that actually really gets me, my crack a cold one is the first birthday and going on vacation. Oh, crack a cold one. We're in the middle of summer. I hope everybody's crack a cold one is figuring out some vacation they're going on
Starting point is 01:23:19 because mine is to Italy and Austria. Yes. And I'm pretty sure, and I don't want to put them on blast, but I'm pretty sure that my dad and my brother and my mom, all sparkling water peeps, but I don't know if they are on
Starting point is 01:23:37 the new kind of soda olipop like they should be. And I think that I'm going to be an olipop sicko on my vacate and come strapped with olipop. I'm going to convert them. That's actually, that is also
Starting point is 01:23:53 my crack of coal one is I'm going to get my mom addicted to olipop. There we go. Drink olipop, man. Come on, man. Drink olipop. I have some shoutouts so we want to rip through shoutouts. Please. And then I have a fun little PT6 community read. Okay. It's from
Starting point is 01:24:08 Brian Friedman. The email. Email is 601. the dads at gmail.com. Hey tpt6. I wanted to give a first father's day shout out to my husband Jordan. He wrote into you guys for an mt6 shoutout for myself, Bree, for giving birth on March 19th to our eight pounds seven ounce son. Oh! When he officially joined the PT6 gang that was read on your March 25th episode. And I think it would be so amazing for the follow-up shout out. I've included a picture of Jordan walking our son out of the hospital, rocking his PT6 shirt. And here's the shout
Starting point is 01:24:44 out he deserves. Come on. I want to give a huge shout out to my husband, Jordan, for his first father's day. Just as we preface that in the first paragraph. That's not a, I shouldn't even said that, Brian. Our sweet boy is only a few months old, but he's already
Starting point is 01:25:00 won the dad lottery and I couldn't be more grateful to be raising him alongside such an incredible man. He is the backbone of our family and watching him love, care for, and show up for our son and myself every single day has made embracing the sucks so much easier. Thank you for an amazing podcast that has given Jordan the confidence to become the best
Starting point is 01:25:18 first time father that I knew he would be. He deserves all the praise and a shout out from the boys. Love you guys. MT6, Bree. Bree! Brey! Jordan! Let's go, Jordan.
Starting point is 01:25:31 Thank you for rocking our stuff, leaving the hustle. Deak, Will was laughing, saying he shouldn't have read the top part of the email out loud, but I'm glad he did. I thought, yeah. I was trying to figure out why you were breaking. I'm down that I read the first part of the email. I'm saying, look, I'm saying she structured it already saying I wanted to give a first Father's Day shout out to my husband Jordan.
Starting point is 01:25:56 Yeah. So she doesn't need to put that in her next shout out that says I want to give a huge shout out to my husband Jordan for his first Father's Day. Yes. Because this is already the shout out for the Father's Day. You already said that it's a shout out. Oh, Father's Day. don't like is that this episode coming before Greg where Greg I think has taught you a few things
Starting point is 01:26:18 now about getting back and reading grammar and cards and that's a teaser for the Greg it seems like you're in that headspace now yeah but I didn't mess nothing up you did and I read both was on the card and everyone is in full agreement like if brie was if I was friends with brie and she's like hey willie see can you check this over before I send it in the six and one the dads at gmail.com so yeah let me take a look at. Bree, this is, this is honestly amazing. The only thing I would correct is you don't have to see, I want to give a huge shout out to my husband Jordan for his first father's day because you already said that in the first paragraph. So just delete that part and just go in, just go into the shoutout. Our sweet little boy only a few months old. And if I delete
Starting point is 01:26:58 that part, then it's good to go. I can send it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Because, well, if you watch, he reads everything that's on the card. Oh, shoot. And you don't want to, you don't want him to repeat himself. That is right. Let me change that. Yeah, yeah. And for all the hands. And for all the haters out there. Greg, the one you hear listened to next week with Greg, it was a moment of relief. We put one card in that man's
Starting point is 01:27:23 hands. One. And he tore it apart. He tore it apart. Imagine if we had had to do like eight. By the end of it, he would have been like, why do y'all do this? Why do you do it? Because for the love of the game, man. The love of the game.
Starting point is 01:27:39 I have a PT6 community. No. This came from, this is a really cool name, Riker McClasky. Wow. Riker McClasky wrote in PT Sickos, lifelong listener here, one full year. And proud father of my daughter, 13 month old Scotty, aka another Scott Zill. Let's go. Come on, Riker. Thank you, boys, for all that you do. I've enjoyed episodes at 2 a.m. while rocking my daughter back to sleep in the trenches. and on PT fit runs, where I'm mostly just trying not to die. Thanks for keeping this fatherhood journey fun. Today's topic.
Starting point is 01:28:19 Trash etiquette. Nice. Let's see what Riker has to say. Let's dive in. As a dad, I am drowning in trash. Amazon boxes, white diaper boxes, everything in between. It never ends. My cans are full midway through the week, every week.
Starting point is 01:28:36 So I need the PT ruling. Is it acceptable? to throw your overflow trash into a neighbor's can when theirs isn't full. I'll go ahead and tell you, I'm already doing it. Riker! Oh, boy.
Starting point is 01:28:58 Every Wednesday night under the cover of darkness, I'm making the rounds. Riker! I'm making the rounds. I'll let you weigh in, but I am PTT, pop a team trash. So here's the question.
Starting point is 01:29:10 If your cans are full, is it fair game to buy extra trash in your neighbor's cans? Don't get caught. I think it's ruling upheld. I see where his head's at. I think I've done it like a couple times in my life. Not any time recently. But I've like taken trash and put it in like neighbors. When it's on.
Starting point is 01:29:40 This would be my take on it. If mine are full and they're overflowing and they look ugly and it's first thing in the morning. And my neighbors have already wheeled theirs to the curb. And mine are doing this game where the lids like up like this because I have so much trash. I would then check their cans. Oh, they got some room in there. I'll put some of mine in there. So then mine don't look crazy ugly.
Starting point is 01:30:09 I'm cool with that. But I think he's talking about midweek being like, I'll go put this over and, I'll go put it in their can. Is that what he's saying? We ain't going to tell on him. I would never. We ain't going to tell on him.
Starting point is 01:30:23 Have you done? Have you done that? No, no, no, I haven't done anything. Like, I can't. The biggest one were I'm laughing at the feeling that he know he has. He feels so alive. Because when we were, oh, yeah. Like when we were going back to when it was the snowstorm
Starting point is 01:30:37 and we were going, you know, dumpsters, taking our trash throwing them in other dumpsters. Oh, yeah, don't let me judge. I hope nobody thinks I'm judging. But I'm saying the feeling you have when you get out throwing it in the dumpster where you're like, man, is there somebody in a window somewhere seeing me right now? Yeah. And they got their phone in their hand like, I'm going to get this.
Starting point is 01:30:54 I'm going to call the cops. Yeah, I'm going to call the cops on them. But knowing he's like sneaking over, kind of like looking around, checking, be like, and then having to make the decision, I'm good to do this. Throw it in there. It's hilarious to me. I need a selfie from Riker. while he's doing the trash run is what I need.
Starting point is 01:31:12 Or a video. Yeah. I might need a selfie video of Riker. Like he's pulling a, you just did the neutral, the neutral commercial for Bussing. Yeah. He's going to go, go, go, go, go, go. Sneak it around.
Starting point is 01:31:24 And Riker, when you send in the video, wear a ski mask, whatever you need to do to keep yourself anonymous, but would love a selfie video of Riker showing us how it's done. And Riker, what you can probably do, if you think that, They're not on to you. You know you do this.
Starting point is 01:31:43 Get him a gift. Yeah. Set it on their porch. Just for being a great neighbor. And maybe a written card. Maybe you allude to you putting some trash in their, their bents. I don't know what his relationship is with the neighbors.
Starting point is 01:31:58 Sneak it in there so you can got to get it off your conscience. Yeah, yeah, exactly. If I ever felt like my trash was overflowing and I could put it in your cans, like I would feel comfortable enough to do that. That's how much I love you guys. Do you know what we do in East? Genuinely. My neighbor's really cool.
Starting point is 01:32:15 I have two recycles. He has one. We each have one trash can. So he'll put stuff in mine. I put stuff in his. If I put stuff in his, I bring his bins back because they're next to each other. So if I have trash,
Starting point is 01:32:25 that's extra and I see it, I'll throw it in there. There we go. That's the finest of souls, he said, he looked to me and one day. He goes, hey, thanks. An IR Radio Experience. Weekend gold tickets to Ilsonig.
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Starting point is 01:33:06 Here's something that should not be as complicated as it is, getting a racist statue removed. And here's something that should be a whole lot easier than it is, getting a new one put up in its place. As long as there's a politics of race in America, there's going to be a politics of remembering the Civil War. To get to school, I had to go down Robert Ely Boulevard. Get to the grocery store, I had to go down Jefferson Davis Parkway.
Starting point is 01:33:28 If you're an historian and you leave out half of what the history is, you're not doing your job. I'm Akila Hughes. In Rebel Spirit, Season 2 goes deep on both of those things. The fights, the politics, the people who won, and my personal campaign to add something to the Kentucky State House that's actually worth the wall space. We are more than our bodies.
Starting point is 01:33:49 We contain essence. We contain spirit. How do you represent that? They are just fueling a fire that is really catching. You'll see what I mean. Listen to Rebel Spirit Season 2 on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This is Michael Rappaport, and my podcast,
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Starting point is 01:35:03 Hi, it's Alecabort Podcast. Hi, it's Alec Baldwin this season on my podcast. Here's the thing I'm speaking with more artists, policymakers, and performers like composer Mark Schaman. Once you've established that you have the talent. It's about the hang. It's the pleasure of hanging out with the people that you're with. You know, Rob and I was always a great hang. We would sit in kibbits for hours and then eventually get around to the music. That's what I mostly think of when I think of him, the time together laughing. Lawyer of Robbie Kaplan. The great gift of being a lawyer is the ability to actually change things in our society in a way that very few people can. You can really make a difference to causes in the United States
Starting point is 01:35:45 if you bring the right case at the right time. Marriage equality. Yeah, Windsor's the perfect example. Director Morgan Neville. Film school teaches you all the wrong things about making documentary. What do you want to say?
Starting point is 01:35:57 Documentary is all about your ear. What do you hear? I feel like my job is listening really, really hard. Listen to Here's the Thing on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm bringing the bins back.
Starting point is 01:36:10 I was like, yeah, I filled yours up, so got it. And he's done it for me too. So that's our like, if we put stuff in yours, I'll bring your bins back for you. It sounds like Riker just needs to get some rapport going with his neighbors. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Just sitting on the guilt. Or find a neighbor that just sucks.
Starting point is 01:36:24 You load them up. Boat him up. Maybe that's his body's in. I either, either way, I'm pro Riker. I'm team Riker. Yeah, of course, we're pro dads, man. We're pro dads. We're figuring it out.
Starting point is 01:36:39 I have some voicemails here. You want to do a voicemail? Let's do a voicemail. This one is called Grandparent Team 6. 601, the dads, call in, leave a voicemail. And if you don't want to call in and leave a voicemail, you said it earlier in the show. Yeah, the email, hit the email. Hit the email.
Starting point is 01:36:56 Hit the email. 6.1, the dads at gmail.com. Good morning. This is Heather, calling from Colorado. Hi, I am currently only on episode, I'm not even sure what episode, October 8th, 2025. I started from the beginning. I am almost getting caught up. Working on it, turned on to the pod from my boys.
Starting point is 01:37:21 They are 29 and currently 27. Okay. And I just wanted to call in, you know, Pizza Fridays growing up definitely was a thing for our family. And I just want to say that doing that with my boys being 29, 27, my oldest is part of PT6 for 13 months. now. My other son is actually going to be part of PT6 in less than four weeks. Super stoked about that. But calling in to say that we get together every Wednesday for family dinner. We rotate between the houses, our house, the boys' houses, and we get together once a week, touch base with the family, and definitely creating that dinner time conversation, being around the table, growing
Starting point is 01:38:13 up watching our kids grow up and us having grandkids now. So we need a part of Pt6 for grandparents because rocking this lully position as grandma is absolutely amazing. And best job I've ever had in the entire world. However, I just wanted to say that creating that family time, creating that bond, we have been doing this now since the boys came back from college, that we get together every Wednesday night for dinner, regardless of our schedules, we plan around family dinner and we are very intentional with our time. And I think it's created a bond that we have that a lot of other families don't. So it's worth creating that intentional time with your family as soon as you can, because every minute counts. And now those grandbabies are going to be understanding that, yep, Wednesday nights,
Starting point is 01:39:05 we all get together regardless of what else is going on in our lives. Because we love each other, support each other and will always be the anchors for everyone. Shout out to you guys for doing such an amazing job. Appreciate the podcast. Love you. What a wonderful voicemail. That right there. Like, for me, that's a family when they have those gatherings every Wednesday.
Starting point is 01:39:31 If I was like in their bubble. Yeah. That'd be a family I look at and back. Man, I want that for my family. Yeah, dude. Because they're a generation. they got it generational. They got the grandparents. They do it every Wednesday. Now,
Starting point is 01:39:44 their grandkids are going to be coming into that routine. They're just going to know like this is the standard. This is the intentionality. Yeah. That we put in with our family. That fires me up. What do you think about G unit for the grandparents? Ooh. Do we like that? G unit? Grand team six. Grand team six? SAG team six. William.
Starting point is 01:40:07 we are having fun we have fun on the show I hope you saw Deeg's face when you That was a nice voicemail from a really nice lady Who said she loves us We're not gonna call her Sagittube 6 Will But if they're if they're sick goes like we think they are They're laughing right now watching this They're giggling
Starting point is 01:40:32 We're joking He's a jockey guy He's a jockey guy! We're joking! What? You go, swoop? He said saggy? What? You know what? Great idea. And we'll look into it. We'll look into it. We'll look into it. I'm sure. My grandma, she had hearing aids, strong ones. She took them out deaf.
Starting point is 01:41:01 Type where you could hear yourself when you talk to her. Sometimes, yeah. Or they'd be going out of whack. Like, Grandma, do you not hear that you've got to fix that. It's like, me or you. Oh, G. R2 D2s just go. Do that again. Do that again. Grandma, me, kid.
Starting point is 01:41:20 Deaf Team 6? Oh, no. Deep space again. We're built the community. We're just building a community, guys. But yeah. Come in. Race Hell, praise Dale is our next one's now.
Starting point is 01:41:47 There we go. Hell of a segue. Boys, day one PT sicko here. The trenches just got deeper. I had my first daughter. Girl dad mode activated boys. Got a two and a half year old son. The daughter was born today.
Starting point is 01:42:08 We're stoked. You can hear it. The reason why I'm calling. Tell you the story of how we got here. We were close to having this baby in the car, all right? 18 minutes from hospital arrival to delivery, okay, cutting it that close. He's been yelling. I was driving faster than Fat Stafford on the way to a Texas barbecue buffet, okay?
Starting point is 01:42:33 Too fast or through the intersections, I swear I heard somebody yell, Rayshale praise Dale as I was going to do there. But we made it safe, okay? or maybe not some traffic laws were broken, you know. But we made it. Everybody's happy and healthy. Couldn't be more excited. Yeah, PT6.
Starting point is 01:42:59 Chapter 2, here we go, Girl Dad, Life. Let's go, boys. Let's go, man. The first thing I'd say, he needs a, he's a cup of tea or something for that boy. I was about to say he's been yelling. Some honey and lemon in it. He's been yelling. He was literally driving in the,
Starting point is 01:43:14 And the baby's literally coming out in the car. You keep your leg shut. You squeeze them shut. You wait until we get there. You close it up. I don't care what you got to do. We ain't having it in the car. Oh, man.
Starting point is 01:43:31 He's gone through it. Oh, yeah. I mean, two seconds into that call, I was like, there's some. It might have just happened. Yeah, we're about to hear a crazy story. Like, what's going on? It's. that's tight yeah that's tight tight
Starting point is 01:43:45 um top tier dad songs is our last voicemail hey boys Brian from long island here father of one stud 20 month old boy my second baby boy on the way to see here in August so we're getting dangerously close to main coverage in my house
Starting point is 01:44:05 but just listen to the latest episode boys another bangers always with the dad's on but after the episode was over song called Hey the Bears came on Spotify by Charles Wesley Godwin and voice
Starting point is 01:44:21 it's enough to make your wrong man cry top tier dad song so it got me thinking what are some of your top tier dad songs like me and my dad we have drinking beer with dad by kid rock
Starting point is 01:44:37 that always hits but I know girl dad songs just hit different you know hit that softer spot but yeah just wanted to know what your opinions your top dad songs were and uh you know i know people say it every week but deserves being reiterated thank you boys for all you do for this community um the wins and the losses you know the highs and the lows fatherhood it's good to know you're not you know you're not the only one who's falling short sometimes or you know getting the same wins but yeah appreciate all you boys do
Starting point is 01:45:11 PTC go out. Top tier dad's oxygen. What was the song that he said? I couldn't cut. The phone kind of cuts out when he says it. Let me try it one more time. Hey there son. Came on Spotify.
Starting point is 01:45:31 Charles Wesley Godwin. By Charles Wesley Godwin. Hey there son. And Wyatt Flores. And Wyatt Flores. Okay. He wants a girl, dad one. Yours by Post Malone.
Starting point is 01:45:42 Oh, that's right. You want to, you want to cry. Yeah, you said that one broke. Buckled me in the car. It has three different occasions. But yours. Throwback, Kenny Chesney, there goes my life. Oh.
Starting point is 01:45:59 It's so funny listening to it now. Because I obviously think about my daughters, but when you think about it in high school playing ball. Yeah. Isn't that what it was about originally? About football? Yeah, it starts off that way. Like, there goes my life.
Starting point is 01:46:13 He's losing his football career. Then at the end of it, there goes my life as she's going up the stairs. Oh, yeah, that's right. When you first, Felix, I've lost everything. There goes my entire life I had planned out for myself. And boys of fall, too? Tell me you don't.
Starting point is 01:46:30 I know you've played that a few times in the car. Boys of Fall? Yeah, Boys of Fall by Kenyon Chesney. I'm sure I've heard it. It's not ringing a bell right now. We'll listen to it after you. Okay, we'll listen to it. It's about playing ball with the boys.
Starting point is 01:46:44 It's literally what it is. It's about. putting the pads on. He wants to know parents' songs. You guys like Metallica? You were just talking about Kenny Cholson and I just said,
Starting point is 01:46:54 Boys of Fall because I thought that would be one that. That's a good one. You should know that song. You should know that song. You played ball. You should know that song. He's like, dirty deeds. ACDC.
Starting point is 01:47:05 D.A. Back in black. That'll get you just flown for a football game. Back in black. You ever heard that one? It's a good one. You got a nice ACD for it. ACDC voice.
Starting point is 01:47:20 Thank you, dude. I practiced ACD. You got a nice ACD voice. I got a little ADHD voice going. You sound like ACD. I practiced in the mirror this morning before I got to the office. You'll be in my heart, Phil Collins. We played it when we left the hospital with Scarlett.
Starting point is 01:47:46 I heard it. I believe in a target just like playing over the and talk about like the least romantic place ever of just fluorescent lights people all around and that song was playing dude I haven't sat there and listened to it by myself
Starting point is 01:48:04 but I think I know what will happen when I do it's a very sweet song yours post Malone I didn't listen to that listen to that one what do you got in a safe space hey what do you go right there man I got an email from Whalen Ransom.
Starting point is 01:48:21 Oh, talk about, now that's a Texas quarterback name, by the way. Say that one again. Waylon Ransom. What's up, boys? Want to give a shout out to my wife, Caitlin. She got me some merch for my birthday, June 6th, just in time for our vacation. Summertime vacation, boys. Come on, man.
Starting point is 01:48:38 The one item I had to have was the white hat and black rope that says good. wore it the entire 17 and a half hour drive also got a for the dead shirt with no one is coming to save you a bustin with the boys and Budweiser collab shirt and a PT6 coffee mug
Starting point is 01:48:56 no so shout out to my awesome wife for almost 11 years and shout out to you boys keep it under an hour make sure the trash is put out Pt Sicko out P yes thinking about getting some new ink soon might need to get a PT6 tattoo
Starting point is 01:49:13 You all's blessing, of course. Oh, she. Waylon's a sick. Dude, Waylon. Way. Do it. Six yards on the carry by Waylon Ransom. That's another first down Eagles.
Starting point is 01:49:26 Waylon Ransom. Isn't that just a quarterback man? I love that you're still on. Waylon Ransom, that's a football player's name. Now you're just, you're painting his career for us. Thank you.
Starting point is 01:49:36 In real time. Thank you. What tat should he get? Is this PT6 specific? He should get the bear. I was just say right behind Shirm. He should get the bear. I'm thinking bear,
Starting point is 01:49:51 simply pop a team six or simply good. I like the wolves too. Oh, yeah, yeah, the wolves behind you, Shirm. What if it's the bear and the smoke from his cigar? He's the wolves in on his helmet,
Starting point is 01:50:05 it says good. God, it depends on where he gets the tattoo. Forehead. Forehead. Forehead. Or a tear. drop of the teddy bear but i've something something like that on like a a leg or like
Starting point is 01:50:26 thigh like i just feel like that would look really good on the thigh that feels like an arm tat to me like a forearm tat he can do something sick on his chest or he'd get an ass tat oh that says put a bow on that on his ass would put a bow on it underneath it would go crazy I hope he does it and I hope he sends photos maybe even a video who knows whalen Ransom with the ass that put a bow on it I have an email that apparently is a sad alert email I will get into that
Starting point is 01:51:10 Alexis, I want to apologize in advance for the pronunciation of your last name. This comes from Alexis Wequez. Good morning, boys. My name is Alexis. I am so sorry. Let me start again. The S is silent in her name. So my name is Alexi.
Starting point is 01:51:31 And I joined Papa Team 6 three months ago. Thanks to my incredible wife. I'm going to... It's a guy. I'm going to start completely over and apologize for us. everything. I assume it is a gentleman. I should say, but the name is Alexi as in the guy from Stranger Things. Yes. Alexi. Okay. I am locked in now. Lock in. I am locked in now. This comes from Alexi Waxe. Uh, Alexi says, uh, my name is Alexi and I joined Papa Team six three months ago.
Starting point is 01:51:59 Thanks to my incredible wife. She went through 40 hours of labor and push for four hours just to have the O.Bs cut her stomach and simultaneously push and pool our little guy out of the birth canal. She went through hell like a true M.T. Sicko so we could welcome our little Sebastian into our beautiful family. I'm originally from Belgium. I moved to Indiana six years ago. All of my family still lives abroad. So we were so excited to have my parents visit for five days at the end of April to meet their second grandchild. Yes, my older brother beat us by welcoming their adorable baby girl a month before us in true first-worn fashion. We were very much in the trenches during my parents' visit, but managed to have a great time with them. They were able to give us downtimes where we could focus on ourselves and our little guy,
Starting point is 01:52:56 even spent nights at the Airbnb nearby to lighten our load, and babysat so we could have our first date away from the kid to celebrate our 13th year animal. of getting together. We spent quality time with them, relaxing in the yard, eating lunch, and dinner with them, enjoying neighborhood walks and whatnot. Such a great visit. However, while they were there, I started noticing that my dad wasn't all himself. He seemed very tired, dozing off on the couch pretty often throughout the day. I thought he was jet lagged and getting to the jet lag I've been getting to him. Plus, his upcoming retirement at the end of May was certainly weighing on his mind. He would also use some weird, out-of-place words every now and then while conversing.
Starting point is 01:53:44 Think using the word clock instead of saying kitchen. It got significantly worse in just a couple days. I dropped them off at the airport with the knot in my stomach, hopeful that it wasn't anything too serious. They landed back home and headed straight to the ER to get a CT scan, and there it was a very large mass in his brain, roughly the size of a ping pong ball with a massive, a dema, a massive edema, I believe, all around it.
Starting point is 01:54:14 My parents called me early in the morning to let me know and spend the next hours sobbing while looking at pictures of our trip. The next couple of weeks were pretty intense, countless MRIs and doctor's appointments, and hundreds of video calls with Belgium trying to be present for my dad and my family, even 500 or 5,000 miles away. They were able to schedule a surgery to remove the tumor within two weeks, and that was a success. But then the tissue analysis came back.
Starting point is 01:54:46 Cancer. Glioblastoma, to be specific. The nastiest one. My mom joked that for someone that never really got sick at all, my dad really picked a good one. True M.T. Sicko right there with the sense of humor. So yeah, here we are. My dad started chemotherapy and radiotherapy treatments last week,
Starting point is 01:55:09 and he's in for a long fight. I'm here celebrating my first Father's Day. Well, I don't know if there was also the last one I can celebrate with my dad. I'm glad my parents were able to visit before all of this happened. I will cherish those memories forever, as I'm sure they will. I was able to surprise my dad on Father's Day by telling him we'd be traveling back home with the kid in August, a lot sooner than expected, which means my siblings, my grandma,
Starting point is 01:55:37 and my friends will all be able to meet Sebastian. And I get to meet my little niece as well. I know everyone is looking forward to our family vacation. And if you really think about it, my dad was able to leave for retirement a month early. Good. Silver linings. Silver linings. Overall, all of this seems unfair.
Starting point is 01:55:59 The old man just became a grandpa for the first. time and was on the verge of retirement only to be hit by this cancer BS. But we're only looking forward now. We'll fight this together and we'll come out and we will come out of it stronger. I just wanted to thank you guys for starting this pod for providing a community to dads out there and for the distractions these last couple weeks. Remember to take out the trash to hug your dads and to tell people close to you that you love them before it's too late it matters cheers alexi and um him being uh from belgium i believe that's vackes
Starting point is 01:56:43 not wakaz so i apologize for that alexi um but yeah what where are some of the thoughts going through your head will which is yeah um sure it's just a wave a wave of like various emotions right sadness anger, questioning God, questioning why, feeling like you're running out of time. And it's bullshit that your kids are only going to get to meet him once, twice, a handful of times. Not knowing how, you know, how quick or how long this fight could be. Yeah, I guess if I had any advice for just being in this moment. be what can you do right now. It sounds like there's a trip on the books that people will be at. Come on. Great. Yep. People don't get that. A lot of people don't get that. People don't, you know,
Starting point is 01:57:44 there's, there's a lot of people out there. They don't get to see their grandparents whatsoever. Yeah. Um, if grandpa is able to have conversation, dude, start journaling. Yes. Like get with them on the phone. When you're there, ask him things about his past. Would he love to? about raising you what you hope advice that grandpa would give him to give his kids yeah dude the journal thing yeah really good advice i often think about my grandfather chacha that had parkinson's who was all still there he just couldn't talk i wish so badly that we had allowed you know to write down his thoughts to write down stories and um i'm sure that was that was hard for my mom, sitting there and thinking my kids aren't really getting to meet the granddad
Starting point is 01:58:39 I know, but also counting your blessings of they're getting to meet granddad. Yeah, 100%. Yeah. I know it's tough. I'm not, yeah. No, of course. I know it's very hard. Of course.
Starting point is 01:58:52 Yeah. But also, how lucky are you? Yes. Take advantage is what you're saying. Yeah. And take advantage. Like, try to do your best to compartmentalize the noise. and figure out what can you do and create and stuff now.
Starting point is 01:59:06 I'm in full agreement with that. I think that everyone benefits from that, the memory of your father, you and your grandkids, even your wife, dude. Like everybody benefits from that. And yeah, also congratulations on your first father's day
Starting point is 01:59:24 and your brother's first father's day. So much to celebrate, dude. Y'all get together and have a really fun time. Yeah. in August. 100%. It's going to be a blast. 100%.
Starting point is 01:59:34 I have an email here from, let me see. Derek Stewart. Will and Sherm. I called into the show, but it ended before I could get my whole story out. Oh, he hit the, he went up against the clock. He went up against the clock. I wanted to make sure you guys got it because I think you guys deserve the credit. When I called, I was talking about how I'm a high school teacher.
Starting point is 02:00:01 trying to make a little extra money over the summer. I picked up a job where I'm sitting in a cubicle all day, staring at a computer screen, and not talking to anybody. Since I was bored at my desk, I decided to find a podcast. I heard you guys before, but never really had the time to listen consistently.
Starting point is 02:00:17 So I figured this was the perfect opportunity. While scoring through the episodes, I came across the one where you were talking about health scares and Will shared the story about his daughter having a seizure and finding out about it over the phone. ever since becoming a dad, I've dealt with a level of health anxiety that I never had before. My daughter once had a serious breathing issue and had to be taken to the hospital by ambulance. It was one of the scariest moments of my life in hearing that story.
Starting point is 02:00:46 I felt a sense of relief because it was one of the first times I heard someone describe that same fear and helplessness that comes with not knowing what's going to happen to your child. I got pretty emotional listening to it and actually started to. tearing up at my desk. Here's where it gets funny. At the exact moment I had tears in my eyes, my boss walked by and asked, hey, is everything okay?
Starting point is 02:01:08 You good? Of course, I told him, yeah, yeah, I'm good. Because I don't really want to explain that a podcast had me emotional in the middle of a workday, hashtag good. The funny part is, this is only my second week on the job,
Starting point is 02:01:24 and ever since then, my boss has become incredibly helpful. I think he assumed, I'm struggling and needs some extra support. I think he assumes I'm struggling and needs some extra support. So he's eased up on my workload kind of good. So now I'm in a pretty great win-win situation. Your podcast helped me feel understood.
Starting point is 02:01:49 And somehow it also got me a lighter workload. I just wanted to share that story and let you know how much I appreciate what you guys are doing. You don't have to do this podcast, but I know you're bringing a lot of relief. encouragement and joy to dads everywhere. Appreciate you, boys. Cheers. Derek. Thank you for writing in.
Starting point is 02:02:06 That is all time. Dude, what a great email. That was a fabulous email. You doing it? Man, you're doing, you doing all right? First couple weeks there, like, fuck. Yeah, I'm good. Really good, actually.
Starting point is 02:02:19 Just take a little bit off your plate, man. You know, Derek does a great job around here. Everybody really loves them. But I'm crying at his cubicle the other day. Yeah. maybe we're putting too much on his plate. Do you think he's overworked? Or somebody's like, hey, I think something's off with Derek.
Starting point is 02:02:35 No, man, you don't know what he's going through. He shows up bust his ass here. Whatever baggage he's got going on outside of here, I think he wears it at work because I saw him struggling the other day at the cubicle. So keep your mouth shut about there. Yeah, yeah. Why don't you give him a little extra time? Maybe spend some time with him.
Starting point is 02:02:53 Get to know him. Maybe then you would understand where he's coming from. Get to know what's behind the tears. He's always on these podcasts. No, he ain't. He's either working or crying. I see Derek. Yeah, Derek, you really kind of fell into a nice little situation there.
Starting point is 02:03:09 Yeah, when he said, you guys deserve all the credit, I'm thinking, okay, let's hear, let's hear what he's going to say. Yeah, yeah. That we don't feel deserving of that one. It's like, okay, yeah, yeah, we'll take that credit. Yeah, we'll take that one. Yeah. That was us. We'll take credit for the lighter workload.
Starting point is 02:03:21 Yeah. We had some very kind words from the EA guys that were here, did that. That one EA guy talked to you with the old miss. Yeah, oh yeah. Dude, so nice. A couple of them came up and was talking about the fourth of dad's spot. I was like, dang, dude. People writing in from Belgium.
Starting point is 02:03:39 That's also crazy. A dad that's not even a dad yet, not coming until February 27, 27. Out in L.A. Oscar. Trying to get in dad communities. Oscar. Come on, man. And G unit, saggy team six.
Starting point is 02:03:54 Yeah, yes. I love that that grandma called in. That was actually really cool to hear. You could hear how proud she was. Yeah, for sure. She had two sons that... In their 20s, having kids on the pod. And they're like excited.
Starting point is 02:04:13 Let me see what my boys are listening to. I hope that that Fat Stafford in that one shell for nice boys. Show your mom the show. Mom's love the shit. My mom listened to it on the way to. down. Show your moms the show. Yeah. Show your moms. Show your parents the show. Spread the good news. This was a great sewed.
Starting point is 02:04:33 This was a very fun set. I know. This is probably really inaccurate, but it feels like it's been a long time since we've recorded for some reason. Just in my head. You're saying this has been a long sewed? No. It feels like it's been a minute since we've sat down and talked for some day. I know that's not the case.
Starting point is 02:04:53 been going a million miles an hour. Yeah. At all times, man. Yeah. This was like a nice. Teams, you guys building commercials. True. Like all the interviews tied in you coming to town, cramming in a bunch of interviews, traveling.
Starting point is 02:05:09 Yeah. A lot happens, bro. And it flies. Yes. But this has been a fun sit down. It's been a fun combo. This has been good. I'm going to miss you guys over the next couple weeks.
Starting point is 02:05:19 Two weeks, man. I'm going to be enjoying the vacation, obviously. But I'm going to miss you, boys. I am too Keep it together here It's just chef and I for a little while Like It's us against busing at this point
Starting point is 02:05:31 We're gonna miss you guys Sure how long are you gone for The second to the ninth Too long Yeah Same thing to the mission I know There are several guys going on some vacations right
Starting point is 02:05:42 I think taking time off So I mean I know we have a couple days And JP's moving around a bit which is good JP's going Yeah I think Jack's going Because football season is gonna be a bear yo it really will be it's gonna be it's gonna be awesome but
Starting point is 02:05:58 shit just goes fast man yeah and a lot of a lot of conversations being had here in the office just to like tease a tease of future stuff like a lot of really fun community content conversations um are being had around for the dads in preparation for football season and beyond and very excited for that too. Like that's going to be a, that's going to be a lot of fun. Yeah. Yeah. Hey,
Starting point is 02:06:29 I love you guys. Would you end up getting for Father's Day just super quick? Did I not talk about this last week? Did we? We, oh, we did a pre episode that was before Father's Day. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. That's right.
Starting point is 02:06:45 See, shit goes fast. It does. Dude, it was A plus. I made the comment on Bustin with the boys. I was like, this could be a clean tape. for your boy. I'm kind of liking Father's Day more than I like my birthday. I can see that. Because Father's Day is universal. Yeah. It's like I love attention, but when all the
Starting point is 02:07:03 attentions on you, it gets a little uncomfy. Yeah. Like I love all the birthday wishes. Yeah. And everything else, but you're not saying, you're just saying thanks in response to everybody. But on Father's Day, all the boys that you're your dad's with and friends with, you're both saying Father's, happy Father's Day back and forth with each other. Yeah. Kids are all about it. My wife's all about it. I woke up. So I stayed up watching. I will find you till about 12, 31 in the morning the night before. Show or movie? Show on Netflix. Awesome show. Good show. Okay. Good show. You and Wifi. That's a, that's one, that's a good couple one to watch. Okay. It's a little thriller, suspense, conspiracies. It's good. And, um, but I knew Charles was going to let me sleep in a little bit.
Starting point is 02:07:49 So I woke up the next morning around 8.15 on my own. Come on. With an iced Americano sitting on the nightstand with a little note for my wife, wishing me happy Father's Day saying she got the kids out of the house. She's like, go get a workout in, do your thing. So then from about 830 to 10, 10.30, I'm out in the garage, Solo Dolo, just working out, getting a good sweat, Papa Team Fit. It was unbelievable.
Starting point is 02:08:16 And then they come home. We get the backpacks. they're I mean they're already kind of ready to go kids are ready to go we go and get breakfast burritos over at dos Santos over in Wedgwood Houston we love going to that spot outdoors sicko there do I go sicko asked for breakfast sicko DME asked for breakfast
Starting point is 02:08:30 spot to go to do santo yes bro dos Santos and if you got kiddos too like it's perfect for scottzilla because scottzilla she just doesn't fucking sit down she doesn't stay she doesn't sit the whole meal she doesn't you got a little run around but dos Santos you go up to this window get the breakfast burritos but there's a big art you know artistic hands that she can
Starting point is 02:08:48 and see it's just an open space where she can just kind of run around, eat her food. But we went and got breakfast burritos, came home, close to nap time. I took Rue to see Toy Story 5. That's right. Charles stayed back with Scotty so she could do nap time and Charlie would get some free time. That's kind of how I was setting it up. I was like, I can go take Rue to Toy Story 5 at 1 and you can have a couple hours of free time yourself. I come back home, Charles didn't take any free time.
Starting point is 02:09:14 She cleaned and organized my closet. What? And that was honestly my favorite gift. What? Yeah. She organized, clean my closet to where I can just walk in and it's just like nothing's on the floor. Like obviously stuff will probably gather on the floor a little bit.
Starting point is 02:09:28 But as far as like getting like, you know, notebooks, papers, boxes that held stuff like situated and organized so where it's just like a clean space. She did that. Then we picked up answer. She had an answer already picked up. Answer rips.
Starting point is 02:09:43 Answer rips. They had an awesome like a prime rib. yeah they had prime rid mashed potatoes cream spinach sourdough bread we uh when i got home we ru and i swam in the pool scotty was messing around with mom so ru and i had pool time charl got all the food ready for answer and set it up we ate we ate outside and it was an eight plus father's day what a queen dude That is a great Father's Day. My first Father's Day, really, really good. Got to sleep in similarly, like around that 8 o'clock mark.
Starting point is 02:10:21 And then Jill was playing music, like pretty loud from the kitchen. But like really sweet songs, like, you know, I wish I knew the dead now when I was old. Before 1 o'clock. Is that one. Oh, yeah. That would have been devastating. I woke up at 1130. that dude if that had happened again i would have been very sad i actually would have been like somewhat
Starting point is 02:10:45 mad uh sleep in music playing music playing went in to the kitchen and she was standing there with uh scarlet and they have the little card and the picture frame that deke took that uh picture of was like sure one best out ever congratulations thank you and i didn't want to do this but thank you uh and then they got me this watch which I freaking love it and I had like a little engraving on the inside of it which could be the lesson of the week. I had a lesson of the week
Starting point is 02:11:17 but life is not measured in time but in moments. I love that. To my dad-da from Scarlett on his first father's She got bread like that. She got bread like that. She gets some side hustles to get that. Yeah. I said Jill I see what you mean about
Starting point is 02:11:35 how I could maybe do a better job. on the Mother's Day stuff. Yeah. Yeah. She set the bar. She said, here's how you do it. I said, uh, sorry to eat my, uh, pancakes and bacon and going, yeah, could done a better job on the mother's day.
Starting point is 02:11:52 I did come over here and I go, Will, did you see Sherman major award? He won best dad ever. And Will, without Mr. Bego, who voted? Because I didn't get the, I didn't get the vote. Are they going to do a recount or what? I won an award best dad ever. Who voted?
Starting point is 02:12:11 Yeah, who voted? Where did that come from? Was it like an option where it's like Will and Sherman? Because we do a dad podcast together. They didn't do that. But yeah. You learned how to do? Father's Day, Mother's Day.
Starting point is 02:12:25 Oh, yeah. I wish I had Mother's Day back. That's when we were coming back from that wedding. And so I had to kind of cram it in. Like I did solid and putting it all together, but just a full day of celebration. Yeah. Full day of like, you're going to do you.
Starting point is 02:12:38 I got you. And I know what you mean about, like I weirdly kind of feel that way about Father's Day too now, now that I've experienced it. We had a funny little like text thread at the very end of Father's Day. We were just texting each other going, hey, look at us, man. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's what I'm saying. Then you get to engage with all the dads.
Starting point is 02:13:01 Guys you think highly of, guys who've been father figures in your life, my dad. You just get to shoot out messages saying happy fathers. Yeah, I have like work acquaintances type people reaching out and saying happy fathers that I could say. Dude, Nick sent me a text. Say it back. Nick Hallett. Yeah.
Starting point is 02:13:20 It wouldn't be a- And I forgot to respond to him. Oh no. Yeah. It wouldn't be an episode of For the Dads if we didn't bring up Nick Hallett. We're, I thought. He said Happy Father's Day, Willie. We might have.
Starting point is 02:13:33 Because Nick walked out of the hospital wearing PT-6. gear. Boom. That was Nick, right? Yeah, that was Nick. Yeah, we, boom, twice. So on Sunday, he texts, happy Father's Day, Willie, you're a good one.
Starting point is 02:13:44 Thanks for making the fourth of dad's pot and brand. I forgot to fucking respond to him. No, no, no, you were waiting. And as he's listening, it's like, oh, Will's just spending out happy Father's days to people and they couldn't fucking text you. Really high quality dads that you're getting
Starting point is 02:13:57 to well-written, structured. I got to have these long guys guys. Guys, guys, I think highly of. These are like, I'm talking top-tier dads out there, man. But I was like, I text.
Starting point is 02:14:14 I was like, man, because he texted the next day on Monday. Around 2 p.m. And he just responded to his text and goes, just kidding. I laughed. And I was like, man, I'm so sorry. I was literally singing your praises yesterday, too. And I forgot to text back. Damn.
Starting point is 02:14:30 Like one of those ones where he texts and it just takes your mind. Dude, Nick, blah, blah, blah. Yeah. And then I just, oh, God, dad brain. Dad brain. Nicky boy, dad brain. Hey, Nikki boy, we love you. I told him he's got to come on.
Starting point is 02:14:42 Did you? Because I want to say we talked about on the pod. Yeah, we did. And he said he hates his voice too much. I'm like, I can mute him. Do it like a thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 02:14:51 Yeah. He would be great. He would be great. He'd be phenomenal. Yeah. But Nick, happy Father's Day, man. Happy Father's Day. To every, all the dad's out there.
Starting point is 02:15:01 All the dads. Happy belated. Great so. Great so. Great so. Take out the trash. Take out the trash. Like and subscribe.
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