Busy, Yet Pretty - Become The Girl You Aspire To Be

Episode Date: September 12, 2023

It's officially time you become the girl you aspire to be. Not tomorrow, not today, now. It doesn't cost a penny to start taking action, it starts with your mindset. Whether you dream to be a doctor or a super model, your jouney to become the girl you aspire to be starts NOW. Tune into this episode with a pen and paper, accompanied by the ideal version of You (+ an iced matcha latte.) My favorite clothing pieces at the moment Jenni Kayne 15% code: BUSY Start speaking a new language in under 3 weeks! Babbel Find the right doctor for you at Zocdoc   Jadyn's Social Media platforms: - NEW: Productive Day In My Life: WATCH   - Instagram: Jadyn's Instagram & Busy, Yet Pretty Instagram   - Busy, Yet Pretty Groupchat    - Tiktok: Jadyn's Tiktok   - My Amazon Storefront: Jadyn's Amazon   - Shop my Closet on Motom: Jadyn's Closet Favs   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hello, my dolls. Welcome back to the Busy Yet Pretty Podcast. I'm your host, Jaden Haley. I'm looking so forward to today's episode. I feel like I just need some good motivation. And this is the perfect episode on how to become your dream girl and truly live the life that you're meant to live. But without further ado, let's get into today's weekly review. This week, I got my blood work done. As you guys know, I've been talking about my health as I haven't had a period for over a year now. And overall, I feel like this past, year, I have just been PMSing non-stop just without a period. So I obviously knew something has been going wrong. I just don't feel right at all. So I got the last bit of blood work done and I also got an ultrasound. They found cyst on my ovaries that are associated with potentially being PCOS and some blood work looking off. So I'm just getting that situated. But to know that I finally have an answer that I most likely have PCOS is almost like a breath of fresh air. Just knowing kind of what it is rather than feeling like there's something wrong with me and I don't know what. But if any of my listeners are PCOS girlies, you are not alone.

Another thing this week is I went to the horror night yesterday at Universal Studios, literally stayed till AM hours, which is why my voice is kind of raspy today. I posted videos of the scary, like, creepy characters coming up to me. It was such a fun time. I am such a girl who loves Halloween, so this was honestly one of the best nights ever. And lastly, I got my hair darkened. I literally did it with my mom with a box hair dye. My confidence literally shot up after I did it.

Literally the power of hair dye, it's actually crazy. But after the summer, my hair just felt so orange and lightened, so it felt so nice to have a nice refresh. Moving on to my current obsessions. My current obsession is my new watch that I got from Target, literally $20. If you have a target near you, I really recommend you get this watch. It's so cute. I always post lots of photos of it so you can reference it when you're searching on target. Whenever there's a good deal present, you know I will take the opportunity. I love myself a good deal. I am such a garage saleer. I love my luxury items, but girl, I will get in the goodwill bins

and start digging for golden beautiful vintage pieces. Another crumb. obsession is anything pumpkin. I love just any pumpkin spice, cinnamon, very fall tasting foods. It just makes me feel like such in the fall spirit. I truly love fall, so I'm just really excited and just been really trying to get some new fall home decor and truly embrace fall this year. Another current obsession is my tautja moisturizer. It's been really helping clearing up my skin. I feel like there's nothing better than fixating on a certain skincare product that you're obsessed with. As fall is just around the corner, I'm starting to wrap up some of my summer pieces. And with that comes a closet clean out.

And with a closet clean out comes new clothes. All I'm filling my closet up with is Jenny Kane. I cannot tell you guys how much I love Jenny Kane from their minimalist clothing pieces to their beautiful home decor. I am obsessed with the whole entire brand. I have been wearing this Jenny Kane sweater non-stop. It's my absolute favorite. It just makes me feel so good about myself. yet it's such a staple to have in your closet.

Whether you're looking for everyday basics or trying to switch up your style, Jenny Kane has everything you need and quite literally makes me feel like a dream girl. I want to give you listeners of 15% off your first order by going to Jennycane.com slash busy with code busy at checkout. That's 15% off your first order at J-E-N-N-I-K-A-Y-N-E dot com. Promocode Busy. Let getting dressed be one less thing. to worry about. And my last current obsession is bagels, specifically courage bagels if you live in

LA. But honestly, I am such a bagel girl. Sourdough bagels are my everything. I love them so much. With smoked salmon, literally so divine. Moving on to the goal of the week. My goal of the week is to optimize the results from my blood test and having clear answers would bring so much peace. Another goal of the week is to get my permit. And yes, I have been working. working on it very hard. Been learning, doing the practice test, and I purchased the permit attempts. So I can officially now go try to attempt to take my permit test. I have three tries, but I feel pretty confident I'll get it on the first try. Another goal of the week is to stay consistent with my workout routine whenever I'm consistent with anything. It just feels so rewarding and

especially being consistent with activity where you're feeling physical impacts from. It can really make you feel so good when staying consistent. Moving on to an affirmation. I live my life making every version of myself proud. I love that affirmation so much. And moving on to the self-love question, do you provide for yourself the way you provide for others? I love that question so much and it's so good that you ask yourself that because sometimes we can become so lost in giving to others and we should continue giving and showing love to others. But once the last time you've actually asked yourself, do I provide the same love for myself that I do to others? Moving on to the challenge of the week, I challenge you, this is a fun one, but to try a new

pumpkin spice item or latte, whatever it is, try a new pumpkin spice item. This challenge is not a challenge for me. You know that I will be doing this challenge probably every hour or so because I love pumpkin spice. Moving on to the podcast review. This review is from Madison and she titled her review. Thank you for real. Thank you. In her review says,

I've been depressed for the past six months, lazy, unmotivated, feeling sluggish. Recently, I decided that I need to change after something traumatic happened to me. I've been searching for some motivation and girl bosses who will help me in my journey. And when I say that you've helped me, OMG, you've helped me so much. I've been making more effort into my looks so I can feel better to complete my task and providing for myself, my health, my mental, just everything, and you're so inspiring.

I'll work hard so I can be that person to other people just like how you are. Thank you. Jaden, thank you. Madison, that review was so unbelievably sweet and beautiful. Look at your successful work of changing your life around. Not any of us want to hit rock bottom or have something traumatic happen to us. But think about how that event really did change your life around.

So making something a negative, such a positive that you did in your life is so beautiful. I'm so beyond proud of you and thank you so much for this review. And if you want to be featured on next week's episode, please feel free to leave a podcast review over Apple Podcasts. And without further ado, let's get into today's episode. Today's episode, we're going to talk about how you can become the girl that you aspire to. to be. I know you have a vision or an idea of the girl or boy or however you identify as. In your head, you have a vision of the girl you dream to be. We all do. I do. You do. Your friend does.

Your idol does. Your favorite celebrity. Everyone has a dream version of them they'd like to be. You need to realize that what you achieve in life, you will always still wish to be something you're not. if you have brown hair and you said, I wish I had a blonde hair. Once you get blonde hair, you'll wish to have something else. The cycle never stops. It's kind of like when people say, oh, don't get any plastic surgery done or lip filler done because one thing turns into a next and all of a sudden you're wishing to have a ton of things done, which I don't necessarily agree with, but that's an example.

But regardless of what you achieve in life, you will still always wish to be something else or wish to have something else. That is the exact reason why it is so important to always love who you are at every version of yourself. And no, that does not go to say to not become a better version of yourself and become your dream girl, as we're going to talk about today. But this is to remind you to always love and accept who you are at every single stage of your life because at every single stage, you will still want something more and something better.

Aiming in self-improvement is stunning in such a beautiful part of life, but always remember that you are you, regardless of the life that you live, so love yourself who you are and you will become that dream girl and live that dream lifestyle at the right time. But as I was saying, it's time that we all have a refresh of what the ideal version of you and the girl that you dream to be. Who do you really want to be? what type of person do you really want to be this is your life there is no limit to what you aspire to be like you do not have to keep it quote realistic and aim for a realistic lifestyle a realistic goal there is no limit to your life i believe i'm going to be a multi-billionaire and it's going to happen i don't have to be like wait you know what the majority of the people aren't so you know what i'm not going to be a billionaire. No, there is no limits to what you can succeed and there is no limits

to the happiness and the excitement and the joy and the best version of you can become. In my head, I know that I'm going to travel the world. You know, most people in this earth don't travel the world. But that's something that I really, really want to do and I know I can achieve it. So yes, that may not be realistic to other people, but this is my reality, okay? You don't have to stay in the quote realistic goals and lifestyles in order to achieve something. When you believe that you deserve something, you will get it. Let's say you think to yourself, okay, I want this lifestyle. I want to become this person.

Don't stress of the thought of when or how will this become the dream version of you. Instead, put that time and thought into affirming to yourself that you already are her. you are the girl that you want to be. And put that time towards working towards your goals and working towards the girl that you dream to be. And of course it's easy to think, well, I can't imagine my life being any better. My life has been horrible.

My days are horrible. I'm depressed. I'm sad. Babe, most of us have all experienced that. And guess what? You are able to pull yourself out of this. I swear to you, I have been there. your favorite celebrity has been there, your friend has been there, everyone has been in this position.

It's just not talked about. People talk about the highlights of life. Not the negatives. No one likes to talk about the negatives. It's like Instagram is the highlight reel of everybody's life. Nobody's wanting to post of there a sad day or when a traumatic experience happens, when they're depressed, they have anxiety. No. The majority of the times people are going to post of them.

traveling on a yacht, happy with all their friends. So do not feel that you are alone. Many people experience whatever you're experiencing hard right now. Many people experience it and you are not alone. It's easy and common to have no motivation to put work into anything, to improving your life, to improving yourself when you haven't experienced any results that believing turns into reality actually works. As I said, your belief about yourself will become your reality. But if you have no experience to saying that actually works, then you may have no motivation. But let me tell you, please take my word with this one because I swear, this actually works. And when you believe something about yourself and you manifest it, it is so beautiful to look back on and see all your

achievements and all the success that you've had in your life. And no, I don't mean success meaning money, fame, I mean success in happiness, or whatever you'd like that to be. Define what success means to you. But let me tell you, this is so important for you to do. So I want you to get a pen and paper and script out at least two full pages of the girl that you aspire to be, but write this in the present and past tense. So you can say, I love how I am able to wait. up every day and go shopping and my job is everything I've ever wanted. Yesterday I took a trip to my

favorite island. Literally say whatever makes you happy, but be sure to write it in the present and past tense. Think of your dream self. What does she wear? What does she feel? What does she act? How does her room look? How does her house look? Who's her friends? What trips does she go on? What's her daily life look like? Does she have a significant other? I want you to script the dream version of yourself as if you were creating an entire character on those two pages. But as if it was that character's diary.

So what would the dream version of yourself's diary look like? Write that down in those two pages. You will be able to subconsciously manifest as your writing, which I think is so important. When you begin to channel the characteristics, the feelings, the routines, as the girl that you aspire to be, you'll eventually begin manifesting that lifestyle and become her. I recommend not scrolling through Pinterest or social media prior to scripting out those two pages because it's important for you to not create the version of

you based off any inspo, but you really be the blueprint for yourself. So who do you truly want to be in your life? How do you want to go to bed knowing that that is you? I am this girl. I am so happy I am me. This is my life. What type of girl is she? And that allows you to truly create the version of you that you want, not being influenced by society, social media, or trying to be like a certain person or a certain trend or lifestyle. But creating the girl that you aspire to be like based on true feelings from your heart. So once you know the girl that you want to be, It's time for you to take steps to become her. Maybe she has a Birken bag or an expensive car.

This does not mean for you to buy things that you cannot afford. What you need to do is free, which is your mindset. It is time for you to believe, think, and act how your dream self would. When you really truly body those emotions, that lifestyle as your dream self would and you put that energy out into your life, other people's lives, and to yourself, you will begin to shift into your dream life. Whatever items or lifestyle or person you believe is untouchable or unattainable is going to be untouchable and unattainable. But when you believe that you deserve a lifestyle or an opportunity or a house or good grades, you'll receive all those things because you already embodied those emotions. Nothing will improve in your life without putting in the work mentally and physically.

Again, it doesn't cost a dollar, not even a penny to start. It all starts free, which is your mindset. Everything. Everything starts with your mindset. You and your life will become what you believe. Begin incorporating daily habits that your dream self would. Does she work out in the morning? Does she eat healthy? Does she feel abundance? Is she grateful? Romanticize every moment in your life. You have literally nothing to lose. Not one thing to lose. So what is the harm of just trying? What is the harm and saying, you know what if things actually do work out? What if I actually believe in myself that I can achieve everything? I can become any girl I dream to be and actually works out. You might as well start living for you and working hard.

hard for yourself. Do not let the opportunity to be your best self and live your dream life pass up. Okay. Do not let that opportunity pass up because you know what? We are all born with that opportunity. We are all born with free will to see what we want to do with our life. Do you want to live your life? Sad, wallowing and giving yourself self-pity. Yes, okay. You may have experienced something so traumatic in your life. Many of us have. And I think it is so beautiful for us to turn. something so negative and sad in our life and become a positive. That thing already happened. You cannot change the past. You cannot change that you have been depressed for the past few years. But you know what you can't change is now and your future. Do you want to start changing to become

a better version of you? Or do you want to continue living in the past? It's all up to you. And especially, do not let the fear of failure or the fear looking stupid. allow you to lose before even trying. There is no better time than now to become the girl that you aspire to be. There is no deadline. You are not late. Any stage of life you are in right now is the perfect time to start. Moon Podcast, buple?

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I'm not her anymore. I live the life that I've dreamed to live. So it's time to start now. I love you guys so much. I hope you guys enjoyed this episode as much as I did recording it. There is truly no better time to start than now. Please feel free to leave a podcast review over Apple Podcasts to be featured on next week's episode. And please tag me over Instagram, TikTok, of you guys listening to the podcast so I can repost it.

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