Busy, Yet Pretty - Do You Realize Your Potential?

Episode Date: November 27, 2023

Have you forgotten your potential and what you're capable of? The sky is not the limit, you are. In this episode your host, Jadyn Hailey gives you the boost of motivation you've been needing and most importantly, the reminder of your potential. Tune into this episode with a hot almond milk matcha and your potential to live the life you dream of. Current Obsessions: best deodorant ever (my pilates necessity) Lume  code: BUSY   Become your own dream girl with me!! : - Instagram: Jadyn's Instagram & Busy, Yet Pretty Instagram - Busy, Yet Pretty Groupchat  -Productive Day In My Life: WATCH - Tiktok: @Fairyjadyn - Outfit Details: My Closet - My Amazon Storefront: Jadyn's Storefront     Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hello, my dolls. Welcome back to the busy yet pretty podcast. I'm your host, Jaden Haley. Get ready to leave with the most motivation you've gotten in a while. I can tell this episode is going to be one of my favorites, so without further ado, let's get into today's weekly review. This week, I have just been enjoying the rainy and cozy days. I think it's so important to stay inspired and motivated, especially during the colder months. A lot of us struggle with the winter blues, and it's super good to catch it as fast as we can before it happens, and make sure we prioritize our mental health throughout these months, especially. This week, I have just been really getting into the winter and holiday spirit and just really prioritizing slowing down. It is so important to cater to your needs.

And when you begin catering to your needs and actually providing for yourself and listening to your body, you are going to feel so much better and more things will come into your life. Now on to the current obsessions. My current obsession right now is persimmons. I am obsessed. My favorite thing to do, it just slice up a thinly sliced persimmon and then put cinnamon on top. It just tastes so divine. Truly one of the best holiday fruits.

Another current obsession is large tote bags. I truly feel like a large shoulder tote bag is just so, unbelievably classy. I just got one from Kelpack and it's supposed to be like a luggage almost and I use it as a purse and it is huge and I just love the look of it. Another cramp session is poppy and sparkling drinks. I love myself a good carbonated drink. For some reason I love it especially during the wintertime. It just tastes so crisp like apple cider. And my last cramp session has to do with my Pilates necessity and just everything. everyday necessity, but it's my loomy deodorant. I'm telling you guys, if you have been through a deodorant phase of trying to figure out which deodorant you should get, I'm telling

you the loamy whole body deodorant is absolutely amazing. It lasts up to 72 hours and is both baking soda and paraben free. Loomy deodorant was developed by an OBGYN so she was really just trying to target pH balancing to stop the odor. I'm not going to lie, I carry the deodorant in my purse everywhere I go. I know you babes will love Loomi as much as I do. So as a special offer for the busy yet pretty listeners, new customers get $5 off Loomie's starter pack with their exclusive code and link. And for limited time, returning customers get $5 off their next purchase of $30 or more. Use code busy at Loomidiotr.com. L-U-M-E-O-D-D-O-D-R-A-N-T dot com. Moving on to the goal of the week. So my goal this week is a 15-1-1-1-1-1-1-2.

minute movement every single morning. Instead of doing one or two really intense workouts a week, I rather just do 15 minutes of small, low impact movement every morning, and that just starts my day off on such a positive note and also makes me feel so much more energized. Another goal of the week is to plan out some Christmas gifts and plan out my own list. I am someone who just loves the holidays and wrapping presents and picking at presents. It's just so fun for me. One of my love languages is just gift giving. I love gift giving and I love receiving gifts and not in the materialistic way, but in the way of I love receiving things because I then affiliate that item or that thing with the person who gave it to me. So I am just so excited for the holidays. Moving on to an

affirmation. The life I am meant to live is unraveling right in front of me. I love that affirmation so much and I really recommend journaling it. Now on to a self-of-question. Are you embracing the holiday months and living in the present moment. I love that question so much because it really allows you to be mindful to think are you really living in the present especially during these exciting holiday months. Now on to your challenge of the week. Try a new cafe this week. I love that because it is just so lighthearted and I am just a cafe hopper. I am someone who works so much better at a cafe rather than at home and I just really recommend you go try a new cafe, go work at the cafe, go read a book, do something. And I promise you that little activity will bring so much character into your week. Remember babes, romanticize your life.

Now moving on to our podcast review. If you like to be featured on next week's episode, please feel free to leave a podcast review over Apple Podcast. This review says, I have been looking for a good podcast for a long time, and when I came across this one, I instantly fell in love. Jaden, you are so inspirational, amazing, and motivational. I will forever be so grateful for how much you and your podcast have helped shape me into the girl of my dreams. Thank you so much for the sweetest review. I am just so proud of you. I am so glad the podcast has been a positive help in your life. Let's get into today's episode. Do you realize your potential? Self-doubt is the biggest way to self-sabotage yourself from living the life of your dreams and becoming the best version

of you. You are what determines who you become in your future. Self-doubt is completely normal. Trust me, I have self-doubt. I have had it a lot when I was younger and now I still get little spurts of self-doubt and you do, your friends do. Everyone has struggled with self-doubt before. But today is the day that you break through and realize your potential. Your potential is truly unmatched and if you took the time to actually click on this episode, right there. That just shows that you were looking to become the best version of you. And not only that, but you're taking time to put the effort and to become the best version of you. You may think, well, if I had potential, then I'd know what to do with my life or if I had potential, then I'd already be living my dream life.

If you think that, then turn yourself around and take a seat because I know damn well that you have not taken the time to sit with yourself and make a true promise to yourself that you would never allow negative peers or overall negativity to influence the way you view yourself and what you're capable of. You are still being influenced by your friends, by your enemies, by your parents, by social media, and by negativity on how you choose to live your life. So many multi-billionaires and celebrities all started from the ground up. Yes, a lot of celebrities and a lot of millionaires were already born into wealth and fame, but you know what? A lot of people also weren't.

Many celebrities and many billionaires all started with no money, no help, no guidance. But you know what they did have? Was motivation and belief in themselves. When you have belief in yourself and your own potential, that is when you know you're going to actually succeed in life. If you truly believe in yourself and realize your potential is endless, you will be able to get to your goal in life, regardless how much money or help that you're starting with. Think of all that you've achieved in your lifetime.

It doesn't matter how big or small that is. It could be as simple as decorating your room. You graduated high school, or maybe you went out of your comfort zone. Think of every little thing that you've achieved in life. Those accomplishments are the small fraction of what you're capable of. Let's say you set your goal to make $100,000. Okay, you achieve the 100,000, what are you going to do? Be done? That's all your goals, you achieved it?

No, when you achieve something, you're proving to yourself that you can do it. And you did it. And that means you're able to achieve any other thing that you put your mind to. So if that means you have to start small with your goals, start small. Achieve those goals and prove to yourself that you can achieve anything. You are capable of every single thing that you put your mind to. You need to stop viewing your goals as unrealistic and unachievable. If your goal is to become an astronaut and visit the moon, then guess what?

You're going to become an astronaut and you will visit the moon. If your goal is to become a multimillionaire entrepreneur with a beauty brand, understand that you're going to be a multimillionaire entrepreneur with a beauty brand. And once you set your mind to that and really believe you can and you will, that's when you're going to succeed. The most important rule is to not let that belief go or not let it get lost. How exciting is it that there is no limit to what you're capable of accomplishing in life. There is no limit to what you want to become in life.

There is no limit amount of money in life. There is no limit to all the experiences you can have in life. It is limitless. Your life is limitless. You can do anything you want. But you know what? You will have limits if you put a limit on yourself. If you put a limit on yourself, that is as far as you're going to go.

You're going to go to that limit. If you think, well, I can only see myself living in a small house and not having a great job. Okay, you're going to live in a small house with not a great job. If you're okay with that, then great, have that life. But you know what? If you want to live in a big house and a mansion with a job that you love, set that as your goal and understand that's the life you're going to live because that is your potential and you will get there. If someone doubts your potential and what you're capable of, all it is is a reflection

of that person knowing that they are not capable in themselves. If you began to be influenced by somebody else's doubt or negativity about you, or even their own self-doubt and you're just listening to theirs, you are falling into the trap of sabotage and you are proving and showing yourself that you don't even believe in your own potential. When you know you truly are capable of anything. Nothing can sway your thoughts into thinking otherwise. I started a makeup account on Instagram in high school and I would go to school. People pulled up the videos at lunch, laughed at it. People pulled the videos up in class, laughed at it. I had a few hundred followers and they were mostly people I know. I didn't have a fan base or anything. This was literally

just out of enjoyment. Of course when they would laugh at me, it would hurt my feelings. And of course it made me insecure about myself. But I continue to believe in myself and I put my own opinion on a pedestal and not theirs. And look where it brought me. And this is truly just the beginning. I have a lifetime of exciting opportunities and everything ahead of me.

And just a few years have gone by and I already have this amazing community that I love and I call my own that are listening to me right now looking to better themselves. Like how amazing is that I one day was so insecure. I wasn't able to be confident. And now I am teaching others how to be confident and comfortable in your own skin,

how to become the best version of yourself. That is all because I believed in myself. You have to remember that the sky is not the limit. Your mind is. When you finally begin taking steps towards your goals, you will become uncomfortable and you will run into bumps in the road. And that is the way to grow. You are only going to grow when you become uncomfortable

and run into bumps in the road. Success is not a smooth path forward, okay? It is a bumpy road up. When you run into something hard, are you just going to quit? No. And if you do, that means you're not cut out for that. But you know what? If you believe in yourself and you know that you deserve that,

you are going to get through that hardship. Your idol, your favorite millionaire, every single person in this world all goes through hardships. It's the fact of, are you determined? enough to know that you are going to get past these hardships and get to success or are you going to quit when a bump gets in the road? And if you're caring about what other people think, who cares? Who cares about what other people think? Stop being so afraid to take risk that may benefit you and literally change your life. You should not have to be worried about anybody else. What you

should be worried about is the fear of what if. What if you just tried and I'll work out. You should fear of yourself having to say what if. Let's say you go for it, you take a risk, and it doesn't work out. Okay, perfect. That shows that you are not meant for that. And you know what? There's something better for you out there. Rejection is redirection. And from that situation, you didn't leave empty-handed. You left wiser. There is nothing to be embarrassed about when something doesn't work out. What you should be embarrassed about is not believing in yourself. It is more embarrassing to not believe in yourself and to not put in the work and to not try to achieve your goals than it is to actually try and it not work out and you being redirected to something better

you are who you believe you are you are capable of everything you desire realize your potential is endless and it is up to you to realize that nobody and nothing can convince you that you have endless potential and nobody is obligated to the only person is the only person that is able to prove to you that you're capable of becoming the person you want to become and the life that you want to live is you. You are the only person who is capable of proving that to yourself. So wake up and start to realize who you are and how much potential you actually have. I love you guys so much. I feel like this episode was just the ultimate motivating episode. I really hope you guys enjoyed it as much as I did recording it. I want to see how you guys

listen to this episode, so tag me in your story or on a TikTok video. And at the end of the week, I will send one of you guys a little drink on me. And if you want to be featured on next week's episode, please feel free to leave a podcast review over Apple Podcasts. And please, please put a five-star on both Apple and Spotify. And I will be sending all my virtual love to you. I love you, babe, so beyond much. You guys mean the world to me. And do not forget to stay busy yet pretty.