Busy, Yet Pretty - Fall In Love With You & Your Life.
Episode Date: February 2, 2026Self‑love isn’t just for the moments when everything feels perfect — it’s about embracing yourself through every season, even the hard ones. In this episode, Jadyn Hailey shares gentl...e guidance on how to begin truly loving who you are right now. With practical mindset shifts and nurturing reminders, you’ll learn how to start building the version of yourself you’re proud to grow into.Sip a cozy matcha latte and settle in as you begin this soft, transformative journey back to self‑love.Take a seat! Check out this amazing chair from Wayfair.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Hello, my love. Welcome to the Busy at Pretty Podcast. I'm your host, Jaden Haley. If you are new here, this new year in
26, welcome. In the show, we talk all about how to become the best version of you, girly things, girl hobbies,
and honestly just living life and balance and to become a happier, healthy version of ourselves.
I'm so happy you're here and I'm very excited about today's episode. I know you guys have been missing the
weekly review, current obsessions, the affirmations, the podcast review, and honestly, everything that
we usually do on the show. I know I have been on a little pause doing that for a while,
but we will be going back to that very soon. But to give a little brief current obsession and
weekly review to you, this week I have really been trying to keep organized. I just love being
organized because when my out, like my, what is that, environment? Yeah, when my environment is
organized, my head is more organized. So that means my desk, my room, just every single place
when that's organized and even like my task and my calendar, then I can have more clarity and peace
of mind to go throughout my day. So I have been loving being organized. I also am trying to spend
more time outside and in nature. Uh, I'm not doing the best at it. I'm still inside a lot on my
phone and having to work, but I tried to go outside as much as I can, even just going outside and
watering outside like the bushes the trees anything just i have a little lemon tree that i love
to go water outside even that little bit of going outside going on a walk is really going to help
you and just give you some sort of peace and presence and takes you away from just being on your
phone and any stress you have from work or school and lastly i have to say my current obsession right
now is honestly my healthy lunch bowls i've been making i have been loving having like
sweet potato, turkey or chicken, and then putting in like greens. I love bok choy. I love arugula,
spinach, just making a very hearty, yummy bowl. I just, it's been something I love really forward to
for so many years. I've had such bad stomach issues and I've had a doctor's order to start
the paleo diet, which I am not looking forward to just because I love snacking and I love
sweets and I love chips and salty things. But it's going to be for the best. So I need the motivation.
myself. So honestly, for me, for that motivation, I've been following more health creators.
So just give me that motivation and those ideas for meals and recipes. So that's been really helpful.
But I am so excited for today's episode and I really think you're going to love it.
So without further ado, let's get into today's episode. Loving yourself is such a journey and
it is something that's not going to come overnight. And I try to think of this.
in the way of why wait any longer? Because our days are passing and not to think of it as in
life is so short because I'm someone who's very scared of death and I admit that. My OCD makes I have just
really bad death anxiety. But in the grand scheme of things, we do allow time to pass us too much
of us not using our time wisely and it is important to realize that we want to love ourselves
while we're here. So I always think of it how loving yourself is a journey, but it's not going to come
overnight, but why wait any longer that you could start loving yourself now and you can begin
loving yourself today? Even if it's just a start, a start is better than not starting at all.
Like I said earlier, there is not one answer to loving yourself, but many different ways to
love yourself, but there's also many different ways to begin that journey of self-love and falling in
love with yourself. And honestly, I feel most of this is all perspective. And it just is something that you
really need to work on because perspective is what's going to drive you to your view on everything in
life and how you look at things is how you're going to take action. It's going to impact what you do
physically. So I think perspective is something that is very big in your self-love journey and everything
else in life. But let's dive in how to fall in love with yourself.
Something I feel that is not addressed enough with self-love is addressing the root cause of why you may not love
yourself or why you may have resentment towards yourself. A lot of times we have a void or feel like
there's a missing piece in our puzzle, which is why we can't feel ready to love ourselves.
Or there's something that's like weighing us down, like there's a weight attached to us and we're
just being pulled down by it. And if there are things that have happened to you in your past,
whether that's something that you have caused yourself or has been caused to you that was out of your
control, whether that's like trauma or just something that has happened to you in an experience
or maybe that something that you have done yourself that you feel guilty of and you still carry that guilt.
This is your time to finally let it go.
And I know that sounds so cliche or you think, well, how can I do that when it's traumatic to me?
Or how can I do that when I just carry so much guilt?
of what happened. And I don't know your situation. And we all have different situations and
trauma and things that we carry in our life. But it is really important to realize that for yourself,
you need to let's say a person caused it to you. Not for that person to benefit them as if
you're forgiving them, but for your own self. You need to start heading in a good direction for
your own self and only you. And if you need to dive more into healing,
the unheeled parts of you. I do have an episode on that, which is how to heal the unheeled parts of you,
but for moving forward and just trying to enjoy your life, you have to realize there has to be some
things that you let go and allow not to take over you fully anymore. Of course, much easier said than
done, but again, a little is better than no progress at all. But it is just so important to begin
to set this weight and this burden free, we may never heal for good even.
Like we truly may never heal for good. And that's okay. You don't have to necessarily
forgive someone or heal someone or forgive yourself for something. But what you have to do is
realize that for your own self and for your own future moving forward, you have to forgive
yourself and what has happened to you in order for you to start healing. And in order for you to
enjoy your future moving forward. And again, like I said, much easier said than done. And you can listen
to the episode on how to heal the unheeled parts of you for more in depth on that. But I do want to
cover that before moving into really how to love yourself. But I feel like to me, that's an energy
drainer. And you do have to let those energy drainers go before you can even start to dive into
the more in depth of how to love yourself. So again, much harder than I said. And especially when it
comes to trauma or something that we have done that we aren't proud of in the past but it's a start
to you letting go which is so important i can't be the only one who has this like dream item of theirs
that they always see whether it's a bag a sweater a top and you're like i just need that but it's
like sold out everywhere that's me with this one vintage duny and brick bag i literally was looking
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at such a good price and I was like, wait, this is just too good to be true.
So if you know me, you know I am a Poshmark girl.
Poshmark is a marketplace where you can list and sell,
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I can't be the only one who has this like dream item of theirs that they always see,
whether it's a bag, a sweater, a top, and you're like, I just need that, but it's like sold out everywhere.
That's me with this one, vintage Duny and Brickbag.
I literally was looking everywhere for it and I somehow found that.
one on a poshmark but not just one i found multiple of them at such a good price and i was like wait this is just
too good to be true so if you know me you know i am a poshmark girl poshmark is a marketplace where you can list and sell
as well as buy new items vintage pieces gently used luxury pieces they really just have it all and i feel like
there's no better time to go on poshmark now everyone's cleaning out their closet and listing good things
Get in bed, get cozy, and go in Pashmark to add to your new spring wardrobe.
New deals and sales are listed every day, so don't wait.
Download the Poshmark app and use code busy when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase.
Or shop now at Pashmark.com slash busy and get $10 off your first purchase.
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When it comes to perspective, how you view yourself and treat yourself creates a relationship that you have with yourself.
You have to kind of think of it like this.
If you never watered and took care of a plant, it would slowly lose its life and it would begin to die.
But when you take care and water that plant and give it the right soil, it stays alive, but not only does it stay alive, it grows.
So you have to take care of yourself as you would a plant in order for you to not only live but to grow.
Something that is really important when loving yourself is love every stage of your life.
this does not need to be every perfect stage.
We're going to have stages of our life that we're not proud of or we're struggling,
we're not doing our best, but it's so crucial for you to love every stage of your life.
We naturally always want the next thing and something better,
but we need to love ourselves at every stage of the life that we're in.
And as a result of that effort of watering our plant and giving what we need to ourselves,
think how you could be living a happy, successful, fulfilled life.
Don't wish to be someone else or have someone else's life.
Wish to have an upgraded version of your own life.
Comparison is very easy and it's something that we all tend to do,
especially with social media so relevant in today's day and age.
But you have to remember, we're all sharing the highlights of our life.
Majority of us are not going to post, you know, when we're crying or our struggles
or what we're going through because that's something where usually we don't want to share.
And that's normal.
You don't have to share it.
but I do think it's important to realize that we're seeing the highlights just as you would
mostly post the highlights of your life. You're not going to share your bad days.
And that's where comparison is truly the thief of joy. Don't let it creep up on you because
here's the thing. It's comparing yourself to something that's not even the truth or not even
realistic. I post the highlights of my life, but I also do think it's really important to
share what you're going through and things that you have experienced.
in the past in order to help other people. That's why I have my podcast and I share that over my
socials, anything what I'm struggling with. I love to talk about it to you guys to have that
transparency and remember that you're not alone. But again, I will still post lots of the highlights
of my life and you don't see every single bit of someone's life. You're seeing the highlights.
So you have to remember that you cannot compare yourself to anybody else and especially
compare yourself to anything that you see online. So when I say,
don't wish to have someone else's life.
It's so good to wish just to have a upgraded version of your own.
Don't wish to be someone else.
Wish to be a better version of you.
And also, something that's really important is to start becoming familiar and confident
with you and your life.
Don't be a stranger to yourself.
Become a home to yourself.
And sometimes we don't even realize we're so lonely because we don't even love the presence
of our own self, but you have to become familiar with you
and what you love. When you're alone and don't have your comfort person or your comfort object
or you're not in your comfortable environment that you feel safe in, to know that you're safe
with yourself and that's all you need is such a blessing and that's something you can really
work towards. And that's feeling just the safety and knowing that, you know what? I, I myself,
I can provide everything I need. Even though I'm not with my comfort person. I'm not with my
comfort place, my comfort object that I usually run to. None of that I am comfortable in myself
that I know that I can provide what I want. I am okay. I feel safe. And that is such a blessing
that you can work towards achieving and getting that feeling. So again, don't be a stranger to
yourself and become a home to yourself. How beautiful is it that when you were born as yourself,
you were not born as your friend or your favorite influencer or the girl that you aspire to be. You
were born as you. So you were you for a reason and you have to start loving you and whatever you feel
are your imperfections, everything. Love every single version of yourself. You want to be able to wish
to be you in a thousand lifetimes. And the most beautiful thing about you is you can always upgrade
your life. You can always upgrade yourself and you can upgrade anything in your life. But you still
have to accept who you are today because your soul will go through every stage of your life. You can always upgrade
life. And what I mean by that is we're going to have times where maybe we're struggling with money or
we're struggling in our career. We're struggling with our mental health or even our personal life.
Whatever it is, we're going to have struggles in our life. But your soul goes through every stage of that life.
And it goes through a lot. We put ourselves through a law. We have a lot of pressure nowadays. And it's so
important to remember to love yourself through the thick and the thin of it because your soul goes along
with you from the very first day you were born to the very last day that you're here.
When you look at yourself, begin looking at your blessings and not your imperfections.
You could be on your deathbed and I could swear my life to you that you will not be thinking
about how you had hair on your stomach on your belly line or you had cellulite or that
you didn't get that job that you wanted.
You won't be thinking of those things.
You're going to be thinking of how did I live out my life and how you love yourself.
Okay, you're not going to be thinking about those little things that feel so big to you now down the road on your deathbed.
What you will be thinking of is the remaining memories that you loved and the memories that you made for yourself and what you loved about yourself.
You're not going to be thinking about the things that you're picking yourself apart for.
You need to find yourself and find what you love about yourself.
And let me clarify, not what you feel you're supposed to love or supposed to be like.
many times, sometimes parents or friends or whoever we surround herself with or society in
general can make us feel like we have to be a certain way or be a certain person or like a certain
thing. And let me remind you that that is not the truth. What you love and what you like and who you are
and what you are meant to be is all in your hands and all what you want. Because when you know what
you want and are confident in that, you've then found yourself and you can begin to fall in love with you.
You're so lucky that you are who you are, and everybody in your life is just so lucky to have you.
Even if you feel like you don't like yourself or you're a burden to other people, you're not.
Okay.
Let me remind you that we're all living life for the first time.
Your yourself, your friend, your mom, your grandma, we're all trying to figure out life for the first time.
Even though it feels like our mom, our grandma knows things better than us, or they know, have a lot of knowledge.
they're trying to figure out things for their first time too and that's why you have to give people grace
and most importantly give yourself grace. You have to be patient with yourself and stop setting such high
expectations for yourself. Sometimes we're just exhausted and maybe all you need is a break and not a TV
break but a break to actually just sit with yourself and think how lucky are you to be born as you and what
your purpose of life is. But don't get me wrong. Of course, have your TV break. We love a TV.
We love a TV break here.
And maybe sometimes all you need is a movie night with tons of your favorite desserts and snacks.
And sometimes, even though I can feel uncomfortable, all you may need sometimes is just sit with yourself.
Sit with yourself with no music, no podcast, no nothing, but yourself and just think.
And sometimes when you feel so deeply in your thoughts, sometimes you just have to think your way out of it.
Trust me, I have OCD.
So when I start thinking of something, I'm.
I ended up just ruminating on it and I just think very deeply on it.
But sometimes you have to think so deeply where it's like, okay, what else to think about?
Like I've nothing else.
I've thought myself dry and it's now time to shift my focus onto something else.
So it's okay and good to sit with yourself and to feel a little uncomfortable.
You don't need something to fill your void to start showing love for yourself and respect.
You don't need a car, a Chanel bag, a boyfriend or a best friend or good grades to feel
deserving of loving yourself.
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Love yourself at every single stage, like I said, thick and thin. Maybe your self-love journey
begins at you absolutely at the worst stage of your life. You need to begin loving yourself
blindly, even at your lowest, in most shameful stages of your life. Love yourself out of the
dark if you have to. Love yourself out of the lifestyle that you have and love yourself into becoming
the best version you want to become. The hardest part of all of this is action. The action of getting
out of bed for your morning workout, the action of journaling before bed, because you may know the
best version of yourself or the ideal version of yourself that you want to have. And the hardest part
is starting. It's the action. But let me remind you to take action, you don't need to mentally accept
that you're going to take action. Would I mean?
mean by that is in your head you may be thinking, I am not going to go to my morning workout. I hate
myself. I do not want to go hang out with my friends. I don't want to get up in the morning. You may think
all that and you may think I'm not doing it, but guess what? You can still take action. You can literally
throw your body up from bed before even allowing that thought to even come into your head. Before you even
think, I'm not doing it today. You can literally physically throw yourself out of bed. And I remember hearing
that from Mel Robbins, she had said, I don't know if she came up with this, but like the
five second rule where you count five, four, three, two, one, and then throw yourself up from
bed when you wake up in the morning and you do that physically before you even have time to
mentally accept that you're going to get out of bed because you're just going to keep telling you,
no, I'm going to stay in bed, I'm cold, I don't want to get out of bed, but your body is literally
going to physically throw you out of bed before your mind even has time to stop yourself.
but also as cliche as this is and as I always say, you also want to work on romanticizing your life
to improve your mentality because you want to, of course, have that desire to provide and invest
in yourself. And a lot of times that comes with making it fun, making it interesting, and making it
that we want to come back and keep doing it. If you getting up in the morning to work out
means that you like to have a new workout set every month, then do it. Treat yourself to a new
workout stuff every month. When you love yourself, regardless of life circumstances, it will change
so much for you because you're then equipped to change the trajectory of your life.
Loving yourself is the most vital piece of the puzzle to piecing your life together.
So if you may think your life is falling apart, maybe think, am I doing the things in showing love
for myself as I should? Do I love myself? Because that is sometimes the puzzle piece that is going
to complete the puzzle. Some ways that you can begin falling in love with yourself that I
personally love that I want to share with you is accept where you are at the stage of life,
but most importantly, love to learn the imperfections and what you struggle with. Any of your
struggles or whatever that you feel are imperfections, learn to love them, okay? You're not original.
This is not an original experience. Many people have this and you're not alone. You're not some new
rare case of having cellulite or having, you know, a bad day or having a hard time focusing or
doing your homework or going to work and getting up early in the morning. You're not new.
Okay. All of us have this. Many, not all, but many of us struggle with those different type of
things. And it's very important to realize that you're not some different person. And it's okay.
It's okay to feel this way and to love your imperfections. You have to give yourself grace,
because your life, you're living right now, is for the first time.
You're living life for the first time and understand that you will improve over time.
There's no need to have your entire life figured out now.
And most of all, there's no need to hate yourself for not having everything figured out.
Because you already know that you are starting yourself a journey and change is in the works.
I mentioned comparison a bit earlier, but let go of all comparison in all aspects,
not just body image, but actually comparison in all aspects such as life, where you are at your age
in life, what you want to be having, career comparison, personal life, social life, in all different
stages of your life. Let go of the comparison. Something that is also so important in loving yourself
is celebrate your highs and your accomplishments. It's so important to give yourself that positive
feedback to yourself that motivates you to continue doing that and continue showing up for
yourself. Where you fall short in life, reclaim those negative feelings and turn them into positives.
How can you improve those things moving forward? If you have a hard time focusing on work or
getting up in the morning, set intentions for yourself and set those goals and take time
and investing yourself and think, how am I going to want to get out of bed in the morning?
How am I going to want to show up for myself during this workout?
Another thing that I think is really important, which I'm trying to do myself, but always have
something to look forward to.
And that be the simple joys, the little things at life at the end of the day to look forward to,
but also in the month, in the year, have things to look forward to.
And almost you can use that as like a goal where you working hard in doing this is going to lead
you to having that end result.
But also have things in your personal life without any incentive of working.
working hard or doing something to earn it, but have things in general that you deserve in general
to look forward to. Begin creating a new routine and rituals designed to help you succeed in both
happiness and career. And I don't want you to search up different routines to reference others
routines when you're creating a new routine and rituals for yourself. It's okay to take
inspo, but in the end of things, you still really need to leave it up to what works best for you.
So build a new life that reflects what you truly want and reflects your inner world.
Write self-love letters for yourself if you want to.
You can literally mail it to yourself, mail it to your future self, or just write in a journal, or you can think them out loud.
But I really recommend writing self-love letters to yourself.
I've done that and I'm going to open mine once I move out of my apartment because I wrote myself a letter the first night.
I moved into my apartment and moved out for the first time.
and I wanted to open that and I will open that when I end up moving out of that apartment.
So you can write them for yourself, your future self, or whatever.
But I think it's something that's really sweet to do to yourself.
Another thing is tend to your younger self or your desires.
It's so important to do things for your younger self and make your childhood feel like you can touch base with your childhood and your younger self and also do things that you desire throughout the day.
Even if that's rolling around in the grass, do it.
that's coloring, do it. There's nothing stupid. It's whatever makes you feel the best and feel the
happiest. Do it. In order to have fuel and energy to go throughout life, we need those energy givers.
Understand that you are so lucky to be who you are and do you really want to waste your entire
life and lifestyle and your precious years of life wishing you were someone that you'll never be?
Stop wishing you were born into luxury. Stop wishing you were born tall enough to mottes.
runway. Stop wishing things that are not going to change. Like, I can't wish I'm going to be
six one because it's not going to happen. I remember always wanting to be super tall when I was
younger. And I finally realized I'm like, I have to stop wishing for this because it's physically not
going to happen. I'm not going to get taller. So I have to start working with what I can.
Okay. I'm this tall and I have to start loving it. I have to start loving my five, six self.
wishing we have something that will never change does nothing but neglect what we have right in front of
us, which is yourself and your life.
The best thing is you can create the life that you want and the version of you that you want to
become, even if things feel unrealistic are too far.
I promise you, you can do it and making progress daily is better than making no progress at all.
And to be honest and transparent, I'm struggling myself trying to figure out exactly what I want
the rest of this year to look like and what I want the next few years to look like. And I have the
over planning mindset and very all or nothing mindset where I have to always work on that. I always
have to work on not being all or nothing and not over planning. But I am trying to think,
what do I want the rest of this year to look like? Do I want to move? Do I want to try living somewhere
for the summer? I do need to kind of think of those things to find a solution to bring more
happiness into my life. So something that I did with my mom,
is I wrote down all these things that I feel like I'm falling short in in my life and that doesn't
bring me happiness. And then I wrote down a ton of ideas for how can I fix those things. And I'm not
even trying necessarily to write down solutions, but ideas of what are things I can help improve those
things? And while doing that, you may find a solution. Writing down those ideas may possibly lead you
to the right path and the right solution and doing that with my mom and just talking.
it over is so unbelievably helpful for me personally. So maybe that's you being honest with someone
else in your life and being like, hey, do you have time to sit down with me and write out
things I'm struggling with? And I kind of need some direction in my life and what to do.
Brainstorming and just thinking out loud can be one of the best things you do for yourself
and can make you realize so much and almost find a solution. And if I can do this,
spending a full day writing things down, you can do it too.
So write out all the things that you feel are pulling you down and that you feel are not serving you or are an energy drainer.
And right next to it, write down any ideas you have a potential way to help solve those issues.
And that's what I want you to remember.
The more time you invest in yourself, the happier you'll become.
Loving yourself does not happen overnight, but I promise you a little progress is better than no progress at all.
I love you so much and I hope you enjoyed this episode as much as I did record.
it. If you enjoyed this episode, please share over Instagram or TikTok and tag me so I can repost.
Whenever I see you guys recommend the podcast over TikTok, it makes me so happy and I love reading the
comments sections. Also, share this with a friend that you feel that you love and just it's a good
reminder to realize how important it is to love yourself. So go share it to a friend or a family member.
I love you so much. I hope you know how grateful I am for you and who you are and you should be so
proud of the person you're becoming. Nobody has life figured out and we're all trying our best to
work on ourselves and it's a process. I have a lot of things figured out and I am still figuring out
a lot of other things in my life and we're all on this journey together. So what you are working on,
I am as well and what I'm working on someone else is too. Life is too short to not love the person
you were born to be and do not forget to stay busy yet pretty. M-hmm.
