Busy, Yet Pretty - Golden Class Girl

Episode Date: July 31, 2023

It's time to take a step back and realize, you're a Golden Class Girl. In this episode your host, Jadyn Hailey shares what it means to be a Golden Class Girl. With a positive mindset, holding yourself with confidence and having self respect, you're just on the path to being your own Golden Class Girl. Tune into this episode for inspiration on becoming your dream girl, as you sip on an iced matcha latte with almond milk.  Golden Class Girl closet essentials Jenni Kayne (15% off code: BUSY)  Most comfortable shapewear Honeylove Jadyn's Social Media platforms: - Busy, Yet Pretty Groupchat    - Instagram: Jadyn's Instagram & Busy, Yet Pretty Instagram   - Youtube: Jadyn's Youtube   - Tiktok: Jadyn's Tiktok   - My Amazon Storefront: Jadyn's Amazon   - Shop my Closet on Motom: Jadyn's Closet Favs   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hello, my dolls. Welcome back to the Busy Yet Pretty Podcast. I'm your host, Jaden Haley. For a few weeks now, I've been dying to make this episode, so I'm so excited. I know you babes will love this episode. So without further ado, let's get into today's weekly review. This week, I've been really just trying to prioritize movement, which has felt so good. It's crazy. And I know it's so cliche when people say, oh, go work out or go move your body, then you'll feel good. I swear to you, I'm sorry, but nothing feels better than just moving my body, getting some exercise in, then getting a green juice, feeling healthy and energized. Like I said, cliche things are known for a reason, either listen to what it's saying or don't. And in this case, I really tried to dial in thinking of exercise will make me more energized and motivated. And let me just say, it definitely does. Another thing I've been doing this week is really trying to cater to my health needs. As I said, I got a blood test and now I've been going to some doctor appointments. to get everything situated.

And I feel like this is something that I've been putting off for so long. And when you finally get something done that's been weighing on you, it is the biggest relief and just weight off your chest. Something I've been doing that caters to my health needs is castor oil packs every night. I've heard castor oil packs have so many benefits and one of them is inducing periods. And I'm on my journey to find my period because she got lost over a year ago. But once I do, I know I'm going to feel so much better. and I'm praying that the castor oil packs help.

Lastly, this week, I've been really just trying to stay on track, as I always say, address things as they come up. Don't procrastinate. I always think that no matter what, you have to get the thing done. So by procrastinating, you're only just having to still do the thing, but adding on additional stress and worry. I'm really working on addressing task as they come up head first, rather than pushing them off and just procrastinating and then worrying about them.

Moving on to my current obsession. My current obsession is yogurt bowl dessert, literally my favorite. I'll make it and like sweeten it with either honey or agave, add almonds, granola, vanilla cereal. I'm so extra, I will literally do the full thing. But another thing I'm obsessed with is a really just strong macha. Yes, I know it's not good for my kidneys, but I'm just going to forget about that. And enjoy my macha in peace. But I love macho lattes that are just so strong.

I'll do like half almond milk and half water and it just tastes so divine. Another thing this week is I just have been obsessed with basking in the sun. A little moktail, bowl of fruit, and I'm in my bathing suit, and that is a day. Just laying by the pool is so relaxing and so well-needed. And lastly, I've been loving is my kitten heel and miniskirt combo. I love a nice little kitten heel with a mini-skirt. I think it's the cutest duo. I seriously wear that all the time.

It's quite literally my uniform now. Moving on to the goal of the week. My goal of the week is to cook a new recipe for dinner. I feel like I've just been eating out so much lately and I need to get back on cooking at home. So I'm just going to be browsing Pinterest for nice dinner ideas for the next few hours until I figure out when I'm going to eat for dinner.

Another goal of the week is to get more decor and art up in my space. My apartment is honestly lacking some decor. I can't believe it's been almost a full year since I moved to LA. This is insane. If you've been following me for a while now, I bet it feels so fast too. It's coming up almost a year.

And now it's finally time to actually get some decor in here. I want to get some cute artwork and frames and do all of it. Another goal of the week is to prioritize being balanced in all aspects of my life. Balance to me has been just so important because I truly can function properly and anyone can function much better when they have balance in their life. And when I mean my balance is completely remove the all or nothing mindset. For a lot of things, I tend to have the all or nothing mindset. And I used to when I was younger and now that I've gotten older, I've realized how damaging that can be.

Meaning a little is better than nothing. So a little progress is better than no progress at all. So if you can only work out for five minutes today and you usually work out for an hour, instead of saying, oh, well, I can't do an hour, so I'm not going to do anything at all. Why not do that five minutes of exercise? A little is better than nothing and everything adds up. All progress adds up and you will be so proud of yourself once you realize that even that little bit of effort that you put in paid off.

And of course my last goal of the week is to take a few more steps closer to gain my license. I know. I've been saying this for over a year. I'm sorry, guys. This is the one thing that has failed me. I just took forever to get my license. But I promise you guys, I promise this year, she's not going to be a passenger princess anymore.

She's going to be a darling driver. Next up is the daily affirmation. Today's affirmation is, I attract the right opportunities in people into my life daily. I truly love that affirmation so much and I really recommend journaling that affirmation. Next is the self-love question to ask yourself. What is my favorite thing about my reflection?

I love that question so much because it is so important to not only acknowledge our beautiful soul inside us, but also acknowledge your physical appearance. Maybe you love your eyes, your eyebrows, your nose, your hair. What do you love about your reflection the most? Next up is a challenge. My challenge for you, Babes, this week is, if you feel like your routine is really repetitive, I really encourage you and challenge you to switch your routine up by adding in a new hobby. Maybe that's reading, maybe that's pottery, maybe that's making bracelets. Switching up your routine can be one of the biggest rewards and of course we like what we're comfortable with but I really encourage you to try to switch it up and maybe you'll

discover something that you love. Next up is a podcast review. This review is from Layla and Layla said Hi, I love your podcast. I have listened to almost every episode while I'm at the gym and on runs. They are so motivating and you are such an inspiration. Layla, that is so, So sweet. Thank you for the kindest review. It makes me just so happy to hear how you guys listen to the podcast. And I know I always say that, but I truly do love to hear how you guys listen to it. I'm so glad it's so motivating. And thank you for your kind of view. If you want to be featured on next week's episode, please feel free to leave a podcast review over Apple Podcast. Without further ado, let's get into today's episode. Today's episode is on being a golden class girl. There's been a pink Pilates print. And don't get me wrong, I am always a pink poli's princess, but I was like, what am I specifically right now in the stage of my life? So I began thinking and okay, I'm top tier. I know my worth. I know my value. So I'm pretty much golden. I love being classy and of course, I'm a gal. So that's where I birthed a golden class girl. And be right back. Let me go trademark this real quick. But I know you guys are feeling the same way and I just was thinking of you guys and I was like, my busy yet pretty listeners are such golden class girls or maybe a golden class boy or whatever you identify as.

I truly believe there is no better feeling than being so out of touch from reality and living in your own Barbie world. You should be obsessed with yourself, okay? Literally look at you. Take a second and just look at you. You are so beautiful, so clean, so classy, so abundant, and so so dreamy. When you look in the mirror, how do you not help to smile? Like, you are here for a reason. Stop wasting a single minute wishing you look different.

You need to take advice and think of the mindset of two people. Your eight-year-old self and your 80-year-old self. your eight-year-old self would be so hurt to see you tearing yourself up in the mirror. Your 80-year-old self, on the other hand, is going to be so, so sad and so confused why you have ever spent time wishing to look a certain way, wasting time, wishing you could have gone back and enjoyed those moments loving yourself. If you want to become more confident, begin to invest more time into your mindset and into your physical appearance. And before you come at me saying, oh, what does I have to?

to do with physical appearance. Babe, I'm trying to help you and tell you if you want to be more confident in your physical appearance, take time for yourself in it. This is not for anyone else, but you. With that being said, let's start talking about being a golden class girl. Okay, a golden class girl. She's beautiful inside and out, prioritizes herself first, is so beyond interested in her own life, not spending so much time consuming other people's lives. A golden class girl is beautiful inside and out, doesn't become distracted by outside negativity, is genuinely kind to others, and honestly, it just obsessed with herself. It feels so good to view yourself from a third person point of view or like a fly where you're just like watching yourself.

Because when you're alone, it's easy to become unmotivated and not want to put in the effort into self-care, hard work or your mindset. But when you take a step outside of your body and your body, her to view yourself as someone else looking at you, it will motivate you and be like, wow, look at her. It's kind of like when you go to a workout class, you're more motivated to exercise harder because you're surrounded by other people exercising, whereas if you're working out at home, you're not as motivated and may not try as hard. Same if you're working from home. Maybe you don't work as hard at home on your computer, but then if you go to a cafe or a library,

you're seeing other people working and it motivates you to work. But right there is being dependent on someone else subconsciously to motivate you. So like I said, I love to just like step outside my body and look at myself as if a fly was looking at me. And then I'm like, oh wow, wait, look at her. I want to put in the effort for her. I want to work out hard for her. I want to put work into studying for her. A golden class girl is all about.

happening into her feminine. So when someone tries to argue you, let them. Don't contribute, don't argue back. You know your worth and you don't need to prove any point to someone who's wanting to argue, going back and forth and wasting your energy. When you are confident, you have no need to prove your point. You have no need to prove your belief. You have no need to prove yourself. You allow them to think what they want and you move on. Don't let someone drain your energy. Another thing that I love to do while being a golden class girl is I will literally pretend that the paparazzi is everywhere and taking photos of me. Are they? No, but doesn't make me feel confident and good to pretend? Yes, yes it does. Create your own little dream world in your

head. Like, what does it harm anyone? It does not harm anyone. So create your own little dream worlds in your head, romanticize it, and live as you are your own dream girl. I honestly just cannot help to go look in every single mirror I pass. As Paris Hilton says, never pass a mirror without looking in it. But begin to look at yourself all the time and see that beauty you have. No, I'm not saying I'm just obsessed with purely my looks, but my overall self. I'm obsessed with my energy, how I carry myself, how I am as a whole. But let's say your head over heels for yourself and your looks, what does that matter? That's good. Good. Be obsessed with your looks. Be obsessed with yourself. It is ugly when someone's obsessed with their looks and obsessed with themselves and doesn't care all about anyone else and is rude

to everyone. That's ugly. Okay. That is ugly. But when you are obsessed with yourself and love with yourself and show your love to others are there for others and are genuinely kind to others, That is what true beauty is. Another thing is leave your mark. Go somewhere and leave your mark. I know that sounds like I'm saying a dog where when they mark their territory. Sure, think of it like that if you want.

But go leave your mark, make yourself be remembered. Walking into an event or a party with confidence and self-love and respect for yourself and your shoulders back, that is going to make you remembered. Not being afraid to shake people's hands. and stand up confidently and say your name, that will leave you remembered. If you enter a room all sheepish and nervous and scared, sure, being nervous and scared inside, but don't let anyone else see it on the outside because guess what?

You only know if you're nervous. Nobody else knows that unless you show it. As a golden class girl, you will not settle for anything less than you deserve. You're not desperate when an opportunity arises that is not what you're. hope for, but it's still good, but it's just not what you hope for, you're going to pass. If a guy you like checks some of the boxes off, but not all of them, you'll pass. Because you know what you deserve and you deserve the best. You guys know, I have been dying to have a closet reset, so of course, I have to reward myself

with some new summer pieces. And Jenny Kane is definitely the highlight of my closet this summer. Jenny Kane has so many perfect summer staples. I'm just obsessed with their overall brand. Their pieces are so minimal, yet so classy, yet so effortless. I just got a cardigan from them, and let me just tell you, this is my cardigan for the summer. On top of it being the cutest, minimal, classy piece, their pieces are so comfortable. I quite literally can live in them all day long.

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Invest in your physical appearance to feel good for you, not the guy you like, not your friends, not for social media, but for you to feel lovely. As a golden class girl, you need to be radiating your energy. Trust me, how you carry yourself and how you act and how you truly are will show. Even though your energy is inside of you, it 100% projects outside. Just like when people say is when people are mean to someone else, it just is a reflection of themselves. that's exactly what it is. Reflect positivity. Reflect how you truly feel.

And if you truly don't feel good, work on yourself, work on love for yourself, so that you can carry yourself every single day with positive energy. Share your positivity and love to others. If you see a girl wearing a cute dress, go compliment her. If you see a girl has really pretty hair,

go compliment her. If you see a little girl has really cute shoes on, go compliment her. If you see an older little girl. have really pretty makeup. Go compliment her. Don't let something be unsaid. If you think it and it's positive, say it. You know how good it feels to receive a compliment, so give someone else that compliment. Another thing is a golden class girl never seeks outside validation. The minute you begin lacking validation, seek from within and provide that for yourself. To be quite honest,

I stalk you guys all the time on Instagram, whoever comments on my post, I always am just clicking on your guys's profiles and just seeing who guys are. And let me just say, each one of you is drop dead gorgeous. Like, it shocks me. I'm like, how is all my listeners and all my followers so stunning? And anytime I click on the pages, I get such positive feeling from you guys. Like, I can truly just feel each one of you is meant for something so, so good. But after this episode, I want you to post a picture of you on your story with it saying Golden Class Girl and tag me in it because I want to see your pretty face.

Literally, I'm obsessed with seeing you guys. So please go do that after this episode. State for whoever follows you to know that you are a golden class girl. Where the word class comes into me is I feel like I'm tapping into my feminine and it just is really radiating classiness. Something about being a golden class girl is be exclusive. Don't be an open book with everything, okay? If you need to constantly talk, talk, talk, talk, then write in your journal. Don't tell everyone everything who is right in your sight just for a little temporary happiness and dopamine rush.

Instead, just journal it, journal it, or talk to someone you're really close with. Another thing about a golden class girl is she always smells so good, whether it's vanilla, with a fruity scent. Get yourself a nice fragrance that makes you feel sexy, pretty beautiful, and like your own dream girl. Some of my personal favorites are any mason Marjala fragrances. I love theirs. I love the Dolgian Gabana Limpare trees. I love Skylar perfumes. Those ones are healthy ingredients, so it's a lot better than most ingredients in fragrances. Another thing to radiate that golden class girl energy is a clean natural makeup look. To be honest, I love all makeup looks.

Personally, I feel I look best with a really clean, natural makeup look, but you do whatever makeup makes you feel the best. Support for today's episode comes from Honeylove. Honey Love is shapewear that hugs the body and actually came out on top for the best wedding day shapewear. So whether you're a guest, a bride, or maybe just for every day, Honey Love is for you. I love how their shapewear doesn't feel like you're suffocating or uncomfortable

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And this is one of my favorite little hacks, but anytime I use lotion, I'll mix it with the say, glowy super gel, and it becomes like a shimmery glow all over my body. If you want to look clean, hydrated, and just super glowing, I love a nice nail oil. Makes my cuticles look so nice. And I also love the summer Friday's candy lip gloss. Get yourself some celery juice, a healthy diet, but of course, balance. So eat those foods that feel your soul.

Eat that ice cream. Eat those burgers. Eat everything. There's no bad foods, okay? If it's giving you some sort of happiness or health, then it's good for you. 80-20 is what you should live by. A golden class girl, of course, never skips a Pilates class or a yoga class, or does yoga at home or Pilates at home, take some time to cater to movement for your body. But those are just some tips, but overall, a golden class girl is all about you feeling sexy, classy, and confident, all for the opinion of yours.

Remember, this is for you. Others liking you as a bonus, you liking you is the real prize. I hope you guys enjoyed this episode as much as I did recording it. I want you guys for right now go take a photo and tag me in it saying golden class girl. Tag both my accounts because I just want to see how beautiful you guys are. I love every single one of you guys so, so much. If you want to be featured on next week's episode, please feel free to leave a podcast review over Apple Podcast.

You are beautiful, you are sexy, you are a golden class girl, and do not forget to stay busy yet, pretty much. Buh.