Busy, Yet Pretty - How To Become The Girl On Your Pinterest Boards

Episode Date: February 12, 2024

It's time for you to become the girl you pin over your pinterest boards. From routines to appearance, Jadyn dives into the true reality of what it takes to become the version of yourself that you are looking to become. The women that you admire are no different than you, you have the same potential! Tune into this episode with a coconut milk latte as you become the girl on your pinterest boards.   Current Obsessions: hairgloss shampoo OUAI (15% off sitewide code: BUSY) popcorn with pink himalayan salt!!! so good... taking charge of my health / finding a good doctor  doctors   For my gals with businesses!! love shopify   Become your own dream girl with me!! : - Instagram: Jadyn's Instagram & Busy, Yet Pretty Instagram - Busy, Yet Pretty Groupchat  - Productive Day In My Life: WATCH - Tiktok: @Fairyjadyn - My Amazon Storefront: Jadyn's Storefront - Outfit Details: My Closet   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

my loves welcome back to the busy yet pretty podcast i'm your host jaden haley this is honestly one of my favorite episodes so i'm so excited to be talking to you guys about this today but let's get straight into our weekly review this week i have moved into my new space and i cannot tell you guys how refreshing it is just to have a new start and this is the most perfect little upgrade and i'm just so excited I've also gone back home for a little bit to see my cat who was diagnosed with stage 4 kidney disease. So I've been spending as much time I can with him and really just being present and living as much in the moment I can with him. And lastly, this week, I have just been trying to unpack and move into my new space. And we all know moving is a process and it takes forever to unpack.

So that's what I've been up to while I've been gone. Now moving on to the current obsessions. My current obsession right now is popcorn, specifically the lesser evil brand. I love it so much. Popcorn is my favorite. I will go through an entire bag a day. I love popcorn. Another current obsession is good hair days.

As you guys know, I love, love, love, love my hair routine because taking time on my hair just makes me feel so confident when I have good hair days. And I feel like this past year, I've gotten the most salon, perfect hair at home in literally five minutes. Because I have been using Way's new hair gloss. Not only does the gloss give immediate shine from the shower, but it also enhances color vibrancy to leave your hair looking healthier. My everything shower is incomplete if I don't have my hair gloss.

My hair just feels so much shinier, healthier, and it really makes my dark hair look so much more vibrant. It's literally my number one recommended hair product right now. Give your hair a glow up with way. Go to T-H-E-O-A-I-D-com and use promo code busy for 15% off any product. That's T-H-E-O-U-A-I-D-com and use promo code busy. I've been using Way for years now. And I'm not going to lie, it's been the secret to keeping my hair so healthy.

It's literally the one product that I tell everyone about because I truly recommend it. Another current obsession right now is my jewelry collection that is launching soon. It's the most beautiful feminine jewelry collection. I am just so proud of it. I've spent two years working with a brand on this little collection, and I'm so excited to share it with you guys. My favorite piece out of the entire collection is the bow ring. It's literally so cute. And my last current obsession is my new chair that I got for my place. My mom got me the cutest chair ever. This chair is trending on, I think, TikTok right now. It's the Drew Barrymore chair, and it's so beautiful. Moving on to my goal of the week. My goal of the week is to utilize my time.

better just trying to stay on schedule and really make sure that I'm being productive and not just busy and another goal of the week right now is to just finish unpacking and find a space for everything I'm not going to lie I'm a hoarder because I love clothes I love shoes and I don't have enough room to put it in my last gold week is to try some new workouts out and really work on getting strong again now on to the affirmation I am the highlight of every room that I step into I love that affirmation so much because it is so good to affirm that to yourself and really realize that you are the highlight of every single room that you step into. Now on to the self-love question. Who are you today versus who you thought you'd be?

I love that question so much because it really allows us to reflect on what our goals were when we were younger and to just see all the beautiful growth that you've had now. So I really recommend you journal that question. Now for your challenge at the week. Check in with yourself and your goals that you set for yourself in the beginning of this year. I love that challenge because it allows you to realign with your goals and really remember what your goals are and to motivate you from there. Lastly, it's a podcast review. This review says, This is the perfect podcast for a macha-loving Pink Pilates Princess.

Jaden gives the best tips and advice, 100% recommend. Just like she said in her first. episode, hard work pays off and she's the proof of it. I absolutely adore that review. Thank you so beyond much. I'm so glad to hear when you guys are enjoying the episodes. I'm so beyond grateful. If you want to be featured on next week's episode, please feel free to leave a podcast review over Apple Podcast. It is now time for today's episode and today's episode is on how to become the girl on your Pinterest boards. Seriously, like this is going to be how you become the girl that you pin on Pinterest that you always dream to be that version of yourself you are going to learn how to become.

I have successfully become the girl on my Pinterest boards that I have always dreamed to be and I'm still setting new goals to who I want to become. You guys know how I love talking about positive mindsets and as much as it seems mindset is the only thing that this is going to stem from. It's actually not because becoming the best version of yourself actually has many other factors aside from your mindset that are all in your hands and in your control. I want you to understand that it's human nature that we will want something and once we get what we want, we then have our eye on a new thing that we want. Us humans have the cycle of wanting, getting, and wanting

something new. Which is where the importance of self-fulfillment comes into play. You must be consciously embracing true gratitude into your life. And most importantly, learn to be fulfilled with every single stage of life that you're in. It's because you'll always be wanting more and always be seeking improvement, which is good, but you have to learn to love your current stage as well. You could be admiring that lifestyle, then all of a sudden, achieve that lifestyle,

and then instantly want more and want something else. Improvement and setting goals are great, and we should always be bettering ourselves and trying to improve yourself, but it's important to enjoy your current stage of your journey of growth. because you'll always be growing and you're always going to be succeeding. So enjoy where you are at that moment because you'll never get that part of you back. And when it comes to the girl on your Pinterest boards,

I'm sure you already have that version of yourself that you want to become in mind, but it's time to get specific. Create a new vision board right now today with pictures of what you truly, truly want. I don't want you to oversaturate your Pinterest board. I want you to keep it minimal because keeping you. it minimal allows you to narrow down to see what you truly, truly do want in your life and keeping it as a vision board, not so a mood board. Once you've created this new vision board, it's time to buckle down and be productive. Keyword, productive. I don't want you to be busy. I want you to be

productive because we can all be busy, but we can't all be productive. You've been living the lie that being booked and busy is good when it's actually that you need to be productive. Not. not just trying to fill your time with being busy. You need to get your routine in order, okay? Stop prioritizing useless things that are in your life and begin prioritizing your routine. To speak for us all, we want to just better our routines, our style, our grades, our appearance, our relationships. So let me just say there are many people out there who are next to you, by you, you go to school with, you know, that are looking to do the same. thing which is bettering themselves. So reach out to people and try to find someone who is also

looking to go on this journey because becoming the best version of yourself is so unbelievably fun when you get to be motivated by someone who is also wanting to do the same for themselves and begin to uplift each other. Your morning and night routine will either set you up for success or set you up for failure. If you wake up and the first thing you do is pick yourself apart and wishing your life was different, that does nothing but pull you down and that sets you up for failure. But if you wake up in the morning, make your bed, eat breakfast, have your skincare routine, and start off on a positive note, you're setting yourself up for success. Begin investing in yourself and take your morning and night your routine seriously. What I want you to do every morning is look at your Pinterest or vision

board wherever you have it. Look at that vision board as you eat breakfast and remind yourself this is the life that you're going to live if you put the work into it. I always find that Pinterest is my biggest motivation because just by scrolling on it reminds me of the life that I'm living, I'm going to live, and what I'm going to manifest, and it just motivates me so much. So begin your morning with reminding yourself that this is your life and this is the person you're becoming when you look over your vision board. Stop taking the easy way out. I'm too tired for my skincare routine.

I'm too busy to work out. It's too hard to eat healthy. I don't have time to study. I don't have time is probably the worst excuse you could ever make for yourself. How do you not have time to better yourself, but you have time to scroll on TikTok for three hours straight? Yeah, okay, thought so. When it comes to products with makeup and skincare, food, or honestly anything really,

society has just slapped a label on making that lifestyle, unattainable and unrealistic because some people may think that it's too expensive. When in reality, eating healthy, skincare products, having a new wardrobe, can actually be achieved affordably. So if your excuse to better yourself and become the best version of yourself is because your financial situation, I want you to stop and not allow the lack of money to discourage you. People always assumed I had so much money because of the clothes that I owned. And let me just tell you, I found all my best favorite clothing pieces, bags, shoes, all from the thrift store. Okay, for a dollar, $2, $3, $3. Very inexpensive and they're my favorite pieces.

A good 80% of my closet is thrifted. Let's say you're wanting a pretty workout area. The pink yoga mat from Amazon, that is one-fourth of the price of the ala one, is just as cute. Things don't need to be on brand. When it comes to routines, it is so important that you love your routines. You need to love your skincare routine because that will lead you to perfect glass skin. You need to love your workout routine because that will motivate you and excite you to workout. Again, set yourself up for success. Set your routine up how you like it and according to what works best for you.

So you love your routine and it motivates you. If your routine is looking like you're laying in bed all day, Let me just tell you, the girl on your Pinterest board, I assume, is not laying in bed all day every day. If you want to love yourself, you need to love your life. It's time to start feeling sexy and motivated, and that's all going to begin when you get up and start. Rodding in bed all day is not taking care of yourself, so laying in bed all day, eating junk food, and endlessly scrolling on TikTok is in the past. Get yourself a five-minute journal or any type of mindfulness journal. You need to start your mornings off on a positive note with gratitude and intention.

That will allow you to be motivated and have a positive start to your day to set you up for success. There's many things that you can compromise with in life. Maybe that's with shopping and you didn't get the price that you wanted. But something that should never, ever be compromised is your health. As you guys know, I am a health advocate for many different reasons. One, because I've been struggling with potentially having PCO. this past year. And as a wellness and self-care advocate, I'm just someone who always preaches self-care, taking time for yourself, and that means getting the right care you need when it comes

to health because your health should not be compromised. And taking the first step to caring about your health is finding a good doctor, which is why I personally love Zococ to find a good doctor, because Zocdoc is a free app and website where you can search and compare highly rated in-network doctors near you and instantly book appointments. with them online. There are thousands of top-rated patient-reviewed doctors and specialists that you can choose from, which works best for you and your health. And I love how you can actually filter for ones who take your insurance, are located near you, and treat basically any condition you're searching for. The typical wait time to see a doctor booked on Zoc-Doc is between just 24 to 72 hours, sometimes

even same-day appointments, which is just so convenient. Zoc-Doc is truly one of my favorite ways to find doctors that truly work for me, and I know you guys will love Zoc-Doc-Ock. as much as I do. Go to Zocdoc.com slash busy and download the Zocdocdoc app for free. Then find and book a top-braided doctor today. That's Zoc-D-O-C dot com slash busy. Zock dot dot com. Start using your time wisely. Start your morning with breakfast and I don't mean just a bowl of a sugary cereal. Eat a nutritious breakfast that's going to fuel you and make you feel good. Take care of yourself. Did you forget that you are a golden class girl? Maybe for breakfast you could have a coconut yogurt bowl or a chia seed pudding or oatmeal, eggs.

Whatever you love, have it. Remember to take care of yourself. Eating a nutritious breakfast is a form of self-care. Back to skincare, you need to have a skincare routine. And as I always say, do what works best for you, but at least put some time into your routine. That time you're doing your skincare is not touching your phone and it's self-care time for you. Maybe add in that extra facial massage, ice roll, or an under eye mask, not only to take care of your skin, but to make you feel good. Next, you need to start having freaking high standards, okay?

Do not stoop low or stoop lower to settle. And this goes for all aspects in life, okay? From your job, to your friends, to your relationships, whatever it is, you need to stop lowering your standards to fit somebody else's and keep your standards high because you will attract what you deserve when you keep your standards high. Do you think the girl that you have pinned on Pinterest settles for less? Of course not. So why are you? Okay, this is a big one. Romanticize your life, okay?

You are here once. You will never get today back. You will never get the moment right now back. So live your life for you and strictly you. Begin to feel sexy and confident in yourself. And do you know where that comes from? Self care and self-love. I'm not going to lie, I wake up every day looking forward to being the cutest girl

and just feeling hot and sexy, working hard and caring for myself. I literally look forward to that. Begin being excited to go out and show face. Don't be lazy and don't take shortcuts and begin investing in yourself. You may be sick of me saying invest in yourself, but it's true because you're going to feel better and have a better life when you begin to put time into yourself. Yes, it's easy to leave the house with your hair not done and just leaving in pajamas, but it doesn't feel that good to be walking out like that.

Take that little extra time to fix your hair, get ready, to feel confident and actually get ready for your day. Create your own personal style. And when creating your own personal style, it's easy to be influenced by outside trends and what other people are wearing, but it's time to create your own style about what you truly love, and nobody needs to like it at all but yourself. Go shopping, take yourself on a solo date, get a new wardrobe, take yourself out to lunch, and fall in love with your own company.

It actually shocks me how some people are like, oh, I don't like spending time with myself, I just want to get a boyfriend or get a guy to spend time with. I'm like flabbergasted because I'm like, how do you expect for them? to want to be around you if you don't even want to be around your own self stop living for the company and presence of others and begin trying to find that within yourself again this is another mindset thing but it really does influence how your outside life goes the girls on your Pinterest board are okay with being alone they are their own company so it's time to find that within yourself i know i have so many business listeners in here and i've seen some of your guys's work you guys are

insane with your own little shop. And since I started my podcast, I know the feeling of putting so much time to something and wanting the recognition that you deserve. So when it comes to your own shop and selling, of course you want the recognition. Which is why I love Shopify. Shopify is a global commerce platform that helps sell at every stage of your business. From the launcher online shop stage to the first real-life store stage, all the way to the we did it, we hit a million order stage. Shopify's here to help you grow. This platform, I try. truly trust and what I love is you can sell anything, whether it's Macha or Pilates equipment, Shopify is there to help you grow your business and reach your target audience.

I also love how it can allow you to put less effort into selling and allow you to be more creative with your shop because now you can sell with less effort thanks to Shopify magic, your AI-powered All-Star. Shopify helps you turn browsers into buyers with the internet's best converting checkout, 36% better on average compared to other leading commerce platforms. I know you guys have so much potential and if you have a business, it's time to take it to the next level. Sign up for $1 per month trial at Shopify.com slash busy yet pretty all lowercase. Go to Shopify.com slash busy yet pretty now to grow your business no matter what stage you're in. Shopify.com slash busy yet pretty. I promise you guys

will not regret using Shopify. Another important thing is keep your space, neat, and organized. This can be hard for many people and I am one of them because I'm a hoarder and I literally just have clothes everywhere. But on Pinterest, I know you're pinning things that are clean and neat and you're craving that simple and clean space. So create that for yourself. Okay, this is one that I personally love because I do myself, but I want you to start posting photos of yourself more often for you. If you post a photo on your story saying, I look beautiful, and that's your caption, I look beautiful and it's a photo of you, I love it. I love it, okay? Start complimenting yourself. Start loving yourself. And honestly, seeing other girls love themselves, make it more motivating to love yourself. There's nothing more than I love seeing a girl love her own self. Think about it. When somebody loves themselves, it actually even attracts more people and more opportunities. and more good things. One important thing that I think is very, very looked past, but be exclusive.

Don't be at everybody's door the minute they ask for something or ask if you're available. Keep your circle small. And remember that quality is much, much, much over quantity. You can have a thousand friends who are just friends or acquaintances and they don't care about you and they're not like you. They don't care about uplifting you. and they're just there. Maybe they like to go get drinks with you, but that's it. And at the end of the day,

you don't actually feel supported and motivated and excited about any of the people in your friend group because you have a million different friends who don't actually care about you and aren't actually like you. Stop giving all of yourself and be more private and exclusive and share those parts of yourself for the people who really deserve it. Your time is precious.

So use it wisely on the people you really do enjoy in your life. And most importantly, live for yourself and nobody but you. If you live your life in fear of looking stupid, you'll never be happy in life, and you'll never become the women that you desire. Do you think the girls on your Pinterest boards really care what other people think? No, because they lived for themselves and are confident in what they like. And from doing that, they are now living on people's Pinterest boards. If I lived for the opinion of other people, I would never be even remotely close to as successful as I am today. Let alone happy.

I would not be happy one single bit. Begin living your life for you and soon enough you'll be on everyone's Pinterest sports. I love you guys so much and I hope you enjoyed this episode as much as I did recording it. There is no better episodes than the ones talking about how to become the best version of yourself. I appreciate you so, so much and please share this episode. over your story so I can repost it and tag me in any TikToks that you guys show the podcast in. I'm so excited for this year and all the exciting episodes we have coming. Also, if you want to get little sneak peek into the busy yet pretty life of beauty, skincare,

the whole thing, then join my broadcast channel over my Instagram. Start investing in yourself and soon enough we'll all be pinning you on our Pinterest boards. And do not forget to stay busy yet pretty. Thank you.