Busy, Yet Pretty - How To Easily Attract Money

Episode Date: November 4, 2024

It's time you learn how to heal and create a healthy relationship with money. Money is your friend and is on your side, so it's time you believe it and see it for youself. In this episode your host, Jadyn Hailey shares how you can easily attract money to you and into your life. Tune into this episode with a Thai tea as you become a happier and RICHER you!   Current Obsessions: - trench coats!!! - cottage cheese  - fresh flowers         Become your own dream girl with me!! : - COZY AUTUMN DIARIES | fall baking, home shopping & solo dates - Instagram: Jadyn's Instagram & Busy, Yet Pretty Instagram - Busy, Yet Pretty Groupchat  - NEW!!!! Productive Day In My Life: WATCH - Tiktok: @Fairyjadyn - My Amazon Storefront: Jadyn's Storefront - Outfit Details: My Closet   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hello, my love. Welcome back to the Busy Yet Pretty Podcast. I'm your host, Jaden Haley. I'm currently in Maine when you're listening to this. So I'm just going to be walking around, crunching the leaves in Portland, Maine, really tapping into my fall spirit. So if you live in Maine or have any Maine recommendations, send them my way because I am definitely going to hit all the spots that you guys recommend. And I'm not going to lie, I love today's episode and what we're going to talk about today. And this has been very highly requested, so I'm very excited, but without further ado, let's get into our weekly review. This week was my friends at birthday, so we celebrated by going to afternoon tea, and it was

the cutest, most gorgeous tea time session. There was a live harp player, and I got gluten-free little sandwiches and tea. It was truly just honestly the most perfect afternoon, and I think tea time, afternoon teas are my new favorite pastime. And also this week is I took a private jet for my first time ever. It was so fun. I had a day trip to Vegas, so I took a private jet there, had a helicopter tour and flew back home that night. So it was honestly just the most perfect day trip. And lastly, this week is I have just been working extra hard and being dialed in. And let me just say, it has definitely been paying off. Remember that when you dial in and be productive, your hard work pays off. You can either have

a month of progress or a month of excuses. It's your choice. And remember, your future self is going to thank you. Now moving on to my current obsessions. My current obsession at the moment is Thai tea lattes. I love this Thai tea that is like prepackaged from pop and bottle that I got Whole Foods. And it is truly the best tie tea. I'm just so obsessed with it. Another current obsession right now is trench coats. I love nothing more than a classy button-up trench coat. I think it just looks so beautiful and I cannot stop wearing them with this colder weather lately. Now lastly, I just have been listening to a lot of cottage indie music and songs that put me at peace. I have lots of different playlist that you guys can search up that have linked in my link tree for any type of vibe you're feeling. And right now,

I'm in my cottage indie music era. Now on to the goal of the week. My goal of the week is to make new memories on this trip. Living in the present is so important, and I actually am taking my parents to Maine for my first time. This is my first time taking my parents on a trip, and I'm really excited to be doing this, and I'm so fortunate. A lot of work goes into this,

but let me just say the dividends make it so worth it, and being able to bring my parents on this trip just makes me so happy. but I definitely wanted to just start living in the moment and really embracing, exploring, and trying out new things. But I can't lie, I'm already brainstorming the next place I want to travel to. I just feel like I'm falling in love with being on the go and traveling. So I definitely am starting to browse some new destinations. Another thing right now for my goal is decorate for Christmas. I'm just so ready to decorate for Christmas.

I always decorate right in November. so it feels early and nice and it can just feel like the season is lasting all winter long. And lastly, I want to try out a new winter hairstyle. I feel like during the winter I do like to have my hair down, so maybe doing some different curls or a half bun, something that's just going to be new and different for the wintertime. Now to my affirmation. This month, I am focusing on all things gratitude.

I love that affirmation so much and I really recommend you a for that to yourself. Now on to your self-love question. What are you most thankful to yourself for? I love that question so much and I really recommend asking yourself that because we do so much for ourselves and we sometimes forget that we are keeping us alive. We are the ones keeping us alive. We're the ones providing happiness for us and we're the one capable of everything. So it's good to take a second to just stop, pause and be grateful to yourself. For your challenge of the week, think of three things you're grateful for, the moment you wake up, moment you go to bed. I love that so much because it is so important to be grateful, especially

during the month of gratitude. And every month, every day should be about gratitude. But this is especially the month because we're in the month of Thanksgiving. And it just is so good to be grateful and grateful during the holiday season. Now on to the podcast review. This review is from Seth and Seth said, this podcast is perfect if you want any health and wellness tips. She didn't shares her beautiful energy on this podcast. I always recommend her episodes to my friends. The episodes never fail to inspire me and become a better version of myself. I've noticed my self-esteem has improved since listening to her. Thanks, Jaden. Thank you so much yourself, Seth, for tuning into the show, and I am so grateful for you recommending it to your friends, but I am so

proud of you that you've taken time to notice that your self-esteem has improved, and I am just so grateful for you and proud of you and you have such a beautiful life ahead of you. Without further or do, it is time to get into today's episode. How to attract money into your life. That is a very searched up question that you probably have searched up in your life. I know I have many people wonder, how do we get more money? How do we attract more money? This is less so a to-do list on what jobs you should get or where to find money.

but instead how to have money find you. Before getting into this episode, I want to preface that, yes, there is most definitely circumstances and factors that play into lack of money that is not in your control, such as your environment, your ability to work, health, having kids, everything. And all of us don't start at the same level. We all start at a different level. Some people are born into a very wealthy environment. Some people are born into a not wealthy environment.

Some people are born into a toxic environment. Some people are born into a loving, safe environment. We all have different stages of where we start from. So do not feel like you have the urge to compare your success with money to somebody else's because we all start at different levels. And let's be real, some people have it harder than someone else. Someone always has it harder than you, but that does not take away your level of hardness that you may have with your journey in your situation.

We're going to talk about how to attract money and your relationship with money, but I do want you to realize that I sympathize with you if your situation is more complicated and harder with whatever is holding you back with your circumstances to be able to freely start earning that money. I am very lucky that I was able to so fortunately grow up with a roof over my head and food on the plate and feeling like I'm in a safe environment. But the reality of that is it's not like that for everyone. and a lot of people start below ground zero. But this is to say that if you are one of those people who suffer with those circumstances or is born into a more harder environment, that this is just your beginning.

Do not feel discouraged, feel motivated because I promise you once you start getting on a role of how things work with money and success, things are going to take off from there. Some of the most successful, richest, most happiest people in this world, started from below nothing. They had nothing. One of my favorite motivational speakers, Ed Mila, even at one point in his life, who let me just say he's very wealthy and happy,

has a family, everything, but at one point in his life, he would have to take a dip in the pool in the apartment pool as his shower because they couldn't pay for water. And now he's a very successful, happy motivational speaker who is also very wealthy and money, his relationship with money is nothing like a was many, many years ago. And when you think of money, think of the reason why you want money. Why do you want to be wealthy? Is it because the lifestyle?

Is it for security? Whatever it is, when you think of that, think of that instead of the specific number that you're wanting to see in your bank account. Because behind money is your desire and that desire has passion. Because you're not going to work hard to just see the number in your bank account increase and not do anything with that. You're going to want to spend it and do something with it. So what are those things?

Why do you want to be wealthy? What are you going to use that on? Because when you know what you want and have that desire, there is a passion behind it and passion brings you to your goal. This episode is going to be an overall way you can build or heal your relationship with money and how you can begin to attract money into your life. I can't be the only one who has this like dream item of theirs that they always see, whether it's a bag, a sweater, a top, and you're like,

I just need that, but it's like sold out everywhere. That's me with this one, vintage Duny and Burke bag. I literally was looking everywhere for it and I somehow found one on a Poshmark. But not just one. I found multiple of them at such a good price and I was like, wait, this is just too good to be true. So if you know me, you know I am a Poshmark girl. Poshmark is a marketplace where you can list and sell as well as buy new items, vintage pieces, gently used, luxury pieces. They really just have it all. And I feel like there's no better time to go on Poshmark now.

Everyone's cleaning out their closet and listing good things. Get in bed, get cozy, and go in Pashmark to add to your new spring wardrobe. New deals and sales are listed every day, so don't wait. Download the Poshmark app and use code Bizzy when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase. Or shop now at Pashmark.com slash busy and get $10 off your first purchase. That's P-O-S-H-M-A-R-K.com slash busy. I can't be the only one who has this like dream item of theirs that they always see, whether it's a bag, a sweater, a top, and you're like, I just need that, but it's like sold out everywhere.

That's me with this one, vintage Duny and brick bag. I literally was looking everywhere for it, and I somehow found one on a poshmark. But not just one. I found multiple of them at such a good price, and I was like, wait, this is just too good to be true. So if you know me, you know I am a poshmark girl. Poshmark is a marketplace where you can list and sell, as well as buy new items, vintage pieces, gently used, luxury pieces, they really just have it all. And I feel like there's no better time to go on Poshmark now. Everyone's cleaning out their closet and listing good things. Get in bed, get cozy, and go in Pashmark to add to your new spring wardrobe. New deals and sales are listed every day, so don't wait.

Download the Poshmark app and use Code Bizzy when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase. Or shop now at Poshmark.com slash busy and get $10 off your first purchase. That's P-O-S-H-M-A-R-K.com slash busy. Let me just say I am not a millionaire and I am not wealthy, but I will say my relationship with money and my drive for motivation and to succeed has definitely set myself up pretty well financially. You forget, quote, how to get wealthy does not have one answer or one job. There are endless ways that you can get wealthy and endless jobs that pay great. And there is not one answer to how to get wealthy. But let me say, there is one thing that all wealthy people have in common, and that's their mindset. Everything comes down to mindset, especially when it comes to money. And once you become rich

and wealthy, your relationship with money still matters as much as it did before you had that, because you can easily lose all the money and all that you have due to mindset. Because when you have no control over your money or you're being over-controlling and being too scarce is when you're going to subconsciously manifest lack into your life, lack of money, lack of happiness, lack of relationships, lack of everything because when lack is a part of your life, it is a domino effect and it will show up in many different areas. But when you feel rich in your happiness, your relationships, your job is when you're going to be rich in other places like your bank account. You attract what you believe you already are and what you already have. And like I said,

most importantly, you attract who you believe you are. So if you believe you are poor and unhappy, meaning like you're complaining about always having obstacles you're running into, bad things always happen to you, and you're not making enough money, that's your belief. So if you believe those things about your life, that is your reality. If you believe money is never on your side, it will never be on your side. If you view money or all rich people as bad, then again, money is not on your side. It's simple. Literally the rule is simple. Have a comfortable, secure relationship with money and make it be in your life, believe it is. Even if it's not, believe it is. But that simple rule, we make it so complicated. Act like a rich woman. How would you think? How would you eat? How would you sleep?

How would the rich version of you act? Would you go donate a lot of money? Would you go donate a lot of money? to your favorite charity? Would you go help others? Would you go taking yourself on shopping trips? Would you go buy someone a new car? What would you do? I want you to believe it and embrace those feelings and make a story for yourself in your head and close your eyes and play it over and over and over until you truly believe that is your life. And if you're thinking, gosh, Jaden, this is too much. This is far too much work. I'll just marry rich instead. Sure, you can go marry rich too but become a rich woman for yourself first fulfill that lifestyle for yourself first like in that interview that Cher says that her mom had told her honey you should settle down and just marry a rich man and

she said mom I am a rich man that is the energy we are bringing on right now and into this new year you need to understand that in order to become rich financially and again I'm noting financially because when we say rich it doesn't mean just wealthy it means rich and happiness, rich in all different areas and aspects in your life. So when you become rich financially, you must become rich in all other aspects of your life first. Rich in your happiness, your relationships, your quality of life, because being rich does not just mean wealth. People say money can't buy happiness. I agree and disagree on that. I believe money can ultimately buy comfort and safety for those who lack, but cannot fulfill long-term emotional gratitude. So in other words,

I believe money is a short-term happiness and can be a motivation of a life change, but cannot bring you long-term happiness because the other 99% of that has to do with within. You have to find that happiness within, and that jumpstarts everything else in your life. Money is on your side, and you are rich, so start believing it. Stop being scarce with your money as well. I'm not saying don't be calculated and conscious because that forms a healthy relationship with money, but don't be scarce. When you play into your lack by not purchasing that cup of coffee that you definitely have the money for, you've been overthinking it for 10 minutes now, and then you

all of a sudden decide no, walk out of the cafe is causing you more harm to you in your life by stress, specifically creating unneeded, unnecessary stress around money. When you don't have a lot of something, you want to hold onto it and hoard all of it. But the thing is, if you're, If you had a lot of something, you're not going to do that because you're going to feel overwhelmed and fulfilled and you don't have to hold onto anything because you know you already have it. That is the mindset you need to have with money even when you have no money. Because when you're not in that scarce, sacred mindset and trying to hold on to every last penny you have is when money is going to start flowing to you because you're going to start believing, I have money. I'm fulfilled with money. I don't need to hold on to anything.

I have free money coming to me all the time. And again, that's not to say go buy a $2,000 bag when you only have a few hundred dollars and go charge your credit card. But more of saying, change your mindset into thinking when you see a Chanel bag, I could never afford that bag to instead saying, you know what, I'm going to pick up that bag soon. Another thing is start being generous both financially and non-financially. Buy a stranger a drink or lend somebody a hand. treat others to love because if you have money and self-love, it's good to share it with others. Something that is so important is don't let the idea of your dream life feel far away. Look at your Pinterest spore daily and feel the emotion as if you already have that lifestyle.

Feel those emotions as if you're so disgustingly rich you don't even know what to do with your money. Start planning where you want your private jet to take you. Start planning what luxury bag you're going to get next. start planning what charity you're going to donate thousands of dollars to. Start creating those plans as if you already had money because I promise you when you do that, you're sending yourself up for a mindset that you already have the money and the money will attract to you. Another thing is have control when spending. As I said a few minutes ago, don't overthink when you buy something.

But you're an adult, you're able to reason out what you think is in your budget, a little outside of your budget. But when it comes to spending, sometimes we feel. uncomfortable to have money so it's easier for us to just spend it and get it all out of our hands and out of the way. Think to yourself, have you ever thought that way? Because that is a very common feeling. When we have money, we don't know how to handle it and we don't feel like we're going to have it long. So we blow all our money on going to a really expensive dinner or buying a few different things. Ultimately, letting it just leave our hands. You're doing that because

you're used to the feeling of no money and that's comfortable to you. Instead of earning that money, being comfortable that you have that money, putting it to your savings, taking a little out for your necessities or something that you're wanting to buy, and getting rid of that all or nothing mindset. Make money and having so much money be your comfort zone. Another important thing, of course, is take action. You can't just manifest money while sitting on the couch all day. Manifest and take action, apply that to your job, take steps to getting to that goal. There is a few different ways that I like to manifest money that personally I feel has really helped with my manifestation process and I do believe this has brought me the money I do have and one of these things is

walk around neighborhoods that you want to live in. So example, I would walk around or drive past neighborhoods in Beverly Hills or Bel Air and I'll truly feel and embrace this feeling. as if this is my neighborhood, I love my neighbors, I'm so grateful for here that I get to live here, and I love my house here. Really embodying those feelings as if you really live there. Another thing is, you know those stores that you usually walk by and you think it's never going to happen? I'll never be able to afford that bag or those shoes. Take yourself into those stores. Something I've done quite a bit of times is I will walk my way into the Rolex store. they will so properly greet me and they will treat me like the person I want to be.

I want to be able to buy a few Rolexes on a spur of the moment. That's the person I want to be. I'm not her yet. I don't have that money yet. But I one day want to be able to. But when I walk in there and they're greeting me, they don't know if I really can or cannot do that. So what I do is I use the way they treat me properly and how they're asking which I'm looking at,

what I'm interested in. I use that way they treat me as a way to manifest the person I want to become. Another thing you can do is go to a car dealership, browse your dream cars, your favorite cars, and feel as if you're really shopping for one. I have to reference Ed Mila again, but one thing he had done is he'd go to this one hotel that he absolutely loved and wanted to stay there when he had a lot of money and wealth, and he would just embody those feelings and really feel those feelings as if he was staying there all the time. Fast forward in his life now. It's one of the hotels he goes to all the time,

has plenty of money for, and that became his reality. But something with hotels that I like to do is I love to just go to nice hotels, buy a cup of coffee. You don't even have to buy the food because it'll probably be expensive. You can buy just a cup of coffee and sit and work on your computer, sit and embrace the feeling of the atmosphere and feel as if you always stay at this hotel or you can even network around and maybe meet other people who are wealthy or are in that space and it puts you in that mindset that you are here. You are at the right position and this is where you belong. I actually meditated and had a little manifestation meditation a month ago where I just embraced the feeling when I closed my eyes. I just embraced the feeling that I was

on the East Coast in the fall and I was fully tuned into the story that I made in my head for about 30 minutes. And I cried, I was so happy in my dismanifestation meditation that I just was overfilmed with joy because I truly felt that I was in the East Coast looking at the trees, feeling that cool breeze. And I kid you not, a week later, I have an opportunity to go to Maine for work and I'm here now. Another thing is, I had a private jet on my vision board in the beginning of the year over Pinterest. You can even fact check me by going to my Pinterest board and seeing it if you want to. And I was thinking the year's almost up. And behold, I got the opportunity to go into private jet.

When you believe it, it will become yours. There are times also where money is going to be flowing to you like crazy. And then there's going to be times where it stops. But when those times occur and the money slows down, don't get distracted by that. Because everything, everything in life is not an uphill mountain. It has the slopes and the obstacles. Do you think the richest people in the world didn't have ups and downs with their income, you need to promise to yourself that the life you want is already yours.

Have some faith in yourself. Another thing to take action when manifesting money is make picking up little side jobs a fun hobby. Let making tons of money and different streams of income fun. Stop obsessing over the number in your bank account and obsess over the dream life you're going to have. When you believe money is on your side, take action and let it come to you is the moment where money is going to be on your side and start attracting to you. I love you guys so much and I hope you enjoyed this episode as much as I did recording it. I absolutely love this episode. I'm not going to lie because I feel like money is something that we're all kind of just like touchy about and not knowing how to approach it or have a relationship with money. And I feel like that's something that is very

important to talk about that's not talked about enough, especially in schools. I know like we're obviously not going to teach manifestation in schools. But I do. believe your relationship with money is something that is very important to talk about. So I hope you enjoy this episode. If you feel like a rich woman and are excited for the future, feel free to repost this episode over your Instagram and TikTok, tag me so I can repost it and let's build the community together. I love you guys so much. Remember that money is on your side and you are a rich woman and do not forget to stay busy yet pretty.