Busy, Yet Pretty - Perfect New Year Guide: Motivation, Set Goals & Create Your Dream Life

Episode Date: January 1, 2024

It's time. A New Year. A new year to become the highest version of you and effortlessly live your dream life. No more waiting, no more excuses. The time to start is NOW. The year is completely in YOUR hands! In this episode your host, Jadyn Hailey shares the perfect New Years guide including motivation, mindfulness when setting goals and most importantly, creating your dream life. This is YOUR year. It is time to TRULY change your life. Would you rather have a year of progress or a year of excuses? My New Years Essential Checklist:    Jadyn's New Year Checklist   Current Obsessions: very very frothed matcha lattes jeans + kitten heels sunflower butter with dark chocolate!!!   Become your own dream girl with me!! : - Instagram: Jadyn's Instagram & Busy, Yet Pretty Instagram - Busy, Yet Pretty Groupchat  - Productive Day In My Life: WATCH - Tiktok: @Fairyjadyn - Outfit Details: My Closet - My Amazon Storefront: Jadyn's Storefront     Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hello, my dolls. Welcome back to the Busy Yet Pretty Podcast. I'm your host, Jaden Haley. Happy New Year. I'm literally smiling so hard right now just because I feel like there's no better time to feel so motivated than the new year. This episode is going to be the perfect motivation for you to live your dream life this year and become the highest version of yourself. I am just so excited, but without further ado, let's get into today's weekly review. This week was Christmas. I had such a fun time. visiting with my family. There's nothing better than just visiting with your loved ones and just feeling at home and at peace. I'm very grateful to be so close to my family and it was just so nice to see them. But now that the holidays are over, I'm so beyond grateful for those slow, relaxing, peaceful moments.

But I'm just ready to get on my grind again and looking so forward to getting into the new year. Also, another thing, I actually met Rihanna. It was truly so fun. and I actually have a photo for my Instagram if you guys want to check it out. Other than that, this week, I have just been so excited for the new year and to share all my motivation and excitement with you guys. Now on to the current obsession, my current obsession right now is oil-based cleansers. I love doing an oil-based cleanser and then letting a warm rag steam on my face.

I really recommend you try it. It's so relaxing and it feels like it really just cleans my skin. Another current obsession right now, it's just planning out the new year. with where I want to travel, my work stuff, everything. And my last current obsession is watching Old Big Brother seasons. It's a reality show, and it's truly the only show that I watch. I just love the strategizing and everything that has to do with the show. But like I said, I truly manifest every single thing in my life,

and I'm telling you guys right now, I will be on Big Brother. It's the one show that I want to be on. I've been asked to be on the Circle, Love Island, Temptation Island. Any other reality show I've said no to because I just want to be on this one show. I'm telling you guys right now I'm going to manifest being on Big Brother. I am on Big Brother. Mark my words. Moving on to the goal of the week.

So my goal of the week right now is to get rid of lots of things that are just sitting in my closet or just sitting in places where I actually don't use it anymore. This is the year of letting go to allow new things to come in. Another goal of the week is to begin meditating. That is something that I find so much comfort from and I don't do enough, where I think it's essential for me to incorporate meditating more into my routine this year. And my last goal of the week right now is to slowly transition into the new year. Sometimes we get just so excited and ahead of ourselves and go zero to 100, which can cause us to quit and be exhausted and just have burnout.

So really just trying to incorporate new things step by step. Moving on to an affirmation. This year will be the year I become the highest version of myself. I love that affirmation so much and I really recommend affirming that to yourself. Moving on to the self-love question. What is an inner goal you have for yourself this year? I love that question so much and I really recommend you journal it and ask yourself. Now to the challenge.

Find a friend who is as excited as you are for the new year and walk into this new year supporting each other and holding each other accountable. I've done this with friends in the past and I'm telling you, it is so helpful to be motivated with somebody else and holding each other accountable. So I really recommend you try that and it can make the process just so much more exciting. Lastly is a podcast review. This review is from Eva and Eva said, This podcast has helped me so much with my confidence.

I started myself love and healing journey over a year ago and found this podcast when I needed it. This podcast is so personal and I genuinely feel like we are best friends, L.O.L. Thank you so much for you. your advice as well as your heartfelt affirmations and shadow work journaling questions. Ava, that made me so happy where you said you found the podcast just when you needed it. I'm so glad that you enjoyed the podcast and it's a help to you in your self-love journey. I am so beyond appreciative. And if you want to be featured on next week's episode, please feel free to leave a podcast review over Apple Podcasts.

It is finally time for us to get into today's episode. And I'm here to tell you that it is a new year. it's time for you to have a true fresh start and most importantly it's time for you to change your life and make this year the best year yet this year you're going to turn your vision board into reality so this episode is going to be the perfect new year guide to motivation setting goals and creating your dream of life before we do some intense motivation it's extremely important for you to realize that you cannot go from zero to a hundred because that will do nothing but leave you. you burnt out, exhausted, and quitting, and of course getting back to square one. It is so important

for you to transition into this change of the new year into your life, slowly, not from zero to 100. The same with achieving your goals. Take each goal step by step every single day and take them one by one to achieve consistency, resulting in success, not going from zero to 100 getting burnt out. the life that you want and the person you want to become will never happen overnight and it will never happen if you put no work or effort into it. So you can't try hard for just a day or a week to achieve your dream life because let me tell you it's not coming overnight. It's not going to come most likely in a week, not for a month. And it may even take a few years. But the more you procrastinate putting off working towards your goals, the further away your dream life is going to be.

When you fail to take action, you're actually failing to succeed. It's simple math. Do not waste your time here on earth. Wishing your life was different. Okay, you cannot do that because that changes nothing in your life. It doesn't benefit you at all. It only makes you sad, unhappy, and worse. Stop wishing your life was different and make your life different.

You can create the life and have the life that you believe that you are capable of living. If you believe that you can live in a mansion with a family of yours and you have the job that you love, you're going to have that. If you believe you'll always be broke, you have no friends, and you hate your job. That's your reality and that's as far as you're going to get in life. Do you realize how fast time flies? Time flies so fast and every moment that passes you is time that you could have spent living your dream life. Would you rather have a month of progress or a month of excuses? Stop waiting for the perfect moment to start because there is no better time than to start now.

Right now is perfect. A good example is with my podcast even. I almost didn't start when I did on January of 2022. I actually wanted to wait until I had the most perfect equipment and the perfect setup and everything felt perfect and right. Let me tell you, nothing ever felt perfect or right and nothing will ever in your life feel perfect or the right time to start. The fact of the matter is, is that no time in your life is going to be the perfect time to start or the perfect moment to start. You have to just start and it will become

perfect. As I was saying, I almost did not even start my podcast because I want to wait for the right moment. But instead, I decide just to do it and I posted an episode without it being perfect in my eyes. And look where it brought me. Millions of listeners who find my show to be a safe space and motivating who tune in every Monday. And just imagine, imagine if I just waited for it to be the perfect moment because I would have never started. If I was waiting for the perfect time to start, I would not be where I am now. You have to start now and perfect later. I always say this to people is launch fast perfect later because that will be a game changer in your life and success, your job, your happiness, everything. Let's say you want to start working out more. So you just

ordered new workout equipment. Don't wait until the workout equipment arrives to finally start working out. Start working out now. Work out without it. It doesn't need to be perfect. When you live life and only take action in your life when the setup and situation is perfect and you wait for that time to feel right, let me just tell you you're going to never take action. Execute your determination into action. If you put your all into something, you will always be rewarded for your effort, regardless of What it is, you will always be rewarded from your effort, whether that means achieving and getting what you were wanting or it will come in a different form. I know you're probably so excited to start writing out your New Year's resolutions when you're writing down your new year's resolution list. Don't write down your goals as just goals.

Write them down as if those are your achievements of 2024. Not your goals, but your achievements. You have already achieved each one of those achievements in 2024. It should be a reflection and receipt of 2024. What you want should not feel too hard, and if it does, you need to rewrite that thought in your head and believe it to be already completed as an achievement and not just a goal. Anything you want, you are capable of. I don't think you realize how much you can achieve and do in one year. I can just feel it for you.

I just know deep down this is your year. Not this past year, but the year before that, and just one year, okay? Within one year, I went from being in a serious relationship and I was supposed to move to New York with this person. I got cheated on, left, was heartbroken, but that did not slow me down, but it motivated me. And I independently moved to Beverly Hills, tripled my income and now live my dream lifestyle, and became the highest version of myself. That all happened within one year. So I'm telling you, I promise you, whatever you dream of doing in your life is so achievable and you can get so much done. one year and become a whole new person live a whole new life. Don't use your hardships in your life

as an excuse to not succeed. Use it as motivation to succeed. If you don't like your life, change it. If you don't like your situation, change it. If you don't like yourself, change it. Don't wait for someone or something to change your own life. When you're writing down your New Year's resolutions, shoot as high as you can. The sky is not the limit your mind is. Begin to tackle each one of your goals step by step rather than tackling it as a whole. Things can just feel really overwhelming and hard and unachievable if we look at it as a whole. For instance, I used to look at being able to drive very hard. I was like, I need to do the permit course. I have to get my permit. I have to practice driving. And then I have to get my license. And then after that, I have to do more practice driving. And then

what about a car? It was one thing after another I kept thinking of where the entire goal of having my license and driving felt so unrealistic. But instead, I broke it down into steps. You know what? I am now in the point of I'm ready to get my permit. And that's one step closer to achieving my goal. Same with starting a new routine. Create and begin a new routine that sets you up for success every single day. That new routine may look completely different than the routine that you have right now. But begin to incorporate the new habits into your routine one at a time to be able to stay consistent and not burn out and get overwhelmed. It is January 1st. January 1st, or if you're listening to this, a different day, any day of the year is a new start that you make it. Any day can be a fresh

start, okay? But listen to me right now, nothing is going to change if you don't put in the work. This year is the year to have discipline for yourself. Wake up, create a morning routine that sets you up for success. Don't stay on your phone all night, making you tired in the morning, and don't go to school and purposely not focus and try hard. Don't go to work with a negative attitude and just wanting to get the day over. You were so lucky to be here. So many people would die to be in your position living your life right now. Regardless how bad your life situation is or how bad the circumstances are in your life,

I swear to you, so many people would do anything to be in your position. Somebody has it worse out there. and that is not to disregard how you feel about your life. Everybody's feelings are valid all the time. Regardless what it is, everyone's feelings should be valid. But my point I'm trying to get across to you is your situation could be worse. So with the situation that you have right now, make it the best you can. Even though the external part of your life may not be the best, make the internal part good.

Have a positive mindset, regardless of how hard you have to push through the day. Or maybe you're thinking, well, my life is actually not that bad and I'm very fortunate for the life I have. Amazing. Utilize that. Make your life the best you can become the highest version of yourself. And not only do that to yourself, but uplift others. There is nothing more beautiful than sharing your love, motivation, and happiness with someone else. By me doing that and sharing my love and happiness and motivation and my hardships I've experienced and how I overcame them on a podcast has,

has helped millions of people. You talking to someone else and uplifting another person can uplift millions of other people. One person goes to another person, goes to another person. It's a domino effect of happiness and positivity. And that domino effect doesn't just have to do with outside people and uplifting others, but it has to do with your own life as well.

If you look at something positively in your life, that one positive thing is going to make something else positive, going to make something else positive. It will be a domino effect of positive and amazing things in your life. Rather than looking at something negative in your life, you're going to have another negative thing. Another negative thing. It will be a negative domino effect.

Script your life the way that you want to live it. Live your life and become the person you want to become. There is nothing stopping you. And of course, let's say your situation at home is not the best or your work life is not the best. Your situation externally may not be able to be able to. to be fixed right now, but you have the option to fix the internal mindset that you have. Start looking at things in a positive way.

Instead of waking up and saying, oh, I have school, I have work, it's going to be a long day with the kids, oh, my husband. As you name all those negative things in your head, did you forget how positive those things are? Those things are so beautiful. How stunning is it that you get to wake up and be your own dream girl? How beautiful is it that you could to wake up and become the best, version of you. How stunning is it that you can literally wake up and breathe, eat food, have a roof

over your head, get to go to school, get to learn, get to have a job. All those things that you're thinking negatively, there is something positive in there. Find a positive of each negative, and that will be something that changes your life. Not only will your opinion and view on that thing begin to improve, also going to attract more positivity and the things that you really do want into your life. The version of you this past year was that year's version of you. That was 2023 you. That version of you is not 2024 you. 2024 version of you is completely in your hands. What does her routines look like? What does her bank account look like? What does her friendships look like? What does her daily habits

look like? Shape the 24 version of you. Customize her and her lifestyle. Then begin living as her and becoming her. How exciting is it that this is your chance right now. to start fresh. It is a new year, a new fresh start, and a new life ahead of you that you can create. If a job, a person, a routine, a city, or anything is not serving you, begin to seek within and ask yourself, what serves me the best? There is no need to impress anyone this year, not your parents, not your friends, nobody on social media, not your boyfriend, not your husband, not anyone. You entered this earth as you. You didn't enter this earth as anybody else but yourself. So this is your year to impress one person, to impress yourself. And everything that you want in life,

do it for you. Don't do it for anybody else. Better yourself and better your life for the love and respect for nobody but you. You have to be your number one believer. How do you expect for someone to believe in you if you don't even believe in yourself. Stop relying on someone to give you the motivation or stop relying on someone to give you the hope that you're able to achieve the life that you want to achieve. Nobody cares. Everyone's focused on themselves. So believe in yourself and be your number one motivator. If you take a moment to reflect, you'll see that everything, good, bad, goals, and achievements all narrow down to you. How you react to situations and take action will be the ticket to success for you this year. Unfollow people who make social media a negative

space. It's essential for you to have an internal and external reset. This is your life. Create it as you wish, okay? Create your life as you wish. There is no more perfect time than right now. This is your year, and I am just so excited for you. I hope you guys love this episode as much as I did recording it. I am just so happy about the new year and so excited for you guys. Please share this episode to motivate others over your Instagram story, and I always choose one of you guys at the end of the week for a little drink on me, who have reposted the episode to their story. Also leave a review over Apple Podcasts if you want to be featured on next week's episode,

and please rate over Spotify. It helps the show so much, guys. I just appreciate it so, so dearly. I am truly so excited to enter this new year with my busy yet, Pretty Babes. And I just love you guys so unbelievably much. Remember, this is a fresh start in the life of this year is in your hands. And do not forget to stay busy yet, pretty.