Busy, Yet Pretty - Perfect Things That Make You Feel & Look 'Incredibly Chic'

Episode Date: April 14, 2025

Being Chic is not only a mindset, but also the little, simple joys that add to your lifestyle. In this episode your host, Jadyn Hailey shares whether it's a face mask or an affogato, there are plenty of things you add in your life to feel and look incredibly chic. Tune into this episode with an iced matcha, as you reinvent your lifestyle to make YOU feel incredibly chic.     Become your own dream girl with me!! : - 7AM MORNING ROUTINE | hot pilates, healthy breakfast & working from home - Instagram: Jadyn's Instagram & Busy, Yet Pretty Instagram - Busy, Yet Pretty Groupchat  - Tiktok: @Fairyjadyn - My Amazon Storefront: Jadyn's Storefront - Outfit Details: My Closet   - focus on growing your business Shopify       Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

feedback because we are trying to lock in this spring and just get motivated, get back on track. And like I'd said in that episode, we start a lot of goals and intentions for ourselves in the new year for our new year's intention and goals. And sometimes like within the first few months, we're really motivated. And then we start to dip off around like springtime. And I feel like spring resets can be the perfect way to realign with our goals that we set in the beginning of the year. And honestly, just get us excited. about the new season. I feel like every single season, oh, every single day in general, but every season is a new start and it's just so exciting and we just want to lock into that.

So that's something I've been doing this week. Another thing this week is I have just been planning for summer. Like I said, I'm really, really wanting to go to Nantucket the summer and have a very Nantucketka, New England-esque summer. Nancy Myers, Ina Garden, hosting era summer. so I can't have a summer without going to Nantucket. So I'm really trying to figure out if there's any way I can get there. But let me just say, did you guys realize that going to Nantucket is about 2,000 a night at most places? So that's not a very cheap trip. So still trying to figure out is it worth it or not and what I should do.

And lastly, this summer is I have just been trying to cook at home a lot because I feel like cooking at home. One, it's a really good activity to do because you're off your phone and doing something that's an activity without being strained, straining your eyes to blue light. But I also really enjoy it. So I've been trying to cook at home. I try out some new recipes. And also cooking at home is one of the healthiest things you could do because you know what's going into your food. So I just have been loving that lately. Now on to my current obsessions.

My current obsession at the moment is vanilla bean machas. I love all type of machas, but vanilla bean machas where it has just like a little bit of gritty vanilla bean in it taste absolutely divine. It gives it the best flavor, but also the grittiness, the texture stunning. It's amazing with cashew milk and honey or actually I like maple syrup in mine, but any type of matcha just hand it over to me and perfection. Now on to another cramp session, which is my mad happy pink lace sweat suit. I keep posting of this, but I swear when I like something, like an item of clothing, I will wear it until it becomes shreds. That's my problem is I get fixated on, well, actually on everything. So if it's food, if it's like a drink, a type of sweat set, I can ever just wear

something once and then call it a day. I get so obsessed with it where I'm like, I need to wear this for a week straight because I love it so much. Same with a song. If I love a song, I will listen to the song until it makes my ears hurt. So that's what I'm doing lately with my sweatset. I love it. And my last current obsession right now is well, hello, cherry blossom blush trend. It is the cutest trend. It's when you do like a little cherry blossom look as your blush. And I actually filmed a video on that a little like a week ago. And it came out so cute. I loved it. So yeah, I just love the cherry blossom trend. Now on to the goal of the week. My goal of the week right now is to get back on my five-minute journal.

I was really consistent for about two to three years straight with my five-minute journal, and then I took the last year off from doing that accidentally, and I definitely want to get back into that because it just made me feel so good starting off my morning right and ending it. Another goal of the week right now is to run at least once a week. I love running, not like running where people run a marathon, but I like enjoying running outside, And in my parents' backyard, I was always running in the summer and I loved it. But I do want to just start running, even if it's like a mile or two miles, just run at least once a week just because it's good for your health. And it also just makes you feel good.

And my last goal of the week right now is to practice floral arranging. I just think putting together flowers, getting a few packs from Trader Joe's or any store, and just arranging them just makes you feel so peaceful. and it just looks so beautiful in your kitchen or your home a week long. Now into the self-love question. I want you to ask yourself, how am I showing up today for my future self? I love that question so much because sometimes we will do things that we don't realize actually really benefit us in the future.

And like I always say, your morning routine begins with your night routine. So that's showing up for yourself for your future self. So what are you doing right now that's going to help benefit you in the future? Now on to your affirmation of the week. I am in love with the rawest version of myself. I love that affirmation so much because sometimes we love ourselves all made up. And I mean made up meaning makeup, but also made up meaning how we are just in life. So maybe we're at a good point in life or a good spot in life with our job, our career,

just things in general, our relationships. But also sometimes we get very, you know, have some down days and have some days where we aren't doing our best or we're in a slump and it's time for you to love yourself and the raws version of you and every stage in life now on to your challenge compliment five strangers today i love that challenge so much because i promise you it's going to make other people feel good every single person could use a compliment and not only that it makes you feel good and at the end of the day it makes you want to give out more compliments and make more people feel good now on to the podcast review if you want to be featured on next week's episode and make sure to leave a podcast review over Apple Podcasts

rate over Spotify. Also, if you're a Spotify listener, you guys can actually chat in the comment section on Spotify and I can write back to you. So it's really fun to go do that. But anyways, this review is from Savvy and she said, this podcast has been one of my faves since 2022. I think Jaden is the cutest. I love the can-do energy she has. And I know I can tune to this podcast whenever I need motivation to go after my dream life. Here's the staying busy yet pretty. Thank you so much savvy. I absolutely love, love loved your review and I am so grateful for you listening since 2022. That just makes my day. Also, I always see you in the DMs in the comment section and I am so beyond grateful for you. Now my loves, without further ado, it is time to get into

today's episode. Things that make you feel and look incredibly chic. They come in all different forms. They can come in a physical form, a mental form, a action, a doing. It can be a material form or it can be free of charge. And I think it's important to explore all avenues of that. So I just love the trend on TikTok. I think it's so cute. And I just think it's so fun and makes you feel good. I listen to them while I, like, do my dishes because I think they're just that cute.

So I thought, why not make a podcast episode all about things that make you feel and look incredibly chic that you can listen to any time. just when you need that little spark back. Also, talking about these things can just inspire you to invest in yourself and feel good about yourself. Let me start off by saying you deserve to treat and pamper yourself. And most importantly, you deserve to romanticize your life and romanticize yourself. And this may sound funny or goofy, but it's honestly kind of nice when you view yourself in a third person point of view.

What I mean by that is when you look at a girl on Pinterest or a girl in person and you you're like, oh gosh, look how cute they are. Look at their life. I wish I was like them. I love just their aura, how they act, their energy. Whenever you admire someone like that, you're looking at them from your point of view. And it's kind of nice where when you look at yourself and think about yourself, look at it from a third point of view.

So kind of like take a step back and look at yourself and be like, wow, I'm so cute. I'm so this. And you can kind of become obsessed with yourself and create a little story about yourself. meaning like, oh my gosh, I love how I do these little fun activities, these little fun things that make me feel chic. And you really start to just believe you are. You kind of make a little story in your head being like, you know, look at me, waking up, getting and dancing around my place, getting my macha and going to Pilates, just making

yourself feel good and romanticizing your life like that is going to make you want to invest more in yourself and overall it's going to make you feel good. So what I'm saying is shamelessly become obsessed with yourself, obsessed with your lifestyle, and obsessed with your little routines because why not live a life being happy? You're here. There's nothing wrong with loving you and you should be loving you. But there's nothing wrong with becoming obsessed with yourself and obsessed with your life because we're here. We want to enjoy every bit of it. So enough yapping.

But again, life is about feeling good and you should be excited even about the little things and the simple joys. So let's begin with our very random list of things that are also like just the best inspo, but a list of things that are going to help you feel incredibly chic and look incredibly chic. So these are just all ideas and personal preferences, of course, but let's start throwing them out here. So starting off, a matching PJ set. I'm telling you guys, a matching PJ set is going to make you feel so good. Don't get me wrong. I love, love my PJs that I have that literally.

literally are t-shirts and have holes in them. But at the same time, you kind of need to treat yourself sometimes. Of course, you maybe like your go-to pajamas, and I encourage you to wear them still. But at the same time, maybe after your everything shower, a day you kind of want to feel better about yourself, go put on a cute PJ set for yourself to make yourself feel good. Nobody's singing them but yourself, or maybe someone is. But do things that make you feel and look good for yourself. This is your reminder that PJs.

sets and anything really does not have to be expensive you can go on amazon and find one that's ten to fifteen dollars you can go to tj max i love tj max when it comes to pj sets also a cute little nightgown so chic another thing is robes if you wear a robe in the evening or in the morning so chic i love my robes i have so many where i need to get rid of some because i have too many now but I love robes. I think they're incredibly chic. If you put in some pearl earrings and have your pretty jewelry on while you're just doing your skincare and your robe, eating your Chinese takeout while you're in your robe, anything.

Anything in a robe, so chic. Speaking of jewelry, permanent jewelry or just all day long jewelry, I have a few permanent jewelry items and I do like them. But what I don't like about it is that I feel like, I don't know, I feel like I'm ready to break them always but if you just have any nice jewelry that you can wear all day long just stainless steel jewelry that you can wear in the shower and all day is so chic like i think it's so chic when someone goes to bed with their pearl earrings to me i actually prioritize comfort over feeling cute sometimes so i cannot wear pearl earrings to bed or it hurts me but i think it's so chic to just have your

cute earrings on your cute bracelets on throughout the day all day so chic. Eye mask, under eye mask. The skincare eye mask, so chic. I think it's so chic when you just have a little start to your day, you're drinking your coffee, drinking your matcha, and just slapping on some cute little eye mask under your eyes. It's the perfect way to give yourself some self-care that gives you some like little self-care morning without doing a full-on face mask and everything. I just really makes you feel good. Another thing is having a signature thing that you always carry in your purse. That could be a specific fragrance that you always carry or specific gum. To me, it's an eyelash curler. I will always have one in my purse and just having a little signature thing

that you're known for or just even you know that yourself always has that. So chic. Another thing is aprons. Aprons are so chic. Even if you're not doing some big old dinner, but just cooking up something that takes five minutes, slipping on an apron, protecting your PJ set or your clothes, but it just makes you feel so put together and actually like you're doing an activity in the kitchen. And I love that. Another thing that I think is so incredibly chic when it comes to kitchen decor, but this is a cookie jar. You can get them at home goods, T.J. Max, Home Sense, wherever you go home decor shopping, a cookie jar is just so beautiful, so chic.

And you don't have to always have fresh cookies in there. To me, I love putting tea in my cookie jar so I can just open it up at the food. dinner I get my tea out my peppermint tea and it just looks so chic in a kitchen. I can't be the only one who has this like dream item of theirs that they always see whether it's a bag a sweater a top and you're like I just need that but it's like sold out everywhere. That's me with this one vintage duni and burk bag. I literally was looking everywhere for it and I somehow found one on a posh mark but not just one I found multiple of them at such a good price and I was like, wait, this is just too good to be true.

So if you know me, you know I am a Poshmark girl. Poshmark is a marketplace where you can list and sell, as well as buy new items, vintage pieces, gently used, luxury pieces, they really just have it all. And I feel like there's no better time to go on Poshmark now. Everyone's cleaning out their closet and listing good things. Get in bed, get cozy, and go on Pashmark to add to your new spring wardrobe. New deals and sales are listed every day, so don't wait.

Download the Poshmark app and use code Vashmark. when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase or shop now at poshmark.com slash busy and get $10 off your first purchase that's P-O-S-H-M-A-R-K dot com slash busy I can't be the only one who has this like dream item of theirs that they always see whether it's a bag a sweater a top and you're like I just need that but it's like sold out everywhere that's me with this one vintage duny and brick bag I literally was looking everywhere for it and I somehow found one on a Poshmark but not just one. I found multiple of them at such a good price and I was like, wait, this is just too good

to be true. So if you know me, you know I am a Poshmark girl. Poshmark is a marketplace where you can list and sell as well as buy new items, vintage pieces, gently used, luxury pieces, they really just have it all. And I feel like there's no better time to go on Poshmark now. Everyone's cleaning out their closet and listing good things. Get in bed, get cozy and go in Pashmark to add to your new spring wardrobe. New deals and sales are listed every day, so don't wait. Download the Poshmark app and use code busy when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase or shop now at poshmark.com slash busy and get $10 off your first purchase. That's P-O-S-H-M-A-R-K dot com slash busy. Another thing is clean manicured nails. Personally, I love short nails. I think they're so beautiful

and chic, but when you just have manicured nails, and I'm not talking about necessarily going to the salon, but you could do it at home, even having no nail polish on. Like 99% of the time, I have nothing on my nails except for nail oil. And I just think having clean nails where your cuticles are trimmed up, it just looks so clean and so beautiful. Now, another thing when it comes to cooking, I think is incredibly chic, is following a recipe from a cookbook. We love, of course, our TikTok, our videos, our visual things. I'm a very visual learner. But there is nothing better than reading text from a cookbook, pulling up a cookbook, having it open, reading the cookbook, and following a recipe from that with her cute little apron on. So chic. And don't get me

started with a jazz music playing in the background. Please, literally a dream evening. Next up, flowers in a pitcher. Of course, we always reach for flowers to put them in a vase or, as I should say, a vase. Of course, we love a good, beautiful vase, but what we love even more is a pitcher. If you get a cute, like, vintage pitcher, you go thrift one at the thrift store or you get one from a little home decor place. But if you put flowers in a pitcher, it elevates it so much and just looks so natural. And I just love the look of that. Oh, wait. Okay.

Speaking of Vos, I keep remember thinking of Megan Markle or Megan Duchess of Sussex when I think of the word Voss. But her show, so chic. Okay. Next step is cozy, warm lighting. I think warm light. is so chic instead of bright loud lights and a home cozy warm lighting is so chic also having a lamp in a kitchen or a bathroom so unbelievably chic or even getting a few lamps for your room just looks so beautiful outdoor sports so tennis golf pickleball i pickled balled a few times and i love it very fun

definitely not great at it but i love it but anyone who plays outdoor sports in a cute little tennis skirt or just, I don't know, anything. If you play an outdoor sport, so chic. Like, wow, I aspire to be you. Okay, next up, something that's so chic that everyone can do is have a little daily drink. Whether that's your matcha, your coffee, your kombucha, whatever it is, have your daily drink and put it in a cute little cup, maybe a wine glass even, or a cute little mason jar, so incredibly chic. Mismatched plates are so beautiful.

I love to thrift or just like shop mismatched plates. Of course we love a good set, a little good four count set, but we love nothing more than getting a variety of different plates. So every day you wake up and think, what bowl do I want to put my oatmeal in today? Or what plate do I want to put use for my avocado toast? Having different types of plates and cutlery, it just looks so beautiful in a home. I know that is a very unminimalist type of style. but I used to try to have the minimalist style for a long time. Okay, I'm saying two years, but that was too long because I just crave maximalist style.

I cannot help it. I love different items, different things, and I love variety. I love character. I also love minimalist style on other people's homes, but for me personally, I love character. I love a good little vintage spoon. I love a good little vintage plate. I love something that has a pop of color or a cute little like checkered moment like a McKenzie Child's teapot. I love that.

Another thing is tote bags, but specifically the boat bags, boat tote bags are so beautiful and so chic. If you don't know what I'm talking about, they're basically tote bags like the New England style tote bags. And they have like two parallel stripes as like the handles. And it just looks so chic, so beautiful. Very LL Bean. I love LLB. I think it's so beautiful.

And when I went to the LL Bean store in Maine last year, it pains me that I did not get a monogrammed LL bean bag. So I need to get one ASAP. But I just think they look so incredibly chic. Another thing is having tea after dinner, especially at a restaurant. Maybe you order a steak or a lobster roll or, you know, a random thing. Whatever you order, maybe order a hamburger. Whatever it is, just getting a table.

tea after dinner at the restaurant. Please pass me the peppermint tea. I love that. One time I was out at dessert with my friend Stephanie and we went to the tower bar in West Hollywood, which is a really cute restaurant, but we went for dessert and we ordered a really nice Sunday. It was so good. And then afterwards, she's like, oh, let's get a little cappuccino. And I was like, why? It's so late at night. But then when she got one, I'm like, this is the shakest thing ever. This is a few years ago. And I, ever since then, I was like, a drink after dinner, so chic. Love a cappuccino. Love a tea.

Whatever it is, it pairs perfectly. I kind of mentioned this already, but any drink in a wine glass, I don't drink personally, but I love to put my kombucha or even some orange juice in a wine glass. It just makes it feel so elevated and makes you excited to drink it. I know some of these may sound goofy, but again, we're trying to do anything that just makes us feel good and enjoy the simple joys in life. Next up, being knowledgeable on random things. And what I mean by that is like knowing all different types of cheeses or all different

types of wines or knowing a lot on airlines or knowing how to play chess really well or having the perfect travel recommendations to a certain specific country. Just knowing, like being knowledgeable on one specific thing. Like if I meet someone and they just start breaking out in the conversation how pottery is a thing and how clay is made, I would find that very interesting and just being like, okay, why do you know this? And this is so chic that you know just so much about one random topic. Such as also knowing a different language, knowing a few different languages. I'm so mad that I didn't practice duolingo since I was younger.

Imagine me. I would be, I would be tooting my horn about knowing a second language if I could speak one. Also, another little point. I'm so grateful when I see you guys say that you, enjoy learning English from listening to this podcast. Probably about five times a week I always hear people write into me saying that they learned English from my podcast and it helps them practice their English. And I think that is amazing and I'm just so honored. I also think that's really funny because sometimes I'm a fast talker and hopefully I talk clearly enough. Okay, something else

that is incredibly chic is being in bed early. Something about being in bed post everything shower with your hair just clean, your face all oiled up and all skincared up, fresh sheets with your book. So incredibly chic. Personally, I'm not a fan of night out. I'm always exhausted in the evening and I want nothing more but to watch TV in my robe in bed. But, you know, I just feel like being in bed early is so chic. Another thing is having a pretty show or scenery on in the background of your home while you're doing your work, your homework, or while you're cleaning, whatever it is, just all throughout the day, having a pretty background on your TV.

You could have the With Love Megan show on, or if you go on YouTube, you could search out pretty background jazz music, and it comes out like a pretty scenery. So just having pretty display on your TV throughout the day is so chic. And if you want to be incredibly chic when it comes to you what your clothes, having a sweater draped over your shoulder is so incredibly chic, especially with some pearls, something that is so incredibly chic that if I see a girl in one of these, I instantly am like, look at her go. Like this, she is the vision. She honestly is. But convertibles and do not get me started with a girl in a convertible with a headscarf. So unreal, incredibly chic. That is literally. the vision. That's my vision boards on Pinterest. She's in her own world. She's living life. She's in her pink convertible with her headscarf. Another thing is back to getting in bed early, but reading, having a book in bed or a book by the pool, whatever it is, just having a book, a physical book. Another thing that is really chic that I'm going to hold myself accountable for the summer,

but is host a book club. Book clubs are so incredibly chic and just gathering with your friends, debriefing on the book, So chic. Another thing is cruditate plates, so chic, which that is basically just raw vegetables and dips, crudite plates just upscale any gathering. If you're hosting, having a raw vegetable plate is just a perfect basic that everyone needs. Another thing that is very chic is coffee table books, so chic to just have them out, have coffee table books out on your dresser, your bedside table, especially once. that go with your style.

So maybe you have some home ones, some cookbooks. So chic. Another thing is making your own sourdough. This is not toot my own horn because clearly I've been posting nonstop about my sourdough journey, but just making your own sourdough and then just slavering it with butter and jam. It just knowing that you made it yourself feels so fulfilling and you're really just giving a farmhouse wife to yourself, you're your own wife.

Another thing is having a blanket draped over chairs and beds so beyond beautiful. And I think it's so cute when you get into your chair or your couch. And what you do is you just get your blankets and then you put it on top of the couch. So it's like if you have a white couch, you put the blanket on first. So, you know, you don't get your outside clothes on the couch. So chic. And another thing I think is really chic is having a chair or your bed have a skirt around it. So like a bed skirt or a chair skirt, so beautiful.

I really want to get one for the spring, a new chair, but having a chair or a bed with a skirt, so beyond beautiful. Another thing is gift baskets when your guests come over. If you have people coming over to stay the night or just coming in from out of town, just having a little gift basket for them ready with maybe some cute little jams or some little snacks and some little toiletries. cute little things, just a little gift basket for them is so welcoming and everyone loves it. Another thing that is so chic and I feel like is so thoughtful is always bringing a little hosting gift to whoever's house you're invited to.

So maybe your friend invites you over to her house and it's so chic to just give them a little something. It could be a plant. It could be a bottle of wine if they drink a cookbook. Whatever it is, it just makes them feel like you thought. out of them and that you were grateful that you were invited and I just think it's so chic to do that and polite. Another thing when it comes to your bed that's something that's so chic is having a lot of pillows when you just pile up a million different lines of pillows on your bed is so chic and then you give it after you make your bed you give it a little karate chop and the pillow to make it

have the little like slant so beautiful. It just feels like you're in a hotel. Sunglasses and doors. so chic not all the time of course go be present if you're talking to someone and you have your sunglasses on inside and they're talking to you about like a sensitive topic i would suggest you take your sunglasses off and be respectful but if you're inside indoors and someone has sunglasses on i just i look at them i'm like you know that's so chic i love that another thing is herb plants in your home so maybe having some basil or some oregano growing in your home is so incredibly chic you can put it in your kitchen or your windowsill and i just think it looks so beautiful and bonus if you have a garden outdoors so so chic and you can just get your little herbs before you

make your dinner from outdoors that is the goal dog in a purse i feel like that speaks for itself so we'll move on farmers markets so chic i love just getting going to the farmer's market and getting your cute little basket and not just a tote bag. Get yourself a wicker basket and go to the farmer's market, like a traditional fruit basket. I think it's so chic and just so classic and farmhouse and cute. But going to the farmer's market, supporting small businesses and also trying out new things, is so nice. It starts your weekend off on a right note and it also just makes you feel like more excited to cook with those items. Direct eye contact is so incredibly chic. Not only is it a great skill, but it displays confidence.

So I really encourage you to try doing that. I'm telling you I have practiced that for years. And I don't even realize that I'm making eye contact now because I'm just staring them so deeply in their eyes when they're talking that I don't even realize they do it now. It's like a second nature. It's like just a habit. And it's a great skill to have. So I really recommend you trying to do that. Another thing is staying organized.

When your external is organized, your internal, meaning your mind is organized. So make sure your space is clean and organized and your internal, which is your brain, your mindset is going to be more organized. That is so chic. Another thing is having a set workout routine. That could not be me. I swear one week I will go to multiple different Pilates classes and heated workout classes. then for like three weeks I'm doing nothing but sitting because I'm busy but someone who has a very

set workout routine and it's just non-negotiable for them that you know they're Wednesday Pilates class at 8 a.m and their mach a afterwards that's so chic something else that is so chic is being confident with the plans that you don't have yet what I mean by that is if you're wanting to move to a certain city speaking it into existence speaking as if it's actually happening I'm not meaning lie to someone be like, oh yeah, I'm moving in this date. But you could say, oh, yeah, I'm moving soon. I'm moving soon here. Even though you don't have a plan necessarily yet, it's speaking it into existence and just being confident in yourself knowing that will happen. So I just think it's so she. And if you think that doesn't work, let me prove you wrong. When I lived in San Diego, I remember I would go to events in

L.A. for work. And I would tell people all the time, yeah, I'm moving to L.A. in the fall. I'm moving to LA in the fall. I had not one plan, not one sense of direction how I was getting there or how I was moving there. And my parents are like, you're not going to be moving in the fall yet. That's too soon. I kid you not. I ended up signing my lease the first week of fall and moving in and fall. It happens when you speak it into existence. Another example of speaking it into existence is maybe that you're wanting to get a house soon, but you cannot even afford a house yet. But just keep saying to yourself, oh yeah, I'm going to get my house sooner, telling people, yeah, I'm trying to look at houses soon because it's really going to help you speak that into reality. Something that is incredibly

chic is pretty hairbrushes. My favorite ever are the MEJ ones. I will not shut up about their brushes. I love them so much. And no, I'm not being paid to say this. I've never been paid to talk about MEJ. I just think their products are just so beautiful. Pretty hair brushes, pretty combs, are just going to make you excited to do your hair. routine and to do your little self-care rituals. Another thing that is incredibly chic is teacups and specifically teacups with saucers when you just get a cute little maybe camille tea and then have a little cookie on the saucer. So chic. Something else that is so chic is hosting dinner parties with your friends and family, getting people together and just having a nice like laugh at dinner

is so chic and I love that and I just think human connection is amazing and we lack it. We lack because we're such on our phone all the time. And being able to host dinner parties and being a hostess is so, so chic. Another thing that is so chic is trench coats. Button to the top, of course. But trench coats are so beautiful and it just looks so classy. I'm trying not to use the word chic anymore because I know you guys are probably tired of hearing that word, but let's be honest.

Everything we're talking about is incredibly chic. Another thing is having lunch at hotels. I think that is just so classy. And being able to just to go have lunch at a hotel looks so pretty and it makes you feel good. Take yourself on a solo date there, a little treat. You don't have to order a five-star meal. You can just go order a little coffee even and just sit there at the hotel. Something else I think is incredibly chic, truly incredibly chic, is going into a hotel or a restaurant

and the staff knowing your name and knowing you like you're a regular. Oh my gosh. That is so chic. when I have that start happening to me, I just feel so flattered. I feel so chic. I'm blushing because it just makes me feel so good. And when you just are a regular somewhere, it makes you feel chic. That's also me at cafes. I go to a lot of the same cafes and I order the same thing where I don't even have to say my order anymore. I just feel like, oh my gosh, thank you. Thank you for remembering me and I remember you speaking of restaurants and staff when it comes to staff at hotels restaurants

wherever it is but being polite being polite is so chic when you're treating the server treating the whoever it is you're working with it is so not just not even chic it's human respect to be polite i swear the amount of girls i've been to like i've gone to dinner with and hung out with and they are so rude to the people serving them I just think that is disgusting. And honestly, anytime I go to lunch or dinner, and I see someone starting to be like that towards a server or whatever it is, when they're not giving human respect of being polite

or treating the valet people like they are lower than them, I instantly do not want to hang out with them more. I don't because I just think that's so rude and disgusting. So, of course, I'm saying it's chic to be nice to people, to be nice to waiters and servers and everything, but it's not even chic. It's human respect. Sorry, I went off on a tangent there,

but I honestly think it's so disgusting when you treat someone rude. And if you notice someone like that, doing that to somebody, even if this is a guy, you're on a date with a guy maybe, and they're treating the server or the person who's helping you out rudely,

instantly claim that as a red flag because they're looking at them lower as them and, oh, sorry, it, like, actually gives me such an ick when people are rude to people. Like, it's also so respectful to when your server or whoever's helping you out is you're calling them by their name, asking them their name, saying their name, and, you know, throughout the time they're helping you because they're human, they're helping you. You should be kind to them. Another thing that is so chic is eating in balance.

And what I mean by balance, because you may be thinking, oh, what I mean by balance is less processed food. I'm not necessarily meaning that. I'm meaning not restricting. It is so chic when you go to a restaurant and you order yourself all the dessert you want. And that's chic. And maybe you eat in moderation. You eat those things in moderation.

So you're going to eat healthy the majority of the time, maybe 80, 20, but or 70, 30. But you're allowing yourself to have your cravings. Allow yourself to have your sweet tree. Order yourself that cake in the morning. if you want. Being able to treat yourself and enjoy the sweet treats, enjoy the processed foods, even if it's not the healthiest things, is so chic because you respect yourself, you have balance, and you know that you have control of yourself. Another thing that I think is so chic is offigados. Hopefully I'm saying that right, but it's basically coffee on top of ice cream or maybe

a matcha on top of ice cream, but having a coffee or espresso on top of ice cream is so chic. are honestly the most chic dessert aside from taramisu. Lastly, something that I think is incredibly chic is jazz music. Jazz music just feels so chic, especially if it's a live jazz music band playing at a restaurant or even if you have it on TV at home. It just makes you feel so put together, so elegant and incredibly chic. I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I did because now I'm feeling like I need to go have an incredibly chic evening. These are just little things that are simple joys that you can do for yourself and just to make you feel good. It makes you feel good. It makes you look good. And it just honestly helps us enjoy

life even more. I want to know what makes you feel incredibly chic. So please repost this to your TikTok and your Instagram and show the episode on your story and Instagram. But tell me what makes you feel incredibly chic because I want to know what makes you feel incredibly chic. even if that's a face mask, going to a restaurant, whatever it is. And also, if you made it this far in the episode, comment a fairy emoji on my recent Instagram post because I love to see who listens to the full episodes. Anyways, I love you so much. I'm so beyond grateful for you.

You deserve to feel incredibly chic. And you are incredibly chic. And most importantly, do not forget to stay busy yet pretty. M-a.