Busy, Yet Pretty - School Is Temporary: Bullying, Friends, Self Worth & My Experience
Episode Date: January 16, 2023One thing many people forget, as they're in school is that: SCHOOL IS TEMPORARY. It's easy to be caught up dwelling on hard days at school or possibly participatining in drama, but regardless... how you feel, you are not alone. In this episode your host, Jadyn Hailey shares her school experinces from being physically bullied, to being homeshcool, to living her dream life. Tune into this podcast with a matcha latte with almond milk & a sense of comfort to know, you're not alone. Jadyn's Social Media platforms: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jadynhaileyy/ & https://www.instagram.com/busyyetpretty/ - Youtube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCx48PsDdAossgZjWWnXbvvg - Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@fairyjadyn - Shop my Closet on Motom: http://www.motom.me/?referral_id=2otTRBb5O&client_group_token=c2cad9169bb6afa9af7a4b70abf24aad - My Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/jadynhaileyy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Hello, dolls. If you are currently listening to the podcast, I want you to stop right now and acknowledge
that we are doing a video podcast. Finally, funny story why we're here doing this now randomly
all of a sudden doing video episodes is because I am living by the quote for 2023,
launch fast, perfect later. And you know, I was waiting for the quote right moment to start doing
video episodes. And you know what? When is it going to be the right time? It'll never be the right
time. So you know what? We're starting today and I'm very excited. We have an exciting episode to talk
about today. So I'm very excited and let's get into today's weekly review. So this week,
I've been really trying to master being consistent with my healthy habits. As you know,
my previous episode was on creating new routines and healthy habits and I have had.
a really good time this year so far trying to stay with my routine. I know it's really easy to
lose track of your routine throughout the end of the year. And that's why I feel like the new year is
just so rewarding. But remember, it's never too late to start having healthy habits. So
it doesn't matter what area of the year you're at, what time of the day, start the healthy habits
now. It's better to start tomorrow the next week and it's better to start today than tomorrow.
Another thing is I began daily journaling, which has been going really nice as well.
I am just making it so it's not a big deal.
For those who want to journal, I found this to be really nice when I don't make myself journal like three paragraphs.
I'll journal like one to five sentences about my day or whatever I'm thinking, whatever I want to journal.
When you make yourself do a certain amount of sentences, it can become way too overwhelming.
So I really recommend just doing like one to five sentences.
And it's quick, easy, can literally be in a few minutes.
Another weekly review is I've been trying new restaurants out.
I'm such a restaurant girl.
Don't get me started.
I love trying new places.
I just love trying new restaurants, especially from moving.
I think that's made me really excited to try new places.
So I've been loving that.
Another weekly review is I have been waking up at 5 a.m. every single day.
I am so proud of myself because I was doing that about last year.
I kind of like fell out of my routine and I finally have gotten back into it.
And it's been so rewarding.
I do it not only to be productive just to get more time in my day.
I love to like look outside in the morning, journal everything.
So I just feel like it's so rewarding.
And I've been happy.
I've been sticking with that.
Okay.
Another thing this week is I created a Geneva group chat for all my busy at pretty girls.
If you don't know what Geneva is, it's an app where basically
everyone can talk on multiple different chat rooms.
And I made a ton of different chat rooms in routines, habits, food, school work, fitness, style, motivation, all of that.
And I see you guys talk literally every second, all those group chats, just supporting each other.
And it makes me so happy.
I see you guys like sending each other your vision board.
And I'm like, oh my gosh, I love the busy at pretty community so much.
So if you want to go join that, I have it in my link tree in my bio.
Okay, moving on to current obsessions.
So right now, my current obsession is magnesium moon juice.
I love taking magnesium.
It's been so good for my sleep and energy.
It's definitely something that I recommend to anyone.
If you are wanting more energy throughout the day, magnesium is your go-to.
Okay, another current obsession is yogurt bowls.
I know you guys know.
how much I love yogurt bowls if you follow me on Instagram.
This girl has one every single morning, but I love them so much.
They are so good.
Another current obsession is not just waking up early, but seeing the sunrise.
I love seeing the sunrise.
I think it's so relaxing, but I just love when it's dark in the morning.
I love it to be pitch black when I wake up and then I get to see the sunrise.
And that's when I like to journal and just like meditate.
So I love that.
Okay, another current obsession is stretching in the morning.
I feel like this has helped me a lot, recover from workouts, and just feeling good throughout the day,
just waking up, doing a little stretch.
It takes like five minutes, and it just feels so nice.
So I've been loving that.
I will stretch on my yoga mat, which is so cute.
It's pink.
So I swear, guys, if you romanticize your life, your life will become 10 times better.
Actually, no, 100 times better.
And let me tell you why.
It will make you excited to do things.
It will make you happier.
And you'll actually do the damn thing.
Okay.
Because if my yoga mat wasn't pink, maybe I wouldn't be waking up at 5 a.m.
every day doing my little stretches.
But you know what?
That little thing makes me excited.
So romanticize your life.
That's your lesson of the day.
Okay.
Moving on to my goal of the week.
My goal of the week is to start planning ahead.
I have been doing this lately.
I really want to start planning like a month.
because that can really help me just be more aligned because if you make a deadline for yourself,
you will get it done.
For instance, if you want to have read a book, say you're going to read this many pages this day,
this many pages this day, make it a goal for yourself to actually plan it out because that
will help you achieve things so much faster and easier when you stick the schedule.
Okay, another goal of the week is to try a new recipe.
I just made the best shrimp tacos.
they were so good.
And instead of using sour cream,
I like made my own with a Greek yogurt and it was amazing.
I'll drop the recipe very soon.
But I just want to try a new recipes out.
I love cooking and I love baking.
Baking used to be my favorite.
But now I think it's cooking.
I just love cooking lately.
But that's definitely another goal of the week.
Another goal of the week that I want to incorporate is being more present and absorbing information.
It's really easy.
for things to go in one ear or the other.
But like there's so much valuable information.
And if we literally listen, we can learn so, so, so much.
So I really want to take time to be more present and absorb information.
Okay.
Lastly, my goal of the week is to reach out to people and to let people know that I'm thinking
of them.
I get so happy and feel so loved when, let's say, a friend or let's say a family member or
someone you haven't talked to in a while,
reaches out to me and it was like,
hey, I was thinking of you, hope you're doing well.
That makes my day.
So I want to start doing this more
every other day or so.
Just reach out to someone, tell them I'm thinking of them,
and I appreciate them.
So it's a really good way to be mindful of others,
and I just love it.
Okay, now moving on to a self-love question to ask yourself.
So this question is,
How have you shown love to yourself this year
that you haven't shown yourself before?
I love that so much because this year is for self-love, self-care.
So I think it's super nice to be mindful and acknowledge what you've done for yourself this year.
Okay, guys, I'm opening the Geneva group chat and we are going to pick a review to read off.
So the review of this week is from Madeline.
Madeline said, Busy yet Pretty has been such a positive influence on my life.
Jaden, girl, I cannot think you enough.
When I first started listening to the podcast, I was going through one of the worst downfalls of my life.
Busy yet Pretty has given me the motivation to keep going and creating the life of my dreams.
I am now pursuing modeling and content creating.
Now next to my goals is collabing with the lovely Jaden Haley.
Madeline, your review was so sweet and that made my day to first see how your success story was so beautiful,
how you've always dreamed of modeling and content creating, and that's what you are now.
So I am just so happy to hear that.
And I'm sure you will be on the podcast very soon one day.
If you want to share your busy at Pretty Success story, please feel free to download the Geneva app.
Okay.
And now the affirmation of this week.
Today's affirmation is you don't have to be extreme.
You have to be consistent.
I live by that because it's so true.
If you begin to become way too extreme on yourself, you're not going to have fun, doing your routines, doing your day.
life. You literally have to be simple and consistent and that's the way to progress. Okay, now moving
on to the weekly challenge. So my challenge for you guys this week is reach out to somebody that you
love or haven't talked to in a while and let them know that you're just thinking of them and you
appreciate them and you love them. I think it's really easy to forget to do that. And when you
do that to someone, it can be the most impacting thing on their day, even they're weak. So I really
recommend you do that. Okay, guys, let's get into today's episode, which is on school is temporary.
I'm going to talk about my experience. We're going to talk about bullying, friends, self-worth.
So without further ado, let's get into the episode. I thought this was a good topic to talk about
today because we're getting back into school. I know we were all on Christmas break and
holiday break. So I know most of you guys are going back to school, whether that's college, high,
school, middle school, whatever grade or whatever part of school you're in, or maybe like me,
you're not in school right now. So if you've had past experiences like this, it could be some
sort of comfort to be relatable. So I hope this episode helps someone a lot because this has been
something that I feel like has shaped me to who I am now. So let's get into it. Let me start off
saying before you think, um, my experience.
in high school and middle school was good. It literally wasn't. It was awful. I know it does not look
like that now or that I would have that past, but let me tell you, it was not fun at all. So if you
are struggling with that right now or have struggled with that in the past, you are not alone.
To give you guys a brief run down, in sixth grade is where everything started. And I began to be
physically and verbally bullied, physically meaning, like,
like thrown against lockers and it's so weird thinking about it because I look at my life now and I'm
like, how was that me before? How did I get here? Like how, how it just blows my mind. But it really
just shows how much those experiences have shaped me to who I am now and has made me become such a
strong person. So we will talk about that. But back to what I was saying, went off on a little
tangent there. Middle school was definitely the worst for me. I went to a public middle school and
I very early on to the school year, I was starting to get physically bullied where I would be
thrown into lockers. I didn't have any friends at the time. I even got as far as getting death
threats and sitting in the bathrooms during school eating my lunch because, you know, it was an
easy hiding place and not just in the bathrooms. I mean legs propped up sitting on the
toilet seat eating my food. That was just a little brief summary of my experience, but let me say
if I have had this experience and turned out to who I am now and led me to so many opportunities
and turned out, I would say pretty okay, then you definitely can too. You have to realize I am no
different than you and you are not alone. It's really easy to look at someone on social media and be like,
why couldn't my life be like theirs or my life can't be like theirs because this is my
current reality. I've been through those experiences. I've been bullied. I've been picked on.
I've had those physical and verbal bullying experiences and I'm no different than you.
That's why you may see my life now and never imagined that I would have had those experiences,
but I have. And you know, a lot of us in the world have had similar experiences, which is why
it's so good to know that you're not alone and you're going to get through this.
Those experiences shaped who I am today.
As bad as it was, I truly believe I was meant to experience those experiences so I could help
someone else.
Also, I hate the word bullying, but that's the only word I can really think of because
I just don't like the word because I think it's really overused and not used properly.
But you know what?
We're going to use it today.
If you've ever experienced bullying, no matter the degree of how bad you think it was or maybe how little you think it was, or if you felt alone before, which I'm sure you all have.
According to an online study, 73% of students have experienced some sort of form of bullying in their life.
73%. That is a high percentage.
When you're in the moment of having people pick on you or getting bullied, that current situation feels so bad and it feels like the world is just,
just caving in on you.
I remember in high school where I wasn't getting bullied.
I just was, you know, more getting picked on.
I went to a private school.
And I remember not wanting to get out of the car so bad.
It feels like just yesterday where I was pulling up to the front of the school with my mom.
And she didn't know what was happening at the time.
And she was like, okay, get out of the car.
Have a good day at school.
I'm like, no, I'm not going.
I would literally have so many excuses why I could not go to school today.
I was just like, I do not want to go.
I was just so scared to get out of the car and to face head on with those experiences.
And I remember every single night of school since middle school and high school because I had two bad experiences.
I would literally cry on my bedroom floor, wanting just a miracle to happen.
And just I was so sad.
I was sobbing and I was so sad.
And I just wanted to be done.
I hated school.
Like I didn't have a good school experience.
And I mean, I know a lot of people don't and a lot of people also do.
I just wanted those kids who didn't really have any friends, wasn't happy, didn't have straight A's, was getting picked on and just hated school.
And literally of a blink of an eye.
I now live in a different city and I live my dream life.
In both middle school and high school, I was very insecure.
I was not confident.
and what you see now when you look at me,
I am not the same person I was in middle school or high school.
I'm literally my younger self's idol.
But when we're younger, things also feel so much more deeper than they are.
What's in front of you feels like the only thing that matters.
I look back and I'm like, oh my gosh, looking at a big picture,
it was not as big as it felt.
I wish I could have gone back and had more confidence to stand up for myself.
but you know when you're that age,
you also don't see it the same way as you do when you're older.
Let me just say if someone is bullying you or picking on you,
it's because you aren't holding yourself to be confident.
No matter how true the fact of you're not going to be picked on if you're confident is,
I still would not have listened to that as my younger self
because I just couldn't build up the confidence.
But I promise you, when you value yourself and you love yourself,
You will notice a difference how people treat you.
People will treat you how you treat you.
Depending on how you carry yourself and how you show yourself love is how other people will view you.
And this is the honest truth that a lot of people, I know always say it's very cliche, but if people are taking time out of their day to dim your candle in hopes to make theirs brighter, regardless if they are the most physically attractive person out there, if they're popular, if they're popular, if,
They act like they absolutely love themselves.
But if they need to bring someone down to bring themselves up, they are struggling with
their own issues.
And I can swear to you on it.
And I know it doesn't feel like that because you're looking at the popular person who's
making fun of you.
And you're wondering, no, they love themselves.
They're not insecure.
I promise you deep down, there's something they are struggling with that they want from you.
I learned that the hard way where, you know what?
A lot of people who were making fun of me wanted something.
from me, whether it was my healthy home life, whether it was having supportive parents.
People who are doing that are literally going through their own issues.
Even if it doesn't seem like that, I promise you that's the case.
They want what they don't have.
Whatever they're lacking, they are wanting.
If they don't have a happy home life, they want your healthy, happy home life.
If they don't have pretty hair, they want your pretty hair.
If they don't have a nice car, then they want your nice car.
But you know what?
The only way that's going to make them feel better is dimming your light.
And let's say it's not even necessarily something that they are jealous of and wanting from you.
But I promise you regardless, they have their own issues.
Someone who is a happy and content person does not bring others down.
And I know that's hard to swallow and to think about.
But I promise you, if you are happy in your life and you are satisfied with who you are.
And if you love yourself, you will not bring someone down.
And if someone brings you down, it's because they are insecure, jealous, and unhappy with their life.
And it's so easy to think like, why do they choose me?
Why did they choose me to make fun of?
You are allowing them to do it.
You are being too accessible to get to.
If you show yourself, self-love, self-care, and have confidence, oh, they're not coming near you.
And I promise you they'll think twice.
You know what?
The person who's picking on you, they're not going to go pick on.
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You know why?
Because that person displays that they love themselves.
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Do you ever wonder why popular people are popular?
It's because popular people portrayed others that they love themselves.
Even if they don't love themselves deep down, but they act like they love themselves,
that makes people love them.
Someone acting like they love themselves, their peers will not know the difference.
They will not know the difference if that person deep down really loves themselves or they're just putting on a show.
As hard as it sounds, carry yourself with confidence.
Chin up, shoulders back, and act like you love yourself.
Even if you're not confident, act confident because I promise you once you begin doing that,
you will see a difference as hard as it is, as nerve-wracking it is to put your shoulders back, lift your chin up, and act confident.
You will see a difference with how people treat you.
People don't want to bully people and make fun of people who aren't accessible.
They want who's available and who's unwilling to fight back.
Become unavailable and they will not have access to you.
I know it's so much easier said than done though because I was in that position before as well.
My middle school experience was super bad in sixth grade, as I was saying, and I ended up actually being homeschooled for a while.
Schools should not feel scary and should not feel unsafe.
When I said I did homeschool, I did homeschool for a while, and then I did online school.
I tried probably like four to five multiple different online and homeschool options because those were difficult as well to get into and to get started with.
But if homeschool and online school is an option for you, I literally recommend it if you
are having a hard time.
But of course, like with homeschool, it also has its negatives.
Like, I was homeschooled and I did online school because me had just been with a ton of kids
who are bullying me and now I'm secluded from kids and I am at my home doing work, not seeing
anyone.
That led me to really bad social anxiety.
It's like I wasn't able to win.
So online and homeschool definitely has a lot.
downsides as well. But nowadays, I feel like online school is so accessible and I feel like a
huge majority of the people actually do do that. So I really do recommend it if you are trying to find
a different option to try out. And if that's possible, I really recommend it. But like I said,
I went from 100% of the time seeing kids and people not being nice to me to then seeing zero
kids, staying home all the time and not wanting to be social ever. So if you are homesome,
schools are doing online school, I think it's so necessary to sign up for outside activities,
which I'll get into talking about soon. But after doing homeschool and online school and middle
school, I ended up going to a private high school, which didn't go great as well, a lot better
than middle school. There was only like 50 people in all four grades. And a lot of those people
had their established friend groups and I didn't have many friends. It just goes to show how you can't
ever judge a book by its cover because things I used to do, I would look at a celebrity and be like,
oh my gosh, their life is perfect.
I am sad because my life is not like that.
Guess what?
A lot of them had those experiences when they were my age, okay?
You aren't seeing everything happen.
And there are more people getting bullied in your school than you can even know.
Okay?
You're just not saying it.
And let's say you aren't getting bullied, but you feel like someone so is,
talking about you in a friend group is talking about you, they're not. Okay. Lower your ego.
Something I learned is that the world doesn't actually revolve around me. It, okay, it actually does,
but like to the reality of the real world, it doesn't. So you know what? Um, Sarah and Audrey
over there are not actually talking about you, okay? Because you're not on their mind. You know what's
on their mind is themselves, okay? Everybody wants to talk about themselves and everybody
loves themselves, most likely they are not talking about you.
And you know what?
If they are, then so be it.
What is that going to change in this world if they want to talk about you?
What is that going to change in your life that if they go talk about you that your life is
so negatively affected where, you know, the world's over?
No.
Because you know what?
One day they will be in your DM request saying, hey, remember when we were friends, let's hang out.
No, babe.
You are not my friend. And guess what? That's a true story. A lot of the people who are rude to me are on my DM request now.
Regardless where you are in your school life, I want you to remember one thing.
This is the smallest point of your life. It is so temporary. And I know it feels like it's so long and every day feels like it's 48 hours.
But I promise you, in a blink of an eye, you will be living your dream life away from school.
Not with these people. You won't even know these people that you're with.
In the moment, it feels like it's the only thing that matters, but really look at the big picture.
This is so small.
This is your school life.
Okay?
You know what?
It's tiny.
It's small.
And guess what?
In a few years or maybe a year, whenever you're going to be done with school,
you can change your life and live the life you desire, okay?
School is so temporary.
There's so much more to life out there than school.
Okay?
Literally, school feels like so many years ago.
In reality, it was only a few years ago for me.
And you know what?
Just a few years ago, I was sitting on the bathroom toilet, eating my sandwich in the stall.
Now, sitting right now in my perfect chairs that I bought for my perfect apartment, that I now live in my dream city overlooking the most beautiful view of Los Angeles, California.
And I have a million opportunities going for me every single day.
And guess what?
Those people who are all mean to me, I see them in my DM requests.
They once made my life a living hell and made my life so hard.
And you know what?
I'm now living the life they would dream to have.
Let's say maybe you didn't experience bullying necessarily,
but are having a difficult time actually making friends.
This is definitely for you.
I personally never liked drama.
I was never one into drama.
I actually hated it because I feared my name being in someone else's mouth so much.
So I hated drama.
One of the best ways to make friends at school is signing up for clubs.
So let's say there's an art club and you love art.
Go sign up.
You will meet people there who love art as well and you guys can bond.
Let's say you love dance.
Go try out for the dance team at school.
Sign up for clubs and sign up for the sports that you love at the school because I promise you,
you will meet lots of other people who like the same things and you could become good friends
with those people.
Quick little break, I wanted to tell you guys about my friends who have a podcast.
called Teenager Therapy. Teenager Therapy is a coming-of-age story told in real life time.
It's a collection of mistakes, growth, and most importantly, feeling like you're not alone.
And let me tell you, there are some of the most genuine people out there.
The podcast features a group of friends who have candid conversations about their experiences
as college students. They've discussed topics such as healing from a breakup, losing their virginity,
and just feeling loved. It's a show that's meant to provide comfort in a sense of community
for those who are going through the same issues.
They are just so real and raw,
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So you can listen now on Spotify and everywhere else.
Another thing I recommend is signing up for also activities and stuff outside of school
because it's also nice to meet people from outside of school
because school is limited and you only have so many people.
If you like yoga, sign up for a yoga class outside of school.
If you like fashion, go find some fashion design classes outside of school.
Look outside of school because I promise you there is so much more than what's inside of school. Okay. Look outside of school. Okay. There's the world. There's so much out there. You are in a bubble. You were only with, let's say, a few hundred thousand people at your school. Okay. That's a very small amount of options to find a best friend from, okay? Or to find any friends from. Okay. Look outside. Look outside of school. Sign up for some activities. And I promise,
you, you will meet people who actually align with your interest. And something I cannot stress
enough is be proud of what you like. Be confident in your interest and hobbies. If you are
insecure about your interest in hobbies, you will not meet someone else who also enjoys that.
Okay. Stand proud of what you like. And if you stand proud and are confident and tell people
what hobbies you like and what your interests are, you may meet the most perfect person who has
those exact same interests.
But let's say that you kept it in and you're too embarrassed to tell people what you like,
then guess what?
You won't know what's out there.
Another thing is don't talk bad about others if you don't want to be talked about.
It doesn't matter if you hate Becky over there.
Don't talk about Becky if you don't want to be talked about by Becky, okay?
Don't talk about people if you don't want to be talked about by them.
Just feels dirty to talk about someone else, okay?
Think positively.
If someone is talking bad about someone, change the subject,
or try to find something nice about that person.
Drama is so 2013.
Please just leave it in the past.
Those who are still into drama and making fun of people
literally need to get a life.
There is so much more to do with your time
than talk about the girl over there.
If you're struggling with social anxiety
and are self-conscious to meet new people,
remember they are a new person
and they only know as much as you show and tell them.
You have to act confident.
I tell people this,
regarding job interviews, if let's go say you're going to go interview for a job,
the person who you're getting interviewed by knows nothing about your past life.
They know not one thing.
They only know what you display.
If your shoulders are crunched and you're looking down and you seem insecure,
they're going to know you're an insecure person.
But you know what?
If you walk in there and you actually deep down are insecure and unconfident,
doesn't matter.
But if you walk in there with confidence, having your chin up, shoulders back,
and acting like you're confident,
they will never know that you're insecure
and not confident to begin with.
People are drawn to confident people who love themselves.
Think of two objects in front of you, okay?
Think of one phone that is shattered,
it doesn't work good, and it's ugly.
Then think of a brand new phone, beautiful glass,
and it works perfectly fine.
You'd obviously pick to have the one
that's the new phone that works great,
the pretty glass screen,
rather than the broken screen and the one that doesn't work.
You'd pick the one that has the ability to work properly.
Those are both just phones.
Just like the end of the day, we all are human.
It comes down to what you display.
That displayed brokenness,
and this phone displayed confidence and ability to work.
That broken phone is nothing.
You can just throw that away.
Don't be the broken phone, okay?
Don't let someone just throw you away.
You are so worthy,
and even if it doesn't feel like that,
you are. That's an example of people are attracted to what you display. So if you're displaying
insecurities, no one's going to want to choose you for a job or no one's going to want to be drawn
to be friends with you. Act like you're confident and people will be drawn to you. Like I said,
I was crying on my bedroom floor so sad that I had to go to school every single day. I just kept
looking for the positive. I kept looking for the positive. I knew my future was going to be good.
I knew I was going to live my dream life.
And guess what?
I actually did.
It doesn't matter the extent of how people treat you
or whether they call you ugly
or if they push you to the floor into a locker.
It doesn't matter the extent of bullying you have.
No matter what, you just need to stand your ground.
Be inaccessible and continue to look towards the future.
There is so much in store for you guys.
And I promise you if you keep looking for the positive,
you will live a positive life.
And I promise you that because I would have never thought I would have been where I am today
if I didn't just keep on looking for the positive.
I did and I am the best version of myself.
I'm so happy and I love my life.
And this has came from someone who's had bad experiences at school.
I love you guys so much.
And I hope this episode really helped you guys because I know how hard it can be at school.
And feeling like you're alone, feeling like the world is against you.
And I promise you, I love you.
and there is so much in store for you.
This is the smallest point of your life,
whether you're in college right now,
high school, middle school,
whatever point of school that you're in,
or even just having a hard time
recovering from past bad experiences at school.
Promise you, it's so temporary
and it's all going to pass
and just keep looking towards the positive.
You will become the best version of yourself.
I love you guys so much.
Don't forget to join the Geneva group chat.
I have it linked.
in my link tree and I just adore you guys.
You guys are my life.
Please, please, please share this episode over your socials.
And you know, of course, I will repost if you tag me.
I love you guys so much.
Thank you for tuning into the first video episode from my new place.
So I love you guys so much.
And don't forget to stay busy at pretty.
