Busy, Yet Pretty - You Are Meant To Be Here.

Episode Date: September 25, 2023

Regardless how hard life may feel, You Are Meant To Be Here. There is so much for you life, it's time to realize this purpose. In this epiode you're host, Jadyn Hailey shares why YOU are meant to be here. Tune into this episode with a pumpkin spiced latte with almond milk and lot's of love for yourself. My favorite clothing pieces at the moment Jenni Kayne 15% code: BUSY Jadyn's Social Media platforms: - NEW: Productive Day In My Life: WATCH   - Instagram: Jadyn's Instagram & Busy, Yet Pretty Instagram   - Busy, Yet Pretty Groupchat    - Tiktok: Jadyn's Tiktok   - My Amazon Storefront: Jadyn's Amazon   - Shop my Closet on Motom: Jadyn's Closet Favs   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hello, my dolls. Welcome back to the Busy Yet Pretty Podcast. I'm your host, Jaden Haley. I am very excited for today's episode and I feel like this episode is meant for everyone, wherever you're at in life, however old you are. And this episode is truly just meant to give a reminder to you your purpose of life. So without further ado, let's get straight into the weekly review. This week, I have been in and out of urgent care in the hospital and this has been one of the most mentally and physically exhausting weeks of my life. And I feel like this experience really prompted my idea for this episode because I just had such a strong realization. But this week has been so hard.

I basically have been having a lot of chest pains, not sure if it was my heart. And then when I went into the hospital, every single EKG was coming out abnormal. So that was really scary. So I had to get a test done and x-ray to make sure I was okay. But everything was okay on the test. but I still not feeling great. So I'm really just taking things slow and taking every day one by one.

I'm really just trying to prioritize my health right now and live in the present. Another thing this week is it has been raining and it is officially fall and it just really feels like fall now. I'm just so excited for the chillier weather and all the cute sweaters. I'm going to be wearing this fall with my cute boots.

I am just so excited. Moving on to my current obsession. My current obsession is cereal and protein cereal to be exact. And I also am obsessed right now with peanut butter jelly sandwiches. Literally so funny, but I love it being soft bread with almond butter and then I make jam out of fruit myself. But somehow I managed to eat six peanut butter jelly sandwiches today. It really just made me channel my inner younger self. Another current obsession right now is yoga.

pants. As you guys know, if you've been here for a while, I live in yoga pants during the cold weather. To me, they're just so comfortable and cute. I love them. Another current obsession is fall clothing. As you guys know, my last episode, I was talking all about fall inspo and how I'm really trying to revamp my fall wardrobe. And when I think of fall and just a classy look, I think of one brand. And that is Jenny Kane. I have been obsessed with their pieces for sports. long, it just gives the most classy, chic yet effortless look from their cashmere sweaters to their timeless home decor. I am guilty of literally browsing through their website and using it as fall inspo. To me, Jenny Kane is the picture perfect fall girl aesthetic. Not only

are their pieces so beautiful, but Jenny Kane has the most comfortable clothing ever. And it's time for you to find the most perfect fall forever pieces at jenicane.com and the busy at pretty listeners are going to get 15% off your first order when you use code busy at checkout. That's 15% off your first order at j-E-n-n-n-I-K-A-Y-N-E dot com promo code busy. It's time for you to spice up your fall wardrobe to feel like a golden-class girl this fall. Moving on to my goal of the week. My goal of the week right now is to get back onto my routine slowly. I feel like it's really healthy to sometimes go slowly when bouncing back into routine, then

going fast rather than working yourself up every single step. I've been waking up at 10 every day. I just cannot imagine waking up at 5.30 in the morning right now. So it's really good for me to just listen to my body and see what works best for myself. Another goal of the week right now is to do more meditation. It has been over a month since I have worked out and I have been walking, but I really just miss a good workout. And I feel like working out was a really good way for me to de-stress.

I really just want to get back onto meditating, working out, and truly feeling good and at peace. Another goal of the week is to cycle out more old clothes I have in my closet. Having too much stuff can just bring so much stress to you. And if you want a clear-minded and stress-free life, it starts with not having a ton of stuff, which is difficult for me because I love so much things I have. My last goal of the week is to drink more tea. Right now, I have been drinking green tea all the time. I really want to drink some more warm tea before bed because I really realize that it does help me sleep

really good when I'm so relaxed and I just love tea. Moving on to an affirmation. I am both eternally and externally healthy. I love that affirmation so much. And now moving on to the self-love question, which is, How have you took a step closer to the best version of you this year? I love that question so much. I really recommend you journal that question and really ask yourself that.

Lastly is the challenge and I challenge you to take three deep breaths and think of three things you're grateful for the minute you wake up. I can really start your day off on such a positive note and it takes literally a few seconds rather than instantly reaching for your phone right away. Lastly is our podcast review and if you want to be featured on next week's episode, please feel free to leave a podcast review over Apple Podcasts. This review is from yours, Gracie. and Gracie titled her review, The prettiest podcast you'll ever listen to. She said, When I tell you I love this podcast so much,

it is so motivating and calming at the same time. Jaden's voice is so soothing, and as a teenage girl, this really makes me just want to live in the moment and live my best life. You won't regret listening, I promise. Gracie, that review made me so happy. I just love how you said it makes you want to live in the moment.

And of course, live your best life. Thank you so much for your review. You mean so much to me. I truly appreciate you. And if you want to be featured on next week's episode, please feel free to leave a podcast review over Apple Podcasts. Now the time we've been waiting for, it is time for today's episode.

This episode, I hope you listen with an open heart. Take a breath before listening. You know what? We'll take a breath together. Deep breath in. Deep breath out. Let's get into today's episode. You are here for a reason.

After my health scare this week, it just really made me have a realization in life because, God forbid, I was dying, which I believed in my head to be the case. I truly made myself believe I was not going to make it, but thankfully everything is totally okay. But all the scary thoughts of death and dying and my time being up ran through my head. and as I was literally just sitting in the hospital, in the bed with a little heart monitor on me, I was planning for the worst and I just thought to myself, there is so much more I want to do, so much more I want to say, so much I want to accomplish, and I obviously just began planning for the worst.

But me just sitting in that hospital and hearing all my EKGs were abnormal as I was in such bad pain in my heart and chest area, it really put me in the state of shock and feeling like something bad, happen and I just kept thinking I'm not ready I'm not ready to go yet of course nobody's ready to go and nobody's ready to die there's never a time where someone who actually wants to live their life is thinking yeah this is my time but that is a backstory of what I want you to ask yourself right now act right now in your head of course we're not manifesting this we do not want any death to manifest in our life I want you to think to yourself, if this was your last day, this was your last moment of life, ask yourself, did I live my life with purpose?

Did you? Really ask yourself that question. Did I live my life with purpose? It is so important for you to reflect, are you serving yourself with a purpose in life? Are you working towards the life that you desire? Are you letting the stranger that walks by you let them know that you like their shirt? Are you taking the time to look around and live with gratitude? We begin to forget how precious life is because we have it. We have it right in front of us.

We have the future ahead of us and we think, oh, nothing's going to ever happen. Of course, we don't want to plan for something to happen, but God forbid something happens, you're going to wish that you did some things differently. And I think regret is one of the worst things. And of course, you should never dwell on regret and just be happy with what happened and know that you can move forward, but you are in that time right now. You're in the moment of what your future self would call the past. Are you creating the past life your future self would have wanted for you? Of course, unfortunate occurrences happen where people go too soon and sadly something happens to them. But that should show you that nothing is guaranteed. Everything is temporary, okay? Everything is temporary.

but this is your time to find your purpose in life, regardless of your hobbies or your interest. There is one thing that we all have in common. Life. But what differs us from our one thing that we have in common? Are you alive? I don't mean living and breathing. I mean, are you truly alive with your emotions? Do you see life through a positive lens?

Are you feeling alive and truly alive in your soul and your heart? You may have forgotten that life is alive. up to the choices that you make in what you make of situations and what you make of your time. You are meant to be here. The chance of you being here is unimaginably slim, but you are here. You are here right now. You are here for a purpose. You are put in this earth for a reason.

There is so many people who sadly passed away and would have done anything to have just one more day of precious life. They would have done literally anything to have one more day of this precious life on earth. Yet, you are wasting a day comparing yourself to someone online. Look around. Look at you right now. Not only are you blessed to be on this earth and have a life, you can literally run, you can jump, you can move around, you can make yourself food. You have a bed.

You have a phone or a computer, whatever you're listening off of. You are so fortunate to have all that you. have in life. You are so fortunate to be able to be not only alive, but be able to do things to make your life feel alive. You can see nature. You can build connections with people. You can fall in love. You can read books. Yet, you were throwing precious time away. Comparison is the thief of joy, and I know that is cliche, but as I say, cliche things and known quotes are known for a reason, because they are true. Comparison is literally the thief. of joy. You will never realize how beautiful you and your life is if you don't put your phone down and

look up and sit with yourself. Once the last time, you've sat with yourself, no phone, no activity in your hand, but just sat with yourself. Probably not. Probably you can't think of one because you probably haven't. Silence is beautiful for those who make of it. Stop writing down a whole New Year's resolutions list and then putting it in the back of your closet. Start to take steps. towards your goals and do this for nobody but your future self. Social media, the news, our peers, school, work. That can all make us forget the purpose of life and what life truly is. It's not about popularity. It's not about the follower count. It's not about how pretty you are. It's the person who sits in front of the mirror and the soul behind it. It's how you live your life. It's how you

serve yourself. You are the purpose. It is time to feel. and be alive. Stop losing yourself in mind-draining situations and mind-draining thoughts. Replace that time with gratitude and awareness to simplicity such as nature, people watching, listening to the birds, admiring the sky. As I always say, live your life for your eight-year-old self and your 80-year-old self. But truly get that in your head. I know you're not going to understand it as much as your 80-year-self is going to understand it because your time is not actually running out. But again, nothing is guaranteed. You do not want to guarantee anything in your life.

Yes, we're going to think positive to live as long as we can. But again, nothing is guaranteed. Which is why you should be asking yourself, am I living my life right now with purpose? When the day comes where time is up for you. Of course, you're not going to be ready to go yet, but you want to think to yourself. I am so proud of myself that I live my life with purpose and I made myself proud. I made memories in my life. I felt good in my life.

I acknowledge gratitude. I was aware of simplicity. You want to feel good and satisfied with how you lived your life. At the end of the day, the Instagram models you are comparing yourself to are not going to be a thought in your head when you're dying. But you know what you're going to be thinking of

is all the good memories you created for yourself and the beautiful life that you made for yourself. Stop wasting time doing things that aren't serving you right. Stop wasting time trying to connect with the wrong people. people. Connect with yourself. Connect with yourself and what you really want in your life. This episode wasn't so much of a motivational episode, but more just talking to you to realign with your purpose and remember that time flies and nothing is guaranteed. Really, really just enjoy what is right in front of you. Take this episode as a reminder that whatever you're

stressing about is temporary. That's only a stepping stone in your journey. The drama that's happening at school and how you're not popular is not the end of the world. You're not going to know these people while you're on your deathbed. But guess who you're going to know. You're going to know yourself. So that's the only person you should be trying to impress in this world. Get off your phone, look up and enjoy what's in front of you. Life is beautiful and so are you. I love you guys so much and I really hoped you guys enjoyed this episode. I just felt so called to share this realization. I've been having. Life is so precious and it can be so beautiful of what you make of it. I love you guys so much. If you want to be featured on next week's episode, please feel free to leave a podcast review over Apple Podcasts. I have also been giving away a gift card every week for pumpkin spice lattes or whatever drink that you like. Whether you tag me in your story or on TikTok, I'll send someone a little gift card. I love you with all my heart. You mean so much to me and do not forget your purpose and life. And most importantly, do not forget to stay busy yet pretty.