Call Her Daddy - Anitta: Daddies, Dating & Dancing

Episode Date: February 20, 2026

Get ready to turn up the heat with Anitta on Call Her Daddy! Anitta reflects on the rise of her career and shares how she achieved such international fame. She also demonstrates her amazing twerking s...kills and talks about how her moves translate to the bedroom. Anitta gets real about what she finds attractive in a person and shares her deal breakers when it comes to dating. Enjoy! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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Starting point is 00:00:03 What is up, Daddy Gang? It is your founding father, Alex Cooper, with Call Her Daddy. Anita, welcome to Call Her Daddy. Thank you. Daddy, gang, we are in the presence of truly someone that is just doing it all, and I'm honored to be sitting with you today. Anita is the most successful Brazilian artist to ever come out of the country. Billboard Magazine has called her more influential than Beyonce, Rihanna,
Starting point is 00:00:34 and Lady Gaga. What the fuck? No big fucking deal, Anita. In Brazil, maybe. I don't know. International. I don't know. You also are nominated for a Grammy this year for Best New Artist.
Starting point is 00:00:49 Congratulations. Thank you. It is like your career is incredible and watching you grow has just been so fucking cool. But I know you from when we met at the Baby to Baby Gala. Yeah. I need to hear what your favorite moment is from that event because I, I know we met like briefly, but we were sitting next to each other. I was dying.
Starting point is 00:01:08 You are so funny. You're so charismatic. You have such a personality. What do you remember from that event? I think our table was so fun. We had like very fun people with us. And we had fun just talking about things that people would never talk in a fancy table of auction, you know? Dinner.
Starting point is 00:01:27 I don't think. Yes. Anita and I are like, we meet. And two seconds later, Anita's like, so like how does your vagina smell? And I was like, oh, hey girl, what's up? And we're like, let's talk about our buttholes and our vaginas as like a corporate Spotify person is sitting directly into our left. My favorite was also when they, not that like everyone knows the baby to baby galah,
Starting point is 00:01:48 but so there's like angels that work at the event. So, oh my God. Anita is like chilling. And like now it's like towards the end of the night. Like people have left, but like people are saying. So Anita's like, no, girl. Like I got an early morning. Like I'm going to dip out.
Starting point is 00:02:07 And I'm like, totally get it. I'll be leaving soon. So everyone in the crowd is sitting. And they're like, hey, can all the angels stand up? To give people context, it's about 11 women in a crowd of 300. And they go, everyone, all the angels stand up. Anita just starts standing up. She's like, by everyone, I got to go.
Starting point is 00:02:27 And it's a dead silent room. And she was like, wait. And I'm like, Anita, it's only the angels. It's worse than that. It's worse than that. Tell us. In my mind, I thought he was. She was telling, she was calling all the women angels.
Starting point is 00:02:41 Stand up all the women. And I thought all the women was going to stand out. That's why I stood out. And you're like, this is the perfect moment for me to like sneak out the back door. Only 11 people of like 300. And Anita literally sits down. She's like, motherfucker. That was terrible.
Starting point is 00:02:56 It was a great moment. Let's kind of go back through like your life a little bit to get to know you better. What was life like where you grew up outside of Rio de Janeiro? So people don't think when they see me or they see like my songs and whatever, they don't imagine that I come from like the communities. It could be called the ghetto a little bit. It's like the favelas. When you go to Brazil, there's like communities, places that like the houses are really close to each other.
Starting point is 00:03:26 It's a really like humble place, simple. I come from a place like that. I was born and raised in a place like that. My mom used to do the best she could to fake the danger and the bad side. of it for me and my brother so we all see everything with like this beauty and playing in the streets things like that very like very like in the hood you know and and and and and and but she always told us that a way for us to leave there it's not that we don't like there but we all want to leave because we want a better life so she always said that the only way to get out would be studying and we always did
Starting point is 00:04:02 the best we could like studying and doing like all we could and um I always loved music. So I started doing music, but also like studying everything. I was my own manager for like 10 years. Me and my brother were partners. So it was a whole job not only from arts, but also like business. When and at what age did you realize your love for performing? Oh no.
Starting point is 00:04:27 Since I was a little kid, I was already like singing. And when I was three years old, like four or five, I was already singing. And my family used to ask me like, these, these questions like what are you going to be when you grow up whatever and I always used to be like I'm going to be famous I'm going to be an artist I'm going to have a pool in my house blah blah blah blah that was literally me so you kind of always knew always I would pass through some passed by some places that I knew it was like tv places like studios or whatever and I used to open the window or go to the bus window and say like you guys are going to see me I'm going to work here
Starting point is 00:05:07 blah blah blah nine years old i was always like this personality kind of crazy i love that so much though because i think sometimes you have to have that energy in order to get to where you need to get it i was like sure i was sure it was not that i said like oh i want to be i was sure i was i would tell my family where i was going to live how my house would be the tv shows are we going to be the people were going to meet i would be like that when i was a kid i could literally like see and dream about this and like my family was like okay because it was a very humble life so they would never prospect that in my life totally so they would be like okay and I was like you guys don't understand I'm not saying I want to I'm gonna be there but there's no option it's happening do you guys want to
Starting point is 00:05:58 come along for the ride or not exactly who were some artists that you admired growing up Mariah Carey was my first one She's my first diva And I had the opportunity to tell her that And it was crazy And I'd be on the phone with her for hours That was also crazy For me she was the number one
Starting point is 00:06:18 Forever And then Rihanna And now I'm sponsored by Fenty I did the Fenty show I do like Photoshootshoots for Fanti It's crazy Even when you're saying that
Starting point is 00:06:33 Like, does it still feel surreal, like how much success you've had? I think we should always remember because sometimes, and I think the industry does this to us, they push us to think that we need always more, more and more and more. And I think nowadays with the internet, it's kind of impossible for you to reach everything, everyone, every time. You've got to be happy also. You got to take time for yourself also. So I think that this speech that I used to have for my life for many years,
Starting point is 00:07:08 like, you can be more, you can do more, never stop, never give up. I was like that. And when I was like that, I couldn't see those things that happened in my life. I would be like, okay, yeah, I met Mariah. Oh, okay, yeah. I loved it, but I couldn't like look and be like, wow. Nowadays, for me, it's like, yeah, we can definitely give up. We can definitely go rest, take a nap, go to sleep.
Starting point is 00:07:36 We don't need all the money in the world, you know? A person, the money doesn't mean happiness and the many, as many number ones you get in your life, that's not going to make you happier or not. So for me, it's like every single thing that happened in my life, I learned how to stop and be like, wow, look at what I did. This is so, and then live that moment again. I got to this reflection when, because last year I got so. super sick, right?
Starting point is 00:08:02 Super sick. I couldn't do anything. I couldn't go upstairs at my house. I couldn't do anything. Literally for three months, I was like, and I thought literally that I was going to die. It was a whole thing. And then I was in the hospital for so long.
Starting point is 00:08:20 And then I was like, you know what? I was just working, working, working to reach everything and thinking I still didn't have enough. And now I'm here. and what did I get from life? Like, right. Did I enjoy it? Did I have fun?
Starting point is 00:08:35 Did I do nothing? Did I, and the thing that I wanted the most was like to travel, to have more free time. And, but today is too much. For you to be successful, you got to be on Instagram, YouTube, TikTok, Spotify. It's so many things that you got to do. We're just one human being. It's too much. How can we do all of that?
Starting point is 00:08:57 It's a lot. So I'm not up. to waste my life searching for things anymore because I'm almost 30 now I'm 29 and I do think it was important and amazing for me to do that for so many years but now
Starting point is 00:09:11 I just want to rest if I get more success amazing if no amazing it's okay your birth name is actually Larissa yeah do you mind sharing why and when you started going by Anita so my name Larisa is very common
Starting point is 00:09:29 in Brazil. Anita is a name that there was just one character from a series called Anita. And I wanted to be this girl because she used to say that she was like an 18 year old character in this series. She used to say that she didn't like to be just one girl. She liked to wake up and decide which girl she wanted to be. Today I want to be crazy. Tomorrow I want to be sexy. And then I want to be pretty and then I want to be princess. And I was like, That's so cool because I don't want to, I don't like to define myself and be like, okay, I'm this. I'm so many things. I like to discover every day a new me, you know?
Starting point is 00:10:11 And I think people have the necessity of defining you and be like, oh, she is that. And I like to be all. What is the difference between Dorissa and Anita? Oh my God, it's huge. It's huge. I started my career 12 years ago. Here in America, I am a best new artist. I'm joking.
Starting point is 00:10:31 But I am nominated as best new artist for the Grammys because it's a new career. I started from the zero. You know, I left everything and I came to start here again. But 12 years ago when I started there, I created this character because me, Ladisa, I'm very shy, to be honest. I'm very insecure.
Starting point is 00:10:51 I'm very like, I don't like going out. I don't like socializing. I don't like doing anything, you know? I'm so the opposite. of who I am when I'm in this character. And when I created this character, Anita, I wanted a person, a persona that would be completely against hypocrisy, you know, people that are hypocrites that say one thing and do the other, you know. And that's what I wanted to do. How many languages can you sing in?
Starting point is 00:11:24 Sing, I can sing in five languages. It's because I sing in Portuguese, Spanish, English, Italian and French, but French just a little bit. I speak just a little bit and Italian a little bit. How the fuck did you learn all these languages? So I'm gonna give a very good example right now of Larissa and Anita, right? Okay. So when I go to Interville as Anita, you gotta deliver entertainment, right? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:12:08 So people ask me, how did you learn so many languages? I say with boyfriends. Whenever I wanted to have a no and no language, I would would date a different guy and like different accents. But in reality, I had, which is kind of boring, the reality. Larisa, I hired different teachers from different places of the world and I used to leave them in my dress room for whatever commitments I had. So I used to like get two hours of glim every day.
Starting point is 00:12:36 I would be studying during this two hours. The teacher would be telling me and I would be like studying for these two hours. I fucking love your honesty. of like let me be so clear. Anita is like, bitch, if I wanted to learn Italian, I'm going to date an Italian man.
Starting point is 00:12:51 I'm going to fuck an Italian guy. Like, actually I was just hiring people and they were just teaching me. Do you ever worry that like now being so honest about like the two characters that people will be like, wait, why, what the fuck? Like this isn't the real you?
Starting point is 00:13:06 No, because I think it's so important for me to have this clear and to understand that I use my character to break rules, to break, to break boundaries and, like, things that limit us women to do are women, women that wants to be free in sex, women, women that wants to be free in work, whatever. I like this character. It brings to us self-esteem, confident, and something to look at, even I do when I'm myself, Larisa, nowadays, I look at me as a character, and I'd be like, okay,
Starting point is 00:13:44 I think I can get that from Anita and be a little bit more confident about myself. You know, it's so much easier for people to watch a movie and see that character and be like, okay. And understand the actor is another thing. Yeah. But they don't understand that musicians, singers, they do the same thing. We do the same thing. There's no way we're bringing the on self, the person that we are at home, the person that we are in family.
Starting point is 00:14:14 and bring this person on stage, it's not entertainable. It's not different enough for people to look and be like, oh, this is special. Who is your favorite person that you've collaborated with on a song? Snoop Dogg. That is. For sure. Because I think him and Cardi B. Because they are so funny.
Starting point is 00:14:39 And Snoop Dogg is very, like, simple, humble. and he's like everything for him is a vibe it's all about if he likes you if he likes what's your your energy if he he has something kind of
Starting point is 00:14:57 I don't know he sees someone and he feels the energy and then he decides if he likes or not I feel I think so that's what I think from him because I just feel like I can hug him and be there like safe forever I think he's one of the coolest guys
Starting point is 00:15:12 And Cardi B, she just, just funny, good energy, like best energy, like high level. I love that. I was reading the list. I'm like, Farrell, Missy Elliott, Snoop Dog, Rita, ora, Cardi B, Suidi, sweetie, Becky G. I'm like, Back is one of my best friends. Messiaelet was great energy too. Oh, it was so good. So good.
Starting point is 00:15:35 Okay. Anita. You're also known for your dancing, okay? Yeah. The Anita challenge went viral on. TikTok which I remember just watching these videos and being like one how is this not getting censored on TikTok I can't even like fucking curse in my TikTok meanwhile people are like doing the challenge and like it it's incredible watching it can you explain how twerking
Starting point is 00:15:57 in Brazil is different than twerking in America because it's not even only twerking it's partying in general I think here in America people in the parties they're more concerned about how they're with where they're going, what they're wearing and you know, it's like the table situation. In Brazil there's no table situation. You go to the party, there's no table. Everyone is
Starting point is 00:16:22 just one place mass together. Find out, you know? And we love dancing. We love dancing. Sometimes we don't even understand whether you're singing. We just want to dance. Sometimes it's just the same
Starting point is 00:16:38 lyrics over and over. They just saying a different melody, just same words always, and we love it. We just want to dance. We just want to listen and dance. What is it like being known for like the way that you dance, though? Are you like so proud of yourself? It's crazy because in Brazil it started this fever of like, oh, we're going to do Anita moves. Anita moves.
Starting point is 00:17:00 Okay, now we need you to twerk. Okay. Okay, so this is going to be iconic. I think people will fucking love it. Is this the wrong surface? Oh my God. Okay. Okay.
Starting point is 00:17:10 Do you want music? We have music. No, it doesn't need to. Okay. Okay. Okay. Anita. The other one is hard though.
Starting point is 00:17:44 When you do like, when you do a circle but you stop in the middle so you do a square. This one is harder. It's going to do this. Oh, I feel so creepy. I'm literally like, how it's, holy shit. Dude, that was so good. I am like inspired now to go home and like secretly practice it, but like not letting anyone. but like not letting one know I'm practicing it.
Starting point is 00:18:07 But like I will be working on it. And next time I see you, maybe I'll have a little move to buffed out. And do you incorporate these into your sex? No. No. It's just a dance. When the guy asks me to dance,
Starting point is 00:18:36 I go like, dance first. He's never going to fucking dance. So I'm like, what the fucking question is that? Right. You're like, I'm not performing. Like we're on a day.
Starting point is 00:18:47 Exactly. I get silly. It's so annoying. I'm like. Dance first. You dance, I dance. Are you currently single or in a relationship? I'm single, completely single, and not looking for anything. I love it.
Starting point is 00:19:00 And I don't have sex in months. So many months. I don't even remember the last time I had sex, to be honest with you. Are you just masturbating? No. I'm selling it. Listen, I didn't find anyone special enough that I would think like, okay, this one deserves to come here and I didn't find it yet. You're spending time alone.
Starting point is 00:19:25 But I was crazy before. I used to like fuck even like one person that would cross me on a street. I would be like, you come here. Stop. I would be like that. How did you get that confidence? Just like go up to people. Because I was living Anita 24-7 of the time.
Starting point is 00:19:39 Do you have a type of guy, girl? Breathing in alive. I don't know. There's something inside that comes. and this something for some reason I can feel it and then I'm like, so there's no type. I can literally show you three different ex-boyfriends and you'll be like, what's the sense between these people? I love that though.
Starting point is 00:20:03 What do you think is like something that you're most attracted to in a person? I think when they're funny, I love when they're funny. You make me laugh. I'm like, ah, I love it. And, um, it's so good. When they are confident, a little aggressive, but in a good way. Uh-huh. I like when they are aggressive, in a good way.
Starting point is 00:20:27 Not like abusive relations. Have you found yourself in, um, any like abusive relationships? Oh, yeah. Terrible. But I need it just once and then never again. Like in two months, after this one guy I had like for a year and something. Wow. I can look if I'm starting with someone in one month I can feel it's abusive and I'm like out
Starting point is 00:20:54 can you try to give like if people are listening they're like fuck like I think I may be in one like do you have any like signs or things to look for yeah because in the beginning they let you feel very uncomfortable you know and then they start to make you feel insecure about yourself without saying they don't say you are less or not you know yeah they just make they point it's like they point things in other people that they are actually talking about you but they pretend they're not and then oh honey i'm almost a psychologist i look and i'm like hmm okay and then i start bringing shit over for themselves to think so you mean like they'll point something out in someone in a room Yeah, for sure.
Starting point is 00:21:44 Relates to you or is like what you don't have or or or just say like you see that's so bad. Oh my God. Kind of like to guide you how to not be. Are you usually the one breaking up with people or they. I am. I need that to change though. I think that's why I'm waiting so much. I want things to be different.
Starting point is 00:22:06 Got it. What is like a deal breaker for you in a relationship? When I feel sophisticated. it. Hmm. I don't like that. Or when, I think when I feel suffocate is the number one thing.
Starting point is 00:22:23 Like when the guy doesn't let you breathe and like jealousy for no reason, you know, like, too much. Come on. Or needy. Like, I'm easy. I want to talk to you like 24 seven. Come on.
Starting point is 00:22:34 Give me a break. Give me a time to breathe. Right. There's nothing more like unattractive, which I get it. We're all insecure. But being a relationship with someone that. so insecure about you in the relationship, it's like such a turnoff. You're like, can you just like get into therapy, muster the courage?
Starting point is 00:22:52 Or like when the guy tries, he's selfish. He tries to say he's doing things for you, but he's actually doing for him. He doesn't want to be alone. He is needy. He doesn't want to stand with himself alone, but he says that, oh, no, I'm doing this for you. Come on, you're not. I want to be fucking alone. Yeah, for a little time.
Starting point is 00:23:13 Can you give advice to women listening that are like, okay, wait, Anita, you have not been with someone. You're not hooking up with people. Like, how are you so comfortable being alone? So everything started, and I hope people don't need that to change lives when I got sick. That was like, when I wasn't bad thinking I was going to die, I started to look over all the things of my life. And I started to see all the things that I didn't want to repeat again. It's not that I don't want to have sex with people anymore, please, God, I'm down, I'm open, I'm free tonight. I'm just saying that I'm rethinking the reason why I used to do things and how I was doing things, and I want to do differently.
Starting point is 00:23:56 I don't want to have sex with a guy because I want him to fall in love for me or because I don't want to lose him. I want to have sex because I feel like doing it because I feel like this guy deserves my. this queen going to you know i don't know and before i didn't used to like staying by myself i used to just like need friends every time in my house friends every time i need a people yeah and now i don't need no but i can be alone like this for days you know cook my own food and be like life is beautiful i'm just here chilling and i i feel like we need to ask ourselves, why are we scared of the silence? What is inside of us that we don't want to listen to?
Starting point is 00:24:49 You know, what we don't like about ourselves that we don't want to face it? I'm not saying I regret the thousands of people I fucked. I'm just saying right now I don't feel like maybe next month I feel like fucking thousands of people again. Just now I just feel like Not right now Is it worth it? I remember I went through almost This is I've never said this
Starting point is 00:25:16 I almost went an entire year in my 20s Where I did not have sex And I was like totally happy I'm so happy Like it was like just like a reclaiming moment for myself Of like I need to just figure my own shit out And I don't need any penis getting in the vicinity of me While I try to find out
Starting point is 00:25:35 I kind of want, but it needs to be a great penis. It needs to be a penis plus a brain plus a tongue plus so many things, you know? It needs to be like a mix because it's a lot of work to have sex. For me, it's a lot of work. I like to put a show on. Oh, you do. Can you give us some tips, Anita? Like if the girls are like, what do you mean put a show on?
Starting point is 00:26:00 Like give us some tips. Like what's your go-to? Because I like to enjoy myself. I like to feel like I'm like dancing and performing. Is it a deal breaker for you if a guy is not good at like eating you out? I teach. I love you. I would teach, I would say, come on, let me say something.
Starting point is 00:26:22 Do this, do that. I don't like when they go like this. Look, they put the tongue very hard and they go like, And it's like you go like, ah, right? Oh my God, I don't like that. Right. It's just like a little like slithering and you're like, it's so bad. I was these days.
Starting point is 00:26:49 Oh, by the way, I didn't have sex with guys this whole time with girls I did have. So I was teaching this friend of mine how to, how to eat a pussy these days. And she was like, oh, it's that easy. And I was like, yeah. I came in three minutes. she came in too. Wait, you were practicing on each other. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:27:08 And you're just friends. Yeah. There was no, like, sexual connection. Oh, no, I was just teaching her. You just, like, took off your pants. Like, here's my vagina. Let me teach you. Uh-huh.
Starting point is 00:27:17 Fuck. Okay, like, we need some tips. Without taking off your pants and us doing it. Do you have any, like, like, one specific thing that you can adjust for the men or women listening that could maybe just, like, help achieve more organ. I will say, first of all, for girls. for whatever guys, girls to eat girls.
Starting point is 00:27:39 Personally, I think it's kind of different for each girl. I don't know. The things I like can be different from the things. Other girls like, me personally, when I'm doing that with a girl, I go nice and slow. I do circles and then I just do up and down and I do side by side. But like, slow and wet. And not like you're eating a pasta.
Starting point is 00:28:06 It's just like you are an ice cream that is cold and you cannot freeze your tongue if you're going to freeze your tongue, you're going to feel like ice cold. And yeah, I just go nice and slow and then I put a finger on it. And I don't put the finger on it like, do, do, do, do, do, do, do, do, do, do, do, do. You know, I just put it like nice and simple. slow small movement and like just smooth you know and and and and then um like i don't go in the crazy side by side or like i just go in a smooth keep going with the flow you know and the girl is kind of going to guide you and then you can just put the finger in the beginning of the entry
Starting point is 00:28:58 of the vagina you don't need to go all the way down there and it's not because the woman squirt that she came there was this time this guy made me squirt like 20 times and I was not coming I was like this doesn't mean something's happening men that are obsessed with getting a woman to squirt let me look at me in the eyes with this camera stop the next day it hurts oh it hurts so bad come on I think sometimes men forget like would you want us like jack hammering your dick No, you like when it's like very wet and like you don't need it to be like, let's fucking go. Imagine we did that also dry. You would have rug burn.
Starting point is 00:29:39 Same for us. Okay. Same for us. There is also like with guys what I do. Let me try to give an example. I always use oil when I can when the guy is not full of like. Some guys are like, oh, you're using the. I love using lubricant.
Starting point is 00:29:58 Love it. And some guys think it's because they're not doing a good job. Shut the fuck up. It's just more pleasing. Yes. You use lubricant. I put the lubricant. I'm going to teach you a new bottle.
Starting point is 00:30:09 Okay. Okay. Here we go. I put the lubricant. And then I go like this. First of all, I go like this. Mm-hmm. And then this is one movement.
Starting point is 00:30:21 And then you're going to do something. There's something you can do that. They are not going to understand what you're doing. You could tell him to close. his eyes you're going to do this you're going to hold here in the bottom and you're going to do this with the hands like this you go down and circle down circle down and circle down and then you go up and down up and you do this but up and down up and you do this don't he's going to be like what is happening but you should put lubricant on it but you go like this don't do this it's like go up and
Starting point is 00:30:59 Don't let it go. Just open up and down and you do this open and close, open and close, because then you're going to switch the pressure on it. And you're going to be like, what is she doing though? But you've got to put lubricant on it. Right. So you're kind of like massaging down past their tip and then around their shaft while you're holding the base. Yeah, like this. Oh, that's magical.
Starting point is 00:31:21 And then they get super confused because it feels like a blowjob, but it's not. And then you, for the blowjob, I like. Like using things that you put in your teeth to fix it, plastic. Yeah, yeah, yeah, the Inviteline. Kind of. Yeah. There's a bunch of brands. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:31:38 If you use the one down, just the one down. Life changing. Really? Because it feels like you don't have teeth. I need a. It feels like you don't have teeth. Yeah, you can try. I just added that to my Amazon cart while you were speaking.
Starting point is 00:31:55 You can ask them. Wow. They're going to feel like you don't have teeth. And just on the bottom. Because it's going to touch the. Yeah, because it's on the up too, it's going to look weird. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But if you use only on the bottom, they're going to feel like you don't have teeth
Starting point is 00:32:09 because you can touch as much as you want with this teeth here because it's not like aggressive. It's like smooth as a plastic. This is an educational podcast today. Okay, we are educating. But this is bad. They don't like it. Like the brand of the dentists, they will try to kill me.
Starting point is 00:32:28 And they're going to say I'm bullshit. because I try to say that in Brazil. Wow, they wanted to kill me. Wait, I feel like they would love it. The sales are going to rock it. No, no, no. That's not the purpose. This is health for people to take your... Right. While you're sucking dick, you're also aligning your teeth. You're... But people don't want to know about that. They don't do blow jobs. They just were born from sand spirit. Yeah. They came and so everyone is virgin. Today, I am claiming that this is a great technique. And you can be fixing your teeth while sucking dick nothing better i wouldn't say that i'm not a dentist i'm just
Starting point is 00:33:04 saying if you want to try you try if no it's okay totally if you already have one pop it in see how it works yeah dances hate me because i said that in in brazil they hate me dentists they do because i said you it's good when you use it but they hate it they don't like that i said they're the virgin dentists uh they need to fucking relax Have you ever been cheated on? Once when I was 19, 18. How did you find out? Oh my God, online.
Starting point is 00:33:57 A fan, a fan told me. No. And, oh, twice. I was twice. Once was a fan told me. Second one, I pretended it was a fan because I actually dreamed about it. I dreamed about a lot of things that actually happened. So there was this one time, I went to sleep.
Starting point is 00:34:17 This boy, I landed my car to him. He didn't have a car. I lent my car to him. I was already a singer. I was performing somewhere else. He went to the place. And when I went to sleep, I literally went to, like in my dream, I went to the club he was. I saw him kissing the girl.
Starting point is 00:34:35 He was wearing blah, blah, blah, blah, ta-da-da-da. The girl was wearing ta-da-da-da-da. And it was so clear to me. And I know I have these type of dreams. So I didn't tell him I dreamed. I said, hi, a fan took a picture and sent me. You were with this girl. You were wearing blah, blah, blah.
Starting point is 00:34:55 She was wearing blah, blah, blah. And then he was desperate saying, yeah, I'm sorry. Blah, blah, blah. After months, I told him I dreamed it. Have you ever got caught cheating? No, I'm so smart. I am so smart. How do you feel about sex on the first date?
Starting point is 00:35:17 I don't care. Yeah. If I feel like I do. You just be yourself and if he likes you, amazing. If he doesn't, it's because he's an asshole. And he's, not that he's an asshole. It doesn't match you. And you just want him because of you think you need him for something, but you don't.
Starting point is 00:35:35 I love the advice. It's like, if you're good with yourself, who gives a fuck? You don't care. It doesn't matter. The rest is this one time. This one guy I went on a day. after it ended up not happening anymore I was like he doesn't want me blah blah and then after two weeks when I was like better with my therapy on the on point and I was like what the fuck I was doing with
Starting point is 00:36:00 that guy he has he makes no say he kisses terribly his kiss I was like where the fuck did this guy learned kiss. It was like it was a terrible kiss. The sex would be even worse. Why I was caring so much. It's just our fear of being rejected. It has nothing to do
Starting point is 00:36:25 with the guy. We don't even care about the fucking guy. So true. It has nothing to do with the fucking person. The person sometimes is shitty. And we are concerned just because we don't want to feel rejected. I also think a bit of advice is pretend in your head imagine if they were obsessed with you and they wouldn't stop hitting you up then now assess would you actually like them like if you're coming from a place of
Starting point is 00:36:48 like they don't like me i want them to like that's just the chase and we get addicted no and then he texted me and i was like no thank you like you kiss like a frog i was like no today i have my mind so on point no thanks some people you just go with them because you your mind is not on point right and then you wake up one day and it's like all right what What the fuck? What I was doing with that person? It's so crazy too when you look back and you're like, I can't believe I was fucking obsessed with that guy.
Starting point is 00:37:19 He fucking sucked. Yeah, sometimes you just need to like step away from it. How do you feel about sharing nudes? I don't do that. You don't. No. Is it just because you're nervous because like your celebrity? Before, yes.
Starting point is 00:37:33 Nowadays I just think it's new. I think it's more sexy. when you're wearing like panties or something that is almost showing but it doesn't show I think it's more sexy plays more with the imagination to be honest I love that we're like having a hand on it you know it's more even a picture of a dick it's not beautiful come on getting a picture of a dick let's be honest it's not great it's not great you're like oh there it's when you see that guy naked like it's not hot that's not hot what are you responding to you're not If a guy sends you a dick pick.
Starting point is 00:38:14 I'd be like, I sent an emoji or something. I don't know. I'm like, eh, that's not it. I don't know. I don't feel anything with that. What emoji? The eyes. You know these two eyes that look like,
Starting point is 00:38:33 that's it. It kind of doesn't say anything. It's just not to leave the guy in red. I kind of love it, though, because then it could make him a little insecure of like, wait, hello, and you're like, that's what you get. That's what you get. Do you like sexting? Sex, what?
Starting point is 00:38:49 Sexting, like texting sexting. No, no. All these things for me are just not. I like the real thing. Come on. Come here. Let's. Yes.
Starting point is 00:39:01 Not the sex, sex. I like the little horny talk. Uh-huh. But not the sex. Like, I'm going to put my dick, put in your pussy. and bang it 20 times. I don't like that. I like the little horny thing, you know?
Starting point is 00:39:15 What intimidates you in the bedroom? What intimidates me? A huge insanely huge dick trying to put it on my ass. That's very intimidating. When a dick is like huge. It's so scary. And it's trying to go in your butthole. It's kind of not good.
Starting point is 00:39:37 Because you're so scared. this one guy I saw I was like okay I think I'm gonna try here and then his dick was so big so big and I was like listen I'm scared and then he said why and then I said this is something I don't think I can handle it right now at this moment of my life I cannot handle this I think check back with me in a couple months and then we just talked and cuddled and it was it have you ever had a threesome oh so many times do you enjoy them i do i think it's cool i like it i think it's more but you you have to be very aligned with everyone you know and yeah i have threesome four six some six sums i had a boyfriend that used to like to like switch couples and all do like the the swapping thing
Starting point is 00:40:39 Yeah. Did you like it? Yeah. He was very like comfortable and the people, he always let me pick. And it was just fun. It was very cool and respectful and fun. Did you ever get jealous? Oh, no. No.
Starting point is 00:40:55 I'm not a jealous person. I'm jealous if I don't feel respected. If I don't feel respected, I'm very, I get not even jealous. I get angry. Mm-hmm. I think that people that want. to potentially do threesomes or foursums orgies or whatever like i think you need to know yourself before you do that of like if you're a jealous person yeah don't fucking do that yeah know yourself
Starting point is 00:41:20 sometimes people i think do it for their partner and it's like if you know your relationship don't do it just because you think he or she wants to do it yeah that's a big issue to be honest i don't yeah i think you need to be very friends with your partner to make sure he also there is this one time and three sums also with guys but he wouldn't be with a guy just me and he was super comfortable with that he picked it and it was cool I liked it to be honest
Starting point is 00:41:48 but he let me feel free with that do you like to use toys in the bedroom I do the guy gotta be confident though I know but I do me too and that's why I did my line of perfume like
Starting point is 00:42:03 when I did that it was more about like I was doing concerts and obviously I'm performing for like two hours and Carnival is like four hours performing on stop even seven hours I've done and when you finish you don't smell good let's just have a real talk a butthole smells like butthole if you go in the end of the day you put your finger in a butthole and you smell it it smells like butthole it's a place there is there inside locked in the dark warm hot doing this the whole date this is gonna sweat it's like under your arms there's no
Starting point is 00:42:49 way you're gonna sweat you're gonna smell it's there inside of your whole clothes so I was like I don't like I'm obsessed with smell right I was like I don't like smelling like sweat in my but hole and then a friend of mine told me oh I'm gonna do something for you and she did this perfume and I used it and it was like I was smelling great even if I went to the Sahada desert and I did a music video there it was like 42 degrees at Celsius and it was so hot I was wearing like a jumpsuit of plastic I was sweating like crazy and I was still smelling good I was like you know what I'm gonna make this like professional and then I did it and And you just smell amazing.
Starting point is 00:43:40 Your pussy and your butthole smell great the whole time. And then I give it to the guys that I'm with and they put in their balls and the dick in the butts too. They smell great. For me, it's such a like a turn on. I love it. After I got this product, something I always done was like to forget, oh my God, my accident, my panties.
Starting point is 00:44:07 at the place. So they smell so good. And smells insanely good like strawberry or whatever, cotton candy. And this guy obviously when you leave guys, pay attention. He will smell the panties. He will smell the panties. He wants to know. And then he will smell the part that your butthole is on it.
Starting point is 00:44:29 And it's not going to smell like butthole. And it's just heaven. They always come back. Anita, you're. giving us everything we need today. Okay? There's so few people that you can just like have an open conversation like this. Talk about your sexuality, your sex life.
Starting point is 00:44:46 What do you want people to know about you as an artist and an individual if they're watching today and they're like new fans? Like what would you want to say? I would say definitely what I said here. Like I think I'm an artist that fights against hypocrisy. You know, that's the artist I like to be about everything. Not only sex, but I bring up subjects, which is like, talk about my plastic surgeries, talk about sex, talk about poop, talk about things that we all do. And for some reason, we live our lives pretending we don't.
Starting point is 00:45:25 Yeah. You know? And I don't understand what's the type of insecurity or I don't know that make people live in this fake world that just pretend. life is this 24-7 glam. Knowing more about you now and knowing how hands-on you are with your craft, like you are running the show. You're your own manager. You do everything.
Starting point is 00:45:48 I really respect you. And I cannot wait to see what you do next. And I can't wait for the new album and all the things. You deserve all of it. So thank you so much for coming on. Thank you. I loved it. I felt really at home.
Starting point is 00:46:01 I hope people like it. And I loved meeting you. You have great energy. You do too. Love you.

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