Call Her Daddy - Anitta: Secrets to Great Sex, Twerking, and Blow Jobs

Episode Date: May 17, 2023

Get ready to turn up the heat with Anitta on Call Her Daddy! The Brazilian pop superstar joins the show to give the sex advice we've all been craving. Anitta reflects on the rise of her career and shares how she achieved such international fame. She also demonstrates her amazing twerking skills and talks about how her moves translate to the bedroom. Anitta gets real about what she finds attractive in a person and shares her deal breakers when it comes to dating. She also gives some expert tips on sexting and shares her secrets for giving mind-blowing blowjobs. But the fun doesn't stop there. Anitta also opens up about what intimidates her in the bedroom and shares some of her wildest experiences. Whether you're looking to spice up your sex life or just want to hear some juicy stories, this episode is not to be missed. So get ready to take some notes and join Anitta on Call Her Daddy for an unforgettable conversation. Watch this episode with Portuguese (Brazil) subtitles Watch this episode with Spanish (LATAM) subtitles Click HERE to read the transcripts for this episode in Portuguese (Brazil) and Spanish (LATAM). Call Her Daddy Apparel is here. Shop at ⁠⁠shop.callherdaddy.com

what is up daddy gang it is your founding father alex cooper with call her daddy anita welcome to call her daddy thank you daddy gang we are in the presence of truly someone that is just doing it all and i'm honored to be sitting with you today. Anita is the most successful Brazilian artist to ever come out of the country. Billboard magazine has called her more influential than Beyonce, Rihanna, and Lady Gaga. What the fuck? No big fucking deal, Anita. In Brazil, maybe. I don't know.

International. I don't know. You also are nominated for a Grammy this year for Best New Artist. Congratulations. Thank you. It is like your career is incredible. And watching you grow has just been so fucking cool. But I know you from when we met at the Baby to Baby Gala.

Yeah. I need to hear what your favorite moment is from that event. Because I know we met like briefly but we were sitting next to each other I was dying you are so funny you're so charismatic you have such a personality what do you remember from that event I think our table was so fun we had like very fun people with us and we had fun just talking about things that people would never talk in a fancy table of auction you know dinner i don't think yes anita and i are like we meet and two seconds later anita's like

so like how does your vagina smell and i was like oh hey girl what's up we're like let's talk about our buttholes and our vaginas as like a corporate spotify person is sitting directly to our left my favorite was also when they, not that like everyone knows the baby to baby gala, but so there's like angels that work at the event. Oh my God. So Anita is like chilling. And like, now it's like towards the end of the night, like people have left, but like people are saying, so Anita's like, no girl, like I got an early morning. Like I'm going to dip out. And I'm like, totally get it.

I'll be leaving soon. So everyone in the crowd is sitting and they're like, hey, can all the angels stand up? To give people context, it's about 11 women in a crowd of 300. And they go, everyone, all the angels stand up. Anita just starts standing up she's like bye everyone i gotta go and it's a dead silent room and she was like wait and i'm like anita it's only the angels worse than that it's worse than that tell us in my mind i thought he was she was telling she was

calling all the women angels stand up all the women and i thought all the women was gonna stand up that's why i stood up and you're like this is the perfect moment for me to like sneak out the back door only 11 people of like 300 and anita literally sits back down she's like mother fuck that was terrible it was it was a great moment let's kind of go back through like your life a little bit to get to know you better what was life like where you grew up outside of rio de janeiro so people don't think when when they see me or they see like my songs and whatever they don't imagine that i come from like the communities it could be called the ghetto a little bit it's like the favelas when you go to brazil there's like coming to these places that like the houses are really close to each other it's a really like

humble place simple i come from a place like that i to each other it's a really like humble place simple i come from a place like that i was born and raised in a place like that my mom used to do the best she could to fake the danger and the bad sides of it for me and my brother so we all see everything with like this beauty and playing in the streets things like that very like very like in the hood you know yeah and and but she always told us that a way for us to leave there it's not that we don't like there but we all want to leave because we want a better life so she always said that the only way to get out would be studying and we always did the best we could like studying and doing like all we could and um i always loved music so i started doing music but also like studying and doing like all we could and um I always loved music so I

started doing music but also like studying everything I was my own manager for like 10 years me and my brother we were partners so it was a whole job not only from arts but also like business when and at what age did you realize your love for performing? Oh, no. Since I was a little kid, I was already like singing. And when I was three years old, like four or five, I was already singing. And my family used to ask me like these questions, like, what are you going to be when you grow up? Whatever. And I always used to be like, I'm going to be famous. I'm going to be an artist.

I'm going to have a pool in my house. Blah, blah, blah blah blah blah that was literally me so you kind of always knew always i would pass through some pass by some places that i knew it was like tv places like studios or whatever and i used to open the window or go to the bus window and say like you guys are gonna see me i'm gonna work here blah blah nine years old i was always like this personality kind of crazy i love that so much though because i think sometimes you have to have that energy in order to get to where you need to get sure i was sure it was not that i said like oh i want to be i was sure i was i would tell my family where i was gonna live how my house would

be the tv shows that were gonna be the people were gonna meet i would be like that when i was a kid i could literally like see and dream about this and like my family was like okay because it was a very humble life so they would never prospect that in my life totally so they would be like okay and i was like you guys don't understand i'm not saying i want to i'm gonna be there there's no option it's happening do you guys want to come along for the ride or not exactly who were some artists that you admired growing up mariah carey was my first one she my first diva i and i had the the opportunity to tell her that and it was crazy and to be on the phone with her for hours that was also crazy and for me she was the number one forever and um then rihanna and now i i'm sponsored by Fenty. I did their Fenty show.

I do like photo shoots for Fenty. It's crazy. Even when you're saying that, does it still feel surreal how much success you've had? I think we should always remember because sometimes, and I think the industry does this to us, they push us to think that we need always more more and more and more and I think nowadays with the internet it's kind of impossible for you to reach

everything everyone every time you got to be happy also you got to take time for yourself also so I think that uh this speech that I used to have for my life for many years like you can be more you can do more never stop never give up i was like that and when i was like that i couldn't see those things that happened in my life i would be like okay yeah i met mariah okay yeah i loved it but i couldn't like look and be like wow nowadays. Nowadays, for me, it's like, yeah, we can definitely give up. We can definitely go rest, take a nap, go to sleep. We don't need all the money in the world. You know, a person, the money doesn't mean happiness.

And the many, as many number ones you get in your life that's not gonna make you happier or not so for me it's like every single thing that happened that happened in my life i learned how to stop and be like wow look at what i did this is so and then live that moment again i got to this reflection when because last year i got super sick right super sick i couldn't do anything i couldn't go upstairs at my house i couldn't do anything literally for three months i was like and um i thought literally that i was gonna die it was a whole thing and then um i was in the hospital for so long and then i was like you know what i was just working working working to reach everything and thinking I still didn't have enough. And now I'm here.

And what did I get from life? Like, right. Did I enjoy it? Did I have fun? Did I do nothing? And the thing that I wanted the most was like to travel, to have more free time. And but today is too much for you to be successful. You got to be on Instagram gotta be on instagram youtube tiktok spotify it's so many

things that you gotta do we're just one human being it's too much how can we do all of that it's a lot so i'm not up to waste my life searching for for things anymore because i'm almost 30 now i'm 29 and I do think it was important and amazing for me to do that for so many years but now I just want to rest if I get more success amazing if no amazing it's okay your birth name is actually Larissa yeah do you mind sharing why and when you started going by Anita so um my my name ladies is very common in brazil anita is a name that there was just one character from a series called anita and i wanted to be this girl because she used to say that she was like an 18 year old character in this series

she used to say that she didn't like to be just one girl she liked to wake up and decide which girl she wanted to be today i want to be crazy tomorrow i want to be sexy and then i want to be pretty and then i want to be princess and i was like that's so cool because i don't want i don't like to define myself and be like okay i'm this yep i'm so many things i like to discover every day a new me you know and i think people have the necessity of defining you'll be like oh she is that and i like to be all what is the difference between larissa and anita oh my god it's huge it's huge i started my career 12 years ago here in america i am a best new artist i'm joking but i am nominated as best new artist for the grammys because it's a new career i started

from the zero you know i left everything and i came to start here again but 12 years ago when i started there i created this character because me larissa i'm very shy to be honest i'm very insecure i'm very like i don't like going out i don't like socializing i don't like doing anything you know i'm so the opposite of who i am when i'm in this character and when i created this character anita i wanted a person a persona that would be completely against hypocrisy. You know, people that are hypocrites that say one thing and do the other, you know. And that's what I wanted to do. How many languages can you sing in?

Sing? I can sing in five languages. It's because I sing in portuguese spanish english italian and french but french just a little bit i speak just a little bit and italian a little bit how the fuck did you learn all these languages so i'm gonna give a very good example right now of larissa and anita right okay so when I go to interview as Anita you gotta deliver entertainment right yeah so people ask me how did you learn so many languages I say with boyfriends whenever I wanted to have a know a new language I would date a different guy and like different accents but in reality I had which is kind of boring, the reality. Larissa, I hired different teachers from different places of the world.

And I used to leave them in my dress room for whatever commitments I had. So I used to, like, get two hours of Glam every day. I would be studying during those two hours. The teacher would be telling me and I would be, like, studying for these two hours. I fucking love your honesty of like let me be so clear Anita is like bitch if I wanted to learn Italian I'm going to date an Italian man I'm gonna fuck an Italian guy like actually I was just hiring people and they were just teaching me do you ever worry that like now being so honest about like the two characters that people will

be like wait why what the fuck like this isn't the real you no because i think uh it's so important for me to have this clear and to understand that i use my character to break rules to bake to break boundaries and like uh things that limit us women to do all women women that wants to be free in sex women to want women women that wants to be free in um work whatever i like this character it brings it brings to us um self-esteem confident and something to look at even i do when i'm myself larissa nowadays i look at me as a character and i'd be like okay i think i can get that from anita and be a little bit more confident about myself you know it's so much easier for people to

watch a movie and see that character and be like okay and understand the actor is another thing yeah but they don't understand that musicians singers they do the same thing we do the same thing there's no way we're bringing the on self the person that we are at home the person that we are in family and bring this person on stage it's not entertainable it's not it's not different enough for people to look and be like oh this is special who is your favorite person that you've collaborated with on a song uh snoop dogg that is for sure because i think him and cardi b because they are so funny and snoop dogg is very like simple humble and he's like everything for him is a vibe it's all about if he likes you if he likes what's your your energy if if he see he has something kind of i don't know he sees

someone and he feels the energy and then he decides if he likes or not i feel i think so that's what i think from him because i just feel like i can hug him and be there like safe forever i think he's one of the coolest guys and cardi b should just just funny but good energy like best energy like high level i love that i was reading the list i'm like pharrell, Missy Elliott, Snoop Dogg, Rita Ora, Cardi B, Saweetie, Becky G. I'm like, Becky is one of my best friends. Missy Elliott was great energy too. It was so good. So good.

Okay. Anita. You're also known for your dancing. Okay. Yeah. The Anita challenge went viral on TikTok, which I remember is watching these videos and being like, one, how is this not getting censored on TikTok? I can't even like fucking curse in my TikTok. Meanwhile, people are like doing the challenge and like it's incredible watching it.

Can you explain how twerking in Brazil is different than twerking in America? Because it's not even only twerking it's partying in general i think here in america people in the parties they are more concerned about who they're with uh where they're going what they're wearing and you know it's like the table situation in brazil there's no table situation you go to the party there's no table everyone is just one place mass together just find out you know and um we love dancing we love dancing sometimes we don't even understand whether you're singing we just want to dance sometimes it's just the same lyrics over and over they just sing a different melody just same words always and we love it we just want to

dance we just want to listen and dance what is it like being known for like the way that you dance though are you like so proud of yourself it's crazy because in brazil it started this fever of like oh we're gonna do anita moves anita moves okay now we need you to twerk okay okay so this is gonna be iconic I think people will fucking love it is this the wrong surface oh my god okay okay so you're sick we with your knees. Okay, you focus here How that must take a lot of upper body we you doing this Anita oh my god, I don't Know but you're you're this other one is hard though. When you do like, when you do a circle,

but you stop in the middle, so you do a square. This one is harder. Like when you do this. I feel so creepy. I'm literally like, how are, holy shit. Dude, that was so good. I am like inspired now to go home and like secretly practice it, but like not letting anyone know I'm practicing it. But am, like, inspired now to go home and, like, secretly practice it,

but, like, not letting anyone know I'm practicing it. But, like, I will be working on it, and next time I see you, maybe I'll have a little move to bust out. And do you incorporate these into your sex? No. No. It's just a dance. When the guy asks me to dance, I go, like, dance first.

He's never going to fucking dance, so I i'm like what the fucking question is that right you're like i'm not i'm not performing like exactly i get silly it's so annoying like dance first you you dance i dance are you currently single or in a relationship i'm single completely single and not looking for anything i love and so happy with myself and i don't have sex in months so many months i don't even remember the last time i had sex to be honest with you are you just masturbating no like i'm so listen i didn't find anyone special enough that i would think like okay this one deserves to come here and i didn't find it yet you're spending time alone but i was crazy before i used to like fuck even like one person that would cross me on the

street i'll be like you come here stop i would be like that how did you get that confidence just like go up to people because i was living anita 24 7 of the. Do you have a type of guy? No. Girl? Breathing and alive. I don't know. There's something inside that comes. And this something, for some reason, I can feel it. And then I'm like, so there's no type. I can literally show you three different ex-boyfriends and you'll be like, what's the sense between these people? I love that

though what do you think is like something that you're most attracted to in a person i think we when they're funny i love when they're funny you make me laugh i'm like oh i love it and um when they are confident a little aggressive but in a good way i like when they are aggressive in a good way not like abusive relations have you found yourself in um any like abusive relationships oh yeah terrible but i need it just once and then never again like in two months after this one guy i had like for a year and something wow uh i can look if i'm starting with someone in one month i can feel it's abusive i'm like out can you try to give like if people are listening they're like fuck like i think i may be in one like do you have any like signs or things to look for yeah because in the beginning they let you feel very um comfortable you know and then they

start to make you feel insecure about yourself without saying they don't say you are less or not you know yeah they just make they point it's like they point things and other people that they are actually talking about you but they pretend they're not and then oh honey i'm almost a psychologist i look and i'm like okay and then i start bringing shit over for themselves to think so you mean like they'll point something out and someone in a room yeah that like relates to you or is like what you don't have or or or just say like you see that's so bad oh my god kind of like to guide you how to not be are you usually the one breaking up with people or they yeah i am i need that to change though i think that's why i'm waiting so much i want things to be different got it what is like a deal breaker for you in a relationship

when i feel suffocated i don't like that or um when i think when i feel suffocated is the number one thing like when the guy doesn't let you breathe and like jealousy for no reason you know like too much come on or needy like i miss you i want to talk to you like 24 7 come on give me a break give me a time to breathe right there's nothing more like unattractive which i get it we're insecure, but being in a relationship with someone that's so insecure about you in the relationship, it's such a turnoff. You're like, can you just get into therapy, muster the courage? Or when the guy tries, he's selfish. He tries to say he's doing things for you, but he's actually doing for him.

He doesn't want to be alone. He is needy. He doesn't want to be alone he is needy he doesn't want to stand with himself alone but he says that oh no I'm doing this for you come on you're not I want to be fucking alone yeah for a little time can you give advice to women listening that are like okay wait Anita you have not been with someone you're not hooking up with people like how are you so comfortable being alone so everything started and I hope people don't need that to change lives when I got sick that was like when I wasn't bad thinking I was gonna die I started to look over all the

things of my life and I started to see all the things that I didn't want to repeat again it's not that I don't want to have sex with people anymore. Please, God, I'm down. I'm open. I'm free tonight. I'm just saying that I'm rethinking the reason why I used to do things and how I was doing things. And I want to do differently. I don't want to have sex with a guy because I want him to fall in love for me or because i don't want to lose him i want to have sex because i feel like doing it because i feel like this guy deserves my this queen going to you know i don't know and before i didn't used to like staying by myself i used to just like need friends every time in my house friends every time i needed people yeah and now i don't need no but i can be alone like this for days you know cook my own food

and be like life is beautiful i'm just here chilling and i i feel like we need to ask ourselves, why are we scared of the silence? What is inside of us that we don't want to listen to? You know, what we don't like about ourselves that we don't want to face it. I'm not saying I regret the thousands of people I fucked. I'm just saying right now, I don't feel like maybe next month i feel like fucking thousands of people again just now i just feel like um uh not right now is it worth it i remember i went through almost this is i've never said this i almost went an entire year in my 20s where I did not have sex and I was like totally happy oh I'm so happy like it was like just like a reclaiming moment for myself of like I need to just figure my own

shit out and I don't need any penis getting in the vicinity of me while I try to I kind of want but it needs to be a great penis it needs to be a penis plus a brain plus a tongue plus so many things you know it needs to be uh like a mix because it's a lot of work to have sex for me it's a lot of work i like to put a show on oh you do can you give us some tips anita like if the girls are like what do you mean put a show on like give us some tips like what's your go the girls are like, what do you mean put a show on? Like give us some tips. Like what's your go-to? Because I like to enjoy myself. I like to feel like I'm like dancing and performing. Is it a deal breaker for you if a guy is not good at like eating you out?

I teach. I love you. I would teach. I would say, come on, let me say something do this do that I don't like when they go like this look they put the tongue very um hard and they go like and it's like you go like oh my god I don't like that right it's just like a little like slithering and you're like it's so bad i was this day these days oh by the way i didn't have sex with guys this whole time with

girls i did have so i was teaching this friend of mine how to how to eat a pussy these days and she was like oh it's that easy and i was like yeah i came in three minutes she came in two wait you were practicing on each other yeah and you're just friends yeah there was no like sexual connection oh no i was just teaching her you just like took off your pants like here's my vagina let me teach you uh-huh fuck okay like we need some tips if without taking off your pants and do you have any like like one specific thing that you can adjust for the men or women listening that could maybe just like help oh my god i will say first of all for girls to for whatever guys girls to eat girls personally i think it's kind of different for each girl i don't know the things i like can be different from the things yep other girls like me personally when i'm doing that with

the girl i go nice and slow i do circles and then i just do up and down and i do side by side but like slow and wet and not like you're eating a pasta it's just like you are an ice cream that is cold and you cannot freeze your tongue if you're gonna you're gonna freeze your tongue you're gonna feel like ice cold and um yeah i just go nice and slow and then i put a finger on it and i don't put the finger on it like you know i just put it like nice and slow small moving movements and like just smooth you know and and and then um uh like i don't go in the crazy side by side or like i just go in a smooth keep going with the flow you know and the girl is kind of gonna guide you and then you can just put the finger in the beginning of the entry of the vagina you don't need to go all the way down there and it's not

because the woman squirt that she came there was this time this guy he made me squirt like 20 times and i was not coming i was like this doesn't mean something is happening it's men that are obsessed with getting a woman to squirt let me look at me in the eyes of this camera stop the next day it hurts oh it hurts so bad come on i think sometimes men forget like would you want us like jack hammering your dick yeah no you like when it's like very wet and like you don't need it to be like let's fucking go uh imagine we did that also dry you would have rug burn same for us okay same for us there is also like with guys what i do um let me try to give an example i always use oil when i can when the guy is not full of like some guys are like oh you're using the i love i love using lubricant love it and

some guys think it's because they're not doing a good job shut the fuck up it's just more fleeting yes you use lubricant i put the lubricant i'm gonna teach you in this bottle okay okay here we go i put the lubricant and then i go like this first of all i go like this and then this is one movement and then you're gonna do something there's something you can do that they are not gonna understand what you're doing you could tell him to close his eyes you're gonna do this you're gonna hold here in the bottom and you're gonna do this with the hands like this you go down and circle down and circle down and circle and then you go up and down up and you do this but up and down up and down and you do this don't don't don't he's gonna be like what

is happening but you should put um lubricant on it but you go like this don't do this it's like go up and down don't don't let it go just open up and down and you do this open and close open and close because then you're gonna switch the pressure on it and you're gonna be like what is she doing though but you gotta put lubricant on it right so you're kind of like massaging down past their tip and then around their shaft while you're holding the base yeah like this oh that's magical and then they get super confused because it feels like a blowjob, but it's not. And then for the blowjob, I like using things that you put in your teeth to fix it. Plastic.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. The Invisalign. Kind of. There's a bunch of brands. Yeah. If you use the one down, just the one down. Life changing. Really? Because it feels like you don't have teeth i need a it feels like you don't have teeth yeah you can try i just added that to my amazon cart while you were you can ask them wow they're gonna feel like you don't have

teeth and just on the bottom because it's gonna touch the yeah because it's on the up too it's gonna look weird yeah but if you use only on the bottom they're gonna feel like you don't have teeth because you can touch as much as you want with this teeth here because it's not like aggressive it's like smooth as the plastic this is an educational podcast today okay we are educating but this is bad they don't like it like the brand of the dentists they they will try to kill me and they're gonna say i'm built bullshit because i try to say that in brazil wow they all they wanted to kill me we i feel like they would love it you're the sales are gonna rock kill me no no no that's not the purpose this is health for people for people to take right while you're

sucking dick you're also aligning your teeth you're you're but people don't want to know they don't do blow jobs they just were born from spirit sand spirit that came and so everyone is virgin today i am i am claiming that this is a great technique and you can be fixing your teeth while sucking dick. Nothing better. I wouldn't say that. I'm not a dentist. I'm just saying if you want to try, you try. If no, it's okay.

Totally. If you already have one, pop it in. See how it works. Yeah, dentists hate me because I said that in Brazil. They hate me. Dentists? They do. Because I said it's good when you use it, but they hate it.

They don't like that I said that. They're the virgin dentists. They need to fucking relax. Have you ever been cheated on once when i was um 19 18 so how did you find out oh my god online a fan a fan told me no and uh oh but twice i was twice once was a fan told me second one i pretended it was a fan because i actually dreamed about it i dream about about a lot of things that actually happened so there was this one time i went to sleep this boy i landed my car to him he didn't have a car i landed my car to him i was already a singer was performing somewhere else he went to the place and he i when i went to sleep i literally went to

like in my dream i went to the club he was i saw him kissing the girl he was wearing blah blah blah the girl was wearing and it was so clear to me and i know i have these type type of dreams so i didn't tell him i dreamed i said hi a fan took a picture and sent me you were with this girl you were wearing blah blah blah she was wearing blah blah blah and then he was desperate saying, yeah, I'm sorry. After months, I told him I dreamed it. Have you ever got caught cheating? No, I'm so smart. I am so smart.

How do you feel about sex on the first date? I don't care if I feel like I do. You just be yourself. And if he likes you, amazing. If he he doesn't it's because he's an asshole and he's not that he's an asshole it doesn't match you and you just want him because of you think you need him for something but you don't i love that advice it's like if you're good with yourself who gives a fuck if they you don't care it doesn't matter there was this one time this one guy i went on a date after it did not it ended up not happening anymore i was like he doesn't want me and then after two weeks when i was like better with my therapy on day on point and i was like what the fuck i was doing with that guy? He has, he makes no sense.

He kisses terribly. His kiss. I was like, where the fuck did this guy learn to kiss? It was like, it was a terrible kiss. The sex would be even worse. Why I was caring so much. It was, it's just our fear of being rejected has nothing to do with the guy we don't even care about the fucking guy so true has nothing to do

with the fucking person the person sometimes is shitty yes and we are concerned just because we don't want to feel rejected i also think a good bit of advice is pretend in your head imagine if they were obsessed with you and they wouldn't stop hitting you up then now assess would you actually like them like if you're coming from a place of like they don't like me i want them to like that's just the chase and we get addicted no and then he texted me and i was like no thank you like you kissed like a frog i was like no today i have my mind so on point. No, thanks. Some people, you just go with them because your mind is not on point. Right.

And then you wake up one day and it's like, what the fuck? What I was doing with that person. It's so crazy, too, when you look back and you're like, I can't believe I was fucking obsessed with that guy. He fucking sucked. Yeah. Sometimes you just need to like step away from it. How you feel about sharing nudes i don't do that you don't no is it just because you're nervous because like you're a celebrity before yes nowadays i just think it's uh

nude i think it's more sexy when you're wearing like panties or something that is almost showing but it doesn't show i think it's more sexy plays more with the imagination to be honest i love that we're like having a hand on it you know it's more even a picture of a dick it's not beautiful come on getting a picture of a dick? Let's be honest. It's not great. Let's be honest. It's not great. You're like, oh, there it is. Like, when you see the guy naked, like, it's not hot.

That's not hot, guys. What are you responding if a guy sends you a dick pic? I'd be like, I sent an emoji or something. I don't know. I'm like, eh, that's not it. it i don't know i don't feel anything with that what emoji um but the eyes you know these two eyes that look like that's it it kind of doesn't say anything it's just not to leave the guy i kind of love it though because then it could make him a little insecure of like, wait, hello?

And you're like, that's all you get. That's all you get. Do you like sexting? Sex what? Sexting. Like texting, sexting. No. No.

Me either. All these things for me are just not. I like the real thing. Come on. Come here. Let's. Yes. Not the sex, sex. I like the little horny talk uh-huh but not the

sex like i'm gonna put my dick put in your pussy and bang it 20 times i don't like that i like the little horny thing you know what intimidates you in the bedroom what intimidates me a huge insanely huge dick trying to put it on my ass that's very intimidating when a dick is like huge it's so scary trying to go in your butthole it's kind of not good because you're so scared this one guy i saw i was like like, okay, I think I'm going to try here. And then his dick was so big, so big. And I was like, listen, I'm scared.

And then he said, why? And then he said, this is something I don't think i can handle it right now at this moment of my life i cannot handle this i think check back with me in a couple months and then we just talked and cuddled and it was it have you ever had a threesome oh so many times do you enjoy them i do i think it's cool i like it i think it's more but you you have to be very aligned with everyone you know and yeah i have threesomes four six some six some i had a boyfriend that used to like to like switch couples and all do you like the the swapping thing yeah did you like it yeah he was very like comfortable and uh the people he always let me pick and um it was just fun it was very cool and respectful and

fun did you ever get jealous oh no no i'm not a jealous person i'm jealous if I don't feel respected if I don't feel respected I'm very I get not even jealous I get angry I think that people that want to potentially do threesomes or foursomes or orgies or whatever like I think you need to know yourself before you do that of like if you're a jealous person yeah don't fucking do it that yeah know yourself sometimes people i think do it for their partner and it's like if you know your relationship don't do it just because you think he or she wants to do it yeah that's a big issue to be honest i don't yeah i think you need to be very friends with your partner to make sure he also there is this one time and three times also with guys but he wouldn't be with a guy just me

and he was super comfortable with that he picked it and it was cool i liked it to be honest but he let me feel feel free with that do you like to use toys in the bedroom i do the guy gotta be confident though i know but i do me too and that's why I did my line of perfume like when I did that it was more about like I was doing concerts and obviously I'm performing for like two hours and carnival is like four hours performing non-stop even seven hours I've done and um when you finish you don't smell good. Let's just have a real talk. A butthole smells like butthole. If you go in the end of the day, you put your finger in a butthole and you smell it. It smells like butthole.

It's a place that is there, inside, locked in the dark, warm, hot, doing this the whole date this is gonna sweat it's like under your arms there's no way you're gonna sweat you're gonna smell it's there inside of your whole clothes so i was like i don't like i'm obsessed with smell right i was like i don't like smelling like sweat in my butthole and then a friend of mine told me oh i'm gonna do something for you and she did this perfume and i used it and it was like i was smelling great even if i went to the sahara desert and i did a music video there it was like 42 degrees c, and it was so hot. I was wearing like a jumpsuit of plastic.

I was sweating like crazy, and I was still smelling good. I was like, you know what? I'm going to make this like professional. And then I did it, and you just smell amazing. Your pussy and your butthole smell great the whole time. And then I give it to the guys that I'm with. And they put it in their balls, in the dick, in the butts too. They smell great.

For me, it's such a turn on. I love it. After I got this product, something I always done was like to forget oh my god by accident my panties at the place so they smell so good and smells insanely good like strawberry or whatever cotton candy and this guy obviously when you leave guys pay attention he will smell the panties he will smell the panties he wants to know and then he will smell the part that your butthole is on it and it's not gonna smell like butthole and it's just heaven they always come back anita you're giving us everything we need today okay there's so few people that you can just like have an open

conversation like this talk about your sexuality your sex life what do you want people to know about you as an artist and an individual if they're watching today and they're like new fans like what would you want to say i would say definitely what i said here like i think i'm an artist that fights against hypocrisy, you know? That's the artist I like to be. About everything. Not only sex, but I bring up subjects which is like, talk about my plastic surgeries, talk about sex, talk about poop,

talk about things that we all do. And for some reason, we live our lives pretending we don't yeah you know and i don't understand what's the type of insecurities or i don't know that make people live in this fake world that just pretend life is this 24 7 glam knowing more about you now and knowing how hands-on you are with your craft like you are running the show you're your own manager you do everything I I really respect you and I cannot wait to see what you do next and I can't wait for the new album and all the things you deserve all of it so thank you so much for coming on thank you I loved it I felt really at home I hope people like it and i loved meeting you you have great energy you do too love you