Call Her Daddy - Anitta: Secrets to Great Sex, Twerking, and Blow Jobs (FBF) (Portuguese Subtitles)
Episode Date: March 15, 2024Get ready to turn up the heat with Anitta on Call Her Daddy! The Brazilian pop superstar joins the show to give the sex advice we've all been craving. Anitta reflects on the rise of her career and sha...res how she achieved such international fame. She also demonstrates her amazing twerking skills and talks about how her moves translate to the bedroom. Anitta gets real about what she finds attractive in a person and shares her deal breakers when it comes to dating. She also gives some expert tips on sexting and shares her secrets for giving mind-blowing blowjobs. But the fun doesn't stop there. Anitta also opens up about what intimidates her in the bedroom and shares some of her wildest experiences. Whether you're looking to spice up your sex life or just want to hear some juicy stories, this episode is not to be missed. So get ready to take some notes and join Anitta on Call Her Daddy for an unforgettable conversation.
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Hello, everyone. Welcome back to another episode of Call Her Daddy. It is Alex, your father,
back at it again. I'm really, really, really excited to flashback to this episode. As you
guys know, we're doing a little flashback Friday from the past three years of my episodes on
Spotify. Okay, so Daddy Gang. Anita may have been one of my all time favorites ever. I remember her walking into the studio and the energy was absolutely insane. We had met at an event the prior week and we hit it off. We were talking about all these She talks about all the sex relationships, everything you need to know. You want to know how to give a good blowjob?
Anita. You want to know how to be good in bed? Anita. You want to know how to sing? Anita. You
want to know how to twerk? Anita. You want to know how to be a girl's girl? Anita. Like every
single thing, this woman just embodies confidence in a way that I just was enamored with her. So
daddy gang, get ready. Anita is a sexual, fun, insane episode. And yes,
she does teach us how to twerk. So prepare, get ready, sit back, relax. This is a perfect episode
to kick off a Friday with a little sexy time with my girl, Anita.
What is up, Daddy Gang? It is your founding father, Alex Cooper, with Call Her Daddy.
Anita, welcome to Call Her Daddy.
Thank you.
Daddy Gang, we are in the presence of truly someone that is just doing it all,
and I'm honored to be sitting with you today.
Anita is the most successful Brazilian artist to ever come out of the country.
Billboard magazine has called her more influential than Beyonce, Rihanna, and Lady Gaga.
What the fuck?
No, stop.
No big fucking deal, Anita.
In Brazil, maybe.
I don't know.
International.
I don't know.
You also are nominated for a Grammy this year for Best New Artist.
Congratulations.
Thank you.
It is like your career is incredible.
And watching you grow has just been so fucking cool.
But I know you from when we met at the Baby to Baby Gala.
Yeah.
I need to hear what your favorite moment is from that event.
Because I know we met like briefly, but we were sitting next to each other.
I was dying.
You are so funny.
You're so charismatic.
You have such a personality.
What do you remember from that event?
I think our table was so fun.
We had like very fun people with us and we had fun just talking about things that people
would never talk in a fancy table of auction you know dinner i don't
think yes anita and i are like we meet and two seconds later anita's like so like how does your
vagina smell and i was like oh hey girl what's up we're like let's talk about our buttholes and our
vaginas as like a corporate spotify person is sitting directly to our left my favorite was also
when they not that like everyone knows the baby to baby
gala but so there's like angels that work at the event so oh my god so anita is like chilling and
like now it's like towards the end of the night like people have left but like people are saying
so anita's like no girl like i got an early morning, like I'm going to dip out.
And I'm like, totally get it.
I'll be leaving soon.
So everyone in the crowd is sitting and they're like, hey, can all the angels stand up?
To give people context, it's about 11 women in a crowd of 300 and they go, everyone, all
the angels stand up.
Anita just starts standing up.
She's like, bye everyone. I got to go. And it's a dead silent starts standing up she's like bye everyone i gotta go
and it's a dead silent room and she was like wait and i'm like anita it's only the angels worse than
that it's worse than that tell us in my mind i thought he was she was telling she was calling
all the women angels stand up all the women and i thought all the women was gonna stand up that's
why i stood up.
And you're like, this is the perfect moment for me to like sneak out the back door.
Only 11 people of like 300.
And Anita literally sits back down.
She's like, mother fuck.
That was terrible.
It was, it was a great moment. let's kind of go back through like your life a little bit to get to know you better
what was life like where you grew up outside of rio de jane what was it like people don't think when when they see me or
they see like my songs and whatever they don't imagine that I come from like the communities
it could be called the ghetto a little bit it's like the favelas when you go to Brazil there's
like communities places that like the houses are really close to each other it's a really like
humble place simple I come from a place like
that i was born and raised in a place like that my mom used to do the best she could to fake
the danger and the bad sides of it for me and my brother so we all see everything with like this
beauty and playing in the streets things like that very like very like in the hood you know yeah and and but she always told us that
a way for us to leave there it's not that we don't like there but we all want to leave because we want
a better life so she always said that the only way to get out would be studying and we always did
the best we could like studying and doing like all we could. And I always loved music. So I started doing music, but also like studying everything.
I was my own manager for like 10 years.
Me and my brother, we were partners.
So it was a whole job, not only from arts, but also like business.
When and at what age did you realize your love for performing?
Oh, no.
Since I was a little kid, I was already like singing.
And when I was three years old, like four or five,
I was already singing.
And my family used to ask me like these questions,
like what are you going to be when you grow up, whatever.
And I always used to be like, I'm going to be famous.
I'm going to be an artist.
I'm going to have a pool in my house, blah, blah, blah, blah.
That was literally me. so you kind of always knew
always I would pass through some pass by some places that I knew it was like tv places like
studios or whatever and I used to open the window or go to the bus window and say like
you guys are gonna see me I'm gonna work here blah blah nine years old i was always like this
personality kind of crazy i love that so much though because i think sometimes you have to
have that energy in order to get to where you need to get sure i was sure it was not that i said like
oh i want to be i was sure i was i would tell my family where i was gonna live how my house would be
the tv shows i was gonna be the people were gonna meet i would be like that when i was a kid i could
literally like see and dream about this and like my family was like okay because it was a very
humble life so they would never prospect that in my life totally so they would be like okay and i was like you guys don't
understand i'm not saying i want to i'm gonna be there there's no option it's happening do you guys
want to come along for the ride or not exactly who were some artists that you admired growing up
mariah carey was my first one so my first div My first diva. And I had the opportunity to tell her that.
And it was crazy.
And to be on the phone with her for hours, that was also crazy.
For me, she was the number one forever.
And then Rihanna.
And now I'm sponsored by Fenty.
I did their Fenty show.
I do, like, photo shoots for Fenty. It's crazy.
Even when you're saying that, like, does it still feel surreal? Like how much success you've had?
I think we should always remember because sometimes, and I think the industry does this to
us, they push us to think that we need always more more and more and more and I think
nowadays with the internet it's kind of impossible for you to reach everything everyone every time
you got to be happy also you got to take time for yourself also so I think that uh this speech that
I used to have for my life for many years like like, you can be more, you can do more,
never stop, never give up. I was like that. And when I was like that, I couldn't see those things
that happened in my life. I would be like, okay, yeah, I met Mariah. Okay, yeah. I loved it. But I
couldn't like look and be like, wow. Nowadays, for me, it's it's like yeah we can definitely give up we can definitely
go rest take a nap go to sleep we don't need all the money in the world you know a person the money
doesn't mean happiness and the many as many number ones you get in your life that's not going to make
you happier or not so for me it's like every single
thing that happened that happened in my life i learned how to stop and be like wow look at what
i did this is so and then live that moment again i got to this reflection when because last year i
got super sick right super sick i couldn't do anything i couldn't go upstairs at my house i
couldn't do anything literally for three
months I was like and um I thought literally that I was gonna die it was a whole thing and then um
I was in the hospital for so long and then I was like you know what I was just working working
working to reach everything and thinking I still didn't have enough and now i'm here and what did
i get from life like right did i enjoy it did i have fun did i do nothing did i and the thing that
i wanted the most was like to travel to have more free time and but today is too much for you to be
successful you gotta be on instagram youtube tiktok spotify it's so many things that you gotta
do we're just one human being it's too much how can we do all of that it's a lot so i'm not up to
waste my life searching for for things anymore because i'm almost 30 now i'm 29 and i do think
it was important and amazing for me to do that
for so many years but now I just want to rest if I get more success amazing if no amazing it's okay
your birth name is actually Larissa yeah do you mind sharing why and when you started going by
Anita so um my name Larissa is very common in brazil anita is a name that
there was just one character from a series called anita and i wanted to be this girl because she
used to say that she was like an 18 year old character in this series she used to say that
she didn't like to be just one girl she
liked to wake up and decide which girl she wanted to be today i want to be crazy tomorrow i want to
be sexy and then i want to be pretty and then i want to be princess and i was like that's so cool
because i don't want i don't like to define myself and be like okay i'm this yeah I'm so many things. I like to discover every day a new me.
You know?
And I think people have the necessity of defining you.
And be like, oh, she is that.
And I like to be all.
What is the difference between Larissa and Anita?
Oh my God, it's huge.
It's huge.
I started my career 12 years ago.
Here in America, I am a Best New Artist.
I'm joking.
But I am nominated as Best New Artist for the Grammys
because it's a new career.
I started from the zero.
You know, I left everything and I came to start here again.
But 12 years ago when I started there,
I created this character.
Because me, Larissa, I'm very shy, to be honest.
I'm very insecure.
I'm very like, I don't like going out.
I don't like socializing.
I don't like doing anything, you know?
I'm so the opposite of who I am when I'm in this character.
And when I created this character, Anita, I wanted a person, a persona that would be completely against hypocrisy you
know people that are hypocrites that say one thing and do the other you know and uh that's what i
wanted to do how many languages can you sing in sing i can sing in five languages it's because
i sing in portuguese spanish english italian and
french but french just a little bit i speak just a little bit and italian a little bit how the fuck
did you learn all these languages so i'm gonna give a very good example right now of larissa
and anita right okay so when i go to interview as Anita you gotta deliver entertainment right yeah
so people ask me how did you learn so many languages I say with boyfriends whenever I
wanted to have a know a new language I would date a different guy and like different accents
but in reality I had which is kind of boring the reality larissa i hired different teachers from different places
of the world and i would i used to leave them in my dress room for whatever commitments i had so i
used to like get two hours of glam every day i would be studying this during this two hours the
teacher would be telling me and i would be like studying for these two hours i fucking love your
honesty of like let me be so clear anita is like bitch
if i wanted to learn italian i'm going to date an italian man i'm gonna fuck an italian guy
like actually i was just hiring people and they were just teaching me do you ever worry that like
now being so honest about like the two characters that people will be like wait why what the fuck
like this isn't the real you
no because i think uh it's so important for me to have this clear and to understand that i use my
character to break rules to bake to break boundaries and like uh things that limit us
women to do all women women that wants to be free in sex women to want women women that wants to be free in um
work whatever i like this character it brings it brings to us um self-esteem confidence and
something to look at even i do when i'm myself larissa nowadays i look at me as a character and
i'd be like okay i think i can get that from anita and be a
little bit more confident about myself you know it's so much easier for people to watch a movie
and see that character and be like okay and understand the actor is another thing yeah but
they don't understand that musicians singers singers, they do the same thing.
We do the same thing.
There's no way we're bringing the on self, the person that we are at home,
the person that we are in family, and bring this person on stage.
It's not entertainable. It's not different enough for people to look and be like, oh, this is special.
Who is your favorite person that you've collaborated with on
a song uh snoop dogg that is for sure because i think him and cardi b because they are so funny
and snoop dogg is very like simple humble and he's like everything for him is a vibe it's all about if he likes you if he
likes what's your your energy if if he see he has something kind of i don't know he sees someone
and he feels the energy and then he decides if he likes or not i feel i think so that's what i think from him because i just feel like i can
hug him and be there like safe forever i think he's one of the coolest guys and cardi b she just
funny but good energy like best energy like high level i love that i was reading the list i'm like
pharrell missy elliott snoop dogg rita aura cardi b suiti becky g i'm like back is one of my best friends missy ellett was great energy too it was so good
so good okay anita you're also known for your dancing okay yeah the anita challenge went viral
on tiktok which i remember just watching these videos and being like one how
is this not getting censored on tiktok i can't even like fucking curse in my tiktoks meanwhile
people are like doing the challenge and like it's incredible watching it can you explain
how twerking in brazil is different than twerking in america because it's not even only twerking
it's partying in general i think here in america people in the
parties they are more concerned about who they're with uh where they're going what they're wearing
and you know it's like the table situation in brazil there's no table situation you go to the
party there's no table everyone is just one place mass together just find out you know and um
we love dancing we love dancing sometimes we don't even understand whether you're singing
we just want to dance sometimes it's just the same lyrics over and over they just
sing a different melody just same words always and we love it we just want to dance we just want
to listen and dance what is it like being known for like the way that you dance though are you
like so proud of yourself it's crazy because in brazil it started this fever of like oh we're
gonna do anita moves anita moves okay now we need you to twerk okay okay so this is gonna be iconic i think people will fucking love it is this the wrong
surface oh my god okay okay so do you want music we have music no it doesn't need to okay so you
just go like you're gonna do a push-up right. And then you focus here in your hips.
What?
So it's like a pushup.
That must take a lot of upper body.
You're doing this, but in this position.
Anita, oh my God.
I could only dream.
It's not hard though.
No, but you're, you're.
This other one is hard though.
When you do like, when you do a circle, but you stop in the middle.
So you do a square.
This one is harder.
Like when you do this.
I feel so creepy.
I'm literally like, holy shit.
Dude, that was so good.
I am like inspired now to go home and like secretly practice it,
but like not letting anyone know I'm practicing it.
But like I will be working on it.
And next time I see you, maybe I'll have a little move to bust out.
And do you incorporate these into your sex?
No, no.
It's just a dance.
When the guy asks me to dance, I go like dance first.
He's never going to fucking dance.
So I'm like, what the fucking question is that
right you're like i'm not i'm not performing like exactly i get silly
it's so annoying like dance first you you dance i dance are you currently single or in a relationship i'm single completely single and not looking for
anything i'm so happy with myself and i don't have sex in months so many months i don't even
remember the last time i had sex, to be honest with you.
Are you just masturbating?
No.
Like I'm celibate.
Listen, I didn't find anyone special enough that I would think like,
okay, this one deserves to come here.
And I didn't find it yet.
You're spending time alone.
But I was crazy before.
I used to like fuck even like
one person that would cross me on the street i'll be like you come here stop i would be like that
how did you get that confidence just like go up to people because i was living anita 24 7 of the
time do you have a type of guy no girl breathing in the life i don't know. There's something inside that comes and this something for some reason I can feel it.
And then I'm like, so there's no type.
I can literally show you three different ex-boyfriends and you'll be like, what's the sense between these people?
I love that though.
What do you think is like something that you're most attracted to in a person?
I think when they're funny.
I love when they're funny.
You make me laugh.
I'm like, ah, I love it.
And when they are confident, a little aggressive, but in a good way.
I like when they are aggressive in a good way not like abusive
relations have you found yourself in um any like abusive relationships oh yeah terrible but i need
it just once and then never again like in two months after this one guy i had like for a year and something wow uh I can look if I'm starting with someone in one month I
can feel it's abusive I'm like out can you try to give like if people are listening they're like
fuck like I think I may be in one like do you have any like signs or things to look for yeah
because in the beginning they let you feel very um comfortable you know and then they start
to make you feel insecure about yourself without saying they don't say you are less or not you know
yeah they just make they point it's like they point things and other people that they are
actually talking about you but they
pretend they're not and then oh honey i'm almost a psychologist i look and i'm like okay and then
i start bringing shit over for themselves to think so you mean like they'll point something
out and someone in a room yeah that like relates to you or is like what you don't have or or or just say like you
see that's so bad oh my god kind of like to guide you how to not be are you usually the one breaking
up with people or they yeah i am i need that to change though i think that's why i'm waiting so
much i want things to be different. Got it.
What is like a deal breaker for you in a relationship?
When I feel suffocated.
Hmm.
I don't like that.
Or when I think when I feel suffocated is the number one thing.
Like when the guy doesn't let you breathe and like jealousy for no reason, you like too much come on or needy like i miss you i want to talk to you like 24 7 come on give me a
break give me a time to breathe right there's nothing more like unattractive which i get it
we're all insecure but being in a relationship with someone that's so insecure about you in the relationship it's like such a turnoff you're like can you just like
get into therapy muster the courage when the guy tries he's selfish he tries to say he's doing
things for you but he's actually doing for him he doesn't want to be alone he is needy he doesn't
want to stand with himself alone but he says that oh, oh no, I'm doing this for you.
Come on, you're not.
I want to be fucking alone.
Yeah.
For a little time.
Can you give advice to women listening that are like, okay, wait, Anita, you have not been with someone.
You're not hooking up with people.
Like, how are you so comfortable being alone?
So everything started and I hope people don't need that to change lives
when I got sick that was like when I wasn't bad thinking I was gonna die I started to look over
all the things in my life and I started to see all the things that I didn't want to repeat again
it's not that I don't want to have sex with people anymore please God I'm down I'm open I'm down. I'm open. I'm free tonight. I'm just saying that I'm rethinking the reason why
I used to do things and how I was doing things. And I want to do differently. I don't want to
have sex with a guy because I want him to fall in love for me or because I don't want to lose him.
I want to have sex because I feel like doing it.
Because I feel like this guy deserves this queen going.
You know?
I don't know.
And before, I didn't used to like staying by myself.
I used to just like need friends every time in my house.
Friends.
Every time I needed people.
Yep.
And now, I don't need nobody but i can be alone like this for
days you know cook my own food and be like life is beautiful i'm just here chilling and i i feel like
we need to ask ourselves why are we scared of the silence what is inside of us that we don't want to listen to
you know what what we don't like about ourselves that we don't want to face it i'm not saying i
regret the thousands of people i fucked i'm just saying right now i don't feel like maybe next month
i feel like fucking thousands of people again just now i just feel like
not right now is it worth it i remember i went through almost this is i've never said this
i almost went an entire year in my 20s where i did not have sex and i was like totally happy
oh i'm so happy like it was like just like a reclaiming moment for myself of like
i need to just figure my own shit out and i don't need any penis getting in the vicinity of me while
i try to i kind of want but it needs to be a great penis it needs to be a penis plus a tongue plus so many things, you know?
It needs to be like a mix.
Because it's a lot of work to have sex.
For me, it's a lot of work.
I like to put a show on.
Oh, you do?
Can you give us some tips, Anita?
Like if the girls are like, what do you mean put a show on?
Like give us some tips.
Like what's your go-to?
I like to enjoy myself.
I like to feel like I'm like dancing and performing is it a deal breaker
for you if a guy is not good at like eating you out i teach i love you i would teach i would say
come on let me say something do this do that and i don't like when they go like this look they put the tongue very um
hard and they go like
and it's like you go like
oh my god i don't like that right it's just like a little like slithering and you're like it's so bad
i was this day these days oh by the way i didn't have sex with guys this whole time with girls i
did have so i was teaching this friend of mine how to how to eat a pussy these days and she was
like oh it's that easy and i was like yeah i came in three minutes she came in two wait you were
practicing on each other yeah and you're just
friends yeah there was no like sexual connection oh no I was just teaching her you just like took
off your pants like here's my vagina let me teach you uh-huh fuck okay like we need some tips it
without taking off your pants and do you have any like like one specific thing that you can adjust for the men or women listening that
could maybe just like help oh my god i will say first of all for girls to for whatever guys girls
to eat girls personally i think it's kind of different for each girl i don't know the things
i like can be different from the things other girls like.
Me personally, when I'm doing that with a girl, I go nice and slow.
I do circles and then I just do up and down and I do side by side.
But like slow and wet and not like you're eating a pasta.
It's just like you are an ice cream that is cold and you cannot freeze your
tongue if you're gonna you're gonna freeze your tongue you're gonna feel like ice cold and um
yeah i just go nice and slow and then i put a on it, and I don't put the finger on it like,
do, do, do, do, do, do, do, do, do, do, do, do, do.
You know, I just put it like nice and slow,
small movements and like just smooth, you know,
and then like I don't go in the crazy side by side or like I just go in a smooth keep going with the flow
you know and the girl is kind of gonna guide you and then you can just put the finger in the
beginning of the entry of the vagina you don't need to go all the way down there and it's not
because the woman squirt that she came there was this time this guy made me squirt
like 20 times and i was not coming i was like this doesn't mean something is happening it's
men that are obsessed with getting a woman to squirt let me look at me in the eyes of this
camera stop the next day it hurts oh it hurts so bad come on i think sometimes men forget like would you want us like jackhammering
your dick yeah no you like when it's like very wet and like you don't need it to be like let's
fucking go uh imagine we did that also dry you would have rug burn same for us okay same for us
there is also like with guys what i do, let me try to give an example.
I always use oil when I can, when the guy is not full of like,
some guys are like, oh, you're using the, I love, I love using lubricant.
Love it.
And some guys think it's because they're not doing a good job.
Shut the fuck up.
It's just more fleeting.
Yes.
You use lubricant.
I put the lubricant i'm gonna teach
you in this bottle okay okay here we go i put the lubricant and then i go like this first of all
i go like this and then this is one movement and then you're gonna do something there's something
you can do that they are not gonna understand what you're doing
you could tell him to close his eyes you're gonna do this you're gonna hold here in the bottom
and you're gonna do this with the hands like this you go down and circle down and circle down and
circle and then you go up and down up and you do this but up and down up and down and you do this
he's gonna be like what is happening but you should put um lubricant on it but you go like
don't do this it's like go up and down don't don't let it go just open up and down and you do this
open and close open and close because then you're gonna switch the pressure on it and you're gonna be like what is she doing though but you gotta put lubricant on
it right so you're kind of like massaging down past their tip and then around their shaft while
you're holding the base yeah like this oh that's magical and then they get super confused because
it feels like a blow job but it's not and then you for the blow
job i like using um things that you put in your teeth to to fix it plastic yeah yeah yeah the
invisalign kind of yeah there's a bunch of brands yeah if you use the one down just the one down
life-changing really it feels like you don't have teeth i need a it feels like you don't have teeth yeah you can try i just added that to my amazon cart
while you were you can ask them wow they're gonna feel like you don't have teeth and just on the
bottom because it's gonna touch the yeah because it's on the up too it's gonna look weird yeah but
if you use only on the bottom they're gonna feel like you
don't have teeth because you can touch as much as you want with this teeth here because it's not like
aggressive it's like smooth as the plastic this is an educational podcast today okay we are educated
but this is bad they don't like it like the brand of the dentists they they will try to kill me and they're
gonna say i'm built bullshit because i try to say that in brazil wow they all they wanted to kill me
wait i feel like they would love it you're the sales are gonna rock kill me no no no that's not
the purpose this is health for people to take right while you're sucking dick you're also
aligning your teeth you're you're but people don't want to know about that they don't do blow jobs they just were born from spirit sand spirit yeah came and so
everyone is virgin today i am i am claiming that this is a great technique and you can be fixing
your teeth while sucking dick nothing better i wouldn't say that i'm not a dentist i'm just saying
if you want to try you try if no it's okay
totally if you already have one
pop it in see how it works
yeah dentists hate me because I said that
in Brazil they hate me
dentists? they do
because I said it's good
when you use it but
they hate it they don't like that I said that
they're the virgin dentists
they need to fucking relax.
Have you ever been cheated on once when i was um 19 18 so how did you find out
oh my god online a fan a fan told me no and uh oh but twice i was twice once was a fan told me
second one i pretended it was a fan because i actually dreamed
about it i dreamed about about a lot of things that actually happened so there was this one time
i went to sleep this boy i landed my car to him he didn't have a car i landed my car to him i was
already a singer was performing somewhere else he went to the place and he i when i went
to sleep i literally went to like in my dream i went to the club he was i saw him kissing the girl
he was wearing blah blah blah the girl was wearing and it was so clear to me and i know i have these type type of dreams so i didn't tell him i dreamed i said hi a fan
took a picture and sent me you were with this girl you were wearing blah blah blah she was
wearing blah blah blah and then he was desperate saying yeah i'm sorry
after months i told him i dreamed. Have you ever got caught cheating?
No.
I'm so smart.
I am so smart.
How do you feel about sex on the first date?
I don't care.
If I feel like I do.
You just be yourself.
And if he likes you, amazing.
If he doesn't, it's because he's an asshole.
Not that he's an asshole. He doesn't it's because he's an and his not that he's an it doesn't match
you and you just want him because of you think you need him for something but you don't i love
that advice it's like if you're good with yourself who gives a if they you don't care it
doesn't matter there was this one time this one guy i went on a day after it did not it ended up not happening anymore i was like he doesn't want me
and then after two weeks when i was like better with my therapy on day on point and i was like
what the fuck i was doing with that guy he has he makes no say. He kisses terribly. His kiss. I was like, where the fuck did this guy learn to kiss?
It was like.
It was a terrible kiss.
The sex would be even worse.
Why I was caring so much.
It was.
It's just our fear of being rejected.
Has nothing to do with the guy.
We don't even care about the
fucking guy so true has nothing to do with the fucking person the person sometimes is shitty
yes and we are concerned just because we don't want to feel rejected i also think a good bit
of advice is pretend in your head imagine if they were obsessed with you and they wouldn't stop
hitting you up then now assess would you actually like them
like if you're coming from a place of like they don't like me i want them to like that's just the
chase and we get addicted no and then he texted me and i was like no thank you like you kiss like a
frog i was like no today i have my mind so on point no thanks some people you just go with them
because your mind is not on point right and then you wake up one day and it's like,
Hallelujah, what the fuck?
What I was doing with that person?
It's so crazy too when you look back and you're like,
I can't believe I was fucking obsessed with that guy.
He fucking sucked.
Yeah, sometimes you just need to like step away from it.
How do you feel about sharing nudes?
I don't do that.
You don't? No. Is it just because you're nervous sharing nudes i don't do that you don't no is it just because
you're nervous because like you're a celebrity before yes nowadays i just think it's uh
no new i think it's more sexy when you're wearing like panties or something that is almost showing
but it doesn't show i think it's more sexy plays
more with the imagination to be honest i love that we're like having a hand on it you know
it's more even a picture of a dick it's not beautiful come on getting a picture of a dick
let's be honest it's not let's be honest it's not great you're like oh there when you see that guy naked like it's not hot that's not hot what are you responding if a guy sends you a dick pic
i'd be like i sent an emoji or something i don't know i'm like
that's not it i don't know i don't feel anything with that what emoji
um but the eyes you know these two eyes that look like that's it it kind of doesn't say anything
it's just not to leave the guy in red i kind of love it though because then it could make him a
little insecure of like wait hello and you're like that's all you get that's all you get do you like sexting sex what sexting
like texting sexting no no me all these things for me are just not i like the real thing come on
come here let's yes not the sex sex i like the little horny talk. Uh-huh. But not the sex like, I'm going to put my dick, put it in your pussy,
and bang it 20 times.
I don't like that.
I like the little horny thing, you know?
What intimidates you in the bedroom?
What intimidates me?
A huge, insanely huge dick trying to put it on my ass.
That's very intimidating.
When the dick is like huge it's so scary trying to go in your butthole it's kind of not good because you're so scared
this one guy i saw i was like okay i think i'm gonna try here
and then his dick was so big, so big.
And I was like, listen, I'm scared.
And then he said, why?
And then he said, this is something I don't think I can handle right now.
At this moment of my life, I handle this i think check back with me
in a couple months and then we just talked and cuddled and it was it have you ever had a threesome
oh so many times do you enjoy them i do i think it's cool i like it i think it's
more but you you have to be very aligned with everyone you know and yeah i have threesomes four six some
six i had a boyfriend that used to like to like switch couples and all do you like the the
swapping thing yeah did you like it yeah he was very like comfortable and uh the people he always let me pick and um it was just fun it was
very cool and respectful and fun did you ever get jealous oh no no i'm not a jealous person
i'm jealous if i don't feel respected if i don't feel respected i'm very i get not even jealous I get angry I think that people that want to potentially do threesomes or
foursomes or orgies or whatever like I think you need to know yourself before you do that of like
if you're a jealous person yeah don't fucking do it that yeah know yourself sometimes people I think
do it for their partner and it's like if you know your relationship don't do it just because you think he or she wants
to do it yeah that's a big issue to be honest i don't yeah i think you need to be very friends
with your partner to make sure he also there is this one time and three times also with guys but
he wouldn't be with a guy just me and he was super comfortable with that he picked it and it was cool i liked it to be honest
but he let me feel feel free with that do you like to use toys in the bedroom i do the guy gotta be
confident though i know but i do me too and that's why i i did my line of perfume like
when i did that it was more about like i was doing concerts and obviously i'm
performing for like two hours and carnival is like four hours performing non-stop even seven
hours i've done and um when you finish you don't smell good so let's just have a real talk
a butthole smells like butthole.
If you go in the end of the day, you put your finger in a butthole and you smell it.
It smells like butthole.
It's a place that is there, inside, locked in the dark, warm, hot, doing this the whole day.
This is going to sweat.
It's like under your arms. There's no way. gonna sweat you're gonna smell it's there inside of your whole clothes so i was like i don't like
i'm obsessed with smell right i was like i don't like smelling like sweat in my butthole
and then a friend of mine told me oh i'm gonna do something for you and she did this perfume
and i used it and it was like i was smelling great even if i went to the sahara desert
and i did a music video there it was like 42 degrees celsius and it was so hot i was wearing
like a jumpsuit of plastic i was sweating like crazy and i was still hot. I was wearing like a jumpsuit of plastic. I was sweating like crazy, and I was still smelling good.
I was like, you know what?
I'm going to make this like professional.
And then I did it, and you just smell amazing.
Your pussy and your butthole smell great the whole time.
And then I give it to the guys that i'm with and they put in their balls
and the dick in the butts too they smell great for me it's such a like a turn on i love it after
i got this product something i always done was like to forget oh my god by accident my panties at the place so they smell so good and smells
insanely good like strawberry or whatever cotton candy and this guy obviously when you leave guys
pay attention he will smell the panties he will smell the pantids he wants to know and then he will smell the part that your butthole is
on it and it's not gonna smell like butthole and it's just heaven they always come back
anita you're giving us everything we need today okay there's so few people that you can just like
have an open conversation like this talk about about your sexuality, your sex life. What do you want people to know about you as an artist and an individual
if they're watching today and they're like new fans?
Like, what would you want to say?
I would say definitely what I said here.
Like, I think I'm an artist that fights against hypocrisy.
You know, that's the artist I like to be about everything.
Not only sex,
but I bring up subjects,
which is like,
talk about my plastic surgeries,
talk about sex,
talk about poop,
talk about things that we all do.
And,
uh,
for some reason we leave,
we live our lives pretending we don't,
You know?
And,
uh,
I don't understand what's the type of
insecurities or i don't know that make people live in this fake world that just pretend
life is this 24 7 glam knowing more about you now and knowing how hands-on you are with your craft
like you are running the show. You're your own manager.
You do everything.
I really respect you.
And I cannot wait to see what you do next.
And I can't wait for the new album and all the things.
You deserve all of it.
So thank you so much for coming on.
Thank you.
I loved it.
I felt really at home.
I hope people like it.
And I loved meeting you.
You have great energy.
You do too.
Love you. You have great energy. You do too. Love you.