Call Her Daddy - Cardi B: Drama, Divorce, & Diggs

Episode Date: September 24, 2025

Join Alex in the studio for an interview with Cardi B! Cardi unpacks some of her most iconic lyrics, reveals her biggest fantasies and turn off’s, and discusses moving on from her divorce. She also ...opens up about body image, jealousy in the industry, and the pressure she felt making her new album. Enjoy! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 What is up, Daddy, gang? It is your founding father, Alex Cooper, with Call Her Daddy. Cardi B, welcome to Call Her Daddy. Hi, Daddy. I have to tell you, you have been on my dream guest list since I started the show. So to be here with you, no, it's like, you don't even get it. It's an honor. Thank you for being here tonight.
Starting point is 00:00:25 Thank you. Very excited. We need to talk about your outfit. Yeah. How did you pick this tonight? night well i wanted like to do like a jersey but i wanted like to do like my style and stuff like that and i was like well i mean like i was cutting my man so i could show him but he's just he's sleep at this time you know what i'm saying he he he sleep right now he got to sleep right early so on the
Starting point is 00:00:47 back of that jersey what is the name mr diggs congrats you look very happy the jersey is fucking amazing it's like you um okay wait so i heard you had a late night last night almost into the morning. You were at the studio. What were you doing? No, I wasn't at the studio. I was actually doing a music video with K. Lonnie. And we finished like around 5 a.m. So I got like in like at 5.30. And we did like freaking five wig changes. And I'm like, I don't know how am I going to wake up early in the morning. Like I am so tired. It was like seven different scenes. I was, oh. Are you a night person? I am a night person. But I was up since from 6 a.m. to all the way to to 5 a.m. so I was just tired.
Starting point is 00:01:31 How do you feel about this new album coming out? I feel really good. You do? I do really feel. I feel really good. A little bit of pressure because it's been almost seven years. It is a little bit of pressure because I feel like people are going to want to be mean just because they feel like it's like, oh well
Starting point is 00:01:49 we waited seven years for this. So some of them are just going to talk shit because they just want that. And then it's like, you know what it is? You guys want like these poppy WAP records and I can always give you that you know what I'm saying you can always go with the little trap trap sound and stuff do you drink yeah do you go out and party still hell yeah what is an ideal night out for you and your friends an ideal night out with my friends so I notice one thing I am not the type of person that like to lounge and then club I like to go straight club and then after like some people I didn't know other people pregame so much they like to go to dinner they like to smoke hookah then they like to go to the club no honey i'm too tired of that shit i want to go to the club and then after the club i want to go to at these to 6 a m i can't do 8 p.m to 6 a.m i can't do that so you're going like 1 a.m
Starting point is 00:02:46 i go well i'm from new york so i usually party in new york and i and i party in miami a lot so i like to be at the club by 2 a.m. 2 30 okay wait your name cardi b comes from Bacardi, the alcohol, right? Mm-hmm. What is your go-to drink now? Oh, Hennessy. Always? I love Hennessy, yes.
Starting point is 00:03:04 And, okay, wait, tell me who is the most fun celebrity you've ever partied with? Well, there was this one night that me and Megan, we went to, we was in her hotel room. It was my stylist. It was her hairstylist. And we was just, like, drinking and, like, talking and playing games. And we had such a good time, just doing that. Sometimes those are the best nights, though, because you're like, I didn't even need to leave the room.
Starting point is 00:03:25 It was the people that you're with. It's the best energy. yeah and you're going to actually be able to talk because when you're at a club it's hard to talk yeah it was like a couple of days after the vmAs we were so well i don't i don't think she was drunk but i was drunk as fuck off of henisee of of no it was actually tequila she drinks tequila wait are you a tequila girl though i'm not a tequila girl it just makes me kind of sleepy i need to be up energy on dog demon time are you ever not though i feel like your energy is like electric any room you walk in but i can get sleepy okay i'm a granny so i get sleepy real quick
Starting point is 00:04:03 especially if i don't like the vibe or like the the the dj is not good because it's all about the dj yeah if the dj's not good and not playing my records i'm ready to go to bed wait have you ever fell asleep at a club almost i think me and my me and my boyfriend we're very infamous with our friends like like we're very infamous at leaving oh you're like full irish exiting if the music is not right you're out we're like we look at each other's like you want to leave and it's like yep and our friends be like y'all always leave us hanging and they think that it's like we're ready to fuck and it's like no we just want to go to bed I love you like I'm a granny I want to get the fuck out of here like you we know what we want to go to bed like okay you got your butt pierced earlier this year yeah how the hell
Starting point is 00:04:46 did you decide to do this I don't know I did you know you could do it I've seen that before and so you just randomly decided yes and it was so cute We didn't hurt? No, it didn't hurt. But I'm not going to recommend that people because I have surgery on my butt. You know what I'm saying? Like, you know, sometimes people say that my butt is too big.
Starting point is 00:05:11 But they don't understand they already did a butt surgery to reduce my ass. They did. Yes. So you know, like when people do a tummy tuck in your stomach, I practically did a tummy tub on my ass, like on top so I could remove some biopolymeters. so like the top of my ass like that skin part is like numb like a tummy tug yeah so when i pierced my
Starting point is 00:05:31 ass i ain't felt shit you're like you're like did you do it yet it looks cute it was it was the easiest piercing ever it caused me like $13,000 because it was real diamonds and guess what it went down the toilet cardi it went down the toilet wait how quick like the first week no no it was like a month but then I realized that it's like, hold on. And it's like, oh, then I was looking around. I was looking at my pants and my panties and stuff. And I'm like, yep, went down the toilet. 13 fucking K on your asshole.
Starting point is 00:06:06 Oh my God. As crack. Ass crack. It's so cute. I got to show you a picture so you can see it. It's really cute. Okay, yeah. You can show me a picture after.
Starting point is 00:06:14 So now is it just your, it's out? You don't have it anymore or did you refill it? No, no. I haven't redone it yet. I'm just not, I just haven't been in the mood, but. And did you know the person? and piercing you or did you just walk into a shop one night and be like what's up yeah i just went to maria tosh they pierced me all the time they were so excited they said they were gonna refund me too on the
Starting point is 00:06:32 on the on the piercing so why because it fell on the toilet yeah oh my god that's so nice of them i know right Okay, wait, we're going to play a game. Okay. That's why I had you bring your phone in here tonight. So the game is called confess or text. Okay. I have been doing this with people recently. Here is what's going to happen, Cardi.
Starting point is 00:07:10 Yes. I'm going to ask you a juicy question. Oh, that's a bit. Mm-hmm. If you want to answer it, answer it, and we go to the next question. Okay. If you don't want to answer it, then you have to text someone. And you're going to text the person.
Starting point is 00:07:23 in one of those bowls and then there's also telling you what you're going to text that person. What is the craziest rumor you've ever heard about yourself? Yeah, well, a new one now because some rumors are a little dark and some rumors are like,
Starting point is 00:07:40 bitch, be for real. Like there's a rumor that like my boyfriend dumped me because my BBL stink. And it's just like the way this ass be getting in, it can be. No, but the thing about me is I'm very, very anal. Funny. I'm very anal about how I smell.
Starting point is 00:08:02 Got it. You know what I'm saying? I don't know who made the rumors that BBL stink, but it's like it doesn't fucking stink. Well, how would a BBO stink if you don't got no open wounds? Why? Because your ass is fatter? You can't clean a fat ass?
Starting point is 00:08:16 You don't know how to clean a fat ass? You do. I do. And let me tell you something. let me tell you something if you get fucked in the ass i know how to do shit too you can't even play with me is that is that crazy when you read that shit online yes like i be fucking for real do you talk about it with step on or no no we just be joking about it like it's that i heard you left me because my bb else think okay next which artist do you think is secretly insanely
Starting point is 00:08:50 jealous of you huh Oh, it's plenty, honey. Oh, Jesus Christ. All these bitches. All of these bitches. What's a kink or fantasy you've never admitted publicly? Shit, I think I've done them all. I would like, in a threesome, to have a really pretty-faced girl that I really like.
Starting point is 00:09:17 And we both sucking dick together. But, like, not just like, my. My turn, your turn, my turn, your turn, like making out clashing on it. And I love that you specified, like, really pretty face. What, because you're going to have to look at her? Are you keeping your eyes open or closed? If I like her a lot. I mean, you know, it's really passionate when you make out with girls.
Starting point is 00:09:41 I'm not, boy, you make out, period. I'm very passionate. Like, I like to make love. So I'm just not like, because I'm like, oh, you jerk it and sucking, not jerking and suck it, you jerking and suck it. You jerk it and sucking, not jerking and suck it. no it's just like a clash make you're coming together to make something beautiful yeah when is the last time you faked an orgasm it's been a minute it's been a minute really it's good it's been really a long long time
Starting point is 00:10:06 did you ever go through a spurt where you were faking them yes we all do mm-hmm we don't judge okay name a celebrity who you think would be amazing in bed who would be good in bed and I really thought about it You can go for the bowl. No, I just, I'm just trying to, I'm just trying to, I'm trying to picture. Maybe one, maybe probably like one of, like these rapper, these rap girls like, like, it's like, I'm expecting them to be good and bad if you're the way you talk. Uh-huh. That's fair.
Starting point is 00:10:34 You know what I like that? Yeah. It's like, I hope so. I hope you could eat some pussy. If you're singing about it. Yeah, you sing it. Do they even sing about, yeah. Oh, yeah.
Starting point is 00:10:44 If you obviously, you have bisexual shit, I hope you I can eat some fucking pussy. What's been the worst PR crisis you've. ever been in. It's so many. It's so many. But like I feel like you handle them with grace. With grace, I be pulling my pussy hairs out.
Starting point is 00:11:04 They be stressing me out. They want to cancel me. They want to cancel me. And it's just like, I don't mean no harm. Like, matter of fact, I'm going to tell you when. I think I know what you're going to say.
Starting point is 00:11:13 The fatphobic stuff. And it's like, now they're saying that I hate fat people. And it's like, do you think I wake up like, Oh, I hate fat people. I hate them. I hate them.
Starting point is 00:11:25 I hate them. I hate them. I guess what the fuck? Are you serious? Like, no, I don't. I don't. But it was my, this is why I don't like my fans.
Starting point is 00:11:34 My fans rob me up. And then when I think it's funny, then I repeat what they say. And it's like, but my fans did it first. And then like the GP, the general public, be like, if your fans,
Starting point is 00:11:45 but you know what? Sometimes, like when I get like in trouble, I guess, people will be like, oh, you guys give Cardi a pass for everything. You guys get away with everything. And I don't feel that. I feel like when I make a mistake, you guys want to cancel me so bad. But the reason why I don't get canceled is because I always been like this. I'm not like, I mean, I'm not saying that these celebrities are faking the fuck.
Starting point is 00:12:11 Nobody's faking the funk. I just feel like they're a little bit more private than me. But it's like, I'm just really being myself. I always be in myself. like it's like maybe sometimes I might be a little bit rougher with my jokes but I'm just a rough joker but I don't mean no harm that's what makes you you yes okay bowl I knew you would answer all these fucking questions I'm like there's no way we're gonna even have to have her to text anyone I could just keep going you're gonna answer or you want me to text yeah yeah because you
Starting point is 00:12:37 want me to be vested okay yeah yeah messy a celebrity oh my gosh a celebrity you don't know that well but have their number anyways Can you help me make a clean version of this lyric? Micro penis, I call that drowning in the pussy. Wait, do I even have celebrities' numbers? Let me see if Lizzo changed her a number. Let's fuck with Lizzo. She's going to be like, bitch, what the fuck is wrong with you?
Starting point is 00:13:08 I love that you're just calling and not texting. You're not a texter. Hey, I need your help with something right quick. Can you help me make a clean girl? version of this lyric. Which one? It goes like this. It's a little silly, but
Starting point is 00:13:23 it's like this. Micro penis, I call that drowning in the pussy. Wait, you said Michael, Michael penis, I call that drowning in the pussy. Micro penis, I call that drowning in the pussy.
Starting point is 00:13:41 Yeah, if you can help me with that lyric, that would be so great. I'll call you right, right back. Thank you so much. You're such a great person. I love you. you. Okay. I'm going to think about it. Okay. Okay. Okay. Carly. Holy fucking shit. She's a real one. She's like, all right, I'm going to think on this shit. Wait, you said micro penis? Yeah. That was good.
Starting point is 00:14:04 You know what? But Lizzo is the sweetest person. She's, she, that was amazing. Lizzle is the sweetest person. So that's why I was like, oh, I know somebody. Dude, you know she's going to actually text you later and be like, all right, I was thinking about it. Yes, she is. You're going to like, babe, I don't need that. She will. That's really sweet. She will. Thank you, Lizzo. She will.
Starting point is 00:14:22 Oh, man, I'm crying. Oh, my God. Lizzo just text me back. Shut the fuck up. Let me see what she said. You have me really sit up here being like, what runs with my pro penis. She's sitting in the club thinking about this. Should we tell her the truth?
Starting point is 00:14:38 Yeah, yeah. Message her back. You send her a picture. Not Lizzo literally at the club being like micro penis. Surprise. surprise they told me to text a celebrity i knew you would surprise they told me to text a celebrity i knew you would have my back i know you would have my back cardie yeah she's a real one i told yeah she's really real that game wasn't that bad that you were good you were fucking teams for you see i could have text
Starting point is 00:15:08 yeah yeah yeah but you didn't you fucking called i love you for that okay let's talk about before your music career took off let's go all the way back you were working as a stripper how did you get into that? I was working in a supermarket around my school, well the college I was going to BMCC and I got fired and I was just talking like to one of the managers of the supermarket and I was just like I need this job so much you think you could talk to this and that person though so they won't fire me and he was like you don't even need this job like this is really he was Turkish you don't even need this job you need you should go across the street they have really pretty girls you have nice buddy i know the people there and i was like for real and i was just so
Starting point is 00:15:52 scared and he's like nothing crazy because i you know like you coming out of high school and going to college you don't really know what a strip club is or what they do or what was your first day like were you nervous i was very nervous okay we as you got more used to it did you come up with the signature move oh yes but honey i was a i was i i know how to work that pole well you used to. I'm getting little pounds. But I know how to work the pole. I was really infamous for my pole dancing. What was your like go-to move on the pole? That was like holy fucking shit. I used to go like this and like I could live my whole body like roll my whole body like from the just with my neck and stuff. I don't know how to. Can't really demonstrate it. Okay. It's okay.
Starting point is 00:16:37 We can all imagine. Yeah. Before this, did you know when you were a young girl that you wanted to get into rap? Yes. I always I always like rap. I'm not I'm not. I'm not. I'm not. gonna say really like rap i always knew i wanted to get into music like i used to sing and i went to uh school for for theater and music and singing do you remember the first song you ever wrote i used to write like songs and stuff like that and i used to be like mom look i wrote this song and everything you know when you used to see the cheetah girls and stuff like that you just want to be an artist when you see the cheetah girls those outfits yeah did you want to be one of them more raven was always like me the star the fucking show the star
Starting point is 00:17:16 Would you write songs about your life or just like random shit? No, like random love things. I was always like in love with an imaginary person when I was like a child, a kid. I always had a crush in the air. Always had a crush on like nobody. Like why do I have a love life with no love at eight years old? Wait. do you remember who your actual like physical breathing human being first crush was yeah um usher
Starting point is 00:17:54 um marion but no one at school huh no one at school oh not like as that young no um in an interview you said that passions and dreams go out the window when you're just trying to survive understandably yeah what ultimately like during the rise of your career before obviously the huge success of your first album like what kept you going in moments where shit wasn't really going well just the fact that the bill have to be paid it doesn't matter it don't matter if things not going well the rent got to be paid like the rent oh you're crying oh you're sad nobody your your landlord is not trying to hear that you ain't made you ain't made enough money this week that you ain't got no food to eat that you're going through it with a man
Starting point is 00:18:52 they are not trying to hear that shit bitch where is my 11-hundred I don't give a fuck oh Was there ever a time in music that you considered giving up? Yes, a couple of times yeah, especially in the beginning Do you have advice for anyone right now
Starting point is 00:19:08 who is like feeling like maybe they need to give up on their dreams because they're just going through way too much hard shit? It took me about two, three years to get to where I wanted to be and a whole bunch of songs. I feel like if, um, don't, don't, don't give your job up. You know what I'm saying? Don't, don't be like, oh, I'm a nurse, but I want to be a rapper. I want to be a singer. And I'm just going to give everything up for this. Because if it doesn't happen, then what? You don't have nothing.
Starting point is 00:19:42 But focus on your plan A. But it's, like make sure you always have a plan B. Some people don't go with plan B. I go, well, actually, I kind of don't be going with plan B. You're going to be Cardi B no matter what. You got to believe that shit. Like it was one way or another, you were going to be you and famous. But I didn't know how I was going to become famous, though. But you knew it probably in your soul that like you were going to be known for something. You just didn't know what? Yeah, because it's just like everywhere I go, like, it's like I'm special or something. It's like, oh my God. In every club, in every school. in every job like it's like me me me me me me me like guys I'm exhausted and it's like yeah I would
Starting point is 00:20:22 just be like why me who is me like what what am I everybody used to be like you're gonna make it and it's like on what though like I don't know like I'm not the greatest singer I'm not the greatest I don't know how to act and then people but you're funny it's like I'm not good at doing comedy like it's like what like who sings that song is it the mermaid or it's Is it Milan? Oh, which one? Like, it's like that song that it's talking about, what is my purpose? Oh, wait, the reflection in the mirror.
Starting point is 00:20:51 It's like, yeah. Who's that girl? Yeah, who is that girl? Oh, oh, what is it? Standing there back at me. That's Milan, right? Yes. That's me.
Starting point is 00:21:02 Like, what is my purpose? And my purpose is to be a fucking rapper and spank these bitches. That's my, I felt my purpose. the fact that everyone even in like your hometown and your friends and your parents and everyone before all of this was like bitch you're going to do something yes you just have that aura about you yeah which is fucking amazing um okay you recently said as you've been lately also alluding to that there are some female rappers in the industry that can't stand you why do you think that is i think it's a lot of different things i think it's because i'm so relatable
Starting point is 00:21:42 I'm so relatable, and I think they think, like, it's like, why am I not in her position? Why her and not me? And the thing is, that is that I might make it, I might be relatable. I might make it look easy, but it's really not. I put a lot of thought to it. I have a team, and even when you have a team, like it's like it you you operate it so if you not really like me sometimes I would just wake up at 3 a.m. and I have an idea and I call patience I call Colin I call my managers it's like we got to do this
Starting point is 00:22:28 um I could come up with a song I could come on with a certain type of a beat in my head not even because I don't I don't do beats and stuff like that but it's that I have an idea and I start calling all the producers that I work with and it's just like I make it look easy and but I spent a lot of time perfecting it, making it great. Like, even the most simplest thing that you'll be like, that is so simple to do, but it's not. And I think, Cardi, like, I appreciate you also saying that
Starting point is 00:22:56 where people may be jealous because you are, like, authentically yourself. I think there is a lot of people that maybe if they're talented in one capacity of music, they may not be able to, like, express themselves any other way but through music. You kind of do both, which is, is your super stardom, I think, is like, people are like, you are funny as fuck. I like following you. I like watching your food reviews and your TikToks and your Instagrams and your lives
Starting point is 00:23:22 and all this. And you make bomb fucking music. Yeah. Well, you're like, wait, yeah, keep going. But I don't like, I don't like to waste time. Like, it's like, some people do address almost everything in their music. I don't feel, I don't feel the same ways every single day. So I have to bust that nut of saying how I feel that same day.
Starting point is 00:23:41 Like, that same day, if I'm mad at. that same day I have to say something that day because five four days from now I might not feel that way no more so it's like I don't want to put a song that I'm talking about this well I don't go fuck about that no more I have to say it today so you don't want to like sit and process things you're like I'm going to say what I'm feeling in this exact moment yeah which could get you in a little bit of trouble it can but it's like I want to talk about it today mm-hmm that's what I want to do I'm mad today people have made this whole story that I came in the industry to like take over somebody's career or like make them think but it's like I never thought about I never
Starting point is 00:24:19 thought that I just wanted to become famous at what I like to do that's all things sometimes people just don't get along with each other and if they don't get along with each other is no more it's no more like oh but I think that they don't get along with each other because somebody from the higher ups wanted to make and destroy and this and that no I I was, this is what I was destined for. I was destined to become this. Whether, no matter who signed me, no matter what, I was going to be famous and I was going to be a rapper, no matter what, because this is what I invested my time with, invested my
Starting point is 00:24:59 own money with, like before I got signed, I was investing my money. It's, it's nothing more than just people didn't get along with each other. And that's just that. But I'm done with that. I'm so done with that. I think it's more of a fan thing. agree with you. I also think this concept can get out of proportion, especially with women. Yeah. And I think it's like, no, there is enough room for other people to like have success.
Starting point is 00:25:24 Yeah, but it's not. You know what? One thing I also notice, it don't only happens in the female rap. It just is more intense in the female rap because I feel like female rappers, like we are more, more direct. We're more direct than like pop girls. You know what I'm saying? Like we're not like, fake shady we're going to give you the whole tree of shade like we're not like oh oh I kind of don't like you but whatever like people are not going to know like female rappers we're more direct with the I don't fuck with you and you don't fuck with me type shit however I do see a lot of fans like even with pop girlies like it's like they really make people not like each other and I'd be like what I didn't even know what like why do you think people do that
Starting point is 00:26:12 because it's it's fun for them it's fun for them like people maybe there should be a documentary about fan bases because it's like some people will really hate somebody else and like some people will make pages dragging people all day long and like the real celebrities don't even don't even have with each they're like they're literally finding out news and like oh really I didn't know that about myself how fascinating And it's like, where the fuck should these people get the shit from? But I agree. I think they have fun with it. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:26:47 And then to be a part of something, it feels fun. Yeah. You end up winning a Grammy for your debut album. What do you remember at that point how success felt? It's like really funny when people say like, be careful what you wish for because you just might get it. And when I ask God for things, I don't know. Maybe I'm really anointed or something. Maybe I don't know.
Starting point is 00:27:09 I can't explain it. But it's like, when I ask God for it. things he really gives it to me but it's like like there's bad that comes with the things you wish for so you really got to be careful what you wish for like I always wish for this lifestyle I didn't know that this life and money and success will bring so much hatred so much pain so much mental health issues like it's like I feel like I be having mental health issues because of this life but it's just it's a lot. It's a lot. Okay, we're going to play another game. Yeah, but I think we need something. I've never tried it. Should I prepare for something? Well, do it slowly because
Starting point is 00:28:09 you think is you think is whipped cream but it tastes like alcohol so if you take a lot it's like it's almost like taking a shot stop is like taking a shot okay well now i have to fucking do it because now i pulled it out okay okay you got to shake it okay then shake it down guys we are trying cardies whip shots yeah you got to put it this way no yeah okay that no that's too much that's too much it's alcohol swallow are you a swallower? Show me you're a swallower. Okay, we're done. Oh, you're a quick swallower. Wait a minute. What are your, what are your, what are your, what are your little fantasies? How about that? What are your? Well, Cardi, although this feels professional, I did become known for the gluck,
Starting point is 00:28:56 cluck, cluck, nine thousand. A cluck, you know. Episode three, back in the day, Cardi, I was teaching girls how to suck dick left and right. But you know what? What? That is very important. is. Thank you. Sucking dick is so important. Yes. Do you know there's like categories of like Oh. Like some men.
Starting point is 00:29:20 Oh. No, you don't understand. I have gone in a rabbit hole. I didn't know how special are eaters to these men. What? Hold on. Rewind. You didn't know.
Starting point is 00:29:39 No, I know, but listen, these men have these girls on their phone. Everybody has a eater, and I didn't know that. And then, like, you'd be like, and then you ask them, so if this girl suck your dick so good, why don't you marry them? And it's like, and they'd be like, I don't want to marry them. I don't really like them. I don't even know their birthday. I don't care about their last name. I just know that they're my favorite eater.
Starting point is 00:30:10 So when they suck my dick, they're the best at sucking my dick. And that's that. Have you ever been someone's eater? No. Well, I don't know. So true, you wouldn't know, I guess. Well, the thing about it is sometimes people say
Starting point is 00:30:26 that their favorite eater is somebody that they just don't care. They just eat dick. And you know what? Sometimes they don't even fuck them. They just dare to suck dick. but they never forget about their favorite eater like their eater is always in the back of their mind even if you're probably fucking them and sucking their dick it's like yeah she's sucking my dick too
Starting point is 00:30:49 good but they're thinking about their eater can you believe that that's how important it is it is to know how to suck dick cardy this is like kind of turning every man no no no this is turning into an educational podcast right now because these men have these things these girls called eaters and they're very important to their life but not really so you technically want to get to a point where you are wifey material with a background in eating well yes well yes everyone and that is the TED talk for today no trust me i know how serious this is and you will think well if he sees her so much he probably got feelings for her he probably loves her because Because why you keep going back to the same bitch?
Starting point is 00:31:39 Do you know they don't even care if they're missing a leg? All they care about is their head. They just want their dick sucked. By that person. And then what, they're just like, get out. They'll be like, well, have a good day. Thank you, Mary. Uber?
Starting point is 00:31:56 Yes. It really be like that. Like, how are you doing? Hey, how are you doing? Could they ever get to girlfriend status? I mean, I feel like the way a man talks to you. Or, like, if a man don't really want to fuck you and it's just like, it's just ahead. Like, it's like.
Starting point is 00:32:13 Yeah, if he's not, like, paying for a meal ever or going on public with you ever. Yeah. Or rarely ever calling you. Some girls just really want to eat. Can you believe that? They just want to eat. They just know they were born to eat. To eat.
Starting point is 00:32:30 I swear to God, I swear to God, I, it's a weird science. I don't understand it because I never knew, but it's the truth. This is fascinating. Yeah. Let's hear from all the eaters. Reach out to us and let us know how... Let us know. Let us know.
Starting point is 00:32:44 That's fascinating. Yeah, I want to do some research on it. Okay, we're going to play a game. Ready? We're going to call it Wop or flop. Wop or flop. I'm going to give you a scenario. And if it's a turn on, you say wop.
Starting point is 00:32:57 If it's a turn off, you say flop. Ready? Yeah. He only wants to fuck to your songs. I don't, it's kind of like a flop. I don't really want to fuck to my songs. If you had to fuck to one of your songs, what would it be? It's the song is on the album.
Starting point is 00:33:17 It's called My Back. Seems as appropriate. Yeah. Okay. He is obsessed with sucking toes. A wop a flop. Okay. Explain?
Starting point is 00:33:30 Well, I like where my man love my toes. Uh-huh. And I like where my, my, you know, oof stuff. My significant other, like, want to, like, you know, play with my feet and stuff like that. But it's like, if it's a guy that it's like, I want to suck your toes all day. It's like, oh, my gosh, how many toes you suck? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Are you got a toe thing?
Starting point is 00:33:51 But you know what? I love my men feet. I'm not like, I don't, no freaky shit, but I just love massaging and rubbing. But you're not going to be sucking it to like a degree where you're getting fucking turned on. Yeah, no. He has a super high sex drive and wants to fuck every. day multiple times a day that's weird to me that would be a little weird like it's like all right like damn you are you into what's that stuff called when you went to animals animalism so shit like
Starting point is 00:34:19 that like damn yeah like I guess like you want to fuck all there is like there is like sprouts though like right like you go through you're saying moments yeah like there is moments that is like you want to fuck two three times a day but like not ever. Every fucking day. Not every fucking day. Like, if I have a guy like that, it was like, hmm, baby, you need a job. You need a job and it's like, what happens if I can't today?
Starting point is 00:34:47 Yes. What happened if I can't today? Like, it's like, what happened when I'm away? He's calling his eater. It's so scary. It's scary. Yeah. Okay.
Starting point is 00:35:00 He loves rim jobs. The hell is rim jobs. You know. No, I don't know it was a rim job. He's taking a shit. Yeah. And while he's taking a shit, you're sucking his dick. What?
Starting point is 00:35:13 No, I never, ew. My God, I would throw up. I would literally throw up. Ew. I need someone to write in that's ever given a rim job. Have you done a rim job? No. So why?
Starting point is 00:35:24 So who, as a matter of fact, who came up with this question? Wait, a rint. What is the one where you're, oh, a blumpkin? I'm thinking about a blumpkin. You know what a blumpkin is. What the fuck is a blumpkin? No, sorry, a blum. Lumpkin is the one where they're on the toilet and you're being an eater while you're
Starting point is 00:35:41 Nothing on toilets. Okay. What about a rim job is licking the booty hole? Licking the booty hole. I mean, I mean, some people are, I don't know. I wouldn't really mind there. The guy got to like be into that or something because you wouldn't want to go down there a nigga punch you in your fucking head.
Starting point is 00:36:02 You think you're doing like a really kind gesture. like bitch bitch he literally knocks you fucking whore he really shoves you through the drywall a guy gotta really be into that you know what I'm saying like a guy gotta be into that you got to you gotta kind of proceed with caution yeah proceed with caution I guess maybe like a light little finger at first like near there no no guys don't do that no you wouldn't even like tickle down that area I you know what I'm gonna just stay I'm gonna just stay in the balls okay stay in the ball we're staying up north we're staying up north we're not going down south we stayed up north okay perfect he screams your full legal birth name
Starting point is 00:36:42 when he comes i'll be like bitch you're trying to cast a spell on me my my name is belcalise marlenny's al mansar oh my god do that while you're coming belcalese belcalese belcalese belcalese belcalese belcalese belcalise no add the middle one into it the middle name then last name oh god that's a lot Marlini, Marlini, Elmiser, I messer, oh my God. Casting his spell sounds most like it. Yes. Okay, he wants to watch porn while you fuck, but it's furry porn. Furry, what does that mean?
Starting point is 00:37:13 It's like when people dress up in animal big furry costumes. What? No. But I was, I wouldn't, I wonder what it would be like if like the porn is playing on TV and we just start fucking. I never did that. I like lesbian porn. I think every girl does, right? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:37:30 Because it's not scary. It's not scary. Dicks are intimidating. Especially in porn. You fucking kidding me. I'm like, oh my god. Dick is very intimidated.
Starting point is 00:37:39 I don't think guys understand how intimidating. It's scary. A dick is. Yes. Especially when you're like meeting a new guy. You're kind of like, what's in there?
Starting point is 00:37:47 Yeah. I know what if we're going to. Go light. Just the tip at first. Yes. This is scary. Dude, that's so fucking real.
Starting point is 00:37:56 Um, okay, he wants you to fuck a friend while he watches. Fuck a friend like a girl. Fuck a friend like a guy. Guy. No, that's weird. That's really weird.
Starting point is 00:38:05 Have you ever had a guy asking you to do that? No. I wouldn't want that neither because I feel like you're disrespecting me. I wouldn't like that either. I don't like that. But you would be okay if it was a girl, maybe. I feel like if you ask me, I don't, I think it should have just, if your girlfriend is bisexual, like if she's into girls, like I'm into girls. And if naturally flows, then it's cool.
Starting point is 00:38:29 But if you're like mad thirsty, like it's like, yeah, I want this. so bad. I want this so bad. I'm like, nigga, you're freaking, you're weird. It's so true. It's like all about how men approach it. Like, when they're like, yeah. And it will make you feel like insecure about yourself, I guess. Like, it's like, damn, I'm not good enough for you or something.
Starting point is 00:38:47 Okay, wait, ending the game, I forgot to ask you because about WAP. Talk to me about how did you feel recording the clean version of that song? I hated it. It's so stupid. What are the words again? What's the clean version? I forgot, but it's like, that's that wet, wet, wet, I just hate it's wet wetched oh gushy oh i hate that word gushy ew i hear i don't even say that it's just like there's certain words that i really just don't like so who comes up with gushy i have no choice but to say yeah can you please it's torture that's such an ugly word isn't it
Starting point is 00:39:22 it's definitely an odd one okay we aside from that what was the weirdest like hardest clean lyric you had to record. Gushy. That was it. It's just really awkward and stupid. Do you just go into a studio and quickly record it? Sometimes, yes, because it's just like, oh, what are the words that will, like, rhyme and will make sense?
Starting point is 00:39:43 And it's just, I just hate it. You, at one point said in an interview that you wish people would stop commenting on your body. What has your experience been like with objectification throughout your career? It's a lot really because, all right, like, even with like the whole fat phobic thing or so like that, like a lot of people is like, girl, you talk about being fat and everything, but you go and get lipo every single time you start gaining weight. And it's like, actually, I do lipo so I could look thicker because I'm naturally skinny. So, like, it's really hard for me to gain weight. And it's actually very easy for me to lose weight. because if I'm sad I lose weight
Starting point is 00:40:26 and if I'm overly working even though I might be happy I just like I'm on the go I don't have time to eat so I lose weight very easy so when I do lipo so I could be thicker in the butt thicker in the ass
Starting point is 00:40:41 the misconception that people have of me is just like that I'm always in the table and like I just give birth and I automatically go and like get surgery I take my time because I don't want to die no seriously like you have to wait six seven months before you get any type of surgery when after you have breath because you lose so much blood like you lose so much blood your body's still contracting your organs are still contracting your breasts are getting smaller do you feel like people
Starting point is 00:41:16 hold it against you that you have been open about your surgeries yes and it and it really sucks so much because like i just feel like um when the Kardashians, when the Kardashians, I used to feel like people used to put so much pressure on them so they could say like they did surgery and they would not say a word. And it's like, what is the? And then it's like, well, you know what?
Starting point is 00:41:38 I'm just be more honest about it. And you know, they never lied about it. They just, like, felt like I don't have to tell you my business. So when you do tell them your business, it's like, it's bad too. It's like you're open about it. Then they used it against you. If you don't, they say they have the right to know because you're setting these unrealistic standards.
Starting point is 00:41:55 It's kind of like, what do people want? And I think what people preach they want is honesty and openness. But it's bad when you do it too. So it's like you can't even, you can never, you can never win. How has all this affected how you do feel about yourself? Um, sometimes like, like a couple of times like I start feeling like, like it's like, damn, is my body really messed up or something? But it's like, I look at myself in the mirror and it's like, I really wouldn't change
Starting point is 00:42:30 a thing. Maybe I would like my butt to be smaller. But it's, like I said, it's really hard for my butt to be smaller. I already did a reduction already. And it's like, people will be like, well, you need to reduce your butt more. And it's like, I think you guys think that people just plug something inside my asshole and just suck it out. for me to reduce my butt i have to literally sit on the table get cut from the bottom get cut from the top and be embarrassed for like three months so it's like i'm not going to put myself in that
Starting point is 00:43:05 position again because you don't like my body i'm comfortable i learned to live with it i don't get no complaints for nobody and um it is what it is like it's just like you can't let people turn you crazy you know what I'm saying yeah it's so it's crazy to like see how much people comment about your body and then it as I appreciate you being honest of like we guys I actually am okay so just like lay off I've been open about what I've done yeah you all will shame me for it I'm telling you I don't want to change anything right now so leave me alone yes and and another like misconcession that I have about me when it comes to surgery is that people will be like you get surgery because you're insecure about yourself
Starting point is 00:43:51 I'm not insecure about myself. And I'm not insecure about myself. And then some people be like, oh, she'll be doing surgery because this guy always be cheating on her and stuff like that. And it's like, no. When a man fall in love with me, they fall in love for me, for my pussy, for my personality. And because I'm a really pretty girl. If a man is going to cheat on you, they're just going to cheat on you because that's
Starting point is 00:44:15 just men. A man will cheat on you with the ugliest, brokest, polyfinest, or probably the ugly. it really depends on the night it really depends who's available and who's around okay so it's not like it's that oh he cheated on her because this bitch is bad the girls that i've been seeing i'm surprised i'm not in your caliber you fucking bitches like this and i always been very i never been insecure i went i i i used to make money of dancing naked like i'm i was making money because of my looks not because of my brain not because of my mouth not because of my anything because of my looks.
Starting point is 00:44:52 I was making thousands of dollars because of my looks before surgery, before I got my teeth done, before I got my nose done, before I got my ass done. So I never really been insecure. I just really like, I just like a certain type of bodies. And it's like if I have the money and if I could, I'm going to change it if I want to. Like it's almost like a wig. You change your wig every other day. Does that mean you're insecure about your hair or how you look?
Starting point is 00:45:18 No. I'm not neither. I just like what I like. I never really liked my nose too much and I fixed it and it's done. It's done with it and like my teeth that much and I went and I'm fixing and I'm done. And you know, like when I'm probably when I'm in my 50s and stuff
Starting point is 00:45:34 if I got to do a little pull and tuck then the fuck I will. Like it's like the shit. I do want to talk to you about you've obviously had a lot of public ups and downs just throughout your public career with past relationships. How do you handle people having such an opinion on your dating life? I don't know. I really don't know because I really don't know.
Starting point is 00:46:19 I'm just I'm just at the point like that it's like do what do what you want to do you know what I'm saying like do what you want to do what makes you do what makes you happy like even like even like in the the long marriage that I was in like it's a lot of things that I regret and there's a lot of things that people are going to be like you see you wasted your time but I don't feel like it was a waste of time I actually I actually see what comes with being a wife being a mom so I experienced that it's like I have to experience that it's like I have to experience pain. I have to experience good time. I have to experience what it was like to be a family, to have a family and to be a wife. So I don't, and on top of that, like, because I don't have a bad reputation. Like, if you decide to call me a whore or a slut or whatever the fuck, it's because you want to. It's not because you have a fact, because I wasn't that. So I feel like, again, being in a public position, there will be rumors out there. Yeah. And have you ever had something where like there was a rumor about someone cheating on you and then you eventually found out somehow it was real where you're like at first you're like no that has to be a rumor and then
Starting point is 00:47:25 eventually one day you find out it's true and like how do you handle those moments has it ever happened yeah that that that definitely happened and um it happened too late because it's like it happened too late like is that i will find out a little bit more late than the other sometimes i feel like damn was that the only one that didn't know but is that like how do you handle that though cardi because i think that's like a really relatable feeling of a woman being like did everyone around me know but when you're in a relationship sometimes you can get blinded by like you love someone like how do how do you how did you how did you deal whenever in your life you experience something like that those feelings of like i will they ask
Starting point is 00:48:08 okay i will they ask and it's like it's it's really your choice if you want to stay or go to be honest with you like it's like I'm not going to put the blame on nobody for staying or or leaving like have you ever felt shame in the past of ever like staying with something that people maybe around you were like you shouldn't be in something like that and like how do you deal with that if people are judging you for staying in something um sometimes it's it's like a mixed feelings because again I really just I really just don't regret anything you know what I'm saying like it is it is what it is like if my if your heart is not ready it's just it's not ready it's not ready do you have any advice for women of like how to know when to leave or how to get
Starting point is 00:48:58 the strength i don't even know if it was like a strength or something i just feel like like it was like my body was like really rejecting it's like no like that picture that is like a girl throwing up and she's throwing up hearts like I feel like I was getting like really like sick and it's like all right this is this is dead because because I had separation moments that people would even know that I'm separated there has been moments that it's like I wouldn't see a motherfucker for two three months we're not in the same house we're not fucking we're not talking but nobody really knows though nobody's gonna ever know your complete business but you could do that but if you're not ready to leave, you're just not ready to leave, especially when you don't
Starting point is 00:49:46 talk to other guys or you don't really be outside like that or you're not in the, you're not out there like that. And for some reason, for some reason, this is so weird, men actually respect marriages. What do you mean by that? Women don't really respect marriages. You're saying outside of the marriage like a man wouldn't come to you yes because he's like oh you've got your thing yes like when i used to meet guys any type of famous guys and stuff like that they're like how you doing how you doing card to be like this and that my dms were extremely dry nobody would approach me but these women they will throw themselves at a merry man like it's nothing it's like oh well whatever and it's and it's not because it was me like because i don't you know i'm i'm
Starting point is 00:50:41 Cardi, we had the end of the day. When I announced that I was single, oh, boy. Boy, boy, boy. Oh, your DMs? The DMs, the, the, every type of way. Like, every type of way they was trying to reach. But when they know that you're, like, in a marriage and, like, you have a family, they won't approach you.
Starting point is 00:51:02 They won't. So it was just like, like, my world was there. It's such a good point, too, Cardi, because, like, I think a lot about, what you just said of like your body rejecting it and I think we need to have more grace for ourselves as women because I agree with you like there is just this weird you know you're fine there is just like this weird double standard thing that's like it feels like men are always available and so when you are a woman you can feel really really isolated yeah and now here we are and look at the goddamn jersey that you're wearing okay so you're in a
Starting point is 00:51:41 relationship, how did you meet this man? Did he slide in your DMs? It wasn't, it wasn't a, it wasn't a DM thing. I could, I could feel the vibe that he, that he liked me, but he never like, approach me. But I always heard like, like, he was like, he was into me, but I, he never approached me. He was very respectful and stuff like that. Okay, so what did you do? So it was just this one time that I was like you have to move on like you have to move on and it's like no matter how much times you go to the club and think that this is going to distract you you know what you have to do to move on in order to move on you have to be you know like getting attention from somebody if you're so if you're so used to getting attention from one person you have to like get attention
Starting point is 00:52:38 from somebody because at the end of day you could party you could club you could work you could job you could get your hair done at the end of the day you kind of want somebody to talk to you need somebody to talk to so i asked somebody like it's like hey hey it feels illegal and we and we just talked we got to know each other we was getting to know each other for like a little bit okay not too not too much We wasn't doing too much, though. Okay. You were keeping it like, just like slow. Slow.
Starting point is 00:53:14 And how did you feel in the beginning? Were you nervous to talk to like a new person? Yes. You could say I was very nervous. And what was it about him that made you slowly keep coming back? Because sometimes that we would talk and then sometimes we go like weeks or like a month without talking. And for some reason, like it's almost like, it's almost like. it's almost like he always hit me up like at the right time he almost hit me up like at the
Starting point is 00:53:41 times that I feel uneasy and I'd be like I don't know if I should deal with this person because I know this person he's he's a little hot but I'm going to talk and then we had really good conversations and it got to the point that it was like damn we we talked for hours and six hours and seven hours and it's like there was days that it's like oh even when we wasn't talking I was like I need to talk to this person because I'm talking to this person every day. So that is the fucking best. So when you get to that point where you're like giddy and like love having them in your life in every capacity, you're like, okay, now I know I really fuck with you and I really, really like you. Yes.
Starting point is 00:54:20 Okay. Are you entering your wag era? Are you going to be at the fucking games? Yeah. Yeah. I'm excited for that. That's so exciting. Do you think you'll go on the field?
Starting point is 00:54:32 I don't know. Cardi, this is like fun. This is fun. I know. I just like I'm just like learning different things every day. Like it's like people probably think that I just got these things planned out. And I'm just like I'm just like as a little girl like not a little girl. But it's like I'm excited. You're excited. Yeah, I'm excited. It's like the beginning stages of something really fun. And it's exciting to be moving forward and seeing that you can have a connection with someone else and you can grow something. And you can have those butterflies not just from one person in the world. like there is life goes on yes okay wait but you wiped him from your instagram all of the fucking pictures are gone what happened i'm very dramatic cardy i'm dramatic i do you guys not like that's the thing like something that that to people is a big deal to me is not a big deal at the moment and then it's like oh it became something that is not did you archive or did you fully delete
Starting point is 00:55:30 i just archive okay but i'm very dramatic like i'm the type person oh okay right he's like did something that you didn't love and you're like look at this gone yes and he was like why would you do that that was so he's like why would you do that and but you know that's the type of thing that we say like that we laugh about because it's like why would you do that see now everybody's saying that that that is because you're ass think you see what happens you're like god damn it i archived because he was acting up and now everyone's like it's because you're fucking ass bitch you're like yeah yeah but you see see how that shit bit me in the ass?
Starting point is 00:56:06 Literally. And actually for something that it was very stupid and little. What was it? I even forgot. No. Because it's so, because I'm just dramatic like that. Wait,
Starting point is 00:56:15 I'm obsessed with you waking up. He like doesn't call you at the exact time. You're like archive art. I could also see you're like sitting there like smiling as you're fucking. I did. I was like. And then it's like, okay,
Starting point is 00:56:28 we'll see when he noticed. He'll notice soon. I'm so annoying. It's cute. Okay, I have a couple lyrics that I want to ask you about, and then we're going to get to your album. Okay. Previous lyrics. Broke boys don't deserve no pussy. What is the biggest broke boy behavior that makes you instantly lose interest? When they don't have a job, but it's because they intentionally don't have a job. Mm-mm. Okay. I went through your phone last night, saw some things I didn't like. What is the worst thing you've ever found on a man's phone? at this point i don't i don't really go through like i don't even really find things on a man
Starting point is 00:57:09 phone i find it on fucking social media god damn it that's the fucking worst if you catch a guy in the act of like being shady and cheating and you confront him what's the craziest reaction a man has ever given you like for me he's cried and i'm like wait how are you crying if you cry right away it's like bitch stop fucking playing with me bow you're like why are you oh my god stop playing go i'm gonna give you saying a cry but for real have you ever had a guy cry absolutely isn't it kind of crazy how do they do that i'm terrible at i i know immediately yeah i'm sorry i'm sorry the lip quiver and you're like i don't even i can't even do that even when i act like even when i do a little acting scene i can't even like fake cry okay i don't
Starting point is 00:57:56 need the d i need the money what's the longest you've gone without sex oh i could go like two months I could go a month for stuff. Like, it could go. That's good. Okay, let's talk about your new album. Am I the drama? Yeah. What is the story behind the title?
Starting point is 00:58:12 I just always feel like I'm into something. And then it's like, and even ever since I was a little girl, I'm always in like trouble. My name is always mixed up to certain things. And it's like, why me? Like, I really just be out the way, but it doesn't matter if I'm out the way. It happens. like for example like this court case is going on right and it's like people like I have seen people say like because like Cardi's always in court and I'd be like it really is really not because of me it's
Starting point is 00:58:43 just like the drama follows me like you said earlier you're like I'm just gonna say what the fuck it is yeah and even if you don't like it but I'm gonna fucking say it yeah um okay I know we mentioned this earlier but I want to talk a little bit more about like almost seven years yeah since your first album how long did this take you to write how long have you been working on it what kind of stress level are we at right now the stress level right now is very intense like i've been working every single day i haven't got to do you want to know how long i haven't got to dig down in like two three weeks already like it's like that's how long because i just been working every single day i've been working on this album i probably have songs there there are like six years old probably
Starting point is 00:59:28 six or probably five years old i've been working out this album for a minute but like during that seven years i have been putting out records and stuff like that it's not like it's like i haven't just not like a full album just not just not a full album and the stress it's literally driving me i'm like i swear to god if i didn't laser i probably have gray pussy hairs i swear i swear okay we went through some of your lyrics what is your favorite line from the new album or give me a couple. Oh, I got, can I me go to my phone so I can see which like, because I got so many songs that it's like, so there's this, there's this lyric that, there's this lyric that, there's this
Starting point is 01:00:18 lyric on my back that I say, now wherever you at is where I want to be, nigger, I'm on your dick, I want to hold it when you pee, nigger. Like, I am on your dick so much. I love you so much that if you want me to hold your pee, your dick while you pee in, I'll hold it. Where were you when you came up with this incredibly genius lyric? In the studio. But when I said it, my engineer was like, you're fucking ridiculous. Like, he was like, why do you be coming up with this stuff?
Starting point is 01:00:49 How you'll be coming up with this stuff? That's what my engineer said. He was like, why would you say that? And it's like, it's like, because it's stupid. It's not stupid. It's just like, it's so. It's so stupid. It's genius.
Starting point is 01:01:03 Yes. Because it's like so fucking real. Yeah. And there are a lot of fucking bitches that would literally. Yeah. Like, you know how like some bitches be like, like I want to live under his skin. Yes. It's like I want to hold your penis every single day like it's a platter.
Starting point is 01:01:23 I want to sit it right here. next to me and cherish him forever and cherish it forever so precious to me oh penis oh penis okay wait how do you think you have evolved as a person since your first album to now oh so many honey I mean I have evolved in my in my career as a person I have calmed down way much I think way much like i'm i'm always thinking about like as much as as as much as people think that i just like whatever like i'm spontaneous i actually think a little bit more before i like go out my way to do something sometimes i'm more chill now like i have more fears now like i'm a mom so i got more fears like it's like you're not living for you no more you're living for these kids
Starting point is 01:02:15 everything you do like it's like if you fuck like it's like if i lose everything i'm not just losing like oh i'm losing my house i'm losing my this i'm losing their future so i am responsible for their future so i have to act a certain way and last question what do you ultimately hope fans take away from this new album i just hope that they see and feel my feelings that they see my fun side my pain my anger i hope that they see all of that and i hope they see that i put my i put my i put a lot of work into this album. This ain't no play play. Were you about say I put my ass into this? I put my ass, my pussy, my wop, my underarm, my nose, my neck, my BBL, put my toes in it. Come on guys, let's go fucking stream it. Dude, Cardi B,
Starting point is 01:03:07 thank you so much for coming on Collar Daddy. This was so fun. You are such a pleasure and it lived up to everything I could have dreamed of. Thank you. I'm going to be able to

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