Call Her Daddy - Devon and Sydney Carlson: WILDFLOWER (FBF)

Episode Date: May 24, 2024

This episode, Devon and Sydney Carlson join Father Cooper. They’re sisters, best friends and business partners. Devon and Sydney recount how a bathroom run-in with Miley Cyrus led to the overnight d...evelopment of their company, Wildflower. The sisters spill all of their secrets while playing a game of “Who is More Likely to ...” Which Carlson sister is more likely to get kicked out of the club and who will be texting their ex once they get drunk? Which sister gives better head? Devon and Sydney do not hold back while discussing their dating lives. Devon reveals the extreme lengths she went to in order to stalk her ex on social media and how she struggled being single after a long term relationship ended. Sydney opens up about her ex’s drug addiction, the effect it had on her mentally and physically, and how it ultimately led her to push away from family and friends.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 I was like, I want to take off my shoes and like get cozy now. Do it, do it, do it. There's water behind you if you need it. I kind of think I want a drink. I'm suddenly nervous. Should we go get a drink? Yeah. Okay, man. Okay, let's go.
Starting point is 00:00:12 Oh, we're like, you guys are good. What is up, daddy gang? It is your founding father, Alex Cooper. Oh, let me hear you guys. Give me like a little like... How's that? Hey, Alex. Alex!
Starting point is 00:00:31 Wait, maybe bring yours down so I want to see your face a little. Take off your top. Please take that off. Okay, Sydney, maybe you'll bring that closer to your mouth. Is this good? I don't know why you're singing, but I love it. I actually don't need to sing at all. Devin and Sydney Carlson, welcome to Call Her Daddy.
Starting point is 00:00:50 There's like no crowd. Let's start off with you guys are the first official sisters I have ever had on Call Her Daddy. Really? Or I guess like people related even. We clap a lot. Carlson clap. My dad calls it the Carlson clap because we clap all the time.
Starting point is 00:01:09 I think we got it from them. Yeah. Anytime. My parents will always start a clap and it just has gone down to us. When we were little, like anything, the smallest things we did,
Starting point is 00:01:18 they'd be like, good job girls. Even now, we like walk in their house and they're like. I love it because you guys keep clapping at me and i'm like yes i'm like welcome to color i'm like yeah okay you just had a birthday i just
Starting point is 00:01:32 happy belated birthday you went to vegas i went to vegas tell me what was the most like memorable moment in vegas what happened what did you do um well the entire trip was like kind of a surprise. Yeah, she didn't know. A few months ago, we were all sitting in my bedroom and I was like, what are we going to do for my birthday? Like, we got to make it big. And because it was like my first, whatever. First single birthday?
Starting point is 00:02:01 Yeah. In a while? Okay, we can say it. We can say it. Okay, okay. First single birthday in a while. you were going to do it. You got to do it big. You could do it big.
Starting point is 00:02:07 And I was like, Katy Perry, obviously. Yeah. We have to see. That's what, like, started the idea of going to Vegas. So then we were looking up the dates, and then she happened to be playing, and so we're like, fuck it. And then I started getting closer, and they're like, what do you want to do? And I was like, can part of my gift just be that I don't plan it?
Starting point is 00:02:22 Like, can you guys just plan it? So everything was kind of a highlight but I feel like one of my favorite parts was when we were all at the lobby bar and we everyone kept coming down and like showing off their outfits and we'd be like because we didn't stay in the same room we all stayed in separate rooms so it kind of felt like camp and then everyone we would like it was summer camp we're meeting at the lobby. And then everyone would come down. It was, like, a fashion show seeing everyone's, like, outfits. I don't know.
Starting point is 00:02:49 Okay, so you were there? Yes. Do you usually get invited to each other's shit? Yeah. In the past few years. Yeah. There was, like, a...
Starting point is 00:02:58 Well, because we were just, like, sisters for a really long time. Like, just related. I feel like in high school. When did you become friends? Walk me through the high school we were definitely like sisters still like friends we never have really fought okay i don't think we've ever had a real fight every fight has been about clothes like screaming crying everything in unison yeah and about clothes why are you fighting over clothes because like you borrowed that without asking yeah my first job i spent all of my money on mainly like gas and clothes got it yeah and
Starting point is 00:03:31 i would guess work hours for like little money and then i go to the urban outfitter sales section buy one thing and then go to wear it and it's gone and i'm like and i'm like i worked so hard to buy this fucking shirt and she's wearing it without asking right and then there to wear it and it's gone and i'm like and i'm like i worked so hard to buy this fucking shirt and she's wearing it without asking right and then there was like the trade it's like okay well if you borrowed that without asking i get to wear this like you've never worn two things that you've never worn but you can't post photo on it yeah are you guys in the same friend group yeah we're like we hang out every day basically yeah like our friend group is the same we're like a friend it was like sydney went through a like a gnarly relationship and then got out of it and i feel
Starting point is 00:04:14 like we weren't close at all during that relationship and it really made me be like oh my gosh okay once she's out of this like i can't show me like what i i almost lost my sister i felt like as a like in my life and i was like i'm never letting this happen again she is like i'm not i'm like forcing her to be my friend basically and then after the relationship yeah we became really close yeah did you feel that too yeah yeah i mean it was a fact friends are amazing yeah but like friends are friends like they're not your blood the fact that you guys are friends and your blood yeah i think we forget sometimes and our friends sometimes are like i always forget you guys are like sisters like we
Starting point is 00:04:52 hang out with like sisters like it doesn't feel like but it's we'll also do like our bickering fights about like just sister and our friends will be like sister fight but it'll last like five minutes and then we'll be like sister fight but it'll last like five minutes and then we'll be like should we go get dinner i want to get an idea of your personalities, but described by the other person. Devin, you go first. Describe Sydney's personality and how friends view her.
Starting point is 00:05:33 Who is she in the friend group and what is her personality? Give me the fucking tea. Sydney's the funny one. She's the funniest one out of all of our friends. Sydney can never be serious for more than like five seconds. She's perfect. And she's also fun. I don't know.
Starting point is 00:05:51 She's not silly or goofy. She's just like dry, funny, serious. Okay, dry humor and monotone is the fucking funniest thing. That's what she is. When you're like, what did you just say? What did you just say? You're like, absolutely. Okay, that I feel like we already got to know you a little bit better.
Starting point is 00:06:03 Yeah, yeah, yeah. Now do it for Devin. Devin's not the quiet one. She can be put in a room with complete strangers and walk out with 10 friends, 10 new numbers, lunch plans. Like, she, we're all. No, that's Sydney. No.
Starting point is 00:06:19 Oh, my God. No. We are. Okay, but that's when I'm drunk and I give people my number. That's completely different. You're like, alcohol was involved when I'm drunk and I give people my number. That's completely different. You're like, alcohol was involved. I'm like, she can do this just like naturally. That's where we're like very different.
Starting point is 00:06:31 Like she's like social butterfly, can like talk to anyone, be friends with anyone. And it's honestly really, it's like a talent of hers. And you're like the first one, if you're walking the door, you're talking first. Yeah, yeah. And then she's following you with like hilarious jokes. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:06:46 The joke was always like, whenever people get to meet us, they'd always be like, Sydney's really the funny one. Like you think that like Devin's the funny one, but then you get to know us, they're like, Sydney's the funny one. And are you okay with that? It's true. I can't really be mad. I feel like this is reality and we have to just appreciate it and accept it.
Starting point is 00:07:02 We work perfectly together. You're sisters, you're best friends, and your business partners. Your company, Wildflower, creates the best phone cases. I'm pretty sure when we were drunk at Olivia O'Brien's music video or somewhere, you guys lightly started telling me this. Was that the first time we met? I think it was. We were upstairs.
Starting point is 00:07:24 Yes. Oh, my God. No, you came over before. You came over that the first time we met? I think it was. Was it? We were like upstairs. Yes. Oh my God. And we came over before. Did I? You came over to a lip sync. Oh my God. Yes. And you broke the latex outfit.
Starting point is 00:07:31 Oh my God, I did. And it was like so awkward because I didn't know anyone. I was like, hi girls. And you guys were so nice. You were like, show us your vagina. Let's just get out of the way. Let's go. Yes, yes.
Starting point is 00:07:39 I remember that. And we were like, we love her. I feel like she's so good. And then we got drunk at the music video while Olivia was like crushing it in the corner. We're like, she's working. We're just going to get hammered. And you guys started to tell me the story of how it all came to be. Tell us the story for the daddy gang that doesn't know.
Starting point is 00:07:55 Well, it happened 10 years ago now. We just celebrated our 10 year anniversary. Congratulations. That's fucking baller. Thank you. It's crazy. Holy shit. Very crazy.
Starting point is 00:08:07 I really wanted a phone case for my birthday and there was like iphones had just come out so there wasn't really cute accessory phone cases it was just kind of like the solid color protective ones like it wasn't like thought of an accessory um the otter box or whatever yeah it was just like or like just to cover your phone and our mom has always been very creative and crafty she was making like the shorts with like the studs on them and putting like sewing fabric on them like she's always just in very like diy she used to be an art teacher she was an art teacher she just like loves doing stuff like that so she thought to get a clear phone case put put fabric in it, and stud the outside of it like herself. And so she made a few of them and gave them to me and Devin.
Starting point is 00:08:50 We went to school, and our friends were like, what is that? We want that. So she made them for our friends. And so our friend group had them at school, and people were seeing them. And we would go to the mall, and people would stop us and be like, where did you get that phone case? Random people all the time so the first day my mom actually carried extras in her car because people would stop us that often she would have been like well i have some if you know you want to buy them there was no company or
Starting point is 00:09:14 anything we literally were just like and it wasn't an idea to make it a company yeah we just were like oh we'll tell our mom what type of fabric to buy and like what stud patterns to do we literally didn't there was no vision of growing it or having a company that was yeah no one's plan yeah so then one day she was keeping him on her and we went out to dinner the four of us the four of us family and we got up to use the bathroom and we were waiting in line and miley cy Cyrus walked out of the bathroom stall and this was like Miley's bun era yeah like and I was the biggest Hannah Montana fan like me too girls at school knew me as the girl who was obsessed with Hannah Montana yeah like yeah my obsession obsessed she walked out and I was like holy fuck like they're like wait and I was like this is my in I have to
Starting point is 00:10:03 say something and I was like I know it's really annoying but do you mind if we take a photo together and so then we took a picture together and i took it with the phone that had the phone case on it and miley was like that phone case is so cute where's it from and we were like our mom made it um she was like does she have a company we're like no and she said is your mom here we were like yeah she's like can i go meet her and? We were like, no. And she said, is your mom here? We were like, yeah. She's like, can I go meet her? And we were like, sure. Didn't even go pee. Walk out of the bathroom.
Starting point is 00:10:29 And we're like walking back to our table, me, Devon, Miley, and our parents are like, what are they doing? Like, what's going on? There was like a girl we went to school with tweeting. Yeah, she was like, what the hell is going on? Like, I see the Carlson's. And we're like walking out of the bathroom.
Starting point is 00:10:43 And Miley taps our mom on the shoulder and is like did you make these phone cases like they're so cute and we were like yeah and she was like you guys should start a business like this is really cool this is really cool idea you guys should like start a business and my dad looked at her my dad was a graphic designer for years and so he looked at miley and said we'll have a website in the morning yeah and we were like yeah we will and in the midst she got my twitter handle and so she ended up we gave her all the cases off our phones too and the ones in the car yeah we were like take everything what do you want you could have everything she went back to her table yeah took a photo of them tweeted it tagged me in her tweet everyone started and this was like 2012 twitter like no one it was unheard of to get mentioned by like yeah anyone like a celebrity
Starting point is 00:11:32 or anything like that and so and all of our phones had died yes so we didn't even know we're driving home like freaking out waiting to get a phone charger all of us plug our phones in we're like oh my god and all the phones like and everyone from school is texting texting us like what's this tweet my dad stays up all night that night i mean when miley cyrus fucking looks at you it is like you need to have a company and your dad's like there will be we'll have it in the morning so when we started tweeting like responding to people like wildflowercases.com we had no inventory we had nothing we ended up selling our house and that funded all of wildflower and we moved into
Starting point is 00:12:10 our grandma and grandpa's house and we still ran all of wildflower for the first five years inside of our house and we would i did all of the yeah i quit I quit my job first. I did. Our mom quit her job. And then our dad, when he did, we were like, okay, this is like real. This is real. So we like, I tried to go to college. I really was like kind of embarrassed about like, it was weird because no one was starting companies. Like it was me and Sydney kind of like Sydney more so because she was like a freshman and
Starting point is 00:12:44 it was taking time away from hanging out with her friends. It was like weird. It was weird to start a business. So it wasn't like as supported as it is now. So I guess I could kind of see that because they're like, what are you doing? And it was like, no one. It was very like you're not going to college. And we're like, I had one friend in high school throughout all of this because they thought it was different and
Starting point is 00:13:05 weird and like it it wasn't the normal it was a lot of just like making fun like like oh yeah like whatever we would i like posting on instagram was like weird i think people that are now beginning the tiktok phase of like feeling embarrassed that if like kids find their tiktok right in school because people like oh it's embarrassing and it's like no it's not yeah why is it very normal have you guys ever talked to miley about that like whole blow up and moment i did recent not like recently but beginning of this year one of our friends was working with her and i got the opportunity to like meet her and hang out with her we We actually saw her a lot. It's just really great and really cool.
Starting point is 00:13:48 And I just kept being like, I owe so much to you. Like you don't understand. It's really fucking cool to see how much you guys have grown and also how close you guys are. So it hasn't broken up the family. No, if anything, it was like our family depends on this.
Starting point is 00:14:01 So if not, everyone's not holding up their part of the bargain, like then we're not going to have a roof over our heads so it was like literally we had to work i mean i feel like now we're at a point where we've been able we're lucky enough to build a team that we like we genuinely trust and have been able to delegate enough stuff out so now it's like i feel like i'm actually starting to live my college years since i like worked through my real college yeah but i mean it's just so like endlessly happy and grateful and like just it's still very surreal it's crazy girls we're gonna talk about
Starting point is 00:14:40 your dating lives take your sip of alcohol. Here we go. I'm going to go back and forth between both of you, okay? I'm going to give you each the love and the attention that you deserve. Devin, we're starting with you, sweetie, okay? Are you currently dating anyone? Yes. How serious is it? Has he met your family?
Starting point is 00:15:02 Tell us. Well, there's like she's blushing she doesn't know what to say take your time he's really he's like, that wasn't awesome. He's just in deep breath. Deep breath. Take your time. Just share where you're comfortable. Like, fun stuff. Well, we, so obviously I was in a relationship for a very long time,
Starting point is 00:15:36 a public relationship. And we had, like, the most mutual breakup ever. And we still are totally chill and friends and i'm supportive of each other and whatever and um but then i was like holy fuck i'm single for the first time in my entire life well adult life basically and uh i just went on a wild journey that's i feel like lasted almost a year-ish and it so the guy I'm currently with was a part of that early on and has just kind of been with me back and forth through that but now we're uh exclusively seeing each other and he has made it through my craziest moments and still likes me for whatever reason. Carlson Cobb.
Starting point is 00:16:26 He gets the club. Cobb's all around. Yeah. Thank you for sharing. Can you give us a little bit of an explanation when you're talking about like a wild year? Just a little bit of what you're talking about. I was just like zero fucks. Like I'll go on a date with anyone right now.
Starting point is 00:16:41 Like just really throwing myself out there and making up for lost time and having so much fun good for you I kept being like nervous that no one like no one was gonna like like me or hit on I I was so insecure about it I get it when you're in a long-term relationship first it's a little shocking to end that whether it was like a good breakup bad breakup it's like I'm single what does it even mean like how do I even act what the fuck do I do yeah and so you just went like a little wild and you had a fucking great year yeah I just kept being like scared that people were think that I was like thinking I was being crazy but in my head I'm like I have never really done this like there's no way that I'm being crazy
Starting point is 00:17:25 did you think she was being crazy yes no I thought I thought she was more crazy at the end of your relationship okay then out of it so you were happy she was out of it yeah it was like honestly the best months ever I was like this is the most fun we've ever had and it kind of was a little bit of the same feeling that like she had when I was in a relationship but not as intense at all but was just like wow we're really like just free and hanging and like our friend group was just like it was just so like free right do you think you're more of a relationship girl I think for being single yeah from like the moments that I was single I just kept finding myself like in real like like a situation are you single I'm single are you more relationship girl or single girl um well I don't know because like she's a
Starting point is 00:18:16 the type of relationship girl where she will get in multiple relationships very easily I might be a relationship type of person but I don't get into them very often at all. Got it. Even in like high school, she had a different boyfriend every month. I think I had one maybe at all for years. Like I just, it takes me a lot to get to that point to actually date someone.
Starting point is 00:18:37 Everyone's got their own thing. Like I have friends like both. And that works for her. Totally. She's just so harsh. And it's like, but the thing is the things that she says aren't like not true like she'll she would bring up things about like a guy i was
Starting point is 00:18:50 seeing and i was like like i was a guy was dropping me off at a hotel and she was like i thought it was your or she goes up to him and goes i thought you were her uber driver and i was like stop and he was like hey i was like oh i thought you were the uber i literally said that then afterwards i was like oh my god i called him the uber driver was he like mortified he needed it he needed to be humbled okay so you will call out shit about the guy she's seeing yeah she will literally be sitting on my couch and being like make me a latte oh and he did this guy she was like the other one i was like i want a smoothie and he made me a smoothie and he put chocolate chips in it why do you do that just like test the like boundaries I just like it's very entertaining for me to watch all of this happen so it's just like
Starting point is 00:19:33 I'm like watching tv and like can be a part of it how does it make you feel when she's doing this I just love when my sister interacts with any guy that I've seen at all. Because I feel like it takes a lot for her to be herself around people. Okay. And that's why, like, the new guy that I'm with, the fact that she can, like, be her funny self around him, like, means more to me than, like, almost anything. But I just think I care a lot what my friends think. Like, if my friends don't like someone, I'm pretty, like,
Starting point is 00:20:04 when it comes to guys, I'm like,'re done then it's not yeah it's not happening have you gone on any dates recently i have been on one date my whole life are you and stas like what she said that she was like i don't go on dates like i'll see you at like hide or like i'll see you at like oh fuck stas and she's like or they come to my house yeah why do you think you're just like not dating I how do you meet people I guess I guess I don't I don't know I just I have never been interested in that type of dating like going on dates with new people I had everyone that I have gotten into a relationship with, I have been friends with and become really close with. And then I'm like, oh my God, we have feelings.
Starting point is 00:20:50 We're dating. Got it. Got it. I'm just not even that it's like hard or uncomfortable. I just don't care to. I'm not that type of dater. I guess. She went on one date and she was like group chatting us like, who's going to come meet up with us now? Because I was like instantly not into it and I knew I wasn't into it. I just I guess that also I rarely find people that I feel like I could date seriously. I don't know. There's some people that I'm like, okay I there's something about this person that I could like but that happens very rarely. I think that's fair. Yeah. Okay, how would you each describe each other's type? Oh, I'm curious what you will say. Sydney likes, like, well, they have to be funny.
Starting point is 00:21:38 Okay. Funnier than you? Sydney has to find them funny. Okay, fair. Which is, like, unique sense of humor. She kind of likes when they're like, I don't want to like offend anyone. Go for it.
Starting point is 00:21:55 What are you going to say? She likes like, what's the nicest way to put it? I don't know. Sydney likes interesting looking people. what's the nicest way to put it i know i don't know sydney likes interesting looking people like they have to be unique looking there's something like almost off about them or their style is very like weird like the normal person would be like they're weird that's sydney's type and what do you say back to that i would agree
Starting point is 00:22:26 that's a funny way to describe it how would you describe it i just like i'm really attracted to men who are like very comfortable in themselves and who they are and like don't just give off that vibe like they don't care what other people think of them and they will wear whatever they want look however they want and they're just like confident in that and who they are I think it makes me very comfortable around them and be like I could totally be myself say whatever I want wear whatever I want and they would be like that's cool give me Devin's type honestly you're kind of all over the place with the types is it musicians all through usually musicians is like always always an attraction it's not my fault okay what like it can be a musician okay and that ranges in all areas but as long as they're a musician i think she's has some sort of attraction is it because they sing to you no i like i find
Starting point is 00:23:21 i just find like when sydney said like when someone's so themselves, like, that to me is so attractive. Like, when they just don't, like, they aren't trying to impress anyone. And I think that they're cool. Totally. Like, I just think that that's, or I find them interesting. I think dating wise, my lifestyle just works well with someone who's like, like our schedules usually work better when it's like we're constantly both traveling. You're a backstage bitch. That's fucking backstage lifestyle.
Starting point is 00:23:54 We were dancers. We like music. But it's just funny because half the time I'm literally like, I like the music that I like. It's never really like the guys that I. Right. You kind of talked about how you had an intense relationship that you guys had a little like not falling out but you just kind of pressed pause in your relationship Devin how did you approach handling when you didn't like who Sydney was dating we just did not talk about it but I knew
Starting point is 00:24:40 it was very but it was more so because my boyfriend and her boyfriend weren't like, didn't really mesh. And he was like, they didn't ever want to be in the same place. So not because anything had happened. It was more just like, no communication was the communication. So it was just constantly avoiding each other. And then I was like, obviously, I have to be loyal to the person that I was with. And she felt the same.
Starting point is 00:25:12 So then we were just kind of like coexisting and working together. So when you guys would work, would you just like not talk? I mean, we were so busy. There was not really any talking. But we wouldn't like customer service. And she was packing and shipping every order. And so it was like literally just hours of me responding or answering phone calls and sydney just like but we wouldn't hang out outside of that and did your parents know
Starting point is 00:25:34 what was going on yeah yeah they weren't too fond of him either i don't think anybody was but i also think everyone has to have a relationship like that. It was, like, such an insane experience. But I'm so glad it happened. Like, I forever am, like, so grateful of that relationship. And I also was, like, I think I met him when I was, like, 18, 19. And it lasted until I was, like, 22. So it was, like, a lot of, I was young. And that was kind of my first, like, big, intense relationship. And it just took a lot of, I was young and I, that was kind of my first like big intense
Starting point is 00:26:05 relationship and it just took everything out of me and I had never been at something that intense. And I, I, I mean, I talk about it. It's not like something I hide at all, but he was a drug addict and that was something that kind of developed over the years and also something that I didn't know much about being so young. I didn't know what anything was or like what was bad, what wasn't. And also something that I didn't want to talk to my family about or my friends about. You know, how do you like tell your friends and family that that's what you're dealing with and going through?
Starting point is 00:26:39 So like that kind of ate at me inside and took a lot of like everything out of me that just consumed me. Like I bleached my hair, classic when you're in like a terrible relationship and like my hair was falling out. I had like an eating disorder. I stopped talking to a lot of my friends, my family. She wasn't talking and like internalizing. I just like consumed it all in myself because it was so like, I was trying to help him and be there for him,
Starting point is 00:27:06 but also like he wasn't giving that to me. It was like the lowest lows I've ever had, but also when it was great, it felt like amazing. So like I held onto those moments and it was just a lot, but you know, our parents have been together since they went to prom together in high school like they answer each other's first boyfriend and girlfriend and they've they're still together
Starting point is 00:27:30 they're like so growing up that was like my view of what love is like you find that one and you do anything to make it work which is amazing and I'm so glad we have that and that they have that but also getting into a relationship like that I'm like I will fight for this I will do anything to keep it you know no matter how much it hurts or whatever like this is what love is and I had to learn that's not the truth you know when it hurts you that bad you that's when you don't you know you say this isn't right I thank you for sharing that because I had something similar in high school that was like my first love and I really think a lot of people will will relate to like the good is like in moments because it's so good because you're contrasting the awfulness of those moments and so you're like
Starting point is 00:28:15 holding on to the good and I think that like I mean everyone knows once you're out of it and you're like oh I did distance myself from my friends and family you can look back but when you're fucking in it it's literally you're just trying you're blinded you're like I had no idea and it honestly took a few years out of that to just get back to like myself I like I didn't even think about dating or like seeing other people I was just like okay I need to get back to like myself and like my friends and my family and like focus on myself and after that like that took a few years I'm like currently the best I've ever been and like Carlson clap so content being alone almost too content where I'm like I would rather stay home than go out at this point but I'm I
Starting point is 00:29:00 probably could be in a relationship if I wanted to right now, but I'm very content. Now knowing, have you guys had conversations about like, fuck, we can never let this happen to each other again and like lose each other in those moments? Yeah, I was pretty like when she called me and I was at breakfast with my boyfriend and she was like, he cheated on me, we just broke up. And I dropped everything, didn't even finish my meal
Starting point is 00:29:26 and just immediately drove home she's like it's happening called i literally was like everyone's like i know and so i called um our childhood best friend who basically was like sydney's second older sister i was like they broke up she's like i'm on my way so we all literally i called everyone and we all got there as fast as we could and then my best friend nicole and i took sydney to disneyland the next day and we kept being like because the friends that she had had at that time that she was like closest with i felt like didn't ever like tell her like get the fuck out of there like a lot of the friends that wanted. It was like she didn't want to hear what we were saying necessarily. And I was like we got to show her what it's like to like be treated right.
Starting point is 00:30:12 Have really good friends and healthy relationships. And so I was like welcoming Sydney in with open arms to anything we were doing. I was like always inviting my sister even if she didn't come 20 times in a row i was like you're invited you're invited you're invited you're invited until she like finally started coming and having fun and then getting comfortable and then um she just like blossomed into the sydney that we've known all along how did you find out he cheated uh the girl well the last time the girl the girl dm'd me and it was classic he was classic he was also a musician but was on tour and it happened somewhere and she like sent me photos in his shirt and was like that feeling when you
Starting point is 00:31:01 find out and you're like i don't even know what to do with myself right now. Oh my God. My stomach, I like all my anxiety, everything goes to my stomach, which is why I think it made me like just not eat because that's immediately what I feel is in my stomach. And I was like so lost because I didn't have close friends. I barely talked to my family. I felt like my world was like, oh my God, this can't end.
Starting point is 00:31:25 Like I have nothing. Thank God. Thank God. god i'm like thank you for cheating on me that was like the best thing you've ever done in the moment the shit that sucks then you look back and you're like thank fucking god yeah i am because if it wasn't that i may have still been in that shit and look where you are fucking now do you guys have fake accounts yeah i have like 10 accounts of course i have like i'm like how many do i have i have like this stalker account you have your finsta you have your stalker of course oh i am psycho wait tell me i love it oh she actually is i i love that like i love you even more now because she's like yeah she's like well no i win my ex-boyfriend used to go on tour when we got back because we dated we broke up then we got back together and that was like the seven year yeah yeah yeah i in the beginning was a fucking maniac i don't know
Starting point is 00:32:32 how he put up with me i love it i would create i would go on and i would like look up their tour or i had the tour manager like he forwarded me their tour schedule and so i would go to every venue's instagram page and like watch every story of everyone that was there and then look at like the girl everyone's profile that was there tagged photos everything i actually really respect you for admitting it because i feel like there's no shame in stalking like who gives a fuck it's too everyone does it everyone say you don't you're lying i know every like even this guy that i had gone on a few dates with he like dm me and it was the first time that i had gone and met up with someone over dm that i didn't previously know but like he knew people that i knew and whatever and
Starting point is 00:33:18 so i was like okay and we hung out and he's like so we're just gonna act like we haven't like completely stopped i love that i was like you're like attractive suddenly it was like he was bringing up things and i was bringing up things and then i was like suddenly i'm 20 times more comfortable with you yeah yeah it feels like i know you already we were arguing by the end of the date and i was just like whatever well because it's also like let's just keep it real i know who your ex-girlfriend is all right yeah and this is our first date. Yeah. And I know who she is, where she works.
Starting point is 00:33:47 Like, it's... Everything. I'd like to just get it. I agree. Let's just get it out there. Yeah. Girls, we're about to play a game. Okay, go under your seats.
Starting point is 00:33:56 You have these two little cards. What? What? Basically, we're going to play which sister... Do not... I was feeling under the chair. I was like, what's under here? So, we're playing which sister is more likely
Starting point is 00:34:06 to okay and so don't show each other but like basically i'm gonna ask and you'll hold up whichever whichever sister is more likely to okay okay which sister is more likely to be the favorite child wait why honestly Sydney gets away with everything I always got in trouble for it's she always 50 times crazier things but I always get the youngest child I think that's just the youngest thing which sister is more likely to take something from the other sister's closet without asking. This is a great moment. You're both taking accountability. Well, because I just want to avoid the thing is I'm like,
Starting point is 00:34:57 if I ask, it's going to start drama before the night goes out or whatever. I would rather postpone the drama and deal with it later so I can just feel good, wear the top that I want to wear, and then worry about it. I think I could steal it and get away with it. I like you would sneaky little ask no no maybe she hasn't noticed you don't know shit okay which sister is more likely to post drunk on Instagram it used to be me but I feel like it's still you what do you drunkenly post you just not give a fuck you're like post like she'll just post she just does i'll just think something's so funny and be like
Starting point is 00:35:32 yeah this is my bit for the night and then the next morning i'm like what are you doing yeah but then i'm like it's too late you can't yeah right because then they know you regret it and then you can't delete it just leave it which sister is more likely to give better head i love that i love that okay great you guys great head game which sister is more likely to fuck on the first date? Cindy's like, do not call. I don't go on dates, remember? On the first hangout. Like, that doesn't count. But guess who goes on more dates more?
Starting point is 00:36:15 Okay, there you go. It's not. There you go. I have never fucked on the first date. I love that for you, Cindy. Get it in and get it out, okay? Goodbye. I don't go on dates, okay?
Starting point is 00:36:23 Which sister is more likely to, if they they were ever to go on a reality show do you want to go on one yes she's been trying to get our family on a reality show since she was in high school actually for like a year we're like talking to people about doing the other show but i would watch it one viewer um get canceled after one season which sister is more likely to text their ex when drunk love that for you are you literally just staring at it and be like she won't even like tell anyone she'll do it and then be like and it'll just be like a random person my random choosing of the night i'll be like fuck out of her like and everyone's like Devin where do you do it Devin and she's like I'm like so proud yeah she's like also she doesn't get like scary it's like she will text her ex do whatever and then the next morning she'll be like that last night was so fun and I'm
Starting point is 00:37:16 like what like how do you do that she doesn't get like any I love being it's admirable which sister is more likely to have a threesome have you had a threesome she won't call it that but she won't call it that because there was there were four boom even better even i love that for you was it fun or was it awkward no it was great great and it was my friend was there oh so it was like so it was totally fine it was fun okay good for you which sister is more likely to get kicked out of the club loki devon what the fuck are you doing in the club why are you crazy i'm really clumsy so i knock over she'll spill drinks she'll spill things okay that. That's why. It wouldn't be because I'm like
Starting point is 00:38:06 it would be because I've had two drinks and I go like not trying to fight. We were in Vegas and I went with some of my old dance friends and we kept knocking over the champagne and the guy picked up the bottle and he goes, you're done. And we were like not even drinking. Just because she keeps knocking things over. But I feel like you guys are so connected
Starting point is 00:38:22 you'd be like, um Stas get me back in a minute. She'd be like, security's coming. Tell them you're with Stas. It's feel like you guys are so connected. You'd be like, Stas, get me back in. She'd be like, security's coming. Tell them you're with Stas. It's so good. It's so good. OK, which one? Oh, my god. This is a sad one.
Starting point is 00:38:32 Which sister is more likely to get cheated on? We all know the answer to this. I would never let that. I would literally go to the- I would cheat before they could cheat. And he's like, yeah. Absolutely. If I found out they were with someone, I'd be like, who the be like i'm honestly the face of being cheated on i
Starting point is 00:38:49 mean like you're over it yeah you're done you're not getting cheated on glow up it gave me yeah you're you're gonna be fine i stand by it you're staying okay which sister is more likely to cheat in a relationship do not say that i honestly don't think either of us would. I don't think either of us would. Loyal, lovely girls. Just so, so lovely. Okay, yeah. No one's cheating here.
Starting point is 00:39:11 We're just getting cheated on over here. Yeah, come on. Okay, which sister is more likely to slide in and DM a celebrity? I don't think. No, I've never DM'd anyone. You want to open your phone? I literally have it. Sydney's like, oh, really? You've never DM'd anyone You wanna open your phone? I literally have it You've never DM'd anyone
Starting point is 00:39:29 No I've never gone out of my way To like DM someone that I don't know I think it's funny sometimes I haven't in a while Sydney does it all the time takes a screenshot and sends No I love that I do that to make her laugh I'll DM someone funny and then unsend it Okay which sister is more likely to be in an open relationship? None I'll DM someone funny and then unsend it. Okay, which sister is more likely to be in an open relationship? None.
Starting point is 00:39:49 I think I'm too jealous. I've literally had gone through moments where I'm like, oh, I could totally if I was constantly told that I was the best. The one. You're like, I need a lot of reinforcement. You're the best. So if she's like not shit sure but i honestly i don't think that it'd be fair to like the other girls or whatever and yeah you don't have to give us
Starting point is 00:40:12 you're like the the reason it's not fair to other girls i'm gonna be the shit i'm the best i'm down for like friends with benefits where it's like okay you i know that you're hooking up but if we're dating dating i make you my boyfriend i agree also because if i make someone my boyfriend i don't want to be dating other people that's not my intentions so why would we ever do ever i want to know both of you cindy you can go first okay what is the toxic that you like attract and you're like fuck i hate it that i'm attracted we all like a toxic and then how are you toxic in a relationship oh um i think the toxic i'm attracted to because this could also be someone who's non-toxic but it mainly is is like big personalities like people who are very much their own life their own ways big personalities
Starting point is 00:41:01 i could get wrapped up in their life easily in a bad way interesting but it's like exciting and fun to do but like it's obviously bad because I'm like separated from my own life so that um I don't know how I'm toxic in relationships maybe because I like give too much of myself like toxic and like bad way for myself oh my god you're like an angel you're like i am not because i'm like i already don't miss jealous over here like just wait to get to me but i hear what you're saying you're like oh okay it's like let me go okay so but i get what you're saying you just kind of give yourself too much you like yes yourself yeah okay we're not letting that happen but i'm not doing it anymore Nope So don't get any ideas Sydney was actually The best like most thoughtful
Starting point is 00:41:45 Like girlfriend ever Like even for Like I love shopping I'm really good at shopping I'll give you the best Like most thoughtful gift But words Sydney will write you a book
Starting point is 00:41:57 And like make it so So embarrassing No it's cute I think we should normalize Like cute shit for relationships Like oh you're a sim Shut the fuck up. I'm in love.
Starting point is 00:42:06 Please. Okay? I'm in love. Shut up. Please, we're in love. Right. Okay, what toxic are you attracting, Devin, and how are you toxic? I know we kind of heard about your fake account, but.
Starting point is 00:42:15 I think the toxic that I'm attracted to is, like, someone who's,'s like good with their words or like knows is witty I think that people like that just know how to get what they want and I think that um maybe
Starting point is 00:42:39 I know how to get what I want you do it right back I'll give it right back. I get that. No, that's like a scary combo. We're just like match the energy. So if you are giving me something, then I'm going to give it back.
Starting point is 00:42:52 But like slightly more to the point of like, we're going to drive each other absolutely insane. Lastly, who has like a crazy fucking dating story, whether it was a one night stand, whether it was a bad hookup gone wrong, bad sex i have like a really like it should be a bad date but it ended up being a good day share it share it we're here for it we love story time um i was in new york and it was the day after valentine's day and we had been like we had gone on a couple dates before but it was like only whenever
Starting point is 00:43:27 I was like visiting and he had just gone into town and he was like okay I'll pick you up and we'll go out to dinner and then he texts me before and he's like would you want to see a movie and I was like no I'm fucking hungry like I want to eat and so he's like I said I'm pretty hungry and he was like okay well I'm not gonna get there for like an hour and it was like eight o'clock at this point and Sydney was in a room under me at our hotel so I kept going through the like staff stairs and I went into a room and I was like it's not gonna be here for another hour just very fucking serious I was like I'm so hungry she like sits on my bed so I was like in such a pissy mood and so then I stopped answering him and then he called me and he was like
Starting point is 00:44:15 I'm sorry I'm running even later than I thought like I don't think I'm gonna get there till like 9 30 red flags I was like he's like do you just want to go see a movie and i was like i'm so hungry i was like i don't understand like i'm so hungry and why so we're already arguing and then i ended up hanging up and he's like what are you gonna do and i was like well i'm gonna eat like i'm if you don't want to come out here and I thought we were gonna go to dinner I've been waiting to eat right then I'm gonna go eat and he's like where are you going whatever he like told me uh gave me a recommendation of a good place to go and so I go there and he's like calling me and I was like decline decline decline like whatever and he's like okay well I'm at the restaurant that we were gonna meet at and i was like okay well i'm not and he was like do you want me to pick you up and i was like
Starting point is 00:45:10 obviously it's february in new york i'm not fucking walking right granted it was one block away get in a car i was like it takes longer to drive i was like you know where i am and so then he obviously pulled around Knew exactly where I was Came in Got me in the car And he's like I can't believe you just
Starting point is 00:45:29 Made me drive a block I was like I can't believe you were An hour and a half late To this date And so we ended up Going on this date And I was just like
Starting point is 00:45:37 Zero fucks at this point He like parks We walk in We sit We start eating And we're just like Roasting each other Going on and on
Starting point is 00:45:44 Having so much fun The bill comes he's like no no forgot his wallet and i was like he's the one i called are you fucking serious and he starts dying laughing and i just kept being like i'm so excited to see how you make this up for me because i'm like I'm not gonna let this go so I pay for dinner and then he's like okay well let me I'll drive you home back to your one block away thank you and I'm like sitting here I'm like oh my god I'm such a princess we go gone the car is gone and we just started looking at each other dying laughing and then um did you give him a kiss and go home you didn't even did you catch him yeah we slept together what do you mean what do you mean like what are you talking about we fully fucked i gave the best sex of his life and i went and got his car and i paid for the show in the morning i bought his car
Starting point is 00:46:50 back when a man does that he's like oh go fuck yourself like do the fact and i fucked him i was like okay this is what dating is yeah that's actually such a good story you're right like the ups and downs the amount of times i can look back in my 20s even my teens of the time that you're trying to play it off cool like but you're waiting and you're waiting i was but it was honestly it was we had such a fun time and in the morning he like bought me like a huge bouquet of flowers it was beautiful and then he dropped me off and then he met my sister and she roasted him and that's what you said i thought you were the uber driver deserved wait why what kind of car did you drive it looks like like the black lincoln like yeah yeah town car like it looks like an uber car can i get in
Starting point is 00:47:34 next you know i'm going what is it i was waving at her out of the front seat like i was like why she's the front seat of the uber uber dude i love it i also love how you like gross kind of the guys because it puts them in their fucking they deserve they're like great i don't think i've ever dated like a not great guy like i i don't really have any bad things to say about anyone that i've like do you agree with that statement uh yeah i don't think they're bad guys at all they're just a little cringy sometimes and you point it out yes that's what i'm like guys we love i love you guys thank you for coming on color daddy

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