Call Her Daddy - Father Cooper Goes Live (REVISIT)

Episode Date: June 22, 2022

Your founding father makes her live room debut in this revisit! Alex kicks things off with hot topics and life updates, followed by juicy pop culture hot takes, including celebrity couples "Bennifer" and "Kravis." Later she answers questions from listeners in the chat and gives some essential relationship advice.

What is up, Daddy Gang? It is your founding father, Alex Cooper, with Call Her Daddy. Oh my God. I mean, thank God. My favorite day of the goddamn week, Wednesday. Hello, Daddy Gang. It is your father, Alex Cooper. I am currently in London, which is very fun. And I am taking this week off from releasing a new Call Her Daddy episode, but have no fear because I would never neglect you guys completely. You know what I mean? I'm a giving father. I'm not an absent father. You can count on me. So basically this year I started this thing called after hours with alex cooper and I go live on the spotify live app Every other wednesday, we are pausing currently for um summer But I have recorded a couple of them and I wanted to re-release in case you guys missed it

So this episode is my first spotify live show that I did for after hours And I talk about my life. I talk about recapping the episode that I recorded that week. I talk about pop culture. I answer live daddy gang questions. We interact, we hang out. Okay, very fun slumber party vibes. So I want you guys to listen to this. It's a very fun episode. And I will be back next week. I'm going to do like a solo. I feel like I kind of need to like give a life update, catch up with you guys. Yeah. So guys, I will be back next week. Enjoy this episode of After Hours and also After Hours will be returning July 27th. So every other Wednesday I will be going live. If you didn't know that,

tune the fuck in, bitches. Okay. Enjoy. Love you. much for listening. But did you know that After Hours is a live show? Yes, that is right. These episodes are from Spotify Live. So next time, instead of listening after the fact, you can be there when the next big thing goes down. And because it's live, you never know what's going to happen or who is going to show up. You can tune in right on this page every time I go live. But what's better than tuning in live? You being a part of the live experience. You guys can chat with me live. If you have a question for me, if you want advice, if you have a comment on what I've been saying, you have an opinion, you can join the live conversation on the Spotify live app. All you have to do is follow the link in the episode description to download,

and then be sure to follow After Hours. So you're notified every time we go live. You never know what's going to happen on After Hours with Alex Cooper. I'm about to shit my pants. I understand. Holy shit. Daddy gang? Is that you guys? It's slowing down. Okay, so I just want to wait for everyone to start coming in the chat.

I want to be so clear. I haven't poured my first drink yet. I'm waiting. I have, like, nerves. I don't know why the fuck I'm nervous because you guys are, like, straight up my family. But this is a little wild. So I am in the chat with someone right now. I brought a friend because I can't be alone. X, come in.

Help me. Save me while I pour my first drink. I got your back, homie. I'm here with you. I'm going to let Father Cooper be alone on a big night like tonight. I mean, it's the premiere. Dude, I'm shaking. X, why am I shaking?

Hold on, hold on, Alex. take a breath with me with me with me okay okay okay let's get drunk what's your point what's your point okay so daddy gang first of all hi i'm gonna wait for you guys to fully fill in this is after hours with alex cooper i cannot promise that i'm gonna be sober, but I think that's like the spirit of getting through life together is using out. No, I'm just kidding. I'm like promoting. Okay, guys, I am drinking straight tequila on the rocks, Casamigos Reposado. First of all, I'm just going to keep waiting guys. Cause I want to give people the opportunity to flow in. Yeah. Let's do that. Let's yeah. You know what y'all should do in a chat. Tell us

where you're from, where you're joining from. joining from we yeah where are you guys from crazy my favorite thing is when i see dude right the chat is going wild guys slow down i'm not that smart california massachusetts kansas city grand rapids michigan i've been there arizona shit jersey washington state philly holy fuck oh pennsylvania shout out to all my amish family yo pittsburgh toronto t dot is in the middle orlando dude this is hong kong what the fuck guys we're international vegas chicago kentucky can you guys hear my drink oh my god guys i'm gonna do a little asmr okay Boston. Can you guys hear my drink? Oh, yeah. Guys, I'm going to do a little ASMR. Okay, let me set you guys the scene right now.

I just poured myself a Casamigos tequila. I kind of promoted on my story earlier, like, guys, get yourself a drink. Get yourself a blunt. Get yourself your vibrator. Let's get a little. Yeah, let's kick back. Let's get a little weird ex. So I think there's a lot of

fucking people in this chat it's a hell of a lot of people in this chat utah what up utah what's up utah it's going crazy new hampshire nashville cashville this is oh my god hi oh my god i see emily page melissa mary kate damn this is fucking crazy. Carly, what up? Bailey, what up? We got a hell of a lot of people in this chat. Let's just, X, I think we just get it going. I think we just got to start. This is after hours.

Okay, this is after hours with Alex Cooper. I am your father and we are fucking live for the first time ever in Call Her Daddy history. I just got chills saying that. I'm going to start crying. I love you. Dude, it's crazy because I've always wanted to do this with my listeners, but I've never known the way to do it.

And so the fact that we're able to do this tonight, I'm getting a little emotional. Guys, I'm going to start bawling my eyes out. And you know what? I'm a little emotional that in your first live, you've been wanting to do this. You've been rocking with the daddy gang. Yes. You invited me in your friend oh my god yeah introduce yourself because you're like a fucking homie i couldn't do this

without you let's go yeah i'm gonna give them the government name just so they know but i'm xavier jernigan i'll also host a little here and there like i dabble you know what i mean i do nothing but everybody calls me x so y'all say what up X in the chat. Welcome me in. I'm part of the daddy gang. So X is my friend. So I'm here to hold her down. So when after hours kicks off, I'm going to be here holding down a homie, our founding father.

Thank you. You're not going to let me get canceled. Hell no. Nah, nah, nah. You get canceled, I get canceled. Okay, fair. We're in this shit together. You think, I think, bro.

Let's go. Oh my God. Okay, so daddy gang, we're just going to kick it think i think bro let's go oh my god okay so daddy gang we're just gonna kick it today we're just chilling i hope you guys have a drink i hope you're relaxing i hope you're listening with your friends or in bed or wherever you are in the world i also love that a lot of people message me saying they had the late night shift so if you're at work bitch this is the time sneak a little vodka you're gonna get fired but it's worth it turn it sneak an air pod in at least like one straight up um okay guys so let's do a little like rundown right like what's been up right you know what we got to do with like some hot topics

let's start with your life though i need i need some life updates like you buying a house like oh my god just calling me out right away you're like giving updates okay so you know what i did buy a house and i announced that on an episode of call her daddy and first i would just like to be so honest with the daddy gang the fact that i even am saying that i bought a house is fucking psychotic to me for multiple reasons let's be real okay break real okay number one buying a home with my boyfriend aka like basically one of the biggest commitments aside from marriage and i'm sure for daddy gang it's weird too to hear me saying that because my mo this entire career so far has been

i never want to commit to someone i'm not not a commitment person. And I finally take the leap. I get into a relationship. It's fucking healthy. I think guys, I wouldn't be buying a house if it wasn't healthy. Well, don't put it past the old Alex. I could have ulterior motives. I'm like, what's your fucking bank account look like, bro? Let's go. So anyways, so buying a house with a boyfriend is fucking crazy. That's one. And then I think I had this moment the other day when I was like going to this house, I'm like, damn, adulting is fucking wild because it really is though. Right. And, and there's no, like, I don't know how to explain it other than 27 is a really strange ass age. So I feel like personally for me being 27, part of me at 27, I was like, damn, something

like clicked this year I felt a little bit more mature maybe a little bit more sure of myself more comfortable socially just being like fuck it I'm just gonna be myself so just turning the age did it or you think like no it wasn't it wasn't the age it was more like actually just the year of where I'm at in my life I just felt more sure with myself but then there's also the other side of me aside from feeling fucking stable. I feel so unstable and I still feel like I'm in my twenties and I don't know what the fuck I'm doing. So there's this, like, I don't know if anyone else in the chat feels that way. Like in your twenties, you, a part of you start to feel like, damn, I fucking got this shit one day.

And then the next day you wake up, like, I'm not gonna lie. I had a really weird week this week. And I was like, what the fuck is going on? I thought I had this shit on lock. And so 27 is weird. It's kind of wild. And so I'm, I'm so blessed to have bought a house guys. I can't wait to share some of it with you. But, um, yeah, it's been crazy. My family's in town. So I got to share that with them. Did they see the house? I brought my mom and my dad. My mom was sobbing. She was like, I'm so proud of you. Oh yeah. So did you get emotional too? Or did you just let moms be emotional? You're like, mine, is this okay? I was internally emotional, but I think I was just kind of numb. Cause I'm like, I don't even know what's happening. How did I buy a house? Like daddy gang. I never in my

wildest dreams thought I would be buying a house. So it's just like a weird fucking thing. It's like when you sign a new lease, like it's exciting. There's also stresses, but it's all good. So, but I have a story. What's your story? What's up? So, you know, this is kind of like just who I am to the core. So we're sitting at a round table. There's a bunch of like, the inspectors are there. My boyfriend's there. The real estate agents are there and everyone is going through daddy gang. Like, okay. Like what the fuck is up? Do you guys have questions? And my boyfriend's there the real estate agents are there and everyone is going through daddy gang like okay like what the fuck is up do you guys have questions and my boyfriend's serious yes yes like real estate shit which i don't know shit about i know about real estate from selling sunset okay like i'm not gonna fucking capture like this is true facts i would not know what closing an escrow means if i didn't watch fucking selling sunset. I still don't know

what that means. You're speaking Greek to me. Neither did I, but I just started to figure it out. Okay. So basically my boyfriend is asking the hard hitting adult questions. What kind of ground was this built on and what's underneath the foundation and blah, blah, blah. I'm like, Oh, I don't know what you're talking about. And finally everyone, right. I know me too. Trust me. I got like a little horny when he was saying that. I'm like, Oh my God. I'm like, you're asking all the right questions, baby. So then finally the room kind of shifts to me and they're like, well, Alex, let's give you a chance to talk. Do you have any, you know, hard pressing questions that you would like to ask us about the home the room is dead silent and i just look at everyone i'm so serious my and my demeanor is so intense and i'm straightest face ever straightest face and i go has anyone died here before and

everyone's like whoa and i was dead ass serious i'm like has someone ever been murdered in this fucking house and those are the hard-h hitting questions that mean something to me, X. Can I just say, can I just say, Alex, that will be the top of my list when I buy a home. I'm asking you what somebody murdered here. Has somebody died in this house on this hallowed ground? What's going on? Is it haunted? Dude, straight up.

I just saw like everyone in the chat. I just saw someone Had hadley was like bro i would ask the same fucking thing okay wait so danny in the chat danny danny you said by law they have to tell you if someone died in the house here's the catch-22 bitch they then told me only only in the last three years see that's how they get you that's low-key like fucked up that's a horror movie start out like i don't premise of like poltergeist i never what yes like i i have such fear i've talked about on my show i'm like i am going to get kidnapped i'm going to die like there's all these fears i think as women we have and i can't sleep at night and so but i will say this house is super secure because a single woman lived there.

And so she's kind of as crazy as me where she was like every lock, every door. So if anyone on this live is a hater and you're trying to kill me or break in, think again, motherfucker. You have one surprise. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So, but this is also like to end the story,

also the reason I kind of asked that question, daddy gang, and I've always talked about the trolls, but just to give you an idea of how wild these motherfuckers get. So the reason I asked this question is because some fucking asshole, after I uploaded my episode that I bought a house, I get a troll in my DMS and listen, I was,

I was like, I don't even know what I was doing. I was very barely paying attention. And I see a DM that quite literally says, I can't believe that you bought that home. I looked at buying it too, but someone was murdered there. No, I'm not capping. I said this to my boyfriend and I'm like, yo, I'm fucking freaking out. And so I started having a panic attack. Can you imagine getting that DM after you just close on a fucking house? Hell no.

I can't imagine that because I would have had a problem. I would have been like, no, we're not buying this house. We out. We out. We out. We out of here, man. So I started freaking out. And usually I think with murder and everything, guys, you know me.

And so naturally I send it to my boyfriend and he was like, Alex, look at the fucking profile picture. And I was like, oh, there is none there is none he's like it's a troll they're capping like stop zero followers so i i got through it i i went through with the house apparently no one has been murdered there oh my look at all the ghost emojis i see you guys in the chat what are y'all doing it's fucking fucking crazy. That's supposed to be supportive. I see this gif of a ghost. That gif is funny, though. Death of troll.

Thank you, guys. Alexa, shout out. Yeah, yeah. Shout out, guys. Yes, thank you for knowing it was fake. It got me a little scared. But I will also tell you just as a quick update, guys, my whole family is in town. And as if my relationship just couldn't feel healthy enough, I will say I'm tweaking a little where like my boyfriend has now gotten to so close with my family he's currently at dinner with them right now as i'm doing his live show yes what and i will say this though everyone can relate listen

i love my family x you love your family right. Absolutely. But there is a time limit. Come on, you gotta cut it off and get the fuck out of town. Yeah. Y'all gots to go. You ain't got to go home, but you got to get the hell up out of here. Yeah. Straight up. So like, obviously I didn't say that to them, but they were like, Oh, we're doing dinner tonight. And I was like, Oh my God, I love you guys so much. I have this work thing. And they were like, Oh, you can't make it. And my boyfriend was like, Oh, I'll take them to dinner, which a part of me in the past, I would have freaked out because I never wanted my boyfriends to meet my family for the first time. I'm health and wellness X. Okay. The boyfriend has met the parents. My brother and him are getting along.

Everything is going okay. It does make me like him more. Not that I didn't like him, but like this is good, guys. Can I get some claps in the chat? Because the personal growth, the health and wellness movement that is. Guys, listen, I don't know what's going to happen. We could break up tomorrow. But like, come on, pull for me. Pull for me. Because you know what the thing is? We're live right now. So as of right now. Yes. As of like 713 Eastern, 7 13 pacific it's good so right now i'm in a relationship x they probably thought you were my boyfriend hopping on they probably did i probably i probably thought i was your boyfriend hopping on surprise to me dude it's like i'm like and this is my boyfriend the reveal wait wait wait this is

mr sexy this is mr sexy so also just to confirm to everyone in the chat it's mr sexy zoom as in a zoom call not like zoo as in he works at a zoo right people thought it was zoo okay no no also that's not your style no no it's not no. It's not my style. I am not frequenting the zoo often. Thanks for clarifying. Had to. Had to. Okay. Also, last personal update, guys.

And then we're moving on to some pop culture. Okay. Yes. I, being with my history of not being the best in relationships, you know, I wasn't maybe the most thoughtful, caring, giving, you know, okay. I expected them to give me the purse, me the ring, me the earrings, you know, you give to me and I'll reward you in a different way. So last Christmas, I fucking fucked up and I did not get my boyfriend a Christmas gift how did this happen X don't call me out on my fucking live show

we said we said we keep it a real on here right we keep it at a buck on here I gotta put you on the spot I gotta put you on the spot what the hell it was one of those moments where like I quite literally have never really like been the best girlfriend. And so I got so overwhelmed. I will say my boyfriend is such impeccable taste that I got too overwhelmed that I was like, it's better to get him nothing than something because I'm, I was like insecure. Like, what can I get him?

He's really good at giving gifts. And so I quite literally was like starting to, the whole point is I didn't get him shit. And he quite literally said, that is you hate me. You are a cold hearted bitch. And I felt so bad because he confronted me about it. The point I'm bringing this up, daddy gang,

is because tomorrow is my boyfriend's birthday. And what I want to say is Big Al came through. I got him actually a pretty fucking fire gift. I want to tell you guys what it is, but I can't because there is a chance of being a supportive boyfriend and he's listening at dinner right now.

So I will keep that for a solo. But just so you know, claps for your fucking father. I actually pulled through. I'm not an awful girlfriend. I secured the fucking bag for him. And I'm going to give him this gift tomorrow. Very proud of myself. Can I say I'm proud of you too? I'm proud of you. Snap that up. Thank you. I'm going to give him this gift tomorrow very proud of myself can i say i'm proud of you too i'm proud of you snap that thank you i'm gonna take a sip of my drink tell me what we're doing

now so we're gonna go into some pop culture headlines because you don't get to talk about pop culture i know daddy thoughts on some things i want to hear from daddy gang like do you guys even want to hear me ever talk about pop culture i could talk about it all day but it's fun because i never get to talk about it really on call her daddy so we give my hot takes so like let's just fucking go and you know what x god forbid i say something you're gonna swing in and save me i'm gonna swoop in like all of hollywood is gonna be like this fucking bitch keep your mouth shut all right let's go all right here's the first one benifer they're engaged. Oh, my God.

Bennifer. God. What do you think? All right. To those of you that aren't pop culture-y, that means J-Lo and Ben Affleck. Affleck. Wait, wait. Did you just say Affleck?

Affleck. It's not Affleck. It's not the insurance. Who was that? We knew. She said, Ben. She said, Affleck. Affleck. Affleck. She said, Ben. She said, Affleck. I may have just. It's not insurance.

How do you say it? Ben Affleck. Affleck? Affleck. Yeah. No, no. Fleck. Fleck.

Ben Affleck. Yeah, Ben Affleck. You're still going on an app. I want every motherfucker in the chat right now. I don't care where you are. I don't care if you're a fucking grocery store on the app. I want every motherfucker in the chat right now. I don't care where you are. I don't care if you're a fucking grocery store on a date. Please say that word out loud and tell me that's not easy. Yeah, yeah.

Say it out loud. I thought it was Ben Affleck. It's actually not that hard. It does. Okay. It's actually really. Okay. Ben Affleck.

So anyways, aside from Affleck, great insurance, by the way. Spons sponsor us. OK, so this is my knowledge of this history to quickly give a rundown. Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck. So you messed up. I can't think seriously. OK, Ben Affleck. We're going to say Ben and J-Lo.

How about that? How about we cut out the fucking last name so I don't fuck to say Ben and J-Lo. How about that? How about we cut out the fucking last name so I don't fuck myself here? Ben and J-Lo. Okay. They have had such a long love history. They were engaged back in the 2000s, but they called off the wedding. And I remember it was because they said it was about excessive media attention, which is interesting, which is something none of us can understand, obviously, ending something because of media attention, like, oh, no one cheated. It wasn't abusive. Like, okay, dope. So that ended back in the 2000s. And since then, they've always spoken

really highly of each other and almost always, always. And you got to give them credit, like classy as fuck in almost over like almost 20 years of them not being together. Eventually last year they got back together and now they're engaged. I want to put out a big fat PSA because I am honest. I'm open and I hold myself accountable. X, I will admit, I thought this was a publicity stunt at first. Did you really? I did. I did. Why? I didn't. I actually believed it because it happened so fast.

I thought it was real. I don't know. I think in today, I just feel like so many people, I personally know people that fake relationships for clout. And I just, obviously they don't need clout. But I think when I saw, obviously she was with A was with a rod then she went to ben which like love the upgrade sweetie like i that's hot okay so i think it's an upgrade i think it's an upgrade um i got money though no a rod like gives me like creepy like botox freaks me out like he's just

giving me kind of slimy i don't know no shade this face is too smooth yeah too smooth like i don't want you to have nicer skin than me. Although J-Lo has better skin than everyone. But the point is, who the fuck is Delaney in this chat? I just looked at everyone. What's going on with Delaney? I don't know. Delaney's riling people up.

It's a troll, apparently. Delaney, what are you doing? Oh, and thank you. Thank you to everyone saying, and Alex, reminder, we don't love baseball players. I've had a run with the athlete sex. Don't judge. Don't judge. I may be a little biased on this one. I'm like, the actor? I mean, neither are great. But I will say, we don't love the baseball players, especially the retired ones like what are you doing every day so the point is is this i think that at first i thought it was a publicity stunt because it's like are you kidding me but now that i've had time to think about it this is my thinking about getting back with an ex let's have that conversation daddy gang yeah i think this is my opinion. I kind of have this rule. I think that you should not get back with an ex between one and three years post breakup. Okay.

And so the reasoning behind that is if you are going to get back together in one to three years, both of you are going to like get over it at your own timeline. And then slowly eventually there needs to be change in order to get back with someone and i don't think two people can both do extreme change and grow in one to three years and so i'm not speaking about them specifically i'm saying with exes i usually think that it's good to wait because it's like also like has would anything really change if you just got back together yeah and like the the point would also be to ask yourself if you got back together usually in that small time period has anything really changed more in tune of like why you ended it right you know i mean like was there an issue financially was there an

issue they cheated like whatever the issue is i think that's too short of a time span but when we're talking benefit baby they waited 18 fucking years holy shit like whoa and so divorces kids a lot a lot of life kids have been raised they're in college not like people are the 18 fucking years a lot can happen in 18 years. You quite literally become a different person in 18 years. And so I think my opinion is like, I think if you end up getting back with someone after a really long time, clearly there's something in that relationship that was so worth revisiting. And that person has clearly been on the back of your mind. And I know that I have been vocal that, you know, I thought it was kind of fake. But I think when I look at why they ended it, the rise of celebrity gossip and tabloid culture is what they alluded to ending their relationship. So normally I would say like, OK, take it slow. What's the rush to get married?

They waited 18 fucking years. So maybe it was like this was the one that got away and like good for you guys i like that i gotta ask you a question though because this whole benefit thing them getting back together makes me think of this what say you on staying friends with your ex though oh because that was part of it they were friends the whole time you mentioned them like staying on friendly terms or like speaking highly of each other but it happened fast like right after the breakup i swear it was like the next day they were on vacation somewhere on a tropical island dude that's why okay that is why let me be so clear daddy gang the reason i thought it was fake is because i have done something similar to j-lo guys i am not saying i look like j-lo i'm as

talented as j-lo i'm as. I'm just saying girl to girl. Okay. I would say this. When I saw her make that Ben move, I was like, you fucking yes, bitch. Yes, bitch. That's such a good move because I have quite literally gone through a messy ass breakup. And let me be so clear, guys. The first fucking thing I was doing that next week is flexing.

I'm on a flight flexing. I'm with some other dude to shove it in my ex's face oh you thought this was yours go fuck yourself i'm living my best life without you and i hope you fucking rot and like it's it's that anger of like oh fuck you so i think that that's why i thought it was more of like a revenge fuck you get him jealous kind of thing i see that but i think i don't know daddy gang right in the chat like can you be friends with an ex? They stayed cordial over the years. This is my line. Yeah, I want to know what the Daddy Gang has to say.

This is my line for it. And we'll end the benefit on this. Okay. I think to be friends with an ex is totally acceptable to be cordial. You walk into a room, you can be like, yeah, we're like, oh, nice to see you. And you can be totally cordial, but to stay connected with an ex and to be like conversing with that person, texting, calling, that's going to prohibit you from having a true opportunity to be fully involved in the relationship that either you're in or you're trying to find.

If you're single and you're still talking to your ex, sweetie, hang that shit up. Cause you're never going to fucking find someone genuinely. Cause you're putting all your fucking efforts still. I'm trying. Yeah, exactly. So it's like, even if it's a couple one-offs, they're still on your mind, move the fuck on. Cordial is different than like being friendly. It's like, yo, you don't need to fucking talk to your ex unless you want to get back together. If not, why are you wasting your time? Focus on yourself. Don't fucking let them kind of like come in and out and trickle it out. It just not it's not smart yeah you got to keep it moving and a lot of a lot of the daddy gang agrees i see sofia says totally agree kristen says facts gia says don't be friends with an ex definitely bad things they're pretty much i mean pretty much yeah yeah oh man i love

that i'm seeing um megan just wrote the comments here are equally as entertaining as the podcast. I don't know what's going on down there. I hope you guys aren't fighting. And I love this for Mary. This girl said, when they're my ex, they become my past and no longer my present or my future. It becomes a brand new chapter in my life. I love that so much. It's so smart. And again, Kate also said it happened. It didn't work. You don't need to speak. I agree. Wait, I got another one though. Oh, Lexi Tyler says I'm married to my ex now. Oh, shrug emoji. We were friends before. Okay. But this is the difference though. Like I said, if you get back with your ex, it's totally fine. But if you have no intention, but for some reason you keep finding yourself like, wait, why do I keep somehow getting roped into answering his texts?

That's where you got to cut that shit because that's going to be toxic for you and for them. If you're not going to move forward in the relationship, why the fuck are you talking to someone that's been inside of you? No need to be homies. There's a lot of homies out there you can connect with. You don't need that dick like in your life because for what? There's a lot of other dicks out there. Move on. That's real though.

You know what? Speaking of moving on though, let's go on to say that's thinking that was a perfect note to move on okay i don't like this name i hate it kravis i hate it i don't like kravis travis barker like you know what employee i don't like that name kravis so i'm not going to use it after that's the last time i'm ever going to say it in life i also had a dentist um that was called cravett dr cravis so i'm currently uncomfortable by calling this like cute couple cravis let's just call them courtney kardashian and travis parker i like that but they got married i was gonna say travis scott like which one is it travis parker yeah travis scott is good kyle yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah okay so uh allegedly they got married but turns out that it wasn't a real yeah like they didn't get the certificate

i saw shotgun weddings or like doing spontaneous things like this when it comes to getting married you know what i think it's actually kind of dope that like i don't know they're getting a lot of fucking heat that they're doing so much PDA. And listen, I had like a, I was thinking about that for a minute. Cause I was like, okay, yeah. Like, listen, sometimes we don't need to see the tongue and the tongue and then the soul. When you see the saliva, that's where it's like, Ooh, like I could, I could do without, you know, but what I will say is this, think it's actually these are my thoughts for anyone that doesn't know yes travis and uh courtney got fake married basically in vegas they couldn't get the

certificate but they went through with it it was kind of a spontaneous drunken night in vegas um i think that i'm kind of really happy for courtourtney Kardashian. Not that I fucking know her. I'm like, I'm really happy for my girl. But Kourtney never married Scott Disick. And we saw some of those reasons as to why she didn't move forward with that relationship on Keeping Up With The Kardashians. I'm personally kind of happy for a woman to woman to kind of see her and see her being an example as a woman who never settled. Like there were so many moments where even in the show, you saw her sisters be like, come on, make it work with Scott. Like it will be good for the kids. Like I feel like he's changed. And like she was so dope in those moments being like, no, he hasn't. Cause I gave him a list of things

and she respectfully, I will say like, same with Kim, like they're never shitting on their baby daddies. And I respect that because it's like, they've got kids involved. And so Courtney never really, obviously we somewhat know some of the alcohol stuff with Scott, but like there's other shit we know that we don't know. And Courtney never aired that. She was just like, I gave him a list of things. I hope that he can, if he can fix that shit, of course I love him. But if he can't and prioritize our relationship over, you know, indulging in like negative toxic shit, then I'm not in. And so I respect her woman to woman. I'm like, damn, good for you, bitch. You fucking waited and look what you got now for Travis and Courtney.

I'm going to say, I think a lot of people are saying this. I fucking knew eventually they were going to fucking date because you saw them. We X, I can't hear you. Oh my God. How did you know? Okay. So this is how I knew. Okay. So how I knew was he kind of like showed up a couple of times in the Kardashian show and he was the fucking neighbor. And I was like, blink 182. I'm a huge blinking 182 person. I'm just, so I'm naturally obsessed. And I was like, wait, their vibe is so friendly and chill. And so I always thought like, why aren't they dating? So to see them doing that together, I think is dope. And my last statement about the PDA thing is this. Why do we care? I feel like she looks so fucking happy. And although again, like I said, we don't

need to see saliva at all times. Like, why are we judging? Like good for them. Also it annoys me. I'm like, is it an ageism thing? Like if she was 20 years old and she was a pop star doing this, we'd all be like, this is so cute. Look at them kissing and holding hands. It's like, let her have her fucking honeymoon stage. Like they look so fucking happy. I read, um, in the chapel that night in Vegas, the person like officiating the wedding was like, let her have her fucking honeymoon stage. Like, they look so fucking happy. I read in the chapel that night in Vegas, the person like officiating the wedding was like, there was so much love and like giddiness in the air. You could just tell they were like high schoolers in love. I'm like, isn't, we're so made to feel like you're 40. Oh, my God.

Your life is over. And meanwhile, men hit 40 and everyone's like, you're so wise. You're so wise. You're now a wise. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So I kind of love that she's publicly like, watch me do my thing and live like I deserve to live 20 plus years ago. That's the life that I didn't get through Scott. And I'm going to make it happen for myself.

So good for her. I like it. Now we got one more. Okay. For another one. Oh, God. Take a sip. We got to take a sip.

Hold on. I'm going to take a sip. I'm muted. I didn't mute before. I got out of my mute. I needed to clear my throat, actually, is what happened. Oh, my God. I thought you were, like, going on someone else's live and leaving me in the dust, X.

I was like, shh. I would never. I would never leave you. I literally was like, X, are you there? You're like, X, hello? Yeah, hello. Yeah, I would just clear my throat. That's all.

If I ever, hello, is it me? If I ever mute, it's just because I'm clearing my throat. Okay. Bella Hadid, Khloe Kardashian. We were getting the Kardashians mixed the kardashians mixed up yeah yeah yeah courtney you're openly talking about plastic surgery yeah and getting it one regrets so bella hadid regrets getting a nose job chloe is really happy that she got her nose job dude i think that it's literally do whatever the fuck you want to do and i think the only thing that sucks is for bella like she's saying she regrets it i just um if you guys haven't walked go watch the um stassi interview that i just did and i just released but she

yeah today's episode stas talked about a similar thing with Bella, where she was like, I felt like I was a little too young. Like maybe I didn't need to get that done. And I respect that. Like as women, we quite literally, I feel it. I have made decisions of like, oh my God, I don't look this way. And I, and so it's like, you know what? I think we need to be a little like, let's go more at the fucking men. Okay. Who's in the fucking comments comments let's rile it up like fuck why are we always fucking talking about she must admit this fuck this you got to admit this and i'm just kind of like you know what like let people do whatever the fuck they want to do with their life how is someone getting a nose job affecting you chloe kardashian clearly was insecure about her nose do you know why she probably got it done because she was bullied online and she didn't look like her sisters and And then she like, there's just so much. I just feel like

I have a different perspective as I get older. I'm like, bro, let it fucking go. Like, and if it's because you're insecure, because you also want a nose job, look inward. Like, what the fuck are you doing? Stop bullying someone because they got plastic surgery. And like, what either you're jealous or if you're saying they're setting a different beauty standard, that's a whole different concept. But like, I don't know. I just feel like let it go. Like people have insecurities and why they're fixing something is because of that. It's not to hurt anyone.

It's because they're hurting. So like, let it go. It's their own choice. Yeah. Let them live. Like, why do you care so much? But you just referenced today's episode of CSD. Can you give us some behind the scenes on that?

Totally. So I'll be honest. Like, so I had met Stas once before I had FaceTimed with her once, like, and you know, it's interesting guys. Cause like, I hope through call her daddy, when you guys are watching these like new interviews, you do kind of feel like everyone's always humanized and through social media, I feel like we get such a quick glimpse of like what we think someone is like. And I even told Stas, I was like, I didn't know what you were going to be like, you know, like I see your life on social media. You hang with like this huge family. Like you're just like,

you seem like you got a really cool life. And like, there's moments when people open up, they're like, oh fuck, she's a cool ass fucking chick. Like I want to go party with that girl. Like she, you can tell she's a life of the party. She's got so many close friends. She's a loyal motherfucker. And like, I sat down and I was like, damn, she's a cool chick.

And I get, she's in the spotlight. So everyone's like, Oh, she's with the Kardashians and all. I'm like, no, she's a cool fucking homie that I was like down to sit down with her.

And after I sat down with her and I hope it kind of translated in the episode, she's a really great person. What I will say is this. I never usually drink. You're leaning in. I'm so sorry. I'm on the edge of my seat now.

I'm about to fall off my seat. No, so guys, I, through like my entire career, like I never drink during episodes because I don't know. I don't want to get so fucked up that I'm like, what the fuck just happened? Like, you know, you never know. And so I'm looking down at my questions and they're fucking turning into swiggles and I'm like, motherfucker, I'm hammered or I say some stupid shit. Like, so I usually never drink, but there's been something about Caller Daddy recently that like, we've had really intense episodes during the fall and the winter.

And as summer is approaching, like to give you guys the inside info, since you're listening and you deserve, cause you're listening guys. Um, I feel like I want to pump up the party a little bit. Isn't that a Hannah Montana song? I don't know. The point is, is I want it to be a little lighter. And so naturally I thought throw a couple shots in there, bring the alcohol in, let it flow, baby. And so I've been drinking in some of these interviews and it's been really, really fun to just like chill and feel like I'm kind of like drinking with a girlfriend. And I kind of love the vibe. What's the cutoff though? Like how would you, I'm not there with you to save you in those joints.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. You're there solo, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah. How are you going to know what the cutoff is or when you went too far? That's a great question. So I think it depends each guest. So to give you guys insight, like I hope you guys watched the Courtney Stodden interview, which was such an intense interview that truly so, so many really sensitive topics were discussed in that episode. And it was such an incredible, powerful episode for women. And I, in that moment, remember Courtney being like, can we get a little fucking vodka in here? So it was more to ease the nerve. So for that, I didn't even like really finish that first drink almost. It was more like, get a little buzz that you're feeling more relaxed. But with Stas, I was fucking blackout and hammered by the end of that episode, guys.

It was like three o'clock in the afternoon. And we came out of the studio and the studio is super dark. And we walked out and we're like, holy fuck, it's daytime. I've never felt more like a degenerate. I'm fucking blackout. And I'm like, holy fuck, how long have we been in that room? So we definitely, but we talked about it. We're like, let's get fucking drunk.

Let's have girl talk. Let's vibe. So it's fun. And I hope you guys are feeling that energy. It's starting to ramp back up more. I know people love sort of like the intense episodes. And then I do, listen, I see your guys' comments. Some people are like, you know what, Alex?

I just want to fucking laugh today. So that's where I think for me, I was like, you know what? I fucking agree. I also want to feel laugh today. So that's where I think I was like, you know what? I fucking agree. I also want to feel happy because I'm sad today. So that's where I'm starting to ramp up the episodes. And you're trying to balance it a little bit. Yeah. Have a little bit of balance. I got to ask something about the Stas interview. Yeah. One thing she said at the top is, listen, I don't do podcasts. You only did one podcast before. She doesn't do interviews. How did you get her?

That's it. I saw a lot of people also in the comments being like, she said she doesn't do podcasts, but she did one. What she was saying is she doesn't do interviews. That was with her close friend, Zane, who she's really close with. So she was just saying, I don't come on with strangers like you. So how I got her was I had followed her for a while. We then met through a mutual friend one night randomly on FaceTime. And it was actually during when I was doing the Jamie Lynn Spears interview. I was randomly like stressing out about something. I was FaceTiming someone and then she was in the background and I was like, daddy gang, you'll die. I literally was word vomit because

mind you, like I followed Stas for a while. Like, I don't know her. I'm like you guys. I was like it daddy gang you'll die I literally was word vomit because mind you like I followed Stas for a while like I don't know her I'm like you guys I'm like I don't know you I'm not in your world and so I quite literally I word vomited and I was like hey and she was like oh hey and I was like oh yeah like I follow you on Instagram I was like why the fuck did I just say that wait wait wait wait that was your opening line straight up she was like hey and I was like, why the fuck did I just say that? Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. That was your opening line? Straight up. She was like, hey. And I was like, hey. And then she was like, I was just like, oh, yeah. Like, I think I more said like, oh, yeah, I see you on Instagram. I follow you.

And she kind of just looked at me and she wasn't being bitchy. I was just like, why did I fucking say that? Like, what? But then she was so chill and she was like, oh, my God. Yeah. Like, I've heard so much about you through blah, blah, blah. And so then it was chill. And so she's a dope human.

Had such a good time. Yes. So let's close it out. I think it's time. I want you to brace yourself. I want you to take a sip real quick. Take a sip. Okay, I'm taking a sip.

I'm taking a sip. I'm taking a sip. Okay. Because you know what? Okay. The daddy gang's been asking. Oh, fuck. Can we take her to France? Oh, my fuck. Can we take her to France?

Oh, my God. Can we take her to France? The fact, X, that you just said that, the daddy gang is going to stand you forever. You didn't even say questions of the week. You said, can we go to France? Can we go to fucking France? Can we go to France?

We can go to a little place I'd like to go. Questions of the week. my god guys i'm so dude we could do this for fucking hours i can't believe we only have 20 minutes left it's only 20 minutes oh my god mariah i'm obsessed with you with that gif thank you let's answer some questions okay so daddy i pulled some of your questions yeah um and i'm read some of them that I pulled. Most of these are from the DMS or where you guys write into the website. So before you go though, before you go though, Alex, I want, I want them to do this. Some other people here as some of the daddy gang that is on here right now, ask if they could ask questions, put your questions in the chat right now, because two

lucky daddy gang members are going to get brought up to the stage and you're actually going to ask your question in real time after she reads a couple of her favorite ones. Yes. Take it away. We also, Haley, I just saw you comment. We will be talking next live session about the ultimatum. I quite literally stayed up till 4 a.m. last night watching this new reality show. Guys, if you haven't watched it, it's on Netflix. I literally sound like an ad. I'm literally like up till 4am last night watching this new reality show. Guys, if you haven't watched it, it's on Netflix.

I literally sound like I'm an ad. I'm literally like promoting the show. I swear to God, they're not paying me. I wish, um, guys, the ultimatum is fucking incredible.

You need to go watch it. I'm obsessed. My boyfriend woke up at 4am last night being like, why are you awake, Alex? And I was like, I don't know. I can't stop.

So guys, let's talk about that next live session. Your homework is to go watch it so we can discuss it. Okay. Let's go daddy gang. So, Hey Alex, this is a question I need an honest opinion on. What do you think of your boyfriend or husband telling you that you're not the hottest girl in the world?

What has your boyfriend said this to you? And if so, how do you feel about it? We all know that there are hotter humans around us, but should our boyfriend see us as the hottest, or should we be secure enough to know that we're not and that our boyfriend also thinks we're not? My boyfriend said this to me and I'm upset. Thank you so much for reading this. I'm going to give you a two word answer. Fuck that. Fuck that. I mean, then I'll expand because you guys know I can never stop talking. Guys, if I actually would want to say this to you, that is the worst. Like that is such a hurtful thing to say to anyone. And why? Why? Why? Why? I would just say this. Whenever your partner puts you down, you have to go into your head and think, what was the meaning behind him saying that? What was your point? And I know I've said this before on my show, but my dad always

taught me to say, when someone says something mean to you, you literally just respond, what's your point? Literally, if you ask your boyfriend that, what is your point? So do you not find me attractive? What are you trying to get across here?'m like disgusted for you he's a fucking loser and you should dump his ass and be like oh i'm not the hottest girl in the world we want to talk about your dick size we want to talk about your little beer belly we want to talk about all the fucking things that you're not stacked on why are you coming for me it's one thing if you're like babe tell me i'm hot tell me i'm hot and he's like chill but still to say that that's mean's aggressive. And that's not a fucking loving partner. I would literally, I was about to say I'd backhand him.

I'm not going to pull Will Smith. But I do think that, you know, never, no, no, no Will Smith. I think it's so disgusting when I think that's toxic behavior. I think that's abusive behavior when men try to make their girlfriend feel smaller by going for their looks. And I think in those moments, you need to feel strong enough to be like, you know what? That's a fucking fucked up person that's really struggling with something. And he's clearly so insecure about something that he's trying to like almost gatekeep me away from the world and make me feel less than so that I don't shine and have confidence. Fuck that. Find a new fucking boyfriend. You should shine, bitch.

Fuck him. Okay, I'm heated. I like that. Should we go to the live Daddy Gang or do we have time for one more? We got time for one more. One quick one, though. Oh, my God. Okay, quick one. Quick one.

Oh, my God. Oh, my God. I don't have a quick one. You guys know I can't fucking do that. Let's just go to the live. I'm with you on that. Let's do the live. Okay, okay, okay.

Wait, so I'm about to talk to Daddy Gang live? Yeah, like live. They're going to come on the stage live. And it looks like Natalie had a great question in the chat. So let's bring her up. Oh, my God, Natalie. I'm going to shit my pants. I can't wait to hear your voice. Come to the stage, Natalie.

Oh, my God. Hello. Oh, my God. I'm going to literally shit my pants. Holy shit, Natalie. This is fucking crazy. I'm going to start crying. You're literally the first live guest ever on after hours. This is history. I'm literally shaking. I can't believe you picked me. I I've been a huge daddy gang for years. Hello.

Oh my God. Hi. Hi. Hi. I'm literally shitting my pants. I want you to know I love you. I don't even know what you're going to ask me. I love you. I love you. I love you. Okay. What is going on? Well, I love you. And I thank you so much for picking me because I actually really need your help. So this is a dream come true. Love. So I know my boyfriend is currently saving up to buy me a ring to propose. Yes. Yes. And I love him so much and I'm so excited, but also I'm nervous because I make more money than my boyfriend right now. And I would love to be able to contribute money towards my ring because it is going to be on my finger forever. And I just want to make sure it's the ring I've always dreamed of. So how do I bring this up to him without insulting him or hurting his feelings?

First of all, I love you already. Fuck yes. Whatever your job is, thrive, bitch. Also, just take a look at the chat because everyone is obsessed with you and everyone is like, Natalie, we support you. Natalie, yes. Okay. This is a great fucking question. So I would like to say first, I totally get why you're stressed. There is so much societal pressure and expectation that a guy always it's almost like he has to prove his worth by the ring he gets you. You know what I mean? It's like men. It's like what is it? And everyone wants to see a picture of it. You post the picture. Dude, also, it's almost so inappropriate. People don't even hesitate these days to ask, like, how many carrots is that? And so I actually would say, number one, this actually shows such a healthy relationship that I appreciate you struggling to figure out how to bring it up to him because that means that you're aware this could hurt your boyfriend's

feelings and make him maybe feel inadequate or embarrassed if you go about it the wrong way. But sweetie, fuck societal norms. We can rewrite that shit for your relationship. Okay. So this is what I would do. Let's go. Let's go. Okay. So first of all, I think for you, well, actually, let me think old Alex probably for his birthday would have like Venmo'd him a couple thousand dollars and been like, happy birthday, baby, with a bunch of diamond emojis and like, use it wisely. Hopefully he takes that cash and puts it towards your fucking ring. But guys, we are not passive aggressive. We are upfront in the daddy gang. ring. But guys, we are not passive aggressive. We are up front in the daddy gang now.

We are direct. We are health and wellness. I think what you do, Natalie, is I think you bring up in conversation, babe, I am so excited to spend the rest of my life with you. And also do it kind of like light. This isn't like a, we need to have a sit down talk. It's like, babe, I'm so excited to spend the rest of my life with you. I've been thinking about some, you know, we have a bunch of upcoming

celebrations and we have so much to look forward to. And I've been kind of prioritizing, trying to prioritize, like, what do I want to put my money towards during this time? And I realized a ring is something that's really important to me. It's going to be on my hand for the rest of my life. And I just want to be so open and transparent in this ring shopping process together. Like I love you and I know you can provide for me, but I would love to be a part of picking out the ring. And even if it means being a part of purchasing with you, because I, and then almost own your shit of like, listen, I know I may have almost like a little of a elevated expectation for this ring and I own that.

So I want to be able to come on this together and like, dude, we're going to have our finances together. Let, let this be the first thing we go in on together. The thing is, Natalie is finances are weird to talk about. Sure. But this is your life partner and this is not going to be a one time convo also like let him process it. Once're like hey babe i would love to participate in picking the ring or at least like helping purchase it because i know bitch i want a big fucking ring and i know that i may be a little bit needy but like i care about this i also think you could say something fun to him of like and babe then when you do get down on one knee you do not have to wonder if i like that shit. And so it's like, make it fun and make it like, don't put too much pressure on yourself. Like this is going to be on your finger. This is

kind of your moment. You know what I mean? And so let you, this is your partner. This is your life partner. You should not feel too awkward, but again, finances are hard, but if you kind of approach it in a light, fun way, like, babe, I want to fucking rock. And I'm not saying you can't afford it, but I think I want more than we could even afford together. So let's find a middle ground. Let's go on this shit together. But I'm so proud of you that you're thinking about it this way because finances are hard with partners. And when someone makes more than the other, it can cause a really weird, awkward conversation. So if anything, this could be the beginning of you also just getting a little less awkward talking about finances together right because you got the rest of your life to go together and there you go

like now just kind of open the topic and let it roll bitch also get your fucking diamond let's go baby she's caked up breaded up amazing thank you so much daddy And the daddy gang is the best, most supportive community. The chat is so sweet. I am talking about money. Like I hate it. And part of me wants to do the old Alex passive Venmo route, but I know you're right. And I honestly do need to get comfortable talking about money in general, if I am going to be married to this man. So I like the approach of just like, keep it casual. Don't make make it weird And I think it's a really good first step of talking about money in general. So thank you so much daddy Oh my god. I love you. Also. Keep in mind you you did nothing wrong That's also something my mom always would remind me like hey you did nothing wrong

Like hey, you want something for yourself and you want it to be special and you're it's not like you're completely like I'm gonna pay for the whole thing like he's gonna be a part of it But like hey, let's make this special together. And if he understands how much it means to you, it shouldn't be a problem. And again, let him process it. Don't ask for an answer right away. Sometimes men process a little slower than women. Don't look at me.

But you know what I mean? Give a minute. X is like, oh, fuck. You're right. It is true. I love you. Natalie, you're amazing. Thrive, bitch. I can't wait. You got to DM me your ring once you get right. It is true. I love you. Natalie, you're amazing. Thrive, bitch.

I can't wait. You got to DM me your ring once you get it. I will snap that pic to you. Thank you so much. Love you. Shout out. Okay. Daddy Gang has tons of questions in the chat, Alex.

Big Al, I got to pick this one because this is just a great name. It's an all-time name. I got to go with Cher. Oh, Cher. Oh, can you imagine if it was like the actual share i'd be sitting there yes honestly that's what i'm hoping for and i don't know and i gotta find out okay let's go this like share no i don't i don't think so oh my god i literally am so nervous i can't believe i was picked i feel like i just won the lottery i like alex is this you kind of did

sweetie you're thriving. I love you. Whatever you're going through, we're about to get through this together. No way. I just I need to like to be take a second to calm down. I can't believe it's actually you. And I love you. We're thriving.

We're drinking. We're vibing. Let's solve your problem, Cher. Maybe I need to get a little drink. maybe take a shot before i ask this question actually please do no take a good get that shot yeah oh my god also while you take your shot everyone is like oh my god share with the iconic profile everyone is obsessed with you everyone oh so daddy gang i love how hype up you guys are yeah i really appreciate the love, because I'm so nervous. But don't be nervous.

Just going to throw out the question. So it's a safe space. Yeah. So I've been dating my boyfriend now for two years. He's amazing. I love him so much. And it's been great. But his parents are a little weird and different. And, um, sometimes it's a little

weird and I know that we're getting serious and his parents are going to have to meet my parents and it's going to be really weird. And I'm really terrified of that experience. And I can't decide if this is like a deal breaker or not. Uh, cause family is, you know, really important, but he's so amazing in every other way. So I just really need your help. You know what? I'm looking at also, so you guys know the chat.

First of all, Cher, I love you. Thank you for being so honest and vulnerable and open. Second of all, Alexa Zimmerman in the chat just said it perfectly. Oh, the weird parents. It is a tale as old as time, baby. Okay. Let me calm your nerves, Cher. So first of all, I was going to ask you, like, what do you mean by weird? Because let me kind of dissect this for a minute. They're daddy gang listening because we're all going to have a moment where we're going to have those in-laws. Okay. There are already enough boxes to check and red flags to look out for and green

flags and yellow flags and purple for your own partner. You do not need to apply that entire list to the person's family that you're dating. Because if we do, we quite literally probably would never find someone because they'd be like, oh, but the family's where they're at. Oh, the mom. So I think, yes, of course, it's an added bonus to have a second extended family. That is so fun. But I also want to remind you, you're saying you love your boyfriend. You are so close with him. You've been together two years. Keep in mind, like guys, we don't pick our family. Okay. So without a doubt, every single person listening in this chat messaging in this chat, we have that one person in our family. One thing that we're embarrassed about, maybe a little ashamed about, and it's not fair to, you know, judge

someone off of that. Not that I'm saying you are, but I'm just giving a more like generalized POV first. I think when you say weird, if he's super normal, that's a great sign. You know, sweetie, he persevered. Okay. And clearly it didn't affect him. So also I think with age, I was going to say with age, they're going to die. That's not what I was going to say. That's a bad joke. With what? Alex is like, what? No, no, no. With age. And if you guys end up getting married or whatever happens, you will be able to set boundaries. So for example, Christmas, Easter, New Year's, maybe you set those boundaries. We're not going to go to your parents every time. But this is where I was going to ask you a follow-up. The one thing that I would caution then is if there have been some red flags with your boyfriend and then you met the family and you see some similarities and tendencies that are potentially dangerous or toxic,

that's where I would say, hey, maybe don't look the other way and start to evaluate those moments and connections to the family versus what your boyfriend has been up to. Because yes, who we are is based off of who we're raised by during childhood. So if it's not just one isolated situation, yeah, be mindful. But if his parents, can I ask Cher, are his parents, are you more so saying like there's a little weird and quirky and it kind of makes you uncomfortable? Yeah, I would just say, I think it's more like, he's so drastically different from his parents, which is a great thing. And that's probably why I, you know, love him so much, but it's more than just like really different than me and my parents. And so like, they're just like, you know, quiet, sort of like very awkward. Like they don't hug each other.

Like my family hugs each other. It's just like a completely different vibe. Sweetie, then you know what? Like I said earlier, he persevered. Okay. And you know what? I have a lot of friends that have weird fucking families and they're the dopest motherfucker in the room.

So I would say this, if his parents are weird and quirky, it's going to be okay. Also, I would be interested if you're saying your boyfriend is normal and you vibe. I think what you can start to do is whenever he opens up about his family, maybe before you're going to that dinner party, if he does give you a little bit of a, like, oh God, my dad's going to be weird. Maybe use that as a bonding moment. So you guys can not talk shit about his family together, but you're two years into this. You should be able to kind of like shit on your families together and kind of like talk it through. So I would say don't hesitate not to shit on them. But if he's open to talking about them with you, don't hold back. He's looking almost for the connection with you of, hey, I have a normal partner. My parents are weird. Indulge me a little bit. Let's talk about my fucking weird parents. So I think, listen, yes, you can feel a little weird when you don't have a connection with your potential in-laws. But if it's not some serious toxic shit, baby girl, you fucking go to those dinners and then you and your boyfriend laugh your asses off after if the dad's did some weird shit and goofy shit and he's wearing khakis and they're not hugging. You go in for the fucking hug every time.

Teach them their ways share oh my god thank you so much because honestly like i i don't want it to be a red flag because i i do love him but i wanted to make it work and like this made me feel so so so much better like i feel like a like some you know calm peace has come over. And now like I can go to like our next dinner feeling so much better. Sweetie, I love you. I don't know. I'm like acting like your mother. Um, bitch, I love you.

I'm like, sweetie, bitch, daddy, I love you. You're going to be totally fine. In-laws are fucking weird. I've dealt with the craziest of them. I promise you. And it's, if you love your boyfriend, the immediate is all that matters. And you will be able to work through the other shit. People have crazy toxic in-laws.

If this is just a weird, a little awkward situation, you're good. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. Thank you so much. Thank you. Oh, big out.

Three minutes. We got three minutes. So this is the deal. Let's take like a minute or two and get some feedback from the daddy gang. Okay. Yeah, guys, was this awful? Rate me. No, don't rate me. don't rate me don't rate me

i'm gonna be so sad no rating should i do this again should we do this again should we not i'm nervous i'm scared what would you like to see if we do this again yeah like did you guys like like how we kind of ran this like i don't know i never oh my okay the comments are insane oh my god oh my god crazy do you guys understand guys I'm going to shit my pants reading these comments. I'm going to start crying seeing you guys. Oh, my God. Okay. Okay.

Okay. Don't make me cry. Someone asked if I'm going to Coachella. Absolutely not. I can't. I can't. I can't. I just can't do it.

I was just about to ask you before. No. I would rather be on my couch smoking a blunt and maybe looking up the Instagram stories and looking at some pictures. I don't want to be in the crowds. I don't want to be sweating. I want to be on my couch smoking a blunt and maybe like looking up to Instagram stories, looking at some pictures. I don't want to be in the crowds. I don't want to be sweating. I want to be sitting. I like to be horizontal X, okay?

Word. I like to watch TV, get high, get some munchies, and fucking scroll through my Instagram and go to bed, okay? I'm with you on that. Don't judge me. Don't judge me. Don't judge me. No judgment here. We're in agreement.

I've retired from festivals it's like an endurance yeah it's a little much it's a little much daddy gang oh my god who's on your 420 episode okay fine i'm gonna tell you guys because i love you and you guys are in here so i'm gonna give you the exclusive i'm gonna get high as fuck and do a solo video episode and you guys are gonna watch me smoke for a whole hour doing weird ass shit going through fucking topics that are gonna probably exploit my entire fucking life because we need a motherfucking solo baby and we need some alone time we need to get sexual we need to get personal and we're gonna get high as fuck and when you watch this episode

i hope you guys also get high before you watch it because i don't know what the fuck is gonna happen but i'm filming it this friday i'm gonna to be fucking tanked. I'm going to be so blasted. It's going to be very fun. So yeah, you guys are getting a solo next week. And I'm so excited to connect with you guys. I'm probably going to start crying because I can't, as we close up, I just want to thank you guys so much. I'm not going to lie. I was shaking before I started this. Going live is kind of nerve wracking. You guys made it so comfortable. I'm literally sitting in front of my phone and watching the comment section this whole time. You guys made me feel so loved. I literally, this is corny, but I straight up consider you guys family.

And so it's been so dope to like do this first and connect with you guys. I'm going to start doing this more on Wednesdays. I'll keep you guys updated on what Wednesdays. Daddy gang, we fucking did it. I love you guys. I love you guys so fucking much. We did it. And thank you for welcoming me in. The daddy gang loves you. Yo, this is family. This is so dope.

Daddy gang, After Hours with Alex Cooper. I will keep you updated on the next one. OG people in this chat, next time we get on, you're going to let me know that you updated on the next one. OG people in this chat. Next time we get on, you're going to let me know that you were in the first live after hours with me. Thank you guys so much. I love you guys. I love you guys. Don't forget your homework. Watch ultimatum. Oh yeah. I'll watch ultimatum please. And DM me. I can't stop watching it. Bye guys. I love you. Peace. Hey everyone. Thank you for Peace. Hey, everyone. Thank you for listening.

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