Call Her Daddy - Offset: Blowjobs, Marriage & Music

Episode Date: October 18, 2023

Join Alex in the studio for a sit-down interview with Offset. Offset opens up about his childhood, his rise to fame with Migos, and tells Alex all about his career “I made it” moment that happened from jail. He shares a hilarious story about a crazy experience with an ex and gets deep about his relationship and love for his wife, Cardi B. Offset also brings the advice we didn’t know we needed! Alex and Offset answer some absolutely unhinged questions from the Daddy Gang about blowjobs, nudes, and how to recover from a risky drunk text. Enjoy!

Daddy Gang, I am so excited for today's guest. He is a Grammy-nominated musician, and he currently has a new album out. Offset is in the studio. Daddy Gang, this episode is a chaotic but fun ride. We get to know Offset a little bit. We talk about his childhood, marriage with Cardi B, fatherhood, new music. And we answer, well, specifically he answers some of the most unhinged questions from you guys about sex relationships sucking dick eating pussy

you name it offset is here to talk about it so come hang out with me and offset let's get into it. In my opinion, they are the best rap group of all time. Yo, Domingo is out. Domingo! I might give a little alt-tomego. Domingo's member to make his solo debut. I'm a fool. This man just does no mess. He announced on Twitter that she had secretly married Oxen. I want to thank you, sis. The lady right here in the front.

You're all supportive. Cardi B is expecting her second child to be Oxen. There's a lot of drama. A child makes a motherfucking noise for Oxen drama break the fuck up what is up daddy gang it is your founding father alex cooper with call her daddy offset welcome to call her daddy call her daddy i am so happy you're here we're talking about your fit tell me i know you're very. We're talking about your fit. Tell me, I know you're very into fashion.

Tell me how you decided to wear this today. So today, I want to do something fresh and new. So I went to Rick Owens, got these pants. I went to Chrome Heart and got this top. And I got these Balenciaga-like slides. But how they sit on the cuff, it looked like a shoe. So I felt like it was nice. Oh, those are slides.

They look like big boots. Yeah. They look like they weigh a lot. they're kind of light they're not too heavy oh okay do you ever utilize the pockets in those pants when you wear cargos nah no just for show just for show i like sometimes when they stick out though because it gives it a shape or the pant you know you want your legs to look even thicker. Nah, nah, I just want a little, uh. A little girth. Just a little girth. Okay, good to know.

I feel like sometimes men struggle with fashion because they're extremely insecure. They don't know how to, like, get out of the box. They don't know how to trust themselves. What do you see as the number one mistake that men make in fashion? Um. Man mannequin challenge that's what i call it so when you a lot of people that got money sometimes it's not so fashionable they'll just go in the store and buy what's on the mannequin head to toe like

a no-go for me it's like a tracksuit with the same print pants and pants and top zipped up. And then other than that, everybody think that designer has to be the drip. Like if you have on a lot of designer, then you're fashionable. No. I could go to thrift store and outdress somebody that got on some shit from designer. And also, you hit on the point. A lot of men just be insecure when it comes to that. I agree.

Whenever I see people in the Gucci tracksuit, I'm like'm like it's just gotta go it's too much a lot of g a thousand g's everywhere yeah and then i'm not big on print like i don't like the out loud like hey i got on gucci i got on hermes i got on i don't like that i like nice and subtle subtle if you know you know something that i really found unattractive for quite some time that even if he was the hottest man on earth khakis khakis on men was kind of like an ick for me like i couldn't get past when men had like tight khakis slacks they call them slacks slacks slacks but specifically the like light colored slack on a man um i'm like it just did nothing like i just was like kind of disturbed by it and like

i maybe i went to a prep school so a lot of these kids are like in their slacks oh they used to wear the sperrys with the slacks too did you ever own sperrys wasn't my taste i did go american eagle and like ever crimey i did that i did that did you do the double pop polo double hot polo i did that when it was in when it was in i did that but the sparrows the potato shoes i couldn't do that i used to call them potatoes sweet potatoes how do you feel about uggs uggs are fire okay you gotta be a confident man to pull those off i feel like you could pull them off i pull them off what is something that a woman could wear like for me my dick is khakis with men what do you think something a woman could wear that you're like

i can't handle it take it off i don't like when you have the busted air force ones i think it's just shoestring tied up so tight that you can they leave a little shoestring mark on your feet because they're so tight those i hate those and just be dirty beat up and the outfit might be fire but you just got those on it's like come on don't do that please thank god i didn't wear mine today um anyways i want to know a little bit about your childhood i know you said you grew up in atlanta but like i let's paint the picture of young offset okay let's go back to elementary school okay what are you like at recess like what are you doing who are you hanging out with are you

in the cool crowd are you a weirdo what's going on at recess i um i don't know if i was in the cool crowd but i had my two little homeboys malik and um i forgot the other dude's name and elementary school i wasn't like that that cool okay people was roasting me about what just like my clothes wasn't up to par. You know, my mama was struggling. You know what I mean? She didn't have it, and my clothes wasn't up to par. I just wasn't all the way there yet, you know?

But by the time middle school hit, I was that guy. I'm playing sports. I'm playing football for the middle school. You know, when you growing up as a boy, it's like being tough is cool, too. I started to get a little musty. I started to get a little, you know what I'm saying? I started to get a little tough. I had a couple fights here and there.

Oh, puberty hit. Puberty hit. Started to get some muscles. Yeah. I started to get a little rough. High school, I was that guy. Straightforward. And I won best dress my senior year.

And I got on Gucci my senior year. How I got to Gucci? We'll talk about that another time. But, you know what I mean? I was fly, though. Like, high school, fly. I also love, like you said, like, maybe elementary school wasn't your vibe. But, like, it's really sad. Because there are some people that peak in high school facts right you i swear

you so right and then you look at them now and it's like oh damn like i know the girl that i was like so jealous of in high school i'm like she's not she's not like she's not even the conversation anymore don't even exist right you so right with that shit a lot of people don't say that shit that shit is so right like the super coolest dude be like later on in life be like god damn what happened to you thank god i didn't turn out like tom like he's a fucking loser now yeah he got the girls back then he's got nobody now yeah so we both didn't peak in high school which is good but you said you were popular in high school. You know how people have like the superlatives of like most likely to live in their mom's basement, most likely to become famous. If your peers had to like name you as something back jewelry on in high school and little chains and shit i'm like i was i was preparing myself for the real and like i always cared about how i look you know in high school like they'll be like how you look is key it's everything it's everything you could have the worst fucking personality but as long as you're looking good

people in high school gravitate towards that exactly everyone's so fucking surface level and assholes a lot of people thought i would be in trouble too though i must say okay because i had you know my my high school growing up and you go through that time of ignorance and doing dumb and i was doing a lot of dumb in high school a lot of dumb um even got arrested high school it's just like doing a lot so a lot of people like my teachers uh what's her name i want to say her name what's your name mrs mrs smith no carnegie damn it what's her deborah starts with an e pretend she's standing right here right now you told me you know who you are you told me that i was heading to trouble and i headed to success

is that so good teachers that are assholes in that wild time like kind of like abusive like kind of abusive you really think about it and kind of like tearing you down and preparing you to like like because you know at that age those words are like somebody feeding you that yeah it's like damn and they're the people that you're supposed to trust like they're the people that are like supposed to guide you towards success and one of them look at deborah looking at you being like you ain't shit but look at life look at life also it's fucked up because you know that woman probably doesn't remember that shit but you still remember to this day she's my counselor this day. She's my counselor. I can't believe I can't remember your name. Let me know and we'll somehow dub it in at some point.

Okay, if you could, if people don't know you that well, describe your personality now. My personality is very fun, but I can also be very serious. I'm a Sagittarius. I'm very confident in who I am. Some people take it as cocky, but that's on you. I know I look good.

I like to, I'm very creative, and I love to learn about creative shit. Book shit is not my thing, but, like, creative shit. Like, I'm doing my own films right now, and the ADs and what it takes to actually have a production company. I'm interested in learning, so I know how to handle my business from later on. And I think a lot of people with this album rollout was able to see that.

Yep. Because I always kind of been like not talkative and like too cool for school. And then on this shit, I was like, man, I'm about to have free spirit. Why? What changed? I went through a big death that happened and I was down for such a long time. And that just made me want to enjoy life. You know what I'm saying?

Enjoy life, enjoy my career instead of it being like a job. Because it had got to the point where it was feeling like jobby, and then people always got something to say. And I'm like, man, fuck that. It's about me, my happiness, and giving my identity of who I am as a solo act off set. And it's like challenging myself to be more do more entertaining shit instead of the old shit because i you know you get successful you you start to doing the same patterns that got you successful and then but after a while it's like repetitive and it's

like damn what's new no i appreciate you sharing that because i think like sometimes the most fucked up shit in life is like if you lose someone close to you or you just go through anything traumatic like it can reset the way that you look at things and that is a blessing in itself because you have to find the positives and moments in life and so to be like you know what I'm gonna not take this shit for granted I'm gonna make sure I capitalize on all this and like actually be present I think that's amazing thank you yeah of course okay so you kind of started to get famous you started Migos around 17 right yeah did you always know you wanted to be in music yeah from like high school from like middle school

were you rapping in middle school yeah not seriously though I wasn't taking it serious okay but when I could I would and then by the time 10th grade happened it started to feel like it was possible with the school and like the homies rocking with it and like giving a little support if you look back because i feel like everyone in their career kind of has that moment of like the oh fuck we made it moment with migos like what do you think that was for you guys see i so I was incarcerated when my song popped and then Drake got on my song, got on my song, Shout Out to My Brother. And I was in a jail cell one day, right? And they're doing Count like at six in the morning. I'm up and he's singing my song as he do Count. So the whole time I'm in there, I'm not telling people what's going on

because I really don't know what's really going on. I just know we was in like a motion, but I'm in jail. Like my mind's everywhere. I'm in a bad space, and the guard doing the count. And he's singing Versace, Versace, Versace. And I'm like, and I couldn't believe it. I walked up to the door, and he's like, move from the door so I can see who's in the room. And then as he walked off, he's singing the song.

I'm like, like yo what the no and i'm like as soon as we got out i get on the phone call it back home like yo then they're like yeah drake on it i'm like what so you didn't know that the song was big until when you were in i was in jail yeah i couldn't i didn't know like you know like your homies like yeah it's on the radio but i'm not knowing like, your homie's like, yeah, it's on the radio, da-da-da-da. But I'm not knowing, like, I'm thinking it's like they got it played on the radio once or twice. Right. It's like a pity play. Yeah, like, real quick or something.

And then it's like, nah. Then, like, after, I had to sit down for, like, four more months as that went on. And then it started being, like, guards are like, you can talk on the phone. And you can, um. Oh, shit. When the upstairs go in, you can stay out. And when the downstairs come down. And, like, I just started then, like, I had a visitation thing.

I'm married now, y'all, so it's not nothing crazy. This is before my wife. So on the visitation, they had, like, six. You can have six visits in one day, 30 minutes apiece. And I had, like, my mom on there. And I had, like, some girls I was dealing with but they wasn't coming my mama was coming every week but the girls wasn't coming

then like I didn't know how it was going on all of a sudden they're like you got six visits I'm like I got six visits I'm trying to think like bro they sitting in the lobby it's like a screen and it pops up the face,

and they put their name, my name, and they're going up and coming down, saying something to each other, going up, back to back. And I'm like, oh, shit. That's when I kind of was like, what the fuck? What the fuck going on? Then my mom was like, son. A lot of girls.

A lot of girls. They don't care. I'm like, mom, I don't know know i'll just put them on the list i didn't know they pop it they just pull it up and it was like oh shit this shit is crazy that was my first taste of like taste of it dude that is i don't think i've i never anticipated that to be like oh do you know when you got famous and you're like so i'm in my jail cell yes worst time ever nobody's showing love but my mama and then the guard is fucking singing versace walking past has that shit memorized and you're like wait that i ain't even i'm like oh god what the fuck i ain't want to be the lame dude like

yeah i mean and people like bro you want some jail story shit you lying so i just wasn't saying and then that shit happened bro i was like shit. How long were you in jail for? Eight months. I signed in jail. You signed in jail? Yeah. How did that affect your life, being in jail while all this was happening, when you look back? I was, like, feeling blessed that I got something to go home to, to be honest.

Like, damn, I got this to go home to instead of, like, the streets. And, like, you know, because I was old. I'm 17, 18 now. So it's like not living with Mom Dukes. I'm starting to see home to instead of the streets. Because I was old. I'm 17, 18 now. So it's like not living with Mom Dukes. I'm starting to see how life is in real life. The punishment's not the same. I sat in jail for eight months.

So it's like, oh, shit. I'm glad it happened that way, though. I wouldn't take nothing back because I feel like it. Because when I got out, I wasn't wild, wild west. Like, ah. Because I had just been in trouble. I had to sit down. I had a lot of, my mama couldn't buy me out.

It was a lot of things. I had to go through a program so I didn't have to go down the road. And the program was just teaching me, like, to be more determined and more focused on whatever I want to do and stop playing around in life, basically, because there was a lot of young guys like me in the program. And they're like, yo, you get into any get into any right up in here anything you get kicked out gotta do two years and so I'm like oh and so it slowed me down before I was going too fast because I was wild I had got why I had got to the point where I was young and just doing dumb shit and then I feel like once you get on that path it's hard to like stop and recenter and it's kind of

doped here that you're like I this was a perfect reason for me to be like oh i need to get my shit together like i do have something to actually look forward to and fuck my teacher because i'm not gonna let that bitch be right exactly it all comes back to the teacher um what are you most proud of from your time in migos i'm most proud of the time we spent together. That's brothers. What we did for the game, for hip-hop, for music in general, how influential

to be a part of something so influential is the biggest blessing ever. Because we do this to influence people and little old us coming from Gwinnett County all the way to this now so it's like that's what I cherish the moments with the brothers obviously you're married now I love that you're like I need to clarify guys the women were coming in jail when I was not married like I know

people are very hyper fixated on your relationship but before Cardi talk to me about your relationships with women like what is the craziest craziest thing an ex-girlfriend ever did to you like we like some crazy stories on here all that is crazy give it to us oh i um i don't want to name them though no no no no yeah because it'd be too yeah so i come home one time and all my clothes is in the pool huh like crazy giuseppi's this one giuseppi's is good first off i'm just not getting to the money so my thousand dollars for the shoes it's like a precious thousand precious thousand you feel like whoo i couldn't go out it's not a time i couldn't go spend,000 like it was cake water. I would be like, oh, I'm good. No.

And I collect shoes. And shoes, when they get wet, some of them can't come back. They're old, like old Jordans and rare shoes. And all my whole closet was in the water. And I was gone for like three days on the road. Oh, so that shit was like molded. Molded, stank, mildewish. You couldn't even clean it.

It was over with. And it's like, yo, you got to leave. Why did she do that? Speculations. Little cheating speculation offset? Little speculations. We had, really she had did something, right? Uh-huh.

And so I put her on ice. Uh-huh. And so I put on ice. Uh-huh. Then I met my wife. Uh-huh. If you get it. Then I met my wife. Mm-hmm. And so, yeah, that resulted in the flood.

Wow. The flood. Yeah. What was your reaction when it all went down? Were you just, did you scream? The most I was looking at myself, I'm like'm like yo what the fuck is my clothes at and then like how my bathroom was set like when you walk out it was a window like a big ass window you could see the pool and my shit just floating some of the shit to the bottom titanic some of the shit just like

shoes to the bottom I run down because I'm not knowing how long it's been in the pool. And I'm looking at it like, yo, it's green shit on it. It's like September, too. So the pool ain't the cleanest. It ain't even summer. It's like September-ish. Yeah. Sometimes.

That shit had me sick. I ain't going to lie. That shit had me sick. I had some Gucci jacks. I had some shit had me sick i had some gucci jack i had some shit but not a track suit not a track suit god yeah i never had those fuck the top and bottom shit yeah no no i bet the sperrys would have lasted pretty good potatoes they'd have been soggy potatoes because they got that like thick thing at the bottom that kind of keeps it guarded that little whip at the bottom little stick little thing at the bottom at kind of keeps it guarded a little whip at the bottom at the back

so you eventually marry cardi what was your first impression of her i had seen her on it online first right and i just loved the way how raw she was and how confident she was like she didn't give a fuck what nobody thought what nobody think nothing and it's like damn that's fire like funny great personality from what i could see you know i'm saying like i'm like this is a funny girl she's a cool girl and then i shot my shot and i switched it how did you how did you go from being like oh my god i want to meet that girl going on a date how did you know she was the one first off off, she's a family person, right? So I pay attention to, like, fuck the music and all that shit.

That shit never matters. That's not what I look at. I look at, like, your home values because I'm from the South, so I'm raised by my mother and my grandmother. So I come from strong women. And I see how dedicated and determined she was to get to a certain place for her family. It never was about like, oh, I want to buy me a da-da-da-da.

It was like, I got to buy my mama a crib. I got to buy aunties. Like, her family big, and she's like damn near the man because it's like she's trying whatever. And then her struggle, she come from the bottom, from stripping, and she still was helping. Like, when I hear the story, she still was helping the family with that little money. And it's like her grind and her focus, you can't tell her nothing.

And it's the same way with me. Like, you can't tell me nothing. There's nothing you can tell me I can't do at all. I don't care what you think. I'm going to do it, and I'm going to show you I can do it. That determination. Yeah, yeah, she's solid. Solid.

What's your favorite thing to do together as a couple just being at the crib with the kids running wild because it's like we work so much right yeah and so like it'd be like the smallest things people might think trips and da da da da but we do all that like we travel on a regular just without jobs yeah buying things for my girl that's cool and shit but like the quality time because during that time she might push me or i might be pushing her or like you know you had those real conversations at the house you know i'm saying about what your aspirations or what you want to do what you see yourself doing the next five years and we talk a lot about uh business so we could set up the kids

so they're not forced to be in this industry like we are. So you don't think you would want your kids to like be in this industry? I mean, if they wanted to. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? But I'm definitely not pushing it on them. And I'm definitely not like. Because it's dangerous, man. It's like this shit is crazy.

I love that you're a family man. What is a dad quality you have that you think people would be surprised to know? I can braid my daughter's hair. Love. Also, I can cook certain things. I can cook some chicken. You know what I'm saying? I can cook some mac and cheese.

What kind? Mac and cheese. Box? No, I could do it from the noodles in the water and drain the noodles and clean the noodles. I could do that from the noodles in the water and drain the noodles and clean the noodles. I could do that. Okay.

And make lasagna. Yeah, man. I could whip it up if I need to. Damn. If you need to. Do you do it often? Not so much, but when it's appropriate, I can do it. My mama taught me how to cook.

Love it. It's great. It's a great quality to have. Obviously, you and Cardi went through things in your marriage. And I feel like people online, as we know, they love to stick to a narrative. They love to be like once a cheater, always a cheater. Like, why do you think so many people are just stuck on that and like can't move on? Because I feel like people dive into negativity. Also, I feel like there be like a hate train of people that don't like my wife, right? And she does everything else to the T, so that's the only thing you can attack.

And it's like, we are humans. But I hate that shit because at the end of the day, it does affect home. And at the end of the day, like, we move past shit, get past shit, grow up. I was married very young. I was 26 years old getting married. As a mega superstar. Number one album, number one record. Fastest life ever.

I made mistakes, right? But that's like me walking up to somebody. I just be wanting people to feel how that feel. Like, oh, you failed college. You didn't make it through college. You went to college and you didn't make it through. And you work a bullshit job. People would never want to hear that shit every day.

Like every day you wake up or every day you feel like, or something you got to say every couple weeks or something. It's like, oh yeah, you work at McDonald's. That shit is fucked up. What I'm trying to say is I would never say that to anybody or do nobody like that, but that's how that shit feels, like punching somebody, consistently punching them, punching them, punching them, punching them, and trying to bring a family down. I don't think people value or understand the value of family in this day and age

because a lot of people don't. A lot of people are not married. A lot of people don't talk to their parents. I talk to my mama and like so it's like it's a family thing and it affects not just one person it affects the family so that should be lame as hell but we've gotten to a point where we were like okay bro fuck y'all i appreciate you saying that too because i feel like it's like so many people think they know the ins and outs of people's relationship we don don't know fucking shit. Like we don't know anything about your guys relationship. And so when things like that happen, it's like how many fucking people have been cheated on?

I have everyone probably watching this has like that's just like that is something that couples go through. And I feel like it just sucks that obviously that's one thing in the public eye where it's like now everyone's going to have opinion of like oh cardi leave him or oh you leave her like it's like shut the fuck up mind your fucking business like how's your relationship people that's what i'll be saying the people who really be saying that shit be single as hell and they're triggered by it or they get cheated on all the time and they're triggered because they're like they have such a strong opinion but it's like mind your business let's live your life man and stay out of mind how did you re-establish trust in your relationship um first off by like respecting her position right we're both public

figures we're both in the eyes of people. Stop being selfish. You married this woman, be dedicated to this woman. And also, like, just being more communicative about shit. Like, we just talk more. And, like, because, you know, work was getting in the way sometimes. It was like, and we would talk all the time. But, like, communication is key, man. if you don't like some shit tell me and if i don't like some shit i'll tell you if i did disagree with something you tell you disagree with someone i disagree we talk and the communication is key not not

communicating fucks shit up it's fucks shit up and it sounds so fucking simple but it's like right and then all of a sudden when you have a hiccup or something happens you realize like wait we never even talk about this shit right so like sometimes in moments where you're down like it kind of helps you if you're gonna move forward like rebuild something in a different way that actually will work for both of you like we never fucking talk or like we're eating dinners and we're not talking because we were too busy from our work like finding moments like you just have to reset sometimes i also like what you said because i think a lot of people i've experienced it if you stay in a relationship after that type of like infidelity the person that cheated like has to give that person grace and time to heal and not be like are you over it are

you over it get over it and i know it's annoying for the person that cheated because it's like i can't do anything i just promise you I'm never going to do it again. Like, I'm going to be a better person. But the person that got cheated, it's tough. It takes work. It's a lot of work. What you did was selfish. So it's their turn to be selfish.

And, like, you need to comfort them. Because luckily, see, luckily I have a very loyal one. You know what I'm saying? And so, like, I don't want to lose her for nothing. I love her to death. My kids, my son, my daughter, like, they, like, where they were, my daughter is, like, ah, like, by her dad. And I don't want to ever take the, like, myself away from them

for my dumbass decisions. That was another thing in my mind like this shit is a domino effect because i got other kids with um i have other kids and i'm not with their mom and it's like that shit is hard like they be like especially as they get older they go to ask questions like some of the hardest shit i went through was my kids asked me why why why why and this and why why why why that shit hurts you and that's like another type of hurt where it's like oh shit like the kids saying that shit so i just want to be fair to everybody in the situation and not be like yo and not be selfish bro because that's how that shit be. When you do that shit, that shit is selfish.

Yeah, it's like once you have kids, you are like last priority. Like you got to be like making sure everyone else is good. And you have to be selfless, but it's also like... Do you have any kids? No. My kid. No, stop.

I'm engaged and like I know I eventually want them. But like it's a lot of fucking work like you got to be ready to be like and it's gonna pump your brakes all this shit right here it's gonna pump it you think it's gonna pump it good to know thank you next um okay Okay. Offset. I call my audience the daddy gang. Okay.

They're so fucking loyal, but they need help and they need the male perspective. i'm gonna read you some questions they wrote into me and this shit's fucking crazy okay very sexual and we need your advice as a man okay cool okay offset help i think my boyfriend's addicted to porn i know we should never snoop but i went through his browser history and the results were shocking on days when we weren't together he was spending five hours on porn hub i even noticed that on nights when we had sex he would still end up on porn hub for multiple hours should i bring this up and if i do what the fuck do i say okay before you bring it up right before you bring it up, right? Okay. Before you bring it up, you should try to change what you're doing to accompany, to see what he's doing, right? When I say that, I mean, there's something on there that he might want you to do that you're not doing.

So you got to pay attention to your man. And then men want sex. Ladies, to get back at your man the not the no sex thing it's not it putting you down i'm just letting i'm helping you out now these are key factors because this is what happens you get mad you turn the cheek and then you turn over in the bed and he's rock hard trying to get to his woman and you're like, I'm mad at you about the argument. Wrong. But back to the question.

Right. You got to, you got to, because, because, see, that's very quick. That's because you rambling through shit. You got to let it come across first. Like you got to, you can't, he can't know that you're going through his shit. You're violating first and foremost. So, you know, that's a violation. You're violating, first and foremost. So you know that's a violation. You're violating.

Because if he go through your phone, what will he see? That's the question, right? So if he's with you, because my key thing I heard was he with you and he still watches it. There's something intriguing on that thing, on that Pornhub that he's liking that maybe you should dive into right like maybe he's watching all videos of like blumpkins maybe he wants to get his fucking dick sucked while he's taking a shit we don't know never know but you'll find out if you really pay attention don't just see porn hub what's the search yeah what's the search what is he is it like dressing up then it's like you're still don't look at it like too weird.

Cause at the end of the day, when he not with you and doing it, that means he not doing it with somebody else or doing that to somebody else. So you got you a good one, but you got to step it up in the bedroom, baby. Do you, have you ever gone through a partner's phone?

No. Wow. You're a strong man. You know why? Cause my mama always told me, don't do it. If you don't want to get your back broken, son, you go a strong man. You know why? Because my mama always told me, don't do it if you don't want to get your back broken, son. Damn. You go through that phone.

Those chains, that chain, going through somebody's personal shit is ruining so many relationships. It's crazy. Have you had a lot of women go through your phone? Of course. How do they get your password? Don't know to this day.

They're putting the phone up while you're sleeping they like open your eyes do face app thing y'all just have y'all just a slick man women are slick man whatever you want to know you're gonna know but as a man especially as a man i'm definitely not doing that i just feel like it's like weird like bro what are you doing yeah i get it not yet if you got to go through the phone that mean you don't trust the person anyways facts okay next i need some advice on how to come back from a horrible night of drunk texting the guy that i'm into let me set the stage i've been talking to this guy for four months putting in work playing it slow and making great progress but last night I fucked up real bad. I had six tequila shots too many

and the text just started flowing. This man woke up to 25 texts of me saying things like, I want you to tie me up, fuck me and come all over my face. I also even threw a nude in there that I apparently took in the bar bathroom. All he replied the next morning was, LOL, whoa. How do I recover from this?

25 messages is crazy, baby. First and foremost. You might need to reconsider him because I ain't gonna lie. Me, like if y'all haven't had any type of intercourse, no sex or none, and you saying that type of shit, as a guy, we like that. First and foremost. We like that shit. So the Lafayette Law, whoa, he might be one of those

cool ass guys too that don't respond, but you're supposed to always make a woman feel kind of good when they do that type of shit, because they're going out their way. And if you are drunk, damn, that was kind of crazy. kind of went you kind of went crazy tie me up come out of the face it's crazy but as a guy he's supposed to said a little bit

more than laugh out loud whoa yeah like holy shit you look insane like fuck let's do it and then the next morning let her not have that like hangover scaries and be like how you feeling this morning yeah like he should have just been like yo you had a long like what was going on last night you was lit last night but the the laugh out loud whoa he might not be really you might gotta you might gotta choose somebody else and then i feel like as the girl too you should never have to be going so hard ever i don't give a damn yeah also like how scary was the nude in the bathroom at the bar like yeah like she's like putting her leg up how'd you pull that off in the bar ain't nobody walking in on you she's she's damn six tequila shots how do you feel about getting unsolicited nudes like what would be your response to a girl sending you a nude

non-married not married when you were single i will compliment him for sure but like i said i'm gonna like that type of shit open the phone some some we need that we need that gets you going yeah what would it take? What kind of nude would it take for you to just give it a thumbs up response? Like the bar one. Because I know the angle, the mirror too small and short. You really can't see what you want to see. It's cut off. You're probably looking uncomfortable in the picture.

Unless she's a pro. Unless you're a pro. But what are you going to do? The bar mirror's like a sink yeah half a little ass mirror most women are short as hell how you like you angling that phone like like what's up in the bar you see like the nasty toilet paper on the ground pissing shit i know it's stinking there it's the public bar bathroom be drunk pissing on the toilet and yeah but i would i would still give you like like i would still because you're trying yeah like you you gotta appreciate the effort like you got a nude yeah you got a nude may not be a plus most guys thirsty and asking baby see me you see me that ass real quick she had a little ass real quick baby slick nice that little ass real quick, baby. Slick, nice and cool.

Long conversation. Been talking to him all day and then get to the nighttime. Shit, a little titty. Before you were married,

how many fucking nudes were you sent in your lifetime? Estimate. Estimate. You're gonna get me in trouble, man. Damn.

100,000. I don't't know shut the fuck up 100 000 nudes no one be sending one now no one's better than cardi no one no one i fucking love your wife no one like you know when you walk in a room you're like oh like do they like my wife more than me like you got a good one that's a good feeling though great feeling like at least you're not walking in people like god though his fucking wife sucks everyone's like obsessed with your wife yeah that's cool and i'm cool with it because i'm secure i got the baddest shit in the room baby okay next go ahead what are you gonna say be like that sometimes that's all i'm gonna say it's nice it's nice yeah she chose you you're lucky i chose her yeah she's lucky yeah we're lucky yeah you're lucky yeah all right my boyfriend is a huge believer in foreplay but he

sucks at going down on me. I don't want to make him feel bad or make him feel insecure, but I just can't keep pretending it's good. I've never had an orgasm from him eating me out. What should I say? You're a woman, so you need to teach him how to do it. You need to teach him not to be so rough because more than likely he's rough. See, because these guys are not, you know, see, you got to know what you're doing when you're down there. You see what I'm saying?

You got to kiss it. Be calm. Give it a couple of kisses, a couple of smooches. Don't like, dog, you're not eating a burger, my boy. I really want to tell him because you're disappointing us, my boy. You got us down points, my boy. I know you asked me the question, but your boyfriend is tripping. You got to be nice and light on that thing.

It's not to be, you're not beating got to be nice and light on that thing it's not to be you're not beating it up nice nice and light but you got to tell him though because you got to teach him yeah like even like would you be insecure if the girl's like oh my god babe like i love when you eat me out like i want you to like go a little slower and like focus on like the clit like go like this like that like being like lightly constructive instead of, like, you fucking suck at eating box. Like, meh. Yeah, you got to tell them the right way. But, see, me, I always say this.

Like, when you have sex with a woman, it's to please her as a man. That's what a lot of men don't understand, and they get it wrong. Like, just because you can beat her down and fuck her on hard and shit, that don't really – I always, like like you need to make your partner come my brother that's the whole part of it like it's not just about you and i feel like a lot of us men just feel like it's about us and we like want to stroke our ego so we like oh in the pussy and that's not really what women like though and it's a certain time a certain place for it yeah there's a certain time where it's hot but it's also it reminds me almost of like when men think

fingering a woman is like the jackhammer i'm like i'm in pain no you can't do that you gotta be i see you see but i'm gonna keep it real i had to get taught the proper way to do it you gotta you gotta you gotta be smooth down there brother nice and cool and calm and collective the slower the better it's not like a big like no bro and you got to focus on the clit uh-huh the clit is the key to the to the to the to the mansion i think some men are too focused on being like i've watched so much porn like i want to get my girl a squirt and they think that is like you have to do that and it's like i i'm in pain thinking about it yeah like you gotta please the woman bro it's not about you a lot of men think about them though i gotta show her this my first time her i gotta show her like i'm that man and no one cares

like oh we don't want that you need to give her the experience what she's shaking not because you beat her down is because you're like you know what to do you know what a g-spot is you know what it is words of wisdom from offset from your boy yours truly man the comer you make the ladies come fellas listen fellas it's not about you dog you're gonna get yours let her get hers first though fox thank you generous yeah you have a penis now we need this we need you to think with your penis on this one okay my boyfriend hates when i give him head and says that what i'm doing just doesn't work for him i have never gotten bad feedback bad reviews nothing from any of the guys i've ever been with what What should I be doing? No teeth. No matter how deep and how low you go.

If you can't go too low, then don't go that low. Sucking. Like, don't suck my head off, baby. Like, please. No. Noise is a plus with the liquid, with the spit and the noise.

The noise, pause, because I wasn't supposed to make that noise. Oh. Pause. But we needed that for me today. Yeah, like licking it up and down from the back side is a great key. Hands. Hands. Hands. We would rather the moisture come from the spit than you're like trying to smoke the wagon.

You're trying to smoke the wagon. When I say that, it's like you don't have a lot of spit on that thing. You're gripping grip pliers and you're pulling up. Rug burn. We're not trying to go for that. We need Gok Gok 3000. You know what the Gok Gok is? Yes.

It's when your eyes tear up. When you're on this thing, you should have tears in those eyes, baby. You should be crying to the dick. You got to cry to the dick, baby. Because that's what lets you know you're superb. It's all flowing. All flowing. The spit, the noise, the hands are twisting, but it's not rug burn.

There's moving. It's slip and slide. Yes. The action is going. If you want to suck it one time and make a noise, noise boom do that but like don't chew my shit down man i'm not trying to feel no teeth oh have you had your dick bitten before talk to me about younger days man high school man man days man high school man chip that that you just be like oh hey listen it's cool

we don't get to the other shit yeah yeah yeah just just just just let me put it in cuz you are munching on my shit and then i always i always been the type to tell you like yo vampire chill we don't need the bikes man because that should that should that should that should turn it off man i might don't even want to out to that like whoa oh too much of a horrible oh the side hip twist yeah baby you got you you we need to we need to recruit we need to regroup and try this again another time you know what's so funny of hearing you say that is the classic move of like let's just fuck i remember in high school college all the time when guys couldn't eat me out i'm like okay like and you

try to pull them up like okay yeah like wait baby like, wait, baby, let's just fuck. You didn't want to just fuck. We've been doing foreplay for like two fucking seconds. But you're literally like licking my belly button that's not my clit. And so I'm like, all right, let me just pull you up, bro, because it's just not working. That's when you actually should know that your shit is bad. If someone's pulling you up like, let's just fuck, it's not because they're eager to fuck. You want sex to be enjoyable and long. So if someone's pulling you up, your shit's whack.

Your shit's whack. And you just got to face the fact. Stop using your fucking teeth. Stop munching on my shit. This is not a grilled cheese. You're like, oh. Get back. Oh, that little jump.

You get that jump. Oh, oh. Hey. Stop. That's what I really want to do. Stop. I appreciate that. Okay, all the girls are now going to be like wearing like mouth guards and going in just like making sure no fucking teeth.

Gums. All gums, baby. Gums, baby. Okay, we're moving on. Let's talk about your new album, Set It Off. Congrats. Thank you. Talk to me about it.

What's the vibe? Set It Off, man. The vibe of the music is, like, very fun. A little serious here and there, but I didn't want to. I feel like people was thinking I was going to go so serious because of the choice of UVS to have it in my life recently. But I wanted to have fun. Like I said, I wanted to have fun like I said I want to be free set it off title was just like set this bitch off

like all the haters all the whoever speculations it's like I'm gonna show you how good I am who I am and like I wanted the people to dive more into me as a person like see my personality that's why I did a lot of things I did throughout this rollout and this let people know I'm cool, man. This album means a lot to me, man. I worked on this album for two and a half years. Went through legal and different problems. And I'm happy with my project.

Usually I'm not really. I'm like, I don't give a fuck what people think. I feel like my shit fire. If you had to pick, what's your favorite song on the album? I feel like every time I say that, then everyone goes and listens to that one song. What's yours? Worth It. Worth It.

It's number three, me and Don Toliver. Okay. And it's a female vibe. So, ladies. Oh, that's my audience. I'm on some player shit, baby. So, it's not a trap, turn it record. It's a vibe.

As soon as you turn it on, you're going to fuck with it. I guarantee. I was listening to the one with Travis. Dope. I saw the music video. Really dope. Was that in Thailand? Yeah.

Freaky is really good, too. Jealousy, also. Freaky is fire. I mean, anything with your wife is also dope. Fire. Is that cool to work together on shit? Yeah, hell yeah. Because we always do have fun when we do our shit. It don't never be like no serious ass like it's always like we're

trying to be lit we lit in the studio yeah had a couple drinks let's go in that's fun that's really fun obviously this is your second solo album yeah what has been the most rewarding thing of like crafting your own image and my own creation my own creative creative my own creative vision being actually taken serious i have my own team like everybody on my team understands the language i speak and it's like um my control of everything i get to control everything i don't want to be a control freak, but I get to control everything. I feel like some people don't just be getting it or scared to take the extra mile or won't get out of the box.

Like, they're uncomfortable with that. But me, I want to challenge myself, watch a lot of film. I've been shooting my own. All my music videos have been shot by me and directed by me and, like, even the staff hired by me, everything. So being able to do that because I'm passionate about that shit. That's so dope that you're that hands on because I feel like you can kind of tell with creators like who's on their shit and who just like showed up, did their lines and got the fuck out. I feel like you can feel that from this album.

Last question. People that are watching today. Yeah, I feel like we haven't seen that much of your personality before this and i think it's dope that you're like starting to like open up more but if people are becoming a fan today what do you want them to take away from this interview that first and foremost you know me like i don't be doing interviews, right? Secondly, it's like I'm giving you an open jar of me, so accept it. This ain't no trying to be cool. I'm not telling her to edit shit out. I'm not telling her.

I'm just being raw right now. I'm not telling her, like, don't talk about this, don't do this. I'm like, I want you to know as much as possible so you can dive more into me as a person, away from the music too like because it's not just about the music it's about the all around i would like you to be like damn he's just a cool person like that makes me that makes me feel good because uh i shadowed myself so long with like not really talking and like that that's boring as fuck. You know what I'm saying?

And I don't want people to think I'm boring. I'm actually fun as fuck. And like, I respect you. Thank you. And what you do. Thank you. And the lights you bring because you got the ladies. And y'all, what matters?

This is what people don't understand, that the women running this shit. That's why you think. Why do you think women running music? You think it's a coincidence it's because women support more than men do facts facts women support and like they believe in you they'll go all the way even with hiccups yeah and i with that offset you are always welcome back here because i appreciate everything you said and you are really cool like you're fun hang i'm excited that i got to get to know you better today because like i don't know what to expect obviously when you sit down like i don't you know i see you online i'm like i don't know you're dope you're really cool and you're a good hang and you're funny

you're good too man you don't make your shit feel like no fucking questionnaire shit your shit feel like we just having a good conversation yeah and it's was fine. And it's like a vibe. The setting of the room means a lot. It's not just in a fucking white fucking wall. Right. This shit's player. You got some taste with this furniture, too. I like how you did this. You like it?

I fuck with the decor. That's the type of shit. I like the details and shit. It's kind of cute. You got some good books up here. Uh-huh. You got Pussypedia behind you. Oh, Pussypedia.

Mm-hmm. Can I get some merch? Oh, I got some merch for you, yeah. I'll get you some of my merch. Oh, yeah, I have my merch out, ladies. Oh, oh. It's Do It Denim Tears. It's with the album.

You can get it on OffsetTears.com. He's plugging. Go get that. He's plugging. Go get that. Make sure y'all go get this set-it-off album Friday the 13th. Ladies, I need your support. I love you guys.

Without you guys guys we are nothing I'm going to be the one to say it and I don't got no pride and I don't give a fuck we down here y'all up here bring us up there with y'all ladies I love y'all I put three females on my album which is Chloe Bailey, Lotto and my wife

I have like five female joints on there because I didn't want to leave you out I feel like a lot of times we leave you out. Thank you for thinking about it. I want you to be able to be in your mirror doing your makeup and then put your hand down and move your hand and you look beautiful with my song in the background. I love that. I love that.

Ladies, you want to dance? Get to it, baby. Your nails get done. You want to flip the camera on you? Bang. Show them people them fire nails you just got with that offset, set it off in the background. I love that. And I will see it.

Because I'm on my TikTok. I'm on my Instagram. I will see it and like it. That is not somebody working my shit. I like to be hands-on. Love y'all. I love it. Look at you knowing tiktok being like let me tell you guys how to make your videos offset thank you so much for coming on this was so fucking dope this is really fun thank you thank you dude that was that was fire Bye.