Canadian True Crime - Cherish Oppenheim
Episode Date: May 23, 2024The case of a beloved 16-year-old girl who didn't return home one night—and the many questionable decisions made by authorities that could have inadvertently saved her life.*Additional content warni...ng: this episode is about the murder and possible sexual assault of an underage girl.The intention of this episode is to highlight how cases involving missing and murdered Indigenous women and girls are often treated differently at every stage of the criminal justice process, as per Reclaiming Power and Place, the final report of the National Inquiry into #MMIWG.Monthly Donation:Justice for Girls Outreach SocietyLook out for early, ad-free release on CTC premium feeds: available on Amazon Music (included with Prime), Apple Podcasts, Patreon and Supercast.Full list of resources, information sources, credits and music credits:See the page for this episode at www.canadiantruecrime.ca/episodes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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The date was Friday, October 12, 2001. That evening, Cherish Oppenheim asked her mother
Shelly if she could drive her over to a friend's place for a visit.
Shelly said that was fine, but reminded 16-year-old Cherish to make sure she was well-rested
because they had a busy weekend ahead.
Cherish agreed to be home by 1am and promised she'd be ready to go in the morning.
After they said their goodbyes, Shelley decided to wait up for her daughter to get home.
She ended up falling asleep on the couch.
Cherish was the second eldest of four daughters, and her family lived in the Nicola Valley
in the southern interior region of British Columbia.
The area is known for its natural beauty and amazing outdoor recreational activities,
and it's also the traditional territory of a number of indigenous First Nations.
Cherish Oppenheim and her family were Antlechapum Nation,
originally from Cold Water First Nation, but they lived.
live nearby in Merritt, a small city of about 7,000 residents that serves as the primary
commercial and administrative hub of the Nicola Valley. Cherish attended Merritt Secondary School,
where she was a popular and active grade 11 student, known for being talented at whatever
sport she tried. She played on the girls' junior basketball and rugby teams. Rugby was her
favorite. She proudly wore a number 13 jersey and her team was so good they'd traveled to France to
play. Cherish was outspoken about wanting to become a PE teacher one day, but she liked to keep
busy with lots of other activities as well. BC newspaper the province would report that she was an avid
pool player. She'd taken training for first aid, hiking and survival skills. In that summer of 2001,
she'd been a day camp supervisor at the Coldwater First Nation.
Cherish's mother suddenly woke up on the couch with an uneasy feeling.
She found herself saying,
Ah, Cherish.
She glanced at the clock and saw it was 3am.
She must have missed when Cherish arrived home
and went to the 16-year-old's room to check.
Cherish wasn't there.
Her bed hadn't been slept in.
Shelly's instincts were already telling her something was wrong.
Her daughter usually checked in often when she was out,
and she wasn't one to come home late.
So Shelly got in her car to see if she could see any sign of Cherish.
It was all she could think of to do.
After driving around Merritt for a while with no sign of her daughter,
Shelly returned home, hoping that Cherish would have beat her there.
She hadn't.
Not long after that, Cherish's three sisters woke up to the sounds of their parents
having concerned conversations about where Cherish might be.
Her older sister Ashley told them that she'd actually walked home with Cherish that night.
They met up at the downtown Merritt 7-Ewen store shortly after midnight and then walked home together.
But as Ashley opened the front door and entered the house, Cherish didn't follow.
Instead, she turned and left again, but she never came back.
The family spent that Saturday morning looking for cherish,
as various concerned family members stopped by the house to lend their support.
After a few hours searching, they were at their wits' end.
Shelly could feel the situation intensifying.
She knew something was seriously wrong.
It was time to contact the RCMP to report her.
daughter missing. That evening, Shelley looked up at the moon and prayed for Cherish.
There was still no sign of her on Sunday, and the family hadn't heard anything else from the
RCMP. By this point, Cherish had been missing for more than 24 hours. Shelly would say she didn't
know what the policy was for searching for a missing person, but the family decided to schedule a larger-scale
search themselves immediately.
Quote, we needed to move now, and we knew that.
Shelley's cousin, Robert Moses, was put in charge of the search for Cherish.
He got a map out, sectioned it off, and delegated areas to the growing number of
volunteers to search, with ATVs arranged to help them get around.
Cherish's immediate and extended family created a poster, printed off thousands of copies,
and distributed them in and around town and nearby areas.
Shelley would describe how the Upper Nicola First Nations cowboys arrived on their horses,
offering to help by searching the woods and wooded areas on the outskirts of merit.
They were soon joined by the six First Nations bands in the area,
who came together to help with the search,
donating food and money and other items needed by the family.
Cherish's cousin Thelma commented to the media,
We're using the Mococococene telegraph.
Sometimes it works better.
The family home had been turned into a command center,
the search headquarters.
There were volunteers and family members manning phones
while others were out searching highways
and logging roads for any sign of what might have happened to cherish.
There was a lot of activity going on.
Before long, the search for church for church.
Cherish had turned into a major ground and air operation.
On Monday, more than two days after Cherish had been reported missing,
the RCMP pulled into her family's yard,
but they had no news about Cherish.
There was still no sign of her.
Shelly wondered what was happening with the media.
She hadn't seen anything reported about Cherish being missing,
no pleas to the public to come forward with any information.
yet. But that was all about to change.
Later that day, the police received an anonymous tip
that a young girl fitting Cherish's description had been seen getting into a vehicle
just down the street from the downtown 7-Eleven shortly before 2.30am on the Saturday morning.
Cherish had of course already been at that 7-Eleven that night,
about two hours earlier when she met her sister Ashley and they walked home.
together. When Cherish unexpectedly turned and headed back out again, she had gone back to meet up
with her friends. Those friends confirmed to investigators that Cherish was with them at the 7-Eleven again
in the time before 2.30am, but she left them at the store and started walking down the street by
herself in the direction of her house. Shortly after that, she was seen getting into a vehicle, or a
fitting her description was.
If true, the driver of that vehicle was the last known person to see Cherish alive,
so it was top priority for investigators to locate them.
The problem was, the person who called with the tip didn't provide any further information about it,
and of course they were anonymous.
At this point, the RCMP engaged the local media to report on the disappearance of Cherish
Oppenheim, issue a public plea for information, and requests that the anonymous tipster get
back in touch with them. Cherish was described as indigenous, about five feet eight inches tall,
115 pounds with long brown hair, and she was last seen wearing a green fleece pullover,
white running shoes and dark blue jeans with a red letter T on one pocket and each on the other.
A couple of days later, a follow-up article reported that the RCMP wasn't able to make contact with the anonymous caller,
and they hadn't found any other evidence that Cherish had gotten into a vehicle down the street from the 7-11.
So at that point, as far as investigators knew, the last time the 16-year-old had been seen
was when she left her friends at that 7-11 shortly before 2.30 on the Saturday morning.
As the RCMP and Cherish's family hoped that the media attention would result in more tips,
they continued their efforts searching everywhere in buildings and in abandoned homes.
But soon, rumours started to surface that Cherish might have been a victim of sex trafficking,
that she'd been snatched, drugged and forced to work on Vancouver's downtown east side.
Her family described this as devastating to you.
here, but they couldn't ignore it, and family members went to comb the streets of Vancouver
to look for any sign of her. Several days later, the RCMP confirmed these rumors existed,
but added a clarification that there was never any evidence whatsoever to support the story
that Cherish had been sex trafficked. She was in a high-risk group for human and sex traffickers.
According to Canadian statistics, incidents of trafficking reported to police show that 96% of victims are women and girls,
24% are girls under the age of 18, and indigenous girls are especially vulnerable.
But there are a number of misconceptions and myths about what human trafficking really is and what it looks like in real life.
The prevalent belief is that sex trafficking typically starts with the victim,
being abducted or kidnapped by a stranger. But in the vast majority of real-life cases,
this just isn't true. Traffickers are typically already known to the victim, or as someone
who came into their lives and built a relationship with them by establishing trust and an emotional
connection. Sex trafficking victims are typically groomed, with the end goal of manipulating
and coercing them into working to earn money
that's paid straight to the person trafficking them.
But because of the widespread misconception
about being snatched off the streets,
many of the actual victims do not realize
that what's happening to them is sex trafficking.
When it came to the search for Cherish,
her family did whatever they could to try and find her.
At the end of long day searching,
they got together, they did smudges, said prayers,
and participated in cultural drumming and singing
in an effort to keep everyone connected,
safe and grounded through the search.
Cherish's mother Shelley described it as an important part
of how they were able to function day to day.
Quote,
I really believe in my heart that's what kept us moving,
kept us going through that traumatic time,
our culture, how strong it was when we were together.
By October 21st, Cherish had been,
missing for eight days. The search operation had been extended and more tips had come in with
sightings of her in particular areas. Her family would get their hopes up, but as each tip was revealed
to be a dead end, their anguish and disappointment was palpable. But then, the family suddenly
heard whispers that the police had their sights on a suspect. A man had been stopped by the RCMP in
downtown Merritt the same night that Cherish went missing. And apparently, in the man's van,
was duct tape and a knife. The date was Monday, October 22nd of 2001, and Cherish Oppenheim had been
missing for nine days. The RCMP confirmed to Cherish's mother, Shelley, and stepfather
Victor, that they did have a suspect in custody, that they'd been watching closely for a few days.
but he wasn't talking.
They tried a different approach
and interrogated him for hours
about the night that Cherish went missing,
but he still wouldn't talk.
So as a last resort,
investigators asked Cherish's parents
if they'd be willing to come down to the jail
to plead with a man to tell them where she was.
They agreed immediately
and began what was likely an agonizing weight on standby
to be called.
The suspect's name was Robert Raymond Deswain,
a 37-year-old labourer from Colonna,
a city located a little less than a 90-minute drive from Merritt.
But Robert Deswain was no stranger to Merritt.
He grew up there,
and his family once ran a nursery
that wasn't far from Cherisher's family home,
and more importantly, he was in town the same night that she vanished.
In addition, Robert Deswan had a sizable criminal record that reportedly started with charges related to narcotics and possession of stolen property dating back to the 1980s.
29-year-old Robert Deswan was married at the time, and when his trial started, his wife was halfway through her pregnancy with their first child.
He said he was dealing with financial issues at the time and was engaging.
in hazardous consumption of alcohol, which he claimed contributed to his criminal actions that day.
While he acknowledged that he had broken into the woman's home and forcibly confined her,
he oddly denied straddling her on the bed. This is the earliest public indication that
Deswan appears to be highly sensitive about accusations related to sexual assault.
There is no way to know his intentions that day, but when his criminal
actions are taken to their logical conclusion, it's reasonable to assume that he likely would
have sexually assaulted the woman had she not screamed. Deswan was found guilty of breaking and
entering an unlawful confinement and the judge sentenced him to a one-year jail term. That was in
November of 1993, about eight years before Cherish Oppenheim's disappearance. In February,
of 1994, a small announcement appeared in the Times colonists that Robert and his wife Nadine
had welcomed a baby son named Cruz Dizwan. There was obviously no mention of the fact that the
baby's father likely missed the birth because he was in prison. A month later, the Nanaimo Daily
News published a strange photo showing Robert Dizwan and another inmate with wide grins on their
faces as they presented a check to two women also pictured.
According to the caption, the women were representatives from the local chapter of the Boys
and Girls Club, now referred to as BCG Canada, which had recently been broken into.
Robert Deswan decided to organize a fundraising event, encouraging other inmates to join
him in donating several days of pay from their prison jobs to replace the toys and
equipment that had been stolen. Fast forward almost a year to late January of 1995 and another
small ad was published in the Times Colonist newspaper that appears to be a first birthday announcement
accompanied by a picture of a smiley baby boy. The caption reads, quote,
Hello, I'd like to formally introduce myself to the parents of my future girlfriends. My name is
Cruz. My parents, Robert and Nadine are awfully proud of me. When I come to pick up your daughter
for a date, you'll know me. His parents' marriage didn't last long after his father was released from
prison. Cruz was about 18 months old when they separated, and he lived with his mother after that.
A divorce soon followed. A few years later, in 1997, Robert Deswan was convicted of a
assaulting another woman. There are no details on the public record about the specifics of that
assault. In 2001, leading up to the disappearance of Cherish Oppenheim that October,
Deswan was arrested on two counts of uttering threats to his ex-girlfriend and her new boyfriend,
and then released on bail. He was arrested again just a few weeks later, this time for a violent
attack against a teenage girl from earlier that year that included the use of duct tape and a knife.
He was charged with sexual assault with a weapon, confinement and robbery.
Despite all of his charges and convictions, Deswan was determined to not be a risk to the public
and again released on bail on several conditions.
He was only allowed to reside at a specific approved address in the city of
Colonna. He was not to consume alcohol, and he was not to have any prohibited weapons,
including firearms, crossbows, ammunition, explosive substances, or any other prohibited or
restricted weapon. Curiously, Robert Deswan did not use any of those weapons. For reasons that
will come up later, the weapon that he did use, a knife, was not on that list.
That was August of 2001, and just a month later, Robert Deswan was arrested in relation to the incident where he uttered threats to his ex-girlfriend.
He was charged with two counts of breaching his bail conditions, and ironically, released on bail again.
About two weeks later, a van driven by Robert Raymond Deswain was pulled over by the RCMP in the nearby city of Merritt, on suspicion.
of intoxicated driving. He told them he was from Colonna but was staying with his mother in
merit at the time. He also denied drinking any alcohol that evening, but the results of his
breathalyzer test showed a blood alcohol level approaching the legal limit, which necessitated
a warning. The RCMP member took his name and returned to the cruiser to enter it in the system.
It showed that 37-year-old Robert Raymond Deswan was on bail a waiting trial after being charged in relation to two separate offences,
which included the violent sexual assault of a teenage girl.
There was some discussion with RCMP telecommunications about the specifics of the bail conditions,
particularly the one about prohibited weapons.
The RCMP member who spoke to Deswan
had also seen an 8 to 10-inch kitchen knife
clearly visible in his van, along with duct tape,
but was told that the bail conditions mentioned nothing about knives specifically.
But Deswan was in breach of two other conditions.
He was not to consume any alcohol, which he clearly had that night,
and he was staying with his mum in merit
when his bail conditions only permitted him to live at an approved address in Colonna.
When the RCMP asked him about this, he told them he was moving house at the time.
Obviously, a person under bail conditions like this cannot just move house and temporarily stay in a
different city without it being approved through the official process, and Robert Deswarn
hadn't. Despite the fact that he was in breach of two of his bail
conditions, the RCMP did not take any action. Instead, they gave him a 24-hour roadside suspension
for driving while almost at the legal limit. He was free to go, but not in the van. He reportedly
left the scene on foot. This incident happened in Merritt the evening of Friday, October 12, 2001,
the exact same night that Cherish Oppenheim was out with her friends.
and just a few hours later, she disappeared.
37-year-old Robert Raymond Diswan reportedly became a person of interest on October 18th,
five days after 16-year-old Cherish Oppenheim went missing.
There was no known relationship between them,
other than the fact that he was originally from the city of Merritt,
where she lived with her family.
And like many aspects of this case,
the details published in the news archives about how exactly the RCMP linked him to her disappearance are hazy and a little inconsistent.
The most likely version of the story is that about four days after Cherish disappeared,
the Merit RCMP suddenly remembered they had pulled over a man in a van that same night,
and had seen a knife and duct tape.
They realized that this man might have something to do with Cherish's disappeared.
and started surveilling him.
After two days with no more information,
they arrested him and charged him with breach of bail conditions
for failing to reside at the approved address.
It was too little too late.
By that point, Cherish had been missing for six days.
Cherish's mother, Shelley and stepfather Victor
were waiting on standby at the jail.
They had agreed to the RCMP's suggestion
to plead with the suspect believed to be responsible for the disappearance of their daughter
to tell them where she was.
But they were never called in,
because later that day, they were given an update that no one could have prepared for.
Robert Raymond Deswain had confessed to murdering Cherish
and had told investigators where he left her body.
While the RCMP left to search the indicated area,
Cherish's parents were driven back to their home to wait for more news.
It must have been agonising for them.
Cherish's mother Shelley, quote,
And then they came to the house and let us know that it was Cherish and that she was gone.
And so, a house full of people were just devastated.
A formal identification was needed next,
and Cherish's stepfather Victor and two other family,
friends agreed to accompany the RCMP back to the spot where they located her body.
They drove about 22 kilometres out of merit, following a rural road that turned into a rough dirt road
to a wooded area near a clearing, and there lay a partially clothed body.
Victor knew it was Cherish, but said, quote, this does not look like Cherish.
It was clear that the 16-year-old had been severely beaten at least,
but it would be a while before more details about what happened to her were released.
The City of Merritt was shocked when the news broke that Cherisher's body had been found,
and Victor said their entire family was devastated by the news.
Quote, we're in turmoil.
He also learned from the RCMP that when they first first,
came across the shallow grave where Cherish's body had been hastily buried,
there was a fawn lying right next to it.
Animals play an important role in indigenous cultures,
considered spiritual symbols or totems that guide humans along their journey of life.
Animals are often found on totem poles,
those tall, carved monuments created by First Nations of the Pacific Northwest,
to represent and commemorate ancestry, history, people or events.
So this fawn found lying next to Cherish's body
was extremely meaningful to both her family and her people.
As Cherish's stepfather Victor would explain it,
the fawn represented, quote,
the totem of an animal being close to her,
keeping her company until someone came along to recover her body.
The fawn would become an important symbol of Cherish's story.
Years later, it would be featured above Cherish's name
on a handmade quilt presented to the BC legislature
to honour the memories of missing and murdered indigenous women and girls.
Robert Raymond Deswan was charged with first-degree murder the following day
and the press scrambled to find out more about the man.
Newspaper, the province, spoke with a woman who identified herself as his former landlady and next-door neighbor
up until about a year earlier.
She noted that Deswan was a hard worker and she seemed to like him.
Quote, when he wasn't at work, he was working in the yard, digging in the garden.
She couldn't believe the news that he'd been charged with murdering a 16-year-old indigenous girl.
The neighbour slash landlady went on to say that Robert lived in the house with his fiancé,
who she described as a sweet girl, a very nice lady.
Just before the couple moved away, Robert's fiancée told her that she was pregnant.
There's no further information about whether a baby was born from that union,
but it doesn't appear they stayed together for very long after they moved away.
According to Robert Deswant's criminal timeline,
he was charged the following year
for uttering threats to his ex-girlfriend
and her new boyfriend,
about two months before Cherish was murdered.
As the city of Merritt grappled with the news,
Cherish Oppenheim's family, friends,
classmates and others who knew her were shocked and grieving.
The province reported that flags flew at half-mast
and some classmates were seen wearing red ribbons in her memory
and crying around a makeshift shrine outside a popular youth community drop-in centre.
Another shrine was set up outside the office of the Merritt Secondary School,
where Cherish attended,
covered in messages from fellow students grieving their friend.
The principal told the press that it had been a really tough day,
devastating for students and staff alike.
Cherish was known as someone who was friends with everyone,
a gentle soul with a beautiful smile,
who would always go out of her way to help out friends in hard times.
Because Cherish and her family were from Coldwater First Nation,
that's where her funeral was held.
Over 500 people packed into the gym of the Coldwater School
to remember Cherish Nicole Billy Oppenheim.
Her older sister Ashley described,
her as a best friend with a smile and laugh that could always light up a room.
Pamphlets with photos of Cherish were distributed around the gym,
and her family would say they felt like the community really came together for the funeral.
A group of young students gave the eulogy,
representing the massive number of students who knew Cherish,
whether as a friend or from playing sports.
Cherish's teammates on the girls' junior rugby team
held her number 13 jersey up high on a pole in her memory
and took part in drumming and singing as her handmade pine casket
was carried to the gravesite at Coldwater Cemetery.
Even though Robert Raymond Deswain had confessed to the RCMP
that he killed Cherish Oppenheim,
and even though he disclosed details that only the killer would know,
He decided to plead not guilty, so the case proceeded to trial.
Cherish's loved ones showed up at every single pretrial court appearance and preliminary hearing.
At one hearing that dealt with whether certain pieces of evidence would be admissible,
the defence argued that the statements Deswan had given to police that led to the discovery of Cherish's body
should be excluded because they were a violation of his rights.
The judge did not agree. The statements were admitted, and a six-week trial was scheduled to start
just a few weeks later in March of 2003. But it never came to that. Robert Deswan unexpectedly decided
to change his plea to guilty, but not to the charge of first-degree murder, which of course includes
planning and intent to kill a person. Evidently, he had made a deal with the Crown to plead guilty to
the reduced charge of second-degree murder, which means the murder was not planned.
The court heard that Cherish Oppenheim had been out with friends drinking in downtown Merritt
the night of Friday, October 12, 2001. She walked home with her sister, then returned to her friends,
and the last time they saw her was when she left them at the downtown 7-Eleven, shortly before
2.30 a.m., and started walking down the street.
The court heard Robert Raymond Deswant's side of the story from that night,
which began with him being back in his van just hours after the Merit RCMP
gave him a 24-hour roadside suspension for intoxicated driving.
To say he wasn't exactly someone who was known to play by the rules is an understatement.
According to Deswan, he met 16-year-old Cherish outside a downtown Merit Hotel,
not far from the 7-Eleven.
And for reasons that he didn't explain
and wasn't required to,
she got into his van.
He drove to that stretch of dirt road
about 22 kilometres out of merit,
where he claimed they drank some beer together
and had consensual sex,
but then Cherish panicked or freaked out.
Deswon claimed he had little memory
of what happened next.
All he could remember was covering Cherish's body,
with some logs. That's it.
Like other aspects of this case, there's some mystery about what exactly happened to cherish Oppenheim
that night, including from a forensics perspective. An accused person pleading guilty is not
required to admit to all the facts of the case, or provide a motive for their crime. And with no
trial, there's no calling and testing of the evidence. But in this case, there were a
enough details in the news archives to paint a pretty terrible picture.
Cherish suffered multiple injuries, including a skull fracture and brain hemorrhage,
which was probably caused by being hit with a large rock,
according to reporting by the Merritt Herald.
Cherish was strangled, likely from behind, with a smooth rope or cord,
and her body, described as badly damaged, had been found buried in a shallow,
grave covered with rocks and debris. As these details were read out to a packed courtroom,
Cherishes family members passed around boxes of Kleenex. Her mother Shelley would say it wasn't
easy for them to sit and listen to the evidence about how her daughter's life was taken. She
and some other family members had to leave the courtroom and wait in the lobby. Shelly returned to
give a victim impact statement that she would later say she did. Shelly returned. Shelly returned to give a victim impact statement that she would later say
she didn't remember. It was all a blur. She spoke about how her family's life had been a nightmare
since her second eldest daughter was murdered. She was emotionally battered by thoughts of how
Cherish died and she wasn't able to work. Her marriage suffered and she hit rock bottom. At one point,
according to a reporter from the Merritt Herald, quote,
she put her hand to her forehead and the whale she uttered was raw pain.
The cry chilled those gathered with its anguish.
Family, lawyers and news reporters cried themselves.
Even RCMP members had tears welling up in their eyes.
Looking at the man responsible, Shelley told him,
How dare you do this to us?
How dare you do this to cherish?
Robert Raymond Deswain was seen crying, according to the Vancouver son.
He turned to her family and apologised.
adding, quote,
It's a world of drugs and alcohol that destroys lives.
I wish I could take back everything I did.
Deswan's defense lawyer told the judge that his client was deeply remorseful
and extremely distraught over what he did,
offering up a few details to explain his actions.
Apparently, Deswan was abused by his own family at an early age
and developed a serious dependence on alcohol and drugs.
In 1998, three years before Cherish's murder, he was diagnosed with testicular cancer,
which ignited a cycle of depression and drug use, according to his lawyer.
The Crown prosecutor told the court that Deswan strangled Cherish for no reason,
describing it as a monstrous attack, sexual in nature,
against a girl intoxicated with alcohol.
Dezwan had claimed he had.
had consensual sex with 16-year-old Cherish.
He wasn't charged with sexual assault,
and there was no mention of it when he reached a deal with the Crown
to plead guilty to the reduced charge of second-degree murder.
But according to a CBC news report, quote,
A forensic report says there were clear signs Cherish Oppenheim was sexually assaulted
and savagely beaten before she died.
In the news archives from that time, this is the only article we found that refers to a forensic report that mentions sexual assault.
But it's worth noting that the article is still live on the CBC website.
If false, it would have been a pretty outrageous claim to make.
But it's also worth noting that the day after Deswan pleaded guilty to second-degree murder,
BC newspaper the province published an oddly worded correction notice with a public apology.
The brief correction notice indicates that the original article published that prompted the complaint,
quote, stated incorrectly that Robert Deswan's conviction for second-degree murder involved sexual assault.
No sexual assault was involved, and Mr. Deswan was found not guilty of first-degree murder.
End quote.
Sexual assault aside, the fact that Deswan pleaded guilty to second-degree murder
does not mean he was found not guilty of first-degree murder.
There has to be a trial for that.
The correction notice ends with another strange statement, quote,
Our story also stated incorrectly that Mr Deswan had previous convictions for sexual assault.
This is not the case.
End quote.
This statement, without any qualification, is a misleading characterization of his criminal history.
Dizwan might have been able to avoid a conviction, but the night he murdered Cherish Oppenheim,
he was out on bail facing charges of sexual assault with a weapon against a teenage girl.
Overall, this correction notice is more evidence that Robert Dizwan was highly sensitive about being accused of sexual assault.
assault. Strangely enough, the case would resurface eight years later with some notably different
language. In 2011, several mainstream media outlets would publish stories stating outright that
Robert Raymond Deswan had murdered and sexually assaulted Cherish Oppenheim. We'll get to the
development that prompted these new media reports in just a minute. First, there was a guilty plea,
and now it was time for sentencing.
As part of deciding on a sentence for a guilty person,
a judge reviews their criminal history,
which of course, for Robert Raymond Deswain,
included charges of possession of narcotics
and stolen property dating back to the 80s.
His two convictions in the 90s relating to violence against women,
breaking and entering in forcible confinement,
and after that, uttering threats
and multiple instances of breaching his,
his bail conditions. This judge found that Deswans' criminal record was, quote,
not one I find of great substance. For pleading guilty to second-degree murder,
Robert Raymond Deswan was sentenced to life in prison with no chance of parole for 15 years.
Quote, you have taken part in a horrendous deed, not just against cherish, but against
the very roots of our society.
Cherishers' family did not feel that this sentence reflected the crime that Deswan had committed,
but noted that first-degree murder had been taken off the table during plea deal negotiations with the Crown.
It was a bitter pill to swallow.
Cherish's loved ones weren't the only ones disappointed.
After Deswan was sentenced, the media and critics alike pointed out his record of violent assaults on women
and girls. A spokesperson for the Justice for Girls nonprofit, who analyzed the case, posed the
question, how is it that a man who has been convicted twice for violence against women was released
on bail after being charged with sexual assault with a weapon and confinement of a teenage girl?
There were more questions asked about the knife. Why was Deswan prohibited from possessing a range
of weapons except the one he'd actually been charged with using during that sexual assault.
It appears that the Crown had not been specific enough when requesting bail conditions.
According to the 2005 paper, Justice Systems Response, Violence Against Indigenous Girls,
published by Justice for Girls and later presented to the BC Attorney General Wally Opel.
The paper's author, lawyer Kelly A. McDonald,
wrote that the Crown's request for a bail condition prohibiting weapons
referenced a particular section of the criminal code,
which doesn't include knives.
She wrote that instead, the Crown could have referenced a different section of the code
that allows for a specific request that knives of all descriptions be prohibited,
likely an innocent oversight, but one that had potentially dangerous consequences.
Of course, that wasn't the unlawful.
only serious oversight in this case. There were calls for an investigation into the RCMP's failure to
take action when they stopped as one in merit that night and discovered he was in breach of two of
his other bail conditions. If he'd been rightly detained for violating the terms of his parole,
it would have inadvertently saved Cherish Oppenheim's life. Instead, he was released on the spot
with a 24-hour driving suspension.
It should be noted that this wasn't the first time the RCMP's failure to take action that night had been questioned.
According to the news archives, just a month after Cherish was murdered,
a news broadcast by TV station BCCTV mentioned the bail conditions and asked that very question.
The RCMP was not happy about that broadcast.
and complained to the Canadian radio television and telecommunications commission, or CRTC,
that the TV station broadcast misinformation about police actions
and had not yet provided an on-air clarification.
So what was this alleged misinformation?
Well, the answer to that remains a mystery.
An RCMP spokesperson refused to provide more specific details about what kind of.
of on-air clarification they were looking for, according to the Vancouver Sun.
The only thing they would say was that the broadcast, quote,
caused a lot of anguish for the family because they wonder whether police could have arrested
the suspect.
These details were reported in November of 2001, a month after Cherish Oppenheim was murdered,
and there appears to be no more updates about it until a little over a year later.
In February of 2003, just days after Robert Raymond Deswan pleaded guilty, the trial judge suddenly issued a publication ban.
It prevented the media from publishing details of any evidence presented during the pretrial hearings,
which included tapes and transcripts of Deswan's statements to the RCMP as well as forensic evidence.
publication bans are typically issued to protect someone's identity
or to protect a jury from hearing details outside of the trial
that might influence its decision.
It is unusual for a publication ban to be ordered after the guilty party has been sentenced.
Who would that be protecting that didn't need to be protected before?
Multiple media outlets reported that this particular publication ban
was directly related to the RCMP's complaint
about the alleged broadcast of information
about the police's action or inaction that night.
As it turned out,
the publication ban had been prompted
by a request for the release of some of the evidence
by a lawyer for the TV station,
presumably as part of a defense against the RCMP's complaint.
There's no further mention in the news archives
of this situation. The complaint seems to have just faded away, and to date, the RCMP has never
provided an explanation for why they did not detain Robert Raymond Deswant that night when they
knew he was in breach of his bail conditions. Perhaps that fact is the source of Cherish Oppenheim's
family's anguish, not the TV station that reported it. The criminal justice system let Cherish
down at every step of the way.
And she was not the only one.
When Robert Raymond Deswain was sentenced for murdering Cherish Oppenheim,
he was still facing those charges of sexual assault with a weapon,
confinement and robbery of a teenage girl.
As you'll recall, the violent attack included the use of duct tape and a knife.
At the end of that same year, the Crown Prosecutor,
quietly withdrew those charges.
Dezwan would not be facing a trial.
A few months later, when Justice for Girls discovered the charges had been withdrawn,
they pursued it with the crown, but there was no explanation given.
Robert Raymond DeZwan may have had the good fortune to avoid a conviction for sexual assault,
but the proverbial apple didn't fall far from the tree.
You might remember that first birthday announcement
published in the Times Colonist newspaper in 1995.
Hello, I'd like to formally introduce myself to the parents of my future girlfriends.
My name is Cruz.
My parents, Robert and Nadine are awfully proud of me.
When I come to pick up your daughter for a date, you'll know me.
When Cruz was 16 years old, he committed an unimaginable crime against someone's daughter
that led to not only her devastated,
family knowing who he was, but the wider Canadian public. That daughter's name was Kimberly
Proctor, and she was known as a kind-hearted girl who loved animals and saw the good in everyone.
But Kimberly's light was extinguished in 2010, when Cruz and his friend from school,
tortured, sexually assaulted, and murdered her. The devastation and shock felt by Kimberly's
loved ones and the wider community only grew when it was revealed that Cruz was also the son
of Robert Raymond Deswan. It had been eight years since Cherish was murdered, but her family would say
that after this connection was revealed, the media was at their doorstep again, which brought up all
their old feelings of trauma and anxiety. They decided to release one strategic statement
in support of Kimberly Proctor and her loved ones.
As reports about Robert Raymond Deswan's crimes hit the news again
in connection with the crime his son had now committed,
there was a notable difference to the original coverage.
Multiple media outlets now stated as fact
that Deswan both murdered and sexually assaulted Cherish,
describing the striking similarities between the two cases.
None of these outlets, which included the province, the Vancouver Sun, the National Post and Vanity Fair,
mentioned the source of that fact, so it's unclear whether it came from the same forensic report mentioned by CBC News in that original article.
But it's interesting to note that all these articles are still live with no correction notices.
Cherish Oppenheim's family knew Deswan would be eligible to apply.
for parole after 15 years. But the update that came after that was not what they were expecting.
In April of 2017, 16 years after Cherish Oppenheim's murder, her family saw a distressing
breaking news report. Robert Raymond Diswan was missing from Mission Institution where he was
serving his life sentence in a minimum security unit. This prompted a police manhunt to
recapture the 53-year-old as soon as possible, with a warrant for his arrest and a public
plea for information. The news reports were accompanied by a photo of Deswan, describing him
as being 6'1, 186 pounds, with green eyes and a bald head.
Cherish's mother, Shelley Oppenheim Lassert, told CTV Vancouver reporter Shannon Patterson
that not only did all the hurt and memories come flooding back with this news,
but there were several other reasons for the family shock.
No one had informed them that the man who murdered Cherish had escaped.
They heard it on the news with everyone else.
And the last they knew, Deswan was serving his sentence in an institution out east,
on the other side of the country to where they lived.
The fact that he'd been transferred to mission institution in British Columbia,
only about two hours' drive from Merit, was news to them,
as was the fact that at some point he had been downgraded to minimum security,
and now he was missing. It was all over the news.
Cherish's family was incredibly fearful that he was going to end up back in Merit.
Deswan was described as,
having escaped, which conjured up images of a dramatic prison break, but in a minimum security
facility, there are no big fences with barbed wire and minimal supervision.
Shelley told CTV Vancouver, quote,
For him to be able to just walk out like this just doesn't seem right, there's something
wrong with the system.
But the shocks didn't end there.
The family learned that Deswan had applied for Dave.
parole and had already had a parole hearing, albeit unsuccessful. It was only after he walked off
the prison grounds that the family learned all of this through media reports.
Fortunately, Deswan was recaptured within 24 hours. He'd made it to the Fraser Valley area,
which is more than 50 kilometres away from mission institution in the direction of merit. Although
though the police didn't release any information about what he was doing or what his intentions were.
The public uproar about the whole situation prompted correctional services Canada to issue a statement, saying
it, quote, evaluates all offenders and places them in facilities appropriate to their security and program
requirements. Only those offenders who are assessed as having a low risk to public safety will be placed in a minimum
security institution.
End quote.
But according to media reports,
Robert Deswan remained in minimum security
even after the parole board determined
he was rated as a high risk of violent re-offending
and a moderate to high risk for sexual re-offending.
The board also found that he most likely harbored
deviant sexuality and sexual sadism,
which means sexual pleasure derived from inflicting
physical or emotional pain on another person.
He denied there was any sexual component to his crimes,
and despite those multiple incidences involving violence towards women and girls,
he claimed he was not a violent person.
The board also determined Deswan minimized his actions
and blamed external factors for his crimes.
There has been no further information released publicly about,
whether he remained in minimum security. And unlike the US, Canada's privacy laws restrict the
general public from inquiring about where inmates are located. In 2018, the year after Deswain
escaped from prison, Cherish Nicole Billy Oppenheim's family members joined almost 1,500 people
who testified at the National Inquiry into missing and murdered indigenous women and girls in Canada.
The inquiry would find that they are 12 times more likely to be murdered or go missing
than members of any other demographic group in Canada and 16 times more likely than white women.
Investigations are often marked by indifference and negative stereotypes about indigenous people
that result in their cases being treated differently from others.
Many murders remain unsolved.
The inquiry also found that for those,
those cases that are solved and have a reasonable chance of conviction,
Crown prosecutors are often too willing to accept plea bargains
or reduced charges in exchange for guilty pleas.
That appears to be exactly what happened in the case of Cherish Oppenheim.
Not only did Robert Raymond Deswant confessed to murdering her,
but he directed police to the remote location where he buried her body,
and according to multiple media outlets, there were clear signs that he had also sexually assaulted Cherish.
If Deswan had been charged with both first-degree murder and sexual assault,
it seems likely that the Crown would have been successful in prosecuting him at trial.
Despite him having no known leverage in this case to negotiate a deal,
the Crown permitted him to plead guilty to the reduced charge of second-degree murder,
and did not contest his claim that he had consensual sex with a 16-year-old indigenous girl.
As part of the inquiry's truth-gathering process, Cherish's mother Shelley testified that her
constant thoughts of the violence and fear her daughter must have experienced that night haunted her dreams.
But she said that over the 17 years that had passed, she had become stronger.
And now she was focused on activism.
to prevent more indigenous women and girls from disappearing and being murdered,
and of course to keep her daughter's memory alive.
With treasured photos of Cherish on display,
her family members shared memories of her short but meaningful 16 years on this earth.
The inquiry heard that Cherish liked to sing and have fun
and was very close with her immediate and extended family.
There were fond memories of her singing with her,
grandfather at a family reunion. Her mother testified that, quote,
Cherish was our daughter and a sister, a granddaughter, cousin, niece, friend,
and would have been an auntie one day, and I'm sure a mother. There were stories of her
generosity and kindness, and she was remembered as an outgoing, joyful and happy person,
beautiful on the outside, but also on the inside, a calm spirit.
Many people loved Cherish.
It's clear she will never be forgotten.
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