Change Your Brain Every Day - Choosing Clarity & Brain Health in 2026: The Alcohol-Free Lifestyle

Episode Date: January 12, 2026

What if the best nights of your life didn't come with hangovers, regrets, or foggy mornings? This episode dives into the alcohol-free lifestyle and the Amen's recent birthday party they hosted—this proves that choosing not to drink doesn't mean choosing less fun. From sober parties and elevated mocktails to confidence, clarity, and deeper connections, we're redefining what it means to celebrate. 2026 is the year of brain health!

In the Bible, people celebrated by retelling what God had done for them. They did not celebrate by getting drunk. There is wine in Jesus' turn, the water and wine. But they talk frequently about not being drunk. Why do you think we evolved to celebrate with things that hurt us? Well, I think a lot of it has to do with marketing. Today, Dr. Amen and Tanna discuss how you can mold healthy partying habits. We are creatures of abundance.

We don't really do well when we think about deprivation. So one of the things that I adopted when I was teaching classes and writing and wrote the Omni Diet and the Brain Warrior's way was replace, don't erase. Because if you feel like you're erasing something, you are automatically only be thinking about the thing you're missing. But if you replace it rather than erase it, you come up with a new tradition. Every day you are making your brain better or you are making it worse. Stay with us to learn how you can change your brain for the better every day. There are days when I need to be at my best, whether it's back-to-back clinic sessions, long writing days, or just keeping up with life.

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And you were amazing and how you set it up. And my mom was the bell of the ball. She had such a good time. And she had such a good time. But we have. have been trained to celebrate with things that hurt us. And it's possible to not do that. Yeah. I think when we first started doing this, I felt a little bit more like the food police. And I don't feel like the food police anymore.

I feel like now I'm at a stage where it's like I want to provide things that are healthier options and show people that it can be fun. I think being the food police for me just makes it not fun for people. So providing those healthier options and people go, whoa, that was really yummy. It was we ran out of food. We had food for like a fee. Like it was crazy how much food we had. Even the desserts were healthy.

And I think that's what I think is for me what feels better is providing the things and watching people go, wow, this is awesome. and being surprised that it's actually healthy and seeing them have a good time. I think virtually everything came out of the Brain Warriors Way cookbook from the lemon bars. Yeah, the dessert. Yeah. Which we had for dessert along with fresh fruit. Yeah. The lamb chops, the chicken.

If you love lamb, I love lamb being Lebanese. I grew up with eating a lot of lamb. Did you grow up with eating a lot of lamb? Well, I grew up eating raw. lamb. That's sort of extreme from Lebanon. And Tanna's recipe for the lamb chops is the best ever. And as Tana knows. And we had vegan options and it, you know, we had the red, white and blue salad and lots of grilled veggies. And, um, but it's way, it's the way you spice it. No, it's the way you spice it. It's the way

you rehab recipes that make it to where people want to have them. Yeah. Even the birthday cake was healthy. Yeah. And baby. Basically, it was put together with fruit. Yeah, was so pretty. And nobody complained. Nobody was unhappy. No. And when I first started getting healthy, I just started looking around and I realized so much of celebration creates illness.

Yeah. And when I turned 52, so I'd already been into health for a while, I had two birthday cakes. And I looked at one of the people and I'm like, you don't want me to be 53, do you? So why do you think we evolved to celebrate with things that hurt us? Well, I think a lot of it has to do with marketing. So, I mean, a lot of it has to do just with, that's that simple. It's marketing. Because, you know, you look at the food industry or you look at the marketing industry and

they're promoting things, you know, it's that industry. Sugar, fat, flour, it's just that's the way it is, you know, alcohol, all of those things are, they're just masterful at promoting those items, candy. I think also, though, we should take a step back and go, when someone used to make a birthday cake. You know, you look at 60 years ago when your grandmother made a birthday cake, it wasn't like buying cakes today. It was very different. The ingredients were very different. You look at how even how farming has evolved and what we've been doing to the food over the past 60, 70 years, you know, it's, even that has changed. So if you're going to eat the sugar and

the stuff that's in the cake, at least it was a healthier version of it when it was not as adulterated, when the flowers and the other ingredients when as a adult. Now it's just what even is it? I don't even know what it is. 40% more gluten. It's crazy. There's 14 different types of proteins, new proteins,

and it's just in wheat. It's crazy. So the things you're eating are not the things they used to be. And I think that that's a really important thing. Even that's why people always say when they go to Europe, they feel different when they eat pasta than they do when they're here. Because when you add all these extra ingredients and you add, you know, it's, they're, they're no longer organic. They are, they've got pesticides and chemicals

and hormones. And now it's not the same thing it used to be. So I do think it's really important to state that because, you know, people are going to get all upset and they're like, well, my grandmother's cake, but your grandmother's cake isn't your grandmother's cake anymore. So it, it's just an important side note. One very exciting thing for 2026 is we're going to release the Amen Hole 4, which is, a program initially done in churches, but we're also going to do versions for communities and other faiths. And so part of the Amen Hole 4, in fact, the last of the 18 weeks is on celebration and how to have brain healthy celebrations. And so I look through the Bible. And

go, well, how did they celebrate in the Bible? So feasts and shared meals, celebrations usually happened around food. And it's food, fellowships, gratitude. So the Passover, for example, and Exodus 12, remembering rescue and freedom and being grateful for it. There's something called the feast of the tabernacles in Leviticus. celebrating God's provision in the wilderness, Sabbath meals, weekly rest and reconnection. So meals were spiritual. Eating together symbolized belonging and blessing. And you often talk about Rhodes Scholars and what they have in common.

Yeah. They had dinner together every night and they read to their kids every night. And I thought that was, and that's when I'm like, we were going to eat together every night. And I'm reading to my child. Until she kicked me out of a room. at 12 lectures like 11. She's like, we're done. But I want to touch on something you just said,

because I always thought this was really interesting. I always thought it was so interesting, especially in the Old Testament, the Bible was so clear on how we should be eating. And I was always like, why do they need to be so clear on how we should be eating? Right. There was very specific ways that we should be eating

and honoring our bodies and honoring God. And I always thought that was very interesting because from the beginning of time, there was also abusing our bodies with parties and food, right? There was always both sides. And I always thought it was so interesting that there was a very clear outline of what was honoring of our bodies into God. And because we've always abused it from the beginning of time. Well, and the Amen Hole 4 is based on the book of Romans chapter 12, verse 1 and 2, offer your body.

is a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God. That is your true worship. Right. But it wouldn't have had to be in there if we didn't also have the other side. If you think of the Romans that had vomatoriums, they gorgeed until they made themselves start up. But it's very clear that is not what honors our bodies and honors God. Also part of parties, singing, music, and dancing.

So worship through emotion and movement was normal and healthy. So Miriam led women with tambourines. After crossing the Red Sea in Exodus 15, David danced with all of his might to the Lord. And if you read the Psalms, I was actually texting my friend Jonathan Kane, who's in the band Journey. I'm like, these are all songs. Yeah. He's like, you know, it's a songbook. If you think about today, we know about how certain things help to lower cortisol and help to elevate, you know, our mood and help to make us happier.

I mean, it's just so interesting to me. So music meant to elevate the heart, not escape from it. One of the big things at the party was music. It's like what music does she love? We put together her favorite music. From Frank Sinatra and Elvis and Doris Day. Okay, so in the Bible, feasts and shared meals, singing, dancing, music, storytelling, people celebrated by retelling what God had done for them. Parents told their children, this is why we remember. Testimony was celebration.

And there was so much of that for my mom, because she was, a great mom. Oh, yeah. I was looking around that party. So we didn't invite as many people as showed up. Not even close. Like a lot more show. Usually it's the other way around, right?

Usually there's like a, what, 20% attrition rate? No, no, no, no. Probably 20% more showed up. And that's a testament to her life. That's very classic of your mom. But part of celebrating is just telling stories. Although stories is double-edged. I figured out why the holidays are so stressful.

because... This is your least favorite thing. Oh, my goodness. They still talk about... About how you lit the couch on fire. With the couch on fire when I was five years old. And no one's going. Why does a five-year-old child have matches?

So, storytelling could go both ways. Giving... But it's very entertaining for everyone else. And sharing. Celebration always involves generosity, especially toward the poor. No one was to appear before the Lord empty-handed. God told them to invite the stranger, and there were strangers that showed at the boss party.

Celebration was incomplete unless everybody was included. And rest. Now, we needed to rest afterwards. Celebration meant renewal, not exhaustion. Sabbath, stop, breathe, restore. rest itself is a commandment. God rested on the seventh day. Boy did I need rest.

They didn't celebrate by burning out, but by being restored. I think it's really important. Gratitude and prayer, I think, are a big part of celebrating. And people were very known for thanking God for harvests and victories and healing. for everything, for families, for life itself, for birth, even for remembering people on death, for everything. Gratitude was always at the center. And gratitude is healing. Yeah. We know that from a neuroscience perspective. When you focus on what you're grateful for, when you focus on what you love, it's just happier that parties weren't gossiping,

complaining. Now, what they did not use to celebrate, and this is so important, they did not celebrate by getting drunk to escape. In fact, when they did get drunk, the first story in the Bible of someone getting drunk was Noah after the flood. And what might think? He caused all kinds of trouble. He had BTSD after the flood. But, you know, he planted a vineyard, got drunk. His son found him naked. We don't know quite what happened. But then there was a generational rift.

And both of us have seen in our families that alcohol devastates people's lives. Now, to be fair, there is. wine and Jesus turned the water into wine. But they talk frequently about not being drunk. It's not the same wine that is today. They think probably it was about a third of the alcohol content. And regardless, it frequently warns against being drunk. Over and over and over again.

So they didn't use substances to numb their pain. Overeating was not what they did. And they didn't isolate from their community. So celebrations were healing, meant to be healing, not harmful. Biblical celebrations. They, you just said, they're meant to remember goodness and gratitude, strengthen connections, family connections, restore joy. I think that's a big part of it.

And through a different vehicle, like music and meals and prayer and generosity and storytelling. and then resting. Did you know that physical and emotional pain run on the same circuits in the brain? And they fuel each other to keep you in pain. In my new book, Change Your Brain, Change Your Pain, I'll show you how to break free from what I call the doom loop and step into a healing loop that can transform your life. Less pain, more joy.

it's absolutely possible. Pre-order my new book now and receive special bonus gifts at change your brain, change your pain, book.com. So we're going to give you 14 brain healthy ways to celebrate. And it's mindset. Mindset is so important because whenever you go, oh, I can't have this and I can't have that. you lose as opposed to

I get to have this I get to have that so celebration mindset this is about abundance not deprivation one of my friends who after he and I work together he said I wake up 100%

every day I said why he said I stopped drinking so why would you engage in something that ruins tomorrow? Well, and we are creatures of abundance. We don't really do well when we think about deprivation. So one of the things that I adopted when I was teaching classes and writing and wrote the Omni Diet and the Brain Warrior's way was replace, don't erase.

Because if you feel like you're erasing something, you are automatically not going to, you're going to only be thinking about the thing you're missing. but if you replace it rather than erase it and you come up with a new, say, tradition, you come up with a new way of doing things. So you take that glass of wine out, but you either have a, say you have an alcohol-free, sparkling wine that you have or you have hot chocolate every night or you have a special tea that you make. The process of making it and the process of doing that with your family becomes your new

tradition. So you're replacing not erasing or like all the recipes that I came up with for desserts. Those are recipe rehabs, right? Those are replacing, not erasing. The minute you think I have to erase, you're like, now I want it. But if you get to replace it, it's different. Well, everything in moderation, which is the gateway thought to cheating. As soon as you say everything in moderation, at helping your frontal lobes with that. I was going to say things in moderation like cocaine and affairs in moderation, it's not really going to work out well. So especially if you're married to me. All right. So joy doesn't need alcohol and sugar. Celebrate, celebrate with what gives you life, not steals with it.

Real celebration fuels healing. And when brains are better, celebrations are too. Like the police didn't come to our house during the party. But when there's alcohol involved, the police are dramatically more likely to come. Yeah. I mean, I could give exactly. of some of the parties we've been to just with some of our neighbors. And they're crazy. They're crazy parties. Yeah. So this is celebrating with intention, not poison. Yeah.

Honor victories in ways that strengthen, not weaken your future. Yeah. You deserve new rituals. Create celebrations that align with who you are becoming. So we are creatures of habit. I think it's really important for people to realize if you've been doing something, are a creature of habit, you're likely to keep doing that thing. But we're not, we're not animals. I mean, we are in a way, but we're not. So you can change that with intention. If you

intentionally create a new habit and a new tradition, why are you looking at me like that? No, just growling, because you said we are animals and I'm with you, so it makes me growl. I mean, in a sense we are, but we can create new traditions. You just have to be intentional about it. and, you know, catch yourself notice when you are slipping back into your old habits. And what's the goal? Right. The goal is to celebrate, not to have to rehabilitate. Right.

So number two is we make brain healthy meals together. And we did this a lot when Chloe was young. And now my daughter, I was so proud of her. She had us over for her first Christmas Eve that she cooked and she had her house. And she is such a good cook. I mean, here I've written 10 cookbooks, and she's way better at cooking than I ever was. But that's because- Well, most people don't know that when I met you, you couldn't cook.

In fact, I prayed you wouldn't cook. You just love telling this story. I could not cook. But because that was not modeled for you. No, no, no. It was- My mom said, be the dish. You don't have to make a dish.

So she said, find one room in the house to cook in and it doesn't have to be the kitchen. So I was not caught how to cook. But you took that and you changed. Yeah, because I wanted to be healthy. Because I wasn't healthy. I had cancer. I was not a healthy child. I was like constantly in the hospital.

I had 10 medical surgeries. So when I had a child, I realized this is not going to just change itself. Like if I don't want my child growing up unhealthy eating, you know, frosted flakes, you know, lucky charms and. whatever, Captain Crunch, then I have to be the one to learn and teach her. And it wasn't easy for me. And I never loved cooking. I'm just so proud of you. Thank you.

But she is an awesome cook because we cooked together. She's way better than I know. And it's an act of love cooking with your children. Yeah. And we just made it fun. We tried to make it fun. Not like it wasn't a chore. One of my favorite stories when I told her after we went on a hike and

She was winded, but she was just, I'm like, you're just a tough cookie. And she goes, I don't want to be a tough, red bell pepper. And she was seven. I don't remember that. So making brain healthy meals together, create foods you love that love you back and get everyone's idea for Bright Mind's foods. So if you listen to this podcast, you know, Bright Minds, you want to keep your brain healthy or rescue it, you have to prevent or treat the 11 major risk factors. And I have this rule.

I only want to spend money on foods that serve health rather than steal it. When we did the Daniel plan at Saddleback Church, Pastor Warren and I got into a big fight because I'm like, you need to get rid of the donuts. And he's like, but we were raised on donuts. And I'm like, if you're raised on cocaine, it still has to go. And he's like, and just like you said, he said, I don't want to be the food police or I don't want to be a food Nazi. But he was buying it. That's different. I'm like, just don't spend money on things that hurt the people you love. So let me make a clear distinction here because this is really important.

This is what we did in our house. When we wanted to, you know, cut out certain things, I don't like being the food police and I'm not going to be. It's just not my role. I don't, it's not what I want to do. But I get to choose what I spend money on. I get to choose what I serve. I get to choose what I spend money on what I put in my house.

I'm not going to tell other people what to spend their money on. Even the kids, if they have at a certain age when they were old enough, if you have allowance and you spend it when you're out with your friends on a piece of pizza or whatever, I don't really, I'm not going to stop you from doing that, but don't ask me to do it or to put it in the house because I'm going to put healthy things in the house. But I think by modeling that and not being the food police, it eventually they start making those choices themselves. The difference was he was actually spending the money on it, and that's what frustrated you. So that's more food policy is when you are telling other people

what to spend their money on. Celebration mindset, cook together, make healthy meals, brain healthy meals together, brainstorm and bring brain healthy desserts. And it's like, well, what can you do? And, you know, we had this amazing birthday, made out of fruit. Right. We have lemon bars that are healthy, no sugar. So good. Lutin free, sugar free, dairy-free.

We had big pictures of brain-healthy hot chocolate. We've talked on the podcast about the hot chocolate recipe, which is raw cacao, unsweetened almond milk, and a little bit of stevia. Nutty buttercups, which you created, which basically Reese's peanut butter cups that are healthy. Right. Use Brain MD chocolate and some almond butter.

A little bit of almond butter. It's so young. They're so easy. Yeah. And dark chocolate because it's good for you. It's just the other stuff they put in it that's not, which is why BrainMD makes brain healthy chocolate. Right. So we always take a dessert with us.

If we go to family events and things like that, I'll take something healthy. We'll take something with us. And this is not only sends a good message, but it gives us something to eat. eat usually. But let's just say there's homemade baklava there. I want to put a side note in here. There's the homemade baklava. There's something else going on. And yeah, I love it when my mother-in-law and all the women get together and make it. And so I do have a three-byte rule. It's like I'm not never going to eat any of those things. Like I'm not a 100% person. But if I do 90, 95% I'm feeling pretty good. But if they make the homemade baklava or they make something that I want to have a bite

of, I have a three-byte rule. It's like, I don't feel bad because that's not enough to trigger that inflammation and that addictive side of my personality while you're finding me in the corner like looking frosting off of wax paper, right? It's just, it's just enough and it's enough. So it's just that like, okay, I can enjoy it and then set it aside. So you don't have to have the whole thing. So here's a picture of Louis. Louis is one of our grandchildren and avocado gelato. Yeah. And one of my other grandbabies was a very picky eater. Yeah. Wouldn't eat anything. Like nine months old. They couldn't put weight on him.

And you gave him a little taste of it. And pretty soon the avocado gel. All over his face. Now is avocado gelato hard to make? So easy to make. It's so easy to make. What's in it? It's avocados.

So the original recipe would call for some honey. So I cut that way back, added some stevia. It's coconut and a little bit of almond milk and it's, or coconut milk and some cacao. It's like so simple. So it's like three or four ingredients, avocados, raw cacao, coconut. Coconut and like coconut meat and then some, yeah. And if you can't do coconut meat, do some coconut butter, but coconut meat is the best. Wow.

So number four is mindful moktail bar. So you can just set out some water with fruit essences or sparkling water with some fruit slices, mint watermelon refreshers. There's all kinds. Just be creative. Like throw some different types of whatever the season is. Throw some fresh fruit into some water. It's beautiful.

Green tea over ice or ginger, turmeric, tonic. I actually like throwing spices into mine or some herbs. Herbal tea party, brain healthy smoothies, and mocktails with stevia. So you know what this reminds me of? Like if you put, get sparkling water and just put some watermelon slices in it. Yeah. It reminds me of the four seasons in Maui. It's like spa water.

So it's like, and like, give you. If you've ever gone to a nice resort, they always have water, but with fresh food in it. So do you remember the party we had where we had the big water containers and I had, one of them had like cucumber and watermelon? Then another one had like berries in it. And then another one had like like lemon slices and lime. And so we had three different types of water that we served. But they were so popular.

People loved it. And people loved it. So inexpensive. but cool because the association in your head is, oh, I'm at an expensive resort. So we found a sparkling wine this summer. Remember we were somewhere, but it was a non-alcoholic sparkling wine. And I was like, it was amazing because it wasn't all sugar. Usually mocktails, if you order them out.

It was low in sugar. Very low. It was like two grams, which is crazy for a non-alcoholic wine. Usually mocktails are just full of sugar. So I ordered tons of it to give out his gifts. It's like it's amazing. So sometimes when we have parties, we'll put that out as well because those actually taste pretty good.

And if they don't have a lot of sugar, it actually tastes more like the natural wine. Celebrate with dancing by yourself in a group. Movement increases blood flow, dopamine. And if you do it with a partner, it increases oxytocin and is a stress reliever. Now, if you drink when you dance, it completely ruins the benefit. And if you need alcohol to loosen up, then pay attention does. We talk about diaphragmatic breathing, killing the ants, or even a little bit of the aninine and GABA will chill you out.

Oh, you mean like when you tried to get me stoned? Yeah. Yeah. So you had taken, what, three GABA? No, I called you and asked you, how many of these should I take? You weren't paying attention or something. You go, oh, you could take four of each. I might, you got home from work and I'm like on the couch, like completely stoned.

I couldn't even wake up. So we're talking about thinning gummies and gabacomim. You got me stoned. So if you need something to chill out, Brain MD has you covered. Number six is praise and gratitude or maybe a walk in nature. Combined movement with mindfulness. So walking outdoors, especially near water or trees, been shown to lower cortisol, improves memory. Walk with wonder.

Just sort of pay attention. There's a walking meditation that I love where you actually. name the things that you are looking at. And if you just do that for about 10 minutes, it sounds weird at first, but pretty soon you actually find yourself being very mindful of what you're paying attention to, of what you're noticing.

There's actually research. And it's called narration. Yeah. When you narrate your day or you narrate the walk, it calms an area of the brain called the default mode network, the little chatter box in your head, which is the same area that gets calm

when you do magic mushrooms. And so I'm like not a huge fan of magic mushrooms, but I'm a huge fan of calming that area with meditation and narration, which you just described. Yeah, if you just name like leaf, flower, whatever. At first I thought it sounded silly, but pretty soon I realized, oh, I'm actually pretty present right now. And that's the ultimate goal. Yeah. Seven music, singing, worship, especially focused on gratitude, working on your breath. So music is so important.

Yeah. You just, I mean, you don't really want to hear me sing. So I do it when I'm going to shout. I do want to hear you sing because you never see. Yeah, because there's a reason for that.

Number eight is games. Oh boy, at our parties, there's always lots of games. So there's basketball, there's ping pong. Everyone's always playing games. So table tennis,

pickleball, basketball, board games, playing cards. We've got all of it usually going on. Your mom is a sharp. She beats everyone. I know 94 sharper than ever. She doesn't let anyone win. You want to create together?

So art and stories for inspiration, share stories of how God has led you even through hard times. I think especially. It's important. One exercise I love for celebration is the one page miracle vision board. We're going to do a whole podcast on the one. one-page miracle. But it's really visualizing what you want. Yeah.

But in a party, you're sharing that with the people who are close to you. So we did this for a long time. Every New Year's Eve, you and I would just literally sit and talk about what it is that we want for the next year. And I like that. I like that a lot when we just like, because what happens is it makes it intentional. And you speak it out loud. And it's balanced. It's not, oh, I want to lose 10 pounds. That by January 15th, you've forgotten that.

Most people do. By the second week of January, most people have let go of their resolution. I like laughing parties, sharing times. You laughed out loud. So watching comedies together, sometimes even hiring a comedian or magician at our Christmas party for the clinic. actually someone who works in our care center is a magician. So it was great fun telling jokes. Humor and laughter boost endorphins lower stress. Help your immunity. I think this last party,

seeing the little kids boop the dog in the nose. They were just cracking up. Remember that? It was so cute. So the dogs created lots of laughter. Number 12 is service parties. So serve as an expression of faith in action. volunteering together. So there are so many things you can do, altruistic activities. These are the

brain's rewards, increasing happiness, and it connects you to a deeper sense of purpose when you serve. So I've often told people that if you are feeling sorry for yourself or you're feeling depressed, fastest way to pull yourself out of it is to go help someone who is suffering more than you are. 13 create memory video collages. So my nephew created a collage for my mom. And we've often done that for her in the past because I've pictures ever since she was a small child, which is so much fun. It's really triggering beautiful moments. And the last one is going to sound super weird. But I actually created this when your mom died. And it's rather than, you know, celebrations of life, right, or funerals, well, we created the anti-funeral. So rather than a stodgy, inauthentic praise for the departed.

It feels a little irreverent at first. Share real stories about them, what was good, what was true, what was beautiful. Yeah, I mean, she was very faith-filled, but she was also kind of a badass and a bit of crazy. So it was a little twisted, but yeah, it was funny. So share, even the hard thing is from a place of love and remembrance. So the anti-funeral... Yeah, I wasn't sure I felt about it when you first started doing this quick. Let's tell the truth about this redhead.

She was pretty wacky. You know, our goal is for you to know. there are options on how to party. And we want you to party in a way that you feel better the next day, that you celebrate with intention and love rather than, oh, well, this is how we've always done it, which has led to trouble. One of the things you've often said from the time I met you and we were dating, and I always love this was whenever I was struggling with something or an idea or a thought

or, you know, something I should be doing, you always would say we get to create the life we want. And it's true, but most people forget that. And you just would always bring that back into focus. And we've actually lived that way. I mean, sometimes I feel like our life gets pretty crazy, but we get to, it's fun and we get to create that life. And we just have to remember to keep it grounded. And never let your family of origin ruin the family you're creating. Right.

That you get to create it. When we went over Chloe's house, she and Sal are creating their future. Right. And we want them to do it. It's like what rituals do you want? Right. as opposed to you need to do our rituals. Are you a doctor or mental health professional who's tired of one-size-fits-all care?

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