Chewing the Fat with Jeff Fisher - 6/17/17 - When Bromances Cross The Line
Episode Date: June 17, 2017When does a bromance become something else? A recent study reaches some interesting conclusions, Jeffy breaks it down.Follow Jeffy on Twitter: @JeffyMRALike Jeffy on Facebook: www.facebook.com/JeffFi...sherRadioFollow Jeffy on Instagram: @jeffymra Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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I'm not quite sure what to make of this study because, at first glance, you think this can't be real, right?
And then you think, oh my gosh, it is real.
According to research published in sex roles, a journal of research, who doesn't get that delivered to the house?
I mean, I try to just get that delivered right to my email box, so I don't have to even wait for the postal service to deliver it.
There's a strong desire to cuddle and hug between bromatic friends, while kissing is just another way of showing affection.
One of the students involved told the authors,
you can lie in bed with your bromance,
have a cuddle, just talk.
Well, another said he understood it as having a cuddle buddy.
A third thought cuddling, hugging, and sex jokes were a core part of the romantic relationship.
Now, for those of you that aren't aware of what a bromance is,
It's been defined as an emotionally intense bond between straight men.
Okay.
Now, before I go on, I would like, I am like, I'm almost not a heterosexual male.
Okay.
I mean, some days I just depends.
Don't look at me like that.
I mean, I can identify whatever the hell I want, when I want.
Got it?
Don't look across it.
Don't look at me like that.
And I have lived with other men.
Now let me rephrase that.
I have shared living space with other men.
I have friends that I've known for years that are identifying as a male, as I normally do.
and I have never wanted to use them as a cuddle buddy.
Now, maybe it would have evolved.
I mean, sure, you sit around and you drink and you smoke or whatever
and you watch movies, you hang out, you know, whatever.
Maybe I didn't evolve fast enough.
Maybe it would have ended up with, ah, just come here, baby.
Just come here, cuddle.
You need a hug, baby.
A little, Lucas?
No.
I'm sorry.
No.
If would I consider an emotionally intense bond between straight men of bromance?
Yes, I've had that.
I understand under oath, yes.
Do I think that if you are cuddling and kissing your bro,
that you're having an emotionally intense bond between straight men?
No, I do not.
In all 29 of 30 men who took part said they cuddled their bromatic partner.
It'd be fascinating to see what they're, what they're, I mean, what you and I think is cuddling.
Fascinating what they think is cuddling.
Don't think about that too long.
The latest work also backs a 2012 study that found 89,
10% of 145 surveys, it's not 145.
I mean, it's real small.
Undergraduate heterosexual men had kissed on the lips.
It doesn't say whether they were sober.
I mean, there's so many jokes, and it's just, I have to, I'm, I am toning myself down for you.
You're welcome.
One participant said, guys nowadays, nowadays, in my generation.
okay
well right there
I got it
I'm the old guy
there is so much
kissing between guys
because it's
showing
affection
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I'd like to know if you are in the
kissing
because it's a showing
affection generation
added I hug and kiss my bromance
and tell him I love him
an emotionally intense bond
between straight men
is what a bromance is.
Participants also talked about how comfortable they were to be naked around their bromances.
You know what?
I'm kind of barely comfortable to be naked around myself.
You know, for the most part.
One participant said,
I live in a house with three other guys and there are massive bromances going on between us.
Okay.
You know, good for you.
But that is not necessarily,
a straight relationship.
Sorry, it's just not.
It's okay.
But I don't necessarily think I would call it a
bromance.
Now, what makes this okay?
I don't know.
I don't know.
Because they also walk around naked.
Look, I've got no problem standing naked in a room with my housemates.
We feel comfortable being naked around each other.
Is it a porn shoot?
I mean, come on.
The study was conducted across a three-month period between August 2014 and November 2014
and involved semi-structured interviews into the friendship.
What does that mean?
Semi-structured interviews.
Into the friendship experiences of 30 undergraduate men who identified as heterosexual or mostly heterosexual.
Mostly heterosexual, I would say, leans this.
They were enrolled in one of the four undergraduate sports.
degree at the university of uh in uh in england says you're at at a single uk university at a
university of k Kentucky okay guarantee you well it is the bluegrass rate i've no idea what that
means so i mean that's where we're at right that's where we're at it just doesn't doesn't matter
love the one you're with listen if you can't
can't be with the one you love. Love the one you're with. I mean, it's Crosby stills at
Nash said it 100 years ago. So far out of their time. And it's, you know, comes right
back around at you right now.
2017 is going to be a volatile economic year. We may see politicians throughout the world
attempting to control central bank policies. Several renowned financial analysts have warned
that political interference in central bank policies may mean our economic misses of inflation
and growth targets. Gold is an international currency that can't be issued or controlled by
governments. If you don't have the only hard currency that has outlasted every politician and every
failed idea of governments for centuries, you need to speak to Goldline right now and learn how
easy it is to add gold to your portfolio or IRA. Now is the time to diversify your financial
portfolio by adding gold. Call 1-800-913-Gold. Bying real gold is easy and fast at Goldline. And you're
going to be happy that you finally made the call. 1-800-913-4653. Goldline also offers price protection
against short-term market fluctuations on qualifying purchases.
So buy with confidence.
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and find out of buying gold is right for you.
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