Chief Change Officer - #403 Lora Chow: Trading Wall Street for a Steinway — Part One

Episode Date: June 1, 2025

Lora Chow didn’t abandon ambition—she just rewrote its score. In this episode, we trace her unusual arc from elite finance to classical composition. She opens up about choosing Yale over Cambridg...e, chasing Wall Street dreams, and what it really took to reclaim her voice—literally. This isn’t a story about dropping out or burning out. It’s about tuning into the parts of yourself that never stopped playing.Key Highlights of Our Interview:Choosing Yale Over Cambridge Wasn’t Just About Prestige“My heart wanted music. But my mom majored in math—and Hong Kong wanted finance.”Lora opens up about the early tension between cultural expectation and personal calling.Fitting Into the Ivy League Mold—Until It Didn’t“Everyone was applying to Morgan Stanley. I followed the crowd—and got the job.”At Yale, ambition and conformity collided. She got the offer, but the itch for music never left.A Grand Piano, a Grand Salary—But Something Felt Off“I loved music. But I also wanted a home with a grand piano.”Trading dreams for stability was logical—but it came with a cost.Silence Sparked the Return to Sound“I lost my voice for a year. That’s when I started composing.”An unexpected health detour brought her back to the keyboard.Bulgaria, Opera, and a Creative Awakening“A summer program opened a door I hadn’t dared to knock on before.”A trip abroad flipped the script—and planted the seed for Reveries on Ivories._______________________Connect with us:Host: Vince Chan | Guest: Lora Chow (YouTube Channel)  --Chief Change Officer--Change Ambitiously. Outgrow Yourself.Open a World of Expansive Human Intelligencefor Transformation Gurus, Black Sheep,Unsung Visionaries & Bold Hearts.EdTech Leadership Awards 2025 Finalist.18 Million+ All-Time Downloads.80+ Countries Reached Daily.Global Top 1.5% Podcast.Top 10 US Business.Top 1 US Careers.>>>170,000+ are outgrowing. Act Today.<<<

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Hi, everyone. Welcome to our show, Chief Change Officer. I'm Vince Chen, your ambitious human human host. Oshul is a modernist community for change progressives in organizational and human transformation from around the world. Today's guest is Nora Chaow, fellow Yale alum, former fund manager, and someone whose journey mirrors mind in more ways than one. We are both from Hong Kong, shaped by the same family and societal expectations to chase money, business, and brand names. We followed the expected path, elite schools, big careers, but eventually stepped away from the weight of titles, status, and what we were supposed to want. In this two-part series, Nora shares how she returned to music,
Starting point is 00:01:31 launched her new album, Referees on Ivories, and built a life that sounds like her, not someone else's script. From hedge funds to harmonies, this is a story about dropping the labels and choosing the nooks that matter. Let's get into it. Nora. Welcome to Chief Change Officer. Welcome to my show. Hi Vince. Thank you for having me. I'm very excited to be on your podcast.
Starting point is 00:02:15 Nora and I have known each other for quite some time now through the Yale Club of Hong Kong. Over the years, I've watched your growth and transformation and I have to admit I always assumed you've been a musician your entire career but later you told me yes and no. You are definitely a musician by training but part of your career actually took quite a different turn into finance, which happens to be the area I used to work in as well. So I say there's a lot of interesting layers in your journey. Let's start with a big question. Who are you? Tell us
Starting point is 00:03:09 a little about yourself. Where you're from, what you've done, and what you're doing now. And then we'll dive into different parts of your story and your transformation. of your story and your transformation. Sure, I am Laura Chow. I'm from Hong Kong. I'm a composer, a singer, and a multi-instrumentalist. I'm also the co-founder of two music organizations, the Yale Alumni Chamber Music Society of Hong Kong and Virtuoso Fiesta, which I founded with a friend also from Yale, a violinist named Ruda Lee last year in Hong Kong. Actually in 2023 in Hong Kong, we co-founded Virtual Sofiesta. So I'm very passionate about creating music
Starting point is 00:03:56 that inspire positive changes in the world. And my background is that I studied music and economics at Yale College. And after graduation, I pursued a career in finance, from being a prop trader in investment bank to a portfolio manager in the hedge fund. And I spent over 10 years analyzing stocks, learning about the financial markets, making returns.
Starting point is 00:04:24 But always on the side, I've been doing music as a performer, as a composer, and as an administrator, and trying to make changes in the music scene in Hong Kong to hopefully allocate more resources in the music scene and to promote the transformative power of music. When you first shared your story with me, there were a lot of things I could relate to. Not the singing or composing part. I'm definitely not a trained musician. I did learn piano as a kid, and I enjoy singing. I even did some vocal training later on, but that was more for public speaking.
Starting point is 00:05:10 But like you, I was born and raised in Hong Kong. I took part in all those extracurricular activities growing up, including music. Then, like many of us, you went on to a great school. And at Yale, you chose to major in both music and economics. Can you take us back to that moment? You were around 18, starting college. What were you thinking back then when you chose those two majors? Why not just music or just economics? What made you want to combine the two?
Starting point is 00:05:55 Sure, I was always very passionate about music. I started the piano at four and learned different instruments, played in orchestra, sang in choirs. And I always wanted to be a musician, but I always also got the impression that it's impossible to be a musician in Hong Kong, where I was born and where it's a financial hub. It's very unrealistic and it's very difficult to make a living. And I'm not from a wealthy family, so I do have to be practical. And of course, there are also pressure from my traditional parents, just giving me the idea that it's very important to have a stable income.
Starting point is 00:06:39 And it's much easier to be a professional and to have a high standard of living. And being a musician is very challenging and competitive, tough life. With all these impressions in my mind, and I was doing quite well in my academic study, I was pretty good at math. My mom majored in math and she actually influenced me a lot. So at first when I was around 17, thinking about college, I thought about measuring in math and I even applied to the University of Cambridge to major in math and got an offer from them. Almost went there, but at the same time I applied to the U S colleges because I know about the liberal arts education and the possibility to do a double major.
Starting point is 00:07:26 So my goal is to do music with something practical. At first I was thinking music and math because I was just pretty good at math and did the math Olympiad and all those in high schools. And then I regretted for applying to Math major in the UK because my heart still really leans towards music. But I'm very grateful that Yale offered this great liberal arts program and I could decide on my major after I got in, which is awesome. I think it's very important to try different things and find out what we really love. And because Yale offers this opportunity, in freshman year I took some math courses and
Starting point is 00:08:12 I discovered that I'm not really that into math and I prefer economics which is way more applicable to the real world. And that's why I chose economics as my one of my majors. And then for music is always my love and passion so I always wanted to study music and of course Yale is the best Ivy League school with professional music school. So that's why I applied early action to Yale and I'm very grateful I got in and could do both economics and music. I feel like I have a safety net in case music does not work out and at the same time I can explore different interests.
Starting point is 00:08:58 I was actually pretty interested in economics as well because it's given me a great perspective about the real life experience, about how different companies run, how a lot of industries work in the world. So I'm very glad I did both. Yeah, Yale. This episode might feel a little Yale biased since we're both alums, but it is really known for its liberal arts education. It give us that freedom to explore, to try different things and figure out what turn us on. No one at Yale ever said,
Starting point is 00:09:44 you have to choose either the arts or the sciences. You are someone who's strong in both music and economics. That's rare. So truly, I applaud you for that. Now, I know you started learning music at a young age, and that love for music stayed with you. But I also see how studying economics gave you another toolkit, especially helpful when thinking about career planning, job options, and maybe even the practical side of life. That's probably why you
Starting point is 00:10:28 ended up in banking and hedge funds. You knew how to hedge your risk. But your heart, it kept pointing you back to music. Still, four years later, as a graduating student, you had to make a decision. Stay in the U.S., go back to Hong Kong, maybe take part in campus recruiting. So what was your thinking back then? You chose to go into finance. And what led you to pick the more realistic path at that moment instead of diving straight into your passion? Yeah, it was a tough choice. I had really great experience with music at Yale. I sang in the professional chamber choir
Starting point is 00:11:22 Yale Scholar Cantorum, and I sang in a lot of the opera there. I was cast as one of the leading role in an Italian opera. And these experiences are really wonderful, and my dreams came true. But when I was in my junior year, I got a lot of pressure from my peers. Everyone who majored in economics were applying for internships at investment banks.
Starting point is 00:11:51 And of course, my parents were also encouraging that, like many other Ivy League parents, especially from Asia, also encouraged that. And there was a good reputation from investment banks about how they take in the smart kids and gave amazing training to them and have a wonderful future ahead. So I was part of that group.
Starting point is 00:12:19 I just followed the crowd to apply online, all these internships with different banks. I did the interviews. I remember Morgan Stanley even flew me to Hong Kong for just one day to do the interview and then back to the US the next day. And it really impressed me how much they invested in college students. And also it widened my horizon during the interviews about how creating floor works, how financial markets are so exciting. So I thought to myself, let's try the internship.
Starting point is 00:12:57 It doesn't hurt. I spent my sophomore summer in Italy singing opera. So junior year, I decided that I would come back to Hong Kong to do an internship with Morgan Stanley. And it went really well. I won the trading game during the internship and I got a full-time offer at the bank, which was pretty lucrative. And I missed Hong Kong too, it's my hometown, my family is here and they wanted me to come back as well. And Hong Kong is a financial hub, there's no full-time job for opera singer. At that point, I think my options were pretty much like applying for a master's degree in singing in the US or come back to Hong Kong to work in this investment bank.
Starting point is 00:13:51 And I chose the latter because of my curiosity about how the financial markets work. And I guess there were also a lot of influences as I grew up in this financial hub. I hear from my family discussing stocks in family gatherings, and the financial news always talk about stocks on the TV. So I was curious about how all these things work. And I wanted to make money too, just to be realistic. I aspire to have a home with a grand piano where I can host concerts. So it seems like this is the path where I can achieve this dream. And of course, even when I was working on the side, I continued to take singing lessons, I continued to perform in concerts, and I was pretty ambitious that I wanted to do both, having a great job while still doing things in music. So that's how I decided to come back to Hong Kong
Starting point is 00:14:55 for the job. The sign on bonnet, the whole package, it was all very attractive. Back then, investment banks really knew how to treat young talent. Whether you were fresh out of undergrad or coming from an MBA, they invested seriously and extensively in people, including time, training, and yes, money. And let's be real, money matters. It pays the bills, pays off your student loans, gives you security, and let you dream a little, maybe even
Starting point is 00:15:41 a house with a grand piano like you said. So of course, when a place like Morgan Stanley or Goldman Sachs makes you an offer, who would say no? I also call this the Hong Kong factor. I grew up in Hong Kong too. And everyone here, literally everyone, is talking about the financial markets, stocks, real estate, investment, and even housewives are day trading. That's just the environment we were raised in. So naturally, there's also this peer pressure. You see your classmate joining top
Starting point is 00:16:28 banks, getting promoted, earning six, seven or eight figures. That stuff gets into your head. So it makes total sense that you followed the practical path and you did well. You build a successful finance career over 10 years. But then, what changed? What happened around 2020, 2021 that made you stop and finally listen to your heart? For the last 10, 20, even 30 years, it sounds like your head was in charge. What triggered you to finally make that ambitious change? Yeah, I think there were a series of events that built up to this transformation and big change in my career.
Starting point is 00:17:29 And I wouldn't say there's one specific trigger. It's more like things just gradually build up and until a point that I think everything works in my favor to switch out from finance into music. Also, during my career in finance, there were times when I thought about maybe I should pursue a master's of music, maybe I should just devote all my time in music, but then there were things that held me back. So it was like a struggle. I remember even just a couple years after graduation, I thought about joining an international singing competition. But I had a traumatic experience at that time that my vocal cord had a polyp
Starting point is 00:18:17 and I couldn't sing. I couldn't even talk for an entire month. And I couldn't sing for an entire year and I had to rest my voice to try different therapies and alternative medicine to recover my voice. And the vocal chord is very fragile so even after a year when I started singing again, it's different from what I had from before. It takes time to build up the muscle again and also to fully recover from that. It actually took many years. So it held me back. But at the same time, because of this injury, I had an urge to compose. It was at that time that I started
Starting point is 00:19:08 composing more. Before that, I actually never had any formal training in composition, but I had good intuition to improvise and to write music. But at that time, I was seriously looking for opportunities to learn composing formally. And I signed up for this summer program in film scoring to learn from a Hollywood composer, Christopher Young, who scored Spider-Man and many other Hollywood movies. It's a three-week program in Bulgaria. And I learned so much and I was so fulfilled during that time. I wrote pieces for orchestra, we recorded there.
Starting point is 00:19:47 I found my real love, a real passion in music for composing. Ever since then, I came back to Hong Kong, of course, as a composer who is still very young and inexperienced. It's hard to find opportunities. But I tried my best to write music for friends, and I started the Yale Alumni Chamber Music Society of Hong Kong. I wrote music for them for the inaugural concert, which was very well received. And because of that, I got an opportunity to write for the Hong Kong Philharmonic Orchestra. But even with this kind of success, it's still like once a year I get to premiere a work and it's not sustainable. So I
Starting point is 00:20:31 was still working in finance on the side. And it was during COVID when I had more time to write music. I was working remotely, all the concert venues were shut, and I had more time to think about my life, and Covid kind of inspired me to think that life is short, time is very valuable. And there are so much I want to do that I couldn't at that time because concert venues were shut according to the government rules. But I had this strong desire to compose more music and I wrote a lot at home and I started to just upload it to my Instagram and even to YouTube.
Starting point is 00:21:17 And then I get feedback sometimes from strangers, sometimes from friends who are very supportive and motivated me to write more music. So after the pandemic, I got more opportunities to perform my music and to compose for different people and even the chairman of my company really appreciated my music and sponsored a new work that I wrote for Hong Kong Phil. And I felt really honored and all these supportive voices from high profile people, from people I really respect, drove me to make this decision to devote more time in music. And at that time there were a few
Starting point is 00:22:07 projects that were looming on the side I have been discussing with like Mr. Eddie Tam about writing this fusion opera, combining Cantonese opera with Italian opera. That's a really exciting idea to me and I know I have to spend time to work on that. And also I just co-founded the Druoso Fiesta with my violinist friend, Ruda. And it started off pretty well. Actually to my surprise, a lot of people were quite generous in sponsoring this new music organization and they connected us with people relevant to the field and to people who
Starting point is 00:22:48 could support us in different aspects from helping us to make a website to taking professional photography for our events and all these came together to drive me to really focus more on my passion. And of course, on the side also, the market has been pretty weak. And it was a little bit upsetting to see that the markets are driven a lot by political decisions, just headlines. for example, whether the government is positive about reopening or zero COVID policy, like one policy changes so much in the market. And it became actually quite difficult to invest in stocks. It became more irrational, I would say. The stock price movements are less rational than before. And this is a bit discouraging to me to continue my analytical work in the financial markets. So balancing all these factors, it drove me to transform into a full-time musician from Hedge Fund Manager.
Starting point is 00:24:06 transformed into a full-time musician from Hashford Manager. The way I see it. For a period of time, your head led the way. You let your heart stay in the background, not ignored, but quieter. Still, beating, still alive. You didn't silence it, but you asked it to wait while you focused on logic, on what made sense at the time. And then, as life changed, maybe your heart changed too, and you decided it was the time to let it lead a little more, to let it take center stage. You are still the same Nora with sharp analytical skills, skills you developed in finance, skills you will still need as you undertake new endeavors. You are just choosing to use those skills differently now to support something more personal, more meaningful. So, while you've shifted into using your artistic side to help transform lies, I see it as you
Starting point is 00:25:31 finally giving your heart the spotlight, but your head is still right there backing it up. Yeah, yeah, that's very true. And I feel that I focus more on my heart because my mindset has changed. I focus more on like the spiritual growth actually over the last couple of years. And I realized that a lot of things, if we believe that it will happen, it will actually happen. And I guess starting Virtual Sofiesta in 2023 was like a dream came true for me and Ruda. And we realized that dreams can come true, and there are a lot of supporting community that can help us realize our dreams.
Starting point is 00:26:19 And that's why I think I should follow my heart. That's it for part one. We followed Nora's journey from mathematics and music to Morgan Stanley and back again. But the story is just getting good. In part two, we dig into how she's using music to challenge the status quo, why classical doesn't mean stiff, and how her new album is both a personal statement and a public invitation. See you there. Thank you so much for joining us today.
Starting point is 00:27:15 If you like what you heard, don't forget to subscribe to our show, leave us top-rated reviews, check out our website, and follow me on social media. I'm Vince Chen, your ambitious human host. Until next time, take care.

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