Club 520 Podcast - It's 5:20 Somewhere - Strict v/s Controlling? The Girls Get REAL About Relationships 👀

Episode Date: August 19, 2026

This week on It's 520 Somewhere, the girls get into some serious relationship questions—and everybody has an opinion. 👀What's the difference between a man being strict, protective, or control...ling in a relationship? When does setting boundaries cross the line into controlling behavior?The conversation also turns to money and dating: Do women judge men based on how much they make? Does a man's salary affect attraction, compatibility, or the way women view him as a potential partner? 💰Barbee, Kiki, and Trop break down expectations, boundaries, relationships, and the financial pressures that can come with dating today.As always, expect different opinions, plenty of laughs, and some conversations that might hit a little too close to home. 😂🎙️ Tap in and tell us: Is there a difference between being strict and being controlling?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:02:14 I am your girl Barbie. And we're about to have a good motherfucking show because I miss my girls and I'm so excited that we are back, baby. No, for real. It'd be singing like a long. We got to shoot twice a week, y'all. I'll miss you, my buddies. I miss you, my friends.
Starting point is 00:02:33 Shooting twice a week will be fire. It would be, but some of the comments be saying that. Look at a job. Miss 13 hours. God damn. To my left, I got the hardest working woman I know. Nurse Trot, how you doing, mama? Good.
Starting point is 00:02:48 Getting ready for work. Yeah. Always. I got to work after this, y'all. Yeah, so she's drinking a mocktail, but we'll get into the drink later. And to my right, I got your girl. Miss Kiki Hey y'all
Starting point is 00:03:01 How you feeling beautiful? I'm fine You're looking mighty, mighty, mighty fine Looking like Keyline pie again today Yeah, y'all just, y'all know this is my second favorite color I just
Starting point is 00:03:10 I was supposed to make you guys Keyline martinis Remind me to do that Okay, yeah, next next episode Please We still never even did the tree Like Oh, what's wrong with us?
Starting point is 00:03:23 We are, we have the memories And we have the memory of a nap And too much going on But why we are already at it. Let's go ahead and just get right back into fit check. Okay. I think that they felt like we took too long last week. Watch the episode. We need y'all to watch the episode.
Starting point is 00:03:39 We are more than our fat asses, you know? We're more than our beauty. Yeah, we have big mouths too. Kiki. Earth tones. Come on with Earth Tombs. You can't do wrong. Okay, red. I'm loving the sun dresses.
Starting point is 00:03:56 Far red. She ain't scared. Yeah. Y'all, y'all. And drop all I'm trying to show these feet off. Put them sides back on. Girl, I'm about to. Oh. I planned on it.
Starting point is 00:04:08 But that dance, that's why I took them off, because I would have felt. Didn't know, I'm. I can't even get up. Okay. True. You look so cute. Oh. She is not here to play today.
Starting point is 00:04:25 Surprise, surprise. Surprise, surprise. As we talked about our. busy lives. I had to hurry up and go to my friend's baby shower right after this and she's having a true religion restaurant theme. I love that.
Starting point is 00:04:38 Cute. Is it a boy? It's a boy. His name is True. Oh, I love that. We can't wait to meet you, baby, True. My friends is trash, though. Why are we still having kids? What? What? That's not trash. I'll do it again if I've ran into the right person, but...
Starting point is 00:04:54 Well, she did. Shout out to her her boyfriend. You have her own. You have a wrong. You have room for more kids Because you only have, you have two, so Why you don't got room? Because I have three. If you meet the man of your dreams.
Starting point is 00:05:06 What you meet the man that wants six? There you go. Three more you got to pop out. He's like, we halfway there. Yeah. Six kids. Out of this, coo-cheek. Yes.
Starting point is 00:05:18 No way. Well. No, they're going to practically fall out by then. I've been wanting to ask y'all too. They're not, yeah, definitely not going to fall out. I always said, even when I was a kid, I knew I wanted three kids. Okay, period. So, yeah, tubes, you getting an tube?
Starting point is 00:05:36 Although I planned on, I didn't plan on having all girls. No, I'm not getting my tubes. You got to have a boy. Boys are just amazing. I don't want a girl. I don't want a girl at all. And I don't want a boy. I used to.
Starting point is 00:05:48 I love being a boy mom. It's the best ever. They're so sweet. Like, I just love him. I'm sure they are, but I ain't get one yet, and I ain't. You're going to have another girl. I'm content. Thank you, God. I'm happy with what I have.
Starting point is 00:06:02 Thank you, Father God, for these healthy, beautiful children, smart children that we have. No, for real, Amy. I've been wanting to ask y' y'all. I had seen, what's Jim Jones' podcast called? I don't know if it even still exists anymore. Yes, it does. Well, they were saying something about them not paying their bills and it was not, okay, we won't do that here. But they had talking about the top five best feelings in the world, like in life.
Starting point is 00:06:27 What are the top five best feelings that you've ever felt? Top five. I feel like when you had a drunk night and you got to pee real bad and you finally make it home and you take that pee. You make it wrong, baby. Yeah. I'd be outside the car like. Y'all, do you y'all outside the car? I'm so weak.
Starting point is 00:06:48 Huh? Physical feelings. Just however you want to spin it. But no. Hold on. Have you ever had to pee and you felt like, oh my gosh. She just, come on. No, y'all ever had a pee that feels so good that you feel like,
Starting point is 00:07:02 am I even here right now taking this piss? Like, pinch me. Am I dreaming like, is this real? Those peas be feeling the best. All right, that's one. Come on. No, Trump can go. No, I don't have anything to say.
Starting point is 00:07:16 You don't have nothing that made you just, like, best feelings in the world. Try, nothing. I got all five. I was going to, go ahead. Go ahead. Well, you finished since you already started. drunk because I don't smoke no more but when you used to smoke
Starting point is 00:07:30 and you get that meal that you you know you're hungry you smash at the end of the night probably heated up some some fire-ass food that you had in the fridge and you finally get to smash good as fuck in bed
Starting point is 00:07:44 you eat in bed? No I don't make it to the bed I eat it at the table I just want to be comfortable true I understand but what if you get messy then you're going to make a mess in your bed yeah not simply eating at the messy when I'm like drunk like that. I don't know.
Starting point is 00:08:00 I just be feeling like I'm ready to smash and it might get a little missing. I'd be naked at the dinner table like. Cravely. Cravely's three in the morning. Eyes closed. Like, what? Okay, too.
Starting point is 00:08:10 Come on. And I mean, I feel like obviously when you climax. You say splash. But the splashes hit different though. They do. You know, that little, you know, you know what I'm talking about.
Starting point is 00:08:24 It's different, different types of splash. The old faithful. wait what no I need a little more description climb a regular regular climax versus old faithful where's old faithful come from like a fountain what is why are you I understand what you're saying why you're calling old faithful because I feel like nutting is different than squirting it is like a squirt is like a stupor nut like a super duper nut yeah okay so that's like maybe nutting can be number two and squirting can be number one Okay.
Starting point is 00:08:57 I don't know. What you got? That's where yours goes. Yeah. Okay. So mine's was being a mom. I love that. Oh, no, no, no, no.
Starting point is 00:09:09 I feel you because, no, my daughter asked me today. She was like, Mom, what's the best thing you ever did? I said, giving y'all life. Giving y'all life. No, but just like those little special moments you had with your kid, and you'd be like, damn, like you was really my baby. And it might be the smallest of things, but like, I don't know.
Starting point is 00:09:27 Motherhood just does something to me. Like those small little moments with my babies, those are probably like, that would be number one. Number two would be like accomplishing something. Or, you know, once you accomplish something, because sometimes, like, you'll accomplish something and you'll, you don't have time to reflect on it until later. So, like, when you sit and you're like, damn, I really did that. Like, that kind of feeling is just, like, amazing. Once you get off the airplane and into a new city or a new country, the air, the air, It's different.
Starting point is 00:09:56 It just, the sun hit different. That's just like an amazing feeling. I don't know if I could go any further. Where else would I take it? I really like where you went with that. I was like, I like your take. I fuck with that. Having someone like a mutual, when you're dating or talking to someone and it's mutual and you know it's mutual.
Starting point is 00:10:17 That's a good feeling. Yeah. Yeah, just knowing like, oh, this person really got my back. Mm-hmm. Like it never happened to like, you never having that doubt. Because, you know, when you're, like, talking to someone new or putting yourself out there to date, it's kind of like, damn, am I doing too much or am I not?
Starting point is 00:10:32 Are we not on the same vibe? For sure. Or you can be involved with somebody for years. And it's like, have y'all ever been in a, like, a situation where you feel like this person is damn their holding back or too scared to go all the way in or not even scared, but they just hesitant because, I don't know, because the way of the world,
Starting point is 00:10:50 or maybe they don't want to give themselves 100%. And so you peep that they are holding back, so you get to holding back. Like, I swear, I've been in a relationship before where I feel like it's dimner like we playing chess. Like, we, like, trying to make sure we don't make, like, a bad move or a move that's going to, like, be too open or be doing too much.
Starting point is 00:11:10 Like, we're trying to let the other person lead first type shit and be out of their body first. Where do you get there? Nobody wins. Nobody wins in that. Nothing like getting cute. That's an amazing feeling. I love that we get to come and we get to pod and we just get to put our shit on and then we get to go home.
Starting point is 00:11:33 We don't even got to do that. I need to start stepping it up because you look salty and cute though. Thank you. Y'all look amazing as always. But when shout out Toledo, he just dropped. It's strict over here. Period. And it's 520.
Starting point is 00:11:49 He got a little record for us. Yeah, a little cameo too. And he clipped me in the beginning. talking about when we was in Nashville. Yeah, I didn't have no earrings on or nothing. And I was just like, you know what? You need to start being camera ready. You were so cute, though.
Starting point is 00:12:01 You had on the red and the red and white tablecloth. No, you just made that up. Yes, you did. You had that tie up like that, but it was red and white. That's not what I had on. It was green. It was green. It was green.
Starting point is 00:12:13 It was a little workout of it. When we was in that, no, not on the, not on his video. I'm talking about when we were there. Yeah, yeah, but I'm talking about, like, being on the couch. Oh, in that actual video? I need to just like stepping like y'all be stepping when y'all. When y'all come in here. Come on.
Starting point is 00:12:25 You are a little casual, babe, though. Freak, I am overly casual. You look cute today. Thank you. Adorbs. Y'all look adorable every time. So I need to be, like, matching y'all because we all have our own, like, different thing that we do. But, like, y'all come and I never played with the girls ever.
Starting point is 00:12:40 You neither. The face never, never not gives. But, like I said, shout out to Lido. Him and Don Trip are about to drop something. I've seen September 11th. Can't see what they got for us there. But the new album is strict over here. I wanted to ask y'all, what's it.
Starting point is 00:12:54 the difference between being strict. Behind every night spent making the kids' lunches, there's a lot of suspense. Will they finally eat the veggies? Will the pasto survive the first bite? Will the lunchbox come home empty, half full, or come home at all? And will you finish episode 8 before you're done slicing the cucumbers? Get Bell Pure Fiber Internet with Craved Netflix and Disney Plus from $94 a month. Price guaranteed for two years on internet with a two-year term and auto pay credit. Visit bell.za for details and to check availability. Bell, connection is everything.
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Starting point is 00:16:28 It being controlling. Is it strict over there, drop? It's a little strict. It's a little strict. So what'd you do that strict? Talk to me. I just feel like you need to be communicating. Communicating, okay.
Starting point is 00:16:43 But isn't that like having standards? That's not really being strict, though, is it? I mean, people who aren't straight, you don't got to communicate. you can just do whatever you want to do. You'll get away with a little bit more on the communication tip. Yeah. And as far as like, Strick, I feel like I'm going to stand on it. Like, if you're not following the rules, like, then I'm going to probably get the fuck on.
Starting point is 00:17:07 Yeah. And so then, well, okay, and that same tip, because you are supposed to communicate, and if you don't communicate right, it's strict over here, you can get that. Like, you don't need to be liking pictures. Talk to them, child. You don't need to be. following your exes or anybody you crack. You don't need to be doing that.
Starting point is 00:17:25 Okay. To me. I don't know. I feel like that type of behavior is more for the talking stage. Now, once we have a title, I run a tight shit. It's like chunchable over here. But I'm going to give you that same respect. I feel like the difference between strict and controlling, like, okay, strict, we have
Starting point is 00:17:44 mutual boundaries. You're controlling when you're expecting something from your partner that you're not willing to give. Like, don't tell me, don't be in these niggas likes, and then I log in my shit and you up under every bitch, mom, sister, cousin, all that. Like, we're not doing that. That's controlling. So strict is that if it's mutual.
Starting point is 00:18:06 This is what we've said. It's an understanding. And you know, going into it, like, because we courted each other or you courted me and we figured out what each other was talking about before we gave each other that title. So you know what is like over here. if you jump in at water and I know the same about you. So if that's not your cup of tea, then don't drink it, move around. I feel like controlling is just like also just out-of-pocket behavior.
Starting point is 00:18:33 Like, don't FaceTime me and tell me to turn the camera around so you can see where I'm at. Like, don't, like, or like, I didn't have men like ask me questions like, are you taking a shower? Like, what do you mean? Like, why are taking a shower? I can't take a shower. So how do y'all feel about, I don't know if we talked about this before, sharing locations. Is that controlling? Is that strict?
Starting point is 00:18:57 Is that caring? And at what point do you do that? Is it in the talking stages? Is it, you know, how does that come about? I feel like once you got something so solid, like at that point, it's a safety concern. You should, like, I'm sure married couples share their locations with each other. And when you're married, you're one person. You should.
Starting point is 00:19:17 But would you share your location? with a guy? And how long would you have to have been around? If we really locked in like that like if we really solid and he's sharing his location with me but like if it's just like
Starting point is 00:19:29 he won my location just because he wanted to like keep tabs on me that's you know the intent is different. That's controlling. Yeah. I think that sharing locations is a mutual thing again.
Starting point is 00:19:41 Now because there's some relationships where the girl shares the location with the guy and he don't share his location with her. So what the fuck is that? But also, I've been in a situation where it's like sharing the location, Dana worked against me. Like, you're watching my location so that you can do what you need to do, you know? Okay.
Starting point is 00:20:01 So that's why I don't know. I feel like sharing location, there has to be a lot of trust involved in that and just a lot of, we got to be heavy and deep into this relationship for us to be doing that. I don't know. What do you think? As far, I don't know. I'm not strict at all. I'm so easy going when it comes to, like, talking and being in a relationship because I just feel like we should be able to.
Starting point is 00:20:27 I'm coming in and giving you 100% of my trust until you do something that gives me otherwise. So, and I know I'm a super understanding person too, like people have other lives. Like, if you're a parent, if you work a lot, if you have other stuff that you're doing. So as long as, like, you communicate enough, like, you're not ignoring me or anything like that. Go ahead, boo. Like, go ahead. I feel like we should be, you know. I like a little strictness though.
Starting point is 00:20:51 Yeah. Yeah. I like for my need to be strict because I am also, I need to be led and I need to be, I need to have somebody that strict because I am so just willy-nilly going with the win. Like, do you say you got a podcast today? So why are you, why are you out this late? Or have you started working on, you know, this, I need somebody to kind of put a little foot to neck a little bit, but in the right way. Yeah. So.
Starting point is 00:21:14 I'm kind of, I'm like a hybrid. I'm like really go with the flow. The strictness just. kicks in when you just cross certain lines. I think for me it kicks in like I'm going to feed off of you. Like I'm very much going to feed off of you. Like if you call me like or FaceTime me like show me your passenger. Guess what?
Starting point is 00:21:35 Next time I'm FaceTime you want to be like now show me your passenger. I'm just very much going like what is what's that word? I'm a reflection of you boo. But I'm going to say but then when does it become tip for tat? Right. I'm very much that. and maybe I need a girl out of that, but I just feel like, I don't know,
Starting point is 00:21:52 I'm a definitely mirror. Imagine who I'm with. Like, so how are we going to do this? Okay. All of this leads me to the example of the man that I won't, y'all. Okay. Drake, L.L. Koo. Oh, babe.
Starting point is 00:22:09 You like Drake today. I don't want to be with Drake, but I love everything that Drake does when it comes to women, y'all. First, Drake, Drake, Aubrey. Aubrey, where do it's 520 need to be so that we can be in these rooms when you're buying houses. I'm actually the Drake fan up here, y'all. We can go bar for bar on a Drake. How far you want to go back?
Starting point is 00:22:30 We love you. I want to be your girl, Drake. I want you to do my home. So when you having these luncheons and you want to buy people's mama's houses and things like that, remember. Pencil less in. Barbie. I will send you my real name, sir. We love you, Drake.
Starting point is 00:22:48 But Loco Drake, he had a look. Can we put that video up, Dee? Because Drake, that's what I love most about Drake, y'all. What you say? Who sent it to me? Me? Yep. I love most about Drake because he don't, now that's something that I don't feel like he tries to put on the
Starting point is 00:23:08 about. He genuinely loves women. And he loves giving. I know I had talked to a guy about it before. He was like, nobody will ever genuinely love Drake. It will always be what they can do. do for him just because he has so much. And I don't think that Drake cares about that.
Starting point is 00:23:23 I don't even think that's true. I don't either. Men always try to do that, though. The ones who don't spend money on women or don't do stuff for women, they always act like the men who do do for women. Women only like them because they're doing for them. Yeah. Like, that's not true.
Starting point is 00:23:39 I would love a statistic on misogynist. Like, like, what are, like, in general, what are their pockets like? You know what I'm saying? Like, I really want to know what is their average salary? What is the percentage of brokeies? Well, no, I know some, I know some very wealthy men that are misogynist. We'll get into that. Go ahead.
Starting point is 00:24:02 You can play it. Doing something for somebody for something in exchange. Expectations in return, yeah. It's just nice to make somebody else feel good. Like, you know, like Jordan. Jordan is such a bright spirit with so much electric energy. And I just like seeing her feel good. I like seeing all these women feel good.
Starting point is 00:24:19 Thank you. I love her. I love you, Joyce. You can't say her name too loud because she's not in the comedy. Joy is the funny girl on the next. She is the funniest girl on the next. And she's so kid. I love seeing something for you in life.
Starting point is 00:24:35 More than trying to get that watch, get that whip for yourself. You know, feel that bank account up. They don't know it. It's always good to have personal goals, but do something for somebody else. You might feel a little more. than strapping a watch to your wrist or driving that new car moving into that new place. I know those are
Starting point is 00:24:54 important things too. Quality of life is important but you start to do things for other people, you go home. Even if you're lonely, even if you had a rough day or tough day, you'll sit there and think, yeah. I know that's right. In Sogavia, let's clap it out.
Starting point is 00:25:10 I am buying a round for Drake. I am, next round is on me, Drake. But I think that like, What he said is so important though. Like, yeah, have your things in order. Never go broke trying to please someone else. Never lose yourself trying to please somebody else.
Starting point is 00:25:27 But if you have it and you really rock with somebody or you really, and you don't even have to be sexually. If it's somebody that's you really feel in somebody that's really a good person that's in your life, do something for them. And it don't got to be in other men, I don't think that they should bash that. Like all of those women that he did that stuff where I know Drake's not cracking them. And that doesn't matter to him. Yeah. And even, okay, so you may not have Drake pockets, but that's why when it comes to like flowers or a meal.
Starting point is 00:25:58 It's something you can do within your range. And don't look at it as, like he said, what did he said, having expectations or what did he say? Wanting something in return and all that. And to not want to do that for somebody that you're laying down and they're giving you their body, I just don't understand. There's the disconnect. Or it's just like, if you like somebody. in any way why would you you don't want to put a smell on their face like they do it for the bros why not do it for the girls that's so when i like somebody i literally want to make them happy like i want to make them smell what
Starting point is 00:26:29 where's the disconnect i literally want to like know like what is it that make the ones who got or it it doesn't even matter if you got it because like you said you can do something within your range so what is it that's preventing like do you not want to look like a sim do you feel like she's not doing. What do you expect in return in order for you to do this? Or do you, maybe you don't got it enough to where you can buy two. Because real bosses can buy their cell one and buy they bitch one too. So what's really is, what's going on?
Starting point is 00:27:02 And then that piece where he was. Behind every night spent making the kids' lunches, there's a lot of suspense. Will they finally eat the veggies? Will the pasto survive the first bite? Will the lunchbox come home empty, half full, or come home at all? And will you finish episode 8 before you're done slicing the cucumbers? Get Bell Pure Fiber Internet with Craved Netflix and Disney Plus from $94 a month. Price guaranteed for two years on internet with a two-year term and auto pay credit.
Starting point is 00:27:29 Visit bell.ca for details and to check availability. Bell, connection is everything. On the new podcast Solita, we share the messy reality of traveling alone as a woman. I can wait four hours for the next bus or this random dude is offering me a ride on his motorcycle. I chose option B. I'm Julie Pinero, and I travel by myself because it's a rare space where I can say yes without asking anyone else first. I'm on a mission to reclaim the word solita, trading the pity for possibility. Every time I tried to be alone, I kept meeting people, and they were like, you smiled at us.
Starting point is 00:28:06 Not a lot of people smile around here. It's when you're alone that you're most receptive to the world as it is and not the lies you're sold about it. It can be a time where you push your limits, change your mind, or wake up to a new version of yourself. So whether you're a solo travel veteran or you're too nervous to book your first trip, I hope you listen to Solita on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. If your bookshelf and your for-you page are equally important to your personality, welcome home. This is Prose Society, the weekly podcast that's part book club, part group chat for thought daughters, pop culture obsesives, and anyone who thinks Pride and Prejudice and Love Island deserve the same level of discourse. I'm Eli Rallo and every week we're connecting the dots between books, the internet, and the conversations everyone can't stop having.
Starting point is 00:28:59 I'm going to have to look up this story. I'm obsessed. From bestselling authors and your favorite book talk creators to the latest pop culture moments, nothing is off the table. It's like if you can hide some real messages inside compelling characters, then that is a Trojan horse. Whether you're looking for literary deep dives, smart pop culture conversations, or a community of readers who love to think a little too much, you're in the right place. Listen to Pro Society on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Starting point is 00:29:32 See you between the pages. When I was 14 years old, I was kidnapped and held captive for 9. months. I survived, and I've spent my life exploring how other people survive what should have destroyed them. I'm Elizabeth Smart, and these are the survivor files. I just remember this low, taunting voice next to my ear saying, shut up, don't say anything. Every week, I'm with survivors who live through the unthinkable. I knew if he woke up, without a doubt, he was going to hurt me. I started feeling that there was someone at the end of my bed, and I just started screaming. They are abducted, stalked, controlled, and nearly silenced.
Starting point is 00:30:19 But these aren't stories about what's taken from them. There's stories about what it takes to make it out alive. Listen to the Survivor Files with Elizabeth Smart on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Like, it might be something better than, like, buying. that new watch. Like you could, I just feel like
Starting point is 00:30:39 that speaks to just like turning your bitch up. Yeah. Like if you already got, like, oh my God. And what? Because some niggas do do this. They'll just buy themselves
Starting point is 00:30:49 more and more and more and more and more and more. And upgrade they chain and upgrade they watch more and more and more. To get more women. And your girl sitting here, you ain't did.
Starting point is 00:30:58 Nothing for her. What little boozy said? She got to buy her own shit. Yeah. What little Boosy say, yeah, he said something. Your girl, hair ain't even done.
Starting point is 00:31:05 Damn. She's a reflection of you. Like some of these men are so selfish. Like they just don't keep on. Yeah, it's bad. But do y'all think that they feel like, oh, I'm a bust this bitch for her to go smile in the next nigga face?
Starting point is 00:31:21 Do you think that it's insecurity? Yes, I think you are. You think that's the mayor. You're insecure or you know that you don't deserve her or like you're doing wrong. Like, because why would she leave you unless you doing something for her to leave? Are you selfish?
Starting point is 00:31:35 and genuinely just don't care about this woman. And what a future say? I think it was future. He said the standard is turning your bitch up. Turn her up. Like, hello. Come on. That's your girl.
Starting point is 00:31:47 I could see if you're like not tricking on randoms and hoes or whatever. But your bitch, you're not going to turn up yo bitch. And you got it? The girls' fly should definitely match her fly. Oh, and then there, I'm not supposed to. I'm sorry. They're going to go with you. People in the city can see that.
Starting point is 00:32:07 Yes. And what? People, bro, I don't feel like if a nigger look a certain way and his bitch don't match the energy. Like, yeah, they're definitely looking at y'all judging y'all. Him. I'm judging him. Like, I'm looking directly at him, especially if they'd have been together for years.
Starting point is 00:32:25 Like, they locked in. Because what are you going? I'm judging him. Everybody's judging him. And the men are going to say, well, you should be able to do this. This is not for yourself. It's going to get done. But as simple as covering a nail appointment, a hair appointment,
Starting point is 00:32:38 or buying something nice for her to, like, a piece for her to have. What is the problem, King? Literally. We do it. We can do it. My hair napier this week, but it'll be done next week. Mind your business, so. But we can do it.
Starting point is 00:32:51 We do this shit. Literally. And some women are low maintenance. True. Some women don't require all that. Some birthdays and do their own hair. Some might just get her, get a retwist or something. You know what I'm saying?
Starting point is 00:33:03 It's not. And I ain't going to hold y'all Nobody on this couch smokes Who don't? You smoke every day? Not every day, no That's what I'm seeing Like I feel like if you smoke
Starting point is 00:33:15 You are, you are damn That's damn near a bill Oh yeah Like we're low maintenance We don't even smoke Yeah I would never want a man to be Here a sack Like you know
Starting point is 00:33:25 Like no that ass like If you don't smoke I feel like you talk your nigga Way less than a girl that smokes No shade to the to the the stoners. I got sisters that are stoners, but I'm just saying, like, I don't cost you nothing for real.
Starting point is 00:33:39 What did you say about birthdays? I'm saying, this bitch didn't had five birthdays with you, five Christmases, you ain't got her nothing nice. Like, damn. They got her not nice. Yeah. What are your stuff? What? What? You're in your kid at? Right.
Starting point is 00:33:53 God. Man, if you don't keep that coat or whatever. Look, let's raise a glass. This drink today is called very bad decision. So let's make better decisions out here in life, men and women. What we have here is blackberries. It has freshly squeezed lemonade.
Starting point is 00:34:13 Ferexed lemon in there, agave and tequila, of course. We garnished it with a little bit of blueberries. Yes, very bad decision. I like that. That is such a cute name. I love it. And it's real.
Starting point is 00:34:26 That is cute. Thank you. Very bad decisions. What is probably the most adventurous thing that y'all have ever done? Because let me tell you, when I go out of the country, y'all know, I just, that free spirit is why I need a man to lead me and to be on my ass. Because we went to do a, like a little rock slide in the forest. And we were in, like, I think we were in, this was in Puerto Rico.
Starting point is 00:34:53 Was this in Puerto Rico? I don't feel like my friends were with me. So I don't know where I was. I was somewhere out of the country. And we went with a tour guy and we're kind of like hiking around on like the stones and all that stuff. little water. And it was this small hoe, y'all, literally, the littlest hole. And you can just fit your body in there and it took you to another part and you came out. Girl, that's dangerous. But go ahead. I did that. And that was the most terrifying thing I've ever done in my life.
Starting point is 00:35:18 I paraceled before, that was probably the second most terrifying thing I've ever done. Yeah, I've done that. But going through that little hole and just imagine it was just so scary. Like, I was just in these rocks like, and there was water coming out and it was dark. But I went through when I came through the other side. You go, period. Amen. But have you seen them videos online? People get stuck?
Starting point is 00:35:38 In the caves and shit? Yes. Yes. And the thing is, you're looking at. You'd be like, you're a dumbass. Why would you do that? I did it. I did it.
Starting point is 00:35:45 But like, yeah. I'm a dumb ass. I'm a dumb ass. I'm a dumb ass. It's me. What is the more? You're probably wondering how I got here. Yes.
Starting point is 00:35:57 Y'all, that was so freaking terrible. I have a video, but you really can't even see it in there because it's so, like, But that was terrifying. My big body, big, thick BBL squeam. That big booty. So, big shoulders too. What's the most adventurous thing that chop ever done?
Starting point is 00:36:15 Most adventurous. I mean, I've done all that little, I haven't done that, but I've done all the, like, vacate fun. Skinny dipping at the swimming pool when it's closed and locked up. And what kind of pool? Like an apartment? Yeah, the apartment pool. Girl, you know you can go to. to jail for that. Can you?
Starting point is 00:36:35 Yes. For the skinny different part or the sneaking in? Breaking and entering. Both of them? You're going to throw the book at you. I was adventurous that day. You climbed the fence? Yeah. And then took your clothes all where you climbed the fence. Nah. Nah, I ain't climbed naked. I took my clothes. Come on now. I got a little class.
Starting point is 00:36:51 Okay. Okay, that's fine. Who did it with you? It was a few of us. Like girls? Yeah, it was like a group of us and we had like the bottle and stuff. Did anybody get caught? No, hell no. Why did y'all get naked? we were just, we were just young, young, dumb, and burrow.
Starting point is 00:37:10 I'm hewn, dad, dad. I'm humed. Did you see that video? No. When you was like, it feels like being with Mrs. Trunchbowl, it's this dude on the internet. He was like, I hate a strict dude. He was like, he's like, I feel like I'm dating Miss Trunchbow.
Starting point is 00:37:23 Like, I'm always in the chokie. Oh my God. The choky, okay. So, yeah, he was like, I'm human too, Daddad. I'm hum. I love a strict man, though. I love a street man. I'm not controlling.
Starting point is 00:37:35 Not controlling. But care about what I'm doing, please. No, for real. Tap in. Tap in, please. Adventurous thing that trap is done. Huh, y'all know I ain't been nowhere. Well, you work with pathogens and bloody body fluids and stuff every day, so that's pretty.
Starting point is 00:37:51 That's pretty scary. But nothing outside of that? No, nothing. Well, we need to get a trip going on. Yeah, we do the adventurous stuff. Where do you draw the line? You know what I would not do, though, that I used to really want to do real bad? No, I got a bungee jump because Selena bungee jumped.
Starting point is 00:38:11 But you can do it. You can do it. Hot Air balloon. I want to do that. I've done that. You did it? Yes. Where?
Starting point is 00:38:18 Now, I don't know if this counts, but the one in Carmel. Yeah, it counts. Okay. Why would it not go? I thought you was in the Abidabie Desert. Nah, hell no. I won, like, Aladdin or a genie, nothing like that. Br, I've seen something malfunctioned.
Starting point is 00:38:32 I've seen a video, something malfunctioned on one of these hot air balloons, and the balloon just popped and they just fell straight to the ground by. Oh, speaking of malfunctions there, can we pull up that clip while we're here? Yeah, they died. It's the men in the slides. Damn. Really sad. Oh, my, they were.
Starting point is 00:38:49 And one of the girls was, like, recording in there as. Oh, my goodness. Recipe's to them. But that'd be the thing. Like, you signed up for all this crazy stuff. Like, after I did the parasel and that's when that show had came out with that girl. Mm-hmm. I can't remember what it was called Sarah or something.
Starting point is 00:39:05 But look at this. Speaking of doing a crazy adventurous thing. Oh, hell, no. Well, this isn't even adventurous, though? Probably. He got stuck out. Isn't his clothes? Yeah, his clothes.
Starting point is 00:39:15 No. No, he just got stuck. I've been watching all of these. I went down a rabbit hole. So imagine it's stuck in there. You're already clashtaprophic. You're scared. How do that camera is throwing me out?
Starting point is 00:39:25 You're stuck in there. But the fact that you go back up. Yeah. It's scary. Like, oh. My goodness. I just went into a lot of beach got outside. Baby.
Starting point is 00:39:37 I didn't think about it. By the time I got to that door, I would have been a piss poop, threw up and everything, because why am I getting stuck up on this lot? I mean, I would just be scooting forward. But it would be just panic. When panic sets in, I'm not one of them. Me and my best friend, we went to an amusement park and they had this, the ride. And it wasn't closed in, like the slide wasn't closed in like that.
Starting point is 00:39:57 But you go up to the top and they put you in this little chamber thing. And then it drops from underneath you. And the slide was open. you're going so fast that your body lifts up off the slide and there's nothing over top of you. It was so scary. I did it first. I looked for my best friend to come down. She was up there.
Starting point is 00:40:13 She was like, I'm going to do it. I'm going to do it. She never came down. Then I looked at. She was on the ground. She went all the way back down, went down to the little second slide and came through that one. She was like, I just couldn't be closed in that chamber because they put you in there. It was like five, four, three, two, one.
Starting point is 00:40:28 And then it stopped. Then it just dropped you. But them, y'all know AI has made some videos where people, like fake fallout the slides or whatever. That should be looking so real. I hate AI videos. Like, because I really believe in that because I'm a little slow. I don't know.
Starting point is 00:40:44 Now that I'm thick, I be scared to do certain stuff. Like what? I be like, I wait too much. Like roller coasters, I'd be looking at every screw on the roller coaster. Oh, my goodness. Because I'm coming down. I'll be like, I don't know. Big mama in here.
Starting point is 00:40:58 I'm scared. That is so funny. But let's get into words. I guess this would still be a word. from the block because it's not like the official, but Sensei. We had Carlos Miller on here. Shout out to him. Shout out to the 85 percenters.
Starting point is 00:41:14 And they called Carlos Miller the Sensei of this podcast and of this media world. And then also we have Beno on here. Shout out to him. Prolific has dropped. Make sure y'all go check that out with Bino and Nipsey. But Beano said that Nipsey was like his sensei. And so I'm like, let's make that words from the block, words from the rock. And a sense say is someone whose knowledge, experience, or influence has enough weight that people watch their moves and learn from them.
Starting point is 00:41:40 So I wanted to ask y'all, who are y'all taking, like, life advice from? And do you have anybody that who's like, that sounds kind of crazy, anybody's whose life that you won't, but whose life is like, damn, they got it. Like, I want a life similar to that. Like, I want my shit to go in that direction. Well, let me say this first. Carlos Miller definitely lives true to his name. when they call him the sensei, he really is that nigger in this arena. Like when I say he attracted, like, traffic to us, subscribers to us, he really like.
Starting point is 00:42:14 We're so grateful for him to you know. So grateful. So grateful. Like he really like, you know, he just came and sprinkled a little bit of his little, you know, good juju on us. And we're so appreciative. And he definitely is that. But who like life? would think about it real quick so I could say this and also that nigga is when I think a sense say I think a ninjas and I he a ninja because he's so he just so cool and chill and
Starting point is 00:42:44 quiet with like his power like but that's really a powerful nigger yes he got a philosophical he really got that cool he's philosophical and he's so cool and just easy going it was just like even with him being who he was I'm always nervous anytime we interview anybody but it just felt so genuine Like, Carlos, like, come on, we need to link up again. We definitely want to link up with you, Sensei. But who would you say? Because, well, and it's funny you say, Ninja, real quick, because, you know, Sensei, that comes from Japanese.
Starting point is 00:43:16 You know, we took Japanese in high school. These girls so. Behind every night spent making the kids' lunches, there's a lot of suspense. Will they finally eat the veggies? Will the pasto survive the first bite? Will the lunchbox come home empty, half full, or come home at all?
Starting point is 00:43:31 And will you finish episode 8 before you're done slicing the cucumbers? Get Bell Pure Fiber Internet with Craved Netflix and Disney Plus from $94 a month. Price guaranteed for two years on internet with a two-year term and auto pay credit. Visit bell.za for details and to check availability. Bell, connection is everything. On the new podcast Solita, we share the messy reality of traveling alone as a woman. I can wait four hours for the next bus or this random dude is offering me a ride on his motorcycle. I chose option B.
Starting point is 00:44:02 I'm Julie Pinero, and I travel by myself because it's a rare space where I can say yes without asking anyone else first. I'm on a mission to reclaim the word solita, trading the pity for possibility. Every time I tried to be alone, I kept meeting people, and they were like, you smiled at us. Not a lot of people smile around here. It's when you're alone that you're most receptive to the world as it is, and not the lies you're sold about it. It can be a time where you push your limits, change your mind, or wake up to a new version of yourself. So whether you're a solo travel veteran or you're too nervous to book your first trip, I hope you listen to Solita on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Starting point is 00:44:49 When I was 14 years old, I was kidnapped and held captive for nine months. I survived, and I've spent my life exploring how other people survive what should have destroyed them. I'm Elizabeth Smart, and these are the Survivor Files. I just remember this low, taunting voice next to my ear saying, shut up, don't say anything. Every week, I'm with survivors who live through the unthinkable. I knew if he woke up, without a doubt, he was going to hurt me. I started feeling that there was someone at the end of my bed, and I just started screaming. They are abducted, stalked, controlled, and nearly silenced.
Starting point is 00:45:33 But these aren't stories about what's taken from them. They're stories about what it takes to make it out alive. Listen to the Survivor Files with Elizabeth Smart on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. If your bookshelf and your for-you page are equally important to your personality, welcome home. This is Prose Society, the weekly podcast that's part bookbookbooking. Club, part group chat for thought daughters, pop culture obsessives, and anyone who thinks
Starting point is 00:46:03 Pride and Prejudice and Love Island deserve the same level of discourse. I'm Eli Rallo and every week we're connecting the dots between books, the internet, and the conversations everyone can't stop having. I'm going to have to look up this story. I'm obsessed. So I'm obsessed. From bestselling authors and your favorite book talk creators to the latest pop culture moments, nothing is off the table. It's like if you can hide some real messages inside compelling, characters and that is a Trojan horse. Whether you're looking for literary deep dives, smart pop culture conversations,
Starting point is 00:46:36 or a community of readers who love to think a little too much, you're in the right place. Listen to Pro Society on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. See you between the pages. Smart. So, um, but yeah, that's really all I'm saying. What else you know in Japanese?
Starting point is 00:46:54 Well, we called our teacher, Sensei. That's what we have. Because it is a, Sensei is a teacher. Yeah. Sense Nakamura. Shout out to Sensei Nakamura. Yeah. But do you remember anything?
Starting point is 00:47:07 Old Tanjobi Wad, that's the guy. You know what's that mean? You know what I just said? No. When's your birthday? Oh, shit. I thought you said something that meant something. Okay.
Starting point is 00:47:16 On the Maiwai, Kiki's sign. She said my name's Kiki. Yeah, I don't know shit. I literally call my son his name, son. I always be like, boss that sign. He already here. He already know who I'm talking to. Like, I'll be calling him by his Japanese name just on some random-ass mom shit.
Starting point is 00:47:35 One time I was saying, you know your name in Japanese is Boston Sign? He was like, Boston Sign. What do he say? And then he said, Mommy Sign, Kelly's sign. And then he said, Chrison. I was cracking up. It will probably be Basultan. By Su-Tan.
Starting point is 00:47:49 Yeah, but I just say it like his name in American. And no birds on his couch. They know Japanese. And Japanese is hard because you have to learn the right. It's not like Spanish. They don't have the same letters as us. And they have like three different alphabet. And you've got to learn all of them.
Starting point is 00:48:07 I think it's three. Who I would want to, whose life I will want is not. It sounds crazy, but I've been won her life since I was little. I used to be, I've never hated on nobody, but I used to hate on Kiki Palmer. Because our last name is similar. I can see that. And I love her life. I love her.
Starting point is 00:48:23 And I'm just like, damn. Like, what the fuck. She works very hard. She's so deserving of everything. she has, but Kiki is that girl. And she always has, and she's been so true to herself. She's a little girl. She's a real one. To see her podcast, she got
Starting point is 00:48:35 Michelle Obama on her. She had fucking Oprah on her podcast. You think I don't know Kiki Pomer's life? And she's still her. She's so unapologetically her. She's a mom now. She's a boy mom now. And her son will be putting her through the shit that my son put me through and I'm just like just give me your life.
Starting point is 00:48:52 She's twins. Just give me a life, Kiki. I love Kiki Pomer, though. I think that she's really dope. Period. And this two what I will say about Carlos Miller, then I'm going to get off his dick. But I will say that Carlos. I will say that he's not our first guest. He's not our first, like, late guests that we've had. But he is, like, literally, like, he drew so much traffic.
Starting point is 00:49:12 Like, that nigga draw a bust. I love him. And not only that, his, the traffic that he drew towards us, like, substantial. They were so nice. They were nice in the comments. Even if they wasn't fucking with us, they still was nice about it. They wasn't calling us like, like the guys, the audience that we growled from Club 520. Oh, honey, they be eating us up.
Starting point is 00:49:36 They be tearing us down. They hate us. Mafia members, though, I will say, they keep the road. They fuck with us. But the mother ones, you got to love the mafia, but yeah, I know. Damn, can y'all be a little nice? Geez. Well, you're men and women haters.
Starting point is 00:49:52 Speaking of influence, though, I had seen this post on social media. It said, if you ain't posting your kids on the. first week of school something wrong specifically if specifically specifically specifically if you always on social media no and i'm just like what i disagree i don't got to share my kids with drake i definitely i was hiding my son from the world i was hiding the world from my son from my son my number that's real that's the boy that's right i have we have a lot of followers i got a hundred some i think i was like damn look and drop followers 104k followers and most of them probably followed me because i got a fat ass i have
Starting point is 00:50:27 have daughters why the hell would I post my kids? Them kids is fresh they're taking care of to prove anything they are. That are following me specifically for whatever reason. Like, no, I'm not posting my kids. And like I post my son, but it's something that I'm just pretty, I'm overly too open on the internet or whatever, but it's not a requirement. If I don't want to, I don't got to post him. That's my baby.
Starting point is 00:50:55 Yeah. No, if I choose to let you into our world, I do. But it is now when we get more followers, it do kind of feel like, you know, like, wait a minute, maybe I shouldn't share so much or maybe I shouldn't share, like, my most precious things because y'all wrote somebody kids. Right. Yeah. Yeah. But remember I said this on the 520 universe episode, once I seen how they was coming for you and, you know, bringing, bringing, I was about to say his name, but bringing your son into shit. And I told you, I went on my page and I archived some of my reals and my posts. It makes so much sense.
Starting point is 00:51:26 Because first of all, let me just say this too. All of us on this couch, 90% plus of our followers, our following is men. So it's just like if you think, and I'm a conspiracy theory. So it's just like if you think that I'm about to sit here and parade my kids around to, not to say the majority of the people that's following me or anything like that, but just period for that 1%.01% of weirdos creeps, fucking, I ain't even going to say to but I'm just saying I'm not doing that. Also, I just feel like,
Starting point is 00:51:58 first day of school is kind of like when all y'all be posting your motherfucking plane oh, thanksgiving. I don't want to see that shit. True. I'm not even trying to be funny. Like, I don't want to see it. I don't care.
Starting point is 00:52:08 I don't want to see y'all-a-mama's on Mother's Day. That too. Like, nothing all that. That's the main one. Like, I don't. And I will say Instagram isn't as bad. I recently made a Facebook. And I got on Facebook around
Starting point is 00:52:23 like a few, like last week. week and obviously back to school just passed and I was just like, oh my gosh all these fucking kids and backpacks and school supplies like I don't want to see this shit. Who cares? I mean and it's like getting how you live but speaking of Facebook like
Starting point is 00:52:38 somebody posted on Facebook everybody posting their kids why are y'all kids dusty like bitch excuse you and you open yourself up to stuff like that which who cares but like it's really fuck you but it's like to the people to the people who post shit
Starting point is 00:52:54 like that or talk like that about some kids like or just making a status to get some a hos and some likes bitch you're lame yeah they're lame we've been potting for a long time before we get out of here trop you had some videos or anything that you wanted to share with us oh yeah i sent them to derrick which one you want to start with let's do the um the second one i sent you first carlinda chrissehills won her uh fight last night the woke ain't the She calls her stuff the walk. They keep talking about she fighting bums, but it's just like that's what's in her weight. Nobody's fucking with her.
Starting point is 00:53:30 Exactly. Nobody's fucking with Corrie. Show me my opponent. I love Clarissa. She was like, yeah. Absolutely loves her. They know it's 520 somewhere. I just hate how they disrespect her, bro.
Starting point is 00:53:43 She's a champ. Y'all better put some respect on her name. Oh, here we go. Here go, Chrison. Because Taseki lost to Big Lex. Like, that is really boxing. They're still in got a tooth. Look at the punch.
Starting point is 00:54:05 This is totally what she's crazy. It's so theatrical, y'all. But no, that's for real. She's crazy. Bro, if my sister up there getting, what. Oh, it's her sister?
Starting point is 00:54:16 Maybe your sister, but not her sister. When I say she's like... That's still her sister. I'm saying, though, but she did the worst. She did way worse to her own sister than Lex beating her ass. So how you gonna act? like girl cut it i don't know i don't know i'm sorry
Starting point is 00:54:33 everything she does to me is just like so it just be throwing me the fuck off you're valid for what you're saying but what i'm saying that shit right there it gives to me performative because you shit on your sister in the worst way you did some shit that really should have stayed in house and you let the whole world you really like crucified your sister publicly but you so bent out of shape
Starting point is 00:54:58 because she lost a physical fight I'm not that boxing match To the baddies world I'm not that savvy I'm not Kiki's definitely tapped in with
Starting point is 00:55:07 Zeus and the baddies So yeah I don't know what she did I heard about that I heard about Yeah But shout out to Zeus
Starting point is 00:55:13 Cause Hey They are popping They are popping They're Yeah I feel Zeus is definitely popping
Starting point is 00:55:20 It By my sister By my sister By I'm So that's not Her real sister That was She was her real sister
Starting point is 00:55:27 So she was Pist because Her real sister She was pissed because her real sister got beat up. Yes. Valid. Why wasn't she at the fight?
Starting point is 00:55:31 She on house arrest or something? Okay. Girl, exactly. Maybe Kiki knows. Exactly. You see what I'm saying now. But, okay, if your sister got beat up, do you feel like you need that with a girl that beat her up?
Starting point is 00:55:42 Y'all want to know a funny childhood story? Yes. I was little, though. My sister older than me. We went, we walked to the grocery store behind her house. What, something transpired? This girl slapped my sister. Me and my sister both went home crying.
Starting point is 00:55:56 My daddy like, and what you do? I see. she was going to slap me too why you're only going to get slapped my sister is definitely probably about 38 so I'm a lot younger than her I'm a little if she slapped my big sister
Starting point is 00:56:11 what the fuck was my little ass supposed to I was going to get slapped across the room I just walked with her and cried with her what I'm supposed to do I'm here for support but no I'm not let shit slide now as this big adult or with my siblings my cousins my none of that but I do also I told you I have cousins that are crazy
Starting point is 00:56:28 My cousins don't care if you got weapons, you got a bottle, she gonna fight. Shoot, I'm not. I don't want my face busted open. I got to make it back home. My cousin don't care about her respect, baby. She's going to take it there. So I don't know. I'm going to look at it.
Starting point is 00:56:42 I gotta wait my options when it comes to the shit that she got going on because, listen, because she's crazy. Like, hold on. Would you ever get in that ring bar? Would I ever get in the ring? I tried to do bikini boxing one time. This girl kept fucking with me on the internet. I'm like, let's just do bikini boxing because I ain't go fight you in real life.
Starting point is 00:56:58 but let's do a bikini boxing. That would have been, oh, that would have been so cute. We would have looked like Orlando Brown and fucking Ray Jay. And I would have been Ray J. Let's go. Let me see that. Let me see that, Derek. Shout out to Zeus.
Starting point is 00:57:12 This shit is together. Y'all, look at this move. Look at Jeff Cousin. Fight back. Look at this. Wait, I know. You can't do it. It's so illegal.
Starting point is 00:57:22 It is. What are they doing? Because what are we really doing? Like, look, no, look at Orlando. They're like this. Ah! Shut. But you're going to be going like this.
Starting point is 00:57:50 But you know, I'm boxing now? Like, that takes a lot. Haring. That takes a lot. I used to box as kids. I did kick boxing too. Yeah. So we did boxing.
Starting point is 00:57:59 That shit. So that's how y'all became some headbusses. Hiring. Or they were just like y'all. I'm tired. I mean, we just grew up. When you grow up, like, with a rival into the world, and then you got more and more after you
Starting point is 00:58:13 it's just like. That's my headbuster cousin. We're talking about you on the podcast. Don't beat me up. I'm on more a bye. She's got to go, y'all. I love y'all. You don't know baby D.
Starting point is 00:58:22 You don't know big Ashley like I know Ashley. That's what Mama I was talking about. All free goes. I know. I see y'all on Insta. I'm like all Barbie and started to see. Like I said, my cousin and her mama
Starting point is 00:58:34 they fight a man or bear. They don't care. I don't know that. That's some good cousins to have. That's the time you need I. Don't play with me. Because I'm calling Ashley. Don't even worry about it.
Starting point is 00:58:44 Just wait right here. She's coming. Don't touch me to your gear. Not just like. But, yeah. But that, I don't know. But shout out to Zeus. I want to work with some Zeus.
Starting point is 00:58:55 I want some baddies girls to come onto the show. Nobody got knocked out. Nobody went to sleep. No. Okay. I did want to ask y'all, though. What should call it? Clarissa, the lady, she falls.
Starting point is 00:59:09 She dropped her. They threw the tail in. They threw the whole linen closet on that my fucking ring. Teresa, that's a bad manma-jamma, baby. But her Remy be going neck-knit. Y'all think Remy fucking with Clarissa? No. Not like that.
Starting point is 00:59:24 Yeah. Girl. Street fighting ain't got nothing to do with, like, some real life training like Clarissa got. Yeah. Yeah. No. That's why Tisiqi got washed.
Starting point is 00:59:35 She didn't, she just approached it like a regular fight. Like, this ain't that. I think that if you watch baddies, then you knew that Taseki was not going to win. Who did she fight again? Big legs. But big legs used to be a collegiate athlete. Like she hooped in college or whatever. But it ain't even to me.
Starting point is 00:59:53 I feel like Tisiki was already at a disadvantage because her reach. She's taller in her reach. Like her arms are really long. Like Taseki has to try so much harder to even pinch touch her. You know, so it's just like, I mean, I feel like in the real. world they wouldn't even be opponents. Am I tripping? Yeah, but she really should have just got that on the show. Oh, Susiki really looked like for sure. I think that she was, I think that she didn't want to do that and she probably felt, well, they said that she got pressured and pressure and pressure and basically
Starting point is 01:00:25 she didn't want to even do this. But I'm sure that check was cool. But yeah, I don't think that she wanted to go at her for real. She felt like this was a safer slash more lucrative, like, way of doing that. But if I would have a check, I would have finished from the beginning. I would have dancing around the ring. No, for real. You get knocked down for a check? Not that is crazy, but yeah, dodging and doing it. And she was like, she was knocking her and shit.
Starting point is 01:00:49 I mean. I would have been twirping and running around the ring. Hey, Lori. La La La La La La La La La La. What's that? What's that? I'm going to do. What are you going to do?
Starting point is 01:00:59 Stop. I let my ass. No, but that's what she was doing, though. Oh, my gosh. That is so. But that's right. Catch me if you can. All on the ropes.
Starting point is 01:01:14 They're going to be like, all right now. Tap the gloves. I would have been dancing from there. All right. Y'all got anything else you want to talk about before I get my ass beat by my cousin? Man. You had anything, Kiki? I do not.
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