Club Shay Shay - All-Star Weekend, Valentine's Day debrief, and their trip to Africa | Humble Baddies

Episode Date: February 20, 2025

The Humble Baddies are back to debrief Valentine's Day plans, All-Star Weekend, and their trip to Africa. The Humble Baddies play Relle's Red Flags. Later Sharelle, Ashley, and Alexis give the advice you need in a Humble Baddies Mail Takeover!02:25 - Humble Baddies debrief their Valentine’s Day10:14 - All-Star weekend was booked and busy for Ashley14:00 - Humble Baddies talk LiAngelo Ball and Miss Nikki Baby drama20:43 - Sharelle and Ashley are headed to Africa, and Ashley wants to play matchmaker35:42 - Relle’s Red Flags42:06 - It’s the Humble Baddies Mail takeover!(Timestamps may vary based on advertisements.) #ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I'm a little nosy, a little curious. I really want to know what did Sherelle do for Valentine's Day? I got what you need. Baby, won't you keep me company? Give me something to do when I get lonely. I got something for you when we get home. If you let me put it down, when I hit the town. Hey. Hey. Hey. I swear I want to. I like that song.

OK, guys. Welcome back to the Humble Baddies podcast. I am Ashley Nicole. I'm Alexis Walsh-Stoudemeier. And I am Sherelle Rosado. And we are the Humble Baddies. What's up y'all? We're back after Valentine's Day and I'm a little nosy, a little curious. I really want to know what did Sherelle do for Valentine's Day? See, I thought it was going to

be a little spicy, but it wasn't. I actually, it was a good thing. I spent Valentine's Day with Serenity. Aw, my little Serenity poo. Yeah, and spiced my little stinko poo. Okay, so that means Chad didn't do anything special. He didn't send you no gifts. He didn't send you no flowers. I don't like flowers, but no.

We are, we're, we co-hair. We're not together, so. Okay. I mean, I guess that's cute. I'm single. I had to book my, I had to buy my own gift and. It's okay to do your lip day. I booked me a spa day the next day after.

That's healthy. I like that. Yeah. And the massage was amazing. I think it's best that y'all keep it, you know, very separate. Yeah, like, you know, I feel like when you start confusing lines and blurring lines, it can get a little tricky anyway. So I respect that. I think it's cute though that you spend time with your baby girl too, because we we are very active. We're very busy and to have to share a little love day and give a little love to her.

It makes us feel good as parents, you know, and really just the fact that you can really pour into yourself too, even the next day because share a little love day and give a little love to her. It makes us feel good as parents, and really just the fact that you can really pour into yourself too, even the next day, because we can get caught up on one day of love. Valentine's Day, you walk into Walgreens, CVS, it's like screaming hearts and red everywhere, and then you can feel some kind of way.

It makes you feel like you need it. And I feel like it's great when you're able to like spend time with people you love or you love yourself. It felt so good because I ordered, I knew I wanted to put something for Serenity, for Valentine's, I ordered her three American girl dolls. And they so cute, now she have like seven of them. I thought they was Kenya dolls.

No, Kenya dolls were, that's what I had. That's from back in the day. They don't have Kenya dolls no more? No, they don't have them anymore. That's what I had. Okay. But now they have the American Girl dolls. Y'all know I don't know nothing, I got boys. I know.

I don't know nothing about those dolls. But see, this is what I'm hoping that Serenity, keep them up, because you know, with the American Girl dolls, you can send them off if they, like, if the hair mess up, the leg break off, or anything. They fix it for you. You send it off, and they'll bring it back in

like a hospital gown. You know you need to take Serenity and whichever American dolls. You have to go to New York, you have to go to Chicago. Yeah, you can make one look like her. They go to the salon, you eat with them at the cafe. That is so cute. You can dress a lot.

I'm so glad I got boys, cause I am not interested. Mine have retired from that. And they used to be everywhere around the house. So, enjoy. I know, because my Ariana, she went through the stage of the American Girl Doll. You're doing it all over again. I was made to be a boy mom.

But anyways, Lex, what you do for Valentine's Day? The people want to know. The people want to know. The people don't want to know. They do people wanna know. The people don't wanna know. They do wanna know. They don't wanna know. We know Zee. What was Lex doing?

Who was your Valentine's, Lex? Sexy Lex. Well, I went to go see a friend. It was very much, just a very much. So you went to go see, like, this was a trip. You flew? Yeah, I flew. You got flewed out?

I flew. You got flewed. I flew. You got flew out. The high mouse. It was just great to have some good times with a good friend. Did you bring out the pop rocks? Right. No pop rocks.

Because it wasn't just the 14. We wanted to state that it was just basically. Yeah, we're just hanging out. It was just a weekend away. What y'all was doing on that weekend away? Oh, we were relaxing and. Sexing. Did you have your own room?

I did. I had my own space, which is awesome to have. I would say that if you're gonna go away ladies and gents, make sure the lady is comfortable, has her space for those times away. How many days were y'all gone? I need the details. I just got back yesterday.

That's why you're looking at things over there. This is glowing. It was Presidents Day, guys. So my children were no school, and Friday was Valentine's. You glowing too late. Thank you. You know, they say that anyway. I'm going to try to get more details offline.

Yeah. I feel like there's more to this story. But it was good to be off-grid. We were in the mountains away and just very much just unplugging. There was no TV on the whole weekend. Y'all was plugging something else in. They always gotta take it. You see this?

They always gotta take it there. It was definitely. Well, at least somebody had some fun. I did, I had some fun. You see they got me in the hot seat over here. No, it was a great time. It's just really refreshing to know when people that you spend time with know what you need.

And, you know, it's been a lot going on with all of us a lot. We've been busy, we've been traveling, we've been active. And so the fact that my friend was like, you know what, pull up, like relax, don't do anything. It was beyond thoughtful and intentional and that's just all I needed. So period. Love that.

It was great. Sounds good. Well, what you do Ash? So what you do, Ash? Well, I have been booked and busy. Period. Had to catch a flight early in the morning to San Francisco. I was there with AT&T at All-Star weekend. Getting the coins.

Getting them coins booked. And this actually was a very special booking to me because I was there with AT&T, but they were there for the HBCU Classic. And so every year now, this is the fourth year that they've had this, they bring out two HBCU schools and they have a basketball game. And they also, they have this scholarship program where they pick three students and it's basically like they helping them, you know, get their career started and everything.

So shout out to AT&T. I mean, Tuskegee University was in the house. It felt like I was in Tuskegee, Alabama. They had the house rocking. Like I had so much fun. It didn't feel like working at all. I was like, okay. I had a blast.

I got to interview a lot of alumni. I got to interview the president of Tuskegee University. And I was like, okay. I had a blast. I got to interview a lot of alumni. I got to interview the president of Tuskegee University. And I was so nervous. But you did it. But I did it. Congratulations. So it was a great weekend. You had your dad and your best friend.

Yeah, my dad actually met me out there and my best friend came to help me out. So we had a ball. We really did. It was a good, you know, weekend away. You know, if I have to be away from my family, I always want to make sure that it's worth it. You know, that's right. It has to be absolutely worth it. So what did you feel playing something before?

I know you had playing something before. I think the story. So he had to take me out on National Sidekick Day. Not National. Which day is that? That's February 13th. The day before. I thought it was National Side Chick is after. It's the day after? Yeah, the side chick don't come before the main. Well, whatever, bitch.

It wasn't on the day. It was pre. We married and you already got this, and I got to work. Exactly. I got to work. Your auntie ego came out. She did. She was outside.

We had a good time. Does she have a name? No, I don't have a name. I've got to think of a good name. Because I have a name? No, I don't have a name. I've got to think of a good name. Because I feel like she changes up, too. It just depends on the night. It could be Amber. No, it's always like a super black name.

Like, yeah, Bonquisha, Shakita. I cannot. You know, like something like that. Anyway, but we went out to dinner to one of these restaurants that I've been dying to go to and I keep trying to get a reservation. I could never get one, but Phil got one. Of course he did. He's a foodie.

Yeah, he is. Yeah. That part. He's going to make sure we eat. He's going to make sure we eat. So we had a good time. We just went to dinner, we hung out and then I, you know, I took care of him before I left. As you should. Yeah. It's part of the loop queue.

Absolutely. So it was a good, it was a good Valentine's Day weekend. Flash President's Day weekend. I feel like All-Star was like pretty dope. Like it was just the All-Star. They have like, what is it? The celebrity game. Then they had the HBCU game. Yes, the shooting stars where they do the slam dunk contest. Saturday and Sunday.

They brought all the basketball stars out. Girl, I'm retired from All-Star weekend. It used to always coincide with Valentine's Day. So the guys were always working. They would always have to be on. And it was a lot. Like, yeah, it was fun. You get to see everybody you haven't seen in a while, like all the different ladies and the families come out and support the celebrities, the stars.

It's a good time. I know they changed up the dynamics of it was like a different type of game. It was different. It was different. Like they had different like celebrities were the coaches and they were like different teams. I kept seeing Kevin Hart coming in and out. That was funny. When they had to take the pictures with Kevin Hart, the WBA players, they had to kneel down. Goodness, just all of that. That was funny. Yeah, yeah. It's just, I think it's a good break. I feel like like long, long time ago, they would, it would, you get chosen to do All-Star,

and then you would literally leave a game, go fly, land in that city, and then that next morning you're on it. Whereas now they've extended it to where everyone has a break. So even if you got chosen and you're the star of the team or whatever the case may be and got voted in, now you have some rest. So is this like the equivalent of like the Pro Bowl or no?

Yes and no. Pro Bowl is at the end of the season for football, whereas All-Star is right in the middle. So you just had trade deadlines and- But I mean, is it like- It's right in the middle, like a good break. I know the timing is different, but is it like, cause you know, Pro Bowl is like for the best players.

Is that the same for All-Star? 100%, you get voted in. And I think I was looking at something where Yannis was saying that they want, they, you know, they want to keep the fans involved. And they were thinking of doing USA versus the world, because it's a lot of international players. And, you know, we got excited during the Olympics of seeing these NBA players play for their prospective countries.

I think it could be pretty cool, just to kind of keep that momentum going in a competitive nature. Well, I'm not gonna lie, the HBCU game was- Was turned. Was turned. I love that though. I feel like it was a little more turned

I'm glad they do that. than the actual All-Star game. Really? I'm saying, cause you know that school pride is deep. And when you get in company of like other alumni and stuff, it just brings you back to college. I think that's dope. It was really.

I have a little HBCU like envy. I'm not going to lie. Girl, come to Homecoming with me next year. Or this year. I'm coming. It's coming out this year, right? Our Homecoming is lit every year. It's lit.

I need to take a trip. I'm sure they want to see the Humblebatties too. Like, anyway. The Humblebatties gonna show up and they'll show up for us too. We need to go to that homecoming. We can do a mentorship program. So I've mentored too. So while I was there, I got the opportunity to mentor some HBCU students.

Yeah, so we had a whole little panel. It was really, really nice. So we can definitely do like a humble baddies mentorship. We can do a whole, we can set it up and do a live show too. We can do all of that. Y'all let us know. Ideas, look at us just flowing right now.

Yes, that makes sense. I would love to bring y'all to Tuskegee and mentor the kids. A lot of women look up to us. So I feel like they would really get something out of it. Beautiful. Well, y'all let us know where y'all want to see us, okay? Because we coming.

Speaking of All-Star, everyone was talking about, what's his name, one of the Ball Brothers? Oh, yes, Lee Angelo. Lee Angelo Ball Brothers. Okay, now the song is fire. We can't take that away from him. I agree 100%. Okay, but he's in the blogs for leaving Miss Nikki Baby fine ass.

Like. Yeah, I didn't like that because I like Miss Nikki Baby. I feel like, you know, she, she settled down. She started having kids and it was just a beautiful family. Even his dad was giving her props like I really like her because she know she has her own money she has she brings something to the table like his own father was giving her props so to see like maybe a month later that he basically left her for another woman allegedly I think she just had right after she had her second baby that's not cool that. That's not cool. The timing is definitely odd.

We can say that. It's like, okay, if things, if you're not happy, that's why I feel like communication. I don't publicly embarrass me on the internet. And then like, okay, this woman is posting stuff. And then after everything is out, you post them pictures with the new chick. And also you have to remember that this is the mother of your child. She's going through postpartum. Children.

Yeah. You know what I mean? Yeah, children. It's children, exactly. So it's just like, whatever y'all have going on, I feel like you're adding fuel to the fire by taking it to social media, by being extra. That's one thing. You know what I mean?

Leave us out there. I don't think men know what women deal with, like understand how postpartum is, like how bad it can affect us. They don't understand that. And for him to stoop that low to even go to the internet to entertain that shit, I didn't like that. Yeah. Yeah.

You know, it's horrible timing. We obviously don't know what's going on in their households, you know, but to include us in the group chat and to bring everyone involved with it, I think it's really petty because we are forgetting the children in a way. Your kids, those are his kids.

And then how do you move on that fast? I mean, I just, it's just so unnatural. I mean, true, but I mean- It's not about we don't know what's going on. The fact is, at the end of the day That was they have children involved to stoop that low to go on social media and entertain it. It's very Going on like you don't stoop that low as a man I agree, but I think also the other lady involved I would would never, like if I was in her shoes,

I don't think I could be interested in a man who just had two children. Like you have a newborn baby, you know what I mean? I agree with you. I feel like as a woman, I would, you know, extend some grace, like even though y'all might not be together anymore, y'all are going through y'all issues,

I don't wanna be the reason or the issue or add confusion to whatever y'all have going on. Like I feel like as a woman you should give them the respect to try to figure things out, you know, but I don't want to be involved in your figuring out your situation with your family and your kids, you know what I mean? Well, the old saying is you're going to lose them how you got them.. And that's what she said, I think. That's a little bit of a betweener. You know, so I'm a firm believer in karma. I'm a firm believer in, you know, what you put out in the universe.

And therefore, you know, you playing with fire. And that's coming from a woman who's been married, who's been divorced, who's been in blogs, who's been in people's group chats unbeknownst to her. So it's like, you know, I get it. You know, it's very, who's been in people's group chats unbeknownst to her. So it's like, you know, I get it. You know, it's very, it's embarrassing. It's lonely.

It's sad. It's, you know, I look out for our women who are in these positions, especially when you're put out there in the public realm. But like, you have to be careful. I couldn't be with a man who does that. Even me dating. Even me dating right now. That's not attractive to me.

Like, you have your- If a man is not involved with his children, I don't care if a man who does that. Even me dating right now. That's not attractive to me. If a man is not involved with his children, I don't care if you have children or not. I mean, I come with the whole tribe. If I see how you moving funny with not just how you moving with the children, but how you moving with the lady that's holding down your children, your blood, it turns me off.

So that's where I'm at. But I mean, I feel like that shows what kind of woman he's with though. Like it's only a certain type of woman that will be okay with that. It's a temporary fix. And I'm sure if we do some, a little research, it's just, it's very much giving an MO, very much like this is what you do.

So. Well, Miss Nikki baby, we hope that you keeping your head up. You know, you got to stay strong for we hope that you keeping your head up. You know, you got to stay strong for them babies. You know, we have relationships are hard. So, girl, I'm about to, I need some more of them clothes because Miss Nikki had them clothes. She did.

She had the clothes. I ordered a few little birthday outfits. Girl, get back, stay on your ground. I ain't gonna say get back, stay on your ground. Yeah, yeah. You got this. You amazing mother, amazing woman. And you can move on.

And people come and go, okay? And let them go. Y'all be together forever just because y'all have the children, but other than that, let them go, you don't want that. All right guys, so All Star was amazing. We've been doing so much traveling and we're not finished yet. This weekend we are headed to Lagos.

I'm really excited. This is my first time going to Africa. I'm going to the motherland. This is your first time going to Africa. Yes, it's my first time going to Africa. Congratulations. Yes, girl. I'm so excited.

Like y'all know, I'm going to the motherland. I'm going to the motherland. I'm going to the motherland. I'm going to the motherland. I'm going to the motherland. I'm going to the motherland. I time going to Africa. Congratulations. Yes, girl. I am so excited. Like y'all know, I've been talking about how most of my following is from Africa. Yes. I don't know what y'all be saying in the comments.

Y'all be speaking in French or some other languages. I don't know what y'all be saying. We have a lot of African. It's a lot of African followers. And I love y'all. I appreciate y'all. And I to Africa. I appreciate y'all. And I'm coming to see y'all finally. Yes, shout out to Africa.

We're gonna turn up, we're gonna have fun. We're gonna ball out. We're gonna dance. Y'all gotta come out to the clubs. Me and Sherelle are gonna be hosting a few night clubs out there. We're gonna post it on our pages so y'all can come and find us and come say hello,

come hang out, come have a drink. Okay, I can't wait. Yes. Oh, I can't wait either. I might. That's gonna be nice. You might what? Find your man, other? No, no, no, no.

You gonna get your African friend? There's a lot of energy going on after your African friend. No, I was gonna say I might learn how to dance. Okay, they do have some vibes. I need you to find an African friend. Great music, we love the Afro beats. I do hear the fellas out there. Yeah, y see me. They don't wine and dine. They

love the wine and dine. I heard that the African princes out there be dropping bands. Y'all see me pull up in a Rolls Royce. Mind your business. No, just come pick me up. Come pick me up. All right. Don't leave me out. All right. I'm joking. I'm joking. I love that. I don't know. You gotta be careful because I heard they, I'm joking. I love that for y'all. Anyways, but I don't know you gotta be careful cause I heard they be having like five wives and stuff. You okay with that?

I'm not getting married. Wait, you mean now or ever? Okay, but if you find an African prince, he's gonna wanna make you his wife. You would say no. No, yes, I would say no. And he's promising you the world and love and happiness.

You would say no. You can't promise me happiness with five wives. Okay, so you're saying you don't believe in, what is it, poly? Is it polygamy? That's not considered poly. That's different. It's not polygamy? Well, there is different because they feel like if they can take care of, if they can

take care of a woman and the household, and if you can afford it, then you can just have it. It's just very much. Polygamy, right? No, polygamy is when they all date. I don't know the correct term. Everybody can date. Oh, okay, well whatever they call it.

You saying you not okay with. Oh no. Okay. Polyamorous. Polyamorous, really, no, I'm not okay with polyamorous. You like monogamy. I love monogamy. What about you?

You would go down there and get you an African print? Absolutely not. I am not shareable. Me either. Well, if me and Phil don't work out. Just not. I don't like dating and being. Take that damn hat off.

I'm not, I'm not, I'm not. I'm not Tuesday and Friday. Okay. No, I'm not Tuesday and Friday. Okay. No, I'm not Tuesday only. I don't need to see him every day. I'm fine with that. Give me a good Tuesday, Thursday situation. You know what I'm saying?

I might be okay with that. I have been approached to be in a polyamorous situation. When? I have a friend of mine. Was he an African prince? No, he wasn't. to be in a polyamorous situation. I have a friend of mine. Was he your African friend? No, he wasn't. That's the only kind we want though. I don't understand. We don't want the other kind.

He has the other kind. He wants to be in that relationship. He does. Oh. Okay. He does, but. So why you saying no? You wasn't even gonna go try it out?

I've got that life. I like my pH balance the way it needs to be. Period. Okay. I'm just saying. It's just not for me. It's just not for me. I feel like I'm more than enough woman and I don't like to share. I don't like to watch. I don't want to be a part of that. I think it's a lot of extraness going on and really ego. I never seen, I don't even know how it works a polyamorous. It's about communication

like that's what was told to me like you have the two main like you know the two main two that are like okay this is what I feel and say maybe the lady was like you know what I kind of go both ways I like ladies or I like a guy but I'm going to tell you everything that I do with the main partner meaning like okay if I have a lady friend, a girlfriend or whatever, we're hanging out. Well, if I say, hey, we're going away for the week or whatever, it's very much understood. It's all about communication.

So it's almost to me, it's like an open relationship. Like, you know how most of us, most of us- What they said I had, me and Chad and I had. Yeah. But open, so it's open but open dialogue. I feel like the main two are the main ones that are like saying what they wanna do,

what they don't wanna do. But even like the guy, for example, he's attracted to me and was very much like, she's cool with that. If I'm like, yo, Lex, let's dip, you know, for whatever. I'm too territorial. I can't share a man. I can't, like, if I can't have-

I think a lot of women are open to it now. And I think they are because, well, I don't know why they are, but I will say, I just saw a show, Harlem, the new season of Harlem. It's good. Okay, so you know the character. It's like six episodes.

The character's, what's his name? Sophie, no, Kofi. Kofi. Cerebo. He's fine as hell. He and I slow chocolate. He'll be fine. That's him right there.

But his character on the show is ethically non-monogamous. Like that's the term that they call it. But in real life, I guess he is too. He says that he's ethically non-monogamous, like that's the term that they call it. But in real life, I guess he is too. He says that he's ethically non-monogamous in real life. So. So he don't have serious relationships. I think he has had serious relationships in the past, but he's saying it becomes really redundant,

very much traditional, very much like matter of fact, this is the schedule. He says it's restrictive. It's restrictive. But see, I respect people who can keep it real. Yeah, communicate with me. Like a man or a woman that can keep it real. Hey, I cannot be monogamy. Because most of us are in poly relationships

and we don't know. And don't even know it. Okay. Don't even know it until you find out. Okay, so what he said is monogamy is restricting role playing and performative. And everybody else said it's always the fine ones. That one is the standard.

But he's just being honest. He can't commit to one woman. And I feel like women, people respect you more when you keep it real than trying to play this role, like, oh, I can be faithful or I can be with you. And you really can't. So I think just say- So then just say-

So then just say you don't wanna be committed. I think he can be in a relationship. I think he can be with you and you really can't. So I think it's not really a commitment thing. I think he can be committed. I think he can be committed. I think that's the thing. That's the difference. He can be committed. I just think he feels like he can be in love with more than one person at the same time. But you can control the emotion.

You can control because you're communicating what you feel. And I mean- But if you're committed to one person and you're committed, you're not in love with multiple people because you're not giving yourself. But if you're saying you're not given an opportunity to love. He was saying that he was explaining to his love interest on the show that each person plays a different role in his life. Like some like one of the women was able to be more available

because she didn't have a lot of commitment. She didn't have any, like a job or career. Yeah. Whereas the other lady, she had a career, she had things going on. So she served a different purpose. More than most. And so I guess, you know, he feels like he can separate it

because they're all serving different purposes in his life. Well, to each his own. Yeah, well, I feel like the more women are like, I feel like, except this type of stuff, the more it's gonna come about. But men can't accept it when a woman does it. They can't.

I agree with that. They wanna lay all these rules out, but when a woman is like, okay, you do this for me, I want a man to do this for me. I want a man to sexually satisfy me, because you can't, but you financially satisfy me, I want a man to sexually satisfy me. So would y'all try it, just to try it?

Y'all wouldn't try to be in this type of situation? No, no. Because I mean, if you're dating multiple people. Technically you're dating others. You can date, but you don't have to have sex with everyone. And you can date and really not say you're in a relationship either. You could be dating somebody.

It's okay to date. That means we're not together. We're not all the way locked in. I'm just trying to get one of y'all to try it, so we can see. I'm not trying that. Why are you trying to get one of us to try it? It's not us. It might be some of way locked in. I'm just trying to get one of y'all to try it so we can see. I'm not trying that. Why are you trying to get one of us to try it? It might be some of our other friends.

I can't try shit. I was asked and I declined. Y'all try it out and let me know. No, I'm not. When we go to Legos, I'm finding you an African prince. Ashley! This is a goal of mine. Not a goal of mine.

I'm finding her an African prince. Okay, we finna go to Africa at least once a month, okay? Oh, once a month. Yeah, I think once a month is good. I'll get in on the next trip, I'll get in on the next one. Yeah. You're supposed to be on this one. I'll find you one next time. You know, it's my birthday's coming up.

I know. All I need. Lex ditched us because she has other plans. Just pay me in Chanel and Birkin bags, okay? Ooh, period. I got you, bro. Thank you. I got you. I got you. As you know, I'm the matchmaker. What's her name? You are.

You're really good at that. Yeah. Listen, Chloe's out there. Chloe. Oh, yeah. With Burn a Boy. Yeah, they are actually cute. They're super cute.

Yeah, it's great. We'll see how long that lasts. You don't think it's going to last long, Ashley? I think it's cute. I don't know. It's weird to me. Like, it's cute, but it's weird. Like, You don't think it's going to last long, Ashley? I think it's cute. I don't know. It's weird to me. Like, it's cute, but it's weird. Like, we don't need to know about it.

I feel like the fact that we are, like, watching it. It's weird. I don't know. We need to be seeing, like, all this stuff that we're seeing. Like, they just be chilling. But I don't know. It's a little weird for me. I'm not going to.

I think it's cute, but it's still a little strange. I think it's cute for now. Maybe because I see her as, like, a little girl still girl still yeah in my head. She's still like a little girl Yeah, and burn boys are man. Yeah Shirelle is available. No, I am not. Chloe and Bernard are in the room. She wants to see something.

She wants to see something. Why is Ashley speaking for me? She wants to see something. OK. I'm not trying to see nothing. Hilarious. Anyways, what do we have next? I'm trying to stay on Chloe.

Good stuff. Oh, yeah, we're not going to do anything. We're just, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, Chloe, yes, we're going live should we go love we should go live cuz that's the big That's that's a lot of money first of all. It's not I want I want to see the person's face When they get the money like I was very no How would they how do we gonna do so we'll tell everyone you gotta tell them they gotta go live and then we're gonna As you just person on the line. Oh, yeah Mm-hmm. Oh, that's good. That's a good one.

But it's been so many submissions, guys. Listen. We're like drowning in them right now. We're pulling the top ones and then we're gonna let someone invite all of them. We've been looking them up on the Better Business Bureau. Okay, we've been looking all up. And making sure you guys are subscribed.

You have to be subscribed to us. You have to be subscribed. And you can't be hating either talking about you and me and girl and all that Giving away money No, you know what I think it is I think people You just got to look at it like people only see what they see of course So if they really get to know like they really get to know us in real life like

I don't feed into it because you already know. I tell y'all all this all the time. You heard what Stoney said on the Carlos King show. She was like. Tell us what she said. She said. For those who don't know. When the cameras are not on, she's such a nice person.

She's so sweet. I was like, OK, Stoney. So like the cameras came on. Maybe this is a job. baby, this is a job. Exactly. This is a job. And Stoney be all in my DMs liking every single thing I post. I get hard eyes, the likes, I mean, on every single post.

So, I mean, can't be that mean, but... Stoney know what I mean. Stoney rap with us in real life. She knows what time it is. I just hit her up to buy one of her Pussy Paw Patrol T-shirts. The PPPs. The PPPs. I'm going to get one. We got to bring Stoney on the podcast.

I've been trying to. Y'all saw her after the come on the podcast. She said, she said I have to talk to her people. Shut up. She did. She said I need to contact Renee if I want to get her on the podcast. If I want to get her on Humble Baddies. Renee, would you mind? Could you check Stoney's schedule and see if we could have Stoney grace our stage here

at Humble Baddies, please? Can we get on? Can Stoney pencil us in, please? You got to go through my assistant to the assistant and the assistant have an assistant. This is crazy, honey. They showing out. It never a dumb moment. World tours up in here.

Yeah. OK. I can sit back and listen and don't judge. Well, as long as y'all watch the show and talk about it, it's all good. You know, everyone make sure you support us. At the end of the day, it's all love. Like I said before, like, yeah, we have our differences, you know. But who doesn't?

Yeah, who doesn't? We didn't know each other coming in. There were things said, and we talked about it as women. Of course, everything wasn't captured on camera, but at the end of the day, we still support each other. We all do. That's right. Absolutely.

I think, you know, it's TV, y'all. Don't forget, it's freaking TV. And I'm gonna add to that. I'm, you know, it's TV, y'all. Don't forget it's freaking TV. And I'm going to add to that. I'm going to add to that. We're a part of a small circle of the sorority of women who've made it on to a big stage and a big platform. So regardless of what our indifferences are, we're all blessed that we were actually chosen to be a part of this movement. And here we are. And don't nobody want to watch somebody being filmed that's boring. Of course you're going that we were actually chosen to be a part of this movement and here we are.

And don't nobody wanna watch somebody being filmed that's boring. Of course you're gonna have to amp it up a little bit. Everyone's talking about it. Y'all keep talking about it. Y'all still in your feelings. Mean Girls, Mean Girls, Mean Girls. Y'all too, they really, really not. Yeah, we definitely gotta pick the Mean Girls for Halloween.

Oh yes. For sure. We gotta pick that up. We gotta throw a yes. For sure. We gotta pick that. We gotta throw a whole Mean Girl party. What's her name? Regina George? Oh, I need to dress like that. Regina George.

It's going down, yeah. She was the Mean Girl. Mean Girls. Oh, from the play in the movie. Yeah. All right. I can't wait. I love it.

All right y'all, guess what time it is. What time is it? What time is it? What time is it? Real red flags. All right, you need to get some green flags in your life, but come on with the red flags. I need to get the green flag.

Yeah, come on with the red flags. Well, we're going to determine if it's a red flag, a green flag, or a haul ass. I like hauling ass a lot. Yeah, that's what I was going to say. I prefer to haul ass. I just like haul ass. lot. Yeah, that's true. I prefer to haul ass. I just like haul ass. Yeah. I don't got time for it yet.

Get on out of here. OK. Your partner refuses to post you on social media, but is always liking and commenting on thirst traps. Red flag or green flag? Red flag. Yeah. For sure.

It's definitely a red flag, for sure. It's definitely a red flag, because why are you so thirsty to let them know that you like them? Because I know you're a man and I know you like what you see, but they don't need to know that you like it. Like, what are you doing?

You just want attention. So they can be like, oh girl, yo, my man all up in my car. Exactly, I can't stand that. And munition, I feel like also, even my babies in their teens are telling me what that like means. That like is that extra like nudge, like what's up?

You know what I mean? Attention, especially if they like more than a couple. Yeah, you can't be liking no other female's picture. Your significant other still pays their ex's phone bill because they just want to help them out. The coins, we fighting. You can see our coins, our money on somebody else. Oh, those are fighting words.

I'm fighting. I'm hollering ass, but I'm knocking his ass out first. Okay. You got to think about that one. Only because if it's the ex, I'm thinking of if you don't know the arrangements before You know what he feels like he was gonna help out with or told them but the phone no the phone You know that's a lot. It's a certain amount of money that goes towards. Okay, I get a phone bill

I mean it could be just because they want a family plan. I don't know. I mean I paid my phone bill Cut that ain't no family no more Cut the bitch off. I'm calling Verizon immediately. You better go sit on that Obama plan. What's the Obama phone? They still got the Obama phone? You better go get you a metro or a cricket. I thought they had the Obama healthcare. I don't know. They had phones too. You better go get you a burner phone from the gas station. She said by minutes. By minutes. you had to start in about a minute.

No bummer phone. Your friend borrows money from you, but when you ask for it back, they get defensive or make excuses. I'm not hauling ass. Cause you gotta get the money back. Yeah, I need my coins back. Get your coins back and just don't loan anymore.

I'm going over to her house and I'm getting something up out of there for collateral. Yeah. That's the thing. I hate to ask for money. If you borrow money from me, I hate to ask for it. I shouldn't have to ask for money back that you borrowed. I feel like if you're already gonna come up

to someone who can provide the coins to help you out, the least you can do is not only be early, but definitely be on time. Like, come on. We have to give our coins back to those who can distribute. Yep. Oh. You catch your friend flirting with your partner,

and when you call them out, they say, that's just how I joke. Mm-mm. I feel like- That's just how I joke. Period. I feel like there's just how I joke. I feel like there's always truth in a joke. There's always some kind of truth in a joke. So if you got the energy to put that out there and say it and think it's funny and get a

reaction out of it, then there's some truth to it. And that's not your friend flirting with somebody else's man. Why is she flirting with somebody else's? No it's never that serious it's actually way too many other ones out here by the way. Yeah gross. Your significant other gets super jealous if you even mention a co-worker of the opposite sex but swears they're just friendly with their own co-workers. Red flag or green flag? That's a red flag. These is all red flags.

You ain't got no green flags. You ain't got no yellow flags. That's a red flag. Because I'm hauling ass and red flagging all of these. Ain't no green flag. That's crazy. Yeah, no. No green flags.

That's toxic. I still got that in my head. The fans sent these. The fans sent these. Y'all ain't send no green flags? You know, there's a lot of toxic shit going on in the world these days. People act like they ain't got no home training.

People act like they ain't got no manners. Just like common decency. The bar is low. It's not common anymore. The bar is low. Well, that is it for Real Red Flags. Yes. We want some red flags. Yes. We want some green flags.

Y'all make sure y'all send in some green flags so we can talk about it. Yeah, we need some green flags because we need to teach people how to act. Absolutely. So what do you think of another segment, guys? We have humble bad email takeover. OK, I love a good takeover.

You know. Oh, that sounded a little takeover. You know? Ooh, that sounded a little sexual. So do y'all want me to read them and then y'all, we can have dialogue? What y'all thinking? Yes, yes, let's do it. Okay, okay.

Hey Humblebatties. Hey. I need your advice. I just found out my best friend's husband has been cheating on her with my coworker. Do I tell her or risk ruining our friendship or stay quiet and mind my business? Help. That's your best friend. You gotta tell her and run up on him. That shouldn't be the question. And the girl. And girl. Yes, this is a coworker. Why am I taking up for you and that's your man. Like you are my best friend. I'm gonna

let you know, sis, it ain't right. Yes. You have to say something. How could you not? How could you live with yourself? How could you keep something like that in? That would just having that on my chest would just eat me up. Yeah. And it's just an unstable work environment, to say the least.

Just not cool. It's a, that's a tough place to be in. It is, but. Sometimes you just gotta do what you gotta do. All right, we have another one. Hey, humble baddies. Hey. I've been casually dating this guy for a few months,

but I just found out he's also dating one of my close friends. Neither of them knows I know. Do I confront them or keep playing the game? So she's dating him. Which is a key word, by the way, dating. And he's also dating her close friend. And she's right in the middle of it,

knowing that each of them, she knows that they're dating each other, but they don't know that they are dating him. It sound like she came in after. This is too much. Yeah, I don't want nothing to do with that. This is a lot. I think dating is dating.

And you know, dating is dating, but when it comes to like my friends or any of that, I don't want nothing to do with that. Like I can't, I can't, I can't even entertain that shit. It just, it makes me feel uncomfortable. I can't do it. Cause you want the best for your friends. You want them to be happy. Especially if you know their dating history.

I feel like it has to be dialogue and communication. But what if you really like him? You just found out. What if someone is like, yo, I like, like one of the girlfriends is like, I like him. If it's a best friend, if it's a close friend, you're gonna know. Not necessarily because some people keep it secret, right? Not if it's your close friend, all my close friends, if they know every my best friend knows everything. So I'm not gonna hide who I'm dating from her. I agree with that. I feel like our friends know we're dating.

It says, OK, but what if it didn't say close friend? What if it was just like a girl, you know? Yeah. And that's different. Like, I think that's different. I don't talk to you every day. No strings attached. There's no emotional attachment. Totally different. OK.

Well, all right. That could be tough. That could be a tough one. It's different because it's like, I don't know you like that, but I see you, hey bye. And I just found out we're dating. Of course I'm going to say something to him. Like what, you know, cause I don't want no beef. I ain't trying to.

Of course. Like what y'all got going on? I'm going to clear it. You just want to know what's up. Yeah. Here we go. There's another one. Ladies, I need help. What you need help with girl?

My husband's female best friend calls him every day Even late at night. He says it's harmless, but I'm not buying it Am I being insecure or should I need some boundaries? boundaries What? Yeah, the boundary should have been in place before Yeah boundaries. What? Yeah. The boundary should have been in place before. Yeah. A long time ago. I agree with boundaries.

For sure. And you have to communicate with how you feel. But to me, if she feels okay with that kind of behavior, she ain't a good best friend. And it ain't right. She want what she has. At this point, I would have to, that friendship might have to be dedicated. Cause it's like, you should know. And we should know each other enough for you to know

that I wouldn't be okay with that. Yeah, yeah. You know, it's like a respect thing. Yeah, at this point I would be like, nah, she gotta go. Okay. Yeah. Ro, you agree? I agree.

Like it should have been, boundaries should have been set like as a, that's not just a girlfriend. That's her husband. Yeah. Like you have to respect, this is my husband. You can't call it anytime you want to. Boundaries have to be set early.

And I feel like it's also communication. If the boundaries ain't set, I'ma set them for you. Yeah, you have to. And he should tell her, bitch, don't be calling my phone. It's like, what the fuck? Yeah, this is late. This is not appropriate.

So if it get word to me, if I realize that she keep calling late at night, then it's beyond the issue. Now I got a problem with both of y'all. It is, it is. Cause you ain't check her. Correct. And she feel like it's okay.

So, uh uh. I'm very comfortable. It's all wrong in this place. What's up baddies? My boyfriend accidentally called me by his ex's name during sex. Uh-uh. He swears it was a slip-up, but now I'm spiraling.

Am I overacting or is this a red flag? Just call him by somebody else's name and see what he do. Oh! Just be like, oh, Derek! And then see. OK. See how that feels. Yeah, that's what I would do shit. I would feel some kind of way.

I would feel some kind of way. What you gonna do? You gonna break up with him? No, I could break up with him. So I would just give him back. Okay. It meant stroke. That's cool.

Or whoever, I would just call out some random ass. And now he gonna be in his head. You got me in my head now he's gonna be in your head too. We just gonna both be in our head overthinking this and it was his ex too. Oh, yeah. It's like a take the knife and twist it. Twist again. That's like I don't know how that's how would you would you but what would you leave him though, would you? You calling me your ex. Well, during sex too, by the way. I feel like if you ain't got leads,

then you just gotta get him back. The moment of intimacy, he slips up. Where's your mind? Because there's layers to this. Mess up his mind back. Dang. That's what he's thinking about though. I should go tick for tack.

Yeah, at this point. And I think, I'm thinking like, Sherelle, like, is that where your mind is? Is that what you're thinking? Is that who you're thinking about? Now you got my head fucked up, cause it's like, now I'ma think, now that's where it's like,

I wouldn't say insecurity, but it's like, damn, like, do you really like me? Am I just the get over? Cause you thinking of your ex while we fuck? No. Yeah. That's a lie. That's all right. Well, the Humblebatty Mail is up right now. Okay.

I feel real petty tonight. You do? Yeah, you do. You do. Coming off of Valentine's, coming off of a great weekend. She's just sitting like no time for none of this. Listen, the Humblebatty has came in hot, y'all. If y'all have any more Humblebatties mail.

We have more, we still have more. Oh, shit, it's a takeover. Yeah, it's a takeover. Okay. Look, so relax, okay? It's stressing me out over here. You got a couple more. Don't get stressed out.

Oh, what'd you say, a little warm? Don't get stressed out. It ain't warm, it's just like, ooh. This is what the people wanna know. They're asking us for their advice. So, I mean, this's just like, ooh. This is what the people wanna know. They're asking us for their advice. So, I mean, this is what happened, guys. They are subscribing, they are emailing us. And here we are.

And here we are. So, they wanna know. Y'all may or may not wanna take my advice. But there is someone who does, and then there's some that will just listen. Y'all give great advice. You have good advice. I'm a little young saying, no, I don't give great advice because I retaliate.

I want to be petty, petty boots. I'm like, can we just all get along? Can we all just get along? Can we figure this out? All right, ladies, we have we have a couple more. Hey, baddies. I just found out my girlfriend has a secret fiesta where she talks shit about our relationship. What?

Should I confront her or just ghost her and let her figure it out? Wait, like girlfriend, like boyfriend, girlfriend, or like girlfriend, like this my friend, and this my homegirl. Yeah, I found out my girlfriend has a secret fiesta. There are no ways, this is from a humble daddy, or zaddy. That's weird.

That's who sent this in. And she's asking. And she talks about it in a way, like she's trying to get advice, because I could see that. Like she doesn't want her business out. No, she's talking shit. Oh, she's talking shit?

It's a secret FANSTA account, so you took the time to add another layer of your Instagram already on social media. To talk shit about your own relationship? to talk shit about your own relationship. That's a little weird. Yeah, I think so. I think you should just haul ass. I think something is up with that.

Haul ass because why is she, first of all, why is she making a secret fence to talk shit about her own relationship? It's 100% shady to me. That's weird. Sheiesta to talk shit about her own relationship. It's 100% shady to me. That's weird. She wants to talk shit. I could see if she was trying to get like, I could see if she was trying to get like relationship advice.

Cause you know, you don't want to put your business out there. Maybe she needed help or had a question. You could just be like, hey guys, me and my boo, you know. It's talking shit though. Oh, she's talking shit. Yeah, you should holla. I'll laugh. And it's about their relationships

So obviously if he found it out about the Finsta and he found out that like it's very you know It's coinciding with their issues. That's a that's the issue. Yeah Yeah, that's you know, they're conflict weird y'all got fences. I do that. Yeah, what you see is what you get I'm gonna show me.'t got time for no offense. Yeah, exactly. Exactly. If you're consumed with that. You're going to hear what I got to say from my own page. Yeah. I ain't got time to make no fake page. I ain't got time to do any of that.

You're going to see me too. Y'all going to get it straight from Sherrera Rosado underscore. Period. Same here. Same here. Okay. Okay, we do have one more. Okay. This is the last one, okay?

Make it good. All right. Okay. So here's the tea. Oh, there's tea on this one more. Okay. This is the last one, okay? Make it good. All right. Okay, so here's the T. Oh, there's T on this one. All right. My friend is about to marry a guy who hooked up with me years ago. She has no idea. Ooh.

Should I tell her before the wedding or take the secret to the grave? Girl, take that shit to heaven or hell. Wherever you gonna end up. Really? Yes, you would tell her? Why? That's none of her business.

Why, for what? You mean, cause he hasn't said anything? Yeah, for what? Why does she need to know that information? I feel like it should have been disclosed earlier at the beginning of the relationship. Like, if you haven't, it's too deep in. They're about to get married.

If it wasn't disclosed in the relationship. Like if you haven't, it's too deep in, they're about to get married. If it wasn't disclosed in the beginning. Don't think nobody needs to know anything. Unless it's like my best, best friend. Okay. But there has been a lot of people who have dated. I'm trying to see, if she's going to the wedding, like if she's close enough to be at their wedding, then she should have told them previously.

She said my friend is about to marry. So she's seen the dynamic of the meeting. Yeah, she should have told. She said, my friend is about to marry. So she's seen the dynamic of the meeting. Yeah, she should have been saying something. The progression of the relationship. She's seen the engagement. She's seen the intention. She's seen. It's too late now. I don't think she should say anything.

Really? Yeah, it's too late. Yeah. You got to take that to him. She should have been said something. You don't wait on him. Right. Yeah, they should have been both. She going to hell and she needs to take you with her. Even when he even before that he engaged something should have been disclosed. But now it's to the point.

They did not talk about that because now it's your comment coming to address it. Then you're starting crap. Yeah, you should have been addressed. So is there a difference if it's a hookup compared to like a little something deeper? Because it just said hookup. They probably just had sex. It's not that... Either way, it still should have been told earlier. Like especially if you've met the friends. And if she tells her now, she ain't shit because you know it's going to stir up. They're going to stay together and now it's going to cause confusion between y'all two.

Yeah. So would y'all want to know? She got to take that shit to hell. Would y'all two. Yeah. So would y'all wanna know? She gotta take that shit to hell. Would y'all wanna know? I think I would know if my friend hooked up with someone because I just feel like we have that relationship. If it's someone that I'm close with and I feel like y'all are getting close, I would say something like, I just want you to know this happened,

there's nothing like this anymore. I agree. Just out of respect, but if it's not anything serious, I'm not disclosing. I feel like I would want to know this happened. There's nothing like this anymore. I agree. Just out of respect, but if it's not anything serious, I'm not disclosing. I feel like I would want to know. Like truly I would want to know, but then I would probably not be interested in him anymore

once she tells me. But you may be interested, but a lot of times people cut off the woman. Like the women cut off the woman. And I feel like it's gonna ruin their friendship. They're still, her and the man gonna still be I feel like it's going to ruin their friendship. They're still her and the man gonna still be together. But it's just going to ruin their friendship because now it's bringing insecurities like questioning.

Oh, what you gonna do if I'm not around? I don't trust you all around each other. Right. So it's like, it should have been disclosed in the beginning. If it wasn't disclosed, then just let it be. I don't know. That's tricky. I think I would want to know.

But why? Because if we're in the room together, I just know me. But I'm saying if I'm very giving. Why would you want to know at that moment right before you're wedding? I would want to know at some, I would hope before you got married or you be earlier. You want to know before you got married?

I would have loved to know before. Yeah, before, but you don't wanna, I wouldn't wanna know right before I'm about to get married. Like walk down the aisle. I wouldn't wanna know right before I'm about to get married. Yeah, I think it should have been both of them saying something. Yeah.

Yeah, she gotta go to hell, take that to hell with her. Damn. Karma's a bitch. But is it really karma though? Take that to hell with her. Damn. Mm-hmm. Karma's a bitch. All right. But is it really karma, though? Because if what they just, they had a little fling before they ever got together. And I agree with you.

This is how I'm feeling. Which is even more of a reason why she should have just been upfront. Like, OK, that's how I feel, Ashley. You know, it wasn't that this serious, but we had a little thing. And then boom. That's what it is.

That's done. But the fact that you didn't say anything then would make me feel like, oh, you're a hater. It was something. Yeah. Yeah. And you said it right before the win and then it just makes it look like you're a hater.

I get you. I understand. OK. That was a juicy last one, guys. That was it. Yeah, that was a good one. OK, humble baby takeover. We must have had a lot coming in.

Yeah, y'all stressed me out with that one. We did. That was a little intense, wasn't it? We have more to come you guys. This is the wrap of our Humblebetties podcast. But before we go, we want you guys to make sure you tune in on the 21st. On our live, we will be announcing a winner. In order to be a winner, you have to be subscribed to Humble Baddies podcast on YouTube. You have to have a legit business and we are checking those things.

Yes. So make sure you have everything in place. All right, guys. Thank you so much for tuning in. We appreciate all the love and support Please continue to stream wax to riches on Netflix Please keep writing to us at humble baddies calm And we appreciate you and love you guys. You can find me at Ashley Nicole on all social media platforms

You can find Lex where I'm only on Instagram. So Alexis underscore Sada Meyer and Sherelle. Where can they find you? Sherelle Rosado underscore. All right guys, we'll see you next time. Take care. I love you. Thanks for watching guys!