Club Shay Shay - Amber Rose: My Problem Is That “I Worship The D*ck.” (Part 2)

Episode Date: June 22, 2026

Ladies and gentlemen, we have a very special guest. She’s a model, influencer, entrepreneur, and so much more, the one & only Amber Rose! She didn’t hold back on this one. She talks about her mystery man, dating young, narcissistic men, streaming, and worshipping the d*ck! Put the kids to sleep, light up a candle, and tune in to The Truth After Dark!!! #Club Lust Products from Amber Rose:  Getcloser.coSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Open your free IHeart Radio app. Search Pride and listen now. Okay, so tell me about Love Island for a second. Who is your top? Tell me, like, what do you think about it? Like, who's your thing? What girls you hate? What guys you like? I'm not there. I think I'm on episode five, so don't give me any spoilers. Okay, I'm not going to give you any spoilers. But I don't really, I don't think I've really found anybody over there. I'm attractive like that.

Same. Corbin, to me, is traditionally gorgeous. I'll give you, he's probably the best looking one as of now, but he's still not my type. Yeah, he's not my type. I would never date him. Yeah. He probably don't even want me. But I would say that he was traditionally the gorgeous man on there.

But I like KC more than anybody. Yeah, Casey's cool. Yeah. Lovina go crazy if y'all two was on there. They should do like a celebrity edition. Yeah, right? Yeah. I'm too old.

They'll be like, girl. You're not too old. I love. Like walking to thongs all day. They're walking in dogs and shit. I'm not walking into dogs. Yeah, I'm not doing that. This is a grown edition we're going to do.

Yeah. My little ass will be jiggling. They got to do that though. This is not going to be like, see, they got like a pool vibe. Y'all have like a bar club. vibe. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Like bar club vibe, like grown, sexy type of vibe. Like upstairs

at the, at the casino private room type vibe. You know what I'm saying? They should do it. That'll be that'd be way. I would not be going on here. For the older ladies. For the older ladies is crazy. I'm just saying mature. You know, the guys of cigars, they might

have a suit on or just like a, you know, like a little, like sexy little hit, like James Bond type of thing. I ain't mad at it. You know what I'm saying? I feel like they don't put a lot of attracted people on there, really, though. They don't. It's all fours and five. It's all like, yeah, they're not that hot.

The girls? Well, I think Melanie, and I don't know, I don't want to say the other girls in it, because I don't know if you've seen her yet, but Melanie is pretty to me. Have you seen Melanie? I think the girls are lit? You think the girls are lit? The girls are hotter than the guys, for sure. The girls are harder than the guys, but I wouldn't say they're lit.

I feel like it's like two or three girls that are cool. They're very, they're very, six is the most. I'll be honest. Thank you, Amber, because I'm not even no hater. I'll pump a woman. You'll fuck anything. Shut up. Damn.

You literally, like, you'll literally fuck anything. He's like, yeah. Just kidding. No, she's bullshit. No, she's bullshit in. No, I'm just kidding. Say you're a cancer, you're in tune with your emotions. Don't let her do it.

No, that's my dog. I'm just kidding. Okay, so back to the streaming. Did A.B. really offer you $1,000? No, that's not true. Okay, that's a lie. Clear that up. Yeah, that's crazy.

Well, you got to, like, clippers, that's what they do. So they can get the views. They'll put that caption, like, offer. $1,000 for what? For sex. But it's a lie. They said that, but it's a lie. It's a lie.

What's the number then? Is there a number? Everyone has a number, Paul. Everyone has a number. But what is your number? Okay, so let's talk about this. Sophia Rain, do you know what that is? Wait, wait, what's the number?

We're going to, I'm leading to that. That's crazy. He wants to know. So, Sophia Rain said that someone offered $15 million. Ooh, that's the number for show. So what's your, what was your number, you think? 15 million? That's a lot.

No, that's a lie. You think that's a lie. That's a for sure lie. She's like a little white girl, so. Yeah. Well, listen, OnlyFans is international. It's not just the U.S. This is like international money.

And you've been on OnlyFans for some years now. Yeah. So I'm sure you make a lot of money on OnlyFand. I do. Yeah, I do bikini pictures. You clean up on there. Same shit I post on Instagram. Get paid for it.

I already know you. Just bikini. That's it? That's it. That's lit. That's it. I need to put some bikini pictures on there. I need to get up on there.

Yeah. Yeah. Just do bikini. Bikini pictures, they pay for it. I don't have that. I go, girl, they literally pay for it. You're Amber fucking Rose. They're not paying me for no bikini pictures, girl. Well, sometimes is worse for me, right?

Because they feel like they'll never have a chance with me. Yeah. You know, if they feel like they could actually have a chance with you, they'll spend more money sometimes, you know? Yeah. But look, I wouldn't say that I, when I say everyone has a price, like, did you ever, do you ever see those videos where the guys are like,

bro, would you suck a dick for like a billion dollars? And the guys are like, no, I would never. And it's like, yes, you would. Like, you would suck dick for a billion dollars. I would not. I would not. Just stop, Paul, just that. I own 10 billion trillion, hell no.

Because you can never replace, like you can never replace your, it's like your dignity as a man. What if nobody knew? You're always going to be walking around. What if nobody knew? Nah, you don't know. No, people are going to know. We're in a society, they're going to know.

No, I'm saying. What if it was like, I think. where nobody would ever know. It's just a piece of meat in your mouth. It's not really a big deal. I'm a know. I'm not going to be able to... You can't live with yourself?

I can't live with myself. I'm like, hell no. If somebody offered me a billion dollars to eat a kucci, I'm eating that kucci. I'm eating that. No, it's not. I'm eating kucci for less. It's way different.

I'm in a kutche for like... $100. $300.000. $30.000. $20. Go get some burger key. There you go. No, fuck no.

But. Okay, so what about getting shitted on in Dubai, the Hummus Bukaki thing? We talked about this. I would never do that. I said I would never do it either. And he's like, $1 billion, $2 billion. But I just thought. Oh, I would do it for a billion.

You would do it for $1,000. Oh, $100. I would throw, I would just be fine. I would never do it for $20,000. I would never do it. $20,000 for five minutes? No. $20,000 is nothing.

I could pay my bills for one and a half months. $20,000 is insulting. I'm not doing $20,000 for no shit on me. I would wipe the shit off with 20,000 and throw it down the toilet. Yeah, I'm not doing 20,000. You got to, I'm not doing it. 50,000. No.

What kind of low price hole do you think I am? I wouldn't do it for a million. I wouldn't do it for a million dollars. I feel the same way. A million is not even a lot of this society anymore. A million is not even worth it. Like, somebody is shitting on you. It's going to make you vomit.

You're going to throw up. You're going to close your eyes and then like just lay back. No. Come on, man. How much are you getting shitting on for? Let me see you. I'm a female. I just lay there.

Five million. I'm good. Five mil. I'll sit there, man. All right. You know what? That's valid. I was stepped in shit before.

I didn't. I didn't actually, I didn't try to pick up my dog shit. It got in my hand before. Let it lay right there and just wipe that off. I'm good. Five mil. Come on. Yeah, I can understand that.

Let's do it. I feel that. Actually, and a woman shit, though, is different from a man's shit, I feel. Just close your eyes You can picture a woman Oh maybe we are worse My stomach do be fucked up for real But I don't know

But I just feel like Five million is valid You would do five Oh this cool number I'll be honest with you If someone actually offered me that Go ahead and record that Put that on Instagram

Yeah I don't know I wouldn't even think No you got to be on recording You got to hey we're going to Instagram This one No no no no no Stories and everything Five million you want the five million

Here's right there on the side, five million. You got three minutes. No, that's right. You know what, I'll be honest with you. I'd think about it. Yeah, come on. Five million.

I'll think about it. That's right. It's probably the quickest five million, five minutes. Well, there's a young girl. You're going to take a show or you're out of this thing. It's true. There's a young girl who said she retired herself from doing this in Dubai. And she says she's so fucked up mentally traumatized.

So I don't need to fuck myself up anymore. That's only one time, babe. She was doing it. every day. She was it was what it was. Yeah, that was her occupation. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I feel you.

I feel you. It's different. Okay, so let's, I really want to get into this. Take some ketamine is crazy. That's a fact. Get some ketamine afterwards. You'll be all right. For real.

I'm dead. Okay, so recently you and Nick Cannon had chopped it up and you were talking about being biracial and how if you feel like if you're biracial, you're not black. Yes. I love this conversation because historically for me, people always tell me I'm not black.

Like, even the black community. I feel like you're always like, girl, you're not black. Why are you even talking about the black community? You're not black. I am black. I am black. And let them know you black. Well, we are black, but we're not black people.

We're part black. But we can't say as black women, we feel like this. We're mixed people. And the truth matters, you know. Like, I want to live in a world where the truth. truth matters and that's okay, right? That we have two parts of us that we love. I love my white dad.

I love my white side of my family. And I also love my mom's side of the family as well. So, you know, I don't care. Like the one drop rule comes from white supremacy and the black community in America just adapted to that. It was really like back in slavery days where they're like, your great, great, great, great, great grandpa was black. get your ass in the house, bitch, you still slave.

And that's really where it came from. And now black people are like, oh, you got one drop of black, you're black. It's like, well, that's not true. I'm part black, but I'm not a black woman. So that's just how I look at things. I get that. I think I often say, and this probably triggers people because I'm always like, as a black woman,

and people hate that. You know what I mean? And I feel like that triggers people. And maybe I shouldn't say that. I really don't know what's right or wrong. I feel like I identify with my black side a lot more than my Persian side. But I am mixed. And I always do say I have four sisters who are dark skin.

Their experience in the world is completely different from mine. Because I'm still viewed as someone who's mixed. Yeah. So like I get treated a little better or a little differently or whatever you want to call it. And I do acknowledge that. I don't agree with that. You don't think so? No, because the black people don't treat you better.

Yeah, they treat me fucked up for real. They don't treat you better. I mean, we all treat each other fucking. Yeah. Yeah, but I'm saying like because she's mixed and she says as a black woman I feel like this, like a lot of, not all black women, but a lot of black women

ain't fucking with that. Yeah, they're not. They're just not fucking with that. But at the same time, if she says, oh, I'm a mixed person, a lot of people ain't fucking with that either. So you just got to do what's comfortable for you. That's what I saw about you, though, really quickly.

I noticed this and my friend brought this to my attention. She's like, Amber Rose, like, if she's over here with the black people, they're like, you're not black. And then you come over here doing this and they're like, why she don't want to be black? Yeah. It's like, what do y'all want us to do?

Yeah. Do you want us to be black? Do you not want us to be black? It's like you're never happy. But that's why I just say the truth matters. Yeah. And you can't, you know, it's not your truth, his truth, my truth. It's just the truth.

That's it. So if you don't like the truth, then that's a you issue. That's not a me issue. You are who you attract the most. What race do you? I don't think that's true. That is. If a white thick, big women,

Big white women attract black men all the time because white men don't want them. They're not black. They're not black. They're part of the family. They're not black. Also, I feel uncomfortable, like, denying my father. That just doesn't sit well with me.

Yeah, I get that. And, you know, look, at the end of the day, growing up iracial, it's like, now you're doing white shit. Oh, okay, you're doing black shit today. Oh, you do, like, you know, I don't know. I never had raisins in my potato salad, but maybe one day I'll try it and I'll like it. Maybe that's the white side.

I don't know. What color are most of your friends? They're black. What about you? You see her friends right here. I'm saying they're black, right? But I have a question, Amber. Seriously, seriously.

Because we accept that. Was growing up biracial, like, confusing for a little bit or at heart at all for you? I feel like it was confused. Well, when I was very young. Yeah, me too. Well, because I'm more white passing. Yeah. And my mom is black, but like,

in the summer my mom is black as shit like my mom is black as shit like black is that sign and um so I'm like a little white girl walking around my mom and it's like bitch you're adopted like they used to tell me I was adopted and I used to go to my mom be like mom my adoptor

just tell me and she would show me her C-section scar I'm her only baby yeah you know but then it's like I had black mom experiences you did black hair care products you know shade butter cocoa butter, moisturizing, getting out the bath

every single day. And now I have, you know, white friends. And I'm like, you don't use no lotion, no nothing, you know?

Or even like when Sebastian was little, his white friends would come over to our pool and I would get them out the pool and I would lotion them up and their parents would come and get them. And I'm like, oh my God,

what is this on their skin? You know? Like, so, you know, I didn't understand the dynamic until actually I had Sebastian and I started being around

little white kids and stuff. And I'm like, it's different. It's a very interesting. Yeah, it's interesting. And you know what I will say? Like, Dr. Umar always says if you have a black dad, you're black. But I disagree. I think as a little woman, if you have a black mom, it changes everything for you.

Like, I don't have a black mom. Yeah. But I had a black sister. My sisters are like 15 years older than me, 20 years older than me. So like, they're black, full black. So like, I grew up the shade, but the lotion, they're getting down. But my mom, if I didn't have those experience, my mom never taught me any of that. And I think that's my biggest thing

when I talk about being biracial. I think it's important if a woman who's non-black dates a black man cares about if they have a kid how to teach them that they are black. Because I was big old booty wearing Abercrombie jeans and my ass crackout. They call me ass cracker. That was your nickname?

Yeah. Because I didn't know my butt was, I didn't even understand my body. And my mom, who's this small Persian lady, didn't know she's taking me to Abercrombie and Fitch when really, like, I need to be at baby fat, girl. You see all this big booty? And I was tiny everywhere else.

But I had this big butt and it was just confusing for me. And I didn't know. And my ass crap was out every day. Yeah, I don't really like talk like, obviously I talk to my kids about race. But it's not really a big thing in our household because we're all mixed. Yeah, it's different. Yeah. We're all mixed.

So it's like even Sebastian's like I'm black and white. Yeah. Excuse me. He's like, I'm black and white. I love my white grandpa. Like, I don't know. I just feel like I'm black and white. And I'm like, well, that's how I feel.

But then he calls my little one a Puerto Rican. And I'm like, stop calling your brother Puerto Rican. You won't give him a complex. He's not Puerto Rican. Just, you know. But, yeah, and I never tell my kids they have to work 10 times harder because they're black. You have to work just as hard as everyone else. And if you want to be better, you know, like let's say the NBA for an example.

If you want to be like a real all-star, yeah, you got to work harder. But you have to work just as hard as everybody else. skin color in America is not going to stop you from being great. I ain't trying to hear none of that shit. We live in a free country. You can be whoever the fuck you want to be. So, yeah, I don't know. That's just me personally.

That's just how I feel. I don't feel like you or me have any more privileged than anybody else just because we're light skin or we're mixed. If anything, sometimes we have it harder. But people won't understand it until they live in our skin. Yeah. Because they'll just be like, mixed traditionally is more, And I don't agree with this.

I'm just saying like more beautiful society. Okay, so check out this perspective, right? So being beautiful means you're chosen. Would have being chosen, has that helped us in any way being chosen by men? If anything, no. What you mean? It has traumatized us even more than anybody else. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

They're going to hate this, but you're really honest. I'm dead at. Listen, I've been canceled. I've been canceled 85 times. You can't sleep. Y'all get chosen. Men choose y'all. Y'all think you'll choose the men?

Yes. To our detriment, though. No, we're saying that. We're saying we're getting chosen by a lot of men because we're mixed or we're traditionally like to society. Oh, you're traditionally beauty standards. Beauty standards. Like, okay, you're light skin.

You have a big butt. Because that's what we put on TV to make it look good. That's what the industries do. She's saying that we're more chosen by men, right? And people will look at that as a good thing. Yeah. But it's not necessarily a good thing. Well, because you're sexualized at a young age.

Which means you're not everyone, but, you know, I was raped. You're more susceptible to things. Sceptible. You're sexualized. I had a big butt at 12. I'm sexualized very, very young, and I'm learning about sexuality at 12 years old because men are coming on to me or I'm being molested or I'm being raped because of how I look. And it is hard.

And it does traumatize you and it does make you feel like people think it's so flattering that these men are, oh, crazy. There's two sides to a coin, right? Because a lot of girls will be like, okay, I'm not getting chosen maybe because I'm dark skin, right? And they feel like that what we have is maybe better, but it's not. We have our own fucked up trauma from actually being chosen, right? Which is all really fucked up for all of us.

You know? So it's like you think it's better on whatever side, but it's actually not. We're all dealing with a lot of trauma and bullshit. I mean, it's levels. It's levels to the trauma, definitely. I get what y'all saying. What you mean levels?

Like, you feel like people have different. I mean, like, girls not as attractive have a certain type of trauma compared to y'all different. It's just different levels of what they, everybody's going through the same thing, but it's just levels to what you're going through. I mean, y'all's might be a higher level. No, yeah, I get what you're saying.

You know, more narcissists men. Yeah, because I think a lot of people would think, like, okay, she's mixed or she's licekin or whatever, right? And she has this boyfriend that like takes her on shopping sprees and does all this shit. But really she's at home. She's fucking miserable. She's getting cheated on constantly. The Birkin bags and the Chanel bags just ain't fucking hitting like they used to because your mental health is in the fucking gutter and you're on ketamine like me and her. And you know, and from the outside looking in, you're like, damn, she lives a really amazing light.

That's why when I look on Instagram and I see a lot of these girls, I'm just like, oh, honey. the longer the caption, the more miserable you are. I know it. I've been there. I see it. The love of my life and we met and this and no, no, no, no, no. It's like, girl, you're getting cheated on and you're miserable for the most part. That is true.

And I think that we're conditioned to deal with more shit too. It's like, okay, this is happening and this is happening. Because we're dating with this type of man, it's expected. Like, I had a home girl tell me one time, like, what did you expect? You didn't think he was going to cheat on you? Yeah, we just dominant love. Like, you thought him? Let me ask y'all, for real.

Like, with the men that, you know, y'all talk to, y'all don't, like, go into it, like, I know he's going to cheat on me? Like, you ain't never just like, man, I know who this is. No, I'm dumb as hell. I'll be like, he loves me down. He's never going to cheat on me more so much. Okay, hear me out. This is my perspective, right?

Because we grew up on Jerry Springer. Uh-huh. Those motherfuckers was working at McDonald's. garages, fucking wherever the fuck, and they were still cheating. It really depends on the person, right? Because I can say, okay, I'm going to date this guy that works at McDonald's.

That doesn't mean he's not going to cheat on me. Facts. I could go date an NBA player. There are NBA players that are very loyal and loving to their wives. So it just depends on the person. It's not the occupation. It's not the race.

It's not none of that. I think the occupation got something to do with it. It doesn't because, you know what? I have access to a lot of men. I have access to... Women are like... Beautiful women are the same as a celebrity. What's the difference?

Right. But a celebrity man's access is way more. No, it's not. Not to me. Not my... My accessibility to men is greater than a celebrity man's accessibility to women. I'm saying...

I agree with that. I believe that. It's like a beautiful... I always looked at a beautiful woman as a celebrity. Because like everywhere you go, men are on you. DMs.

What's the... But it takes us to say, you know what, I love my man. I don't care that you have more money than my man. I don't care that you're better looking than my man. I love my man and I'm very loyal to my man. It depends on the person, right? You have integrity and loyalty. It really doesn't matter the occupation that you're in.

Now, maybe you have more people on you, right? More of a selection. But when you love someone, that's your inner personality that's loyal to that person because you've made a vow or a commitment or whatever. case may be. So that's just how I look at things. Do you want to be in love again and get married? I don't know. Girl, you are such a lover girl. She does. See? Amber. I can see I'm sensing this that like. No, stop. She's like, man, she at the point. Or do you really feel that? Be honest. I don't know. I feel like if I were to fall in love again, I don't want to live with anybody.

I want him to have his own place. I have my own place with my children. Yeah. And he had, I don't, I don't date men that don't have children, by the way. You have to have kids or I will not date you. And then we can bring our kids together and we can all do shit together and then we go home. Or maybe, you know, if my baby dad's got the kids for the weekend, you can come over and stay with me for the weekend, then you got to go home. Yeah.

Yeah. You want to get married again? Just I don't know. I don't even know. I think you're such a lover girl. I don't see you ever having like a situation ship or like just this dad or you're a lover girl. Yeah.

You're like me. And like we said that and I've said that. I'm like, no, I'm fucked that. I'm cool. Yeah. You get to a level of hurt to where you don't even want to fuck with nobody no more. You're like, whatever. You got to go.

She got to find a man that's late 40s and 50s if she's going to ever think about that again. Yeah, maybe. I don't know. Where they at though? Where they at? Because like older men like at that age are more like they're not with the bullshit. more. Yeah.

They're not outside like that. They like, they like, listen. I think they'd be outside till they're 70, 80. I'm not gonna lie. We only got so many more summers left in life. But men still will cheat at any age. They'll do bullshit and they'll be on bullshit.

And then the older they are, the more baggage and the more trauma that they have. Yeah, I mean, I'll say I'm really, really a love girl. Like, I'm not saying a person. Like, if I really love you, you can have the password to my phone. I don't have nothing to hide. I don't care. Like, babe, I'm in a shower.

can you answer the phone for me? Like, that's how I am. But I don't ever get that in return. And then I just be getting bitter. I'll be like, man, fuck you. Fuck everybody. Man, I'm the type of- Fuck all y'all.

I'm fucking. I'm so dumb that I have, a man will have my location and I don't even have his. And I'll be like, you can see wherever I'm at, babe. No, yeah, I don't play that shit. Yeah, that's stupid as fuck, right?

It's the dumbest you could do. But I do dumb shit like that. Yeah, I've done it. Yeah, and it's just like, I'll let a man have my whole location, no where I'm at. and he'll still be traumatized and be like, what are you doing? What are you doing? What did it?

Yeah, that's crazy. It's wild. But, like, I will literally be that way. So it's just I'm a lover girl. Yeah, I love so hard. And that's why it's hard when you're with somebody. Why are you pointing at me like that? I was talking to the homies.

Listen, don't talk to. Listen, it's real. And the thing is, I'm such a lover girl that, like, when I love a man, I love him so tunnel vision, I don't see no other man. Me either. It could be goddamn Obama. No, I'd be like, fuck you. You know my problem is I worship the dick too.

I worship it. Like, I worship it. I do. That's why I said I can't just fuck a man and not be in love. Yeah, same. I can't fuck you. If I start fucking you, especially raw. What was the love of this from you?

Especially in. I'm walking in on my knees. Like, I'm worshiping you. I'm like that. And I'll do anything anywhere, anytime. Me too. Worshiping. The dick.

Oh, I didn't, I didn't hear that. I thought I heard that. But listen, I'm the same way. Like, you want to have sex right here right now? Let's do it. Yeah, same. Do you want me to suck her dick? I'll get on my knees.

Yeah. Like, I'll do anything. But you got to feel that safety net. You feel that safety with your man. And that's how I will feel like. If I don't feel safe, I'm not doing shit. If I don't feel safe, I'm not having sex with you randomly anywhere. I'm not making no sex safe with you.

I'm not doing none of that stuff. If I feel safe, I'm like, I'll do anything. I won't do a sex safe. But, yeah, I'll do everything else. I'm not you. That's true. I don't give a fuck. Like, you're not going to release my shit.

I only have one sex tape with a man. You don't have kids yet. Yeah. No, but who I'm doing it with is doesn't want it to be released. Does that make sense? Well. They have more to lose than me. I feel you.

Type shit. And I would, I only did that with one man in my life. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? But like, I would never, like, I'm very big on like respect and how I feel. And I feel like as a woman, as more respected she feels, the more freaky she is. That's a fact. 100%.

A freaky frog. You'll do anything. You want to... I won't even get into it. Yeah, you would literally do anything. You will literally do anything for a man at that point. If you feel safe, you have to feel safe. If a man doesn't make you feel safe, you're not getting none of that.

You're not getting none of that. And you just like... No, you're lying. No, that's the real. That's real. He's lying. He's like... So how many dates before you feel safe?

No, it's not dates. It's not many dates. It's not dates. Y'all, y'all lie. No, no, hear me up. It's not. Three dates, it's on. It's a relationship.

It's not dates. You have to be in a relationship. No, no, hear me out. Hear me out. Man, come on, y'all. You can get a... Hear her out. He had to be your man before it went down.

No, I'm not buying that. We're not saying that. Well, he made you safe in two dates, first date? Just because we have sex, don't mean that we're not saying that. We're not saying that. We're not saying that. When it becomes a life... You're saying that we can have sex without feeling safe,

but how freaking. The freaky version you get at me where I'm getting on my knees right outside of here is a different... The freaky version got to come out the first one because he's gonna have to... He don't judge that. He don't get it.

He don't get it, girl. When you see it ain't like that, he'll be like, you know what I'm not explaining it to you. Yeah, I don't think you understand. We're, okay, so obviously you can get any girl to go suck your dick, right? Your paup hair is cool, right? But what we're saying is that

when you feel, a woman feels safe in a relationship, when she gets like, you know, maybe over time and it gets like, you know, a bit drier. I'm not doing to a man or everything. What? You can't, no, I know, I know, shoot, I ain't doing it now.

What? What? Wait, what? What are you even talking about? No, because y'all saying when y'all feels safe. We're not saying that. When a woman feels safe, like the first time you can do this, this is what she's saying.

You can, but like, when the woman feels safe, right, the freakiness go crazy. Yes. We're not saying the level of freakiness means ass play or any of that. We're saying like, oh, you want to have sex outside. I know what he's saying. He's saying that he could get any bit to be freaky on the first night. Okay.

We understand that. What we're saying is, right, in relationships. Okay. When you have a relationship between a man and a woman, right? And you want to keep it spicy and hot and sexy. And you want to just, you know, if we're like, I was going to give a really bad example. example. Hold on. Let me like reset real quick. If I had a man

and he was here, right? And I'm like, yo, come in the bathroom real quick. Thank you. That's because my man makes me feel like I'm just with him. I feel safe with him. He's clean. I don't have to worry about him doing nothing crazy. I got his shit. He got my shit. And

that's just how it is. That's when we're going to feel like that. If we're on edge and we're like, yo, after this podcast, my man's might go fuck a bitch. I'm not doing, I'm not going in the bathroom and stuck in his dick. Because I feel like I don't even really fuck with you like that. You're still around because I put time in. But I really don't even fuck with you like that.

Like I'm not even going to go the extra mile to make you happy because you pissing me off. That's real. That's real. Like if I say I'm coming out this studio and I'm going to fuck you right over here, I'm safe with you. I trust you and I feel like you really love me. So I will do it anywhere. You want to start recording us? I'm cool.

I trust you. That's my man But like if I start to feel shaky And I'm like, ooh, he's doing weird shit I'm not gonna be as freaky with you Yes, the fact I'm not gonna do anything you want me to do That goes for everyone

I'm like that's real Anything my man wants me to do if I'm safe Yeah And I don't care what it is I'll do it. That's safe. I get it. Yeah, but let me ask you this

Have a man ever like thrown off your pH situation And you felt like it's because He's fucking other women Yeah, of course Exactly It sucks. What? Oh, that's a thing.

That's a real thing. It smells like a squirrel, like crawled up you and died and just stayed in there for like. And then a man will be like, your shit is off. You made my shit off because you're dirty or you fucking other women. Oh, no, but see, I don't even play that shit because I know, like, if I go, oh, hell no.

You know that smell. I'll call the doctor immediately and I'll be like, okay. What's up? But I'm very sensitive. Me too. Swimming. Me too. Sitting in a bathing suit for.

for too long. If my housekeeper fucking changes my detergent or something like it's very yeah I'm sensitive like that and like I'll automatically know like my shit is not right

but if my shit is not water I'm laying down with nothing not even my man I'm not doing nothing you never going to catch me off guard like that hell no I had that situation where I was with somebody

and you threw off my shit yeah and I remember one time something happened to where we didn't have sex for a month and my shit went back to normal and I was like, oh, it's you. And men do that all the time and they throw your shit off because either,

and that's how women know you're fucking somebody else. That's a fact. Because like, or you fuck someone else because my shit is not right. Yeah. And my shit is usually right. What does pH mean as far as like? So you have good bacteria and bad bacteria.

Like what does it feel like though? It smells like something. It just doesn't feel, like maybe it could be like more discharged but it smells really, really, really, really. bad. If you ever ran into some like funky shit, it's probably because she had bacteria vaginosis. Yeah, BV. It's called BV, yeah. But that's

only from like having sex with another female? It's from other vaginal secretions not agreeing with your pH. So it throws off the chemicals in your vagina and it makes it smell, which also is from, you can use a condom as well. But men

don't use antibacterial soap. They use regular body wash or soap and stuff like that. So a lot of the vaginal secretions from someone else is still on your penis. So, like, I've been in a relationship where I'm like, my thing, like, it's off, and I'm really confused because, like, I've had the complaint of, like, it's too,

like, I need to fill your scent. Like, it's so water that I don't taste anything. So, like, I've been in a situation where I'm like, this is not right. And it's hard because I don't even know how to approach that situation. Yeah, yeah. It's embarrassing. Yeah, it's embarrassing.

And it's like, it's you. Yeah, because it's not, like, yeah. Well, it's not because you didn't get washed. It's not because you're a dirty person. It's not because you're out fucking a bunch of people. Yeah, it's not. It's a really unfortunate. That's why it's so, like, if you're having sex with me raw

and I found out you're having sex with another man raw, I mean, another woman raw, and you're coming back to me with that energy and that shit on you. I'll kill a motherfucker. Yeah. I swear to God. We've been sitting here for two hours, listen, then blame everything. on man.

That BV does come from a man though. It does come from a man. It does come from a man. I get it. I get it. All right. So what's your perspective on something? Let's hear your perspective.

No, that's just good. Y'all giving me some game, though. So I want to ask Amber this. You said you had some point of views on like the clips you've seen from us. You're like, I have the shit to say. Oh, God, I don't remember exactly. You can ask her some of the ones you asked. other guests about some of the views.

Well, I asked you about the women being cooked. Paul says that overseas women are better. They just got more discipline. But the reason I said they have more discipline is because of this. The men are different. Because they got more cultural family values. Yeah, I think he's right. They do.

But they got more cultural catering to their men and how to get a... Keep it real. The men have that. The men are raised to provide for a woman. You talking about the overseas men? Yeah. They are raised to raise. culturally, culturally right off the back.

So if I feel safe. So we should just all just... Paul, listen, you have to understand. Listen. You have to understand that men are the leaders of society. We live in a patriarchy. We're very comfortable living in a patriarchy. But when men don't do what they have to do for us, right?

We're beneath you guys. We're okay with that. Exactly. Not in this day and time. No, because of y'all, though, but you guys set the tone. Just like you said, the masculinity is up on women. But that's because you made us masculine vibe.

Because what? Listen to what she's saying. Okay, okay. My man. My bad. Yeah. Well, okay. If you're the leader, right,

and I'm following you, we're following you, right? And we start to have masculine energy, but you're the leader. That means you did something wrong for us to have this masculine energy. We're not the leaders of society, right? If somebody came in with a gun right now,

I'm not running behind her. I'm running behind y'all. I'm not running by, I'm not thinking that she. she's going to save me. I'm running behind a big, strong man that's going to save me. The first thing we're looking at is you. Yeah.

I'm not looking at her. She's not looking at me. We're following y'all. So, yeah. We can't, we can't have. I'm going to go to the mouth. I'm just saying, we can't. Like, like this sign, I'm sure a man made it.

Like, whoever built this place, I'm sure a man. It was. A man made these chairs. A man made the tequila. Like men, we need men. But you got to respect that, too. And listen. Y'all got to respect.

Because when y'all start doing the disrespect toward the man and you saying we this or that, then the disrespect come in how you want us to feel. Okay, Paul, can you admit that maybe you're not that guy, right? You're an all-around good guy. You got it all together, okay? But can you look around, like, I agreed with you that a lot of women are narcissists

and they do traumatize men. I agree with you. Can you agree that majority of men nowadays are absent fathers, they're not leaders in society, they're not protecting women in any way, shape, or form. And what happens over time is that we have to become the men within ourselves. We have to become our father's daughters.

So that's what happens over time that we're just like, fuck it. He's not going to do it for me. He's not going to build this out for me. I've got to build it out myself. And then you walk around grabbing your dick, like, as a bitch, I got to grab my dick and get it fucking done. I don't want to do that. Right.

So a lot of men are not stepping up and doing what they have to do, which in turn makes us have masculine energy and have attitudes and be independent. But we really don't want that. But over time, it's like, well, shit, somebody got to do it. Right. Yeah.

So that's true. Or if you feel like your man is stepping out or you can't fully trust them, how can I trust you to lead me then? Yes. Like, how can I trust you if you doing this on the side or you not? Like, a man controls the energy of the room.

So even if I have an attitude, all a man really has to do is like, baby, shut up, come here. Yeah. Hug me. Kiss me. Babe, I love you. You're hungry. You're hungry. Yeah, what's up, baby?

And I promise. Yeah, I'm hungry, daddy. Let's go. Let's go. All right. My bad. Yeah. Like, that's it.

Try it. Try it. Try it. But these man be so sassy. They be so sassy. And they don't want to do it. They want to keep their attitude. They want to still be mad.

And it's like, just hug a bitch and be like, come on baby. Shut up. Lay down. Jam near have sex with me. Yeah. Put it in. Like, and then I will never have an attitude. I'll be like, all right, cool, and it's over.

But men want to, like, win. They want to win. Win. You're always winning already. You already won. You run this. You already run. So since you run this, shut me the fuck up.

And this is not like a bashing, this is not like us bashing men. We just want y'all to do better. We want y'all to do better. We don't want to be massive. Yeah, we don't want that. Very informative. I appreciate this. Yeah.

We don't want an attitude. We don't want to be this way. Sometimes we pee a mess. This is good. Yeah. Sometimes we pee a mess. Sometimes we do have an attitude. But it takes a man just to be like, babe.

Shut up. Come here. He don't give a fuck what we're talking about. No, no. No, on the real. No, on the real, I promise you. I feel like I learned a lot today. No, straight up.

I feel like this last five minutes is real. It's real shit. Like we are, what y'all saying, what y'all saying right now is real. And you know what, and I agree with you that more women have to say that to men. Yes. More of us, we need to say, you know what?

You're expressing it like this? Yeah. It may, okay, I get it now. You are the defined, masculine, and we need you. We need you for so much more than you think we need you for it. Exactly. We need you to check us too. Yeah.

We trip. We have attitudes. We're hormonal. We'll say shit. We need you to be like. Right on. It's down. We need you to check us in the way to just be like, hey.

I love you. We together. Shut up. We're good. Yeah. Come here. Give me a kiss. Grab me up.

And I promise you, you'll be done. You'll be good. Whatever. All right. I love you, baby. That's real. That's real. It's actually so easy.

It's so easy because y'all control the energy. I get it. Yeah, a lot of these men, they just want to win an argument. They want to win an argument. Yeah, we want to be sad. Now, but how you win is shutting me the fuck up, giving me some dig, telling me you love me and taking me to get something to eat, make, good. That's it.

All right. There we go. Yeah, that's it. You win. That's it. You still win. Because even when a bitch is saying... That's weird.

That's real, right? That was real. No, hey, we fuck with that. No, we're true. She's absolutely right. We want y'all to win. We don't want to win. We don't care about winning.

We just want to feel safe and happy and get some dick. We just care about being with you. And go get somebody. And winning means you just being like, baby, come here. Don't go nowhere. I love you. Sit your ass down. That's it.

That's it. We say all the bullshit just to hear you reassure us. A lot of these men, they want to block. They want to get sassy. I don't know what time for that. Baby, come here after they just called you a bitch-ass nigger. Well, I'm not calling nobody a bitch. Come here.

You gotta really be a bitch-ass nigger for me to call you a bitch-ass-nagger. Not that, but just in so many words, like, argue and me, man and you. But women are gonna argue. Men don't want to be with, like, women are like that. Women are sassy. You don't have got to match energy. I appreciate this last two minutes. Don't be sassy too.

Yeah. I promise you. No, this is real. Don't match our energy. No, for real. No, for real. This was been a good, this was real. That's why you got the clap.

I'm like, all right, that's what's up right. Don't match our energy. You run that shit. Yeah, let us be a sassy and emotional. We're the ones that are sassy and emotional and we don't know what's going on half the time. Check the fuck out of us. Baby, come here, I love you.

Sit down. I fuck with you. That's real. That's all we want. I think we can, you know, that we can rive it up on that. Okay. That was good. That was good.

Do you have anything you want to share, say, say let no I had a wonderful time yes thanks for having me this is oh okay oh yeah okay so I have I have my lust products okay then we didn't bring any Joe did we bring some but we'll put it in and we're going to link everything to the in the description so I have lust products so I have honey packs for men I have gummies for women I have I have I'll bring you a bunch of honey packs So I have gummies for men and women, and then I have a drinking shot, which is also unisex. Okay. So right now we're trying to get them in like hotels and Vegas and stuff like that, a part of the intimacy pack.

Like when you open the, you know, cabinets and you can get in there. But right now it's online. It's get closer.com. If you want to try them out, I'm telling you, it's fun. It's fun. What is the shot? Because I never heard of that. That's dope a deal.

It's a shot. And it gets it going? It gets it going, girl. For the girl or the guy? Both. Both. She said it's unisex. The honey packs is the only thing for the men.

And then the gummies are for men and women because they're separate. Okay. And then the drink is also unisex. Okay. I love that. You know, like with your man, you can just cheers, take it and then go crazy. I love that. I feel like they lack the stuff for the women.

Like they don't give us and that stuff. and make sure, like, it's good for us. Period. Yeah. Okay. So, get closer.co. You guys heard that. If you want to get sexy, get intimate, get cracking with your man or your situation ship, get closer.

Dot co. We'll have everything link below. You'll be able to go straight to it and get what you need. I'm going to try it. Yeah. I'm going to send you some. I'll actually, Joe, I'll have Joe bring some over. Yes.

Yes, please, because I want to try it. Make sure you guys tap it with Amber. I mean, listen, she doesn't need much promotion. She's Amber, motherfucking Rose. You know who she is. The iconic. The iconic. The iconic.

She made the short hair, pop in. Poppin. Hey, listen. Bitches can't do the bald cut. Like Amber. If you could have no hair on your head, you that bitch. Because me, I couldn't be bald. I would look a mess.

So, you look amazing. Thank you. You look incredible. You smell incredible. I love your energy. You're, you know, I'm really grateful that you came on the show. Thank you. Thanks.

So thank you so much. And you spit some real game. Not awesome game. We'll link everything she got going below, y'all. Thank you. Thanks for joining us. We love for us. We guys.

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