Club Shay Shay - Anthony Edwards' messy custody battle + Teyana Taylor & Aaron Pierre go viral | Humble Baddies

Episode Date: March 10, 2025

In this episode, Sharelle, Ashley, and Alexis discuss Minnesota Timberwolves star Anthony Edwards giving up parental rights of his child with Ayesha Howard, whether celebrities are showing too much skin on Award Show red carpets, Teyana Taylor and Aaron Pierre's viral picture, and much more!02:24 - Award Show Season fit checks09:11 - Did Teyana Taylor and Aaron Pierre hard launch?14:00 - Social Media Do’s and Don’ts37:43 - Anthony Edwards baby mama drama48:33 - Humble Baddies Mail(Timestamps may vary based on advertisements.) #ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Content creator! We're back! They want to sit in your bedroom with you while you get dressed. Y'all want to sit in the bathroom and watch me wash my face. What water do you drink? He ended up getting another woman pregnant. Welcome to another episode of Humble Baddies. I am Alexis Stoudemire. I'm Ashley Nicole.

And I am Sherelle Rosado. And we are the Humble Baddies. We're back. We're back. We're back. And we're just coming off of awards season. We had Golden Globes. We've had the Oscars.

And it's just all the parties. It's awardsars. Yes. And it's just all the parties. The sports season. Yeah. I love watching like the red carpets with the gowns and looking at all the looks and, you know, seeing what's going on. What was different this time? What do you think was different this time, Ashley,

in regards to? Okay, well, first of all, the girls have been catching a little heat from the aunties. Yes, they have. Auntie Sherri said that the girls are naked. She said she don't like these outfits with the girls showing all their bodies and everything on the red carpet. What y'all think about that?

I'm all for sexiness. I'm all for positive body image. We see people, it's already hard enough being in the spotlight, let alone people criticizing every nook and cranny, every weight gain, weight loss. Oh, are you pregnant? No, maybe I just had a couple of burgers like lay off of me. Yeah. And I feel like the girls are confident.

They are just exuding this confidence and we have to acknowledge that. I agree. I mean, I'm here for it. I love it. I'm here for it. I love it. I'm here for it. Embracing your curves. We're seeing the beautiful skin. We're seeing tattoos.

OK, my question is, how far would you go? Would you go as far as Kanye's wife, Bianca? Well, there, ooh. OK, go ahead. As far as Kanye. We're going to do the scale. Or would we keep it, bring it back? I remember when Ciara came on with, what did she wear?

I forgot what she wore, but people was criticizing her. Or Rihanna, Rihanna did it back in the day too. Rihanna did it before her baby. Everybody's on it. I feel like we not going to be this young and fine forever. Okay. So you might as well, you know what I'm saying? Live your life if you're confident in your body,

it's yours. Can't nobody say nothing about it. I had me a little outfit where I show, it was like a shoe. Showed it in Africa. And it was sexy. And we was in the motherland. So I said, go ahead, girl.

Wear the tits out because we- I didn't have my tits out. The nipples was out. It was a little pickable. It was a little pickable. It was very, it was cute. It wasn't, it was classy. Yeah, it was sexy.

It was sexy. You know what I'm saying? But I just feel like, you know, it's your body. You should be confident in it. Like you go to the gym, you work out. Like you work hard for this body. So it's like, show it off if you want to. Yeah. And not only that, we are at a certain age too,

again, where you working hard, we're maintaining, we're also public figures and we just want to be ourselves. And I think it's people look at social media as, I like what she's wearing, I like how she did that. We have similar body types or all of that. Okay, but what do you guys, y'all have girls, what do you say to your daughters? Like, what do you say to the other women who are like,

your daughters are looking up to you and like, would you want your daughter to wear this? And like, what if a man is looking at your daughter wearing, like, what do you say to that? Well, first of all, my daughters are different age demographic, first of all. I'm 42 years young. So like, there's maturity in that.

There's also a sense of safety too, where it's probably fashion forward. And y'all know that I'm pretty conservative for the most part, but y'all know, y'all seen them pictures on the gram and the bikinis. I'm- Sexy Lexi be popping out. Come on now.

And I'm proud of that. I'm proud of my curves. I'm proud of Lexi be popping out. Come on now. And I'm proud of that. I'm proud of my curves. I'm proud of really my imperfections. And so y'all gonna see it in a tasteful matter, but also very artistic and sexy. So my daughters, for example, they do, they dress for their age group. I can say that.

I'm confident with that. They're not into that. Yeah. And they're confident that they know that, mom, you're fly, you're dope. Like, I'm in a swimming suit. There's a beach in the background. It's not like I'm walking down the street in whatever.

I agree. I think there's a way to do it. And I feel like if you're on a red carpet with, you know, you're supposed to be here. You're supposed to make a statement. It's supposed to, you know. Have us talking about it. Exactly.

That's the whole point of it. And I think that anybody who sees something wrong with it, I think it's just a bit of projection, you know what I mean? And I feel like they want to wear it too, they just can't. What you were asking Sherelle, Sherelle, that what Bianca wore, Kanye's wife, that was just, that's way over, that's too much.

But I think it was how it happened too. The way he, Kanye stood there next to her, like as if like, look at my wife, like I want you to look at her in her body. It was strange. It was very performative. It was very like- Isn't he always performative?

Isn't he always like pick the women that he wants as a muse that people are gonna talk about, that people are going to talk about, that people are going to see and they want low key. I feel like he wants people to, but I think he wants all the men and all the women to be envious of who he chose. An ego thing, like a kind of sick ego. I don't know.

The way he did it to me is, I don't like it. That's why I said it has to be in a way of- It was like forceful. Right. It has to come from like a confidence place. It has to come from- Right, if she was doing it before Kanye, she wasn't doing this before Kanye. So it's like he basically brainwashed or forced-

And also we don't hear from her. We don't hear, like she doesn't, does she talk? Have y'all heard her talk before? Does she? I haven't. She doesn't have a voice. So it y'all heard her talk before? Does she? She doesn't have a voice. So it's like, now we just see this woman, she's naked and he's standing there fully clothed. And it's just like, what is this?

This is all we know of hers. Like we don't know, we haven't heard anything from her. And we're like, is this what you heard? But we've seen her whole cootie cat. You know what I mean? So it gives off a different message. Whereas these other women that we're talking about, these other beautiful women,

they were talking about Megan Thee Stallion, her outfit. Because she had the pasties. Yeah, it was a few women. Which Little Kim infamously did. Which was a big deal. But these women are known to have like strong voices, strong opinions. Strong followings.

Strong following. So, and they're making a statement. So I think it's different. And that's why it's important, like the context of things. And it goes, the red carpet's a big deal. There's been months of meeting with designers, getting the right size. It's been talked about.

It's been seen. It's been drawn out. It's been, you know, hand sewn for this particular person, for us to be sitting here having a conversation about it right now. So I feel like it did its job. Fashion also comes in waves. And right now the wave is, you know, bearing it off. Showing it off.

Next year it might be something different, but right now the ladies are showing up and showing out. I love it. Speaking of Oscars, let's talk about this after party with our girl Tiana Taylor. Oh, the vanity pop there. So, we're talking. The rumors. The rumors with her and Erin Pierre.

Erin Pierre, that's Mufasa. Hey Erin, Pierre, that's Mufasa. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Erin Pierre. Okay, that's stuck in my head, I'm sorry. You know, they really are in a choke hold with this. Even to the point where my girls were like, mom can you ask ITT?

I was like, no that's not my business. That's none of our business bitch, but we are loving it. Really not y'all. They look so good. They look great. Breaking the internet, okay. I did see some of the comments,

they were like, it's giving PR, it's giving like put together. Why everything has to be PR? But I like that, either way. Why didn't you talk about it? Yeah, either put together. Why everything have to be PR? Why is that? You talked about it. Yeah, either way. It don't matter. Exactly.

It looks good. It looks great. She, they both look beautiful. Awesome. Her outfit. T is just motherfuckers. T is fine. She never misses.

She never misses. The body. She never, and she doesn't have to do much. No, she's very, very chill about it. It's the cut, it's the face. The face is always beat. Always. The body.

Yes, love the body. She gets to move your body like a snake maw. She can dance, she's a vibe. We love T. She is a vibe, she is really doing it, babe. She's a humble baddie for real. She's a humble baddie. Shout out to Tiana Taylor.

We love you, boo. We love you, T. We see you out there breaking the internet, getting all these awards. Like you deserve everything that's coming your way, boo. We love you, team. We see you out there breaking the internet, getting all these awards. Like, you deserve everything that's coming your way, babe. And we need to talk about what's coming up next. Like, what we got, see? Because we missed the music.

We need to know. What's going on? What's up, sis? Let us know. But you know, she did, she made a statement, you know. She's been very public about her relationship, her with her ex-husband and the father of her children. And really how she is maneuvering. She's been very public about her relationship, her with her ex husband and the father of her children and really how she is maneuvering and it could be lonely sometimes.

So what do y'all feel about the fact that she posted this on her page as well as he did? I feel like she has healed. She's ready to start a new journey. She's ready for another relationship and she's on it. I'm happy for her. I love it. I feel like she's ready for another relationship and she's on it. I'm happy for her. Like, I love it. I feel like she, you know, she's over that situation. She has healed herself.

She's, her career is amazing. She's, there's nothing else. Now it's time for me to date again. Do you feel like it's a time and a place to have that social media post for like, you know, we're official, we're official, we're Instagram official. That's the thing, I feel like people take social media, like they put too much like weight on social media posts.

Like just because I post with a man doesn't necessarily mean I'm with him. Right, I agree with that. And it's whatever y'all want it to be. If that's what y'all wanna think, fine. I think that's awesome. I mean, I think T think that's awesome. Yes. I mean, I think Tiana is living her best life. I think, you know.

And she should. That man is a beautiful man. He is. Okay. And why wouldn't I take a picture with him? And she beautiful too. Exactly. Like, yeah, we gonna get this picture. Yeah. I think it's beautiful.

I think she's living her life. I think she's having a great time. I think she is just in a space of really just living. Yeah. You know, and whatever comes to her comes to her. Yeah. I love it. Yeah. So, you know, do your thing boo.

Like we see you. I love it. Do you feel like you are letting the world know that you are available, that you are confident by posting your boo or just posting things that you have or just really just anything in general? What do you all feel how social media has impacted your relationships and also just like your personalities? I feel like, you know, we're already in the public's eye.

So people want to know. And, you know, we expose so much. It's like they're watching us every minute. So whatever we post, they're going to develop their own opinion about it. Anyway. Whether it's good, bad or indifferent. Good, bad, ugly, it's all, we can't hide it. We can't sugarcoat nothing because we're in the public eye

now. So when we post the good, they're going to speak on it. When we post the bad, they're going to speak on it. I think it's interesting because I feel like, I feel like I do post a lot. I feel like I am transparent. Like we're on a TV show. So I feel like I am putting a lot out there.

But I hear from a lot of people like, you need to post this, you need to post that, you need to, you know, show us how you do this, show us that. And I'm like, damn, like, I feel like I'm already doing a lot. And they want more, like people want more. They really want to really know. I think I'm stuck in like social media of like 2016 era or something, because it was like, you know, you could show,

yeah, you could really show little things here and there and it was enough. But now, no, they want to sit in your bedroom with you while you get dressed. They want to sit, y'all want to sit in the bathroom and watch me wash my face. What water do you drink? Yeah, so I'm not there yet,

but I'm trying to get there with it. You know what I'm saying? I feel like I'm there yet. I just need to record more. Like I feel like I'm not there yet, but I'm trying to get there with it. You know what I'm saying? I feel like I'm there yet. I just need to record more. Like I feel like I'm an open book. You go live a lot. You go live a lot. Yeah, you go live a lot.

I be loving my people. They be following me. They be asking me questions. I love to interact with my people. You engage. You engage. You are very engaging. I'm working on like setting the camera up.

I be forgetting. I be like, in my head, I'm like, oh yeah, later I'm gonna do this. And then I just, yeah. And then I get ready, I'm like, fuck, I didn't show them what I did to get ready. Now I'm just, I'm ready. You know?

Cause maybe you wanna know, maybe you wanna know. I'm a story girl. Y'all know I prefer the story over a post. Like I need to post more and have something like there, but. You the motivational queen. I rather just stories like come catch me. And you're good with the past. Like you bring the thank you oh yeah I was the past because she'll pull up stuff from 2002 yeah remember this time I damn don't post

that I was ugly back then those archives I love an archive I love an archive I love to motivate so I'm a story just a good archive. I love an archive, I love to motivate. So I'm a story, just a quick snapshot because I don't have time to be at it. I'm just not, I just don't have time. And the thing is, for me too, when I'm having a good time, I don't remember to post. Like if I'm having a blast.

You're in the moment. I'm in the moment, I'm not like, oh, let me get my phone and da da da da. Like I'm really having a good time. Like I'm not thinking about my phone, but I feel like those are the moments that I need to be, y'all want to see. You know what I'm saying?

We started in that era with the social media where we, before social media, where we just showed up. Where we would party, we would sweat out, we would dance. We would just have a good time. Now everything is very much like, I have to prove that I was here. I have to show that I was here. I have to show that I was here. And you're right, we will turn up and the phone will be down. That's me though, because I

was in Africa and I never had my phone. Like I was just having it off the grid. So in Africa, they were like, y'all need to be on Snap. They were like, I hear Snap is great for marketing. Now we have to get our snap chats up. So y'all follow us on Snapchat because that's where we're gonna be at. We're gonna be posting all our exclusive content on snap now. You just post whatever, however you feel.

Follow us. I'm Sherelle. I'm ash three underscore Nicole. And that's to be. We're gonna set her up as soon as we get done filming. OK, we got to get it together. So yes, but yeah, social media is running things like we got to stay on top of it. It's always always evolving.

And I feel like, you know, it's it's also turned into obviously a huge business. You can get marketing deals, you can get paid by posting, which y'all know it's the second and third and fifth job. You know what I mean? And it can become taxing, but it's beneficial to, you know, just the masses. They want to, they want you to post, they want you to show where you are, who you hanging with, constant content, absolutely, creative content and just always be in the know. If I hear content one more time, boy, do you like it? Content creator, content. We need more content, we need more content.

But people, they're getting paid off of it. They wanna know what drink is it that you are having in the morning that gives you this energy or this glow, whether it be true or not, they're getting a check for it. So I see it. Do you all feel like you, how do you feel about posting your families? I don't like posting my kids and they don't like it either.

I'm not going to force it upon them. Serenity is at an age where she don't understand what's going on. But people ask about her. They're like, she's like the niece of social media. Right. French fry. And French fry. Yeah, that's her name is French Fry. We'll be in the airport, that's French Fry?

Oh my goodness, she got me. I'm like, damn, my baby is famous. Everybody know who French Fry is. But as far as my older kids, my son, they don't like to be. Denim has his own personality. He loves it. But my older two. You just know that they just don't do it.

They do their own thing. They're like, mm-mm, don't put me on here, mom. Yeah, mine are the same way. Like Asada, Deuce could care less. And then Aray, you know, she's in the kind of tour. Well, my oldest, he's a star. He wants to be on social media. He is a star.

He wants to be a YouTuber. He wants to be all the things of social media. And he is, like he's really good. But I personally don't want him to be on, like, I don't mind him making videos and then like letting us post it for him. But I don't want him personally on social media. And looking for other content.

It's a lot going on on social media. It's addictive. Well, for me, it It's a lot going on on social media. It's addictive. But for me, it's just a lot of things that I don't want him seeing every day constantly. Like I know I can't hide him from stuff and I'm not trying to. But you can control the narrative. Yeah, I don't want him constantly seeing certain things like negativity, language. The algorithm is no joke. Exactly.

So yeah, if I could just protect him as long as I can, like I will. I think it's, you know, I agree. There's other stuff that he can be busy with and entertain with than social media. And I and I'm not. And, you know, if it was really his dream to be a YouTuber, I would definitely help him. But there's other things that I know he's really interested in. So I try to just guide him to those things.

You know what I mean? It's so funny. So look, Phil and Denim, we took them to the Soho house. Their personalities are too much alike. So we was at the Soho house and the music was playing. We were by the pool. Phil dancing on one side, Denim dancing on the other, and they stole the show. Like it was so hilarious.

I love that. It's crazy, like they break it down anyways. So at least you have the children there to entertain. Yes. The people love them, like their person is so crazy. They get along so great and their personalities is like very outgoing. They love to entertain.

They do, yes. They do, and they will put on a outgoing. They love to entertain. They do. Yes, they do. And they will put on a full show. A full show. A full show. I grew up doing that. You know, you just want to, you enjoy the music. You had to go and do your five, six, seven, eight.

That's funny, baby. Yeah. Show them what you got, baby. That's right. That's right. It's like a pastime, you know. It's very traditional. But now they're doing it for social media instead of for the parents.

It's a little different these days. They're getting paid. They are getting paid. Some of the top social media content creators are children. They're just opening up gifts and toys. That's the wave right now. Yeah, they're making a ton of money. Ryan, I know, you know, my babies, my babies love Ryan.

Well, they did anyway when they were younger. And yeah, for sure. So, but I mean, I don't know, I just would love to control that situation for as long as I can. You know what I mean? Now, what about significant others or booze? Like going back to how like speculating

with like T and Erin, I know we just were talking about that. But like, what do you all think about posting your mate for social media? And even us, like, you know, us, yeah, us with a new boo. Like, do you feel like when do you feel like it's time to like maybe make it Instagram official or would you do something a little different this time? So I know that's two different questions, but let's talk about it, ladies. Talk about it.

You posting him or nah? What? First of all, I don't have him. I know, I'm trying to catch you slipping. I don't, I don't know where he at. But, you know, it was a lot because in my previous relationship, everyone looked up to Chad and I.

Chad would post constantly. Like we stayed on social media and then it was the good, right? When we broke up and everything, they were posting, posting, posting. It was the bad. So I feel like everybody was chiming in on your relationship. Everybody. Y'all were in the blogs like every single day. Every single blog.

I was like, they really into this breakup. They were into the breakup. And still to this day, people are tagging Chad. People are tagging me. Y'all need to get back together. This Saturday and Thursday is not the same. We looked up to y'all, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. But I feel like if I were to go again

and if I ever was to get into another relationship, I probably would keep it from social media. Because of what you went through with Jatt. It's just too much. I feel like it's too much pressure. I just seen, actually today, Yandy confronting another person in regards to her and Mendeezy's relationship. People be so invested into it,

and you're gonna have your problems, and you're gonna go through things, but to just always, always, it comes to brainin'. And I feel like when you highlight the good to just always, always, it becomes a brainin'. And when you, I feel like when you, when you highlight the good in your relationships so, so much, I feel like it's a group over there that's like waiting for the downfall. To tear it down.

To tear it down. And you know, I respect Yandy and her relationship. She's like, you know, we all go through things. No relationship is perfect. Even the ones that think that, oh, you know, the people who look like y'all have a perfect relationship, you don't know what they went through. But I respect Yandy because at the end of the day,

she know her man isn't perfect, she's not perfect. The fact that she's like, nobody's gonna tear my family apart. I know my husband, go through things, I'ma still stick beside him. I respect that, but it takes a lot for a woman to stand there and say that in the public's eye. It is a lot. It's a lot. It is a lot. She's fighting for her marriage.

She's fighting for their legacy. She's fighting for their legacy. Oh, she said, baby, ain't nobody gonna come and tear this family apart. I know, that's right. But you read the comments and it's like, girl, you crazy, that man outside, this, that, and the third. But that's because they're miserable. But they're men outside too.

Exactly, they're miserable. They're miserable. It's crazy, but that's what you have to deal with when you're in the public side. Yeah, you have everyone else's opinion. And it's already hard enough with family members, let alone you have outside sources that really, they speculate, it's a vicious cycle.

They're speculating, oh, maybe they're dating. Ooh, what's going on? And then you finally get linked to somebody, then you are in a relationship with them. Then the next thing they're like, ooh, is's going on? And then you finally get linked to somebody, then you are in a relationship with them. Then the next thing they're like, ooh, is it a breakup? Or ooh, what's next? Can we get an engagement ring? I mean, it's just always something where the masses

are trying to manipulate the relationship. And then you have some people, men and women, their mission is not to come to that person. Their mission is, I'm gonna see how I can tear that up. Yeah. Of course, misery loves company for sure. It's people that are really out there that's like that. Yeah.

Their mission is to come and tear that, oh, y'all living too happy. Let me see if I can come tear some shit up. Yeah. That's messed up. People are crazy and just nasty. I think I'm gonna be married again and no one would even,

like I feel like y'all would know obviously, but not the people. So you would be whole married and- Won't let nobody know. Nobody, yeah. I feel like, but y'all would know. Yeah. You know what I'm saying?

My people would know. The, not the masses. I don't have to. And I wasn't, I had a public marriage. I was like covered in Vogue. It was Essence, not the masses. I don't have to, and I wasn't, I had a public marriage. I was like covered in Vogue. It was Essence, all these things and spent a lot of money on the wedding. And so it was like, I get that.

I already been there, done that. Again, I would still have a beautiful ceremony. I believe in marriage and all that, but like it wouldn't have to be. You have a beautiful ceremony and all that. They gonna know. Not necessarily. How?

No phones allowed, you locking our phones up? Yeah, we lock them up. Maybe they gonna look at them public records. Oh, Lexon got married to such a person. I mean, you just never know. It's hard to keep things private nowadays, though. Especially when you have a big public figure, Lex. Yeah, well, I think there are ways.

I don't know, I feel like, I mean, I've been married but I wanna talk, so. I just feel like I want everybody to know who I'm with. And like, first of all, I want everybody to know who I'm with because if he is doing anything crazy, like I'ma fucking find out. Yeah, you're gonna find out. But still, it's relationship that I'm in now. No, we ain't talking about it. No, okay.

I'm talking about just put yourself in it. Okay, well, yeah. I mean, I just feel like in general, I will want my relationship to be public. One, because like, I don't know, private. I mean, I don't know, maybe because I just haven't. There's a difference between private and secret. Private and peaceful, I feel like it's so much better because-

I agree with private and peaceful. I just got out of a public- But you could be with like a low key person who's not like, you know what I'm saying? Girl, that low key, you turn them high key. And then they like, ooh, I want him, let me see. Like, what if you're, I mean, you're a public person, but what if you're with somebody who's not like a pub,

a person in the public eye? So then it's not like so big, you know what I mean? You wouldn't go public with them? No. That's what I feel. I just wouldn't, I don't have to be public. Again, I will be in public with them. And what I mean by public.

So if you happen to see me in public. Yeah, you wouldn't post a picture. With a friend. No, I would not. I probably would not. Ever. No. Ever. No, I would not. I probably would not. Ever. No. Ever.

Mm-mm. Damn. No. I guess because I just haven't been in public. And it's too much. In my phone, in which y'all, there will be tons of pictures. But for the masses, it would not be. No.

Girl, you know, she with such and such. I guess it's just, I don't understand because I haven't been in a situation. You haven't? You only been in one relationship. I understand that. But that's amazing. I mean. I love that. Yeah.

But even you can get like people that are envious that they know that Phil posts you all the time. And you know. He don't really post me all the time, but I feel like he posts me all the time. He supports you in the comments. You know what I'm saying? He watched every home video.

He probably is the most popular. That's what I was like, wait a minute. He the first viewer on every episode. He's supportive. And he watched it on the big screen. I mean, he's so manly. Girl, look at Phil. Watch, I already watched it.

But people see that he's very supportive. And people don't like it either. I be seeing people too. What? Don't like it. Yeah, they try it, but it's fine. That's why I don't want a public relationship, because people can look at your relationship and like, hmm, let me see if I can do something.

And that's fine. Try it. Ain't nothing but the devil. Exactly. Exactly. That part. Y'all ain't going nowhere. Y'all best friends. We ain't going to let that happen. But that's a good topic. That was good. Yeah, I just think a good topic, Lex. That was good.

Yeah, I just think social media is a big deal. And again, being public figures on different levels, you know what I mean? We have to protect some kind of peace and privacy, especially because we are raising children. We do have businesses. We like to turn up. We like to have a good time,

but it's a time and a place for all of that. You know, so I just feel like people also want to know, they're curious because they don't have to live in very protected like we do. You know, we have to be careful when we post when we're away, we travel for, you know, safety reasons. All these things. This brings me to a question in my head. What about posting like you're, you know,

you going out, having fun, having a good time with your girls, but like your're you know you going out having fun having a good time with your girls but like your business partners follow you or like somebody you're doing business with like what do you feel do you think you should like hide them from like your stories? No. Or do you let them see? I let them see because you're my business partner you supposed to accept every part of me.

Okay maybe not business partners but like. You're doing business with a transaction. Yes. No, you're gonna see everything. Well yeah. So would y'all be, who are y'all close friends and who is that for? No, my close friends is different. Close friends is different from you seeing me partying and having fun. Because my biggest thing and I teach my agents this all the time, people want to feel like they can relate. In the real estate world, most of my clients, especially the women clients, they came to me because they either liked my style,

they liked the way I operated in business, they loved something about me. It wasn't just- It's low-key advertisement in its own way. It wasn't just because I was a business woman. It was like, oh, we have the same style. Or, ooh, I love the fact that you don't. I was cool with going to Allure

because I felt like I could be myself. I didn't have to be like this white, blue collar. Like, you know, wear suits. Every day. I love that. That's not me. I could be myself, I can show up. And then I feel like, you know, the clients that I work with,

they want to work with me because I'm me. Not because I'm not, they could go find an old white man realtor if that's what they want. You know what I'm saying? You're not hiding anything. Correct. Like people can relate. And that's what I feel is the trend now

and being really, you know, on the forefront of marketing and is really just being yourself is being authentic is being your true self. What is it that gets you motivated? Is it working out? We wish you did that. I see your discipline. So I'm like, okay, she's disciplined.

This is what she does. This is a routine. She served in the military. Or this is I were low key advertising. Yes, mom, she she's very responsible or whatever. Y'all see that I'm in culinary school, I'm creative in the dishes or whatever the case may be. It's low key just, you know, being authentic.

How can you relate to this person? Cause I do be feeling some kind of way when the like, well, my kids ain't in school no more, but like when they was in school and like the teachers or like the principal would follow me on Instagram. You mean from where they used to go? Yeah, like when they were in school. For a second, I was like, I don't know,

it made me feel like teachers mean a lot. They do, they do now, but for a second I was like, oh my gosh, like principal someone's out, it's following me, I don't want them to see me. Girl, cause we poppin'. Let I was like, oh my gosh, like, principal so-and-so is following me. I don't want them to see me. Girl, cause we poppin'. Let me tell you, the mamas, there was one mama, some of my baseball, shout out to some of my baseball mamas.

You know my mama is a school teacher, my mama be outside. Yeah, they be outside. I get it from my mama. They text me on the side. Hey, you there. Yeah, the momas. I feel like the moms, there's a lot of moms,

like, in the PTAs that follow me. Yeah, I'm part feel like the moms, there's a lot of moms like in the PTAs that follow me. Maybe hit me back. Maybe hit me back. They'd be like, yo, last night you had a time. I was like, you sure did. You know, I was like, just make sure you give me them notes because I'm definitely not going to make it to the next meeting.

It's the morning meeting. You let me know. But, you know, it's just, we live in authentic sales and I feel like that is what is the top tier of just social media now. Who are you? And we wanna know, we wanna relate, whether you're upset, where you're sad,

where you're angry, where you're, you know, distressed, but you're getting over things you're overcoming. I feel like that is the that's the wave. I definitely got to step it up and do a little bit more of like showing like just a deeper, I feel like side. The fun Ashley. Yeah. OK, we see this mom, we see this wildlife, Ashley. Let's see the party, the turn up, the the friend side of Ashley.

I feel like I need to show Alessa the turn up. You do? Yes. I feel like you have a range. I need to show Alessa the turn up. You do? Yes. I feel like you have a range. I see more of wildlife, Ashley. Oh, well yeah, but that's me to my core though. Right. That's your daytime.

When y'all see me doing anything outside. Listen, Ashley was trying to go on the safari the whole time. I would have gone with you. Period. And I would have been there. It's usually out of the way, but it's worth it. Yeah, that's what I wanna do.

So next time we will go, I'll be there with you doing the historical sites and everything like that. ["Never Out of My Lane"] All right, you guys, listen. What? We haven't gotten to it and it's been all over the blog. What? It's a topic that is not talked about in the world.

And I feel like I want to hear the perspective from you guys as women. Anthony Edwards, top NBA player, has been in the blogs in regards to having another baby. Right. And he's saying that he does not want, he's given up rights. He don't want any rights.

You know, he's gonna pay the money. Right. He'll pay the money, pay the child support, but he told her. Financial responsibility. Financial responsibility, but he don't want no physical custody. Nothing to do. So no visitation. None of that. Okay. Okay. So what would you do? Okay, this was the situation from me reading. There was a text message. She hit him up. She was like, let's talk about it. I'm pregnant. He was like, basically, he don't want nothing to do with it. Get rid of it. She decides to keep the baby. As a woman, if you were with a man and he said it like, listen, I can't do that.

I can't be in your child's life, in the child's life. So just get rid of it. Like I'm focusing on me and my family. What would you do? So this is definitely, that's a tough situation. I don't know the backstory of like, you know, if they had a relationship. Because he's in a relationship. Oh, OK, so that is another layer.

So so it was a one time thing like they I think they were messing around. But he is in a serious relationship. He had and that's why he just wants that. He still wants to be financially responsible. Like here, here's the here's some money, but he's like, please do not, I don't need to have contacts. But before she even, when she found out she was pregnant, he was like getting an abortion.

As two participating parties, when you decided to lay down and, you know, have relations, there comes that agreement. And of course, we all know how that baby comes. So with that being said, I feel like both parties had the decision to make. Are we going forward with this or not? Obviously, one said, yes, I'm going to keep the child. And we don't know if that's her first, last, only,

whatever the case may be, whatever her motivation is. Whereas him coming from his side already being in a relationship with children, I'm assuming, I don't know. And also being in the spotlight and, you know, just it's a lot of pressure on his end and hers too. I don't know anybody's situation, but just coming off of just stories and things like that, it has to be an agreement between the two because what you're deciding to do

when you decide to keep a child, as we all know as parents and mothers, it starts from the time of conception. You know, our bodies start to change, especially being a woman, and our minds are just going off the radar. And you want somebody there with you to go through this. You know, you want a partner. But if he was like, you know what, I'm good from the jump,

I feel like it's kind of on her if she is ready to take that leap. We do have options, you know, but if she's like, you know what, I want to keep this child. I want to, you know, endure 18 years of financial situation because per state is different. But most of the time you might as well, 18 years is the cap for financial assistance, but it's a lifetime to be a mother. So am I willing to risk whatever, you know, money-wise, mental-wise, time-wise, raising this child alone minus this guy?

So what is the motivation? Did you just want him to be there, you know, for the financial gain or is it like, I really do want to be a mom? And that's the problem that we have, especially in our community. Like for me, if I already knew the situation, yeah, why am I bringing another child into this world?

Exactly. Like, okay, we can put place the blame on the male, but we know what we're doing too as a woman. Exactly. You know this man, it's both parties. Yeah. So a lot of people are like, okay, Anthony, like you was wrong, you was wrong, but when are y'all going to make sure that woman take her responsibility? And he's low key doing a great effort of saying,

you know what, financially, I will do X, Y, and Z, which he said. So like, he's probably doing quote unquote more than he should since he was like, I don't want anything to do with this child. I know another, I'm sorry Ashley, but I know another situation where it was a relationship. They slipped up, you know,

they slipped up, had babies, and the woman kept saying she was gonna have an abortion, get rid of them. She went to the appointments and she decided to keep the kids, they ended up with twins. And he works a lot, travels a lot. He's like, I can't do it. Like, it's a lot I'm gonna miss out on so much trying to. And sometimes it, you know, when you forced to have another child.

It's already bringing a little energy. It's bringing energy. And they have like, they're, you're pulling them away because they can't attach to those kids because they didn't want those kids. It's tough. And it's like, you're putting that father in a hard space. I agree with that.

I think, you know, we can have the argument about, like, it's the woman's choice. But I think the woman's choice starts before conception. Like, yes, it takes two to tango. It takes two to make a baby. But like, I think women, you know, it takes two to tango, it takes two to make a baby, but I think women, it's our bodies. So we know when we're ovulating and when we're not. The man, he doesn't know.

Right. You know what I mean? They can go anytime. We know what's going on with our bodies. We know when it's that time of the month, when it's not. So I feel like that's when the responsibility is on the woman. It's like, you know your body and you know

that this situation might not work out if you know, you get pregnant. He was already a little shaky. He already in a relationship. Yes. So I feel like at that point, that's where I would say like the responsibility is primarily on the woman.

You know what I mean? Like, yeah, we know it's two people, but you don't have to lay down with that man knowing you ovulating. You know what happens if you have unprotected sex. And you know what you ovulating. Exactly, you know what's going to happen if you have unprotected sex.

So when it gets to the point of him making the decision, like, this is my decision, I feel like, you know. He can. Yeah, at this point. Yeah, I agree. And I feel like, you know, we have to be, as women, we have to take on the responsibility of thinking of the child too.

Like, you know, you're not married to this man. You know, you're not connected to him in any kind of way. So we have to think about, you know, the child at this moment. Like, if I bring a child into this world, what is the quality of life going to be? How is it, you know, like, these are the things that as women, you should be thinking about when you lay down with a man. Like, it just is. It just is.

100%. But I feel like women don't think about that. You know, we are emotional creatures and we're laying down thinking like, oh, he loves me. And then too, you never know. Even a man could be telling you and doing all the right things and you thinking he's going to be a great father and it ends up not being. But at the end of the day, like in this situation, I really feel like the responsibility was on her

in the beginning. And I hate putting blame on people like that, but I hope that she isn't like trying to say that he's wrong for the decision that he made. I think he's making the best decision he can for himself, his family. I feel like it's very dope. And the situation.

I agree with you. Because why bring that baby into the world knowing that he was a fling baby. You know, like that's already trauma. That's already absolutely. So just go, I'm going to take care of him. But, you know, you need to figure out that situation. And I hate that sounds so bad.

It sounds bad. But it does sound. Men should have a right as well. I know both of y'all, both parties are making dumb decisions before the baby is, you baby is coming into this world, but I do feel like men should have a decision as well. But he need to wrap it up. Wear a condom, sir.

Yeah, we still gonna hold you accountable, Anthony. He can't just be out here making babies, talking about uh-uh. He said he don't wanna be the face of the NBA, so he's trying to do him. You're talented, Anthony. He's trying to do him. He just want to be his. He's talented.

He want to live his life. And he wants to- And make babies. And make babies, I guess. I mean, you know. And not be the pappy. I love it, I love it. Anthony, baby.

You better strap it up. If you going to be out here. Strap it up. Wrap it up. We can really just talk on it a little bit more before we close it up. But it's just, you know, it's, it's, it's a lot, it goes a lot of ways. He's a public figure. And you know, he sells to a higher standard.

The exactly the blogs are gonna chime in. But now this is going to be a target. This is unfortunate for that baby. When that baby grow up. It's gonna know my question is what know who's the baby that she didn't want. My question is, would she have kept the baby if it wasn't Anthony Edwards?

See, and there you go. Questions that need answers. So those are questions you ask before you respond to what we're speaking on. Would she have kept the baby if it wasn't him? That's a great question. What decision would you have made if it was a janitor worker and you just liked him,

but he said he didn't want to make it happen. And I'm sure with affidavits and court records and all, whatever they got going on for paternity and all that, it'll come out if it does. So anyway. She probably don't give a damn about what we talking about right now.

She like, I'm gonna get this check and. Yeah, but you know, a check can only do so much. It's still, it's good to have a partner there, you know, to help out. All right, you guys tell us your thoughts on how you feel about the situation. It's a tough situation for both parties. Until then we got something exciting.

We got Humblebatties Mel. Hey. Ty. It's been time. Let's see what we got today. Who we got today. We got somebody from Florida. Okay, what's up?

Hey. Okay, hey Humblebatties. Hey. It's Erica from Tallahassee. Hey Erica. Hey Erica Boo. And I need some serious advice. This is one of a roller coaster.

This is one's roller coaster. I need to take notes. Take notes girl. Okay. My husband and I have been together for seven years. And like any couple, we've had our ups and downs. Months ago, we separated for a month. And during that time, he ended up getting another woman pregnant.

Ooh. At first, I was devastated and ready to call it quits. But after some deep conversations and therapy, he swears it was an accident. Now I'm torn. This man is the love of my life and I can't imagine myself with anyone else, but can I really move past this? So tell me, baddies, would you stay

and fight for your marriage? Or is this a red flag screaming, run for the hills? Okay, run for the hills, Tallahassee. Ooh, ooh, this is tough. Ooh, I don't know. Can your trust be rebuilt or once a line is crossed, is it game over? Help me out.

Well, they were separated, so we gotta give them that. But you already stroking without a condom for a month. I was gonna say, you definitely putting some, but they didn't know that they were going to get back together either. I don't know. I feel like if you go so far as to get somebody else pregnant, I feel like you was gone, like you, you gone. And I don't know if I could, I could get over another child. That's a tough one. I don't think I could, because that changes the whole dynamic of our marriage now 100% and so whatever issues we already have

I feel like it's now it's gonna be yeah, I'm seeing yeah, I agree becomes very toxic and becomes very resentful and That's a hard place to heal from it's a lot and then now you have a physical face. You have a child that is evidence low key, of infidelity or of evidence of slip-ups. And it's only been a month. A month is not that long. So imagine if it was longer.

You would have been diving into all kind of cootie cat with no condom. That's a tough situation. I don't like it. And I just, is that how it works though? no, uh, kind of like, uh-uh. That's a tough situation. It is. And I just, are you, is that how it works though? You get separated and then you can just go fuck whoever. Is that how that works? It should be communication.

Like, you know, for separating, you're supposed to take your time. You're supposed to like figure out what the issues are and like, yeah, do you want to stay, do you want to go? But you know, man, with separation, a lot of men, and I noticed... Like a free pass to go have sex with other people? It's like their coping mechanism, the negative coping mechanism of them being separated, it's just going out having a whole bunch of sex. It's sad. I've witnessed it because being in the military, I was in the 82nd Airborne...

No, I was in SOCOM at McDell Air Force Base, and I was the only female. And I would witness some of these guys go through breakups and they would just every night talk about, yeah, I had this chick at my house, bro, and I screwed her, her, and her. And it's just like, I'm hearing. But it's not healing them. So I feel like- No, it's just like, but it's not, it's not healing them.

So I feel like. It's temporary satisfaction. Yeah, temporary satisfaction. And I feel like. But they just want to just break up then. Don't say separate it because to me separation means like we're taking time to really fix, see if we can salvage. It is supposed to be that.

The marriage, you know, but if you go off and fuck up some more, then like. But a lot of men to be that. The marriage, you know? But if you go off and fuck up some more, then like... But a lot of men go through that. They just, to get to that temporary fix is, let me go screw this one. But they fall back into thinking about that person that they love. Well, Erica and Tallahassee, I don't know.

I would say... That's tough, baby. Go ahead and file for divorces. That's what I would say. I don't think I can make it work. It's going to be so many issues. It's time to move on, Erica. You have to both be in a healthy space to really accept that.

It's not getting healthy right now. It is very hard. That is difficult. Because if she ended up pregnant by another man, he ain't taking you back. See, that's one thing, that double standard baby. Or that man, he ain't taking you back. See, that's one thing that double standard baby. Or that baby. Think about that.

He ain't taking you back. Yeah. And when you decide to stay, you now bringing this child in your home too, which is a constant reminder, which is also another layer. So therapy and, oh, that's a lot. Go file for divorce and yeah,

then go to therapy, move on. Move on. and yeah, they go to therapy. Move on. Yeah. Oh, that was deep. That was deep. That is the end of Humble Baddies podcast. Before we end this, we want to let y'all know some exciting news. We will be now going live on YouTube.

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