Club Shay Shay - Best of Advice & Wisdom part 1: Unc REFLECTS on LOVE + Are Women LOUDER about cheating?!

Episode Date: July 12, 2025

Shannon Sharpe and Chad “Ochocinco” Johnson share dating advice, joke about Unc avoiding FaceTime, and react to Tom Brady selling his Florida mansion amid Gisele breakup rumors. 0:00 - Unc... reflects on Past failed relationships 12:35 - Is Unc trippin for NOT using FaceTime  27:57 - Are women louder than man when it comes to cheating? 37:13 - Is Tom Brady escaping Gisele by selling Florida mansion (Timestamps may vary based on advertisements.) #Volume #ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 This is an iHeart Podcast. Let's go check this out. A man in the U.S. has been arrested and charged with six counts of attempted homicide after allegedly traveling more than 1,000 miles and setting fire to the home of a man who had been communicating with his ex-girlfriend. Hold on, he's supposed to check the girl. He ain't supposed to check nothing. Ex, ex. Oh, ex.
Starting point is 00:00:43 Yeah, you ain't supposed to check nothing. Man, listen man, I'm going about my business, X. Oh, X. Yeah, you ain't supposed to check nothing. Man, listen man, I'm going about my business, man. I'm going about your business, man. I don't understand, I don't understand. And you say that. I don't understand how people be crashing out by people, whether they be long, even if you wit somebody, and a guy has the ability to gain access
Starting point is 00:01:04 to the person that you with. What does that tell you? Why am I crashing out about. Her allowing you to have access that lets me know where I stand. It's easy. Move on. That's not hard. I don't understand why it's so hard to wrap that around our head.
Starting point is 00:01:26 Because every time we start dealing with people, we add a title to it. We add relationship. We add marriage, situationship, no matter what it is. And for some reason, we as men, we view that as my property or ownership. That individual is not- A thousand miles, Ocho. Do you know how far a thousand miles is? Man, you ain't got to tell me to, I don't own you.
Starting point is 00:01:48 I, you're not my property. If we're together, I appreciate that. And I'm moving based off how you move. It's pretty easy. When things look funny to you, make it a comedy show. It's simple. That's how you keep from getting yourself hurt. So in other words, when they start acting funny,
Starting point is 00:02:12 I might as well, hey, get me a big nose and some red shoes cause I'm gonna be a clown too. Make it a comedy show, cause they will make a fool of you. And then play victim. Hey, you remember the song, Michelle and Diego cello in love and basketball? You make a fool of me.
Starting point is 00:02:33 Tell me why you say that. Wait, we made love just last night. She sing that song? Wait a minute. Oh, hell. You ain't tell me that. Hold on, what's the name of the song real quick? I want to kiss you.
Starting point is 00:02:52 I'm going to put that in my library. Yes, she want you with the pain that I do. I smell you in my dreams. But now when we're face to face, you won't look me in the eye. No more friendship, no more love. You say I can't touch you. I can't touch you. No more.
Starting point is 00:03:12 Aw, man. What's the title? What's the title of the song? You Make a Fool of Me. Love and Basketball. You make a fool of me? Yes. Michelle and Jack, Jago, cello. Hold on, hold on. There it is. Fool on, hold on. There it is, fooling me right there. I'm finna add it to my library right now.
Starting point is 00:03:30 He said, does she want you with the pain that I do? Let that sink in Ochoa, does this person that you want to be with, does she want you with the pain that I do? Cause I can smell you in my dreams. You didn't, hey, if you take it slow when you listen to what you said, you got to feel that.
Starting point is 00:03:55 You got to feel, you got to feel that. That's, Ocho, every song that this woman sings, it resonates with me cause I know I'm a very passionate person. Yes sir. Ocho every song that this woman sings I Resonates with me cuz I know I'm a very passionate person With I know how you feel take your time now take your time. I Told you when when uh When old girl played that song for me, Ocho, trust,
Starting point is 00:04:34 that's how you get to me. You play a song and I'm never gonna forget it. Right, right. I just, and when I, the first time I heard that woman's voice and every time that she's close to me, I go see her. I went to see her at the Tabernacle. I went to see her like twice at the Tabernacle. I've seen it in LA, I've seen it in Colorado. I've seen it three or four times in Atlanta.
Starting point is 00:04:58 And a lot of times, I'm probably the only straight male there. It's a lot of women that love that love. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. It's like that, huh? Oh, man. And she under the soundtrack Love Drones. She on there too?
Starting point is 00:05:18 Yes. If you feel the way I feel for you, rush over the name of the song, her and Marcus Miller. Right. She got a song with John Cougar. Oh, man, look here. Chad y'all will know. So I'm telling y'all now. If y'all say, man, who's Shannon Sharp? Ain't no question, don't even ask. Michelle and Deggie O'Cello. That's live. If you feel the way I feel, I'll rush over. There's no reason to be alone. My thoughts for you. Patiently I wait for an invitation.
Starting point is 00:05:52 I often imagine you. Come on, man. I picture that you're no more the voice than on my telephone that I find myself rushing home to. Oh man. Hey. Love all that merch. Hey. Man, don't choke, man, don't give me start over here.
Starting point is 00:06:07 Yeah, I know, listen. I can hear the passion, I can hear the enthusiasm in your voice, man. It sounds like you hurting, you're not hurting, are you? No, no. Cause you know music, music make you think about certain people. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:06:24 So who you think about? think about certain people? Yeah. So who do you think about? Uh, beautiful, uh, bitter, uh, uh, dead end Boulevard faithful Mary Magdalene. Uh, come on. Take, I got to take your time. Man, take your time. Take your time. Woooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo oooo ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo ooooooooooooo ooooo ooooo o o o o o o o o o o This woman's work. Mm.
Starting point is 00:07:06 I'm trying to think of the song. Hold on, what's the name of the song? Symptoms Unknown by Max Whitton. Symptoms Unknown? Symptoms Unknown. Symptoms Unknown. Symptoms Unknown. What movie? What movie is that? symptoms unknown symptoms unknown symptoms unknown.
Starting point is 00:07:26 What movie? What movie is that? Is that a sound from a soundtrack? No. Actually I said that many, many years ago. I tried, I tried to win a back. You don't know. Whoa. Whoa. Whoa. I tried to win a back. I tried to win a back. Hold on, hold on, hold on. You ain't never, you ain't tell us this story. You lost. I tried to win it back. You know what I'm saying? I tried to win it back. I tried to win it back. I tried to win it back. I tried to win it back. I tried to win it back.
Starting point is 00:07:45 I tried to win it back. I tried to win it back. I tried to win it back. I tried to win it back. I tried to win it back. You lost somebody, wasn't something that you did, and you tried to win it back?
Starting point is 00:07:54 No, it wasn't something that I did. I was just bulljabbing around. Oh, you playing a game. You playing a game. Yeah. And what happened was, I was just dribbling. Dude stole the ball and shot at me.
Starting point is 00:08:06 And it went in. Got me. So this song, I said, look, I went and bought her a CD. I saw her someplace. I bought her a CD, and I handed it to her. I said, there are two songs I want you to listen to. I want you to listen to it silently, and I want you to listen to Symptoms.
Starting point is 00:08:24 OK. She said Shannon. I want you to listen to. I want you to listen to it silently and I want you to listen to symptoms. Okay. She said, Shannon, I'm getting married. Oh, oh. Oh. Oh. Hey. Hey, that hurt me and that wasn't even me. So, you bad too.
Starting point is 00:08:54 I know that hurt, how that made you feel. I know that hurt. Well, I can't get mad at results I didn't get for the work I didn't put in. Don't do that. Don't you do that. Don't you, hold on. I'm a first, y'all know how I am.
Starting point is 00:09:12 I queued it to you straight. Hold on. I'm honest. I'm 1000. I'm honest with you. Dude, give it to me. Hey, chat, chat, do me a favor. Somebody listen to what he says real quick
Starting point is 00:09:22 and then type and write it to me on Twitter. Bring that to me one more time Yeah, I can't get mad at the results. I didn't get for the work. I didn't put in Had I done what he had done maybe the situation who knows but I didn't do What I was supposed to do. Oh Joe y'all know me chat y'all them y'all them bit If y'all follow me anything if y'all know me, chat. Y'all follow me anything. If y'all know anything about Shannon Sharpe, I'm going to accept responsibility. That's all I know how to do. If I'm wrong, I got to be mad enough to say that. That's one thing Mary Porter believed
Starting point is 00:09:54 in that. My grandfather believed in that. I believe they did a great job of raising their nine and raising my mom's three. I can never be mad. I'm never gonna be mad at results I didn't get for the work I didn't put in. Dang. Well, that was a good one. That's why I do this what I do now. Ochoa, I tell people when I go talk and I say hard work doesn't guarantee you anything,
Starting point is 00:10:18 but without it, you don't have a chance. You see, if I put the hard work in and I don't get the result that I'm hoping for, okay, that wasn't for me. But I never want to have regrets. Say, man, if I had just worked harder, if I had just done this, you'll never meet anybody. You won't meet one person that will tell you
Starting point is 00:10:38 Shadow Sharp didn't work harder. God, I love that quote, boy. That's all. That was good. That's all I know how to do. But I do, I spend a lot of time on shows. Sometimes I'll just start cleaning up and I'll put Michelle and Diego cello on and I'll just go. I'll listen to Maxwell, I'll listen to Sade, I'll just listen to Atlantic Star, I mean, I just like,
Starting point is 00:11:09 and it just like, okay. Hey, I got a question. Do you have a playlist already with some of your favorite songs when you cleaning up? I do. You gotta send me that playlist, man. I gotta check this out. I gotta check this out.
Starting point is 00:11:24 Boy, that's good. That's some good music, man. That gotta check this out. I gotta check this out. Boy that's good. That's some good music man. That's some good music. Oh yeah. That's I just like I said I'm just I'm just a guy look if I'm wrong I'm wrong. And I missed opportunities. I mean I see people now that you know got married I mean and some women be honest with me say Shana look you good to have fun with. I mean, and some women, be honest with me, say, Shannon, look, you good to have fun with. You're not the marrying type. So they viewed you as the fun guy. Because they know, they say, Shannon,
Starting point is 00:11:53 work is way more important than any relationship is gonna be with you. Okay. Yeah, but then you know what? That's the- I say, Shannon, your greatest enjoyment comes from work. Nothing brings you pleasure like work. But that doesn't even put you
Starting point is 00:12:07 in the category of the fun guy too. That's not the category. I'm a fuck, Ocho, they look at me, I'm aesthetically, you know. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm built like a centaur. You know what I'm saying, half bad. You know what I'm saying, Ocho?
Starting point is 00:12:21 I'm built like a, all they be in equal, they know what they get. What they get on shake. Yeah. I mean, two of the possible ain't bad. Long as you know you got the big joker, little joker. You good. I'm gonna get that.
Starting point is 00:12:35 But. Oh, that's a. I'm one of them guys, you know, love is like an eclair. Once it goes cold, it can't be reheated. Man, wait up. Man, you a minute. Well, you think you slick, right? Go ahead and get that to me again. I'm gonna use a hotel pen and paper.
Starting point is 00:12:58 You know what it is. Love is like an eclair. Once it goes cold, it can't be reheated. Oh, that's a good one. That's a good one. It is. Hey, I got it. I got it. Here's the thing, Ocho. See if it's like this here. I mean, even like this.
Starting point is 00:13:24 So I can sleep in through that crack. But just imagine, as the separation gets further and further apart. I'm just saying, don't you? I'm just saying. You listen, you gotta tell me. Hey, because I had it. You know, we take a break.
Starting point is 00:13:45 OK? Yeah. I'm not responsible for whatever happens on this break. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. That's why I don't take breaks. Man, Ochoa, I had one. I was like, hold on.
Starting point is 00:14:01 Took a break? You know I'm doing me. You doing you. Right. Talk'm doing me. You doing you. Right, talk to me now. Come on now. She got mad. Cause I was seeing, I said, hold on, we not together.
Starting point is 00:14:11 But I thought you was going. So you thought I was going to wait while you do you? Wait, wait, wait, what? Wait who? Hey, wait, man, hey. Taxi! I was flagging them down. I ain't waiting on nothing. Man, shit. Hey, wait, man, hey, taxi! I was flagging them down. I ain't waiting on nothing. Hey, I call Uber, I call Uber and catch a ride.
Starting point is 00:14:31 That's how quick I was trying to get the way I was going, don't you? You ain't faster than me. Huh? Wait for, wait for who? Wait for what? You know how long we been in the game, huh? I'm out the game. Oh, I'm out the game too?
Starting point is 00:14:50 I'm out with you. I don't know what you waiting for. Are you laughing? I ain't got time to play. What did I tell you about that mountain? 20s, wasted them. 30s, wasted them. 40s, wait.
Starting point is 00:15:04 Oh, boy, they're going the other side of the mountain, you think I'm finna play? But what I told you about choosing who choose you. You're right about that now. Mon'a, I ain't got time to play. What I told you, 2026 I'ma be what? Married.
Starting point is 00:15:20 Man, you'll be a fool if you think I'm not. You see what happened to everybody else that has gotten married? Do you see the blessings that have been bestowed upon these individuals that are getting married? Well, I might do that then. Hey, you man, you can't. I see what happened to LeBron and Kobe rest his soul.
Starting point is 00:15:39 He got married, Jordan got married. Josh. Man, let me go to, what's some dating sites? What's some dating sites? Now, you don't need no dating sites. You don't need no dating sites. You see? You see how I done put my band back on when I'm practicing.
Starting point is 00:15:57 Oh, you practicing? Oh, I'm practicing. I'm practicing. I think I'm thinking about popping a question, maybe about, maybe in the summertime, maybe in the summertime. The only question I'm asking is, hey, how much y'all paying me?
Starting point is 00:16:16 And that's the only question I'm asking. I don't know what you talking about. Hold on, wait, who gonna pay you? I don't know. I'm gonna get me a job. Hell, I gotta get some jobs like you. Oh, yeah, I got, yeah, I got 50 lemma, them thang. Oh, you know, I'm out here, I'm out here in LA for work. I gotta drive, I gotta drive to San Diego in the morning.
Starting point is 00:16:37 Gee. You gotta drive to San Diego? Why didn't you just go to San Diego? Okay, I had to make a piss stop in here. I got some meetings I got to take in the morning. You hear me? I got some good meetings I got to take in the morning. I got some good stuff.
Starting point is 00:16:50 I got some good news and be able to tell you talk to you about. And, Yeah, I'm gonna get mad. That's it. I'm gonna get mad. Whoa, before you get mad, pay my 52 out.
Starting point is 00:17:04 Why am I, I need that for the need that for the way I'm a crash. It does anybody object object. That a word will be fitted to under. Hey, I could imagine a member of the that episode, A Different World? When Dwayne Wade, when she was, when Whitney was fitting to marry the other dude. A different world.
Starting point is 00:17:30 He came, oh, hey, but that was so funny. Does anybody object? I do, Whitney, I love you. Hey boy, that was funny, man. That was funny. Has that ever actually happened? No, I doubt it. I doubt anyone has been in the wedding in that setting
Starting point is 00:17:50 and the pastor said, does anybody object to them getting married or whatever the word is he says? I doubt somebody actually stood up and said, yes, I object. How you gonna marry this guy? We were just together last night, honey. I'm telling y'all, y'all already know I tell it. You think that happened before?
Starting point is 00:18:12 I doubt it, I doubt it. Hell nah, I ain't tell it. I don't think so. First of all, anybody that I've ever been with that's gotten married, I ain't know nothing about it. So I wasn't know we're around. Everyone like I was going, everyone like they gonna invite me.
Starting point is 00:18:29 You never know. I mean, look, they like Shannon, look, I got out there somebody that wanna be with me. Right. And you know what? Shannon, you great to have fun with. Shannon, you're not gonna get married. Oh, hey, so you're the fun guy.
Starting point is 00:18:46 So you like, you like future. They look at me because they look at, okay, you look at a guy and you say, okay, look how driven he is. Look how he takes care of his body. Right, right, right, right. They like, I'm always going to be second. You never going to put me first.
Starting point is 00:19:04 I like, I like that. I like that. Oh, first. I like that. I like that. Oh, damn. I like that. See, you know what you need to do? You know what you need to do? You have to learn to be intentional. So you can put an individual first
Starting point is 00:19:15 and still have your same regimen. You can still be structured and disciplined in all that you do, the exact way you are, but still be intentional about your partner. You can do that. And you just don't want to. I'm intentional with my choices and my decisions that I make.
Starting point is 00:19:39 If I make them, I'm making them for a reason. I take your word for it, Ocho. I ain't, I ain't got a... If I made me a profile, Ocho, ain't nobody gonna believe it's me. Yeah, y'all. You know, the profiles, you can FaceTime and stuff. Oh, no, I don't do that FaceTiming.
Starting point is 00:20:05 You gotta build up some time. You gotta build up some time to get me to FaceTime. I don't like that FaceTime and stuff. Oh no, I don't do that FaceTiming. You gotta build up some time. You gotta build up some time to get me to FaceTime. I don't like that FaceTime. Yeah, hell no. God damn, you gotta build up some, but that's a little bit more intimate than talking on the phone. I butt down every FaceTime.
Starting point is 00:20:21 It's seven a.m. Did she call me back at one? Did you need something? If I needed it, I don't need it now. How you gonna call me back five hours later talking about that I need something? I know who I'm not calling if I'm ever in trouble, if I be jailed.
Starting point is 00:20:37 Ash, I'm not calling. At night, I'm looking. At night, I'm looking. I like, no, hell nah. Oh Joe, I've never talked to my brother or my sister on FaceTime or my mom. You can't do that. We in 2025, you got me involved.
Starting point is 00:20:55 What are we talking about? My homeboy, if me or my homeboy, we accidentally call somebody, well, I'll take, hey bro, you calling me FaceTime, what's up? I accidentally call somebody, I take, hey bro, you calling me FaceTime, what's up? My sister, I've never talked to my brother, my sister or my mom on FaceTime. Really the only, my oldest daughter is the only one.
Starting point is 00:21:17 My son, like he just had the baby or he had a child, he would FaceTime me something like that. My youngest daughter, ain't calling no FaceTime. No like that. My youngest daughter ain't calling no FaceTime. No, you gotta build up time, want you to get FaceTime. Yeah. Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. Let me get this straight.
Starting point is 00:21:35 Y'all stay with me just for a second. Yeah, no, come on, come on, because the chat not finna agree with you. Whatever you get ready to say. Y'all FaceTiming off the RIP? Yes! Wait for it. You acting like FaceTime is off the RIP? Yes! Wait for it! You acting like FaceTime is some type of
Starting point is 00:21:48 It is! It's a part of technology! It's a way to communicate! What are we doing? What are we talking about? We over thinking and we analyzing too much! You gotta come outside that box! What you need to see me for?
Starting point is 00:22:04 It's a little bit more intimate. You gotta come outside that box. What you need to see me for? It's a little bit more intimate to be able to see the person you're actually talking to, to see the reactions, see their facial expressions. Like what are we doing? You don't make them earn that? I don't know. I don't know. Hey, put that up.
Starting point is 00:22:21 FaceTime. FaceTime, listen, listen. So let me illustrate. Hold on. I put that up face time. So talk to me. Let's just say you meet somebody you get that number right you face diamond off the rip. Oh, I need to see. Listen to me now. Man, stay with me.
Starting point is 00:22:47 In the mornings, I need to FaceTime me. I need to see what I'm waking up to. I need to see in your natural state. Let's start there. I don't want to see you dolled up. If I'm choosing to choose you as a life partner, who am I getting? I'm not getting what I see on Instagrams. You hear me? I don't need to see you as a life partner. Who am I getting? I'm not getting what I see on Instagrams.
Starting point is 00:23:06 You hear me? I don't need to see your dolled up. You'll be in the morning, that's what you go get. Hey, how you doing? That's fine. Hey, yeah, man, you good. You go get blacked out. That's what you go get, uh-uh.
Starting point is 00:23:18 Hey, come on. Hey, listen, there's so many things we need to work on. I need to be a therapist or something. No, you don't need to be nothing. I need to be a therapist or something. No, you don't need to be nothing. I need to be a therapist. I don't want you to be nothing. They gotta earn the right to FaceTime. Off the rip?
Starting point is 00:23:31 FaceTime. Off the rip? Oh, come on, champ. Y'all gotta go. Yo, man, you can't FaceTime off the rip. Damn. So hold on, I got it. You want FaceTime off the rip,
Starting point is 00:23:42 but if she wanted to have a one night stand, you'll pop one of them sparks quick. Nah, nah, nah, nah, nah. I don't got too old. I got too much at stake for a one night stand. Nah, them days over, Ocho. I've never been, nah, I'm out of that. Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. Oh hell no, you ain't finna do this. Not today, not on Monday. What's today? Monday. Well, as long as it's where you are, it might be Tuesday some places.
Starting point is 00:24:12 I'm just curious, I don't mean to be in your personal business, but listen, what you got like a 30 day rule, six day, 90 day rule? You have to see how things are going? You have to fill it out? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Extremely cautious. What are we doing?
Starting point is 00:24:23 Extremely. Ain't no more one night stands. Ain't no more you meet somebody and we go get a hotel. No, that's done. That's over. I'm good. Yeah, listen, I ain't never done it either. I was just curious to see where your mind was at though.
Starting point is 00:24:41 Okay, I got you. I got you. That's y'all, y'all do y'all thing. But y'all learn when you got money, you track real carefully. Extremely, carefully. Yeah. But y'all do that.
Starting point is 00:24:59 I can't believe you don't FaceTime on a man. I need to see you. I need to see you. I need to see you. I need, see you. I need to see you. I need, listen, when I call you in the morning, have on your scarf and have on your bonnet. I need to see you. I don't need to see you dog.
Starting point is 00:25:15 Right now I'm choice 50-50. Yeah. It is? Ah. Pity, pity. That's so sick. You heard me? You ever see a woman early in the morning with a bonnet on? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:25:29 Huh? Got a scarf on. Yeah. Face time. I don't need to see that on, Joe. You know, she in a neck state. Oh man, that's, hey, it's a beautiful thing. It's a beautiful thing.
Starting point is 00:25:38 Not off the rip, Ocho, that give me some time. Maybe, maybe, you know. 20 days, 30 days, two months in. Off the rip? You gotta, you know what, I gotta walk away. Who in the hell, you gotta wait two months to FaceTime? Two months?
Starting point is 00:26:04 But boy, you run a tight ship. Oh Joe, I was dating one time, I went two years without FaceTiming. What are we doing? What are we doing? Man, I'm telling you, man, y'all be moving fast out here. It ain't about moving fast.
Starting point is 00:26:30 Time is of the essence. What are you waiting for? What are you waiting for? Tomorrow is not promised. You got to learn to live. I've said this all the time. You alive, but you're not living. It's okay to step outside your box.
Starting point is 00:26:49 It's okay to step outside your comfort zone. Do things different than what you normally do. The end result might be different for a change. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and over every time you meet somebody new and thinking the end result ain't to change. That's insanity. Press something different. No, I'm good.
Starting point is 00:27:12 You know, no pull a hell lap up a little bit. That'll open your mouth, spitting them out. Change. You hear me? Change of the routine a little bit. You hear me? Flip upside down. Lord have mercy, Ocho. Come on, I'm telling you, man. Man, it's so many things.
Starting point is 00:27:42 Like you just surprise them for a change. Girl, I'm going to AutoZone. Put some clothes on. I want you to drive. Lord have mercy. Woman tweeted, men get cheated on all the time and stay up. They just smart enough not to be telling anybody.
Starting point is 00:28:04 I keep telling y'all this. Are women more allowed about being cheated on by men, Ocho? Yeah, most definitely, all the time, all the time. It happens all the time, and most of the time, most men do stay, and sometimes some of the men that do stay, it is simply because sometimes shelter, I don't have anywhere else to go. Sometimes, you know, listen, she is, she, I'm not saying she's the bread winner,
Starting point is 00:28:31 but you're in a position where you're moving with her. You're staying with her. It's her place. So hell, if she does step out, he ain't got nowhere to go. Sometimes, sometimes you try to work things out and then you got some dudes that non-negotiable and he out. But see, if you date privately, you can do this
Starting point is 00:28:54 because see, everybody ain't gonna be in your, if you public everybody in your business, they gonna know. So you see the night have a thousand eyes, almost night have a thousand and two cause somebody sees you. Okay, I like that. I like that. I like that.
Starting point is 00:29:08 So with that being said, you're right. Some men that's a non-negotiable because, Hey, that's my package. I'm the only one that opens that. And the thing is about now it used to be this way. It's not this way anymore. Women have adopted a mindset like a man oh yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah oh they have they have big time they figure anything that a man can do oh he's doing it oh i could do it too oh tip for tat oh that's what you okay
Starting point is 00:29:36 bad and then you know oh Joe here's the thing this what gets you you know what she does for you you know what she does for you. You know what she does for you. And the thought. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Don't throw up, don't throw up. Don't throw up. Remember, remember at one time,
Starting point is 00:30:01 what did I just tell you on the previous show about being number one and being number two? You've been- Yeah, but hold off on some of that, Ocho. You've been in the number two position. Yeah, I've been in the number two position. You already know what time it is. Hey, I've been the pace car,
Starting point is 00:30:23 and I've also been the chase car. You just stay with me, Ocho. I've been the pace car and I've also been the chase car. Just stay with me, Ocho. I've been pacing. I like that. Yeah. I like that. Hey, yeah. And I've also tried to pull the sling shot move.
Starting point is 00:30:34 And he block it. Yeah. Hey, hit that turn. I bump draft it. Yes, sir. Move him on out the way. I pull up in there. Remember, Grace Jones had a song
Starting point is 00:30:45 that said, pull up to my bumper, baby. Hey, it's a dirty game. In a long black limousine. Yeah, it's a dirty game. So now, Ocho, because women have adopted the mentality, because it's like, I shouldn't say all, but there was a situation, you didn't find like these women now?
Starting point is 00:31:04 Yeah, oh, they don't play? Ooh, boy. They don't play. They do not play. And then tell you, yeah. I did. Huh? And well, yeah, I see clips like that all the time. Oh, you slept with such a slut?
Starting point is 00:31:20 And did. What? Oh. Oh. and did. Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, that thing, hey, like, hey man, look here. That's why, that's why, oh, your old man, look. When you young, you don't really know any better. But as you start to get older, yes, I don't play, I don't like, hey, you got a man, I'm good.
Starting point is 00:31:47 Don't worry, you let me worry about him. No, no, no, it's different. Your man might be doing something else, but if Shannon Sharp, he find out Shannon Sharp, oh no, no, it ain't, that's okay, but it's not that serious. I'm sure I can find someone, but my grandfather, he said, boy, everybody has somebody,
Starting point is 00:32:10 it's just to what extent? Man or woman, everybody has somebody, what's the extent? Yeah. Is that their wife? That's their husband. That's their significant other. That's their girl. Whatever the case may be, to find somebody,
Starting point is 00:32:24 I'm talking about just Scott S3. Yeah. No, no, sir. No, no, sir. That's thing. And so, you know, women play a dangerous game with that, with that, with that stepping out. You never know. You know how dudes feel about their women. Yeah. Who's a kid you about their women, man? Yeah. Girlfriends, wives, or even somebody that I just, I'm investing my time in. And then people get to my, oh man, why you won't go to, no, bro, I done got two strikes.
Starting point is 00:33:01 I got two strikes, Ocho. Oh yeah, oh yeah. In baseball, hey, I'm still at the plate, but I ain't gonna get no another strike. Mm-hmm. You never catching me slipping again. Yeah. Bro, man, people don't play like that.
Starting point is 00:33:14 So why would I even put myself back in that situation again? And be, how about, I mean, that's when you most vulnerable, Ocho. You sleep, that's what stopped me from sleeping naked. I don't want nobody getting the drive. I can't tussle with nobody naked, Ocho. Hey, let me put some clothes on. Please let me put some clothes on.
Starting point is 00:33:33 Ocho, I can't wallow with nobody naked. Hey bro, let me put my shorts on. Right, right, right, right. But you already know, Ocho, somebody come up and on, I'm a shooter brother size. Ain't nobody trying to bump. Right. So just keep yourself out of that situation, bro.
Starting point is 00:33:48 It ain't even worth it. Yeah. She got somebody, she tell you she got somebody. Hey, what do you got to do with me? That's between you and him. Yeah, but when he find out, that's between both of y'all. Hey, listen, one thing about it, if you do find out, I wish I wish fellas understand,
Starting point is 00:34:06 you know, we continue to be in relationships or unions with an individual that we think they're one way, you know, especially publicly and you use hope they respect you, you know, privately. And when you find out you see signs, all you have to do is pay attention to the signs, huh? You hear me? It's really easy when you've been the other guy for long enough, you understand what it looks like. So you pay attention to the signs.
Starting point is 00:34:32 And when things don't look right and your antennas are up, you already know what time it is. Yeah. If she all of a sudden, she didn't like to work out and all of a sudden she working out. Hey, um. She working out for somebody else to feel naked. Hey, hey, hey, it's easy.
Starting point is 00:34:49 Do what you want to do with it. Now y'all could, oh man, I'm telling you, hey. Hey, what I tell you all the time, huh, manage your expectations. Yeah. Once you're able to manage them, it's easy to see whoever it is for who they are in general. Okay, that's what you want. Okay, bad. You're going back. You're going back to business. Yeah, so the game is the game. Yeah, it is what it is. I mean, but hey, I don't know people I know people that have hurt people about a woman
Starting point is 00:35:27 I know people that's been hurt About a woman. I heard many stories. I Heard many of stories what? Mm-hmm, I ain't correct what they call it today these days like crashing out. Oh, yeah crashing out. Yeah. Yeah for sure Ain't, am not, why am not crashing out about Nathaniel? Oh, no, no, no, no. Zero.
Starting point is 00:35:51 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, I can't do that. Zero, like, hey, like, hey, like, let me tell you, like the kids say, oh, ball of top, who's next? He, he, he, he, he. The fuck, oh? Oh my God. Don't get, I've been doing good shows in a row. I'm sorry. Hey, what I mean, but I mean people, I think people understand is that like for me, I just like, it's just not worth it.
Starting point is 00:36:17 I stand way more to lose the game. Say it again. Say it again. Say it again. Real quick. Way more to lose the game. Say it again, say it again, say it again real quick. I stand way more to lose than gain. There we go. Long as we're on the same page. Yeah, for sure.
Starting point is 00:36:30 I'm like, oh no, I'm good. He do, hey, and they quick to holler, oh, he doing his thing. Okay, that ain't got nothing to do with me. Let him do his thing and you find somebody else to do your thing with, but it ain't gonna be me. It ain't. I ain't, hey, I done got too old to fight.
Starting point is 00:36:50 I ain't try, hey, hey, fit yourself. I ain't got no business fighting. I'm about to be a grandpa for the second time. Yeah, yeah, yeah, congrats, congrats, congrats. Yeah, man, hey, I'm gonna see my grandkids. I hope I have about five or six of them. Hey, hey, I got two daughters. Hopefully they get married soon and start a family,
Starting point is 00:37:11 but hey, nah man, I can't do that. I can't even, it ain't even worth it. Tom Brady is looking to sell his Florida mansion. It happened to be down the street from June. That big one in Miami, that 35 million, the one he got all them big cranes like it's a hot, like it's a downtown hot ride. How much you want?
Starting point is 00:37:29 How much you want? I mean, what is it like 35 million? I think it's in billionaire bunker, billionaire row, isn't it? Where is it? Yeah. He's received bids over 150 million. He's received bids over 150 million.
Starting point is 00:37:46 Damn, I was gonna try to get that bids too, man. Get with what? Huh? You ain't gonna be paying a light bill at that point. Who playing? Man, what would this be? 150 million? I got good, with this credit I got?
Starting point is 00:38:03 Yeah, all right. Thank you. Man, you need Bezos credit to get that one matter of fact, you know what it don't matter how many beads you got If I hit if I cut may I call Tom right now you think he answered? If I call Hang up and hang up on you Ocho man, look here, me personally, I want to look, I think I might be willing to go to TI for a crib.
Starting point is 00:38:34 A hundred million? What? That's for a different type of person that's bringing in a different type of revenue. It's different. Now there are people, if you ever been to South Island, I still don't understand.
Starting point is 00:38:49 Yes. I don't understand. Yes. The people don't even live in Miami. They don't come here until the goddamn summer, for the winter. Yep. How you got a $38 million, $50 million house that you only come for two months out of the year. What do you do?
Starting point is 00:39:07 Normally they, no, they come down there during the winter. Because where they live, it's cold. Got a summer house for 50 million. And here I am. I'm catching balls, getting my head. Oh, pause. Pause. Pause. Yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:39:28 Getting hit. Wow. Wow, Ocho. Wow. Hey, hey, chat. I'm going to step back a bit more. I'm going to let him handle that one. Y'all go your head, Ocho.
Starting point is 00:39:36 I'll handle that one. I'm just saying. I'm going to say it different. When I played football, I was catching the pigskin, getting hit, getting knocked over, scoring touchdowns. You know, I think when I played, I think the totality of my contract at that time was what? Maybe 35 million?
Starting point is 00:39:56 And you got a house? A house that you only come see for two months for 50? I mean, that's neither here nor there. I'm happy with everything that I made and I'm still blessed beyond measures and I'm thankful for that. But what do you do? Sometimes I go around and look at the house
Starting point is 00:40:17 in North Star Island, you know, like, what do you do? Hey, I've been to a house that was like 80 million I Couldn't I can't even imagine. Oh Let's let's stop but you know what? Hey, I might hit it up cuz I got a number I might hit it up and ask and let me hold. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah We could do the show we could do a live show from now We can do the show, we can do a live show from now.
Starting point is 00:40:47 Oh no, I'm done with the live shows. But anyway, you know what I'm saying Ocho? I got something else in mind though. I got a show in mind. Okay, okay, I see what you mean. Man, hey, you hit a button Ocho and the whole wall disappear. About 3000 square feet of wall just go into the floor. Hey, that's a different kind of money.
Starting point is 00:41:07 And you, oh, oh, oh, and they got a fireplace that just wrap around, probably like, the fireplace probably like, 30, 40 feet. And they got those outdoor couches, those big old couches. If you ever want to impress one, if she ain't impressed with that. Listen, they walk through the door of an $80 million house. Matter of fact, your clothes just fall off when you walk in. Oh, yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:41:41 Your clothes just fall off when you walk in. That's a different level of, it's different. Listen, you talk about an $80 million house or a $35 million house. You ever been to the boat show? You want to be angry and you want to be angry and understand a mega, you've seen the price of a mega yacht? I've seen it. Man.
Starting point is 00:42:04 Yeah. Yeah. And this is like all the owners. That's the new thing. Now, the owners are getting them. Mr. Blank got one. Jerry has one. There are several owners that have purchased them. Obviously, Larry Ellison and Jeff Bezos and Bill Gates, all those guys got about 300.
Starting point is 00:42:29 This Russian got what? Like a little, that's longer than a football field. The funny thing about it is these mega yachts, for them, that's they toys. Our toys, you know, Ferrari, Cullinan, BMW, old school, exotic cars. They don't do nothing with the car. Cars don't move them.
Starting point is 00:42:48 Yachts, planes move them. Like, they're $100 million, $200 million. Or private jets in megawatts. Yes. Like, it's a different dog. It's a different level. I don't fly enough. Would I love to have shares?
Starting point is 00:43:03 I'd like to get like 100 hours or 150 hours in a jet. But to own it? Oh no. Nah. Oh no. Mm-mm. In a yacht, in a boat. Boat, B-O-A-T, bust out another five.
Starting point is 00:43:16 You're round. You're round. Cause you paying the crew even though it's docked. You paying for, you gotta keep that salt water up off it. So you paying for maintenance even though it's docked. You payin' for, you gotta keep that salt water up off it. So you payin' for maintenance even though it's docked. Now- We have to have a different type of, you have to have multiple streams of high revenue
Starting point is 00:43:35 when you doin' that plane. Yeah. But you don't have to buy that car. I don't wanna own one, I like the access. I like the access to be able to go, hey, we gonna leave it this time, Ocho. Hey, well I want X, Y, Z on the plane. You know, we had a little thing,
Starting point is 00:43:52 you know, Ash was kicked back on the plane. Oh, you gonna ask, can we go to the play? Well, oh, so now you don't wanna fly. You don't wanna fly, you know, Delta, you above Delta now. Delta is beneath you. Yes, you above Delta now. Delta is beneath you. Yes, you. But yeah, that's Tom like, nah, you know what?
Starting point is 00:44:14 I wanna see the kids, but I'm gonna move to a different side of the island. That is crazy, man. Hey, Brady, Brady, I know you're gonna see this. You know the fact, our relationship goes beyond anybody, goes beyond anybody that's put a bid in for your house. If you want to sell it to somebody, come holler at your boy. Come holler at your boy.
Starting point is 00:44:38 No, don't holler at him. Yeah. And no, you know what, that way I can, you know, if I have my own, if I have my plane, you know, I go to the bathroom with a plane in. Now I only want to do one thing, I want to do one thing on the airplane. And they got here in Vegas, they got a little run for 825
Starting point is 00:45:01 which you can become a member of the mile high club. They got a pilot, you saw it? Icho. You could become a member of the Mile High Club. They got a pilot. You saw it? I saw it every time. Don't be surprised. I heard about that. Don't be surprised, Ocho. You look up at the sky and you see legs.
Starting point is 00:45:14 That's your boy. You know what I'm saying, Ocho? That'd be great content right there, now. Yeah. That'd be great content. Matter of fact. Cause I, I'm trying to figure out who fit in an airplane laboratory.
Starting point is 00:45:31 I mean, every time I'm knocking paper towels off the wall, I mean, soap and water, right? I'm like, ain't no way. But hey, it all depends how bad you want to make it work. How bad you want it to come down to right there now. Hey, one of my favorite things, you know, when you say, listen, you can't take two people to tango, huh? I don't want to spar.
Starting point is 00:46:02 I don't want to spar by myself. I don't want a shadow box. I don't want to spar with you. You hear to spar by myself. I don't want a shadow box. I don't want to spar with you. You hear me? I mean, you can fit in there. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Most definitely, most definitely. I mean, look at you, Ocho.
Starting point is 00:46:15 Any man that can look through a keyhole with both eyes. Come on, man. Y'all in there? I know you feel it. You got to understand, you got to, you don't understand how big I've gotten. I'm not small no more, man. I'm rocked up right now.
Starting point is 00:46:27 I'm sitting right. And look at the size of my arm right now, man. Hey, chat, y'all see how big I got? Let me tilt my camera down so the chat can see. Titus, what's up? Over here. I'm glad they didn't hear him in the thing. He was in the room barking.

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